"My" Filipina Stole "My" House - Philippines Expat
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มิ.ย. 2016
- Well, here's a follow up to our two-year old video on dealing with our difficult American neighbor, Tom. Short story - she took the house!
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You moved from the US to the Philippines and you got a difficult American for a neighbor. Wow, what a luck you have
Yup!
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What a luck you have! 😂 😂 😂
Same happens in Thailand also many times.
One of the old expats gave me great advice. Only rent and never get married.
You had enough of the neighbours. Rent somewhere else.
You had enough of your girlfriend. Get a new one.
It's very simple and you have more options with little risk. 😀
Their (racist) governments create this insecurity for families. Reciprocity should be the ruling principle, but it is not, due to the racist governments in Asia. Over 300,000 Thais have U.S. green cards. They can buy land and houses all they want, in their own name, even if they NEVER intend to become U.S. citizens. They have FULL civil and property rights in the USA. Why would Thailand as an 'ally" treat American expats without the same reciprocity, especially those who are married to Thais and even have children there?!! It's insanely immoral and unfair treatment.
David Brown sorry David. You don't understand how a Monarchy works.
The king is a god on earth. His subjects are his children.
How could you ever been his child?
I'm guessing you're not Asain?
Our monarchy is different in England but gives me an understanding of Thailand.
Having a president. You wouldn't understand.
It's not the Thai government doing this.
It's their belief structure.
Don't be offended by them. It's nothing personal.
England has been a very close ally of Thailand before your country even existed. The English have the same issues as you Americans. 😊
We're talking about RECIPROCITY in property rights and green cards/permanent residency. It has nothing to do with the monarchy (in either place). It has everything to do with the ultra-racist Chinese who control Thailand at the top. ALL of the Thai prime ministers and top military generals have come from ethnic Chinese (Teow-chu) families, such as the Shinawatras, for example.
The Chinese are among THE most racist people on earth, and it shows in their visa policies and non-reciprocal treatment in civil and property rights for Western expats.
David Brown oh dear. You have got it bad.
Good luck to you. 😀
@@tacobell6826 someone's angry 😎
Thanks for the reply though. X
I married a filipina, we had a child together
when our child turned three years old
we had our child tested for Autism
proof came back - Positive for Autism
2 weeks later my beautiful filipina wife
ABANDONED US.
She left our child with me to raise alone
Today my child is 12 years old
She did not attend our divorce hearing - never showed up for the hearing.
She did not show up for the custody hearing
She called me 4 months later
Just to wish us luck
Never heard from her since
it has been 9 years now since I heard from her.
She was ashamed to have given birth to a imperfect child, is how she told me.
It took me a few minutes to pickup my jaw from the floor after she told me this.
Our beautiful child is a gift from God Himself, and HE never makes mistakes ever.
I have been Blessed to have this child
I am his Father and Daddy and now Mommy
My child looks up to me like I am a Super Hero - I am Superman - my child calls me. [ so cute ]
Naw... I am just a proud Parent is all
a filipina woman is the BEST
Im sorry for the situation you encounter to a Filipina Sir , But not all of a Filipina is like her ...
Don’t give up. Keep finding your true love.
@@balenokids621, all same same, rotten to the core.
@David David I can prove it to you ,I think you also have a bad experience and I am not against if you fell that way, I respect your opinion
@@balenokids621, lol hahahaha sorry I don't date pinoys. Nice of u being understanding. 😂
I'm building a house in Camsur with my wife. We're using poured concrete with foam insulation in the center. Known as "anti-karaoke, rooster and dog barking" sound barrier lol
Let me know how it works.
Works well. Double pane windows too. Covid restrictions stopped karaoke…thanks China!
I double panelled my condo home. It helped a tiny bit but not a lot. Noise travels thru doors and windows easily.
double pane windows?
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1. **Insulation**: The air or gas-filled space between the panes acts as an insulator, reducing heat loss in winter and heat gain in summer, thus enhancing energy efficiency.
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maybe that house will still be available, when I get there in a couple of months. Hope you like AC/DC and some Beastie Boys.
lol. .... "Yeah You, Shook me all night long"
but if u r young enuf he will bust your face...😖
or weren't you listening?
+Bernard Popp lol I like how he's calling this 70 year old neighbor OLD
WHEN HE LOOKS 70
Himself!!
You think this guy looks 70? I was thinking more in the 40's, maybe early 50's max.
If you're basically paying somebody to tolerate you, you can't get upset if she decides to cash out and find a better deal. :-)
That is definitely one way of looking at it.
You see this all the time around Subic Bay area. The Expat retires or lives part time abroad and supports his wife/gf. If he's a drunk loser and his girl is not. She is always looking to upgrade.Can you blame her?
It doesn't take long for the young GF/wife to outlive the old expat with bad habits. Many of them do just that.
Some have been known to accelerate the process. "He didn't live as long as we expected, but it took the undertaker three days to get the silly grin off his face." :-)
I don't see what's, "third world", about it. You've described most of the women I've known stateside. The only difference is that by Philippine standards I'm a "big earner". :-)
Glad that the difficult neighbor moved out. Have a happy life!
Thank You for the well done vid. 26 years of marriage for me. God Bless You and your wife...
