Toxic people ( aka narcissists , sociopaths , psychopaths ) will " flip the script " onto you the minute you call them on their BS! It's almost unbelievable how they will take ZERO accountability for anything they've done! All of a sudden , YOU are the liar , cheater , etc! Don't let these people take up space rent free in your head! Walk ( better yet , RUN ) and get your life back!
This is true! I'm fighting to get back on my own two feet. I have to start over after 10 plus years. I've been labeled the abusive one because eventually, I react to all his bullsh**t and I respond and explode so, in the end, I'm the one at fault. All the digs at me, all the threats, and all the control he has over me will end one day though because I'm really trying to get free of him.
"That's SO SELFISH!" will scream a SECRET HATER you wanted you to be a pawn in their game of manipulation anyway. (It always takes me a time or two of getting burned to realize this but eventually I realized this)
At this point, I don't give a damn about anyone or anything. I have given up on ALL people that were closest to me, I don't care who they were to me. Everyone can't go.
Watch out folks. When you silently walk away, even after they’ve done terrible things to you, it destroys them and they can get even more crazy. Their ego or mentality doesn’t allow them to have people leave their lives. Because they think they control everything.
This 💯!!! Same put up gates and cameras. He stole so much from me and ran sacked everything on his way out to get vengeance. He said I own nothing apart from him. Left me completely empty and broken… and in a walker..
Cut them off and offer no explanation . Absolutely they know damn well what they have done, and they want you to come back grovelling. Ignore these people because they are irrelevant and they know it. Respect from Australia. 🇦🇺
Me living with a narcissist for 23 years aka my mom, those people are soulless as all hell. Theyll mentally bully their own kid just so that they can feel good about themselves and dont wanna grow up to take responsibility for their own lives without victim blaming it on others. You just gotta get those people out of your life, they'll ruin you completely.
We have the Exact same situation down to a T. I’m 23 and been dealing with my narc mom and finally separating from her going no contact she abused me forever and I helped her awaken spiritually just for her to revert back to her narc ways it finally was so easy to just walk away
I feel the same EXACT WAY. I used to give ppl chance after chance and yes they are walking disappointments. You have to cut them off or distance yourself for your own good. Some ppl are just game players that's all. Time is precious don't waste it on trash 🤷♀️
Love your enemy pray for those who despitefully use you. The Most High has vengeance set at its time. We grow together with the tares until the harvest.
It's amazing the interpersonal awareness that comes with adversity. The biggest freedom comes when your done needing anyone. I realized if I need someone to validate myself it requires certain feedback to reinforce that I'm doing the best I know how to show care. That is completely upside down nowadays. Catch 22, double bind, nice is weak, being an ass is good. No. You can't change what you know is decency trying to chase a mirage. I'm happy with the desert inbetween.
Yep I ain't got zero patience for nobody these days.... getting cut off without warning...I spent my younger years being a people pleaser and having no boundaries...I've done the self work I feel so powerful and unbreakable a WARRIOR...DNT F**K WITH ME!!! LMAO
This is exactly right. Once you see someone is a real low life I disappear quietly. I have tried to address things with certain people in the past. When I see they get defensive (as if they didn't do anything), I back out and don't contact them again. It's a waste of my time. Thanks for your time.
Yes that's exactly how I operate ! I just walk away & don't look back I mainly because I hate DRAMA & no use to confront them because they will only make me more mad lying about their actions & insulting my intelligence !
I’ve had so many people that I knew stabbed me in the back or just tried to damage my character come up to me and say with a smirk on their face…”did I do something ? You don’t talk to me anymore”. I used to say “ well, hello then”. Now I say “Let me circle back to ya on that” they stand there in shock as I walk away. Haha true story.
Now is the time. The last will be first. It's the end result that matters, and you are about to see new doors... where things will change, forever. It is the appointed time, for the chosen, to be incredibly blessed, rewarded, set free, etc., all from within! as Abba Himself, our heavenly Father, pretty much does it all. All that was once seen or perceived as impossible, becomes a breeze! It's YAHsome to throw all burdens on Him! Awwwww yes! Be blessed. Cause 🤔, you truly are. You'll see!
Good morning Joel. Im a 50 year old african american woman. I was married to a Caucasian man and we have a daughter together. We are divorce now and At this time im not dating because the drama from other women who i stay away from to cut that drama out. Im also a miltary veteran. Navy. Keep doing your you tube because it brings inspiration. You have a great day.😊
I would be very proud to have a son like you. Or equally pleased if one of my daughters found a man with morals and integrity that aligns with yours... 🤗💜🙏
Dating is a cesspool of dysfunction sometimes especially with social media. I'm believing the right person for me it'll be less drama and more fun and peace. We live in weird times and honestly if you are ok and fine on your own you'll be fine. I am so use to being on my own I don't know maybe I have like 10 guys who think they are dating me cos that's what social media does to people but got to keep in touch with reality.
