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- INFJs are the rarest personality type in the world. They are idealists, advocates, and dreamers. INFJs are equally idealistic when it comes to romantic relationships. ENFPs are characterized by their charisma and enthusiasm. They are creative, charming, independent, and energetic. When it comes to relationships, ENFPs also bring their enthusiasm. For people with this personality type, relationships are a joyous process of mutual exploration, and a chance to connect with another person. Though INFJs and ENFPs seem like different personalities, they are quite compatible. Watch this video to find out why!
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Hi
can you do INFP?
Ah, ghenshin impact references, now THESE are true golden references, not the SMP community ones
Can you do like this for INTP to please
I want to see ISFJ next, but either way I'll be happy to watch whats next
Psych2Go : INFJ &ENFP the most compatible couple
also psych2go : INFJ world's rarest
me an ENFP : no wonder im still single
All the best finding THE INFJ for you :') - an ENFP who is also single
Same also INFJ and single
Yeah, here I am, with an INFJ as a best friend...
@@roseunic6799 trueee
@@aimanharith5817 Yeahh
INFJs just gather together in MBTI TH-cam videos instead of actually meeting new people. That's why there's a lot of us here. :^D
same i'm just an infj that sits in my room watching these :D
@@aydaaricanli4301 im INFJ-T and let me tell you SAME XD
exactly lmao
Agreed
FRRR
I'm an ENFP and my fiance is INFJ. One of the greatest compliments he ever gave me is that I quieten his mind. I love him so much because we communicate effortlessly, we literally complete each other's thoughts most of the time; it's borderline telepathic. We make each other feel so loved and cared for and respected. But I will say, if you want an ENFP and INFJ relationship to work, both of you have to have the same values, since INFJs have very very strong values and ideals. I just feel so lucky that my and his values coincide so well.
sooooo true 💯💯💯
As an INFJ, who barely knows anything about other mbti types, having someone quiet my mind sounds like a dream
same too@@z-6517
Wow that's so beautiful. I'm not religious at all but bless you guys :D
Same as this only I’m the INFJ, and my bf says I quiet his very busy, anxious mind 🥰👌✨
We just celebrated 2 years of effortless love 🙂
I’m an assertive INFJ so I’m more self assured and carefree than the turbulent type.
As an INFJ, I was literally amazed by how my current boyfriend who is ENFP flew through all those social layers that I created to isolate myself to get to me. Just wow.
Hey, I just want to ask u a quick question since u seem to be very happy with your ENFP boyfriend ... almost all the people I ve dated in the past were ENFPs but I always ended things seeing there was no potential for growth since we both share the same Feeling function and being both feelers in order to be challenged and growth I always feel like there must be a Thinking type in the dynamic ... don t u kinda feel the same way about it? Just curious
INFJ
@@katystrawberry2513 Sorry to hear that. ENFP boyfriend is the best bf SO FAR to me. We're both feelers I agree but I feel so happy when someone empathize me this deep. I want to be more understood than someone who fill the gap that I don't have and idk if that's even healthy...
I don't know who are the ones approaching me but they are definitely on the bolder side. I don't make myself appear approachable romantically so only the brave and bold are the ones that do
@@katystrawberry2513 I‘m an INFJ-A and I’m married to an ISTP. Sometimes this can be very challenging. Once we had an argument about something and my husband wanted to understand my points of thinking. So I really tried my best to explain it as good as it was possible, but he wasn’t able to understand. And not only that, he couldn’t accept it but he really struggled following my thoughts, he just didn’t understand at all. Of course even if there is the same mbti, every person is different, but „thinkers“ and „feelers“ together in a relationship or marriage can be tougher sometimes. Sometimes I miss the feeling of being understood. Of course the INFJ is not easy to understand completely, but sometimes I think the „thinkers“ struggle much more with it.
Frr
“Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people.
You shouldn’t drink poison just cuz you’re thirsty.”
Damnn that's good
@@Maito89 sounds fun
VIRAL BABES
Amen to that 🙏
Hit hard since im doing exactly that rn..
me, an INFJ: I don't understand why is it so hard for us to get a lovelife
also me: hides in my room and watches relationship videos
Edit: As you can see INFJ's don't hide in the bushes like popular belief says, we actually hide in the comment sections of MBTI TH-cam vids.
TOTALLY RELATE 😅
True 😝
@sreeraj. design 😅
Ahaha you are not alone lol
Ugh as a INFJ guy I think I’m going to be single forever 😐
when i did the test a few years back, i was an enfp but recently i am an infj, so i guess i have the most compatible relationship with myself :")
I’m sorry I laughed 😭
waow
😂😂😂
What in the mbti?
Exactly just like me 😂
I'm an ENFP and my ex was an INFJ and we had A LOT of conflict. There's a lot more to people than their personality type. In romantic relationship for example, attachment plays a huge role. I was avoidant, she was anxious, and so we were both triggering each other and caught in an anxious-avoidant loop for 4+ years. Yes, we shared similar values and visions, we were both creative and idealistic, we had a lot of fun together, and to a large extent, we just got each other right off the bat. But unfortunately we didn't last because we couldn't work many other things out. As interesting as these personality categories are, they can be way too generalised.
I had the same experience with me (ENFP) and my ex (INFJ). We were so compatible other than the part where we were constantly triggering eachother
@@user-mq5yl9rr3zthanks for responding, it's nice to hear people with the same experience! Yeah I think there should be a caveat saying "these personalities have the *potential* to be really compatible if both people are emotionally aware enough to know their wounds and triggers, and to work to understand each other's differences." How are you getting on with processing the relationship / break up?
