I hate it when I let someone get on front of me in bumper to bumper traffic, and they don't throw up a hand to say thanks. They act like space just miraculously appeared
I HATE when a job application demands that you upload a resume and then you have to go in and spend an hour filling in the application with your work history, education, etc like your resume is nonexistent! Like whhhhhhyyyyy?!?!
As a former cashier, I had to endure dirty looks from the long line of customers behind the one chatty customer up front. Usually it was an elderly gentleman and I never had the heart to shut them up or ignore them.
As long as the chit chat doesn't go on too long, I think it's nice. People need to treat each other like people and interact more. A few friendly words makes everyones day better.
I hate it when people don't say EXCUSE ME 🤬. Like, I know you see me right here. They try to make it like you're invisible. Will have the audacity to bump or brush up against you and then look at YOU sideways 🤬.
Omfg YESSSS!! My sisters get mad at me when I say something but that grinds my damn gears!! Like I know you seen me & my damn cart right here & I’m in Cali so it’s heavily Hispanic around here & they bump you but act like they suddenly don’t know any English 😒 I cannot stand that! I will literally say “wow I guess it’s hard to say the word excuse me” & they look at me crazy or try & run off🙄😂
I hate it when I call customer service and get the automated representative that makes me listen to 10 menu options. Then asks for my account number to “expedite my request”, only to have the human come on and ask for the same information again. If you’re trying to buy yourself some time impersonal detached corporation who only wants my money, just say that! 😡
I hate it when my mama waits until I say "alright, I'ma head on home" to start a serious/semi-serious conversation. Like, we done sat here and watched The Preacher's Wife, Ray, and two episodes of Greenleaf and you wait until I'm leaving to say what's on your mind?
I hate it when you realize you are the one putting effort into a friendship so you stop calling and then that friend calls you and go "hey stranger. You threw me away. We better than this." Whatever.
Lol I don't even answer or reply to unknown numbers(if it isn't already blocked), cause that number is deleted so I don't know who those " seasonal "people are anymore.
I hate it when someone stares at me and when i speak, they dont speak back…. I also hate when someone is in my way and when i say excuse me, they stay in my way and wonder why they almost got pushed over…. One last thing, when im driving, i hate everyone else on the road… i have terrible road rage
That Last Part Spoke To Me 🤣🤣 When Everybody Was Sent Home During Covid, Except For My Essential Ass, It Was Lovely On Them Clear Ass Roads, Just As Peaceful As The Morning 🌄 Dew...I Miss Those Days.
The second one. As I was leaving the little convenience store at my school two ladies were blocking the door talking. I kept saying excuse me as I walked them and then lady had the nerve to catch an attitude when I bumped into her on my way out.
I hate when ppl ask me 21 questions just to see what my plans are so they can ask for a favor…if u need a ride to the store, just say that (in my EJ voice) 😂
I hate when people ask you how you are but it’s really just so after THEY can tell you how THEY are and what they’re up to even when I didn’t even return the question
I hate it when people come over unannounced. Also those "I'm in the neighborhood, are you home, be there in 5 or I'm outside" phone calls 😒 Also...the person behind me honking they horn when the light JUST turned green 🙄
I hate it when, I'm texting somebody and they call me! I'm texting for a reason! I don't want to talk! 😁😩 I'll let the phone ring and text them "I'm not available to speak" 🤣🤣
@@jonathancineus6424 How I dealt with my so call friends and family was I had to put me first so I could have my life mentally change.I just told each one how I felt. And they still mad it about them. So I stopped assocating with them .That was 4 year ago and am enjoying my peace. You will find your way. Much love and Blessing ❤to you and your family.
This comment made me realize that if we all can reciprocate in helping with one another, we can be at peace. Yet if it doesn’t, then you have to pick yourself up , leave, and spend more time with yourself and God…… also consider going to therapy, there’s at least one counselor that’s willing help you and get you in a better space in your life. It ain’t easy, but it’s worth it.✨💙
I hate when someone tries to get over into the turning lane at the last minute, and then blocks traffic as a result of them not knowing where tf they wanted to go when they got in their car.
I hate it when parents put their kids on the school bus and proceed to have a full blown chitchat session with the bus driver while holding everybody up.
I hate it when GPS is just late and if you don't make that last second adjustment you will have to drive 15 minutes or the way to come back to the same spot and go the right way soooo. . . Ya just make that last minute change and hope the other cars you will never see again don't go into road rage mode.
I hate it when someone is explaining something to me, and I let them know, I’m familiar, I agree, I understand. And then they proceed to repeat it 3 times, and repeat it again twice the next day! Yes, I heard you and told you I understand!!
Sue here! Hahahaha - yes! Why do they do that??? And if I ask a question about something don't go on and on about the part I do understand. I KNOW that d,e,f comes after s,b,c. I ASKED about the order of operations in an algebraic problem. 😬
Ngl I do this to ppl and I don't know why others do but I do it cuz I'm extremely paranoid and need you to affirm atleast 3 times so that I can be somewhat at peace.
Here's a Tip...When people like that call you ....Say...Hey ..I was just getting ready to ...CALL YOU...I REALLY NEEDED $200!!!😳 I have an.... EMERGENCY!!!😳 THAT WILL!...BE! THE! END!!! OF!.... T H A T !!!..... CONVERSATION!!!😳🤣✌️✌️
I hate it when you have to ask for your money back and the borrower look at you crazy and say, “You gonna get yo money but not if you keep worryin me like that.”
I hate it when I go to a restaurant, try something new, and hate it. I feel like I legit lost my soul, my name and my inheritance. The pain is excruciating and the impact everlasting. This is why I don’t try new things. I stick to what I I know I like, and I like it a thousand times over.
I can’t stand it when I call to talk to someone about what I’m going thru and they start talking about themselves. I just need you to listen. That’s it. At this point I don’t want to talk anymore. I’m good.
That part. But I will say this, i saw a ticky tocky that said dont vent to your partner. They wanna solve not listen. your friends are just for fun. Don't vent to them. Go see a therapist. I might have to.
I learned that there are those you talk to and those you TALK TO. Once you learn who is who, life is easier. Being a good listener is not a lot of people’s ministry. 😇
Sue here: a good reminder for all of us. I'm sorry 😐 I do it sometimes myself. Don't give up though. Tell the person you really need them to listen to YOU!
I know someone like this! Like they be trying to one up somebody! You be like 'my sister really upset me, they did this and that' and they'll come back with my whole family been upsetting me since I could talk. Then proceeds to tell the 'woe is me lies' and play the victim.
I hate it when you are going into a place and you be polite and hold the door and the person walks in pass you and don’t say thank you. 🤦🏽♀️😡🤬 So, that’s when you say you’re welcome loudly so they can hear you. 🤷♀️😂
I hate it when my mom try to volunteer my time and energy. I kindly tell her NO. She called herself volunteering my services to my aunt as if I work for Uber. That's a big NO MAMA. She don't pay my car insurance or put gas in my car. If you want your sister to make it to her destination you take her yourself respectful.
Summer Time? Quick question please… Waaaay back in the day (before you got your car, your liscence, your insurance, your car) who carried you in their womb, on their hip, in their various modes of transportation????
