Are You Rejecting Women Without Realizing It?
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My problem is that the women who want me are not the types of women I want to want me.
Keep working on your confidence, connection, and tension skills. And write down specifics of the kind of women you like (personality, looks, age, what type of relationship, etc) and start training your mind to see how you're moving towards having those types of women in your life-all the small ways. And work on finding and connecting with more of those women.
Sadly, no amount of introspection, self-improvement and/or positive reinvention will rid me of the curse of being an irresistible magnet for neurotic, fat, possessive, fat, psychotic, fat, deeply disturbed, fat, and fat women.
@snakeplissin never underestimate the power of the pull-push effect.
lower your social value and kowtow; women will loathe you. get them to loathe you, and you will never see them again.
if ur not convinced, ask urself if u believe that "nice guys" finish last and the assholes get the girls. it is the same concept.
good luck!
SnakePlissken hahaha dude we are in the same boat!
SnakePlissken 😂😂😂😂 me 2 bro
"If I had a dollar for every woman who thought I was ugly, they wouldn't" - from the internet.
That is fucking brilliant! Such a perfect quote!
Edijs I don’t get it I think I’m thinking too hard about it what’s it mean
DysfunctionaLMeaninglessTeo FT Women will want you if you have lots of money, regardless of what you look like. The end. Not that hard.
Haha, that’s brilliant! 👌😄
Like they say, there's no such thing as an ugly billionaire.
Though I understand where this is coming from, this still relies on the passiveness of women. Unless men are aggressive in their body language, women will think the men are rejecting them. However some men are unwilling to be aggressive considering aggressiveness can get them into some trouble, some even life altering, so they shy away from such demeanors until they can confidently know that the risk is worth the reward or that the risk is relatively low and the consequences not so harsh. Because of this men appear stand-offish and thus women think they are being rejected because women rely on signalling and the men receiving and thus responding appropriately, but if men are wary of the signals and whether they are legit or not because of the consequences for responding when not being signaled then they will be subconsciously defensive towards any signal for fear of illegitimacy. Women want men to be aggressive because god willing they ever be aggressive themselves, but vilify aggressive men, thus men gets confused and become passive in which women turn away from passive men and now it's a lose-lose situation for men. There's a kink in the chain here.
This pisses me off. How the fuck did our society get like this? This has got to be the worst time ever to be a young male adult in, at least, American history.
Jon Wagner *The western world.
Living Lightning excellent
Living Lightning - I get where you are coming from and yes this still does require the man to make the approach for the most part. But what if a woman does approach you? What Brian is saying is still going to apply. I personally had an encounter where a woman approached me and I know that I did not respond well. I am very introverted and I know that I put out very strong back off signals. Unfortunately I don't really know how to turn them off. I think I could really learn from this channel. It sounds like it's not so much about being aggressive as much as it's about being genuine.
LikeToWatch77
I'm an introvert as well. Generally introverts don't socialize well so we are at a disadvantage no matter what whether approaching or being approached. The point is generally us men are required to approach because women will not. There are rare chances they will, but there is also a very high chance a man will miss it unless she makes it very obvious or if the man themself is cautious about such advances.
I don't have these problems my bank account rejects beautiful women .
Then you are screening out all the wrong women. Give yourself a pat on the back mate!
+Marco Polo
Uhhh... no he's not, dummy.
You seriously think you could pull a Ariana Grande, Halle Berry, Beyonce, NFL cheerleader, etc with an empty bank account? LMAO.
Attractive women know their looks are an asset tradeable for a cash.
A beautiful woman shouldn't choose to be with a broke man any more than a rich man should choose to be with a fugly woman.
Geezuz chryst, the logic on you people.
men use money to get women, women use men to get money everyone know this already
Why would he want those bitches? lol, always weigh up the pros and cons, and at the end of the day celebrities are not the best looking specimins on earth.
+Marco
A beautiful woman shouldn't choose to be with a broke man any more than a rich man should choose to be with a fugly woman. Rinse and repeat
Ive been rejected so much by women, no wander i maybe rejecting some of them, its rubbed off on me, its a crazy cycle.
Antonio Mais don't feel bad dude , I'm 43 and never had a girlfriend, oh well
charles turner you aren't serious are you? one night out with me and I guarantee you I could get you a girl. ez peezy
Kenneth Glisson I wouldn't lie to you my friend , story of my life , social anxiety and growing up with low self esteem really did a number on lil ol me.
charles turner man bro, that makes me sad for you. honestly. If you lived by me we would fix this shit quick fast and in a hurry.
Kenneth Glisson I'm in Ohio bro, where area are you in?
a few months ago my female friend randomly told me "I wish I have a bf like you" and "If a nice guy like me ask me to be his gf I would say yes".
and all I said to her was "you will never met a guy as cool as me"
I am the worst kind of idiot
Haha. Escalate things. Be flirty. Make tension statements. See my videos on tension.
