Im 42 years single and i was on the verge of just giving up on waiting on God for marital settlement. Infact i was considering going into relationship with any man that comes around bcos the trauma of been riduculed as a single lady at my age is just too much for me to handle But watching this interview opened my eyes to the mistake i was about making. This is God telling me to wait for His time May i not marry wrong in Jesus name
This woman is so pure and innocent. I can still see her youthful beauty especially when she smiles. God will Make you smile again. Just look after yourself. Go to spa, get facials and massages. See a therapist. Enjoy life. You are God’s daughter and His glory will always be upon you
I went trough kind of the same thing I was with my ex who paid my dowry at age 18years. We met when i was almost 15yrs I remember One day we were sleeping on the bed. I had à dream where they were telling me: look hè wants to kill you I work up and He was looking at me. It was 3 am in the morning. Also He will tell me often that: oh this prophet so and so said your wife is a person with a lot Of luck. Its after we seperate that i started to understand that He used to use me to get things in Life. I started to see him for who He was in dreams I was 26 yrs when we seperated. I left with my two kids.i grew up on church but my pastor even encouraged me to marry him. But leaving my ex i found a church were the teached me to seek the Holy Spirit and the power of the cross of Jesus Christ and how to claim it on your Life and every situation. Since then i finished school, paid all my debts, i serve in my church, a fellowshio meeting is held every thursday in my house 35years nurse and debt free To Jesus Christ be all the praise
Sometimes you feel your story is soo painful and unique until you hear someone else say theirs this is exactly my story. I left with two kids too, same story.
This woman is so wise and with a lot of experiences, No teenage girl would sit down in a room with this woman and come out unchanged. We are anticipating your books ma'am
People who grew up in loving, minimally toxic families often struggle to grasp the extent of cruelty and wickedness that can exist in the world. She is a kind and compassionate woman, and I hope she is rewarded abundantly for everything she has endured. May she find complete healing and experience true, unconditional love.
I watched this in tears... i felt like i was relieving everything that had happened to me. I knelt down and kept glorifying God for my life. This was my life. This was my story and even worse. But God spared my life. There are some things you hear, its hard to comprehend it or believe that humans can be this wicked coz u will be thinking it only happens in Nollywood movies. I hope that someday i will have the courage to tell my story like this so that people can learn lessons and that Gods name will be glorified. I am a breathing, living , walking testimony of God's mercies and grace. Thank you Jesus for saving me🙏
When she was talking I also felt the same . Such evil people always come with physical abuse and some kind of addiction. My ex he was physical with me very demanding and an alcoholic.
What I cannot comprehend is how wicked the heart can be,and is always the good and the innocent women that end up with the bad husband,I still can't place it ,
Lessons: 1. Don't be a naive christian 2. Don't be unequally yoked, weigh every spirit whether they be of God 3. Have family and spiritual support 4. Avoid predating spiritual alliances/affiliation/entanglement 5.Appropriate God for yourself, every solution is available through knowledge, knowledge is enhanced by the holy Holy spirit is gotten through sonship and fellowship. 6. Emotional intelligence is a must. It involves mapping to know how far you can go with red lights even in the face of seeming solution/provision. 7. It is never too late to retrace every step. Whenever we wake up is our morning.
Such a beautiful woman. I detest pastors who push certain men to women in the name of God’s will. Imagine 4months of traumatic marriage and 10 years of consequences.
How can a lady be soo intelligent, so real, soo Phenomenonal, so WISE, Naive, gullible, strong survivor, soo innocent, so God Loving, and positively ambitiously Driven? How can One woman be Everything!!!??? May God deliver everyone who's going through a toxic relationship be it marriage or whatever!!! I think Every young lady needs to see this!!!
Am so so inspired.Ur a bundle of testimonies. This is d power of God at work.The evidence of Gods hand at work in a man.Thank you pastor Femi for this stories
😂😂😂. The young ladies will watch and still not learn right. Trust me. It takes wisdom and humility to marry right, as a woman. It is worse for we men. Men need an arm and a leg to marry right. A woman has to be descent, respect herself and others, be feminine etc. The simple things that made our grandparents marriage work are the same things that makes marriage work today. The modern woman wants everything her way, she understands things her own way and so the situationships we see today. It is heartbreaking seeing our women go through this.
This story is thought-provoking. She was wise to act like nothing was wrong when she was packing her belongings and on the day that she moved! He did not suspect anything! "The devil thought he had me, but Jesus came and grabbed me." Amen! Praise the Lord!
All through her narration, she never referred to him as her husband. She kept saying "this man" I like how she put him in his place even in her narration
Amen! When I was attacked in my dream, the lady said she has been trying to attack me but I have a ring of fire 🔥 around me that prevented her from attacking me. If only we can see how we are protected with our spiritual eyes, we will be amazed. All glory to God 🙏
I really pray and hope this woman does write a book detailing her experience. I’m a 17 year old girl and her story is more valuable than you can imagine. Most of the things she said are things my own mother experienced. When I was younger my father would carry my mom and even me and my brother to one evil alter or the other. I was too young to understand the gravity of the situation. Now that I’m older I thank God my mom held on to God if not my life would have been ruined. So many things have happened, even things I still don’t know about, but God spared our lives. I’m glad my father abandoned us oh because only God knows what could have happened if he stayed. He is now a born again Christian, and truth be told, I am glad God delivered him from the clutches of the enemy. God will bless this woman and restore all the years the locust and canker worms have eaten, and thank you a million times Apostle Femi Lazarus for this platform.
My name is Orinya Daniel; first born of my parents. I'm 16 yrs of age with 4 siblings (girls!). Listening to this story, I'm left with no choice than to pray for them every day. Pray oh! Pray! Things happen, but nothing like this will happen to any of my sisters as far as I am alive in Christ Jesus.
I love this woman so much😭😭😭. My soul blesses her. I'm speaking in tongues while watching this. She's a mother to her generation!!!!! You will fufil purpose ma!!! You will find love again. God will give you a man after his own heart. I love you ma!!! Kai!!! And She's so beautiful!!! Her soul is pure❤
I wonder what this life would have been without God😢 U are a living testimony ma and God isn’t done with u yet U are a Great woman and d future awaits ur greatness The same God tha has led u this far will definitely give u many many reasons to be happy and live again Congratulations ma u are a great survivor 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I've never engaged in any story as I did this one, I always see reels or stories on Facebook or TikTok of interviews and just wow them but never really watched on TH-cam, this is the first time I'm watching from start to end. Ma, this is inspiring and encouraging. Everything in this story is screaming "Be careful", being a Christian alone cannot help you navigate life in general, because people are crafty and wicked. I've built faith, and wisdom by watching this story. God bless you ma, keep you and thank you pst. Femi, I love what you do and how you try to relate to us in a way that screams Godliness with everyday living. God bless you ❤
The only reason she was able to get along with God and still this loving and kind is because she was raised with love and had a wonderful support system. ❤
Come to Jesus, he has shown you so many green lights. Accepting Jesus is the greatest thing I have ever experienced. He is the Light to lead you out. Do it for yourself. You will be persecuted. I was, too, but I knew the truth I needed.
