That might actually work in the person's favor because people who don't show up for court cases like this one may end up being hunted by bounty hunters something that can potentially ruin someone's reputation forever
Judge: I cannot tell you how to get what you want since I am presiding over your case, so sit in the back and I will legally NOT tell you how to do it yourself Her honor is a baller.
Ex admits to cohabitation with boyfriend: “And that was a HUGE mistake.” Would have been an even worse mistake if she’d realized the implications of the judge’s question and said “No.” OP could then turn around and provide some proof of the cohabitation, and then the ex would not only have no alimony but also be facing perjury or contempt of court charges.
OP = Original Poster. It’s a shorthand way of saying “the person who posted the original topic (or story) that we are now discussing.” It’s an older term that hails from the heyday of message boards and text forums.
That first story ... wow. The crazy thing about this is that it wasn't even planned in just fell into place. And all because the lady is involved with a Chad who didn't have a pot to pee in and she was too lazy to get the restraining order court case pushed back until after the divorce was finalized. (She couldn't testify in court for fear of perjury and she was smart enough to know this.) From the sounds of things the only thing of value in the marriage was the single vehicle. And the ex-wife was desperate to acquire it as Chad didn't have vehicle either.
Story 1: As a fellow Veteran, I can definitely reiterate to not mess with them. 1) We have (most likely) been through some crazy things in our time, and have no desire to play stupid little head games. 2)We have spent years training to stay calm in difficult situations. 3) If you are stupid enough to push us, we only get more determined to win. To my Veteran Brother, I'm so glad it came out right for you in the end.
This went through my head when it said the lawyer won multiple cases against the school board. Lawyer: How many times do I have to teach you this lesson old man.
This specifically was handle in incorrect language. But how would you react if you were dating a girl. Found out she is in the process of divorce. Yes divorces can take a long time, drag on for years. Then the ex or soon to be shows up at your property and takes the car. Noticed in the post he didn't call and complain about the car. He was upset that he showed up states away on his property. What he should have stated is that I feel like you showing up is a threat. I feel like if you showed up again you would use lethal force and I will treat it as such. Do not tresspase on my property again. Then he would be within legal grounds. Nor would OP have any justification. It's not a threat. It's stating the implied intent you would have if you did show up again. I get why the OP was upset in the divorce, but he had a mode of transportation from his company and she didn't. If the initial filings. This could be pointed out and the vehicle could have been given to her. Or he could have said for now you can have the car originally but because of the shenanigans he went back on his word. Do you think the OP is going to put that in his post? Legally both have rights to the vehicle during the divorce proceedings. If he threw her out of the house. Then she takes off with the vehicle. You should expect that. Once divorce is initiate. All shared assets are supposed to be frozen. Whoever is in possession of what is not suppose to alter anything in such time it's over. Since he hadn't gone through mediation yet that is how he was able to get all this done. Remember he filed the divorce not her. So I'm sure their is a back story to that.
@@egondro9157 OP said that he had just purchased the car, and that the wife had gotten a false restraining order just to keep him away from it. The fact that the ex was never able to dispute the car afterwards just proves that OP was well within his rights. Also, the update shows how much of a liar she was. And yes, it WAS a threat. The boyfriend clearly said "ANYWHERE" and "COUNT YOURSELF DEAD." If that doesn't constitute a death threat, I don't know what does.
@@egondro9157 considering that the wife had a boyfriend she moved in with during divorce proceedings, cheating is an extremely likely reason why OP filed.
I don't understand how you can ask for alimony during a divorce proceedings when you've been living with another partner for the past 6 months and you are also pregnant with that guy's child. The level of entitlement is just unbelievable.
Almost reminds me how my ex wife tried to get me 80k in debt after she lost our house in foreclosure after I signed it over to her now she is in 80k in debt
I can top that one. My now ex wanted to be awarded with half of everything that my mother owned. yes, his lawyer said it with a straight face. my lawyer asked both him and his lawyer to tell us when he had married my mother. My ex also wanted half of the value of the house we lived in (house paid by me). In the end, he got nothing. but he did apply for disability and included the kids as living with him. Amazingly enough he got free healthcare for himself and the kids for at least a year and a half, and Lord only knows what else. I know this because I had a state investigator who came to my house and talked to me. No clue how this whole thing ended, but I do remember the gentleman who was over telling me, he made my ex drive to some federal building on what turned out was a holiday (if I recall correct it was a 1 and 1/2 hour drive each way). Him, a friend who was over and I had a good chuckle out of that one.
The last story is so infuriating how they tried to find some way to get rid of her without taking the heat on what they did. Good to hear they got what they deserved.
Don’t mess around when dIsability laws can come into play. It won’t end well when you’ve already acknowledged and put in place plans for their disability.
Sadly there are a lot of adults in powerful school positions who think they can do whatever they like to the kids, especially those with disabilities, because in their minds their job isn't to provide kids with quality education, but to make money.
So it sounds like in that case, you CAN sue to have a person or persons fired/removed from their jobs as part of a lawsuit, not just monetary/compensatory damages and physical property.
The first story was so satisfying. Done so perfectly and the perfect revenge. I'm glad you came out on top OP, you deserve it. Thank you for your service!
1st story: In regards to how OP turned the tables on his ex. In the words of Nathan Explosion from Dethlock," Dude, that's brutal." 3rd story: Lawyer who himself is tired of this school board's antics and sees OP's situation as the means to finally get them off their asses: School board must have been pulling this bs for some time if even a lawyer whose dealt with them in the past is getting fed up.
story 3: that school clearly wasn't doing it's job, as OP stated they had been in legal trouble before and then they resolve to harass and not provide for a disabled person, they deserved to be shut down
I don't really know why she couldn't stay in her bf's parent's basement, while her bf moved out, but perhaps he wasn't willing to skimp on his comfort, even to accommodate his pregnant gf... But I guess it could be that bf's parents weren't allowed to see his soon-to-be-ex-wife, either...
@@mb8787 if I had to guess, his parents told her she had to leave. Pregnant or not, she was still just their son’s gf, so they had no obligation to let her stay unless she could prove she had legally established residency.
It seems wholly unbelievable to me that he could get an order of protection that would be enforced two states away on behalf of someone who no longer resided with him and that he was divorcing in a divorce he initiated. (Or that the ex couldn't contest the order easily.) I can't see why the parents would want to kick someone out who is carrying their grandchild or want her to be homeless or lose her job, since all of those things would impact on their grandkid's healthy gestation and safety at birth. Considering how hard it is for most people to get OOP with actual violence, I'd say there's a fair bit of revenge fantasy going on here rather than a legitimate experience with the law. It seems like it wouldn't take her divorce attorney more than a hearing to get her removed from his OOP.
School Story: That School Board, Principal and Vice-Principal are very lucky OP and their Lawyer kept everything at the State Level since by violating OP's Doctor's Orders, they violated OP's ADA Rights which means OP and their Lawyer would have been perfectly within their Rights to Sue everyone in FEDERAL Court...
Really enjoyed the stories today and Kudos to the OP of the first story. I'm married to a Veteran myself and used to work for my local VA. I honestly don't like how our country treats our Veterans after everything they've done for us. So, really happy that a Vet was able to get some revenge.
I wouldn't trust that first story - too many of the details dont make sense on close examination. Especially that supposed 2nd restraining order forcing a soon to be ex out of their current home and support network into homelessness based solely on heresay from that persons soon to be ex who lives in a different state - it would be treating the ex like property not a human. So many details of the story dont hold up to scrutiny when you think about them. sadly people lie on the internet. I wouldn't trust a word of that story including them supposedly being a Veteran.
@@alphaomega7191 I don't disagree that people lie on the Internet. However, if it were to come out that the OP was not, in fact, a Veteran. Then that would be considered a felony offense due to Stolen Valor.
No shit! Have to admit that I was just pleasantly imagining what would happen to those two clowns if they treated a child of a mafia boss this way. Maybe some broken legs?
@@murraystewartj Funny you mention that, back when I was in high school one of the good kids (the ones that help everyone regardless of what group they belong to) ended up getting hurt and had to be on crutches for quite a while, a teacher was heard in the hallway berating them about being late trying to get across the school on crutches. As a result two of the bigger gangs in the school payed him a visit, by the time I graduated he was able to walk with a cane again.