I was about to add this comment! I hate this also. Sometimes I am still in bed or lounging on the couch relaxing and just feel like texting, low stimulus. I didn't ask for a phone call. A simple text back was fine.... then wonder why I'm dry on the phone.
I hate it when someone ask you something, you give them the answer and facts to back up the answer but because it's not the answer they like, they keep calling different people asking them the same question until they get to the person that answers the question with the response they like and call you back with it like you really want to know.... So why ask me if you can't handle the truth!!!!
I hate it when there are 7,974,325,101 EMPTY parking spaces when I go to the grocery and yet, I walk out and there is a car parked right next to me; knowing I need to load my car. Just in my way!
All of these! I also hate it when people hint around about needing or wanting something with hopes that I’ll offer. Just ask for what you want/need and stop wasting everyone’s time!
I had a co-worker would drop my name whenever overtime was mentioned. Granted, I did appreviated the extra little coins on my check but ma'am let ME volunteer for me. She use to say "well, you're single with no kids so it should always go to you". My Supervisor requested that a few people i volunteer to purchase decorations and create a design for our department's entry into the company's Halloween decorating contest. I happily suggested my co-worker and her crew as "they are use to buying decorations and coming up with ideas for things like this because of their kids." My Supervisor thought it was a brillant idea🤗. Sis NEVER mentioned my name when it came to over time again😉
I’m childless and unmarried by choice. I hate the “you’re single” penalty. At work, regardless pf seniority you never get Christmas or Thanksgiving off. You’re suppose to pick up the slack for the kids’ medical appointments, sports practices, choir rehearsals and dance recitals. Plus you are support to support the kids’s extracurricular activities by buying cookies, candy or potholders.
I hate it when people show up early, specifically when we've made plans or if they're picking me up, cuz now I'm rushing because you sitting on my doorstep half an hour before you were supposed to be here. Girl, I'm not even clothed. Good bye. 🤣🤣
I hate it when someone just texts me "Hey" and that's it. Those conversations usually end up boring as hell. I'm the type of person who texts with intention and purpose, as in I'll say "Hey, haven't talked in a while, let's catch up!" or "Hey, I saw you did X on Saturday. How was it?" I don't want to text just for the sake of texting.
@@anissa2361 I did the same thing and I got “wyd” in response. Seeing those three letters together makes me want to throw my phone out the window because I’ve seen them so much 🙄
I'm in my feelings today BUT we don't want to know how people are really doing. I learned that the hard way BUT then people are out here losing their minds and we didn't know... Make it make sense yall...
My experience with this is, if it’s a quick in passing “hey how are you” then “I’m good, how are you” or “I’ve got some stuff going on, I’ll call you later and catch up.” These are the quick polite answers. If you losing your mind and got stuff going on, then call me on your own or send me a text. “Call me when you have a minute to talk” is the perfect warning for I need to have a long conversation because I have things going on. Hope that makes it make sense.
I hate it when my husband is on the phone, with any random family member and try to bring me into the conversation, while I'm sitting on the couch, eating popcorn and watching a movie, basically tending to my business.
In addition to the stated “I hate it when” list, I hate it when I don’t be listening to good advice, then later on, after the bad consequences, I remember that advice that I didn’t listen to…
I hate it when (giggles, being the morning person that I am, really it's just manners)I say g'morning to people, the greeting of the day, and they act like I just told them to go to hell. Is it so hard to say it back or g'afternoon or g'evening?
Sounds like Vegas! I'm from the south, I hold the door open for women and they looked at me like what do you want?! Or speak and they say I don't have anything for you. Whet?! 👀🤣
She is on point, especially with the first one. I also hate it when people be talking, laughing, etc. with me and when I see them again or when they get around other people they act like they don't know me.
@@zabssoutherngirl2019 ignored us bc her & my bro were gonna split up, it'd be "easier" to move on & focus on her. They're still together. We were there when her own family turned on her, free babysitter, car ride, etc. Known her since elementary & for whatever reason, we were given the boot. She for gave her family after they treated her like a doormat.
Look. My sister would complain that when she took time off work, her kids would bombard her. Told her to stop telling everybody. She didn't. Then caught COVID hanging around them being mask free. Bye Felicia. And she had to fight with her job to get paid for those two weeks she had to quarantine. No lesson learnt. 🤦♀️
It’s not just your mother. If you have the same day off during the week, your sister has to take her car back to the dealership, your Aunt Ruth scheduled colonoscopy and the hospital won’t perform it unless you stay at the hospital the whole time; your best friend asks if you’ll collected her mother from the airport, and she needs a wheelchair so you have to pay for parking and go tearing through the airport trying to find her because she left baggage claim to go to the bathroom.
I do not tell anyone that I am taking time off work. I do not let anyone know my schedule as it varies. I just took two weeks vacation and no one knew except the neighbors because my car did not move.
Sue here: Exactly. Everything. Okay, I hate it when someone says something I've said A MILLION TIMES and no one responds or cares, BUT everyone swoons and praises and acts like wow it's the wisest thing ever said under the sun when SOMEONE ELSE says it. (Aka copied me.)
When I am working late so I can catch up on my own work duties and so and so says go ask Kaydren. She normally works late and can help you. No no NO! If I am working late, I am here for me, not you or yal. 🤣🤣
I hate when my mom is talking to other family on the phone that you barely even know and she put you on the phone to talk to this random family member you haven’t seen since you was like 5 🤦🏽♀️
I hate when I pay my bill and then they send the next one for next month the next day... I'm like y'all couldn't wait two weeks before you send the new one!!!! The bill people are so disrespectful!!!!! 😠
Omg that just happened with my tuition. I finished paying off this semester and the next day they sent an email telling me to start next semester's payments. Can you not?!
I hate it when… 1)People refuse to mind they own business. 2)I’m walking in a certain direction and then someone starts walking in front of me and then think that I’m following them. 3)When people think that I’m looking at them, but in actuality, I’m looking for the Cheez-its. Lol.
I hate it when I walk into church and Frick and Frack (Mother Earline and Mother Pearline) wanna ask me relationship questions. Like, when am I gonna get married and have some kids, and if I’m dating somebody special. If y’all don’t go somewhere and mind your business! 😒
When folks let the cold items doors close at the grocery store, Walmart, Target etc. When folks don’t put the shopping cart up, when someone walks in at 3:15 when the office closes at 3:15 and they expect the same level of service when I’m headed out trying to make an appointment I’ve had scheduled for months, when people use apostrophes wrong, when people say Krogers vs Kroger, when folks wear their mask like a chin strap when others are in close contact.
It's KROGER...and yes I cannot stand when people use apostrophes wrong! For instance...I know a few teachers who post family pics and say "The Smith's" no no no...it's just The Smiths. Lol. I agree with you wholeheartedly
I hate it when my mom tells me she needs something but no one will help her with it and I tell her I will do it and she's adamant that "oh no you're too busy" or "you don't have the time to do that" etc etc. Mama, this is why no one is doing it for you YOU WON'T LET THEM
I hate it when I say excuse me to a white person in my way and they ignore me or my son like they didn't hear us. I also hate it when I say it louder and they look at me with an attitude.
