" You can be boyfriend and girlfriend and the devil will leave you alone." This is so true. Everything was peaches and cream until my husband, and I said I do after that; all hell broke loose.
I love this segment. I just started therapy and realized I needed to understand my past trauma to love my husband to the best of my ability and to love myself. I’m glad I came across you guys. Thank you
I like how even tho you all are talking to the people it seems like you all are having a conversation with each other with the eye contact and the level respect in you alls voices
The dishes though. Idk if I can ever get to that place Tabatha. I end up doing them, but I am furious and irritated while doing so. Everyone knows their responsibilities. In order for house to function in sanity, everyone must do their part.
Thank you guys, I enjoy how you navigate this ministry of marriage. And I'm inspired because I also sense God incorporate marriage ministry into my calling. Thank you guys 🙏🏻
Wow! I have followed you on IG for a while and love how you relate. I love your calmness and simplicity. This is my first video of you and I love it. I love your depth in the Word of God and how that's what guides your marriage. I love your authenticity. I am here for it all and will share and share. Thank you and blessings to you Ken and Tabatha.
wow, I struggle just like Tabatha with worrying too much but when she mentioned what God revealed to her by saying Focus on what is important right now. That just spoke to me to let my worries go because what I have right now is what I need and I'm alright. Amazing show guys, thank you so much.
I am now on the 2nd podcast and you both are amazing. I've been married for 19 years and listening to your podcast it really gives a different prospective on things. I really want to stop and listen with my husband then I thought it would really be nice if we listened on our own then come together and discuss it. Thank you both. May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤
Tabitha, like you I grew up in the projects, Brooklyn, NY where I developed grit and perseverance. In my adulthood I expect difficulty but with Christ Jesus I can overcome this world.
This was surely good information. I’m not Married yet but I’m looking forward to it. When God sends my husband, I will apply some of this good information to carry when our finally get married.😊
Really enjoy your video's Your honest Your both good-looking Your lovingly kind to each other Pray for n me n my Husband Ken...I can't wait to let my husband see this...
@TaifuXanGaming I see you’ve commented a lot of negative stuff on this video. Seems like you’re trolling 🤷🏾♀️ I hope everything you speak returns to you 100 fold.
This episode blessed me so much! May God continue to keep you and your family! Praying for the blood of Jesus covering you all! I thank God I found your channel. Keep letting the Lord use you both. The biblical wisdom you all are giving is better than gold.❤
My husband and I celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary May 12th, this was amazing to listen to, VERY informative and inspiring, marriage is not easy, it is work, and so worth it though!!! Thank you for sharing, I just started following you guys a week ago and I’m really enjoying everything you share! God Bless!!
I just discovered you two today and am already so very appreciative of your honesty and transparency. I look forward to viewing your other videos. Thank you! ❤🔥🔥🔥♥️
Great content. Thank you so much for sharing your marriage advice! Ken, it’s so funny how you always bring up the first 2 years of difficulty! You’re both amazing :)
Not just you. It’s a woman and personality thing for sure. It’s not easy. Thinking of the things on your plate and then the unexpected dirty dishes or stuff lying on the floor. So true. Yes… we don’t mean to put the hubby in category as kids but see how it added to the list of dishes or stuff on the floor. Can be a challenge to keep in perspective and not trip
I don’t agree with the mother just going on and doing the chores. I believe the husband should have a family meeting and take control of that scenario informing the house even himself that mom is not the maid we should all pitch in and do including husband should enforce it, because if she is doing all the chores that other family member should be doing now she’s turned into a maid, get burned out, and that doesn’t help other family members in the household to learn responsibility and being considerate of how the other family members mom or dad feel
I agree and also want to add that when the wife/mom is stress and get sick then people wonder why. There should be expectations because in the world with the kids work and at the husband job, there will be expectations. Most times the spouse & kids will do things for others but not at home.
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other. I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other. Most couples are too embarrassed to be naked around each other and have sex with each other.
I really enjoyed this video, and agree with most things, except for doing the dishes for the children. It teaches children to be irresponsible and to be disrespectful to the mother/wife in the home. I would have called a family meeting and explained that we are a “team”, and everyone has a part to play. The next time that your chores are undone, privileges are being pulled.
