Someone snitched. This is my response

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @MaxandOccy
    @MaxandOccy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1275

    Hi all! It's wayyy past my bedtime here so I won't stay long, just wanted to say thank you for your support and please remember to be kind. Despite the delivery being off, I truly believe there were no ill intentions and only safety in mind. And hey, now I have a ripper gate to be proud of! Much love, Max & Oc 💛

    • @jansmith3158
      @jansmith3158 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SHAME on the person that stuck their nose where they shouldn't have. Mind your own business. Government is NOT there to help citizens. Government is there to take your money aka taxes & take your liberties away (taking freedom away).
      GREAT JOB WITH THE GATE Max & Occy!!

    • @macca777
      @macca777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      You sure do Max. Nite night and sweet dreams mate.

    • @gerris8696
      @gerris8696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      You’re such a good person!! My guess is the previous owner filed the complaint.

    • @anneandrew3298
      @anneandrew3298 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Fantastic job!! Congratulations you are a legend

    • @Bea_Sowul
      @Bea_Sowul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      😂 ❤💪🐶 i preferd the door all black, a big huge for you 2

  • @michfra1551
    @michfra1551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +638

    All black for the gate. Must say I am most impressed by your gracious response to the "concerned citizen". Exemplary conduct. Outstanding.

    • @Signsalot
      @Signsalot 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      All back! Looks like you didn't have time or energy to finish😅

    • @jennifermclaren7633
      @jennifermclaren7633 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree on both issues, @michfra1551
      Max, you’re a stand up guy.

    • @phyllisslavens2506
      @phyllisslavens2506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      All black❤

    • @garyhicks1473
      @garyhicks1473 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      All black!

    • @anna-juliahobbs8287
      @anna-juliahobbs8287 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Definitely all black!

  • @pilgrimpeace7763
    @pilgrimpeace7763 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1251

    Whoever complained is a tosser.
    You are a gentleman Max….I would not have been so polite in my response in the video.

    • @AJ0908AJ
      @AJ0908AJ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

      Agreed! Whoever also made it MORE dangerous for Max since he’ll now have to use an unstable ladder! To whoever reported him- Get a life!

    • @Nighywolf1199
      @Nighywolf1199 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      TOTALLY AGREE

    • @LittlesandRachael
      @LittlesandRachael 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Welp , he lives by what he says. I don’t know if my disposition would’ve been quite the same. What an inspiration to what the word, kindness entails. I’m over here, just trying not to be surly.

    • @carolyn19185
      @carolyn19185 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I would not have either. Max really is a kind hearted gentleman.

    • @divinewrath3142
      @divinewrath3142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@LittlesandRachael Same. Really trying to not be angry for him.

  • @tamara8908
    @tamara8908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +972

    I can't believe a fixed ladder is thought be more dangerous than accessing your van roof with a portable ladder. Meanwhile the gate is a beauty. Nice work Max.

    • @lownagie125
      @lownagie125 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Ditto 🤯🤯🤯

    • @Revtyme7
      @Revtyme7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Can you add a railing to make it meet code

    • @chrispomfret8592
      @chrispomfret8592 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yeah councils don’t want kids climbing stuff. Which makes sense. Now if it was playground equipment. Hmm work around!

    • @lissaw4
      @lissaw4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      To be fair, it is. It is more dangerous to have a freestanding structure with a ladder to a second level and no railings. It's really not outrageous.
      Now, should someone have reported it? Probably not. He more than likely would have been fine. However, there are laws and regulations for a reason - a history that made them a necessity. History and other people's mistakes/tragedy have forced the rest of society to enforce common sense practices. If someone was seriously injured by something easily preventable, it would then fall on the rest of society to ensure: the person receives emergency services, medical care, possible lifelong support, have their basic needs met, have the legal system involved, etc.
      Honestly, Max has handled this a million times better than the majority of the audience. It's annoying, no one online should have reported him, and feels like a ridiculous thing to complain about, but he also understands that the code regulations aren't entirely outrageous.

    • @stayaway7859
      @stayaway7859 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Word you’re looking for is snitch. In America we handle snitches

  • @heiditobin4341
    @heiditobin4341 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    You are a kind, kind person. You took the 'high road' when someone complained. Outstanding citizen. Wow ~ I am impressed. 🙂

    • @TheObsesedAnimeFreaks
      @TheObsesedAnimeFreaks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the "high road" would be to stand up for himself and not submit. but that's the difference between compliant tossers and people with true freedom.

  • @jfwyvill
    @jfwyvill 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1845

    Do people not have anything better to do? You’re not even in a suburban area, who is it affecting?

    • @sparkle.-buggg3610
      @sparkle.-buggg3610 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes nasty person needs to get a life

    • @anadorsamp3560
      @anadorsamp3560 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Estoy alucinada

    • @Nikitateagurl_77
      @Nikitateagurl_77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Probably one of the koalas or kangaroos

    • @divekatdreaming
      @divekatdreaming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      affecting

    • @joannewolfe5688
      @joannewolfe5688 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

      Jealousy and "Karenism!"

  • @jt8142
    @jt8142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    ALL BLACK. It looks unfinished with the gray areas, imo. Great job! 👏

    • @sharonfoster943
      @sharonfoster943 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You killed it on the gate build, Max. Well done! I agree with @jt8142 on the color. All black or it looks like you walked away from the job without completing it. Cheers!