There's only one name that is permitted to safe, no other one expects Jesus. I chose to run to him for safety or to say he drew me closer. I saw a green light and went for it😊
That's good for you. There are Many Muslims who listen to this pastor's message because truth can come from anybody irrespective of their religion. This lady didn't say she is not okay being Muslim. To practice any religion you have to be convinced about it. As a Muslim I have experienced clear messages from God as loud as this woman shared in the video, experienced miracles from asking God directly for guidance and sometimes the answers would come instantly. I also do not practice because that's what I knew at birth, I practice because this is the way I am convinced to worship God. Peace. @@rasheedahsalami4249
Hmmm this is a story that touches the core of the heart. Dear Lady feeling inferior and depressed in your waiting season, please i beg you, wait to receive your isaac. Don't be pressurised like mother sarah at a point, who got tired of waiting and had Ishmael. When you wait on God, He will not only settle you in His perfect will, but He will so prepare you and refine you to become a fruitful vine by the sides of your future home. I am speaking from experience please. Waiting on God to marry his will is such a huge blessing because you will learn a lot about life, and God will perfect you so well that when your isaac comes, you will laugh aloud Just like mother sarah. Dont wait in distress But wait in Christ. Wait in His presence and at the end, you will never miss your inheritance. May the God of restoration, restore the stolen years of our interviewee 🙏
Kids raised in shielded homes are not street smart : they live life believing and trusting without reservation. People regularly take advantage of their openness and naivety May she find complete healing, her scars are her victory marks
Talk to me. I was shielded. I learnt too much the hard way. I was kind hearted, trusting and believe easily. Today, today, I am so tough and discern all things. Thank God for the Holy Spirit.
@@cii_lessons9061Parents should be loving but allow their children understand the other side of life. Life doesn't end in the four corners of your room, home or circles. The world is global and full of so many kinds of crazy dynamics. You prepare your children for the world ahead of them and not the other way round
The woman that came as the brother's wife was an Angel sent by God in her face. God is a Spirit and His Ways are mysterious. May God deliver all singles from evil men, the wolves in sheep vlothings
This is mind-blowing......just so much to chew at once. 1. When you hit issues or crises, that's when you will know that hearing God by yourself is more than any pastor praying for me. 2. No matter what, verify verify verify verify verify before you get involved with anyone. Observe and notice every single thing. 3. Pray always like your life depends on it 4. Don't think the same heart you have is what everyone else has. 5. Be street smart even when when you have a beautiful relationship with God. 6. God, first over everything 7. Pray all forms of prayers...... don't assume your spiritual level. Challenges expose your depths and my Pastor my Pastor no go help at that level
I can relate to her story. My elder Sister went through something similar, her ex husband married her to use her for sacrifice. Till today she’s fighting physical and spiritual battles but the Lord has being her refuge.
Goodness! The way I bursted into prayer for my future and my younger sister! God is sooo good and I’m so blessed by this song testimony ❤❤ I Uchechi, will marry once and will marry right!
Sometimes growing up in a loving home can shield people from life's tough realities. I hope she maintains her softness as she heals. Thank God for protecting and loving her.
I feel she was targeted from the very beginning and it was well calculated The first time he bumped into her was not the first time he might have seen her. Afterall they needed a righteous person for a sacrifice and he would not have known that by just meeting her for the first time. He must have studied her for a while or someone close to her gave her up Then he looked for a way to have contact with her and then put a spell on her. That he bumped into her the first time the meet was for him to put a spell on her. I also feel he took something of her's that gave him access to her throughout the years of torture and my guess is her money. I pray she becomes whole
Gbam my thought as well....from the begining I told myself she was Jazzed ( 'Touch and follow'was what he did to her) How can someone move like a zombie into a loveless marriage...u do not know him from anywhere..... ... Irrespective of Every God is merciful
This story is similar to my story. My parents had told me their prophet said he was my husband. After I had been abused and left that marriage, I still listened again to a pastor who led me into the second abusive engagement. It was at that point I sort help because I was not going to endure abuse twice with kids never mind how I entered the relationship, I realised that I had to take my life in my own hands with God only - no interference. I stopped listening to prophets through my parents. I stopped believing pastors even though not all were wrong but I could not discern at the time. Long story short, I got help and got my life back on track. Today, I help domestic abuse survivors who are now single moms or widows to live a more meaningful life.
Yes, he said I prayed too much also. He said he could only eat fresh food. He said I should use my shares & investments to pay my son’s childminder. He ripped my bags, necklaces, bangles. He hits me so angrily. You would wonder where his strength came from.
So similar. He would bring his friends to the house to come and eat every week. He made sure I did not have my own money to spend. I could not do my hair or change my clothes.
Yes, imagine going through what she’s describing happened in 4 months for 3.5 years. My mental health deteriorated at some point. It was so bad. I hope other women can learn from these stories. It’s not a good place to be
I wish my aunt survived,she passed earlier this year in May. I had never wanted to see someone win so bad in my life. She passed some days after her 50th. Her burial was the first ever experience that made me shed painful, uncontrollable tears. Ah! God of vengeance,arise and judge that man,just the same way he made her suffer for absolutely nothing,his lot and pain shall be awarded to him a hundred times fold. My aunt's heart was something more than gold,sweet, innocent,yes naive,kind to a fault, like she'd be so kind that you'd be mad at her at times,till i finally understood that some people truly are angels here on earth. It pained me deeply when she passed. I couldn't stop questioning Abba,all they said was God wanted her to rest. Dear Doctor Chika,you won, i am so grateful to God for keeping you,you survived,go out there,live life to the fullest,i pray God protects you and blesses you with the love,joy and happiness you deserve. Amen.
What are you talking about? She said she's tongue-speaking, prayerful, a strong SU background. You better open your eyes we'll if you're preparing to go into marriage. What kind of discernment are you talking about here? She saw all the red flags, but refused to take the necessary and right decisions. Physical, emotional abuse and was not married to him. What else do you need to know that this was not right?
Marriage is not for everybody. Dear woman, you can live happily without a man. Get a career, adopt or have a child, make money, travel the world and enjoy yourself. I can’t imagine a sweet woman like this who was raised with a lot of love and who believes in Christ being this traumatized over 4months of marital mistake.
@chinwe I agree with you that marriage is not a must simply becos the Bible says God has work in His Vineyard for the unmarried. See 1Cor7:34. God usually uses the unmarried men and women as Missionaries as we can see from the life of Apostle Paul and the Lord Jesus Himself. Being unmarried is nothing to be ashamed of, it depends on God's mission for your life. Find it and you will be fulfilled doing it
It happened to me too, I was almost used by the "Christian Brother, who prior to then, had been my friend from age 7, because our Mother's were friends, we literally grew up together. He took me to a "Church" somewhere in Oyo Town, where my glory was to have been transferred to him but the Holy Spirit squealed on him and God delivered me. Like the lady here, the battle lasted for 8 years, he called me in my sleep and I went into coma for 5 days with no vital signs of life at theUCH. Word of knowledge and word of wisdom brought me back to live.
