1st and foremost, praying you feel better. I've just found your videos and have watched 3 this morning. This video opened my eyes to being the only child and how I've felt for 47 years, but it's also opened my eyes on what I've done to my 30 year old Son. My husband his Dad died when my son was 8 and my daughter was 6. I didn't realize the pressure I put on my Son. Today he is a perfectionist I've told him so many times to relax. Not knowing I was the one who caused this. I never new what a hyjackle was until this past year when I went through a horrible relationship. I then began researching. I'm certain I wasn't the narcissist in the relationship (true empath) but fear I had narcissist tendencies as a Mom. Thank you for your dedication with the videos. Truly an eye opener.
Dear Dr Shaler, you are giving to others, even when your health is so weak. I thank you deeply, from the bottom of my heart. I cherish the wisdom you have shared with me & through these channel. So many Have benefitted from your giving heart. Thank you ❤
😢I was an only child till my sibling was born I was 10 years old BOTH my parents are NARCOPaTHs AND their families of origin I was groomed to be the Golden Child but REFUSED to MISTREAT OTHERS is where I drew the line as a SMALL child so my one and only sibling 10 years was BORN she took the ROLE knowing the inhumane ways I was treated there’s this DEEP sadism fundamentally 💔
Married the golden child. Parents smother and coddle him. The younger brother gets not even half the support the GC gets… and he’s so much happier and better off for it. My GC spouse always sides with his parents. Destroyed our marriage. I’m so done. They all disgust me. They don’t live their son. They feed off of him. Sadly, he’s so brainwashed and I’m out. Taking my son and restarting. Thank God my monster in-laws are across the Atlantic. So so toxic and entitled.
I am praying you feel better Dr. thank you for helping others including me. God bless you 🙏✝️🕊️💕
R.I.P Beautiful Angel, thank you for being such an amazing blessing for all of us, Wounded humans.
1st and foremost, praying you feel better. I've just found your videos and have watched 3 this morning. This video opened my eyes to being the only child and how I've felt for 47 years, but it's also opened my eyes on what I've done to my 30 year old Son. My husband his Dad died when my son was 8 and my daughter was 6. I didn't realize the pressure I put on my Son. Today he is a perfectionist I've told him so many times to relax. Not knowing I was the one who caused this. I never new what a hyjackle was until this past year when I went through a horrible relationship. I then began researching. I'm certain I wasn't the narcissist in the relationship (true empath) but fear I had narcissist tendencies as a Mom. Thank you for your dedication with the videos. Truly an eye opener.
Thank you Wonderful Dr. Rhoberta Shaler!!!!! Your words of wisdom always echo in our minds and hearts. Sending you Love & Light ♥
God bless your spirit, soul, and physical! You truly show us that you care about our well-being
Dear Dr Shaler, you are giving to others, even when your health is so weak.
I thank you deeply, from the bottom of my heart. I cherish the wisdom you have shared with me & through these channel. So many Have benefitted from your giving heart.
Thank you ❤
You are a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.🙏
😢I was an only child till my sibling was born I was 10 years old BOTH my parents are NARCOPaTHs AND their families of origin
I was groomed to be the Golden Child but REFUSED to MISTREAT OTHERS is where I drew the line as a SMALL child so my one and only sibling 10 years was BORN she took the ROLE knowing the inhumane ways I was treated there’s this DEEP sadism fundamentally 💔
The Golden Child suffers mental breakdowns from all the control, manipulation, coercion, expectations, and that is NOT love🤮🤮🤮
Married the golden child. Parents smother and coddle him. The younger brother gets not even half the support the GC gets… and he’s so much happier and better off for it. My GC spouse always sides with his parents. Destroyed our marriage. I’m so done. They all disgust me. They don’t live their son. They feed off of him. Sadly, he’s so brainwashed and I’m out. Taking my son and restarting. Thank God my monster in-laws are across the Atlantic. So so toxic and entitled.
Thank you 💝✨
You dont look like your in the best of health🤔
You're cruel.