It’s good to see a happy couple from my home town. I am a Filipino shouting out from Texas. I grew up in batinguel. It makes me cringe every time I hear a story like this. Hope all turned out well for the guy/ husband of that woman. Great video. In a few months we are wanting to do some business in the Philippines. If y’all have any idea. Let me know. Great vids again
"My Filipina stole my house"
the title.. CLICK BAIT!!!
Agree - pisses me off too -
You made wrong choices being a hot shot with your money with a third world girl. You were not scammed. Your just another unwise USA xpat statistic.
Good to see you back
I worked in Manila for over 3 years. It is against the law for a foreigner to own real estate in the Phils. If I remember correctly, it is possible for a non citizen to own that which is attached to the land, but not the land parcel.
to some expat who want to marry filipina all i can say is
1.when it comes to house, rent first and see how the relation goes. don't go over board, you can buy a house if u want but look 4 affordable one and make sure to stay there 4 long period of time.
2. marry someone that is close enough to your age..for old man to marry young gal at 20's is absurd, for lust surely its OK but 4 love I don't think it will work unless, maybe if your at 40's but but for 55 and above, I don't think so.
3. look 4 a women that has a conservative view of life, I'm a conservative my self and its amazing when I came here in america, American conservative are more conservative than we are. I don't know how you do it but use your instinct, normally they r women who don't smoke, seldom go to a bar,knows how to work 4 a family and simple as it is when it comes to clothing, food and dings etc,,,
..,,., i can add more but i think this r d very basic thing to consider,.,.,
wow you nailed it. to add,marry a filipna from north of the Phils like Ilocos,mt province,baguio etc because they are more conservative,loving,hard workin,family oriented and God fearing but in general all Filipnas like that in the whole archipelogo
that's good advice, but I can marry old maid here in US dude.
Im 25 years old and my husband is 55 when we get maried.. maybe you won't believe in age doesn't matter. I do believe.. we are happy and have 2kids.. 8 years been together..age cap is very far but I don't make him feel that he's too old.. he's retired and I'm working hard to earn my own money.. nor depend on he's pocket
Scott Johnson hahaha sure can i apply jokes
life is good
yes my fellow American, i love my filipina also
andythrust1 that reply was meant for another post where i am debating someone else
SOOOOOOO......
tell me about YOUR experience with asian women..
oboard the USS St Louis
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anyhow, tell me agian about your experience with fipipinas
Love your videos Sir!!! Thanks for the upload and for coming in the Philippines!!! More power and God bless you and your family always!!!
Why, thank you very much.
love this vid. Kudos to both!!!
I know a lot of Filipina who married foreigner and they admit they don't love them. Only for money! It's sad
dyaki Aqui
not all.
dyaki Aqui THERE IS SOME FILIPINA THEY LOVE THEIR PARTNER BUT THERE IS SOME WHITE MEN THERE ARE NOT COMPORTABLE WITH ONE!
Genevie Dabon jjnjj
Yeah it did happen but those women sacrifice themselves for their family and taking care to those insecure old man. Why I can say that coz I saw a woman a Filipina whom with a 72 year old white men. I ask her if she loves him and she said no. Yes its indeed the truth but she said I am willing to be with him forever to show my gratitude to him for what he did to my family. So you see I think she loves that guy in some ways and to her own ways.Love is not just having sex and showing affections in one person. Love had different faces so dont be a fool and be thankful that your status is different from those unfortunate person. Dont look at it in negative sides but look at it in positive sides.
dyaki Aqui u are completely wrong..
All foreigners married to a Filipina should be aware that the laws regarding property ownership in the
Philippines by a foreigner changed in 2014, before this date a foreigner could claim half the value of there property if they split from there wife under the conjugal property law. However after the 2014 law came in you are now entitled to nothing if your wife sells the property. I know this for fact as i have lost all my property to my estranged Filipina wife who lives in abroad, She snuck back to the Philippines last November and sold the property without telling me. i found out when the new owner turned up on the doorstep, of course i didn't let him on to the property , i told him to get a court order . A few months later i had to go to Manila for a few days, when i got back this new owner had broken in and had about 20 work men on the property doing work. I knew i had lost, i could have gone to court and spent a shit load of money but i knew i would loose as i can not find anywhere on the net any foreigner who has really. won in property battles here in the Philippines. For all you armchair lawyers that think im wrong about the law , Go and see your own attorney now if you are married to a filipina and you have property in the Philippines. You need to get a legal contract between you and your wife stating that if you split up all money from the sale of the property you have invested in will be shared equally. if you don't have such a contract the FILIPINA HAS ALL THE RIGHTS AND YOU WILL LOOSE EVERYTHING, sure you can fight in court if you are willing to spend many hundreds of thousands of pesos, but without that contract you will loose, and even with a contract i would not bet that you are 100 per cent safe . Unfortunately i know a lot of foreigners this has happened to, and it still continues to happen. Some foreigners when this happens just give up, unfortunately for me i had everything invested in my property here, and if my estranged wife thinks that she has won and i have give up and there will be no consequences to her actions , then she never knew me that well. I have consulted with 12 attorneys on this, 9 of them did not know about the new law and advised me everything would be okay, an 3 advised me of THE new law and said sorry you can not win unless i had said contract mentioned above. Welcome to the philippines.
My boyfriend experienced that too with his ex filipina wife ☹️she took everything even the kid. She didn't allow him to see the child. So stressful. . I feel so bad about this problem about Filipinas. I'm a filipina too but I'm working so hard and save for the things I want to have. I feel so sorry sir. I hope one day things will change.
