INFJ & ENFP - The most compatible relationship?

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1862

    We also made a video on the signs you're an INFJ, the world's rarest personality type: th-cam.com/video/D89N3_fFwrA/w-d-xo.html

    • @Elliot__Smelliott
      @Elliot__Smelliott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi

    • @whotheflipism00n
      @whotheflipism00n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      can you do INFP?

    • @Bottleofwater-n5y
      @Bottleofwater-n5y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ah, ghenshin impact references, now THESE are true golden references, not the SMP community ones

    • @Ramkumar-eh3ij
      @Ramkumar-eh3ij 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can you do like this for INTP to please

    • @felixcyprus1667
      @felixcyprus1667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want to see ISFJ next, but either way I'll be happy to watch whats next

  • @haru-fk8yu
    @haru-fk8yu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25142

    Psych2Go : INFJ &ENFP the most compatible couple
    also psych2go : INFJ world's rarest
    me an ENFP : no wonder im still single

    • @evarootbeer22
      @evarootbeer22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1239

      All the best finding THE INFJ for you :') - an ENFP who is also single

    • @roseunic6799
      @roseunic6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +526

      Same also INFJ and single

    • @elenana346
      @elenana346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      Yeah, here I am, with an INFJ as a best friend...

    • @aimanharith5817
      @aimanharith5817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@roseunic6799 trueee

    • @roseunic6799
      @roseunic6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@aimanharith5817 Yeahh

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6123

    “Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people.
    You shouldn’t drink poison just cuz you’re thirsty.”

    • @cowl6867
      @cowl6867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Damnn that's good

    • @grav8455
      @grav8455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@Maito89 sounds fun

    • @mpoemp4703
      @mpoemp4703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      VIRAL BABES

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen to that 🙏

    • @crystalgacha2218
      @crystalgacha2218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hit hard since im doing exactly that rn..

  • @genasi9370
    @genasi9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11737

    INFJs just gather together in MBTI TH-cam videos instead of actually meeting new people. That's why there's a lot of us here. :^D

  • @Kkwbia8588
    @Kkwbia8588 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    As an INFJ, I was literally amazed by how my current boyfriend who is ENFP flew through all those social layers that I created to isolate myself to get to me. Just wow.

    • @katystrawberry2513
      @katystrawberry2513 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey, I just want to ask u a quick question since u seem to be very happy with your ENFP boyfriend ... almost all the people I ve dated in the past were ENFPs but I always ended things seeing there was no potential for growth since we both share the same Feeling function and being both feelers in order to be challenged and growth I always feel like there must be a Thinking type in the dynamic ... don t u kinda feel the same way about it? Just curious
      INFJ

    • @Kkwbia8588
      @Kkwbia8588 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@katystrawberry2513 Sorry to hear that. ENFP boyfriend is the best bf SO FAR to me. We're both feelers I agree but I feel so happy when someone empathize me this deep. I want to be more understood than someone who fill the gap that I don't have and idk if that's even healthy...

    • @k8chillx
      @k8chillx ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't know who are the ones approaching me but they are definitely on the bolder side. I don't make myself appear approachable romantically so only the brave and bold are the ones that do

    • @kerstingravel8160
      @kerstingravel8160 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@katystrawberry2513 I‘m an INFJ-A and I’m married to an ISTP. Sometimes this can be very challenging. Once we had an argument about something and my husband wanted to understand my points of thinking. So I really tried my best to explain it as good as it was possible, but he wasn’t able to understand. And not only that, he couldn’t accept it but he really struggled following my thoughts, he just didn’t understand at all. Of course even if there is the same mbti, every person is different, but „thinkers“ and „feelers“ together in a relationship or marriage can be tougher sometimes. Sometimes I miss the feeling of being understood. Of course the INFJ is not easy to understand completely, but sometimes I think the „thinkers“ struggle much more with it.

    • @1in_8billion_
      @1in_8billion_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Frr

  • @Jonesy3461
    @Jonesy3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14172

    I once heard that ENFPs are INFJs but just inside-out. ENFPs tend to wear their childlike/playful approach to the world on the outside (so this is what most people see at first) but have quite a reserved inner world on the inside. On the other hand, INFJs tend to wear their more reserved self on the outside but have a childlike, explorative inner world. It would make a lot of sense considering ENFPs and INFJs have the same cognitive function ordering but inverted.

    • @aureliaavalon
      @aureliaavalon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +769

      Interesting. Well, they do say ENFP is the most introverted among the E type, this is well known. Since they're inverts, I guess INFJs are the most extroverted of the Introverted types? Yup, it does make a lot of sense.

    • @vanio4254
      @vanio4254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

      @@aureliaavalon actually INFJ is the introverted type but we could be seen as the extraverted person.. when i tested my mbti with my friends, my friends help me to answer since that was my first time, i was ENFP, but once i did it myself for so many times i found out that i'm an INFJ. we could be seen kinda extroverted coz we love people, we love to know n solve other's problems, we can be hilarious n funny for keeping the harmony or flow or mood but actually it's draining for us to keep doing that. but we somehow can find our way to recharge n be fun again

    • @Scl3rot1c
      @Scl3rot1c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@aureliaavalon Well, it varies on an individual level, although I'd say that ISFJs are the most extroverted introverts, but I believe that INFJs are the most rational feelers.

    • @laura.bt83
      @laura.bt83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      INFJ - I was just thinking how deeply I relate to all ENFP movie characters, because I’m very much like an ENFP when by myself/with closest friends + free to be vulnerable. It actually is a side of me few people get to see. It’s like ENFP are a part of me. Exactly what you’ve said!

    • @amandacorigliano2606
      @amandacorigliano2606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      That's so true. I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. When we first met, I did see him as a charismatic 'life of the party' type person, but he does not see himself that way. In the five years we've been together, it is as if our personalities reverse sometimes. He reveals his complex inner world to me, and all his goals and theories, while I start acting like a golden retriever.

  • @bummie
    @bummie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5543

    the infj’s in the comments are talkin about us enfp’s like we’re on amazon prime 😭

    • @damnnyall
      @damnnyall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      HAAHAHAAH

    • @arushiverma4652
      @arushiverma4652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @jakechat2716
      @jakechat2716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      (INFJ here) My favourite films are all on amazon prime 😊

    • @Timmyisdissapointed
      @Timmyisdissapointed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      Honestly, my self esteem is on the rise with every comment I read

    • @agniakhumaira8293
      @agniakhumaira8293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      FR HAHAH

  • @somethingcreative3307
    @somethingcreative3307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4624

    As an INFJ it’s good to know there’s alot of ENFP’s in the world because I’m totally gonna leave my room

    • @xavierlong298
      @xavierlong298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      ...eventually.

    • @gayathri.8523
      @gayathri.8523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      please get out ' = '

    • @GBS4893
      @GBS4893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      One hundred ENFP's are ready on the hunt. Prepare for the absurd jokes.

    • @chopotledragon6610
      @chopotledragon6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@GBS4893 damn right

    • @last3mber724
      @last3mber724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      Guess it's time to go out, stand awkwardly, and hope my enfp randomly finds me lol

  • @Saliha1997
    @Saliha1997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    I'm an ENFP and my fiance is INFJ. One of the greatest compliments he ever gave me is that I quieten his mind. I love him so much because we communicate effortlessly, we literally complete each other's thoughts most of the time; it's borderline telepathic. We make each other feel so loved and cared for and respected. But I will say, if you want an ENFP and INFJ relationship to work, both of you have to have the same values, since INFJs have very very strong values and ideals. I just feel so lucky that my and his values coincide so well.

    • @user-io9yn9vr8w
      @user-io9yn9vr8w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      sooooo true 💯💯💯

    • @z-6517
      @z-6517 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      As an INFJ, who barely knows anything about other mbti types, having someone quiet my mind sounds like a dream

    • @idiotic-qf7b
      @idiotic-qf7b ปีที่แล้ว

      same too@@z-6517

    • @epli72
      @epli72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that's so beautiful. I'm not religious at all but bless you guys :D

    • @lauradolecki259
      @lauradolecki259 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same as this only I’m the INFJ, and my bf says I quiet his very busy, anxious mind 🥰👌✨
      We just celebrated 2 years of effortless love 🙂
      I’m an assertive INFJ so I’m more self assured and carefree than the turbulent type.

  • @Prismpunk
    @Prismpunk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6834

    I just met my INFJ. I’ve never felt this connected to someone else as an ENFP. I’m honestly just stunned. I never found what I was looking for in over 30 years and she walks into my life and changes everything. I’m in tears right now. I’ve never been this happy.

    • @sof_3335
      @sof_3335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

      I'm so happy for the both of you ^^

    • @sammiebrown7
      @sammiebrown7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      I'm crying too now cuz it happened to me the same exact thing!

    • @RachelGerrard
      @RachelGerrard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      Some true ENFP over dramatisation right there 🤣

    • @Prismpunk
      @Prismpunk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@RachelGerrard you can expect nothing less from us!

    • @devyaulia7507
      @devyaulia7507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I hope you both stay together forever :)

  • @samanthaeichler1898
    @samanthaeichler1898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3424

    I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I can say this relationship has been the most compatible and healthiest I've ever been in.

    • @susanmoran2154
      @susanmoran2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not for every one the party animal element would annoy me .

    • @Humble_Turtle
      @Humble_Turtle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Where did you guys meet? And who made the move first to talk to the other? And did you notice that he didn’t communicate that much?

