Seriously, dude. Get the dog...even if you live in an apartment. Dogs have amazingly positive transformative power. Unlike people they are always happy to see you when you come in. Always loyal, always and by your side, and always protective of you. People are full of crap. Jealousy and disrespect from them is a given.
Joel, The narcissist I had to cut ties with always made me feel lonely. I always felt like I was by myself even if I was with him or next to him. And I realize now that’s because he was empty and lacking so yea essentially I was alone. He never respected me enough and didn’t make me feel valued- not romantically but as a person of worth. These people are lost man and they will drain you dry. Best thing you can do is get far away from them and ask God to help you seek good people
FOR ME IN MY HOUSE, IF I SMILE TO BIG OR LAUGH TO MUCH THEN I MUST BE BROUGHT DOWN. FOR ME TO FEEL HAPPINESS IS FOR OTHERS TO FEEL HATE TWORDS ME, TRUTH! I JUST GOTTA GET MY BABYGIRL GROWED UP, MY HAPPINESS IS SACRIFICED N IN IT MY SELF LOVE.🌹🌞🔥❤🕊
so important to know the difference between respect and disrespect. I use to pass covert narcissim off as someone just making a joke but it's actually very disrespectful. I set boundaries with people like this today
Discernment takes time to achieve. I had a good friend that I figured out was disrespectful, and it brought all the other things to light. If they don't respect you and show that consistently, then they are disrespecting you. They are gone by the way, removed.
Ofc rare thaths why i has nothing near me just me haha who thinks clearly and stay stable no chemical food gmo and shit like that no alcohol no drugs no ciggs np nothing not even weed u know how its just sad there nothing like u
Compassion is such a rare quality. It’s so much easier to criticize others than work on ourselves. Glad you pointed out how problematic even thinking negative thoughts about strangers speaks volumes about the spiritual state one is in. Keep up the quality content!
Terry, this was really profound. There's no lack of respect...there's just respect or disrespect. Thank you for the way you share your wisdom and thoughts.
You can't know people until you are with them. Everyone's lives are different. I've worked with special needs, kids that probably will end up in prison and drunks at a bar. When you have experienced the worst in people you develop a dark humour sometimes and its not about energy. It's about knowing human nature- the worst of it sometimes. Doesn't make me a dark person it means I get that side of life maybe better than other people.
Shows their immaturity, also there is humor , and we all need need laughter, Bible says it’s medicine for our souls. But sheer stupidity, dark humor, just ugly from we do not have to even give it time of day.! Praise God! For good 😘🙏 6:34
Crazy this came out today.. he said he loves me so so much, a few minutes later said, I guess I don't love you.. after expressing disrespect and hateful treatment..
I would say don't play into any mindgames just leave! People who play with your emotions once will do it again. It's a game to them and you lose by playing that game. Your energy is better spent elsewhere. If you go, in time this wound will be nothing but a fading memory but if you stay it will be one of many. And trust me: the longer that goes on the longer you will hurt. If you're in doubt though, and this is the first time it's happened, ask why the person said that and if the answer don't make sense: don't answer back, just leave. There are good people out there who needs you. You learn to discern so that you can make room for them.
Truth. When you start coming on the up and up, and you begin improving yourself and gaining momentum in your success, some people will refuse to give you the respect you deserve, especially when you have worked your ass off to get where you are. They will continue to hate and disrespect you for no reason because they can't handle how you got good. They will say you were lucky or had it easier. In the past they always looked down on you and you never crossed mind. So when you reach greatness these same people still don't want to acknowledge it. It's backwards
It took me time being a very compassionate man but I finally came to my senses they want to fight with physical I fight with words done and out OVER 10 4 over n out
If you have a good job and have decent credit, you might qualify for a mortgage. You should look into it one of these days. You might be surprised to find that you can get your own house sooner than you thought. Then you could get your dog that you want. Peace and good luck. ✌️🏼
I appreciate this Channel so much💼. I honestly don’t even care about the topic of people . I take these lessons and add this to my own personal as a man. I’m all about my own life and others can go
I was hanging out with a group for a couple years but almost every single time, they'de drop a bomb with a back-handed or subtle jab at my character. I finally had enough. I'm really sad because they're normally fun people to hang around with, but I've had enough of the 5% poison they've been administering and even worse, I'm sure they're one degree away from the narc that initiated gangstalking for decades on me.
If they don't respect themselves they most certainly.are not going to respect others and it best to leave people alone that don't respect boundaries . and they shouldn't have to show you more than once that they don't care .Leave them Right where they stand !!
