Anywhere I've ever been hired! Every work environment has one and they turn out to be our biggest fans. They obsess over everything you do and basically stalk you. It's insane... especially because you genuinely are there to work! And makes you wonder wtf they're there for
@@MahoganyBorn they think you want their job. They legit do not understand that you just want everyone to win. They mistake your motivation and work ethic for shade and vying for their job. They will shoot themselves in the foot trying to throw you under the bus, before you throw them. Totally missing the point that your only goal was to elevate EVERYONE, including them.
I’ve been told (by people who have the toxic person’s ear) that I am intimidating to them. But in the end they always did ME wrong….first….with no provocation. I intimidated them??? How does that even work, and what does that even mean?? And does a person who is afraid of you really go after you? I don’t know if I’ll buy the word “fear.” It’s more like envy. I don’t attack what I’m afraid of…I might shrink back from it or run and hide, but I don’t attack or provoke it on purpose. Would I swat at a beehive?
This is something that always confused the heck out of me, people disliking me, for no apparent reason. As I got older I realized it was about them not liking them selves.
As an empath of any kind, INFJ or not, the trick to not being an amplifier and mirror to other people's emotions is to find yourself and center in who you are as a person. It takes time but I believe all people are capable of it
Thank you. Other than in these comments, I keep a low profile and 'blur' the perception of others around me until I decide the direction that I'm going to take. If I decide to engage with someone I will take the initiative and politely invite conversation. If, on the other hand, I am not comfortable or I sense pointless conflict (which is a tactic of ill-intentioned people) and decide against engaging, I will extricate myself from the situation as tactfully as will be accepted. If necessary, I will drop diplomacy and just flat refuse to 'join the party'. As far as the last really evil-minded person that I have encountered was nearly four years ago. But at that time it was a swarm, not just one. They didn't try to take advantage of me because they saw the best advantage was to stay on my good side. Not boasting. Truth has power over evil. We can surely cast out demons, heal the sick, and educate the people, with faith in the Word of God. (See: The Gospel Of John).
That's a great idea! Especially since infj's are so rare, I'm not sure if I've ever met one. Instead of waiting for "they" to create the App. Why don't you create the App.? You might even make some extra cash.
Matrinarc was very afraid of me and still is, I'm sure, even after 4 years of No Contact. You see, I'm the oldest and only girl, remembering far more than my 3 younger brothers. She is afraid someone might believe me.
I'm in the same position, oldest and only daughter by 8 years. I remember things back to about age 3. Mommy Dearest was not a normal mother by any stretch.
its been my experience over and over that iam feared by evil men, its a good thing as i 2 have done dark things over a lifetime lived but have leaned to embrace the light as well be that light in the darkness of this world. i truly and fully believe one needs to embrace that darkness to know truth , AMEN!!
Number 7. I did that to a very cruel man-child. Nobody at work wanted to deal with him and so he got placed in my department with my fellow workers. And I took him to town. He was awful. And I did what was said for number 7. It was frightening and I didn’t care. I knew I did a number on him when I caught him walking alone with me being the only one in the hallway. He was gasping for breath, literally chocking I think in fear. Im a female by the way and I scared the heck out of a bully just by walking past him.
I since more than I want to I just know that every human INFJ or not serves good or evil there is no middle ground I have certain abilities and gifts that's how I was created by HIS grace I serve the creator not anyone or anything He created go straight to the top have no need for any middle man so to speak CHRIST JESUS is lord of my life I fail to ften in my flesh but HE always picks me up and strengthens me in my weaknesses I really try to use all the gifts and abilities He gave me to glorify HIM
Online dating, some men and women can be vicious. I hope to find my match amongst the the dating pool. It is really hard though, but i hope to be successful. People like to try to break others down.
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Anywhere I've ever been hired! Every work environment has one and they turn out to be our biggest fans. They obsess over everything you do and basically stalk you. It's insane... especially because you genuinely are there to work! And makes you wonder wtf they're there for
@@MahoganyBorn they think you want their job. They legit do not understand that you just want everyone to win. They mistake your motivation and work ethic for shade and vying for their job. They will shoot themselves in the foot trying to throw you under the bus, before you throw them. Totally missing the point that your only goal was to elevate EVERYONE, including them.
Not so much fear. More the fact I was too much for them.
