The real reason why we are tired and what to do about it | Saundra Dalton-Smith | TEDxAtlanta

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  • Board-certified internal medicine physician Saundra Dalton-Smith reveals the real reason why we are chronically tired despite getting the requisite amount of sleep and the 6 other types of rest available to us in this fast-paced and informative talk.
    Physician and award-winning author Saundra Dalton-Smith is passionate about helping others live their best life, especially the stressed-out and burned-out. She has been featured in numerous media outlets including Women’s Day, Redbook, First For Women, MSNBC, CBS, and Prevention. Her newest release, ”Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity,” offers groundbreaking insight on the seven types of rest.
    Saundra received her Bachelor of Science in biochemistry at the University of Georgia and graduated with honors from Meharry Medical College in Nashville. Saundra Dalton-Smith is passionate about helping others live their best life, especially the stressed-out and burned-out.
    She is both a board-certified internal medicine physician practicing in Alabama and an award-winning author. Saundra has been featured in outlets including Women’s Day, Redbook, First For Women, MSNBC, CBS, and Prevention. Her newest release,” Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity” offers groundbreaking insight on the seven types of rest.
    Saundra received her Bachelor of Science in biochemistry at the University of Georgia and graduated with honors from Meharry Medical College in Nashville. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @Lulu-99
    @Lulu-99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I have noticed this conversation becoming more prominent these days. We are finally realizing this mad cycle of living to work, with no real time for actual rest and small moments of joy is leading to such wide spread suffering.

  • @dustyevans2130
    @dustyevans2130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I watched this a month or so ago and have been making a point of ‘resting’ more during my day. It has really made a difference and given me permission to meet my body’s needs throughout the day. Came back to try and get my head around all the different kinds of rest

    • @christophermills1733
      @christophermills1733 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      “Permission”, such a perfect word to use in this context.

    • @juliajbanks8056
      @juliajbanks8056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just watched this last week and I’m already doing things differently

    • @aleksandral9657
      @aleksandral9657 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What kinds of rest did you practise? Did you schedule them or just switched to them when you felt like you need a rest?

  • @sonthibutsalee
    @sonthibutsalee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I agree with everything she's saying but I also think there are parts of our society that have been specifically designed to prevent us from resting in the way she's talking about. Tired people are compliant people.

    • @mindymac_does_stuff
      @mindymac_does_stuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think you're truly spot on with this, when you're exhausted all the time the apathy creeps in, how do you fight for any kind of change when getting groceries feels like an impossible chore?

    • @beitrissavinsky
      @beitrissavinsky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too!

    • @m.a.2404
      @m.a.2404 ปีที่แล้ว

      I disagree that tired people are compliant people…
      I’m physically and emotionally tired all the time, for various reasons
      … but I assure you …
      I am an extremely strong person in my opinions and expression and even though I am overwhelmed by other’s expectations in me..
      I always find the strength to rise above any comments…
      and face problems rather than submitting to them…
      it’s easy to generalise … we are all so very individual as humans ..

  • @craigjohns7665
    @craigjohns7665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    LOL everybody here because you are tired?

    • @ufc556
      @ufc556 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes 😢

    • @Itfeelsmoist
      @Itfeelsmoist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No

    • @gyaos6951
      @gyaos6951 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

    • @holasoyjose9683
      @holasoyjose9683 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Noooo dude....It is because all of US feel the same tireness

    • @annecooper1138
      @annecooper1138 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do you rest during the day when you have to work? Employers are extending working hours to 14hrs in some places. Dr's are expected to be working 24hr shifts..

  • @irawhitlock1084
    @irawhitlock1084 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Yes! Just before watching this I was telling my wife that I think society has confused rest and sleep and that I think there are probably different types of rest for different stressors. Then I came across this video just a few minutes later. Thank you!

  • @festivusfred
    @festivusfred 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This message is becoming more and more vital as we start to question what it means to have a quality of life. I feel like the pandemic has put this into the spotlight.

  • @jessiesangster
    @jessiesangster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm here for this. For too long we have been living in a culture that encourages burn out. If we don't take the time to set boundaries and rest, we will continue this awful cycle.

  • @sandypogson
    @sandypogson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This is why I like Ted talks, they bring people with something real and important to say.

    • @rosemerle540
      @rosemerle540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 100000%

    • @suebakernottly
      @suebakernottly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes me too.

    • @tonirduran
      @tonirduran 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How true and this is the perfect example.

    • @kristianzlee
      @kristianzlee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      and this is a perfect example.

    • @hasnain-jeelani
      @hasnain-jeelani 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love seeing this right now, with all this virus stuff I just can't sleep these days.

