im 27 and my boyfriend is 30 years older than me, I never asked him for money cause i can work. We're not all goldiggers or have daddy issues, we just love mature man. Because older men doesn't want to play anymore or go on dates and flirt, and young filipina girls dont want to be played too. We all just want to have a family and live a happy life.
miriel lourraine, yes a mature man is a better partner for a serious relationship - in most cases. However, I also personally see many older guys that have been married before and would NEVER get married again. They are total playboys, even at 85 years old!!! -Nils
Hes 57, divorced for more than 10 yrs now, have 1 son. I never asked him to go here in the philippines cause we both have day jobs and I want to meet halfway. And a vacation won't be enough for us to be together. And I just wanna add, Race, Age or even Money won't give you the assurance to have a happy relationship or better life if the one you're with doesn't love and care about you. People think younger girls are just there for money and stability, but who wouldn't want their future partner to be stable financialy and have the ability to provide for the future of the family that they'll build together. Most of us have experienced lows and highs, so I think we all just want the best for ourselves and our future child. Whether you're caucasian, asian or european, old or young, nobody knows what ahead of us. So what's good for me, doesn't mean it's good for you too. And vice versa
I'm 66 and my beautiful Filipina wife is 24, and we have the most beautiful love with for each other the world has ever seen, you won't believe how wonderful it is between the two of us, I wish our love for each other could have began 40 years ago!
I actually knew an older American who married a girl in her 20s. I can tell you first hand that they grew to be deeply in love. Many older guys have their shit together. They have work ethic and goals that many young men lack today.
I've been here in the Philippines for almost 2 weeks and I've seen a lot of filipinas with older men, like a 30 year difference. One filipina I met told me that the main reason they do that is younger foreigners are just looking for many girls (for fun) and the older ones are looking for just one girl.
You are right Richard They know young men are just playing with them. Older men are mature & serious. I am 62 in a relationship with a beautiful 41 year old Filipina. I would not just want a quick snack I want a full meal. When a women loves you that is what you get. Every night you can have a naked women to hold while you sleep.
Yes thats true older guy want to have a younger women its just only for fun & not serious...but for me I dont like that to those who are older guy I want honest & sincere relationship.
I'm 18 my American man is 60 and his poor not rich but our love is rich and I didn't mind if hve money or not only the important is love and care and respect... I don't care what people gonna think ...I love my man... ..I'm just sharing 😉😉😉
Beautiful girl. It's funny that I, as a 38 yo, am considered too old for a 25 girl here in the west. I think, I'll roll the dice soon in the Philippines. The west is depressing me.
i(56 at the time) met a filipina(24) in marikina in 2009, she tried to rip me off.1 year later i met a filipina(32) in cabanatuan who did not, after 6 years we moved to australia together where i am retired on a pension & she works 36 hours a week. as in all countries there are good & bad, but i have found in my travels filipino peoples to be amongst the friendliest .
I'm 52 and in Makati now, most girls here are pretty genuine. If not it's pretty easy to figure it out. Age means very little, long as you take care of yourself and treat the ladies with respect.
When I was 19, I lived with a girl who was 29 so yeah ten years older than me. We lived just off Clark Air Force Base. I was poor in those days and our apartment was Spartan at best. She made our money last after seemingly taking advantage of me the first month we lived together. However, I lived with her a year and a half. She broke up with me when I was sent to Vietnam, saying I would be killed and she could not bear it. That was in 1967 and I still think of her often.
Philippe Pierart, I am very open minded about dating. No problems with my daughter dating an older man, if she is happy. I also recently told my daughter I am dating a girl her own age, and she said "great". She has no problems with it.
Asian Romance so you take a (woman),i mean a girl of your daughter's age and your daughter takes a man of your age,d'ont even now what your grandma does,but offcourse be happy i just feel different about those idea's
OK so here's the deal. Apart from wanting to have a stable future for herself (and her child, in most cases because most Filipinas are single mothers), young Filipinas like to marry an old guy that's older than her grandfather because deep down she knows the old foreigner has no more than a few years to live and if she plays her cards right and just be a little patient, his entire fortune will be hers soon.11 I have seen this happen at least a dozen times in US and Canada.
Respect,love,faithfulness,truthfulness and happiness cannot be compensated by money..Respect other people’s choice and preference and mind your own life and happiness.
I have met a beautiful younger Philippine woman and we have decided to become married. 5 years younger! I have no interest in younger women. I prefer wines with a bit of age! I am not wealthy in the US. On the contrary I am financially considered low class financially as my only income is my Social Security. But that amount in the Philippines is considered upper class. My wife is a widowed farm girl who for 20 plus years stuck it out on her own raising her four children after her husbands death in an auto accident. I can live as a member of the family in a simple cottage and become a hugh financial asset to the entire family. They ask so little. And I am happy to help! No boats, no cars, no expensive hobbies. Just some beautiful land some beautiful people is all I ask and I thank God every day for His gift of a Loving family!
Tim Gard yes sir ur sooo lucky to fine a woman like ur wife she is not a woman like material listick....I hope I can fine a good man for me ..I like simple living ...
This has me scratching my head because the woman I’ve been talking with online for the past 6 months is also widowed (with 3 kids), and she has a similar story of sacrificing about 20 years of her life to focus only on her kids as a single mom. She put all 3 through college and has her own printing business.. she owns land and at one time did farming as well - A piggery and raised chickens. I mean, are these common behaviors?? Just seems strange. She’s my age by the way, mid-40’s.
Tim, I hope the best for you. Like life everywhere after time it will wear on you. You may not be able to help it because you will get tired of all the Philippino bull shit. Like them talking in their language to their friends and watching wawawee on television. Don’t learn tagaulo because then you will learn how truely stupid they are. It all gets old. There is nothing new under the Philippine sun after about 7 year. My recamendation is do not move there but maybe have a baby 🍼 there and visit 5 months a year but you need to be able to come home often. Also find a kabit, it’s easy they are everywhere. Also tell your girl right now you will never lie about anything t
Get over it- its about being loved and taken care of. If Philippine men were more responsible and didnt get these girls pregnant then leave, the women would not look so hard at foreigners. They want a real man not a boy. My fiance is half my age and even if I only get a couple good years with her I could die a happy man. We have already done a-lot for her family over the past year and she respects that greatly . She realizes that most men only want to taste her- she is family oriented not stupid. You dont know shit unless you’ve spent some time there.
It's about MONEY, look at China, Japan, SKorea....and all rich asian countries. Their men aren't more responsible but you don't see those women going for old foreigners. Once Philippines and Thailand become a rich super power, young women won't seek an old foreigner.
I am a Filipino and I don't agree with what she's saying. Dating older foreign man became normal "to see" in the Philippines because of financial stature. You wouldn't see Filipina women dating old foreign men if she's financially stable. She'd always go for men who is the same age as her, who's handsome, and with good personality.
Alex Alviedo, I agree with you, she should find an educated handsome man, not like a fucking dirty old man. These dating service are all for the profit and are exploiting the Filipinas who are innocent of knowing.
A handsome filipino...ok, fine, just like on TV Romances. Of course, he's half white not some construction worker who gets drunk and chases 15 yr. old girls in the barrio.
"chases"? I'm being generous...don't we all know what happens in the barrio stays in the barrio...ok let's not forget the drug life, the crime and the grime...let's be real, most of the younger filipinas end up in trouble from young, middle age, and old filipinos - take your pick - not foreigners.
Lets be honest, its mostly about the money that older men provide, because afterall money really is everything to poor people in a third world country. Okay you can call it love, you can tell yourself what u want but they certainly arent choosing these older guys for their physical appearance. I mean imagine if things were the other way around, so what reasons would you have for dating a woman more than twice your age? Filipino people make a very small amount of money, often never get the chance to even leave their island let alone travel to another country. Foreign men offer the chance to actually have some real money, travel to foreign countries and have a better life, huge amounts of new freedoms they would seriously struggle to find without them. Also the Filipino guys have a bit of a bad reputation of sleeping around and not being "serious" so everything works in the favour of white guys. But believe me when I was there, the girls were so pleased to see younger guys, they were seriously chasing after my better looking friend and they were telling us it was nice to see younger guys there, ofcourse they told us given the choice they would choose younger guys similar to their age any day. So im not saying that old white guys are losers etc, but the fact is that the girls that they are with are mainly with them for practical financial reasons. If your okay with that then thats cool, I know expats who admit to knowing that, and good for them, maybe id do the same if i was old and single. Anyways thats just my two cents.
Yes, you speak 100% truth - and I am counting my blessing for being an older guy from the Western world. It has some big pluses. he-he In fact, some younger guys in the Philippines tell me they see older guys dating better girls than they can....
It is mostly about the money, but more so the security. Westerner's haven't gone a day or so without food. They don't know the feeling of desperation not having the money to take a family member to the hospital. They don't know how hard life is in the third world, they are completely ignorant of what a hard life is. So I agree it's mostly the money and the internet has made it possible for an incredibly poverty stricken girls to improve their life, and in some cases, they find love. It's no different than arranged marriages in the 1800's for new immigrant girls. But as in any situation, you have life-hardened people on both sides which exploits the situation for the worst.
Scott Johnson : That lady or woman she was being interview she was not speaking for every single women in the Philippines that was only her own opinion plus she was going out w/an older man and of her man choice..not necessarily every women choice. In my own opinion not everyone can purchase a true love sincere, honesty and happiness even if you have a million dollars .. Those up bringing are questionable to me !! money cannot purchase true love and happiness ..Those kind of arrangement are for both side !.
Marrying older man is not part of the culture. The truth is some of them wanted to have a better life and poverty is also a part of it. Most women are from poor families with no jobs. The only way is to get out of the country to look for a job or marry a foreigner and work so she could support her family back home. Helping your family back home is part of the culture. Filipinos are hardworking and will do anything to give back to her family. If you love and really care about each other, age won't make any difference.....It's not only Filipinas, Chinese, Thai women etc. are also doing it! Those who are looking for love with a younger woman "Good Luck".
