5 Qualities to Look for in a Wife with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Embark on a transformative episode into what makes a marriage survive and thrive. We dive deep into the five qualities of a godly wife. Whether you're a woman striving to grow in these virtues or a man seeking a lifelong companion, this episode promises to enrich your understanding of love beyond the superficial.
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  • @sveltelee5545
    @sveltelee5545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Shout out to all my Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!! You got this!

    • @balletstar72
      @balletstar72 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you! God working on me ❤😊

    • @estherndungu590
      @estherndungu590 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen 🙏☺️

    • @lwamtewolde7293
      @lwamtewolde7293 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I​@@balletstar72❤❤tittt

    • @OnyinyechiAchodor
      @OnyinyechiAchodor หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank You so much

  • @christy183
    @christy183 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    "Do not fall for the things that are good, but wait on the things that are GOD." Oh, amen (Matthew 6:33).

  • @ApexHunter89
    @ApexHunter89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I can’t remember where I heard this but it was GOOD. If a woman isn’t a wife before you get married, she probably won’t be after either. Being a wife is a mentality and posture, not a piece of paper, ceremony or ring on her finger. There’s no magic that happens on a wedding day - it’s a confirmation and acknowledgment of what’s already there.

    • @jackiebuhle
      @jackiebuhle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is good👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LoratoPhefo
    @LoratoPhefo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Your videos make me feel like marriage is such a beautiful thing. I’m one of those women who absolutely had a flawed understanding of submission. But the way you describe it makes me feel like it’s something worthy and possible and honorable, and also glorifying to our Lord. To me it sounded like dictatorship. It’s never been described in depth the way you have so thank you so much. Finding your podcasts at the time we are planning our wedding has been such a huge blessing 🙌🏾

    • @Raven.Tulips
      @Raven.Tulips 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This fills my heart with joy to read! Marriage, as intended by God, is a wonderful gift 🕊️♥️. Embracing submission is a beautiful way to honor God and truly demonstrates remarkable strength and grace. 🌸
      Congratulations, and may love and blessings accompany you and your future husband on your journey ahead. 🙏🏾🌷

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We love to hear that our podcast can be a blessing to you! Glory to God. We appreciate your support. Stay tuned every Thursday :)

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Nothing but love for these ones.....theyre feeding us and guiding us in the things of the Lord

  • @torip9444
    @torip9444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am currently in my waiting season and trusting in God with the most faith that he will show me my putting God 1st Kingdom Husband. We will love on God together keeping him 1st and center of our union. I will have a partner to fast with , go to church with, and just all around praise God with finally. In the meantime I will continue to live my life in obedience to my Lord and savior reserving my temple.

  • @DariusMauricei
    @DariusMauricei 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just watched this in its entirety and it brought tears to my eyes and I don’t know why. All I could do is cry. I guess the pure admiration of the example of your marriage just broke me completely down. The way you speak and she listens vice versa and the way she looks at you with respect and honor and understanding. It was just so beautiful to watch. Knowing that there’s a provers 31 woman out there for me, truly lifted my heart and tears of joy. Also the prophetic word at the end truly encouraged me

  • @Lafashionista862
    @Lafashionista862 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can we have a video on how to be a cheerleader and lift your man up ? People say this all the time but a lot of us have not seen it so as easy as people say it is. This is beyond foreign to me. But I want to learn. Encouragement is not my love language and it’s not something I’ve ever been given. I only experienced physical touch/affection and the ones around me tore down a lot of my goals

  • @lufuifisofojefedafa2976
    @lufuifisofojefedafa2976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Seek first the kingdom of God.

  • @TheRena1969
    @TheRena1969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Amen thank you God for Confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 for my marriage next month on May 15 we will be married 27 years and been together 36 years🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @peterntamu9723
    @peterntamu9723 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We are in South Africa, bringing God's love to you. What a beautiful, exceptional and balanced presentation by Ken and Tabatha.❤️✝️ I thank God that our daughter Refemetswe exposed us to such godly counsel for both single and married couples. She has revolutionized our talk to couples through your material. Hopefully she will send more and we will register for your teachings.
    🙏This is relevant to those who are in their waiting season and those who are already married.
    🙏 We are in our 34 years of marriage, still counting and learning all the way. Indeed marriage is a life long learning.
    🙏The highlights of this presentation is more on a couple who will prioritize God above all else, seek first God's kingdom so they can enjoy additions of peace, joy, security etc . I will listen three times before we implement this teaching on all couples we counsel. May the Lord add more to your ministry.

