I watched this a month or so ago and have been making a point of ‘resting’ more during my day. It has really made a difference and given me permission to meet my body’s needs throughout the day. Came back to try and get my head around all the different kinds of rest
I have noticed this conversation becoming more prominent these days. We are finally realizing this mad cycle of living to work, with no real time for actual rest and small moments of joy is leading to such wide spread suffering.
I agree with everything she's saying but I also think there are parts of our society that have been specifically designed to prevent us from resting in the way she's talking about. Tired people are compliant people.
I think you're truly spot on with this, when you're exhausted all the time the apathy creeps in, how do you fight for any kind of change when getting groceries feels like an impossible chore?
I disagree that tired people are compliant people… I’m physically and emotionally tired all the time, for various reasons … but I assure you … I am an extremely strong person in my opinions and expression and even though I am overwhelmed by other’s expectations in me.. I always find the strength to rise above any comments… and face problems rather than submitting to them… it’s easy to generalise … we are all so very individual as humans ..
How do you rest during the day when you have to work? Employers are extending working hours to 14hrs in some places. Dr's are expected to be working 24hr shifts..
Yes! Just before watching this I was telling my wife that I think society has confused rest and sleep and that I think there are probably different types of rest for different stressors. Then I came across this video just a few minutes later. Thank you!
I'm here for this. For too long we have been living in a culture that encourages burn out. If we don't take the time to set boundaries and rest, we will continue this awful cycle.
This message is becoming more and more vital as we start to question what it means to have a quality of life. I feel like the pandemic has put this into the spotlight.
I need all these types of rest all the time! I lost everything to burnout several years ago and it's changed my life completely. I'm now so super wary of pushing myself and being around people is exhausting! But I still struggle to be OK with just "being" and not "producing". The societal messaging is very persistent!
While I love the concept, I hate that this is so centered on being a worker. I don't rest because I want to be more productive at making someone else money at my own expense, I rest because I am a person outside of my work under capitalism and that person deserves to feel passion and joy for things that are unrelated to their job
you're absolutely right, however our society in North America focuses almost always primarily on work/business as the centrality of human life, it should not be so.
YES! We need to share this more and more, in a world where we are told that we will fail unless we strive, we need to be told that we are human and have human needs in order to achieve. If we do not rest, we aren’t living.
Amazing that it's taking such an upheaval for us to understand and appreciate the need for actual rest and reflection - not continuously beating ourselves up because we aren't reaching so unattainable target.
Stumbled across this concept yesterday. My angels must be looking after me. I am currently in some kind of in burnout from full time work in health and single parenting.
As an empath with its associated issues of exhaustion this talk casts light on sleep deprivation. A notepad really works on nights my mind won't turn off. A mental antidote to your mind tossing and turning.
That's the talk to which I come back from time to time to remind myself of the right approach to rest and multiplicity of it. I think everyone should do it. Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us!
Rest provides time for reflection and recouping. I am so glad that we are finally starting to see the importance of taking time out for ourselves. It's the only hope of us processing.
As a COIVD frontline worker--learning about the different types of rest is revolutionary. I will work on implementing these practices into my day to day. Thank you Saundra
Great talk, is really bad that I'm getting more used to watching videos and listening to things all the time while I know this makes me feel more tired. I only wish she would have given more examples of how to rest each specific one but very important message!
I saw this talk a few months back and it really changed the way I think about 'rest' - have come back to find the link as I was talking about it with some co-workers who were very intrigued. It's surprising how much we don't know about this stuff!
I remember growing up people used to say "I need a little r&r" rest and reflection/relaxation - I want to pin point exactly when we stopped putting emphasis on these things!
I'm watching this on the way to my job in a place that is literally designed for sensory overload. Will definitely be taking the time to close my eyes for a few minutes throughout the day, fingers crossed it works!
Yup, exhausting relationships are what knock me out... but I see without the proper time to rest and reflect instead of just avoiding and keeping on that I play a big role in my burn out.