I am young Swede. I personally will one day move to the Philippine. Not to find a wife. I used to hate the big age difference, but I no longer do. I will be old one day. I will have the same feelings as any old or young person. Have you, who hate the old men going to philippines for pleasure, ever thought about relationships in modern youths and middle aged men? Most of them are not family oriented. Most guys and girls are in relationship for the pleasure and will one day separate. This is how the world works nowdays. I personally don't like the modern relationships but I do not hate people for that. I will adapt myself to the current situation and I hope you will too. You do not have to accept it but you shall not spread hate of it.
A very good observation. Most refuse or cannot see any perspective but their own. They think because everyone around them is doing it that is must be good. Then criticize any who don't follow their lead. It does not even cross their mind that they are the oddity when compared to relationships in human history.Their mating practices can only be related to primitive tribal people, not advanced cultures. In my personal research parents tried to marry their daughters to well established men (o l d e r m e n). This was very common. The reasons are obvious. This makes sense if you wanted to have a successful family. Hookups based on nothing but lust degrade the future of a nation. What a foolish time this is.
I am a Norwegian man who is married to a Filipino wife, she is 25 years younger than me and she is highly educated from a university in the Philippines and her family has money of its own, so in the 5 years we have now been married I have never paid anything to them. Today we have a little daughter aged 2.5 and we moved back home to Norway during covid 19. And now we are staying here because my daughter will grow up in Norway. And we all have a great time together. Everyone also thinks my wife is gorgeous and can't understand how I got her? But this is simple she wanted a Norwegian man who didn't drink alcohol or smoke and who had blue eyes and was over 6 ft tall and she got this lol
Kan jeg spørre hvordan du fant en så bra og utdannet filippinsk dame? Jeg er som deg hverken røyker eller drikker og ser etter en god filippinsk dame men synes det er vanskelig å finne. Tar i mot alle gode tips med stor takknemlighet.
Yes some Filipinas didn't care about the age gap as long the old man provide their need and support their family ...this is only for the poor Filipinas
My Filipina girlfriend is 21 years younger than me. A tall white mature blue eyed western man attracts many women. A Filipina who has fallen in love with you shows her feelings in many ways. Lucky you if you find someone who has developed these feelings. Just be careful in finding the right type for you.
They like "mature men" because those are more willing to spend their whole saving on their much younger girlfriends. I know tons of stories from men getting ripped off by their Filippino girlfriends and family over the years losing $10.000s.
I disagree what she's saying,as mother of 4 ladies I'm doing everything to make them a better person, I still value our culture,dating to anyone that you don't know this is something unacceptable.
Don't delude yourself, pal. She's being extremely diplomatic/polite on camera and you can tell by her body language she's totally not into you or old guys. If you know Phils culture and Filipinas well you wouldn't be asking her those questions. For a start, high-class, very pretty and well-off young Filipinas generally don't date or marry Western guys because (a) they will have lots of affluent Filipino guys lining up to date/marry them and (b) other Filipinos will assume she's a gold-digger/escort if she's seen with a foreigner, especially an old Western guy because there's no physical attraction. You won't find such women on Filipino Cupid or in Ermita/Angeles City bars which is where most foreign guys look. Poor and less attractive women from the provinces especially single mothers can't afford to be fussy and if they don't have a high education and can't get a decent job they look upon marrying an older foreigner as a substitute for an employer. The families of such women will welcome older foreigners with open arms as they will assume they've just hit the jackpot/won the lottery in finding a human alternative to a pension. "When you marry a Filipina, you marry the family."
Same in the states most parents just want you to treat their daughter great & for helping family that happens here also in USA. It’s a package deal some have children and want you to be as good to them as if you’re own. That’s normal for anyone to want.
i dont find this credible at all. In the first place, shes too young to mention that she knows a lot of young women who married older guys and live happily. Come on, did you believe her, seriously? It remains a common sense -- you must ask yourself why a young filipina in her 20s will marry a 60 year old foreigner. Wheres the attraction?
H Jon for a 60+ year old financially independent man money is not a problem looking out for a much pretty young woman companion so many eligible ones available.....
Old geezers shouldn't be trying to hook up with girls young enough to be their grandchild . Ninety nine percent of the time , these relationships are going to end very badly , come on old men , stick to your own age group . This is about money and getting out of poverty , get their green card , American citizenship and then ditch the old man . Let's get real , these young sexy girls are not falling in love with men thirty or more years older then them .
mas360 if he's 62 or older he's most likely like me shooting blanks anyway but if he turns his back enough and not the jealous type she may end up pregnant anyway! I'm in this same age group your describing you can sugar coat it all you want but in each situation you described the money was there and it's just like a girlfriend of mine once said it's a lot easier to fall in love with an old fools money than to love a working man and struggle through life! let's be honest pal there all alike. I'm 67 and if I'm dating a woman that even starts talking marriage I break it off or make it clear to them that it'll never happen and I can still get laid everynight if I wanted but hell you can only take so much Viagra!
I think its weird NOT to worry about the age difference - no matter where you are from. Age is not just a number. Too much of a difference and you will always be in different places in life.
Some of these comments are ridiculous and show a general lack of common sense. If a 60 year-old white American man goes to the Phillipines to date and possibly marry a 20 year old Filipina woman, it is obvious he is doing it because he wants a young, attractive woman with a tight body instead of a woman his own age. If a 20-year old Filipina woman marries a 60 year-old foreigner, it is obvious that she is doing it for financial security and not because of love. Both parties know what they are getting and both parties accept it. Neither one is trying to scam the other. If one of them cries foul because things didnt' turn out the way they wanted, it is their own damn fault.
Glad someone realizes these relationships are comprised of two thinking adults who are making a deal both parties will benefit from. Old men still prefer youthful women. Young women want the financial security these old but experienced men can provide. The woman realizes her chance of finding a young man who has the same financial stability is very very slim. She also realizes the older man is less likely to be a playboy or butterfly.
For most of human history, the majority of woman from all cultures haven chosen mates by their ability to provide. It is simple human nature, and there is nothing wrong or taboo about it in my opinion.
BAD GUY... I am 65 yrs old and was dating a girl 25.... Until we went to visit her family... When I refused to LOAN (GIVE) then 8 thousand P... They told her I was a NO GOOD AMERICANO and CHEAP...When I told her,, SEE I told you this was going to happen .. We broke up !
come on man.. use your brain and not the thing between your legs.. search for a woman in your age - 10 to 15 years and you are good. No young woman want an 40+ year older man. You are using their hardshipps for your own benifit..
@@mculus I see younger women with older guys every single day in the Philippines. It is a mutual benefits package, where both adults are enjoying the relationship. What is wrong with that? -Nils
@@AsianRomance nothing is wrong with that, but then don't act surprised when all she wanted was the money. It was clear from the get go. You get her young body for your enjoyment and she gets money to support her family.
Interesting to hear that before year 2000 the age gap was frowned upon in Philippines but now a days its part of the culture and Filipina are free to date whoever.Thats what i think she is saying here. I have always assumed that Filipinas dating older guys was normal even back 50 or a hundred years ago.
Yeah, she is saying the new generation is free to do what they want - but the older generation did not have such privileges. I can understand this. -Nils
How can it be normal when the majority of Filipinos probably haven't seen foreigners. She spelled it out for you. If the old guy is giving money then no problem.
as a white man married to a Filipina i have bin in the Philippine walking with her.. had no problems.. her family was very graceful and fully accepted me..
A girl as young and good looking as the one interviewed would never choose a "mature man" for a reason other than financial security for herself and her family (read "money"), especially in Metro Manila. Filipinos are very picky about their women: they like them young, fair skinned and well-educated. A child or two out of wedlock is a huge no-no, as is a destitute family. The ONLY reason why a young Filipina would actively pursue a foreigner is because she already knows that the kind of young Filipino (a middle-class Filipino) who can give her the life she wants, is out of reach. Women are calculating creatures, the world over.
This filipina is a kinda liberated type. As a filipina, I still believe that there are Filipinas that have good intentions of marrying an older foreign man. for me, I prefer older foreign man because they are more mature and have more experience on serious relationship. And i firmly believe there are still Filipinas with housewife material and faithful , loyal to their foreign husband, take good care of them and truly love them for the rest of their lives. Hope to find one soon. 😊
Why would anyone care when most of them are poorer than poor. I would say it doesn't matter if they are old foreigners or not as long as they have money and willing to take care of you. It's all about living a comfortable life. Would you prefer to work for less than dollar a day? I would say no
Not if the foreign man is smart and has a revocable living trust, with the assets in it, that he earned and owned before the marriage took place. She may not get one red cent, from that, if he so chooses. Anything earned after the marriage is open to legal distribution under the man's country of citizenship.
So the interviewer needs to ask the question. If an old man foreigner with little or no money came to the Philippines would these young woman still date him and have a family with him? I don’t think they would. So the reason these women date the old men is for financial support.
Another way to put this is "young women will not settle for a old man that doesn't offer her security. But she will settle for an old man that she really isn't attracted too in order to have a better life.
Most Filipinos don't mind nor find it a taboo to see Pinays with older foreigners. They do mind if they catch a foreigner treating their fellow Pinays like shit in public. Physical and verbal abuse by foreigners to a Pinay in public could get themselves in major trouble.
That is totally not true. I have seen filipinas turn down rich filipinos to be with foreigners that barely had a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. I have seen filipinas turn down foreigners and stay with SUPER poor filipinos. Yes, some women are just out for the money, but certainly not all.
It's always not the same for any woman, anywhere. I can work my ass to support my family.. If they respect that, then that is a no.1 reason I guess they can get the Filipina girl. As long as they won't interfere the girl helping her family.
If old and not so long to live why worry what they inherit is payment for her having to settle for old wrinkly fart. If she gives you 5 or 10 years of caring and loving be good to her
As long as your pocket is money packed theres no problem for a material girls or gold diggers. But from a descent girl moraly practical, its a shame for them bieng with the old unattractive man, specially for a girl who cares about honor than money. They say better poor with honor and dignity.
