How to Improve Your Relationship
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1 Pay More Attention.
2. Appreciate who they are.
3. Adore Your partner.
The speaker may not realize how remarkable is his contribution to people’s life
"Love is the appreciation of the totality of a person." Oh my goodness what a powerful line.
Melina A very very powerful♥
I discovered a great compilation of videos that may help you at Secret fixer blueprint
Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to fix a marriage try Dalz Partner Mender Discovery ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
Loved this line myself. Such a .great vid :)
@@animaki5372.
Improving one's relationship is a bit hard these days because people are becoming more impatient but if you love someone you should never give up on him because fights and arguments are just part of the relationship.
Relationships are hard. The commitment part I think is the most important
wow
I wish I had seen this video a couple months ago, I could still be with the love of my life.
here's several suggestions for saving your partnership
Try to talk more
Cooperate with each other more
Start to give and take more
(I learned these and the reasons they work on Pavs partner pundit website )
That might be true, but be grateful that you now know this information as well so that you can use this in your new relationships!
that's sad man
Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Think of like this, now you have a gift of knowledge to be better person to yourself and to the next person you decide to be with at any given time expecting unexpected for life but also know that what you learn always good for the future and for now I wish you the best of luck
Same here
Your wife is lucky 😊😊😊
Aren't most marriage therapist divorced?
My boyfriend and i of 9 years are having a tough time with our relationship... this video just reinforces what ive been trying to communicate with him.. putting the phone down and being present... showing attention is so important.. to connect on a soul level not just a physical level... going to share this with him.. thank you!
I'd like to talk to him
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???
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@@OnlineBusinessWithAlex it's working out better.. thank you..hope you have a wonderful weekend
It’s so crazy. I find myself touching my phone for no reason while talking with my lady.😢
After watching this I see where I fucked up and now I'm going to try to fix it if it's not too late
Was it too late?
Left on a cliffhanger 😭
Love is the appreciation of the whole person appreciating them as a human being, their struggles & success, seeing the good and their other side, seeing them as one, accepting them at a level they have never been accepted before
Appreciation is all I want .. seeing the good in me ..but definitely he can't figure it out because his to busy to trash all my efforts.. and one day I see my self don't really care anymore .. hope he really see my worth ..and I hope when that happened .. I had enough care..
Including the acceptance of their shadow self. Not just loving them for all the good, but also to appreciate the things you don’t like about them. We all have flaws, big and small ones.
Very nice and good tlk on how to improve yr relationship. Attention, appreciation n do not complain. Love is appreciation. Thanks for help. These r very useful for everybody who wants to improve relationship. God bless.
That sounded almost humane.
I was young when I wrote this and I definitely have to say it depends on the person are they narcissist or they a genuine person that’s just misunderstood struggling 👌❤️👍
I love how passionate you are, so inspiring!
*Takes notes*
I never had a boyfriend
but I’d rather be ready & know these things, than being lost.
Yah need a bf ? Signing up, there’s like ten guys behind me waiting in line
I also don't have a girlfriend
Brendon, your eyes show your passion and integrity. Thank you.
Aagrreeee
Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?
I was wondering if you can do video about, "How do you deal with the difficult times?"
Everything you teach and share is life changing, powerful and meaningful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us it really makes a difference in my perspective on life. God bless!!
My bf needs to watch this
good girls
Your boy friend doesn't need to do anything.. You need to find a new man
LOL
You two are still together?
You chose to whine online instead . Maybe you're the problem
I go to work without my phone and people think I'm weird. I only go through my emails a couple of times a week and I don't watch TV because I'm too busy reading personal and professional development materials or listening to Burchard FM while I'm working out and doing my chores
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I've been researching improving your marriage and discovered a great resource at Mirykal marriage plan (google it if you are interested)
There are several suggestions for making improvements in your partnership
Try to communicate more
Cooperate with each other more
Try to give and take more
(I discovered these and the reasons they work on Mirykal marriage plan site )
I also think you're weird
@@afrobeats4511 🤣 I appreciate your input
I just wanted to cry while watching, I know I can't blame my partner for our meaningless relationship but I was thinking e-mailing this video to my partner with the message, "Open only when fully willing to watch until the end and with no distractions " Is it a good idea?
yes! go for it (: honestly with all my freaking heart everything works out for everyone i seriously mean this
I hope u did it & I hope ur still together
same here
Brendon you set a timeless example of what it means to be alive. thank you
i've been struggling with my boyfriend for a while, and it's a very big problem in our relationship and my life. And when i saw this vdo, i realize about what i should do to improve my relationship and myself. Thank you a lot! this is a very great vdo.
