Hey man. Do you answer your emails or comments here? Purchased your MBT program under your special. Then I tried to purchase the $997 add on for the relationship mastery. For some reason when I purchased the $997 add-on for the relationship mastery your server or whatever reversed my transaction. When I called the bank, they said it was approved through my bank but for some reason it was reversed on your end. I would like to purchase the add-on, but how am I supposed to do that if I can’t get a hold of nobody ?!
Experienced divorce lawyer here. I recently had a case where the husband earned over $500k annually, has male model looks, gives wife the car of her choice (in this case a 911 S), a beautiful house in the suburbs and a house on the beach. He was faithful and super kind and generous. Still, she was not happy with herself, her life, and she made everyone around her miserable. She unnecessarily dragged out the divorce over two years. He was so happy when he was finally free from someone who did not appreciate him, did not love him, and did not appreciate the life he gave her. He was so happy to begin his post-divorce life.
@@strzala88 Thanks. I have my own TH-cam channel as well and have collaborated with other popular content creators. Maybe I’ll reach out to Casey and schedule a collaboration with him on his channel. I think I can bring some value through the lens of an experienced divorce lawyer (who also dates beautiful women).
True, but most men are so desperate they can't bare the thought of not having a woman, and think they are incredibly lucky to have a woman at all so turn into servant simps!
Something I’ve learned is if a woman breaks up with you or you to her and she says “you’re controlling”. You probably had good boundaries and she didn’t want to deal with being held to account on her bad behavior.
@@davidpark2509women stop aging mentally after they get their first period. Naturally she is fully developed at the age of 13 or 14, whenever she gets her first period, since a woman wasnt created to be intelligent (thats the mans job)
I was engaged at 28 with a woman who was never satisfied. She ended up cheating on me while we were engaged. Even after we went our separate ways, she still attempted to have a relationship with my family because she wanted them to help pay off her student loan. Only after they declined her, she felt destroyed. That was back in the late 1990's. Now she is in her 50's, she is still working at a grocery store, still has a student loan to pay off, still has no kids, still is single and still pays rent. I finished paying off my mortgage in 2015, I run a successful business, no kids, no wife and saved up enough to take things a little easier. Life improved mainly because I stopped chasing the approval of women. I chased financial stability and peace of mind instead. No regrets.
actions have consequences, you put in the work so your success went up she was ungrateful, entitled, not loyal, and she paid the price, and is still reaping the consequences
In my extended family, there's literally a couple of exceptions, but the majority of women are absolutely unbearable. I genuinely don't know how my grandfather didn't kill my grandmother and my aunt (his daughter) with his bare hands. I guess that's why he died before reaching 70. Bitches are pure walking toxic negativity. And I'm speaking about my family lol.
They use to say back in the day, "A woman can have 100 problems, you can solve 99 and she'll still complain about the 1 you didn't solve". Don't try to please them.
"The Bible describes shame as the core and consequence of Adam’s fall. In Hebrew, Adam is equivalent to mankind. Adam symbolizes all human beings. The Bible suggests that Adam was not satisfied with his own being. He wanted to be more than he was. He wanted to be more than human. He failed to accept his essential limitations. He lost his healthy shame. The Bible suggests that the origin of human bondage (original sin) is the desire to be other than who we are . . . to be more than human. In his toxic shame (pride), Adam wanted a false self. The false self led to his destruction." "Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically. Children cannot know who they are without reflective mirrors. Mirroring is done by one’s primary caregivers and is crucial in the first years of life. Abandonment includes the loss of mirroring. Parents who are shut down emotionally (all shame-based parents) cannot mirror and affirm their children’s emotions." Healing the Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw
I'm 41 Casey. Once I learned your knowledge....my wife tries now to get my attention. She has transformed herself at 33 and lost weight, got hotter than when we met. Even after 4kids, sex is better,marriage is stronger than ever. I been learning and listening to your tips and changed my life. Now doubled my income at work and even have girls 20years younger wanting me. These traits work in all aspects of life. Masculine men are attractive to all. No joke. Thanks for teaching an old dog some new tricks. Men learn this young and you will too.
Great comment! You aint no old dog though dude, cmon! And yes act like a MAN and you will get women 20 years younger interested, at almost any age, especially if you take care of yourself and workout etc.
@@dennisrobinson8008 he's taken all the help, but doesn't wanna contribute helping others struggling.. Better look elsewhere than a shallow sometime coming off only to show off here, half of which sounds much fabricated here. This ain't real but a show I'm telling you!
This 100% applies to most women. I’d say 99% of women. There are a few of them out there who are wholesome but that number dwindles more and more as society and our culture continues to decay.
Trying to find a decent women takes a shit load of time too. Most women can behave well the first 3 months to a year before the true colors show. Then you have to start over again.
My ex wife was exactly that way focusing on what she didn’t have. I provided a home, car, food, love, everything but she always found a way to be ungrateful. After the divorce I’m finally happy without her nagging sad negative vibes holding me back
Not judging you but you giving her everything that is materialistic like money, cars and home are not every thing. Your love is the most important thing and if you tried your best to fulfil her needs then you have nothing to worry about.
Just discussed this topic with one of my friends. You can not please a women by doing what she says she wants. Her happiness is developed by believing that she’s with a man who is better than her.
@@Imae08I yes. As a man you must focus on you and your happiness. A woman can be happy but it’s only through her happy man who she feels lucky to have.
It's true and the funny thing is with me personally that puts me off women completely. I just do me and I love me I don't care about being with a woman now that ship sailed along time.ago. I Don't want to get with a woman who thinks I'm above her because if thats truly what she thinks she don't deserve me thars how I see it. I also want the best of the best for my self which let's be real I probably won't find in a woman. When your out of the matrix and not programed on porn you have zero care for pus pus. What she offering if she's below you? If your providing more to your life then what she has to offer you then what is the point. Yea it attracts even the best looking women to you and they constantly wondering why your not interested but then they become.bunny boilers just by you giving them one tiny bit of attention every couple months and that is a real put off believe me.
@@gobbledeegouup6578 sounds like you’re reading way too much into it. The actual facts have nothing to do with this. She could be 10x better than you. None of it matters. All that matters in a woman’s eyes are her emotions. She just needs to “feel” that you’re better than her. It’s your job as a man to give that feeling to her regardless of where you actually stack up to her.
@@n300zx931 My job is to do what makes me happy and that includes staying away from women who are mental yes. They are so run by there emotions that it is crazy. I only deal with evolved women who don't need attachment. Thars only a very few. The majority ain't having me. I have women on a weekly basis messaging me and I show I'm not interested I give one little bit of kindness to or something they want and they get hooked and bunny boil me. I've had to get out 3 restraining orders in my time km only 36. I swear to god bro but believe what you want. So me being just me without trying any tactic or cognitively thinking how to be i got women falling at my feet and I don't even want it or like it. Why? Bexuase I'm happy within my self and I love my self if yiu need a woman you'll like them all over you. It also proves when I've had some women ask me innpast don't you like all this female attention what the the hell? I say NOPE. That makes thst indivual woman more attracted as she wonders why. "Can I be the first one to change that?" she's thinking.
Im 62 years old dealing with my 6th long term relationship breakdown I wish I would’ve seen this video when I was 27 it would’ve saved me so much aggravation and pain!!
@@jimjones2287 I invested a lot of my time, energy, money and emotions in women hoping for a mutual exchange but I never received the same value and I wasn't willing to walk away in time!! Its okay to give but you have to be willing to walk away as soon as you realize that the woman is not investing as much or more that you.
@@HighSpeedNoDragthe sad truth is most women do act like this. And they are in fact wired lile this weather you want to believe your girl is or not. Sorry pal.
Trying to please a woman is similar to chasing your shadow. The harder you try the faster they run. However when you turn around and don't care your shadow follows you.