  • @sandracrump
    @sandracrump ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s right!! I distance from negative family and people who are not positive

  • @jeace99
    @jeace99 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm surprised that she didn't mention physical activities. It can help a lot to activate our body to relax our minds

  • @lisawanderess
    @lisawanderess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I need all these types of rest all the time! I lost everything to burnout several years ago and it's changed my life completely. I'm now so super wary of pushing myself and being around people is exhausting! But I still struggle to be OK with just "being" and not "producing". The societal messaging is very persistent!

  • @moanaoloha
    @moanaoloha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I find it really interesting that most peoples ideas of unwinding include things that just make them more exhausted.

  • @hubert-olszewski
    @hubert-olszewski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Some Ted's have gotten all airy fairy, this is solid.

  • @taliksharot
    @taliksharot ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Amazing that it's taking such an upheaval for us to understand and appreciate the need for actual rest and reflection - not continuously beating ourselves up because we aren't reaching so unattainable target.

  • @brynleytalbot778
    @brynleytalbot778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As an empath with its associated issues of exhaustion this talk casts light on sleep deprivation. A notepad really works on nights my mind won't turn off. A mental antidote to your mind tossing and turning.

    • @SaundraDaltonSmith
      @SaundraDaltonSmith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a simple solution but very effective. Thanks for your input Brynley.

  • @knockitdownagain
    @knockitdownagain ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is such a good argument for why self-care is so important.

  • @espiritodeaventura
    @espiritodeaventura ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A good tip is also to understand our circadian rhythm. Simply turning off the lights is also very good for our sleep.

  • @jessiedallen
    @jessiedallen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    YES! We need to share this more and more, in a world where we are told that we will fail unless we strive, we need to be told that we are human and have human needs in order to achieve. If we do not rest, we aren’t living.

    • @movemetoexcel
      @movemetoexcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes we do

    • @sandracrump
      @sandracrump ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!! We need to de program and re program

  • @user-ob3hb3ow2i
    @user-ob3hb3ow2i 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just taping into this from a bible study I was doing about entering into His rest. This is so interesting and as a Health & Wellness Coach I believe this is something amazing I can share with my clients. Thank you for this eye-opening conversation on the 7 Types of Rest.

    • @shrimpdance4761
      @shrimpdance4761 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Matthew 11:28-30 reminded me to watch this again

  • @sherryyuanhunter4056
    @sherryyuanhunter4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant! It's time for a rest revolution!

  • @michealdrozd
    @michealdrozd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bookmarking. I need this reminder often

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a very smart TED, if you are tired watch this!!!

  • @eliasbeik7852
    @eliasbeik7852 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% true. We can’t solve the chronic fatigue by just sleeping. The emotion can’t sleep
    , it requires some deep correction

  • @jacquelinebrumbaugh
    @jacquelinebrumbaugh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful talk, I needed this.

  • @stefblessedinchrist7392
    @stefblessedinchrist7392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic talk and solutions!!

  • @hayleychristine19
    @hayleychristine19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's a wonderful speaker. This is so good.

  • @maevequinn
    @maevequinn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this, great talk!

  • @mike-good-ames
    @mike-good-ames ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "High achieving, high producing chronically tired burnt out individuals." Well thank you for this horribly accurate description of everyone I know.

  • @Kubman12345
    @Kubman12345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That's the talk to which I come back from time to time to remind myself of the right approach to rest and multiplicity of it. I think everyone should do it. Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us!

  • @valeriegervais
    @valeriegervais 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Now this is a subject worth hearing about, great talk.

    • @juanwafford
      @juanwafford 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is, and now I can sleep well.

    • @denisgongolev
      @denisgongolev 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      agreed, maybe tonight I can rest

    • @juanwafford
      @juanwafford 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@denisgongolev haha tell me if it works man

    • @maryyouson4404
      @maryyouson4404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      back again watching Val, still can't sleep with all this stress.

    • @fredbrodersen2734
      @fredbrodersen2734 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wonder if she knew what was coming, sleep and rest are so hard now.

  • @liza-zotova
    @liza-zotova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh this is good, this answers a lot of questions.

  • @dhdmjs2155
    @dhdmjs2155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a very important talk. Thank you!

  • @yannicarliso
    @yannicarliso 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very thought provoking.

  • @Jewels1573
    @Jewels1573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!

  • @khaylamay
    @khaylamay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you so much for this.

  • @Unknown-ki8yk
    @Unknown-ki8yk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A great TEDx talk. Thank you very much.

