What helped me get over my bad crush was when the roles reversed and I was the one who someone else had a crush on. This guy started showing up everywhere, kept trying to stand too close, starring all the time, kept cutting into conversations so that he could force me to talk to him, get in my personal business, etc. and generally making me feel very uncomfortable, annoyed, irritated and stalked. To say this guy gave me the creeps was an understatement. The point is, it got me to thinking, what if the guy who I had a crush on felt the same way about me? I never stalked him but, i'm sure I've stared too long without realizing it. The thought of being a creepy/psycho/ stalker girl made me feel so embarrassed. I didn't want to be that kind of person. I realized that I don't really know the guy I was crushing on, so I'm not 'in love,' just infatuated with him and with my fantasies/dreams coming true. I thought, if he didn't exist/wasn't here, what would I have been doing? And so I got back to my daily routines, working on my goals and keeping myself busy (esp keeping in touch with friends and socializing). I also made a point to avoid running into him, and when I did see him, I treat him the same way I would anyone else. I would still day dream about him but I stopped myself and made myself focus on what I was doing at the time. Eventually I didn't need to try so hard, I was fine after that.
Good video!!! Right on too. I want to put this out there. I have found, from past relationships that the more someone rejected me the harder I chased them and the same thing when it was me who was just wanted a friends with benefits type deal that the more I rejected the harder they tried. But the behavior that really stands out is when my 1st wife and I broke up. She was a fine looking lady but she cheated and I forgave the first time, then she did it again and we ended up breaking up...I still chased her some, for awhile, but when I decided hey this shyt is over and I stopped being angry and started dating and concentrating on building my life, she took notice and for the next 10 years she tried all she could think of to get me back...I basically, unconsciously, had switched roles with her. Damn that felt good LOL...
wow... I'm going through this right now... there's never any closure in the situation for the one who loves because the person we love doesn't even care and the problem isn't even on their radar! Somehow it's like the more we love, the more unattractive we become. And the less we love, the more we don't care about a person, the more cold hearted we become, the more attractive we get! But now that I understand why it's hard to stop loving them.. how do I deal with it? What do we do? How DO I stop loving this person that doesn't want me?
I was deeply in love with someone for a whole year. I would do almost anything for him but he did not appreciate anyofbit. I was definitely experiencing this. I thought it was impossible to letvhim go "UNTIL" I began to date other guys. I tell you this new guy swept me offf my feet with his gentlemaness, suaveness, etc. where I had been rejected, and not wanted, I now was treated like a queen and guess what I dont love that guy anymore.
You are the man!! lol after one video I am hooked. Your advice is much different from anything else I've seen, watched or read. It's like a breath of fresh air, LITERALLY! lol and I can't thank you enough
Wow never even thought of it like that !in a short video you've figured out my ex for me thanks chazz the door on that case is now firmly shut:)thanks chazz!
askchazzellis in this video it show me my ex actrally love me.he be doing that same stuff....lol. ha it like a emotional roller-coaster with him. ....I understand stand now an i know how to deal with him when ever I see him .I found me a guy that no how to act. :)
Lolll i swear i love your impressions 😂😂😂😂 your so on point on everything whoever thumbs down your videos seriously needs a personal consultation real talk !
Wow you are amazing i just watched probably all your videos, i can relate to this, I've been loving someone who never loved me for the past YEARS! just because i was chasing answers as to why. but i am finally setting myself free and realizing i deserve waaaaay more waaaay more although i wasted time, he's taught me a lot about myself and what i felt i deserved! And now i gain clarity and knowledge so not to fall for the samething over and over again.
That explains why the ex keeps trying to contact me through others- even after we've been divorced for over 37 years. He even cyber stalked me to find out where I am now living. Ugh!
thanks man you really help me out a lot I'm going through some problems with my wife and I understand now why she doesn't get Angry Anymore she's not emotionally attached to me anymore I am the one that gets angry when I tried to get my point across and she doesn't want to listen if you told me a lot man so I know with what to do now thank you very much
Awesome video! Just what I was looking for today. Your scenarios are always relatable and hilarious. Off to your part two of this one :) Also, I'm sorry for not being able to donate. I want to, I really do, but since I''m somewhat not an adult yet, I don't have my own credit card to use. I hope you get what you need in order to do what you do though.
thank you so much for making your videos chaz,you got me through the roughest break up of my life during my first year of uni.I just binged watched everything you recorded and it actually provided me with more closure then some of my friends.Keep up the great work! xoxox ps why you so fine and refined at the same damn time? lol
Man I'm going through this with my wife right now. After eight yrs I realize that I'm her second choice. She has gotten down to doing the bare minimum. The warning signs were all over the wall for years. She is crazily my ideal person so I have been going above and beyond. She constantly works on herself and zero time for me. Now I have to focus on me. It overall sting the hell out of your ego but I would like for you to do a video on setting boundaries entering a relationship.