Ok … so I’m 58 years old … and this EXACT same thing happened to me …. My second marriage… gave her everything I thought she could want… and took care of her son like he was my own …and one evening after dinner she said she wasn’t “happy “ but couldn’t explain why … insane !! …. My logical mind just couldn’t understand this !! …and she hated me for doing everything for her !! … thankfully her son stayed with me …. And left me one dog 🐶 … oh , and she just posted a TikTok video of her partying in Paris France 🇫🇷….welcome to the truth…
It's not her kid if she left! A FATHER makes a baby, a DAD takes care of them! It's not just a kid, it's a "friend" and someone to pass information through and teach how to be a proper man, which his FATHER failed to do! Most of us know the difference 😊
We've stumbled into a dystopic sexual environment because men don't have any boundaries or standard for women anymore and its about as nightmarish of a scenario one can imagine.
I disagree, many of us do have boundaries we just give a damn about so little. Just think about the requirements a man has for a woman and vise versa. Who's more demanding?
@@raizen21ss56 I think it depends on scenario and the man. Still yeah for sure it’s been shift on expectations male to girl. Girl to man the last 100 years in the western world
Never place don't matter what you do to.them not even Hod can not please them hi really knows that okay hi Love when see Love but other they never get me today
Bro at my 55 five year old I could certify that if not all almost all you have said is TRUE! Most woman can not be pleased.. I have been with many and proved myself... Glad you are helping the new generation....
Casey, I'm 56 years old, my wife is 5 years older and we've been married for 32 years. She has just confirmed to me that you are spot on on every single thing you've said. Basically, a husband doesn't OWN hus wife,....It's his turn. Should he screw that up, then it's somebody else's turn.
Alot of guys cant handle this info, the fact is all of us need to hear it. Brings up past memories of things going south , YOU DISSECT IT in a way that hits home so we can learn . Thank you casey never stop doing this , it is a service to all men
Exactly, it's something I never understood but once I started to adopt red pill and think about my previous relationships and dates, I realised these guys are absolutely right. Men absolutely have to care less, so women actually think about how to please you. If you keep thinking about how to please her, she thinks about what u can do more and she thinks she's the more important component of the relationship.
Here is a bit of advice from me to all who read this: if you meet a woman and you both really like each other are considering having a relationship with each other, try asking the woman this before things go any further: how to you plan on keeping me satisfied?.... because if you dont keep me happy, give me a hard time, act up etc ill get rid of you I promise... see what she has to say about that. Have her submit to you from the start or say goodbye and keep it that way
@@jeroenvermunt3372 True, i wouldnt use this wording because it *sounds* toxic. Stay on your path but word it differently, women are all about apparences.
Literally one of the best videos Casey’s ever put out. The Adam and Eve analogy is narrowed down to the T. Fellas, stop trying to please women. Be indifferent about it all. You’re just fine with or without them, so relax and live and grow as a man. Be you, to your deepest core and don’t compromise your values, morals and what you deserve to appease her. Women want more, more and more than that. Never satisfied. Walk your own kingly path as a man and live.
Straight facts! I'd rather be alone than be with a woman that causes me problems. I've become addicted to the peace and learned the art of giving myself all the attention and validation. For some reason women can't keep away from me now. I can't complain
100% I'm glad you made this video. I have the same beliefs but when I tell men that I know, they laugh and brush it off. My Ex's friends thought I was controlling, Ex accused me of being jealous. They are gaslighting you. As a man you a right to determinr what behavior you will accept from your Girlfriend. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. That's the attitude we need, men. Set your boundaries and don't backtrack on them.
Yep. Gotta set boundaries in the beginning. I told my current girl back when we were dating (and i say this to any girl i am datng to weed them out), when she brought up the idea of relationships, i told her "listen to me good because i will tell you one time: if you ever expect to go serious with me, then I am not cool with you being friends with guys you used to date. if you do, i will walk away". nip that in the bud early on.
@@averycolnite3561Absolutely, we've had that discussion..I ask her all the time. Who are you texting? She is usually says sister or female friends. If she hesitate I'll ask to see it. I offer her the same. I don't cheat..Don't want one.
There was no info like this for men when I was a young guy. I had no father, no role model, no one to show me the ropes and give me advice. But somehow I managed to navigate thru the nonsense of dating, sex and relationships to a healthy 60 yrs never having been married or being a father. My money was always my own. My time was always my own. No divorce court, no alimony. I'm with a woman now but I have boundaries and if she violates them I let her know. Don't ever let a woman emasculate you. Keep your own bank account. Don't be manipulated. The podcast host is correct. I can tell you from experience most women cannot be satisfied. Don't ever be a simp for a woman, it will end badly.
You telling the truth. I even noticed this with my own mother. She has a nice house, and nothing's wrong with it. She talking about painting the walls a different color. 6 months later, she'll want another color.
And also blaming everyone for her fault. I love my mom but we all should agree female are the worst mentally messed up creature. My dad work all day 3 job and she doesn't stop complaining. now i understand my dad more and love him he was our sacrificed underrated man. I wish him nothing but heaven because i know he is not going to rest cuz mom won't shut her mouth when he stay home
Casey you are a true motivator. As you rightly mentioned 99% of men today have lost their masculinity. Your guidance is helping us to gain what we are supposed to have. Hats off to you Bro!
I'm 20 years old and I personally never had much interactions with girls whatsoever because I caught onto divorce rates skyrocketing, false accusations being thrown, and I seen no relationship besides my grandparents relationship ever work so I kind of don't think it is worth it personally but for others if they can get a wife and kids and their loyal I'll be happy for them as much as I am for my grandparents relationship of 53 years
I’m Somali & an aunt told me once a woman likes hot & cold toxicity some days be loving & caring and some days be assertive and cold & that you got to switch it up. Never be that guys thats always tending to her needs and is always available emotionally otherwise shes going to ruin you. Its sad but its the way they are hard wired. Be indifferent if you want your relationship to last.
I used to think this was bs, but it’s true. I absolutely adored two of my past loves, did everything I could to show to them. They were two different types of women, yet same results. They both cheated because they had no respect for me. I’m married now with a different mindset for women. I perform my husband obligations, but I’m not basically worshipping my wife and she absolutely loves me. I don’t do anywhere near the things for her as I did the other two and we’re 10 years strong. It sucks that we have to fight the urge to love our women the way we really want to. That’s what feminism did to the dating world.
You had sub 30k subscribers when I first came across you a few years back. I’m not surprised in the least you’re now over 400k. You earned it, Casey. You have a gift of observation and to teach. Wise well beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Respect ✊
If I want to please a woman and she disrespects me or leaves me for that, then she’ll never get a second chance with me. I’ll do exactly what I want to do. I won’t walk on eggshells of what any “expert” has to say about manipulating women.
I'm 37 y.o., slept with around 100 women (by looks and personality, not cause of material possetions) and this is one of the wisest thing I've heard in years and never figured out myself. This is completely perspective changing. Thank you.
However big your platform is, it needs to be one million times bigger. This message is 100% accurate and the delivery is much more palatable for the sensitive ear than other influencers who push this scientifically factual message. Keep preaching, all young men need to hear this.
This is why a man should maintain an attitude of indifference with any woman he sees as worthy. If she thinks she has any leverage, she will use it. Best move is to maintain your own home and see her when convenient. Any man who gets married is playing a losing game.
Hey man I really respect you and your videos. This was probably one of the best because it gets to the root of the problem. Having game only does so much but how you actually are as a person will dictate almost everything in your life.
Facts! You can't make them happy and once you listen to them and give them what they think they want is doomed. Treat them all like the one you don't want to be with.
You are a Star🌟I‘ve been dumped recently! And i think it was for the behavior you‘re been talking about! You live,you learn….or listen to your videos and know about what might be going to happen without fear! Thank you,Casey for the intense work and clarityof your advices🙏🏼
This is the most true video I’ve ever seen the harder I try in a relationship the worse it gets the relationships where I’m very aloof and not super into it. I get treated the best every time. Once I finally decide, I’m actually into a chick and step my game up. She treats me worse directly correlated to how much better I treat her.