I (enfp) worked to heal my attachment issues before dating an infj. I worked hard on it using the Personal Development School. Best money spent in a long time. Highly worth it. I'm not sure what his (infj) attachment style is but I find many infj females I've been friends with are avoidant or anxious avoidant. Communication isn't their strong suit.
Had the same experience with you guys as well (ENFP). I had an INFJ ex, we were so compatible on most things and became together. Though we experienced a lot of conflicts and misunderstandings along the way. Emotions were extreme as well, either we’ll be extremely happy or depressingly sad. The relationship ended up badly. I consider my relationship with her as someone who’s hard to love but best feeling of love.
Well... Sorry for That, It must have hurted you
Does that mean that a relationship between Me (INFJ) and My GF (ENFP) should not stop at seeking a personality?
I once heard that ENFPs are INFJs but just inside-out. ENFPs tend to wear their childlike/playful approach to the world on the outside (so this is what most people see at first) but have quite a reserved inner world on the inside. On the other hand, INFJs tend to wear their more reserved self on the outside but have a childlike, explorative inner world. It would make a lot of sense considering ENFPs and INFJs have the same cognitive function ordering but inverted.
Interesting. Well, they do say ENFP is the most introverted among the E type, this is well known. Since they're inverts, I guess INFJs are the most extroverted of the Introverted types? Yup, it does make a lot of sense.
@@aureliaavalon actually INFJ is the introverted type but we could be seen as the extraverted person.. when i tested my mbti with my friends, my friends help me to answer since that was my first time, i was ENFP, but once i did it myself for so many times i found out that i'm an INFJ. we could be seen kinda extroverted coz we love people, we love to know n solve other's problems, we can be hilarious n funny for keeping the harmony or flow or mood but actually it's draining for us to keep doing that. but we somehow can find our way to recharge n be fun again
@@aureliaavalon Well, it varies on an individual level, although I'd say that ISFJs are the most extroverted introverts, but I believe that INFJs are the most rational feelers.
INFJ - I was just thinking how deeply I relate to all ENFP movie characters, because I’m very much like an ENFP when by myself/with closest friends + free to be vulnerable. It actually is a side of me few people get to see. It’s like ENFP are a part of me. Exactly what you’ve said!
That's so true. I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. When we first met, I did see him as a charismatic 'life of the party' type person, but he does not see himself that way. In the five years we've been together, it is as if our personalities reverse sometimes. He reveals his complex inner world to me, and all his goals and theories, while I start acting like a golden retriever.
the infj’s in the comments are talkin about us enfp’s like we’re on amazon prime 😭
HAAHAHAAH
🤣🤣🤣
(INFJ here) My favourite films are all on amazon prime 😊
Honestly, my self esteem is on the rise with every comment I read
FR HAHAH
As an INFJ the difficulty I've seen is ENFPs being very fast paced with the expectations for the relationship. The INFJ takes a long time to trust and form meaningful relationships. If you push them too far they might feel like you're not seriously emotionally invested and shut you out even though you're just at a different point in thought process.
True that! I’m an INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP. Our chemistry is amazing, but while ai want to take our relationship one pace at a tine, giving time to know each other, she wants to rush things and get engaged/married already lol
I would like to formally declare an apology for any rushing done by us ENFPs. I hope noone has had their heart broken because of our spontaneity!
@@user-kx8pu6ys5i Oh, it's the opposite. I feel like ENFPs tend to put their heart in my lap quickly and I need to be careful not to crush it because I need a few more years to do the same lol.
As an INFJ, I tend to trust the vibe of the person more. If the vibe is there, it is fine if the relationship. What I strongly dislike, is a person who tries to dictate everything in the relationship, and who tries to 'punish' me if I don't see things his way. And some ENFP's in an unhealthy energy can be this way.
ENFP here 🎉🎉🎉 You INFJs are the most amazing people. You understand me! What a breath of fresh air in a world full of people who don't see the beauty in the world.
it's mutual
Haha, really? You ENFPs are actually my favourite MBTI types as well!
Damn, INFJ here and you just said the sweetest thing EVER
Hey ENFP here and I love how we are bonding over are compatibility,
P.S Love you guys❤
to all single infjs reading this, i hope we will find our enfp soon :)
I wish for that to happen so bad ;-;
heyyyy hi heyyyyyyyy infjs heyy 😏😏
@@lojanta ✨manifesting✨
@@ellapatella2574 heyyy
Yeahh
As an INFJ it’s good to know there’s alot of ENFP’s in the world because I’m totally gonna leave my room
...eventually.
please get out ' = '
One hundred ENFP's are ready on the hunt. Prepare for the absurd jokes.
@@GBS4893 damn right
Guess it's time to go out, stand awkwardly, and hope my enfp randomly finds me lol
I FOUND MY ENFP! I REPEAT, I FOUND MY ENFP!!!!
How did you find?
POGGERS
HOW????
Emotion is not a frequent visitor for me as an INTJ, but this video of INFJ and ENFP compatibility was a truly touching exception. I found myself moved in a way that's quite uncommon for me. Seeing the profound understanding, connection, and mutual respect between the INFJ and ENFP characters was deeply inspiring and genuinely touching.
The emotional intelligence of an INFJ, their depth of thought and their quest for authentic connections, complemented by the enthusiasm, creativity, and warmth of an ENFP, struck a chord within me. I couldn't help but envision myself experiencing a similar connection and harmony in a potential relationship.
The complexities and beauty of this unique relationship dynamic brought a rare tear to my eye. I appreciate this empathetic and thoughtful portrayal that extends beyond common stereotypes about personality types. Truly an emotional and enlightening journey!