Karen: I want to be reimbursed for the stuff op sold or destroyed Judge: Ok....what receipts do you have Karen: None because I didnt get them for my 10 Monets, 5 Van Goghs, the brand new mustang, lambrigini, the luis vaton collection, my gucci collect, my Judge: shut up
I was in the law library of our local courthouse researching how to file a specific petition. I wanted my soon-to-be-ex to have to help with child support for out three children! He had just ghosted us. My job alone wasn't going to hack it. I figured I could file myself. I had learned which volumes of which books I would need. I had tried to ask the clerk a question only to be reminded that no one there can give any 'legal advice'. They were polite and sympathetic. They just couldn't help me. As I searched the large books, a gentleman at one of the other tables got up to leave. As he walked behind me, he stopped, picked up one of the books I had pulled out, opened it to a certain page and pointed, all without uttering a word. It was the petition, I needed. He had overheard me when I spoke with the clerk.
#2 story. Non-working AC blowing out above the ceiling tiles straight into the building at 80+ degrees. That my friend is MOLD just waiting to happen. I would have rolled that Superintendant over the coals and received some type of liability against mold from that construction company. Edit to add. Yeah, they got out of it but if not. I wouldn't take that without some liability on the landlord.
Last story: If OP was considered "Disabled" then the school could be in serious trouble with violating the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act). For the times of missing lunch would make them liable...the FINES only...for $75,000...for EACH incident...adding up to $1,125,000...just for the 3-week lunch problem. Of course that is not even considering the civil liabilities...especially considering it would be a whole different civil suit held in FEDERAL court.
My high school was in a really old building, like really old. So was listed and you couldn’t make changes to it. There was also no lifts in that building or the newer building. I am a part time wheelchair user and so I was stuck on the ground floor all the time, couldn’t go to science lessons or English lessons. Most teachers were nice and moved the lessons to the ground floor for me so I could still join in. However, my English teacher said I’d just have to walk up the stairs. I ended up having to get someone to carry my chair or crutches whilst I dragged myself up the stairs using my arms a few times. Not fun.
I also had issues with my local council refusing to provide me with transport to college. They said that because I lived within 3 miles, I wasn’t entitled. However, if you suffer with mobility, learning, neurological or other conditions, you are fully entitled to transport to and from college. My mum is my rock and my fighter and I’d be lost without her. She’s been chasing their decision for months and she finally got one. I was declined due to the 3 mile rule. Mum found this out through a 3rd party, not through themselves. She emailed them stating that they’re blocking me from accessing education and she wouldn’t hesitate to go to the local mp, ofted and the head of office. We soon got a taxi given to us however it is a shared one and I have to stay at college from college start time to college finish time. I can’t do that, I need an individual taxi and an assistant due to seizures which aren’t pleasant for me or others. I also have fnd (functional neurological disorder) plus other conditions which mean I’m exhausted from just a few hours of being out of bed. I need to go to college when I start and when my day finishes, not when the college day finishes. Tiredness increases my chance of seizures and so I can’t wait an extra 2 hours to go home when it could cause a risk to my health. Mum is still fighting this but it is sad what disabled people have to fight through to live a normal life.
#3 Poor OP. I can't believe his school treated him that way. My brother had serious medical problems and needed to have access to all the bathrooms ( bc the students ones weren't always the closest and the locked ones were for staff) he also needed to be able to use the elevator. They had no problem handing him over the keys. He just had to turn them in at the end of the school day and pick them up in the morning. Eventually, they realize it was a decent amount of effort for him to go to the office in the morning before classes and to drop it off before the busses left so they just gave him his own copy. They went out of their way to make things easier for him. When he was really bad and was in/out of the hospital and couldn't handle going to class they sent a private teacher to the house to make sure he didn't fall behind and to make sure he got the attention he needed to catch up from the times he was in the hospital. They even metioned that if there was something he needed and also extended that to my family that wasn't covered by insurance they would be willing to help out. They said they school had some kind of special funds set aside in case of a student was really in need. We never asked for help. Years later when I had my son I was still living with my parents at the time and so he was in the same school district. They reminded me of extra help they can give but basically told me not to really spread it around bc there is always people looking for free things. I was a young single Mom who was struggling so I think that is why they told me. They gave me an example of glasses ( like if my son ended up needing glasses and I didn't have the means to get it that they would take care of it and to just let them know). They wouldn't even give my son a school supplies list after a couple of years to try to help me out. They just provided it for him. I did end up getting my own little apt and kept him in the same school. He was out of district and I informed them. They said it was fine. I was only 10 minutes away and of course wanted to keep him in the school that was so nice to us and was highly rated. Side note: it is a wealthy district and most of the parents there were well off. I was the exception. When it came time to my son's 5th grade field trip I saw how much it was when I got the booklet. I didn't want to ask but I didn't want him to miss out so I asked the lady at the office if there was a way to get the price discounted. She looked up his name and said he is listed as paid in full. I think it was his teacher who did it. I was touched. Then, when 8th grade came around I kmew there was the 8th grade trip to Washington D.C. I knew that was coming so I had tried to save up money for it but it was hard to save much. I was looking into in advance and discovered the company who did the trip had a scholarship program to help out with the cost. It basically involved an essay of why my son wanted to go to Washington D.C. He worked hard on it and turned it in. To my surprise I got something in the mail saying he was approved! I knew it didn't cover it all but with that discount and the money I had put away I might just be able to come up with the money for him to go. Then, I went to the school meeting about the trip where they covered everything they would be doing and the accommodations and everything for this all exclusive trip. (The school didn't even know I had already applied for the scholarship.) Then, at that meeting the mentioned the scholarship in case any other parents want to apply and also the total cost of the trip and the options of payment plans. Then, I heard the total. The scholarship took off $100 and that was a drop in the bucket. There was no way I could make those kind of payments over 6 months. I was nearly in tears but I couldn't ask the school for help with this. It wasn't a trip every student went on anymore like when I went there because of the price. It wasnt a 5th grade camping trip. It was more of a luxury that only about 1/2 the students went on and it was like 5 states away. After the meeting I waited till all the parents had left after turning in their checks bc I was embarrassed to give them the information booklets back bc we couldn't afford it. When I handed them the booklet back they asked what I was doing. I said we got the scholarship and I thought Id be able to cover it with the help from the program but I can't afford it and I said my son wont be able to go and apologized for wasting their time. ( I should mention this was middle school and it was the elementary school that helped with his 5th grade trip but same district). They said they knew how important that trip was to my son and not to worry that they would find a way to make it affordable for me. They tried to negotiate with the program that was doing the trip but they wouldn't allow for longer payments and the program sent me a letter saying that. The teacher in charge of the trip heard and told me "We will see about that!" I didn't get my hopes up and told my son that it didn't look like we would be able to come up with the money. Within a week the teacher caught up with me and said for him for him to start packing! I dont like to take handouts but I couldn't say no bc it was for my son. The teacher got the school district to pay for it! They paid every cent of it so I didn't have to pay a dime. They said use the money you were gonna spend on it and buy him some clothes and stuff for the trip. None of the other parents knew what they had done for us. I wanted to share because I was so grateful but I didn't want them to demand the district pay for everyone else as well. He had a great time! Idk who was more excited for him to get to experience DC me or him. Also, the district wasn't done with us. When my son was in HS money was even more tight. I couldn't afford him a coat and he just wore a thick hoodie everyday to school in the winter and he was a quadruple letterman. I wanted so badly to get him a varsity jacket but didn't say anything. He said he didnt need one and it wasnt a big deal but he earned it. When he graduated I couldn't have been a more proud parent at the honors ceremony. We they had sent out the letter about it they said they had a surprise for him but the letter didn't say what. He was presented on the stage by himself in a class with 74 Valedictorians ( That meant they all had a GPA over 4.0) with a scholarship. They didn't say what for or how much but the overhead screen said it was from the district. All the other kids who had received scholarships were announced with how much. My son hadn't made any college plans yet and wasn't a 4.0 student either. He did do a lot of charity work when he wasnt doing sports or schoolwork though. I tried to teach him that we needed to pay forward the kindness shown to us. Anyway, after the ceremony he had a big envelope and inside it was a check for $1,000 from the district. It didn't have to be used for college or any stipulations attached. I cried so hard I embarrassed him. I honestly have never known a school district that was so generous. They really do care about all their students and I am forever grateful for what they have done for my family. ❤❤❤ Sorry, but I had to share and I apologize if it sounded like I was bragging. Im just so grateful for them. Oh, FYI my brother kept the keys 😆
This almost made me cry lol, my school experience sucked real bad so it's nice to hear that there are still great people who care about their students.