I will never give up and my ex knows that ...i rather bury her here in my country than to let her have the house that was build with both out money and i only want half ...if i dont get that she better go back coz the police here know me ...no one fucks with me with out paying the price
Hahaha, Lol. I'm sorry this happened to you, but I'm also happy that their President doesn't allow foreigners to come to their country to take advantage of their women, and leave them homeless. In the U.S we now ever than before have a grave homeless problem in all the states.
I have to respect any man, who respect his women, and look out for their well being. That's what all men should do in every country. Not let foreigners come there to take advantage of these women b/c of their financial hardship. Philippines are very nice ppl, and I hope they stay this way. I travel a lot but sometimes take Cruises b/c of the good treatment that the Philippines provide the guest, although they're working to send money home to family. Some have told me, and I always leave an additional tip just for them outside of the daily gratuity tip charged to the room. These ppl work very hard.
You are 100% correct on that...the courts and police will always side with a Filipino man or woman, you are in THEIR COUNTRY and have no rights whatsoever.
They will smile while taking your money until its not funny, and when you have no more money you are now useless to them, and they will do the same to the next SUCKER
Pinays make a good living scamming foreigners, that's their job
and they are very good at it. I've heard this same story a hundred times.
Foreigners need to stop thinking with their dicks.
Put a mortgage on the property.... The property can be titled to 2 filipinas who would have to agree to do sale.... Cost 50,000 pesos to do the mortgage. Be careful, because if you die and the mortgage is to you.... Well you know. Use a couple of friends as lenders... Preferrably in the usa
Glad to hear your noisy neighbor moved on , maybe they'll be happier now too. Love your video's and all your good information it helped me out on my trip a lot, many great tips, had a great visit, didn't want to leave, but my sweetie wants to come to the US and meet my family now, which is nice as all my kids are behind us and support our on going romance. Once again thank you Ned and Michelle for your video's !
I'm looking forward to more Bisaya videos! I've learnt a lot from the resources on your website and have seen literally all of your 100s of videos on this channel and the odd Bisaya word or phrase here and there really has helped me learn. Now, Bisaya resources are far and few between compared with Tagalog and other languages, and I know you're a language guy (since your job is with translations, right?). So it would be great to see another language based video on your channel.
Take care, amping bro :)
not all filipina are married for money im married my foreign man he's not got money but im genuinely care for him we're still together for30yrs
Anafe Brickell most marry older man so when the man dies, they can take the life insurance and property. It's a form of investment.
Anafe Brickell bullshit
I married a pena 2yrs ago. Im not a rich guy and we are very happy. She lives on palawan island while i work oilfields of western canada. I come home once a year for 2months. We have a beautiful home plus another property. Never been happier. So ya not all pena's are gold diggers. You have to choose your life partner carefully in any country or any culture you are in just common sense.
Still together?
HOW to meet one like you? (Tell the WHOLE story.)
I know of dozens of examples were the Filipinos take the house and the guys are left high and dry with no money and no house!
In most cases those guys were idiots. Guaranteed. It is not that hard to spot a filipina with bad intentions. One of the problems here is that so many guys get SERIOUSLY involved with filipinas before they really even know her or the family. This is a bad bad deal.
But if a guy uses his big head and not his small head and actually thinks...the guy will be ok.
You know dozens of cases personally? Hmmm. You must hang with a lot of really dumb guys.
+Sacks Sixth Ave. ...haahaahaaa....good one......hang with alot of dumb guys.....
you know in this game only idiots always win first who told you to come here second why =theres no woman in your country? i cant understand why you travel so far just to find somebody with different culture and mentallity so it sound bull annd expect a miracle life is very simple sometimes but people misunderstood all the times better have a local girls back home and settle dont go anywhere because thats the hardest thing i said this because i sailed for 35 years and i see the world i have met a lot of woman but i still coming to my wife im not so stupid to live in south america europe usa orustralia canada because of cultural difernces and i dont like to cry like you she took the house she took the dildo etc people makes themselves idiots
Wow dozens huh? Dozens of idiots. All I can say.
Andrew S has
Loved the out take!! just like a pro!!!!
:)
I am sorry for what happened to your neighbour Ned but wow it's great for you two peace has broken out at last and you won't have to put up with that horrible noise ...best wishes Ned good to see you got home safely I move in 6 days to my new life there !
Happens more than you think and he gave you a great piece of advice you glossed over. NEVER invest more in a Filipina relationship than you can afford to lose. They not with the foreigner because hes handsome. Its usually about financial betterment. Don't ever get it twisted.
well yes, even the ones u live with in their country...if taken to USA and exposed to americanism long enuf...these old guys say the gal would awol u and show where their hearts' really at from square one...economic advantages...😖
thats wut u hear...and makes me figure a real love from the PI is just too rare...but if u will play sugar daddy enuf to suit...u may have a good superficial bed buddy...
Im a filipina married to a handsom american only 3 yrs older than me (im 29 hes 32). I can work as a registered nurse made the same money as he makes. So do not generalize because not all are bad filipinas. My husband will tell you how blessed he is marrying me. He can trust me with money. I think someone is a fool enough if he is marrying a filipina that is 20+ years younger than him. Even in America some women are gold diggers (watch youtube about gold digger pranks)
Bing Bing.. congrats and yes I agree with everything you say. I spend half my time in either Manila or Zambales area so I know of what you speak.
me too..not all filipina.. i believe their are lots of girls too just aftering security and money not only in the Philippines...my husband is a canadian and im a nurse too have my own property worth house and lot and a business n the mall..i saved and worked hard to earned before i met my husband..he has a nice work and so do i..so pls dont generalize..