***** Well after research I have a lot of findings. Patterns. Actually, I'm going to start doing videos myself. For every bad relationship it starts with you. It's really logical but everyone has a tipping point or an awakening. These are stats and behaviors by many people for just drawing off my experiences. I'm not saying that I am going to re-invent the wheel. Something happened and my brain exploded........
I honestly don't know if she is cheating. Actually, I'd like to think that my findings are revolutionary. People have been paying me for the advice already. Complete strangers.
Actually it is better. It's just you have to recondition everything and everyone around you. Honestly we get accustomed to treating people a certain way. And it's not gender specific. You are going to have to tune in. I have one up already. Look under my name it's CEASAR BELL "Ladies Go Get Your Man."
***** You have to go watch the video...... "Somebody is gonna shine him up......" Actually he has to show dominance. Your reconditioning is temporary because if he does something that you don't like you can threaten him to go back to your old ways and he will more than likely comply. It's a scare tactic. You probably have already done this subconsciously. Am I correct? Not a shot at you but it's just how humans work. Which you actually have something golden in terms of you have somebody that wants you more than you want them. It's definitely something to be learned in all of this.
Where have you been all my life?? This would have been really useful for my first relationships in college. Heck i'm in a difficult one right now. Thanks!
I was in love with this guy for 4 months, and I was his bestfriend... his girlfriend was evil to him, she'd leave him for a guy in new York online then get back with him again when it didn't work out with the new York guy, she would insult him and everything...I'd help him through it. eventually we dated after the last time his gf left him for the new York guy... he said he loved me and that he would never go back to her. well, one day my friends found him hugging on his ex and being close to her etc... I told him if he couldn't inch his way away from his ex I'd break up with him. the next day he kissed the the bitch... I broke up with him, and it hurt me wayyy more than it hurt him. when she broke up with him he was a mess, when I did he was allright, he just told me he still loved his ex... he never loved me. he used me to make her jealous... I hate it that no matter how good and real you are to someone they can't do the same...
Tell him he's using you to make the ex come back to him. Tell him that he lied when he said he loved you, and the only reason you were with him was because he lied & you believed him. Tell him what he has with the ex is not a true love. Tell him that he is a piece of @#%#@ (4 letter words), and no matter where he go he won't find true love, because true love should sustain on its own, and does not need using sacrifice lamb. Tell him if he's not afraid of you, then he should be afraid of God, because what goes around comes around, you may not know what him , but God knows.
this video hit home....i just did something stupid i was on an emotional roller coaster and i went to talk to him and i made things worse... i wish i had seen this video an hour ago....
OMG, lol, I think I may believe in love at first sight online, lmao!!! Honey, you are the man!!!!! If you didn't hit the nail on the head with your answer, I don't know wtf the answer could be. Thank you! You are absolutely fleek and gorgeous and you have made my day. Peace--Dharke
I'm writing this out of anger so you know lol ... I was just told by my ex of a two year relationship she never loved me and she used me , she is a recovering addict and through our time I've always been there for her and her kids even after our break up I helped her when she got a dui and went into the psych ward for well you know. I was the only one there for her ! We tried being friends and she told me I'm her best friend and she trusts me and when she drank and came over three weeks ago she said she still loved me and kissed me ( now she's the type of person who tells the truth when she gets drunk ) she broke my heart again and she told me she wants to be friends still and didn't know how much I loved her , when she said that my heart dropped and I'm just out of it haven't ate or slept! I told her to basically get a life and find another friend ( that's saying it in a nice way) how do I go on !
Once you read enough articles and watch enough videos you start seeing a psychological pattern emerge. This is what I got from Treitan Mellory’s website, though you won’t have to spend hours if you follow his advice.