My stepmom did that to my dad during their divorce, the restraining order. She also set it up at one point for him to "break" it when he went to the mediater's house to see his kids. She was there too and called the cops and it actually ended up making the restraining order go away cuz of it.
That last story reminds me of my mom. When she was six months pregnant with me a cop tuned left in front of her of her and they collided. This POS pulled my very pregnant mom out of the car, hand cuffed her and gave her ticket in front of my aunt and grandmother. Auntie and Grandma went to court with Mom but the cop didn't appear. The trio gave their version of events filled with colorful language to the judge. Judge not only dropped the charges, he apologized to Mom in the officer's behalf and sent a copy of the court transcripts to his captain along with a complaint for misconduct. Moms was one bad mamma jamma.
I am so glad to hear that the rules have changed. One of our friends (super sweet man) wife left him for another man. She didn’t even want visitation of their daughter. Our friend had full custody. She was living with her boyfriend and collecting alimony for years. At the time she had to get married in order to stop alimony. Finally after their daughter was going to go to college and this had been going on for four years, he went back to court showing that while not married she had been cohabiting for the last 5 years (during divorce also). Thankfully the judge lifted the alimony which he requested so he could pay for college for their kid.
On the first one- I am glad he was able to get a restraining order from the bf's verbal threat. I know a woman who's ex bf said on her answering machine that he was going to wait until she was alone and then slit her throat (among other a description of other violent acts) She played the recording for the cops and they said "oh he's just blowing smoke. Nothing we can do until he actually tries something." She got no help whatsoever and had to move in with relatives.
Wow, first time the guy wasn't completely screwed by the court system when the spouse was with another man.... Nice to hear some Justice in this world.
Whenever anyone wants to play stupid games with me, I ALWAYS win. As long as it's a stupid game, then _I_ will be making ALL the rules. This includes calling, "winner" and/or, "quits." (If it's important, then it's not a game and stupid rules don't apply.) Sounds like this guy knows how to play stupid games and always come out the winner! Bravo!
ProRevenge is awesome. Darkfluff is awesome. "Hello friends! Welcome back, to another episode of r/prorevenge" is one of the greatest things ever to exist.
My x wife tried the same game. Then told the judge she was living with her ap. I pulled his criminal record. At that point I got a permanent restraining order against her ap being anywhere near my son. She lied about her employment and all I wanted was custody of my son. But didn't think it was right for me to make house payments on a house for her and her boyfriend. She ended up losing the house 4 months later.
To the 3rd story’s Op, I can understand the frustration; I have a walker & in 3rd grade….. always had an issue when it came to 🔥 drills being located on a 2nd floor
I work as a HVAC wholesaler and had to learn how the systems work. Hearing the second story made me say, “Oh, no.” Putting the wrong refrigerant in is bad enough, but if they didn’t purge the old one out first they will get in a LOT of trouble! One of the first things I learned here was you do NOT mix refrigerants!
It is outdated stereotype, if you break down by time period, the closer to day you get the more often the cases get to 50:50 for dual income compiles, and single income could tract more to income than gender. However older cases are still active it causing the over all statistics to lag behind the current actual outcomes.
love the content and story 1: i hope the e takes the right choices no story 3: even though i saw the story mor then once. NEVER DISRESPECT A PHYSICLY BISABLE PERSON.
Last story: I once had dealt with a similar school administrator. Frustrated, I said: "May you never become disabled and have to deal with someone like yourself"
I would be willing to bet that the boyfriend, being the child's father, has moved on with another woman/affair. Just my opinion but I am sticking to it! Respect!
1. Shows how important it is to record absolutely everything particularly when dealing with bad people and people doing bad things. Also, about not losing games played on you by someone. Intention is the name that gets the job done. Focus on what you want and follow it through but it can take you places you wouldn't usually consider. I've had to learn about malignant narcissists.
About story #2: I am a EPA liscenced HVAC/R technician for a small company in Sacramento. I love my career and don't consider it "work", since I'm getting paid for doing something I enjoy. I hate hearing about customers/tennants being mistreated like this. For God's sake people, take pride in what you do, conducting business like those idiots is just wrong, and can get your company slapped with sanctions/fines, or even shut down.
Regarding the last story, same thing happened to me with the elevator in hs. Since I was on crunches I would just risk it, heading up and down the stairs. Thankfully if I was late most teachers were ok with it. I only used the elevator twice and it just was too much hassle for me.
Tbh the first story really freaks me out. Sure, get your car back by being clever, that seems like pro revenge. But claiming someone who is actively not with you as your “personal property” because you’re not legally divorced yet (I know it’s a legal term or whatever but still), is so so fucked up. And then being happy her life is completely screwed because of it is a level of maliciousness I never want to encounter in life. That’s way beyond what he needed to do and it makes me really wonder why they separated in the first place. Also claiming the phone call was a verbal threat on his life, while *technically* accurate is so extreme. People say things they don’t mean in anger all the time, and it sounds like this was the first time he ever heard something like this from the boyfriend after OP (in the boyfriend’s eyes) had stolen his girlfriend’s car. I get why he did it, and the police report might have been a good idea if things escalated, but what he used it for was as bad, if not much worse, than what his ex wife did. I’m sure I’ll get hate for this comment but I just don’t really want to live in a world where people act like this, even when they’ve been wronged.
Ehhh....I don't know their whole story. We only have one perspective. Knowing that, I still imagine the wife to be the one who instigated it first by putting a restraining order against OP and prevented him from retrieving his car was in the wrong and OP was just retaliating. She had the means to show up to the court hearing to prove her RO Case but didn't. If Wife's new BF didn't make the threat, there'd be no need to escelate. Whether BF said it out of anger but didn't mean it or was actually intending harm against OP or not is not for anyone to decide. It was a threat to OP's life. If a RO against BF wasn't approved AND something happened to OP, there'd be trouble those RO Deniers would have to answer to. You might not be able to control your emotions/feelings but you can control and are responsible for your actions. Choose your words carefully and you won't have to eat crow.
Oh man I would have loved to have seen ex wife's face when she realizes she messed up by admitting to living with another man while still married so she gets ZERO alimony. Also the student lones was hilarious cause she went to school after they separated yet still expected him to take those lones cause she played stupid games and won a stupid prize.?!
Hi, Dark Fluff! Been a while but I'm slowly visiting my old haunts! Today I'm on a project that allows me to listen to you in the background!! 🙃🙃 Great stories per usual! Stay safe in this crazy world, my friend!
As a bit of an aside to the first story: dammit, I just lost The Game! 🤣 It's been *months* since I last thought of The Game! And to anyone who has also just lost The Game by reading this comment - I'm not sorry! 😂😛😁
That second story... I work in HVAC. After hearing "They replaced the R22 refrigerant with R410A" my jaw dropped! What kind of slack-ass, dishonest, & shady company did the landlord find? Try to go cheap....end up paying more in the long run.
My ex-wife did this. She claimed I was a violent person and was randomly driving by everyday. I showed up with three videos of her hitting me and we lived close to the highway, which I took to and from work. Geuss who got custody of our kids? This guy. She had to get counseling and put on medication before she could get supervised visits.
First story has got to be legit. I've been in this situation a few times. Judge CAN NOT give any kind of legal advice or counsel . But if they're nice and clever they'll answer you're question without answering your question lol xqcL
I'm not so sure about that alimony part... having gone through a very similar situation I learned most states have separation clauses. Meaning that the day they decided to separate as a couple, either verbally or in writing, was the date she was allowed to go be with whoever she wanted. This could very well be a newer law, or simply in a single state, but my judge, and lawyers, both said it was a situation that was more or less the same everywhere.
First thanks for the pro revenge fix bud. Secondly I am on ssd and it stuns me how people can legitimately do stuff like what the vp and them did to OP in the last story.
I am an HVAC tech in Arizona. I find the behavior of the ac guys in this story atrocious even though their work was only shortly described. I would bet they just replaced a run capacitor and called it a day.
last story: OP's Mom is a badass. She went scorched earth on OP's former school Principal, VP and school board with the help of that excellent attorney. If the school officials had just done their jobs all that drama could have been avoided and they would still have their certifications. Its amazing how these people are always put in positions of authority and misuse it.