    • @gabbip1588
      @gabbip1588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      ​@@susanmoran2154 enfps arent necessarily party animals. I'm an enfp and I'm not. I like to socialize and to make people laugh but I can also be very introverted at times. I think this is true for most enps. We're outgoing and fun when in a social setting, but love spending time alone and quality one on one time with the people we care about

    • @chahjya
      @chahjya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@susanmoran2154 we’re called the most introverted extroverts for a reason

    • @cat01010
      @cat01010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@chahjya and INFJ's are the most extroverted introverts, that is, if you get to know them 🥰 that's just so sweet and fitting

  • @haru3769
    @haru3769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2638

    to all single infjs reading this, i hope we will find our enfp soon :)

    • @lojanta
      @lojanta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I wish for that to happen so bad ;-;

    • @ellapatella2574
      @ellapatella2574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      heyyyy hi heyyyyyyyy infjs heyy 😏😏

    • @haru3769
      @haru3769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lojanta ✨manifesting✨

    • @haru3769
      @haru3769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ellapatella2574 heyyy

    • @domynotes
      @domynotes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeahh

  • @thehumanbeings
    @thehumanbeings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    when i did the test a few years back, i was an enfp but recently i am an infj, so i guess i have the most compatible relationship with myself :")

    • @_Experience_.
      @_Experience_. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I’m sorry I laughed 😭

    • @Roselute
      @Roselute 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      waow

    • @freidenkerin5198
      @freidenkerin5198 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @LUCASxGonzalez
      @LUCASxGonzalez 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What in the mbti?

    • @Luckypeach237
      @Luckypeach237 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly just like me 😂

  • @hellokittybombada9599
    @hellokittybombada9599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2044

    (Meanwhile, 6 years ago...)
    Me, an INFJ: I need someone to be my friend. Someone who won't run away. Maybe send me an angel! The nicest angel you have...
    My ENFP best friend, kicking down the 6th grade door: * maniacal laughter *

    • @alayna.gallardo
      @alayna.gallardo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I LOVE it ☺️ - ENFP

    • @nathanweeb7619
      @nathanweeb7619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well, same with me, except that friend kicked the door in 3rd grade 😅

    • @surbhii.k
      @surbhii.k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm istj

    • @mahammadashad977
      @mahammadashad977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine was at 9th grade😂😂

    • @Jhen0x0
      @Jhen0x0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe I love this! 💕

  • @alexandrina5127
    @alexandrina5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2392

    If anyone’s interested, It’s also down to their cognitive functions.
    INFJ = NiFeTiSe
    ENFP = NeFiTeSi
    Their functions mirrors each other, that’s why they’re compatible

    • @ItsJustVerMent
      @ItsJustVerMent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Interesting.

    • @Ruby-lp7hj
      @Ruby-lp7hj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      My two best friends mirror my cognitive functions °∆°

    • @patrickm.4754
      @patrickm.4754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      ENFP's is also INFJ's shadow.

    • @feiwaan
      @feiwaan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Unfortunately the ENFP I met,isn’t in the least compatible. She doesn’t like me and is soaked with envy which is very obvious.... so

    • @major1388
      @major1388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks cause i was like: "🤔 birds and rollerblading?" Lol

  • @cringeworld4646
    @cringeworld4646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2079

    Can we just appreciate that Psych2go always includes the best references

    • @You-bb5wo
      @You-bb5wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Yess and I’m in love with these two characters and this was like a five minute video

    • @nenosuns
      @nenosuns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      YES

    • @mr.f1rewall2.07
      @mr.f1rewall2.07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amen infj for life

    • @shutit333
      @shutit333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeeessssssss! 💯 all the way! From dream SMP to the rainbow pride flag it’s all amazing!

    • @mitskily8960
      @mitskily8960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol agreed just about to comment this

  • @angelasheppard7112
    @angelasheppard7112 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    ENFP here 🎉🎉🎉 You INFJs are the most amazing people. You understand me! What a breath of fresh air in a world full of people who don't see the beauty in the world.

    • @cuteaxolotyl9688
      @cuteaxolotyl9688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it's mutual

    • @BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv
      @BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha, really? You ENFPs are actually my favourite MBTI types as well!

    • @Hannabie-7
      @Hannabie-7 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Damn, INFJ here and you just said the sweetest thing EVER

    • @bukolashokunbi7620
      @bukolashokunbi7620 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey ENFP here and I love how we are bonding over are compatibility,
      P.S Love you guys❤

  • @nagiivi
    @nagiivi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5191

    me, an INFJ: I don't understand why is it so hard for us to get a lovelife
    also me: hides in my room and watches relationship videos
    Edit: As you can see INFJ's don't hide in the bushes like popular belief says, we actually hide in the comment sections of MBTI TH-cam vids.

    • @Miscinhe
      @Miscinhe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      TOTALLY RELATE 😅

    • @redsenorita6446
      @redsenorita6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      True 😝

    • @redsenorita6446
      @redsenorita6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @sreeraj. design 😅

    • @utauloverlilyteohjiayan8977
      @utauloverlilyteohjiayan8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ahaha you are not alone lol

    • @Byteable
      @Byteable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Ugh as a INFJ guy I think I’m going to be single forever 😐

  • @cielodelgvdo
    @cielodelgvdo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2536

    the fact that I'm a ENFP and my twin sister is a INFJ it's iconic for some reason

    • @srujani4532
      @srujani4532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      that's awesome hahaha

    • @bam9
      @bam9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Do you get along well with your sister? Or fight always?

    • @yazminroldan2109
      @yazminroldan2109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yo soy infj ¿donde se encuentran fácilmente personas enfp?

    • @anasofialugo1590
      @anasofialugo1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Te entiendo, yo soy INFJ y mi hermana es ESFP, y, curiosamente en los famosos con mi personalidad está Rose de Titanic, y en famosos con la personalidad de ella está Jack, y es como, ¡Whaaa! de verdad debemos ser almas gemelas, porque coincidimos tan bien a pesar de ser tan diferentes

    • @GINSHOTGUN
      @GINSHOTGUN 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's awesome

  • @rustedcrabtm6438
    @rustedcrabtm6438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2715

    “INFJ’s are the rarest personally type, they make up 2% of the world’s population”
    Me, an ENFP who’s played far too many gacha games: “hey if it’s higher than 1% it’s Practically guaranteed”

    • @xynium.
      @xynium. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      The Megumin pfp did it for me.

    • @lemoncinn4084
      @lemoncinn4084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m an ENFP tooooo :D I haven’t met any other ENFP before ;-;

    • @rustedcrabtm6438
      @rustedcrabtm6438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@xynium. lmao

    • @leshynezvaloare8044
      @leshynezvaloare8044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Too much genshin mate

    • @ThBlueSalamander
      @ThBlueSalamander 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @sorcha3811
    @sorcha3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1105

    I'm an ENFP and my ex was an INFJ and we had A LOT of conflict. There's a lot more to people than their personality type. In romantic relationship for example, attachment plays a huge role. I was avoidant, she was anxious, and so we were both triggering each other and caught in an anxious-avoidant loop for 4+ years. Yes, we shared similar values and visions, we were both creative and idealistic, we had a lot of fun together, and to a large extent, we just got each other right off the bat. But unfortunately we didn't last because we couldn't work many other things out. As interesting as these personality categories are, they can be way too generalised.

    • @さち-k3k
      @さち-k3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I had the same experience with me (ENFP) and my ex (INFJ). We were so compatible other than the part where we were constantly triggering eachother

    • @sorcha3811
      @sorcha3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@さち-k3kthanks for responding, it's nice to hear people with the same experience! Yeah I think there should be a caveat saying "these personalities have the *potential* to be really compatible if both people are emotionally aware enough to know their wounds and triggers, and to work to understand each other's differences." How are you getting on with processing the relationship / break up?

    • @musicchick581
      @musicchick581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I (enfp) worked to heal my attachment issues before dating an infj. I worked hard on it using the Personal Development School. Best money spent in a long time. Highly worth it. I'm not sure what his (infj) attachment style is but I find many infj females I've been friends with are avoidant or anxious avoidant. Communication isn't their strong suit.

    • @김경-i4z
      @김경-i4z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Had the same experience with you guys as well (ENFP). I had an INFJ ex, we were so compatible on most things and became together. Though we experienced a lot of conflicts and misunderstandings along the way. Emotions were extreme as well, either we’ll be extremely happy or depressingly sad. The relationship ended up badly. I consider my relationship with her as someone who’s hard to love but best feeling of love.

    • @Do_not_look_at_my_videos1322
      @Do_not_look_at_my_videos1322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well... Sorry for That, It must have hurted you
      Does that mean that a relationship between Me (INFJ) and My GF (ENFP) should not stop at seeking a personality?

  • @St4rBuRsT96
    @St4rBuRsT96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    As an INFJ, having an ENFP relationship sounds like the thing I never knew I wanted SO BAD

    • @supergirlysofia3054
      @supergirlysofia3054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      As an ENFP I wish you luck in finding one of my kind soon!

