Seduction KILLERS MEN MAKE that turn off all women (5 MASSIVE ISSUES)
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Hey Casey brother make a white board video on how to read a women
There's bring a long time you didn't make a white board video
How do I get a one on one with you Casey, just a session - not the program? Email? Thanks
Clearly one of your best video Casey ! Thx bro 🔥🔥👍
why do u snap your fingers as though the average man is closing 1 deal let alone all other times u snapped your fingers. read the room dude. most men (and more to point, most of your viewers) just dont live like this and probably never will. or else the world would be a much more competitive place w more scarcity everywhere
So let me get this straight about five things that hurt your seduction skill:
1. Urgency = desperately need to know someone
2. Three sins of masculinity = being clingy, being scarce and forgetting of when and how to start
3. Misunderstood of what was happening in the beginning, didn't bother to keep things simple and pursuing her too much.
4. Creating a date instead of letting the woman know your recreational activities you enjoy, including your hobbies.
5. Trying to get her to sleep with you too quickly.
I would add even more fundamentally as a man is your masculine frame and mindset as fearless and ambitious in business fitness family friends
Ur answer is stop chasing them ignore them be yourself u might ask why u want to seem impossible to catch it truly fraustraits thrm big time which makes them want you more have sexual discipline most important always remember this is the games the women play
I love number 5
nobody ever runs businesses, just stereotypical of "masculine". internal qualities are masculine. I can already tell that you're a low level man.@@Eserr7856
but women lose interest if you dont bring up sex
This guy a one man army. Mad respect
Good advice, but I think this is the real reason behind why it works:
A woman doesn’t go on a date unless there’s something about the man that interest her.
She created a picture in her head of who you are that motivated her to see you.
One doesn’t know what she made up, and by talking you can potentially be ruining whatever fantasy she has. So the best thing to do is to keep quiet and let her do most of the talking. This also will make you seem mysterious since you’re not sharing much about yourself.
That comment looks like advice from orion at psychHacks, but anyways, that positivity-halo she endows upon you, can alternatively be a negativity-halo upon you...I've come across several cases where my not talking much about myself had her making up imaginary or speculative context against your favour, either thinking that you're passive-aggressive or potentially evil or criminal, = OR = turned against her perception of herself, i.e.- she thinks that you think she's not good enough to talk to, or that you're not interested in her, because she had to do all the talking. I messed some best opportunities with the best women that were interested in me. Best advice is to be natural and keep any "strategy" in moderation. Be natural and appropriate.
@@mtlicq Not talking is BS, most women are incapable of holding up a convo so you would just be sitting there in silence, the man has to ask questions in the beginning
@@rehakmate
I respect that is true _SOMETIMES_
Remember they are all very different individuals. Mine is absolutely lovely but talks on and on like a radio presentation I'm glad to keep listening the majority of the time.
Not saying this is the answer.. but why is it on you to force questions, and why is the interaction about questions?
I feel like when i just talk about random shit, women are very receptive. Nothing specific.
In my very limited experience some women are very uncomfortable receiving questions
Also quietness will create some tension and she has to try, maybe even feel like she is just not good enough.
Same. All these guys are in their head. Just be your authentic, present self and you will naturally be in your most mascuiline frame.@@aendraes5135
Just went on two dates with a very attractive girl. First date, we walked around the city for two hours constantly changing locations. Second date was a food festival. No agenda, just having a good time. Date ended with a kiss. Physical touch was happening the entire time. It's not difficult, men. You got this!
Good job friend
Really important to understand that the beginning phase stretches over months. It´s also good for YOU to get the time to reflect and get your emotions in order, and ask yourself the question whether you want to pursuit this girl further. What does she bring to YOUR table, will your life benefit from her? etcetera.
World's longest job-interview...
ONE key point that would good to touch on. I completely agree that the most effective way to manifest attractive behavior NATURALLY is to build your self confidence and through proven execution and wins in your life. HOWEVER, emotional "scars" from the past WILL still interfere with your new mindset if not properly addressed,and WILL derail you and send you back to your earlier weaker "state". Coming from somone (myself) who can KILL it on dates when I get into a confident "flow state", the past scars can "send me back" and trigger weak emotional states that cause a women to lose attraction. Should do a video on how to manage that if you have not already.
"When the past is present" by David Richo - is a must read book for most men - it changed my life completely. Never had a problem meeting women/getting laid - but - they were all catch n release not keepers! I now have an absolutely amazing girl who's joined my life and BEGS to cook for me daily...among other things...
