On a serious tip - I actually had a relationship where my partner tried to sabotage my success and constantly tried to discouraged me from going forward with my plans...so um yeah - no longer with that person!
Sadly I see so many of these traits in myself and this is a wakeup call to change for the better in order to attract love from self as well as from others and also to attract good people into my life. Thank you Chazz for this tough but much needed lesson. Moving on to change my approach to life coz this insecurity shit just ain't right!
Chazz, you just opened my third eye to some serious character flaws in someone from my past. It's like ALLLLLLL the light bulbs came on. Thank you so much for this video!
I'm a little insecure but I don't be showing off my body on social media and I don't compete with other women . I don't start a fight about everything , I don't challenge people in physical confrontation, I don't say I'm independent all the time , I don't try to control everyone, I don't focus on material things, I don't get jealous every time my man talks to another girl, I don't seek attention from everyone , and I don't try to sabotage my partners success. I'm a very negative person and I'm trying to be positive but this world is bad .
My female roommate to a "T". She is literally all of these. When I talk to her she always turns it to an argument and when I call her out on starting an argument she tries to turn it around and say I started it.
Daniel Sheppard If she's so defensive then it means that she has bullied before and she's building a wall by attacking everything. go with another approach - turn it into a humorous situation and she might soften up a bit. I hope it works out for you.
we are all not perfect. when we are corrected, we analyse ourselves and try to improve ourselves. make some changes in our lives. trying to be a better person everyday. its the willingness to change and be grown or better that makes life experiences, encounters enjoyable.
Great video! Very true and hilarious. I've thought of one that is more passive. Insecure women never pay compliments to other women or roll their eyes when someone else does! LOL
What if you have insecurities? How do you overcome them? I was told for many years when I was very young that I'm not normal and weird, and I believed that. It made me feel very insecure about my personality. It has sabotaged every relationship I've ever had, and I'd like to overcome it so I can find the right man to marry.
Natalie Johnson everyone has some sort of insecurity!!! something about themselves they'd change but when its ruining your relationships with people, coworkers, used to bring others down, bring yourself down its time to seek psychological help
Natalie Johnson insecurities means you aren't secure within your inner self about something. To cultivate security that can only happen inside you by you. You have to say either I'm not weird I am normal and create a list why. Or I am weird and create a positive list of why that's ok. Example me myself was told all my life I was weird and odd, and guess what...I am.. I am black girl who listens to rock music and classical music. I am weird compared to the average black girl who listens to rap and rnb. (I am not saying that is all they listen to just saying based on average. ) I like the music I like and that can never be wrong. Find the people who are like you and you will never feel weird or strange. You think Michael Jackson, Beyonce, Barack, Einstein were normal or average. Nope. At the end of the day we wear different shoes, makeup, hairstyles, eat different foods, watch different movies because we as humans love choices. Only when it comes to race and personalities do people all of sudden want 1 option.
Shari Craig Yep, and often that hurt starts as abused and otherwise ignored/neglected children. :( So many people who have no business having children have 5+. It's sad.
Hey Chazz, I think another main sign of insecurity, is denial and deflecting.. secure people know who they are and don't have to put their issues off on other people or deny that they are even that way..
😂😂 ain't nobody die though!!! New subscriber! I usually really don't like watching videos about men talking how women should improve to get a man but you genuinely want to help, it's refreshing!
Most of those women on the Love and Hip Hop franchise, are very insecure. They try to control the friends they have and the people they are dating and its really sad.
All your messages are great, but this one really made my day :) It's sad though that the insecure list for men and women describe almost everyone in the hood.
This list is so good. I believe it applies to many, regardless of gender, race, age, what have you, I mean obviously some of the specific scenarios you portrayed for us (lol) apply more to certain situations --- but on the whole these behaviours are universal, thank you for enlightening us Chazz ;)
Yes , so discussing , I'm vomiting LoL I know someone like that - he is right !!! The worst people to be around !!!!!!! They will talk shit about you - you'll start Feeling miserable ! Run baby run from those ! :D
I gratefully just walked out of such a relationship... With the wind blowing through my hair! They are toxic and will oftentimes make you doubt your own sanity. If I can give you anything let me give you something: AVOID SUCH PEOPLE AND RUIN YOUR HAPPINESS!