    • @lily-hi8ce
      @lily-hi8ce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      exactly

    • @june23
      @june23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Trust me, it's the best thing to ever happen to your life 😁

    • @chahjya
      @chahjya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As an ENFP, I totally agree with you :)

    • @hopelessamaturerougeofhope4399
      @hopelessamaturerougeofhope4399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I want a relationship with someone that can relate to stuff i like I'm an INFJ that's really quiet unless I'm around people i know but if they interest me enough in certain topics that i like your not getting me to shut up for a while
      Edit: Actually nvm I am an INFP

  • @isabellagonzalez4716
    @isabellagonzalez4716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1267

    The amount of Genshin impact characters that are in this video are insane. I love it

    • @piratesuper1210
      @piratesuper1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      RIGHT?? No one else commented on this? Others have to set their priorities straight! Lol

    • @yumi6537
      @yumi6537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I think they ship zhongli x childe

    • @ark4849
      @ark4849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yes I noticed that too haha. I was like, wait, arent they zhongli and tartaglia? lol

    • @haanhhoangnguyen6567
      @haanhhoangnguyen6567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yumi6537 don’t we all :D

    • @kaimiz
      @kaimiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@yumi6537 and kaebedo lmao

  • @ruthramos2484
    @ruthramos2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3657

    As an ENFP with an INFJ best friend- I swear it just WORKS, the connection is instant and it’s just crazy how great we are together, I’ve never felt more myself with anyone else. I hope you find your INFJ/ENFP ♡︎

    • @fumesquelch9366
      @fumesquelch9366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      this cheered me up, i’ll try to find an ENFP friend, i love enfps so much. they make me happy - INFJ

    • @excusemethisisjinhitentert9053
      @excusemethisisjinhitentert9053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      do u think its better to move into a romantic relationship or just stay as friends?

    • @ruthramos2484
      @ruthramos2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@excusemethisisjinhitentert9053 honestly, it would be an amazing romantic relationship. Since they’re opposites, there would be a great balance and the personalities would just complement each other. But being friends is just as great. I guess it depends on wether or not you’re attracted to that person in a romantic way. If you are, then it could definitely work out.

    • @excusemethisisjinhitentert9053
      @excusemethisisjinhitentert9053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ruthramos2484 ok thanks for ur answer

    • @hipwitthekids793
      @hipwitthekids793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IKRRRR (im an enfp)

  • @itsnemosoul8398
    @itsnemosoul8398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    As an INFJ the difficulty I've seen is ENFPs being very fast paced with the expectations for the relationship. The INFJ takes a long time to trust and form meaningful relationships. If you push them too far they might feel like you're not seriously emotionally invested and shut you out even though you're just at a different point in thought process.

    • @luizbezerra4373
      @luizbezerra4373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      True that! I’m an INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP. Our chemistry is amazing, but while ai want to take our relationship one pace at a tine, giving time to know each other, she wants to rush things and get engaged/married already lol

    • @kkTeaz
      @kkTeaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I would like to formally declare an apology for any rushing done by us ENFPs. I hope noone has had their heart broken because of our spontaneity!

    • @itsnemosoul8398
      @itsnemosoul8398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@kkTeaz Oh, it's the opposite. I feel like ENFPs tend to put their heart in my lap quickly and I need to be careful not to crush it because I need a few more years to do the same lol.

    • @HereIAm247
      @HereIAm247 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As an INFJ, I tend to trust the vibe of the person more. If the vibe is there, it is fine if the relationship. What I strongly dislike, is a person who tries to dictate everything in the relationship, and who tries to 'punish' me if I don't see things his way. And some ENFP's in an unhealthy energy can be this way.

  • @giornogiovanna6858
    @giornogiovanna6858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1364

    I am an infj and have never clicked a psych2go video this fast before

    • @mango9808
      @mango9808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same

    • @Jayneko
      @Jayneko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      bro me too

    • @Jayneko
      @Jayneko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah how is italy going

    • @Jayneko
      @Jayneko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      i love how jojo fans are everywhere on youtube

    • @giornogiovanna6858
      @giornogiovanna6858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@therobinsontableno.5192 thanks thanks pretty well lately

  • @verycoolandimpressivename9802
    @verycoolandimpressivename9802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1481

    Raise your hand if you think the artist did a amazing job portraying a cute relationship

  • @shiwanichandra6602
    @shiwanichandra6602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1963

    Okay people can we have a moment to appreciate the art style, it's ✨beAutiFul✨

    • @chibi_okami
      @chibi_okami 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know right? I really love the artsyle

    • @shutit333
      @shutit333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chibi_okami same! ☺️

    • @lopezroilans.8384
      @lopezroilans.8384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Saw the Genshin Impact references were too many

    • @TaraTatangelo
      @TaraTatangelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes it sure is.

    • @Narvella
      @Narvella 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      why do you spell beautiful like that? and why the sparkles?

  • @shiftagamingfps
    @shiftagamingfps ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Emotion is not a frequent visitor for me as an INTJ, but this video of INFJ and ENFP compatibility was a truly touching exception. I found myself moved in a way that's quite uncommon for me. Seeing the profound understanding, connection, and mutual respect between the INFJ and ENFP characters was deeply inspiring and genuinely touching.
    The emotional intelligence of an INFJ, their depth of thought and their quest for authentic connections, complemented by the enthusiasm, creativity, and warmth of an ENFP, struck a chord within me. I couldn't help but envision myself experiencing a similar connection and harmony in a potential relationship.
    The complexities and beauty of this unique relationship dynamic brought a rare tear to my eye. I appreciate this empathetic and thoughtful portrayal that extends beyond common stereotypes about personality types. Truly an emotional and enlightening journey!

  • @laurawertz5889
    @laurawertz5889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2592

    As an INFJ I hope to find a partner like an enfp who will go to museums with me, look at the stars and find new Hobbies together. Also having minimal conflicts sounds ideal...

    • @julyuhhh6385
      @julyuhhh6385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Same :( I actually found one but he’s a kpop idol 😅😮‍💨

    • @_spt-warwolf_4575
      @_spt-warwolf_4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm interested in all of those things. (However, I'm an INTP)

    • @lilith4258
      @lilith4258 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, so good!

    • @PriyaDas-lq7cn
      @PriyaDas-lq7cn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@julyuhhh6385 same here 😂😂

    • @Nina-pj8wo
      @Nina-pj8wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      you also have to consider most of us are very loud . That peace and quiet is like 10% of who we are . The rest is chaos , yelling , moving around and talking with our hands . It can be too much or exhausting for some people ( its one of my main insecurities)

  • @lijahsampson6979
    @lijahsampson6979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1488

    I’m an INFJ with an ENFP twin brother. We are best friends, but I would never date someone with his personality type. The extrovertedness is a lot, plus you can’t get mad at them without them looking like a kicked puppy who doesn’t know what they did wrong, and that makes communication difficult.

    • @ha8236
      @ha8236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      My twin is INFP and I'm an INFJ

    • @vfin
      @vfin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      actually i think it's best to have introvert and extrovert relationships because extrovetrs usually adopts introverts so it becomes so easy to do activities. my ex was introvert (so am i) and we couldn't do anything lmao

    • @diloromkubayeva6561
      @diloromkubayeva6561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah , you would 😉
      I always thought so before it actually happened to me .
      Quite the opposite - introverted and extroverted natures . Yet feel, think , act in harmony ❤️🖤

    • @nicespaghettisos3400
      @nicespaghettisos3400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      i just had a convrsation with my s/o whos INFJ and im ENFP and what u said about the kicked puppy part it felt so relateble it hurtsbgdwwbfmj

    • @lianadkim
      @lianadkim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe INFJ and ENFP are the best compatible types,, but just not for me :P

  • @ashishvinayjha
    @ashishvinayjha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1800

    As an ENFP in a relationship with INFJ for past 5 years, I can totally confirm that it's the most beautiful relationship one can share ❤️

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I am 20+ years and several kids in,
      and I still feel flutters when he says my name sometimes.
      Our senses of humor really dovetail, too.
      I don't know about you but I think the video is spot on...we just have to focus on
      the ENFP not over-talking
      the INFJ putting in effort to communicate
      their needs
      And making sure dull, rote tasks get done in a fair and timely way.
      Do those ,and you're golden!

    • @bling1217
      @bling1217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Nshsh where is my enfp djdjjd

    • @fordmiller4318
      @fordmiller4318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I sit here with PTSD seeing people have happy lives on TH-cam videos

    • @snackysneaks
      @snackysneaks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@fordmiller4318 same brad, but don’t stop believing!

    • @fordmiller4318
      @fordmiller4318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@snackysneaks I won't, thanks for the positive comment :)

  • @jiji_lilzie_22
    @jiji_lilzie_22 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My boyfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. I relate to everything in this video. We never argue and always talk to each other if we feel that something is slightly wrong. We thrive from bringing up small annoyances and constantly changing to adapt to each other.

  • @yeehawmanel
    @yeehawmanel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1974

    As an INFJ, I must say that ENFPs have the most attractive personality of all. I've been madly in love with an ENFP for almost 3 years now and I think I have never been this fascinated and in love with a person's nature and outlook on life. In an ideal world, we would be together, but honestly I'm grateful every day that we're best friends and that our paths in this life have crossed

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      As an enfp , I liked the compliment very much

    • @su0la
      @su0la 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      ahhh same goes for me as an ENFP for my INFJ friend. There's just something so unique about her.

    • @DreamerFromTheDepths
      @DreamerFromTheDepths 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I don't know what the case is here, but sometimes going for a relationship is scary when you have such a good friendship, relationships can ruin things like that.