  • @ShinyFeral
    @ShinyFeral 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Your end shot sums it all up perfectly: Be Kind. Always.
    Whomever "tattled" needs to worry about their own perfection in life. There were kinder ways to handle this, even if it was a genuine concern. (And as if a temporary ladder is safer than a built-in one!)

  • @danielledesnoyers9696
    @danielledesnoyers9696 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +342

    I love the gate! I'd either completely finish the char or put a cool design in that upper corner. Like this it just looks like you haven't finished yet.

    • @elenstar100
      @elenstar100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Cool design in the corner could be black design on the gray?

    • @laurafeistner4681
      @laurafeistner4681 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Great work on the gate! It's beautiful, add a design on the grey part. Class it up even more!

    • @lorianderson2008
      @lorianderson2008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Or maybe a nice wave since you like surfing? Blue & white would really POP against the grey & black.

    • @laurafeistner4681
      @laurafeistner4681 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Why not add a rail to the stairs? I don't want you to lose the enjoyment of the rooftop deck.
      So cowardly, the way the snitch handled this. They could have even just added a respectful comment here. Clearly spiteful. And absolutely ridiculous!

    • @avjohnson
      @avjohnson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed! It looks unfinished.

  • @cristinayoung6391
    @cristinayoung6391 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +363

    Jealousy comes in all forms! Sorry this happened! ❤

  • @beverlywinter7625
    @beverlywinter7625 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    Whoever complained.....SHAME ON YOU.....Some people can't stand to see someone succeed and be happy.( Be kind always) Great job on the gate Max. I love to watch you and Occy. 🐾🐾❤❤

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      While I agree with your principle, shaming people is just about the most toxic form of abuse a narcissist can use to try and manipulate the behavior of others. Healthy people do not use shame, period. That is the favorite manipulative tecnique of the disordered.
      Better yet, shame only works on other narcissists because most of us have inner self-worth and neither you or anyone else can affect that sense of self-worth because we know who we are and don't allow total strangers to try and tell us who we are or how we should behave.
      There are healthier ways to address people other than attempting to publicly shame and manipulate them.

    • @anastasiarn7781
      @anastasiarn7781 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      All black 👍

    • @OldNewMama
      @OldNewMama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly it’s pure jealousy and I hope they see these comments

    • @somewhereintime7831
      @somewhereintime7831 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@le_th_ What are the healthy ways? First, the person could have contacted him in a mannerly way, as is done in an HOA or neighborhood vs going straight to someone of authority. If there was a disagreement or failure to listen or inquire; then you seek outside help in reference to "codes". Narcissisms has nothing to do with this (look up the true definition)! This was a sneaky underhanded way and you know it, so don't apology for it! This is how neighbors act that are dogmatic, nosey, jealous, and bossy. That's why I always follow my CC&R's and get permits in USA as I almost had to pay thousands of dollars until I presented my certified county permits. And, yes I shamed them (as I had and was required to be told who it was) so much they literally creep past my house now. The inspectors said if they really cared they could have contacted me first vs contacting them ... Not to mention having a history of doing this ($500 fine given to them... YEAH!)

    • @SteveandLindaH
      @SteveandLindaH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      ​@@le_th_Wow!! Was it you?

  • @wildzenventures
    @wildzenventures 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Love your redirected energy to the gate! No sense in stressing over people you can’t control. You always handle stressful situations with grace and kindness 🥰 😅

  • @delilah8476
    @delilah8476 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +374

    Wow.. can't believe someone wants to stop the creation of Occy's retirement property. Glad the guys who came out were cool about it.

    • @CherrieMcKenzie
      @CherrieMcKenzie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I had to laugh, but it REALLY is true!! But good sense prevailed and Occy's retirement journey continues!! 🤣😂

  • @Gabbie8657
    @Gabbie8657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +376

    Sorry you had to go through that. In New York State where I live the person making the complaint has to document their name (allowing their name to be accessed by the property owner). It stops people from getting involved where they shouldn't be.

    • @sikugord03
      @sikugord03 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      This should be the case in most things. Unless it’s related to serious crime.

    • @lifeinthemudlane1846
      @lifeinthemudlane1846 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Florida they have anonymous phone tip lines… just like middleages and witchcraft accusations

    • @lindab424
      @lindab424 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I am not sure how the council where Max lives work but I know where I live down the other end of the state the council requires contact details of the complainant but those details are not usually revealed to the person the complaint is about. This is to avoid retaliation in the case that there is bad blood between the two parties.

    • @terryrawley4219
      @terryrawley4219 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      “Safety first”, lol 😂😂

    • @ssadvweld1
      @ssadvweld1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I appreciate that most New Yorkers know how to mind their own business.

  • @bethaniejify
    @bethaniejify 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +496

    I appreciate that you are even willing to continue to share anything online with the absolute terribleness of some folks. And the ironic part is ladders aren’t nearly as stable as what you built. 🤷‍♀️

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Yeah, so you can't climb steps on your private property without a balustrade but it's okay to go up a (possibly rickety) ladder? I know someone without a rail on a staircase within his property. Is that not okay or does it depend where one lives. I think 'elf 'n' safety has gone bonkers. I my era, kids drove go-karts without brakes ffs!