Great interview, one of the first that I have seen that was held like a news cast interview in the states. Very professional, as well as a perfect guest interview. You had an informative conversation with what I can only guess was a well selected guest, that was perfect in answering your questions correctly and clearly. Again thank you for a great job done, and I look forward to viewing more of your Vlogs.
If this arrangement happened in the west, the woman would be labeled a "gold digger" and the guy labeled a "sugar daddy" but in many cases pinay have a much different attitude about a marriage
Again, not true. I could give you so many examples of where you are wrong but I do not want to name filipinas I know for privacy reasons. But I will give you two VERY good examples. VERY GOOD. 1. I know a guy that doesn't have a lot of money, a foreigner. His fiance had a chance to be with TWO rich doctors from America. Men that had wayyyy more money than the guy she is with now. Way more. She turned down the doctors and went with the MUCH MORE POOR guy. 2. I have a very good filipina friend. VERY good looking. She had so many foreigners after her it was absurd. Guys everywhere wanted to be with her. She turned them all down and is married to a filipino that barely has any money. I could give you many many many examples of this. All women want security. But this idea that these women are only with foreigners for money is not true. Let me give you one more example. I have a friend from Australia. He has had ZERO luck with filipinas even though he throws money at them like it is going out of style. The filipinas just do NOT like him. He has promised them a great life. Spends money on them like there is no tomorrow. And yet these filipinas turned him down. EVERY SINGLE TIME! Why? Because they do not like him personally. They do not like the way he acts. They do not like his disrespectful behavior. The gal in this video hit the nail on the head. And finally let me tell you a story about a TRULY beautiful filipina. My ex-fiance. The only reason we are not together is that she was just a bit boring for me and I did not know if I really wanted to be with someone that was boring. But she is beautiful inside and out. After we broke up, she could have literally gotten about any guy she wanted. Any guy. But she chose a guy from Sri Lanka! The guy is 1000 times MORE POOR than I am. And yet she chose that guy over all of the other foreigners from Western countries that were hot after her. Like I said earlier, I could give hundreds of examples of this. Hundreds.
+James David 1. The MUCH MORE POOR guy was maybe ATTRACTIVE and she may be not desperate for MONEY $$ not interested in a foreigner (=money wise) 2. She is maybe not interested in dating foreigner and prefer her own. From culture, education, something that make her feel proud.(white penis isn't the dream of many girls). Some women have pride. "All women want security. But this idea that these women are only with foreigners for money is not true. Let me give you one more example" - Of course it's not all about money. A filipina in her 20 can fall in love with a foreiger in his 20 or 30 even if he is't rich. As long as he is attractive in her eyes. But it's only about money if the guy is old (which is unattractive to young women). NO YOUNG WOMEN find OLD MEN attractive.
Older guys are easily scammed by the younger ones. Ive been scammed myself. After visiting them. Lost love is 1 thing .. but to find out they scammed you.. makes it even worse.
there is 37 years between us we went from airport check in hotel then went to meet family we video talked 4 month befor i went over there we are getting married in april
she wants to get married she is the baby in the family an the only one that aint married an i get along with her an the family family is importion over there
@@jamesfleming8116, now that makes more sense to me. hehe I hope it goes it goes well for you in future. You know that marriage in the Philippines is for life?
I enjoyed this interview very much. This young Lady very Nice & Beautiful and explained the Topics Perfectly. There may be Hope For Me .... And the Crap going on in America Now, The Philippines is looking better & better . Many Thanks and Stay Blessed.....
Come on guys, you find good and bad no matter where you live or travel. For me, I'am married to a lady from the Philippines and live in MIndanao. She is MUCH younger than me! BUT she is worth much more than myself so why does she love me and wish to be with a me?
#1 she’s talking to you and getting interviewed because her objective is to find work or better her life by gaining exposure with your TH-cam. #2 A younger filipina will settle to older foreigner and maybe some find stable relationships, but the as the internet expands and young girls in the Provence see that they don’t have to settle, I think more will realize that a younger man that’s not going to die before she is 40 will be possible to meet.
Age does not matter anymore. At this time, whatever works is the only thing that matter. How good is having a young man as your partner if your stomach is always empty? A young jobless man can only offer sex, but sex does not work out with an empty stomach.
True, I know a girl who married an old man (20 years older) and she dated young man (she cheated on the old man with a young man). For women , marrying an etablished man is more important, then once she get that, she can date an attractive young man (the same age as her). Because no matter what, if she isn't attracted to the old man, she won't be in love
I believe there are still differential acceptances that exist with girls/families from the larger cities to the provinces and there may be regional differences as well. The more "modern" girl as you called her definitely resides in Manila and Cebu!
Of course in any part of this world there were exceptional cases where this May-December affair is happening successfully. It's their choice . I respect it .
I met a phillipina. I am 52, she is 30. Big big age difference. I am chatting with her for a while now. You know what my biggest trouble is? I am not rich but I have a good income... she is a slave in Saudi Arabia. It takes me really really energy to convince her to help her out with money and to pay that bad bad family to let her go earlier. She is suffering the maximum and does insist to stay a few months extra and to compromise by letting them take her income so she also pays to leave earlier.. all the time she comes with her pride so we wait until may instead now and again: she hates it there and wants to be with me. But she does make the point to show me something what gets on my nervs... it would be 1 weekend of work for me to do all, 6 months for her and she insistes... thanks god she does not insist the whole time to buy herself free... also: she does really not know what is the difference between westeners from the US and from Europe, but she tries the hell now to learn german because english is NOT my language. She wants to study and not to be a housewife and allready started by internet to learn german eaven if she only has daily 6 hours only free... She also does search all about my country she can to know where I am from and does not just say: "speak english". She uses every second to be in contact with me, cries a lot and same moment is fighting... it could be so easy... I have as I said not millions but I earn so easily the cash... and her answer is: NO. She wants to proof me something and I cannot convince her to do differently.... So I say: depends a lot on the person. Also: she is from low social class but HUNGRY to learn and really smart! She is doing ALL thinkable effort she can to show me respect to my culture. All. I am intrested to know how far that will go. I am impressed. Any financial proposal she wants to refuse and only when I said : "if you keep on doing that, it will srew our chance because you will collapse and may be eaven die!" she did get ok with half of my proposal... and the problem also is that she is really pretty and always concerned one could think she just looks for social help what is so far ZERO the case... I am totally confused and sad sometimes. I hate greedy gold diggers but to an honest person I can give what I can give... she does try to refuse all financial help. So weird... sorry f my bad english. As I said: I am not a native speaker. I think that wont matter... she speaks my language soon. So I will also learn her idiom ... no question. Her answer to my question: "and what if one day I am unemployed and having not that financial base as now?"... THAN I WILL CLEAN IN YOUR COUNTRY UNTIL YOU WILL GET BACK ON YOUR FEET AND I WILL DO THAT WITH PRIDE AND LOVE F YOU". ok... I met german women who are different indeed... not pretty, not young, not polite, very aggressive...not very femine... but they wanted to marry me. Guess why? ha... I did send them to hell. Thank's got. Now my small daughter who is living with me did just run into her room do give her savings to pay that saudi asholes... money she saved as pocket money for 3 years... she is 11 now. The two girls will make good friends I guess ;-) The Phillipina wants to live with us from june. She does not want to marry me now. I am a laywer and I know to find how to get her a visa without marry me for the next years... so much energy she costs me because she has her pride... I love that. The only thing I disliked was when her family was worring I could be a drug dealer what is absurd. I was never drunk in my life... her reaction to her family was: "they must shut up. I haven chosen you!".... speechless...
Fabios Pfefferminze Well hang in there friend. I know what its like dating a filipina ofw in saudi. It sucks and it can hurt when you're feelings are tied into it. I had the same urge to pay off the employers, but on the bigger picture its better for you not to do it. She refuses because her family is depending on her. Its too much of a risk to drop everything she's doing. You'll have to wait until the contract is finished or vacation and handle your things at that time. Also, she doesn't want her employers knowing she's involved in a relationship without marriage. Being in saudi it could cause trouble even if she tells her employer that a man wants to pay her off. She can't even recieve money via western union to saudi from a man if she's not married to him. Its agaisnt the rules.
If your over say 50 don’t get seriously involved with any woman under 30 as most are interested in only one thing your money. Find a more mature woman who is interested in more then just your money as you’ll have a better chance finding an older more mature women who realizes there is more to life and a relationship then just money.
If that were true, my 20 year old Pinay lady would ditch me in a heartbeat. I told her many times about how dirt poor I am… living in extreme poverty has another advantage: you can’t be scammed by a Filipino (or anyone else for that matter)… there simply is no money to scam me out of. Yet, my Pinay lady still loves me…
This is a GREAT video. And ohhhhh so true! I have a LOT of experience in the Philippines. I have talked to thousands of filipinas over the years and 95% of them said EXACTLY what this gal said. Age is not a big deal with filipinas! It just isn't. How you act. If you are respectful and polite. If you show respect for their culture. That is what matters. Yes, women want to be secure. The same goes here and money does play an issue. But not like in most western countries. As I was watching this video I was amazed at what this young lady was saying because, again, it is almost exactly what I have heard most filipinas say and what I have seen personally. And by the way, I have a filipina fiance with a son and she says the EXACT same thing. My fiance has a number of friends that I have asked about the age difference and they say the EXACT thing as this gal says. And for you dipshits that think it is always about the money. Not a chance, at least for most. Money is a consideration but I have seen incredibly beautiful filipinas that could get about any guy they wanted stay with POOR filipinos or marry fairly poor foreigners. So stop it with that shit.
James Davis, great to hear your comments, James. I need your support with the comments on this channel and get the guys to open their eyes to the real Philippines. -Nils
Anyway we can hook up for some coffee or something. Just let me know. Are you in Makati right now? I live here so let me know or give me an email I can contact you at.
James Davis, that sounds like fun. I am in California at the moment but will be back in a few months. Shoot me your email address in an email at youtube@spam-alert.com. -Nils
I say let these people who quite clearly have never spent any real time in the Philippines keep their prejudices as we keep the greatest open secret in the world.