I've realized everybody has become demonic beings without any empathy i am only gonna play with my demonic friends on limited occasions .if you are a demon please try and get it out of your soul I can help yall devils that need help getting rid of your own demons first
@DEATH PRETENDS TO FIGHT EGO & SATAN (ITSELF) first you have to do a full evaluation of yourself and pick everything bad about yourself and the good things look at everything from hatred of races of fat or skinny people homeless even sick people and see what u could've done to help or hurt things around you I bet that most haven't done shit not even talk to people in need 😴 I ve been a person to help and sometimes to hurt but mostly help ask yourself what have you done for the good of this earth
@DEATH PRETENDS TO FIGHT EGO & SATAN (ITSELF) why not do more and what's your bad things even cheating lying stealing anything that you yourself have done but didn't think it wasn't a big deal because you were doing wrong admit that you're a demon and then move past your own inner evil and kedp living correctly
I wish people were moke like you and me in that regard. When people treat you a certain way, just walk away. Staying will just be a headache. They will either play stupid or not be apologetic.
Exactly thats why i have moved on and thats exactly what will happen people need to watch their actions and accept their consequences if they dont watch their actions! I dont make time for this kind of stuff anymore in my life, i choose peace and being single for now and navigating my own life
i hate that you’re right. mostly everyone has narcissistic tendencies and only cares about themselves or refuses to see how narcissistic they are. sad n lonely world out there but that’s why i have god n my purpose. 🙏🏽🤍
@@healingforChrist mmm depends. you may be confusing with being egotistical. there is a difference between being egotistical and narcissistic. its hard to discern most of the time, but there is a difference. egotistical is distasteful but its healthy. narcissism is very unhealthy..its someone who comes across as egotistical but they have low self esteem. narcissists are energy vampires. egotistic people are not.
I have found that some family members do exactly what you have described. You trust them you love them... But they end up hurting all around them. It hurts. Thank you for expressing this in the way you did. It helped me so much. To maintain my sanity I will listen to you every day.
Disgusting people/lost souls. I feel sick to if I see how many people around us are totally screwed up/have some serious 'demons', but I try not blame them. The world we live in is só seriously sick. They lost their way to the light in a world they do not understand. Please, pray for them.
Yup they don't act on their own life but their sport is to make it seem like their life is better. But they'll try to drain your energy and money. Nah let them work and learn what you been through
I feel you completely!!!! I feel like whats the heck is wrong with all these people??? I feel alone in this world in this senseless human behavior SMH 🤦🏻♀️ Thank You for speaking out and I am glad I can relate to your way of thinking because it is definitely hard to find like minded people !!! Honest to God ….. because people want to stay stagnant!!!!! I see it all around me personal , work, family……I am like I am in the wrong world right now !!!
Neighbors...they will eavesdrop and keep tabs on you and flip it on you like you bothering them....these people are sick...ima just move on like you said in silence...im not gonna say nor do anything but to just mind my business...and you know what...they can follow me all they want to....they will take advantage of they privilege too...which is crazy
Very wise words for empaths to hear, don’t waste time worrying about their feelings if they mistreat you, just move on, and don’t look back! The amino acid in turkey known to help sleep is Tryptophan, which is involved in production of neurotransmitters, and converts into Melatonin, down the biochemical pathway, so you’re right about that too!
Thanks for saying those things. People become what they want to be you are right. You can not change people. I have stayed away for nearly 7 years. They still attack me and toment me. You see they can not be traded especially when they are close to you. I have forgiven them and stayed away from them. Thanks for the videos. P
I did this! U should know that if its a true narc they'll still msg u just to deflect and blame u for everything. Coz you've basically left them with their feelings knowing they did something to make u walk away and they can't handle those feelings of shame, so they'll try and project them on to you. Beware!
Dude, you're so young and so wise.💕 Truly blessed. Good of you to share and hopefully help people along in their journey. I didn't have TH-cam at your age to help me along to come into my power. But, I'm here now and it's on!!😇 Life is the best it's ever been for me at 54. 😁
Lmao. "Dog takes a piss on your floor you put its nose in it." Awesome. Better days are coming. And those dogs that be pissing on the floor will no longer be an issue. Like, ever. I can't wait. It will be glorious.
Terryjoe , hello . You 've healed me almost 2 years ago . I was wAtching you day and night. What I went thru, i did not wanna show my face to the world. I stayed hidden from everyone. I'm doing fabulous now. Working . Doing my best and looking magnificent 🙌🙌☄☄☄☄🙋🙋😆. I would like to say thankyou for all your healings and TEACHINGS. I Will be here to help others ok.👌
There's no need for toxic people to be narcissistic, sociopathic or psychopathic. Some might be elitists, passive-aggressive jerks, people who want you as an ego stroking thing, people who think they're better than you, people who don't have a spine to end a friendship they don't want or value.... the list is endless. If there's a personality disorder from the Cluster B, then you set off to the hills without a heavy consciousness.
so ive distanced myself from an emotional and verbally abusive fam member and they walked up to me yesterday and said " i dont know what i did to make you so angry at me, but im sorry. i dont know what i did. so i remained silent and walked away. i dont know if that was the right thing but i figured that if they dont know ( really) than they wouldnt say they are sorry. and im not even the angry one, they are!