Nope, I CONSCIOUSLY reject women. And it's pretty damn fun.
Hold them accountable you deserve a cookie
I hear that, I do the same thing.
Hold them accountable lol
It's all fun and games now, but wait until one day you drive home from work in your Toyota prius, you're 40 years old and alone and start to reflect back on life while looking at your married friends' life who have children and you realize that you've might wasted a great opportunity with a woman in the past, which makes you cry while driving in your Toyota prius, which makes you want to drive off a cliff, but you can't. Because you have a prius and it can't get up the hill.
Now that's sad.
Dennis k.... Bwaaaahahahahaha. That was hilarious. Wait... you were joking right? If a man can make it to 40 without being married, he's had sex with so many women that his life makes your life look depressing. I was married for 9 years. Worst years of my life. When i would no longer give her access to my bank account, she divorced me. Best day of my life. Now I'm 40 and still fucking women in their 20's. When I'm 50 I'll move up to women in their 30's, and my ex will be a shriveled up 50 year old hag. She's already hit the wall now, and she's only 39. When i hit an age where I need someone to take care of me, I will have saved so much money that I can hire a 20 year old nurse to polish my knob. Life is good.
I agree... it is so rare I am attracted by a guy who isn't confident and being himself. I can feel this in very few seconds.. thanks for helping out guys out there who are having a hard time. I hope to see more confident men embracing their masculinity because that is so amazing and powerful
I've written off meeting women anywhere. it really is a huge waste of time. after awhile you just get tired of rejection and just get tired of approach and just tired of females period. mgtow for the rest of my life.
I have rejected a lot of women in my time. All sorts, all sorts of different races. The reactions have been priceless. Why do I do this? It's power, it's the ability to pay on them when the misery other women have put on me. Trust me they don't take it well. As I said in power, it's lets them know that they have no control over you.
Joshua Nelson Thank you sir
Why do TFL and Incels like yourself make up lies on TH-cam? You have an average to below average face. Which women are you rejecting?
@@MrSivram28 - That seems to be his point. He claims that you reject women without even knowing it. How are you going to know "which" women?
No anxiety,depression, or scared shitless feelings. I just don't care for women. 😏 im focused on Traveling, become a Neurosurgeon, and make awesome friends.
I am 25 all I care about is my metalcore band and traveling, women are ok but they would hold me back.
Awesome brother all you need is yourself in this cruel narcissistic world...
I reject women on purpose ... 1 because I'm poor. 2 I'm a geek. 3 I'm socially awkward and text completely different.
@@ShatruVinashak What my family/friends don't understand is..I've given up, It's too exhausting to even try anymore.
@@drummonkeystuffuk1875 - This game is a "rough ride".Do you have the stomach for it?
@@drummonkeystuffuk1875 me too. I’m too picky myself. Plus, I never even wanna have children. And the only so-called available singles are nowhere near desirable in my opinion. I don’t care about inner beauty or common interests anyway. Unless it’s already showing on the outside. Besides, love is a waste of time and money for some people. It’s brought me nothing but misery. Granted I’m happy to all people throughout the world that love has worked out perfectly well for
Sounds like excuses to me buddy. Poor is a disease of the mind. Being a geek isn’t a bad thing. If your socially awkward, start practicing by stepping into small pockets of tension everyday. Gotta be willing to put in the work.
you also have to look at how you feel about women, how you feel about yourself, how you feel about sex, and how you feel about love. I believe we were designed for intimacy but because of fear and a lack of knowledge, intimacy is broken again and again. So we lose trust in ourselves, women, and possibly the whole idea of love. But intimacy can be built with respect, trust, empathy, understanding, and a sense of humor. If you can achieve all these things in a conversation, you'll be more attractive to anybody.
This phenomenon exists because a notable portion of men are not getting sex and affection from their female peers. What is the reason for this? It's not because too many men are just fearful and lack knowledge. Women are just as socially and romantically inept and fearful as men and they have, comparatively extremely little problem finding romantic and sexual partners(....which begs many other questions just a little bit related to the two gender's average desirability, sexual experience, fidelity, promiscuity, choice of partner(s) etc....but lets not go there. lol). I would say a great number of men know exactly how they feel about women, themselves, sex and love and their only issue is that they aren't finding those things....GASP...through no fault of their own....and nobody is blaming women as a whole for this or saying that people shouldn't grow and be the best versions of themselves. But I hate hearing about whenever men struggle with women, they have to go into some deep personal evaluation as if they are just flawed or falling short for not being able to get a girlfriend and everyone eats this up while women don't have this same problem with men. It's not because "women are smarter" or "more in tune with_____" or some other statement that really just breaks down to sexism against men when we are honest with ourselves. Nobody is asking for some retributive justice. Something is deeply wrong with the gender dynamic. I just implore people to look deeper into this problem than pea cocking garments, body language, cocky funny and kino escalation.