+1CBRDUDE Lol, women abroad? You mean women POORER can't be picky. Like we said "Beggars can't be choosers". They aren't picky because they pick MONEY and STATUS over looks.
It's a real status symbol for a young Filipina to have an old foreign man. The parents and family will welcome him to the family and he will be treated like a king.
I actually prefer someone older, my current gf is 35 (I am 63). However, when I was dating younger girls, my horizons expanded greatly when I realized that I was the prize, not the girl. Got to have the right mindset. The saying should be, no honey, no money.
Over the years I notice that Filipinas have that flirty way of just telling men what they wanted to hear. I also know from experience that there is a wide variation in what the ladies consider old!
@@AsianRomance my former girlfriend in Dubai was a Filipina and now that I've had the opportunity to compare culture, personality I prefer a Filipino woman. The only draw back for me is I'm not fond of Filipino food, there are a few exceptions but Thai food is delicious. Overall my choice is the Philippines.
@@AsianRomance I replied to your message asking why I would like to leave Thailand for the Philippines. Do you know people who have left Thailand for the Philippines or do you have an opinion comparing thailand to the Philippines with respect to lifestyle, women etc..
Go to Philippines and find a good lady and bring her to Thailand. Both of you will enjoy it much more and she can meet a lot of good filipina friends and never want to move back.
What are the odds of these young Filipina girls staying with a much older man in the long run? I met a lovely woman in her 20's online and she is crazy about me. She wants me to come to Mindanao in a few months and meet her. She is from a small village and has a good family, is educated and has a job, and does not seem overly materialistic or interested in money. She is resistant to me sending her money or gifts, and seems genuinely loyal and honest and somewhat religious. Is there any chance something like this can work out long term?
John Garbarzyk, I've done it. hehe The only problem arises when they eventually want to get married or have babies. I am not interested in marriage. -Nils
By the way when you say "dating" are you implying sex too? It seems most of the young Filipinas I've chatted with online want to hold off from sex until there is some kind of relationship. Maybe it's different when you meet them in the Philippines?
It can work but its really up to the husband. The dude has to be extremely social and be willing to stay active and support her in whatever she wants to do. Truly, based on what I've seen, it is not a matter of youth but being willing to stay active, provide support and socialize. When the old dude just wants to be a shut in and suppress the young wife, that's when the trouble starts. Oh, and having a lot of cash helps.
Absolutely 100% there is a GREAT chance it could work out long term. Do your due diligence. These guys that say these women are just looking for money from foreigners are wrong. Period. Some are. Most are not. The good filipinas are first looking for love, kindness, and respect. If the gal that you are talking with won't even let you send her money (even a tiny bit) or gifts, I would say she has a VERY VERY good chance of being a keeper. Very good.
Basically if the guy is going to look after the whole Filipino family, he is welcome and his age does not matter in their eyes. I think its wrong that families should depend on girls/ women so young to provide for a whole family. I would only help people who try to help themselves - like those who want to study to help better their lives and not look for handouts
"As long as the old guy has money." It's not just white, old guys dating younger girls. You will also see younger girls dating older Filipino guys for money. You will even see older celebrities dating younger girls.
Some Filipino families still follow the old ways. Many have adapted to new rules due to the economic situation in the Philippines. Either way long term relationships can be very good. ratio of success for Filipino foreign marriages is very high (above 70%)
i live in a foreign country and please filipina don't be deceived by sweet talks from some foreigner... always remember that we asians have more rich people than they have..
ofc its about the money, even in western countries,billionaires are with younger woman for what reason?? only difference is in asia you dont need as much money to be a sugar daddy hihi..
I totally disagree with this lady, I think some of the girls who seeks older foreigners to date just wants the security financially. Also, if the girl comes from a well off family, her last option would be dating an older man specially an older foreigner. I say, try asking that same question to a woman who comes from a wealthy family that doesn’t need help getting out of poverty, you probably might not get the same answer from that person.
1CBRDUDE , please refrain from namecalling on this youtube channel. I have deleted your comment because of this, but please continue to share your views. -Nils
William Garcia, thanks for your comment. Most women in the world want security. There is nothing new under the sun about this. Foreigners are also perceived in the Philippines as more wealthy than local Filipinos. So it is natural that an unmarried young Filipina will try to find an older more secure expat. -Nils
Oh no, please stop using common sense you are confusing everyone. Women want security so her and her children will not go hungry and homeless. What an outlandish idea. The west has indeed lost touch with reality.
Nice interview I enjoyed watching, I have been to makati city n their museum n it was nice n a pleasant place to visit.although I don't go to meet anyone special.just a traveler
@@AsianRomance your very welcome, oh I also stayed in provinces and I fit right in n no problems,but I had to get used to the was n flush bucket method...it reminded me when I was young n visiting my grandparents up in northern Maine..yes no plumbing at all...
I don't blame the younger Filipinas for going for the older foreign guys. First of all they have more money than the broke younger backpacker types. Secondly they're less likely to cheat. If a Filipina wants to have a handsome young guy (who may have a wandering eye) they could just go for a Filipino guy. No need for a foreign guy in this case. And also the vast majority of younger foreign guys in the Philippines (and there aren't that many to begin with) are actually there with their foreign girlfriends. And than there are the younger foreign guys that are behaving badly, the pick up artists and sex addicts. These guys will be avoided at all costs by any decent Filipina looking for a serious relationship. Look at Filipino Cupid, how many profiles are specifically saying "serious only" or "no f#@k boys". There's a better chance to find an older foreign man looking for a serious relationship and having a good attitude compared with a younger foreign guy. Think of it this way, any attractive, respectful, successful young man in the West will have their pick of many girls in their own countries. The problem is places like Thailand and the Philippines attract many younger foreign guys that go for the "low hanging fruit" to up their "notch count" and brag about how easy it is for them because they're insecure so they need an ego boost. They have trouble getting laid in their own countries cuz of their attitude. The women there see right through their B.S and won't accept men who act like they "deserve" girls which is a crappy attitude not to mention misogynist.
I hear ya but the biggest mistake that any woman can make from any part of the world is think that no other the woman could want your man because he is older and less attractive.than before. A lot of younger women with ,( wondering eyes lol) have been shocked
...I am Filipino American...both of my parents came from Phillipines...My younger brother married a older rich white obese girl...my parents accepted her...even though we live in America with comfort Filipino way of struggle, the hard life never left my parents...that being said it works both ways for men and women...
im 27 and my boyfriend is 30 years older than me, I never asked him for money cause i can work. We're not all goldiggers or have daddy issues, we just love mature man. Because older men doesn't want to play anymore or go on dates and flirt, and young filipina girls dont want to be played too. We all just want to have a family and live a happy life.
Thank you Miriel, I agree. See my post above, highlighted comment. It true everywhere --> good and bad intentions all over the world.
but in your case your bf not older!!!...hehehe
miriel lourraine, yes a mature man is a better partner for a serious relationship - in most cases. However, I also personally see many older guys that have been married before and would NEVER get married again. They are total playboys, even at 85 years old!!!
-Nils
Hes 57, divorced for more than 10 yrs now, have 1 son. I never asked him to go here in the philippines cause we both have day jobs and I want to meet halfway. And a vacation won't be enough for us to be together. And I just wanna add, Race, Age or even Money won't give you the assurance to have a happy relationship or better life if the one you're with doesn't love and care about you. People think younger girls are just there for money and stability, but who wouldn't want their future partner to be stable financialy and have the ability to provide for the future of the family that they'll build together. Most of us have experienced lows and highs, so I think we all just want the best for ourselves and our future child. Whether you're caucasian, asian or european, old or young, nobody knows what ahead of us. So what's good for me, doesn't mean it's good for you too. And vice versa
You have single sisters?
I'm 66 and my beautiful Filipina wife is 24, and we have the most beautiful love with for each other the world has ever seen, you won't believe how wonderful it is between the two of us, I wish our love for each other could have began 40 years ago!
Rick E, I know exactly how you feel. hehe
Keep enjoying your life with your loved one.
-Nils
Still together?
Wow that's amazing to hear cause I am 20 and I am talking to someone who is 60 but don't know if I should continue because of the age gap
I actually knew an older American who married a girl in her 20s. I can tell you first hand that they grew to be deeply in love. Many older guys have their shit together. They have work ethic and goals that many young men lack today.
very simple, no money no honey
I've been here in the Philippines for almost 2 weeks and I've seen a lot of filipinas with older men, like a 30 year difference. One filipina I met told me that the main reason they do that is younger foreigners are just looking for many girls (for fun) and the older ones are looking for just one girl.
Richard Race, very true.
-Nils
You are right Richard They know young men are just playing with them. Older men are mature & serious. I am 62 in a relationship with a beautiful 41 year old Filipina. I would not just want a quick snack I want a full meal. When a women loves you that is what you get. Every night you can have a naked women to hold while you sleep.
Yes thats true older guy want to have a younger women its just only for fun & not serious...but for me I dont like that to those who are older guy I want honest & sincere relationship.
I'm 18 my American man is 60 and his poor not rich but our love is rich and I didn't mind if hve money or not only the important is love and care and respect... I don't care what people gonna think ...I love my man... ..I'm just sharing 😉😉😉
Rizamae Bukid, so nice to hear this!
-Nils
Thank you 😉
He better be rich, how you going to pay for his medical needs?
Wow I am 20 talking to a 60 year old man but the age gap still freaks me out
Beautiful girl. It's funny that I, as a 38 yo, am considered too old for a 25 girl here in the west. I think, I'll roll the dice soon in the Philippines. The west is depressing me.
38 is not too old for a 25 yr old. Work on your "game" and make sure you go to the gym.
Not only that but the typical American woman is 30 pounds overweight .If their not and their attractive they have tons of guys chasing them .
i(56 at the time) met a filipina(24) in marikina in 2009, she tried to rip me off.1 year later i met a filipina(32) in cabanatuan who did not, after 6 years we moved to australia together where i am retired on a pension & she works 36 hours a week. as in all countries there are good & bad, but i have found in my travels filipino peoples to be amongst the friendliest .
