LET THE WOMEN Pursue YOU - Feeding their NATURAL Hypergamous NATURE for maximum arousal

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @caveman357
      @caveman357 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Casey…u are so right. I was talking to a cute 7 who was all over me. It was perfect, then I started liking her a bit more and she went cold and distant, and it eventually ended. I think she sensed I started liking her, and it eventually went bad. I was actually talking to a model (hard 10)before meeting her, and I ghosted her for the cute girl.
      Anyways I hit the model back up after it went bad. I was heartbroken cause if the other chic so I was a bit distant and my heart wasn’t in it. I don’t really reach out to her, and I’m a bit emotionless, but still talk and act a bit aloof. NOW this chic is all on me. She has dudes sending her cash just to talk to her. There’s even a race car driver that is Pershing her heavily, sending her money to see her. She tells me all of this. But she’s over my place making me food, calling me, and doing everything the other guys want, but can’t get. It’s crazy…gotta thank you.
      It’s good to watch these videos weekly just to remind me of how the dynamics work. Awesome work man!

    • @firebald2915
      @firebald2915 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bravo Casey !
      I've got proof this works.
      I had a gal a few years ago that I couldn't get rid of. She'd show up or call in the most inopportune times... when I'm with another gal or making herself overly available. So, I created a plan, usually over the phone when she called me.... I slowly started getting loving, not all at once but I gave that vibe. About the third call, I would tell her that I loved her and mentioned marriage subtly. I would swoon a bit on the phone and the next call I made, I insisted on starting to make wedding plans. hahaha.... I stopped hearing from her for about six months. Now I haven't heard or seen her in 4yrs.
      No more getting calls or her stopping by at any time. Works like a charm !

    • @JAMES79HOWLETT
      @JAMES79HOWLETT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should write a book I'll buy

    • @taccntb4345
      @taccntb4345 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so fake. So wrong. OP is spewing low iq !#$% in an attempt to farm like for $$$. Down vote this guy for lieing.

    • @nicholasjames4145
      @nicholasjames4145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is it possible to give logical certainty and emotional (incongruent) uncertainty at the same time?.. For honesty's sake lol. Once you have them attached already, I mean.

  • @mcnutley
    @mcnutley 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +485

    You’re 100% saving my mental health brother

    • @ronaknanda6175
      @ronaknanda6175 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😀

    • @alexitapia1783
      @alexitapia1783 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @omar2eighty
      @omar2eighty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i’ve been doing this the gym is the way everyday

    • @IncendiaryWatermelon
      @IncendiaryWatermelon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Fr bro, dude is setting my mind straight on so many little things that are adding up to a new me and a new vision

    • @firebald2915
      @firebald2915 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truth of this kind will do just that. Freedom !

  • @HateDietPepsi
    @HateDietPepsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +400

    The more you pursue the more they run away.

    • @bobmathews9072
      @bobmathews9072 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      “Don’t go chasing butterflies , they’ll only fly away . Mend your own garden , and the butterflies will come to you” - Mario Quintana

    • @PaulTC777
      @PaulTC777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      but im horny and I've been on a 4 month dry spell... its hard to not pursue but is what I should do

    • @omar2eighty
      @omar2eighty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      yup you have to think like this, Girls are fans of you but you are in the field and there cheering

    • @3timesG.
      @3timesG. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like deer

    • @user-zg9pb8lz2g
      @user-zg9pb8lz2g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you're ugly yeah

  • @rhuiden4086
    @rhuiden4086 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +399

    This is logical. Letting them chase fulfills their instinctual behaviour to seek the most independent man. Chasing her automatically tells her you arent independent but somehow need her, the one who wants to feel protected.

    • @Involent
      @Involent 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      All of my best, most sexually abundant relationships have been with women I wasn’t wildly attracted to. But that sucks, because I want to be with a woman I’m wildly attracted to.

    • @anushasaxena8073
      @anushasaxena8073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      i think you might need to reframe those women as women you are not wildly attracted to so you behave like you do with those you are not attracted to@@Involent

    • @Involent
      @Involent 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anushasaxena8073 How do you reframe a woman as unattractive? Focus on her irritating and annoying traits? What incentive then is there to be with her?

    • @Involent
      @Involent 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@anushasaxena8073 How do you do that, except by constantly focusing on their annoying and irritating traits? At that point, what’s the incentive to be with them?

    • @Stop-loss-BoSS
      @Stop-loss-BoSS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Involent I mean I’m sure her friends are hot right

  • @FAVanguard
    @FAVanguard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    Key point: Pursue her during the courtship phase.
    1. Build attraction, 2. build trust and comfort, then 3. build seduction
    Withdraw attention and allow her to pursue you to secure the relationship.
    If you are waiting for a woman to pursue you at the start, you'll be waiting forever because over 80% of women want men to do the first approach.