Chazz this goes against the no contact method. I'm hoping the no contact method works but at the same time I want to try and get over the person in case it doesn't. What should I do?
How do you get over someone who you cant be with when there was strong feelings on both side. I ask this as years ago I met someone who I felt for like no other and they felt the same back, but I was already in a relationship with a young child and couldn't leave to be with them. Also they lived very far away. I have never quite let go of the what if, we had to part ways. I haven't seen them in years but find my feelings for them haven't changed. I would love an answer to this Chazz as always love your advice.
I need help getting my sister out of my guest room. She was in a 6 year relationship and the last two her told her he, didnt want her anymore but stuck with her because she fell apart, emotionally. We live in the same area of town and the two of them love the same things and we have run into him with his new dates all the time almost daily. She has spent 6 months crying everyday all day, she almost 90% harrasses him calling and texting, I had to steal her cellphone one night it got so bad.
That means your sister has no sense of self-esteem. You should tell her she should self-sustain without a man. The problem is not the man, but she cannot fill herself without the man. Teach her to have her own confidence.
lol this is some good stuff. ive learned to just not trip off of girls anymore, stay laid bacj and just let it happen. if its not there, keep it movin. haha
I actually just caught my ex girlfriend yesterday with another guy I was with this one for 5 years she decided to check out from our relationship at the end of it about 2 months before she moved out I wanted to just be roommates literally I was living upstairs and she was living downstairs wasn't having sex with me nothing now I know why because yesterday I caught her with a guy she was driving him around in her car he'll pathetic this is a woman that 41 years old with 4 kids now I know it all makes sense so actually my ex has helped me because she's so stupid that she got caught
I deserve better than the hi-jacking that kind of indifference had on me. So I cut that shit off *shrugs lost my best friend, but at least I can respect who I really am and not be defined by some few choice emotional reactions. I never stopped being who they were in love with as that rollercoaster would have had it seem 🤦🏾♀️
Great video. My case is i have been in love with the same girl for about 2,5 years, and i always felt like she had something for me. But then a few days ago she came to my house and we made out, kissed and stuff and i fingered her and she said she loved me. BUT here is the problem. She still does not love me but i am so deep in love with her that i dont know what to do, and i know that she kinda likes another guy. This situation is just extremely hard since we finally made out. I thought it was one of the best feelings ever, but after 2 days i realized i were just catching even more feelings and i really regret i made out with her even tho i really liked it in the moment and the day after. It hurt me more than it did good, and tbh i just want to kill my self :((( i dont know wtf i am supposed to do.
thank you help me a lot 😏 every thing you side is what she had Did you right she Doesn't help me I be trying to look nice and Be how I'm not but know I Don't care anymore she had side in Beginning of the year and that she like me but know she Didn't because she had side I had touch her but which I DIDN'T SO she had took the teacher that I touch me thinking if I would of touch her why wouldn't she like it😕 She do be saying to her friends that her girlfriend I was so stupid I was under her control of her cuttness I stilled keep liking her even when she had lie over and over about the something he touched me he touched me know after that video am like😏cool I Don't care about anyone how treat me like that again I learned something today I will remember for the rest of my live thank you Bro 😏 O and I am one of your subscribers know an forever 😏
never thought about it like this and you are so right....trying to let go of someone right now....haven't done some of your examples but have felt this way....thanks now trying to find the solution to get him out my head and heart
My ex needs to see your videos so he can find out why I don't like him anymore. He keeps getting mad and yelling and I stay away because I hate angry men...the no contact rule is easy to do with him. All I have to do is tell him the truth about anything and he argues proving your fact and people that like to argue turn me OFF and. His lies his emotions his loud mouth are not music to my ears...I am a musician and so if you want to wife me you a have to look good and your speech has to be in harmony.
Thank you after Five years I am over my ex and he drops everything to be with me and I don't care and won't go over his house anymore and I want someone new now. And the thought of being with him is like returning to vomit now. Thank you with yo fine azz.