This is one of the most touching session I have heard on marriage... Lesson learnt; Do not trust anyone more than you trust God. Ask the Holy spirit to reveal the true identity of people to you. When he does, dont ignore.
This woman is so innocent you could tell from the way she speaks. I thank God for your deliverance and I pray God satisfies you with peace and love. God bless you real good. And God bless you pastor for using this platform to share real life stories to us all to learn from. More grace on you sir.
I almost fell into this same issue but GOD saved me . We have even printed invitation cards. The spirit of God kept me restless till days to the traditional marriage I ran away from everyone and everything.
Same here. Fell into that trap first, and Lord delivered me, and I was about to fall into another one a few years after the first deliverance, but truly underneath are the everlasting hands and the scales fell quick before any damage was done. Glory to God for His faithfulness. Hmm.
The mistake most women make is being free spirited around people who are not good or sincerely nice/ kind. We always feel the next person is as nice and good as we are. Guard your heart...
‘Opinion is cheap’ sounds so profound! Overall, don’t stay in that situation just to keep an impression or what people will say! May God grant you the wisdom and strength to overcome your struggles, Amen 🙏🏽
I love this woman ,she’s so strong and eloquent. Sending her lots of hugs . I pray God restores all that has been lost and if there’s anything she wishes for,may God answer her .
This is a big lesson to all of us esp those who criticize females when they are of age and not married,stop mocking or pressuring them but rather get closer and know why they are still single at that age.
People need to get used to the idea that not everyone is designed for marriage. Marriage is designed by God for kingdom purpose not for the man or the woman. Were some apostles and prophets married, no but did they fulfill God’s call on them of course
I will like to say a big thank you to the Holy Spirit for coming across this testimony. Congratulations to you ma Congratulations to you pastor sir🎉🎉🎉 This is a great eyeopener!!!
My ah ah has finished while watching this interview...😲😩 To the unmarried, you will marry right. To the married, your marriage is blessed. We pray for the grace for contentment and may God help us to have a discerning heart.
I kept shouting through out this story, truly life is really spiritual oh, we thank God for saving you and for this wonderful story I really learnt a lot
Listening to this, I am tending to think that same man might have been the one that orchestrated the robbery of her house that necessitated her moving in with him
Wow😢 This made me cry, she has had a tough life but her faith saw her through. She is an amazing and strong woman, may the lord restore her, may her joy overflow abundantly so much that those years of sorrow will be distant memory. Thank you for sharing, I love you and Jesus loves you dearly ❤
All i could just say watching almost halfway through the Video till now is "Thank you Jesus"...... This is a deep situation, and it really reveals how merciful and intentional our God can be over a soul THANK YOU LORD!!!
Dear women, get something in your hand. Marriage is not do I die. I left with my children & just clothes 4 years ago. I’m here, not been easy but I have peace of mind. Don’t stay in an abusive relationship or marriage because of what people will or how you’d start your life afresh. Leave first, God will sort the rest.
Exactly, sometimes you pray for open doors but they are traps set by the enemy. Even the devil disguises as an angel of light. My story, having been jobless for years about 6yrs, I got a job that was to pay me money I can make annually in an hour of work. I tried so hard to fight the voice of God, everywhere I turned, the voice of God was more audible but I was still in denial. Until I had to take heed. Forever grateful unto my creator indeed some opens are not open doors
This is mond blowing. I can't but thank God for all the failed relationships and disappointments that could have been toxic . My marriage is on Jesus ooo. My hands will not be joined in matrimony with the wrong man in Jesus name. I celebrate your victory ma. Your joy will be full in Jesus name. Amen Thank you Apostle for this platform. It is an eye opener.
Listened to this amaizing piece for the second time again and it still speaks to me with so much depth I really appreciate the fact that we're begining to see that marriage does not necessarily define womanhood because so many women out there have stories to tell all in the name of marriages. I pray that God keeps each woman who is crying in silence till her voice becomes audible
"Every woman should get her own money". This struck me, I say this over and over again. Don't sit down and wait for a man to fix your life. You are too precious to be damaged by any one. Remember all the dreams you have while growing up, you can make it happen. Thanks Pastor.
She is realed to a reasonable degree. But there would be moments flashes of the bitter experiences will come. I think she's telling the story to contribute positively to our society of Christianom. And you know what the Bible says what the enemy meant for evil, God turn it for His glory. All things work together for good
When a deep wound heals, there is always a scar left on the body. Scars never go away. They are badges of honor that one was victorious in battle. Scars do not bleed nor do they pain. When you think about how God has taken you through the valley of the shadow of death, my dear you will get emotional 😢 you will cry because of the goodness of God! 🙌 🙌 🙌 Aah! The Lion of Judah! 🦁
I just wrote this week to my supervisors that I am quitting my doctorates. My father and my God give me the strength to continue after hearing this testimony, "everyone reaches to that point of quitting." It is not easy. I am meeting my supervisors tomorrow. God show me the way to go, give me the wisdom needed.
Some men hate to see successful women. He knew who she was before she knew about him. She was his target. He did everything to get her under his control, so he could trample and hold her down. She was too powerful for him
Thank you beloved of God for sharing your thought-provoking story with the World. Sincerely pray that our singles will learn and wouldn't be given to licentiousness. Till tomorrow, Jesus is still the Lord and the best friend anyone can have. Sister, God will definitely cause the rest of your life to be the best in Jesus peerless name. I see your Boaz locating you sooner than you thought. Shalom and Godspeed.
She was hypnotized with dark power. She entered that marriage unknowingly. She was not locked in a bottle but was hypnotized thats why she can ask herself every time "how did I get here"
Thank you for her story. Her love of God, faith, strength, resilience is what I take. I have learnt so much from her story. I would live to know her name so that I can watch out for her books. I am in South Africa 🇿🇦
Waaoo! I listened to the message with full attention. I've learned alot ma from your life. I pray God brings you the right man in Jesus ' name 🙏. I'm single and trusting God to be hard-working, make my own money and be a blessing to nations. Greetings from Cameroon 🇨🇲 🇨🇲
I had similar experience but i didn’t get to d point of marriage. We did formal introduction and he unleashed d dragon in him after d introduction. We were set to marry 3 months after. Everything she said happened to me bcos I let him come to my house. He literally moved in with me and that was how I saw everything i needed to see. I tried breaking up after 4 months but the battle was tough. I succeeded after the 6th to 7th month. It was very traumatic. For over a year I kept asking myself same question “how did I get here”? But I thank God I healed and God blessed me with a good man after his heart
This story is a very very big lesson.I was eating and almost vomited due to the emotions.Marriage without asking God for discernment is a recipe for catastrophy.I know it first hand.May God help us
My padi😂😂😂 lol... deep story though, I am happy she could still laugh, she's is a beautiful woman. She bounced back for good and get her life back. Thank God for the testimony.