Yup ! Hey TJJ👋🍍 My now DeFriended neighbor, turned out after 6 yrs of something being off w her, I finally figured out is a covert vulnerable. We used to talk for hours. She being super hyper sensitive, easily offended, was vague but seemed to carry herself like she was better than... Always self victimizing the poor me stories her telling me the same sht over and over me not being allowed to talk or give advise for resolutions. Obsessivly rudely dominating the conversing talking only about anything pertaining to herself. All the traits, turning into eventual inevitably passive aggressive sht and gaslighting. Then more of it No matter the subject it was always on the base of narcissism, having that each of us had grown up in it, siblings being narcs, and narc relationships and her calling out those in her life as narcs. So I would forever take the stance of "nahhh heck no... absolutly not, 🙅♂️🤦♂️🤷♂️what you wanna stick around ? ditch em, don't ever say why or say another word. Just cut their narc azz off ! Now I realize she wouldn't cut them off, more fun for her to use and gaslight. When she started getting pissed I didn't have time to listen to her talk about her anymore, she became overt, then let the mask slip more and more. So guess who got Ghosted now ? No Explaination 🤐🤪 She currently keeps pulling sht where she's found a new place for her yard debris for example, hoover. No reaction and I responded by moving that sht way up into her yard, lol huge pile. This caused her to have to again, move it to roadside but back to her usual spot for county pick - up. Never opened her text of her beefing about it or the last two text two months ago. Over night one of my driveway reflectors disappeared.... loool
You bring up a lot of good points and they are all true. But don't give them the power to rob you of your joy. The less attention you give them, the better. Focus more on what you love for what you focus on grows.
Something EXACTLY like this happened to me a week ago. We were just getting to know each other. I cut her off on IG w/o an explanation after a week. It hurt at first, but she doesn't deserve my energy. Your video is confirmation that I did the right thing. THANK YOU.
After 10 years of being with 1...I had the same exact happen to me last week...talked went out once and I just knew it from experience...glad you avoided that
This happened to me tonight with my ex and I. We were trying to fix things seeing each other and all hell broke out again. She brought out the darkest side of me. My old friend was starting drama between us I did this that. All we did was argue nothing changed again it was all my fault for getting mad no it was her and them not me I didn’t do that. Thanks man for these videos they help me a lot. I saw my darkest side again tonight and I left her at the motel I told her I’m leaving. Another thing she got me work clothes tonight then says I leave once I get wut I want I’m sick of her bs I’m done with it she knew wut she was doing I never once left her ever like that. I need to stop caring so much
Great video 👍. I'm a people person and very sensitive. Nowadays, I have to cut people loose cause of all the betrayal. There's no love in this world anymore. This world is so cold, cruel, and EVIL😢😢. My goal is to be in solitude for a while and pray God will strengthen my weaknesses. I want the be able to survive this messy world.
🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I've learned to let go n let GOD I keep them in my prayers because they need healing somewhere in themselves we live n we learn KARMA still exist
Peer to peer cooperation is so stilted now. So many think they have the end all be all answer to every damn thing. I'm really sick of dealing with the folks at work. I've practiced ghosting coworkers for this simple fact. If you're going to make rash assumptions about my character with only knowing me at work for the shortest period of time I'm going to ignore your salutations and get back to my job. Thanks for this realness.
I don’t understand the fact that these NPD individuals have a large friend circle but they linger on to you.I went nocontact with the narc and know I am receiving phones from him which I am intentionally blocking.
It's a mind fuck dealing with a lot of these people. I'm not chasing anyone they can meet me in person because I'm tired of just communicating on the phone or texting or social media that's why I stopped. Be real or be gone. Happy Thanksgiving! Tryptophan
I had this happened to me a week before my birthday! Eye opener! A five year friendship over in one day! I always wondered why they had so many “former” friends. True colors speak volumes!
I LOVED THIS VIDEO STRAIGHT TO THE POINT NO CUT CARDS SOON AS THEY DO SOME DUMB SELFISH CRAP BAM THEIR ELIMINATED CUT OFF EMEDIATLY BECAUSE YOUR LIFE IS VERY IMPORTANT 🙌🏾⛽️💥👻❤️🏆😜⭐️🌞🙏🏽🌟🌎
I frankly don't care how abused someone was. That does not give them the right to make me their punching bag. If you mess with the bull, you get the horns from me!