I just met my INFJ. I’ve never felt this connected to someone else as an ENFP. I’m honestly just stunned. I never found what I was looking for in over 30 years and she walks into my life and changes everything. I’m in tears right now. I’ve never been this happy.
I'm so happy for the both of you ^^
I'm crying too now cuz it happened to me the same exact thing!
Some true ENFP over dramatisation right there 🤣
@@RachelGerrard you can expect nothing less from us!
I hope you both stay together forever :)
I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I can say this relationship has been the most compatible and healthiest I've ever been in.
Not for every one the party animal element would annoy me .
Where did you guys meet? And who made the move first to talk to the other? And did you notice that he didn’t communicate that much?
@@susanmoran2154 enfps arent necessarily party animals. I'm an enfp and I'm not. I like to socialize and to make people laugh but I can also be very introverted at times. I think this is true for most enps. We're outgoing and fun when in a social setting, but love spending time alone and quality one on one time with the people we care about
@@susanmoran2154 we’re called the most introverted extroverts for a reason
@@chahjya and INFJ's are the most extroverted introverts, that is, if you get to know them 🥰 that's just so sweet and fitting
As an ENFP girl and has an INFJ bestie, this video perfectly sums up our relationship. I literally cannot imagine a life without her like I LOVEEE her so much. We’re like peas in a pod and have never seperated since meeting in primary school. I remember constantly meeting her every week and it got to the point where we became family (her brother married my cousin) and now she has a boyfriend (i was wing-woman :^) keke) which made me so happy and proud of her. I can proudly say we’ll stay together till we’re old and gray 💚
bless your friendship😭✨💕
So shes married and has a boyfroend-
oh man i wish i could find an enfp bestie
My boyfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. I relate to everything in this video. We never argue and always talk to each other if we feel that something is slightly wrong. We thrive from bringing up small annoyances and constantly changing to adapt to each other.
(Meanwhile, 6 years ago...)
Me, an INFJ: I need someone to be my friend. Someone who won't run away. Maybe send me an angel! The nicest angel you have...
My ENFP best friend, kicking down the 6th grade door: * maniacal laughter *
I LOVE it ☺️ - ENFP
Well, same with me, except that friend kicked the door in 3rd grade 😅
I'm istj
I love the Lilo and Stitch reference
Mine was at 9th grade😂😂
Can we just appreciate that Psych2go always includes the best references
Yess and I’m in love with these two characters and this was like a five minute video
YES
Amen infj for life
Yeeessssssss! 💯 all the way! From dream SMP to the rainbow pride flag it’s all amazing!
Lol agreed just about to comment this
My best friend is ENFP and we were brothers in an instant and have been all of our life and will be for sure! Much love to both these types as they are the yin and Yang to all this madness
I am an INFJ married to an ENFP for 32 years (and more to come). I agree with most of what it's said in this video. This combination works great for the two of us!
If anyone’s interested, It’s also down to their cognitive functions.
INFJ = NiFeTiSe
ENFP = NeFiTeSi
Their functions mirrors each other, that’s why they’re compatible
Interesting.
My two best friends mirror my cognitive functions °∆°
ENFP's is also INFJ's shadow.
Unfortunately the ENFP I met,isn’t in the least compatible. She doesn’t like me and is soaked with envy which is very obvious.... so
Thanks cause i was like: "🤔 birds and rollerblading?" Lol
“INFJ’s are the rarest personally type, they make up 2% of the world’s population”
Me, an ENFP who’s played far too many gacha games: “hey if it’s higher than 1% it’s Practically guaranteed”
The Megumin pfp did it for me.
I’m an ENFP tooooo :D I haven’t met any other ENFP before ;-;
@@xynium. lmao
Too much genshin mate
lol
my best friend recently took her 2nd mbti test and remained an INFJ. i took the test 3 times already and remained and ENFP. ig that explains a lot why we're each other's best person. as cheesy as it may sound but it really felt like we're made for each other. we're still kids the last time we fought and as we grew older, the connection just got stronger and I don't think i'll find another infj as fitting as her. to whoever reading this, i hope you have/find your perfect ENFP/INFJ pair♡
I lost her 💔. I'm an infj and my ex-bestie and probably my soul mate was an enfp. She was my love at 1st sight too. We always had lots and lots of similar hobbies, interests, and theories to share and discuss. I've never talked so much to anyone else.
I'm an ENFP and my boyfriend is an INFJ, this video along with the comments explain why are we staying together for song long despite being SO different! I talk a lot and he doesn't talk much, sometimes he says that I talk too much lol but I just CAN'T STAND silence while he can. I tell him about EVERYTHING from daily life to my deepest secrets and feelings, meanwhile he's so private that he doesn't feel comfortable sharing things, sometimes I feel like he doesn't trust me enough but now I learn that some people have boundaries, especially INFJs. I always wonder what's compatible between us because sometimes I feel like we have no similarities at all. But out of all people I've been in relationship with, this relationship I have with my INFJ boyfriend is the most PASSIONATE one. We love each other madly and I never feel so connected with a person more than this.
Is this the wangxian dynamic? 😆😆
Can you tell more about how its passionnate? :)
Okay people can we have a moment to appreciate the art style, it's ✨beAutiFul✨
I know right? I really love the artsyle
@@chibi_okami same! ☺️
Saw the Genshin Impact references were too many
yes it sure is.
why do you spell beautiful like that? and why the sparkles?
I am an infj and have never clicked a psych2go video this fast before
Same
bro me too
yeah how is italy going
i love how jojo fans are everywhere on youtube
@@therobinsontableno.5192 thanks thanks pretty well lately
My daughter is an enfp and we have such a wonderful relationship. I love the way we connect on those meaningful levels, and even tho the chaos is challenging, I wouldn't have it/her/us any other way!!