Michael Anderson Even if women are looking at life wrong, we don't have control over that. instead we can focus on what's within our power. it is within our power to become emotionally intelligent people, to be leaders. we can inspire the people in our lives, the women, our coworkers, our bosses, our families. we all have our flaws, but we can help people to move beyond their flaws. we can help them to express themselves. we can help them to enjoy life more than if they were by themselves. that's all women want is to enjoy life more. so they turn to guys to be the leader. they give guys so much freedom to establish how each moment will turn. so when we push the girls to create the fun moment, the women reject that, because that is what they turn to the men for. so we need to be prepared to create powerful moments with the people in our lives.
Michael Anderson comment of the day, i agree there is definitely an issue here, reminds me of an idea i touched on: women tend to like men who are flakey and have no devotion this leads to single parenthood, how is this beneficial?
Eddie Allen I hope you aren't implying I am saying plainly that "women are looking at life wrong." But one problem is that, for example, I have listened to countless hours from many prominent puas(and even the better ones with more substance like Carlos Xuma, David Deangelo and NOT people like mystery) that teach men to appeal to the individual women who actually are looking at their approach toward men wrong, by teaching them how to pass shit tests instead of encouraging men to not be with someone who tests you and treats you like that.
I clearly said as well in my last comment "nobody is blaming women as a whole for this or saying that people shouldn't grow and be the best versions of themselves." That's not my grievance with PUA.
Some men do try hard to better themselves in every way every day. the whole nine yards and still struggle. But my whole thesis is that all these things allude to a much deeper problem between the sexes. PUA actively keeps men from looking into it.
The entire remainder of your comment. I don't even see a correlation to what I was talking about....and I don't fully agree that what you described is how male/female interaction works. Sounds more like a sociological hypothesis. For example. I don't "push girls to create the fun moment" I don't even know what that means. Men are the ones being pushed to do literally everything accept decide if anything goes further. lol
Gabriel Puana That's why I tell women, if you want a guy who is a "challenge," then your dating life is going to be challenging. lol
He is gonna leave because he doesn't care about you. He only is a "challenge" because it's not hard for him and he has options....and most of the time that means he has other women he is fucking...and when women get that vibe, they don't understand why the guy is showing her no interest, so they try to MAKE him interested...so he knocks her up and leaves her and then she goes and cries to the guy who would have had children with her. lol
I have hypothesized that is it a form of action through projection. People are told about EQUALITY EQUALITY...so, people grow up thinking women and men are exactly the same, when we have biological and anatomical differences, so on women's end, many seem to think that a mating/romantic prospect is only good if they are a challenge(like how the quality of women are typically gauged. The concept of being "easy"That's the projection part) because they think of the concept of a woman being "easy," being of low quality. So they think if a guy is "easy" he isn't worth it. When most men are only "easy" because getting sex for men is difficult and requires skill/status and MANY MANY men go virtually sexless throughout their entire lives...so of course if you are lonely and sex starved and some woman wants to fuck you, sure you are gonna want it. It's different for men and women.
What ends up happening is it backfires on women. The outcome is the opposite of what they wanted because they started selecting their partners in the same way they want to be selected, when heterosexual men and women naturally are built to seek their partner in opposite, but complimenting ways.
Western society is starting to crumble because men and women have swept their differences under the rug instead of embracing them. Men are acting like women. women are acting like men and in the age of equality everyone is miserable.
It's just a shame that anyone trying to point this out is accused of suggesting that equality is bad. lol
wear expensive clothes and show money and it will confuse them to ignore your subcommunication.
Lukas Fraley you know it buddy!
Trust me, it doesn't work.
Yeah Me Really?
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so basically women are robots who detect everything about a man? *beeep* *booop* *peeep* "he looks 10 degrees lower, he must be nervous, my body doesnt want to sleep with him anymore" *beep* *boop* *peeeeeeb* "his hand is 20% colder than mine, he must be very nervous, i wont sleep with him anymore"
Men have it harder than women
Have you ever heard your name from through a TV, radio, some talk and headphones? I bet you did. Are you a robot? Point being that our subconsciousness even according to science processes much, MUCH more information than our puny consciousness, and these little tweaks and tricks and, as he said, microexpressions are EVERYTHING in cold approach, buuuut something tells me your opinion is not to be changed.
We do the same thing without knowing it. 90% of communication is non-verbal.