    • @Raj-cl7he
      @Raj-cl7he 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      This is very true. This right here is where guys including myself have to get better at. The reason pursuing first is uncomfortable is because if your atleast a decent human being with a heart you will catch some what of feelings as you get to know them ,and ive noticed the resistance becomes harder to pull away, but it takes practice. Ive got myself to apoint I can instinctively notice when it's time to pull away cause you will feel a girls energy shift when she's pursuing .if your in touch with your own energy you can naturally sense things. Two people can not pursue each other . Women want the disney fantasy, so as men we are not allowed to fall in love or you ruin their experience. It actually works best that way.

    • @dstmessenger5803
      @dstmessenger5803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Raj-cl7hedude nothing is wrong with feeling strong attraction to her, it’s not even about “pursuing”, it’s literally getting to know her as a man and making clear decisions about the direction you want to take that interaction. eg, date

    • @dstmessenger5803
      @dstmessenger5803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Raj-cl7healso it’s okay if you catch feelings for them, just also know that if you show it you will be punished for it. It’s the same as not eating junk food when you’re on a diet. You have a goal and there are uncomfortable things you need to do to achieve it. There are methods to satisfy those cravings eg, instead of going to dunkin’ donuts, make a protein brownie. Instead of spilling your feelings, have a extra nice outing/trip with her

    • @anonnnnnnnnnnnn
      @anonnnnnnnnnnnn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Near-perfect comment. You can never build attraction however you can build desire. Attraction is non negotiable.

    • @BakisKid
      @BakisKid 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do I pursue a girl I find cute on the street or something then

  • @LesAtlas
    @LesAtlas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    When I was in graduate school I thought I hit the jackpot. This incredibly gorgeous and intelligent woman, from a wealthy family, was interested in me. I dated her and ended up living with her. I didn't pursue her much at first since I didn't have to. I thought: "Finally, a gorgeous woman likes me, like it is supposed to happen in movies." But then her women friends started telling her that she could do better. I got insecure and pursued her more. It was like a hit of Dopamine, and I needed her to be into me, and I started to suffer withdrawals and craved more. As you predicted, she then lost interest in me. Kicked me out of her car while it was still moving. (At least she slowed down.) I then went into a funk. Maybe a year passed and I met another woman, OK-looking but not model material like the first. This other woman was easy to talk to, but other than asking her out on our first date, and some other things I wanted to do anyways but included her, I didn't pursue her. That was almost 45 years ago. We are still happily married. You spoke the truth.

    • @bobstoner8152
      @bobstoner8152 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      jeeez😂

    • @colmrooney414
      @colmrooney414 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      maybe don't let a woman kick you out of their car until it stops? glad you moved on from that predicament. finding true happiness within matters

  • @JasperAlkmaar
    @JasperAlkmaar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    What I start understand more and more, is that it’s rather a process of deprogramming our limited beliefs and conditioning instead of acquiring new knowledge

    • @MySheldon1
      @MySheldon1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Deep comment 💯

    • @user-rl9ne5og8v
      @user-rl9ne5og8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All video in one coment

    • @3timesG.
      @3timesG. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Factual

    • @thalmoragent9344
      @thalmoragent9344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fair enough

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    11:40 men, understand this. The same way when you look at a woman with curves, butt and boobs and you cant help but be attracted... it is the same for women when there is uncertainty about your level of attraction.... THEY CAN'T HELP IT, IT HAPPENS NATURALLY. Do NOT listen to what they say, they are repeating what they hear because it sounds socially correct. But when you do, WHAT HAPPENS? Exactly! PAY ATTENTION TO HER ACTIONS NEVER HER WORDS, because women act on how they FEEL IN THE PRESENT MOMENT.... this VERY minute, not hour, nor day, THIS MINUTE.

    • @carpediem4512
      @carpediem4512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you and Casey theoretically, but come on fellas. Most modern women are airheads. These are unruly feminists. Why put in all this effort? All we need to do is have sexual discipline and ignore women for a year. No approaching, no dating apps, no looking. I guarantee you they will change their ways.

    • @user-uv4jr6ib3p
      @user-uv4jr6ib3p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@carpediem4512 why do you want the easiest pathway out. Come on, get on the playing field and score some points.

    • @chrisclow3441
      @chrisclow3441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so facts. Illusion of action is what it’s called. And really it’s because on a subconscious level you need to know she’s there.

    • @D-A-N-
      @D-A-N- 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do u do that in marriage ?😂

  • @khambrelmathis6101
    @khambrelmathis6101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    This is why most relationships or situationships, last longer when the Woman is the one seeking the attention and desire from the Man.