Terry, I had the most loyal and loving dog before I let the narc into my life. People would say that dog always had one eye on me and was always by my side. The narc was jealous of the loving bond we shared. When the narc went into her rages the dog would go hide in the bedroom. Eventually the narc tried to control the dog and break our bond. Less than a year after the narc came, the dog died. I was heartbroken but the narc showed no compassion or empathy, only saying I spent too much money trying to save my dog. I suspect something but have no evidence. Four years later, I still shed tears for that dog. When the narc is finally out of my life and I am in a good place I'm going to get two dogs. Never let a narc near your pet's they will destroy everything you love. #chosenone #nojab4me #redpilledAF
On fire today man. Great energy. Wayyy up on the truth scale. What do you really need? You gotta figure it out and do some healthy weeding out. It's a process. Learn it. Live it. Love it.
Words to live by. Left my wife after years of blatant disrespect. Its like they dare you to do it because of the financial ramifications. Leave and go no contact, kids or not, or you will slowly lose whatever self worth you have left.
I myself have used food as a coping skill for a lifetime of abuse. I would venture to say that many of the overweight people out there have had many traumatic experiences. Something to think about before judging, or wanting to be snarky with people who have been seriously hurt by others.
I here you..they turn on you when you start you tube, for example ..whatch out for the green eyed monsters and Narrcicists they can be so nice..and get off on bringing you down..This is mostly family for me with so much jealousy..stay strong all💖
Men criticize their girlfriends constantly when no one else is around. Now you understand why women are sick of the disrespect and move on to get the respect they deserve.
We have no control of other people's thoughts and feelings and life..but we have control over our own lives. so it's true if they don't respect you and your property you have to cut the rope and hand them over to their creator..because if you don't they will always invade into your dimension and space with out your permission..forgive them smile buy them a little present and walk away...
Man i felt the maturity rise out of me at work tonight...and i can just see these guys hatred for me...its like for God's sake I spent most of my life living with REAL brain trauma and always reading or watching videos like this...I think anyone who put in that kind of work deserves to rise...its like damn guys can you please let me breathe and take your bitter hands off of my throat (metaphorically)...bring it Terry this is good stuff...helping young men navigate through all the bs obstacles we have thrown at us by cowards and wicked selfish men... amen bro
I want an iced coffee 😊. I miss my dog so much, when he died it was like loosing a child. He was a huge white bull arab, he weighed more than me.❤. Thanks Joel, i could never grow weary of your talks.
I don’t know about that dog thing. I had one last that was depressed, didn’t know what was what. Took good care of him, but kept trying to get free, unlocked our door and exposed us to be victimized.
Thank you so much brother. Unfortunately your words resonate deeply with me. You are accurate in my view. I know what you mean and sadly i must let them go. Thank you for saying it how it is. Better to be alone than surrounded by enemies.
I really appreciate your point of view! It is really refreshing to see your videos! You are wise beyond your years! I am older than you and still you have showed me a lot of things that are really happening in my life! God bless you🤗
Last thing I'll say is that I don't fat shame. I point out that overweight people who believe that life is that much harder for them aren't always right. Pretty people can get hurt as much and suffer as much or more as an overweight person. Comparison is never wise but there are plenty of people who have no problem assuming a pretty girl has it made or is lacking quality and depth.
“Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.” - Henry van Dyke 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation TH-camr
How about you make a comment that is relevant to his videos for once? You and your channel come off as inauthentic at times with these cookie cutter quotes that you copy and paste.
I know. Its hard when you like a person, and that person says hurtfull things to you, that you obviosly means so litle to that person. A person that you trust and think the Word of. Again, i have to lick My wounds. Damn narcs.
Thank you for the vids, we must educate our children daughters and sons to be with Goodness and Good ppl, also in general deserving ppl who are ready listen and some who are awaken or are coming into this awareness, Thank you so much for the videos and inspiring stories and words of strength Nameste
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They want all the respect in the world but don't respect you.
Can we say this again!
It's two way street. If someone don't respect you they can't expect us to respect them back.
True
And that's why they will ALWAYS fail.
Seriously, dude. Get the dog...even if you live in an apartment. Dogs have amazingly positive transformative power. Unlike people they are always happy to see you when you come in. Always loyal, always and by your side, and always protective of you. People are full of crap. Jealousy and disrespect from them is a given.
True . Cats are evn better 🤫🤣🤣
So true, Terry. I've known decent people who surrounded themselves with toxic jerks, and they became toxic too.