Ha ha the excerpts of the interpretations, flawless. We need each other. When you feel the need to say that you do not need others all the time it reflects insecurity. Very true reminds me of that quote about "not taking my kindness for weakness..". If you are not weak, let you actions reflect that you do not need to remind people. If you are not insecure you do not need to put others down. Meditate, clear your mind, be better everyday. -Sunshine :)
That independent portion of the video: Shaking my head! I hear women do this all the time. However, this is my first time hearing it explained the way you have. Thank you again Chazz @AskChazzEllis for such a great insightful video. :-)
very good, indeed. not sure about #5 though.. "people who always feel the need to remind others that they are independant". some people who are highly intelligent, for example, can't stand the small talk and other trivial stuff. so, they avoid people. and they have to remind others why they prefer to spend time by themselves is because others push the idea on them that they SHOULD have relationships, friends etc. this is not always the case, but makes me wonder if that is a sure bet 'sign' of insecurity.
Very interesting!!! Most people have experience at least one of these signs. One sign that is not on this list is the need to constantly alter one's physical appearance (aka plastic surgery or excessive makeup) to the point they don't look like themselves.
My ex said she is better off being single but then comes around saying she needs me in her life. She's been playing the mind games but cared about me so much
Do isecure people looks for other insecure people to love? Or they prefer the secure ones? Cause I have the sense that a secure one would not like to date a insecure person.
Yes. They tend to. This is because another insecure person wont intimidate them and make them feel insecure. They tend to dwell together. Misery loves company. Thats why most insecure women go after low self-esteem men. They are easy to control. Just like material things.
OMG! this sounds Exactly Like my mom. I thought she was Just Narrastic. I don't know maybe it All bleeds together And she very Vain She talks About everyone behind their backs So I got to thinking Iam Her own Daughter so she probably runs me down to people too. And she is extremely Jealous. I just Tolerate her because she's my mom. but At the same time does that mean I should Take her Emotional And Mental a Abuse?
This is crazy bcus this is my mom’s personality and now I see how I mimicked her behaviors and turned insecure just by doing the things she used to do. Thank god for growth and a new mindset I’m no longer this way but this brings back memories of myself . I’m still working on myself day by day but I find myself doing some of these things
you describing my ex husband who although known in the old neighborhood as the "neighborhood star preacher" but didn't teach his wife anything cause he knew he'd have no chance to stay with me if he didn't treat me well!LOL HE DIDN'T TEACH ME ANYTHING AND JUST HAD ME AS A TROPHY....I HATED IT BUT MY NEW HUSBAND TEACHES AND TELLS ME A LOT BECAUSE HE SAID WE SHOULD BOTH BE SUCCESSFUL NOT JUST HIM OR ME.....HE STANDS BEHIND MY DREAMS AND I STAND BEHIND HIS AND NO HATING WHEN HE WINS I WIN...WHEN I WIN HE WINS 💪☝GOD GAVE THIS ONE !!!!@OHHHHH MAN YOU FORGOT ONE TRAIT I KNOW YOU COVERED IT BUT I WILL SAY IN MORE DETAIL......ANOTHER TRAIT OF AN INSECURE WOWAN IS THIS ACT. .....SEE IT ALL THE TIME.....I'M MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS WALKING BY BUSTED UP ON LAUNDRY DAY NOT MATCHING OR EVEN IF I AM ....A CHICK CAN BE WITH HER DUDE AND SEE ME AND WILL START TREATING HIM LIKE CRAP SAYING "YOU WANT HER GO BE WITH HER! !! AND SAID EXCUSE ME MISS MY HUSBAND WANT YOU....HE NOT EVEN NOTICING ME.....SHE IS AND WILL HOLD HIS HAND OR OF SHE SEE ME AND MY HUSBAND TOGETHER PDA AND ALL AND WILL SAY TO HER DUDE WHY YOU DON'T HOLD MY HAND OR HUG ME LIKE THAT ?I MEAN I LITTRALLY DODGE THESE LITTLE BITCHES JUST TO KEEP THE PEACE. ....REALLY 🙌👐🙌 REAL CHICKS NEVER HAVE TO SAY THEY REAL LIKE MY HUSBAND TELLS ME WHEN GREATNESS SHOW UP,MEDIOCRITY EXPOSES ITSELF.....IT'S TRUE IT'S REALLY TRUE
It's the same for men.the guy I was dating,, timing me, telling me what to and how to say it. Then putting down my goals. Then constantly want to be in competition with me or laugh at me , like oh miss perfect skin has a blemish. Or jealous of me asking the male gas station attendant for 93 Lol.
