I Thought Dating in the Philippines was like USA, but When I Arrived ...

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  • @williamlarson3623
    @williamlarson3623 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vlogs here, always find your advice, recommendations of value, most to the point and very relative to topic. And I love your graphics, music, too. Thanks!

  • @FindmateSocial
    @FindmateSocial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Nils for the link. Great video by the way, as always!

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Findmate, thanks for watching.
      -Nils

  • @PHiLiPPiNESCENES
    @PHiLiPPiNESCENES 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GLAD TO SEE YOU BACK HERE!

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.
      -Nils

  • @saintchick3437
    @saintchick3437 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It looks like you are having fun! Keep it up and enjoy.

  • @arsalanazizi2538
    @arsalanazizi2538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another informative work! Thank you Nils.

  • @ILiveAndBreathe
    @ILiveAndBreathe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow!!! glad to see your vid on the eve of my departure!!! In PH for the first time and it sure is promising to hear u say that every girl u see is willing to meet with u...

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, if you act like a normal respectful guy you should do very well with single Filipino ladies.
      -Nils

  • @zz-ec
    @zz-ec 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hello. enjoy your channel.
    question please.
    in the "day game ",as you call it, what is the age gap you allow yourself.
    would you approach a girl in her twenties?
    would that will not be embarising?

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, you can approach anyone in the Philippines if you are polite. They are the most friendly people in the world.
      This is one of the main reasons I live there.

  • @johnhaymer5056
    @johnhaymer5056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really like your video I will try it out thank you for the video

  • @thedolphinDog
    @thedolphinDog 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nils is it drone friendly there? Any problems flying over with it? Thanks. Be there in March hope to see you.

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are some laws about drone flying, but not really enforced. Use common sense and google research the laws before flying.
      -Nils

    • @roelprojillo9825
      @roelprojillo9825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think your gonna need a permit

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Filipino laws have changed recently and you do not need a drone authorization for import of drones for recreational flying.
      You still need to follow these rules from CAA:
      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Regulation_of_unmanned_aerial_vehicles#The_Philippines

  • @petermelb123
    @petermelb123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved the video but the background noise is a bit much maybe better editing? but thanks for the info

  • @jpmace321
    @jpmace321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @tripore
    @tripore 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks a lot for the tips

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pierrot Vachon, thanks for watching.
      -Nils

  • @travels129
    @travels129 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nils hav u been to Vietnam its great there too . But yea Philippines friendliest in asia . jJAPAN!! Nice too

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wayne Mathews, yes I have been to Vietnam but did not find much in the way of approachable and attractive females. Philippines and Thailand are miles ahead with dating options.
      -Nils

  • @royaal800royaalksa9
    @royaal800royaalksa9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how is surgicals in manila and other health issues

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Royaal 800, St. Lukes hospital and Makati Medical are excellent! Expect to pay 10-20% of the US prices for the same procedure.
      -Nils

  • @stephendufort4154
    @stephendufort4154 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You were talking about dating sites that were bad but you were not going to name names on your video. I would like to know what dating site did you mean that you knew that were bad? So I could avoid those sites?

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephen Dufort, the bad websites names I do not wish to mention. But, they are generally the paid websites that charge $30-40 per month for a membership.
      There is no need to pay when there are so many free websites. If you signup and use their paid services for 10 months, it starts to add up i.e. $400 for 10 months of paid membership.
      -Nils

  • @KevZen2000
    @KevZen2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women mainly want money, and security. Americans on average, are more successful in general than Flippina males. Second Flippinas are very effective at working. It's a profitable business to lure in foreigners, to move her up an economic class.
    Don't be foolish enough to think Flippinas are different than American women. They aren't. It's their environment, which makes it easier to look rich, as extreme poverty is normal.