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am that Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!!

  • @hakeimfiftysix9127
    @hakeimfiftysix9127 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen
    Do not look for the things that are Good but the things that are of God!

  • @jnew251
    @jnew251 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Man this episode just made me apperricate my wife even more she processes all those qualities to the t God bless I love this podcast

  • @valentine_music
    @valentine_music 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have now found my Proverbs 31 Woman. Thanks for this episode. All boxes ticked. God Bless. Keep up with the good work !

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you Ken and Tabatha for your encouragement and spiritual advice on making your marriage great through biblical scriptures. God bless you both.🖤🙏🏾

  • @marycannon6046
    @marycannon6046 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yes, you and your PRECIOUS wife did give us your VERY best, today!!
    Thank you!!

  • @Rutietootie
    @Rutietootie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tab your hair is looking beautiful!!

  • @savonnastaggs4664
    @savonnastaggs4664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just got the chills!! That's the spirit, joining and blessing this podcast

  • @LoveLee_
    @LoveLee_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m so glad I’ve come across this channel during my singleness. Taking notes before marriage 📝 y’all are helping me, thank you!! 🙏🏾

  • @Christcitywpb
    @Christcitywpb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love you guys, Lady Tabitha you did an amazing job at the ARC conference 2024!!!! I was there and I saw you bring the house down in 10mins. God bless you both. Please keep me in my husband/pastor in prayer we are trusting God for building campaign

  • @sedooamase6423
    @sedooamase6423 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly blessed.
    Thank you.God please you guys and your family will continue to be a testimony to many.

  • @crystallatrece3545
    @crystallatrece3545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sooooo good! Thank you!❤

  • @reginalove6201
    @reginalove6201 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥as always!!

  • @marilynekokaetouman2678
    @marilynekokaetouman2678 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great episode thank you!

  • @blackgoldhourwmerv9886
    @blackgoldhourwmerv9886 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great watch! Thank you both! 🙏🏾

  • @Erikaisfavored
    @Erikaisfavored 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another great segment.

  • @adoyicecilia7105
    @adoyicecilia7105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been anticipating this. Thank you so much

  • @cynthiawambui-re7wq
    @cynthiawambui-re7wq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautifully and clearly put!

  • @RAINSHOWER1217
    @RAINSHOWER1217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m so glad I bumped into this. It’s something I need! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @WorshipperKW
    @WorshipperKW 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for this 🙏🏾

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THE OFFICE IN BOTH BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

  • @tashanifrater4028
    @tashanifrater4028 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was so good, great ministry ❤❤

  • @feliciaroschauer891
    @feliciaroschauer891 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen to this🙏🏽 Thank you🤍

  • @queenconscious2989
    @queenconscious2989 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sooo good. This is absolutely on point! ❤

  • @aryelbrown
    @aryelbrown 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🔥🔥🔥 Thank God for this ministry!

  • @ChristFan868
    @ChristFan868 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So timely. Love you guys. Thank you.

  • @sthompson8873
    @sthompson8873 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being REAL! This was so good! 😊

  • @lasharnyoungsam5874
    @lasharnyoungsam5874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Absolutely loved the way this was articulated, especially by you Ken👏🏾. God bless you both❤️

  • @patriciahamer3741
    @patriciahamer3741 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good!

  • @rebuiltbygrace
    @rebuiltbygrace 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So enjoyed your teachings today at the marriage Conference. This was a great Podcast.

  • @jandremuller9928
    @jandremuller9928 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great episode. Open some eyes

  • @xolakoti4561
    @xolakoti4561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen to this!!! God bless you and this ministry. I pray it reaches a multitude of people.❤ God is doing a great work here🎉

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless your work❤

  • @yasminbenton119
    @yasminbenton119 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome! Thank you! Y’all are precious. ❤

  • @maryannkiburi9908
    @maryannkiburi9908 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m always learning and relearning from your podcast. God bless you both 🙏.

  • @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448
    @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true helpful information about what makes a good relationship between wives & husbands

  • @HowTo5min-co3ni
    @HowTo5min-co3ni 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just discovering this channel. You guys are helping people keep it up! Good content by the way.

  • @user-cb6gp5lt7w
    @user-cb6gp5lt7w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is incredible. Thank you

  • @ericaanderson4769
    @ericaanderson4769 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Raven.Tulips
    @Raven.Tulips 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New subscriber! I've listened to both parts, and they are incredibly enriching and uplifting! It's truly refreshing to witness others passionately standing for the Lord's design for marriage, a beautiful covenant 🕊️🌸May God continue to bless you both abundantly!