Honey. A couple of years ago... long story short. I had to walk up to the lady and tell her to not walk between a mother and her child. She was trying to start something but I promise the peace of God fell over me because I'm not confrontational by a long shot. She was all like I said excuse me. Then she walked up to her man who looked as racist as racist could be. I looked at him. Then we walked away. I was still as cool as a cucumber. Had to be Jehovah because it wasn't me🤣 I was shook the next day when I really thought about it.
Same with people turning onto my lane from a side street smh. Usually there is no one behind me, so they absolutely could have waited the extra 4 seconds before causing me to have to brake hard and miss the traffic light that they ended up being able to go through. 😓
Those are the same people who want to chat at the exit of the elevator or the escalator. Or the mom and her kids who want to walk four a breast like they are police guards for a presidential procession.
That's how I feel, too. I only ask how people are doing if I'm willing to stop and listen to them if they choose to be real - even if they are a stranger. Otherwise, a simple "hello" or "good morning/afternoon/evening" will do if I know I don't have the emotional capacity to listen to a real answer.
I hate when someone asks how I'm doing and doesn't stop to hear the answer...they just keep on walkin. Maybe just say hello? No need to ask questions you don't want the answer to!
@@FuuHolliday It is a greeting with a genuine question in it. I mean it when I ask someone how they are. I will call people out, when they try to gloss over what I said, with, "Hey, I just asked you how you are doing! How are you?" It makes them stop and pay attention to how they act. Makes them realize that they need to slow down and consider others.
I hate it when people call ME, then ignore me on the phone. Watching TV and not hearing a word I am saying because they are zoned out but you better have heard what they said. 😒
Yes yes yes!!! Facts!!!! I had when my mom passed all the stores home, call me and say can you ran to the store and get this!!!! You ask people do they want something to eat,, they say no I'm good. Yet when you get your food, that same person that was good is all of sudden hungry 🤔
I hate it when you are peaceful and somebody can tell you’re peaceful and then bother you to try to make you mad 🤦🏾♀️ But EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE IS THE TRUTH
I hate when I write a simple TH-cam comment and someone replies something negative and starts a long pointless back-and-forth argument just because they’re lonely and unhappy with their own life. Now I just ignore ignorance. ✌🏾
I hate it when I go shopping and the clerk asks me for my email, phone number, and if I’m interested in saving 10% on my purchase today by opening a store credit card. Ma’am, please just let me buy what I put on this counter so I can go eat. I’m hungry.
I hate it when I tell my Mom something personal and I tell her don't share this with anyone. 2 days later why she let it slipped that she told 3 people! It just was her sisters/my Aunts...but Mom I asked you not to tell anybody!...Her reply "It's ok I'm not going to tell anybody else" What!? I still love her...but I'm keeping my business to myself! LOL
I hate it when I’m just walking my dog through my neighborhood and one of my neighbors just starts talking about politics. For no reason. No prompting. I’m trying to exist peacefully walking my dog, Richard. Can we talk about your flowerbed instead, please sir.
I have neighbor every time I see him he wants to talk about politics so I had to tell him that is so boring the look I got now ....we don't talk anymore😃
I hate it when complete strangers try to tell me something for "my own good" when all they are really doing is making THEMSELVES feel better about doing whatever it is they are telling me not to do.
I feel you! I don't like it when people go swiping thru your phone, offering your time/ things to other people without asking you, and standing too close to my face during a conversation. 🙄
I hate when I'm at work trying to catch up on my work, and somebody just keeps talking and not getting the hint of me quickly looking back at the computer between each "oh yeah?" "oh ok" 😄
I'm not trying to be weird or mean when I give a lackluster greeting. I'm a very quiet person and I'm not very energetic. So, the hi that I give is all that I can muster up with no energy.
Let me tell what I started doing🤣 I would take my son and we would get two shopping carts. One behind him and one in front of me. No gap between us. Then when we got to checkout it insured good space from the people behind us.
I hate when: 1. I ask my friend to catchup for dinner cos I ain’t seen em for a long time and they show up with their partner and kids…. 2. Friends go to dinner and one friend keeps talking about how they’ve been broke the whole week paying for this paying for that….aka ‘can you shout me dinner’ 3. Your friends having a party and you tell them you on your way and everyone starts asking if you can pick them up some alcohol and they’ll pay you back when you get there and they never do… 3. One friend asks for a ride and you agree to pick them up and they start telling everyone else that you’re picking them up then all of a sudden your other friends want to jump in your ride… 4. When friends ask you if you wanna go out to dinner and then expect you to organise it for everyone… 5. Your at a party and you ask one of your friends if they’re coming and they text “who’s all there??” …..hmmm probably need to reassess my friends 🤔🤣
I hate it when my husband suggests that I do something that I am already doing like it's his idea. "Hey babe, we need to go to the store." Like, I know, why do you think I have my keys, purse, and hair on🤦🏾♀️
My mom treats me like that. Like she could care less. She told me that she loved my sister more than me, but it is what it is. Push through the pain. When I go visit she won’t speak when I walk in the house sometimes.
@@vickihankins7587 I really appreciate that. It’s been going on my whole life and she sees no wrong in her actions. I try to tell her how I feel and she turns it around on me to say I have a problem with her. She plays victim all the time. I’m so tired of it.
@@AlwayysBeKind I grew up with this kind of behaviour and may I suggest limited contact if possible and a focus on building a separate strong friendship group. I also very much focused on being successful and only found out through other people that my mother bragged about me and my work to anyone who would listen. You may have to just be your own strength. I hope this is helpful and not patronising in any way. 💕
@@phiakate I really appreciate your advice. It’s been a very painful journey with my mom. All I can do is pray. When she told me she loved my sister more it really hurt.
Y'all, my Momma volunteered me once to give this lady an enema. That's right, I said an enema 'cause I worked in an ER. I was too outdone, but I did it. My Momma bragged on me to all her little senior citizen friends. She was so proud of me. I really, really miss her. She's be gone for 20 years now, and there is Nothing like a Mothers Love.💙🙏
I hate it when i'm having a telephone conversation with my mother and her favorite child calls in on the other line and she has to let me go so she can speak to him. She's all like "oh your brother is calling i'll talk to you later" CLICK. Not even a bye. Happened earlier today. I'm still stewing on it. 😠
I hate it when I let someone get on front of me in bumper to bumper traffic, and they don't throw up a hand to say thanks. They act like space just miraculously appeared
Good one! Not a tip of the hat or nuthin!
These are also the same people who don't yield properly or obey stop signs AND they use the center turning lane to zip one dern car ahead! 🤬
And then they let someone else in!!! I didn't have to let you in!!!!
This!!!! Oooh wee!!
Are you doing it for them or you?
I HATE when a job application demands that you upload a resume and then you have to go in and spend an hour filling in the application with your work history, education, etc like your resume is nonexistent! Like whhhhhhyyyyy?!?!
Urks my nerves!!!!
Yes!!!
When people talk to the cashier for longer than they need to and you just trying to get your groceries and go home.
Oh Lord, this drove me to home delivery way before the big P.
