Why Is Marital Rape Legal in India?
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- This week, The Swaddle team explores the history of India's rape laws, and the reasons why marital rape is still legal in India today.
Edited by: Neha Shekhawat
Presented by: Anahita Sachdev
Research: Anamika Sudhakar
Produced by: Shrishti Malhotra
Creative Supervisor: Karla Bookman
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-Rudolph, Julia. "Rape and Resistance: Women and consent in seventeenth-century English legal and political thought." Journal of British Studies 39, no. 2 (2000): 157-184.
-Clark, Anna. The struggle for the breeches: gender and the making of the British working class. Vol. 23. Univ of California Press, 1995.
-Kroeker, Greta, and Devon Sherwood. "Early Modern Rape Culture (s): Women’s Confrontations with Religion and Law Attending to Early Modern Women: Action and Agency 2018 Conference."
-LeGrand, Camille E. "Rape and rape laws: Sexism in society and law." Calif. L. Rev. 61 (1973): 919.
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What people don’t realise is that in a concerted effort to stop families from breaking, it creates even more trauma in a household and the children subconsciously appropriate bad behaviour.
I agree and people don't realize about it until something major damaging happens
Exactly, they think that everything is fine until the social status is what they don't get is how diff it gets for everyone inside the family
No wonder India is one of the saddest nations. We are so concerned about how we are perceived in the society that we can go to any extend to seem perfect.
im sick of families presenting themselves as unproblematic and happy to others, when theres so much internal conflict. what even is the point?
True
Beti bachao toh bol diya, magar kissse, yahee nahi pehchana.
Also, it's crazy how many so-called 'liberal' and 'progressive' men treat their wives behind closed doors.
@@sudarshanachakra3.022 yes, that’s completely relevant to what she/he said.
@@sudarshanachakra3.022 master of logic
@@ultimate6243 valid reason...lol
So only you have the authority decide what is valid and what is not. Not the woman.
@@Timepass-cx1do don't engage it. It lives under a bridge
@@ultimate6243 Yeah exactly... y did u even marry him if u don't wanna have s€X .... I'm not saying that u r obliged to have s€X with him but atleast Give him a reason y u can't have with him?...and if u can't give .... U can divorce that's the solution
Having sex without consent is a shameful act even if the parties are married
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
@koro sensei Sensei means teacher or doctor in Japanese. Koro Sensei Sama, I am just stating the fact that there is explicit punishment for marital rape . The swadel video above has not at all given a mention about Indian Penal code Section 376 Which contains this information. This for Myth busting that there is punishment for Marital rape
@@saikumarmorla6672 wow didn't know about this
@@saikumarmorla6672 I idiot thats why their population is decreasing so fast because no man wants to marry where he gets nothing in return.
Gender Neutral Laws should be there so that male victims can also be recognised.
only one female I found in the whole comment section who talks about gender-neutral law, which is a need in today's world.
@@kunal1875 gender law is necessary but mostly rape marital rape happens to woman only in lndia around the world sometimes this marriage only should be banned due to this bloody marriage men are torturing we women like hell sex domestic violence👊😡👊 changing our identity our house our parents all torture only for woman n bloody men are just born to torture we women
Finally someone with logic
Agreed
@@kunal1875cause they are selfish
Ikr when some one gets raped everyone says how could the rapist do this? Bcoz she is someone's daughter, someone's sister, someone's mother. She is EVERYTHING other than a human in her own right🤦
Edit:This also goes beyond sexual assaults- na me bhi ha Hoti hai, hasi to phassi, parents *ordering* their daughter to get married instead of asking *if* she wants to marry. In laws demanding "khushkhabri" instead of asking what are your plans to start family and the list goes on.....
WE NEED TO SCREAM THIS INTO PEOPLES EARS!
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 😤💅
Exactly, ppl still have such mindset that women's character is just limited to her family members🤦🏻♀️ *such ppl need to see women as a human and not an object owned by someone.*
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 absolutely right. Oppression starts with these very words... Tum humari izzat ho... BS!
Swaddle needs to pin this comment...
Amazing comment...
Parents before marriage: 😡😡 Don't talk about sex, don't have " so called gande thoughts"After marriage-
Parents /sasural/relatives said - " pati ko kush rakhna".
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law....
@Warrior Boy God bless you my son
IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness
@@saikumarmorla6672 don't spread fake news. Indian law clearly says that the sexual intercose between a man and his wife is not a rape.
@Warrior Boy you really think women are asexual or something? They have needs too it's just matter of some circumstances like it's not should be forced when they are uncomfortable stressed etc. Imagine if a man don't like period sx but wife really wants it. So he don't have a right to say no?
It will break apart families...
Such families shouldn't be together in the first place
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*
@@kunal1875 literally bollywood is one of the biggest reasons why men think they se superior
@@kunal1875 +1
yeah, the rape law should become neutral and crimes against men should be taken just as seriously as crimes against women
husband is also not a slave of wife to do whatever she wants, provide whatever and whenever she wants.
I don't consider myself a modern feminist, but when I heard my friends say that a husband has the right to do such thing I was shocked! No woman should experience such a thing.
