Brain is genius. He teaches something no other coach does. ENERGY is the essence and he knows it and teaches it with so much clarity. Mind is blown off!
I'm happily married and have been REALLY good with women for the past 10 years or so. HOWEVER, your videos helped DRAMATICALLY in dealing with my employees, I always went into nice guy syndrome with my employees, always fearful of being an abusive boss OR them leaving me.. You have no idea just how much in the past week, how happy, honest, confident, transparent and yes KIND but not nice I have become.. THANKS FOREVER!
I love how honest you are in your videos. Over the past year I've been trying to change my life by trying to push really hard and being hard on myself, as the mainstream PUA advice goes. It's helped me change somewhat, but it also has gotten me sick and tired with life. It's time for some positive change. Thank you for your honesty.
This is probably some of the best advice I've heard and even though this channel is geared for guys I think its great advice just for learning positive social skills for people in general.
Thank you for this video. Your the only one who explains this stuff. A few months after my wife left me and filed divorce, I decided to go do this approach stuff. I was doing ok but got worse because I burned myself out. It got to where I COULDN'T EVEN TALK to them anymore. Now I'm slowly recovering due to your help.
Thank you so much for the uploads man! These videos are by far the best ive seen on talking to women. Just out of curiousity, have you read the slight edge?
Is this useful for helping cure confrontational anxiety? Is there other specific videos of yours you recommend I watch for confrontational anxiety too?
Thanks for your question Caleb. Are you talking about feeling anxious during a confrontation with someone or avoiding necessary confrontations out of anxiety? Confrontations are definitely a form of tension and so developing your capacity to handle emotional tension is central to handling those situations. Grounding is also another thing to work on. Being grounded means feeling a strong connection with the earth, both physically and energetically. Here is a video on that topic. Also, the most fundamental thing we teach at Fearless is the Revealing Process where the subconscious emotions that influence our reactions and choices can be brought to the surface and released. Here are some videos on that as well. - Andrew, The Fearless Man Revealing process: th-cam.com/video/GjqfUmyGyzI/w-d-xo.html Grounding: th-cam.com/video/XGknc22UKkE/w-d-xo.html
@@TheFearlessMan yes, I was referring to feeling anxious during confrontation. Also, I appreciate your response! I will definitely check out these videos.
You have to be pretty confident to wear that shirt... Kidding, kidding, just giving some tension, just like you tought us :) Learned so much from you, really awsome work. Few videos really opened my eyes and I started seeing things from diffrent perspective. Much appriciate what you are doing here
@@TheFearlessMan I live in Turkey and even big cities are cool and pretty much liberated most of other places still lives under big social dogmas. In a point if I was to approach a girl randomly on street, she'll %85 be very very aggressive and call her brothers to the spot, people around you will notice and surround you because why not its fun they can't be in the wrong and you will get your ass beat just because. Even if it wasn't me and it was you with everything you know and know you doing right still the outcome won't change.(just some reality info) I will try this with a girl once every week, or 1 time in two weeks probably. That's how frequent I can find openings to go for it because I need that bit of a natural element happening in there too to feel secure.
I’m in a relationship and I struggle with trusting. I kept accusing my partner of cheating despite not finding any evidence except finding out she was texting back and forth with a guy from her past and she deleted the text messages and said it was a simple “hey this is my new number” I later found out she was texting back and forth. Anyway would letting go in times where I get anxiety about her cheating be a practice of tension? Like instead of checking her location not look at all?
u are the shit bro lol what do u think of david diada what's your favorite books for success with women and being a man do u like rsd and what they do?
+brian marquez David Deida is great. I believe strongly in his 3 stages of masculinity and femininity - one of our "Becoming FEARLESS" episodes is a talk I gave in Romania about the three stages and how we see them at FEARLESS-that's here: th-cam.com/video/Cny4sk8U0lQ/w-d-xo.html Like I told ya on the other video, "No More Mr Nice Guy" is a must-read/listen. And if you don't have our ebook yet "FEARLESS with Women," you can get a free chapter of that here: www.thefearlessman.com/fearless-with-women-ebook
@@TheFearlessMan Thanks for the response. Sometimes it's hard for me to discern between which self-inhibitions are justified and what's merely an excuse. Maybe the answer is being willing to make mistakes and endure the resulting stings in order to find out
I’m in a relationship and I struggle with trusting. I kept accusing my partner of cheating despite not finding any evidence except finding out she was texting back and forth with a guy from her past and she deleted the text messages and said it was a simple “hey this is my new number” I later found out she was texting back and forth. Anyway would letting go in times where I get anxiety about her cheating be a practice of tension? Like instead of checking her location not look at all?