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great information ❤thank you for the confirmation and the godly word. I will continue to pray and wait. God bless. Amen

  • @napturalee_8815
    @napturalee_8815 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tabatha I appreciate your vulnerability for your part in this episode because I’ve been through every single thing you’ve mentioned! During this time of my life I’m learning and building myself from the ground up and you all are helping me so much!

  • @Abbas_Daughters
    @Abbas_Daughters 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing Episode 💕💕💕👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @a8b23
    @a8b23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God is changing me to be more of a wife thank you for this video!❤

  • @abena7826
    @abena7826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for pouring into us! Such an enlightening conversation. God bless you 💗

  • @themarro6695
    @themarro6695 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent episode! So thankful for your ministry Ken and Tabatha. I love the way you compliment each other ❤

  • @estherndungu590
    @estherndungu590 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am single and i admit that watching your broadcast has been of great helped to me As a young Christian and also throughout my singlehood.

  • @michelletrausi3071
    @michelletrausi3071 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a great podcast! So much good information. Thank you Pastors for breaking it down. Today you put it all into perspective for me. Thank you and thank God for all he is doing in you and through you. ❤

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_Alexis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🙌🏾 YESS so grateful to God for headship and leadership.

  • @chidimmanwakasi3644
    @chidimmanwakasi3644 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks you ❤😊

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm waiting on God .. i will watch this again ty

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys have really beng helping me .. Thank you and God Bless

  • @wholewomanyaya
    @wholewomanyaya 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a woman of God, this was so good!

  • @Delightful_Dia
    @Delightful_Dia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautifully said; clear and precise. Thank you for your sharing your wisdom and understanding.

  • @khensanimnisi1276
    @khensanimnisi1276 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was giving up on LOVE,but the LORD led me to your podcast I really see and understand things differently as I listen to your teachings many many thanks 🙏.

  • @Elizacolvin-dl7xb
    @Elizacolvin-dl7xb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aghhhh SO FRUITFUL! I’ve been thinking a lot about my husband (whom I have yet to meet) and the qualities I desire. I realized I had to ask myself these very same things and prayed to God to search my heart and help me grow in wifely ways! Thank you for this Word of Wisdom!
    Really would Love if you could talk about.. how to identify my husband or wife and trusting Gods will over my want. Thank you both again ❤️❤️

  • @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
    @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glory to God. Blessings to your family and all of us in Jesus name amen 💗🙏🏼

  • @jowiesewie5817
    @jowiesewie5817 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I really needed to hear this.

  • @ashtribonaparte7557
    @ashtribonaparte7557 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am that flesh!! 😂🙋🏽‍♀️ Girl God bless you cuz you are what my fiance wants out of me. I'm working on it, and that's why I'm here!

  • @terenpartee3066
    @terenpartee3066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have watched a few of these videos and they have helped me tremendously. Also I can’t help but say how I see the love in Tabitha and Ken eyes when they talk to each other. ♥️

  • @CatchClarisa08
    @CatchClarisa08 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoy this show so much! You two are my favorite people. Tabitha is so beautiful! I love the hair color❤

  • @ebere_worthy3603
    @ebere_worthy3603 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so good. Thank you Ken & Tabatha ❤

  • @fritzsmith1479
    @fritzsmith1479 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed Watching/Listening to this! SOLID Godly Advice!

  • @michaelsane.1729
    @michaelsane.1729 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AMEN‼️

  • @kimwhite-lott2189
    @kimwhite-lott2189 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, I did! Good teaching!!!

  • @danielarubiio
    @danielarubiio 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been here since November 🥳

  • @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
    @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So good ❤❤❤

  • @rockymountainprincess9078
    @rockymountainprincess9078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your ministry is a true blessing 🙏. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ❤.

  • @morowell2473
    @morowell2473 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praise the Most High for your healing Tab!!! You are a teaching us how to overcome by your testimony!!! Rev. 12:11

  • @SoldierOfYWH
    @SoldierOfYWH 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor you’re speaking facts, a woman’s looks does not come before her dedication/love for God! no bueno!
    it is a must to see the fruit of God in her, in her behavior and actions

  • @kimwhite-lott2189
    @kimwhite-lott2189 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @praisegirl264
    @praisegirl264 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the podcast! You two or amazing. And I do believe we must put god first. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ We need him and I we will be miserable without him. And I do not want a man who don't put god first before me. Either you put god first or you want get me. I do not have anymore time to waste on the wrong mate. Thus I s it for me ...