Keep spreading the message Zander! It’s never too much to hear you… people think your content is repetitive but they are so naive! Reaching the essence of God it’s never a finish work and I really feel the path you are forging about seeking the primordial essence of life
There’s only so many videos one can make before getting repetitive. Truth is his content says most of the same things. One should take his advice but you must also apply it in real life.
This is some distilled good shit. Thankyou bro, it feels like im shaking out of a haze of societal and parental emasculation and shame, and i literally feel like im "allowed" to be a male. I can feel suppressed energy being allowed to surface and be acceptable to utilise, which i can feel is masculine energy. I can't believe how shunned my masculinity has been since i was a boy. This is new. It's freeing, and i feel strong
Simple, keep applying the same tactics along with not becoming boring and expressing your needs by saying I want and I don't want without discussion. Don't wait by internalizing your emotions. Express them as early as possible so she knows how to behave.
After my first divorce I think it just came naturally that I just didn’t care anymore . The first marriage lasted 3 years and she cheated on me and divorced me . Next year I will celebrate 20 years of marriage with my current wife whom I love and adore tremendously. A real beautiful gem inside and out , a true heart of gold!!! Every time we’ve had a disagreement / argument where going separate ways was brought up or threatened over the years my answer has always been , you are not a prisoner and there’s the door !!! Bonus tidbit, she wishes I was more of a cook , I tell her I don’t like cooking and there is a restaurant on every corner so I will never starve … but I can make killer sandwiches 😂 She is an amazing cook BTW!!! I eat better at home than I do at the restaurant. 🤩
Absolute truth. Ita not in mans nature to please a woman. But we learn through them. It's their job to please us because they are made to help us and they are beneficiaries of us.
When I was younger all I cared about was getting the girl. But I never stopped to think about how I would obtain her and now that I'm older I realize it's far more important how you get her vs just getting her by any means because the price you pay if you do not set things up right is way too much and what I mean by that is if she doesn't respect you with the way you go get her, you don't really have her. And that defeats the whole thing, but if she respects you, you'll be a lot happier, which is the whole point, so be careful. Make good choices best.
That is 100% spot on. I can vouch for that experience in my life. Women judge and put a label on you the moment they meet you. If you meet her in some club, Tinder or even walking up to her on the street simping, she will never respect you in her heart from that moment. She has to show interest in you from the beginning and earn your attention.
A 67-year-old man, "Be a Man" Over the many years of following content creators, Casey's message hit the core of the male-female problem. A message for the ages!
I been thinking the exact same thing tbh and always wondered if there was a way to remove the sex drive for myself sometimes because I am so disoriented on how many things you gotta do nowadays and now it doesn't feel like their real relationships and I don't want fake and if thats the only option then I'm out
@@theghostface2022semen retention, ive been trying it for 2+weeks and dont feel the urge to wanna nut as much. Other men have said that they get mental clarity/less brain fog and the ability to detach sexual desire for women. And in turn more testosterone and confidence in everything so that naturally attracts women ironically after you show no desire for then
Thank you Casey. I wish more and more men would stop rewarding toxic female behavior. Women have it very easy these days because men like us are beta, myself included. Really great advice there, period.
This man has some good information. As a senior citizen, to all the young men out there, "To thy own self be true" It is most important to be happy with yourself. Respect yourself. When you're at home by yourself, are you ok where you are and what you're doing? Women observe us. If we are constantly needing a woman's attention, they will back away, and women generally don't care for needy men. If you find out that the woman your dating looks for needy men to save, Run away fast. Last and most importantly: many men are immature they never kept their mothers brests. I find that many men fail at relationships because they were raised in a fatherless home. May i suggest a book Iron John written by Robert Bly. It's about men who never grew up. - Peace brothers .
I guess I learned the hard way by getting married. I am 67 and 1 month before my 39th wedding anniversary my ex served me with divorce papers, I never saw that coming. What you say is so true and honest
This is brillant. This is why we love the man who doesn't give a f*ck to us, so we focus on him, since is the missing piece. Actually, nowadays, in the Instagram times, everybody is unsatisfied. Men are always looking for something too.
as an atheist i appreciate this delivery. he ain’t wrong. Ride the blue wind high and free She'll lead you down through misery Leave you low, come time to go Alone and low as low can be If I had a nickel I'd find a game If I won a dollar I'd make it rain If it rained an ocean l'd drink it dry And lay me down dissatisfied Legs to walk and thoughts to fly Eyes to laugh and lips to cry A restless tongue to classify All born to grow and grown to die So tell my baby I said so long Tell my mother I did no wrong Tell my brother to watch his own And tell my friends to mourn me none I'm chained upon the face of time Feelin' full of foolish rhyme There ain't no dark till something shines I'm bound to leave this dark behind Ride the blue wind high and free She'll lead you down through misery Leave you low, come time to go Alone and low as low can be
Keep in mind ya’ll, he is talking about most women in the west. Go overseas and you will drastically see a difference in the behavior and modesty of women.
Bro all women are wired the same it's their nature you talking about overseas I'm from overseas not the west been cheated 2 times for being to loyal to them their all the same it's their nature brother and it will never change
I’m going to be watching this video daily so it can sink in. I’m currently in a 13 year relationship & stay basically just for my son. The harder I try to please her the more she treats me like crap. Women focus on what’s missing is the most eye opening statement of all
"The deepest level humanly possible..... That I can do" oh thank goodness, for a minute there I thought you'd evolved beyond the rest of us, but no, ego checked and I'm back in listening again
It's only in those brief moments when a woman is no longer thinking at all about what she's saying that you can be sure she's really saying what she's thinking.
Our society breeds narcissistic women. I care and she still wants to leave. Leading the family everything but still not enough. And she definitely did not care about pleasing me.
Boss man, this video just really cleared the smoke and made things with women a whole lot clearer. Thank you. It’s going to be in my mind for the whole week as an attractive young man who earns good money, takes care of himself and his family, smart etc. I appreciate men like you in this world spread this message too hundreds of thousands.
I think these concepts apply to all women, but extra hard on messed up women. I’ve been very lucky with women. Good women who appreciate me and show respect. I’ve broken up with all of them except for one. Recently, I started dating again after a couple years in my own. Dude, the level of entitled messed up is insane. Right now it’s wet season. Honestly, eight girls trying to get me (it’s not always like this). So this one girl keeps inviting me for coffee, dinner at her house. We get along and sleep together. And then after 5 days goes 180 on me. “Things happened too fast. I’ve got school (uni). I don’t want to be serious. I don’t want to be casual. I’m leaving the country in a couple of years…” Cool. I pointed out that her reasons and her actions didn’t add up. I asked her to think about why she even bothered pursuing me. Then…all hell breaks loose. Like, the anger of her past and all her issues aimed at me. And I promise you I was slow, fun, we partied all night until morning, she was screaming into a pillow. And basically, I think she got scared she was developing feelings for me. Told me 5 reasons why we’re not a good match. I’m not a millionaire. I’m not whatever. So I back off, and she’s texting me calling baby, wanting to hang out, upset that I’m busy. That’s when I asked her my questions and she fucking lost it. Like, I’m an actual good guy and not a bitch and she is arguing with her own clothes. No thanks
Update; today she said she’s sorry if I’m confused or hurt or both. Let’s talk it through or just be friends. I told her I’m neither hurt or confused. Her words and actions don’t align. I don’t want a relationship, need a hug, want commitment. That was probably too much talking already. She got pissed and told me to meet her after class. I told her I don’t know who she’s arguing with, but I’m not the guy. Let’s just leave it alone. There’s no need to talk…and she’s “No, you and I are talking face to face tomorrow. I’ve got some things to get off my chest.” Ummmm I’m not your enemy, your punching bag or your past. It’s pretty intense how she chooses the opposite of me. If I say yes, she’ll say no. She wants space and I give it to her, she’s mad I’m not giving her attention. I swear, I know she’s good underneath this dysfunction but I don’t need this in my life and she can’t believe I’m walking away. Yeah…do you not remember your own words? Anyhow, no more updates. This isn’t Reddit. Just thought I’d let you know. Yes, she’s strong and independent and is trying to deal with her childhood trauma…except that I don’t tolerate crazy and she wasn’t expecting that because she’s used to being in control. I don’t want that, so bye Felicia
I’ve had a couple of crazy chicks recently. One was literally crying, saying “I LOVE you!” As she was literally squirting over and over The next day: “We’re not a good match” Ok. Another I had to block cause she just wouldn’t stop texting me.