@@07wrxtr1 awesome - thanks for the recommendation, I'll check it out! I believe that men are actually "born" in a masculine state, and it's society/conditioning/trauma that robs us of the natural things that Casey Teaches. So we have it backwards - It's not that we have to LEARN these new ,masculine behaviors, it's more that we have to REMOVE the barriers that society/trauma placed on covering up our natural state god gave us. This is actually more empowering as it means that we ALREADY have the mindset and just need to "Reclaim" it.
why would you even want a girl that is so weak and why would you want multiple women
If they lose attraction over past scars they ain't the one bub .
@@ThomasSpears1991 it’s not what happened it’s how it changes your behavior. E.g. acting clingy in the beginning stages because of attachment issues in childhood
This seems like way too much work just to get women. It’s easier to just focus on yourself and they can follow if they want. Screw this.
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*this man simply doesn’t miss* this man is out here saving men’s lives. Great job man
LET HIM COOK
The best video about relationships I have seen in a while. He is so correct about female nature.
Yes!!! 100% This video is so on point! These points are crucial! Listen to this man! He knows what he is talking about
Very true thanks for your knowledge and wisdom. Fathers need to teach their sons this to be successful in all aspects of life. Rock on brother.
The nuance the absolute nuance in these videos is absolutely amazing. Thank and keep doing what you’re doing casey thank you
Swear, when i watch your videos i feel like i have a good friend telling me to sort my head out. After i left military after 7 years and fighting the way back to live in a society again after being away for so long these videos really callibrated my perception on social interactions. Wish i could buy you a pint! All the best brother
Keep up the great content. Learning a lot that I have never put in perspective before. I’m in the midst on the transition as we speak.
It's crazy how 10+ years ago waiting at least 3 days to call after a first date was common practice, but now not immediately texting seems like rare wisdom.
All great points, really love the date one where you just invite her to do something in your world instead of creating a date...🔥🔥🔥
06:48 - "That bleeds into" weeding out the women that don't actually WANT a winner - and believe me let me tell you - for as many lost men out there - are just as many LOST women that will sabotage the relationship due to unresolved daddy issues. You need to eliminate them regardless of how hot they may be - it's up to them to get the therapy - you're NOT a doctor.. Don't try to rescue or fix them... obviously this goes for those in later stages in life - I completely understand the whole "bro I just want to get laid" thing - eventually you'll fully understand the risks in that mindset once you have assets/homes/a business/or just calm.
💯 I learned this the hard way.
@@edheldudeSame - I wasted 11 years with a crazy blond girl who had a father but did not respect him...she then turned into a pill popping druggy and would raid the medicine cabinets of the rich folks homes she would watch while they were on vacation... Find non-self destructive people is easy once you figure out the game. The sad part is you really start to realize there just are not that many healthy people out there anymore. The ones that do pursue greatness are socially alienated to an extent..so welcome yourself to being alone if you decided to weed people out based upon their mindset/drug/alcohol use..
my hot ex gf would sabotage everything on a daily basis. you know it's bad when a skinny nerd tells a hooters calendar girl to GTFO of his house.
My first date with this girl I’m seeing went ok. On the second date, she told me I was a very quiet guy and she didn’t how to take me. We talked about our past and I told her I used to be an instructor in the Army. Her eyes literally lit up and her whole body language changed. She said, “ I wouldn’t have taken you for the type of guy that would yell and do all that.” I said, “ there’s a lot of things I’m capable of doing, without having to be loud about it.”
She asked me out and made sure she kissed me when we were done with date#2.
I know it’s seems cringey, but All this shit works.
My maaaan!
Not cringey at all my brotha lol! That’s how you do it. I don’t remember where I heard this recently but…you gotta win quietly. If you run around announcing all your successes to everyone…they will #1 think you are bullcrapping and full of “you-know-what” or #2 they’ll think you are an arrogant and pretentious prick who is high on himself and his “achievements.”
You were mysterious, and it got her heart doing backflips when the big reveal happened haha! Funny enough…but I’ve been utilizing a technique of emulating the persona of particular movie characters that are “good with women.” Now this might sound crazy but…hear me out.
Lip is my fav character from the show “Shameless” and he basically has this kinda “lazy and idgaf” look on his face and in his mannerisms and of course, he takes down baddies throughout the entire show.
I actually started behaving that way around the girls at work and grinding harder during my shifts, and I “shite you not” I’ve got a bunch of girls eyeing me, smiling at me, and spending a lot more time “in my space.” Girls I thought I was invisible to are now making sure I see them when I’m around haha. And all it takes is a mindset that you don’t need them as you are there to work/earn that bread…cuz it makes them question their value to you as they juuuust can’t understand why you aren’t paying attention to them like the other good little simps haha!