    • @Suprachiasmatic
      @Suprachiasmatic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@wakingtheworldI’m sure building codes depend on where you live. I have a friend who was forced by the council to add a bannister and replace some steps on her porch.

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Suprachiasmatic Yes, I guess.

    • @chantallennox1201
      @chantallennox1201 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Stairs weren’t the problem. No railings around the deck (roof) was the problem.

    • @Amanda-uc5jq
      @Amanda-uc5jq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      While I agree keep in mind TH-cam is how he makes money.

  • @rakeau
    @rakeau 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Pretty funny how a balustrade wouldn't make it any safer, and a ladder is even less safe again. Some people....
    Why not just .. have the "stairs" not be permanently affixed to the structure? It's a "ladder". Have it hook on and be easily removable.

    • @amberfrazier575
      @amberfrazier575 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this!

    • @neruneri
      @neruneri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is some reasoning to why the code is the way it is. It is genuinely the case that having a permanent fixture without any of the railings on top would be a hazard to children who might encounter it. You could argue that kids may never have access to it, but the code isn't written with exceptions like that in mind.
      The point in why a ladder is "more safe" is because it can stay far removed, leaving no access to the second floor of the deck at other times. No kid is going to climb it and fall off by accident.
      Does this strictly *need* to be considered in any and all situations? Possibly not. You can argue all day long about that. My point though is that the code has a reason for being the way it is, it's not *as* arbitrary as people are suggesting.

    • @rakeau
      @rakeau 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@neruneri Sure but this just exemplifies how technicalities and the real world are often very much apart.
      But yeah I want to emphasize my idea more. Just convert the "stairs" he made into a detachable "ladder". And then just leave it there just the same. Exploit the technicalities.

    • @LHalford94
      @LHalford94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ooooo Great idea, I hope Max see's this!!

  • @rebeccaw-l
    @rebeccaw-l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    Finishing up the black will complete the look. Dog is such a a good helper 😀😂

    • @lindacondray7918
      @lindacondray7918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I like the earlier suggested idea of doing some sort of design. Make a stencil out of something flame resistant and stencil a design on that last section. The gate is already fairly distinctive, so a design shouldn’t be too much more revealing. But NICE job on putting that up by yourself!

    • @jenniferl6553
      @jenniferl6553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lindacondray7918 I wonder how difficult it would be to have Occy's face in there

    • @gregorypier808
      @gregorypier808 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should be all black. Nice job!

  • @shefru60
    @shefru60 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    I suggest all black (burnt) on the gate. Your lush rain forest landscaping provides an ample “rustic” natural look. I love your work!

  • @ChloeDezz
    @ChloeDezz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    The fact that someone would go out of their way to find something harmless to complain about like that, says more about them than it does about you. Keep up the positive energy😊

    • @chammer932
      @chammer932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Truth!

    • @tamo9520
      @tamo9520 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Isn't that the truth! The whole truth and nothing but the truth!

    • @Pterodactyl-kn3ve
      @Pterodactyl-kn3ve 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No the complainer did not have your best intention in mind. They are clowns. Fvckn fools.

    • @1981agroark
      @1981agroark 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truth!

  • @Swissfairy
    @Swissfairy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Your kindness and graceful way to reply to this “complaint” is so you - you’re such a gentleman. I still can’t believe how people can meld into smth like this … that staircase was so much safer than a portable one (im sure that the one who complained was just jealous that it was too beautiful and so well made that staircase to heaven 😅😅).
    And ….I love the gates! You nailed it! It looks so fancy now! Occy is so sweet, my heart melts seeing him not caring much about the gate but just being there by you taking a nap . Thank you for making my day so positive with your kindness and positive vibes.

  • @z9ski690
    @z9ski690 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    Great gate. It’s amazing how you were able to complete it without anyone’s assistance. IMHO, I would go with the gate being all the same color, otherwise it appears to be unfinished. Again, great job. 👏

  • @Amy_McFarland
    @Amy_McFarland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    And to the person that complained:
    Life is too short to play these kind of games. Max is a genuine guy and would loved to have a conversation about your concerns. I can guarantee he would have taken it seriously.
    Honestly, Max needed to know this for safety reasons in the future with guests coming over.
    My gut tells me that Max knows who it is and they took the coward way of going about this!
    May God bless you on your journey!

    • @Tom-em1oz
      @Tom-em1oz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Laws are for everyone. The fact that he is a youtuber doesn't change anything. They all build no regards to code: it's cheap and dangerous

    • @Amy_McFarland
      @Amy_McFarland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@Tom-em1oz very telling, the right words smokes 'em out!

    • @tammarra3955
      @tammarra3955 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@Tom-em1ozand doesn’t affect you in the least. Imagine that?