I'm surprised that the ex in the first story didn't ask for child support. I've heard of cases where it's been proven that the guy isn't the father, but since they were still married when the child was conceived, he was on the hook for it.
Yeah my wife did a false restraining order on me too it really sucked had to go to court for like 6 months she didn't show up not even once it was just a major inconvenience in my life also cost me my home job livelihood but I'm still alive at least I guess
Heard last story before elsewhere. But there was an update, maybe from OPs comments being curated. In the new school she/he has no problems with time between classes and having a companion walk with. Lastly has a key fob that opens the elevator. Can't remember if any more fallout towards the school board/P/VP
6:40 - that last statement by a military veteran sums it all up. Like between countries - governments should should do EVERYTHING possible to avoid military action, but if it comes to war, you don't piss about. You go for the the throat and make damned sure you win.
I understand how OP in the second story feels with the heat because I once lived in Texas where it is both hot and humid, so we were not only sweaty, but we were sticky.
Story 2: OP doesn't say and may not know but I would be willing to bet that if that landlord does have other commercial buildings having the one shut down due to lack of permits and condemned by the fire marshal was probably enough to have inspections done on any other buildings he owns.
@@jeffreyhueseman7061 If you'll note OP said she had to wait for somebody to open the doors so she could get out. Which means they were not automatic electrically powered. Not ADA compliant. They may restrict access but limiting egress should NEVER happen.
LOL! Early in our marriage, hubby told me that if I ever left him, make sure it was to be with a man who is better than him. We had a bit if a discussion as to which is better....Being abandoned for someone better or for someone worse. We went through the pros and cons before dropping the subject completely without any kind of resolution of a decision. It was the only time in our 19 years of marriage we talked about it. I still don't know the answer to the question. On the one hand, if he left me for someone worse, it's a blow to my adequacy as a spouse BUT sweet revenge when the homebreaker made his life miserable. It would also be a blow to my judgment of the person I chose to marry, spend the rest of my life with, honor, respect, and serve using my talents. On the other hand, if he were happy with someone better than me, it would be understandable that I wasn't adequate enough but it would throw me into depression because it means I truly failed him and I'm not good enough. I could paint him as the bad guy for breaking his vows but it wouldn't bring him back or put me in a better position to make me feel better. I don't know what I would do. Probably go numb, turn off my emotions, and work through it logically until after everything is said and done. Once done and I can breathe a sigh of relief to get started on my next stage of life, I'd probably take a year to grieve and talk to a Therapist before truly putting my big girl panties on and continuing my life as a single woman. I don't think I'd ever take another man as mine whether my husband dies or leaves me even though he wants me to. He's set a high bar of expectations that very few single AND available men will ever get close to meeting.
The only thing about that last story, is how OP said they didn’t live in the school district they were attending. The issue with families pulling this, is their taxes don’t go towards the school they’re attending. That hurts the school financially. The comment the VP made is never okay; I’m not condoning the school’s treatment of OP in any way. That was despicable and illegal. BUT attending schools outside your district does have negative affects most people don’t understand.
True, but I'm torn in cases like this. If she spends half her time at her grandmother's house, then she has something of an established residence in the district. And her family is paying taxes towards the school. Affidavits could probably be signed to allow this to happen. Then again, it sounds like everyone would be better off not in said school district.
So you’re saying that a student cannot change schools for any reason, whether it is for specific educational needs or due to physical limitations? Or cannot get a fresh start elsewhere due to a toxic home or school environment?
@@Renville80 Not what I’m saying at all. There’s just many instances of families using false addresses to get into schools. Now, if the kid does live part time there of course they should attend in that area. I’m saying, be honest about your residence. It puts a strain on the school’s resources for all students when the numbers are off. Many people don’t know this. There are ways to legitimately transfer to a school for special needs.
@@kennathom7704 It sounded that the OPs cousin lived with the grandparents, not OP. I’m all for good education; I’m just saying schools get funding from taxes. If a kid doesn’t actually live where they’re family’s tax money is going that puts a strain on the school’s resources for all students. Schools have been know to turn a blind eye to the address situation, but it can/does have some negative consequences.
@@kennathom7704 I’m often torn too. I’m appalled by the behavior of the faculty at the school. No matter the situation, educators are supposed to protect students, not neglect them. And I’m speaking as someone who works in a school district.
The first couple were only married for three years. I can see a woman like this spending out of her league flor a wedding and not paying it off..I am curious how much of the debt the ex had was wedding related. That would be a big cherry on top for her to end up nothing but wedding debt.
My ex got less than that and hammered harder than that in our divorce. She was hammered with a no contact order that expired on her death 5 years ago. She committed suicide. She was also banned with that order from working with either with kids or the elderly. She couldn't also own a firearm and several other things.
"Alright, with all this evidence, I should be able to have a strong case against her"
_Ex does not show up_
"Well, that was anticlimactic"
That might actually work in the person's favor because people who don't show up for court cases like this one may end up being hunted by bounty hunters something that can potentially ruin someone's reputation forever
Judge: I cannot tell you how to get what you want since I am presiding over your case, so sit in the back and I will legally NOT tell you how to do it yourself
Her honor is a baller.
The judges were awesome. So was the Uber driver.
Ex admits to cohabitation with boyfriend: “And that was a HUGE mistake.” Would have been an even worse mistake if she’d realized the implications of the judge’s question and said “No.” OP could then turn around and provide some proof of the cohabitation, and then the ex would not only have no alimony but also be facing perjury or contempt of court charges.
@ Jonathan....you have an evil mind! I LIKE IT!
What does "OP" actually means?
OP = Original Poster. It’s a shorthand way of saying “the person who posted the original topic (or story) that we are now discussing.” It’s an older term that hails from the heyday of message boards and text forums.
@@jonathansands3304 now i got it. Thanks dude!
That first story ... wow. The crazy thing about this is that it wasn't even planned in just fell into place. And all because the lady is involved with a Chad who didn't have a pot to pee in and she was too lazy to get the restraining order court case pushed back until after the divorce was finalized. (She couldn't testify in court for fear of perjury and she was smart enough to know this.)
From the sounds of things the only thing of value in the marriage was the single vehicle. And the ex-wife was desperate to acquire it as Chad didn't have vehicle either.
Story 1: As a fellow Veteran, I can definitely reiterate to not mess with them. 1) We have (most likely) been through some crazy things in our time, and have no desire to play stupid little head games. 2)We have spent years training to stay calm in difficult situations. 3) If you are stupid enough to push us, we only get more determined to win.
To my Veteran Brother, I'm so glad it came out right for you in the end.
Dryad Llyn thank you for your service.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Like A wolf. Fast,deadly,cunning & can track you. 😏
I treated my Divorce like a 5 paragraph OPORD worked like a charm. I got the desired outcome.
What brach? Also, thank you for your service
12 years in the U.S. Army. I retired due to physical and mental health issues, but I don't regret a moment of my time there.
First story was like
OP: Now that’s a lot of damage
OP: How about a little more?
But wait theres more
it could also be
OP: Now that’s a lot of damage
OP: Have you had enough or are you thirsty for more
Or it could be
OP: IT EVEN WORKS UNDERWATER
not even flex tape can fix this damage
To show you the amazing power of flex tape, I sawed his house in half. And only using flex tape I repaired it to withstand against storm’s
This went through my head when it said the lawyer won multiple cases against the school board.
Lawyer: How many times do I have to teach you this lesson old man.
Guess the lawyer schooled him
@@thatonewitch Well you know what they say. "You're never too old to learn a lesson."
They're all very "brave" to make death threats when they're safe behind a phone/PC screen...
"What a bunch of pussies. In my day, if you wanted to tease someone, you did it to their face. There was honor, respect."
This specifically was handle in incorrect language. But how would you react if you were dating a girl. Found out she is in the process of divorce. Yes divorces can take a long time, drag on for years. Then the ex or soon to be shows up at your property and takes the car. Noticed in the post he didn't call and complain about the car. He was upset that he showed up states away on his property. What he should have stated is that I feel like you showing up is a threat. I feel like if you showed up again you would use lethal force and I will treat it as such. Do not tresspase on my property again. Then he would be within legal grounds. Nor would OP have any justification. It's not a threat. It's stating the implied intent you would have if you did show up again. I get why the OP was upset in the divorce, but he had a mode of transportation from his company and she didn't. If the initial filings. This could be pointed out and the vehicle could have been given to her. Or he could have said for now you can have the car originally but because of the shenanigans he went back on his word. Do you think the OP is going to put that in his post? Legally both have rights to the vehicle during the divorce proceedings. If he threw her out of the house. Then she takes off with the vehicle. You should expect that. Once divorce is initiate. All shared assets are supposed to be frozen. Whoever is in possession of what is not suppose to alter anything in such time it's over. Since he hadn't gone through mediation yet that is how he was able to get all this done. Remember he filed the divorce not her. So I'm sure their is a back story to that.