And some people still think there’s no God??? I just started praying and getting closer to him,so glad I met who I met that made me close to him now! So happy for you ma’am! May the lord continue to be with you🫶May you be strengthened and protected by the special grace of God❤
Im 42 years single and i was on the verge of just giving up on waiting on God for marital settlement. Infact i was considering going into relationship with any man that comes around bcos the trauma of been riduculed as a single lady at my age is just too much for me to handle
But watching this interview opened my eyes to the mistake i was about making.
This is God telling me to wait for His time
May i not marry wrong in Jesus name
Amen! Your own well crafted husband from God is coming
Please don't go into any kind of marriage ma
No dear the moment you get in the right man will come so if you wouldn’t mind wait. May God be with you because is not easy🥰
Amen ooo. Plz endure still, it's not at all easy but u can do it with God s help
@@temitopeolufeyisan2344 Amen
Ameen
This woman is so pure and innocent. I can still see her youthful beauty especially when she smiles. God will
Make you smile again. Just look after yourself. Go to spa, get facials and massages. See a therapist. Enjoy life. You are God’s daughter and His glory will always be upon you
I tell you! She is so simple minded….my goodness! Thank God for His mercies upon her.
I love how she lites up each time she speaks about her dad ☺️.
She's so p it re at hearr
And she's so calm 🥺🙏 thank you for this 🙏❤️ May God continue to heal you.
Amen
I will marry right.
I will marry well.
I will marry once.
Pastor Femi sef tire.
This story is heartbreaking....
I Will not marry trouble, I will not marry double
Amen
Amen
Amen me too 🙏🙏🙏
I went trough kind of the same thing
I was with my ex who paid my dowry at age 18years. We met when i was almost 15yrs
I remember One day we were sleeping on the bed. I had à dream where they were telling me: look hè wants to kill you
I work up and He was looking at me. It was 3 am in the morning.
Also He will tell me often that: oh this prophet so and so said your wife is a person with a lot Of luck.
Its after we seperate that i started to understand that He used to use me to get things in Life. I started to see him for who He was in dreams
I was 26 yrs when we seperated. I left with my two kids.i grew up on church but my pastor even encouraged me to marry him.
But leaving my ex i found a church were the teached me to seek the Holy Spirit and the power of the cross of Jesus Christ and how to claim it on your Life and every situation.
Since then i finished school, paid all my debts, i serve in my church, a fellowshio meeting is held every thursday in my house
35years nurse and debt free
To Jesus Christ be all the praise
Halleluyah
I will also be debt free, in Jesus name, Amen
Hallelujah!! Thank God for your story!
Sometimes you feel your story is soo painful and unique until you hear someone else say theirs this is exactly my story. I left with two kids too, same story.
Thank God for your life
This woman is so wise and with a lot of experiences, No teenage girl would sit down in a room with this woman and come out unchanged.
We are anticipating your books ma'am
As in ehn,❤❤ I'll be the second person to get her book ❤❤
You can say it again.
People who grew up in loving, minimally toxic families often struggle to grasp the extent of cruelty and wickedness that can exist in the world. She is a kind and compassionate woman, and I hope she is rewarded abundantly for everything she has endured. May she find complete healing and experience true, unconditional love.
True
Spot On!
To the pure all things are pure.
But then, wicked and unreasonable people exist.
Amen!
Absolutely true 👍
True but also toxic childhood environments create tolerant adults. They are conditioned to accept the kind of love they already know.
“Whatever God cannot do for me should remain undone “ 😩❤️
Amen my prayers everyday
Amen o
Quoting Bishop David Oyedepo.
Great 👍 quote.
Amen.
Yy it@@Dell-f4m
The lady is very naive and innocent, may God compensate her for all her loss, bless her with a good man and restore her a 100 fold.
Glory....
I watched this in tears... i felt like i was relieving everything that had happened to me. I knelt down and kept glorifying God for my life. This was my life. This was my story and even worse. But God spared my life. There are some things you hear, its hard to comprehend it or believe that humans can be this wicked coz u will be thinking it only happens in Nollywood movies. I hope that someday i will have the courage to tell my story like this so that people can learn lessons and that Gods name will be glorified. I am a breathing, living , walking testimony of God's mercies and grace. Thank you Jesus for saving me🙏
My dear if u hear my own hmmmm u go confuse fuse . How I take dey alive sef only God knows.
Jesus na You I know .
When she was talking I also felt the same . Such evil people always come with physical abuse and some kind of addiction. My ex he was physical with me very demanding and an alcoholic.
@@kiyonsieunice4133keep praying dear 🙏 God see 2ru one day
What I cannot comprehend is how wicked the heart can be,and is always the good and the innocent women that end up with the bad husband,I still can't place it ,
Gosh is he still alive
Lessons:
1. Don't be a naive christian
2. Don't be unequally yoked, weigh every spirit whether they be of God
3. Have family and spiritual support
4. Avoid predating spiritual alliances/affiliation/entanglement
5.Appropriate God for yourself, every solution is available through knowledge, knowledge is enhanced by the holy Holy spirit is gotten through sonship and fellowship.
6. Emotional intelligence is a must.
It involves mapping to know how far you can go with red lights even in the face of seeming solution/provision.
7. It is never too late to retrace every step.
Whenever we wake up is our morning.
Amen to that
@@raymondelle You are an intelligent listener. great lessons outlined here, well done
beautiful.
As Apostle Joshua Selman says, “I pray for you not to marry an unbeliever, a foolish man and our enemy in Jesus name! Amen
Amen oooo
Amen
Amen for my children
Pray to marry a true believer,this lady's story he met the man as a Christian.so be vigilant in prayers and pray for vision
My dear even the “believers are causing more harm than good. If I tell you my story, it will shock you.
Such a beautiful woman. I detest pastors who push certain men to women in the name of God’s will. Imagine 4months of traumatic marriage and 10 years of consequences.
How can a lady be soo intelligent, so real, soo Phenomenonal, so WISE, Naive, gullible, strong survivor, soo innocent, so God Loving, and positively ambitiously Driven? How can One woman be Everything!!!???
May God deliver everyone who's going through a toxic relationship be it marriage or whatever!!!
I think Every young lady needs to see this!!!
Am so so inspired.Ur a bundle of testimonies. This is d power of God at work.The evidence of Gods hand at work in a man.Thank you pastor Femi for this stories
😂😂😂. The young ladies will watch and still not learn right. Trust me. It takes wisdom and humility to marry right, as a woman. It is worse for we men. Men need an arm and a leg to marry right. A woman has to be descent, respect herself and others, be feminine etc. The simple things that made our grandparents marriage work are the same things that makes marriage work today. The modern woman wants everything her way, she understands things her own way and so the situationships we see today. It is heartbreaking seeing our women go through this.