That part. But some people are so lonely. Used to break my heart especially for the older folks
As a former cashier, I had to endure dirty looks from the long line of customers behind the one chatty customer up front. Usually it was an elderly gentleman and I never had the heart to shut them up or ignore them.
*Practice patience and compassion.*
As long as the chit chat doesn't go on too long, I think it's nice. People need to treat each other like people and interact more. A few friendly words makes everyones day better.
I hate it when people don't say EXCUSE ME 🤬. Like, I know you see me right here. They try to make it like you're invisible. Will have the audacity to bump or brush up against you and then look at YOU sideways 🤬.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In NYC we call that a lituation and somebody's about to get clapped....so yeah lol
Omfg YESSSS!! My sisters get mad at me when I say something but that grinds my damn gears!! Like I know you seen me & my damn cart right here & I’m in Cali so it’s heavily Hispanic around here & they bump you but act like they suddenly don’t know any English 😒 I cannot stand that! I will literally say “wow I guess it’s hard to say the word excuse me” & they look at me crazy or try & run off🙄😂
I hate it when somebody is BLOWING YOUR PHONE UP and doesn't want nothing.
Absolutely nothing..... or you don't pick up the first time, so they call, and call as if you don't have a life or have your phone in your hand 24/7.
This is my older sister! Lol
And then they get mad at you for not answering right away as if you dont have a life.
Exactly... they could've just shot a text for that lukewarm bit of information.
Oh they get blocked immediately. Girl one time I had my momma blocked for a whole month because I forgot I had her blocked 😳 lol.
I hate it when as a Prime member, I don’t get my Amazon package in two days 😩
No such thing as 2 day shipping anymore. I'm paying over $100 per year to watch shows.....with ADS.
Two days I expect my package once I hit the buy button and they take the money out my account 😂😂
Yesssssssss🛍🛍🛍
Lol
Wow I don't even pay for prime sometimes get my packages in two days all I want is for my packages to not be damaged as well as the item's
I hate it when I call customer service and get the automated representative that makes me listen to 10 menu options. Then asks for my account number to “expedite my request”, only to have the human come on and ask for the same information again. If you’re trying to buy yourself some time impersonal detached corporation who only wants my money, just say that! 😡
Girl!......Yes!
Absolutely
This is the one for me!! Got me repeating my account and social so the mf ear hustling can make sure they remembered it right!!! Damn!
Girlllllll were you on the phone with me just the other day😂 This irks my nerves
This comment💯👏🏾💯
I hate getting up early to go clock in someone else’s Company.
Sameeee 😩😩😩😩
Hello! Say it again for the people in the back! 😆 I grind everyday just to keep from having this be my story for 60 years!
Facts!
That part !!
THIS THA ONE☝🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I hate it when my mama waits until I say "alright, I'ma head on home" to start a serious/semi-serious conversation. Like, we done sat here and watched The Preacher's Wife, Ray, and two episodes of Greenleaf and you wait until I'm leaving to say what's on your mind?
She was working up the nerve? 😅
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Cherish it... ❤️ I really miss my mama
My mom likes to wait until I’m going out the door to tell me stuff n it pisses me off. Always holding me up from just leaving 🤦🏾♀️
Awww lol I screamed 😂
I hate it when you realize you are the one putting effort into a friendship so you stop calling and then that friend calls you and go "hey stranger. You threw me away. We better than this." Whatever.
Gurl yes
LMAO OMG I HATE THAT too, like WTH are YOU talking bout 😲
Lol I don't even answer or reply to unknown numbers(if it isn't already blocked), cause that number is deleted so I don't know who those " seasonal "people are anymore.
At least you got that. I didn't even get that. I got tired of being the good/available friend. So, no more "friends" for me. 🤷🏿♀️
That’s when I lose the number and cease all communication. Life is serious . . . I don’t have time for games and fair weather friends
I hate it when people walk around stores, restaurants, or anywhere in public on video calls...or on speakerphone! Ughh😠
Yesss! That drives me nuts!
And they be talking "LOUDLY"!!!
Sometimes I can't help myself 🤦🏾♀️😂🤷🏾♀️
I used to hate that, too, but the nosiness in me kinda likes it now.
I have heard all about cheating husbands, side-children and gay pastors 😂😄
@@brangeeellis3083 Exactly 💯 I have one ear 👂🏾 in my conversation and the other in yours 😂😂😂
When people tell you to do something but ain't doing it themself
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I hate it when someone stares at me and when i speak, they dont speak back…. I also hate when someone is in my way and when i say excuse me, they stay in my way and wonder why they almost got pushed over…. One last thing, when im driving, i hate everyone else on the road… i have terrible road rage
The last part 🤣🤣
That Last Part Spoke To Me 🤣🤣 When Everybody Was Sent Home During Covid, Except For My Essential Ass, It Was Lovely On Them Clear Ass Roads, Just As Peaceful As The Morning 🌄 Dew...I Miss Those Days.
Yes!
Yes!!!!
The second one. As I was leaving the little convenience store at my school two ladies were blocking the door talking. I kept saying excuse me as I walked them and then lady had the nerve to catch an attitude when I bumped into her on my way out.
EVERY.SINGLE.ONE.OF.THESE.!!!!
Yep, Every Single ONE!
Agreed!!!
So if you so amped up with your heyyyyyyyyy how you doing and the person energy doesn’t match yours there’s are more chill you hate it ?
All of them,,,,Amen,,,,Hallelujah
Yessss ma’am lol
OMG this is so good! I hate when I get excited to go somewhere…… until it’s time to go somewhere and then I don’t want to go LOL 😂
@haileyeatz88 me af!!!
Right!!
I hate when ppl ask me 21 questions just to see what my plans are so they can ask for a favor…if u need a ride to the store, just say that (in my EJ voice) 😂
Ohhhh that has been me
😂🤣 this
Yes! That one! I normally stop them in the midst of questioning me... what do you need?
🤣🤣🤣 it grinds my gears
This is my mom. 😂
I hate when people ask you how you are but it’s really just so after THEY can tell you how THEY are and what they’re up to even when I didn’t even return the question
ajajajajaja
I hate it when people come over unannounced. Also those "I'm in the neighborhood, are you home, be there in 5 or I'm outside" phone calls 😒 Also...the person behind me honking they horn when the light JUST turned green 🙄
I hate it when, I'm texting somebody and they call me! I'm texting for a reason! I don't want to talk! 😁😩 I'll let the phone ring and text them "I'm not available to speak" 🤣🤣
🤭 you silly!
Lol, I feel you on this one!
This is helpful, lol thanks Lord knows I'm not a huge fan.
Listen!!! I'll watch the phone ring and let it ring all the way to the voicemail not decline with text just ring to the voicemail😂😂😂
Everyone is not a fan of texting though and sometimes, what needs to be said requires a phone call and not a text ijs
I hate when I listen to all others people problems and when it's my time to reflect on my personal problems know one's listening. 😥
@@emilyfarris563 Thanks for listening! 😊❤
A lot of comments made me laugh but this one made me sad because I felt it. It’s the story of my life.
@@jonathancineus6424 How I dealt with my so call friends and family was I had to put me first so I could have my life mentally change.I just told each one how I felt. And they still mad it about them. So I stopped assocating with them .That was 4 year ago and am enjoying my peace. You will find your way. Much love and Blessing ❤to you and your family.