@@egondro9157 OP said that he had just purchased the car, and that the wife had gotten a false restraining order just to keep him away from it. The fact that the ex was never able to dispute the car afterwards just proves that OP was well within his rights. Also, the update shows how much of a liar she was.
And yes, it WAS a threat. The boyfriend clearly said "ANYWHERE" and "COUNT YOURSELF DEAD." If that doesn't constitute a death threat, I don't know what does.
@@egondro9157 considering that the wife had a boyfriend she moved in with during divorce proceedings, cheating is an extremely likely reason why OP filed.
I don't understand how you can ask for alimony during a divorce proceedings when you've been living with another partner for the past 6 months and you are also pregnant with that guy's child. The level of entitlement is just unbelievable.
Almost reminds me how my ex wife tried to get me 80k in debt after she lost our house in foreclosure after I signed it over to her now she is in 80k in debt
I'm surprised she didn't ask for child support.
Sounds to me like she just figured her gender would help her win, but karma's a bitch and she suffered for it. XD
I can top that one. My now ex wanted to be awarded with half of everything that my mother owned. yes, his lawyer said it with a straight face. my lawyer asked both him and his lawyer to tell us when he had married my mother. My ex also wanted half of the value of the house we lived in (house paid by me). In the end, he got nothing. but he did apply for disability and included the kids as living with him. Amazingly enough he got free healthcare for himself and the kids for at least a year and a half, and Lord only knows what else. I know this because I had a state investigator who came to my house and talked to me. No clue how this whole thing ended, but I do remember the gentleman who was over telling me, he made my ex drive to some federal building on what turned out was a holiday (if I recall correct it was a 1 and 1/2 hour drive each way). Him, a friend who was over and I had a good chuckle out of that one.
You can ask anything…just some things will have you laughed out of court!
School: "OP can be some other school's problem now."
OP's parents and lawyer: "Amazing, every word of what you just said was wrong."
They are bad seeds, glad they got what was coming to them for what they put OP through
The last story is so infuriating how they tried to find some way to get rid of her without taking the heat on what they did. Good to hear they got what they deserved.
I'm so glad the student won! I was afraid that going to the wrong school district would absolve the school of any responsibility.
Don’t mess around when dIsability laws can come into play. It won’t end well when you’ve already acknowledged and put in place plans for their disability.
Sadly there are a lot of adults in powerful school positions who think they can do whatever they like to the kids, especially those with disabilities, because in their minds their job isn't to provide kids with quality education, but to make money.
So it sounds like in that case, you CAN sue to have a person or persons fired/removed from their jobs as part of a lawsuit, not just monetary/compensatory damages and physical property.
I respect the judge in the divorce proceedings
The first story was so satisfying. Done so perfectly and the perfect revenge. I'm glad you came out on top OP, you deserve it. Thank you for your service!
At least some crime bosses have compassion despite trying to run an illegal business.
1st story: In regards to how OP turned the tables on his ex. In the words of Nathan Explosion from Dethlock," Dude, that's brutal."
3rd story: Lawyer who himself is tired of this school board's antics and sees OP's situation as the means to finally get them off their asses: School board must have been pulling this bs for some time if even a lawyer whose dealt with them in the past is getting fed up.
story 3: that school clearly wasn't doing it's job, as OP stated they had been in legal trouble before and then they resolve to harass and not provide for a disabled person, they deserved to be shut down
story 1: she tried to steal OP's property by keeping him away from her, she lost everything and wasn't allowed to be near her lover, karma B***h
I don't really know why she couldn't stay in her bf's parent's basement, while her bf moved out, but perhaps he wasn't willing to skimp on his comfort, even to accommodate his pregnant gf... But I guess it could be that bf's parents weren't allowed to see his soon-to-be-ex-wife, either...
Her life is destroyed, she got left with nothing. Also u can bet any amount on the fact that the other guy wont be marrying her at all.
@@mb8787 if I had to guess, his parents told her she had to leave. Pregnant or not, she was still just their son’s gf, so they had no obligation to let her stay unless she could prove she had legally established residency.
Hope the child is taken from her when born that lady shouldn't be allowed to be a parent
It seems wholly unbelievable to me that he could get an order of protection that would be enforced two states away on behalf of someone who no longer resided with him and that he was divorcing in a divorce he initiated. (Or that the ex couldn't contest the order easily.) I can't see why the parents would want to kick someone out who is carrying their grandchild or want her to be homeless or lose her job, since all of those things would impact on their grandkid's healthy gestation and safety at birth. Considering how hard it is for most people to get OOP with actual violence, I'd say there's a fair bit of revenge fantasy going on here rather than a legitimate experience with the law. It seems like it wouldn't take her divorce attorney more than a hearing to get her removed from his OOP.
School Story: That School Board, Principal and Vice-Principal are very lucky OP and their Lawyer kept everything at the State Level since by violating OP's Doctor's Orders, they violated OP's ADA Rights which means OP and their Lawyer would have been perfectly within their Rights to Sue everyone in FEDERAL Court...
Really enjoyed the stories today and Kudos to the OP of the first story. I'm married to a Veteran myself and used to work for my local VA. I honestly don't like how our country treats our Veterans after everything they've done for us. So, really happy that a Vet was able to get some revenge.
What does op stand for? (Btw i know that op in games mean overpowerd)
@@JJRetroH It stands for Original Poster.
@@serafinafireheart5253 thanks
I wouldn't trust that first story - too many of the details dont make sense on close examination. Especially that supposed 2nd restraining order forcing a soon to be ex out of their current home and support network into homelessness based solely on heresay from that persons soon to be ex who lives in a different state - it would be treating the ex like property not a human. So many details of the story dont hold up to scrutiny when you think about them. sadly people lie on the internet. I wouldn't trust a word of that story including them supposedly being a Veteran.
@@alphaomega7191 I don't disagree that people lie on the Internet. However, if it were to come out that the OP was not, in fact, a Veteran. Then that would be considered a felony offense due to Stolen Valor.
I'm sure there are mafia bosses more sensitive and compassionate than the principal and the vice principal of that school.
No shit! Have to admit that I was just pleasantly imagining what would happen to those two clowns if they treated a child of a mafia boss this way. Maybe some broken legs?
@@murraystewartj no just new concrete shoes
@@braddavis7328 And a cement bathing suit to go with them.
@@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith Ah, what they call the "Full Hoffa", then.
@@murraystewartj Funny you mention that, back when I was in high school one of the good kids (the ones that help everyone regardless of what group they belong to) ended up getting hurt and had to be on crutches for quite a while, a teacher was heard in the hallway berating them about being late trying to get across the school on crutches. As a result two of the bigger gangs in the school payed him a visit, by the time I graduated he was able to walk with a cane again.
Karen: I want to be reimbursed for the stuff op sold or destroyed
Judge: Ok....what receipts do you have
Karen: None because I didnt get them for my 10 Monets, 5 Van Goghs, the brand new mustang, lambrigini, the luis vaton collection, my gucci collect, my
Judge: shut up
😂😂😂
Sounds like Judge Judy listens to this channel!
Oh, that first story was savage! I salute the OP and not just because he's a veteran.
I was in the law library of our local courthouse researching how to file a specific petition. I wanted my soon-to-be-ex to have to help with child support for out three children! He had just ghosted us. My job alone wasn't going to hack it. I figured I could file myself. I had learned which volumes of which books I would need. I had tried to ask the clerk a question only to be reminded that no one there can give any 'legal advice'. They were polite and sympathetic. They just couldn't help me. As I searched the large books, a gentleman at one of the other tables got up to leave. As he walked behind me, he stopped, picked up one of the books I had pulled out, opened it to a certain page and pointed, all without uttering a word. It was the petition, I needed. He had overheard me when I spoke with the clerk.
#2 story. Non-working AC blowing out above the ceiling tiles straight into the building at 80+ degrees. That my friend is MOLD just waiting to happen. I would have rolled that Superintendant over the coals and received some type of liability against mold from that construction company.