  • @rhysshine3804
    @rhysshine3804 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey bud spent 6 nights in angles city was just wandering what is manila compared to bangkok sftey wise ive been to bangkok many times never had a drama

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bangkok is more of a party town than Manila. Manila is good for finding and spending time with a serious girlfriend or future wife.
      -Nils

    • @mbarbiedollmp2386
      @mbarbiedollmp2386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its so true... filipino the best and warm loving specially if u really nice guy

  • @clydeseaside345
    @clydeseaside345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looks like you are staying in the Legaspi Village area this time. Plenty to see, plenty of places to go and plenty of ladies to meet. If you meet a nice lady and want a cheap night out, try A.Venue night market on Friday or Saturday night----hawkers food, cheap drinks, live bands-----good luck Nils

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree A-Avenue is a great place for dinner and drinks. I have mentioned it in several of my videos, including this video:
      th-cam.com/video/DF8MoooN9_s/w-d-xo.htmlm14s
      -Nils

    • @clydeseaside345
      @clydeseaside345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I saw that video and your walk over the Pasay River bridge-----tried to take a ride on the ferry that goes all the way to Intramuros ----but of course being Philippines, it only runs when it runs and not according to its schedule

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I often wondered if they had a boat on that river. Do you know where it has pickup stations?
      -Nils

    • @clydeseaside345
      @clydeseaside345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At Makati, your nearest pickup is Guadalupe------blog.sakay.ph/pasig-ferry-guide/

  • @troyelam8978
    @troyelam8978 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I pretty much opted out on finding a long-term girlfriend / bride here in the United States. I'm in my early forties so I'm not quite old yet, and I'm not hideous looking, so I still have some women approach me from time to time, which is pretty much the only way I'll date an American. That also means I go long stretches of time between dates, since women in the United States generally don't approach men unless they are gorgeous and / or thugs. It's a bleak environment in terms of dating here, but I'm glad there are always kisses in the world like the Philippines where a good guy can regroup.

  • @stephendufort4154
    @stephendufort4154 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks but I can't find the word niles in either of my comments below, what are the names of bad sites is what I like to know, and how much is the apartment you rent where you are testing candies with the young lady? The apt looks very nice. You and I have a similar view about woman, how they should be treated, and I am definitely not interested in the red light scene girls,or life there,I would be only looking for a long-term relationship which leads to lifelong commitment.Though idealy 35 or older,is more realistic for me.

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stephen Dufort, thanks for the good words. The apartment costs about $900 per month. It is a very good deal and ncie apartment.
      I still do not know what bad sites you are talking about. Please explain.
      -Nils

  • @javar888
    @javar888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your right about talking to the average women on North America streets. Just a friendly hello how are you doing, brings odd looks and scowls . Very odd culture . Where did this anti man attitude come from? One means no harm..... gezzz

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed!

    • @humbleman7750
      @humbleman7750 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JamesatVancouver You're not wrong. Same in Australia.

    • @WibaTalks
      @WibaTalks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Feminism is a cancer, and western women are proof of it. They literally hate men pretty much these days, unless of course, you are few leagues above her.

    • @malakingdude
      @malakingdude 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Folks on tbe US dont tealize we gave been programmed to be unfriendly. Is a mindset, not just an attitude. What do you ecpect if safety also is not found in the family.

    • @blokeabouttown2490
      @blokeabouttown2490 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I live in Australia and even here men and boys are now being taught that approaching a woman and asking her on a date or asking for her number is tantamount to sexual harassment or even sexual assault. Countries like the Philippines are like a breath of fresh air for those of us from countries under the oppression of cultural marxism.

  • @javar888
    @javar888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Vlog 😊

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching!
      -Nils

  • @nitzching9298
    @nitzching9298 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interesting vedio but I feel this is the first time I had viewed the vedio to tell you honestly I am more scared to meet guys from other country because I did experience online dating sites is truly horrible lots of fake profile scammers,and horny guys

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nitz Ching, yes. There are fake profiles on both sides (men and women) - and guys looking for massage services etc. Please use discernment when meeting someone online. Remember to never send money and always ask for a video call before a meeting.
      -Nils

  • @okbilly1
    @okbilly1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    do you live in the philippines, could you provide me 3 places to meet single women please, as I am looking for a change from thailand

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I only live part-time in the Philippines, but I have more than 10 years of experience dating ladies in SE Asia, including Philippines and Thailand.
      In the Philippines, I recommend you try "day game" and walk around in:
      1) Greenbelt 3, Makati
      2) Glorietta Shopping Malls, Makati
      3) Weekend farmers markets in Legazpi Village and Salcedo Village.
      If you go to a resort island (for example Boracay or Palawan) you need to bring your own girl, since it is not always cool to break into couples or travel groups.
      -Nils

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude bill, your foreigner, the girls will flock on you because you have money.