Yup
1 Corinthians 15:33
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Bad company corrupts good morals
Sad but he is too empathetic ... He follows everybody even psychology women oh my god
REAL mature ppl must learn NOT!!! To SALE OUT!!... Be strong BE RED PILLED!!.💥👊🙌
Joel, The narcissist I had to cut ties with always made me feel lonely. I always felt like I was by myself even if I was with him or next to him. And I realize now that’s because he was empty and lacking so yea essentially I was alone. He never respected me enough and didn’t make me feel valued- not romantically but as a person of worth.
These people are lost man and they will drain you dry. Best thing you can do is get far away from them and ask God to help you seek good people
Me to, i felt lonely with my x narc. I never feel lonely being single, lol i like my own company.
@amy grace 😊warm greetings from Australia. God bless.
Real mature ppl must learn NOT to SALE OUT!!!. BE STRONG RED PILLED!!.💥👊🙌
FOR ME IN MY HOUSE, IF I SMILE TO BIG OR LAUGH TO MUCH THEN I MUST BE BROUGHT DOWN. FOR ME TO FEEL HAPPINESS IS FOR OTHERS TO FEEL HATE TWORDS ME, TRUTH! I JUST GOTTA GET MY BABYGIRL GROWED UP, MY HAPPINESS IS SACRIFICED N IN IT MY SELF LOVE.🌹🌞🔥❤🕊
so important to know the difference between respect and disrespect. I use to pass covert narcissim off as someone just making a joke but it's actually very disrespectful. I set boundaries with people like this today
Discernment takes time to achieve. I had a good friend that I figured out was disrespectful, and it brought all the other things to light. If they don't respect you and show that consistently, then they are disrespecting you. They are gone by the way, removed.
At least u know where u stand with those ppl, keep one eye open while u sleep brothers, focus on the grind and watch your back
I think it’s nice to listen to someone who’s mind is clear and talks about real shit. That’s rare these days.
Ofc rare thaths why i has nothing near me just me haha who thinks clearly and stay stable no chemical food gmo and shit like that no alcohol no drugs no ciggs np nothing not even weed u know how its just sad there nothing like u
Compassion is such a rare quality. It’s so much easier to criticize others than work on ourselves. Glad you pointed out how problematic even thinking negative thoughts about strangers speaks volumes about the spiritual state one is in. Keep up the quality content!
So true, and well said sad when people judge other men woman down on there luck.....
Yet compassion and respect dont equate. I can be a psychopath and still respect people.
My tablet keeps freezing
Terry, this was really profound. There's no lack of respect...there's just respect or disrespect. Thank you for the way you share your wisdom and thoughts.
You can't know people until you are with them. Everyone's lives are different. I've worked with special needs, kids that probably will end up in prison and drunks at a bar. When you have experienced the worst in people you develop a dark humour sometimes and its not about energy. It's about knowing human nature- the worst of it sometimes. Doesn't make me a dark person it means I get that side of life maybe better than other people.
Screw them people man you're awesome.
Agreed. If you see people and you don't like how they look, just keep walking. You went out to run errands and do productive stuff.
A great life coach with an abundance of confidence. He shows us how to have a backbone and stand up for ourselves.
💕🙏😊
Yes.
We cannot change others nor should we try. Change is a choice of reason and the epitome of self love. 🤔❤️🇺🇸
I totally agree I co sign this comment !! Change is up to that person its not our job or our business to try to change people !
Change yourself especially when others are sneaky snakey go behind your back discuss you and can't be real with you
Shows their immaturity, also there is humor , and we all need need laughter, Bible says it’s medicine for our souls. But sheer stupidity, dark humor, just ugly from we do not have to even give it time of day.! Praise God! For good 😘🙏 6:34
You are wise beyond most older people I know
Yup...im 60 this year...he is truth
Crazy this came out today.. he said he loves me so so much, a few minutes later said, I guess I don't love you.. after expressing disrespect and hateful treatment..
So sorry!
I would say don't play into any mindgames just leave! People who play with your emotions once will do it again. It's a game to them and you lose by playing that game. Your energy is better spent elsewhere. If you go, in time this wound will be nothing but a fading memory but if you stay it will be one of many. And trust me: the longer that goes on the longer you will hurt.
If you're in doubt though, and this is the first time it's happened, ask why the person said that and if the answer don't make sense: don't answer back, just leave.
There are good people out there who needs you. You learn to discern so that you can make room for them.