My story is in not to brag as if it’s some major victory lol…but to make the point that it is that quiet confidence that women gravitate towards! I used to talk a lot in social settings and believe me when I say it set me up for a lot of bad outcomes and absolute failure more times than I like to remember lol.
Your story is a maaaajor win and you should definitely be proud. Maintain that masculine frame, and the ladies will continue to be falling all over each other to get to you! Keep up the good work man! 💪
Women like soldiers but not all men are soldiers just as not all soldiers are true men. Women have already in their mind whom they have excluded. What this entails that before this date and during the date you were thought to be her last resort but she had someone else in mind. But telling her you were in the military, of course, boosted your persona and value as you are a small fraction of the male population. But this shows that women judge men on perception and first impression, not on true character, your past, your personality. etc. They follow trends and it is trending now to have a military boyfriend. Damn, must be brutal as you probably look like an Alpha male and still she had her doubts on whether you were a potential mate. You were about to be naturally deselected if you had not told her this.
If a girl says she can’t figure you out, you are doing it right.
The fact she lit up when you told her about the army thing is a red flag I think. They look at shit like that almost like it’s a fetish. Like all these girls and they’re dating apps. Saying shit like I love beards and tattoos, men in uniform, etc.
You're the man bro, keep dropping the knowledge!
This is one of the most important videos I’ve ever watched (and I’m watched a lot of self improvement videos…)
Lots of gems in this one man.
Good job Casey on this. Inspired by your growth
Love this video man. So damn true every single word
Usually all the dating advice I see on TH-cam is exactly the same. This is actually something new that makes sense.
Fucking love this video, gotta take some notes
This is next level finesse right here. 💯👊🏾
It really all depends on interest levels. Im not a 6 foot 8 millionaire and ive had plenty of times where a woman initiates or asks me multiple times in a row to hang out. If she has a true high interest it's extremely obvious to the point theyll basically beg you to hang out
Same.. but can u lock down the one that "you" are interested in? Chances is prob not or it's hard to because to lock one down is when you need money or status. Or your freaking don juan who can seduce by your romanticism.
@@johnny-mnemonic13 seduction doesn't exist. Women are either interested or not. Usaully based on some dumb sht like how much money or status a guy has
I'm athletic, not millionaire, But the place I live is filled with tourists or bangladesh man. No women of my country around me so meeting women for a relationship is almost impossible here. And don't get me started with dating apps, they don't work.
@@ProtoIndoEuropean88 That's 'cause you're a cat bruv.
I’ve had this experience too, and sometimes you just don’t see what it is that’s attracting her to you which can be a strange thing
How is this video not a course? Damn this is gold ngl.
Broo wdh! I didnt know about the 2-3 months. Thank you for this info 🔥💯👍🏽🎉
Guilty of this. Caught a unicorn but will learn from this
Thanks casy god bless u Really needed that knowledge learn alot.
Usually it’s the woman that over pursues after the first date by texting “good morning” and “how was your day?”. I tried to pace it out by going a few days without contact after the date, but it seems to just piss them off because they say “I haven’t heard from you in two days” or they find BS ways to grab my attention.
As bad as it seems its what needs to be done. It's better than actually reciprocating their interest and committing to them, you will be absolutely mindblown how quickly their interest deteriorates. Women create all their own issues and it's not our problem
If you check your phone for TH-cam then you can probably reply to all your messages once a day
@wrcinc - moderation and consideration though. Its NOT over-pursuing if she just texts good morning after the first date, that's a good sign, and simply say "good morning, have a good day" back. Or "how was your day" - just be polite and reply, even short "Fine, thanks" or better, "very busy these days." Withholding any reply whatsoever, is (impolite and) anti-social and counter-productive unless you can't stand her and want to out of your life, and give her justifiable reason to be pissed off. If she texts dozens of texts, that can be over-pursuing, and just say "I'm busy". Give her a chance (to realize, she's got) to calm down. If you want her, don't make yourself out to be antisocial, cold-callous, uncaring, manipulative. Respect yourself, and respect her, and steer it towards moderation and keep it natural. In marketing it is said "perception is reality" --- if she thought you dumped her, then you did.
@@mtlicqthey love being pissed off because they love as*h*les. Women are contradictory creatures
If they say "I haven’t heard from you in two days" all you say is "well your phone is clearly working you can always give me call (;"
YOU ARE CORRECT! We know that we have not earned healthy attraction whether a glance across the room, or a few dates.we know it takes time too know one another,otherwise in my personal opinion we think there might be something wrong with the guy,and there is no way I'm giving any personal information !
great work...i once read an easy date is called "insta dates" basically it can flow from a natural random cold approach or a set date...point is (and its true when you experience them)....its flowing/effortless...AND most of all FUN.