On a serious tip - I actually had a relationship where my partner tried to sabotage my success and constantly tried to discouraged me from going forward with my plans...so um yeah - no longer with that person!
Even though so many of these characteristics were sad, you spoke with such compassion and no judgement. This was very informative.
The women that can not give another woman a compliment.
I've been around women like that! I turn and run! Bossy, trash talking, always negative.... No thanks!
Thank you for sharing! :-)
Sadly I see so many of these traits in myself and this is a wakeup call to change for the better in order to attract love from self as well as from others and also to attract good people into my life. Thank you Chazz for this tough but much needed lesson. Moving on to change my approach to life coz this insecurity shit just ain't right!
at least you acknowledge it! good for you! :)
I think almost all females are insecure and they don't want to admit it. That's including me
He's got the cutest smile I have ever seen on a man
Chazz, you just opened my third eye to some serious character flaws in someone from my past. It's like ALLLLLLL the light bulbs came on. Thank you so much for this video!
I'm a little insecure but I don't be showing off my body on social media and I don't compete with other women . I don't start a fight about everything , I don't challenge people in physical confrontation, I don't say I'm independent all the time , I don't try to control everyone, I don't focus on material things, I don't get jealous every time my man talks to another girl, I don't seek attention from everyone , and I don't try to sabotage my partners success. I'm a very negative person and I'm trying to be positive but this world is bad .
That sounds like the Atlanta house wives lol
David Peace they are extremely insecure i can watch reality tv its disgusting
All of the HW shows.
Or all
Dang !!!!! You can't make nobody love you or see you so... ummmmm love yo selffff !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoyed it.
So you dont try to be nice to others and see ??? Self centered-ness is the way to go? ok
woah, that's not even what she said lol
She said to 1st love yourself without other's people reactions good and bad, if you don't then Nobody else will neither.
My female roommate to a "T". She is literally all of these. When I talk to her she always turns it to an argument and when I call her out on starting an argument she tries to turn it around and say I started it.
Daniel Sheppard If she's so defensive then it means that she has bullied before and she's building a wall by attacking everything. go with another approach - turn it into a humorous situation and she might soften up a bit. I hope it works out for you.
That's narcissistic
Run
we are all not perfect. when we are corrected, we analyse ourselves and try to improve ourselves. make some changes in our lives. trying to be a better person everyday. its the willingness to change and be grown or better that makes life experiences, encounters enjoyable.
I love how you cover these questions so thoroughly. You cover every aspect of these topics. I like how you give examples.
Great video! Very true and hilarious. I've thought of one that is more passive. Insecure women never pay compliments to other women or roll their eyes when someone else does! LOL
Yes, that is so true. Or they got to find the flaw...pitiful.
Yep
Spot on! All the things I experienced with my ex pathological narcissistic male friend. Stone crazy! Emotionally arrested! Exhausting!
Everybody was alive when she left, didn't nobody die tho. Hilarious!!!
cuddles seven ikr! That's so funny!
Why do women "snatch the air" when they talk? I don't understand it.
They are snatching the other persons weave, it's "sassy"
hellobuffet is that it? oh ok lol😁😁😁
😂😂😂
Im 4ever snatchin the air 😂😂😂😂
LOL!!!!
U described my mother, She's always rejecting people, she's all 10. I try to change her way of thinking but am losing the fight. I love ur videos.
Chaz you are hysterical !!! But you are right! Thats how they are lololol
Thanks, I appreciate the feedback.
Insecure people usually are too insecure to even talk to someone.
That a all other level of insecure lol
They are harmless
Very good video and i definitely know of women like that and some men that these sign also applies too👌
RR aye Clart Lmao the title says women. Stop trying to get at men bitch
I like how Wmen change and say Men all the time It said Wmen tf
deflect happens alot on social media; insecurities, is such a broad range of jealousy, and control.
Oh boy,
I need some New Friends!