@@pedromesh2503 because she is God's own daughter....
A powerful Amen and Amen
Well said, well written.
We will marry once and marry right , we won't marry a fool, Amen, God will protect both the married and singles,
Amen
Amen
The fool part 😂😂
Amen 🙏
Amennn
This story is thought-provoking. She was wise to act like nothing was wrong when she was packing her belongings and on the day that she moved! He did not suspect anything! "The devil thought he had me, but Jesus came and grabbed me." Amen! Praise the Lord!
Most women died having announced that they're leaving bad marriages. Discretion will save you.
oh yes .when h thought h knew it all
Glooooory
All through her narration, she never referred to him as her husband. She kept saying "this man" I like how she put him in his place even in her narration
Because words are powerful
I noticed
I had JESUS written on my forehead…in GOLD!!!
Thank you JESUS for your name.
I have pls not had
Amen! When I was attacked in my dream, the lady said she has been trying to attack me but I have a ring of fire 🔥 around me that prevented her from attacking me. If only we can see how we are protected with our spiritual eyes, we will be amazed. All glory to God 🙏
The name of the Lord is a STRONG tower🙌🙌🥳
Halleluyah
Thank you Jesus
I learnt from her story to be prayerful and sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit.
When you get in touch with the holy spirit, you will love to pray more
Exactly
Glory
The price we end up paying for associating with wrong people is far too steep for us to not be strict about who we let into our lives.
That's so true my dear
God will genuinely bless you for this thing you’ve said ❤️🤲
I totally agree
@@Cherrywealth Amen🙏
Asin enhhhhh I am still paying the prize for wrong association 😢
This story is the definition of "Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me". JESUS!!! 😢🙆♀️
Glory
It is the fact that she still passionately loves Jesus 🥹 Jesus is real and able to save 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
We don't know what God does for us until we hear stories like this.
So right, I'm so grateful to God!
So true
@@jenifertitus3312that's true
That's when we get to know how great God really is
@@chideragmarizu I was so shocked with this story.
I
Aa
Her advice that women should have their own money is powerful. Being financially dependent on another human being puts you at their mercy.
Have money and healthy self esteem to no way to say no.
Imagine if she had nothing. She'd have been forced to stay and endure until death. God gave mercy upon us.
Just listening to her talk you tell that this lady was naive and has a pure heart ♥️
Most importantly have Ur own money
She had money but fell for a bad guy
I really pray and hope this woman does write a book detailing her experience. I’m a 17 year old girl and her story is more valuable than you can imagine. Most of the things she said are things my own mother experienced. When I was younger my father would carry my mom and even me and my brother to one evil alter or the other. I was too young to understand the gravity of the situation. Now that I’m older I thank God my mom held on to God if not my life would have been ruined. So many things have happened, even things I still don’t know about, but God spared our lives. I’m glad my father abandoned us oh because only God knows what could have happened if he stayed. He is now a born again Christian, and truth be told, I am glad God delivered him from the clutches of the enemy. God will bless this woman and restore all the years the locust and canker worms have eaten, and thank you a million times Apostle Femi Lazarus for this platform.
My name is Orinya Daniel; first born of my parents.
I'm 16 yrs of age with 4 siblings (girls!). Listening to this story, I'm left with no choice than to pray for them every day. Pray oh! Pray! Things happen, but nothing like this will happen to any of my sisters as far as I am alive in Christ Jesus.
Amwn🙏
And it will not happen. God bless you!
Amen
Amen, darling you and your sisters will marry right. Don't be scared there are still good marriages out there🎉
Amen
I love this woman so much😭😭😭. My soul blesses her. I'm speaking in tongues while watching this. She's a mother to her generation!!!!! You will fufil purpose ma!!! You will find love again. God will give you a man after his own heart. I love you ma!!! Kai!!! And She's so beautiful!!! Her soul is pure❤
So true...Her restoration will be massive!!
Amen
In agreement! It is so in Jesus name.
In agreement! It is so in Jesus name.
Am lost for words
I stopped believing in Christ 4yrs ago but with this testimony of her I now believe they is a God
Hallelujah
Jesus loves you
Praise the name of the living God.
God is good, all the time
@@AmiraKole-k9p life nay happen, but let your anchor remian chriat alone.
Glory!! HALLELUYAH! Welcome back home dear brother/sister
I wonder what this life would have been without God😢
U are a living testimony ma and God isn’t done with u yet
U are a Great woman and d future awaits ur greatness
The same God tha has led u this far will definitely give u many many reasons to be happy and live again
Congratulations ma u are a great survivor 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I've never engaged in any story as I did this one, I always see reels or stories on Facebook or TikTok of interviews and just wow them but never really watched on TH-cam, this is the first time I'm watching from start to end.
Ma, this is inspiring and encouraging. Everything in this story is screaming "Be careful", being a Christian alone cannot help you navigate life in general, because people are crafty and wicked.
I've built faith, and wisdom by watching this story.
God bless you ma, keep you and thank you pst. Femi, I love what you do and how you try to relate to us in a way that screams Godliness with everyday living.
God bless you ❤
Same here I've never followed a story up to TH-cam whatever that was put on TikTok is enough for me
The only reason she was able to get along with God and still this loving and kind is because she was raised with love and had a wonderful support system. ❤
Could not agree more
You are spot on dear
Glory
A Muslim but stock here Thank you for this eye opening stories SIR
Same here
Come to Jesus, he has shown you so many green lights. Accepting Jesus is the greatest thing I have ever experienced. He is the Light to lead you out.
Do it for yourself. You will be persecuted. I was, too, but I knew the truth I needed.
There's only one name that is permitted to safe, no other one expects Jesus.
I chose to run to him for safety or to say he drew me closer. I saw a green light and went for it😊
If this is not a sign for you to know the truth I don't know what else
That's good for you. There are Many Muslims who listen to this pastor's message because truth can come from anybody irrespective of their religion. This lady didn't say she is not okay being Muslim. To practice any religion you have to be convinced about it. As a Muslim I have experienced clear messages from God as loud as this woman shared in the video, experienced miracles from asking God directly for guidance and sometimes the answers would come instantly. I also do not practice because that's what I knew at birth, I practice because this is the way I am convinced to worship God. Peace. @@rasheedahsalami4249
This woman has such a pure heart. It’s unfortunate that people like her suffer a lot in this world. May God heal her completely 💔
I totally agree with you... May her restoration be massive!
Hmmm this is a story that touches the core of the heart.
Dear Lady feeling inferior and depressed in your waiting season, please i beg you, wait to receive your isaac. Don't be pressurised like mother sarah at a point, who got tired of waiting and had Ishmael.
When you wait on God, He will not only settle you in His perfect will, but He will so prepare you and refine you to become a fruitful vine by the sides of your future home.
I am speaking from experience please. Waiting on God to marry his will is such a huge blessing because you will learn a lot about life, and God will perfect you so well that when your isaac comes, you will laugh aloud Just like mother sarah.