Supper.. Love you. Still . it's instilled in you .brother. I li e this video. Teaches many colors in the color wheel. And people show all their colours ...if your looking. May our Father just keep up your shining your light n growth. Thsnk you for being this man you are. Goodness Grace us. 10 10 2021
Your purpose isn't to gain the approval of the world, but to be salt and light in the world. . Your new life is going to cost you your old one. . True peace comes from surrendering our pain to GOD. . Sometimes, it's not the times you decide to fight, but the times you decide to surrender; that make all the difference. . Let come what comes, let go what goes, see what remains. . Growth means choosing happiness over history📖 . Be confident of this one thing: GOD began a good work in you, and he will finish it. NO matter what things look like, trust that you are moving forward in VICTORY!!🙏🏻🕊✌🏆🎉 #trustandsurrender #keepmovingforward #inspirationandforgiveness #thankfulblessedgrateful
Your observation about how sadly common low quality people are is so apt. It’s as if almost everyone expects to be able to behave any way they please and all subject to the behavior should just accept it. When you don’t put up with their bullshit, you’re the problem.
I hope you dont take this negatively but I laugh when I watch your videos because you remind me of... me lol. Youre a bit odd, and or different but you know your true self and you just live it man. You dont care what people think. I get a kick out of your mannerisms the way my friends get a kick out of mine. So now I see why they get a kick out of just watching me be me. lol
There's no competition and no level. Oneness matters a lot ❣️. Love everyone. Immaturity doesn't matter. Accept them and Support them in right And Don't support them in wrong
Toxic people ( aka narcissists , sociopaths , psychopaths ) will " flip the script " onto you the minute you call them on their BS!
It's almost unbelievable how they will take ZERO accountability for anything they've done! All of a sudden , YOU are the liar , cheater , etc! Don't let these people take up space rent free in your head! Walk ( better yet , RUN ) and get your life back!
This is true! I'm fighting to get back on my own two feet. I have to start over after 10 plus years. I've been labeled the abusive one because eventually, I react to all his bullsh**t and I respond and explode so, in the end, I'm the one at fault. All the digs at me, all the threats, and all the control he has over me will end one day though because I'm really trying to get free of him.
My stepmom after assaulting me an me no longer wanting anything to do with her: "Can we just agree that we're BOTH liars?"
Uhhhh NO. We cannot.
@Break Free From Narcissist Abuse trust no religion.
You too Kelly? Almost drove me to suicide (family). Exit silently and once safe enforce no contact. Stop all communication once you can
@Break Free From Narcissist Abuse TODA. You are BARAK!
No response/no contact is the best get back for someone who's betrayed or mistook your kindness for weakness.
I just walk away from everything that doesn’t bring me happiness
"That's SO SELFISH!" will scream a SECRET HATER you wanted you to be a pawn in their game of manipulation anyway. (It always takes me a time or two of getting burned to realize this but eventually I realized this)
Same here again
At this point, I don't give a damn about anyone or anything. I have given up on ALL people that were closest to me, I don't care who they were to me. Everyone can't go.
Watch out folks. When you silently walk away, even after they’ve done terrible things to you, it destroys them and they can get even more crazy.
Their ego or mentality doesn’t allow them to have people leave their lives. Because they think they control everything.
They do get crazier when they don't hear from you and can't find you. Fortunately, you have moved on to a higher plane.
Ohhh yeah, u got that RIGHT... that's why I need cameras in my yard now.
This 💯!!! Same put up gates and cameras. He stole so much from me and ran sacked everything on his way out to get vengeance. He said I own nothing apart from him. Left me completely empty and broken… and in a walker..
No explanation No Contact- a survival tactic I have had to learn the hard way.
Whenever someone shows you who they really are...Believe them! ~~~Mya Angelo
Yes the red flags are there
Cut them off and offer no explanation . Absolutely they know damn well what they have done, and they want you to come back grovelling. Ignore these people because they are irrelevant and they know it. Respect from Australia. 🇦🇺
You sure are RIGHT. They know EXACTLY why they got cut tf off. They wanna play the victim and they can drown in that victimhood for all i care.
Me living with a narcissist for 23 years aka my mom, those people are soulless as all hell. Theyll mentally bully their own kid just so that they can feel good about themselves and dont wanna grow up to take responsibility for their own lives without victim blaming it on others. You just gotta get those people out of your life, they'll ruin you completely.
Ditto on that
We have the Exact same situation down to a T. I’m 23 and been dealing with my narc mom and finally separating from her going no contact she abused me forever and I helped her awaken spiritually just for her to revert back to her narc ways it finally was so easy to just walk away
Try most of the family and your fiancé being one and his family too. I need to get away asap!!!
"r/raisedbynarcissists"
Just gona leave this here...
And yeah I can relate. I lived 24 years like that. As the scapegoat.
Mom literally told me she doesn’t think I can do it on my own and here I am she was the biggest bully in my life
A child of God cant grow alligator skin….. but has the armour of God on nothing can damage the wise one that is protected and chosen❤️
Real talk. 💯
I feel the same EXACT WAY. I used to give ppl chance after chance and yes they are walking disappointments. You have to cut them off or distance yourself for your own good. Some ppl are just game players that's all. Time is precious don't waste it on trash 🤷♀️
When you're done....You're DONE.......DO YOU AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!!!!!!
