A lot of men say they feel "torn down" or not supported because they want women to support things that don't make sense. I dated a guy that was upset because I didn't want to support him quitting his career while I took care of him 100% financially as he pursued owning a night club when I wasn't his wife. Things like that are difficult to support.
I would never support my husband quitting his job while I paid the bills. It would never be "difficult" for me to support because I would never support him. It would be a simple "NO," and there'd be no discussion about it. Actually, knowing me, it would be an "H" NO. Never let a man use you. I don't care if he is your husband or not. These demonic men will try to use submission to take from you. Some foolish women will support a man financially to keep a man because their self-esteem is low.
I can’t remember where I heard this but it was GOOD. If a woman isn’t a wife before you get married, she probably won’t be after either. Being a wife is a mentality and posture, not a piece of paper, ceremony or ring on her finger. There’s no magic that happens on a wedding day - it’s a confirmation and acknowledgment of what’s already there.
This sounds so good, but I can’t help but to think of those who didn’t even have the chance to “be a wife” before they actually became a wife. I biblical days many of them were arranged and many were just situations where the man said “I want her” and she became his.
I don't think this is 100% wise as you think it is. YES a person can be judged according to the fruit they produce!! That's true and that IS wise, hence make sure she loves the Lord. However, people in biblical times were not dating and testing each others wifey levels out first, AND it's unwise to act like a wife toward your boyfriend. Because guess what, your woman ISN'T your wife until you both make a commitment before God, and she would be wise to distinguish that. Guard your heart.
Your videos make me feel like marriage is such a beautiful thing. I’m one of those women who absolutely had a flawed understanding of submission. But the way you describe it makes me feel like it’s something worthy and possible and honorable, and also glorifying to our Lord. To me it sounded like dictatorship. It’s never been described in depth the way you have so thank you so much. Finding your podcasts at the time we are planning our wedding has been such a huge blessing 🙌🏾
This fills my heart with joy to read! Marriage, as intended by God, is a wonderful gift 🕊️♥️. Embracing submission is a beautiful way to honor God and truly demonstrates remarkable strength and grace. 🌸 Congratulations, and may love and blessings accompany you and your future husband on your journey ahead. 🙏🏾🌷
Just watched this in its entirety and it brought tears to my eyes and I don’t know why. All I could do is cry. I guess the pure admiration of the example of your marriage just broke me completely down. The way you speak and she listens vice versa and the way she looks at you with respect and honor and understanding. It was just so beautiful to watch. Knowing that there’s a provers 31 woman out there for me, truly lifted my heart and tears of joy. Also the prophetic word at the end truly encouraged me
I am currently in my waiting season and trusting in God with the most faith that he will show me my putting God 1st Kingdom Husband. We will love on God together keeping him 1st and center of our union. I will have a partner to fast with , go to church with, and just all around praise God with finally. In the meantime I will continue to live my life in obedience to my Lord and savior reserving my temple.
Can we have a video on how to be a cheerleader and lift your man up ? People say this all the time but a lot of us have not seen it so as easy as people say it is. This is beyond foreign to me. But I want to learn. Encouragement is not my love language and it’s not something I’ve ever been given. I only experienced physical touch/affection and the ones around me tore down a lot of my goals
Proverbs 31:25 “ laughs without fear of the future . “ she’s resourceful, she knows how to make things happen” that is thee absolute best feeling as a woman- having your own back.
Pastor you’re speaking facts, a woman’s looks does not come before her dedication/love for God! no bueno! it is a must to see the fruit of God in her, in her behavior and actions
God is so good! To see how God has orchestrated both of your lives in married, parenting, ministry, all of it is such a blessing to me! I’m not married but your content (which we know has God all over it) has been shaping, molding, continuously encouraging me to be that Proverb’s Woman. I love you guys and the gratitude I have for you both, your family, your staff, your church, your audience… is unmeasurable. May God continue to bless you all in abundance. Much love. Much much love.
This was so good. Such a blessing as believers we need to see more kingdom marriages. Both men and women must be ready to take on kingdom purposes to help build kingdom minded believers and the sole purpose of glorifying God.