Good video. Most mistakes “coaches” “youtubers” do on dates its to talk only about the slice of life in that date forgetting that its in reality all about the intergrity of your life.
YES women NEED to try to make you attracted. Don't do her job for her. It's not attractive. Let her know you think she is attractive enough to start with, but don't tell her the degree of your attraction for her. The chase is everything to her. Not knowing is everything to her. Stop love bombing. It's transparent and cringe and destroys attraction.
Love this Video and it Helped me with my confidence thx
Hands down the most valuable video
Ive heard everything I needed to hear from this video by 1:30 min .... Im not into dates anyway but thnx for telling me something I already know but I still naturally do it many times.
Unfortunately for 95 percent of men out there today, they all have scarcity of opportunities in their life, only a very very small select number of men have abundance of opportunities with women, the guys living in Miami or Vegas have lots of opportunity, and the single guys living all across the country in small town America have little to no opportunity (interaction) with women since the top dating markets have consolidated.
As great as it is, America (USA) is just ONE out of 195 countries in this world. TH-cam is Global ! Just sayin!
This!
The biggest problem is having circunstances to meet women and that is not always possible.
I live in Lisbon, Portugal and here we got only tourists and middle eastern men living here. There is barely any Portuguese women living in this capital. Makes it impossible to meet anyone.
Thank you.
I'm recently divorced and been out of it for so long. I've forgotten how to play. The game has never changed, just date on the calendar has.
Great video, thanks!
I like that a lot, don’t try and create a date. Just bring her into your life and do things you’re competent and comfortable doing.
This video is pure gold
Great wisdom you earned a sub here thank you gonna apply this to my new interest and see how it goes 🤞
How did it go?
Can confirm this is very true , I have experience from doing both approaches and the slow approach was ultimately the best way to go
Thank you Casey!!!
This guy is wise beyond his years.
Jim Wolfy is master of this but you talk the some correct 100%
Best video yet
This is the realest video on dating ive seen in a long long time!
Thanks for the content
your videos are sooooo greattrtt
This is worth it’s weight in gold gentlemen
In my opinion, the 3-month gestation period, if understood by the majority of us would solve the vast majority of our perceived problems.
Well damn said, looks I just gotta chill for now 🙏🙏🙏
Amazing. Thank you!!
Astounding focal points
If she is truly into you and likes you physically you can do and say whatever you like you dont need a game plan. If you have to use a strategy to get her you will have to use a strategy to keep her and there is a guy out there who she likes who does not have to do anything. The key is to get someone who really is into you.
This is a very solid point. If you have to put on an "act" to attract her you won't be able to keep that act up forever. Eventually the mask will fall off and she will lose attraction.
@@Benjy86 absolutely then you wonder why there are so many women filing for divorce. I personally refuse to use tactics. You are immediately places the woman in a high position above you thus decreasing your value
Good point.
All of this advice and videos or what not apply only to average, below average men. If a man is above average or the top 1%, then he does not have to do anything but let women come to him or they will spread their legs to him.
@@thelasthourgetreadyWomen file for divorce because they're extremely hypergamous and constantly want a better deal. A dude who was in shape at 30yo when he got married might not be as attractive at 40. Women want and are in a position to decide to get the best, even if it they will simply get used for sex by a more attractive or more wealthy man, something they simply fail to realize ! Blame feminism and Western culture, in the Eastern world, if your wife acts up you can legally beat her ass with no repercussions from the law
Subbed! I watched the last few videos and they all punched me right in the face smh
That hit good area of human life to help the human grow.
Great advice man. Dont get too caught up in work! Gotta cultivate those inclusive hobbies, consider them part of your grind! If ya dont have any, get some!
Another thing...common interests are not that important, be open and honest to new things and commonalities will fall into place
If you feel the need to build a woman’s interest over 2-3 months she has already banged 5-6 other new dudes since the day she met YOU!…
It is definitely a possibility in today's dating market, but it also depends on the woman and what she is looking for. I think it is good to not be naive and think women are pure princesses, but also we must not be cynical and think they are all having sex with different dudes
Scarcity mindset
So what?! Your ego is so great that you think you are the greatest thing on the Earth yet this kind of thinking is exactly the opposite of what you think!
You are actually undermining your own value because you are actually saying you are not worthy enough for "her"!
Wife-beater-Casey ain’t playin no games with us fellas. Straight up game spoken like a true player ✅
very nice video, thanks!
homie you are fuckin cooking! Keep it up
Now I know where I went wrong. Gosh I wish I would have known this stuff years ago.