U just nailed my whole crew
I knew something was wrong with them🤔🤔
Chaz...I just love you. You are so funny and make so much sense...I feel so uplifted after watching your videos.Thank you! :)
U had me screaming laughing..... New Subbie😂😂😂
Actually had a boyfriend that honestly did 5 of these things lol. He was very emotional now that I look back on it.
is that really your last name....no offense
Lol men act this way also lol
Rod Williams so true 😂😂😂
@Cook j facts
"she didn't put ice in my hi-c!"....I can't 😂
Those aren't only insecure women...those are deranged women...
🤣
You're quite right
Loooool loving the impressions, keep up the good job!
Thank you Chazz!I needed this to work on myself.
What if you have insecurities? How do you overcome them? I was told for many years when I was very young that I'm not normal and weird, and I believed that. It made me feel very insecure about my personality. It has sabotaged every relationship I've ever had, and I'd like to overcome it so I can find the right man to marry.
That's me too, I was physical abuse, and mental abuse, and rejection of my father towards to me..
Natalie Johnson everyone has some sort of insecurity!!! something about themselves they'd change but when its ruining your relationships with people, coworkers, used to bring others down, bring yourself down its time to seek psychological help
Natalie Johnson insecurities means you aren't secure within your inner self about something. To cultivate security that can only happen inside you by you. You have to say either I'm not weird I am normal and create a list why. Or I am weird and create a positive list of why that's ok. Example me myself was told all my life I was weird and odd, and guess what...I am.. I am black girl who listens to rock music and classical music. I am weird compared to the average black girl who listens to rap and rnb. (I am not saying that is all they listen to just saying based on average. ) I like the music I like and that can never be wrong. Find the people who are like you and you will never feel weird or strange. You think Michael Jackson, Beyonce, Barack, Einstein were normal or average. Nope. At the end of the day we wear different shoes, makeup, hairstyles, eat different foods, watch different movies because we as humans love choices. Only when it comes to race and personalities do people all of sudden want 1 option.
lol beyonce didn't kill it, everyone was alive lololololol...hahahahaha...too funny omg...I met people like this...I just walk away lol
😂😂😂😂
😂😭
Didn't nobody die though😂
Must of these are definitely based a person being hurt on some level. Good points.
Shari Craig based on my experience getting hurt generally results in insecurity until some recovery takes place, i know thats the way it works for me
wgme86 we should never knock a person that has been hurt. we've all been there.
Shari Craig Yep, and often that hurt starts as abused and otherwise ignored/neglected children. :( So many people who have no business having children have 5+. It's sad.
No , it's not a good person, it's narcissistic to talk negative about other people !
Shari Craig
OMG!! LMAO!! you are hilarious I love it!!
SUZANNE WEISS Thank you
Lol u r too much but true.thats why i prefer male friends . Drama queens check at the door.
" Bring the burger bitch..." HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!! :D This is so funny. I literally know someone just like this.
Me too !:D . Damn I would love to throw this in
To her face ! Bitch needs to be stopped by the train ! ;)
You make my day better...you are hilarious with the impersonations! I actually laugh out loud!
The hand movements/gesture, I can't!!!! Lmao 😂
yeah some can take this to the extreme
LOL! I don't need nobody, I came into this world by myself! Great Video!
Hey Chazz, I think another main sign of insecurity, is denial and deflecting.. secure people know who they are and don't have to put their issues off on other people or deny that they are even that way..
One of the insecure traits is deflection and avoiding accountability. Alot of women in the comments saying "men do it to".
😂😂 ain't nobody die though!!! New subscriber! I usually really don't like watching videos about men talking how women should improve to get a man but you genuinely want to help, it's refreshing!
insecure is kinda like not being humble.
I ain't laugh so damn much 😂😭
Omg I was on the floor!!😆🤣🤣
Most of those women on the Love and Hip Hop franchise, are very insecure. They try to control the friends they have and the people they are dating and its really sad.
All your messages are great, but this one really made my day :) It's sad though that the insecure list for men and women describe almost everyone in the hood.
If my girl accused me cheating all the time I’m break up with her I’m gone
I will tell you what he want in his cheeseburger!! Omg😂😂😂😂😂
"bring da burger bitch"😂
ctfu😉😂😂
😂😭 my cray cray cuzzin
Ty Lioness Im dead over here⚰⚰😭😭😂
Madea
Great list, this helps with women examining friends and female acquaintances too.