My girlfriend is Filipina and we respect each other. She is 32 years old and I am 34 years old. We adore each other.
I'm 52 and in Makati now, most girls here are pretty genuine. If not it's pretty easy to figure it out. Age means very little, long as you take care of yourself and treat the ladies with respect.
When I was 19, I lived with a girl who was 29 so yeah ten years older than me. We lived just off Clark Air Force Base. I was poor in those days and our apartment was Spartan at best. She made our money last after seemingly taking advantage of me the first month we lived together. However, I lived with her a year and a half. She broke up with me when I was sent to Vietnam, saying I would be killed and she could not bear it. That was in 1967 and I still think of her often.
What a nice story, did u ever get in touch with her again?
As long as the older man can afford the young lady and able to support her family, there is nothing wrong with the relationship.
+Adventurous Pinay, agreed.
Asian Romance let's see what happens if your daughter of 18 goes with a man of 60,i am wondering
Philippe Pierart, I am very open minded about dating. No problems with my daughter dating an older man, if she is happy.
I also recently told my daughter I am dating a girl her own age, and she said "great". She has no problems with it.
Asian Romance so you take a (woman),i mean a girl of your daughter's age and your daughter takes a man of your age,d'ont even now what your grandma does,but offcourse be happy i just feel different about those idea's
Why does the man have to support the woman’s family. Isn’t supporting her enough?
Some filipinas scared of young doors because the young ones will only fool around and don't want to settle.. girls want a keeper.
Very true, Bono....
-Nils
OK so here's the deal.
Apart from wanting to have a stable future for herself (and her child, in most cases because most Filipinas are single mothers), young Filipinas like to marry an old guy that's older than her grandfather because deep down she knows the old foreigner has no more than a few years to live and if she plays her cards right and just be a little patient, his entire fortune will be hers soon.11 I have seen this happen at least a dozen times in US and Canada.
Seems like a good plan to me.
Filipino Social Security System. Have many pretty daughters, with each an annuity from old geezer in USA.
Respect,love,faithfulness,truthfulness and happiness cannot be compensated by money..Respect other people’s choice and preference and mind your own life and happiness.
True
I have met a beautiful younger Philippine woman and we have decided to become married. 5 years younger! I have no interest in younger women. I prefer wines with a bit of age! I am not wealthy in the US. On the contrary I am financially considered low class financially as my only income is my Social Security. But that amount in the Philippines is considered upper class. My wife is a widowed farm girl who for 20 plus years stuck it out on her own raising her four children after her husbands death in an auto accident. I can live as a member of the family in a simple cottage and become a hugh financial asset to the entire family. They ask so little. And I am happy to help! No boats, no cars, no expensive hobbies. Just some beautiful land some beautiful people is all I ask and I thank God every day for His gift of a Loving family!
Glad to hear your positive report!
-Nils
Tim Gard yes sir ur sooo lucky to fine a woman like ur wife she is not a woman like material listick....I hope I can fine a good man for me ..I like simple living ...
This has me scratching my head because the woman I’ve been talking with online for the past 6 months is also widowed (with 3 kids), and she has a similar story of sacrificing about 20 years of her life to focus only on her kids as a single mom. She put all 3 through college and has her own printing business.. she owns land and at one time did farming as well - A piggery and raised chickens. I mean, are these common behaviors?? Just seems strange. She’s my age by the way, mid-40’s.
By common behavior, do you mean working hard and sacrificing for your kids? Or that widows don't remarry?
Tim, I hope the best for you. Like life everywhere after time it will wear on you. You may not be able to help it because you will get tired of all the Philippino bull shit. Like them talking in their language to their friends and watching wawawee on television. Don’t learn tagaulo because then you will learn how truely stupid they are. It all gets old. There is nothing new under the Philippine sun after about 7 year.
My recamendation is do not move there but maybe have a baby 🍼 there and visit 5 months a year but you need to be able to come home often. Also find a kabit, it’s easy they are everywhere. Also tell your girl right now you will never lie about anything t
Most of them told me they prefer older mature men . Then young guys who they see as playboys
Age doesnt matter as long you both like each other
I agree.
-Nils
Obviously helps the family decide when the man sends them monthly payouts..NO, not always, but an all too common
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Julius Tiangson
thats great, i love to accomidate laughter..it is the best medicine..ignorance and ego are the downfall of man..enjoy your ride lol
Get over it- its about being loved and taken care of. If Philippine men were more responsible and didnt get these girls pregnant then leave, the women would not look so hard at foreigners. They want a real man not a boy. My fiance is half my age and even if I only get a couple good years with her I could die a happy man. We have already done a-lot for her family over the past year and she respects that greatly . She realizes that most men only want to taste her- she is family oriented not stupid. You dont know shit unless you’ve spent some time there.
Alan Philbrook, good words of wisdom.
-Nils
It's about MONEY, look at China, Japan, SKorea....and all rich asian countries. Their men aren't more responsible but you don't see those women going for old foreigners.
Once Philippines and Thailand become a rich super power, young women won't seek an old foreigner.
I am a Filipino and I don't agree with what she's saying. Dating older foreign man became normal "to see" in the Philippines because of financial stature. You wouldn't see Filipina women dating old foreign men if she's financially stable. She'd always go for men who is the same age as her, who's handsome, and with good personality.
Alex Alviedo, I agree with you, she should find an educated handsome man, not like a fucking dirty old man. These dating service are all for the profit and are exploiting the Filipinas who are innocent of knowing.
A handsome filipino...ok, fine, just like on TV Romances. Of course, he's half white not some construction worker who gets drunk and chases 15 yr. old girls in the barrio.
"chases"? I'm being generous...don't we all know what happens in the barrio stays in the barrio...ok let's not forget the drug life, the crime and the grime...let's be real, most of the younger filipinas end up in trouble from young, middle age, and old filipinos - take your pick - not foreigners.
Lets be honest, its mostly about the money that older men provide, because afterall money really is everything to poor people in a third world country. Okay you can call it love, you can tell yourself what u want but they certainly arent choosing these older guys for their physical appearance. I mean imagine if things were the other way around, so what reasons would you have for dating a woman more than twice your age? Filipino people make a very small amount of money, often never get the chance to even leave their island let alone travel to another country. Foreign men offer the chance to actually have some real money, travel to foreign countries and have a better life, huge amounts of new freedoms they would seriously struggle to find without them. Also the Filipino guys have a bit of a bad reputation of sleeping around and not being "serious" so everything works in the favour of white guys. But believe me when I was there, the girls were so pleased to see younger guys, they were seriously chasing after my better looking friend and they were telling us it was nice to see younger guys there, ofcourse they told us given the choice they would choose younger guys similar to their age any day. So im not saying that old white guys are losers etc, but the fact is that the girls that they are with are mainly with them for practical financial reasons. If your okay with that then thats cool, I know expats who admit to knowing that, and good for them, maybe id do the same if i was old and single. Anyways thats just my two cents.
Yes, you speak 100% truth - and I am counting my blessing for being an older guy from the Western world. It has some big pluses. he-he
In fact, some younger guys in the Philippines tell me they see older guys dating better girls than they can....
It is mostly about the money, but more so the security. Westerner's haven't gone a day or so without food. They don't know the feeling of desperation not having the money to take a family member to the hospital. They don't know how hard life is in the third world, they are completely ignorant of what a hard life is. So I agree it's mostly the money and the internet has made it possible for an incredibly poverty stricken girls to improve their life, and in some cases, they find love. It's no different than arranged marriages in the 1800's for new immigrant girls. But as in any situation, you have life-hardened people on both sides which exploits the situation for the worst.
Scott Johnson : That lady or woman she was being interview she was not speaking for every single women in the Philippines that was only her own opinion plus she was going out w/an older man and of her man choice..not necessarily every women choice. In my own opinion not everyone can purchase a true love sincere, honesty and happiness even if you have a million dollars .. Those up bringing are questionable to me !! money cannot purchase true love and happiness ..Those kind of arrangement are for both side !.
Haha dream brother, thanks for watching.
Luzviminda, a small correction: the lady in the video (Camille) already has a young Filipino boyfriend.
Marrying older man is not part of the culture. The truth is some of them wanted to have a better life and poverty is also a part of it. Most women are from poor families with no jobs. The only way is to get out of the country to look for a job or marry a foreigner and work so she could support her family back home. Helping your family back home is part of the culture. Filipinos are hardworking and will do anything to give back to her family. If you love and really care about each other, age won't make any difference.....It's not only Filipinas, Chinese, Thai women etc. are also doing it! Those who are looking for love with a younger woman "Good Luck".
Does Camille have a TH-cam channel? I’d watch her read the phone book.
mudbugdude, thanks for the good words. Camille does not have her own channel.
-Nils
I am young Swede. I personally will one day move to the Philippine. Not to find a wife. I used to hate the big age difference, but I no longer do. I will be old one day. I will have the same feelings as any old or young person. Have you, who hate the old men going to philippines for pleasure, ever thought about relationships in modern youths and middle aged men? Most of them are not family oriented. Most guys and girls are in relationship for the pleasure and will one day separate. This is how the world works nowdays. I personally don't like the modern relationships but I do not hate people for that. I will adapt myself to the current situation and I hope you will too. You do not have to accept it but you shall not spread hate of it.
A very good observation. Most refuse or cannot see any perspective but their own. They think because everyone around them is doing it that is must be good. Then criticize any who don't follow their lead. It does not even cross their mind that they are the oddity when compared to relationships in human history.Their mating practices can only be related to primitive tribal people, not advanced cultures. In my personal research parents tried to marry their daughters to well established men (o l d e r m e n). This was very common. The reasons are obvious. This makes sense if you wanted to have a successful family. Hookups based on nothing but lust degrade the future of a nation. What a foolish time this is.