Im an ENFP and i LOVEEEEE INFJ WITH MY WHOLE HEART. My two closest friends are INFJ and it’s such a healthy, energetic, carefree connection. Both of them were really shy with me at the beginning but I never mind that because i find it more intriguing to peel the layers off someone one by one. Now we can just talk about ANYTHING for hours and when we’re together i come up with random ideas but they always help me execute and plan them to turn it into a reality. I notice that they are amazing listeners but i’m always wary to not talk too much and make they have a voice so i always like to ask for their opinions on topics. Moral of the story GET AN INFJ BESTIE
We love you ❤
Heh yea we can be kind of timid and cautious at first around new people sometimes. Like I think thats also cause we are trying to determine, how weird we can be with a person without scaring them off or spooking them unless thats just me O.O
As an ENFP in a relationship with INFJ for past 5 years, I can totally confirm that it's the most beautiful relationship one can share ❤️
I am 20+ years and several kids in,
and I still feel flutters when he says my name sometimes.
Our senses of humor really dovetail, too.
I don't know about you but I think the video is spot on...we just have to focus on
the ENFP not over-talking
the INFJ putting in effort to communicate
their needs
And making sure dull, rote tasks get done in a fair and timely way.
Do those ,and you're golden!
Nshsh where is my enfp djdjjd
I sit here with PTSD seeing people have happy lives on TH-cam videos
@@fordmiller4318 same brad, but don’t stop believing!
@@snackysneaks I won't, thanks for the positive comment :)
the fact that I'm a ENFP and my twin sister is a INFJ it's iconic for some reason
that's awesome hahaha
Do you get along well with your sister? Or fight always?
Yo soy infj ¿donde se encuentran fácilmente personas enfp?
Te entiendo, yo soy INFJ y mi hermana es ESFP, y, curiosamente en los famosos con mi personalidad está Rose de Titanic, y en famosos con la personalidad de ella está Jack, y es como, ¡Whaaa! de verdad debemos ser almas gemelas, porque coincidimos tan bien a pesar de ser tan diferentes
That's awesome
I'm already 11 months in relationship with an ENFP... All I can say I'm in peace. I feel relieved. I feel like I'm healing. It's like I'm a kid again. ✨😌♥️ -INFJ-
I am an INFJ and my sister is ENFP and God we have so many conflicts lol we literally spent our whole life fighting. we also lead a very different life but it's shocking how similar we are in our thoughts and values and overall approach to life. it's actually really refreshing when we sit and discuss our thoughts and lives with each other. she is basically the only one I feel comfortable enough to open up to about my thoughts and feelings.
My teacher is enfp too, she is *GOOD?*
Maybe it's because she is your sister. I got an enfp aunt around my age and we like have conflicts a lot but we do share a super close bond.
As an ENFP with an INFJ best friend- I swear it just WORKS, the connection is instant and it’s just crazy how great we are together, I’ve never felt more myself with anyone else. I hope you find your INFJ/ENFP ♡︎
this cheered me up, i’ll try to find an ENFP friend, i love enfps so much. they make me happy - INFJ
do u think its better to move into a romantic relationship or just stay as friends?
@@excusemethisisjinhitentert9053 honestly, it would be an amazing romantic relationship. Since they’re opposites, there would be a great balance and the personalities would just complement each other. But being friends is just as great. I guess it depends on wether or not you’re attracted to that person in a romantic way. If you are, then it could definitely work out.
@@ruthramos2484 ok thanks for ur answer
IKRRRR (im an enfp)
The amount of Genshin impact characters that are in this video are insane. I love it
RIGHT?? No one else commented on this? Others have to set their priorities straight! Lol
I think they ship zhongli x childe
yes I noticed that too haha. I was like, wait, arent they zhongli and tartaglia? lol
@@yumi6537 don’t we all :D
@@yumi6537 and kaebedo lmao
I was an INFJ two years ago but now my MBTI changed to ENFP, I’m beginning to think these two personality type are somewhat similar to each other. I don’t really know how to put in words but someone in the comment section said it right. The inside-out description really made sense to me
You should look into ENFP's and trauma, as the "shadow" ENFP presents as an INFJ.
Same thing happened to me! I’m now an ENFP but once tested as INFJ. I’ll look into the trauma comment
@@evanmcshane that sounds interesting
@@christinedozier2154 same
@@darthvader1793 maybe in parallel universe, in this i don't have one
I've been in a relationship for 7 years. Recently my SO and I, took personality tests and discovered we are INFJ(me) and ENFP(him). Then we took a deep dive into researching more and almost every site called us polar opposites until we landed at this video. Suddenly so many things made so much sense xDD This is crazy. We never understood why we have such strange harmony and why things just worked even if we are so different, now we do ahahah.
As an INFJ I hope to find a partner like an enfp who will go to museums with me, look at the stars and find new Hobbies together. Also having minimal conflicts sounds ideal...
Same :( I actually found one but he’s a kpop idol 😅😮💨
I'm interested in all of those things. (However, I'm an INTP)
Wow, so good!
@@julyuhhh6385 same here 😂😂
you also have to consider most of us are very loud . That peace and quiet is like 10% of who we are . The rest is chaos , yelling , moving around and talking with our hands . It can be too much or exhausting for some people ( its one of my main insecurities)
As an INFJ, having an ENFP relationship sounds like the thing I never knew I wanted SO BAD
As an ENFP I wish you luck in finding one of my kind soon!
exactly
Trust me, it's the best thing to ever happen to your life 😁
As an ENFP, I totally agree with you :)
I want a relationship with someone that can relate to stuff i like I'm an INFJ that's really quiet unless I'm around people i know but if they interest me enough in certain topics that i like your not getting me to shut up for a while
Edit: Actually nvm I am an INFP
I'm a INFJ, I love these drawings, they are so cute and well made. I never knew about this high compatibility but it explains so many things. That's great to have a partner that does not like conflict. It's amazing to have someone to listen to for hours!
