Which Wolf are you Feeding? |
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Links to my 2-Part Series on The Inner-Critic
PART 1- Meet your 5 Critics
• Are you a Slave of you...
PART 2: 5 Steps to Master your Inner-Critics
• 5 Steps to Master your...
Here's the link to my article in Forbes (which also links to the research):
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This old piece of Cherokee wisdom never gets old. It summarizes how life is a constant struggle, not only against forces around us, but above all against our own 'ego'.
"Just as the earth attracts everything to the centre of gravity, and every object thrown upward into space will come down, so also material ideas and worldly thoughts attract man to the centre of self. Anger, passion, ignorance, prejudice, greed, envy, covetousness, jealousy and suspicion prevent man from ascending to the realms of holiness, imprisoning him in the claws of self and the cage of egotism. " ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Freeing ourselves from our inner-critics is a challenge that we all experience. And arguably feeding the right wolf leads to a happier existence.
How do you feed your wolves?
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Links to my 2-Part Series on The Inner-Critic
PART 1- Meet your 5 Critics
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PART 2: 5 Steps to Master your Inner-Critics
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Here's the link to my article in Forbes (which also links to the research):
www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2020/08/10/find-out-which-inner-critic-is-holding-you-back-and-how-to-subdue-it/?sh=358fdc6b1d52
This old piece of Cherokee wisdom never gets old. It summarizes how life is a constant struggle, not only against forces around us, but above all against our own 'ego'.
"Just as the earth attracts everything to the centre of gravity, and every object thrown upward into space will come down, so also material ideas and worldly thoughts attract man to the centre of self. Anger, passion, ignorance, prejudice, greed, envy, covetousness, jealousy and suspicion prevent man from ascending to the realms of holiness, imprisoning him in the claws of self and the cage of egotism. " ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Freeing ourselves from our inner-critics is a challenge that we all experience. And arguably feeding the right wolf leads to a happier existence.
How do you feed your wolves?
I'm sure you have experience that kind of feed and you know
If you thrown stone in well than should know sounds can hear ?
Dear Shade, need your help in this scenario. A junior has responded to a query saying " we have already discussed this multiple times". Email is cc'ed to 3 of thesenior managers. Now it has only been discussed once with me and I might have been available in another call where it was discussed with client. I do not remember. But how to handle this situation? I feel it's a petty issue. But when managers start considering feedbacks I know they will raise this point . I can neither say -" no . It was not discussed multiple times " in a written response as it looks useless amongst all other works nor can I ignore it. As it not only passes a bad impression to my manager but also gives d liberty to junior to treat me lightly in future communications.
Pls help
Thanking u in advance. 🙏
Thank you for the question. Without knowing much about this situation - I suggest that you respond to the Email thanking the junior, share your side of the facts and proactively offer a solution to avoid this situation repeating itself. In that way you do not appear to be defensive, you don't hurt the junior's feelings and the managers will notice that you take initiatives and responsibility. Hope this helps or at least offers you some ideas to work with.
The second one(the other) is how I want fed because feeding is a gift and virtue of the second(the other). Thank you very much for this inspirational content and much Love. How about you, benevolent dear?
You are one of the most courteous and diligent person that I have ever never seen in my life before. Thanks a world Ma’am for sharing such kind of videos❤️🙏🏻
So nice of you
Our mind can only process one thought at a time. Choose a positive one ✨
Like that.👍
You are a joy to listen to
Recently got hooked on ur videos , must say content is powerful . thanks
Thank you so much highlighting such a great wisdom. Indeed, it is a constant battle to free ourselves from our inner critics hence prefer to keep reminding myself on feeding the right wolve 😀. Love to hear these wisdoms as they never get old 👍.
" That 's the one you feed will survive" Thank you Shade for your help 😊 ❤🙏
Ma'am, you have the gift of Eloquence with a innocuous twist. The twist, which is your sincerity. May the Almighty bless you and your efforts
This gave me goosebumps 👌🏼
MAM ..... U r the women Whom i Respect Most.... Keep Guiding Us...
Really important. So glad you break down "evil".
Also, SUBTLE insidious habits, like distraction, is included in bad wolf.
You have a very pleasant personality. A delight to watch you speaking on topics which are really important for evolution of the humanity
Hi I'm from Trinidad, really love your quotes, you are not only wise you are also beautiful, shine this your time....Jim
Thanks, Shade Zahrai. That for this heart-felt voice and telling and fostering this great information. I am grateful.
I’ll be honest. I click on your videos to see your pleasant face but end up feeding my brain with goodness. That’s what you call best value for one’s time. Thanks for your videos 🥳
No one will worry about their life & in their life tension if u u just encouraging people by just your simply smile😊😊😊😊
Shade, I love that fable. My father taught me that when, I was ten.
It connects to the phrase of 'meden agan'. Nothing in excess.
You are awesome
As a cherokee man I’ve never heard this but it is a wonderful story, reminds me of some stories my aunt used to tell me when we would go to the stomp dances and sacred fires, miss those times. Thank you!
BELLISIMA
U keep putting a smile on my heart and soul.
Keep doing what your doing...
WoW a Truly Inspirational Advice from an Amazingly Beautiful Woman ❤
Great wisdom from an old man. "It's the one you feed that will survive."
You've always been so flamboyant. Thanks for always guiding us Ma'am😇 blessed to have you🙏🏼
Interesting use of the word flamboyant here
Yes . We choose what we want to be and we can change and feed any thing.