    • @lindasands1433
      @lindasands1433 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@Tom-em1oz"they ALL...."
      Why are you watching this video when you don't even approve of people living off grid? I have an idea why, but I deleted it because I want to keep things peaceful for Max

    • @yvettepugin4035
      @yvettepugin4035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It seems someone is envious of Max and what he has achieved with his land so far.
      The person may have tried being a content creator, or land owner without success (boo hoo for them).
      I like Max for his honest manner, love for Occy, and his respectful gratitude to his subscribers. He has a humble charm, and a beautiful smile no matter what he's experiencing.
      Jealousy and envy is the character of someone mean spirited and unable to concede that we're all different. The world would be a great place without people with this attitude. I hope they realise that a ladder is very dangerous and the fact that Max put so much effort into ensuring his deck was not only a structure of beauty but safe for his purposes. Talking to him about their concerns would have been far more appropriate.
      The internet troll - always ready to spread unhappiness, and drag others down into their gutter of spite. Fortunately Max is still flourishing no matter the attempt to derail his plans.

  • @annewendt8434
    @annewendt8434 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    All black for sure :-) looks fantastic!!

  • @karatheriault6715
    @karatheriault6715 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    AMAZING!!!! GREAT JOB!!!! ALL BLACK!!!
    Had a similar gate ...Super weighty. Put wheels on each side of the swing. Over time it will continue to pull and sag...Wheels babe!!! Wheels!

  • @topotone
    @topotone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Nice copper pyramid post caps for that gate will keep them from rotting. Excellent project! Always great to see what you're up to. Also nice to see summer, whilst we're still in the grips of cold.

    • @Kiki-Kauai
      @Kiki-Kauai 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Copper caps are a great recommendation. Especially in his climate. Plus would look lovely as they tarnish.

    • @sshaw4429
      @sshaw4429 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Post caps with solar lights. 😎

    • @cchikkybabe
      @cchikkybabe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sshaw4429even better! Solar lights would be perfect!

    • @tarotherbologycrystals3565
      @tarotherbologycrystals3565 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@sshaw4429Great Idea!

  • @nomorehate9176
    @nomorehate9176 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    All black, Max, for sure. If the grey was a defined shape, it could work but not the way it is. That said, you did an INCREDIBLE job!!!

  • @ronaliveshere7422
    @ronaliveshere7422 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Jealousy and envy is a real thing. You’re so positive to put it as nice as you did regarding that report. Respect to you.❤️❤️❤️

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a real thing for extremely disordered people who were broken by the very people who raised them. For those who are healthy, we enjoy seeing others accomplish their dreams, succed, and feel saddened when they have heartache.
      You are very accurate is saying that jealousy and envy is very real. I would simply add that it's real and near-constant for the irreparably broken.

    • @cchikkybabe
      @cchikkybabe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@le_th_spot on!

  • @zacnat12
    @zacnat12 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Thank you to the council for being reasonable😊

    • @npcfigureathletedawnirish691
      @npcfigureathletedawnirish691 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But he still had to uninstall it.

    • @neruneri
      @neruneri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@npcfigureathletedawnirish691 Because it still broke code. It is not the place of a random councilmember to waive allowances to break code willy-nilly. The reasonable thing to do is to request the change and not escalate anything beyond that. Which they did.

  • @crystalhealingme
    @crystalhealingme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I loved that you took the complaint so gracefully Max it truly speaks of your character. Hopefully whoever made the complaint will learn a thing or two of being kind and considerate.

    • @ritatharp5238
      @ritatharp5238 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly!

    • @alastairclarke
      @alastairclarke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This was exactly my reaction. Well said.

    • @marlenecoltran6977
      @marlenecoltran6977 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uhm dissociative narcissist... kind? Was that giant nipple kind to lee? No it wasn't and neither was he.

  • @all4laughs2
    @all4laughs2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    All black. The little bit of gray just makes it look unfinished to me. Love, love, love the gate.

  • @slowbrewsunday
    @slowbrewsunday 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I could understand them leaving a comment.....but actually taking the time to make a formal complaint?! Wow. I'm sorry that happened ❤

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The fact that they couldn’t approach him directly says a lot about that person

    • @nuthouse2385
      @nuthouse2385 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely! And not just to make a complaint but also to put in the time and work to figure out his ADRESS for the complaint 😮 Whatever the intentions.. IT'S CREEPY!

  • @patriciacampbell53
    @patriciacampbell53 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Max you are such a gracious person, making something positive out of the negative is awesome. Black definitely

  • @jangrady1061
    @jangrady1061 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Whoever reported you would probably NEVER step foot on your property but just had to stick their nose in business that had nothing to do with them!!! People amaze me every day. Love everything you have achieved and stay tough.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should have had the decency to approach him and speak to him…..sickening.

  • @dawnwheatcroft6964
    @dawnwheatcroft6964 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    You handled that very gracefully.
    I’ll leave it at that. 🐾👍🏼

  • @brennz64
    @brennz64 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Hi Max. Great job man. Hey Im a chippie and have a couple of ideas that might help you out.
    1, have you thought about using a Ceiling pulldown ladder for your upper deck. Im Sure with some thought you could adapt one to be used in your situation.
    2, to make your New fantastic gates more secure...weld a big round washer to the top hinge pin so that the gates cant just be lifted up and off the hinges with a crowbar under the gate. A person with the knowhow could get those gates off the hinges in literally 5 minutes.
    To make them 100% secure those hinges are surposed to be installed...bottom one facing up and top one facing down. Thats a tuff job to do but they would be very secure...if you understand me.
    And dont worry about whoever wrang the council. Now you have a report with the council it will be so much easier to get help from them in the future 😊

    • @tonifoster1835
      @tonifoster1835 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who would have told on you ? Gee why don’t people mind your own business ?