Hey man, Yes 100%. Letting go of fear, letting go of grief over past hurts, letting go of shame. All of those things will help you see this situation and all situations more clearly and decide what you need to do. You will be much more able to decide clearly about this relationship. I don't know if I totally understand the full situation but she seems to have blatantly lied about this guy. Have you gone through some kind of process to be able to reestablish trust? Has she shown herself to have learned from the mistake of both texting inappropriately with this guy and then lying about it? It's kind of weird because you started out saying "despite not finding any evidence" but then you went on to describe a whole lot of evidence. It's hard to tell where things stand. - Andrew, TFM Staff
So much love to you Brian♥️
Brain is genius. He teaches something no other coach does. ENERGY is the essence and he knows it and teaches it with so much clarity. Mind is blown off!
I'm happily married and have been REALLY good with women for the past 10 years or so. HOWEVER, your videos helped DRAMATICALLY in dealing with my employees, I always went into nice guy syndrome with my employees, always fearful of being an abusive boss OR them leaving me..
You have no idea just how much in the past week, how happy, honest, confident, transparent and yes KIND but not nice I have become..
THANKS FOREVER!
I love how honest you are in your videos. Over the past year I've been trying to change my life by trying to push really hard and being hard on myself, as the mainstream PUA advice goes. It's helped me change somewhat, but it also has gotten me sick and tired with life. It's time for some positive change. Thank you for your honesty.
Glad it's helpful!
Have the same experience. LOVE this guys presence and honesty. These concepts really helps.
I love you bro. You just gave an epiphany! "Notice where the tension is at, and step into that." Game changer! Thank you.
This is probably some of the best advice I've heard and even though this channel is geared for guys I think its great advice just for learning positive social skills for people in general.
Thank you for this video. Your the only one who explains this stuff. A few months after my wife left me and filed divorce, I decided to go do this approach stuff. I was doing ok but got worse because I burned myself out. It got to where I COULDN'T EVEN TALK to them anymore. Now I'm slowly recovering due to your help.
Thanks for all of these videos. Imo you do an excellent job, probably the best videos in this genre.
Thank you for this video. Clearly stated and helped me to focus my previously vague attempt.
Thank you so much for the uploads man! These videos are by far the best ive seen on talking to women. Just out of curiousity, have you read the slight edge?
Oh yes! The Slight Edge is required reading for my clients. Glad the videos are helpful!
The Fearless Man Thats awesome man! i just finished reading it. Its a great book
You came at the right time thks for real
You are great!! Please continue to let us learn from you. Respect man.
Thanks! Will do
Great stuff!
Solid stuff! 👌
Thank you for you work!
My pleasure! Hope to meet you at an event!
Is this useful for helping cure confrontational anxiety? Is there other specific videos of yours you recommend I watch for confrontational anxiety too?
Thanks for your question Caleb. Are you talking about feeling anxious during a confrontation with someone or avoiding necessary confrontations out of anxiety? Confrontations are definitely a form of tension and so developing your capacity to handle emotional tension is central to handling those situations. Grounding is also another thing to work on. Being grounded means feeling a strong connection with the earth, both physically and energetically. Here is a video on that topic. Also, the most fundamental thing we teach at Fearless is the Revealing Process where the subconscious emotions that influence our reactions and choices can be brought to the surface and released. Here are some videos on that as well. - Andrew, The Fearless Man
Revealing process:
th-cam.com/video/GjqfUmyGyzI/w-d-xo.html
Grounding:
th-cam.com/video/XGknc22UKkE/w-d-xo.html
@@TheFearlessMan yes, I was referring to feeling anxious during confrontation. Also, I appreciate your response! I will definitely check out these videos.