    • @yeehawmanel
      @yeehawmanel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@DreamerFromTheDepths I know, I am simply too afraid to do anything in this regard, because I would never forgive myself if I lost someone this dear to me, but honestly I do think about us being more than just friends every single day, which has long ago become rather painful. This past weekend, my friend experienced one of the worst things we all must go through as human beings: the loss of a dear family member. It truly bothered me to see my friend suffering like that and I've since been thinking about that moment. At the same time (and I know this might sound strange), I felt like, even though I didn't do much and I did not know what to do or say really, I was happy with myself, because I could be there and be supportive in such a difficult time. I just hope my friend can overcome this terrible situation as soon as possible and I hope my friend finds some comfort in the wonderful moments and memories shared with this family member. All I want is too see my friend happy and well

    • @Idkwhattowritehere123
      @Idkwhattowritehere123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As an enfp this made me smile.

  • @sashapalma2033
    @sashapalma2033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1364

    I think of ENFP and INFJ relationship as very balanced, natural and almost childlike. ENFP's are the more social/outgoing version of an INFJ, without being too intense. INFJ help ENFP be more organized and grounded, without being boring or overbearing. Almost the exact two sides to the same coin, opposite without being too intense. :)

    • @CipherionYT
      @CipherionYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you think this would apply if the I and E were switched? Idk how much they affect the overall picture

    • @weeka6153
      @weeka6153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel like I’m both I’m so confused rn someone help

    • @CipherionYT
      @CipherionYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@weeka6153 wdym? Have you taken a test?

    • @weeka6153
      @weeka6153 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CipherionYT yea I took a test online

    • @weeka6153
      @weeka6153 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CipherionYT in April 2020 I was ENFP, I’m sep 2021 I apparently am an INFJ, I took it twice too to make sure. My personally type changed ig I understand why now too

  • @brenduchi95
    @brenduchi95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1439

    Reading that most of INFJs are single, make me believe in that MBTI test even more. Hopefully we will meet our ENFP soulmate.
    - an optimistic INFJ

    • @luisponzon3340
      @luisponzon3340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Here's a curious fact, here in Colombia there are almost none INFJ due to the cultural impact our raising has and as few INFJ there are also few ENFP, most people have Centinels or Explorers tendencies. So as an ENFP it is almost impossible to find either people like me as a person for me. Kinda sad. Hope you find your ENFP!

    • @tw_zero_art7299
      @tw_zero_art7299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I am an INFJ-A, how can you find me I rarely go outside, when I go outside I am always alone and find some peaceful place and stare out of no where. Eating alone. Biking alone
      If you find someone that's always alone, eating alone shopping alone that's an INFJ for Sure.

    • @esra00000
      @esra00000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@tw_zero_art7299 this is interesting now whfndgbn im an enfp and when i go outside im usually alone too. im looking for a place to sit in peace like you said. it doesn't me bother me much to go and do stuff by myself. but when im with a close friend who is kinda special, even sitting in grass becoming more exciting and it makes me so happy. but i don't live this often. i wish, and why am i emotional rn damn. anyways hope you're having a good day, you sound like such a nice person.

    • @tw_zero_art7299
      @tw_zero_art7299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@esra00000 I only have close friends only one or two .. who I can be open sometimes. Said my inner thought or some of my problems. Or some of my plans in life. And give my crack jokes sometimes, people might thinking i am boring person but I am not, just I like stare and observe the people at the park at the restaurant. They facial expressions is so amazing. I don't get boring for doing that everyday it's sims like I am collecting some information by looking at them.
      I love to wright stories, love to draw do some comics fan art or whatever I want to do.
      Thanks for that, I think You're a nice person too, I am so curious about you guys ENFP person the most. I want meet one in the future. I think you guys is so interesting.

    • @redsenorita6446
      @redsenorita6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi fellow INFJ

  • @november7189
    @november7189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I FOUND MY ENFP! I REPEAT, I FOUND MY ENFP!!!!

    • @nello5383
      @nello5383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you find?

    • @sams_enfp
      @sams_enfp ปีที่แล้ว

      POGGERS

    • @ondetrond
      @ondetrond 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      HOW????

    • @Definitelynotabot4
      @Definitelynotabot4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you are still together

    • @uniquely_insane
      @uniquely_insane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Luckyyy ❤❤

  • @antheia__
    @antheia__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    My friend group is literally composed of 2 INFJs (including myself) and 2 ENFPs. We're the best friends ever. I admire ENFPs so much I wish I was this type. They are so charismatic, inspiring and fun. To every ENFP reading this: ILYSM YOU'RE AWESOME

    • @_chrstnz
      @_chrstnz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you 😳👉👈

    • @marianalopez3132
      @marianalopez3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you ☺️

    • @mehmetgurdal
      @mehmetgurdal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dude don't sweat it.
      Enfp might be charismatic on the outside but despite their introverted nature INFJ always leaves the biggest impact.

    • @mochiffon
      @mochiffon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!! :D

    • @antheia__
      @antheia__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mehmetgurdal I'll take that as a compliment, thank you 😊

  • @miitsya1830
    @miitsya1830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2294

    are we gonna ignore the fact that childe x zhongli and albedo x kaeya were drawn

    • @zee9991
      @zee9991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I WAS SO SHOCKED

    • @nrhanoon
      @nrhanoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      why i came to the video in the first place lol

    • @-zephyressence-2018
      @-zephyressence-2018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I FELL OFF MY HYPOTHETICAL SEAT

    • @jillianesabaysabay6690
      @jillianesabaysabay6690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      that is why i came in this video hshsh

    • @andieskywalker
      @andieskywalker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      OMG YES and also a banana fish ref?? not sure 4:44

  • @laurap.1701
    @laurap.1701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +886

    ENFP: INFJs make 2% of the world, how will I ever find one
    INFJ: not only do we make 2% od the world, most of us are introverts which means we stay inside 24/7 and once we go out we rarely talk to people :^)

    • @tsvh383
      @tsvh383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      "most". the I in INFJ stands for introverted :)

    • @safyre1704
      @safyre1704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Yeah but INFJs are the best of the introvert group at faking extroversion so sometimes like shiny Pokemon we're around pretending to blend in while low-key hoping to go back home soon where it's safe 😅

    • @HesamDS
      @HesamDS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Im an INFJ and im ok with being with other people i just dont let them get close . You can easily attract us by just being honest and be your self , my crush is ENFP and i have a hug crush on her just because she is the most geniune person that i have ever met and she is so energetic and act like a child but deep inside i can exactly feel how mature she is and how deep she think about anything .(sorry about my bad english )

    • @widjadija
      @widjadija 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@HesamDS your English is great! I wish I was that fluent in another language

    • @HesamDS
      @HesamDS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@widjadija thank you , my friend 🤘🙏

  • @iloveme3649
    @iloveme3649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm an ENFP and my boyfriend is an INFJ, this video along with the comments explain why are we staying together for song long despite being SO different! I talk a lot and he doesn't talk much, sometimes he says that I talk too much lol but I just CAN'T STAND silence while he can. I tell him about EVERYTHING from daily life to my deepest secrets and feelings, meanwhile he's so private that he doesn't feel comfortable sharing things, sometimes I feel like he doesn't trust me enough but now I learn that some people have boundaries, especially INFJs. I always wonder what's compatible between us because sometimes I feel like we have no similarities at all. But out of all people I've been in relationship with, this relationship I have with my INFJ boyfriend is the most PASSIONATE one. We love each other madly and I never feel so connected with a person more than this.

    • @tillycomedy2194
      @tillycomedy2194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is this the wangxian dynamic? 😆😆

    • @talitabotana6992
      @talitabotana6992 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you tell more about how its passionnate? :)

  • @raedewav
    @raedewav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    *"INFJs are the rarest mbti type."*
    Guess that explains my single-ness.

    • @fumesquelch9366
      @fumesquelch9366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      hahahahah im an infj and i’ve never found an infj in my life except online

    • @MisguidingWish
      @MisguidingWish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@fumesquelch9366Thats why we feel left out and feel that nobody likes us
      btw correct ur spelling there before anybody trolls

    • @SWishV13
      @SWishV13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cosmic Wish So thoughtful. That’s why we are so rare and special.

    • @gwen.me0
      @gwen.me0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @favouradis
      @favouradis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😅

  • @brilol3153
    @brilol3153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +905

    when you're an ENFP and INFJ's the rarest personality 😭👌

    • @Slapdatknee
      @Slapdatknee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I need my INFJ now😫

    • @aestaetic07
      @aestaetic07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      good luck to you guys 🥺 :D

    • @Slapdatknee
      @Slapdatknee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aestaetic07 thanks lol

    • @atv9231
      @atv9231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I am an INFJ ........Good luck finding another INFJ

    • @joannajacob9533
      @joannajacob9533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Me an INFJ reading this be like: "Oh I am wanted now".

  • @Payzer100
    @Payzer100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    i’m an ENFP in a relationship with a INFJ for almost 4 years now, everyone always asks us how we work so well together. this sounds just like us

    • @Jiji1277
      @Jiji1277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So do you guys fight a lot? Because I ship tow ppl like you guys but they fight a lot so sometimes I doubt my thoughts about them 😂

    • @rosemensah8980
      @rosemensah8980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too. We've been together 3 years planning on our wedding now

    • @Payzer100
      @Payzer100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Jiji1277 no actually we almost never fight with each other. it’s a super rare occurrence

    • @Jiji1277
      @Jiji1277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Payzer100 aww that's nice, wish you all the best.

    • @cun8i
      @cun8i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      im an INFJ and my girlfriend is an ENFP and i've been with her for almost 3 years now, i find this true because everyone always ask me how me and my girlfriend are still together especially, when we had to do long-distance relationship because of covid last year.