They are EVERYWHERE 😂😂😂✌️💛✨🙏🏼
I’ve been told (by people who have the toxic person’s ear) that I am intimidating to them.
But in the end they always did ME wrong….first….with no provocation. I intimidated them??? How does that even work, and what does that even mean?? And does a person who is afraid of you really go after you? I don’t know if I’ll buy the word “fear.” It’s more like envy. I don’t attack what I’m afraid of…I might shrink back from it or run and hide, but I don’t attack or provoke it on purpose. Would I swat at a beehive?
This is something that always confused the heck out of me, people disliking me, for no apparent reason. As I got older I realized it was about them not liking them selves.
I don’t have to react, they cause their own fall.
Well said 👏
Exactly 😊
As an INFJ I do not need to do anything but stare at soneonr to back people down
As an empath of any kind, INFJ or not, the trick to not being an amplifier and mirror to other people's emotions is to find yourself and center in who you are as a person. It takes time but I believe all people are capable of it
Yes, absolutely agree - knowing yourself allows you to stay grounded in times that demand your empathy.
Thank you.
Other than in these comments, I keep a low profile and 'blur' the perception of others around me until I decide the direction that I'm going to take. If I decide to engage with someone I will take the initiative and politely invite conversation. If, on the other hand, I am not comfortable or I sense pointless conflict (which is a tactic of ill-intentioned people) and decide against engaging, I will extricate myself from the situation as tactfully as will be accepted. If necessary, I will drop diplomacy and just flat refuse to 'join the party'.
As far as the last really evil-minded person that I have encountered was nearly four years ago. But at that time it was a swarm, not just one. They didn't try to take advantage of me because they saw the best advantage was to stay on my good side. Not boasting. Truth has power over evil. We can surely cast out demons, heal the sick, and educate the people, with faith in the Word of God. (See: The Gospel Of John).
They should have an app were you can conversate with your same personality type. Just out of curiosity about everyday situations😂
That's a great idea! Especially since infj's are so rare, I'm not sure if I've ever met one. Instead of waiting for "they" to create the App. Why don't you create the App.? You might even make some extra cash.
As am. INFJ I can. stare down. any. evil person
Matrinarc was very afraid of me and still is, I'm sure, even after 4 years of No Contact.
You see, I'm the oldest and only girl, remembering far more than my 3 younger brothers.
She is afraid someone might believe me.
I'm in the same position, oldest and only daughter by 8 years. I remember things back to about age 3. Mommy Dearest was not a normal mother by any stretch.
I have helped a few wicked people hang themselves.
They tried to fixk me over but ended up hurting themselves
Evil will judge us in the end but they'll never be us.
I sense the fear quite heavily, as we speak
its been my experience over and over that iam feared by evil men, its a good thing as i 2 have done dark things over a lifetime lived but have leaned to embrace the light as well be that light in the darkness of this world. i truly and fully believe one needs to embrace that darkness to know truth , AMEN!!
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I agree with you!! I am dark and light. Have you ever fought a narcissist of any kind? 🌺🙏
@@kimkeck6266 yupp i knew i was smarter and didnt let him bother me, made em furious lol hahahahaha
just smiled and didnt say anything hahaha
they hate that!
@Alpha-Omega-Street-Ministry888 thank you!! 😊
Number 7. I did that to a very cruel man-child. Nobody at work wanted to deal with him and so he got placed in my department with my fellow workers. And I took him to town. He was awful. And I did what was said for number 7. It was frightening and I didn’t care. I knew I did a number on him when I caught him walking alone with me being the only one in the hallway. He was gasping for breath, literally chocking I think in fear. Im a female by the way and I scared the heck out of a bully just by walking past him.
I since more than I want to I just know that every human INFJ or not serves good or evil there is no middle ground I have certain abilities and gifts that's how I was created by HIS grace I serve the creator not anyone or anything He created go straight to the top have no need for any middle man so to speak CHRIST JESUS is lord of my life I fail to ften in my flesh but HE always picks me up and strengthens me in my weaknesses I really try to use all the gifts and abilities He gave me to glorify HIM
Online dating, some men and women can be vicious. I hope to find my match amongst the the dating pool. It is really hard though, but i hope to be successful. People like to try to break others down.
Im watching 😂😂💛✨🙏🏼
Loved it
Thank you for the kind feedback! 💙
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