Chazz thanks for reminding me THAT men want me to act like I did when I was taking this picture. I was spending time and money on a man. And I was having SEX hoping my man would act right. I am still a music producer BUT I am not having sex anymore UNLESS GOD ALMIIGHT blesses me with a preacher ( and hopefully a Japanese preacher ):-):-):-)
Chazz this goes against the no contact method. I'm hoping the no contact method works but at the same time I want to try and get over the person in case it doesn't. What should I do?
the one who loves least controls everything.
whoa...the heartache is flabbergasting.
What helped me get over my bad crush was when the roles reversed and I was the one who someone else had a crush on. This guy started showing up everywhere, kept trying to stand too close, starring all the time, kept cutting into conversations so that he could force me to talk to him, get in my personal business, etc. and generally making me feel very uncomfortable, annoyed, irritated and stalked. To say this guy gave me the creeps was an understatement. The point is, it got me to thinking, what if the guy who I had a crush on felt the same way about me? I never stalked him but, i'm sure I've stared too long without realizing it. The thought of being a creepy/psycho/ stalker girl made me feel so embarrassed. I didn't want to be that kind of person. I realized that I don't really know the guy I was crushing on, so I'm not 'in love,' just infatuated with him and with my fantasies/dreams coming true. I thought, if he didn't exist/wasn't here, what would I have been doing? And so I got back to my daily routines, working on my goals and keeping myself busy (esp keeping in touch with friends and socializing). I also made a point to avoid running into him, and when I did see him, I treat him the same way I would anyone else. I would still day dream about him but I stopped myself and made myself focus on what I was doing at the time. Eventually I didn't need to try so hard, I was fine after that.
Good video!!! Right on too. I want to put this out there. I have found, from past relationships that the more someone rejected me the harder I chased them and the same thing when it was me who was just wanted a friends with benefits type deal that the more I rejected the harder they tried. But the behavior that really stands out is when my 1st wife and I broke up. She was a fine looking lady but she cheated and I forgave the first time, then she did it again and we ended up breaking up...I still chased her some, for awhile, but when I decided hey this shyt is over and I stopped being angry and started dating and concentrating on building my life, she took notice and for the next 10 years she tried all she could think of to get me back...I basically, unconsciously, had switched roles with her. Damn that felt good LOL...
+reelshooter hahahah seriously hhahaha
The best way to stop loving soneone who doesnt love you is to allow the right guy into your heart.
Hey everybody, part two is coming out today for those of you that want to know how to get over someone that doesn't want you.
right timing for me... thank you Chazz
+askchazzellis Watching them now. You'd think in middle age a person would be past this bullcrap.
wow... I'm going through this right now... there's never any closure in the situation for the one who loves because the person we love doesn't even care and the problem isn't even on their radar! Somehow it's like the more we love, the more unattractive we become. And the less we love, the more we don't care about a person, the more cold hearted we become, the more attractive we get! But now that I understand why it's hard to stop loving them.. how do I deal with it? What do we do? How DO I stop loving this person that doesn't want me?
I was deeply in love with someone for a whole year. I would do almost anything for him but he did not appreciate anyofbit. I was definitely experiencing this. I thought it was impossible to letvhim go "UNTIL" I began to date other guys. I tell you this new guy swept me offf my feet with his gentlemaness, suaveness, etc. where I had been rejected, and not wanted, I now was treated like a queen and guess what I dont love that guy anymore.
I Wish i find the my king too be soon. am also experiencing the unrequited love..it sucks
Helping people get their life together, one video at a time.
Agreed, but added...you want what you can't have. Remember that when you think you want them.
You are the man!! lol after one video I am hooked. Your advice is much different from anything else I've seen, watched or read. It's like a breath of fresh air, LITERALLY! lol and I can't thank you enough
I just gotta say, I totally totally LOVE the way you talk :D The content too but your expressiveness is so cool! :D
Man, you said it. You're so right! It feels so good to see that someone understands
Hahaha great video. feels good knowing that others have gone through the same thing
He is so hilarious.
Wow never even thought of it like that !in a short video you've figured out my ex for me thanks chazz the door on that case is now firmly shut:)thanks chazz!
Thank you, I'm glad that I could help.
askchazzellis in this video it show me my ex actrally love me.he be doing that same stuff....lol. ha it like a emotional roller-coaster with him. ....I understand stand now an i know how to deal with him when ever I see him .I found me a guy that no how to act. :)
Wow. Great stuff man. I've never had this explained like this to me before. But it makes perfect sense.