I'm an INFJ and I've been with my ENFP partner for 5 years now. There's not a single person on the planet who gets me more than him, not even my own parents. And although there have been big problems in our relationship lately the emotional bond I've made with this person is so strong I doubt it'll never go away.
I’m an INFJ with an ENFP twin brother. We are best friends, but I would never date someone with his personality type. The extrovertedness is a lot, plus you can’t get mad at them without them looking like a kicked puppy who doesn’t know what they did wrong, and that makes communication difficult.
My twin is INFP and I'm an INFJ
actually i think it's best to have introvert and extrovert relationships because extrovetrs usually adopts introverts so it becomes so easy to do activities. my ex was introvert (so am i) and we couldn't do anything lmao
Yeah , you would 😉
I always thought so before it actually happened to me .
Quite the opposite - introverted and extroverted natures . Yet feel, think , act in harmony ❤️🖤
@@ha8236 i have a twin and they're also and INFP but they took the test recently and got INFJ lmao
i just had a convrsation with my s/o whos INFJ and im ENFP and what u said about the kicked puppy part it felt so relateble it hurtsbgdwwbfmj
Raise your hand if you think the artist did a amazing job portraying a cute relationship
🖐
✋🤚
👐 both! And my foot 🦶
🖐🖐🖐
✋
ENFP married to INFJ. It's magic.
Can't wait to meet my INFJ , all your comments make it seem like a dream!!!
Reading that most of INFJs are single, make me believe in that MBTI test even more. Hopefully we will meet our ENFP soulmate.
- an optimistic INFJ
Here's a curious fact, here in Colombia there are almost none INFJ due to the cultural impact our raising has and as few INFJ there are also few ENFP, most people have Centinels or Explorers tendencies. So as an ENFP it is almost impossible to find either people like me as a person for me. Kinda sad. Hope you find your ENFP!
I am an INFJ-A, how can you find me I rarely go outside, when I go outside I am always alone and find some peaceful place and stare out of no where. Eating alone. Biking alone
If you find someone that's always alone, eating alone shopping alone that's an INFJ for Sure.
@@tw_zero_art7299 this is interesting now whfndgbn im an enfp and when i go outside im usually alone too. im looking for a place to sit in peace like you said. it doesn't me bother me much to go and do stuff by myself. but when im with a close friend who is kinda special, even sitting in grass becoming more exciting and it makes me so happy. but i don't live this often. i wish, and why am i emotional rn damn. anyways hope you're having a good day, you sound like such a nice person.
@@esra00000 I only have close friends only one or two .. who I can be open sometimes. Said my inner thought or some of my problems. Or some of my plans in life. And give my crack jokes sometimes, people might thinking i am boring person but I am not, just I like stare and observe the people at the park at the restaurant. They facial expressions is so amazing. I don't get boring for doing that everyday it's sims like I am collecting some information by looking at them.
I love to wright stories, love to draw do some comics fan art or whatever I want to do.
Thanks for that, I think You're a nice person too, I am so curious about you guys ENFP person the most. I want meet one in the future. I think you guys is so interesting.
Hi fellow INFJ
ENFP: INFJs make 2% of the world, how will I ever find one
INFJ: not only do we make 2% od the world, most of us are introverts which means we stay inside 24/7 and once we go out we rarely talk to people :^)
"most". the I in INFJ stands for introverted :)
Yeah but INFJs are the best of the introvert group at faking extroversion so sometimes like shiny Pokemon we're around pretending to blend in while low-key hoping to go back home soon where it's safe 😅
Im an INFJ and im ok with being with other people i just dont let them get close . You can easily attract us by just being honest and be your self , my crush is ENFP and i have a hug crush on her just because she is the most geniune person that i have ever met and she is so energetic and act like a child but deep inside i can exactly feel how mature she is and how deep she think about anything .(sorry about my bad english )
@@HesamDS your English is great! I wish I was that fluent in another language
@@widjadija thank you , my friend 🤘🙏
This explains why I’m most myself with my INFJ self. She brings out the part of me I didn’t know I had; she’s so understanding and fun to be around.
I'm an INFJ and I can't relate with people in the comment section coz I never had a relationship lol. It would be really awesome to meet an ENFP
I think of ENFP and INFJ relationship as very balanced, natural and almost childlike. ENFP's are the more social/outgoing version of an INFJ, without being too intense. INFJ help ENFP be more organized and grounded, without being boring or overbearing. Almost the exact two sides to the same coin, opposite without being too intense. :)
Do you think this would apply if the I and E were switched? Idk how much they affect the overall picture
I feel like I’m both I’m so confused rn someone help
@@weeka6153 wdym? Have you taken a test?
@@CipherionYT yea I took a test online
@@CipherionYT in April 2020 I was ENFP, I’m sep 2021 I apparently am an INFJ, I took it twice too to make sure. My personally type changed ig I understand why now too
are we gonna ignore the fact that childe x zhongli and albedo x kaeya were drawn
I WAS SO SHOCKED
why i came to the video in the first place lol
I FELL OFF MY HYPOTHETICAL SEAT
that is why i came in this video hshsh
OMG YES and also a banana fish ref?? not sure 4:44
I LOVED the drawings on this video!! They’re so cute!!
This describes my friendship with my enfp BFF.
If you saw us or knew us separately, you would have no idea we'd get along so well.