This talk def opened up my eyes to why I wake up sometimes feeling exhausted after sleeping a full night. Especially if I have weird bizarre dreams, which I usually do. Technology and always having our phone at our disposal for usage, has its pros and cons but my opinion is there are more cons…one of main reasons I unplugged from the major social media platforms. Just couldn’t do it!
This is the most inspirational and reality testing talk I have heard in a long time. I will be referring to Dr. Dalton-Smith in my sessions. Thank you Dr. Dalton-Smith!
This is one of those talks I knew I needed to hear without knowing I needed to hear. I fully recommend it for those feeling so tired you can't think or move. She is such a wonderful speaker and Doctor, this is a must watch!!!
Why are we never taught about this kind of stuff?? Like how useful would it have been to know the proper methods of resting before you hit your 30's and were just chronically tired all the time!
wow no wonder pastors have it so hard and quit the ministry they take on the people issues.. wow this is much needed in my life... wow.. im at the bottom of the barrel on this.. change is COMING
Luckily grade school and high schools have been implementing mindfulness and meditation in their day to day activities which leads me to believe the younger generations will have a better balance.
I watched this a month or so ago and have been making a point of ‘resting’ more during my day. It has really made a difference and given me permission to meet my body’s needs throughout the day. Came back to try and get my head around all the different kinds of rest
“Permission”, such a perfect word to use in this context.
I just watched this last week and I’m already doing things differently
What kinds of rest did you practise? Did you schedule them or just switched to them when you felt like you need a rest?
I have noticed this conversation becoming more prominent these days. We are finally realizing this mad cycle of living to work, with no real time for actual rest and small moments of joy is leading to such wide spread suffering.
I agree with everything she's saying but I also think there are parts of our society that have been specifically designed to prevent us from resting in the way she's talking about. Tired people are compliant people.
I think you're truly spot on with this, when you're exhausted all the time the apathy creeps in, how do you fight for any kind of change when getting groceries feels like an impossible chore?
me too!
I disagree that tired people are compliant people…
I’m physically and emotionally tired all the time, for various reasons
… but I assure you …
I am an extremely strong person in my opinions and expression and even though I am overwhelmed by other’s expectations in me..
I always find the strength to rise above any comments…
and face problems rather than submitting to them…
it’s easy to generalise … we are all so very individual as humans ..
LOL everybody here because you are tired?
yes 😢
No
Yes
Noooo dude....It is because all of US feel the same tireness
How do you rest during the day when you have to work? Employers are extending working hours to 14hrs in some places. Dr's are expected to be working 24hr shifts..
She’s right!! I distance from negative family and people who are not positive
Yes! Just before watching this I was telling my wife that I think society has confused rest and sleep and that I think there are probably different types of rest for different stressors. Then I came across this video just a few minutes later. Thank you!
I'm here for this. For too long we have been living in a culture that encourages burn out. If we don't take the time to set boundaries and rest, we will continue this awful cycle.
This is why I like Ted talks, they bring people with something real and important to say.
I agree 100000%
yes me too.
How true and this is the perfect example.
and this is a perfect example.
I love seeing this right now, with all this virus stuff I just can't sleep these days.
This message is becoming more and more vital as we start to question what it means to have a quality of life. I feel like the pandemic has put this into the spotlight.
I need all these types of rest all the time! I lost everything to burnout several years ago and it's changed my life completely. I'm now so super wary of pushing myself and being around people is exhausting! But I still struggle to be OK with just "being" and not "producing". The societal messaging is very persistent!
This is such a good argument for why self-care is so important.
A good tip is also to understand our circadian rhythm. Simply turning off the lights is also very good for our sleep.
While I love the concept, I hate that this is so centered on being a worker. I don't rest because I want to be more productive at making someone else money at my own expense, I rest because I am a person outside of my work under capitalism and that person deserves to feel passion and joy for things that are unrelated to their job
you're absolutely right, however our society in North America focuses almost always primarily on work/business as the centrality of human life, it should not be so.
I just read your book Sacred Rest. It has been life altering for me. I’ve recommended it to lots of friends. Thank you for writing this.
