This is just amazing. I am doing this thing right now. I feel stuck in life and not improving in anything and I would really do it now to change my life.
AMAZING. I love Elena Brower who mentioned Lauren Zander and here you are..smack..I need this! Very powerful and empowering and healing. My wish is that we can all do this work!!!
bloody love this. keeping a promise to ourself. it's struck me strongly recently that we know the ingredients that make a good life for us, all we have to do is be sure to include them.
such a powerful speech! I read her book: "maybe it's you" and I wanted to know more about her ideas. I absolutely love it! thanks for all the content Lauren Zander
I have a dream. That one day I wake up and I am no longer schizophrenic. People whose biggest problems are that they feel a little tired and sometimes their Starbucks is a little too hot are the other people who will find this video helpful.
I see it differently, If you are truly honest with yourself about what you want, it will be something "realistic" for you. Furthermore, unless you allow yourself to dream big, how will you ever know what is realistic for you? The thing is, what is possible for us is generally something much bigger than we are currently living. Dream big. Play with that dream, tweak it, until it feels just right. It must be your dream, not someone else's. Then go for it and don't let anyone stop you.
This sounds good but the entire process depends on the individual having well developed reasoning, decision making, and objective analysis skills. If the individual lacks any of these then the entire process/formula falls apart.
eric r binford Mr innovator U tube remember don't for get about those 2 radio stations that motivates my dreams 91.7 fm wvxu and 88. 5 see people that donate for a good is what connects the dots that builds the powerful talents with in are neighborhoods. NPR. this is what my spelling. N for knowing P for people R for realitys
Imagine being this chick's husband. "My wife hates boning me so much, she has to set up an elaborate punishment dynamic to convince herself to fuck me." WOW
Richiemun LMAO!! Shudders + elaborate punishment dynamic ... sounds like she's onto something. Besides I think telly has improved a lot lately. We shouldn't judge until we know what she's watching.
Harnessing the power of adult ADHA. The sound effects are cute. I wonder if she's a little sloshed... Weather reports save lives where I'm from... they give flood victims time to prepare and people in the paths of tornadoes time to get underground...
She's not saying weather reporting itself is bad, she's saying the brat and chicken are barriers to change in your life. She in fact says that you should do your own weather reporting, since it's useful to know about yourself and why you do what you do; knowing the weather doesn't stop you from doing things, it just lets you know when you need to get a raincoat.
eric r binford Mr innovator U tube learn how to shop smart sharp for for food ions New way of sale of product's. guaranteed are your money back stock market will rise guaranteed proposal needed to move forward Wal-Mart I have a plan for you and other wonderful market's
Do you really think you are teaching me anything new ? Yes women have it harder sometimes. Men too. They are for instance 20 times more "luckily" to die or get badly injured at work then women. So should we do a TEDxMen for that ? TED should be for everyone and concern everyone, don't you agree ? Oh and... Wake up girl ;P
Don't you think it is somehow pretentious of you to say all these things about me without knowing me at all. You don't know my age, nationality, religion or anything that could make me part of a minority. Yet you seem to be sure I am blind and ignorant. Is that your way of thinking dealing with controversy ? I don't see any valid argument in your posts. Just overused slogans.
I am an egalitarian and therefor criticize feminism for its double standards. You have to admit this is not anti-women. We could have a discussion about feminism being the answer to gender discrimination, but you don't seem to stand controversy. And why are you so agressive with me ? Do you fear what I have to say ?
Marriage is still a scary thought. A lot of the women that I sleep have had husbands. I am sure other my girl friends have slept with other dudes as well. Plus its fun to have sex with different women. What's the point in getting married when you look at the reality of it? I am a man and it also seems like I enjoy being single more than I like having a "steady" relationship. I think a lot of women like being single as well. It's less stress more freedom for both sexes. We don't have to worry about cheating.
Don't be condescending. I just wanted to watch a TedX video, not be talked down to... Maybe it's because this was for women, but that shouldn't be an issue. Calling your audience chickens, brats, and 'weather reporters' isn't a good policy for public speaking. I realize that this is somewhat of a self improvement talk, but still... I feel like she's talking down to me.
Jamesharris144 I did find Lauren very funny - I lolled a few times - but I totally see your point. Can you imagine empowering your family and friends to keep tabs on your every commitment in life. Talk about HAUNTING!! I think I'll keep my pathetic yet perfectly uninvaded life as it is thanks.
I think she took a 'in your face' 'hard edge' 'condescending' voice in order to be abbrasive enough to shake people up. All too often self-help talks are all cuddly and make you feel great for all of an hour and then they're forgotten. This one is supposed to make you NOT feel great during with the intent that you'll be fueled to actually make changes.