Thank you Ken and Tabatha for your encouragement and spiritual advice on making your marriage great through biblical scriptures. God bless you both.🖤🙏🏾
🫴🏽"Do not fall for the things that are good but wait for the things that are God." 💜 Thank you for sharing this and emphasizing it's not about the materials and physical attributes. So true and something more Spiritually in depth with God is the Goal 💡🙏🏽🙌🏽
We are in South Africa, bringing God's love to you. What a beautiful, exceptional and balanced presentation by Ken and Tabatha.❤️✝️ I thank God that our daughter Refemetswe exposed us to such godly counsel for both single and married couples. She has revolutionized our talk to couples through your material. Hopefully she will send more and we will register for your teachings. 🙏This is relevant to those who are in their waiting season and those who are already married. 🙏 We are in our 34 years of marriage, still counting and learning all the way. Indeed marriage is a life long learning. 🙏The highlights of this presentation is more on a couple who will prioritize God above all else, seek first God's kingdom so they can enjoy additions of peace, joy, security etc . I will listen three times before we implement this teaching on all couples we counsel. May the Lord add more to your ministry.
Thank you so much for this video, I am single currently but I believe that God is preparing me for His son. I never saw an healthy marriage before and I’m in my late thirties. My mother and Dad never gotten married, but my mom had gotten married twice. Dad never gotten married 😮💨 so yeah 🤷🏾♀️. But I’m grateful for Daddy God , because He’s teaching me through some healthy, successful marriages. And you guys are one of them, thank you again for all the wisdom. I’ll make sure that I’ll share my God written Love Story with you when it happens, God bless 🤗
Love you guys, Lady Tabitha you did an amazing job at the ARC conference 2024!!!! I was there and I saw you bring the house down in 10mins. God bless you both. Please keep me in my husband/pastor in prayer we are trusting God for building campaign
Was giving up on LOVE,but the LORD led me to your podcast I really see and understand things differently as I listen to your teachings many many thanks 🙏.
I have watched a few of these videos and they have helped me tremendously. Also I can’t help but say how I see the love in Tabitha and Ken eyes when they talk to each other. ♥️
Aghhhh SO FRUITFUL! I’ve been thinking a lot about my husband (whom I have yet to meet) and the qualities I desire. I realized I had to ask myself these very same things and prayed to God to search my heart and help me grow in wifely ways! Thank you for this Word of Wisdom! Really would Love if you could talk about.. how to identify my husband or wife and trusting Gods will over my want. Thank you both again ❤️❤️
What a great podcast! So much good information. Thank you Pastors for breaking it down. Today you put it all into perspective for me. Thank you and thank God for all he is doing in you and through you. ❤
New subscriber! I've listened to both parts, and they are incredibly enriching and uplifting! It's truly refreshing to witness others passionately standing for the Lord's design for marriage, a beautiful covenant 🕊️🌸May God continue to bless you both abundantly!
Tabatha I appreciate your vulnerability for your part in this episode because I’ve been through every single thing you’ve mentioned! During this time of my life I’m learning and building myself from the ground up and you all are helping me so much!
Much Love To You Guys, Ken u went crazy this episode ‼️ These Gems u dropped will help many future marriages including my future marriage, Glory be to God ❤
Yes! Great perspective…love the word! Also let us remember the husband, is to provide for his wife. (1 Timothy 5:8.) The trend seems to be women must come to the table with tangible things. I believe that her heart posture is what’s important… she should not have a gold digger mentality, but bringing something material is not a criteria. Let’s remember we are a helpmeet (Genesis 2:18.). We honor and respect our husbands. If they love us, we will respect them naturally. Yes, it is however wise for women to have an income.
How about if you are a widow and now becoming a wife this idea of working full time still come has to full time wife and mother 😢 for the most part I’m all of those things now minus the always has food cooked or house super clean I have weekends to keep up with my housework and cooking some days but wow seems so like I may never have all things, overwhelming to have to keep up housework and husband and kids not sure if I can keep up to have all the things in order 😅 I love all of these attributes. 😢
Love the podcast! You two or amazing. And I do believe we must put god first. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ We need him and I we will be miserable without him. And I do not want a man who don't put god first before me. Either you put god first or you want get me. I do not have anymore time to waste on the wrong mate. Thus I s it for me ...
Shout out to all my Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!! You got this!
Thank you! God working on me ❤😊
Amen 🙏☺️
I@@balletstar72❤❤tittt
Thank You so much
She is rare
"Do not fall for the things that are good, but wait on the things that are GOD." Oh, amen (Matthew 6:33).
That hits hard❤
This verse hits hard.