@@alexanderhamilton8585 💦 F’ing crazy bro. Mine squirted too, but tried to hold it in. No “I love you”. What I don’t get is what’s wrong with these women? Could have been good instead of this darkness. Wth?
This video is the summary of your entire video contents of your TH-cam channel. This is the utter truth you are speaking. This is the god of all your videos. Thanks.
Apparently, I'm a Bad Boy because there have been several girls that come around me at a bar and start talking about how they want a bad boy to their friends and obviously trying to get my attention. Lol, I talk to them like they don't matter, and they love it. Wish I knew this sooner.
@karnalhr05 Nah, I don't give strangers my insta. But I shave my head and have a Full beard. I'm a 4 or 5 without the beard tbh. Beards are like makeup for men.
Great video Casey! I’ve come to the conclusion that if you give her everything. She won’t have a role or fulfillment for you. You need to create a void for her to emotionally fill or else she will find somebody else to fill it for. Give her a role to fulfill and serve just as you are there to serve as a protector and a provider. If you don't, it will be somebody else turn. You truly never have “her”. You cannot possess her.
Man this video is a god send. This is probably the most realest thing I’ve ever heard in my life I swear. I always had this thought in the back in my mind but never said it because people would call me misogynistic or whatever. But I always knew deep down pleasing should be both ways if not more towards the man. Thank you so much for making this.
THIS IS SO TRUE! Only at 50 years old do I actually realize this. Every woman I’ve ever been with complains about what they don’t have even though they have everything they need, and then some. A guy at work just got divorced because his wife said he’s never home and works too much. They have four kids. I know a woman who left her husband as he was physically building their Dreamhouse because he’s a carpenter. He would work five days a week at his job and then spend weekends building their house. She said he wasn’t around for the last year so there was no point in being married to him. WTF??? All they focus on is what they don’t have. And they can never fill that hole because what they don’t realize is they have what they need and what they want is useless and irrelevant. Not to mention, I’ve never met a woman that doesn’t walk in the door in the first thing she does is complain about everything negative she can possibly come up with whether it be work, her family, me, whatever! From this point, I will never live with another woman. My home is my place of peace, and that’s that!
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Hey man. Do you answer your emails or comments here? Purchased your MBT program under your special. Then I tried to purchase the $997 add on for the relationship mastery.
For some reason when I purchased the $997 add-on for the relationship mastery your server or whatever reversed my transaction. When I called the bank, they said it was approved through my bank but for some reason it was reversed on your end.
I would like to purchase the add-on, but how am I supposed to do that if I can’t get a hold of nobody ?!
Experienced divorce lawyer here. I recently had a case where the husband earned over $500k annually, has male model looks, gives wife the car of her choice (in this case a 911 S), a beautiful house in the suburbs and a house on the beach. He was faithful and super kind and generous. Still, she was not happy with herself, her life, and she made everyone around her miserable. She unnecessarily dragged out the divorce over two years. He was so happy when he was finally free from someone who did not appreciate him, did not love him, and did not appreciate the life he gave her. He was so happy to begin his post-divorce life.
Whereby the dumbazz remarries.. and she cleans him out again too. :-) Rinse, repeat...
we need more stories from you, I've seen your comment under another of Casey's video and I see huge value in your experiences!
I always appreciate your contributions to the Manosphere & stories/reports from the field @jcnlaw💯💯
@@strzala88 Thanks. I have my own TH-cam channel as well and have collaborated with other popular content creators. Maybe I’ll reach out to Casey and schedule a collaboration with him on his channel. I think I can bring some value through the lens of an experienced divorce lawyer (who also dates beautiful women).
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1- always be ready to leave her.
2- if she behaves badly and doesnt appreciate and respect your time return to step 1.
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That one foot out the door 🚪 mentality 🔥🔥🔥
@@ElFrak exactly the perfect mindset. Always put yourself at first.
Yes, this is the mindset. You must believe it, you must breathe it, you must live your life in accordance with it.
True, but most men are so desperate they can't bare the thought of not having a woman, and think they are incredibly lucky to have a woman at all so turn into servant simps!
Women want two things:
1. More
2. Something else
Most women are completely hollow, like a bell. They have no substance
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They don't know what they want
@@tomaszsosnowski9279😂
@@yardietraplifemedia999A god damn shame, man.😢
Something I’ve learned is if a woman breaks up with you or you to her and she says “you’re controlling”. You probably had good boundaries and she didn’t want to deal with being held to account on her bad behavior.
The real right here.
That seems right !
Never ever put any woman before you, ever.
Women are literally big children
@@davidpark2509women stop aging mentally after they get their first period. Naturally she is fully developed at the age of 13 or 14, whenever she gets her first period, since a woman wasnt created to be intelligent (thats the mans job)
@@davidpark2509 i read "big chicken" 😂😂😂
@@NikolaTesla-nb5nmthat’s what I thought he said at first glance too lol
Yes i v heard that from some youtubers women . Never put woman preority .
I was engaged at 28 with a woman who was never satisfied.
She ended up cheating on me while we were engaged.
Even after we went our separate ways, she still attempted to
have a relationship with my family because she wanted them
to help pay off her student loan. Only after they declined her,
she felt destroyed. That was back in the late 1990's.
Now she is in her 50's, she is still working at a grocery store,
still has a student loan to pay off, still has no kids, still is single
and still pays rent.
I finished paying off my mortgage in 2015, I run a successful
business, no kids, no wife and saved up enough to take things
a little easier.
Life improved mainly because I stopped chasing the approval
of women. I chased financial stability and peace of mind instead.
No regrets.
actions have consequences, you put in the work so your success went up
she was ungrateful, entitled, not loyal, and she paid the price, and is still reaping the consequences
"You can't make a woman happy. It's impossible! I've never met a happy woman in my life! Woman always complaining about something!"
- Chris Rock -
In my extended family, there's literally a couple of exceptions, but the majority of women are absolutely unbearable. I genuinely don't know how my grandfather didn't kill my grandmother and my aunt (his daughter) with his bare hands. I guess that's why he died before reaching 70. Bitches are pure walking toxic negativity. And I'm speaking about my family lol.
Based
Then what's the point of dealing with women? Honest question.
@@colerainswaggify6387just breed 😂. That's what they did before woman had rights bro
@@hoedemakerbart Makes sense. This is the whole truth!
They use to say back in the day, "A woman can have 100 problems, you can solve 99 and she'll still complain about the 1 you didn't solve". Don't try to please them.
Remember the story of the Garden of Eden?Eve still wasn't satisfied with having everything.
Her name was Eden lmao
shouldn’t truth be so irrespective of religion?
Also Adam asked God why and in Genesis 3:17 “because you listened to that woman”.
"The Bible describes shame as the core and consequence of Adam’s fall. In Hebrew, Adam is equivalent to mankind. Adam symbolizes all human beings. The Bible suggests that Adam was not satisfied with his own being. He wanted to be more than he was. He wanted to be more than human. He failed to accept his essential limitations. He lost his healthy shame. The Bible suggests that the origin of human bondage (original sin) is the desire to be other than who we are . . . to be more than human. In his toxic shame (pride), Adam wanted a false self. The false self led to his destruction."
"Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically. Children cannot know who they are without reflective mirrors. Mirroring is done by one’s primary caregivers and is crucial in the first years of life. Abandonment includes the loss of mirroring. Parents who are shut down emotionally (all shame-based parents) cannot mirror and affirm their children’s emotions."
Healing the Shame That Binds You - John Bradshaw
Her name is Eve, Eden is where Adam and Eve resided, bruh
I'm 41 Casey. Once I learned your knowledge....my wife tries now to get my attention. She has transformed herself at 33 and lost weight, got hotter than when we met. Even after 4kids, sex is better,marriage is stronger than ever. I been learning and listening to your tips and changed my life. Now doubled my income at work and even have girls 20years younger wanting me. These traits work in all aspects of life. Masculine men are attractive to all. No joke. Thanks for teaching an old dog some new tricks. Men learn this young and you will too.
Which were the more important concepts for your transformation?
Never stop dating your wife.
Great comment! You aint no old dog though dude, cmon! And yes act like a MAN and you will get women 20 years younger interested, at almost any age, especially if you take care of yourself and workout etc.
@@dennisrobinson8008 he's taken all the help, but doesn't wanna contribute helping others struggling.. Better look elsewhere than a shallow sometime coming off only to show off here, half of which sounds much fabricated here. This ain't real but a show I'm telling you!
Get out while things are good bro, she will rinse you!!!!
This 100% applies to most women. I’d say 99% of women. There are a few of them out there who are wholesome but that number dwindles more and more as society and our culture continues to decay.
Facts
Trying to find a decent women takes a shit load of time too. Most women can behave well the first 3 months to a year before the true colors show. Then you have to start over again.
@@alexleggett6270 a damn fact. The bait and switch is real. Soon after I married her she became a devil.
@@CiluhStyle1Bro make it 110%. There is no such women in this planet
So hilarious ! Yup
My ex wife was exactly that way focusing on what she didn’t have. I provided a home, car, food, love, everything but she always found a way to be ungrateful. After the divorce I’m finally happy without her nagging sad negative vibes holding me back
Join the club mate 👍 Have been there.
Yep...., it happens.
Not judging you but you giving her everything that is materialistic like money, cars and home are not every thing. Your love is the most important thing and if you tried your best to fulfil her needs then you have nothing to worry about.
same as me
Just discussed this topic with one of my friends. You can not please a women by doing what she says she wants. Her happiness is developed by believing that she’s with a man who is better than her.
Agree, and the fear of losing you.
I truly belive "love" for women is truly "uncertainty"...because it is the only way to satisfy hypergamy
@@Imae08I yes. As a man you must focus on you and your happiness. A woman can be happy but it’s only through her happy man who she feels lucky to have.
It's true and the funny thing is with me personally that puts me off women completely. I just do me and I love me I don't care about being with a woman now that ship sailed along time.ago. I Don't want to get with a woman who thinks I'm above her because if thats truly what she thinks she don't deserve me thars how I see it. I also want the best of the best for my self which let's be real I probably won't find in a woman. When your out of the matrix and not programed on porn you have zero care for pus pus. What she offering if she's below you? If your providing more to your life then what she has to offer you then what is the point. Yea it attracts even the best looking women to you and they constantly wondering why your not interested but then they become.bunny boilers just by you giving them one tiny bit of attention every couple months and that is a real put off believe me.
@@gobbledeegouup6578 sounds like you’re reading way too much into it. The actual facts have nothing to do with this. She could be 10x better than you. None of it matters. All that matters in a woman’s eyes are her emotions. She just needs to “feel” that you’re better than her. It’s your job as a man to give that feeling to her regardless of where you actually stack up to her.
@@n300zx931 My job is to do what makes me happy and that includes staying away from women who are mental yes. They are so run by there emotions that it is crazy. I only deal with evolved women who don't need attachment. Thars only a very few. The majority ain't having me. I have women on a weekly basis messaging me and I show I'm not interested I give one little bit of kindness to or something they want and they get hooked and bunny boil me. I've had to get out 3 restraining orders in my time km only 36. I swear to god bro but believe what you want. So me being just me without trying any tactic or cognitively thinking how to be i got women falling at my feet and I don't even want it or like it. Why? Bexuase I'm happy within my self and I love my self if yiu need a woman you'll like them all over you.
It also proves when I've had some women ask me innpast don't you like all this female attention what the the hell? I say NOPE. That makes thst indivual woman more attracted as she wonders why. "Can I be the first one to change that?" she's thinking.
Im 62 years old dealing with my 6th long term relationship breakdown I wish I would’ve seen this video when I was 27 it would’ve saved me so much aggravation and pain!!
What would you do different?
@@jimjones2287 I invested a lot of my time, energy, money and emotions in women hoping for a mutual exchange but I never received the same value and I wasn't willing to walk away in time!! Its okay to give but you have to be willing to walk away as soon as you realize that the woman is not investing as much or more that you.
@@jimjones2287 set boundaries at the start and walk away if they break them.
I agree same happend to me
You’re alive ☘️❤️🙏
This message goes to everyone in life. Dont try to please anyone, Especially with women, be a little tough on them.
This video makes Zero sense. Not ALL Women are the same period. Let's go back to Cave Man Days.
@@HighSpeedNoDrag What didn't make sense?
Garden Party
@@HighSpeedNoDragthe sad truth is most women do act like this. And they are in fact wired lile this weather you want to believe your girl is or not. Sorry pal.
It doesn't make sense to the pleasers and beta males...
Trying to please a woman is similar to chasing your shadow. The harder you try the faster they run. However when you turn around and don't care your shadow follows you.
Good analogy, ty.
Yep, they’re like cats
Ok … so I’m 58 years old … and this EXACT same thing happened to me …. My second marriage… gave her everything I thought she could want… and took care of her son like he was my own …and one evening after dinner she said she wasn’t “happy “ but couldn’t explain why … insane !! …. My logical mind just couldn’t understand this !! …and she hated me for doing everything for her !! … thankfully her son stayed with me …. And left me one dog 🐶 … oh , and she just posted a TikTok video of her partying in Paris France 🇫🇷….welcome to the truth…
Damn. I’m sorry bro. I guess you got a son out of the deal. Sort of a roundabout adoption. 😊
Yes !! … it worked out well in the end !! … 😁👍
Youre 58 so it is what it is but she won. Left you with the responsibility (another mans kid) while she gets to sleep with random men
It's not her kid if she left! A FATHER makes a baby, a DAD takes care of them! It's not just a kid, it's a "friend" and someone to pass information through and teach how to be a proper man, which his FATHER failed to do! Most of us know the difference 😊
The key is don't be part of the extreme. Don't be extremely passive, don't be extremely dominating. The fun is in the middle
We've stumbled into a dystopic sexual environment because men don't have any boundaries or standard for women anymore and its about as nightmarish of a scenario one can imagine.
True. Women are running wild all over men right now.
Exactly. It’s nothing wrong with pleasing a woman. Problem is that no boundaries as set
I disagree, many of us do have boundaries we just give a damn about so little. Just think about the requirements a man has for a woman and vise versa. Who's more demanding?
@@raizen21ss56 I think it depends on scenario and the man. Still yeah for sure it’s been shift on expectations male to girl. Girl to man the last 100 years in the western world
Never place don't matter what you do to.them not even
Hod can not please them hi really knows that okay hi
Love when see
Love but other they never get me today
Being single is the real way to go, no dumb drama 🎉
This is so true. Casey, your examples of woman's permanent dissatisfaction is on point.
to add to this; a woman never wants to change ever - she expects to be accepted how she is so don't think you can change it, theyre super stubborn.