  • @peachi_mixi
    @peachi_mixi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    As an ENFP girl and has an INFJ bestie, this video perfectly sums up our relationship. I literally cannot imagine a life without her like I LOVEEE her so much. We’re like peas in a pod and have never seperated since meeting in primary school. I remember constantly meeting her every week and it got to the point where we became family (her brother married my cousin) and now she has a boyfriend (i was wing-woman :^) keke) which made me so happy and proud of her. I can proudly say we’ll stay together till we’re old and gray 💚

    • @xavyce1628
      @xavyce1628 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      bless your friendship😭✨💕

    • @aali-in6lc
      @aali-in6lc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So shes married and has a boyfroend-

    • @parker.100
      @parker.100 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh man i wish i could find an enfp bestie

  • @lillykatediaz
    @lillykatediaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    INFJ here dating an ENFP. This was so spot on. Because this is our first healthy relationship, we’re still navigating some stuff. But even so, it’s been amazing. ❤️

    • @nesrinbayramali
      @nesrinbayramali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      also infj, so happy for u two🥺💖

    • @jessl2355
      @jessl2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      me too! also dating an enfp. it’s perfect ❤️

    • @markof.4361
      @markof.4361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, so beautifull ^^

    • @ZeDandelion
      @ZeDandelion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      INFJ here married to my ENFP best friend for 2 years now (known him for 17 years lol). Best decision I ever made. ❤

    • @lillykatediaz
      @lillykatediaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ZeDandelion omg! I love that so much for you. Before my bf, I was very weary of marriage but he just makes me want to get married already!

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    1. they are both feelers 1:01
    2. similar goals in a relationship 1:22
    3. conflicts are rare 1:45
    4. abstract communication 2:11
    5. conversational dynamic 2:45
    6. they share similar values 3:18
    7. they have lifestyle differences 3:47
    8. they are intellectually curious 4:22
    9. they are adventurers 4:46
    10. planning is an area of conflict 5:17
    I hope I could help! :D

    • @lametexts
      @lametexts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi

    • @bunnylou7938
      @bunnylou7938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      H O W

    • @lametexts
      @lametexts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ᴵˢ ᶦᵗ ᶠᶦⁿᵉ ᵗᵒ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵒⁿˡʸ ¹ ˢᵘᵇᵎ

    • @Magical-Knight42
      @Magical-Knight42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Time travel

    • @PurrsMom
      @PurrsMom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So helpful ... Thank you Dat Boi 🤗.

  • @charliequartz2085
    @charliequartz2085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an INFJ. This is why we've been best buds for more than 10 years.

    • @jadestankowski5831
      @jadestankowski5831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an ENFP

  • @olopez65
    @olopez65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am an INFJ married to an ENFP for 32 years (and more to come). I agree with most of what it's said in this video. This combination works great for the two of us!

  • @mariamanea930
    @mariamanea930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    Just a small reminder that personality types don't mean that much for a couple, I am an INFJ and my boyfriend of 8 years is an ISTP (the worst possible match). I think that ultimately what makes a relationship work is the amount of effort put from each side. We are both happy with each other 🤗

    • @alexandragriseltellovalenz1029
      @alexandragriseltellovalenz1029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That is what I wanted to hear! Thank you very much

    • @y0urpr0bl3m
      @y0urpr0bl3m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      But actually ISTP types match a lot with INFJ types, so no... it's not the worst possible match.

    • @gideonmele1556
      @gideonmele1556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, relationships take effort and these are just a jumpstart I’d say

    • @jontargaryen62
      @jontargaryen62 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This just helped me calm my mind :(( i have a partner that is an infj and im scared he'll leave me for his enfp best friend (since he liked her before me)

    • @namjesussentmetoprovidehol1822
      @namjesussentmetoprovidehol1822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My best friend is also an ISTP and I'm INFJ, and we are very good friends

  • @mittelego1098
    @mittelego1098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    So nobody's gonna talk about how cute those drawings are?

    • @gimmeymayo4999
      @gimmeymayo4999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you know their twitter or ig of the animator

    • @apfeliguess9383
      @apfeliguess9383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      theres even childe and zhongli by the end lol

    • @nrhanoon
      @nrhanoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@apfeliguess9383 kaeya and albedo too lmao

    • @wuvxiao
      @wuvxiao 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@apfeliguess9383 glad i'm not the only one who noticed-

    • @sozhu9075
      @sozhu9075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gimmeymayo4999 billm1ll on instagram!!

  • @Tommy.18
    @Tommy.18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    I'm an INFJ and my best friend is ENFP. It's a 10 yrs friendship. I love him, I'd do everything for him. He's the light of my life, my guide, he helps me when I'm sad. He's so much important. Every INFJ deserves an ENFP in their life, and every ENFP deserves an INFJ in theirs. ♥️

    • @samya60yearsago
      @samya60yearsago 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I also have 2 ENFP bestfriends and I am INFJ , they're just my other half but different at the same time and we are friends from 8 years

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is so kind, keep appreciating us

    • @itsmoebra8976
      @itsmoebra8976 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samya60yearsago Do you have enough room for 1 more ENFP in your friend zone? 🥲

    • @samya60yearsago
      @samya60yearsago 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itsmoebra8976 it depends 🙃 normally I don't put people easily in my inner circle , I have only 3 friends but if i will get a good compatible freind than why not :)

    • @phoebesanchez6646
      @phoebesanchez6646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I need advice about the infj in my life as an enfp

  • @hyejoocyysubakk1882
    @hyejoocyysubakk1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    my best friend recently took her 2nd mbti test and remained an INFJ. i took the test 3 times already and remained and ENFP. ig that explains a lot why we're each other's best person. as cheesy as it may sound but it really felt like we're made for each other. we're still kids the last time we fought and as we grew older, the connection just got stronger and I don't think i'll find another infj as fitting as her. to whoever reading this, i hope you have/find your perfect ENFP/INFJ pair♡

    • @clearcoast4454
      @clearcoast4454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost her 💔. I'm an infj and my ex-bestie and probably my soul mate was an enfp. She was my love at 1st sight too. We always had lots and lots of similar hobbies, interests, and theories to share and discuss. I've never talked so much to anyone else.

  • @shilpasuresh6960
    @shilpasuresh6960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    My girlfriend is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. This video explains us perfectly!! Lots of love

    • @nesrinbayramali
      @nesrinbayramali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      wow u lucky guys!!

    • @kira-py8gt
      @kira-py8gt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same except i’m the enfp!

    • @mikeodonell1551
      @mikeodonell1551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      u stupid infj satisfied for an imperfect human. u should not be called an infj anymore. only infj are superior humans every other type is just low level beings.

    • @LemonMeIon
      @LemonMeIon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mikeodonell1551 lol

    • @Commondumb64
      @Commondumb64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mikeodonell1551 Big problem there is 2% of you

  • @sheilawebb9746
    @sheilawebb9746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    I'm INFJ, & I've always loved being around ENFPs. They're usually fun, caring, non-judgmental, & easy to be around. Also, beings we're very similar, but they're more extroverted, they make me feel less awkward about the things I'd normally keep to myself.

    • @esha1323
      @esha1323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm an enfp but I'd never thought of INFJ can like a ENFP this much 😊😊😊

    • @simmi5493
      @simmi5493 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      owu🥰

    • @ErdemtugsC
      @ErdemtugsC ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YEA my teacher is enfp and they just somehow understand us

    • @marianthi40007
      @marianthi40007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Naawww stop it you 👉👈 qwq
      But it's true qwq whenever i see an introvert i go like "Mine, adoption, protecc"

  • @andromeda19775
    @andromeda19775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1008

    "the compatibility of ENFP and INFJ"
    * sees Ash and Eiji *
    * *cries* *

    • @yeyditorres1945
      @yeyditorres1945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      IKR I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was in tears...

    • @andromeda19775
      @andromeda19775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@yeyditorres1945 they broke my heart

    • @spochispoo177
      @spochispoo177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT HSJSSHAJHAHA

    • @icespiceender
      @icespiceender 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      please i was literally ready to cry

    • @syakirahheartnet8059
      @syakirahheartnet8059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😭😭😭

  • @Books-and-coffee0
    @Books-and-coffee0 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm an INFJ and I've been with my ENFP partner for 5 years now. There's not a single person on the planet who gets me more than him, not even my own parents. And although there have been big problems in our relationship lately the emotional bond I've made with this person is so strong I doubt it'll never go away.

  • @sue3912
    @sue3912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    UH
    ASH AND EIJI?
    ALBEDO AND KAEYA??
    *ZHONGLI AND CHILDE???*
    Ok but jokes aside her voice is so adorable and the art style is just yes I'm gonna cry that's so wholesome

    • @miray8831
      @miray8831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I SAW NOBARA FROM JJK TOO

    • @bigcan7493
      @bigcan7493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      actually, Ash is an ISTP and Eiji is an ISFJ

    • @sue3912
      @sue3912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@miray8831 I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THAT IS BUT OKAY

    • @sue3912
      @sue3912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bigcan7493 wow that's cool

    • @abbyxiong362
      @abbyxiong362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      akaashi was there tooo

  • @shanw.2948
    @shanw.2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    [New Quest]
    "Find an INFJ to compliment my ENFP-ness."
    Difficulty-level: INFJ's are the rarest type of personality
    Reward: Life-long partner? Life-long friend? We will have to see.