He said " we're not running through a field of daisy's with people, being stupid " 🤣🤣
Lmao he really is a man of words
Love your enemy pray for those who despitefully use you. The Most High has vengeance set at its time. We grow together with the tares until the harvest.
Pray for them but love from afar.
Its sure a TALL ORDER but true
Speaking like a true believer we to love our enemies
I HAVE A PROBLEM LOVING MY ENEMIES
@@MarysWrath I recently became Christian a few years ago but I totally agree with you. It's God's job to forgive, not mine!
It's amazing the interpersonal awareness that comes with adversity. The biggest freedom comes when your done needing anyone. I realized if I need someone to validate myself it requires certain feedback to reinforce that I'm doing the best I know how to show care. That is completely upside down nowadays. Catch 22, double bind, nice is weak, being an ass is good. No. You can't change what you know is decency trying to chase a mirage. I'm happy with the desert inbetween.
That's right. Makes it, in spite of everything, the best of times! Shalom
Well said sir! 🙏🏾👌🏾
It is mandatory to rid yourself of the Narcissist as soon as you are sure that they are a narc, Unless you like betrayal and getting burned and used
Yep I ain't got zero patience for nobody these days.... getting cut off without warning...I spent my younger years being a people pleaser and having no boundaries...I've done the self work I feel so powerful and unbreakable a WARRIOR...DNT F**K WITH ME!!! LMAO
Same done with that
The fact that they don't make it right, proves right decision was made to end it
This is exactly right. Once you see someone is a real low life I disappear quietly. I have tried to address things with certain people in the past. When I see they get defensive (as if they didn't do anything), I back out and don't contact them again. It's a waste of my time. Thanks for your time.
Yes that's exactly how I operate ! I just walk away & don't look back I mainly because I hate DRAMA & no use to confront them because they will only make me more mad lying about their actions & insulting my intelligence !
I’ve had so many people that I knew stabbed me in the back or just tried to damage my character come up to me and say with a smirk on their face…”did I do something ? You don’t talk to me anymore”. I used to say “ well, hello then”. Now I say “Let me circle back to ya on that” they stand there in shock as I walk away. Haha true story.
I feel you same here it’s ridiculous some people are rotten to the core. Truly sick 😷 glad you can find the humor in it.
Yes, pure evil.
Circle back, LOL!
Now is the time. The last will be first. It's the end result that matters, and you are about to see new doors... where things will change, forever. It is the appointed time, for the chosen, to be incredibly blessed, rewarded, set free, etc., all from within! as Abba Himself, our heavenly Father, pretty much does it all. All that was once seen or perceived as impossible, becomes a breeze! It's YAHsome to throw all burdens on Him! Awwwww yes! Be blessed. Cause 🤔, you truly are. You'll see!
@@theresefournier3269 beautifully said 🙏🏾
This man is chosen and all the haters can say what they want however the truth is truth;it is what it is
I'm cut the same way . I ain't takin no shit!!!!!!!!!!
Good morning Joel. Im a 50 year old african american woman. I was married to a Caucasian man and we have a daughter together. We are divorce now and At this time im not dating because the drama from other women who i stay away from to cut that drama out. Im also a miltary veteran. Navy. Keep doing your you tube because it brings inspiration. You have a great day.😊
Tysm for your service
- Michelle
I would be very proud to have a son like you. Or equally pleased if one of my daughters found a man with morals and integrity that aligns with yours...
🤗💜🙏
High praises 🙏🏾🥂
@@highvaluemale4866 Happy Thanksgiving to you..🤗💜🙏
@M Smith , it is a damn shame that 70% of society here in North America is not even close to sharing your mindset.
I’m genuinely sobbing. It’s like you’ve just described my entire life.
Dating is a cesspool of dysfunction sometimes especially with social media. I'm believing the right person for me it'll be less drama and more fun and peace. We live in weird times and honestly if you are ok and fine on your own you'll be fine. I am so use to being on my own I don't know maybe I have like 10 guys who think they are dating me cos that's what social media does to people but got to keep in touch with reality.
I've realized everybody has become demonic beings without any empathy i am only gonna play with my demonic friends on limited occasions .if you are a demon please try and get it out of your soul I can help yall devils that need help getting rid of your own demons first
@DEATH PRETENDS TO FIGHT EGO & SATAN (ITSELF) first you have to do a full evaluation of yourself and pick everything bad about yourself and the good things look at everything from hatred of races of fat or skinny people homeless even sick people and see what u could've done to help or hurt things around you I bet that most haven't done shit not even talk to people in need 😴 I ve been a person to help and sometimes to hurt but mostly help ask yourself what have you done for the good of this earth
@DEATH PRETENDS TO FIGHT EGO & SATAN (ITSELF) why not do more and what's your bad things even cheating lying stealing anything that you yourself have done but didn't think it wasn't a big deal because you were doing wrong admit that you're a demon and then move past your own inner evil and kedp living correctly
@DEATH PRETENDS TO FIGHT EGO & SATAN (ITSELF) truth hurts
@@johnkeith5153 2 Timothy 3:1-5 with emphasis on Verse 5......