I said it before I love the vids
Very well explained
Casey, this might be the most beneficial video you’ve ever done! And I already like the content you put out. But this angle…just clicks
Yo casey it would be awesome if you could do some infields
Again, good advice.
I'mdoing good but I needed this one.
i guess am the only Nigerian always anticipating ur videos. Man i don’t u r from this earth. U are supernatural.
i am a young man who is curre applying everything u ve thought me here.. and i am currently winning the man , woman relation arena. Men must start being men and stop bullshiting around this women
PURE GOLD
I give this channel a 9.2 tating, the reason I don't give it a 10 is because I won't Casey to raise his game!!
This guy makes a lot of sense.
14:26 Crucial Point!
I have the solution to all this complicity, an old 90 years old wise man. Said you can become crazy trying to understand a woman, don't try to understand a woman, just love her, if and when she meets a deadline that you set, like 4 years or 5 years. Don't go to fast or too slow, remember that after 10 years you both going to be tired of each other BS. So, don't break your head trying to figure out a woman, if you do like this guy, any woman will know that your acting needy for her. So let it be, if you the guy she wants, and she's after you past 4 years and 80% to 90% you feel good with her, she's the one for you. Bad girls don't last too long without showing drama and red flags. Don't take her seriously, some woman are crazy, and if you try to figure her out, you too will become crazy too
Courage comes through interests and hobbies…
The trouble is this: most men are not happy in their career. They work hard in a job that doesnt pay enough despite long hours. A lot of guys go to the gym and lift weights but they dont get the amazing muscle building results. They have some time and money for a hobby other than the gym if they are lucky.
They dont have a boat to take a girl out on. They dont have sports car to give her a ride in. They cant afford to take her on an exotic holiday.
Its all about money and muscle which gives a man status. And most men are just not capable of building this. If you do have these things then most women will suddenly find you very funny, confident and great to be around.
Celebrities get cheated on all the time. That is an important aspect of it, but not the key ingredient. As he said, hypergamy is a feeling that you either satisfy or not. Its not really about monkey branching, but more like being primally convinced that you are a man. And when she is, the others become invisible to her.
I’d rather read a good book and have a nice cup of tea
Overtalking is when you "show up and throw up".
Dark Triad 😎 become this and you’ll never lose
The main thing here is to live your lives to the fullest! Women are not the say all be all of the world or your world persay! This is the attitude you have to have on all aspects of life because unfortunately life isn't forever!
What this all seems to boil down to is - lies. Lies a guy tells a woman to make him appear attractive in her eyes, lies she tells him to get what she wants, then get out etc.
That scarcity point ties well with selling religion to ppl
I've been watching your vids for a week or two now Casey and I haven't said anything...
So let me say this now.
Out of almost every single men's dating/self-improvement channels... you hands down give some of the best, realest, most honest advice when it comes to dating and female psychology in this messed up 21st century romantic landscape.
Keep it up 🔥🔥🔥
Amazing videos bro love ya❤
16:20 best way is, I am going to xyz, you wanna come? always invite a woman to what u are doing, especially if she been seeing your posts of the things you do and she liked a few of the posts, it means she likes what u are doing, now imagine you invite her to be apart of it. THAT is what she WANTS. So if she decline, no big deal you still go do what you doing and post about it having fun the way you usual do!
The need for urgency is because the poor guy finally had a chance to be in the presence of a hot girl. As soon as a Chad shows up she will run to him without shame and will be all chatty and giggly.
You got it right
At the end of the say where's like fast, regular daily women want time, assurance or emotions with us 1st. At the end of the day always talk to more women
Sometimes, you gotta take chances. Y.O.L.O.
Gold.
Good vid
In my experience if you don't seal the deal quick you get friends zoned. That's just me. I am clearly no expert. But taking your time is what bit me in the ass the most. I was playing at two safe.
As a woman I’m here to tell you’re right about a lot of things but also wrong about a few. Sometimes I feel like you’re talking about high status young women who only care about money and designer handbags, not real life women. But either way, why wait 2, 3, or 5 days to text after a first date? Should a man do that we lose interest. That message was sent too late, we really hate that of behavior. If you like someone just check up on them. You don’t have to blow up their phone every 2 and half second but why would a 4 minute conversation hurt? We love it when you talk to us and send good morning and goodnight texts. We really love it.
Bullshit
I feel like this is playing games, to be honest every time that I try to do something special like this a girl it ends badly, I think its better to honestly be yourself. I do agree with some of your points about psychology though
I am having trouble even getting them out on a date.
Ask for that forgiveness - yessir.
The one thing that I took away from this video is that Casey actually says the word "fuck"