You have to be pretty confident to wear that shirt... Kidding, kidding, just giving some tension, just like you tought us :) Learned so much from you, really awsome work. Few videos really opened my eyes and I started seeing things from diffrent perspective. Much appriciate what you are doing here
Haha, good tension play +Crater777! I like it. Really glad the videos are helping! Appreciate you letting me know.
Taught*
Crater777 the shirt comment ... lmho
Why'd you have to go a defuse the tension?
@@TheFearlessMan I live in Turkey and even big cities are cool and pretty much liberated most of other places still lives under big social dogmas. In a point if I was to approach a girl randomly on street, she'll %85 be very very aggressive and call her brothers to the spot, people around you will notice and surround you because why not its fun they can't be in the wrong and you will get your ass beat just because. Even if it wasn't me and it was you with everything you know and know you doing right still the outcome won't change.(just some reality info)
I will try this with a girl once every week, or 1 time in two weeks probably. That's how frequent I can find openings to go for it because I need that bit of a natural element happening in there too to feel secure.
journal the learning, growth, gain
have five areas to focus
strike for right amount of tension
Ty💛
This is a very helpful video.
man you're awesome
I’m in a relationship and I struggle with trusting. I kept accusing my partner of cheating despite not finding any evidence except finding out she was texting back and forth with a guy from her past and she deleted the text messages and said it was a simple “hey this is my new number” I later found out she was texting back and forth. Anyway would letting go in times where I get anxiety about her cheating be a practice of tension? Like instead of checking her location not look at all?
I don't get the tension stuff
I don't feel any how can I learn the tension ?
No lies told
I'm new to your channel, by tension you mean fear? Can you elaborate more on this concept of tension? Thanks
Check out this post and the other links on the page: www.thefearlessman.com/what-makes-a-man-confident-good-with-tension/
what do you mean by ''tension'' ?? I cant speak english well so... that word make confuse
Dante Devil basically be proactive towards social situations which feel normally difficult to you.
Fear. Step into your fear, your edge of practice, in everything you do, consistently.
u are the shit bro lol what do u think of david diada what's your favorite books for success with women and being a man do u like rsd and what they do?
+brian marquez David Deida is great. I believe strongly in his 3 stages of masculinity and femininity - one of our "Becoming FEARLESS" episodes is a talk I gave in Romania about the three stages and how we see them at FEARLESS-that's here: th-cam.com/video/Cny4sk8U0lQ/w-d-xo.html
Like I told ya on the other video, "No More Mr Nice Guy" is a must-read/listen. And if you don't have our ebook yet "FEARLESS with Women," you can get a free chapter of that here: www.thefearlessman.com/fearless-with-women-ebook
Thanks bro!!
+brian marquez You're welcome!
Asking strangers the time is really suspicious. Everyone has a smart phone these days
That’s a story. We do it all the time. When people are occasionally weird about it, you just don’t take it personally
@@TheFearlessMan Thanks for the response.
Sometimes it's hard for me to discern between which self-inhibitions are justified and what's merely an excuse.
Maybe the answer is being willing to make mistakes and endure the resulting stings in order to find out
It HURTS!!!!!!!!!
I’m in a relationship and I struggle with trusting. I kept accusing my partner of cheating despite not finding any evidence except finding out she was texting back and forth with a guy from her past and she deleted the text messages and said it was a simple “hey this is my new number” I later found out she was texting back and forth. Anyway would letting go in times where I get anxiety about her cheating be a practice of tension? Like instead of checking her location not look at all?
Hey man, Yes 100%. Letting go of fear, letting go of grief over past hurts, letting go of shame. All of those things will help you see this situation and all situations more clearly and decide what you need to do. You will be much more able to decide clearly about this relationship. I don't know if I totally understand the full situation but she seems to have blatantly lied about this guy. Have you gone through some kind of process to be able to reestablish trust? Has she shown herself to have learned from the mistake of both texting inappropriately with this guy and then lying about it? It's kind of weird because you started out saying "despite not finding any evidence" but then you went on to describe a whole lot of evidence. It's hard to tell where things stand. - Andrew, TFM Staff