You see that’s my strength. I don’t cut nobody off silently. I send El Sheddai after them via prayer
Amen!
Thank for the heart TJJ ✨✌️
I love you Terry!! You speak my language....No these fake people don't deserve any attention.
I wish people were moke like you and me in that regard. When people treat you a certain way, just walk away. Staying will just be a headache. They will either play stupid or not be apologetic.
They are really good at playing stupid and unapologetic smh sad
I know, I feel you! I just started putting my feelings first. People KNOW what they're doing.
Exactly thats why i have moved on and thats exactly what will happen people need to watch their actions and accept their consequences if they dont watch their actions! I dont make time for this kind of stuff anymore in my life, i choose peace and being single for now and navigating my own life
i hate that you’re right. mostly everyone has narcissistic tendencies and only cares about themselves or refuses to see how narcissistic they are. sad n lonely world out there but that’s why i have god n my purpose. 🙏🏽🤍
being human implies being narcissistic to a degree lol. its the sad truth. but as long as one acknowledges this truth is all that matters
@@Uranianth yes but today more than ever humans are openly narcissistic and it’s just seen as normal and it’s tolerated
@@healingforChrist mmm depends. you may be confusing with being egotistical. there is a difference between being egotistical and narcissistic. its hard to discern most of the time, but there is a difference. egotistical is distasteful but its healthy. narcissism is very unhealthy..its someone who comes across as egotistical but they have low self esteem. narcissists are energy vampires. egotistic people are not.
@@Uranianth most people are
In my experience they don’t learn the lesson at all - talking about family, work colleagues and ‘friends’. Luckily I have a fantastic partner
Very rare today to find a genuine Win/Win long term relationship.
Right on actions takes Supernatural Wisdom & desire to be REAL with GOD & People.
Couldn't have been stated better.
I have found that some family members do exactly what you have described. You trust them you love them... But they end up hurting all around them. It hurts.
Thank you for expressing this in the way you did. It helped me so much. To maintain my sanity I will listen to you every day.
Thank you Mr. Terry.
Well said young men!!!!!
THIS MONSTERS DONT DESERVE OUR ATTENTION!!!!!!!
Disgusting people/lost souls.
I feel sick to if I see how many people around us are totally screwed up/have some serious 'demons', but I try not blame them.
The world we live in is só seriously sick. They lost their way to the light in a world they do not understand.
Please, pray for them.
Yup they don't act on their own life but their sport is to make it seem like their life is better. But they'll try to drain your energy and money. Nah let them work and learn what you been through
I put up with people I tollerate alot of shit from people I take alot of shit from people I am sick over this
I feel you completely!!!! I feel like whats the heck is wrong with all these people??? I feel alone in this world in this senseless human behavior SMH 🤦🏻♀️
Thank You for speaking out and I am glad I can relate to your way of thinking because it is definitely hard to find like minded people !!! Honest to God ….. because people want to stay stagnant!!!!! I see it all around me personal , work, family……I am like I am in the wrong world right now !!!
Life is a cycle and surely what goes around does come around and that is a fact...
What a refreshing video...this is how I've been living my life for years and I'm at oeace...you are very wise...
‘This whole society, world is fucking sad’ you have right my man
Neighbors...they will eavesdrop and keep tabs on you and flip it on you like you bothering them....these people are sick...ima just move on like you said in silence...im not gonna say nor do anything but to just mind my business...and you know what...they can follow me all they want to....they will take advantage of they privilege too...which is crazy
Right? And when they see you outside they been watching like a hawk. Even going to the mail or just going out, is a hassle at times.
Very wise words for empaths to hear, don’t waste time worrying about their feelings if they mistreat you, just move on, and don’t look back! The amino acid in turkey known to help sleep is Tryptophan, which is involved in production of neurotransmitters, and converts into Melatonin, down the biochemical pathway, so you’re right about that too!
I am sick of people's shit too.
Thanks for saying those things. People become what they want to be you are right. You can not change people. I have stayed away for nearly 7 years. They still attack me and toment me. You see they can not be traded especially when they are close to you. I have forgiven them and stayed away from them. Thanks for the videos.
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I did this! U should know that if its a true narc they'll still msg u just to deflect and blame u for everything. Coz you've basically left them with their feelings knowing they did something to make u walk away and they can't handle those feelings of shame, so they'll try and project them on to you. Beware!