Edit to add. Yeah, they got out of it but if not. I wouldn't take that without some liability on the landlord.
Last story: If OP was considered "Disabled" then the school could be in serious trouble with violating the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act).
For the times of missing lunch would make them liable...the FINES only...for $75,000...for EACH incident...adding up to $1,125,000...just for the 3-week lunch problem.
Of course that is not even considering the civil liabilities...especially considering it would be a whole different civil suit held in FEDERAL court.
My high school was in a really old building, like really old. So was listed and you couldn’t make changes to it. There was also no lifts in that building or the newer building. I am a part time wheelchair user and so I was stuck on the ground floor all the time, couldn’t go to science lessons or English lessons. Most teachers were nice and moved the lessons to the ground floor for me so I could still join in. However, my English teacher said I’d just have to walk up the stairs. I ended up having to get someone to carry my chair or crutches whilst I dragged myself up the stairs using my arms a few times. Not fun.
I also had issues with my local council refusing to provide me with transport to college. They said that because I lived within 3 miles, I wasn’t entitled. However, if you suffer with mobility, learning, neurological or other conditions, you are fully entitled to transport to and from college. My mum is my rock and my fighter and I’d be lost without her. She’s been chasing their decision for months and she finally got one. I was declined due to the 3 mile rule. Mum found this out through a 3rd party, not through themselves. She emailed them stating that they’re blocking me from accessing education and she wouldn’t hesitate to go to the local mp, ofted and the head of office. We soon got a taxi given to us however it is a shared one and I have to stay at college from college start time to college finish time. I can’t do that, I need an individual taxi and an assistant due to seizures which aren’t pleasant for me or others. I also have fnd (functional neurological disorder) plus other conditions which mean I’m exhausted from just a few hours of being out of bed. I need to go to college when I start and when my day finishes, not when the college day finishes. Tiredness increases my chance of seizures and so I can’t wait an extra 2 hours to go home when it could cause a risk to my health. Mum is still fighting this but it is sad what disabled people have to fight through to live a normal life.
1st story: I hope OP had the good sense to have the locks and ignition switch on that car changed as his ex and her boyfriend still had a key.
I doubt they'd risk putting themselves in deeper shit
#3 Poor OP. I can't believe his school treated him that way. My brother had serious medical problems and needed to have access to all the bathrooms ( bc the students ones weren't always the closest and the locked ones were for staff) he also needed to be able to use the elevator. They had no problem handing him over the keys. He just had to turn them in at the end of the school day and pick them up in the morning. Eventually, they realize it was a decent amount of effort for him to go to the office in the morning before classes and to drop it off before the busses left so they just gave him his own copy. They went out of their way to make things easier for him. When he was really bad and was in/out of the hospital and couldn't handle going to class they sent a private teacher to the house to make sure he didn't fall behind and to make sure he got the attention he needed to catch up from the times he was in the hospital. They even metioned that if there was something he needed and also extended that to my family that wasn't covered by insurance they would be willing to help out. They said they school had some kind of special funds set aside in case of a student was really in need. We never asked for help. Years later when I had my son I was still living with my parents at the time and so he was in the same school district. They reminded me of extra help they can give but basically told me not to really spread it around bc there is always people looking for free things. I was a young single Mom who was struggling so I think that is why they told me. They gave me an example of glasses ( like if my son ended up needing glasses and I didn't have the means to get it that they would take care of it and to just let them know). They wouldn't even give my son a school supplies list after a couple of years to try to help me out. They just provided it for him. I did end up getting my own little apt and kept him in the same school. He was out of district and I informed them. They said it was fine. I was only 10 minutes away and of course wanted to keep him in the school that was so nice to us and was highly rated. Side note: it is a wealthy district and most of the parents there were well off. I was the exception. When it came time to my son's 5th grade field trip I saw how much it was when I got the booklet. I didn't want to ask but I didn't want him to miss out so I asked the lady at the office if there was a way to get the price discounted. She looked up his name and said he is listed as paid in full. I think it was his teacher who did it. I was touched. Then, when 8th grade came around I kmew there was the 8th grade trip to Washington D.C. I knew that was coming so I had tried to save up money for it but it was hard to save much. I was looking into in advance and discovered the company who did the trip had a scholarship program to help out with the cost. It basically involved an essay of why my son wanted to go to Washington D.C. He worked hard on it and turned it in. To my surprise I got something in the mail saying he was approved! I knew it didn't cover it all but with that discount and the money I had put away I might just be able to come up with the money for him to go. Then, I went to the school meeting about the trip where they covered everything they would be doing and the accommodations and everything for this all exclusive trip. (The school didn't even know I had already applied for the scholarship.) Then, at that meeting the mentioned the scholarship in case any other parents want to apply and also the total cost of the trip and the options of payment plans. Then, I heard the total. The scholarship took off $100 and that was a drop in the bucket. There was no way I could make those kind of payments over 6 months. I was nearly in tears but I couldn't ask the school for help with this. It wasn't a trip every student went on anymore like when I went there because of the price. It wasnt a 5th grade camping trip. It was more of a luxury that only about 1/2 the students went on and it was like 5 states away. After the meeting I waited till all the parents had left after turning in their checks bc I was embarrassed to give them the information booklets back bc we couldn't afford it. When I handed them the booklet back they asked what I was doing. I said we got the scholarship and I thought Id be able to cover it with the help from the program but I can't afford it and I said my son wont be able to go and apologized for wasting their time. ( I should mention this was middle school and it was the elementary school that helped with his 5th grade trip but same district). They said they knew how important that trip was to my son and not to worry that they would find a way to make it affordable for me. They tried to negotiate with the program that was doing the trip but they wouldn't allow for longer payments and the program sent me a letter saying that. The teacher in charge of the trip heard and told me "We will see about that!" I didn't get my hopes up and told my son that it didn't look like we would be able to come up with the money. Within a week the teacher caught up with me and said for him for him to start packing! I dont like to take handouts but I couldn't say no bc it was for my son. The teacher got the school district to pay for it! They paid every cent of it so I didn't have to pay a dime. They said use the money you were gonna spend on it and buy him some clothes and stuff for the trip. None of the other parents knew what they had done for us. I wanted to share because I was so grateful but I didn't want them to demand the district pay for everyone else as well. He had a great time! Idk who was more excited for him to get to experience DC me or him. Also, the district wasn't done with us. When my son was in HS money was even more tight. I couldn't afford him a coat and he just wore a thick hoodie everyday to school in the winter and he was a quadruple letterman. I wanted so badly to get him a varsity jacket but didn't say anything. He said he didnt need one and it wasnt a big deal but he earned it. When he graduated I couldn't have been a more proud parent at the honors ceremony. We they had sent out the letter about it they said they had a surprise for him but the letter didn't say what. He was presented on the stage by himself in a class with 74 Valedictorians ( That meant they all had a GPA over 4.0) with a scholarship. They didn't say what for or how much but the overhead screen said it was from the district. All the other kids who had received scholarships were announced with how much. My son hadn't made any college plans yet and wasn't a 4.0 student either. He did do a lot of charity work when he wasnt doing sports or schoolwork though. I tried to teach him that we needed to pay forward the kindness shown to us. Anyway, after the ceremony he had a big envelope and inside it was a check for $1,000 from the district. It didn't have to be used for college or any stipulations attached. I cried so hard I embarrassed him. I honestly have never known a school district that was so generous. They really do care about all their students and I am forever grateful for what they have done for my family. ❤❤❤ Sorry, but I had to share and I apologize if it sounded like I was bragging. Im just so grateful for them. Oh, FYI my brother kept the keys 😆
i clicked read more and was not prepared for that wall of text
@@supertiger9567 Sorry, I didn't mean to write so much. It just came out.
@@TheOfficialTarynTots It was an enjoyable read! I hear so much about awful school districts that it's always lovely to hear about the good ones.
@@Scotia__ Thank U
This almost made me cry lol, my school experience sucked real bad so it's nice to hear that there are still great people who care about their students.
Sometimes, self-pain are needed to get point across. Much respect for OP in Story 3.
No kidding.
That first story op had great people helping him out.
I just finished the first story. I absolutely love it. She was held accountable for her actions in a court of law.
My stepmom did that to my dad during their divorce, the restraining order. She also set it up at one point for him to "break" it when he went to the mediater's house to see his kids. She was there too and called the cops and it actually ended up making the restraining order go away cuz of it.