    • @ilovejaeyoon6698
      @ilovejaeyoon6698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Goodluck! - from an INFJ-T

    • @shanw.2948
      @shanw.2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@ilovejaeyoon6698
      Wow, I got an INFJ to compliment me, I guess the quest was less difficult than I thought it would be 😂 Thank you for the encouragement, I appreciate it 😄

    • @avanny3915
      @avanny3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I've always wanted to get an ENFP friend, but it seems that as INFJ I'm too introverted to go to the places that the ENFP frequent, so don't give up, you can find a lot of INFJs in TH-cam video comments about mbti 😂😂

    • @avanny3915
      @avanny3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Oliver Erz oooh, I think so far I haven't met any of them, or maybe I have and I didn't realize for some reason

    • @avanny3915
      @avanny3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Oliver Erz Any tips to recognize ENFPs? 👀

  • @melisa.youtube
    @melisa.youtube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    0:33 Ash and Eiji
    1:07 Albedo and Kaeya
    1:29 and 5:52 Zhongli and Childe

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Nice! Thanks for pointing them out :) - Cindy

    • @241Cookies__
      @241Cookies__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Psych2go it was all in the name of the weebs Cindy. Melissa Summer was just pout ing out the good stuff

    • @mehmetgurdal
      @mehmetgurdal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ok looks like you have a pretty wide collection with anime. :)

    • @eugenetheinfp5402
      @eugenetheinfp5402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wait that's kaeya?!
      I didnt notice, maybe because his skin is blue? Or are my eyes just playing tricks on me?

    • @leinlady9860
      @leinlady9860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought I'm the only one

  • @rheizramreact1064
    @rheizramreact1064 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm already 11 months in relationship with an ENFP... All I can say I'm in peace. I feel relieved. I feel like I'm healing. It's like I'm a kid again. ✨😌♥️ -INFJ-

  • @stranger-draws
    @stranger-draws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    I can confirm as an INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP that it is literally amazing

    • @natrod8628
      @natrod8628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      as an ENFP who goes off topic ALWAYS
      jschlatt sombrero pfp go b r r

    • @AnhPhuong-kr1wm
      @AnhPhuong-kr1wm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      my ex was an ENFP but i lost him because at that time i was a damn ISTJ, funny how years have changed me into a INFJ and now I realize and so deeply regret about losing the probably one and only as I might die alone :(

    • @felipecardoso5247
      @felipecardoso5247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@AnhPhuong-kr1wm girl, there's literally a million ENFP in the way beyond the garden's walls, the worse is saved for us, who will have to search all the holes to find a INFJ

    • @RavenStrawman
      @RavenStrawman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AnhPhuong-kr1wm your type can’t change, you can’t go from ISTJ to INFJ. You must have been mistyped, don’t worry that happens quite often to most of us the first time. Your type is determined by the cognitive functions you use and the priority order in which you prefer to use those. You might feel like another type when you give preference to a cognitive function that you normally wouldn’t use as much but they are set in stone. Your type can’t change as you are born with your cognitive stack.

    • @aimalisapro123
      @aimalisapro123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnhPhuong-kr1wm don't go TOO deep into MBTI until it dictates your life. It's not a manual, just something to help know yourself better :D

  • @isabelle769
    @isabelle769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    Waiting for my ENFP boy without going out and getting to know people is quite ironic huh

    • @morayoadedapo2457
      @morayoadedapo2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Waiting for my infj boy when he won't go out and get to know people is also quite ironic 🥲

    • @isabelle769
      @isabelle769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@morayoadedapo2457 I haven't thought about it in your perspective, it also sucks lol

    • @urphakeandgey6308
      @urphakeandgey6308 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm an ENFP guy and maybe getting fucked up at parties all the time is the wrong approach... But where to meet an INFJ girl in the first place?

    • @nugulikeyou9737
      @nugulikeyou9737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      dont worry. i'm pretty sure that that ENFP boy will be coming to *you*

    • @isabelle769
      @isabelle769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@urphakeandgey6308 idk really I guess it depends on each one but for me I think the most probable way would be at work, college or some place I usually go. But i'd be kinda open if someone approaches me *in a nice way* someplace else

  • @chorvagee
    @chorvagee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    As an INFJ, I'm not really looking for a relationship. I find it more of a burden tbh. I'm doing pretty well on my own with less responsibility for somebody else.

    • @Vuoiunazollettadizucchero
      @Vuoiunazollettadizucchero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      As an enfp, I think I agree with you. Independence is always promoted, yet there is this kind of " pattern" that assumes that we all have to be in a relationship. Is it really necessary? If it is, it means that it is impossible for us to live as single. Isn't this need toxic?

    • @chorvagee
      @chorvagee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero I actually don't wanna be alone, but at the same time I don't wanna be involved romantically. What I like to have is some sort of a PA/helper, someone who I can send errands to, especially going outside or talking to unwanted visitors lol Mundane things and small talks is just a no no for me.

    • @Vuoiunazollettadizucchero
      @Vuoiunazollettadizucchero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@chorvagee I don't want to be alone either. I wish I could be alone without getting hurt, but it's impossible. Anyway, I'd like to have a non-romantic partner. For example, Maria Montessori had her son as the only "life long partner", because a romantic relationship at her time would hindered her career. Sorry for my English, I'm actually Italian

    • @chorvagee
      @chorvagee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Vuoiunazollettadizucchero it's ok I understand. English is not my first language either. Relationship is complex. You just do what you feel is right for you and you're happy with it.

    • @Abhishek-bc2wl
      @Abhishek-bc2wl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ye I feel sometimes that I should just stay single my entire life and help Ppl... I'm an infj too

  • @genesispalacios7958
    @genesispalacios7958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Im an ENFP and i LOVEEEEE INFJ WITH MY WHOLE HEART. My two closest friends are INFJ and it’s such a healthy, energetic, carefree connection. Both of them were really shy with me at the beginning but I never mind that because i find it more intriguing to peel the layers off someone one by one. Now we can just talk about ANYTHING for hours and when we’re together i come up with random ideas but they always help me execute and plan them to turn it into a reality. I notice that they are amazing listeners but i’m always wary to not talk too much and make they have a voice so i always like to ask for their opinions on topics. Moral of the story GET AN INFJ BESTIE

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We love you ❤

    • @michellekingsbury9347
      @michellekingsbury9347 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heh yea we can be kind of timid and cautious at first around new people sometimes. Like I think thats also cause we are trying to determine, how weird we can be with a person without scaring them off or spooking them unless thats just me O.O

    • @boaoftheboaians
      @boaoftheboaians หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh bruh I can feel intense ENFP energy from you cause of the way you worded your comment lmao, it’s amazing 😂
      This comment comes from an INFJ btw

  • @mratheimperfec1033
    @mratheimperfec1033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +926

    The timestamps
    1:01 They are both feelers
    1:23 Similar goals in relationship
    1:45 Conflicts are rare
    2:11 Abstract communications
    2:45 Conversational dynamic
    3:18 They share similar values
    3:48 They have lifestyle difference
    4:22 They are intelectually curious
    4:47 They are adventurers
    5:17 Planning is an area of conflicts

    • @joejoe-cs8ct
      @joejoe-cs8ct ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i love you

    • @yomiseno
      @yomiseno ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is that each time I meet an INFJ, I feel like they're always romantically compatible with an ENFP but not me? I have seen an ENFP female many times and is friends with one, then I meet INFJs, I feel like they'll do good with ENFPs. Maybe it's the shadow function as well that affects their values, motivations, etc..
      Til now it's still the same for those INFJs I have been with. It's actually weird I never met anyone who's really made for ENTP. It's mostly INTJ.

    • @ไอริณพวงทอง
      @ไอริณพวงทอง ปีที่แล้ว

      ,

  • @mocha2976
    @mocha2976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    “You can't just drink gasoline and expect to be okay."
    "Sorry I drank ur gasoline love you lots tho"
    my bokuaka heart felt that.

    • @EmTreasure88
      @EmTreasure88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes yes yes yes yes (i love haikyuu and am practically obsessed a bit)

    • @aki3917
      @aki3917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AAAAA i still havd angsty fanfictions in my head oof 😭😭

  • @bakedpi3606
    @bakedpi3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I'm an INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP... I've been in 3 previous relationships yet no one has managed to capture my heart like this before.

  • @kristannestone1748
    @kristannestone1748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My daughter is an enfp and we have such a wonderful relationship. I love the way we connect on those meaningful levels, and even tho the chaos is challenging, I wouldn't have it/her/us any other way!!

  • @TaraTatangelo
    @TaraTatangelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    To the person reading this comment, you are loved. The world is a better place because of you. Have a beautiful day ❤️

    • @doginboat
      @doginboat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are too quick to assume im loved xd

    • @jessenceq3250
      @jessenceq3250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A perfect comment for a video about NFs. We can be such a light to others.

    • @Madamekittylein
      @Madamekittylein 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, I give it back to you, you're awesome and deserve it!

    • @Qvotes
      @Qvotes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And you, too, my dear 💚 Thanks for reminding others 🤗

    • @Commondumb64
      @Commondumb64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My heart: AHHHHHHHHHHHHH IT HURTS TOOOOOO MUCH MAKE IT STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Also my heart: Thank you I needed that and I hope you have a wonderful day

  • @jdelmarva
    @jdelmarva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I'm an INFJ dating an INFJ and to be real with you there's no conflict ever, it's just constant bursts of positive energy and support. love them to death

    • @choimoi9275
      @choimoi9275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ohh yeahh...I was curious about it too....like how about INFJ dating an INFJ......that would be fun too I guess

    • @QueMeVezWei
      @QueMeVezWei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I dated an infj girl once, first date good, second one was hard man, we just didn’t click 😰 (btw I’m an infj guy)

    • @arvindiyer1649
      @arvindiyer1649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im INFJ and I have an InFJ crush
      But
      I can sense, and keep getting hints that she isn't interested in me in the same way that I am, even tho we relate and click with each other, and have pretty similar interests
      So, staying in the friend zone for now :/

    • @desnout
      @desnout 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@arvindiyer1649 just go for it king
      Don't you lose your chance. We INFJ people are really rare

    • @Lonewolf0840
      @Lonewolf0840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@desnout could cause a door slam.