Just don marry
@@Berrygirl6784
so it's you either marry and get r@ped by your husband or be single forever? What is that logic?
True. Very disgusting law made by Indian elected representatives.
@@Berrygirl6784 but your kind always complains about not getting girls, not the other way around.
@@a42lalrinkimi48 And they justify it as "Mardaangi" 🤦🏻♂️. I spit on such people 😠
It's actually very shameful that the law and often media too fails to even recognize a large group of survivors of rape but the trauma is real to every survivor (from any situation, sexuality, gender, caste, or race).
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically.
बंद करो ये फेमिनिस्ट propaganda चुटिया मत बनाओ लोगों को पहले ही कानून है sexual abuse के लिए जो की domestic violence मे आता है । क्या तुम्हारा बाप ऐसी लड़किओ का खाना पीना देखेगा जिसका पति रैप केस मे जैल चला जाएगा ।
ये नया कानून बनाकर बस क्रिमिनल औरतों को और फैक केस डालनेको बढ़ावा मिलेगा ।
@@tejas1159 It's not any propaganda, it's just facts. By the way, how many fake rape cases are being filed anyway? Dismissal in cases due to lack of evidence does not equate to fake case. And that is no reason to not have a law. And why assume that by survivors I mean women only? It includes people of all genders and sexual orientation.
@I can get 96% I did read the article after you suggested it but it isn't a survey done by BBC, they just quoted a single survey the credibility of which I'm not sure. I do agree though that a person is innocent until proven guilty but that being said law enforcement shouldn't view rape cases as false until proven otherwise either. Both are injustice. And there is an issue of sensitivity and providing support to a survivor that shouldn't be compromised in any case.
Not just the issue of marital rape though, I do wish laws against rape are gender sensitive too.
@koro sensei yes rapist wives should go to jail make laws gender-neutral.
In our culture we say 'ek stree devi ka roop hoti hai' aur ek taraf rapes are happening and there are some people who say there is nothing like MaRiTaL RaPe. Dude she isn't your property.
IKR... Hypocrisy at its height
Brace yr self.. Abhi culture k tekkdar ayenge apko sabak sikane k liye
@@yoginagowda7410 sabak sikhne ka time to samaj k thekedaaron ka hai.
There is a saying that do not scare a person so much that he stops fearing at all.
@Brutal Baba lol, no one is blaming culture or religion...
@Brutal Baba the op told, in our culture “we" ( we = humans ) say... Op never blamed Devi devta but was saying that how we say that a girl is goddess but at the same time such things are happening...
This is not overthinking at all. This is like the basic thinking.
This is the least amount of thinking a person should do. Like this should be a requirement.
It is also perfectly legal, well across the world, to molest a woman as long as it's in marriage.
Tomorrow you will say if a husband sees her wife Naked, a wife can book husband for voyeurism or if a husband hugs wife from behind without knowing her, a wife can book husband with "molestation".
Sex is something that is expected in marriage.
Even the courts can declare the marriage as void if no intercourse has occurred.
Rape usually comes with violence, and adequate provisions are there against use of violence.
Even in foreign countries, even reporting of marital rape is extremely rare, forget about conviction.
Marital rape will only add another section to the already draconian combination of 498a/406 used against husband and Family.
A certain right has been given over each other's body or sexual behavior and that's why adultery is a legal ground for divorce.
Most of our thinking on these lines is coming from western countries. And molestation sections as yet, even in Western countries, not applied to husband.
Tomorrow if a woman is blackmailed say for passing government papers, it's rightly rape. But if husband says, that he will take wife on vacation if she does this/that thing are you going to criminalize.
Or a husband spikes the wife's drink with alcohol so that some inhibition around sex goes away, would you criminalize that too?
Come on man, v don't want Government to come into people's bedrooms
That's what I thought!
@@galeon3699 I know right.. this man is so sick.. like a lot of majority population in India.. it's definitely the safest country as long as these so called "men" are still alive..🙄🤦..
You be safe sis
@@galeon3699 exactly, it just pissed me off.
If a Man performs 'Adultery' he can be arrested if his wife complains but if a Woman performs 'Adultery' she cannot be arrested.
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It was struck down in 2018
Unfortunately, Adultery is now legal in India for both parties
A man whose wife is adulterous cant even take divorce because of these biased laws.
@@tejas1159 you know this is not the law anymore?
@@TanmoyDeb
Oh bhai ...There are laws where married women can make adultery to other person..
Not applicable for married men
I wish more people come across this channel
Me too
Same! Recommending it to as many as I can
Me too
true..
Yes!
The saddest part is a majority of mothers and grandmothers would say it's ok to be raped by your husband. They could even questions you on why you don't want to fulfil his desire, your duty is to keep him happy.
@@ultimate6243 so if you do marry without wanting to do it, he has to right to force you? Lol this isn't just the girl's fault, this is clearly a lack of communication, and if the man does force his force he's a rapist, period
@@ultimate6243 you realize that men can say no too? Men aren't the only ones with 'need's so is it justified if the wife forces, no right?