    • @omar2eighty
      @omar2eighty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      as it should be!

    • @hotrodtrucker88
      @hotrodtrucker88 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you are 100% correct

    • @khambrelmathis6101
      @khambrelmathis6101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@omar2eighty Yup!!!

  • @mikyo94
    @mikyo94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I'm 29 years and when I look back at all the shit I've done before just because of being anxious, or showing interest too fast, or revealing my cards without reason. Holy fxck man, I hope I can get the chances again with beautiful women to prove myself I've learned the lessons. Thanks Casey

    • @kylegary6311
      @kylegary6311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't worry, you will.

    • @dvs87
      @dvs87 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im 36 bro and I can assure you will have chances over and over again

  • @emperorcesar8208
    @emperorcesar8208 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    There is no technique on how to get women, just catch her at the right time and right emotional state. Women function based on their current and immediate feelings.

    • @djeanpierre
      @djeanpierre 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I agree. No strategy works consistently with women, particularly with American women.

    • @emperorcesar8208
      @emperorcesar8208 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@djeanpierre I have slept with a lot of women without any effort style or technique or game, just because they were vulnerable. As soon as they came to their right senses LOL they ghosted me. You can be the most handsome man on this planet with game but if you meet a woman in a negative emotional state maybe just had a breakup or a dude dump her, she will definitely not pay attention to you or make your life a living hell. Therefore it all depend on her mood and situation when you met her.

    • @LeoJr-rk4km
      @LeoJr-rk4km 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@djeanpierre the goat in the building! 🇧🇷

    • @obinnaosuagwu3685
      @obinnaosuagwu3685 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If you use Casey's technic on some women, they will never call you for life--esp in my country. What works in my country is money and status.

    • @emperorcesar8208
      @emperorcesar8208 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@obinnaosuagwu3685 hahahaha that’s true. You will fail with Nigerian and majority of Afro-black women if you use Casey Techniques.

  • @ThePersianOne
    @ThePersianOne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    "When you pursue a woman it's you sub-consciously seeking assurance." That hit hard for me. When I feel myself falling into this mode, I think what would the most masculine version of me do. So I get my feelings under control, detach from the outcome, and just do me. With a little patience and time, they always pursue.

    • @davidj.espino2435
      @davidj.espino2435 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How much time really are we talkin' about until they pursue?

    • @FitComm
      @FitComm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidj.espino2435could be anywhere from a day or two two a week or two or three

    • @user-hc4vw2bb4v
      @user-hc4vw2bb4v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidj.espino2435 You shouldn't expect any woman to pursue you, but from time to time there will be a woman who will pursue you, and don't expect her to pursue you hard, they will just initiate conversations, be very nice to you (which idk if it's a good signal because all women were nice with me in my life), but eventually, you'll have to make moves or else they'll go with some other guy. I don't suggest verbally asking her to be your girlfriend, but just basically start treating her like a girlfriend, ask her to go out with u for coffee, or to get something to eat, give her attention but not too much just from time to time. From my experience going FULLY cold on a woman like not even initiating conversations with her until she did, not setting dates, that doesn't really work... they do "pursue" but it never goes anywhere. Just be playful and treat them like your girlfriend without telling them that they're your girlfriend.

    • @jmorefit1
      @jmorefit1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidj.espino2435It’s a by the situation thing but say a woman stops responding to a short text thread or you call her and she doesn’t answer…
      I can almost guarantee you 99% of woman will do this interest test to see if you’re needy.
      It helps you(me) in 2 ways…
      1 When you don’t double text or send any other communication back PERIOD. It shows her you don’t care if you never talk to her again.
      2 This helps in two ways…one it’ll raise her urgency, eventually she’ll wonder if you are still interested and text back/call back to pursue you
      Two if you never hear back within 1-5 days, her interest level probably isn’t worth it…she may be attracted to you but you’re guy number 3 or lower in her rotation…she’ll make guy 1 or 2 a priority pursue him

    • @olibat6731
      @olibat6731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sometimes they won't persue, fade away...but it's ok it's part of the game (50/50?)

  • @mountainkid417
    @mountainkid417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    In a relationship one person leads (leader/captain of the relationship) and the other follows; in other words one in a dominant position and one in a submissive position.
    The pursuer is always in a submissive position. The person who is doing more, who is giving more, who is more invested can't be the captain/leader of the relationship because they're in a submissive position where they're following their lover.
    That's why as a masculine partner, you can't like her more than she likes you. You shouldn't do or invest more to a woman than she does for you. Always be one step behind to establish masculine-feminine polarity and become a leader of the dynamic

    • @jimhagger7
      @jimhagger7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This applies to today only, not 30-40+ years ago

    • @mountainkid417
      @mountainkid417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jimhagger7 this has always been like this. It's an inherent interhuman dynamics, regardless of time

    • @mountainkid417
      @mountainkid417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jimhagger7 the human nature and masculine-feminine dynamics never change. But, what makes you think this applies to today only, and not 30-40+ years ago? what was different in your opinion?