A lot of men say they feel "torn down" or not supported because they want women to support things that don't make sense. I dated a guy that was upset because I didn't want to support him quitting his career while I took care of him 100% financially as he pursued owning a night club when I wasn't his wife. Things like that are difficult to support.
I would never support my husband quitting his job while I paid the bills. It would never be "difficult" for me to support because I would never support him. It would be a simple "NO," and there'd be no discussion about it. Actually, knowing me, it would be an "H" NO.
Never let a man use you. I don't care if he is your husband or not. These demonic men will try to use submission to take from you. Some foolish women will support a man financially to keep a man because their self-esteem is low.
I can’t remember where I heard this but it was GOOD. If a woman isn’t a wife before you get married, she probably won’t be after either. Being a wife is a mentality and posture, not a piece of paper, ceremony or ring on her finger. There’s no magic that happens on a wedding day - it’s a confirmation and acknowledgment of what’s already there.
This is good👏🏾👏🏾
Beautifully said!
This sounds so good, but I can’t help but to think of those who didn’t even have the chance to “be a wife” before they actually became a wife. I biblical days many of them were arranged and many were just situations where the man said “I want her” and she became his.
I don't think this is 100% wise as you think it is. YES a person can be judged according to the fruit they produce!! That's true and that IS wise, hence make sure she loves the Lord. However, people in biblical times were not dating and testing each others wifey levels out first, AND it's unwise to act like a wife toward your boyfriend. Because guess what, your woman ISN'T your wife until you both make a commitment before God, and she would be wise to distinguish that. Guard your heart.
Your videos make me feel like marriage is such a beautiful thing. I’m one of those women who absolutely had a flawed understanding of submission. But the way you describe it makes me feel like it’s something worthy and possible and honorable, and also glorifying to our Lord. To me it sounded like dictatorship. It’s never been described in depth the way you have so thank you so much. Finding your podcasts at the time we are planning our wedding has been such a huge blessing 🙌🏾
This fills my heart with joy to read! Marriage, as intended by God, is a wonderful gift 🕊️♥️. Embracing submission is a beautiful way to honor God and truly demonstrates remarkable strength and grace. 🌸
Congratulations, and may love and blessings accompany you and your future husband on your journey ahead. 🙏🏾🌷
We love to hear that our podcast can be a blessing to you! Glory to God. We appreciate your support. Stay tuned every Thursday :)
Just watched this in its entirety and it brought tears to my eyes and I don’t know why. All I could do is cry. I guess the pure admiration of the example of your marriage just broke me completely down. The way you speak and she listens vice versa and the way she looks at you with respect and honor and understanding. It was just so beautiful to watch. Knowing that there’s a provers 31 woman out there for me, truly lifted my heart and tears of joy. Also the prophetic word at the end truly encouraged me
Nothing but love for these ones.....theyre feeding us and guiding us in the things of the Lord
Amen
Do not look for the things that are Good but the things that are of God!
I am currently in my waiting season and trusting in God with the most faith that he will show me my putting God 1st Kingdom Husband. We will love on God together keeping him 1st and center of our union. I will have a partner to fast with , go to church with, and just all around praise God with finally. In the meantime I will continue to live my life in obedience to my Lord and savior reserving my temple.
Can we have a video on how to be a cheerleader and lift your man up ? People say this all the time but a lot of us have not seen it so as easy as people say it is. This is beyond foreign to me. But I want to learn. Encouragement is not my love language and it’s not something I’ve ever been given. I only experienced physical touch/affection and the ones around me tore down a lot of my goals
Dear lord I loved this video. The way the look at each other is so incredible. God is pleased with this! I love this so much!
From Rwanda ❤❤❤
Proverbs 31:25 “ laughs without fear of the future . “ she’s resourceful, she knows how to make things happen” that is thee absolute best feeling as a woman- having your own back.
Y'all glow together 💞💖🗾 praise God 🙏🏾
Thank you!
Pastor you’re speaking facts, a woman’s looks does not come before her dedication/love for God! no bueno!
it is a must to see the fruit of God in her, in her behavior and actions
Man this episode just made me apperricate my wife even more she processes all those qualities to the t God bless I love this podcast
I am that Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!!
I have now found my Proverbs 31 Woman. Thanks for this episode. All boxes ticked. God Bless. Keep up with the good work !