You can say that to every man in California or NY.
A friend of a friend is living a Philippine nightmare. She taking him to the poorhouse
I think it’s better just to leave them there.
I lived with a blood sucking walrus.... Food was chicken grease, and I got 2 blockages.. One was fixed, and while I was under she told doc not to fix the other. Bleeding me dry, will in hand, plotting my death. The holographic will was no good. hahahah. Her F-buddy planned on offing her after the money came in.. she is now in Hong Kong, and I am married to a great one..
Nice house and dog you got there! It's my first time to see ur vid and I can tell that both u and ur wife are happy and comfortable with each other.
i appreciate your honesty. thanks...
he truth is filipina love foreign men just they also love filipina men as well.
If you meet a young beautiful girl in the Philippines and have been in relationship with a man normally she will tell a foreign guy she has not had sex for two or five years all will say this to you . This is intended to keep your mind of the things that she is doing when you are away .. If a foreign guy work in another country and have a home in the Philippines most time his wife will move her lover in the home while the husband in away and will take care of her family and lover with the money the husband send .. Please be careful who you choose. There are three kind of woman 1. who will be with only one man 2. who will be with her husband and her lover 3. who will be with anyone and have many lover.
JOY SUMALINOG hahaha
JOY SUMALINOG, good comment. But the 1, 2, and 3 rules apply to American women too and probably the entire world where there is enough freedom. But thanks for the good advise. Excellent reminder of how people can be and to just be careful of everyone. :)
I see from my notification that you have reply but didn't see it here, anyway anyone can be anything if they choose to, I laugh at your comments but that doesn't mean I'm of that kind or type of person I laugh because I think thats funny only stupid people will accept to be fool because I believe if person fools me I smell it a miles away 😂
Well said Joy.
Maybe check how tight she is. If she is number 2 and three its likely she is not as tight as number 1.
If u don't trust your wife or wife to be, why marry?
+eddie sanin how do you know this??
You didn't even bother watching the video and commenting right?
so true well said
you trust your US wife? 20 years baby jail, and she no longer likes you, followed by divorce. She does not know her shelf life expired till later. That coin collection of gold? She better not know about it. Different clowns, same circus
I have not seen you for centuries.. I was thinking about you guys. I found you again so I decided to subscribe.
I love happy endings. Funny how things always seem to work out in the end.
Loneliness is something that we foreigners deal with here because of the language barrier. Going weeks without clear communication is detrimental to our health. The basic conversation between you and your spouse/gf is not enough to meet our requirements for a healthy lifestyle. I know now why the expat groups are so important. I wasn’t interested at first but now it’s vital if I plan on staying here . Speak on this please.
Good and honest relationships, it's broad but we know what that entails, would play a big part to get around the area of language concerns. Acceptance of being it is whatever is, may also help, because really, they are not native English speakers. Obviously many expats got over it with spouses who had very little English or even none at all when they started. If the ability to speak at least understandable English for a wife wont help or isn't enough, it's hard to think of what else would help in the area of communication which is you're right, legit important.
We are building a house in Cagayan de Oro now, it's for my gf but obviously I plan to go live there myself one day in early retirement.
And this is my worst nightmare, I don't mean that my gf will sell the house, I'm not worried about that, no what I mean is having a neighbour that plays loud music, I probarbly would invite them for a drink and poison them.
My gf is from a very poor family and first time I visited there their house was 4 weeks prior to that completely destroyed by a typhoon, but she never asked me for anything. In all the years I know her she only asked me for money once, and that was when her brother needed treatment for dengue.
I trust her with all my heart and I want her to be the owner of our house because I don't want her to get into problems if anything happens to me. If this turns out wrong, I will not blame her, but my bad judgment.
btw I know people who met their gf in a bar and got very happy with them.
Leeuwy
Good Luck and God Bless. Ok, if you can afford to lose some money you are giving her just think of it as a GIFT and I hope she returns many more blessings and a gift of love and eternal friendship in return.