Lolll i swear i love your impressions 😂😂😂😂 your so on point on everything whoever thumbs down your videos seriously needs a personal consultation real talk !
Wow you are amazing i just watched probably all your videos, i can relate to this, I've been loving someone who never loved me for the past YEARS! just because i was chasing answers as to why. but i am finally setting myself free and realizing i deserve waaaaay more waaaay more although i wasted time, he's taught me a lot about myself and what i felt i deserved! And now i gain clarity and knowledge so not to fall for the samething over and over again.
That explains why the ex keeps trying to contact me through others- even after we've been divorced for over 37 years. He even cyber stalked me to find out where I am now living. Ugh!
thanks man you really help me out a lot I'm going through some problems with my wife and I understand now why she doesn't get Angry Anymore she's not emotionally attached to me anymore I am the one that gets angry when I tried to get my point across and she doesn't want to listen if you told me a lot man so I know with what to do now thank you very much
Awesome video! Just what I was looking for today. Your scenarios are always relatable and hilarious. Off to your part two of this one :) Also, I'm sorry for not being able to donate. I want to, I really do, but since I''m somewhat not an adult yet, I don't have my own credit card to use. I hope you get what you need in order to do what you do though.
thank you so much for making your videos chaz,you got me through the roughest break up of my life during my first year of uni.I just binged watched everything you recorded and it actually provided me with more closure then some of my friends.Keep up the great work! xoxox ps why you so fine and refined at the same damn time? lol
Man I'm going through this with my wife right now. After eight yrs I realize that I'm her second choice. She has gotten down to doing the bare minimum. The warning signs were all over the wall for years. She is crazily my ideal person so I have been going above and beyond. She constantly works on herself and zero time for me. Now I have to focus on me. It overall sting the hell out of your ego but I would like for you to do a video on setting boundaries entering a relationship.
***** Well after research I have a lot of findings. Patterns. Actually, I'm going to start doing videos myself. For every bad relationship it starts with you. It's really logical but everyone has a tipping point or an awakening. These are stats and behaviors by many people for just drawing off my experiences. I'm not saying that I am going to re-invent the wheel. Something happened and my brain exploded........
I honestly don't know if she is cheating. Actually, I'd like to think that my findings are revolutionary. People have been paying me for the advice already. Complete strangers.
I'm still married.
Actually it is better. It's just you have to recondition everything and everyone around you. Honestly we get accustomed to treating people a certain way. And it's not gender specific. You are going to have to tune in. I have one up already. Look under my name it's
CEASAR BELL "Ladies Go Get Your Man."
***** You have to go watch the video...... "Somebody is gonna shine him up......" Actually he has to show dominance. Your reconditioning is temporary because if he does something that you don't like you can threaten him to go back to your old ways and he will more than likely comply. It's a scare tactic. You probably have already done this subconsciously. Am I correct? Not a shot at you but it's just how humans work. Which you actually have something golden in terms of you have somebody that wants you more than you want them. It's definitely something to be learned in all of this.
This was spot on. Needed to hear this, thanks.
valuable valuable information great video man I really needed to hear this
Wow, that was great information and very entertaining. Thanks so much!
Good advice Chazz and I will pass the word Thank you.
I love how you explain things! 😍
Where have you been all my life?? This would have been really useful for my first relationships in college. Heck i'm in a difficult one right now. Thanks!
This is so true. I like your style man! :)
ok . but whats the sulotion .. this video is not COMPLETE ?
This is one of your best vids Chazz😂😂😂😂 i was on both of those car rides 😂😂😂
omg this is so true.. what a wakeup call. Subscribed.
I was in love with this guy for 4 months, and I was his bestfriend... his girlfriend was evil to him, she'd leave him for a guy in new York online then get back with him again when it didn't work out with the new York guy, she would insult him and everything...I'd help him through it. eventually we dated after the last time his gf left him for the new York guy...
he said he loved me and that he would never go back to her.
well, one day my friends found him hugging on his ex and being close to her etc...
I told him if he couldn't inch his way away from his ex I'd break up with him. the next day he kissed the the bitch...
I broke up with him, and it hurt me wayyy more than it hurt him. when she broke up with him he was a mess, when I did he was allright, he just told me he still loved his ex...
he never loved me.
he used me to make her jealous...