YES! We need to share this more and more, in a world where we are told that we will fail unless we strive, we need to be told that we are human and have human needs in order to achieve. If we do not rest, we aren’t living.
yes we do
Exactly!! We need to de program and re program
Amazing that it's taking such an upheaval for us to understand and appreciate the need for actual rest and reflection - not continuously beating ourselves up because we aren't reaching so unattainable target.
"High achieving, high producing chronically tired burnt out individuals." Well thank you for this horribly accurate description of everyone I know.
"How to Survive Late Stage Capitalism"
Now this is a subject worth hearing about, great talk.
It is, and now I can sleep well.
agreed, maybe tonight I can rest
@@denisgongolev haha tell me if it works man
back again watching Val, still can't sleep with all this stress.
I wonder if she knew what was coming, sleep and rest are so hard now.
I'm surprised that she didn't mention physical activities. It can help a lot to activate our body to relax our minds
100% true. We can’t solve the chronic fatigue by just sleeping. The emotion can’t sleep
, it requires some deep correction
Stumbled across this concept yesterday.
My angels must be looking after me.
I am currently in some kind of in burnout from full time work in health and single parenting.
I am refreshed by the notion we are heading towards - that replenishing our mind, body and spirit is just as important as being productive.
As an empath with its associated issues of exhaustion this talk casts light on sleep deprivation. A notepad really works on nights my mind won't turn off. A mental antidote to your mind tossing and turning.
It's a simple solution but very effective. Thanks for your input Brynley.
That's the talk to which I come back from time to time to remind myself of the right approach to rest and multiplicity of it. I think everyone should do it. Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us!
Rest provides time for reflection and recouping. I am so glad that we are finally starting to see the importance of taking time out for ourselves. It's the only hope of us processing.
I know this exhausted feeling too well, what a good talk.
me too
oh yes I know that feeling
I need to wake up from waking up, I am always tired.
@@lisa-lio me too
I was tired watching this talk haha
This is a very smart TED, if you are tired watch this!!!
I'll be sharing this in hopes those who still judge me for not taking part in this hyper-critical and detrimental conditioning.
As a COIVD frontline worker--learning about the different types of rest is revolutionary. I will work on implementing these practices into my day to day. Thank you Saundra
Genius Education Zambia team building activity brought me here!
Bookmarking. I need this reminder often
Great talk, is really bad that I'm getting more used to watching videos and listening to things all the time while I know this makes me feel more tired. I only wish she would have given more examples of how to rest each specific one but very important message!
Physical, Emotional, Creative, Social, Mental, Spiritual & Sensory Restoration = Rest
I saw this talk a few months back and it really changed the way I think about 'rest' - have come back to find the link as I was talking about it with some co-workers who were very intrigued. It's surprising how much we don't know about this stuff!
This is a very important talk. Thank you!
“Fatigue is here, in my body, in my legs and eyes. That is what gets you in the end. Faith is only a word, embroidered.” ― Margaret Atwood
I love the idea of Sacred Rest, what a perfect talk.
Yes so do i, I wake up so often worried about everything.
Glad you found the talk helpful Flo. Thank you.
I agree Flo, and I am impressed the Doctor replied, most think they are too big to do that.
Yes I do too.
Oh I agree I need that
Some Ted's have gotten all airy fairy, this is solid.
What a lovely speaker. This is so informative and interesting.
'sleep and rest are not the same thing' - this is such an obvious statement but I've actually never considered this
I remember growing up people used to say "I need a little r&r" rest and reflection/relaxation - I want to pin point exactly when we stopped putting emphasis on these things!
I find it really interesting that most peoples ideas of unwinding include things that just make them more exhausted.
haha true.
She's a wonderful speaker. This is so good.
I'm watching this on the way to my job in a place that is literally designed for sensory overload. Will definitely be taking the time to close my eyes for a few minutes throughout the day, fingers crossed it works!
Yup, exhausting relationships are what knock me out... but I see without the proper time to rest and reflect instead of just avoiding and keeping on that I play a big role in my burn out.
This was so needed to see today!
me too!
I feel so seen in so many aspects. Amazing, concise speaker. I feel like I'm speaking to the madame president!