She has lots of friends, but she is my only friend. She is gregarious and I'm mostly quiet and observant. We can talk on the phone for hours and not realize how much time has passed. Our communication styles click extremely well where it feels like we always understand one another. We have deep and interesting conversations and prefer to talk over taking care of chores. 😁 We are both strongly interested in art and culture. We both base decisions on feelings. She teaches me how to be more open, spontaneous, and assertive. I teach her how to plan, organize, and create some structure in her life.
We both support each other and value growth.
Overall, I wouldn't change a thing about her. ❤️
when you're an ENFP and INFJ's the rarest personality 😭👌
I need my INFJ now😫
good luck to you guys 🥺 :D
@@aestaetic07 thanks lol
I am an INFJ ........Good luck finding another INFJ
Me an INFJ reading this be like: "Oh I am wanted now".
As an INFJ, I must say that ENFPs have the most attractive personality of all. I've been madly in love with an ENFP for almost 3 years now and I think I have never been this fascinated and in love with a person's nature and outlook on life. In an ideal world, we would be together, but honestly I'm grateful every day that we're best friends and that our paths in this life have crossed
As an enfp , I liked the compliment very much
ahhh same goes for me as an ENFP for my INFJ friend. There's just something so unique about her.
I don't know what the case is here, but sometimes going for a relationship is scary when you have such a good friendship, relationships can ruin things like that.
@@OneBoredCatbug I know, I am simply too afraid to do anything in this regard, because I would never forgive myself if I lost someone this dear to me, but honestly I do think about us being more than just friends every single day, which has long ago become rather painful. This past weekend, my friend experienced one of the worst things we all must go through as human beings: the loss of a dear family member. It truly bothered me to see my friend suffering like that and I've since been thinking about that moment. At the same time (and I know this might sound strange), I felt like, even though I didn't do much and I did not know what to do or say really, I was happy with myself, because I could be there and be supportive in such a difficult time. I just hope my friend can overcome this terrible situation as soon as possible and I hope my friend finds some comfort in the wonderful moments and memories shared with this family member. All I want is too see my friend happy and well
As an enfp this made me smile.
I love the animation and art style!! Soo cute, enjoyed the video a lot more because of the animation. Kudos to Billie!
still love this video. these two characters are the cutest. it makes me want an anime sitcom for them. Also the thumbnail is timeless. makes me proud of my infj faults lol
1. they are both feelers 1:01
2. similar goals in a relationship 1:22
3. conflicts are rare 1:45
4. abstract communication 2:11
5. conversational dynamic 2:45
6. they share similar values 3:18
7. they have lifestyle differences 3:47
8. they are intellectually curious 4:22
9. they are adventurers 4:46
10. planning is an area of conflict 5:17
I hope I could help! :D
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So helpful ... Thank you Dat Boi 🤗.
So nobody's gonna talk about how cute those drawings are?
do you know their twitter or ig of the animator
theres even childe and zhongli by the end lol
@@apfeliguess9383 kaeya and albedo too lmao
@@apfeliguess9383 glad i'm not the only one who noticed-
@@gimmeymayo4999 billm1ll on instagram!!
I‘m shook. I‘ve watched this video like a year ago and really didn‘t know how accurate this is. I‘m an ENFP and just met a guy a few months ago and he’s literally unique. Well, i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We almost became a couple and last week i told him about mbti. It came out that he’s an INFJ - no wonder lmao, i mean world’s rarest personality type yk. And now i’m watching this video again and i’m just shoked how well described our relationship is in this video.
Me loving both contact and art works here.
I'm glad and love to see those different kinds of genders and relationships are Illustrated!!! 🌈
INFJ here dating an ENFP. This was so spot on. Because this is our first healthy relationship, we’re still navigating some stuff. But even so, it’s been amazing. ❤️
also infj, so happy for u two🥺💖
me too! also dating an enfp. it’s perfect ❤️
Wow, so beautifull ^^
INFJ here married to my ENFP best friend for 2 years now (known him for 17 years lol). Best decision I ever made. ❤
@@ZeDandelion omg! I love that so much for you. Before my bf, I was very weary of marriage but he just makes me want to get married already!
My friend group is literally composed of 2 INFJs (including myself) and 2 ENFPs. We're the best friends ever. I admire ENFPs so much I wish I was this type. They are so charismatic, inspiring and fun. To every ENFP reading this: ILYSM YOU'RE AWESOME
Thank you 😳👉👈
Thank you ☺️
Dude don't sweat it.
Enfp might be charismatic on the outside but despite their introverted nature INFJ always leaves the biggest impact.
Thank you!! :D
@@mehmetgurdal I'll take that as a compliment, thank you 😊
I just came to tell that the thumbnail is amazing
my best friend is an infj (i'm an enfp) and it's honestly really fun! we actually don't have many interests in common but our personality and the way we react to things just works! i hope i find someone like them in the future :)
*"INFJs are the rarest mbti type."*
Guess that explains my single-ness.
hahahahah im an infj and i’ve never found an infj in my life except online
@@fumesquelch9366Thats why we feel left out and feel that nobody likes us
btw correct ur spelling there before anybody trolls
Cosmic Wish So thoughtful. That’s why we are so rare and special.
same
😂😂😅
I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an INFJ. This is why we've been best buds for more than 10 years.
Same! I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an ENFP
This is THE vid for me! I'm an ENFP and I don't rly get what my mbti is and what we like so i found this helpful and now imma go look for an infj- baiii
ENFPs AMP me up more than 6 pots of coffee. I just love them to bits ....so fantastical and really know how to bring me out of my shell 🐚 and the conversations can just go on and on and the endless creativity ....ugh just perfect. I've had multiple friends and an ENFP daughter and sister 💕
Mind you....I don't appreciate the sometimes lack of responsibility, the slow-mo attitude to getting things done (that they don't want to do) and the sometimes erratic behavior and loud voices ...haha
Amazing unicorns.