Lets not act like the way that western women gauge men is based on biology and body language, voice tone and subtle tells multipavel86. Subconscious behavior doesn't have as much power as you think. Women, just like men, for the most part are totally oblivious socially no matter what their brain synapses are telling them. The more I learn about and talk to women, the more I find out they are not savvy to this stuff at all in any way that your typical awkward guy isn't. I would even often expect THEM for a change to read BLATANT body language on my part and it would go right over their heads. lol I would sit back eye em down confident as fuck and they would STILL have NO clue what my vibe was and still be operating based on their same typical evaluation of guys and shit tests. didn't work on me. lol I just lost my patience for their fake judgmental bull. I could say what they want to hear and all of a sudden they open up. gross. Too late. I want a GOOD women and good women like good men and don't need him to run game to feel less insecure about herself. Any time I meet a real good woman, it's like all of a sudden the pretense and awkwardness is gone because lets face it, the reality is that women typically are the ones who make it intense and put the pressure on from before the guy even started talking to her and after. Notice how when you talk to a woman in a non date setting, you say something, she reciprocates based on her interests on the subject and the conversation easily grows. but in dating the women stays silent more and tests you conversation skills to see if there will be awkward silence. It's that "lets see what he does" testing that doesn't prove anything about the guy and only makes it difficult and makes the guy less attracted to them in turn and drives him away.
D3TOSS . Are cells communicate all the time that's why we evolved using sex and kissing ect. It's on a biological level of the subconscious
I enjoy rejecting them the looks on their faces are priceless
You won't be laughing about it when it happens my friend
@@kennethporst4359 It's happened to me plenty of times so I return the favor now and I'm most likely doing the right thing since the majority of them aren't any good anyway .
@NL Q I've met so many bad ones that I wouldn't really want to meet one now I've seen some women I thought could be wife material.turn out to be snakes .
@NL Q To be honest only two that I recall but they weren't serious relationships one probably would've continued but she was murdered the other may have as well but I don't think it would've been serious , all of the others I've met strung me along , flaked on me and basically treated me like dirt , but I've had other women tell me I'm not bad looking and that I'd make a good husband , I have a good job ,own my home , have nice vehicles , pay my bills , haven't been married or have any kids but I can't take any of them seriously now , so I don't really think it's going to happen for me or that'll I'll meet a good woman .
Unconsciously? No, I do it on purpose.
This is why I don't bother dating. He's right about what he says. But if I have to jump through so many hoops and not just be myself. I can't be bothered. I can devote my energy to bettering myself or creating something interesting. Constantly keeping this game up. Not for me. Great video though man! PS: I flirt and am great at it. My guy friends think i'm some kind of pro. I'm just honest.
It really is just playing a part...a "game" that women want you to play. that's why they fall for jerks. Any guy know how to tell a woman what she wants to hear. It's just the good men don't so she finds someone to lie to her to inflate her ego and her bank account.
"Men are build to attract women"
Yeah, looks like I'm not a man or something...
i'm probably a hamster then
Same here.
Jefferson Sales Hasters are cute . Dont be ashamed of what you are
thats bullshit. a blue pill shimp mangina has no right to define manhood for us. i know manlier man than him who are virgin.
Or a orangutan? Kidding
Women reject my face
💯
Are you afraid of dying alone???
All die alone even with family or spouse.
To Ben
That is Ok, It should be repeated.
SquirrelCake, now say it without crying
I've rejected one and the look on her face was priceless
"Go up and talk to her, man!"
"I can't do it."
"What? Why not?"
"I was abandoned as a child"
😂
I have rejected girls a few times before.
Mainly because I don't think relationships are right for me.
Also, I try to stay away from things that can end up creating more responsibilities for me.
Not worth the squeeze
Ever think we not be interested? Just because she wants a relationship does not mean that we do? Most come with too many miles and the upholstery is shot!
i had and solved this problem by myself , after watching this video ive just grown a stronger grip on myself and my groundedness
Thanks man. Love Your Stuff🔥🔥
The MORE you stick to SELF; the MORE the LADIES flock!!! I swear I'll NEVER figure women out.
kcuf7 why? 🤔😉
Wow.. the amount of hurt men on this comment section alone. I wanted to say this is true based on my own experiences and reading the comments section was really sad. Many guys keeps saying MGTOW forever and blah blah blah but they keep watching these videos; like they need to keep feeding and justifying their insecurities. You know deep inside these dudes are lonely and hurt, just too proud to admit. I genuinely watched this for some advice, because I kinda lost my touch with women when I went through depression a long time ago. Recover from the hurt and get back at it again.
@mule vpn sometimes stung didn't it? Don't let all this Alpha/beta/Omega stuff get into your head too much.
The way I see it with saying MGTOW they're raising awareness (& looking for new members). 🤔
@mule vpn let it go buddy.. just walk away
Thank you this was very informative! You can't find this info in books neither!
Oh crap I thought this was MGTOW channel.... see ya
never saw a video like this. it's the real breakdown.
thank you I got that at right time!
lmao jesus johnny... XD
Just wanted to say that was some true wisdom, some advice that can be applied everywhere in life. Good stuff my friend, I don't watch these videos often but when I do, you guys always give good stuff!
