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Too Weird For Hot People, But Too Hot For Weird People (Dating Advice)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2023
  • Some unconventional dating advice.
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  • @petek2951
    @petek2951 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I just feel that the more spiritual you are, the more difficult it is to find a partner. Like attracts like. People typically want someone on their level. As you raise your vibration higher and higher above the norm, you have less and less choices for a partner on your level. That's just a sacrifice that comes with deeper spirituality. I feel you are a deeply spiritual person, which is why finding a partner has been difficult for you. With that being said, you made some good comments on putting yourself out there in the right places to meet your vibrational match. I found a long-term partner for me at a Buddhist Retreat. I also agree that when the time is right, the Universe will bring the right partner in your life. The time is right when you have learned the lessons you need to learn in preparation for the relationship. You are not waiting on the Universe to learn these lessons, the Universe is waiting for you.

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great thoughts and insights Pete! Very cool about the Buddhist retreat! I appreciate you commenting and sharing your thoughts.

  • @__OL__
    @__OL__ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As you reach higher and higher levels of consciousness, your pool of potential mates gets smaller and smaller. But also the depth of love, truth, and beauty possible between you and your eventual mate becomes greater and greater. (Just something to take heart in if you, like me, can relate to this vid.)

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Excellent comment

  • @siriuspleiades4503
    @siriuspleiades4503 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Solid info, man! The exotic japanese furniture was the perfect analogy.

  • @JimmyJaxJellyStax
    @JimmyJaxJellyStax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never settle, the relationship should be meaningful and quite complimentary compatible of two relatively abundant individuals independently secure of their lives.

  • @pkmentoring
    @pkmentoring 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is such beautiful advice. I definitely feel and have felt that I'm "too weird for hot people" as you say. You're touching on everything here- "gurus" exploiting our insecurities, owning our "refined frequency," becoming leaders in our niche. This is truly the dating path for those of us who have something more, something non-average, to offer the world. Thanks for speaking truth for a lot of guys and gals out there, myself included, who need to hear it! 💜

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Pierson! Love your comment! 🧡

  • @serafinnoffke488
    @serafinnoffke488 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can't believe how much this video helped me. Within all this time on my self improvement journey I haven't found a video like this one. I tried to change the way I am which just made me mostly unhappy and destroyed a little of my uniqueness. It now feels like the other self improvement channels are telling you to work against yourself, while you talk about working with yourself. Thank you very much, I'm so glad I found this channel

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love your comment. 👍 :)

  • @matinazadeh6870
    @matinazadeh6870 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Vegan cold approaching girls on the street" 😂😂😂

  • @Malik_Hoff
    @Malik_Hoff 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i'm def too weird for the hot people and too normal for the weird people

  • @chrismatthews2904
    @chrismatthews2904 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The title of this video is perfect.🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻

  • @ulyses02971
    @ulyses02971 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very positive view about dating, our unreal expectations is what sabotage our journey and create frustration. Having this mindset is the right way to go out there and meet people.

  • @Kaldaguy
    @Kaldaguy หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    good video OG!

  • @RichTB1995
    @RichTB1995 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Weird" means different man to be the same as everybody else would be the real kinda weird, the worlds too far gone man, we are so lucky! Also wish me serious luck by the way as ill be taking a solo trip to France next Monday! To get out my comfort zone, this will be the first time ive ever done this, ill post a vlog of my day away :) great message on your video i totally get what your saying some energy matches some dosent, we are what we attract! :-)

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great job deciding to get out of your comfort zone. Best of wishes bro! :)

  • @laviniasnow4494
    @laviniasnow4494 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The moment one decides to take the high road in life is the moment when 90% of “potential” partners just evaporate as possibilities in their eyes because those people really are not for them. So yeah, that road will be tough, quite frustrating at times and the further you go on it the more appealing the temptations will be. That's why when those bad times hit remember your goal, envision yourself as you succeeded in reaching it. Relish in that feeling. It will help tremendously to move on and not fall into temptation, whatever that may be. This works even when dealing with addiction.
    Also, remember that each step taken on this high road means you're one step closer to your goal.
    I wish for all those in the community light for guidance, peace to percieve it and strength of character and honour to follow it.