  • @Patar145
    @Patar145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    So I've done the Myers-Briggs personality test about 5 times over the years and I've always gotten INFJ and I've never really thought much about it. I instantly became curious about it after watching this video and asked my girlfriend of 4 years what she is. I guess it comes as no surprise that she is an ENFP! She kept saying "Omigosh", "No way", etc to all of the characteristics shown in this video because of how accurate it is to the good and the annoying parts of our relationship. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful and adorable topic! This video initiated a fun little introspection with my girlfriend and I, which was quite fun :)

    • @maximilianb564
      @maximilianb564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what are the annoying parts?

    • @jjennafaiith
      @jjennafaiith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this might be my favorite comment on here and i’ve been reading for a whilee lol, i hope i find this when it’s my time as well :) -enfp gal

  • @dumblue7254
    @dumblue7254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can't wait to meet my INFJ , all your comments make it seem like a dream!!!

  • @1901link
    @1901link 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    As an ENFP, I just lost an INFJ friendship recently and I've never felt more alone since then

    • @iHateGenZweebs
      @iHateGenZweebs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That’s really heartbreaking :( I really hope you find someone to fill that void

    • @hashy0x43
      @hashy0x43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same here :( I'm an INFJ and lost my ENFP friend.
      Miya was the best thing that ever happened to me.
      She was right to leave me though. I became a clingy mess after graduation and it was too much for her.
      After that my other close friend, J, had developed a middle school crush on her, but soon realized she didn't feel the same. So he started hanging out with me and our friend C.
      One day, me in my infinite stupidity. Said something I shouldn't have because I thought it would help him get over her and then said something to hint that maybe he didn't really love her either. But it was severely misinterpreted as me talking bad about her (which is ironic because I'm literally the one that defend M whenever J or C would start talking shit about her behind her back) and he sent it to her and all our friends in the group to spite me. Then he stopped being friends with M entirely (at least that's what he says).
      Everyone that didn't block me, I told to leave. I had felt so ashamed.
      Ironically, the only one that seen what I said and understood me perfectly was C.
      I wish I could apologize :(
      Sorry for the inconvenience reader. Just trying to get it off my chest.

    • @quirklesteins2741
      @quirklesteins2741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@hashy0x43 i’m rlly sorry that happened to u :( i hope ur doing better :) a lot of times, actions we as people take can come across as rash and hurtful, even if those were not our intentions. give your friends some time, and when u feel u and they are ready, maybe u can talk ab the situation and what happened. give them the time and space to be understanding of ur actions, and maybe u can do the same for them. most people are more compassionate than they let on, and for the most part, people deserve second chances. idk whether that makes sense haha i’m not rlly the best at giving advice but i hope u have a great day neverless and that things work out for u!
      - an enfp 😁

    • @rachel-lb1zx
      @rachel-lb1zx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Happened to me (an enfp) too, it's been almost a year since this happened. The loneliness part is the worst because I haven't really find anyone else compatible. I hope you find someone soon!

    • @tsunistuni
      @tsunistuni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. Feels so bad lmao

  • @noname-cv8kp
    @noname-cv8kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    The reason why ENFP and INFJ get along? They are each others reflection by how they use functions.
    ENFP: Ne Fi Te Si
    INFJ: Ni Fe Ti Se

    • @dearp.324
      @dearp.324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nefitesi? Nifetise? Do you mind to explain more? 👉👈

    • @Commondumb64
      @Commondumb64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@dearp.324 Yeah NE is extroverted intuitiveness because N equals Intuitive and E equals Extroverted so Enfps have NE Fi introverted feeling but sucks at Te and Si. (extroverted thinking and introverted sensing) Now for INFJs the same thing thing but flip the extroverted and introverted stuff around

    • @sephythelark
      @sephythelark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is exactly why we don’t get along. We’re never on the same page, or if we are, different paragraphs.

    • @dearp.324
      @dearp.324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Commondumb64 owww I got it. Thank you. One last question, since when they create the nefitesi/nifetise stuff?

    • @noname-cv8kp
      @noname-cv8kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dearp.324 hmm i cant explain it properly but you can search up mbti cognitive functions for a better explanation

  • @endorphinblue6958
    @endorphinblue6958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    As an INFJ, I found this quite cute. But irl, I tend to avoid extroverted people (lmao Idk why, maybe because I easily feel awkward around them) No wonder why I’m still single lol.

    • @bebelmatson
      @bebelmatson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      this is something the mbti system doesn’t make very clear, but is very important: the E and I in every type isn’t equivalent to socially extraverted/introverted. it just alters the order of cognitive functions :) meaning that, lucky for you, there are plenty of socially introverted ENFPs around. :D

    • @leeexploreeatenjoy4730
      @leeexploreeatenjoy4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you, as an Infj it's feels awkward for me to get a long with extrovert 😬That's why I'm still single too😅

    • @potato6023
      @potato6023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@leeexploreeatenjoy4730 yeah...but doesn't it feel great when they become your friend

    • @leeexploreeatenjoy4730
      @leeexploreeatenjoy4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@potato6023 awesome ✨🤗

    • @autumnknox7108
      @autumnknox7108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@bebelmatson ya! ENFP speaking here:)! We are called the most introverted extroverted type. I do have a certain boldness, and can be blunt in social situations, but often I tend to be shy in big groups. Only when I'm with my close friends or people that I know, do I tend to be loud and goofy. Most of my friends are introverts. AlsOooo, I do get tired of hanging out with people at a certain point. I need time by myself, and enjoy going on hikes/reading/dancing alone in my room>.> AHEM. Keep in mind, we like to talk about "deep" things. I love passionate conversations and listening to people's own experiences. At the end of the day, although people with my personality type are similar in many ways, everyone is their own unique individual.
      Have a great dayyyyyyyyyyy (or night!)
      Ps. Introverted simply means that you recharge on your own, whereas extroverts recharge with other people.
      Pss. hi
      Psss. I just like doing this ps thing XD
      Pssss. if you read this all w o w congrats
      Pssss. pickles are actually cactuses designed by the government to infiltrate society prove me wrong

  • @yeppuja
    @yeppuja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was an INFJ two years ago but now my MBTI changed to ENFP, I’m beginning to think these two personality type are somewhat similar to each other. I don’t really know how to put in words but someone in the comment section said it right. The inside-out description really made sense to me

    • @evanmcshane
      @evanmcshane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You should look into ENFP's and trauma, as the "shadow" ENFP presents as an INFJ.

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same thing happened to me! I’m now an ENFP but once tested as INFJ. I’ll look into the trauma comment

    • @yeppuja
      @yeppuja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@evanmcshane that sounds interesting

    • @yeppuja
      @yeppuja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinedozier2154 same

    • @yeppuja
      @yeppuja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darthvader1793 maybe in parallel universe, in this i don't have one

  • @lyl1nne
    @lyl1nne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +734

    "I'm bored, let's go hiking"
    "listen up Dracula, it's 3 in the morning"
    The way I let out the ugliest laugh in the world sounding like a goat being strangled-

    • @vibinggood2023
      @vibinggood2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same!

    • @devyaulia7507
      @devyaulia7507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dracula lmao 🤣

    • @NafAmer
      @NafAmer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the perfect relationship doesn't exi-

    • @meandwatermelon
      @meandwatermelon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @araya9316
      @araya9316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is me & my enfp going on a drive to no where at 3 am..

  • @spacerwoman.
    @spacerwoman. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    My mom is a INFJ and my dad is ENFP! They're so cute together, healthy and lovely relationship. And my mom always said that I am the girl version of my dad, that we're CtrlC CtrlV and well, turned out that I'm also ENFP....

    • @dinaf.k5372
      @dinaf.k5372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What is their relationship like? I've been raised in a loveless marriage, so i It is really nice to see parents who are compatible together.

    • @whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou
      @whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dinaf.k5372 Lol, me too. I'm so surprised when I read comments like this because my parents relationship has been nothing but toxic, toxic, toxic.

  • @tonigarcia5161
    @tonigarcia5161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    THE ANIME AND GENSHIN IMPACT REFERENCES OMG

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I play genshin 2 I'm rolling for the banners adventure rank 45

    • @nataliatothemoon
      @nataliatothemoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying Tanaka is rolling

    • @SakuraTsukino27972
      @SakuraTsukino27972 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eyy, I'm AR 55 and trying to get my c2 Zhongli!
      But if I don't get him I'll just save up for Raiden lol
      2/7 archons currently collected ;)

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SakuraTsukino27972 awesome I try to save my primo gems but it's just 2 tempting I'm a genshin impact slayer slash bounty

  • @jackleonemax
    @jackleonemax ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm a INFJ, I love these drawings, they are so cute and well made. I never knew about this high compatibility but it explains so many things. That's great to have a partner that does not like conflict. It's amazing to have someone to listen to for hours!

