OK..But I'm a Taurus. And my legendary patience finally came to an end after months of his histrionic tantrums and shifting the blame and pouting and moodiness and entitlement and gaslighting and permanent victim status and sulking and me giving but never getting praise or affection (without it being a motive for personal gain or a tactic of manipulation). The 180 lb toddler was always needing attention and looking for someone to coddle and enable him while he dished out an endless salvo of passive aggressive poisoned darts when his every little demand wasn't satisfied or he didn't get the desired response for his theatrical performances! And then ZERO compassion when my best friend died and you know what? That was it. I saw red. He got poked with a 20 ft cattle prod from every direction. And his rage was no match for mine because the bull will graze contentedly in the pasture and smell the flowers and be understanding and reassuring and empathetic for only so long. When I needed him to comfort me I got diddly divided by squat. So I took a break from grieving to show him what happens when you are a self-centered ectothermic heartless monster at the worst possible time. It was ugly and he threatened me and pulled out all his nasty tricks but Hey.. I knew what to expect. And he didn't. So that gave me the advantage because he was caught completely off-guard. He will never darken my doorstep or drain my battery again. I crossed him off my list of carbon based life forms because he is just a piece of garbage. Good riddance. (Nods head sharply) Pardon the rant but I needed to vent. I can go back to grazing in the pasture and smelling the flowers now.
Hijackls play the victim however they know that they will not be victimized. With that being said they say to me. Do I know what it sounds like when I say I play the victim
You have the most soothing voice. I’m glad I found your channel because it’s so helpful in this difficult time. You have imparted great wisdom.
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Congratulations on 1M+ downloads‼️
OK..But I'm a Taurus. And my legendary patience finally came to an end after months of his histrionic tantrums and shifting the blame and pouting and moodiness and entitlement and gaslighting and permanent victim status and sulking and me giving but never getting praise or affection (without it being a motive for personal gain or a tactic of manipulation). The 180 lb toddler was always needing attention and looking for someone to coddle and enable him while he dished out an endless salvo of passive aggressive poisoned darts when his every little demand wasn't satisfied or he didn't get the desired response for his theatrical performances! And then ZERO compassion when my best friend died and you know what? That was it. I saw red. He got poked with a 20 ft cattle prod from every direction. And his rage was no match for mine because the bull will graze contentedly in the pasture and smell the flowers and be understanding and reassuring and empathetic for only so long. When I needed him to comfort me I got diddly divided by squat. So I took a break from grieving to show him what happens when you are a self-centered ectothermic heartless monster at the worst possible time. It was ugly and he threatened me and pulled out all his nasty tricks but Hey.. I knew what to expect. And he didn't. So that gave me the advantage because he was caught completely off-guard. He will never darken my doorstep or drain my battery again. I crossed him off my list of carbon based life forms because he is just a piece of garbage. Good riddance. (Nods head sharply) Pardon the rant but I needed to vent. I can go back to grazing in the pasture and smelling the flowers now.
Congratulations on the 1 MILLION! That’s fantastic!
16:30 and on…this was so relatable for me in my situation and why I am leaving. It hurts being treated that way.
thank you, this was great advise. But you are right. it is bloody hard to step back.
Hijackls play the victim however they know that they will not be victimized. With that being said they say to me. Do I know what it sounds like when I say I play the victim
Great point they want you to focus on them so you will believe their lies.
Are you doing video on Tuesday now?