    • @gman5069
      @gman5069 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This really isn't completely true because today many women want simps they can control and feel more secure about ...and many women jus want sex no commitment.....yes u need 'game' or masculine frame to sustain any relationship long term.... But the main thing women care about is physical attraction and how desirable you are to other women mainly game and being masculine comes way later because everyone thinks all women are the same they definitely arnt many are control freaks dominant types many are insecure and emotionally broken and many have many other issues or don't even know what they want. Many women will have sex with a 8 or 9 guy with great body but never committ cause he's attractive and desirable....where many will choose a guy who's a 6 or 7 but has a gut or dad bod to get in a relationship with that is a simp for her and makes her feel more secure ...the ones that truly go after what ur saying are high value 9s emotionally healthy and strong women and guess what few exist today and u better be in her top 3 choices to even stand a chance ...if u goin for one u can forget about how dominant u are ..and yes 30 plus years ago. ..women were submissive and naturally went for strong dominant men and ones they connected too emotionally far more often then today with 50 plus options on social media based mainly on looks and desirabllity....there's very lil game even goin on....and once u in a relationship she controls it...she controls when sex happens she controls when she commits she controls the pace when she holds your hand etc etc ..only thing a man may control is conversation and descions outside the relationship and his own life outside of it and if they can't throw you off or emotionally effect you many will jus dump you because they think u don't care.. now u can agree and walk away... but after maybe 2-3 times she will realize you ain't the simp and prolly go elsewhere...or even worse go bang one of her other dozen options....few relationships last past 2-3 years max and this is commonly why. Unless she views you as a prize indefinitely way younger guy espically if she got baggage and you don't ... or u got a huge income and lifestyle in the top 5 percent... other then maybe a bunch of kids few stay long anymore if u don't fall in those catergorys...and most guys today dont....were becoming a society that's turning away from realness and emotion so that effects relationships massively couple that with women are told to sleep around with whoever they want and men have more competition now more then ever oh and almost no say in anything sounds like a recipe for a great time and a long relationship lol....most men today also all fall in a similar catergory competing for all the same women...there's no middle class anymore ur poor or rich, hot or unattractive no middle ground .. most men are between a 4-8 range and make under 100k a year. Goin after the women between 5-8 range ... And the women get passed around or u are the simp she choose 9/10 times ...if neither is the case your women is prolly a 4 or less nobody wants or a 9 or 10 that's untattainable

  • @danielg2177
    @danielg2177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The best thing a young guy can do is to be with a woman who choses him first being that he still finds her attractive enough. Most young women have unlimited dating options nowadays due to social media so they will have a leverage over you no matter what. If you keep pursuing a woman and feel the need to prove yourself so that she finds you attractive, you have already lost the game.

  • @henryrivera47
    @henryrivera47 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Every girl I’ve chased always ends up ghosting me, every girl I’ve distanced myself from has started chasing. It’s strange, growing up I’ve been accustomed to the male character doing everything in his power to chase the woman. You see it in shows like Tom n Jerry, Johnny Bravo, various movies and shows. I’ve always got the impression that girls enjoy the chase, but my results speak otherwise. I’m going to start pulling away from dating and start focusing on bettering myself. All this chasing has only led me to drop my standards and my self esteem.

    • @madbros5613
      @madbros5613 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same experience bro. What ive seen work is give vague signals that you may like her, then distance

    • @jamisonball2359
      @jamisonball2359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Tend to your garden

  • @PezRacer
    @PezRacer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Casey ain’t buying any flowers for Valentine’s Day, that’s for the simps!

    • @trrealestatenycrealestate200
      @trrealestatenycrealestate200 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jeansollot6419 believe it or not she will love you more or the same without the flowers

    • @stefanmaslaczyk1259
      @stefanmaslaczyk1259 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She will moan to all her friends that her boyfriend/partner didn’t get her even a card. It’s her way of bragging what a masculine man she’s got.

    • @mirandolina134
      @mirandolina134 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@stefanmaslaczyk1259 probably she will complain what a douchebag is 😂😂 buying flowers for your girlfriend on any occasion doesn’t make you a simp it’s a nice gesture and 100% will appreciate . You got it all wrong !!