Just a small reminder that personality types don't mean that much for a couple, I am an INFJ and my boyfriend of 8 years is an ISTP (the worst possible match). I think that ultimately what makes a relationship work is the amount of effort put from each side. We are both happy with each other 🤗
That is what I wanted to hear! Thank you very much
But actually ISTP types match a lot with INFJ types, so no... it's not the worst possible match.
Yeah, relationships take effort and these are just a jumpstart I’d say
This just helped me calm my mind :(( i have a partner that is an infj and im scared he'll leave me for his enfp best friend (since he liked her before me)
My best friend is also an ISTP and I'm INFJ, and we are very good friends
UH
ASH AND EIJI?
ALBEDO AND KAEYA??
*ZHONGLI AND CHILDE???*
Ok but jokes aside her voice is so adorable and the art style is just yes I'm gonna cry that's so wholesome
I SAW NOBARA FROM JJK TOO
actually, Ash is an ISTP and Eiji is an ISFJ
@@miray8831 I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THAT IS BUT OKAY
@@bigcan7493 wow that's cool
akaashi was there tooo
I couldn’t help but smile because I think my boyfriend is an ENFP and we are very much like this. We’ve been together for almost 6 years now, and as cliché as it sounds, there’s never been a dull moment.
Very good talk and it brought me peace. I also really enjoyed the comments
"the compatibility of ENFP and INFJ"
* sees Ash and Eiji *
* *cries* *
IKR I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was in tears...
@@yeyditorres1945 they broke my heart
OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT HSJSSHAJHAHA
please i was literally ready to cry
😭😭😭
i’m an ENFP in a relationship with a INFJ for almost 4 years now, everyone always asks us how we work so well together. this sounds just like us
So do you guys fight a lot? Because I ship tow ppl like you guys but they fight a lot so sometimes I doubt my thoughts about them 😂
Me too. We've been together 3 years planning on our wedding now
@@Jiji1277 no actually we almost never fight with each other. it’s a super rare occurrence
@@Payzer100 aww that's nice, wish you all the best.
im an INFJ and my girlfriend is an ENFP and i've been with her for almost 3 years now, i find this true because everyone always ask me how me and my girlfriend are still together especially, when we had to do long-distance relationship because of covid last year.
3:11 that 3rd picture is literally what we said to each other- I like how my ENFP friend really keeps asking about me too, and letting me talk just as much. Yes, I like listening to others, but I really appreciate if they allow me to talk as well. Honestly our conversation just flow for hours, and it clicks every second, I don't feel left behind by them. There is perfect balance. A few days she suddenly asked me, "And what about you? How do you feel?" and bruh that meant a lot to me, but I struggled to put my thoughts to words as usual, but she literally took the time to listen and be patient until I was finished.
I've spent most of my life with INTP, and my current partner is INTP. There are definitely more challenges than being in an ENFP/INFJ relationship like how sometimes I just wish they'd communicate their needs but yk what I'm content with what I have. My takeaway from this video is that it's not just about the two personalities, rather it's just good relationship advice in general, for me. And that I shouldn't expect this kind of perfection to what I have right now, my girl grows for me and I'll grow for her. These main executive functions are just one part of our personality, developing the minor ones are signs of maturity and a healthy being.
My girlfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. This video explains us perfectly!! Lots of love
wow u lucky guys!!
same except i’m the enfp!
u stupid infj satisfied for an imperfect human. u should not be called an infj anymore. only infj are superior humans every other type is just low level beings.
@@mikeodonell1551 lol
@@mikeodonell1551 Big problem there is 2% of you
I'm an INFJ and my best friend is ENFP. It's a 10 yrs friendship. I love him, I'd do everything for him. He's the light of my life, my guide, he helps me when I'm sad. He's so much important. Every INFJ deserves an ENFP in their life, and every ENFP deserves an INFJ in theirs. ♥️
I also have 2 ENFP bestfriends and I am INFJ , they're just my other half but different at the same time and we are friends from 8 years
That is so kind, keep appreciating us
@@samya60yearsago Do you have enough room for 1 more ENFP in your friend zone? 🥲
@@itsmoebra8976 it depends 🙃 normally I don't put people easily in my inner circle , I have only 3 friends but if i will get a good compatible freind than why not :)
I need advice about the infj in my life as an enfp
I'm an ENFP and I have recently met an INFJ. I feel like I have found my other half. We've only recently just met, but already I can't imagine my life without her.
I have an INFJ personality and my partner has an ENFP. I have never met anyone with whom I could communicate so easily without using words!! We have the same energy, it is hard to explain. I love this feeling !!! And it was enough to just leave the house (oh no) and be guided by intuition to run into your soul mate. 🥰💗
Waiting for my ENFP boy without going out and getting to know people is quite ironic huh
Waiting for my infj boy when he won't go out and get to know people is also quite ironic 🥲
@@morayoadedapo2457 I haven't thought about it in your perspective, it also sucks lol
I'm an ENFP guy and maybe getting fucked up at parties all the time is the wrong approach... But where to meet an INFJ girl in the first place?
dont worry. i'm pretty sure that that ENFP boy will be coming to *you*
@@urphakeandgey6308 idk really I guess it depends on each one but for me I think the most probable way would be at work, college or some place I usually go. But i'd be kinda open if someone approaches me *in a nice way* someplace else
THE ANIME AND GENSHIN IMPACT REFERENCES OMG
I play genshin 2 I'm rolling for the banners adventure rank 45
Praying Tanaka is rolling
Eyy, I'm AR 55 and trying to get my c2 Zhongli!