Great to hear that. Thanks
You are a true real philosopher. respect. u changed my life.
Love to hear that-thanks! How has your life improved?
the problem is after a 4 yr relationship, i dont feel like wasting anymore of my life away..
why are men nowadays trying so hard just to have a relationship its not that important just stay single for the rest of your life its better to die alone then having everything taken from you when you get divorced
Driver Nephi Fucking betas fuck them too 🖕
Just don't be an idiot and marry them..simple! My mate fucked his freedom up when he got married and had 3 kids...now his wife has a bad back, is bed bound - and he has to do everything...too much hard work I say!
That powerful statement at the end: YOU WERE DESIGNED TO ATTRACT WOMEN. That's what I recommend focusing on, just believe that and I think you will get more consistent results
Women dont reject a fat wallet with a big bank account
True!
they utilize you as a resources and move on to another resources so better not get into that trap..Search for quality women and so drop this mentality
540,000 views and only 78k subs? seriously? You are amazing and deserve more subs!! Logical thought provoking videos which make you want to be a better man.
No, I reject on purpose
I would say you are absolutely correct.
my best friend has been telling me this for the last few months, but it is difficult to project
confidence/be confident when you have had such heartache at the hands of women.
I just really want that doughnut..
Great job pal. This is the first vid I see of yours, and I think I'm gonna follow your channel.
Clever.
When I feel the urge for women I just clasp my wallet tightly and remember the cost !!! I quickly lose all desire.
Bahahahahahahaha 😂😂
don't forget the time, energy, and emotional drain they are....
Imagine adding support for a few kids to that too.
LMAO
🤣🤣😂😂😆💣💥🤺👏🐐
Yo. I appreciate your channel so much. I recently been having troubles with me as a person, Stumbling upon the channel and commenting is a pretty big step for me. Just keep making more genuine videos. I appreciate the channel so much.
Love to hear that! Keep watching-thanks for commenting
Honestly, there's a certain type of girl for every kind of guy. If she does not feel attracted to you as you are, then she's not for you. Stop trying to be someone you're not to attract someone that's not right for you. The right person will attract you regardless of how "perfect" or "imperfect" you are.
Maybe, but do you want to leave it up to chance, or do you want to become your best self?
+The Fearless Man and do women have to become their best selves???
" there's a certain type of girl for every kind of guy"
Nope.
"there's a certain type of girl for every kind of guy" BULLSHIT
I am embracing my masculanity right now and your words are like fuel for my life's engine!
Ummmm... this advice is really terrible, lol.
It's simple. Don't be nice at all. Be mean... but funny mean.
Then the world of women is your oyster.
You're welcome.
This is not applicable for everyone. If this behavior makes you feel confident, then it works, but self-assurance in your ability is the key, like this video claims.
If this works for you, great! But not everyone can pull off that sort of humor, and if you're not comfortable doing something then you will remain miserable. "Be *insert anything*" is not good advice, unless that *insert anything* is "Whatever makes you believe in yourself, not question your ability or self-worth and allows you to build strong connections with everyone, not just women".
The being mean thing only works if you actually are mean. If you fake being mean, they see it as weakness. They want the real thing. and the funniness has nothing to do with it. It's that eye rolling dismissive "what a weirdo" vibe...and the only reason they find that attractive is because they are not used to it because they have their ass kissed all the time and they can't comprehend why a guy wouldn't want her golden vagina. But if you want superficial insecure self centered women, use that technique. you're welcome. lol
Just be cheeky mean. Not harsh/cruel mean. They love it, like addicts. If you've never tried it, give it a go. You've got to get the delivery right though, tactful eye contact etc. After that, you're laughing.
Jack Whitehead That's true. I'm an oddball and I'm mean, but with a funny edge.
Only if you knew how right you are my friend.
I don't feel anything because I don't have a chance so I don't do or feel anything.
Wow. What you just said in the beginning about masculinity attracting femininity and vice versa is so true and basic. It kind of explains why I have liked some girls in the past who were not super great looking or didn't have the best 'model' body. They just gave off a very feminine vibe that I was attracted to. Nothing else really mattered from the outside, and I always wondered why I was attracted to them more than the "hot" girls. It really is interesting how those 2 energies are the foundation of attraction and not anything else really
Yup-Thanks for sharing your experience!
Same here brother! After 37 years i got to realise it trough this videos.
I finally found a channel that actually explains the entire thing masculine vs feminine in depths.