Unnie K. Me too! I was looking for a comment like this, thankyou
How is it going now?
Unnie K. Me too girl me too..
Sometimes i feel like we trying too hard wile dey dont
Me too. Had to watch this.
You have such a good soul! thank you for your videos!
here's several things for making improvements in your marriage
Try to discuss more
Cooperate with each other more
Try to give and take more
(I learned these and why they work on Pavs Partner Pundit website )
I'm researching improving your partnership and found a fantastic resource at Pavs partner pundit (google it if you are interested)
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1) Attention; Opposites
2) Eye to Eye; Attention
3) people don’t want your presents 🎁 they wants your presence.
4)
hi brendon can you do a video about reducing anxiety please?
This is such a motivational video. Your passion makes me want to do better and improve myself
best relationship advice i've ever heard!
this should be shown in school.....nobody truly knows the true meaning of an amazing relationship.
Men are from mars, Women from Venus and kids are from Uranus😂💀 kidding
LOL
Haha😂
Sometimes I feel like a burden to my girlfriend I want her to do great things the thing that sucks rn is that she lives an hour and a half away from me with her parents and doesn’t have a car... I admit I get frustrated but I care for her immensely and I want us to work
Michael Rodriguez I’m in the same situation, but on the other end of things. My partner lives an hour and a half away, and I feel like he’s going to get tired of me because I’m still saving up for a car. He’s the only one with a way of transportation, and I always worry or feel bad when he makes the trip to see me :( I hope your relationship works out!!
Things will work out. Take your time and while working it out, be presence to each other. You'll be alright.
Amen Brendon. You touched me today! Thank you! This should also apply to parent with their own children.
Linda Sommer hi
Hello my dear. Can we chat on hangout.
Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?
Oh my... Was having a bad time in my relationship and came across your channel today. You really brighten up me instantly and gave me so much confidence going ahead. Thank you Brendan. 🙏
Thank you so much for this extraordinary video. I really appreciate these heart warming truths.
Have a great girlfriend, where we first started dating we were younger and had to transition into being adults. Throughout that time I showed less attention, and focused on trying to figure it out; even using that as an excuse as to why I was acting the way. Just showing her attention and appreciating her more is something I’ll work on. She’s awesome and I’m glad I saw this.
Enjoyed this ! Me and my boyfriend have only been together two months but we already argue about the silliest little things but we always end up laughing as we stop and realise we love each other so much it's ridiculous !
A Clare are you still together?
99% sure you didn't love each other after 2 months
Awe🤸
So wonderful. Thank you so much Brendon = ))
I have a question, so yo said to appreciate everything about a person, even their bad sides, the things they do that drive you crazy and what not. How would you show appreciation to this? I mean if it’s something they’re doing that you don’t like then how do I show appreciation to that. I’m currently in an LDR and my girlfriend is the type of person who replies fairly late and isn’t the best at showing that she cares and even showing attention. I really do want to show appreciation because all I’ve been doing so far is trying to “fix” these “problems” but I want to change and be different for her. I want to appreciate her. So how would I show appreciation to those kind of things?
So glad i found your channel! I've been looking for postive talks for a while.
Thank you so much, you have helped my relationship a grate deal
What if someone gets attention, presence, gifts and love but this person who does that gets nothing in return ? What to do then ? Just curious
Well Said! You Explained It Perfectly!!!
exactly right! me and my husband are working at this also. I'm trying to get him to connect with me and getting out of the old habits and engaging then embracing :) Thank you for sharing!
TRYING TO! I can't, I don't know how to work in my relationship, I talk to him about something but he seems to not care, he doesn't listen, at least I think he isn't. I try to keep him occupied but I have been it seems to not work, I can talk to him, I try to improve and listen to our relationship but he wont HELP ME! It isn't fair, I am doing this all by myself! I try to tell him what is bothering me but he wont listen or care! Well, he may listen but he still has no interest of helping me. I try to make him feel better, cheer him up, but he wont do the same. This is a one sided relationship and it's going downhill, I need as much advice and praying as possible. For both parts.