But here is something to think about. I worked five years for my ex fiancee to created many businesses and build apartments and buy a farm. Without my authorization she built the apartments on land that she said cost me $6000 but turned out to be free land given to squatters, across the street from her fathers compound. Her and I have many EMAILS arguing not to start building the Apartments until after the Beach lots were paid off. That is a different story.... only two days after I went back to work in Baghdad to pay off the beach lot contract I just signed with her as "CO-Buyer" she and the Real Estate Faggot switched the contract to her name only and she only made 6 months payment of 24. But I have many EMAILS to me from her TELLING me, in an often angry tone, NOT to forget my beach lot payments. Which, I never did. She said she located a farm and I would need to send $10,000 for it. Just 2 months before I came back on vacation to visit her she told me she sold the farm for a $2000 profit and used $12,000 as a down Payment for a Condo I did not want. Also about the same time is when I discovered I owed a hardware store $7000 for cement and materials to build the APARTMENTS I did not want Yet. In my mind that project was later after the Restaurant business was supposed to open on a NAVY base in co-operation with her sister and the chief. I was told rent was $108 for the ware house we would convert into an NCO type club. YES, I believed this family. I was military and they were all Philippine Navy. But guess what? The whole tribe turned out to be pirates. They opened a Massage Parlor with the money I was sending.... for brother. They probably sent 4 Nieces and nephews to college too. A different Brother died in the USA, he jumped ship in LA and ran to RENO and died there, and I gave them $2000 to help the family out.. But guess what I discovered after I left her? The Two lots in a different location I paid for earlier were never bought. Is this where my money went for those two lots? But she did take me there to see them and it SUCKED....she even had three "real estate agents" (all women) arrive with the Title for those two lots that, later, turned out to be fraudulent...but before I knew this, that was why I thought when I signed a contract for two beach lots with a big Real Estate company I thought I made a good decision.. but remember? That contract was changed only2 days after I went back to work. And Guess what I also discovered after I left her. In her FB page she had pics of a ffilipino BF? Wearing my clothes! I went to a Hotel we went to get receipts as evidence in my case of fraud against her and guess what? I discovered she was there with someone 14 FEB but it wasn't me I was still in Baghdad working for all of this. Maybe she is already married?
The Case is in court now but there will probably be no justice. My first two lawyers seemed to have been paid off to screw me. I was only going to get $11,000 of $300,000 I invested with her. I filed police charges against her for theft and fraud. I also took it to a higher organization who assisted me in getting my case to the prosecutor. She stole my gold coins and now she is telling the court... all the money I sent her was a gift. Case is still pending.
I am lucky. I can go back to work and make this money I lost back in 2 years. My Bosses want me back. But I want this "EGG" to roast a bit more. I know the family is a Military family... they can just as easily do away with me. But I was military too. I am on guard. But I learned a lot too. Not all are bad. Just be careful. My story is not UNCOMMON... many more were burned. They have NO risks .. you do though. Don't believe all promises. My Emails are evidence she was cheating on me from the beginning... this is why I have a case. I NEVER deleted them. Her words will hang her... but in the PI? Maybe not... they protect their own. During one arbitration.. MY LAWYER and the Defendant with her navy family behind her were all chanting " PHILIPPINES for Filipinos" Three times, so you kind of know where you stand there in the PI. The Gold coins I left with her she stole too. I figure if I was killed in Iraq my coins were with my Ex fiancee for "SAFE" keeping... LOL
She told the prosecutor it was a gift... and she sold them already...But EMAILS she sent say she knows she was keeping them for our retirement later....
Ok, Good Luck. My Case should be over but I think it was being slowed down... this time I have a suspicion the prosecutor has been greased to slow down his "RESOLUTION" decision. But I have more "Ace's" in my sleeve. But I cannot reveal this to anyone yet. Case is still pending and a 2nd case against the real estate company for contract fraud (NEGLIGENCE). A lawyer told me I can also sue for PAIN AND SUFFERING.. LOL My Ex Fiancees pain and her suffering...???? In the PI you are considered "married" if the relationship is over 5 years... I have a right to at least 50% unless the Crime can be proven it was ESTAFA. Then maybe I can get all my investments back. But we know the pirates wasted all those funds ... RIGHT? So jail time for her is just as well for me.
+Leeuwy there are lots of beautiful women who forces themselves to work on bars due to poor/bad situations in life, and are praying for someone to come rescue them from poverty.. most of the time these filipina women would be so grateful that they'd pay you back with love, kindness and life long devotion when you marry them. Although you really have to use your intuition which is which, or who is who.. if you're thinking of marrying these bar girls, be wary of drug users, might as well shun away from them.
+DauntlessEagle1776 sad to hear that, but i wish you goodluck.
+Ping Yu
Thanks Ping Yu, Not looking for sympathy really. Just to warn other men to be careful and used my example of foolishness as a learning experience I hope others never have to endure.
In the Military you learn to trust your fellow comrades. I thought they thought the same way. In Fact, if they followed the business plan as I wanted they would all be making money if they were honest. I had no problem if they used the profits to send the kids to college. All I wanted was a DOG and to go fishing.. they could manage the businesses. That simple. I thought they were competent.
Later, I was told by my Ex Fiancee that a third brother had an "illegitimate" child with a GF, he was married but my EX Fiancee told me not to tell her brothers wife. This Lady GF of Bro married a Japanese man and their son was adopted and taken to Japan with them. When the GF comes to the PI she brings the boy who is now 19... .this son doesn't tell the Step Father he visits the real father. I do know they were in the Navy, I was on base with them. One of them is very high up in the ranks. But they are all Liars too.
To sum up my story... I must be the only man in the Philippines with a $300,000 dog. The ex fiancee stole the apartments, all my clothes, my Restaurant decorations that cost me $30,000 and $6000 to mail them to her... and she NEVER opened the Boxes. She stole my Gold and Silver coin collection too that she kept in a Safe at her fathers home that I also paid for....So I got the Dog and she laughed she could buy another one...after I left her.
I am calling the Prosecutor and Lawyer now to find out the status.... the prosecutor had my case for 1 year now... sitting on his desk. He says each month he has too much work to do. I believe him! LOL There are probably many cases like mine sitting on his desk... just not as much money as I lost.
good for you man! enjoy the Philippines and watch your back there brother:)
Hi! guys happy to see you both again in you tube.Nalipay ko nga kamo pa gihapon mag kauban,wish you all the best in life.