    • @houseofvenusMD
      @houseofvenusMD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mirandolina134women don't like nice guys. They like douchebags that they can soften into doing nice things once in a while. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @modern.performer
      @modern.performer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mirandolina134haven't met the right one yet have you? 😊

  • @alf3071
    @alf3071 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This exact experience with the last girl convinced me of this, she was pursuing me after the date, and I reversed it and everything went to shit real fucking fast

    • @Yourdaddy_2024
      @Yourdaddy_2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup just happened to me! I have been smacking my head ever since!! What a grave mistake!

  • @IanocityReacts
    @IanocityReacts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Exactly what I've been saying to my friends but they just don't get it. Keep up the good work Casey 💪

  • @ashutoshshukla4832
    @ashutoshshukla4832 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Certainty kills all the spark in women eyes

  • @KASLtja
    @KASLtja 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I feel you on the patience part at the end HOWEVER………..when a woman is physically attracted to you, you can do little to nothing wrong in her eyes. This is the reason why women have children with the “wrong” men multiple times, even when they’re married.

  • @chrisclow3441
    @chrisclow3441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Facts - when a woman is doing all of the pursuing - you are so much more at peace. It’s she’s chasing you then she’s not replacing you

  • @jonathanevans5453
    @jonathanevans5453 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've recently realised the hard way, this guy is absolutely right and its an immediate change. Never again ;)

  • @elcocaino8728
    @elcocaino8728 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Appreciate Casey so much. Started watching him since like last October and my dating life and sexual life improved drastically. Literally went from simping, having scarced options. To pulling girl after girl and having options. Literally tell myself anytime im with a girl. I tell myself "satisfy hypergamy"

  • @immers2410
    @immers2410 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You can only let a woman pursue you if you have other options. If she’s your only option, your need for sex overcomes her need for your company and you end up chasing

    • @unexpected8166
      @unexpected8166 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wrong. Thats an excuse

  • @AnupKumar-no8wn
    @AnupKumar-no8wn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You are absolutely correct bro. "Women are the end chooser kind of Man she wants, its up to them who she chooses at the end of the day. Be carefree accept them for who they are and let go be a magnet and not chase women let women chase as We Men are Real prize and Not Women. Love from India bro casey. You are a genunine lovely Man.

  • @TheSmurf1973
    @TheSmurf1973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Totally agree with this. I am 50 years old and have only ever asked out one woman. I've found that when you let a woman form her attraction and give her the space to develop it whilst you don't give many indicators that you feel the same way, they form really strong attraction and eventually a really strong love attachment.
    The narrative that you have been lead to believe that the man chases and the woman decides is just utter nonsense.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    2:10 i get why you say that, but when you have optimized this to the highest level, you won't have to initiate anything, the woman does. One eg. a girl message me "have you been to xyz yet?". It was the newest restaurant in town. That was HER INITIATING. I explained my situation without details, I said yes but no. But I knew what she was getting at, so I told her i will let her know when WE going. When I did, I set the date for 2 weeks in advance. SHE THEN KEPT MESSAGING ME, especially the week of.

  • @DS-ou8ws
    @DS-ou8ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Dude, you're legit the number one content creator when it comes to dating. You break it down to the microscopic level. Keep em coming.

    • @25ramond
      @25ramond 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is good but you must not know AMS alpha male strategies, Kevin Samuel’s etc but I do like this guy I rocks with him, good ish

    • @DS-ou8ws
      @DS-ou8ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never heard of Kevin Samuel’s, but AMS is cool.

    • @DS-ou8ws
      @DS-ou8ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@25ramond AMS is more like casual story telling type style, while this dude is just straight facts upfront

  • @MikeJrCruz23
    @MikeJrCruz23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Casey is the only one out here giving free sauce and solid facts every single time. Once you swallow the truth, there ain't no going back, man.

  • @boythunderbolt
    @boythunderbolt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    It didnt use to be this way. Women used to like when a man showed alot of interest and tried hard to pursue her. But once social media became apart of every day life, women stopped valuing that because of having hundreds of DMs from guys trying way too hard. Now they want the guy that doesnt show extreme interest because its the uncommon thing. Social media fucked us.

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Social media simply allowed people, women included, to explore their real nature. It's like that saying "Guns don't kill people. People with guns kill people." But the essence was already there, obviously.

  • @ilikethatboulder.thatisani5496
    @ilikethatboulder.thatisani5496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    i never pursue, been able to steal girls from some very masculine men too. not that i was trying to, women’s hypergamy is too intense.

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excellent.