I hate it that no matter how good and real you are to someone they can't do the same...
Tell him he's using you to make the ex come back to him. Tell him that he lied when he said he loved you, and the only reason you were with him was because he lied & you believed him. Tell him what he has with the ex is not a true love. Tell him that he is a piece of @#%#@ (4 letter words), and no matter where he go he won't find true love, because true love should sustain on its own, and does not need using sacrifice lamb. Tell him if he's not afraid of you, then he should be afraid of God, because what goes around comes around, you may not know what him , but God knows.
+thiery572 thank you.
I had never ever thought of it in this way XD you give great advice
Chazz damn i wish u were my man awwww love these videos great advice
this video hit home....i just did something stupid i was on an emotional roller coaster and i went to talk to him and i made things worse... i wish i had seen this video an hour ago....
Omg!!!! Lmbo! On the phone rings you answer it and other person is like "Great" you found someone!!! U just keep it real *
LMAO.....I literally choked laughing at the facial expressions and the truth of it all.
OMG, lol, I think I may believe in love at first sight online, lmao!!! Honey, you are the man!!!!! If you didn't hit the nail on the head with your answer, I don't know wtf the answer could be. Thank you! You are absolutely fleek and gorgeous and you have made my day. Peace--Dharke
you are so right.i had 2 learn this for myself, not 2 long ago.
No u cant hate them because no matter what you tell your self you still like what u see
Best answer. Thank you
Lol! lololllll! The car scene... Chazz, you're the best!
Thanks lol
Truth to the guts.
ur da man, u earned a subscriber. tho the situation is sad :'(
You are HILARIOUS😂😂😂
Dang dude thanks I really needed that
I'm writing this out of anger so you know lol ... I was just told by my ex of a two year relationship she never loved me and she used me , she is a recovering addict and through our time I've always been there for her and her kids even after our break up I helped her when she got a dui and went into the psych ward for well you know. I was the only one there for her ! We tried being friends and she told me I'm her best friend and she trusts me and when she drank and came over three weeks ago she said she still loved me and kissed me ( now she's the type of person who tells the truth when she gets drunk ) she broke my heart again and she told me she wants to be friends still and didn't know how much I loved her , when she said that my heart dropped and I'm just out of it haven't ate or slept! I told her to basically get a life and find another friend ( that's saying it in a nice way) how do I go on !
Just WOW! (asI close my mouth in shock). That was EXACTLY what I've been doing. Thank you!
Your "other person" voices crack me up.
Once you read enough articles and watch enough videos you start seeing a psychological pattern emerge. This is what I got from Treitan Mellory’s website, though you won’t have to spend hours if you follow his advice.
Brilliant
Explained my ex 100%
Thank you.
I know i was like DAYUM. U MUST KNOW HIM PERSONALLY. (My Soon to be X). Lol
I love that answer and it is simple (but I still like him though) but this helps :-).
Nice video Chazz.. But How do you get over them..?
Soooo on point👌👌👌
Chazz this goes against the no contact method. I'm hoping the no contact method works but at the same time I want to try and get over the person in case it doesn't. What should I do?
Ok well what do you do if your in love with someone that is married and thay dnt won't to with that person thay marred and want to be with you
from 4.15 to 4.30 hilarious:))))))!!!
'I can't stand your ass *cries*' xD it was So funny!
How do you get over someone who you cant be with when there was strong feelings on both side. I ask this as years ago I met someone who I felt for like no other and they felt the same back, but I was already in a relationship with a young child and couldn't leave to be with them. Also they lived very far away. I have never quite let go of the what if, we had to part ways. I haven't seen them in years but find my feelings for them haven't changed. I would love an answer to this Chazz as always love your advice.
I need help getting my sister out of my guest room. She was in a 6 year relationship and the last two her told her he, didnt want her anymore but stuck with her because she fell apart, emotionally. We live in the same area of town and the two of them love the same things and we have run into him with his new dates all the time almost daily. She has spent 6 months crying everyday all day, she almost 90% harrasses him calling and texting, I had to steal her cellphone one night it got so bad.
That means your sister has no sense of self-esteem. You should tell her she should self-sustain without a man. The problem is not the man, but she cannot fill herself without the man. Teach her to have her own confidence.
