Should you love the innocent children that your husband/wife made outside of your marriage?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @No2HeartStoppingClotShots
    @No2HeartStoppingClotShots 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I will never take in a child my husband makes while cheating on me because he will never take another man's child I bring as a wife cheating on him... It ends there, it's not about stepmother label the society gave us, it's not about emotions, it's about putting my happiness and sanity first just like he puts his sanity and happiness first❤ I will quickly excuse myself and my own children for them to carry on with their lives without me... 😂😅Yho Zintle and Rene I'm sorry I have no words I think he bewitched u😅😅

    • @IvyChilomba
      @IvyChilomba 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Amen to this! you and me same Whatsapp group! If my man decides to get a child outside wedlock, he didn't consult me in the first place over it, so why should i get involved in the long run? I for one, will NEVER ever involve myself in their affairs, each to their own for sure, I rest my case.

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too because m hurt and mad because m cheated on so. I don't want to make that child suffer for parents sins kids are too precious for that

    • @BarbieYunch
      @BarbieYunch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly sisi❤

  • @rosebellewaihenya4888
    @rosebellewaihenya4888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That apostle needs a raise, get him to co host

  • @MosaMatt
    @MosaMatt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Apostle Phenyo for president 🤣🙌👏

    • @Itss_your_girl_bk
      @Itss_your_girl_bk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He is such a blessing 😊

  • @lataninemukula4815
    @lataninemukula4815 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It's such a great thing to listen to an advice from a male's perspective. I heard one of the guest saying she was not married to the guy but lobola was paid. Just a piece of advice that marriage is recognised by law in South Africa as customary marriage and it must be dissolved by the court even if the marriage was not registered with home affairs, if one party decide to be nasty they can drag you to court and the court will listen to their matter.

  • @africanbrowny
    @africanbrowny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God spoke very clearly through Apostle Phenyo👌🏾🙏🏾

  • @nthabisengtsiu2284
    @nthabisengtsiu2284 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ladies ka nnete we should unlearn this things that will kill us.

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The first Speaker seemed to put all blame on the Side Chick and not the Husband. 😳 But who invited the Side into the marriage and impregnated while married🤔🤔 Yah neh!

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She loved him too much

    • @zandimsengane9470
      @zandimsengane9470 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am also picking that up, listening now.

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sana! She just said "the side chick decided to make a child with my husband" haibo 😳😳😳

  • @dianentokonyane6892
    @dianentokonyane6892 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man of God has said it all. You should invite him.

  • @Itss_your_girl_bk
    @Itss_your_girl_bk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    But why do we as women blame the other woman.What about your cheating husband.That's where we go wrong.Until and unless we change that this men won't stop

    • @fhatuwanimasindi
      @fhatuwanimasindi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe that if as a woman i forgive a cheating husband I will also accept the child, how can I forgive him and not accept the poor child?

  • @Selzo6642
    @Selzo6642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Pastor Phenyo. I needed to hear it from the man of God

  • @leratomosiane2740
    @leratomosiane2740 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Apostle Phenyo 👐💯

  • @Rele.S
    @Rele.S 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tjhe guest o strong😂😂😂 I will never

  • @openmindedfairy9691
    @openmindedfairy9691 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    According to me, since they were sneaking around while making the child, they must continue sneaking around as a little family 😂😅

  • @BarbieYunch
    @BarbieYunch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You’re not evil for not loving a man’s children that aren’t yours. It’s okay, it’s normal. We don’t expect men to love children that aren’t theirs, we also shouldn’t be expected to love children that aren’t ours.

  • @thamichauke5639
    @thamichauke5639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Apostle Penyo😮😱🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Miss_Sir2
    @Miss_Sir2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yhuuu Apostle 🙏🙏🙏🙏… 10 out of 10

  • @mmankwehllaks2271
    @mmankwehllaks2271 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    *that you dont wanna heal story killed me..

  • @PriscaChauke
    @PriscaChauke 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    madam speaker your laugh is contagious....🤣

    • @JosephMosue
      @JosephMosue 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like how Madam Speaker gets worked up but holds herself!😂😂😂

  • @glendalapane7292
    @glendalapane7292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanx apostle Phenyo

  • @paulamunlo5699
    @paulamunlo5699 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor read us for FILFTH 😭

  • @thembileluthuli1154
    @thembileluthuli1154 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Let him be my sister karma will show him flames love your kids enough and they won’t feel the void.He must fetch his child

  • @connymontsho
    @connymontsho 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How can i be part of this?As in telling my story😂

  • @nomsachironda9624
    @nomsachironda9624 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My queen 👑 i didn't like those hissing sound that was coming from the second caller it's very annoying....but i love the show it's very informative 🙏

    • @nqobilemnguni3620
      @nqobilemnguni3620 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad I am not the only one. I decided to skip that part shame .

  • @JosephMosue
    @JosephMosue 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yhuuuu Queen Anzo does not have kids of her own?
    From her own womb?

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a roller coaster 🎢 😂

  • @gugumzima9007
    @gugumzima9007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @sifisosithole9631
    @sifisosithole9631 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This thing happens to both genders.Its just that on a male side the wife will just say the child is yours knowing very well it's not.Infidelity is a problem in the society

    • @mathapelomphahlele5309
      @mathapelomphahlele5309 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s true..it’s been happening for the longest time.