God is so good! To see how God has orchestrated both of your lives in married, parenting, ministry, all of it is such a blessing to me! I’m not married but your content (which we know has God all over it) has been shaping, molding, continuously encouraging me to be that Proverb’s Woman. I love you guys and the gratitude I have for you both, your family, your staff, your church, your audience… is unmeasurable. May God continue to bless you all in abundance. Much love. Much much love.
Yes, you and your PRECIOUS wife did give us your VERY best, today!!
Thank you!!
Find somebody that's Healed.
Amen thank you God for Confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 for my marriage next month on May 15 we will be married 27 years and been together 36 years🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Congratulations in Jesus name
Congrats
Thank you ❤ Ken and Tabatha
This was so good. Such a blessing as believers we need to see more kingdom marriages. Both men and women must be ready to take on kingdom purposes to help build kingdom minded believers and the sole purpose of glorifying God.
Thank you Ken and Tabatha for your encouragement and spiritual advice on making your marriage great through biblical scriptures. God bless you both.🖤🙏🏾
Tab your hair is looking beautiful!!
I thank God for you man and woman of God continue to do what you are doing, you are touching and changing many lives..❤❣️
Wow! I have some work to do.
🫴🏽"Do not fall for the things that are good but wait for the things that are God." 💜 Thank you for sharing this and emphasizing it's not about the materials and physical attributes. So true and something more Spiritually in depth with God is the Goal 💡🙏🏽🙌🏽
We are in South Africa, bringing God's love to you. What a beautiful, exceptional and balanced presentation by Ken and Tabatha.❤️✝️ I thank God that our daughter Refemetswe exposed us to such godly counsel for both single and married couples. She has revolutionized our talk to couples through your material. Hopefully she will send more and we will register for your teachings.
🙏This is relevant to those who are in their waiting season and those who are already married.
🙏 We are in our 34 years of marriage, still counting and learning all the way. Indeed marriage is a life long learning.
🙏The highlights of this presentation is more on a couple who will prioritize God above all else, seek first God's kingdom so they can enjoy additions of peace, joy, security etc . I will listen three times before we implement this teaching on all couples we counsel. May the Lord add more to your ministry.
🙌🏾 YESS so grateful to God for headship and leadership.
Thank you so much for this video, I am single currently but I believe that God is preparing me for His son. I never saw an healthy marriage before and I’m in my late thirties. My mother and Dad never gotten married, but my mom had gotten married twice. Dad never gotten married 😮💨 so yeah 🤷🏾♀️. But I’m grateful for Daddy God , because He’s teaching me through some healthy, successful marriages. And you guys are one of them, thank you again for all the wisdom. I’ll make sure that I’ll share my God written Love Story with you when it happens, God bless 🤗
We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Stay tuned for a new episode today :)
Amazing podcast🔥🔥
I love you two ❤
As a woman of God, this was so good!
Love you guys, Lady Tabitha you did an amazing job at the ARC conference 2024!!!! I was there and I saw you bring the house down in 10mins. God bless you both. Please keep me in my husband/pastor in prayer we are trusting God for building campaign
I’m so glad I’ve come across this channel during my singleness. Taking notes before marriage 📝 y’all are helping me, thank you!! 🙏🏾
I am that flesh!! 😂🙋🏽♀️ Girl God bless you cuz you are what my fiance wants out of me. I'm working on it, and that's why I'm here!
Was giving up on LOVE,but the LORD led me to your podcast I really see and understand things differently as I listen to your teachings many many thanks 🙏.
Thank you for this podcast, the Lord bless you♥️😊🙏🏾
Thank you!
❤
You two always have good, biblical teaching
absolutely love this !!!!
Thank you!
Your ministry is a true blessing 🙏. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ❤.
beautiful 😍
I have watched a few of these videos and they have helped me tremendously. Also I can’t help but say how I see the love in Tabitha and Ken eyes when they talk to each other. ♥️
Awesome! Thank you! Y’all are precious. ❤
Praise the Most High for your healing Tab!!! You are a teaching us how to overcome by your testimony!!! Rev. 12:11
This was so good. Thank you Ken & Tabatha ❤
Exactly blessed.
Thank you.God please you guys and your family will continue to be a testimony to many.
I’m so glad I bumped into this. It’s something I need! Thank you 🙏🏾
Am single and i admit that watching your broadcast has been of great helped to me As a young Christian and also throughout my singlehood.
I'm waiting on God .. i will watch this again ty
This is good!!
Seek first the kingdom of God.