Daniel Alt humanbing is orders we get man going backwards
Go for young, girls but is tough to keeping them,
I am a Norwegian man who is married to a Filipino wife, she is 25 years younger than me and she is highly educated from a university in the Philippines and her family has money of its own, so in the 5 years we have now been married I have never paid anything to them. Today we have a little daughter aged 2.5 and we moved back home to Norway during covid 19. And now we are staying here because my daughter will grow up in Norway. And we all have a great time together. Everyone also thinks my wife is gorgeous and can't understand how I got her? But this is simple she wanted a Norwegian man who didn't drink alcohol or smoke and who had blue eyes and was over 6 ft tall and she got this lol
Kan jeg spørre hvordan du fant en så bra og utdannet filippinsk dame? Jeg er som deg hverken røyker eller drikker og ser etter en god filippinsk dame men synes det er vanskelig å finne. Tar i mot alle gode tips med stor takknemlighet.
Yes some Filipinas didn't care about the age gap as long the old man provide their need and support their family ...this is only for the poor Filipinas
she is so beautiful 😘
Agreed. Thanks for watching.
-Nils
My Filipina girlfriend is 21 years younger than me. A tall white mature blue eyed western man attracts many women. A Filipina who has fallen in love with you shows her feelings in many ways. Lucky you if you find someone who has developed these feelings. Just be careful in finding the right type for you.
John Marshall, true. Thanks for watching.
-Nils
They like "mature men" because those are more willing to spend their whole saving on their much younger girlfriends. I know tons of stories from men getting ripped off by their Filippino girlfriends and family over the years losing $10.000s.
I disagree what she's saying,as mother of 4 ladies I'm doing everything to make them a better person, I still value our culture,dating to anyone that you don't know this is something unacceptable.
Don't delude yourself, pal. She's being extremely diplomatic/polite on camera and you can tell by her body language she's totally not into you or old guys. If you know Phils culture and Filipinas well you wouldn't be asking her those questions. For a start, high-class, very pretty and well-off young Filipinas generally don't date or marry Western guys because (a) they will have lots of affluent Filipino guys lining up to date/marry them and (b) other Filipinos will assume she's a gold-digger/escort if she's seen with a foreigner, especially an old Western guy because there's no physical attraction. You won't find such women on Filipino Cupid or in Ermita/Angeles City bars which is where most foreign guys look. Poor and less attractive women from the provinces especially single mothers can't afford to be fussy and if they don't have a high education and can't get a decent job they look upon marrying an older foreigner as a substitute for an employer. The families of such women will welcome older foreigners with open arms as they will assume they've just hit the jackpot/won the lottery in finding a human alternative to a pension. "When you marry a Filipina, you marry the family."
Same in the states most parents just want you to treat their daughter great & for helping family that happens here also in USA. It’s a package deal some have children and want you to be as good to them as if you’re own. That’s normal for anyone to want.
Im just amazed how feminine she is, so soft and sweet.
She's one of many.
i dont find this credible at all. In the first place, shes too young to mention that she knows a lot of young women who married older guys and live happily. Come on, did you believe her, seriously?
It remains a common sense -- you must ask yourself why a young filipina in her 20s will marry a 60 year old foreigner. Wheres the attraction?
H Jon for a 60+ year old financially independent man money is not a problem looking out for a much pretty young woman companion so many eligible ones available.....
Old geezers shouldn't be trying to hook up with girls young enough to be their grandchild . Ninety nine percent of the time , these relationships are going to end very badly , come on old men , stick to your own age group . This is about money and getting out of poverty , get their green card , American citizenship and then ditch the old man . Let's get real , these young sexy girls are not falling in love with men thirty or more years older then them .
Neil Salmon, how will it end badly if all parties are aware of what they are getting?
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mas360 if he's 62 or older he's most likely like me shooting blanks anyway but if he turns his back enough and not the jealous type she may end up pregnant anyway! I'm in this same age group your describing you can sugar coat it all you want but in each situation you described the money was there and it's just like a girlfriend of mine once said it's a lot easier to fall in love with an old fools money than to love a working man and struggle through life! let's be honest pal there all alike. I'm 67 and if I'm dating a woman that even starts talking marriage I break it off or make it clear to them that it'll never happen and I can still get laid everynight if I wanted but hell you can only take so much Viagra!
Haha, I like your approach Mick D!
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My Filipina girlfriend is 26 and i’m 59.
We still believe in a fulfilling life together.
You beat me by 7 years.
I think its weird NOT to worry about the age difference - no matter where you are from.
Age is not just a number. Too much of a difference and you will always be in different places in life.
Some of these comments are ridiculous and show a general lack of common sense. If a 60 year-old white American man goes to the Phillipines to date and possibly marry a 20 year old Filipina woman, it is obvious he is doing it because he wants a young, attractive woman with a tight body instead of a woman his own age. If a 20-year old Filipina woman marries a 60 year-old foreigner, it is obvious that she is doing it for financial security and not because of love. Both parties know what they are getting and both parties accept it. Neither one is trying to scam the other. If one of them cries foul because things didnt' turn out the way they wanted, it is their own damn fault.
Marcus Jones, you are right on the mark! It seem pretty obvious what is going on, and both people are getting/giving something of value.
-Nils
Glad someone realizes these relationships are comprised of two thinking adults who are making a deal both parties will benefit from. Old men still prefer youthful women. Young women want the financial security these old but experienced men can provide. The woman realizes her chance of finding a young man who has the same financial stability is very very slim. She also realizes the older man is less likely to be a playboy or butterfly.
Yes indeed!!
Wow, she is pretty!
For most of human history, the majority of woman from all cultures haven chosen mates by their ability to provide. It is simple human nature, and there is nothing wrong or taboo about it in my opinion.
The also choose men to mate with to not just provide.
4:01 "It's going to be cool, it's going to be OK?" "Yessss, as long as that guy proves that he has money"
Age is just a number it's how they feel about each other that counts
BAD GUY... I am 65 yrs old and was dating a girl 25.... Until we went to visit her family... When I refused to LOAN (GIVE) then 8 thousand P... They told her I was a NO GOOD AMERICANO and CHEAP...When I told her,, SEE I told you this was going to happen .. We broke up !
Joseph Simmons Sr, yes - some girls are gold-diggers. This happens in every country, not just Philippines.
-Nils
come on man.. use your brain and not the thing between your legs.. search for a woman in your age - 10 to 15 years and you are good. No young woman want an 40+ year older man. You are using their hardshipps for your own benifit..
@@AsianRomance 😎👍
@@mculus I see younger women with older guys every single day in the Philippines. It is a mutual benefits package, where both adults are enjoying the relationship. What is wrong with that?
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@@AsianRomance nothing is wrong with that, but then don't act surprised when all she wanted was the money. It was clear from the get go. You get her young body for your enjoyment and she gets money to support her family.
Interesting to hear that before year 2000 the age gap was frowned upon in Philippines but now a days its part of the culture and Filipina are free to date whoever.Thats what i think she is saying here. I have always assumed that Filipinas dating older guys was normal even back 50 or a hundred years ago.
Yeah, she is saying the new generation is free to do what they want - but the older generation did not have such privileges. I can understand this.
-Nils
How can it be normal when the majority of Filipinos probably haven't seen foreigners. She spelled it out for you. If the old guy is giving money then no problem.
stop hating on pinay women they are beautiful, feminine and loyal. filipino men also date foreign women it's not a problem. drop the double standards.
as a white man married to a Filipina i have bin in the Philippine walking with her.. had no problems.. her family was very graceful and fully accepted me..
paul baker, thanks for watching.
-Nils
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A girl as young and good looking as the one interviewed would never choose a "mature man" for a reason other than financial security for herself and her family (read "money"), especially in Metro Manila. Filipinos are very picky about their women: they like them young, fair skinned and well-educated. A child or two out of wedlock is a huge no-no, as is a destitute family. The ONLY reason why a young Filipina would actively pursue a foreigner is because she already knows that the kind of young Filipino (a middle-class Filipino) who can give her the life she wants, is out of reach. Women are calculating creatures, the world over.
Gandang Smile, thanks for watching.
-Nils
If the girl and the man both are nice people, well what's wrong with that...again if no victim no problem.
This filipina is a kinda liberated type. As a filipina, I still believe that there are Filipinas that have good intentions of marrying an older foreign man. for me, I prefer older foreign man because they are more mature and have more experience on serious relationship. And i firmly believe there are still Filipinas with housewife material and faithful , loyal to their foreign husband, take good care of them and truly love them for the rest of their lives. Hope to find one soon. 😊
Why would anyone care when most of them are poorer than poor. I would say it doesn't matter if they are old foreigners or not as long as they have money and willing to take care of you. It's all about living a comfortable life. Would you prefer to work for less than dollar a day? I would say no
Rich Cleverly thats true. Matured man is more responsible and lots of experience on how to handle life....
Yes they die quicker and you inherit their money sooner, lol
Not if the foreign man is smart and has a revocable living trust, with the assets in it, that he earned and owned before the marriage took place. She may not get one red cent, from that, if he so chooses. Anything earned after the marriage is open to legal distribution under the man's country of citizenship.
Heather are you single? Am i too young for you i am in my 50"s
So the interviewer needs to ask the question. If an old man foreigner with little or no money came to the Philippines would these young woman still date him and have a family with him? I don’t think they would. So the reason these women date the old men is for financial support.
Jess Nevares, all women seek security - all over the world. Why are you stating the obvious?
-Nils
Another way to put this is "young women will not settle for a old man that doesn't offer her security. But she will settle for an old man that she really isn't attracted too in order to have a better life.
Well Said
Most Filipinos don't mind nor find it a taboo to see Pinays with older foreigners. They do mind if they catch a foreigner treating their fellow Pinays like shit in public. Physical and verbal abuse by foreigners to a Pinay in public could get themselves in major trouble.
Take away the financial security, most flippina women wouldn't date foreigners.
True, but take away financial security most women wouldn't marry anybody.
That is totally not true. I have seen filipinas turn down rich filipinos to be with foreigners that barely had a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. I have seen filipinas turn down foreigners and stay with SUPER poor filipinos. Yes, some women are just out for the money, but certainly not all.
James Davis, yes - that is also my experience. Filipinas do not like to be cheated on, no matter how rich or handsome the man is.