This talk def opened up my eyes to why I wake up sometimes feeling exhausted after sleeping a full night. Especially if I have weird bizarre dreams, which I usually do. Technology and always having our phone at our disposal for usage, has its pros and cons but my opinion is there are more cons…one of main reasons I unplugged from the major social media platforms. Just couldn’t do it!
Brilliant! It's time for a rest revolution!
Дуже цінна інформація в потрібний час - дякую! ❤
This is the most inspirational and reality testing talk I have heard in a long time. I will be referring to Dr. Dalton-Smith in my sessions. Thank you Dr. Dalton-Smith!
This is one of those talks I knew I needed to hear without knowing I needed to hear. I fully recommend it for those feeling so tired you can't think or move. She is such a wonderful speaker and Doctor, this is a must watch!!!
my words too.
Here because of TBI, never felt fatigue like in my life. Nuero fatigue ao its a little different, but I still use the same ways to cope daily
Rest is therapy, I agree. Now time for a nap.....
I really needed to hear this right now, there has been TOO MUCH going on.
Saundra, this is so incredibly on point. I am sharing this as my circle is one prone to burnt out and this is EXACTLY why.
I really love her tips for creative rest, can't wait to get some cool inspirational images up in my workspace.
I like MC Escher. Most of his stuff is optical illusions so it really draws you in.
Thank you doctor, God bless you, I found the true cause of my exhaustion
Brilliant Saundra! I have been trying to unlearn such myths for a while now and it is really difficult to remind myself rest if productive.
This was actually such an informative and useful talk! I can't wait to start identifying where I used up the most energy in my day.
What a beautiful and smart talk.
Thanks for the kind words, Jeanette.
I always thought my sleep never felt restful because of circadian rhythm was off but this makes a lot of sense.
This is so interesting. I am glad I am learning about this topic.
Mmmmmm so interesting!! I'd genuinely never thought about or heard anything like this before!
Excellent summary of different kinds of rest. So important to make time for this.
What an important message this is. Especially at a time when we are redefining what is important in one's life.
thank you so much for this.
Yes. This makes sense.
Great talk Saundra, it's definitely time we start re-thinking what relaxation looks like.👍
Good to know what you need to change to get more rest.
I just screen shot the kinds of rests. Wow, I had honestly never heard of there being multiple kinds of rest…
Really good and important talk, can't think how many times I woke up just exhausted.
Me too Vin
@@susanpqpowell Thanks Sue
lovely, sleep is so important.
"sleep and rest are not the same thing" I feel like I need to get this tattooed somewhere!
Love this, great talk!
Super! Thank you!
Oh I am watching this tonight again before bed.
All of a sudden I am sleepy, I need rest, lol. Serious though this is a great talk.
me too lol
Rest well, Merle! Thanks
Why are we never taught about this kind of stuff?? Like how useful would it have been to know the proper methods of resting before you hit your 30's and were just chronically tired all the time!
I had never thought about it like this and it is so true!!!
Very thought provoking.
Amazing talk, definitely something more people need to be aware of.
wow no wonder pastors have it so hard and quit the ministry they take on the people issues.. wow this is much needed in my life... wow.. im at the bottom of the barrel on this..
change is COMING
I think being exhausted is necessary in our world to signal we are working ‘hard enough’.
Sleep isnt one only Power of rest, thankyou.
Luckily grade school and high schools have been implementing mindfulness and meditation in their day to day activities which leads me to believe the younger generations will have a better balance.
Oh this is good, this answers a lot of questions.
Outstanding talk, and all points, very effective for those suffering from "Fatigue."
Good to teach kids too.
So many youtubers are making videos about this concept, and not crediting Dr. Daulton-Smith for creating it.
I get this, I do this and yes I am tired so much!
The title should be The difference between resting and sleeping.
Excellent presentation!
This is me every day tired. Love this talk.
Nice and empowering
It's hard to unlearn this conditioning!!!
I can't even remember when I slept really well, this virus is on my mind every second of every day, awake and sleep...
oh how true
I am the same, I am in a state that is so bad.
She described me or how I am exactly in the first 10 seconds.
Good talk, got good information from it, now to sleep on it.
Fantastic talk and solutions!!