Truth. When you start coming on the up and up, and you begin improving yourself and gaining momentum in your success, some people will refuse to give you the respect you deserve, especially when you have worked your ass off to get where you are. They will continue to hate and disrespect you for no reason because they can't handle how you got good. They will say you were lucky or had it easier. In the past they always looked down on you and you never crossed mind. So when you reach greatness these same people still don't want to acknowledge it. It's backwards
It took me time being a very compassionate man but I finally came to my senses they want to fight with physical I fight with words done and out OVER 10 4 over n out
I always see the lil things they do to show how transparent they truly are I don't need to talk about anyone I let them talk about themselves.....
If you have a good job and have decent credit, you might qualify for a mortgage. You should look into it one of these days. You might be surprised to find that you can get your own house sooner than you thought. Then you could get your dog that you want. Peace and good luck. ✌️🏼
Well I am not speaking to anyone except
My roommate and some immediate
Family
Mine make up bad things about me even family friends
you spit some real knowledge , this shit be having me laughing .
I appreciate this Channel so much💼. I honestly don’t even care about the topic of people . I take these lessons and add this to my own personal as a man. I’m all about my own life and others can go
Had this happen before! It stopped after a few years and I know how to forgive but will keep certain boundaries to protect my peace ✌️😊
I was hanging out with a group for a couple years but almost every single time, they'de drop a bomb with a back-handed or subtle jab at my character. I finally had enough. I'm really sad because they're normally fun people to hang around with, but I've had enough of the 5% poison they've been administering and even worse, I'm sure they're one degree away from the narc that initiated gangstalking for decades on me.
Thank You Terry 🦁
If your left eye twitches you’re stressed, if your right eye twitches you’re on the right path .
Speech speech speech. We love you. Our Truthful Terry Joel Jr. Amen. N May God bless you n us. An all of the leaders of the world. . xo
Cheers 🍻 Brotha...spit it 👍🏻 👌
I needed this, thank you brother!
If they don't respect themselves they most certainly.are not going to respect others and it best to leave people alone that don't respect boundaries . and they shouldn't have to show you more than once that they don't care .Leave them Right where they stand !!
Saw you hold up that timmies cup , ehhhhh Sending Love from Toronto ! Please keep the messages/confirmations coming 😃💚
Damn right YESSSSSS💯✅‼👍🏾
The way subjects are on point, its almost as though its hive mind.
I see he's got the Tide merch on.
Yeah Condescending people everywhere. They look down at you because they have there own insecurities deep down
Insecure people must tear others down to build themselves up. It's a manipulative move instead of leveling up themselves.
Terry, I had the most loyal and loving dog before I let the narc into my life. People would say that dog always had one eye on me and was always by my side. The narc was jealous of the loving bond we shared. When the narc went into her rages the dog would go hide in the bedroom. Eventually the narc tried to control the dog and break our bond. Less than a year after the narc came, the dog died. I was heartbroken but the narc showed no compassion or empathy, only saying I spent too much money trying to save my dog. I suspect something but have no evidence. Four years later, I still shed tears for that dog. When the narc is finally out of my life and I am in a good place I'm going to get two dogs. Never let a narc near your pet's they will destroy everything you love. #chosenone #nojab4me #redpilledAF
Yes true they are shocked I cut them off
Like the Queen in Alice in wonderland
Yes thank you! I know I have let it go.
I am dealing with this right now.
All the traits they gave us are actually something of their own
👿 Goal = Divide & Conquer
Felt like mine was trying to kill my belief in God.
Bro! Literally... I've been seeing sparkles or something from the corner of my eye lol.... soon as you mentioned your eyes twitching... wtf.
Whatcha drinking? I’m a big iced coffee fan 👍
Dunkin’ junkie all the way
Oh I love the Dunkin coolata.
On fire today man. Great energy. Wayyy up on the truth scale. What do you really need? You gotta figure it out and do some healthy weeding out. It's a process. Learn it. Live it. Love it.
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 Would Gifted Giant not trigger you so hard? I understand.
Words to live by. Left my wife after years of blatant disrespect. Its like they dare you to do it because of the financial ramifications. Leave and go no contact, kids or not, or you will slowly lose whatever self worth you have left.
If it happens several times. Yes! Especially unwarranted! Unfortunately I've found it was mostly my family members. & frenemies
& they're ALL Cutoff.
Sending you love and light your sister in Christ ❤
Amen brother
from the start, your speaking my language bro-crimson tide=Mac jones on my fave team-the New England patriots!keep up the great work!!!
I never thought about it as one or the other, but you're right. Thanks, brother.
I myself have used food as a coping skill for a lifetime of abuse. I would venture to say that many of the overweight people out there have had many traumatic experiences. Something to think about before judging, or wanting to be snarky with people who have been seriously hurt by others.