This list is so good. I believe it applies to many, regardless of gender, race, age, what have you, I mean obviously some of the specific scenarios you portrayed for us (lol) apply more to certain situations --- but on the whole these behaviours are universal, thank you for enlightening us Chazz ;)
listen, you had me dying of laughter with the gesticulating. LOL!
"Fight everybody til she gets knocked out by the bus driver."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You described a lot of chicks in the ghetto
MR. UnderDogg He described a lot of women period.......Kim K. and Beyonce included.
Yes , so discussing , I'm vomiting LoL
I know someone like that - he is right !!!
The worst people to be around !!!!!!!
They will talk shit about you - you'll start
Feeling miserable ! Run baby run from those !
:D
Like most black men!
Chazz thanks for keeping it real!! Some times people need to hear the truth to better them self ... good looking out!!!
Oh my gosh the Beyonce dying comment was gold! Chazz you are so entertaining & helpful- thank you!
lol you are describing my older sister! She acts just like that!
I gratefully just walked out of such a relationship... With the wind blowing through my hair! They are toxic and will oftentimes make you doubt your own sanity. If I can give you anything let me give you something: AVOID SUCH PEOPLE AND RUIN YOUR HAPPINESS!
Ha ha the excerpts of the interpretations, flawless. We need each other. When you feel the need to say that you do not need others all the time it reflects insecurity. Very true reminds me of that quote about "not taking my kindness for weakness..". If you are not weak, let you actions reflect that you do not need to remind people. If you are not insecure you do not need to put others down. Meditate, clear your mind, be better everyday. -Sunshine :)
i love your "woman" impressions!! "bring the burger bitch!" - You hit a lot of good points! i enjoy this. thanks chazz
Lmfao!!! "Bring the burger bitch!" Omg u have me weak.
You are a professor of the mind. I appreciate your honest approach.
"YOU DONT GOT NO NEED TALKING TO MY MAN!" 😂😂😂
You are ALWAYS on Point and I loved it !:)...p.s. that woman that got upper cut by the bus driver video was to Hilarious lol
Lol, thanks
Mr Chazz. You make me bust a gut. I would love to read your book. Get to writing it please and thank you
i recently have to put one out my house for being insecure.she traveled all the way from AZ with no money and thought she was go control shit
Knowledge Copes omg really
yep!i can let you hear a conversation we had on the phone.she said in order for us to work she have to take control.i had to put her out
DIDNT NOBODY DIE THO! DIDNT. NOBODY.DIE.
Milaysia Davis 😂😂
Seems like Norbit and Respusha.
Yes! How u doin?!? 😂😂😂
That independent portion of the video: Shaking my head! I hear women do this all the time. However, this is my first time hearing it explained the way you have. Thank you again Chazz @AskChazzEllis for such a great insightful video. :-)
Wow, you have such an amazing insight on everything! Love your examples, like "get hit by a bus driver" lol
I know someone just like and that's why we ain't friends today.
I like that you explain the thought process as well as how they sabotage themselves.
very good, indeed. not sure about #5 though.. "people who always feel the need to remind others that they are independant". some people who are highly intelligent, for example, can't stand the small talk and other trivial stuff. so, they avoid people. and they have to remind others why they prefer to spend time by themselves is because others push the idea on them that they SHOULD have relationships, friends etc. this is not always the case, but makes me wonder if that is a sure bet 'sign' of insecurity.
😂😂😂😂 the cheeseburger 🍔 no pickles, no mayo lol you a mess smh.
"bring the burger b*tch" LoL!!!!
Chik Pea 😂😂😂😂😂😂
it starts @ 9:10 I made sure to time it so I can show my friends that is hilarious
Very interesting!!! Most people have experience at least one of these signs. One sign that is not on this list is the need to constantly alter one's physical appearance (aka plastic surgery or excessive makeup) to the point they don't look like themselves.
😂😂😂 the hand moves..
LMAOOOOO...especially no. 3...You nailed it all!
lmao "oooh let me show my breaseses" 😁😁😁😁😁
even though its funny, your signs are on point
My ex said she is better off being single but then comes around saying she needs me in her life. She's been playing the mind games but cared about me so much
Do isecure people looks for other insecure people to love? Or they prefer the secure ones? Cause I have the sense that a secure one would not like to date a insecure person.