Dont wait in distress
But wait in Christ. Wait in His presence and at the end, you will never miss your inheritance.
May the God of restoration, restore the stolen years of our interviewee 🙏
Amen
You spoke to me ma🙇🙌
Amen
Amen
@@ezeemiliamoreofudear5763 you are welcome
To all the singles, may we marry right in Jesus name. This is scary.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Sure,God still leads
Amen
Kids raised in shielded homes are not street smart : they live life believing and trusting without reservation. People regularly take advantage of their openness and naivety
May she find complete healing, her scars are her victory marks
I can relate to this
That’s true, but how can you know a wolf when you meet one.
So PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE LOVING
Talk to me. I was shielded. I learnt too much the hard way. I was kind hearted, trusting and believe easily.
Today, today, I am so tough and discern all things. Thank God for the Holy Spirit.
@@cii_lessons9061Parents should be loving but allow their children understand the other side of life.
Life doesn't end in the four corners of your room, home or circles.
The world is global and full of so many kinds of crazy dynamics. You prepare your children for the world ahead of them and not the other way round
The woman that came as the brother's wife was an Angel sent by God in her face. God is a Spirit and His Ways are mysterious. May God deliver all singles from evil men, the wolves in sheep vlothings
Amen to that...
The truth is deliverance isn’t by pastor… you have to wake up and decide by yourself that enough is enough
I love you. This is it. This is wisdom from GOD. This comment.
You're right
That's true
She didn't just meet a true man of God.
Gbam
Thank God we have Christian podcast now
Glory Glory To Jesus
Praise God
There are ones before this.
And this would be the only christian podcast I'll listen 👂😢
And people are fighting it o!
Glory...
Dr. Chika. You have a pure soul - reason your trials are this intense!! You are a survivor!!
This is mind-blowing......just so much to chew at once.
1. When you hit issues or crises, that's when you will know that hearing God by yourself is more than any pastor praying for me.
2. No matter what, verify verify verify verify verify before you get involved with anyone. Observe and notice every single thing.
3. Pray always like your life depends on it
4. Don't think the same heart you have is what everyone else has.
5. Be street smart even when when you have a beautiful relationship with God.
6. God, first over everything
7. Pray all forms of prayers...... don't assume your spiritual level. Challenges expose your depths and my Pastor my Pastor no go help at that level
I can relate to her story. My elder Sister went through something similar, her ex husband married her to use her for sacrifice. Till today she’s fighting physical and spiritual battles but the Lord has being her refuge.
I can relate. Stil fighting but I am victorious in Christ it's just a matter of time.
@@viviananyaso4319, oh dear. Am so sorry to hear this. We thank Jesus for the victory. He who the Son sets free is free indeed.
If you she is Nigeria, she can go to Scoan
@@vivianogbonnaya1160 LET HER SACRIFICE HER MATERIAL THINGS TO GOD....
@vivianogbonnaya1160 let her learn 10 hours prayer and SPIRITUAL WARFARE FROM APOSTLE AROME OSAYI
The Holy Spirit is detailed 😢
God's love for us is 🔥
Very detailed ❤. I love Him
This story is so touching thanks for sharing this for ours to learn may God bless you
Don’t ever wish to be someone else,you never know their battles.
I have never been so attentive to a podcast like this
Goodness! The way I bursted into prayer for my future and my younger sister!
God is sooo good and I’m so blessed by this song testimony ❤❤
I Uchechi, will marry once and will marry right!
The Art of giving saves this women kind heart ,free spirit
Absolutely true! Alms giving speaks. The prayer of those we help speak for us and our children till eternity.
Sometimes growing up in a loving home can shield people from life's tough realities. I hope she maintains her softness as she heals. Thank God for protecting and loving her.
So true
I feel she was targeted from the very beginning and it was well calculated
The first time he bumped into her was not the first time he might have seen her. Afterall they needed a righteous person for a sacrifice and he would not have known that by just meeting her for the first time.
He must have studied her for a while or someone close to her gave her up
Then he looked for a way to have contact with her and then put a spell on her.
That he bumped into her the first time the meet was for him to put a spell on her.
I also feel he took something of her's that gave him access to her throughout the years of torture and my guess is her money.
I pray she becomes whole
If they were intimate as husband and wife then that's where the spiritual contact and access came.
@@86ChichyIf they were, she won't be fit for the sacrifice anymore
Gbam my thought as well....from the begining I told myself she was Jazzed ( 'Touch and follow'was what he did to her) How can someone move like a zombie into a loveless marriage...u do not know him from anywhere..... ... Irrespective of Every God is merciful
Amen 🙏
@@Inokpuareakhilome huh? Sex is the best way to touch someone’s spirit. Sex is one of the ways you can sacrifice someone
This story is so different. I learnt alot even as a married woman. This is a lot to take. Wow! Wow!! Wow!!
This story is similar to my story. My parents had told me their prophet said he was my husband. After I had been abused and left that marriage, I still listened again to a pastor who led me into the second abusive engagement. It was at that point I sort help because I was not going to endure abuse twice with kids never mind how I entered the relationship, I realised that I had to take my life in my own hands with God only - no interference. I stopped listening to prophets through my parents. I stopped believing pastors even though not all were wrong but I could not discern at the time. Long story short, I got help and got my life back on track. Today, I help domestic abuse survivors who are now single moms or widows to live a more meaningful life.
Yes, he said I prayed too much also. He said he could only eat fresh food. He said I should use my shares & investments to pay my son’s childminder. He ripped my bags, necklaces, bangles. He hits me so angrily. You would wonder where his strength came from.
So similar. He would bring his friends to the house to come and eat every week. He made sure I did not have my own money to spend. I could not do my hair or change my clothes.
Yes, imagine going through what she’s describing happened in 4 months for 3.5 years. My mental health deteriorated at some point. It was so bad. I hope other women can learn from these stories. It’s not a good place to be
😢😢😢
Thank God for mercies
I wish my aunt survived,she passed earlier this year in May. I had never wanted to see someone win so bad in my life. She passed some days after her 50th. Her burial was the first ever experience that made me shed painful, uncontrollable tears. Ah! God of vengeance,arise and judge that man,just the same way he made her suffer for absolutely nothing,his lot and pain shall be awarded to him a hundred times fold. My aunt's heart was something more than gold,sweet, innocent,yes naive,kind to a fault, like she'd be so kind that you'd be mad at her at times,till i finally understood that some people truly are angels here on earth. It pained me deeply when she passed. I couldn't stop questioning Abba,all they said was God wanted her to rest.
Dear Doctor Chika,you won, i am so grateful to God for keeping you,you survived,go out there,live life to the fullest,i pray God protects you and blesses you with the love,joy and happiness you deserve. Amen.
So sorry to hear about your Aunty.Sending you light
I pray that man never knows peace. May your aunt continue to rest in Jesus name
@@ellatainment2458 Amen.