Hey Shadé! This is really great! Such a great message through a nice tale! Much l♥️ve from Sri Lanka... 🥰
Wow ,, so eloquent and precise,,
How last line could be so impactful " the one you feed"
Wow, I really love this cool social wisdom you are giving us, such an inspiration 😊
Thanks for sharing this fable with us!
Our pleasure!
That's me... split and left alone in the darkest part of my heart where life and hope once flowed freely....now just feels like cold shards of ice cutting me after I start to feel like I can crawl forward...
It's actually quite reassuring to know that there are others who have these dark feelings too.
We're humans. We all experience these things, some more some less. I'm glad we have such amazing people like Shade to teach us how to manage these things
God has given you immense charisma.
Thank you so much for sharing this helpful tips.
The are absolutely an amazing, great doctor with no seeing you is free.
You really mean a lot to me.
Thanks again.
Great teaching
And the way you speaking is complementary
I could resonate with this thanks for the reminder Shadè❤
A very nice recommendation - if you smile stretching lips equally at both the ends you will look awesomely wonderful and amazingly fantastic....
.appreciated
Great wise story with good morality...thanks
I absolutely love the way you speak and your command over subtlety of pronunciation. Please tell us how we can improve our communication as well. Thank you. ❤️
Greatness. Well told. We love ancient wisdom that stands still today. Thank you lovely perfection pure spirit. Bless you!🙏
Thanks for the vocabulary boost 😅
Thankyou very much for your encouragement
Well put. Eye opener. Will be more aware Thank you for sharing story.
One of the best I’ve ever heard.
We move and grow along the lines of the qualities we feed and choose.
Well said
Incredible piece 👏👏. Very touching indeed!
I love your accent you’re look your style and your intelligence, Keep up the good work, I love everything you do and say, I think you’re ,A excellent teacher God, bless you 🙏🏽👑✅🧡
We get what seeds we sow. 👍
Enjoy your information you share.
This story recently came up in a Tamil movie - 60 Vayadu Maaniram
The one you feeding. Exactly ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much, Ma'am. Carry on with your insightfull, educational, and inspiring videos. :)
It's important to highlight that emotions like anger, etc aren't always negative traits. Being angry against injustice for example.
What matters is how we direct the energy of these so called negative emotions and also the intent behind the expression of these emotions.
I may show anger at a child for ignoring my warnings of staying at a safe distance from danger, like avoiding going close to a fire. This anger is out of care and concern.
Anger and other such emotions have a place in this existence. Just don't OD on either side of the spectrum.
You are one hundred 💯 percent right. Thank you have a blessed night. Amen 🙏
Powerful message 👍🏼
Which a simple but deep truth. You helped me a lot to feel the right one.
Nice powerful tips 💎 by Mrs Shade zahrai.
Just love seeing you sharing whatever you've got to share. I hope I don't get addicted to it. Lol...
Well said.., Motive behind the lines !
The wise love hearing the stories of our elders! As do I! Thank you for this video!❤
Good Analysis 😊
Choosing the right option always matters...
Thanks for this video and glad to hear your soothing voice 😊
Yaarr ye kitti awesome hai yaar
That is such a good story !
So true. I'm crying. Male, 43 - I'm getting more emotion as time parsing.
The end is amazing 😮
Beautiful words✨
I love this one. God bless you.
True wisdom.
Amazing ,thank for the effort you put in these videos
I might thank you for sharing these,i highly appreciate this,
Very deep and moving thoughts, excellently delivered.....
Both are needed for balance.
To clarify, hatred, injustice and envy are the absence of love, justice and contentment - just like darkness is the absence of light. It's interesting that in our reality you can't know one without the other. We can't know the concept of light without darkness. Perhaps we need these 'darknesses' to help us appreciate the value and importance of good qualities of kindness, confidence, excellence, dignity and truthfulness. However, seeking to have a balance between both doesn't serve anyone and only leads to mediocrity.
I loved the answer at the end of the story and that is the moral of the story
Thank lots for sharing 🧡 ❤️ 💚 ALHAMDULILLAH
Beautiful metaphor!!!
I love your videos, I love how you speak and present your ideas and lessons . You’re a good soul, I can see it in your eyes… all the best!
Thank you ❤
I like the way you say it which allows the viewer to picturize it and this is something I shared with my son
One of my Favorit story from book '' Millionaire success of Habits'' and '' the one thing'' ❤
As amazing as always
This woman is perfection.
You are such a knowledgeable and inspiring women. Thank you so much for sharing these helpful information to us 😊
Right said. The never ending fight between good and evil always goes on but it is upon human beings on which side they finally decide to stay. Evil is the way of death.
Beautiful story.
What a eye opening story, many many thanks for this story 🙏 👏
Best wisdom ever!! ❤️ You are much appreciated!!
Thank You Thank You Thank You
Thank you for aharing Shadé
Wonderful!
Thank you so much for collecting such info which changes one's life.⚘⚘⚘⚘🌻🌻🌻🌻🌹🌹🌹🌹
Wisdom 💜
God Damn it. Exactly what I needed at the moment. Thanks
Wow. Thank you for this video!
Wow. Beautiful story.
i love it !!! THANK YOU!!!
❤ I heard this before. Thank you for posting this!
Ive heard it before as well, i think it was in a movie, no idea which one. But a really motivating thought.
Awesome message!
Oh zahrai you really an amblem of art
These are great inspirations. I admire your speech and keeps me motivated and learn many . Thank you so much for sharing.
Wow❤, thanks for your work
Very good this history, we need to use it in your lives
I'm speechless on every video you make, the knowledge you've been sharing, its all too perfect including you...
You are Great. Very lucky people who have you. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
Wow! Wonderful story. Thanks for sharing!