Glad you found us!
anybody just entered this video because it showed 11:11 and you knew you were aligned to see it....LoL!
wael yazan yuuuuuuupppp, and I guess i was aligned to see this comment too cdfu
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I think this is Spot ON! It's great material! I really think I needed this and will be able to use it. Thank you.
well I don't try to be something I'm not so that's not my experience but the reason why I clicked on this is because yesterday afternoon I had an epiphany of how I reject women unintentionally or at least that is how I'm perceived..I realize when I decide to not engage strongly and I only throw a smile but like a hello smile that's unisex you know, like the cubicle worker smashed lips head nod that's supposed to equate to an entire verbal greeting but not really taking time to do so...I just don't want to seem so eager or too impressed because I feel like these women get hit on constantly and I would only be feeding their ego more and it won't get me anywhere that matters..but I actually noticed the disappointment in a lady's face when I gave her that smile back as she walked by saying hi...and I felt horrible cuz she felt a lil taste of rejection undeservingly. and it's not what I wanted to portray. also I know many ppl battle with insecurities and what not and I felt like I just contributed a morsel to that with her....but it's not that serious lol it was just amazing how I never knew I was doing that, cuz I know how I have felt for the same reasons but I'm not trying to pick up ladies, it was just a good realization of the impression I was giving off at times when I didn't want to..
Good self-awareness and awareness of others
+The Fearless Man thanks, definitely been working for it...once you face the ugliest truths of yourself, the rest is easier and pleasant. thanks for the vids n info
I often see these two beautiful women at my campus college in passing. A lot of times I feel compelled to avoid them, despite my desire to at least greet them.
Guess I need to work on that, huh?
I'm sorry dude....I know what you're saying and I see your point. What you're describing is what I call going in with "my shields up". (Yes I'm a Trek fan.) In this day in age with Unending complaints about "sexual harassment" and the perpetual snivels about the "objectification of women" I say you Have to go in with your defenses Up. It should be up to the woman to give the First sign of attraction that way we hapless males don't inadvertently step on one of their many exposed, raw nerves. I think that its laughable that modern feminism promotes female "empowerment" and "strength" but yet their gender STILL expects that, in the quest for a mate, the Male does ALL of the "heavy lifting" and assumes ALL of the risk of rejection, pain and embarrassment by insisting that We make the first move. Now, I know that some women Do "throw themselves" at certain men. I've seen this happen right in front of me MANY times. It is obvious that if a guy has the Right superficial qualities (aka: Looks) a woman can and will Launch herself at a man. Maybe I don't have these superficial qualities... after all...I'm NO Brad Pitt but I do NOT believe that I'm constantly giving off these negative "sub-communications" ALL of the time because my focus is NOT on women 24/7. I AM confident in myself and I have Many women friends but I think that when a guy tries to "play it safe" and dare to operate on the premise that Males should NOT have to sacrifice their dignity and self respect in the pursuit of a relationship that we are punished for failing to be a submissive, deferring, non-threatening puppy. If that makes Me wrong...so be it.
As a women I can say this is true about sub communication. Most of the time I pick up on the energy behind the words then the words expressed , no matter how confident the guy may appear...
@ DD - Before we get to the words part, do you express interest in the man before he may speak to you ?
@@enniswhalen2428 it depends on my energy too. I have done both.
I've not had a gf yet and don't think i do so i probably do it consciously and unconsciously out of resentment
Good for you for being self-aware of that! Watch my videos on Letting Go, like this one: "Getting Results: The Power of Indifference to Outcome and Letting Go" th-cam.com/video/v3NGC9WUtG8/w-d-xo.html
i agree with you totally made sence to me if your down it will project it in your stance , if your upbeat you will project a happier confident person and you wont need to try it will just happen
David A Sometimes the best people you find in life are when you are down. Real facts.
Like yourself first and the rest will improve.
When people confuse the words subconscious and unconscious I immediately think they're idiots and don't know what they're talking about. When I watched the video, the first 30 seconds confirmed what I was thinking.
I think that the Fearless Man is on target, based on my experience.
I stopped approaching women years ago, because I had a rejection rate of almost 100 per cent during a period of almost 20 years. I reached an evidence-based conclusion that I was wasting my time, because, whatever it was that women wanted, women (as a collective) had shown that it was not me.
The one serious girlfriend I had feigned a relationship and (unknown to me) used me as a diversion so that her parents would not suspect that she was maintaining a secret relationship with a bad boy, of whom they disapproved. The term broken heart does not describe adequately how that experience affected me.
I was left with a psychological link that associated women with unspeakable pain that was so strong that I turned cold and dead inside whenever a woman approached me. Yes, women do approach me now. That began to happen a lot after I was on the wrong side of 30 and it still happens almost every week.
The link between pain and women is so strong that that I become psychologically paralysed as soon as a woman shows interest. That is how I reject women.
Same with me I love women and have no and try to have no I’ll feeling on any person or race but ever sense I was a kid through out my life I can’t help but notice I’ve had such a bad impression on women now of course this can be easily reversed men can also be piece of shit human beings
YES YES YES! you must FIRST like yourself! All else follows.
Allah comes first! then we all humans are on par with each other! what is good for me is good for you and so on!
Christian Pettersen Allah doesn't exist. Go spread your savage religious bullshit somewhere else.