  • @geraldemery1417
    @geraldemery1417 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saundra, this is so incredibly on point. I am sharing this as my circle is one prone to burnt out and this is EXACTLY why.

  • @beitrissavinsky
    @beitrissavinsky 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing talk, definitely something more people need to be aware of.

  • @babssinnerd
    @babssinnerd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an important message this is. Especially at a time when we are redefining what is important in one's life.

  • @hollieb3584
    @hollieb3584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    What a lovely speaker. This is so informative and interesting.

  • @izakjakub
    @izakjakub ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am refreshed by the notion we are heading towards - that replenishing our mind, body and spirit is just as important as being productive.

  • @kurstank1953
    @kurstank1953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw this talk a few months back and it really changed the way I think about 'rest' - have come back to find the link as I was talking about it with some co-workers who were very intrigued. It's surprising how much we don't know about this stuff!

  • @kendrasroom
    @kendrasroom ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk Saundra, it's definitely time we start re-thinking what relaxation looks like.👍

  • @amritagill1680
    @amritagill1680 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent summary of different kinds of rest. So important to make time for this.

  • @bethanybutzerthesurfer
    @bethanybutzerthesurfer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had never thought about it like this and it is so true!!!

  • @robertjnoble
    @robertjnoble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was actually such an informative and useful talk! I can't wait to start identifying where I used up the most energy in my day.

  • @hkinley55
    @hkinley55 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes. This makes sense.

  • @Vika_Martynova
    @Vika_Martynova 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Дуже цінна інформація в потрібний час - дякую! ❤

  • @andreshedberg
    @andreshedberg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rest provides time for reflection and recouping. I am so glad that we are finally starting to see the importance of taking time out for ourselves. It's the only hope of us processing.

  • @nadiaferchichi
    @nadiaferchichi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant talk!

  • @LifestylebyJulia
    @LifestylebyJulia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so interesting. I am glad I am learning about this topic.

  • @silveriagarza7919
    @silveriagarza7919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to know what you need to change to get more rest.

  • @jeanetteward
    @jeanetteward 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a beautiful and smart talk.

  • @kirby_colon
    @kirby_colon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really good info here, really helps.

  • @aprendefutbol244
    @aprendefutbol244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you doctor, God bless you, I found the true cause of my exhaustion

  • @GoogleUser-wz1il
    @GoogleUser-wz1il 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel so seen in so many aspects. Amazing, concise speaker. I feel like I'm speaking to the madame president!

  • @moyaresgard
    @moyaresgard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I know this exhausted feeling too well, what a good talk.

    • @sandypogson
      @sandypogson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too

    • @pamcampbell3920
      @pamcampbell3920 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh yes I know that feeling

    • @lisa-lio
      @lisa-lio 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need to wake up from waking up, I am always tired.

    • @pamcampbell3920
      @pamcampbell3920 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lisa-lio me too

    • @johnpederson3085
      @johnpederson3085 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was tired watching this talk haha

  • @abundance512
    @abundance512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the most inspirational and reality testing talk I have heard in a long time. I will be referring to Dr. Dalton-Smith in my sessions. Thank you Dr. Dalton-Smith!

  • @nonduality7
    @nonduality7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    lovely, sleep is so important.

  • @charlie-s-anger
    @charlie-s-anger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so needed to see today!

  • @11ThaoNguyen11
    @11ThaoNguyen11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed to hear this right now, there has been TOO MUCH going on.

  • @mariosebok
    @mariosebok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Physical, Emotional, Creative, Social, Mental, Spiritual & Sensory Restoration = Rest

  • @edgartestrada
    @edgartestrada 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll be sharing this in hopes those who still judge me for not taking part in this hyper-critical and detrimental conditioning.

  • @junipruit
    @junipruit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant Saundra! I have been trying to unlearn such myths for a while now and it is really difficult to remind myself rest if productive.

  • @simonoshlor
    @simonoshlor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm watching this on the way to my job in a place that is literally designed for sensory overload. Will definitely be taking the time to close my eyes for a few minutes throughout the day, fingers crossed it works!

  • @dipanjansaha8399
    @dipanjansaha8399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much , Mam !!

  • @blueangel7998
    @blueangel7998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mmmmmm so interesting!! I'd genuinely never thought about or heard anything like this before!

  • @revsshine
    @revsshine ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent presentation!

  • @justsayin2441
    @justsayin2441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Outstanding talk, and all points, very effective for those suffering from "Fatigue."

  • @lookingupwithwonder
    @lookingupwithwonder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stumbled across this concept yesterday.
    My angels must be looking after me.
    I am currently in some kind of in burnout from full time work in health and single parenting.