Keep a narc in the dark
Dude, you're so young and so wise.💕 Truly blessed. Good of you to share and hopefully help people along in their journey. I didn't have TH-cam at your age to help me along to come into my power. But, I'm here now and it's on!!😇 Life is the best it's ever been for me at 54. 😁
Your correct about this. I have a twin brother, he always tells me not to engage with people who are beneath you.
I feel like you are telling my life story. Have CPTSD from so much trauma since childhood. I’ve climbed out of the hole twice now. No contact is best
Lmao. "Dog takes a piss on your floor you put its nose in it." Awesome. Better days are coming. And those dogs that be pissing on the floor will no longer be an issue. Like, ever. I can't wait. It will be glorious.
Terryjoe , hello . You 've healed me almost 2 years ago . I was wAtching you day and night. What I went thru, i did not wanna show my face to the world. I stayed hidden from everyone. I'm doing fabulous now. Working . Doing my best and looking magnificent 🙌🙌☄☄☄☄🙋🙋😆. I would like to say thankyou for all your healings and TEACHINGS. I Will be here to help others ok.👌
I’m soo Sick of it too Terry!!! I’m in the process of starting my own business!!
There's no need for toxic people to be narcissistic, sociopathic or psychopathic. Some might be elitists, passive-aggressive jerks, people who want you as an ego stroking thing, people who think they're better than you, people who don't have a spine to end a friendship they don't want or value.... the list is endless. If there's a personality disorder from the Cluster B, then you set off to the hills without a heavy consciousness.
so ive distanced myself from an emotional and verbally abusive fam member and they walked up to me yesterday and said " i dont know what i did to make you so angry at me, but im sorry. i dont know what i did. so i remained silent and walked away. i dont know if that was the right thing but i figured that if they dont know ( really) than they wouldnt say they are sorry. and im not even the angry one, they are!
Sometimes it’s the people who you love the most that will hurt you the most and treat you the worst.
Yup !
Hey TJJ👋🍍
My now DeFriended neighbor, turned out after 6 yrs of something being off w her, I finally figured out is a covert vulnerable.
We used to talk for hours. She being super hyper sensitive, easily offended, was vague but seemed to carry herself like she was better than...
Always self victimizing the poor me stories her telling me the same sht over and over me not being allowed to talk or give advise for resolutions.
Obsessivly rudely dominating the conversing talking only about anything pertaining to herself.
All the traits, turning into eventual inevitably passive aggressive sht and gaslighting. Then more of it
No matter the subject it was always on the base of narcissism, having that each of us had grown up in it, siblings being narcs, and narc relationships and her calling out those in her life as narcs.
So I would forever take the stance of
"nahhh heck no... absolutly not,
🙅♂️🤦♂️🤷♂️what you wanna stick around ? ditch em, don't ever say why or say another word. Just cut their narc azz off !
Now I realize she wouldn't cut them off, more fun for her to use and gaslight.
When she started getting pissed I didn't have time to listen to her talk about her anymore, she became overt, then let the mask slip more and more.
So guess who got
Ghosted now ?
No Explaination 🤐🤪
She currently keeps pulling sht where she's found a new place for her yard debris for example, hoover.
No reaction and I responded by moving that sht way up into her yard, lol huge pile.
This caused her to have to again, move it to roadside but back to her usual spot for county pick - up.
Never opened her text of her beefing about it or the last two text two months ago.
Over night one of my driveway reflectors disappeared.... loool
You bring up a lot of good points and they are all true. But don't give them the power to rob you of your joy. The less attention you give them, the better. Focus more on what you love for what you focus on grows.
This dude keeps coming round n I've been very clear !
You forgot the last part , “believe them the first time!”
Something EXACTLY like this happened to me a week ago. We were just getting to know each other. I cut her off on IG w/o an explanation after a week. It hurt at first, but she doesn't deserve my energy. Your video is confirmation that I did the right thing. THANK YOU.
After 10 years of being with 1...I had the same exact happen to me last week...talked went out once and I just knew it from experience...glad you avoided that
This happened to me tonight with my ex and I. We were trying to fix things seeing each other and all hell broke out again. She brought out the darkest side of me. My old friend was starting drama between us I did this that. All we did was argue nothing changed again it was all my fault for getting mad no it was her and them not me I didn’t do that. Thanks man for these videos they help me a lot. I saw my darkest side again tonight and I left her at the motel I told her I’m leaving. Another thing she got me work clothes tonight then says I leave once I get wut I want I’m sick of her bs I’m done with it she knew wut she was doing I never once left her ever like that. I need to stop caring so much
Great video 👍. I'm a people person and very sensitive. Nowadays, I have to cut people loose cause of all the betrayal. There's no love in this world anymore. This world is so cold, cruel, and EVIL😢😢. My goal is to be in solitude for a while and pray God will strengthen my weaknesses. I want the be able to survive this messy world.