I enjoyed Watching/Listening to this! SOLID Godly Advice!
Aghhhh SO FRUITFUL! I’ve been thinking a lot about my husband (whom I have yet to meet) and the qualities I desire. I realized I had to ask myself these very same things and prayed to God to search my heart and help me grow in wifely ways! Thank you for this Word of Wisdom!
Really would Love if you could talk about.. how to identify my husband or wife and trusting Gods will over my want. Thank you both again ❤️❤️
God is changing me to be more of a wife thank you for this video!❤
What a great podcast! So much good information. Thank you Pastors for breaking it down. Today you put it all into perspective for me. Thank you and thank God for all he is doing in you and through you. ❤
New subscriber! I've listened to both parts, and they are incredibly enriching and uplifting! It's truly refreshing to witness others passionately standing for the Lord's design for marriage, a beautiful covenant 🕊️🌸May God continue to bless you both abundantly!
Tabatha I appreciate your vulnerability for your part in this episode because I’ve been through every single thing you’ve mentioned! During this time of my life I’m learning and building myself from the ground up and you all are helping me so much!
Yes, I did! Good teaching!!!
Great information ❤thank you for the confirmation and the godly word. I will continue to pray and wait. God bless. Amen
Glory to God. Blessings to your family and all of us in Jesus name amen 💗🙏🏼
🔥🔥🔥 Thank God for this ministry!
Absolutely loved the way this was articulated, especially by you Ken👏🏾. God bless you both❤️
Been here since November 🥳
I’m always learning and relearning from your podcast. God bless you both 🙏.
Great episode. Open some eyes
Thank you for being REAL! This was so good! 😊
God bless your work❤
The whole episode is a gem! 💎 Watch it all! But if you want to go directly to the 5 qualities, then go to 20:24.
Much Love To You Guys, Ken u went crazy this episode ‼️ These Gems u dropped will help many future marriages including my future marriage, Glory be to God ❤
You guys have really beng helping me .. Thank you and God Bless
I enjoy this show so much! You two are my favorite people. Tabitha is so beautiful! I love the hair color❤
Pastor Ken can't be letting them barber shop conversations out! He breaking the man code 🤣🤣🤣
Wow I really needed to hear this.
So true helpful information about what makes a good relationship between wives & husbands
Yes! Great perspective…love the word! Also let us remember the husband, is to provide for his wife. (1 Timothy 5:8.) The trend seems to be women must come to the table with tangible things. I believe that her heart posture is what’s important… she should not have a gold digger mentality, but bringing something material is not a criteria. Let’s remember we are a helpmeet (Genesis 2:18.). We honor and respect our husbands. If they love us, we will respect them naturally. Yes, it is however wise for women to have an income.
So good ❤❤❤
Beautifully said; clear and precise. Thank you for your sharing your wisdom and understanding.
Thanks for pouring into us! Such an enlightening conversation. God bless you 💗
Excellent episode! So thankful for your ministry Ken and Tabatha. I love the way you compliment each other ❤
THE OFFICE IN BOTH BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT IT IS!!!
I have been anticipating this. Thank you so much
Just discovering this channel. You guys are helping people keep it up! Good content by the way.
Amen to this🙏🏽 Thank you🤍
Wish I saw this 3 years ago
Amazing Episode 💕💕💕👏🏾🙌🏾
Thanks you ❤😊
Thank you for sharing ❤
Sooooo good! Thank you!❤
So enjoyed your teachings today at the marriage Conference. This was a great Podcast.
Amen to this!!! God bless you and this ministry. I pray it reaches a multitude of people.❤ God is doing a great work here🎉
How about if you are a widow and now becoming a wife this idea of working full time still come has to full time wife and mother 😢 for the most part I’m all of those things now minus the always has food cooked or house super clean I have weekends to keep up with my housework and cooking some days but wow seems so like I may never have all things, overwhelming to have to keep up housework and husband and kids not sure if I can keep up to have all the things in order 😅 I love all of these attributes. 😢
🔥🔥🔥🔥as always!!
This was so good, great ministry ❤❤
Love the podcast! You two or amazing. And I do believe we must put god first. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ We need him and I we will be miserable without him. And I do not want a man who don't put god first before me. Either you put god first or you want get me. I do not have anymore time to waste on the wrong mate. Thus I s it for me ...
This is incredible. Thank you
AMEN‼️
Sooo good. This is absolutely on point! ❤