  • @shutit333
    @shutit333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    My parents are like this and this is true! :D
    Edit: I know this is something everyone says but, tysm for all the likes guys! I’ve never had that many likes on anything before lol! ❤️❤️😊😊

    • @drinasun6984
      @drinasun6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mine too!

    • @rocky-jy5nx
      @rocky-jy5nx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      maybe because ur parents had a love marriage

    • @kikinkap7723
      @kikinkap7723 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg mine too

    • @Mockingjay975
      @Mockingjay975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooh!

    • @bigcan7493
      @bigcan7493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      did you save the world in your past life? that's amazing! :')

  • @luludraws2248
    @luludraws2248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    “Oh to find my infj to my enfp” *dramatic exhale*

    • @kellykapoor2
      @kellykapoor2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ikr (:

    • @kellykapoor2
      @kellykapoor2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Laila PL omg that was so sweet of you...thank you so so much

    • @kellykapoor2
      @kellykapoor2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Laila PL omg sure ...im totally gonna tell you guys if we do get together....and thanks a lottt

  • @breyonjohnson4973
    @breyonjohnson4973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    im an enfp and im always drawn to introverted people . They are like lil baby ducks i must protect.

  • @laurengreenspan5356
    @laurengreenspan5356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ENFP married to INFJ. It's magic.

  • @sushidashi6152
    @sushidashi6152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I’ve seen celebrities that are ENFP and the way they act towards the people they care about is exactly what I’m looking for as an INFJ.

    • @julyuhhh6385
      @julyuhhh6385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same.Kim Namjoon uwu

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@julyuhhh6385 omg yes! :D

    • @bri1778
      @bri1778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No wonder why I get attracted to Namjoon who's ENFP. I mean, as an INFJ, I find his personality so attractive and admiring.

    • @sushidashi6152
      @sushidashi6152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@julyuhhh6385 I meant Yeonjun of TXT but WAIT NAMJOON IS AN ENFP?? he’s my bias and Taehyung is also an ENFP and he’s my bias wrecker. It all makes sense now😳

    • @choimoi9275
      @choimoi9275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@julyuhhh6385 heyyyyy it's the sameeee
      I guess most of infj armies have their eyes on jooonieeee 😭😭😭😭😭 he seems like the perfect man I'm looking for :')

  • @bhavyadwivedi8240
    @bhavyadwivedi8240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I'm an INFJ dating an ENFP. I actually got him into the Myers-Briggs Test knowing that he'd be an ENFP and we later figured how compatible our personality types are! (Finally, got an explanation for it...)
    We'll be celebrating our two-year dating anniversary on May 15th...
    I'm just really grateful to have found him and anyone reading this comment- Just know that the right person will show up at the right time and have faith in the Universe :)

    • @Moh_AMJ
      @Moh_AMJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope y’all had a great anniversary ❤️

    • @tw_zero_art7299
      @tw_zero_art7299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky for you've already found your ENFP in your life, me still finding one

  • @amaliciousgoose
    @amaliciousgoose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    I’m dying -
    “You can’t drink gasoline and expect to be okay.”
    “I’m sorry I drank your gasoline lots of love”

    • @sams_enfp
      @sams_enfp ปีที่แล้ว

      you know ENFP drank the gasoline 💀

  • @kristbot666666
    @kristbot666666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I've been in a relationship for 7 years. Recently my SO and I, took personality tests and discovered we are INFJ(me) and ENFP(him). Then we took a deep dive into researching more and almost every site called us polar opposites until we landed at this video. Suddenly so many things made so much sense xDD This is crazy. We never understood why we have such strange harmony and why things just worked even if we are so different, now we do ahahah.

  • @shrek069
    @shrek069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    "ENFPs are more laid back and INFJs are more organized"
    Me: *doesn't do any of my school work for a week*
    My ENFP boyfriend: DO YOUR WORK OR I'LL DO IT FOR YOU

    • @insertunoroginalnamehere6189
      @insertunoroginalnamehere6189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Did he do it for u?

    • @whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou
      @whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ^Did he? 😂

    • @Rinoalessa
      @Rinoalessa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      It's the same with me (ENFP) and my INFJ Boyfriend, I'm the more organized one. But he plans more, i hate planning.

    • @ShivamSharma-ip8cy
      @ShivamSharma-ip8cy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      We are good at planning
      In our minds 😂😂

    • @Rinoalessa
      @Rinoalessa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ShivamSharma-ip8cy hahaha true

  • @ThePape69
    @ThePape69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    As an ENFP with an INFJ wife, I really agree about this. We may argue a lot when we work the same project, but we love to share stories and exploring ideas together. My wife also my perfect traveling partner, we travel a lot and we love exploring new places and learning new cultures. ❤️

  • @grm7237
    @grm7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I'm an INFJ and been in a relationship with an ENFP. Even we didn't ended together, I can still confirm that it was the best relationship I could ever imagine. Tho we're different in a lot of things, we never saw them as hindrances because we love that we are learning and amazed by each other's uniqueness. I have never been appreciated and respected that way as compared to my previous relationships who are not ENFPs. It was such a give and take relationship. Now, we're very good friends and still have each other's back.

    • @user-pk5pl7ox1e
      @user-pk5pl7ox1e 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww...hmm...interesting

    • @FPT84
      @FPT84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel enfp male and infj female work well. I'm an enfp female, I'm not feeling good with an infj male unfortunately

    • @favouradis
      @favouradis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's nice to hear that

  • @sudelikespotato
    @sudelikespotato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I‘m shook. I‘ve watched this video like a year ago and really didn‘t know how accurate this is. I‘m an ENFP and just met a guy a few months ago and he’s literally unique. Well, i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We almost became a couple and last week i told him about mbti. It came out that he’s an INFJ - no wonder lmao, i mean world’s rarest personality type yk. And now i’m watching this video again and i’m just shoked how well described our relationship is in this video.

  • @JustinHoang92
    @JustinHoang92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Me an INFJ always feel fascinated by ENFP and want to be with them romantically, but the ENFPs I've encountered always fall for other people and run after them even though they admit they feel the chemistry with me. I feel frustrated by this sometimes.

    • @heffthehecked
      @heffthehecked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      you'll never stop seeing "enfp and infj are super compatible with each other!" everywhere in mbti communities. but not every infj is the same, and no enfp is the same. there are very unique people in every mbti type, so don't feel obligated to date an enfp just because mbti makes them look like best friend materials made for infjs. the person you end up with romantically is your best friend by default regardless of mbti type. it could be an istj, an infp, or entp. you literally never know and the best people aren't just found in enfps, i've known shady enfps. when you know who the one it is you love, you hardly give a shit about what mbti they are anymore because they're so right for you and they'll feel only you are right for them. you're wasting your time feeling frustrated over an overpraised stereotype, it's not easy to date just any enfp because they have their own characteristics, perceptions, and values too apart from mbti. sincerely infj, you're awesome the way you are and there'll be someone exceptional for you someday.

    • @JustinHoang92
      @JustinHoang92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Of course I'm not saying I can only be with ENFP. I just notice those who I was drawn to the most in the past have usually been ENFP, back when I had no idea of what MBTI is. I only discovered this MBTI and ideal match a year now. This is just the pattern I find out, naturally falling for the that type without my knowledge. Although now it might already be a bias, I gotta say I always have a soft spot for ENFPs. But really, thanks for the advice. Appreciate it.

    • @clarissaariel
      @clarissaariel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heffthehecked dude you just inspired me to write a love story based on your comment. I'm an INFJ myself dreaming to find my ideal ENFP and I couldn't agree more with your opinion

  • @kylaopiniano1191
    @kylaopiniano1191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm an INFJ and my friend is an ENFP. We really get along so well. We can talk, laugh, and be together 'til the wee hours. He is a wonderful guy.

    • @221BSam
      @221BSam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re lucky! I had a friend like that once, not anymore 😔

  • @Horror_culture-
    @Horror_culture- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Me and my best friend are and ENFP and INFJ respectively. We take it every so often and always get the same result
    Edit: I’m back a year later. Just found out my new boyfriend is also an INFJ like my best friend 🤦🏽‍♀️🤩

    • @shutit333
      @shutit333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cool! 😊

  • @WillRoyMedia
    @WillRoyMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm ENFP and my girlfriend is INFJ. I swear we're like the same person. It's crazy!

  • @vincaroseus
    @vincaroseus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Zhongli and Childe kinda jumpscared me in that asiuhdasiudsahsadu-

    • @TAOTAO-k6j
      @TAOTAO-k6j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      SAME WITH ALBEDO AND KAEYA

    • @vincaroseus
      @vincaroseus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@TAOTAO-k6j I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE UNTIL I REWATCHED-

    • @LittleRED_Mochi
      @LittleRED_Mochi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      HAHA.. notice it the 1st time and i was like IS THAT WHO I THINK IT IS..

    • @chip73731
      @chip73731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same💀 I screamed at 1:28

    • @enauaae
      @enauaae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my god same KAKSMEKKE

  • @ihavecripplingdededepressi2979
    @ihavecripplingdededepressi2979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an INFJ, and even though we're not romantically interested in each other, i found most of these hella relatable lmaoo

    • @vluessky
      @vluessky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameeee

  • @ana-ox6zq
    @ana-ox6zq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Heyy my bestfriend is an ENFP she's a fun supportive, very creative person, a dreamer, really honest, nice and helpful, my favorite person in the world! So nice and pure. Everyone loves her. Also im an infj :)