    • @brennz64
      @brennz64 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tonifoster1835 ??? Not sure what your meaning there sorry

    • @jaydegier3892
      @jaydegier3892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      A great reply, love the idea of the pull down ladder and also regarding the gates. That is how it should be with helpful advice, not complaints. Well done.

    • @tonifoster1835
      @tonifoster1835 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@brennz64 I mean who would report Max to the council, not difficult to work that out is it? People should get a life and but out

    • @cazkiwinz4300
      @cazkiwinz4300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The gates only stop random vehicles onto the property…. They’re not enclosed on the sides, you could just walk around them.
      My hubby is a glazier, he always says: “Glass only keeps honest people out”… meaning nefarious people will always find a way regardless.
      (They’re also just thin wood gates… a car/truck could just barrow them down without having to lift anything off. Normal people wouldn’t do that obviously… but if they’re bad people, they’ll do it any which way anyhow)

  • @kristineolesen8577
    @kristineolesen8577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are so cool! It’s not always easy to “Be Kind. Always” when people are idiots but you are doing it and we all have to remember it too ❤ great video as always 🎉

  • @MarlynaMitchell
    @MarlynaMitchell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Ah Max, so sorry for your experience. I live in Phoenix, AZ in a tiny home. Someone, and I don’t think it was my neighbors either as I’ve been here over 2 years, made a complaint. In my neighborhood it’s legal, since 2013, as long as it’s not an Airbnb or similar. But the inspector came out and he wasn’t even sure. We had to do our homework to prove the legality, unnecessary time and effort but feelings of being safe was utmost. I’m a senior citizen, disabled, and almost invisible in my footprint. People forget “Always be kind”. Thanks Max for all you do.❤🙏

  • @cherylbrunette2490
    @cherylbrunette2490 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I like the gate all black, it is a nice contrast with the stained posts. I love watching you build, you are so talented.

    • @Ktvida
      @Ktvida 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same ❤

  • @Tashaknits
    @Tashaknits 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Love the gate! I prefer the all black gate for the contrast with the greenery and the posts.

  • @djesky1
    @djesky1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Go all black on the gate. Leaving a that distinctive triangle on the side makes it easier to find you in google street view. If you don't want to be found, don't make it easy.

  • @thetinyshinylife
    @thetinyshinylife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    So sorry you had to go through this, Max, we had a similar situation with our property in Tasmania. It’s stressful and disheartening. We learnt that some people are just bored, jealous, and can’t mind their own business. Thankfully the best revenge is living a fabulous life - and you’re doing just that. Keep on keeping on, you got this. 🥳

    • @paulettemeath
      @paulettemeath 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thankyou jealous was going to be my comment lol

  • @bafman
    @bafman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Sadly, it doesn't seem to matter how remote we go, busybodies can stull find us.

  • @stephaniemartin8301
    @stephaniemartin8301 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I sure hope whoever said something was a local counsel viewer themself and not a subscriber (that knows you have done everything possible to abide by the law) including spending the money on asbestos removal. So obviously you are doing things correctly! Come on people… be better. Keep up the good work friend! We love you 🤍 and I’m glad you did the gate.

  • @robbosadventures4067
    @robbosadventures4067 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All I can say is you handled it better than I would have
    Keep in there keep doing what you’re doing we’re all here for the both of you ❤

  • @Jasmine-hh3kt
    @Jasmine-hh3kt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Great response Max to a frustrating situation.
    The gate looks fantastic, very boujee!
    I’d do it all black. If you do want to leave some grey timber, put a frame around a small section. Then perhaps ask a local blacksmith to craft a silhouette of a pademelon or fig tree out of metal to put in front of the grey timber, inside the frame to make a nice feature.

    • @gabsy6443
      @gabsy6443 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine if it comes out that the busybody who reported the stairs has now an official complaint about the gate 😮. I have the feeling it was one of the members of this community

    • @kabukidreamboy
      @kabukidreamboy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The gate looks great but probably unnecessary as it makes it slower and more difficult for you to get in and out as well as for visitors, deliveries etc.

  • @justinehughes3510
    @justinehughes3510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE! This makes me so mad and I’m so sorry that you have had to go through this Max, please know that you and Occy are very much loved and admired by many 🤗 Oh and to top it off you’re bloody talented working out and building everything on your own! Xx

  • @earthangel8730
    @earthangel8730 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    To preserve those beautiful beefy hardwood posts slap some black Flexseal rubberized paint on the exposed tops of the posts. Another option is to attach black iron post caps which are very handsome too.
    I think the gates would look better and be better protected if they were completely charred.

  • @TerminusVox
    @TerminusVox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My poor neighbors! They may or may not have a lack of balustrading. Don't know, don't care.

  • @andybaillie9939
    @andybaillie9939 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    In a parallel universe 💖(AKA the kind & helpful Universe) ... A concerned citizen is worried about Max's safety. The person contacts Max via social media to offer suggestions and/or plans. A kind & helpful conversation between them begins. Perhaps if the person has some spare time on their hands, they may even offer to help Max rebuild the structure so that it is safer & meets code. Alas....😢
    Great news though, we got to see Occy and an awesome young guy 'havin' a go' with grace and humility. The gates are fantastic. Char it all. 💗👍

    • @ginkodragon
      @ginkodragon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said!