My own opinion ooo leave the man oo walk out and preserve your life ooo ehhhhh….
Bless, do not curse
I'm sorry for the pain that man caused your family 🙏
As a single young woman, this is a call for prayer and spirit of discernment 😢🙏
What are you talking about? She said she's tongue-speaking, prayerful, a strong SU background.
You better open your eyes we'll if you're preparing to go into marriage.
What kind of discernment are you talking about here? She saw all the red flags, but refused to take the necessary and right decisions. Physical, emotional abuse and was not married to him. What else do you need to know that this was not right?
Marriage is not for everybody. Dear woman, you can live happily without a man. Get a career, adopt or have a child, make money, travel the world and enjoy yourself. I can’t imagine a sweet woman like this who was raised with a lot of love and who believes in Christ being this traumatized over 4months of marital mistake.
You are not correct. Pray that the mismatches and the concept of satan will be overcome
someone is not correct for sharing their opinion?
@@adjoagyeamaogyeaman1406 So which part of what she said is not correct??
@chinwe I agree with you that marriage is not a must simply becos the Bible says God has work in His Vineyard for the unmarried. See 1Cor7:34. God usually uses the unmarried men and women as Missionaries as we can see from the life of Apostle Paul and the Lord Jesus Himself. Being unmarried is nothing to be ashamed of, it depends on God's mission for your life. Find it and you will be fulfilled doing it
@@ellaansah1948dyg?
It happened to me too, I was almost used by the "Christian Brother, who prior to then, had been my friend from age 7, because our Mother's were friends, we literally grew up together. He took me to a "Church" somewhere in Oyo Town, where my glory was to have been transferred to him but the Holy Spirit squealed on him and God delivered me. Like the lady here, the battle lasted for 8 years, he called me in my sleep and I went into coma for 5 days with no vital signs of life at theUCH. Word of knowledge and word of wisdom brought me back to live.
😢😢 thank God for you. It's well.
Haaaaaa! Thank God for your life🙏
Mewa she le laye
Glory to God
Jesus😮
Dear God,
We the single are pleading for ur spirit of discernment ... May we marry right🙏
This is one of the most touching session I have heard on marriage...
Lesson learnt;
Do not trust anyone more than you trust God. Ask the Holy spirit to reveal the true identity of people to you. When he does, dont ignore.
This woman is so innocent you could tell from the way she speaks. I thank God for your deliverance and I pray God satisfies you with peace and love. God bless you real good. And God bless you pastor for using this platform to share real life stories to us all to learn from. More grace on you sir.
Meeting the wrong person can spoil your life,May God help us single ladies to make the right decision
Exactly...
Meeting the wrong person can make one's life go a very different route, entirely different from even God's Plan for them
This story is sad, but the saddest part, was when they posted her picture.... Omoooohhh.... She was truly beautiful. Can't believe its the same person
Exactly!! I didn't initially understand but omoo that picture said a lot
Indeed she is😊
Don’t be emotionally attached to people, it gives room for Nonsense.
I felt it 😢🫂❤️
Even your spouse?
This is from the place of hurt. If you can’t be emotionally attached to people, you’re walking around with hurt
That's all you learnt??
She wasn't emotionally attached to him. She said she wasn't even fond of him. Please listen again and get the actual lessons.
Tell you, I learned this one the hard way..... Never again, everyone at arms length with love and kindness.
I almost fell into this same issue but GOD saved me . We have even printed invitation cards. The spirit of God kept me restless till days to the traditional marriage I ran away from everyone and everything.
Same here. Fell into that trap first, and Lord delivered me, and I was about to fall into another one a few years after the first deliverance, but truly underneath are the everlasting hands and the scales fell quick before any damage was done. Glory to God for His faithfulness. Hmm.
We bless God for His faithfulness 🙏
I wish I can share my story 😢it’s similar too urs
You are strong oh
How did I come here?
It's a very big question
The mistake most women make is being free spirited around people who are not good or sincerely nice/ kind. We always feel the next person is as nice and good as we are. Guard your heart...
This is me!
Me 😢
This is so me.. I really need to learn😢
God forbid.ppl w good hearts always meet such
There is no mistake in being a good person, just do not be stupid. Have intuition and set boundaries. And keep those boundaries no matter what
The Nigeria police needs to visit that shagari village
People are so wicked.
God please give me the spirit of discernment in Jesus’ name, Amen.
Hummmmm
And the spirit to act accordingly. Amen 🙏
@@daramolahassan4307 Amen
Amen 🙏
He said to tell you that's it's in you already.
‘Opinion is cheap’ sounds so profound!
Overall, don’t stay in that situation just to keep an impression or what people will say!
May God grant you the wisdom and strength to overcome your struggles, Amen 🙏🏽
I love this woman ,she’s so strong and eloquent. Sending her lots of hugs . I pray God restores all that has been lost and if there’s anything she wishes for,may God answer her .
Hugs...
This is a big lesson to all of us esp those who criticize females when they are of age and not married,stop mocking or pressuring them but rather get closer and know why they are still single at that age.
You are right. That's why I don't bow to pressure from anybody cos only I know what am going through. And I love myself first.
@@idongesitjoshua1553exactly o... No bowing to pressure. Lai Lai... This kind evil world, we have to be wise and in Christ.
I wish my mum was seeing this , she is pressuring my life nd I’m just trying to get my life together
THIS!!!!
People need to get used to the idea that not everyone is designed for marriage. Marriage is designed by God for kingdom purpose not for the man or the woman. Were some apostles and prophets married, no but did they fulfill God’s call on them of course
This woman has a very clean spirit and an innocent heart. Even at her age. 😂😂😂😊😊
So true
Right!!!!
I will like to say a big thank you to the Holy Spirit for coming across this testimony.
Congratulations to you ma
Congratulations to you pastor sir🎉🎉🎉
This is a great eyeopener!!!
My ah ah has finished while watching this interview...😲😩 To the unmarried, you will marry right. To the married, your marriage is blessed. We pray for the grace for contentment and may God help us to have a discerning heart.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen and Amen oooo
Amen
I kept shouting through out this story, truly life is really spiritual oh, we thank God for saving you and for this wonderful story I really learnt a lot
Listening to this, I am tending to think that same man might have been the one that orchestrated the robbery of her house that necessitated her moving in with him
I think so too
I thought so too 😮
You spoke my mind in that regard..because why?
I knew that from the onset
He was in a rush to have her in his trap.
God that delivered this woman, will deliver my sister IJN 😢
I am shaken 😢
Someday we'll share our story,so long there's life, I won't give up 😭
He is able
Wow😢
This made me cry, she has had a tough life but her faith saw her through.
She is an amazing and strong woman, may the lord restore her, may her joy overflow abundantly so much that those years of sorrow will be distant memory.