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that's dissatisfaction, there is no 'un' version . sorry to be a pedantic prick !
Absolutely the truth 💔
Bro at my 55 five year old I could certify that if not all almost all you have said is TRUE! Most woman can not be pleased.. I have been with many and proved myself... Glad you are helping the new generation....
Neither convinced...? How about convincing women about anything? 😂😂😂 (starting from mother ending at grandma, and a whole lot of them in between)
Casey, I'm 56 years old, my wife is 5 years older and we've been married for 32 years. She has just confirmed to me that you are spot on on every single thing you've said. Basically, a husband doesn't OWN hus wife,....It's his turn. Should he screw that up, then it's somebody else's turn.
it's only your turn? Half the expression sir. The rest is: "There are many, many more women awaiting their turn with you. Ask me!
@@alanmoss2882 yep, many desperate crappy women
Yeah if it’s your turn with her then you’re just going to be pleasing her until it’s someone else’s turn to please her.
Thats a weak beta way to put it… so does she own you?
Nawr, that's red pill. If it's just "your turn" you're implying she owns you -->beta!!!
When a man learns he will never please a woman by trying to please her, he will be better off.
Wanking alone is your choice. Go on. Who cares.
That's why we treat them the way we do. It's no point in be truthful, honest, and caring with them. Especially long term.
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you can be truthful and honest and caring. You just have to set firm boundaries.
They were born to please us & take orders... no mercy!
Indeed
Alot of guys cant handle this info, the fact is all of us need to hear it. Brings up past memories of things going south , YOU DISSECT IT in a way that hits home so we can learn . Thank you casey never stop doing this , it is a service to all men
Exactly, it's something I never understood but once I started to adopt red pill and think about my previous relationships and dates, I realised these guys are absolutely right. Men absolutely have to care less, so women actually think about how to please you. If you keep thinking about how to please her, she thinks about what u can do more and she thinks she's the more important component of the relationship.
Truth. Wish we heard this as young men. Would have made my life alot easier.
Here is a bit of advice from me to all who read this: if you meet a woman and you both really like each other are considering having a relationship with each other, try asking the woman this before things go any further: how to you plan on keeping me satisfied?.... because if you dont keep me happy, give me a hard time, act up etc ill get rid of you I promise... see what she has to say about that. Have her submit to you from the start or say goodbye and keep it that way
That sounds toxic man
@@jeroenvermunt3372 True, i wouldnt use this wording because it *sounds* toxic. Stay on your path but word it differently, women are all about apparences.
@@jeroenvermunt3372 Modern dating is toxic
More than 70% divorces are initiated by women bro. In reality men usually cope😂
Sounds like manipulation. Please each other but if it’s a one way street it won’t work.
Casey is the big brother that millions of Men needed in their lives growing up 🙏🏼
Men????
kids
kin der gar den
@@raginald7mars408cry
Well. Possibly kids
He's like 2 decades younger, but he's still my big bro man!
Perhaps better than nothing but given the choice between him and my actual role models there isn't actually any comparison.
Painfully correct. The more we grow up, the clearer it gets.
It's not a new mindset... it was the mindset our forefathers had to deal with women.
The mindset has been long forgotten but now it needs a comeback
This is absolutely true. My wife leaving is proof of this. Its painful how true it is.
Women are literally big children
@@davidpark2509 and if you can't even control a child what can you control?
Stay strong brother
Literally one of the best videos Casey’s ever put out. The Adam and Eve analogy is narrowed down to the T. Fellas, stop trying to please women. Be indifferent about it all. You’re just fine with or without them, so relax and live and grow as a man. Be you, to your deepest core and don’t compromise your values, morals and what you deserve to appease her. Women want more, more and more than that. Never satisfied. Walk your own kingly path as a man and live.
Nice Mr. Bean in Grove Street 😂
Straight facts!
I'd rather be alone than be with a woman that causes me problems.
I've become addicted to the peace and learned the art of giving myself all the attention and validation. For some reason women can't keep away from me now. I can't complain
example of the validation you give yourself? curious on how other people do it
@@ElFrak "oh yeah am the shit" "I got that big d!ck energy" "I beat a gorilla and a grizzly in hand to hand fight" probably
100% I'm glad you made this video. I have the same beliefs but when I tell men that I know, they laugh and brush it off. My Ex's friends thought I was controlling, Ex accused me of being jealous. They are gaslighting you. As a man you a right to determinr what behavior you will accept from your Girlfriend. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. That's the attitude we need, men. Set your boundaries and don't backtrack on them.
Yep. Gotta set boundaries in the beginning. I told my current girl back when we were dating (and i say this to any girl i am datng to weed them out), when she brought up the idea of relationships, i told her "listen to me good because i will tell you one time: if you ever expect to go serious with me, then I am not cool with you being friends with guys you used to date. if you do, i will walk away". nip that in the bud early on.
@@user-zm1rq6xj9v I should have done that. My ex cheated on me with her ex that she hadn’t even seen in 5 years
Exactly. And not just girlfriends.
Anyone.
@@averycolnite3561Absolutely, we've had that discussion..I ask her all the time. Who are you texting? She is usually says sister or female friends. If she hesitate I'll ask to see it. I offer her the same. I don't cheat..Don't want one.
Time for men to reverse the tide
There was no info like this for men when I was a young guy. I had no father, no role model, no one to show me the ropes and give me advice. But somehow I managed to navigate thru the nonsense of dating, sex and relationships to a healthy 60 yrs never having been married or being a father. My money was always my own. My time was always my own. No divorce court, no alimony. I'm with a woman now but I have boundaries and if she violates them I let her know. Don't ever let a woman emasculate you. Keep your own bank account. Don't be manipulated. The podcast host is correct. I can tell you from experience most women cannot be satisfied. Don't ever be a simp for a woman, it will end badly.
You telling the truth. I even noticed this with my own mother. She has a nice house, and nothing's wrong with it. She talking about painting the walls a different color. 6 months later, she'll want another color.
And also blaming everyone for her fault. I love my mom but we all should agree female are the worst mentally messed up creature. My dad work all day 3 job and she doesn't stop complaining. now i understand my dad more and love him he was our sacrificed underrated man. I wish him nothing but heaven because i know he is not going to rest cuz mom won't shut her mouth when he stay home
Your mom too??
@@PremiumFuelOnly pretty much
Casey you are a true motivator. As you rightly mentioned 99% of men today have lost their masculinity. Your guidance is helping us to gain what we are supposed to have. Hats off to you Bro!
I'm 20 years old and I personally never had much interactions with girls whatsoever because I caught onto divorce rates skyrocketing, false accusations being thrown, and I seen no relationship besides my grandparents relationship ever work so I kind of don't think it is worth it personally but for others if they can get a wife and kids and their loyal I'll be happy for them as much as I am for my grandparents relationship of 53 years
I’m Somali & an aunt told me once a woman likes hot & cold toxicity some days be loving & caring and some days be assertive and cold & that you got to switch it up. Never be that guys thats always tending to her needs and is always available emotionally otherwise shes going to ruin you. Its sad but its the way they are hard wired. Be indifferent if you want your relationship to last.
I really hate how spineless I was before realizing this
I learned this along time ago
Women focus on what they don't have and then they fantasize about it. If you give yourself completely to her, it's over.
I used to think this was bs, but it’s true. I absolutely adored two of my past loves, did everything I could to show to them. They were two different types of women, yet same results. They both cheated because they had no respect for me. I’m married now with a different mindset for women. I perform my husband obligations, but I’m not basically worshipping my wife and she absolutely loves me. I don’t do anywhere near the things for her as I did the other two and we’re 10 years strong. It sucks that we have to fight the urge to love our women the way we really want to. That’s what feminism did to the dating world.
This conversation literally changed my year.
If you've watched this video but still comes back to rewatch, like this comment...
