I personally love watching long form content because I just don’t have the time to scroll! I want to open a video and watch/listen to while I am doing other things in life!!!!!
I hate being this person but if you're looking for new TH-camrs to watch and you're interested in artsy/crafty/creative content and vlogs, that's what I do 👀 obvi if it's not your thing, it's fine lmao (I'm really sorry if it's annoying I just don't know how to promote my stuff 😭😭😭)
I find myself wasting so much time on tiktok like it really just gives you nothing but dopamine and wastes your time 😭 Deleting tiktok is honestly such a great decision
I highly recommend crafts while watching TV! Painting, coloring, etc. I'm a big knitter and currently working on my own UNIF stitch bag! It's great for keeping my hands busy so I can focus on what I'm watching
I saw Lana over the weekend after waiting 13 years and my mom says the same thing. The crowd around me were all new tik tok fans and were SO RUDE it ruined my whole experience for me
hey hey, I’ve had pretty bad ocd since I was about 13, and I’ve truly experienced some awful things because of it. but! after a sort of culmination of things, I got on a medication that works and have started seeing a therapist that I trust, and I truly never knew that I could feel as well as I do. I know I am extremely privileged to have access to both of those things, but I guess I wanted to prove that at the very least, there are success stories. it’s a horrible mental illness and my support goes out to anyone and everyone who suffer with it. remember, the obsessions upset you specifically because they aren’t a part of you
I LOVE One Piece, I can't wait to hear how you feel about more characters as you get further into the anime! This City is a Graveyard is SUCH a great song!
ditto on the cheap wedding! my partner and i are getting married in september. 30 minute ceremony and korean bbq with our friends afterwards🤗 i rented my dress and bought my ring from etsy. you'll never catch me spending $20k+ on one day!!
Congrats! The point of a wedding is to sign the legal papers and then celebrate on your own term, people really need to dial down on the big expensive stressful weddings 😭😭
17:29 I dieeeeeeeee 😭😍🥰 Whenever and whatever you decide to share, congrats on the journey! As for the wedding…. Girl it’s about the relationship not the show! We kept it SUPER small (like to the point we almost disinvited some family 😅😂), and haven’t regretted it once. (November will be 9 years) We have a beautiful home, and we can spoil the absolute crap out of our two Siberian husky fur babies 🐶🐶 That’s not to take away from anyone who wants a huge day, though! I think it’s just a matter of knowing what you want and what’s important to you. For us, the wedding was more for our parents. We were more focused on life stuff. But lots of our friends had massive days and wouldn’t change a thing, either. Omg I am realizing what a huge tangent I’ve gone off on. The adhd struggles. 🙃 Love the podcast. You’re so entertaining, you could explain how to make toast and people would listen 😂 I can feel myself wanting to go on about toast now so I think I’m done now 😂
I am not someone who gets anything done or wears makeup or anything beauty related, but god damn I love listening to you talk about it in regards to yourself. It's like I get to hear the girlie girl talk without feeling excluded purely because I have not much to share on the matter. Love love love. Also living for the 30 minute long intros LOL
I felt you when you said you've gotten lazier with your look, but for me it def was a result of the lock down: I used to go to the office 5 days a week in full makeup, dress/skirt, high heels, etc. Now I only go once and sold all my heels and fancy handbags, my wardrobe is a lot more smart casual and I really take the time to do my makeup nicely cuz I only do it like twice a week. I do enjoy nice nails even tho I do them myself and I put more effort and money in my home since I spend so much time there
im on the opposite end with social media. like omg theres like 12+ hours of youtube that i want to watch every day. i probably watch like 6 hours a day. i shove a bunch of things into a queue and i never get through it 😭 TOOOO many video essays i wanna watch
omg timing, literally deleted my whole tiktok acct last week??!! did the same w my twitter too, Ig's next! (probs not gonna delete lol, just cleanse the tl 😌) i proper felt like i wasnt forming my own opinions beyond kneejerk reactions to stuff; which was such a new, weird feeling for me, felt like my critical thinking skills had been turned downnn
I needed this motivation to get off tik tok and my phone today! I've also noticed the impact on my concentration and decision fatigue too. I have anxiety and use tik tok as a distraction and a way to switch off my thinking. It's become a comfort blanket.