How interesting. Only three years and she wants alimony. In my state, California, USA, you have to be married 8 years in order to receive alimony.
That last story reminds me of my mom. When she was six months pregnant with me a cop tuned left in front of her of her and they collided. This POS pulled my very pregnant mom out of the car, hand cuffed her and gave her ticket in front of my aunt and grandmother. Auntie and Grandma went to court with Mom but the cop didn't appear. The trio gave their version of events filled with colorful language to the judge. Judge not only dropped the charges, he apologized to Mom in the officer's behalf and sent a copy of the court transcripts to his captain along with a complaint for misconduct. Moms was one bad mamma jamma.
I am so glad to hear that the rules have changed. One of our friends (super sweet man) wife left him for another man. She didn’t even want visitation of their daughter. Our friend had full custody. She was living with her boyfriend and collecting alimony for years. At the time she had to get married in order to stop alimony. Finally after their daughter was going to go to college and this had been going on for four years, he went back to court showing that while not married she had been cohabiting for the last 5 years (during divorce also). Thankfully the judge lifted the alimony which he requested so he could pay for college for their kid.
On the first one- I am glad he was able to get a restraining order from the bf's verbal threat. I know a woman who's ex bf said on her answering machine that he was going to wait until she was alone and then slit her throat (among other a description of other violent acts) She played the recording for the cops and they said "oh he's just blowing smoke. Nothing we can do until he actually tries something." She got no help whatsoever and had to move in with relatives.
Wow, first time the guy wasn't completely screwed by the court system when the spouse was with another man.... Nice to hear some Justice in this world.
Whenever anyone wants to play stupid games with me, I ALWAYS win. As long as it's a stupid game, then _I_ will be making ALL the rules. This includes calling, "winner" and/or, "quits." (If it's important, then it's not a game and stupid rules don't apply.)
Sounds like this guy knows how to play stupid games and always come out the winner! Bravo!
ProRevenge is awesome.
Darkfluff is awesome.
"Hello friends! Welcome back, to another episode of r/prorevenge" is one of the greatest things ever to exist.
My x wife tried the same game. Then told the judge she was living with her ap. I pulled his criminal record. At that point I got a permanent restraining order against her ap being anywhere near my son. She lied about her employment and all I wanted was custody of my son. But didn't think it was right for me to make house payments on a house for her and her boyfriend. She ended up losing the house 4 months later.
Great stories. Really good one about the ex trying to get something out of OP in court. Liked the one about the building getting condemned also.
Dude! That first OP!
That's beyond UNO Reverse, it's like changing colors in a chess match
Dude basically pulled out Blue-eyes mid game of go-fish on them. The game changed mid way from "Divorce wars' to 'scorch the earth'
@@AllenAkiyama blue-eyes ultimate?
The last one made me mad , you bet I would've went full mama bear on vp and principal ( they probably would have lost a leg too )
To the 3rd story’s Op, I can understand the frustration; I have a walker & in 3rd grade….. always had an issue when it came to 🔥 drills being located on a 2nd floor
I work as a HVAC wholesaler and had to learn how the systems work. Hearing the second story made me say, “Oh, no.” Putting the wrong refrigerant in is bad enough, but if they didn’t purge the old one out first they will get in a LOT of trouble! One of the first things I learned here was you do NOT mix refrigerants!
It’s wonderful that it wasn’t a typical sexist divorce court giving the woman what she wants no matter the situation 🙏
It is outdated stereotype, if you break down by time period, the closer to day you get the more often the cases get to 50:50 for dual income compiles, and single income could tract more to income than gender. However older cases are still active it causing the over all statistics to lag behind the current actual outcomes.
That's a myth spread by wifebeaters
@@JoshSweetvale Good luck with your divorce, pal. You'll learn for the first time you've been violent with your wife when you're in there.
love the content
and story 1: i hope the e takes the right choices no
story 3: even though i saw the story mor then once. NEVER DISRESPECT A PHYSICLY BISABLE PERSON.
Finally a divorce story where the guy does not get fucked by the system.
No lie this is the fastest I've gotten on a video. Hope y'all have a good day.
You too
Thank y’all!
Same to you! 😊
Ha zame
It's night over here, but thanks anyway. Have a good day 🙂
Last story: I once had dealt with a similar school administrator. Frustrated, I said: "May you never become disabled and have to deal with someone like yourself"
OP in 1st story really wasn't playing when he said he don't loose and ended up with judges that don't play games either damn 🤣🤣💯💯✌
I would be willing to bet that the boyfriend, being the child's father, has moved on with another woman/affair. Just my opinion but I am sticking to it!
Respect!
1.
Shows how important it is to record absolutely everything particularly when dealing with bad people and people doing bad things.
Also, about not losing games played on you by someone. Intention is the name that gets the job done. Focus on what you want and follow it through but it can take you places you wouldn't usually consider.
I've had to learn about malignant narcissists.
Restraining order was the best revenge I ever heard.
About story #2:
I am a EPA liscenced HVAC/R technician for a small company in Sacramento. I love my career and don't consider it "work", since I'm getting paid for doing something I enjoy. I hate hearing about customers/tennants being mistreated like this. For God's sake people, take pride in what you do, conducting business like those idiots is just wrong, and can get your company slapped with sanctions/fines, or even shut down.
Judge is awesome. She was bound by the letters of the law, but she still found ways to skirt around them 👍🏼
First story.
So true. Do not play games with a veteran. Do not underestimate the ability of said veteran to enact revenge that is devastating.
Regarding the last story, same thing happened to me with the elevator in hs. Since I was on crunches I would just risk it, heading up and down the stairs. Thankfully if I was late most teachers were ok with it. I only used the elevator twice and it just was too much hassle for me.
Story 1: the ex wife and her boyfriend definitely got exactly what she deserves.
2nd story was like a perverted twist of the old Thunderbirds song "How Do You Spell Love? M-O-N-E-Y"
Tbh the first story really freaks me out. Sure, get your car back by being clever, that seems like pro revenge. But claiming someone who is actively not with you as your “personal property” because you’re not legally divorced yet (I know it’s a legal term or whatever but still), is so so fucked up. And then being happy her life is completely screwed because of it is a level of maliciousness I never want to encounter in life. That’s way beyond what he needed to do and it makes me really wonder why they separated in the first place.
Also claiming the phone call was a verbal threat on his life, while *technically* accurate is so extreme. People say things they don’t mean in anger all the time, and it sounds like this was the first time he ever heard something like this from the boyfriend after OP (in the boyfriend’s eyes) had stolen his girlfriend’s car. I get why he did it, and the police report might have been a good idea if things escalated, but what he used it for was as bad, if not much worse, than what his ex wife did.
I’m sure I’ll get hate for this comment but I just don’t really want to live in a world where people act like this, even when they’ve been wronged.
Ehhh....I don't know their whole story. We only have one perspective. Knowing that, I still imagine the wife to be the one who instigated it first by putting a restraining order against OP and prevented him from retrieving his car was in the wrong and OP was just retaliating. She had the means to show up to the court hearing to prove her RO Case but didn't.
If Wife's new BF didn't make the threat, there'd be no need to escelate. Whether BF said it out of anger but didn't mean it or was actually intending harm against OP or not is not for anyone to decide. It was a threat to OP's life. If a RO against BF wasn't approved AND something happened to OP, there'd be trouble those RO Deniers would have to answer to.
You might not be able to control your emotions/feelings but you can control and are responsible for your actions. Choose your words carefully and you won't have to eat crow.
Oh man I would have loved to have seen ex wife's face when she realizes she messed up by admitting to living with another man while still married so she gets ZERO alimony. Also the student lones was hilarious cause she went to school after they separated yet still expected him to take those lones cause she played stupid games and won a stupid prize.?!
If you ever find the original story, you'll find out it was simply a man. They were married lesbians with the ex being secretly bisexual.
Day #60 of telling fluff he’s beautiful too
Day #41 of telling stevo he’s beautiful
That's some dedication!
Wow! Op, you are my hero! A deserved payback and more. I chuckled at the part when op placed a restraining order on the AP. That was a brilliant move.
Hi, Dark Fluff! Been a while but I'm slowly visiting my old haunts! Today I'm on a project that allows me to listen to you in the background!! 🙃🙃 Great stories per usual! Stay safe in this crazy world, my friend!