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It's always not the same for any woman, anywhere.
I can work my ass to support my family..
If they respect that, then that is a no.1 reason I guess they can get the Filipina girl.
As long as they won't interfere the girl helping her family.
Happiness in relationships is in short supply. Cherish it wherever you find it.
Tee Cee, thanks for watching.
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Tee Cee I says amen,
I wished some one me that,
If old and not so long to live why worry what they inherit is payment for her having to settle for old wrinkly fart. If she gives you 5 or 10 years of caring and loving be good to her
I've dated 3 and every one of them has lied thru their teeth,
It depends where you go to meet them. Where did you meet the 3 that scammed you?
-Nils
You met the wrong ones
As long as your pocket is money packed theres no problem for a material girls or gold diggers. But from a descent girl moraly practical, its a shame for them bieng with the old unattractive man, specially for a girl who cares about honor than money. They say better poor with honor and dignity.
Great interview, one of the first that I have seen that was held like a news cast interview in the states. Very professional, as well as a perfect guest interview. You had an informative conversation with what I can only guess was a well selected guest, that was perfect in answering your questions correctly and clearly. Again thank you for a great job done, and I look forward to viewing more of your Vlogs.
Glad you liked the video. I have more interviews coming up with Camille. Thanks for watching.
If this arrangement happened in the west, the woman would be labeled a "gold digger" and the guy labeled a "sugar daddy" but in many cases pinay have a much different attitude about a marriage
It’s not a big deal having an older partner as long as you see a sincerity in him. .its better to be with matured minds than with the childish ones.
It's mainly a business decision. Older men are generally more successful, which makes them more profitable.
KevZen2000, very true.
-Nils
Again, not true. I could give you so many examples of where you are wrong but I do not want to name filipinas I know for privacy reasons. But I will give you two VERY good examples. VERY GOOD.
1. I know a guy that doesn't have a lot of money, a foreigner. His fiance had a chance to be with TWO rich doctors from America. Men that had wayyyy more money than the guy she is with now. Way more. She turned down the doctors and went with the MUCH MORE POOR guy.
2. I have a very good filipina friend. VERY good looking. She had so many foreigners after her it was absurd. Guys everywhere wanted to be with her. She turned them all down and is married to a filipino that barely has any money. I could give you many many many examples of this.
All women want security. But this idea that these women are only with foreigners for money is not true. Let me give you one more example.
I have a friend from Australia. He has had ZERO luck with filipinas even though he throws money at them like it is going out of style. The filipinas just do NOT like him. He has promised them a great life. Spends money on them like there is no tomorrow. And yet these filipinas turned him down. EVERY SINGLE TIME! Why? Because they do not like him personally. They do not like the way he acts. They do not like his disrespectful behavior.
The gal in this video hit the nail on the head.
And finally let me tell you a story about a TRULY beautiful filipina. My ex-fiance. The only reason we are not together is that she was just a bit boring for me and I did not know if I really wanted to be with someone that was boring. But she is beautiful inside and out. After we broke up, she could have literally gotten about any guy she wanted. Any guy. But she chose a guy from Sri Lanka! The guy is 1000 times MORE POOR than I am. And yet she chose that guy over all of the other foreigners from Western countries that were hot after her. Like I said earlier, I could give hundreds of examples of this. Hundreds.
+James David
1. The MUCH MORE POOR guy was maybe ATTRACTIVE and she may be not desperate for MONEY $$ not interested in a foreigner (=money wise)
2. She is maybe not interested in dating foreigner and prefer her own. From culture, education, something that make her feel proud.(white penis isn't the dream of many girls). Some women have pride.
"All women want security. But this idea that these women are only with foreigners for money is not true. Let me give you one more example"
- Of course it's not all about money. A filipina in her 20 can fall in love with a foreiger in his 20 or 30 even if he is't rich. As long as he is attractive in her eyes.
But it's only about money if the guy is old (which is unattractive to young women).
NO YOUNG WOMEN find OLD MEN attractive.
Inciteful, one of your best vids mate..
Glad to hear it, mate.
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Cool..
Older guys are easily scammed by the younger ones. Ive been scammed myself. After visiting them. Lost love is 1 thing .. but to find out they scammed you.. makes it even worse.
Alwyn Dellow, yes be careful!
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there is 37 years between us we went from airport check in hotel then went to meet family we video talked 4 month befor i went over there we are getting married in april
James Fleming, congrats.
What made you decide to get married? Just curious...
-Nils
she is every thing i wanted i havent trusted any girls in years an i wanted to see if she was fake
@@jamesfleming8116 Nice to hear that.
But you also know that it is legal for people just to live together? Why did you decide not to go this route?
she wants to get married she is the baby in the family an the only one that aint married an i get along with her an the family family is importion over there
@@jamesfleming8116, now that makes more sense to me. hehe I hope it goes it goes well for you in future.
You know that marriage in the Philippines is for life?
as long you got that bankroll goin.... they'll stay with you
I enjoyed this interview very much. This young Lady very Nice & Beautiful and explained the Topics Perfectly. There may be Hope For Me ....
And the Crap going on in America Now, The Philippines is looking better & better . Many Thanks and Stay Blessed.....
Come on guys, you find good and bad no matter where you live or travel. For me, I'am married to a lady from the Philippines and live in MIndanao. She is MUCH younger than me! BUT she is worth much more than myself so why does she love me and wish to be with a me?
Glad to hear it!!
-Nils
#1 she’s talking to you and getting interviewed because her objective is to find work or better her life by gaining exposure with your TH-cam. #2 A younger filipina will settle to older foreigner and maybe some find stable relationships, but the as the internet expands and young girls in the Provence see that they don’t have to settle, I think more will realize that a younger man that’s not going to die before she is 40 will be possible to meet.
Age does not matter anymore. At this time, whatever works is the only thing that matter. How good is having a young man as your partner if your stomach is always empty? A young jobless man can only offer sex, but sex does not work out with an empty stomach.
True, I know a girl who married an old man (20 years older) and she dated young man (she cheated on the old man with a young man).
For women , marrying an etablished man is more important, then once she get that, she can date an attractive young man (the same age as her). Because no matter what, if she isn't attracted to the old man, she won't be in love
I believe there are still differential acceptances that exist with girls/families from the larger cities to the provinces and there may be regional differences as well. The more "modern" girl as you called her definitely resides in Manila and Cebu!
I agree with this comment. Thanks for watching.
Good interview!
I don’t care what others think !
juan Carrera, good advice.
-Nils
I was a Station dito 1989-92. I am 13 years older then my wife. We went over 28 years of marriage in August.
Art Warmanen, congrats!
-Nils
Of course in any part of this world there were exceptional cases where this May-December affair is happening successfully.
It's their choice .
I respect it .
I met a phillipina. I am 52, she is 30. Big big age difference. I am chatting with her for a while now. You know what my biggest trouble is? I am not rich but I have a good income... she is a slave in Saudi Arabia. It takes me really really energy to convince her to help her out with money and to pay that bad bad family to let her go earlier. She is suffering the maximum and does insist to stay a few months extra and to compromise by letting them take her income so she also pays to leave earlier.. all the time she comes with her pride so we wait until may instead now and again: she hates it there and wants to be with me. But she does make the point to show me something what gets on my nervs... it would be 1 weekend of work for me to do all, 6 months for her and she insistes... thanks god she does not insist the whole time to buy herself free... also: she does really not know what is the difference between westeners from the US and from Europe, but she tries the hell now to learn german because english is NOT my language. She wants to study and not to be a housewife and allready started by internet to learn german eaven if she only has daily 6 hours only free... She also does search all about my country she can to know where I am from and does not just say: "speak english". She uses every second to be in contact with me, cries a lot and same moment is fighting... it could be so easy... I have as I said not millions but I earn so easily the cash... and her answer is: NO. She wants to proof me something and I cannot convince her to do differently.... So I say: depends a lot on the person. Also: she is from low social class but HUNGRY to learn and really smart! She is doing ALL thinkable effort she can to show me respect to my culture. All. I am intrested to know how far that will go. I am impressed. Any financial proposal she wants to refuse and only when I said : "if you keep on doing that, it will srew our chance because you will collapse and may be eaven die!" she did get ok with half of my proposal... and the problem also is that she is really pretty and always concerned one could think she just looks for social help what is so far ZERO the case... I am totally confused and sad sometimes. I hate greedy gold diggers but to an honest person I can give what I can give... she does try to refuse all financial help. So weird... sorry f my bad english. As I said: I am not a native speaker. I think that wont matter... she speaks my language soon. So I will also learn her idiom ... no question. Her answer to my question: "and what if one day I am unemployed and having not that financial base as now?"... THAN I WILL CLEAN IN YOUR COUNTRY UNTIL YOU WILL GET BACK ON YOUR FEET AND I WILL DO THAT WITH PRIDE AND LOVE F YOU". ok... I met german women who are different indeed... not pretty, not young, not polite, very aggressive...not very femine... but they wanted to marry me. Guess why? ha... I did send them to hell. Thank's got. Now my small daughter who is living with me did just run into her room do give her savings to pay that saudi asholes... money she saved as pocket money for 3 years... she is 11 now. The two girls will make good friends I guess ;-) The Phillipina wants to live with us from june. She does not want to marry me now. I am a laywer and I know to find how to get her a visa without marry me for the next years... so much energy she costs me because she has her pride... I love that. The only thing I disliked was when her family was worring I could be a drug dealer what is absurd. I was never drunk in my life... her reaction to her family was: "they must shut up. I haven chosen you!".... speechless...
Fabios Pfefferminze Well hang in there friend. I know what its like dating a filipina ofw in saudi. It sucks and it can hurt when you're feelings are tied into it. I had the same urge to pay off the employers, but on the bigger picture its better for you not to do it. She refuses because her family is depending on her. Its too much of a risk to drop everything she's doing. You'll have to wait until the contract is finished or vacation and handle your things at that time. Also, she doesn't want her employers knowing she's involved in a relationship without marriage. Being in saudi it could cause trouble even if she tells her employer that a man wants to pay her off. She can't even recieve money via western union to saudi from a man if she's not married to him. Its agaisnt the rules.