i haven’t used tiktok actively in ages bc it was reeking havoc on my already minimal adhd attention span 😭 i’ve also ditched ig lately too since it’s basically diet tiktok lmfao… but i totally agree that it’s helped me sit through a tv show episode or a movie without looking at my phone at all! feels good
44:00 I bought the black adidas handball spezials and I Loveee them they’re soo comfy I wear them pretty much every single day. They’re similar to the sambas especially the black version but I think they’re a great alternative for anyone who doesn’t fancy the sambas or can’t get them.
i think my ability to feel "baby fever" died when i realized that if i have a kid, i'm throwing them onto an actively dying planet that no one is doing anything about lol like in my head they'll be 11 dealing with climate horrors beyond my wildest comprehension ??? and i'm just supposed to be like "no honey u don't understand being in a living nightmare is cool actually"
I’ve got super lazy too with hair make up etc I swear it is after lockdown I just couldn’t be bothered anymore and got more used to myself having days without make up on! Xx
idk if you have ever touched on that topic in one of your videos/podcasts before but I'd be super interested in whether you faced any "problems" like rude comments online or in real life or whatever by being in an interracial relationship and how you and Lem have dealt with that? I hope that's not to nosey/insensitive on my part - if so, I apologize! and yessss, reading list would be so appreciated!
i deleted tiktok on the 4th cause i didn’t want to spend my time visiting my family scrolling. i went from only eating a book or two a month to finishing 5 in the 2 weeks i deleted tiktok 😭😭
Hi headsup, maybe it's just on my end but i cant get to your main channel. When I click on your name it sends me to a channel with 110 subscribers with a dog as a profile picture.
I dont think its lazier as you get older, i think you just stop doing all the unnecessary shit to impress other people, time is more valued. Plus nobody cares what you wear or what nails you have anyway... they're too busy arguing on tiktok.
I relate to the nails thing! A little over year ago I started to study massaging dogs and now I can't have long nails anymore 🥲. I love what I do but I miss pretty nails. Also, my boyfriend made me to watch onepiece too. Now about 900 episodes in, gotta say I love it. Don't always love how women are written tho and some fights are too long imo.
ditching tik tok is honestly the best decision
I personally love watching long form content because I just don’t have the time to scroll! I want to open a video and watch/listen to while I am doing other things in life!!!!!
I hate being this person but if you're looking for new TH-camrs to watch and you're interested in artsy/crafty/creative content and vlogs, that's what I do 👀 obvi if it's not your thing, it's fine lmao (I'm really sorry if it's annoying I just don't know how to promote my stuff 😭😭😭)
Me as well. I find it harder to watch shorter videos. I’m just less invested.
I find myself wasting so much time on tiktok like it really just gives you nothing but dopamine and wastes your time 😭 Deleting tiktok is honestly such a great decision
I highly recommend crafts while watching TV! Painting, coloring, etc. I'm a big knitter and currently working on my own UNIF stitch bag! It's great for keeping my hands busy so I can focus on what I'm watching
I haven’t had TikTok for a year or so and I’m soooo pleased
I saw Lana over the weekend after waiting 13 years and my mom says the same thing. The crowd around me were all new tik tok fans and were SO RUDE it ruined my whole experience for me
hey hey, I’ve had pretty bad ocd since I was about 13, and I’ve truly experienced some awful things because of it. but! after a sort of culmination of things, I got on a medication that works and have started seeing a therapist that I trust, and I truly never knew that I could feel as well as I do. I know I am extremely privileged to have access to both of those things, but I guess I wanted to prove that at the very least, there are success stories. it’s a horrible mental illness and my support goes out to anyone and everyone who suffer with it. remember, the obsessions upset you specifically because they aren’t a part of you
i really relate!! that last line is helpful to hear
I LOVE One Piece, I can't wait to hear how you feel about more characters as you get further into the anime! This City is a Graveyard is SUCH a great song!