That first story was beautiful. With only a few minutes work he totally took apart his cheating wife life.
Just love veterans... Well done.. I'm sure that OP's new wife/girlfriend is in the best hands ever.. Just love this story ❤️
As a bit of an aside to the first story: dammit, I just lost The Game! 🤣 It's been *months* since I last thought of The Game!
And to anyone who has also just lost The Game by reading this comment - I'm not sorry! 😂😛😁
That last story is a clear ADA violation. They should have just reported it immediately.
She didnt walk away with nothing. She walked away with a nice cold plate of revenge served.
That second story...
I work in HVAC. After hearing "They replaced the R22 refrigerant with R410A" my jaw dropped!
What kind of slack-ass, dishonest, & shady company did the landlord find? Try to go cheap....end up paying more in the long run.
Divorced vet is my hero.
Absolutely love this channel.
My ex-wife did this. She claimed I was a violent person and was randomly driving by everyday. I showed up with three videos of her hitting me and we lived close to the highway, which I took to and from work. Geuss who got custody of our kids? This guy. She had to get counseling and put on medication before she could get supervised visits.
First story has got to be legit. I've been in this situation a few times. Judge CAN NOT give any kind of legal advice or counsel . But if they're nice and clever they'll answer you're question without answering your question lol
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I'm not so sure about that alimony part... having gone through a very similar situation I learned most states have separation clauses. Meaning that the day they decided to separate as a couple, either verbally or in writing, was the date she was allowed to go be with whoever she wanted. This could very well be a newer law, or simply in a single state, but my judge, and lawyers, both said it was a situation that was more or less the same everywhere.
First thanks for the pro revenge fix bud.
Secondly I am on ssd and it stuns me how people can legitimately do stuff like what the vp and them did to OP in the last story.
Having my dad as a firefighter, an uncle as a firefighter, and several uncle's as fire Marshalls, the lease story amuses me greatly
I’m happy a veteran didn’t get screwed over.
I am an HVAC tech in Arizona. I find the behavior of the ac guys in this story atrocious even though their work was only shortly described. I would bet they just replaced a run capacitor and called it a day.
last story: OP's Mom is a badass. She went scorched earth on OP's former school Principal, VP and school board with the help of that excellent attorney. If the school officials had just done their jobs all that drama could have been avoided and they would still have their certifications. Its amazing how these people are always put in positions of authority and misuse it.
I'm surprised that the ex in the first story didn't ask for child support. I've heard of cases where it's been proven that the guy isn't the father, but since they were still married when the child was conceived, he was on the hook for it.
If you ever find the original story, OP was a lesbian.
Those were wicked EPIC revenge stories!!!
Yeah my wife did a false restraining order on me too it really sucked had to go to court for like 6 months she didn't show up not even once it was just a major inconvenience in my life also cost me my home job livelihood but I'm still alive at least I guess
@14:30 moral of the story: if you see something, say something---you might just save someone's bacon and/or take down a villain in the process!
Heard last story before elsewhere. But there was an update, maybe from OPs comments being curated.
In the new school she/he has no problems with time between classes and having a companion walk with. Lastly has a key fob that opens the elevator. Can't remember if any more fallout towards the school board/P/VP
That first story is almost beyond pro revenge but good job op for doing what you did to your ex
Hope you and Stevo also had a wonderful day Fluff. Loved the video as always ♥
6:40 - that last statement by a military veteran sums it all up. Like between countries - governments should should do EVERYTHING possible to avoid military action, but if it comes to war, you don't piss about. You go for the the throat and make damned sure you win.
I understand how OP in the second story feels with the heat because I once lived in Texas where it is both hot and humid, so we were not only sweaty, but we were sticky.
Story 2: OP doesn't say and may not know but I would be willing to bet that if that landlord does have other commercial buildings having the one shut down due to lack of permits and condemned by the fire marshal was probably enough to have inspections done on any other buildings he owns.
Why would a school not have an ADA compliant elevator? The ADA was passed decades ago. Plenty of time to get doors and other infrastructure updated.
It is ADA compliant, but the administration will not allow her access without their supervision, which they neglect.
@@jeffreyhueseman7061 If you'll note OP said she had to wait for somebody to open the doors so she could get out. Which means they were not automatic electrically powered. Not ADA compliant. They may restrict access but limiting egress should NEVER happen.
16:24 now who else is imagining this landlord sitting in a prison cell with no plumbing, no AC, and the bed is just a board with a blanket
Story 1: *#KARMA*
Dark Fluff, I loved all of these stories. Pro Revenge at it's finest.
Imagine cheating and leaving your veterinarian husband for a dude who lives with his parents lol.
LOL! Early in our marriage, hubby told me that if I ever left him, make sure it was to be with a man who is better than him. We had a bit if a discussion as to which is better....Being abandoned for someone better or for someone worse. We went through the pros and cons before dropping the subject completely without any kind of resolution of a decision.
It was the only time in our 19 years of marriage we talked about it. I still don't know the answer to the question. On the one hand, if he left me for someone worse, it's a blow to my adequacy as a spouse BUT sweet revenge when the homebreaker made his life miserable. It would also be a blow to my judgment of the person I chose to marry, spend the rest of my life with, honor, respect, and serve using my talents.
On the other hand, if he were happy with someone better than me, it would be understandable that I wasn't adequate enough but it would throw me into depression because it means I truly failed him and I'm not good enough. I could paint him as the bad guy for breaking his vows but it wouldn't bring him back or put me in a better position to make me feel better. I don't know what I would do. Probably go numb, turn off my emotions, and work through it logically until after everything is said and done. Once done and I can breathe a sigh of relief to get started on my next stage of life, I'd probably take a year to grieve and talk to a Therapist before truly putting my big girl panties on and continuing my life as a single woman.
I don't think I'd ever take another man as mine whether my husband dies or leaves me even though he wants me to. He's set a high bar of expectations that very few single AND available men will ever get close to meeting.
The only thing about that last story, is how OP said they didn’t live in the school district they were attending. The issue with families pulling this, is their taxes don’t go towards the school they’re attending. That hurts the school financially. The comment the VP made is never okay; I’m not condoning the school’s treatment of OP in any way. That was despicable and illegal. BUT attending schools outside your district does have negative affects most people don’t understand.
True, but I'm torn in cases like this. If she spends half her time at her grandmother's house, then she has something of an established residence in the district. And her family is paying taxes towards the school. Affidavits could probably be signed to allow this to happen. Then again, it sounds like everyone would be better off not in said school district.
So you’re saying that a student cannot change schools for any reason, whether it is for specific educational needs or due to physical limitations? Or cannot get a fresh start elsewhere due to a toxic home or school environment?
@@Renville80 Not what I’m saying at all. There’s just many instances of families using false addresses to get into schools. Now, if the kid does live part time there of course they should attend in that area. I’m saying, be honest about your residence. It puts a strain on the school’s resources for all students when the numbers are off. Many people don’t know this. There are ways to legitimately transfer to a school for special needs.
@@kennathom7704 It sounded that the OPs cousin lived with the grandparents, not OP. I’m all for good education; I’m just saying schools get funding from taxes. If a kid doesn’t actually live where they’re family’s tax money is going that puts a strain on the school’s resources for all students. Schools have been know to turn a blind eye to the address situation, but it can/does have some negative consequences.
@@kennathom7704 I’m often torn too. I’m appalled by the behavior of the faculty at the school. No matter the situation, educators are supposed to protect students, not neglect them. And I’m speaking as someone who works in a school district.
That was savage, the restraining order against the bf.
I wonder if darkfluff is secretly a furry, if so thats adorable
I think it is in the realm of possibilities. As in him and his partner do the whole furry thing (I am assuming he is seeing someone).
I refuse to believe that Fluff is a human. They are a sentient sheep running a successful TH-cam channel in my eyes 🤣
@@thealicesinvade very cute black sheep 🥰
The first couple were only married for three years. I can see a woman like this spending out of her league flor a wedding and not paying it off..I am curious how much of the debt the ex had was wedding related. That would be a big cherry on top for her to end up nothing but wedding debt.
My ex got less than that and hammered harder than that in our divorce. She was hammered with a no contact order that expired on her death 5 years ago. She committed suicide. She was also banned with that order from working with either with kids or the elderly. She couldn't also own a firearm and several other things.
Wow!! That first story was SO savage! Love the writing of it too. Wow!
These videos make my day! Thanks dark fluff