THANKS 👍 LIL BRO AIN'T LYING 🤥 CUT THEM OFF IN SILENCE 🤐
🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I've learned to let go n let GOD I keep them in my prayers because they need healing somewhere in themselves we live n we learn KARMA still exist
Man, did I need to hear this today. Thank you for reminding me of my value
I wish I'd heard this 7 months ago when aired. It could have saved me 7 months of time. 😉
They just lacking self worth or love
Peer to peer cooperation is so stilted now. So many think they have the end all be all answer to every damn thing. I'm really sick of dealing with the folks at work. I've practiced ghosting coworkers for this simple fact. If you're going to make rash assumptions about my character with only knowing me at work for the shortest period of time I'm going to ignore your salutations and get back to my job.
Thanks for this realness.
You took the words out of my mouth bro. "sick of people".
I don’t understand the fact that these NPD individuals have a large friend circle but they linger on to you.I went nocontact with the narc and know I am receiving phones from him which I am intentionally blocking.
The less you stand for the more people you will have around you. The more (truth) you stand for, the more some of these predators will TARGET you.
Narcissists don't have real friends, that's why. They spend their whole lives trying to control people and forcing them to be their friend.
It's a mind fuck dealing with a lot of these people. I'm not chasing anyone they can meet me in person because I'm tired of just communicating on the phone or texting or social media that's why I stopped. Be real or be gone. Happy Thanksgiving! Tryptophan
I had this happened to me a week before my birthday! Eye opener! A five year friendship over in one day! I always wondered why they had so many “former” friends. True colors speak volumes!
Thank Joel 😊🙏🏼
Wat a blessing , excuse ,, blessings ,,
Be happy always , 😊 smile 😊
Seriously Thank You Terry I Really Appreciate Your Videos You Are A Lion Heart 🦁❤️🔥
I LOVED THIS VIDEO STRAIGHT TO THE POINT NO CUT CARDS SOON AS THEY DO SOME DUMB SELFISH CRAP BAM THEIR ELIMINATED CUT OFF EMEDIATLY BECAUSE YOUR LIFE IS VERY IMPORTANT 🙌🏾⛽️💥👻❤️🏆😜⭐️🌞🙏🏽🌟🌎
"We're not running through fields of daisy's with people". LOL sounds like a tampon commercial
hahahahahaha
same im sick of the BS great video
Alot of people have been abused so they do the abuseing I've dealt with narcissism alot of it comes from sexual phiscal and mental abuse
I frankly don't care how abused someone was. That does not give them the right to make me their punching bag. If you mess with the bull, you get the horns from me!
❤Loves it! 🎯You are on point EVERY time.
We need to pray for them.. It's all we can do.. ❤
Supper.. Love you. Still . it's instilled in you .brother. I li e this video. Teaches many colors in the color wheel. And people show all their colours ...if your looking. May our Father just keep up your shining your light n growth. Thsnk you for being this man you are. Goodness Grace us. 10 10 2021
Your purpose isn't to gain
the approval of the world,
but to be salt and light in
the world.
.
Your new life is going to
cost you your old one.
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True peace comes from
surrendering our pain to
GOD.
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Sometimes, it's not the
times you decide to fight,
but the times you decide
to surrender; that make
all the difference.
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Let come what comes,
let go what goes, see
what remains.
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Growth means choosing
happiness over history📖
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Be confident of this one
thing: GOD began a good
work in you, and he will
finish it. NO matter what
things look like, trust that
you are moving forward in
VICTORY!!🙏🏻🕊✌🏆🎉
#trustandsurrender
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It was really hot to hear you read society. They deserve it.
Before you get married they have to get along with family
Your observation about how sadly common low quality people are is so apt. It’s as if almost everyone expects to be able to behave any way they please and all subject to the behavior should just accept it. When you don’t put up with their bullshit, you’re the problem.
Omg wow ur almost there 🎉🎉🎉🎉 100k it’s o true they know what the did they don’t deserve one like they keep me in the dark all Time
I hope you dont take this negatively but I laugh when I watch your videos because you remind me of... me lol. Youre a bit odd, and or different but you know your true self and you just live it man. You dont care what people think. I get a kick out of your mannerisms the way my friends get a kick out of mine. So now I see why they get a kick out of just watching me be me. lol
This was randomly on my home page and I’m glad it was definitely wanna see more videos like this.
I love Cleveland Browns but they never win but always support your hometown
There's no competition and no level.
Oneness matters a lot ❣️.
Love everyone. Immaturity doesn't matter.
Accept them and Support them in right
And Don't support them in wrong
Yes that's what I have been doing with my daughter and it seems to be working
There no equality either which is why people get jealous of another person having something great
Big brother energy, and you do it right thank you so much
This ain't NUTHIN BUT THA TRUTH... AMEN God Bless you
I don't really think people like that realize they claim to be such a good person and justify there bahavior with all kinds of theory's lol BS
You’ve got me laughing tonight with some of your remarks! 😂
😂😭 Joel is my guy
Same goes with older couples with one leg in The grave lol 😆😅🙃😂🤣