Pastor ken and mrs. tabitha referring to your comment about spouses that take 10 days away from spouse with friends, would you consider that spending 3-4 hours away from your spouse with friends, reasonable? Or 3-4 hours away with friends is the same has spending 10 days away from your spouse?
Thank you for that question. If you’re going to spend time away 3-4 hours is very different from 10 days away. It takes 4 hours to play 18 holes of golf! And that’s healthy. 😀⛳️ It’s really whatever works for your marriage. 🙏🏽
My wife and I celebrated 5years of marriage this year. This is fire 🔥🙏🏾 thank you!
Congrats!
Two years for me and mine. Congrats, man.
Thank you Jesus 🎉🎉❤
Saying I love u in the home om a regular basis is important
@@Secrets2shay yes!
" You can be boyfriend and girlfriend and the devil will leave you alone." This is so true. Everything was peaches and cream until my husband, and I said I do after that; all hell broke loose.
Satan wants to break the marriage covenant at all costs. God bless your union!
God bless your union!
I love this segment. I just started therapy and realized I needed to understand my past trauma to love my husband to the best of my ability and to love myself. I’m glad I came across you guys.
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This is so good even for singles! I just love your wisdom, all glory to God 🎉 ♥
Amen! Thanks for watching!
I like how even tho you all are talking to the people it seems like you all are having a conversation with each other with the eye contact and the level respect in you alls voices
Best advice ever! Thank you. I need to find our family dictionary and have us cut the word divorce out of it. I'm in it until the end
Good! Praise God.
The dishes though. Idk if I can ever get to that place Tabatha. I end up doing them, but I am furious and irritated while doing so. Everyone knows their responsibilities. In order for house to function in sanity, everyone must do their part.
Try your best. Stress is not your friend it causes health issues.
Thank you guys, I enjoy how you navigate this ministry of marriage. And I'm inspired because I also sense God incorporate marriage ministry into my calling.
Thank you guys 🙏🏻
I hear his wife so clearly. She is sharing her truth in such a kind and loving way!
Wow! I have followed you on IG for a while and love how you relate. I love your calmness and simplicity. This is my first video of you and I love it. I love your depth in the Word of God and how that's what guides your marriage. I love your authenticity. I am here for it all and will share and share. Thank you and blessings to you Ken and Tabatha.
wow, I struggle just like Tabatha with worrying too much but when she mentioned what God revealed to her by saying Focus on what is important right now. That just spoke to me to let my worries go because what I have right now is what I need and I'm alright. Amazing show guys, thank you so much.
Seriously you guys are amazing! Where have been not seeing you guys.. its been soooo good guys love you too ❤❤
I am now on the 2nd podcast and you both are amazing. I've been married for 19 years and listening to your podcast it really gives a different prospective on things. I really want to stop and listen with my husband then I thought it would really be nice if we listened on our own then come together and discuss it. Thank you both. May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤
Tabitha, like you I grew up in the projects, Brooklyn, NY where I developed grit and perseverance. In my adulthood I expect difficulty but with Christ Jesus I can overcome this world.
I absolutely LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!
I am single at the moment. You both have been a blessing. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
I'm glad that they got over those hurdles,I've been married two years and mines is a over at this point I tried my best to fight for it 😢
This was surely good information. I’m not Married yet but I’m looking forward to it. When God sends my husband, I will apply some of this good information to carry when our finally get married.😊
I love that you reference that verse in Nehemiah. What a wonderful principle to use... fight and build at the same time. Love y'alls podcast!
My husband and I are celebrating 5 years this year! My husband is younger than me. I enjoyed yall talking about your ages!
I needed this!!!! This was perfect I appreciate you’ll
We are glad! Thank you for supporting us
Really enjoy your video's
Your honest
Your both good-looking
Your lovingly kind to each other
Pray for n me n my Husband Ken...I can't wait to let my husband see this...
Thanks for watching. We’re praying for you both.
Been binging these episodes. 😍 I just love Pastor Ken and Tab and look forward to your words of wisdom 🤍 thank you !!!
This was really good. Hubby and I married 8 years in June and difficult is an understatement 😅
@TaifuXanGaming I see you’ve commented a lot of negative stuff on this video. Seems like you’re trolling 🤷🏾♀️ I hope everything you speak returns to you 100 fold.
I love Tabatha's maturity and her soft voice when she may disagree with something's that's said.
I just love you guys. What a blessing you guys are to the body of Christ!