Foreigners can't own properties (Land) in the Philippines.That's the law so before buying one you should do your homework.
Sending money to someone you just meet online to buy the land and build your retirement house is purely stupid.
Know the signs of scams. Surely whoever venture into online romance should be wise enough to detect the signs.
Because of these reasons why I work my self off and buy and build my own house in the Philippines. So when the time my husband's retire he can just sit and relax. And everybody who thinks that I am one of those lowlife scammers can eat their words.
If I am a man that look for a lifetime Love. I would not open my wallet and bank account right on the bat.
I would look for someone who value me over cash.
Have decency, moral and most of all somebody who will work with me on building a future together.
If you get scam then don't blame anyone and cry to your friends and tell them you got scam. Because clearly you are partly to blame.
Let's use our brain and not our pants and bank accounts. Just saying!
Well said, Michelle and thank you for taking the time to share that!
Buying a house or a human? Lol
These men are poor excuses for men & I do 100% blame them for being so pathetic & getting scammed
Neelia; so the woman lies and plans a deceitful act with no conscience, and it's the man's fault 100%? Severely flawed thinking, or as you would put it; a poor excuse of a human
No one will try to lie if no one falls for it. Both are flawed, one is being a jerk and one is being stupid. We live in EARTH not in HEAVEN. We are surrounded with good, neutral and bad people. You can lessen the bad but can't remove it permanently.
Flash back to pre-swole Ned there . . slender !!!
I lost weight (and strength) since I stopped the clomid. I just got too big on that stuff.
A few pilipina at these time that has reality in life. And be very careful .
BS headliner
There are so many stories and friends to keep off. you knew eyes wide shut what you were into.. Nobody but you to blame.
Thanks for sharing, I'd honestly never thought of this before.
Yes it happens, mostly to guys who dont think or care about their gf or spouse. Never should a guy buy a gf a house. You are correct in the ownership issues. The only legal way around it is buying it in a filipino name and leasing it 25 year lease. You still dont own the land, but you own the buildings. Depending on your age ( the guy was 75?) you dont need to worry about the length. It seems if you are like that guy, karma gets you. The majority of the guys who have these troubles fall in love with bar girls, who have 2-3 more bf lol
Leasing can be a gamble as well. If the landowner suddenly wants to sell the leased lot, you could be in for a serious headache.....
rent don't buy is the secret to a long loving relationship.
Renting is so cheap!
I agree even i still would love to build coz the philippines is a very beautiful country ...shame that there are so many woman who dont know thr meaning of love and respect ...i think its because they are not educated as most foreigners
Every time i watch pi utube videos m learn about pi women n culture i just want to puke. Hundreds of countries to chose from to move to. Pi is just another place really. Yea totally disgusting. Ill save myself a lot of money time n heart break by staying clear away from pi. Lol
Philippine Dreams but its safe !
Xman 2112 there are good ones but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! So better not try like u said it will save u alot of problems and misery
Love the Chan Brother! Subbed.
Shout out from Fayetteville, NC. US
Hope you really have a happy life in the Philippines.
Best tip: Get a condo, not a landed house!
Best tip rent a condo
Best tip: Rent out your house in your home country and use the money to rent a place in the Philippines. The realtors in California charge 10% of the rent check.
in your name only before you marry
Did not this chick take this guys house? That's what I heard 😂
Your videos are so educational, interesting and culturally enrichening.
Silence is golden. Enjoy Ned and Michelle. Aloha
My experience both back in Australia and here in the Philippines is that this is the kind of thing that happens to guys who aren't the nicest people to start with. I wouldn't go so far as to say they deserve it, but I'm sure that's how the Pinays see it.
Foreigners are not allow to own a land in the Philippines
You are correct.
You can though own a Condo.
Cass Helena "Land can be leased by the foreigner or a foreign corporation on a long term contract for an initial 50 year period and renewable every 25 years. A foreigner can rent a lot and at the same time legally own the house on the rented land." So basically get a very good property lawyer and sign a long term lease on said land that will get you to the point of death. After you're dead who cares? Though it does lead to other issues with inheritance factors pushing for a swift death of you. Would rather loose property than my life. ;)
real-estate-guide.philsite.net/foreigners.htm
Cass Helena on another note a foreigner can inherit land from a spouse who is a Filipina and passes away.
Cass Helena don't die then. ;)
Nice Video Glad Back home Mark from Caribbean Island Jamaica Respect Man
Hey, what was the name of that tune your neighbor was blasting, while you were recording near a wall with a black pickup, sound good to me!
In the USA a divorce will cost a man more than just a house.
christopher stimpson In the Philippines there's a chance he's going to lose all of her extended family Clan..lol
Wow. That shit would not have gone on long if me, my fiance, and any member of her family lived there. I have said many times, in many cases it is BEST to not live around other expats. Being around other expats is one of the leading causes of expats having problems and getting in fights.
Happy to see you do not have to deal with that crap anymore. Guy seemed like a real prick and probably got what he deserved as far as losing the house.
I am blessed of having a wonderful wife and being the only expat in my area.
Yup can't deal with the noise. We are looking for a place in the country. Been there done that. Then I went to the University of Alaska in substance abuse and family violence counseling after I sobered up. Did my internship at the in-house treatment center for the VA and also with the Native tribes. I don't go to the beach anymore some of my wive's family (men) get drunk and want to start crap with me. Liver disease is a slow and agonizing death.