  • @ashutoshshukla4832
    @ashutoshshukla4832 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Casey your every word 100% resonates in my present life , i not came into relationship with many girls . But when i show my girlfriend certainty and love it turns her off though she tells me i want a man who love me cherish me but when i do that , her attractive level towards me go down. You said right women is not a complex creature but one must understand what's inside her is feminine energy which works utterly different as compared to masculine one

  • @Qdawwg
    @Qdawwg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Weird timing. I just got out of 2 back to back serious relationships where I was a gentleman and pursued her etc. But they both decided to leave, meanwhile I have several girls in my dms that I friendzoned for a while now and it's actually crazy how much they want me they are constantly trying to get out of the friendzone. So it clicked like wtf I am treating these girls like they don't matter at all and telling them to their face that I don't like them, never responding to their messages etc. This dating world is so backwards lol

  • @PB22559
    @PB22559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Some women hate having to compete for you/your attention, other women crave it and some women are indifferent. You never know how individual women will react and a lot of the time you'll be surprised. Casey is still young and even though some of what he's saying is true, he still has a lot to learn about male/female dynamics. He's trying to sell a course so he has to present these topics as black and white when they're anything but...

    • @antarahmoody575
      @antarahmoody575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I respectfully disagree. Every woman is hypergamous. And to your point, a woman may hate to compete but we are ANIMALS at our core. Darwin did have some points: 1)Natural selection and 2)Survival of the fitest.....Casey is 28 by the way. In no way do I consider him a "fresh out the womb" babe. Boss knows his 💩.

    • @MrRobuo
      @MrRobuo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      When women say they "hate" something, they are lying. For example, women claim to "hate" cigar smoke... but in reality, they swoon over it.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@MrRobuo I can attest to this. When they say they hate a particular guy, they 99% of the time have the hots for him. It's his power over them they hate, not the guy.

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@MrRobuo You're taking what I said out of context. By 'hate' I mean no longer contact you. I'm not refering to a woman saying she hates some guy. I agree with you that that usually means she likes the guy.
      The point I'm making is... some women will stop pursuing a man who is being pursued by other women, other women will pursue even more because of the competition and some women won't care because they're probably talking to other similar quality men (even if the mens intention is just to sleep with her and nothing more).
      There is no one size fits all approach. I've had women find out other women were chasing/into me and as soon as they found out, they lost interest and stopped contacting me. For other women, the opposite has been true, in that the more they think you're a 'catch', the more they pursue you. But beware, they're probably pursuing other men (similar to you) at the same time.
      Casey is trying to make it look like if you hold back and don't show all your cards, you'll always be the one she's thinking about and you'll fulfull her hypergamous nature. That's just not true. It's only true for some women and for a limited amount of time. Their is no foolproof approach. There are too many variables. Most modern women carry a lot of 'trauma' and baggage from their previous 'relationships' so they've all developed different triggers along the way.

    • @daynemin
      @daynemin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some won't in competition but it still satisfies your value.

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Really difficult to get a woman to pursue when online dating with all their options

    • @carpediem4512
      @carpediem4512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      This is advice is sound theoretically but it’s a waste of time. Forget about these unruly feminists, and just worry about your health, wealth and peace of mind. The juice is not worth the squeeze nowadays.

    • @JohnDoe-zb3to
      @JohnDoe-zb3to 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      As a multi millionaire 6’3 handsome guy. You are correct. Even at this level you can only use toxic tactics to get her to like you.

    • @user-uv4jr6ib3p
      @user-uv4jr6ib3p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@carpediem4512I gree.. when you do this to you garden.. women/the butterflies will come.
      The big question is, will you be able to enjoy them and keep them, or they'll end up exploiting you with all your success and leave you. I'm sure we have a lot of examples on the Internet.

    • @destinhook3826
      @destinhook3826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Meet them organically, your odds are insanely better

    • @omar2eighty
      @omar2eighty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its not its just competition, you gotta fight to get what you want in any way possible ‘non violent’

  • @Skapes11238
    @Skapes11238 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My last relationship opened up my eyes to this exact thing you are talking about. Luckily, she was a good woman and did not abuse my feelings and cut things off. Grateful that my eyes are open, everyone has a catalyst, some are more painful than others. If you have not internalized this lesson yet, then let my situation be a cautionary tale.

  • @tedbrown2583
    @tedbrown2583 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely brilliant work bro!!!😎

  • @MichaelMoerbe
    @MichaelMoerbe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolute Gold Bro!

  • @TeVoz07
    @TeVoz07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is pure gold brother

  • @watstrappening3653
    @watstrappening3653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of your best videos Casey 🎯🎯

  • @ricky6565
    @ricky6565 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of Casey's best videos

  • @dadgarmt
    @dadgarmt หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pure facts. After watching tons of videos I admit your chanel is on a different level honestly. Thank you

  • @kylearmour888
    @kylearmour888 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great work brother, thank you.