How do I stop caring for someone w ho is living with me n don't love me???
How do you deal with this situation when you have a kid with him? Please help me.
lol this is some good stuff. ive learned to just not trip off of girls anymore, stay laid bacj and just let it happen. if its not there, keep it movin. haha
so i just walk 100% an be silent an not say 2 wods??
He's very cute!!
This is so true😂😂👌👌❤️❤️❤️
I know this all too well
Brilliant !
Wow, that was heavy!
This video was the shit !!! Keep going ;)
Thank you.
No
lol, omg, I really like this video 👌😂
Can you reverse it?????
Watch part two coming out today and you will find out what to do about it.
I actually just caught my ex girlfriend yesterday with another guy I was with this one for 5 years she decided to check out from our relationship at the end of it about 2 months before she moved out I wanted to just be roommates literally I was living upstairs and she was living downstairs wasn't having sex with me nothing now I know why because yesterday I caught her with a guy she was driving him around in her car he'll pathetic this is a woman that 41 years old with 4 kids now I know it all makes sense so actually my ex has helped me because she's so stupid that she got caught
But what's the solution??????
all so true. been on both sides. lol. my how I have grown.
LMAOOOO!!! great video
I deserve better than the hi-jacking that kind of indifference had on me. So I cut that shit off *shrugs lost my best friend, but at least I can respect who I really am and not be defined by some few choice emotional reactions. I never stopped being who they were in love with as that rollercoaster would have had it seem 🤦🏾♀️
Thanks you so much
Funny video. thanks
Great video.
My case is i have been in love with the same girl for about 2,5 years, and i always felt like she had something for me. But then a few days ago she came to my house and we made out, kissed and stuff and i fingered her and she said she loved me. BUT here is the problem. She still does not love me but i am so deep in love with her that i dont know what to do, and i know that she kinda likes another guy. This situation is just extremely hard since we finally made out. I thought it was one of the best feelings ever, but after 2 days i realized i were just catching even more feelings and i really regret i made out with her even tho i really liked it in the moment and the day after. It hurt me more than it did good, and tbh i just want to kill my self :((( i dont know wtf i am supposed to do.
That means you don't respect yourself as a man. You should set up boundaries that she cannnot cross, so she should know she cannot hurt you.
thanks
This video confused me!
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Thank you.
Hilarious and true!!?
thank you help me a lot 😏 every thing you side is what she had Did you right she Doesn't help me I be trying to look nice and Be how I'm not but know I Don't care anymore she had side in Beginning of the year and that she like me but know she Didn't because she had side I had touch her but which I DIDN'T SO she had took the teacher that I touch me thinking if I would of touch her why wouldn't she like it😕 She do be saying to her friends that her girlfriend I was so stupid I was under her control of her cuttness I stilled keep liking her even when she had lie over and over about the something he touched me he touched me know after that video am like😏cool I Don't care about anyone how treat me like that again I learned something today I will remember for the rest of my live thank you Bro 😏 O and I am one of your subscribers know an forever 😏
never thought about it like this and you are so right....trying to let go of someone right now....haven't done some of your examples but have felt this way....thanks now trying to find the solution to get him out my head and heart
You should watch part 2 today, it will help you out.
Lol
My ex needs to see your videos so he can find out why I don't like him anymore. He keeps getting mad and yelling and I stay away because I hate angry men...the no contact rule is easy to do with him. All I have to do is tell him the truth about anything and he argues proving your fact and people that like to argue turn me OFF and. His lies his emotions his loud mouth are not music to my ears...I am a musician and so if you want to wife me you a have to look good and your speech has to be in harmony.
Thank you after Five years I am over my ex and he drops everything to be with me and I don't care and won't go over his house anymore and I want someone new now. And the thought of being with him is like returning to vomit now. Thank you with yo fine azz.
Chazz thanks for reminding me THAT men want me to act like I did when I was taking this picture. I was spending time and money on a man. And I was having SEX hoping my man would act right. I am still a music producer BUT I am not having sex anymore UNLESS GOD ALMIIGHT blesses me with a preacher ( and hopefully a Japanese preacher ):-):-):-)
Chazz this goes against the no contact method. I'm hoping the no contact method works but at the same time I want to try and get over the person in case it doesn't. What should I do?