Kari on the same boat ☝🏻👋😩
Same here girl I feel for you
It is time to let go.
so amazing... right on time
Rokhaya Sambe hi
Intention
Appreciation
Adoration
☺️☺️☺️😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️
Thank god Im watching this only a week after I got into a relationship
i was never taught how to handle a serious relationship bc my dad n mom got divorced so idk what i’m doing these videos are teaching me and my mom
Great videos. Great guy :)
I got divorced because I wasn’t given enough attention. My wife told me that she was showing me love by doing the laundry and paying bills and cleaning rather than allowing me to be her partner in doing all of those things
Sounds like her love language was acts of service and yours was quality time. Sorry you went through the misunderstanding.
Do you think that maybe telling her how you feel could give you the relationship you want rather than leaving
Wow. You are a true inspiration!
I just found you and watched this video from 5 years ago. I like you right off the bat. Your delivery is very comfortable and genuine. My girlfriend is in for a surprise and that's just after 1 video. Thank you for sharing!
Brendon I Love Your Stuff man...Just Love It! Love your passion and the words of wisdom that just flow out of you mouth. And....I Love to 'share' that wisdom with my friend here in Poland. Those that speak 'perfect' English can sometimes keep up (almost) with your speed and energy and understand maybe half of what you say. Those that don't speak 'perfect' English, well, there's no way they can keep up and understand anything really. They can feel the positive energy but don't have an understanding of what you're saying.
I have only one request, can you make your videos available for captioning? I see on some videos on TH-cam that they can be translated and captioned. Your's unfortunately don't have the captioning ability. My friends say that even the auto generated English subtitles help them. If they're available for captioning I'd be more than willing to have some of them even translated via Amara.
Thanks again for such a wonderful and inspirational video.
Get to know the person spend time together communication connection.
Effort great integration.
President meaning the connection communication with the person.
Do things together.
Create good memories.
Attention respect value, appreciate accepted.
Good mangers.
Understand nurturing
Be a good listener.
Equal value
Compliment.
Adore bounding affectionate patient postive embrace lifestyle choices and decisions and choices support.
Trust.
I Dont waste my time on the past look to the present this time if I try much harder to can gain some guy who better.
🙂👍
This is really inspiring to me my relationship is going through a rough patch but im gonna try a diffrent route and this seems like the best way thank you so much
I’m crying watching this. I love my guy so much, I give all the attention, do everything to makes him happy but I don’t feel appreciated at all. I always get ignored. My text will get reply in a day. Simple text just wanna know how was his day going also unanswered and leave hanging. When I tell him to give me little attention he’ll go silent for days even a month. I’m so tired ..it’s only a year and I feel he lost interest in me. But whenever I ask what he feels towards me, he still say he love me but his action didn’t show up. Feels like dying
hope you've left him!
Time to move on
No matter what you do , things won't change. Leave him, obviously he doesn't really appreciate you.
Mine is lack of attention and appreciation as well..
Move on! U deserve someone who does the exact same things as u do for him!
I can certainly attest to the importance of genuine attention:
1) Totally dislike when people ask you how you or your family are doing but don't make eye contact or are fiddling around with other things while you reply; totally RUDE :(! It's like why bother asking at all when you don't really care!
2) My husband and I noticed that his brother was totally glued to his smart phone during his entire visit with us (even when we were speaking with him and no, he wasn't on call etc.). Very sad but true... his wife just separated from him 2 months ago and they are definitely headed for divorce :(.
Amen 🙏🏾 I wish you a wonderful relationship. It must be filled with a lot of love. Thank you Brandon for this video. Hopefully it will help me in my future relationship :)
How do we tell the other person to stop looking at there phone
+Lyla Axiom you are absolutely correct. I want on a bike ride with my woman and she's been wanting to go at least twice a week.
"Love is appreciation of the totality of the person." Wow!, just wow.
Dear Brendon, this is the best description of what a real relationship is for me!
Thank you for "formalizing" it in this simple way!
absolutely love your videos. They have helped me a lot in the last 2 months in terms of achieving my goals seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom in such an open and passionate way! :)
Who is here in tweny tweny this is real advice
Hi Brandon, thanks for the video! I read through the rest of the comments and I cannot be more agreeable when they mention that words of wisdom just flow of your mouth. I just wanna thank you for the book, the emails (they're indeed not the repetitive type) and for always coming up with such diverse range of videos with the same, helpful and motivating intention.
Here are some videos I'd like you to share with us if possible, since we're in the topic of relationship:
1. How have or how do you intend to nourish your child in the growing teen years? How do you keep that father to son/daughter relationship great while at the same time adjusting you tone, degree of discipline and the amount of time given to be with them?