Yes. They tend to. This is because another insecure person wont intimidate them and make them feel insecure. They tend to dwell together. Misery loves company. Thats why most insecure women go after low self-esteem men. They are easy to control. Just like material things.
OMG! this sounds Exactly Like my mom. I thought she was Just Narrastic. I don't know maybe it All bleeds together And she very Vain She talks About everyone behind their backs So I got to thinking Iam Her own Daughter so she probably runs me down to people too. And she is extremely Jealous. I just Tolerate her because she's my mom. but At the same time does that mean I should Take her Emotional And Mental a Abuse?
insecure women push guys away
Steve T true
Me aaf
S. T. Truuuuu
So tru I couldn't do it anymore
I was once talking to this chick pretty chick but it's too much I wish her the best but couldn't do it anymore
This is crazy bcus this is my mom’s personality and now I see how I mimicked her behaviors and turned insecure just by doing the things she used to do. Thank god for growth and a new mindset I’m no longer this way but this brings back memories of myself . I’m still working on myself day by day but I find myself doing some of these things
No ice in my Hi C !!!!lol!
"Bip Boop Period!!!" 😂😂😂 I'm dead
Great video brother. You are definitely on point. Keep up the great work.
I am literally crying at my desk !!! You are too funny !!!!
So now we know they're insecure... what should we do about it?
Very good and educational video. Thanx. 😊
"bring the burger, bitch" LMAO
lol ha ha.....and my fries better be hot
This video helped me learn a lot about my surroundings and to others, your advice really helped me going through things.
you describing my ex husband who although known in the old neighborhood as the "neighborhood star preacher" but didn't teach his wife anything cause he knew he'd have no chance to stay with me if he didn't treat me well!LOL HE DIDN'T TEACH ME ANYTHING AND JUST HAD ME AS A TROPHY....I HATED IT BUT MY NEW HUSBAND TEACHES AND TELLS ME A LOT BECAUSE HE SAID WE SHOULD BOTH BE SUCCESSFUL NOT JUST HIM OR ME.....HE STANDS BEHIND MY DREAMS AND I STAND BEHIND HIS AND NO HATING WHEN HE WINS I WIN...WHEN I WIN HE WINS 💪☝GOD GAVE THIS ONE !!!!@OHHHHH MAN YOU FORGOT ONE TRAIT I KNOW YOU COVERED IT BUT I WILL SAY IN MORE DETAIL......ANOTHER TRAIT OF AN INSECURE WOWAN IS THIS ACT. .....SEE IT ALL THE TIME.....I'M MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS WALKING BY BUSTED UP ON LAUNDRY DAY NOT MATCHING OR EVEN IF I AM ....A CHICK CAN BE WITH HER DUDE AND SEE ME AND WILL START TREATING HIM LIKE CRAP SAYING "YOU WANT HER GO BE WITH HER! !! AND SAID EXCUSE ME MISS MY HUSBAND WANT YOU....HE NOT EVEN NOTICING ME.....SHE IS AND WILL HOLD HIS HAND OR OF SHE SEE ME AND MY HUSBAND TOGETHER PDA AND ALL AND WILL SAY TO HER DUDE WHY YOU DON'T HOLD MY HAND OR HUG ME LIKE THAT ?I MEAN I LITTRALLY DODGE THESE LITTLE BITCHES JUST TO KEEP THE PEACE. ....REALLY 🙌👐🙌 REAL CHICKS NEVER HAVE TO SAY THEY REAL LIKE MY HUSBAND TELLS ME WHEN GREATNESS SHOW UP,MEDIOCRITY EXPOSES ITSELF.....IT'S TRUE IT'S REALLY TRUE
You are SO ANIMATED CHAZZZ!LOL Why are you so crazy!Hahaha good points tho!
This is hilarious and so sad at the same time. Thank you for video!
he said in the beginning of the video "i think theres 10 on here''? i laughed after he said that and then he said shutup... perfect timing LOL
I "HAD" a friend with bad qualities like this!
He had me dying laughing every time he changed his voice to the insecure woman
It's the same for men.the guy I was dating,, timing me, telling me what to and how to say it. Then putting down my goals. Then constantly want to be in competition with me or laugh at me , like oh miss perfect skin has a blemish. Or jealous of me asking the male gas station attendant for 93
Lol.