This comment made me realize that if we all can reciprocate in helping with one another, we can be at peace. Yet if it doesn’t, then you have to pick yourself up , leave, and spend more time with yourself and God…… also consider going to therapy, there’s at least one counselor that’s willing help you and get you in a better space in your life. It ain’t easy, but it’s worth it.✨💙
@@DMKC I agree!😇
2:15 “and the meal ain’t giving what it’s supposed to gave” 🤣
I HATE IT! When... one of your girlfriends ask "why we stop talking" ... when she didn't answer your last two text messages.
I hate when someone tries to get over into the turning lane at the last minute, and then blocks traffic as a result of them not knowing where tf they wanted to go when they got in their car.
Oooooh sorry....was that you? Ahem I'm working on making better life choices
LOL
I hate it when parents put their kids on the school bus and proceed to have a full blown chitchat session with the bus driver while holding everybody up.
I hate when people rush to turn damn near cause and accident and drive slow or turn only to go five feet
I hate it when GPS is just late and if you don't make that last second adjustment you will have to drive 15 minutes or the way to come back to the same spot and go the right way soooo. . . Ya just make that last minute change and hope the other cars you will never see again don't go into road rage mode.
I hate it when people stare at me but won't say hello.
I hate it when someone is explaining something to me, and I let them know, I’m familiar, I agree, I understand. And then they proceed to repeat it 3 times, and repeat it again twice the next day! Yes, I heard you and told you I understand!!
😂😂 That part.
Sue here! Hahahaha - yes! Why do they do that??? And if I ask a question about something don't go on and on about the part I do understand. I KNOW that d,e,f comes after s,b,c. I ASKED about the order of operations in an algebraic problem. 😬
Yes, yes, yes!
Ngl I do this to ppl and I don't know why others do but I do it cuz I'm extremely paranoid and need you to affirm atleast 3 times so that I can be somewhat at peace.
I hate it when people that I haven't spoken to in a while, call and ask for money. I'm not sure how folks are comfortable doing that.
People know not to ask even family .....I stay broke 😉
@@saracruze2212 🤣
Here's a Tip...When people like that call you ....Say...Hey ..I was just getting ready to ...CALL YOU...I REALLY NEEDED $200!!!😳 I have an.... EMERGENCY!!!😳
THAT WILL!...BE! THE! END!!! OF!....
T H A T !!!..... CONVERSATION!!!😳🤣✌️✌️
I hate it when you have to ask for your money back and the borrower look at you crazy and say, “You gonna get yo money but not if you keep worryin me like that.”
@@bernadettedevereaux8694 I feel you on that!
I hate it when I go to a restaurant, try something new, and hate it. I feel like I legit lost my soul, my name and my inheritance. The pain is excruciating and the impact everlasting. This is why I don’t try new things. I stick to what I I know I like, and I like it a thousand times over.
That part! Walmart had this bomb gingersnaps. Bought them for years. Then they changed the recipe. THEY CHANGED THE RECIPE! 😡
We must be twins!! 😂 This is so me! 🖐🏿
You said that thing!!
I have been there. It does feel like my heart has been cracked open, too!!
😂😂😂
I HATE IT when my siblings call me not to say hey or check up on me but they calling because they want something.
That part 🙄
Facts AF 👌🏽
YES! All the time. 😒
Then we might be related cuz you just described my siblings.
@@jonathancineus6424 😄
I can’t stand it when I call to talk to someone about what I’m going thru and they start talking about themselves. I just need you to listen. That’s it. At this point I don’t want to talk anymore. I’m good.
That part. But I will say this, i saw a ticky tocky that said dont vent to your partner. They wanna solve not listen.
your friends are just for fun. Don't vent to them. Go see a therapist. I might have to.
That's my momma all day with me
I learned that there are those you talk to and those you TALK TO. Once you learn who is who, life is easier. Being a good listener is not a lot of people’s ministry. 😇
Sue here: a good reminder for all of us. I'm sorry 😐 I do it sometimes myself. Don't give up though. Tell the person you really need them to listen to YOU!
I know someone like this! Like they be trying to one up somebody! You be like 'my sister really upset me, they did this and that' and they'll come back with my whole family been upsetting me since I could talk. Then proceeds to tell the 'woe is me lies' and play the victim.
I hate it when you are going into a place and you be polite and hold the door and the person walks in pass you and don’t say thank you. 🤦🏽♀️😡🤬
So, that’s when you say you’re welcome loudly so they can hear you. 🤷♀️😂
Yes indeed
A lady let go of the door right in my face and then in line she turns around and says was that you at the door I'm so sorry...me 👀😡 silence.
@@saracruze2212 that’s really rude of her to do that. She knew what she did and saw you again and felt guilty.
I hate when ppl try to make plans for me on MY DAY OFF! 😡
I hate it when my mom try to volunteer my time and energy. I kindly tell her NO. She called herself volunteering my services to my aunt as if I work for Uber. That's a big NO MAMA. She don't pay my car insurance or put gas in my car. If you want your sister to make it to her destination you take her yourself respectful.
Exactly!!
😂😂😂
Summer Time?
Quick question please…
Waaaay back in the day (before you got your car, your liscence, your insurance, your car) who carried you in their womb, on their hip, in their various modes of transportation????
@@iamlove113 not my aunt. It's not my responsibility to drive my aunt around.
@@tay9sdaughter121
Thank you for clearing up ANY doubt I might have had.
I hate it when people drive slow in the fast/passing lane 🙄.
My pet peeve, the slow lane be empty!!!!
I hate it when I text somebody and they call me instead of replying to the text. If I wanted to talk I woulda called in the first place.
I was about to add this comment! I hate this also. Sometimes I am still in bed or lounging on the couch relaxing and just feel like texting, low stimulus. I didn't ask for a phone call. A simple text back was fine.... then wonder why I'm dry on the phone.
@@F3v7-xgto3m Dry as dust... and that's only if I answer the phone. Sometimes they just get another text saying I can't talk right now.
I hate it when someone ask you something, you give them the answer and facts to back up the answer but because it's not the answer they like, they keep calling different people asking them the same question until they get to the person that answers the question with the response they like and call you back with it like you really want to know.... So why ask me if you can't handle the truth!!!!
I FELT THIS IN MY FEET!
Girl! I get a whole attitude! What you even ask me for then?!?!
Say it a lil louder fo da people in the back!!! 🗣🗣🗣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Girl yes, blowing up everybody’s phone until they find someone to co-sign their B.S.
Umm are u a fellow Sagittarius cuz umm yeah this is it right her. And good advice
I used to hate it when my mother had company over and then volunteer ME to take them home. How they get here?
Yes I've been taken home before 😂
Lord, and picked up
😂😂🙈🙈
YES!!! My mother didn't drive but would always say WE can take you home....excuse me, WE who?!
I hate it when there are 7,974,325,101 EMPTY parking spaces when I go to the grocery and yet, I walk out and there is a car parked right next to me; knowing I need to load my car. Just in my way!