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely radiantly brilliantly genius Casey bro.

  • @jayhypercars
    @jayhypercars 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The best dating coach ever !!

  • @starfleetcommander
    @starfleetcommander 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This game is true gold.

  • @user-pb5kj9wq2j
    @user-pb5kj9wq2j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Thanks bro you've helped me a lot

  • @iamkingfrost
    @iamkingfrost 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep preaching my bro!

  • @Drogonmoon
    @Drogonmoon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cheers mate - thanks for your help !

  • @MM-yy9us
    @MM-yy9us 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I get all this in the dating phase but its a bit more tricky during long term relationship; I agree 100% but being scarce in a long term is tough.
    I'm very lucky that they chase me more than i chase them because I always want less and it creates that tension but eventually they just want more no matter what; when a woman love you she wants more of you it seems...
    What do you suggest for long term

  • @psp4150
    @psp4150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Couldn’t be more right in all of this. Wasted ten years chasing women only to be left holding the bag while they run off with the guys who paid them no mind and cheated on them.

    • @b.c.34
      @b.c.34 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry hearing this man, you can recover the 10 years.

  • @Tyler-wl8kq
    @Tyler-wl8kq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Again Casey is spitting. THE GAME

  • @heathRocco
    @heathRocco 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Every new video we watch from Casey Zander is always a major shock...

  • @deeppointturkiye2666
    @deeppointturkiye2666 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You know this game bro 😎
    You got this

  • @jkeymusic
    @jkeymusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so glad that i mastered this dynamics!

  • @Micah-3333
    @Micah-3333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is what men need to understand we or the prize not them they should work for or attention not the other way around men or the rules of this world women or just her for or amusement

  • @thorfinn7291
    @thorfinn7291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This might be the most spot on video you've ever made. Keep at it.

  • @Soulfire91
    @Soulfire91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Best explanation yet.

  • @Greyvend
    @Greyvend 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is some real gold, Casey. You're just opening my eyes more and more. Thanks so much, bro.

  • @user-mr8io1ow6g
    @user-mr8io1ow6g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🗣️ PREACH BROTHER !!!!!

  • @medman6649
    @medman6649 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely, 100% accurate. Witnessed this first hand.

  • @Dylonysus
    @Dylonysus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The lord of the whiteboard is back with another BANGEr

  • @FreeprofessorPosition-cm8xv
    @FreeprofessorPosition-cm8xv หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy knows it all!

  • @funkmanchu
    @funkmanchu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    every time brilliant
    Every time brilliant!

  • @undergroundwes2682
    @undergroundwes2682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great content once again Casey. You are truly helping alot of men learn how to deal properly with female nature .

  • @joshuabetinis
    @joshuabetinis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eff your videos are so solid, i cant resist learning how to attract females 💎 thnx bro

  • @lighttravel3242
    @lighttravel3242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know all your videos. This is the best.

  • @marioderamus7376
    @marioderamus7376 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its interesting observing different Mens advice channels and how differently they approach the same situations. Im here for this seeing whats next with dating evolution

  • @jonnyenglish36
    @jonnyenglish36 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are bang on the money, mate!! Everything you explain is right. What I don't get is why your channel isn't bigger

  • @13SMALLS
    @13SMALLS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nah that last bit about a woman’s attraction horizon is something that 90% don’t understand and the sooner we could get that the better off we’d be but you’re right we know very quickly and expect woman to reciprocate which is not the case at all!!! Thank you bro. Patience

  • @fhowland
    @fhowland 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    SUCH a great video. I just turned 40 and it's taken me years to learn what he summed up here. It's all spot-on.

  • @user-lp1lu9fy6t
    @user-lp1lu9fy6t 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's text book play by play game 😂😂😂😂❤thanks brother ❤

  • @gumbyjag
    @gumbyjag 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful, thanks man.

  • @CrazyCircles1
    @CrazyCircles1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm 38 now and through observation of how women react to my actions, I already had a feeling that what you said is the case. Now you just transformed that feeling into certainty. I always thought that all women play hot and cold, which is rarely the case and much more obvious when they do. If it's subtle and not that obvious, I'm just pushing too hard. Some adjustments here and there, and I think I'm gold.

  • @jigneshjod3040
    @jigneshjod3040 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    00:01 Let women pursue you to attract them
    02:02 Let women pursue you to satisfy their hypergamous nature
    04:01 Avoid directly approaching or impressing a woman to maintain high sexual market value.
    06:00 Make her work for your approval and presence
    07:51 Hypergamy is not satisfied due to reversed pursuit dynamics.
    09:56 Women are turned off by needy behavior and direct verbal care signals weakness.
    11:50 Internal hardwiring of female attraction is uncontrollable.
    13:57 Pursuing women can risk over-communication and showing lack of purpose.
    15:57 Patience in letting women pursue you naturally.