Jule Westcott
no one deserves to lose their house
James W I’ve spent several months in the Philippines and yet to find a pedo. Where did you find so many pedos?
she is lovely and so calm you are the lucky guy
Great news about the neighbor finally leaving but your gonna miss those awesome tunes for sure I just know it !! diba ? Angel is so cute great dog.
I'm a filipina and my fiancee is an Aussie He said to me that he wants to buy a house here which we all know that He cannot legally own the property so I told him Just buy a condo unit atleast its under your name and you can rent it to someone else then he replied to me No, I want a house and lot for US then I said Its up to you but for me Its much better if we aleady have a baby we can put his/her name under the property. I never ask him to buy anything for me cause I have this high ego that i dont want to depend to anyone I want to work hard for myself so I can anything I want. I am a teacher and my whole family are decent and professional. And I love my fiancee so much more than anything in this world. I love him so honest,clean and pure. So for those foreign man who are seeking for a Filipina to love and to marry My advice is be careful Get to know her background Education and Family background even Living status Don't be rush Observe her. Those men who aged like 45 and up pleasd find a filipina who is nearly same age as you not like half of your age. I am 25 years old my fiancee is 43 y/o. 18 years age gap. not so bad because he just looks like 30 plus everyone is always telling that.
Mikaella Bautista disgusting
Don't come America
Mikaella Bautista not just filipina has the bad attitude all ppl in this world has that not just the forein man should be careful of course filipina should be careful too in choosing their man because i have seen lots of fil.women are victims too with foreign man.
Mikaella Bautista clap clap mind your own busineses girl your advice is fucking trash you are sounds like VAUNT 😂
Termite yes she is so bad 😄
Some older men they go to the Philippines to find a young bride ,,, so don't get it twisted .
nice video. .thanks for sharing
One way to insure you can stay in your house is to write a "right of use" contract. One can also write chattel mortgages for other items in the Philippines
***** Actually my Filipino lawyer set this up for me. My rights are legally intact regardless of any emotional responses one may have to my statements of fact
radar love is lying. Flip conspire with other flips to take your property. about 12 flips are in on the scam and take your shit. foreigners have no rights vs. flips.
as a realtor in manila foreigner cannot own house and lot unless they are married to a filipino citizen but they can purchase and own a condominium anywhere in the country, they can even loan money from the bank if they need it.
+Anne Amer Fil condos are broom closets. I would never recommend buying one. Especially with the present local political climate.
Right, but a Filipino can go to the US or Europe and buy as much land as they want.
Thestrikernewbie Hamp really? My moms bestfriend who is actually Cdn Citizen owns a home and lot in Panmpaga .
Michael Hope BS? I stayed at her place. in Pampamga. for two weeks!
Why would I lie?
treat a filipina with respect and love her as a human being then she will give you more. treat her like a pig and i assure you that you are going to regret it.
HipBurRn hahaha
Bullseye!
HipBurRn my ex wife was Filipino she married a man to come to the USA she abandoned him he filed for a divorce, I didn't know about it at the time she was facing deportation she met me, she was very nice I treated her with all the respect and love possible as soon as we were married she changed and became an impossible bitch nothing was ever good enough she really got bad after she got her permanent residency approval I went to work and get served with a restraining order for doing nothing I fought it in court it got thrown out, after three months she said I could come home about a six months later I go to work everything was going good I came home to an empty house a couple days later get served with divorce papers, she then decided to drop the divorce after I told her I was resigning from my job and was going back to college so then she says to move in with her but I was not able to sleep in the same room as her I had to sleep on the couch. Then about another six months later after I got another good job she filed for a divorce again and I was also kicked out of the house again. I fought this all in court had visitation set up with my daughter she was in violation of the court order so I took her back to court I get slapped with a restraining order for not doing a dam thing now I haven't seen my daughter in two years! Her ex husband and I have both wrote to immigration to report her for marriage fraud and the worthless immigration hasn't done a dam thing. I want to move to the Philippines because I really have come to hate the USA. In the last time we split she got charged with domestic abuse against me and according to state law the victim is supposed to get the child meaning I should have gotten custody, but because of a piece of shit biased judge he chose to not follow the law!
why would you move to the country of the person you hate the most? just curious...
Sorry to hear pal.Keep your head up high.Hope you get your daughter back.Some woman are good some are just bitches.
This happens in Thailand too. NEVER trust a girl with your house!
Glad to hear all went well with the neighbor, sounds like he really rocked out lol But all is well that ends well . Love your video's.
Garry Lewis true Philippines there many gossip all neàghbors that listen all the story of the street then looking all how you hàve..
only renting a house! im not going to be a victim
Yiddish SheKop you must be good enough to to choose the right woman.true love must be the foundation of every relationship to get rid of such worries
+eddie sanin what happened to you ?
Michell has quite the shoe collection i see
what woman doesnt
Ronnie Rodrigue
true dat
Imelda Marco had 1000 pairs of shoes. HEHE!
michell going for a record
all off the backs of poor filipinos. How do they reward her? Not prison they make her a Senator. I am still scratching my head over that.
When I come back to Dumaguete later this year, I will not be buying property for the reason you mentioned. I hope to meet up with you two guys then. Thank you very much for all your videos, which have been of grreat help. All the best, Bill.