It *never* fails. Burns me the hell up! 🤭😡🤭
@@vonettamedlock5146 Truth! And they have to park two inches from my driver-side door 🤬
All of these! I also hate it when people hint around about needing or wanting something with hopes that I’ll offer. Just ask for what you want/need and stop wasting everyone’s time!
Right?? I'll probably do it if you ask, but if you hint.....100% NOT doing it!!!
It’s a form of manipulation.
THANK YOU! They know that they’ll make you feel bad if you don’t do it. Like, can you please just ask me
I'm not volunteering for nothing I don't want to do, so you're better off asking if you want a possible "yes"!!!!
I had a co-worker would drop my name whenever overtime was mentioned. Granted, I did appreviated the extra little coins on my check but ma'am let ME volunteer for me. She use to say "well, you're single with no kids so it should always go to you". My Supervisor requested that a few people i volunteer to purchase decorations and create a design for our department's entry into the company's Halloween decorating contest. I happily suggested my co-worker and her crew as "they are use to buying decorations and coming up with ideas for things like this because of their kids." My Supervisor thought it was a brillant idea🤗. Sis NEVER mentioned my name when it came to over time again😉
🤣🤣🤣
I’m childless and unmarried by choice. I hate the “you’re single” penalty. At work, regardless pf seniority you never get Christmas or Thanksgiving off. You’re suppose to pick up the slack for the kids’ medical appointments, sports practices, choir rehearsals and dance recitals. Plus you are support to support the kids’s extracurricular activities by buying cookies, candy or potholders.
I hate it when I'm sleep and somebody wakes me up to ask me if I'm sleep. 😒
My son does that
I remember I had surgery and was resting at home. My mom woke me up around 7am to tell me "I want you to get some rest today." How, lady?!
@@Bee-lieve623 Hilarious!!!! But why do people do this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hate it when people start off a conversation with “not to be rude...but” b/c it’s almost guaranteed that some rudeness is about to be spewed.
Or when they say" I don't mean to be all up in yo business or nothing but..." ,and you know they about to do just that 😏
I know someone says "now don't take this wrong way," before saying some outright messed up stuff.
Don’t forget the… “I don’t mean no harm, or disrespect….
But that in the same category as, “I can see you’re busy but….”; “I know I’m being nosy but is that your real….”
I hate it when people show up early, specifically when we've made plans or if they're picking me up, cuz now I'm rushing because you sitting on my doorstep half an hour before you were supposed to be here. Girl, I'm not even clothed. Good bye. 🤣🤣
🤣
😂
Or when invite somebody Caucasian to your house party and they come 30 minutes early and all the Black people get there an hour late.
Truth!!!!!!
I hate it when someone just texts me "Hey" and that's it. Those conversations usually end up boring as hell. I'm the type of person who texts with intention and purpose, as in I'll say "Hey, haven't talked in a while, let's catch up!" or "Hey, I saw you did X on Saturday. How was it?" I don't want to text just for the sake of texting.
Oh my gosh yes! So I just be petty and text hey back and allow them to ask a question because you texted me for something! 🙄
@@anissa2361 I did the same thing and I got “wyd” in response. Seeing those three letters together makes me want to throw my phone out the window because I’ve seen them so much 🙄
@@lexij2911 Yes it's so annoying. I'll text back, texting you since people want to be boring, lol.
I'm in my feelings today BUT
we don't want to know how people are really doing. I learned that the hard way
BUT then people are out here losing their minds and we didn't know...
Make it make sense yall...
Because we’re out here losing our mind so we can’t take anymore of someone else losing their minds to!😅
My experience with this is, if it’s a quick in passing “hey how are you” then “I’m good, how are you” or “I’ve got some stuff going on, I’ll call you later and catch up.” These are the quick polite answers.
If you losing your mind and got stuff going on, then call me on your own or send me a text. “Call me when you have a minute to talk” is the perfect warning for I need to have a long conversation because I have things going on. Hope that makes it make sense.
I hate it when my husband is on the phone, with any random family member and try to bring me into the conversation, while I'm sitting on the couch, eating popcorn and watching a movie, basically tending to my business.
My husband does that and I'm like nah that's YOUR phone call.
THIS!
Right, I'm sitting there like noo or act like I suddenly have something to do in another room haha
Yes like them YO ppl. I surely hope you all can converse without me/my input!!!
In addition to the stated “I hate it when” list, I hate it when I don’t be listening to good advice, then later on, after the bad consequences, I remember that advice that I didn’t listen to…
😂😂😂 It's still their fault!
That's a whole word
LOL
Just mad and got no one to blame! I've been there! 🤣
I hate it when (giggles, being the morning person that I am, really it's just manners)I say g'morning to people, the greeting of the day, and they act like I just told them to go to hell. Is it so hard to say it back or g'afternoon or g'evening?
Sounds like Vegas! I'm from the south, I hold the door open for women and they looked at me like what do you want?! Or speak and they say I don't have anything for you. Whet?! 👀🤣
"like I just told them to go to hell" 🤣 But very true, people don't speak back even though you're being nice.
Sometimes I gotta evaluate in my mind if it truly is a good morning or afternoon before responding.
Honestly I struggle with the good mornings, I don’t want to be forced to speak at all until 12 ish. But I have no worries with the good evenings 😄
@@phiakate 😂🤣😅😅😅
I hate when some jobless relative/friend calls me at work talking about"Hey! Whatcha doing?" I'm like working! Fool!
She is on point, especially with the first one. I also hate it when people be talking, laughing, etc. with me and when I see them again or when they get around other people they act like they don't know me.
My SIL. Ignored us for over 2 yrs, saw us in Old Navy last weekend with her BFF & acted like we were long lost friends. We were like, huh?
@@hotandsoursoup2664 Dang.
@@zabssoutherngirl2019 ignored us bc her & my bro were gonna split up, it'd be "easier" to move on & focus on her. They're still together. We were there when her own family turned on her, free babysitter, car ride, etc. Known her since elementary & for whatever reason, we were given the boot. She for gave her family after they treated her like a doormat.
@@hotandsoursoup2664 I can't stand ppl like that. They show grace to those who wronged them, but disrespect those who had their back.
That part
I can’t stand it when credit is not given where credit is due.
🙌
This!!! 👏🏾
That part
I hate it when...you tell your mom you have a day off and she fills your day with errands!!! Like huh?
Look. My sister would complain that when she took time off work, her kids would bombard her. Told her to stop telling everybody. She didn't. Then caught COVID hanging around them being mask free. Bye Felicia. And she had to fight with her job to get paid for those two weeks she had to quarantine. No lesson learnt. 🤦♀️
It’s not just your mother. If you have the same day off during the week, your sister has to take her car back to the dealership, your Aunt Ruth scheduled colonoscopy and the hospital won’t perform it unless you stay at the hospital the whole time; your best friend asks if you’ll collected her mother from the airport, and she needs a wheelchair so you have to pay for parking and go tearing through the airport trying to find her because she left baggage claim to go to the bathroom.
I do not tell anyone that I am taking time off work. I do not let anyone know my schedule as it varies. I just took two weeks vacation and no one knew except the neighbors because my car did not move.
Nah. Only 2 people know when I'm off, my boss and my boo.