Would love a reading list!
I ditched TikTok a few months ago too and, since then, my mental health has gotten better. My sleeping pattern has also been better too.
Ah!! the best part of my day is throwing this on while working :)
i love this podcast, just the most chill time
ditto on the cheap wedding! my partner and i are getting married in september. 30 minute ceremony and korean bbq with our friends afterwards🤗
i rented my dress and bought my ring from etsy. you'll never catch me spending $20k+ on one day!!
Congrats! The point of a wedding is to sign the legal papers and then celebrate on your own term, people really need to dial down on the big expensive stressful weddings 😭😭
17:29 I dieeeeeeeee 😭😍🥰 Whenever and whatever you decide to share, congrats on the journey! As for the wedding…. Girl it’s about the relationship not the show! We kept it SUPER small (like to the point we almost disinvited some family 😅😂), and haven’t regretted it once. (November will be 9 years) We have a beautiful home, and we can spoil the absolute crap out of our two Siberian husky fur babies 🐶🐶 That’s not to take away from anyone who wants a huge day, though! I think it’s just a matter of knowing what you want and what’s important to you. For us, the wedding was more for our parents. We were more focused on life stuff. But lots of our friends had massive days and wouldn’t change a thing, either. Omg I am realizing what a huge tangent I’ve gone off on. The adhd struggles. 🙃 Love the podcast. You’re so entertaining, you could explain how to make toast and people would listen 😂 I can feel myself wanting to go on about toast now so I think I’m done now 😂
I am not someone who gets anything done or wears makeup or anything beauty related, but god damn I love listening to you talk about it in regards to yourself. It's like I get to hear the girlie girl talk without feeling excluded purely because I have not much to share on the matter. Love love love.
Also living for the 30 minute long intros LOL
I felt you when you said you've gotten lazier with your look, but for me it def was a result of the lock down: I used to go to the office 5 days a week in full makeup, dress/skirt, high heels, etc. Now I only go once and sold all my heels and fancy handbags, my wardrobe is a lot more smart casual and I really take the time to do my makeup nicely cuz I only do it like twice a week. I do enjoy nice nails even tho I do them myself and I put more effort and money in my home since I spend so much time there
"youll be like tip tapping away at your script and then the next thing you know youre ascending" 😂😂😂😂
im on the opposite end with social media. like omg theres like 12+ hours of youtube that i want to watch every day. i probably watch like 6 hours a day. i shove a bunch of things into a queue and i never get through it 😭 TOOOO many video essays i wanna watch
This is so real my watch later has over 6k videos and I’ve never watched 90% of them😭
reallll
Was late to get it, used it for a few months, hated it and deleted it and my life returned to normal in the best way
omg timing, literally deleted my whole tiktok acct last week??!! did the same w my twitter too, Ig's next! (probs not gonna delete lol, just cleanse the tl 😌)
i proper felt like i wasnt forming my own opinions beyond kneejerk reactions to stuff; which was such a new, weird feeling for me, felt like my critical thinking skills had been turned downnn
this was SUCH a fab episode!! Ty for touching on OCD, would love to hear you talk about it, but also def protect your wellbeing!!
I needed this motivation to get off tik tok and my phone today! I've also noticed the impact on my concentration and decision fatigue too. I have anxiety and use tik tok as a distraction and a way to switch off my thinking. It's become a comfort blanket.
omg please collect some book recommendations!! would deffo be interested!!!
i haven’t used tiktok actively in ages bc it was reeking havoc on my already minimal adhd attention span 😭 i’ve also ditched ig lately too since it’s basically diet tiktok lmfao… but i totally agree that it’s helped me sit through a tv show episode or a movie without looking at my phone at all! feels good
born to die paradise edition is my absolute favorite i feel youuu
subscribed! I LOVE your voice so much i could listen to you talk all day
I think your hair looks lovely 🫰🏻
So glad yr back, yr eps really get me through my shifts at work
44:00 I bought the black adidas handball spezials and I Loveee them they’re soo comfy I wear them pretty much every single day. They’re similar to the sambas especially the black version but I think they’re a great alternative for anyone who doesn’t fancy the sambas or can’t get them.