2. I'm sure you have a pretty great relationship w yourself too! You always look charged, ready, alert and I wanna know if there's anything or a routine you do in the morning when you're up, at night before you hit the sack and in the mid afternoon when most of us really just wanna nap. Haha! How do you fuel you body as well as you fuel your mind?
3. I find myself reserved on most times; at work or at a gathering. What are some of the ways I which I can express my existence without appearing aloof/ serious/ emotional?
Love it!
I'm researching improving your marriage and discovered an awesome website at Pavs partner pundit (google it if you're interested)
This video makes the world a better place. Thank you!
This Video Just got me emotional
Same;-;
i just love the part where he giggled and said... " I know you think your important, and we all think we'r important! but let me tell ya their is no person in the world who can't learn to have a few hours where they can be human again, with the people that they love! "
This video is 6 years old, but I’ve never needed more today than ever. I actually cried watching this because I needed to hear this. I needed to hear every word. Thank you so much.
realest shit ever....I #appreciate this video forreal
Thank you so much ❤
This helped me understand what I was lacking in my relationship and although you may not see this comment 😅
I thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart ❤🖒
This is one of the best videos here on TH-cam!
I want my mom and dads presences
If in laws, acts are mostly more important than intention then in relations, intention is maybe more important for honest people. If you have difficulties to say good things to those awful people who just want bad things for you, you are authentic ! Congratulations ! This is very rare quality in these days. Keep it and never think that you are a person with relational problems. Imagine one day when all those garbages will be cleaned, how will authentic people be together ?!
thank you for this video 🙏🏽
Wonderful tips! Thanks, Brandon!
Great, thanks for the reminder :-} xx
You're amazing Brendon. Thank you for your videos. I'm so grateful. You're wife, children, and anyone in a relationship with you are very lucky people. I'm so grateful you are here on TH-cam. God bless you. :)
Denise Szelagowski hi
I swear this video made me cry because it's so incredibly true♡ thank you!
Relationships are build with a great love and affection towards another. Improving yourself as a way of improving a relationship.
Amen! The best message I have heard about relationships in a long time! Just broke up an 11 yr relationship and that’s exactly what was missing!!!!! Thank u!
So sorry to hear about that
Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?
I do the same but I also start expecting the same from my partner. And feel hopeless when he doesn't pay attention. His phone, his job, his work. What to do then?
Thank-you. This is such a good video
True...one could get very lucky whn dey find someone who gives them their time
That made me cry... So beautiful
I was hooked until about 10 minutes in. Then I get examples of how to contrive empathy? No thanks! Still, thanks for the great 10 minutes!
Great energy!!! You're a shooting star ⭐✨
Shouldve watched your videos sooner... nice vid anyway!
Listen if you ain't deaf, see if you ain't blind, talk if you ain't mute, but LOVE if you ain't LOVED
Very Nice Video... inspiring...
Amazing video!
True what you say, however if one appreciate another, and that the other doesn't appreciate themself, the relationship is very hard to live. All the best
That background music has anchored so much motivation for me! Quality :)
i CLICKED ON THE BELL ICON!! I LIKE YOUR CHANNEL! KEEP GOING!
That's a good Video. I really appreciate the Advice your saying .
Thank you... Very helpful... I love learning how i can be a better person.
Wow what a life changing video. Everyone needs to watch this!!!
Having a really hard time in my relationship this opened my eyes something crazy , you are a gem thank you so much ❗️
So glad i found your channel! I've been looking for postive talks for a while.
Yeah I’ll do all of those things , we’ll I use too but he wouldn’t do the same as much as I tried to show him. 😂 soooo now I gotta show him this video. And when I do , I’m “complaining” too much so 😅
I absolutely love this! So many true words "you have to appreciate their soul.."
Great video BB!!
I just attended EA in California this April 2016 it was AAAWWWWEEESSSOOOOMMMEEEEE!!!!!!
LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!
Question for ya?
What do you do when your partner has done something you dont appreciate and you dont adore like treat someone else with disrespect or cheat on you or these kind of things?
How do YOU personally approach relationship hardships?
Got 3 pointers for that?
Would LOVE to know you take on it.
Grace to ALL,
Amara Samata
I would also love to know your perspective on this ? How do you get past these types of hardships? Can trust be regained ?
Great tips brendon! I'll be applying these more into my relationship!
Watching this so I can learn how to be a better man to my lady, thank you for this. ✌
I’m in my first relationship right now, it’s weird right now. If I remember that I commented this I will keep you guys informed.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???
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Whatzapp her now....