  • @sherylsmith279
    @sherylsmith279 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes! Great perspective…love the word! Also let us remember the husband, is to provide for his wife. (1 Timothy 5:8.) The trend seems to be women must come to the table with tangible things. I believe that her heart posture is what’s important… she should not have a gold digger mentality, but bringing something material is not a criteria. Let’s remember we are a helpmeet (Genesis 2:18.). We honor and respect our husbands. If they love us, we will respect them naturally. Yes, it is however wise for women to have an income.

  • @the_realsharisse
    @the_realsharisse 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video, I am single currently but I believe that God is preparing me for His son. I never saw an healthy marriage before and I’m in my late thirties. My mother and Dad never gotten married, but my mom had gotten married twice. Dad never gotten married 😮‍💨 so yeah 🤷🏾‍♀️. But I’m grateful for Daddy God , because He’s teaching me through some healthy, successful marriages. And you guys are one of them, thank you again for all the wisdom. I’ll make sure that I’ll share my God written Love Story with you when it happens, God bless 🤗

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Stay tuned for a new episode today :)

  • @ashtribonaparte7557
    @ashtribonaparte7557 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's hard to stroke his ego especially when Im all about humility. It just feels subservient. I hear what you're saying. I'm taking notes. I'll try less to roll my eyes behind his back when I applaud him for buying groceries like baby wow you did that! My king provides for the kingdom blah blah blah 🙄😂 women are so much stronger than men but here we are.

  • @theworldsbestmom8082
    @theworldsbestmom8082 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish I saw this 3 years ago

  • @jenniferreynoso8231
    @jenniferreynoso8231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Are you two from Arizona? I see your hat says Patagonia. :)

  • @DioniWise87
    @DioniWise87 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The whole episode is a gem! 💎 Watch it all! But if you want to go directly to the 5 qualities, then go to 20:24.

  • @KJ47_
    @KJ47_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Much Love To You Guys, Ken u went crazy this episode ‼️ These Gems u dropped will help many future marriages including my future marriage, Glory be to God ❤

  • @Karters_Mom
    @Karters_Mom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @mercyjohn9734
    @mercyjohn9734 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow I just noticed I am a red flag .... definitely need to change

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WHEN IT IS ONLY BASE ON HUSK!!!

  • @mikecarter523
    @mikecarter523 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Pastor Ken can't be letting them barber shop conversations out! He breaking the man code 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Lifeafteryes
    @Lifeafteryes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    📝📝❤❤✨✨🔥🔥

  • @julebymkl3068
    @julebymkl3068 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes! Men and women understand the power of women 😂😂😂

  • @marinachoban2607
    @marinachoban2607 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now I’m worried I’m not wife material😥 cuz I get stressed out easily and take things close to heart, and have insecurities😔
    What do I do?

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If asked, i would tell you to understand that, first, you are not perfect. You got flaws.
      Then, you need to know , believe and act as the worthy lady you are.
      Not laying your identity on a man but on GOD ONLY.
      You are loved by God as He sent His only begotten son to die on the cross for the salvation of our sins.
      You deserve to love for real and be loved for real.❤

    • @ram47863
      @ram47863 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Surrender to god, ask God help to make you more relaxed

  • @user-uy1bl8bw9h
    @user-uy1bl8bw9h หลายเดือนก่อน

    HELLO, I FEEL SHE NEED TO KNOW HOW TO COOK.
    CLEANLINESS, RESPECT THERE PARENTS,

  • @andrewims1321
    @andrewims1321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Finding a good Christian woman can be difficult. Especially when sex is off the table.

    • @torip9444
      @torip9444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Good morning. I'm not trying to sound like a debate team here, I understand where you're coming from because it is the same for us women. What I have grown to learn is that a person can't truly call themselves a follower of Christ if they can't give up those temptations, esp premarital sex for the Glory of God and being pleasing to him. I had to check myself because of a slip up with falling into temptation, knowing it was wrong in the eyes of God. I made sure to repent and have not turned back to my mistake. Is it difficult to leave sex off the table? Yes, but not impossible. It is manageable to overcome by calling on Jesus for renewal of the mind, body, and spirit.

    • @andrewims1321
      @andrewims1321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@torip9444 well spoken sister. Continue to put your faith into the Lord.

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@torip9444
      Preach louder❤

    • @a8b23
      @a8b23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@torip9444thank you so much for this comment!

    • @whitneytash2622
      @whitneytash2622 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one wants sexual purity anymore...

  • @1STELDER
    @1STELDER 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1st