Catherine Folkman Whitford I like myself so much that i'd rather enjoy my own company alone, then spend my time with an annoying woman who doesnt enjoy doing the same things i enjoy doing.
Josh Hempfleng - That makes perfect sense.
+Adrian1918 why should anyone listen to you? fascist!
every single human being is built up the same way and we need certain things, certain vitamins, exercise, really a bunch of things! and also on a spiritual level our hearth screams for Allah and justice and so on! how people in this world fulfill their needs however might be a bit different! and if they do not fulfill these needs then we become sad and depressed and so on.. marriages break and people fight and so on!
I m so late....its the last days of 2019...and i catch video....Thanks Brian...Really its mind-blowing... Grateful to you...Happy New Year...in advance
Shit!...... Can you say MGTOW?
It's okay stinkhole. you can get free shit from the other men.
Men Going Their Own Way. Something tastemystinkhole is insecure enough to think is gonna effect her...or him.
"female hate group" because it's all about that female hate nowadays. Feminism and stuff. But when men try to do the same thing you are a member of "the closeted gays female hate group MGTOW"
and no, i don't live that lifestyle, never knew of it until today.
+NEBULA
You're around 12 years old, aren't ya.
TasteMyStinkhole wrong guess again. Also, that's the answer of a person who doesn't have any arguments
Awesome explanation Brian 👍
What I believe the best way to change the sub conscious pattern is practicing positive affirmation.
its so much better to not even worry about it....MGTOW
Agreed, build your health, build your wealth. MGTOW all day.
You can have it all. MGTOWers tend to be avoiding emotional vulnerability and connection.
Not this mgtow fearless man. I am a mgtow. I don't mind talking about myself candidly and I still value connection with women. I'm just not gonna be fake and play a bullshit one sided dehumanizing selfish game that they built under the guise of biology. I still talk to women and if she is cool, I might ask her out. But where are the women who need to learn how to talk to men? why is it that men are SOOOOO awkward and women don't have to change ANYTHING about their behavior? I have plenty of complaints about the average woman...but why doesn't she have to change her behavior for me? If a guy is less than perfect, he has to change....why don't you tell women to stop rejecting men for shallow reasons? Why is it that like most women are sexually mature and experienced in their teens and there is an epidemic of lonely sexually frustrated men and boys? Where is all that dick coming from if they aren't getting it from their peers of the opposite sex? If something wasn't deeply wrong with the gender dynamic there wouldn't be a need for these entire subcultures like PUA MRA MGTOW. Only MRA and MGTOW are talking about this problem at the source. PUA are exploiting it.
I understand dude. I was a PUA for years. then I learned that there is more to being a man than women.
Well said
AMEN
Yes, I reject them unconsciously. I also reject them knowingly. And still .. I can't stop wanting them just the same. I hate instincts!
Father Fearless
haha I like it!
I confess I've gone MGTOW and have begun estrogen therapies to avoid attracting the opposite sex. Forgive me.
LMAO
no. i reject them with full conscience of my actions.
lol...have videos playing in the background while working...auto start is on. Went from 4 or 5 mgtow videos into this...huge fail youtube.
Same thing here. Like on my facebook when it recommends feminist pages to me. It silly for us that's like an advocate for cilvil rights being recommended KKK pages. lol I was a PUA before I learned better. Now I advocate for men's issues.
Men's Rights Initiative?
This is not about "men" or "men problem" ...it's standard reaction for anyone who was hurt, who's heart was broken and is the same for women that was hurt to.
Seek shy "broken" (in such way) women and you know they are capable of love and commitment - if you seek something serious that is.
why the fuck is it so complicated..
Doodle Master Yes it was. Bitches and white people make it complicated.
Doodle Master it doesn't have to be complicated.
Dude this video has taught me so much
Go Your Own Way
MGTOW !
Thanks for all the videos. What you relate makes sense.
All bullshit. The two biggest factors, HANDS DOWN, are height and money. How many people are gonna fall for this garbage
That's just not true, and hundreds of my former students will back that up. As well as countless students of other coaches. "What Makes You Attractive to Women - Misunderstood Subtleties" th-cam.com/video/29GYxymEE6c/w-d-xo.html
The Fearless Man, you're either really naive and stupid, or you're lying because you want more money in your pocket.
You can't sit there and tell me that the reason for tall guys being so successful with women is because they all just magically happen to have great game.
I see dudes who are not just awkward, but *complete social retards* with no confidence, no brains, no wit, no dignity - nothing.
And they get ridiculous amounts of girls because they're tall. Just recently I saw a 6'2 guy shamelessly picking his nose and wiping it under his seat quite publicly, and he goes through hot girls left and right.