I hate it when someone calls and I don't answer and then I need to explain that I don't have to answer EVERY TIME my phone rings.
Try disabling your answering machine. When the caller finally reaches me they always say, “I tried calling you earlier but your machine wasn’t on.”
I can't stand when I introduce myself to someone and they turn back around and mispronounce my name. HEIFER, I just SAID it the right way!
😅😂🤣
They NEVER pronounce my name right!!! It's Tar-a!! Not Tera!!
@@taralane2611 Yessss!!! Tell 'em, please!
I can totally related and they continue to mispronounced it. But a name with 18 syllables is not a problem
@@taralane2611 Word this is a peeve of mine. Your name isn't even complicated either so this would definitely piss me off.
Sue here: Exactly. Everything. Okay, I hate it when someone says something I've said A MILLION TIMES and no one responds or cares, BUT everyone swoons and praises and acts like wow it's the wisest thing ever said under the sun when SOMEONE ELSE says it. (Aka copied me.)
My husband repeats something I just said and gets roaring laughs e..ve...ry time. Usually right after I get crickets....
Relatives are bad about doing this!
When I am working late so I can catch up on my own work duties and so and so says go ask Kaydren. She normally works late and can help you. No no NO! If I am working late, I am here for me, not you or yal. 🤣🤣
Ikr!!! 😂😂😂
Btw, I love your name. I never heard that before.
I hate when my mom is talking to other family on the phone that you barely even know and she put you on the phone to talk to this random family member you haven’t seen since you was like 5 🤦🏽♀️
Lol, yessss. This makes me feel SO insecure, when I think something is hilarious an the person I share it with just smiles condescendingly, lmao.
Yep
Everyone’s humor isn’t the same, you shouldn’t feel insure about that. If you got a good laugh, thank God because laughter is good like medicine 😉✌️
I hate when I pay my bill and then they send the next one for next month the next day... I'm like y'all couldn't wait two weeks before you send the new one!!!! The bill people are so disrespectful!!!!! 😠
Ikr!!! Damn...
Omg that just happened with my tuition. I finished paying off this semester and the next day they sent an email telling me to start next semester's payments. Can you not?!
I hate it when…
1)People refuse to mind they own business.
2)I’m walking in a certain direction and then someone starts walking in front of me and then think that I’m following them.
3)When people think that I’m looking at them, but in actuality, I’m looking for the Cheez-its. Lol.
I hate it when I walk into church and Frick and Frack (Mother Earline and Mother Pearline) wanna ask me relationship questions. Like, when am I gonna get married and have some kids, and if I’m dating somebody special. If y’all don’t go somewhere and mind your business! 😒
Lol
When folks let the cold items doors close at the grocery store, Walmart, Target etc. When folks don’t put the shopping cart up, when someone walks in at 3:15 when the office closes at 3:15 and they expect the same level of service when I’m headed out trying to make an appointment I’ve had scheduled for months, when people use apostrophes wrong, when people say Krogers vs Kroger, when folks wear their mask like a chin strap when others are in close contact.
I make my son close the freezer doors. Can't stand it!
It's KROGER...and yes I cannot stand when people use apostrophes wrong! For instance...I know a few teachers who post family pics and say "The Smith's" no no no...it's just The Smiths. Lol. I agree with you wholeheartedly
OMG Lady, Are you alright? Man, I know you have more to say but your head is hurting by now 😂 @DebraMoody Love You 😍
I'm sorry in advance. Kroger's just jumps out of my mouth EVERYTIME. OOPS
@@greentee123 😂
I hate it when my mom tells me she needs something but no one will help her with it and I tell her I will do it and she's adamant that "oh no you're too busy" or "you don't have the time to do that" etc etc. Mama, this is why no one is doing it for you YOU WON'T LET THEM
That was my grandma. Bless her heart 🤣 (the other people she asked where trash anyway. If you know what I mean😉)
And then she complains to her sister that don’t none of my children have time for me no more.
@@bernadettedevereaux8694 you must know my mom 😂
I hate it when I say excuse me to a white person in my way and they ignore me or my son like they didn't hear us. I also hate it when I say it louder and they look at me with an attitude.
Honey. A couple of years ago... long story short. I had to walk up to the lady and tell her to not walk between a mother and her child. She was trying to start something but I promise the peace of God fell over me because I'm not confrontational by a long shot. She was all like I said excuse me. Then she walked up to her man who looked as racist as racist could be. I looked at him. Then we walked away. I was still as cool as a cucumber. Had to be Jehovah because it wasn't me🤣 I was shook the next day when I really thought about it.
That’s awful, I’m sorry that happened to you.
@@jessicaaudate again, that’s awful, and I hate hearing this stuff. Hope you never have that happen again!!
Oh, so it's not just me...
@@brie1026 not even a little bit
I hate it when I'm walking swiftly in public and get cut off by people walking like turtles. Like you couldn't wait until I walked past you first!
😂🤣🤣😅🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same with people turning onto my lane from a side street smh. Usually there is no one behind me, so they absolutely could have waited the extra 4 seconds before causing me to have to brake hard and miss the traffic light that they ended up being able to go through. 😓
Those are the same people who want to chat at the exit of the elevator or the escalator. Or the mom and her kids who want to walk four a breast like they are police guards for a presidential procession.
@@magnoliaholmes5422 i hate that too!!
If you don’t really want know how someone is, don’t ask them. That really bothers me.
That's how I feel, too. I only ask how people are doing if I'm willing to stop and listen to them if they choose to be real - even if they are a stranger. Otherwise, a simple "hello" or "good morning/afternoon/evening" will do if I know I don't have the emotional capacity to listen to a real answer.
Exactly 🤦😪😒
I hate when someone asks how I'm doing and doesn't stop to hear the answer...they just keep on walkin. Maybe just say hello? No need to ask questions you don't want the answer to!
This is true and then everyone is complaining that as an adult they cannot make connections. This is how you start, by listening.
Right!
It’s a well known common greeting. Purely rhetorical. Stop being literal and save yourself the misery.
Lol two years ago I just realized "How ya doing?" was just a greeting...
@@FuuHolliday It is a greeting with a genuine question in it.
I mean it when I ask someone how they are. I will call people out, when they try to gloss over what I said, with, "Hey, I just asked you how you are doing! How are you?" It makes them stop and pay attention to how they act. Makes them realize that they need to slow down and consider others.
I hate it when people call ME, then ignore me on the phone. Watching TV and not hearing a word I am saying because they are zoned out but you better have heard what they said. 😒
YES! Or, they’re talking to other folks in their house! Why did you call me if you’re going to talk to your kids or brother too?!?
I hate it when... I have to interact with people, in general🤣.
I I know I hate when you talking to someone on the phone then they start conversations with the people in the room with them. Ummmm you called me!!!
ME TOO!
@@anitaharris8023 🤣 You are so nice because I hang up soooo fast!🤣
Yes yes yes!!! Facts!!!! I had when my mom passed all the stores home, call me and say can you ran to the store and get this!!!! You ask people do they want something to eat,, they say no I'm good. Yet when you get your food, that same person that was good is all of sudden hungry 🤔
I hate it when you are peaceful and somebody can tell you’re peaceful and then bother you to try to make you mad 🤦🏾♀️
But EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE IS THE TRUTH
I hate when I write a simple TH-cam comment and someone replies something negative and starts a long pointless back-and-forth argument just because they’re lonely and unhappy with their own life. Now I just ignore ignorance. ✌🏾
That part...when it didn't have anything to do with them in the first or second damn place anyway.