  • @smoothsyrups
    @smoothsyrups 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This talk def opened up my eyes to why I wake up sometimes feeling exhausted after sleeping a full night. Especially if I have weird bizarre dreams, which I usually do. Technology and always having our phone at our disposal for usage, has its pros and cons but my opinion is there are more cons…one of main reasons I unplugged from the major social media platforms. Just couldn’t do it!

  • @harshmore6664
    @harshmore6664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing !!!

  • @baileyteranirt9528
    @baileyteranirt9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love her tips for creative rest, can't wait to get some cool inspirational images up in my workspace.

    • @lynnes1864
      @lynnes1864 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like MC Escher. Most of his stuff is optical illusions so it really draws you in.

  • @virgilstox2677
    @virgilstox2677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice and empowering

  • @bupechikumbi3082
    @bupechikumbi3082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Genius Education Zambia team building activity brought me here!

  • @piperhansard5263
    @piperhansard5263 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Fatigue is here, in my body, in my legs and eyes. That is what gets you in the end. Faith is only a word, embroidered.” ― Margaret Atwood

  • @splaws-fk8sw
    @splaws-fk8sw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a COIVD frontline worker--learning about the different types of rest is revolutionary. I will work on implementing these practices into my day to day. Thank you Saundra

  • @EnglishLearnersHere
    @EnglishLearnersHere ปีที่แล้ว

    I so agree with you! Thanks for sharing this very useful and informative presentation!

  • @ecetetik3088
    @ecetetik3088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent talk -thank you!

  • @msamymorin
    @msamymorin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yup, exhausting relationships are what knock me out... but I see without the proper time to rest and reflect instead of just avoiding and keeping on that I play a big role in my burn out.

  • @my-own-boss
    @my-own-boss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always thought my sleep never felt restful because of circadian rhythm was off but this makes a lot of sense.

  • @kimpno134
    @kimpno134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this is very informative

  • @tinycockcroft
    @tinycockcroft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is me every day tired. Love this talk.

  • @graysonmyles
    @graysonmyles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why are we never taught about this kind of stuff?? Like how useful would it have been to know the proper methods of resting before you hit your 30's and were just chronically tired all the time!

  • @flodavis
    @flodavis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I love the idea of Sacred Rest, what a perfect talk.

    • @jacquelinebrumbaugh
      @jacquelinebrumbaugh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes so do i, I wake up so often worried about everything.

    • @SaundraDaltonSmith
      @SaundraDaltonSmith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Glad you found the talk helpful Flo. Thank you.

    • @robertlcbranson6834
      @robertlcbranson6834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree Flo, and I am impressed the Doctor replied, most think they are too big to do that.

    • @sammyllee
      @sammyllee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I do too.

    • @billconconi
      @billconconi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh I agree I need that

  • @davidhanson8232
    @davidhanson8232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good to teach kids too.

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good talk, got good information from it, now to sleep on it.

  • @judeblyth3606
    @judeblyth3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh I am watching this tonight again before bed.

  • @nothx3299
    @nothx3299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember growing up people used to say "I need a little r&r" rest and reflection/relaxation - I want to pin point exactly when we stopped putting emphasis on these things!

  • @nathanclendle
    @nathanclendle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'sleep and rest are not the same thing' - this is such an obvious statement but I've actually never considered this

  • @levisenns
    @levisenns 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The answer!

  • @vindemour
    @vindemour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really good and important talk, can't think how many times I woke up just exhausted.

    • @susanpqpowell
      @susanpqpowell 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too Vin

    • @vindemour
      @vindemour 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@susanpqpowell Thanks Sue

  • @andrea-harrison
    @andrea-harrison 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get this, I do this and yes I am tired so much!

  • @abhipatil4844
    @abhipatil4844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one

  • @bettygould3679
    @bettygould3679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this. Im going through such a tough time right now, Im so exhausted every day.

  • @briannavantifcampen
    @briannavantifcampen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She described me or how I am exactly in the first 10 seconds.

  • @sheilalindsay
    @sheilalindsay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is one of those talks I knew I needed to hear without knowing I needed to hear. I fully recommend it for those feeling so tired you can't think or move. She is such a wonderful speaker and Doctor, this is a must watch!!!

  • @IslamMuhammad
    @IslamMuhammad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To the point.

  • @n8sterling727
    @n8sterling727 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here because of TBI, never felt fatigue like in my life. Nuero fatigue ao its a little different, but I still use the same ways to cope daily

  • @and18ku
    @and18ku 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sleep isnt one only Power of rest, thankyou.