You had sub 30k subscribers when I first came across you a few years back. I’m not surprised in the least you’re now over 400k. You earned it, Casey. You have a gift of observation and to teach. Wise well beyond your years. Keep up the good work. Respect ✊
If I want to please a woman and she disrespects me or leaves me for that, then she’ll never get a second chance with me.
I’ll do exactly what I want to do. I won’t walk on eggshells of what any “expert” has to say about manipulating women.
Another way to go about it. I don't blame you.
Wowwww your 27 yrs old!? Your a genius bro! I’m 43 and now getting this gheezzzz
I’m 58. There was no internet back in the day with content like this. All we had was TV and movies (bs propaganda).
It’s never too late
You guys are simps. It is never too late😊
I'm 37 y.o., slept with around 100 women (by looks and personality, not cause of material possetions) and this is one of the wisest thing I've heard in years and never figured out myself. This is completely perspective changing. Thank you.
Male pro$titute/$lut spotted , shame !!
it's the dam truth bro that how it is and dudes don't get it 👌🏻
I bet you have 😂
You have to put her on a emotional roller coaster
However big your platform is, it needs to be one million times bigger. This message is 100% accurate and the delivery is much more palatable for the sensitive ear than other influencers who push this scientifically factual message. Keep preaching, all young men need to hear this.
Casey I picked up your MBT course for $20 well worth the 20 thanks big dawg! Already seeing better results after 3 weeks or so!
This is why a man should maintain an attitude of indifference with any woman he sees as worthy. If she thinks she has any leverage, she will use it. Best move is to maintain your own home and see her when convenient. Any man who gets married is playing a losing game.
Hey man I really respect you and your videos. This was probably one of the best because it gets to the root of the problem. Having game only does so much but how you actually are as a person will dictate almost everything in your life.
Facts! You can't make them happy and once you listen to them and give them what they think they want is doomed. Treat them all like the one you don't want to be with.
You are a Star🌟I‘ve been dumped recently! And i think it was for the behavior you‘re been talking about! You live,you learn….or listen to your videos and know about what might be going to happen without fear! Thank you,Casey for the intense work and clarityof your advices🙏🏼
This is the most true video I’ve ever seen the harder I try in a relationship the worse it gets the relationships where I’m very aloof and not super into it. I get treated the best every time.
Once I finally decide, I’m actually into a chick and step my game up. She treats me worse directly correlated to how much better I treat her.
Keep spreading the message Zander! It’s never too much to hear you… people think your content is repetitive but they are so naive! Reaching the essence of God it’s never a finish work and I really feel the path you are forging about seeking the primordial essence of life
There’s only so many videos one can make before getting repetitive. Truth is his content says most of the same things. One should take his advice but you must also apply it in real life.
I agree
This is some distilled good shit. Thankyou bro, it feels like im shaking out of a haze of societal and parental emasculation and shame, and i literally feel like im "allowed" to be a male. I can feel suppressed energy being allowed to surface and be acceptable to utilise, which i can feel is masculine energy. I can't believe how shunned my masculinity has been since i was a boy. This is new. It's freeing, and i feel strong
The fact that u use biblical stories is fantastic love u man 💯
CASEY, THIS IS absolutely your BEST VIDEO BY FAR.
Casey, most of your content is on how to be successful in the dating game. Give us married guys a master class on how to keep our wives
Simple, keep applying the same tactics along with not becoming boring and expressing your needs by saying I want and I don't want without discussion. Don't wait by internalizing your emotions. Express them as early as possible so she knows how to behave.
He already has a course on the subject
Casey has great content but until he gets married has kids and keeps a wife not sure whether he is qualified for that
That's the point. You can't keep a wife satisfied. @@petermeany7018
@@petermeany7018 He has plenty of men that are and he can test theories on lol
Learned this a long time ago. Some of the best advice ever.
After my first divorce I think it just came naturally that I just didn’t care anymore .
The first marriage lasted 3 years and she cheated on me and divorced me .
Next year I will celebrate 20 years of marriage with my current wife whom I love and adore tremendously.
A real beautiful gem inside and out , a true heart of gold!!!
Every time we’ve had a disagreement / argument where going separate ways was brought up or threatened over the years my answer has always been , you are not a prisoner and there’s the door !!!
Bonus tidbit, she wishes I was more of a cook , I tell her I don’t like cooking and there is a restaurant on every corner so I will never starve … but I can make killer sandwiches 😂
She is an amazing cook BTW!!! I eat better at home than I do at the restaurant. 🤩
Absolute truth. Ita not in mans nature to please a woman. But we learn through them. It's their job to please us because they are made to help us and they are beneficiaries of us.
When I was younger all I cared about was getting the girl. But I never stopped to think about how I would obtain her and now that I'm older I realize it's far more important how you get her vs just getting her by any means because the price you pay if you do not set things up right is way too much and what I mean by that is if she doesn't respect you with the way you go get her, you don't really have her. And that defeats the whole thing, but if she respects you, you'll be a lot happier, which is the whole point, so be careful. Make good choices best.
That is 100% spot on. I can vouch for that experience in my life. Women judge and put a label on you the moment they meet you. If you meet her in some club, Tinder or even walking up to her on the street simping, she will never respect you in her heart from that moment. She has to show interest in you from the beginning and earn your attention.
Dude that Adam and Eve analogy was on point. We need to take back control boys. We can make it together.
A 67-year-old man, "Be a Man" Over the many years of following content creators, Casey's message hit the core of the male-female problem. A message for the ages!
Be stoic and practice indifference when dealing with these chicks the more you try to please them the more they despise you and play foolish games
This video was indeed impactful and wise & true asf! you basically setting yourself up for failure if you try to please women
And how exactly is pursuing them worth the effort? If the male sex drive weren't hard-wired, we wouldn't have anything to do with them.
Hahaha so fucking true
I been thinking the exact same thing tbh and always wondered if there was a way to remove the sex drive for myself sometimes because I am so disoriented on how many things you gotta do nowadays and now it doesn't feel like their real relationships and I don't want fake and if thats the only option then I'm out
@@theghostface2022 facts!!
@@theghostface2022semen retention, ive been trying it for 2+weeks and dont feel the urge to wanna nut as much. Other men have said that they get mental clarity/less brain fog and the ability to detach sexual desire for women. And in turn more testosterone and confidence in everything so that naturally attracts women ironically after you show no desire for then
@@theghostface2022dont watch porn, unfollow IG hoes and remove anything sexual from your day to day use. Get rid of dating apps also if you use them
Thank you Casey. I wish more and more men would stop rewarding toxic female behavior.
Women have it very easy these days because men like us are beta, myself included.
Really great advice there, period.
This is truth, this exact thing happened to me with two girls i was seeing at the same time
Goodjob brother, they do the same
This man has some good information. As a senior citizen, to all the young men out there, "To thy own self be true" It is most important to be happy with yourself. Respect yourself. When you're at home by yourself, are you ok where you are and what you're doing? Women observe us. If we are constantly needing a woman's attention, they will back away, and women generally don't care for needy men. If you find out that the woman your dating looks for needy men to save, Run away fast. Last and most importantly: many men are immature they never kept their mothers brests. I find that many men fail at relationships because they were raised in a fatherless home. May i suggest a book Iron John written by Robert Bly. It's about men who never grew up.
- Peace brothers .
Hello
Thanks for all the material Casey.hope younger guys get this info in time.
I guess I learned the hard way by getting married. I am 67 and 1 month before my 39th wedding anniversary my ex served me with divorce papers, I never saw that coming. What you say is so true and honest
I'm "68" and I wish that I had known this stuff 50 years ago : }
This is brillant. This is why we love the man who doesn't give a f*ck to us, so we focus on him, since is the missing piece. Actually, nowadays, in the Instagram times, everybody is unsatisfied. Men are always looking for something too.
He just gave us the key to masculinity
No, he gave you inside info of a woman 😉
as an atheist i appreciate this delivery. he ain’t wrong.