True
I hate it when I go shopping and the clerk asks me for my email, phone number, and if I’m interested in saving 10% on my purchase today by opening a store credit card. Ma’am, please just let me buy what I put on this counter so I can go eat. I’m hungry.
I hate it when I tell my Mom something personal and I tell her don't share this with anyone. 2 days later why she let it slipped that she told 3 people! It just was her sisters/my Aunts...but Mom I asked you not to tell anybody!...Her reply "It's ok I'm not going to tell anybody else" What!? I still love her...but I'm keeping my business to myself! LOL
I hate it when I’m just walking my dog through my neighborhood and one of my neighbors just starts talking about politics. For no reason. No prompting. I’m trying to exist peacefully walking my dog, Richard. Can we talk about your flowerbed instead, please sir.
Goodness yes. Funny we can't even talk about the simplest of things without a vein popping out somebody forehead now.
🤔🤣😂
I have neighbor every time I see him he wants to talk about politics so I had to tell him that is so boring the look I got now ....we don't talk anymore😃
Tell me about the daisies Richard, yeesh. 🙄🤣
@@ronibigbangnicole oh my goodness. Now yall got me thinking about mrs. Bucket and Richard 🤣
“I’m gonna loiter,” for show! 😂🤣😂
😂😂😂Ok!
I hate when people are in their phone when you’re talking to them
I’m guilty of giving a dry “Hey “ 😩😩😩
😯... but why? You don't like the person who spoke to you?
@@AngelaRochelle indeed
I'm guilty of this too, especially if i'm tired or not in a good mood.
@@tricieb.5921 I definitely feel you
I be shy lol 🤷🏽♀️ It take me a Lil min to warm up to people 😌
Ejspeaks literally speaks for all of us. I can relate to ALL of her videos.
I hate when my mom tries to force me to remember one of HER friends that ain't seen me since I was like 4 or 5 years old!!
Or adults from back when I was a child!!!
YES....WHY Mommy WHY...😆 🤣 😂 I Don't remember them...I really don't and then she is telling me I must remember them...WTH
Yes!!! And when they say you don’t remember me? I’m like no who are you lol
I hate being “voluntold” to do stuff too. I also hate when people give other people something of mine without asking me first.
I hate it when complete strangers try to tell me something for "my own good" when all they are really doing is making THEMSELVES feel better about doing whatever it is they are telling me not to do.
I hate it when I answer a call to someone who asks how I’m doing (like they care) then wants a favor.
I feel you! I don't like it when people go swiping thru your phone, offering your time/ things to other people without asking you, and standing too close to my face during a conversation. 🙄
I feel you on that standing to close. And it has nothing to do with the pandemic. It’s called personal space for a reason!!!
I hate when I'm at work trying to catch up on my work, and somebody just keeps talking and not getting the hint of me quickly looking back at the computer between each "oh yeah?" "oh ok" 😄
I'm not trying to be weird or mean when I give a lackluster greeting. I'm a very quiet person and I'm not very energetic. So, the hi that I give is all that I can muster up with no energy.
I hate it when people get too close to me while checking out as if I already walked off. Like social distancing can't even help some people
Let me tell what I started doing🤣 I would take my son and we would get two shopping carts. One behind him and one in front of me. No gap between us. Then when we got to checkout it insured good space from the people behind us.
@@jessicaaudate 📝 Noted
I hate it when you’re driving AND THAT CHECK ENGINE LIGHT COMES ON OUT OF NOWHEREEEEEEE
i hate when people text. ‘call me.’ no you call me!!!
Better yet don't even call me🤣. You can text I'll reply when I have the time.
Better still, don't text OR call me!!
I hate when:
1. I ask my friend to catchup for dinner cos I ain’t seen em for a long time and they show up with their partner and kids….
2. Friends go to dinner and one friend keeps talking about how they’ve been broke the whole week paying for this paying for that….aka ‘can you shout me dinner’
3. Your friends having a party and you tell them you on your way and everyone starts asking if you can pick them up some alcohol and they’ll pay you back when you get there and they never do…
3. One friend asks for a ride and you agree to pick them up and they start telling everyone else that you’re picking them up then all of a sudden your other friends want to jump in your ride…
4. When friends ask you if you wanna go out to dinner and then expect you to organise it for everyone…
5. Your at a party and you ask one of your friends if they’re coming and they text “who’s all there??”
…..hmmm probably need to reassess my friends 🤔🤣
Yes 🤣
Took the words right outta my mouth at end🤣🤣
I hate it when people RIGHT NEXT TO ME in an empty parking lot when I park far away from the entrance. Burns me up 😡
I hate when I walk through the mall and yt folks start staring at me like I'm a new species ✋🏾🙄
I hate it when my husband suggests that I do something that I am already doing like it's his idea. "Hey babe, we need to go to the store." Like, I know, why do you think I have my keys, purse, and hair on🤦🏾♀️
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😂😂😂 @ hair on....
I hate it when, my job thinks just because they pay me I won’t be honest. 🤔😏🤣🤣
Omg the end.😂😂😂”who don’t know how to pivot on they hip?”🤣🤣 Bye!!
My mom treats me like that. Like she could care less. She told me that she loved my sister more than me, but it is what it is. Push through the pain. When I go visit she won’t speak when I walk in the house sometimes.
Ummmm
Woooooooow tho
@@vickihankins7587 I really appreciate that. It’s been going on my whole life and she sees no wrong in her actions. I try to tell her how I feel and she turns it around on me to say I have a problem with her. She plays victim all the time. I’m so tired of it.
@@AlwayysBeKind I grew up with this kind of behaviour and may I suggest limited contact if possible and a focus on building a separate strong friendship group. I also very much focused on being successful and only found out through other people that my mother bragged about me and my work to anyone who would listen. You may have to just be your own strength. I hope this is helpful and not patronising in any way. 💕
@@phiakate I really appreciate your advice. It’s been a very painful journey with my mom. All I can do is pray. When she told me she loved my sister more it really hurt.
Y'all, my Momma volunteered me once to give this lady an enema. That's right, I said an enema 'cause I worked in an ER. I was too outdone, but I did it. My Momma bragged on me to all her little senior citizen friends. She was so proud of me. I really, really miss her. She's be gone for 20 years now, and there is Nothing like a Mothers Love.💙🙏
I hate it when i'm having a telephone conversation with my mother and her favorite child calls in on the other line and she has to let me go so she can speak to him. She's all like "oh your brother is calling i'll talk to you later" CLICK. Not even a bye. Happened earlier today. I'm still stewing on it. 😠
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Smh! Parents should love all their children the same.
When people have their phone speaker on in a public space
My gramma the QUEEN of volunteering my stuff meanwhile if I volunteer her crockpot that been in the box since 2003, she gotta problem 😂
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I can’t stand it when no one bothers to say hello unless they need something from me.