I think she took a 'in your face' 'hard edge' 'condescending' voice in order to be abbrasive enough to shake people up. All too often self-help talks are all cuddly and make you feel great for all of an hour and then they're forgotten. This one is supposed to make you NOT feel great during with the intent that you'll be fueled to actually make changes.
+Etta James I have no druthers, Etta. But the face is not flattering. It looks distressed as if her nearest and dearest have all been massacred. A man would look as unflattering. It's just a joke, Etta. Get over it. Namaste and care, truly mhikl
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This is just amazing. I am doing this thing right now. I feel stuck in life and not improving in anything and I would really do it now to change my life.
I was depressed and I cried for the three days. But, this speech gives me a hope and to think again What to do in my life..
Thank you for your words
One of the best Ted talk
Sum Ups: 1. Be Solo. 2. Be Financially Independent. 3.Pursue your dream/goal. 4. Be Honest to yourself and others. Don't be programmed by the society.
AMAZING. I love Elena Brower who mentioned Lauren Zander and here you are..smack..I need this! Very powerful and empowering and healing. My wish is that we can all do this work!!!
Thank U and God bless U
bloody love this. keeping a promise to ourself. it's struck me strongly recently that we know the ingredients that make a good life for us, all we have to do is be sure to include them.
What an awesome person.
Very nice 👍
Loved this!!!! Go Lauren!!!
Loved her - never got bored for 1 second. Will probably re-watch at some point.
such a powerful speech! I read her book: "maybe it's you" and I wanted to know more about her ideas. I absolutely love it! thanks for all the content Lauren Zander
I loved this discussion! Thank you Lauren for your words of wisdom.
Best Ted talker ever I have seen
I have a dream. That one day I wake up and I am no longer schizophrenic. People whose biggest problems are that they feel a little tired and sometimes their Starbucks is a little too hot are the other people who will find this video helpful.
Why hasn't she responded???
Great speaker!
Wow! loving it from the first minute! gr8 speech
Here from Objective Personality. This is the first Ted Talk I will probably have to watch again and take notes for. Very excited :))
Keeping promises to self ❤️
This is a great plan! I'll implement this in my life.
Thanks :)
hauntings coming from abuse though... are quite different.
I see it differently,
If you are truly honest with yourself about what you want, it will be something "realistic" for you.
Furthermore, unless you allow yourself to dream big, how will you ever know what is realistic for you? The thing is, what is possible for us is generally something much bigger than we are currently living.
Dream big. Play with that dream, tweak it, until it feels just right. It must be your dream, not someone else's. Then go for it and don't let anyone stop you.
how is this different from her point?
Incredible.
Thank you great video and the truth
l ove her. Thanks.
Thank you I'm lauren zander
Really good talk. I disagree with the part of having sex. I always want to have sex with my SO. Having sex shouldn't feel like a chore.
lol..ouch!
there is a reason for why so many American women feel like its a chore. .
ak p what is this reason?
Yep. Landmark.
Hard core truth 👍🏼💯
love it, thank you I needed that
I got tired of listening, but kept watching her...she's lovely to look at.
This sounds good but the entire process depends on the individual having well developed reasoning, decision making, and objective analysis skills. If the individual lacks any of these then the entire process/formula falls apart.
i thought the screen shot was of cher
Maybe it's just my inner chicken, but telling my goals to an another person to motivate me doesn't seem like it actually empowers me as an individual.
Is there a SINGLE guy in the audience?
eric r binford
Mr innovator U tube
remember don't for get about those 2 radio stations that motivates
my dreams 91.7 fm wvxu and 88. 5
see people that donate for a good is what connects the dots
that builds the powerful talents with in are neighborhoods.
NPR. this is what my
spelling. N for knowing
P for people
R for realitys
💕🙏
Did you keep that promise?
double deal ?
Imagine being this chick's husband. "My wife hates boning me so much, she has to set up an elaborate punishment dynamic to convince herself to fuck me."
WOW
An astute observation Kash. The truth may be best unknown. Sends shudders down my spine...
Richiemun LMAO!! Shudders + elaborate punishment dynamic ... sounds like she's onto something. Besides I think telly has improved a lot lately. We shouldn't judge until we know what she's watching.
Kash steady You know nothing about women
i liked this ... perspective . and there is a lot going on behind that face . take a deep breath .
I don't disagree with many of things she is saying, however, the "Dr. Laura" delivery really doesn't do much for me!
eric r binford
my innovator
U tube
I would like to work with a partner in being creative
women group of leaders can I get a with a group
I love you do you want to merryme
Here is your doppleganger!
www.imdb.com/name/nm1143861/?ref_=tt_ov_st
Harnessing the power of adult ADHA. The sound effects are cute. I wonder if she's a little sloshed...
