Narcissistic Tactics: Dealing with Flying Monkeys
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I ignored them and shut those mf off! Yeah Im a super empath! Narcissists can't beat us! Once I learned the game, I gave it right back ! I kept the boomerang!
They are always on the perimeter, always finding ways to poke holes in your friends, allies, anyone who will go along with their schemes, believe their lies…
They don't want to be exposed!
The flyin monkeys know they are wrong trust me all adults know right from wrong
Some are too deluded to see they're wrong
That’s a nice and true statement. Thank you for reminding me
“Trust me all adults know right from wrong”…whoa.
So, what expertise do you have that we should trust you?
Also, ALL adults…really? All/nothign, black/white, etc, are cognitive distortions. It is one of the many ways the narcissist (and often the flying monkeys) are the world. This dualistic lens of categorizing people as all the same is problematic.
Not everyone’s definition of right is the same as yours, so it’s not an agreed upon absolute. Also, what they put in that category (or whatever they define as wrong too) will likely not exactly match your view.
It is simplistic to talk in such general right/wrong terms, as well as missing so much.
@@Alphacentauri819Narcissist alert. Writing all that twisted nonsense to delude yourself and other people to believe having morals is unhealthy “black and white thinking.”
The flying monkeys are like octopus tentacles!
Yes she's plays fishing the men in the club, then a man for her to dances one day. sometime two men came she's left the weaks(not dancing well)one stay at cold chair
It's soooo crazy!
@@LoveYourSmileVids Yes!
I continue to validate myself! Thanks God!
A healed Empath man is more attractive and talented! Self awareness and common sense are hot!!!
I'm NO CONTACT!!!
I cut my daughter's grandma off +the rest of my daughter's dad's family, him included,as sad as that is, because of this .. thank you for making me feel better about it. I appreciate everyone of these video's.
Family is the best! (Sarcasm)
I'm going to continue to expose them I stand my ground!:
Ignore them and validate yourselves!
You’re making a positive and powerful impact. You’ve validated what I need to do with my 20 year old daughter who is in the trauma bond with the narcissist still. I am out of the mess- no contact. She’s still trapped. They have always had a, “Club of Two,” where the narcissist brainwashed her since she was a little girl. The “Club of Two would get together and mock me. The narcissist wanted her to adore him and like him better than me. I’m strong and have self esteem, so I could take it, but the point is, I shouldn’t have had to take it. It’s pathetic. I’ve lost her to him, at least for now. It totally breaks my heart that I can’t fix it. But, I am validated on what to do now. When it is your child, it is a heart wrenching boundary to put up. I’ve had more abuse through her. I understand everything you are saying and will use wisdom. I will do what you suggest and then pray for God to do the rest. Thank you.
thank you for sharing, you are such a strong person specially having a child to protect. i wish you the best
Enjoy the circus! I ran out of 🍿 popcorn!
My sister is using my son to get info and spy on what im doing. So now i have to censor what im saying to him. It royally pisses me off!!
I already know when they're around! I'm a Super Empath!
These are not the people I want to vibe with.
One of them swerved in my right lane! I completely ignored him haha with a blank stare! No emotions!
This was me today! 🤣
They will tell you that you are a sinner too, which results in sin-equaling...the narcissist did wrong but so did you. BEWARE
Oh baby I've had the devil in me since I was 11 raising my sister and brother 😮😅
Ben these people are crazy i dont get it
Best explanation I've seen on TH-cam.
Some will try to make their OWN PARTNER go against themselves!
I saw two shark fins st the beach today! I also saw two flying monkeys 😂. What great symbolism from God!
100% correct ✅ . Total cut off ! Not 99.99% !
I didn't know any of the monkeys they video taped me they would be on the phone the minute they saw me most would smile no 1 approached me but it was non stop
Yes truth
I just laugh at them!
My ex narcissist and his flying monkey laugh me when I was dancing they close to me
My ex narcissist found a new supply his flying monkeys stap off when he dancing with new supply not flying 🐒!
Great vid
What I don't understand is what exactly is the gain of being a flying, when I went no contact with my mother, my sister aka the flying monkey became the scapegoat. Many years later she told me how terrible it was and she also tries to defend my narc mother to me trying to convince me that she is a great person now. Huh????
They gain a closer alliance with their new best mate, the narc. For as long as they stay useful.
They tried to circle me like Sharks! Lol
Awww tantrums!
Good and Evil ⚖
The flying monkey eas pissed! He didn't get a reaction so he had to leave the road! Boo hoo!
He's having hallucinations and delusions!
Isn't it true to say that Narcissists particularly like to use their Ex's as flying Monkeys? Mine would yry and pit me against them. 🍒
Try to fight God! Bring it on 👿!
Who is this boy?
She was dressed down in a masculine way. This is the Narc degrading her! She had manly shorts on also.
How do you explain a partner who smears years before you even know? Like High School it’s a popularity 10:03 contest and the psychopath wins. When you have no idea the future strategy is to isolate you, the flying monkeys that don’t participate go away in disgust at how awful you are. The ones that stay are as fake as the narcissist and are willing to stab you in the back. So I have no idea what the advice given is supposed to do, because you can be as careful as you can, know they are flying monkeys, but so what? Go gray rock and be prepared to lose everyone in your life. After that I guess you can keep separate friendships the narcissist doesn’t know about. Give up Social Media. Get a new car, get a new phone #……,
This did not help me at all 🙄
Clearly, you didn’t listen to Ben 🤷🏻♂️
Delusional!