But if I don't get him I'll just save up for Raiden lol
2/7 archons currently collected ;)
@@SakuraTsukino27972 awesome I try to save my primo gems but it's just 2 tempting I'm a genshin impact slayer slash bounty
It was love at first sight when I first met my husband. My head was in a complete whirl for sometime and I found it hard to cope with and the romantic deep love I had for him. Our love is just as strong today as it was back then..Would never want anyone else. He's so bubbly and laid back and sooh soo romantic.
This relationship is great. I also fee; that INFPs and ESTJs are perfect for each other. I am an INFP and my best friend is an ESTJ and we are the perfect counter to each other.
That's a rare case.... our parents are not so compatible in this pair
"I'm bored, let's go hiking"
"listen up Dracula, it's 3 in the morning"
The way I let out the ugliest laugh in the world sounding like a goat being strangled-
Same!
Dracula lmao 🤣
the perfect relationship doesn't exi-
Pls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
this is me & my enfp going on a drive to no where at 3 am..
[New Quest]
"Find an INFJ to compliment my ENFP-ness."
Difficulty-level: INFJ's are the rarest type of personality
Reward: Life-long partner? Life-long friend? We will have to see.
Goodluck! - from an INFJ-T
@@ilovejaeyoon6698
Wow, I got an INFJ to compliment me, I guess the quest was less difficult than I thought it would be 😂 Thank you for the encouragement, I appreciate it 😄
I've always wanted to get an ENFP friend, but it seems that as INFJ I'm too introverted to go to the places that the ENFP frequent, so don't give up, you can find a lot of INFJs in TH-cam video comments about mbti 😂😂
@Oliver Erz oooh, I think so far I haven't met any of them, or maybe I have and I didn't realize for some reason
@Oliver Erz Any tips to recognize ENFPs? 👀
My best friend and I are ENFP and INFJ respectively and honestly we have the best friendship ever. She knows me soooooo well and we literally never fight! Tbh I don't even remember ever having an argument with her. And I love hanging out with her because when I'm with her it is just so fucking comforting!!! Our synergy is soft and warm and gentle and the peace of mind is incomparable.
Also, is nobody going to mention how they had Zhongli and Childe in the video? I'm SCREAMING
To express how you authentically feel in the moment is super attractive to me.
My parents are like this and this is true! :D
Edit: I know this is something everyone says but, tysm for all the likes guys! I’ve never had that many likes on anything before lol! ❤️❤️😊😊
Mine too!
maybe because ur parents had a love marriage
omg mine too
Ooh!
did you save the world in your past life? that's amazing! :')
I'm INFJ, & I've always loved being around ENFPs. They're usually fun, caring, non-judgmental, & easy to be around. Also, beings we're very similar, but they're more extroverted, they make me feel less awkward about the things I'd normally keep to myself.
I'm an enfp but I'd never thought of INFJ can like a ENFP this much 😊😊😊
owu🥰
YEA my teacher is enfp and they just somehow understand us
Naawww stop it you 👉👈 qwq
But it's true qwq whenever i see an introvert i go like "Mine, adoption, protecc"
There's no such thing as perfect couple in this world.
Every relationship requires great communication and respect within both parties. While fighting setbacks and uncertainties along the way. Anybody can love anyone out there, no matter what's their mbti type is. As long as you accept the person as who they are and love the imperfections they have.
Hope you all find the one true person out there 🙏
im an infj + recently found out my girlfriend is an enfp !!!! crazy how accurate most of this is omg
As an INFJ, I'm not really looking for a relationship. I find it more of a burden tbh. I'm doing pretty well on my own with less responsibility for somebody else.
As an enfp, I think I agree with you. Independence is always promoted, yet there is this kind of " pattern" that assumes that we all have to be in a relationship. Is it really necessary? If it is, it means that it is impossible for us to live as single. Isn't this need toxic?
@@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero I actually don't wanna be alone, but at the same time I don't wanna be involved romantically. What I like to have is some sort of a PA/helper, someone who I can send errands to, especially going outside or talking to unwanted visitors lol Mundane things and small talks is just a no no for me.
@@chorvagee I don't want to be alone either. I wish I could be alone without getting hurt, but it's impossible. Anyway, I'd like to have a non-romantic partner. For example, Maria Montessori had her son as the only "life long partner", because a romantic relationship at her time would hindered her career. Sorry for my English, I'm actually Italian
@@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero it's ok I understand. English is not my first language either. Relationship is complex. You just do what you feel is right for you and you're happy with it.
Ye I feel sometimes that I should just stay single my entire life and help Ppl... I'm an infj too
I can confirm as an INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP that it is literally amazing
as an ENFP who goes off topic ALWAYS
jschlatt sombrero pfp go b r r
my ex was an ENFP but i lost him because at that time i was a damn ISTJ, funny how years have changed me into a INFJ and now I realize and so deeply regret about losing the probably one and only as I might die alone :(
@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm girl, there's literally a million ENFP in the way beyond the garden's walls, the worse is saved for us, who will have to search all the holes to find a INFJ
@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm your type can’t change, you can’t go from ISTJ to INFJ. You must have been mistyped, don’t worry that happens quite often to most of us the first time. Your type is determined by the cognitive functions you use and the priority order in which you prefer to use those. You might feel like another type when you give preference to a cognitive function that you normally wouldn’t use as much but they are set in stone. Your type can’t change as you are born with your cognitive stack.
@@AnhPhuong-kr1wm don't go TOO deep into MBTI until it dictates your life. It's not a manual, just something to help know yourself better :D
omg, what a cute drawing style :3