Thank you for sharing, I love you and Jesus loves you dearly ❤
Yes me too namesake
Amen 🙏 🙏
All i could just say watching almost halfway through the Video till now is "Thank you Jesus"...... This is a deep situation, and it really reveals how merciful and intentional our God can be over a soul
THANK YOU LORD!!!
Dear women, get something in your hand. Marriage is not do I die. I left with my children & just clothes 4 years ago. I’m here, not been easy but I have peace of mind. Don’t stay in an abusive relationship or marriage because of what people will or how you’d start your life afresh. Leave first, God will sort the rest.
Let mount zion drama ministry please convert this to a movie for more impact
I concur ❤
The exact thing I thought few minutes ago
Not only this story
Some other stories as I believe the impact will spread fast and well
Her story is both inspiring and thought-provoking, but she also speaks impeccable English 👌
This woman made me laugh😂, the part were she said "some open doors are not open doors, some open doors will lead you to prison" really got me 😂😂
She is so right
She's very right
Exactly, sometimes you pray for open doors but they are traps set by the enemy.
Even the devil disguises as an angel of light.
My story, having been jobless for years about 6yrs, I got a job that was to pay me money I can make annually in an hour of work. I tried so hard to fight the voice of God, everywhere I turned, the voice of God was more audible but I was still in denial. Until I had to take heed. Forever grateful unto my creator indeed some opens are not open doors
AJS says even prison has doors too, so verify where the door is leading to.
Here😂🎉😂
See eehhh I am Glad you’re alive to share this story!!!
This won’t be forgotten in a hurry!!!
"Covenant day of Escape" indeed! Thank you Jesus for this testimony. God bless and preserve your life, call and destiny Ma'am.
"When you do physical, you do spiritual" 💯💯
This is mond blowing. I can't but thank God for all the failed relationships and disappointments that could have been toxic .
My marriage is on Jesus ooo. My hands will not be joined in matrimony with the wrong man in Jesus name.
I celebrate your victory ma. Your joy will be full in Jesus name. Amen
Thank you Apostle for this platform. It is an eye opener.
I joined you to say a loud AMEN
People that say life is not spiritual should watch this!
@@Blessing.I-df1pf Omo
Those that blab that Christianity is a scam need to hear this too. Jesus is real o
Are you minding them?
@@preyepriscilla9944Very REAL!
Listened to this amaizing piece for the second time again and it still speaks to me with so much depth
I really appreciate the fact that we're begining to see that marriage does not necessarily define womanhood because so many women out there have stories to tell all in the name of marriages.
I pray that God keeps each woman who is crying in silence till her voice becomes audible
This woman is a full package. Boss lady that loves Jesus and devil children saw her as righteous seed. God forbid bad thing!
Wise comment
God stood with her. Thank God she came out alive.
May God be God
"Every woman should get her own money". This struck me, I say this over and over again. Don't sit down and wait for a man to fix your life. You are too precious to be damaged by any one. Remember all the dreams you have while growing up, you can make it happen. Thanks Pastor.
She had her own money. Its understanding your worth and that no kne deserves to be abused.
15 years is a long time. Healing is definitely not linear. I pray God heals her completely. The way she narrates this story shows serious trauma
She is realed to a reasonable degree. But there would be moments flashes of the bitter experiences will come. I think she's telling the story to contribute positively to our society of Christianom. And you know what the Bible says what the enemy meant for evil, God turn it for His glory. All things work together for good
I think she is also remembering how God saved her
When a deep wound heals, there is always a scar left on the body. Scars never go away. They are badges of honor that one was victorious in battle. Scars do not bleed nor do they pain.
When you think about how God has taken you through the valley of the shadow of death, my dear you will get emotional 😢 you will cry because of the goodness of God! 🙌 🙌 🙌 Aah! The Lion of Judah! 🦁
Very True still in trauma n pains God heal her
@@Lulubonnie111 the fear and trauma also contributed to her not accepting other men
I just wrote this week to my supervisors that I am quitting my doctorates. My father and my God give me the strength to continue after hearing this testimony, "everyone reaches to that point of quitting." It is not easy. I am meeting my supervisors tomorrow. God show me the way to go, give me the wisdom needed.
Some men hate to see successful women. He knew who she was before she knew about him. She was his target. He did everything to get her under his control, so he could trample and hold her down. She was too powerful for him
Facts
I totally agree.
You get it!!! On point
Thank you beloved of God for sharing your thought-provoking story with the World. Sincerely pray that our singles will learn and wouldn't be given to licentiousness. Till tomorrow, Jesus is still the Lord and the best friend anyone can have. Sister, God will definitely cause the rest of your life to be the best in Jesus peerless name. I see your Boaz locating you sooner than you thought. Shalom and Godspeed.
She was hypnotized with dark power. She entered that marriage unknowingly. She was not locked in a bottle but was hypnotized thats why she can ask herself every time "how did I get here"
Yea seems like she was under some sorr of spell or shock😢 God heal her heart❤
You are very right
This is, very correct. Thank you for saying it because I strongly believe that's how she got there
Exactly she was hypnotised
Hmmm
Thank you for her story. Her love of God, faith, strength, resilience is what I take. I have learnt so much from her story. I would live to know her name so that I can watch out for her books. I am in South Africa 🇿🇦
Kai! I am speechless, this testimony was really a thriller. I had my heart in my mouth while listening ,God has delivered her to His Glory.
Thanks Pst. Lazarus for reaffirming her...she still looks good ❤
Very important
Waaoo! I listened to the message with full attention. I've learned alot ma from your life. I pray God brings you the right man in Jesus ' name 🙏. I'm single and trusting God to be hard-working, make my own money and be a blessing to nations. Greetings from Cameroon 🇨🇲 🇨🇲
I had similar experience but i didn’t get to d point of marriage. We did formal introduction and he unleashed d dragon in him after d introduction. We were set to marry 3 months after. Everything she said happened to me bcos I let him come to my house. He literally moved in with me and that was how I saw everything i needed to see. I tried breaking up after 4 months but the battle was tough. I succeeded after the 6th to 7th month. It was very traumatic. For over a year I kept asking myself same question “how did I get here”? But I thank God I healed and God blessed me with a good man after his heart
Thank God for your life
Glory be to God.
Grory be to God bcz it takes only one man without a good intentions to make your life miserable
Thank God for your life
This story is a very very big lesson.I was eating and almost vomited due to the emotions.Marriage without asking God for discernment is a recipe for catastrophy.I know it first hand.May God help us
Lord, let this woman find love again and be happy.
Amen.
Amen
Amen n amen
Amen
Amen Amen Amen
Bless her sweet soul. I like how she kept saying "I was so naive & stupid". It was really a wisdom issue.
My padi😂😂😂 lol... deep story though, I am happy she could still laugh, she's is a beautiful woman. She bounced back for good and get her life back. Thank God for the testimony.
And some people still think there’s no God??? I just started praying and getting closer to him,so glad I met who I met that made me close to him now! So happy for you ma’am! May the lord continue to be with you🫶May you be strengthened and protected by the special grace of God❤