Ride the blue wind high and free
She'll lead you down through misery
Leave you low, come time to go Alone and low as low can be
If I had a nickel I'd find a game
If I won a dollar I'd make it rain
If it rained an ocean l'd drink it dry And lay me down dissatisfied
Legs to walk and thoughts to fly Eyes to laugh and lips to cry
A restless tongue to classify
All born to grow and grown to die
So tell my baby I said so long
Tell my mother I did no wrong
Tell my brother to watch his own And tell my friends to mourn me none
I'm chained upon the face of time
Feelin' full of foolish rhyme
There ain't no dark till something shines
I'm bound to leave this dark behind
Ride the blue wind high and free
She'll lead you down through misery
Leave you low, come time to go Alone and low as low can be
Keep in mind ya’ll, he is talking about most women in the west. Go overseas and you will drastically see a difference in the behavior and modesty of women.
Confirmation bias. Again it has to do with hypergamy. Asian dudes can still get divorced raped or worse , just like western dudes.
Bro all women are wired the same it's their nature you talking about overseas I'm from overseas not the west been cheated 2 times for being to loyal to them their all the same it's their nature brother and it will never change
I’m going to be watching this video daily so it can sink in. I’m currently in a 13 year relationship & stay basically just for my son. The harder I try to please her the more she treats me like crap. Women focus on what’s missing is the most eye opening statement of all
Facts 💯 The rising divorce rate only proves this
"The deepest level humanly possible.....
That I can do" oh thank goodness, for a minute there I thought you'd evolved beyond the rest of us, but no, ego checked and I'm back in listening again
It's only in those brief moments when a woman is no longer thinking at all about what she's saying that you can be sure she's really saying what she's thinking.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. They crawl back.
Our society breeds narcissistic women. I care and she still wants to leave. Leading the family everything but still not enough. And she definitely did not care about pleasing me.
Boss man, this video just really cleared the smoke and made things with women a whole lot clearer. Thank you. It’s going to be in my mind for the whole week as an attractive young man who earns good money, takes care of himself and his family, smart etc. I appreciate men like you in this world spread this message too hundreds of thousands.
I think these concepts apply to all women, but extra hard on messed up women.
I’ve been very lucky with women. Good women who appreciate me and show respect. I’ve broken up with all of them except for one.
Recently, I started dating again after a couple years in my own.
Dude, the level of entitled messed up is insane. Right now it’s wet season. Honestly, eight girls trying to get me (it’s not always like this).
So this one girl keeps inviting me for coffee, dinner at her house. We get along and sleep together. And then after 5 days goes 180 on me. “Things happened too fast. I’ve got school (uni). I don’t want to be serious. I don’t want to be casual. I’m leaving the country in a couple of years…”
Cool. I pointed out that her reasons and her actions didn’t add up. I asked her to think about why she even bothered pursuing me.
Then…all hell breaks loose.
Like, the anger of her past and all her issues aimed at me.
And I promise you I was slow, fun, we partied all night until morning, she was screaming into a pillow.
And basically, I think she got scared she was developing feelings for me. Told me 5 reasons why we’re not a good match. I’m not a millionaire. I’m not whatever. So I back off, and she’s texting me calling baby, wanting to hang out, upset that I’m busy.
That’s when I asked her my questions and she fucking lost it. Like, I’m an actual good guy and not a bitch and she is arguing with her own clothes.
No thanks
The higher the body count a woman has the more psychologically damaged she is. Soul ties are a real thing.
Update; today she said she’s sorry if I’m confused or hurt or both. Let’s talk it through or just be friends. I told her I’m neither hurt or confused. Her words and actions don’t align. I don’t want a relationship, need a hug, want commitment. That was probably too much talking already. She got pissed and told me to meet her after class. I told her I don’t know who she’s arguing with, but I’m not the guy. Let’s just leave it alone. There’s no need to talk…and she’s “No, you and I are talking face to face tomorrow. I’ve got some things to get off my chest.”
Ummmm I’m not your enemy, your punching bag or your past.
It’s pretty intense how she chooses the opposite of me. If I say yes, she’ll say no. She wants space and I give it to her, she’s mad I’m not giving her attention.
I swear, I know she’s good underneath this dysfunction but I don’t need this in my life and she can’t believe I’m walking away.
Yeah…do you not remember your own words?
Anyhow, no more updates. This isn’t Reddit.
Just thought I’d let you know.
Yes, she’s strong and independent and is trying to deal with her childhood trauma…except that I don’t tolerate crazy and she wasn’t expecting that because she’s used to being in control.
I don’t want that, so bye Felicia
I’ve had a couple of crazy chicks recently. One was literally crying, saying “I LOVE you!” As she was literally squirting over and over
The next day:
“We’re not a good match”
Ok.
Another I had to block cause she just wouldn’t stop texting me.
@@alexanderhamilton8585 💦 F’ing crazy bro. Mine squirted too, but tried to hold it in. No “I love you”. What I don’t get is what’s wrong with these women? Could have been good instead of this darkness. Wth?
Damn, beard you been thru the mad ...🥶
This video is the summary of your entire video contents of your TH-cam channel. This is the utter truth you are speaking. This is the god of all your videos.
Thanks.
Apparently, I'm a Bad Boy because there have been several girls that come around me at a bar and start talking about how they want a bad boy to their friends and obviously trying to get my attention. Lol, I talk to them like they don't matter, and they love it. Wish I knew this sooner.
Bro give your insta I want to see your face
@karnalhr05 Nah, I don't give strangers my insta. But I shave my head and have a Full beard. I'm a 4 or 5 without the beard tbh. Beards are like makeup for men.
@@wyterook00 MAN, you are not a girl be a masculine man bro why you are afraid of to be judged
@karnalhr05 Bro, I don't add anyone on Insta that I don't know personally. I'm not afraid to be judged.
@@wyterook00facts especially if you are bald a beard adds like 3-4 points. I
Boy, did i need to hear this sermon on the mount... you got some gift, bro. Keep it shining.
Great video Casey! I’ve come to the conclusion that if you give her everything. She won’t have a role or fulfillment for you. You need to create a void for her to emotionally fill or else she will find somebody else to fill it for.
Give her a role to fulfill and serve just as you are there to serve as a protector and a provider. If you don't, it will be somebody else turn. You truly never have “her”. You cannot possess her.
"they can't be pleased. This is impossible" - now, you have convinced me.
Eve looked around paradise and said “. Talk about your fixer uppers! “ correct woman can never be satisfied, men can and THERES your trouble
Man this video is a god send. This is probably the most realest thing I’ve ever heard in my life I swear. I always had this thought in the back in my mind but never said it because people would call me misogynistic or whatever. But I always knew deep down pleasing should be both ways if not more towards the man. Thank you so much for making this.
THIS IS SO TRUE! Only at 50 years old do I actually realize this. Every woman I’ve ever been with complains about what they don’t have even though they have everything they need, and then some. A guy at work just got divorced because his wife said he’s never home and works too much. They have four kids.
I know a woman who left her husband as he was physically building their Dreamhouse because he’s a carpenter. He would work five days a week at his job and then spend weekends building their house. She said he wasn’t around for the last year so there was no point in being married to him. WTF??? All they focus on is what they don’t have. And they can never fill that hole because what they don’t realize is they have what they need and what they want is useless and irrelevant.
Not to mention, I’ve never met a woman that doesn’t walk in the door in the first thing she does is complain about everything negative she can possibly come up with whether it be work, her family, me, whatever! From this point, I will never live with another woman. My home is my place of peace, and that’s that!
I laughed my heart out on these hilarious facts about women. Two times divorced, I can't agree more. Hats off to you for making this video.
“ they will lead you to the gates of hell” never heard truer words
I'm now 60yrs of age and I have witnessed exactly this as the plain truth. I again salute you sir.