the intro being twice the length of the actual juice its so me like yas x 3000
yesss seriously i deleted it this winter and I haven't felt this much like myself in so long would recommend to everyone!! ♥♥
yessss regulate is such a solid classic
i think my ability to feel "baby fever" died when i realized that if i have a kid, i'm throwing them onto an actively dying planet that no one is doing anything about lol like in my head they'll be 11 dealing with climate horrors beyond my wildest comprehension ??? and i'm just supposed to be like "no honey u don't understand being in a living nightmare is cool actually"
YOU stopped using tiktok?? i’m so ready to hear about that omfg
Ahhh love that you’re back ❤ I think maybe an agony aunt type section could be really fun for the podcast 💕
I’ve got super lazy too with hair make up etc I swear it is after lockdown I just couldn’t be bothered anymore and got more used to myself having days without make up on! Xx
i would really appreciate the list of essential books :)
got a craving for broad city yesterday, the girls are alligned
Hey x can you link your second channel I can’t find it x
i set a daily limit of 1 hour on tiktok and i barely even use the app anymore in fear of maxing out that limit 😭
idk if you have ever touched on that topic in one of your videos/podcasts before but I'd be super interested in whether you faced any "problems" like rude comments online or in real life or whatever by being in an interracial relationship and how you and Lem have dealt with that? I hope that's not to nosey/insensitive on my part - if so, I apologize! and yessss, reading list would be so appreciated!
I got banned for no reason and never returned to the app. Honestly really great
This timing is SO IMMACULATE i just deleted Instagram today 😭😭
I had to delete tiktok and I’m trying to wean off twitter because both have impacted my depression and mental health so badly.
i deleted tiktok on the 4th cause i didn’t want to spend my time visiting my family scrolling. i went from only eating a book or two a month to finishing 5 in the 2 weeks i deleted tiktok 😭😭
AAAH!! MISSED YOU 🫶
Same I love long vids !!!
i feel like i have one day a week where i just get tiktok obsessed then i get depressed and swear it off for a week
Haha my brother is forcing me to watch one piece and i actually like it! Glad ur getting into it too
Omg YES I missed ur vids :))
Could listen
you for hours!
i had no idea jordan theresa has ocd OMG she is literally just like me fr
me if i got my nails done actually
💗💗💗
how did i just find this out??
Deleting tiktok improved my life quality by like 90% lol I actually do things now (edited for misspelling)
I am almost 3 years clean of TikTok, during the first lockdown I could spend up to 7 hours a day on it - had to go cold turkey
If you wanna know what DaBomb tastes like without the hot spice, just put a bunch of coins in your mouth and roll them around 😂
“Welcome to the podcast” 32 minutes in and 2/3 over… Lol
Troye Sivan - Rush is sooooo gooood
surely do a makeup tutorial
I think all of us need to read "We need to talk about money" by Otegha Uwagba
Hi headsup, maybe it's just on my end but i cant get to your main channel. When I click on your name it sends me to a channel with 110 subscribers with a dog as a profile picture.
i want to quit tiktok but i literally think my well-being is too dependent on edits
I dont think its lazier as you get older, i think you just stop doing all the unnecessary shit to impress other people, time is more valued. Plus nobody cares what you wear or what nails you have anyway... they're too busy arguing on tiktok.
can i be the godmother
Please don’t be one of those TH-camrs who has a baby and only makes baby content 😅 I’ve unsubbed / unfollowed so many people who do that
I relate to the nails thing! A little over year ago I started to study massaging dogs and now I can't have long nails anymore 🥲. I love what I do but I miss pretty nails.
Also, my boyfriend made me to watch onepiece too. Now about 900 episodes in, gotta say I love it. Don't always love how women are written tho and some fights are too long imo.
honestly been living my best life the moment i deleted tiktok