I here you..they turn on you when you start you tube, for example ..whatch out for the green eyed monsters and Narrcicists they can be so nice..and get off on bringing you down..This is mostly family for me with so much jealousy..stay strong all💖
Good stuff as always bro!! You got me with that Tim Hortons cup 😂 so Canadian of you 😉😇
Thank you sir for this clarity as well if no one said today I'm so proud of you I enjoy all your videos many many stars 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Bro I love the honesty and truth exposure. Please keep it going. 💪🏾🙏🏾
It's demonic...I praise God y give him glory...God bless you Bro...thank you y have a great weekend🙏💙🤗
AHHH, I am getting SUCH ASMR from that ice... Loving it along with the content.
Always be on your side brother
Men criticize their girlfriends constantly when no one else is around. Now you understand why women are sick of the disrespect and move on to get the respect they deserve.
I love dogs too. I have two and volunteer at a no kill sancuary walking them.
We have no control of other people's thoughts and feelings and life..but we have control over our own lives. so it's true if they don't respect you and your property you have to cut the rope and hand them over to their creator..because if you don't they will always invade into your dimension and space with out your permission..forgive them smile buy them a little present and walk away...
Thank you Terry☺️ so proud of you .💖 Blessings
Man i felt the maturity rise out of me at work tonight...and i can just see these guys hatred for me...its like for God's sake I spent most of my life living with REAL brain trauma and always reading or watching videos like this...I think anyone who put in that kind of work deserves to rise...its like damn guys can you please let me breathe and take your bitter hands off of my throat (metaphorically)...bring it Terry this is good stuff...helping young men navigate through all the bs obstacles we have thrown at us by cowards and wicked selfish men... amen bro
Mans best friend 🐕🦺🐾
Another great video
Thank you bro
I had to cutted people from irl and online because I was painted as " bad guy" due their own toxicity from their past relationships.
Speaking the truth 🙌
I hears a power surge right before your twitch statement
I want an iced coffee 😊. I miss my dog so much, when he died it was like loosing a child. He was a huge white bull arab, he weighed more than me.❤. Thanks Joel, i could never grow weary of your talks.
I don’t know about that dog thing. I had one last that was depressed, didn’t know what was what. Took good care of him, but kept trying to get free, unlocked our door and exposed us to be victimized.
Thank you very much! Great video.💯🔥
I agree with you Terry
👍🏻❤️💯🌟
The best thing to do with friends and family that try to make life hard for you pray for them and go to own way
Thanks for making my night
...wild turkey and coke?
The season is changing 😎
God bless you Terry
@TerryJoelJunior Nice Haircut
Thank you so much brother. Unfortunately your words resonate deeply with me. You are accurate in my view.
I know what you mean and sadly i must let them go.
Thank you for saying it how it is.
Better to be alone than surrounded by enemies.
I really appreciate your point of view! It is really refreshing to see your videos! You are wise beyond your years! I am older than you and still you have showed me a lot of things that are really happening in my life! God bless you🤗
love the cover image, looks like you're doing a Dana Carvey slash George bush joke " hehe, here to get the constitution back" master of disguise lol
Yes sir you are always on point with everything you say. 💯💯💯
Last thing I'll say is that I don't fat shame. I point out that overweight people who believe that life is that much harder for them aren't always right. Pretty people can get hurt as much and suffer as much or more as an overweight person. Comparison is never wise but there are plenty of people who have no problem assuming a pretty girl has it made or is lacking quality and depth.
The problem Is .... Its my family 😌
Can't stop laughing to get past that point lol
And all the traits they denied us having is who we are
He gave me everything except respect and some act right…
Lol
You need to have a dog lidl brother, i always have had a dog and they are the best man friend. My dog is my buddy.
“Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.” - Henry van Dyke
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation TH-camr
How about you make a comment that is relevant to his videos for once? You and your channel come off as inauthentic at times with these cookie cutter quotes that you copy and paste.
I know.
Its hard when you like a person, and that person says hurtfull things to you, that you obviosly means so litle to that person. A person that you trust and think the Word of.
Again, i have to lick My wounds. Damn narcs.
They switched the roles to make us look like we’re the ones who don’t want to get hurt
Thank you for the vids, we must educate our children daughters and sons to be with Goodness and Good ppl, also in general deserving ppl who are ready listen and some who are awaken or are coming into this awareness, Thank you so much for the videos and inspiring stories and words of strength Nameste
Wow im just speechless what a tragedy This is i had no idea maaan 😇
Great video. This hit me at the right time.
Sporit of Judgement ...cast it out
Sometimes it's best to let go 💯‼️