TL;DR - Stop scamming people
dam i'm 6'4" and a fidge spinner gets mo pu55y than mi
as big an advantage height and money are, you can overcome that
having lived with guys involved in the same project one summer the living counterexample to your point was among them
a guy short enough that even the investor ridiculed him, but full of confidence, and seemingly unaware of how dumb most of the stuff he was saying actually was.
he managed to pick up a different girl every time we went out
and while that wouldn"t be my goal, it"s impressive nonetheless
^ In other news...
More shit that didn't happen.
I am living proof that the video is 100% truth! I don't have a good demeanor with women. I've been rejected by women more than any guy i know. A hottie at my job recently has been saying an enthusiastic "hi!" to me everyday. I really don't know if she is just being polite, playing me out, or if she miraculously likes me. A male co-worker saw her wave at me and smile and he was like "WHAT?????? She smiles at you like that? She don't do that to ANY guy! I smile and say hi to her and she doesn't do it back to me." So, i am really wondering if she is playing me out or if the gods are smiling down on me for once in a long time and she has a thing for me. I hope so!!!!!!!!!!!!
She's playing you, son.
This is mad, makes a lot of sense. I'm subscribing, my mate too.
I'm not very masculine nor do I want to be...but I still like women. What can I do?
Guys Im gonna give you a tip that is helping me immensely. To increase confidence the key is to do what you think is right, even if its hard. I fyour values tell you something has to be done, do it. Otherwise your self esteem will decrease.
Haven't you ever noticed your internal chemistry and mindset creates your reality? This is where drugs come into play
Terrific wisdom, Brian. You the man!
Great talk, you bring up a lot of solid points but how do we go about changing this?
Is it really that hard for women to acccept that some guys aren't interested in dating. We're not gay, we're not asexual. We're just too fucused on other things. With my predicament. I've just been around too many trashy bitches that don't deserve my time or attention. Of course I'm still open to the possibility that I might meet someone and have a serious connection with them. I'd be open to dating then, but as of now and for quite awhile. This door's closed. Ridiculing us and calling us gay is only going to make us want you less.
Question.... I've realized that I'm spending too much time on game. I have found that sometime s I am not real and "act". I don't like it. I feel like an approach robot at times. I know that I get tested a lot more when I'm not real. I'm confident and illicit strong attraction from women at times but I overdo it sometimes ( overgaming) when I should be creating trust and comfort. When I'm congruent and no persona I have gotten into flow state and it's awesome. Other times I seem to be pushy to cause a reaction from her which is not very genuine on my part and she feels it. I also realize any validation from her that I get causes me to either enter flow or at times get in my head. I am really trying to work on it. The times i have had great results w girl It was times I seemed to not want her like I do a hottrr girl. I was real and grounded, totally indifferent from outcome. It's very complex if one let's it be. But simple if one just acts real as a man who is grounded, present, confident, micro expression. How would you guys who are exp implement ways to shed the game attitude and create that emotional connection that I used to get easily ? I was the epitomy of nice guy before only to go 180' to the player side I need to find the sweet spot. Thx and sorry for the length.
Makes sense to me. Awareness of yourself is key.
@6:20 this is actually a condition known as vasoconstriction. It's a normal human response to moments of extreme pressure/fear where the body literally draws blood back into your core to help protect your vital organs. The common phrase is "pale as a ghost" or "you look like you've just seen a ghost".
Awesome stuff again Brian. 👌💪👍
Something important that you all want to know is to remember to be your authentic self. Learn to relax and have fun with self development 🤙🏽😃
My approach to getting girls is to ask them out to a social event, see how they are at parties or in public and if there is one really off thing about them like they chew gum and snap it while talking then we are not having a second get together. Don't just jump for anyone just try to find someone you are attracted to mentally, looks will follow.
Thank you for this video and it helps explains a lot of little things. Do you do one on ones??
Love your work Brain.
I like how your work stems from working with your own body and energy for guidance and growth.
How do you work on getting the reality "male naturally attract woman because of polarity" ingrained in your reality which currently pushes woman away" ?
The world may never know!
Just disconnect yourself from the outcome - no attachment - no issue
That's number 3145843847673 on the list of things that can go wrong. That's like going to war and saying "we have guns...what could go wrong?"
A friend told me I hate women then retracted his statement but I think it is true and women I can sense I am powerful but unapproachable.
Thanks helps a lot 😊 im working on building more confident. Appreciate your help
No I realize it all the time, in fact that's why I do that.
Genuine question--what if your a much taller guy? How to adjust eye contact? I could squat but.....advice?
Man, this video was amazing! Exactly the information I needed. Thank you.
i like this guy, he's one of the few persons from whom i would i take these sort of advice without thinking that somewhere deep down inside he is sort of a failure
Everything you said comes from very good analysis. One thing though. I'm not even remotely interested in women and the funny thing is they're always nice to me and let's say I can read those feelings. I think it deals with not wanting to get intimate and just wanting to know the person and being friendly.