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peter, it is the 'perceived' money that counts. Many expats are middle class in the US, but when they come to the Philippines they score extra points because they are a foreigners. Filipinos believe all foreigners have loads of money, compared to Filipino average monthly incomes.
      -Nils

    • @okbilly1
      @okbilly1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      from your experience which country is it easier to find more girls Philippines or Thailand?

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Bill Kay: Thailand is good for partying and quick fun. Philippines is good for finding a gilrfriend or wife. Both places have lots is single girls.

  • @ashcabahug6278
    @ashcabahug6278 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    im lookin for a prtnr who??

  • @watchman6141
    @watchman6141 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nils,
    When you go to the Philippines how long do you usually stay and do you always go to Makati? Take care and enjoy your stay.

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been to many places in the Philippines. I normally stay a month or two.
      Makati is the only place I would consider a real home with Western style ammenities, decent internet speed and ladies that have some fashion sense.
      Boracay is great for a short beach vacation, but you need to bring your own girlfriend since it is harder to meet new single girls in Boracay.
      -Nils

  • @paulsasianadventure8050
    @paulsasianadventure8050 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have lived in the Philippines for 18 months and found the easiest way to meet high quality girls is just to walk around malls, markets, just walk in the streets. Girls are VERY approachable, a total opposite of the west. Dating via websites you will get the lowest quality women with more entitlement than the the average filipina. If you are coming on a short term visit just for fun then use a website and meet her after you have been here for a few days, to get a feel for the Philippines.

  • @heartlion4186
    @heartlion4186 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree about how to meet pinays,,its easy to meet them but not easy to keep them as gf. after a few dates they will assume that you ha ve the intention of marrying them,have kids,buy a house and help their family financialy,that goes for the young pinay,the phi is a conservative country and conservative values,theres realy no dating such as in the states,inthe phi its customary once you have intimate relations with her you are expected to marry her,thats their culture ,if you dont marry them,buy a house and have kids with her,she will go on with her search for another man

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, Single Filipino girls all dream about getting married and having a good life.
      The key to success in serial dating Filipinas is to make it clear you are not looking for a wife, but simple want to take some time and to "look around" before you settle down. Some girls are fine with this, but some girls think you are a playboy and are NOT looking for a serious relationship.
      However, there 100 million people in the Phillipines. You can always find a Filipina that meets your needs in the Philippines.
      -Nils

    • @sgtjoe2008
      @sgtjoe2008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you have the most stupid and ignorant comment, pinays make great gf's and not automatically think marriage, kids...etc. it's the time to get to know each other more, or are you just another retiree who thinks he can buy gf's or buy love?

    • @merlenavalta5323
      @merlenavalta5323 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sgtjoe2008 i agree with u,,..i don't care about this..but i saw some comments ..seems like they think filipinas are a gold digger..

    • @chrisjohnson1045
      @chrisjohnson1045 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@merlenavalta5323 that is their experience... and my experience too

  • @guidodemaio7632
    @guidodemaio7632 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It seems that dating and marriage is mostly a business deal to a filipina. The only thing they really will love is their kids and their family and you are only the provider to make all these things to come true with your money. I wonder if they really know what love is, when it comes to a husband.

    • @philipagtuca5486
      @philipagtuca5486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      marriage is a corporation, wake up

    • @KevZen2000
      @KevZen2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. Flippinas really don't like foreigners, they like what they can give. Take away the money, and status, most Flippinas will not even consider foreigners

    • @patata220
      @patata220 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok guys...get ur facts straight..a 25-30 yr old girl dates a dude in his 60s.....wtf do u expect!!

    • @jammyjackson2743
      @jammyjackson2743 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guido DeMaio All woman only only love the children . The men
      Are only a providers. But in the
      Philippines or Thailand men
      Have some control over the
      Money. In the western countries
      It's the welfare system that pays the woman. Men have no control
      Men in western countries have
      Only one job . HIGHT TAXS

    • @bantay747
      @bantay747 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is more of why women are attracted to white, tall men, the same as when a white men are attracted to a slim, smooth brown skin Asian women.