I love your work guys , wish you were in Palawan in July for our engagement party.
not all filipini like that
I know that some foreigner are abused and scammer. we dont know the story
relax h ave fun
No more Pink Floyd blasting?? Shame
Yep.
Shine on you crazy diamond. nope
What a sweetie !
Just found your Channel! I was always interested in your type of lifestyle and after recently seeing TH-cam Videos of the beautiful Islands out your way, I've been very interested in joining the area. But I need to learn more about the PI's, the people and the Lifestyle! Glad I found your Channel to help me get acquainted with the Philippines. You make a nice Couple!
Well, thanks for watching!
you are so cute couple
Team hammons disgusting
Most Filipinas are looking for true love which they couldn't find it to Filipinos men who cheated them.
If they give you love, They give it you whole heartedly body and soul.
Dawn Ureta its me🖐
Verry true your comment.
Yah! its true.
True story, guy was living in the states while his girlfriend was back home in the Philippines. He was sending
her money so they could have a house built. She'd send him photo's of the progress...and tell him she needed money
for the walls...then needed money for the roof...all the while keeping him updated on the progress of their house.
The bills kept adding up but after every request for money there came the photos to show the house slowly being built.
Once the house was built he finished up his work and flew to see his girl and his new house, oddly she didn't come to
the airport to meet him. So he walks onto the porch of his new house and knocks...shocked to find somebody else living
in his house. He then asked why this man was in his house and was informed that his property was the next lot over
completely devoid of any construction. Seems his girl was sending him updated photo's of the neighbors house being built.
Hi mate, interesting story, just signed up to hear more.
The lack of reciprocity in property rights is grossly unfair and immoral, since Filipinos can own land and homes in their own name in the U.S.A., even if they have no intention of ever becoming a U.S. citizen! This non-reciprocal treatment for Americans is grossly immoral, since American families gave BLOOD in 1942-45 to save today's Filipinos from speaking Japanese and being slaves for Mitsubishi. Shame on this one-way treatment from an "ally" and former friend.
Great point but, it’s the only way the Philippine government can screw Americans for screwing their women.
The Filipinos could be speaking Japanese and ALL of their women would be taken for Japanese comfort houses.
yea right!!! as if you did all the fighting...all you did was bomb and destroyed the city.... more than 1 million pilipino died in that war buddy....
you just have to find a wife you can trust ;)
Nice place you have.
I'm a visaya filipina and we are now living in seattle, i always tell my husband that if we are going to retire i want to stay in the philippines...i miss cebu my home so much!
Another excellent video. I'm looking forward to Mitchell's attempt at teaching Bisayan. I'd better hit her written lessons from before. Later on U's 2's :)
Glad that you and your wife finnaly got peace at your house, my wife is from Bacolod City and I know how it is not getting sleep at night with all the noise from outside, it seems like Sunday night there, is the best night for sleep the motorcylces slow down about 1:30am and the noise starts up again about 5:30 am.
Great video I look forward to you and sorry if I misspell it visayan lessons
Have you ever discussed in one of your videos about leasehold title versus LLC to have some sort of legal recourse in Property Holdings
Very easy looking and fun
im a filipina. i spent my childhood in the states but im pure filipina by heart. and all i can say is it is SO hard to trust filipina women nowadays. because a lot of women here dont marry foreigners cuz their in love. because i know a lot of women here who just marry for money. and they pretend for a few years ans then when they've planted enough to sow they leave.... not to discourage anyone from marrying filipinas. but i hope most of u guys TRULY understand how LOVE works. its not hard to see when a girl just wants u for ur money or green card possibilities. TRUST ME. YOU'LL KNOW
Ned, Michell's eye lit up with the shopping. Enjoy the breakfast and the beach.
Hey Ned! Got a couple of questions for you as it looks like I am finally moving back to the PI. 1st: what all do you have to do to be able to drive over there now-a-days and 2: what's the best way to get a nice vehicle like your truck?
Rock ON !!!!
Nice couple God bless bith
Same here with my neighbor loud music what i did is wait for them to turn it off then its my turn ill play mine on 100% volume so they know how i feel since then they only do it if there's a special occasions like bday party ......
Great impression of you neighbour .
i said the same. 😊
+Bernard Popp
yeah, oh yeah...dats a bad case newyawka faw you ya know...
I like this guy
Haha you and Michell should become a comedy act. Mitchell's facial expressions over ur cooking are priceless. Although I've seen it before it still stirs a chuckle in me.
My cooking is amazing. People simply can't appreciate how good it really is. :)
You guys are sweet, I'm from the Philippines, Angeles City, Pampanga, but I'm in SF California. I go back home 1 or 2 a year, usually before Christmas, you two should start your own videoBlogs about everything near you in the Philippines, I'm subscribing to your channel.
You are a good man with the way you sounded in this video, mate.
I had the same problem. But I recorded them and played it back to them ( Very Loud ) when they wanted to be quiet.
Kumusta!!I came very close to staying in the PI after I got out of the Navy in ‘79. My round eye supervisor an ATC wanted me to join him and his huge family in Poro Naga. He had a second house on a large rice plantation. Always kinda regretted not taking him up on it, tho I’d probably be dead from drinking by now..... but I’d have had a lot of fun!!
Babalik ako!!
Awesome dog👍
what kind of work do you do