    • @debramoss2267
      @debramoss2267 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Perfectly said 👏🏽

    • @salan3507
      @salan3507 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This!

  • @angiewarren6045
    @angiewarren6045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    All black! I kept thinking , “When he finishes the blackening of the gate, it’s going to look so good!” 😂 I didn’t realize that it was part of the intentional design! Hope you have a fantastic week! Give Occy a big pet for me!

  • @cheryltucker8680
    @cheryltucker8680 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    You need to make it all black so it looks completely finished. Nice work. I am always amazed at how you rise to the occasion and tackle all these jobs.

  • @gracemeneses9910
    @gracemeneses9910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Jealousy is an evil thing. Extremely sad that some people can’t see someone else living their best life. A big hug from sunny Florida

    • @LUVNYLA
      @LUVNYLA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. I'm in Florida as well. I've been watching Max & Occy for a few years now, and love Max's genuine and kind approach to life.

  • @carmenfernandez789
    @carmenfernandez789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Who ever complained about your property, really have nothing better to do. Glad everything worked out well on your behalf. God bless you 🙏

  • @elainepearman2309
    @elainepearman2309 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    You are being very polite indeed. Having a good relationship with your council is a great idea so that is another plus for you. My vote is for all black for the gate. The other thing I noticed but my experience with wood isn't much, should the top of the gate need some sort of sealant on it? The top part you cut back etc. I love the look of the gate and it is perfect for the setting anything smaller would have looked odd. Regarding the ladder for the raised part of the patio (near the RV) my brother built a wooden ladder like you have with hooks at the top and long enough to be easy to climb (like yours) and when he wanted to get on top of the structure he had, he would just hook the ladder over the top and it looked great and safe.He removed it after using as he didn't want the kids climbing. It has lasted 10 years so far. All the best and happy homesteading!!!! ❤

    • @lindasands1433
      @lindasands1433 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great idea & gets around council BS

    • @tarotherbologycrystals3565
      @tarotherbologycrystals3565 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excellent idea! I often see them used in tiny homes to access loft spaces.

  • @kijola
    @kijola 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Their intentions weren't good.

  • @valentinavega8291
    @valentinavega8291 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    As a Latina viewer, I really appreciate your subtle comment about walls and friendly neighbors. You’re a dope dude Max! ❤

  • @sellsformoola
    @sellsformoola 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The gates, beautiful. I would get some security cameras, so you can see from the house.

    • @farmkay
      @farmkay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Or cell phone anywhere in the 🌎

  • @Jared1469
    @Jared1469 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Gate looks awesome! I'd finish it off all black for the contiguous look. 🙂

  • @Lexus_800
    @Lexus_800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry that this is the way I've found your channel but at the same time I'm glad that I did.
    You're so talented so please don't let people who have nothing better to do stop you from sharing your life with us. I'm definitely subscribing to see more and it may have a lot to do with your adorable pup ❤

  • @songbird307
    @songbird307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Great job on the fence Max! Your kind response regarding the complaint just goes to show that you practice what you preach, TO BE KIND!!!

  • @cynsullivan6869
    @cynsullivan6869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    You keep cracking on.... Haters hate that's what they do... Haters hate happy people... So keep being happy..❤

  • @mappgirl
    @mappgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Lovely gate, great work! Going forward I would suggest in your wet, rainy environment that you add a little more cement to create a slightly sloped 'skirting" around the base of each post so that rain water sheds away. I think as it is it will catch on top of the cement and seep down along posts into the base hole? Also, along the same lines, and it would be a nice touch too, to make, or buy a cap for the top of the posts also to shed the water so it doesn't soak into the grain from the top. Example: Nice solar self-charged lights are often the design of fence post top covers. Well done work!

    • @lindasands1433
      @lindasands1433 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good thinkin' 👍

  • @jessielynn8876
    @jessielynn8876 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    As someone who works in a building department in the States--- it is almost always the neighbors. Also, idk about there, but our County will not take anonymous complaints.

  • @kathgold4188
    @kathgold4188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Your positivity in a bad situation is why I love watching you. Keep on being you!

  • @lisakurkimaki3028
    @lisakurkimaki3028 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I would definitely due the entire gate blackened… it looks rich, the grey corner looks like it was forgotten lol… my dad always said high fences makes for great neighbours

  • @tullophile
    @tullophile 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    We have large wooden barn doors that swing. I would respectfully suggest that you add substantial cross bracing to the side of the larger gate that faces the house. Xs or Zs to prevent sagging. Well done, Mate! Looking fabulous.

  • @kimorsel686
    @kimorsel686 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Outstanding mate... Leave the grey, I like it... Love everything about what you're doing 😊

  • @Bluebluepoodle
    @Bluebluepoodle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    What a shame we live in a world where jealousies drive so many people so that they feel they have to interfere in others lives. I feel sorry for them and what must be the emptiness of their own lives. Just keep doing what you’re doing - you have a good heart. 😊

    • @nevis1971
      @nevis1971 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It was dangerous as hell mate and an accident waiting to happen on a night after a few. Max will no doubt realise it once the initial disappointment. Imagine if his mum went up there and fell off?