  • @benjaminguerrero7474
    @benjaminguerrero7474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks very much for share your knowledge about the the really nature of the woman; it´s great to aply that knowledge in the real life. Congratulatios.

  • @SkilzmanSwift
    @SkilzmanSwift 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know I say this on a lot of Casey’s videos…Listen to what this man is saying…He is 💯 nailed on and I’m talking from multiple experiences as a 40 year old man

  • @cristino4526
    @cristino4526 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you doing a great job

  • @hengonghuat9876
    @hengonghuat9876 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is gold

  • @dntstpmving
    @dntstpmving 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great Casey realy great.
    THX Bro from a German guy.

  • @akakingcash55
    @akakingcash55 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great lesson today

  • @Color.supply
    @Color.supply 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s crazy how this works on us.

  • @janullrich9224
    @janullrich9224 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the last sentence. You have to lay your cards slowly, even if its hard sometimes

  • @mrkrabbz4834
    @mrkrabbz4834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re the 🐐 💯

  • @user-zg8bk3tv1v
    @user-zg8bk3tv1v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video should be in the program.

  • @chrisdarazs6441
    @chrisdarazs6441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Couldn't imagine anything more destructive to a healthy marriage than following the ideas presented by Casey

  • @earlem9771
    @earlem9771 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This proves that you don’t have to be a lawyer or a successful businessman. Just be the best you can be for YOU whatever you choose to be.

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In human male / female dynamics the feminine is actually the hunter or pursuer..... When the feminine encounters a masculine that she feels or perceives is valuable.... Her biology tells her to capture a part of him, the best part of him, his seed..... So she presents herself and her feminity causes her to submit to his masculinity..... Which in turn causes him to submit to her by becoming engorged and entering her, and working for her to surrender his seed........ This is the natural order of human male / female dynamics.

    • @mountainkid417
      @mountainkid417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Not the hunter, but the pursuer - yes, because pursuer is naturally in a submissive position in the dynamic. It's also the more emotional, vulnerable, softer and warmer one which are essentially all feminine traits

    • @spruce5123
      @spruce5123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mountainkid417... However covertly hypergamy causes them to innately and instinctively desire to be penetrated and inseminated by a man they feel is valuable.... They are subconsciously perpetually on the hunt to fulfill this need.

    • @spruce5123
      @spruce5123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mountainkid417... However covertly hypergamy causes them to want to be penetrated and inseminated by a man that she feels is valuable..... She will instinctively and perpetually be on the hunt to fulfill this need.

    • @kingclampz6081
      @kingclampz6081 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mountainkid417you are correct ✅

    • @Yourdaddy_2024
      @Yourdaddy_2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shit mf! Mixing animal dang!

  • @jibrilbuilder2668
    @jibrilbuilder2668 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Golden Ticket

  • @kieronbilton5595
    @kieronbilton5595 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Vid as always Dudes tha Shearrt

  • @ProdbyOrbit
    @ProdbyOrbit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This true Zander’s good shit

  • @vinyvinycocopuffpassittome5051
    @vinyvinycocopuffpassittome5051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The first date with my ex, she wanted to continue to hang out longer and i said “ I have to go to the gym.”
    She wouldn’t let me kiss her goodbye but then contacted me two days later and wanted me to take her out.

  • @chinonsoagu1464
    @chinonsoagu1464 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are the Man bro ❤

  • @JohnSmith-ds5tb
    @JohnSmith-ds5tb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    yup I always noticed that the girl who I did not like more than a friend wanted a relationship

  • @rupert.secuta
    @rupert.secuta 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is gold

  • @cl1ff892
    @cl1ff892 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant video

  • @Akhemseth-hc1tb
    @Akhemseth-hc1tb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfectly said

  • @fonzysgarage1534
    @fonzysgarage1534 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My man doesn’t miss

  • @FreeprofessorPosition-cm8xv
    @FreeprofessorPosition-cm8xv หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy has a caring personality

  • @grubiz9482
    @grubiz9482 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Truth bomb!!! Thanks for the great input Casey! Would be very intrested how to deal with all of those valintense day shiaate. When she is saying yeah you are not thinking about me on this day when not going with the heard like buying flowers and all that stuff...

    • @Yourdaddy_2024
      @Yourdaddy_2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Donot by flowers! Optimize hypergamy! Say that to yourself every time a women passes by :)