This episode blessed me so much! May God continue to keep you and your family! Praying for the blood of Jesus covering you all! I thank God I found your channel. Keep letting the Lord use you both. The biblical wisdom you all are giving is better than gold.❤
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Listening From Ghana. I am a fun and I am Learning a lot from you guys. I listen to you when I am at work, home, bathingroom ect
My husband and I celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary May 12th, this was amazing to listen to, VERY informative and inspiring, marriage is not easy, it is work, and so worth it though!!! Thank you for sharing, I just started following you guys a week ago and I’m really enjoying everything you share! God Bless!!
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I truly enjoyed this! This will not be my last watch.❤
Thanks for sharing 👏👏🙌👊💯
Wow. I just discovered this beautiful couple and I love then already. Thanks a lot. I've been blessed
Great couple , love this channel . Starting a channel as well with my wife and this is the motivation needed. God is good!!!!
Thank you for being such a nice, balanced and loving couple. You seem to really fit
I love you guys🤍🇿🇼
I enjoyed catching up with all content you shared before I subscribed. My Spirit Man is well fed by your sharings.
This was such a blessing to listen to.. thanks for sharing and may God bless you both🙏🏾
I just discovered you two today and am already so very appreciative of your honesty and transparency. I look forward to viewing your other videos. Thank you! ❤🔥🔥🔥♥️
Thank you!! 🙏🏾
Fantastic!!🙌🏾
Thank you for this great content. ❤ God bless you guys.
Sooo good!! 👏🏼 Excellent relationship & marriage advice! Kudos to you both for all the valuable content you are sharing. ❤️
Great content. Thank you so much for sharing your marriage advice! Ken, it’s so funny how you always bring up the first 2 years of difficulty! You’re both amazing :)
This is soooo great
Thank you! This information is on time.
Glad this was helpful!
Not just you. It’s a woman and personality thing for sure. It’s not easy. Thinking of the things on your plate and then the unexpected dirty dishes or stuff lying on the floor. So true. Yes… we don’t mean to put the hubby in category as kids but see how it added to the list of dishes or stuff on the floor. Can be a challenge to keep in perspective and not trip
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1. Expect difficulty
4:10 on point
enjoy listening and my birthday is 14 jan
I don’t agree with the mother just going on and doing the chores. I believe the husband should have a family meeting and take control of that scenario informing the house even himself that mom is not the maid we should all pitch in and do including husband should enforce it, because if she is doing all the chores that other family member should be doing now she’s turned into a maid, get burned out, and that doesn’t help other family members in the household to learn responsibility and being considerate of how the other family members mom or dad feel
I agree and also want to add that when the wife/mom is stress and get sick then people wonder why. There should be expectations because in the world with the kids work and at the husband job, there will be expectations. Most times the spouse & kids will do things for others but not at home.
Stop threatening leaving, divorce or separation
Please pray for me and my Wife we need to be discipled. We've been Married for 2 years and we need help Jesus!🙏🙏🙏
praying for the grace of God in your marriage
@Dbhh4556 Thank you! 🙏
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other.
I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other. Most couples are too embarrassed to be naked around each other and have sex with each other.
I really enjoyed this video, and agree with most things, except for doing the dishes for the children. It teaches children to be irresponsible and to be disrespectful to the mother/wife in the home. I would have called a family meeting and explained that we are a “team”, and everyone has a part to play. The next time that your chores are undone, privileges are being pulled.
I agree It seems as though her true heart desire and need are being brushed over.
"the first two years were horrible. . . uhhhh. . . because you" 🙃
Amen!!!!
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Pastor ken and mrs. tabitha referring to your comment about spouses that take 10 days away from spouse with friends, would you consider that spending 3-4 hours away from your spouse with friends, reasonable? Or 3-4 hours away with friends is the same has spending 10 days away from your spouse?
Thank you for that question. If you’re going to spend time away 3-4 hours is very different from 10 days away. It takes 4 hours to play 18 holes of golf! And that’s healthy. 😀⛳️ It’s really whatever works for your marriage. 🙏🏽
4. Stay Flexible
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5. Divorce is not an option
I think the nagging thing is a woman thing... Women multi- task so much and when things are not done then it puts more on their shoulders/plates.
2. Don’t over romanticize marriage
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So did you guys not talk and talk and talk before getting married. So dealing with your depression should have been dealt with it then.