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love the comment Lavinia. Very true! Very much appreciate your thoughtful comment, as always. Light and the same best wishes right back to you! :)

    • @laviniasnow4494
      @laviniasnow4494 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GoldJacketLuke Thank you! ☺️

  • @Malik_Hoff
    @Malik_Hoff 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    damn i haven't seen luke since his how not to give a fuck video inspired by elliott hulse. glad you're still at it

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha thanks for stopping by my channel again! I appreciate the comment.

  • @deedeledeet
    @deedeledeet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah I somehow found your channel in 2020 when I had my spiritual awakening, / ego confrontation, and that’s when I was curious about sexual energy and stuff watching your karezza videos… good video man

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awesome :) I appreciate the comment.

  • @adlad3199
    @adlad3199 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your videos make my day, Luke.

  • @NexusCapital
    @NexusCapital 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Saw a short from years ago that LAHWF uploaded today, clicked your channel and watched this. Weird synchronicity considering I was thinking about this today. God works in mysterious ways.

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very cool! :) God sure does.

  • @khadijah3519
    @khadijah3519 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely understanding what you’re about. Makes for a more stable personal space, all around!! I am alone most of the time. I notice it but I’m not lonely. I guess that’s my niche. Glad I met you, friend, stay safe☺️

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate the comment Khadijah. Likewise best wishes to you! :)

  • @XAntohax
    @XAntohax 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great advises Luke, as always..

  • @abcd123906
    @abcd123906 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s funny how I instantly understood the video on a very deep level just by reading the title

  • @JackAlderton
    @JackAlderton 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video mate, love the message here. Hope you're enjoying it over there!

  • @understone86
    @understone86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video and I'm very happy that guys like you still exist. Bright, kind guys with special skills, talents and average looks are my type. In the long run they stay to be more interesting and they tend to be better "father materials".

  • @shanerabideau5910
    @shanerabideau5910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found that dating in the US was super challenging, primarily due to the culture and expectations of western men and women. All of the 'steps' that you mention are needed to find the right match, but it's exhausting. One thing that has worked very well for me is letting go of all of the little details that I used to require in a partner. I've become way more open to a partner that is not like myself at all and it really helps. I've been living in Thailand for the past several years and have found the dating here to be exceptional. The women are simple, and feminine and just want to hang out, be loved, and enjoy the day-to-day. I'd have a very difficult time going back to the US and dating a western woman. The femininity has evaporated, which I love most. Thanks for sharing Luke!! Always inspiring my brother

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Shane! I appreciate your comment and hearing your thoughts! Awesome, glad you are very happy with your dating life in Thailand! Good thoughts about increasing openness. It's a great question what one wants in a partner. I'm still figuring out exactly what that is for myself. I think one aspect for me is some shared mental connection (a woman who enjoys thinking about spirituality for example). Thanks for sharing your perspective Shane!

  • @inkworthybooks
    @inkworthybooks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great convo! You are always enough... despite being niched or a rare antique Japanese couch. :)

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaa thanks Danielle! I appreciate you commenting! :)

  • @CageEcharte
    @CageEcharte 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said Luke 👍

  • @AbdulElah77
    @AbdulElah77 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I relate so much to that title lol

  • @McMilesE
    @McMilesE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it was your birthday once and I found out you're a Sagittarius. Boy are we EVER diferente

  • @waldek32
    @waldek32 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Client
    ....? Why u trying sell from first seconds.

  • @swk1400
    @swk1400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you still on nofap? I think you are on nofap for years. And i also curious that there is no health problems.

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep. Have you seen this video of mine about nofap and prostate health?: th-cam.com/video/2Pg0uqLDHWA/w-d-xo.html

  • @daytoday219
    @daytoday219 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🐐🐐🐐

    • @GoldJacketLuke
      @GoldJacketLuke  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate the comment bro

  • @kingfred3755
    @kingfred3755 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WAGMI

  • @Razear
    @Razear 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can you tell if someone is vegan? Easy, they'll tell you. ;)
    "All you need is to meet one person." But what if you're poly?