Weather reports save lives where I'm from... they give flood victims time to prepare and people in the paths of tornadoes time to get underground...
She's not saying weather reporting itself is bad, she's saying the brat and chicken are barriers to change in your life.
She in fact says that you should do your own weather reporting, since it's useful to know about yourself and why you do what you do; knowing the weather doesn't stop you from doing things, it just lets you know when you need to get a raincoat.
eric r binford
Mr innovator
U tube
learn how to shop smart sharp for for food ions
New way of sale of product's. guaranteed are your money back stock market will rise guaranteed proposal needed to move forward
Wal-Mart I have a plan for you and other wonderful
market's
She looks so sad in the thumbnail.
Uh Oh, I now don't keep consequences to myself..
No need to mention where u teach. It has nothing to do with this talk. Not a great presentation.
TEDxWomen ?!? Really ?
Imagine how ridiculous a title like TEDxMen would be.
That's exactly how ridiculous this one sounds to me.
Do you really think you are teaching me anything new ? Yes women have it harder sometimes. Men too. They are for instance 20 times more "luckily" to die or get badly injured at work then women. So should we do a TEDxMen for that ?
TED should be for everyone and concern everyone, don't you agree ?
Oh and... Wake up girl ;P
Don't you think it is somehow pretentious of you to say all these things about me without knowing me at all. You don't know my age, nationality, religion or anything that could make me part of a minority. Yet you seem to be sure I am blind and ignorant.
Is that your way of thinking dealing with controversy ? I don't see any valid argument in your posts. Just overused slogans.
I am an egalitarian and therefor criticize feminism for its double standards. You have to admit this is not anti-women.
We could have a discussion about feminism being the answer to gender discrimination, but you don't seem to stand controversy. And why are you so agressive with me ? Do you fear what I have to say ?
Bob Bobson Dude, can't ever have enough xMen. Get on it!
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I had to read it twice but then I loled so hard ^o^ !!
Marriage is still a scary thought. A lot of the women that I sleep have had husbands. I am sure other my girl friends have slept with other dudes as well. Plus its fun to have sex with different women. What's the point in getting married when you look at the reality of it? I am a man and it also seems like I enjoy being single more than I like having a "steady" relationship. I think a lot of women like being single as well. It's less stress more freedom for both sexes. We don't have to worry about cheating.
Don't be condescending.
I just wanted to watch a TedX video, not be talked down to...
Maybe it's because this was for women, but that shouldn't be an issue.
Calling your audience chickens, brats, and 'weather reporters' isn't a good policy for public speaking.
I realize that this is somewhat of a self improvement talk, but still...
I feel like she's talking down to me.
There were some good points, but the way in which those points were addressed was very disconcerting.
Jamesharris144 I did find Lauren very funny - I lolled a few times - but I totally see your point. Can you imagine empowering your family and friends to keep tabs on your every commitment in life. Talk about HAUNTING!! I think I'll keep my pathetic yet perfectly uninvaded life as it is thanks.
I think she took a 'in your face' 'hard edge' 'condescending' voice in order to be abbrasive enough to shake people up. All too often self-help talks are all cuddly and make you feel great for all of an hour and then they're forgotten. This one is supposed to make you NOT feel great during with the intent that you'll be fueled to actually make changes.
I think she took a 'in your face' 'hard edge' 'condescending' voice in order to be abbrasive enough to shake people up. All too often self-help talks are all cuddly and make you feel great for all of an hour and then they're forgotten. This one is supposed to make you NOT feel great during with the intent that you'll be fueled to actually make changes.
Jamesharris144 _I just wanted to watch a TedX video, not be talked down to..._ I hear yah: theflypaper.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/24td3t.jpg
Sorry- abrasive voice. Cliché
Just the face scares the bejesus out a me. Then I read the comments. Face and comments match.
N/C
mhikl
+Etta James
Definitely not. That’s the reason for the bag.
A smile would take away the scare,
Namaste and care,
mhikl
+Etta James
I have no druthers, Etta.
But the face is not flattering. It looks distressed as if her nearest and dearest have all been massacred. A man would look as unflattering.
It's just a joke, Etta. Get over it.
Namaste and care, truly
mhikl
I don't get it. Nothing really earth-shattering here. If you want to really achieve your goals, I highly recommend Brian Tracy.
God I hate this shit.
look at this jew teaching the next row of feminists
She is why men don't date....yikes...selfish much?