If your over say 50 don’t get seriously involved with any woman under 30 as most are interested in only one thing your money. Find a more mature woman who is interested in more then just your money as you’ll have a better chance finding an older more mature women who realizes there is more to life and a relationship then just money.
They're all interested in your money.
If that were true, my 20 year old Pinay lady would ditch me in a heartbeat. I told her many times about how dirt poor I am… living in extreme poverty has another advantage: you can’t be scammed by a Filipino (or anyone else for that matter)… there simply is no money to scam me out of. Yet, my Pinay lady still loves me…
There is a cost in everything -- money talks and bullshit walks.
This is a GREAT video. And ohhhhh so true! I have a LOT of experience in the Philippines. I have talked to thousands of filipinas over the years and 95% of them said EXACTLY what this gal said. Age is not a big deal with filipinas! It just isn't. How you act. If you are respectful and polite. If you show respect for their culture. That is what matters.
Yes, women want to be secure. The same goes here and money does play an issue. But not like in most western countries. As I was watching this video I was amazed at what this young lady was saying because, again, it is almost exactly what I have heard most filipinas say and what I have seen personally. And by the way, I have a filipina fiance with a son and she says the EXACT same thing.
My fiance has a number of friends that I have asked about the age difference and they say the EXACT thing as this gal says. And for you dipshits that think it is always about the money. Not a chance, at least for most. Money is a consideration but I have seen incredibly beautiful filipinas that could get about any guy they wanted stay with POOR filipinos or marry fairly poor foreigners. So stop it with that shit.
James Davis, great to hear your comments, James.
I need your support with the comments on this channel and get the guys to open their eyes to the real Philippines.
-Nils
Anyway we can hook up for some coffee or something. Just let me know. Are you in Makati right now? I live here so let me know or give me an email I can contact you at.
James Davis, that sounds like fun.
I am in California at the moment but will be back in a few months. Shoot me your email address in an email at youtube@spam-alert.com.
-Nils
I say let these people who quite clearly have never spent any real time in the Philippines keep their prejudices as we keep the greatest open secret in the world.
+1CBRDUDE Lol, women abroad? You mean women POORER can't be picky. Like we said "Beggars can't be choosers". They aren't picky because they pick MONEY and STATUS over looks.
It's a real status symbol for a young Filipina to have an old foreign man. The parents and family will welcome him to the family and he will be treated like a king.
Bob Hope, thanks for watching.
-Nils
I actually prefer someone older, my current gf is 35 (I am 63). However, when I was dating younger girls, my horizons expanded greatly when I realized that I was the prize, not the girl. Got to have the right mindset. The saying should be, no honey, no money.
Yes, mindset is key. And, romantic relationships is the best way to find out what you are made of. (smile)
-Nils
Over the years I notice that Filipinas have that flirty way of just telling men what they wanted to hear. I also know from experience that there is a wide variation in what the ladies consider old!
I agree 100%.
-Nils
as long as they are truly in love and respect each other no problem
Love and sexual compatibility is of different regions...Go figure...
Great video. Yes she was very nice and inforative.
Robert Maddelena, thanks for watching.
-Nils
that girl is lovely
Thanks for watching.
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is she single?
She is taken.
-Nils
Wow! What a hottie.. I live in Thailand and will be moving to the Philippines once the borders open up.
@
Bill White , why you want to move?
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@@AsianRomance my former girlfriend in Dubai was a Filipina and now that I've had the opportunity to compare culture, personality I prefer a Filipino woman. The only draw back for me is I'm not fond of Filipino food, there are a few exceptions but Thai food is delicious. Overall my choice is the Philippines.
@@AsianRomance I replied to your message asking why I would like to leave Thailand for the Philippines. Do you know people who have left Thailand for the Philippines or do you have an opinion comparing thailand to the Philippines with respect to lifestyle, women etc..
The question now is what is your priority food or having a good partner for the rest of your life?
Go to Philippines and find a good lady and bring her to Thailand. Both of you will enjoy it much more and she can meet a lot of good filipina friends and never want to move back.
Does living in the Philippines keep your hair from turning gray?
Pat, not sure what you mean - but it helps the health to stay physically active with a younger girlfriend. hehe
What are the odds of these young Filipina girls staying with a much older man in the long run? I met a lovely woman in her 20's online and she is crazy about me. She wants me to come to Mindanao in a few months and meet her. She is from a small village and has a good family, is educated and has a job, and does not seem overly materialistic or interested in money. She is resistant to me sending her money or gifts, and seems genuinely loyal and honest and somewhat religious. Is there any chance something like this can work out long term?
John Garbarzyk, I've done it. hehe The only problem arises when they eventually want to get married or have babies. I am not interested in marriage.
-Nils
By the way when you say "dating" are you implying sex too? It seems most of the young Filipinas I've chatted with online want to hold off from sex until there is some kind of relationship. Maybe it's different when you meet them in the Philippines?
It can work but its really up to the husband. The dude has to be extremely social and be willing to stay active and support her in whatever she wants to do. Truly, based on what I've seen, it is not a matter of youth but being willing to stay active, provide support and socialize. When the old dude just wants to be a shut in and suppress the young wife, that's when the trouble starts. Oh, and having a lot of cash helps.
Absolutely 100% there is a GREAT chance it could work out long term. Do your due diligence. These guys that say these women are just looking for money from foreigners are wrong. Period. Some are. Most are not. The good filipinas are first looking for love, kindness, and respect.
If the gal that you are talking with won't even let you send her money (even a tiny bit) or gifts, I would say she has a VERY VERY good chance of being a keeper. Very good.
+1CBRDUDE young couple (same age) or big age difference......Nowadays relationship is based on what you bring on the table.
Where is the nearest ATM?
Basically if the guy is going to look after the whole Filipino family, he is welcome and his age does not matter in their eyes. I think its wrong that families should depend on girls/ women so young to provide for a whole family. I would only help people who try to help themselves - like those who want to study to help better their lives and not look for handouts
"As long as the old guy has money." It's not just white, old guys dating younger girls.
You will also see younger girls dating older Filipino guys for money.
You will even see older celebrities dating younger girls.
Some Filipino families still follow the old ways. Many have adapted to new rules due to the economic situation in the Philippines. Either way long term relationships can be very good. ratio of success for Filipino foreign marriages is very high (above 70%)
i live in a foreign country and please filipina don't be deceived by sweet talks from some foreigner... always remember that we asians have more rich people than they have..
Garry Reyes, thanks for watching.
-Nils
he's joking of course.
I think if its right for a woman of age, over 21 she has that right to personally decide.
ofc its about the money, even in western countries,billionaires are with younger woman for what reason?? only difference is in asia you dont need as much money to be a sugar daddy hihi..
I totally disagree with this lady, I think some of the girls who seeks older foreigners to date just wants the security financially. Also, if the girl comes from a well off family, her last option would be dating an older man specially an older foreigner. I say, try asking that same question to a woman who comes from a wealthy family that doesn’t need help getting out of poverty, you probably might not get the same answer from that person.
1CBRDUDE , please refrain from namecalling on this youtube channel. I have deleted your comment because of this, but please continue to share your views.
-Nils
William Garcia, thanks for your comment. Most women in the world want security. There is nothing new under the sun about this.
Foreigners are also perceived in the Philippines as more wealthy than local Filipinos. So it is natural that an unmarried young Filipina will try to find an older more secure expat.
-Nils
Oh no, please stop using common sense you are confusing everyone. Women want security so her and her children will not go hungry and homeless. What an outlandish idea.
The west has indeed lost touch with reality.
My Pinay wife is 3 years younger than me, and she makes more money than me. So we married for love for sure.
So you married her for money ! haha
Nice interview I enjoyed watching, I have been to makati city n their museum n it was nice n a pleasant place to visit.although I don't go to meet anyone special.just a traveler
Mikes Grillin, thanks for watching.
-Nils
@@AsianRomance your very welcome, oh I also stayed in provinces and I fit right in n no problems,but I had to get used to the was n flush bucket method...it reminded me when I was young n visiting my grandparents up in northern Maine..yes no plumbing at all...
@@AsianRomance ..Nils..Merry Christmas to you
I don't blame the younger Filipinas for going for the older foreign guys. First of all they have more money than the broke younger backpacker types. Secondly they're less likely to cheat. If a Filipina wants to have a handsome young guy (who may have a wandering eye) they could just go for a Filipino guy. No need for a foreign guy in this case. And also the vast majority of younger foreign guys in the Philippines (and there aren't that many to begin with) are actually there with their foreign girlfriends. And than there are the younger foreign guys that are behaving badly, the pick up artists and sex addicts. These guys will be avoided at all costs by any decent Filipina looking for a serious relationship. Look at Filipino Cupid, how many profiles are specifically saying "serious only" or "no f#@k boys". There's a better chance to find an older foreign man looking for a serious relationship and having a good attitude compared with a younger foreign guy. Think of it this way, any attractive, respectful, successful young man in the West will have their pick of many girls in their own countries. The problem is places like Thailand and the Philippines attract many younger foreign guys that go for the "low hanging fruit" to up their "notch count" and brag about how easy it is for them because they're insecure so they need an ego boost. They have trouble getting laid in their own countries cuz of their attitude. The women there see right through their B.S and won't accept men who act like they "deserve" girls which is a crappy attitude not to mention misogynist.
scott80ca, very true!
-Nils
I hear ya but the biggest mistake that any woman can make from any part of the world is think that no other the woman could want your man because he is older and less attractive.than before. A lot of younger women with ,( wondering eyes lol) have been shocked
I've been thinking about it for a while. but never talking and ask about this issue.
thank you for your video. excellent!
Aslong you have money its ok with them
...I am Filipino American...both of my parents came from Phillipines...My younger brother married a older rich white obese girl...my parents accepted her...even though we live in America with comfort Filipino way of struggle, the hard life never left my parents...that being said it works both ways for men and women...