    • @RockinDemJeanz
      @RockinDemJeanz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Awful behaviour. Max needs to get cameras installed in case this idiot tries to come to the property (they have proven they have his address). I agree with you, someone put in a lot of effort, to literally INTERFERE in Max's life. That is not normal behaviour. To watch a stranger's video, and then feel inspired to stalk them (either online or in person) to locate their address. YIKES! Please everyone, enjoy Max's content - but mind your business.

    • @MariE-go7ol
      @MariE-go7ol 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They could of just emailed Max and he would of fixed it. He clearly didn’t know. Some people are such asses.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nevis1971no doubt your children sit in front of their computers, god help them if they ever climbed a tree.

    • @jerisimms8860
      @jerisimms8860 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RockinDemJeanz I agree.

  • @marlaward1588
    @marlaward1588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I love the way you took a 'problem' and turned it into an 'opportunity' for growth and improvement. You are mastering the lessons of life and treating the rest of us to a tutorial - Bravo! Job well done!!!

  • @chellele5816
    @chellele5816 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Love how you turned a confronting and disappointing situation into a positive outcome. You are such a kind soul. The gate looks fantastic and you can now rest easy. I would prefer it all one colour so it looks more finished. The black helps it blend better into the environment. Great job!

  • @jocenelson7408
    @jocenelson7408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    CONGRATULATIONS!! The gate looks AWESOME! And to think you did it all by yourself ... GREAT JOB! As for the Gray, if it helps to differentiate that side of the gate when giving directions to your visitors (keep to the side of the fence that's all ◼ as gate swings open that way), the Gray is helpful. Otherwise, no purpose? Go ⬛.

  • @mothermedicinemusic
    @mothermedicinemusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Go Max, positive vibes, love the gate. You really do live by “Be Kind Always”. Hope others take note and follow the motto.

  • @lorrainekleingunther5632
    @lorrainekleingunther5632 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Shame, you poor man! So sorry to hear abouth a pathetic complaint.
    Really, have people nothing better to do? I have followed you happily and enjoy all the videos that you posted, and interesting and saw no wrong-doing in your handiwork. Glad you've spoken up! Kudos for you! Wouldn'tmind at all being a Mom to you! I'd be so proud of what you have achieved! Keep up the good work! Thank you for the lovely entertainment. I do enjoy everything you post! And your faithful companion is amazing! Until next time, take care.

  • @JB-kd5uv
    @JB-kd5uv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Just have to say that, I have been watching you since early in the Max & Lee days. And you are still one of my most favourite follows. Thank you for your honesty, genuine-ness and your adoration of Occy and your land. Keep up the fabulous videos and beautiful work at your homestead! Absolute beauty!

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Max: Nice, really NICE job on the gates - which are also motorized - 😮!!! 🌟🌟🌟

  • @loriwood8086
    @loriwood8086 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Awesome job on the gate, Max. I think it would look great if the gray bit was also charred. Some nice caps on the posts to protect them from rain would really finish them off nicely. Well done!

  • @kellikennedy8415
    @kellikennedy8415 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Looks great. All black will look amazing. Also on the large piece you can add a wheel it will help stabilize it.

    • @tullophile
      @tullophile 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Adding a rolling wheel at the base of the large gate is a wonderful idea! Being in the rain forest, the wooden gate will naturally sag over time.

  • @GigisART
    @GigisART 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Max, what about building the stairs as a removable “ladder”? No rails necessary.

    • @Ukponmwan
      @Ukponmwan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yes, exactly my thoughts.

    • @jmk1962
      @jmk1962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Great idea.

    • @madeloniris
      @madeloniris 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I think he said he needed it for support? That it’s partially structural as well

    • @sharylcrossley7921
      @sharylcrossley7921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was thinking this too. Or add a collapsible (fold down hand rail) to it can be stowed out of the way when not in use. I'm not familiar with AUS building codes though.

    • @GigisART
      @GigisART 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jmk1962 thanks. I have my moments. 😁

  • @cathyandgreg4239
    @cathyandgreg4239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful job, love the gate. And what timing with the Jackery, I have been trying to deside my approach to a home back up power solution for critical loads and I was wanting to see more on this Jackery setup, thank you. And when it comes to the issue with complaints its unfortunate folks take the approach of not reaching out directly and opening up a conversation with you...maybe they would benefit from that as well. Oh well you met some nice people from the council.
    .

  • @ryanambrose7273
    @ryanambrose7273 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The sound of the rain on your land is almost magic. Soothing to a soul 🫶🏼

  • @carolg.prevette5483
    @carolg.prevette5483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Definitely all black- looks unfinished with the gray spot-great job! ❤❤❤❤

  • @MadJenno
    @MadJenno 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Keep rolling with the punches Max. You’re doing amazing.
    I’m glad the council were able to help in a productive way and I admire your grace with handling the whole situation. Love to you and the Occster ❤
    PS- make that chunk of hardwood into a funky doorstop 😊

  • @kathyc6698
    @kathyc6698 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the gate but also have really enjoyed your videography!!!!! Well done Max and Occy!