  • @stephendufort4154
    @stephendufort4154 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi THE KNOWN BAD DATING SITES YOU MENTIONED

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephen Dufort, please explain what you mean.
      -Nils

  • @NS-ur5ss
    @NS-ur5ss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We know what you look like do you mind turn the camera around as apart from all these continuous selfies???

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok, I see your point. I will try to show some make some videos that show the streets and scenery.
      Thanks for the feedback.
      -Nils

  • @samialsubhi1067
    @samialsubhi1067 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sami, thanks for watching?
      -Nils

  • @tommythailand5878
    @tommythailand5878 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    audio is really bad. Too much background noises.

  • @henrikg7661
    @henrikg7661 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video but you should aim to film your face, not your chest. Btw, are you Swedish or Danish perhaps since your name is Nils?

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Henrik G, yes - Norwegian.
      -Nils

  • @dalecrawford7496
    @dalecrawford7496 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like to see women in their late 40 or thear mid 50 im to old for younger women

  • @bbullwits258
    @bbullwits258 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Filipinas are the greatest women on earth, I feel. However, they can be very mischievous and sneaky, ripping your world out from underneath u!! I am writing a comprehensive guide on how to find a TRUE one. While many pinays are lost, hopeless causes, many are great women. Know their MOTIVES before movin' in. 👍

    • @neliasc
      @neliasc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not all Filipinas have bad motives.

  • @peterhuang1431
    @peterhuang1431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont understand why this old guy got over 95% likes on his videos. Am I missing something? Generally when people see these title vlogs, they heavily dislikes it or against old men with young girls. Someone please explain to me

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends if the younger woman is interested in a real love relationship, or is just in the game for "pay for play".
      I personally have no interest in "pay-for-play", but each to his own. Some guys love a quick fling and pay the girl to leave.
      However, bar-girls are not for me and may even cause some strange looks when walking down the street with a "professional entertainer" hand-in-hand, or perhaps negative comments on a youtube video.
      I always recommend "true love" approaches before money, but sometimes people do not believe this is possible with a younger woman from a 3rd world country. This does show the mindset of such people and even thought it may be impossible for them, it does NOT mean other people can have success with dating a younger woman that are looking for real love.
      -Nils

    • @QTEPYE
      @QTEPYE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is a possibility that many of viewers who watch this are elders themselves, and the remainding viewers are younger people that don't see significant age-gap between couples as an issue of concern.

    • @sheilatuano9633
      @sheilatuano9633 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peter Huang Agree with you. I was a bit weary clicking the subscribe button because of the vlog title. The videos are a bit limited in scope and some of the Q&A's are informative although the answers may not necessarily be true and sometimes too simplified that it sounds shallow to native Filipino listeners but I still enjoyed it, especially when the expat author shows the view around Makati City.

    • @bvlgariXtreem
      @bvlgariXtreem 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Old?no such . As long ur healthy enuf to do things

    • @silverfox2957
      @silverfox2957 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So why watch his video if you don't like it maybe better if you fuck off and leave the guy alone to enjoy his life you sadow.

  • @BIGDAVE5352
    @BIGDAVE5352 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m not interested in the Phillipina women, I’m just interested in her Wisper.

  • @joban7851
    @joban7851 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍🏼

  • @benjaminortiz387
    @benjaminortiz387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sounds like desperate measures

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Benjamin Ortiz, what is desperate?
      -Nils

  • @paulmarecki1832
    @paulmarecki1832 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    please watch out looks like their driving just like Russian s

  • @stephendufort4154
    @stephendufort4154 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should mention there name the fake ones for us guys not there!!!!

    • @AsianRomance
      @AsianRomance  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephen Dufort, thanks for watching. What fake names?
      -Nils

  • @travels129
    @travels129 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wer u find hardly any westerners in some parts of the Philippines thats the difference y!!!.

  • @jadieaixiadelapena5090
    @jadieaixiadelapena5090 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    is so much offensive for this video and I know what you looking.

  • @jerryjazzbo2845
    @jerryjazzbo2845 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try your luck with no money and see the difference.

  • @mateoito8266
    @mateoito8266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude looks horrifying