  • @Livingmybestlifee
    @Livingmybestlifee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I hope the person who complained reads this. Go about your own day instead of hating on the world. Max has been through enough in his life and you’ve just added to this situation. If only you’ve watched his whole series on you tube you may have had more of a heart.

  • @8888riqui
    @8888riqui 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Sorry someone complained without talking to you first! I love your channel! You always are transparent and honest. You work so amazing by yourself on a job so intricate and large. CONGRATS! GREAT JOB❤

  • @monicack523
    @monicack523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Incredible all that you do !! Small suggestion. How about planting something at each end of the gate, by the posts, small trees or something to give it an even greater feeling of privacy. So someone doesn't simply just walk around it so easily. It's actually beautiful with the different tones of wood. Appreciate you Max and Occy !!

  • @WillsWhereabouts
    @WillsWhereabouts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maaattee, loved this video and what you're doing to you very own tropical paradise! Very inspiring

  • @katharinewooten4436
    @katharinewooten4436 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Super impressed you hung those gates alone! I have such a hard time doing horse gates, which are much lighter!

  • @lisaasbill8984
    @lisaasbill8984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Omgosh Max! What is wrong with people?! Please don't let crazy people stop you from doing fantastic work and sharing it with everyone. Positive vibes always! I thoroughly enjoy your builds. You are remarkable! I just absolutely LOVE Occy! So sorry some unhappy person invaded your beautiful space with negative energy🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm here to tell you that great things are coming your way. I can feel it! Thank you for all your positive messages. My Belgian boy Bear and I absolutely love watching and learning new things on your channel. Thank you for making our day wonderful with all your knowledge. God bless you always!

  • @kathleenchild
    @kathleenchild 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Max, your kindness and gracefulness shows when dealing with this complaint. The person that made the complaint needs to be a better version of themselves. Definitely finishing blackening the rest of the gate would be the way to go IMO.

  • @WendyHansen-v7b
    @WendyHansen-v7b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the new spring in your step! Love to see you with a lighter heart. You have worked hard to move thru to your dreams! You and Occy deserve nothing but all the best.

  • @marciashedeck6342
    @marciashedeck6342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Just a sarcastic WOW to the complainer. The gate looks awesome just how you have it now! I worked as a Florist for over 30 years and always love the staghorn plants and have never seen them in the wild, Those were just beautiful!! We put banana peels at the base of them to feed them and keep them healthy. I love when you share your woods and surrounding nature. 😍

  • @chellele5816
    @chellele5816 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Bloody dobbers, so un-Australian. I wouldn’t be surprised if you decided not to share your journey anymore. But, thank you for sharing the beautiful scenery and sounds of the sub- tropics. It is so calming and brings back lovely memories of childhood spent a little further north of where you are.

  • @rachelwarren9995
    @rachelwarren9995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You are my favourite You Tuber because you are so loving and kind . This person was the opposite . Keep on trucking - you have a good heart and 100 % didn’t deserve this. There are a lot of us out here who think you rock !

  • @jmg1619
    @jmg1619 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you are doing things great over your property. That gate looks pretty cool with that charred timber. “ all black “ my opinion.
    It’s very unfortunate that things like that happen but it gave you the power to create and being more careful.
    Keep it up!🌸🥰🌸🥰

  • @bohoxplorer840
    @bohoxplorer840 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Unbelievable… wow who ever it was shame on you get a life 😮
    Max you must feel very betrayed, keep up the good work❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @susiesunbeam
    @susiesunbeam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Max, I LOVE that you’re taking the situation in your stride and your attitude is admirable. You seem to have just got on with fixing, improving and learning from it.
    But it actually makes me sad and, frankly, a bit pissed off on your behalf that you’re having to deal with this. So creepy, weak, gutless and intrusive: to purposefully interfere in your life like this, to cause you problems (and likely scare you, let’s be honest, in the realisation that your security may be compromised, even if you’ve actively chosen to replace that feeling with action), and to not have the balls, or respect, to contact you directly first to discuss the situation. (If they’re resourceful and cunning enough to have traced your postal address, digging for your email address would’ve been a cinch.) Putting parts of your life online isn’t an invitation to mess with your life. Something seriously wrong with people who think that it is and that they have a right to.
    The gate rocks. I hope it gives you peace of mind and that the shock and stress of this trickles away swiftly. Hugs to Occy 💛

  • @Miss.Libby.
    @Miss.Libby. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You’re a very classy guy Max. Many people would be in an uproar over being dobbed in to the council. Instead, you approached it in a practical and pragmatic manner and turned it into a positive. Shows the depth of your character. Very classy indeed. On the colour of the gate, I’d prefer to see it 100% charred. The black looks great. To finish off those gorgeous posts, you could install a pair of solar lights to complement the gates and to light your way at night. I’m always delighted to watch your videos Max and to see that you and Occy are doing well. You seem more relaxed these days. It’s good to see. Take care. Cheers from the Sunshine Coast. 🌺🦋🌴

  • @mauricecoelho3846
    @mauricecoelho3846 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice work Max on the gate …. I like it ! I prefer all black….. all you need now is a camera and a light installed outside your gate !

  • @mandymorgan8103
    @mandymorgan8103 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    People are so sad! Jealousy is a wasted emotion… no room for dobbers! Max, you just keep doing what you are doing, it’s amazing, you are amazing 👌