@@ultimate6243 dude girls are not even asked before setting them with a vulture who knows nothing but sex.
@@ultimate6243 😂
And bring children oh no BOY to the family
Rapē is a hate crime. Its not theft. It's torture.
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.,,,,,,,,
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*
@@kunal1875 the generalisation may also be because of statistics as men are more than 99% of the perpetrators and are less than 2% of the victims
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
@@pretty948 according to UN 50% of victims of domestic violence are men still just because people like u you we have these biased laws. GTFO.
Feminists: Wife is not husbands *"property"*
Husband: ok I want a divorce.
Feminists: Pay *"maintenance"*
Husband: WTF
Makes no sense hun. When you get married to someone, its your responsibility to be nice to her and not harass her and treat her like your property. If the woman has no other source of income and you're abusing her and she wants to leave then its your responsibility to take care of it, sounds like justice to me.
@@givingsangwoolapdanceinhel2915 looks like you don't know the law kid. Even if she is earning he has to pay, how is that justice
@@givingsangwoolapdanceinhel2915 stfu women should not tell men what to do u cant force men to pay . no penis no opinion.
Why is the idea of being in a marriage so important to our society?,sometimes i feel like we as a society have a habbit of brushing the important topic under the carpet. Closing our eyes wont make the problems disappear.
Ps- marriage should be an individual's choice rather then being a necessity.
Simple. The idea that every one of us needs to have a partner to care for us in a long-term perspective. (Especially when we are old since we lose out on friends and family later in life as we grow old)
The idea to get married early is common ages ago when getting a partner was common between the ages of 13-25 if not younger since the focus was less on education bug more on family stability, ownership and assets.
The importance of marriage has been drilled in our(generations at large) heads for so long that now it's almost a part of our genetic mindset. Ofcourse we are also taught to never questions traditions, decisions of elders,any norm etc. So if no one will see the problem in regressive customs how will they figure out it's a PROBLEM. I mean you need to ask questions first to follow Nd answers after that
@@mrrattrap1488 but how do marriages take place? Are the partners themselves able to analyse if the person they're going to get married to are right for them? No , mostly a person is just chosen for them and they're asked to settle with them.
@@Timepass-cx1do Then choose to change it. Taking a stand is hard but is necessary as an adult.
Constantly blaming society is not going to get you anywhere. If you discuss with your family then if you want to settle, these are the conditions, how many of them would say no to all? Negotiate.
I don't know your family but not all families are like that. Parents don't want their kids to decide because they feel they are indecisive, never had a conversation.
If you come from an extremely conservative family, you would need to take extreme steps to get what you want. If your family can be reasonable to some conditions then good.
@@Timepass-cx1do Conditions like time for courtship (3 months at least)
Selection of a guy, you need to see how his family is.
Ask him questions, don't interview him. Converse. You are trying to find a partner, not an applicant for a job.
It's your life, there are things in your control and things out of your control. You would need to play with that
When people say rape happens when the woman goes out clubbing at midnight, tell them about the fact that most sexual perpetrators are within the confinements of one’s own home and most rape survivors are minor children. Why? Because of the matter can be easily silenced.
EXACTLY
@MUKUL KANYAL Facts
@MUKUL KANYAL why are you so militant about male rape? Can't you say it in a healthy manner?
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*
@MUKUL KANYAL "RECORDED" Aside from that men being raped is a issue and should be aknowledged and dealt with .
For those who say after a rape: "she is someone's daughter, sister, wife, mother ,THEREFORE , don't rape"
HER RELATION TO SOMEONE ,DOES NOT DETERMINE HER VALUE
SHE IS SOMEONE
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law...............
It's to appeal to emotions. You naturally care more about your wife, daughter or sister than a random girl
@@Nimish204 exactly
Exactly, the victim is a HUMAN BEING who deserves respect regardless of the relationship she has with others. Period.
Yes, firstly, she's a person
Making laws on marital rape is good. But problems lies in implementation. Do you have any idea how difficult it will be to prove any one guilty or innocent and think about police how they will investigate such cases.
If Husbands/Wives don't know ways to satisfy their partner, counseling is the solution, in other countries also they don't hang sex-addicted husbands/wives. If counseling doesn't work instant divorce should be given.
seriously there is no difference between a husband and a stranger?
so what u r proposing is to apply all laws of strangers to husbands
what next?
marital molestation?
marital eve-teasing?
marital gazing?
marital voyeurism?
after all, voyeurism is voyeurism whether married or not..................................................
If marital rape laws can destroy marriages then there must be something wrong inside such marriages. I still don't understand how ppl call such marriages and families 'pure' which becomes a jail for so many women in the whole world. If marriage is harming someone then it can never be pure/perfect and should be destroyed ASAP. And yeah ppl in society who care so much about such couple just understanding that if u really want to save families, start spreading the concept of respect in love, because a relationship will itself nurture if it will understand concepts like Respect.
Because the ones in power are part of the problem, let alone know their friends or family members have experienced it. Their fear that their own family would be judged and his it would impact them is the reasoning behind their approach towards this sensitive topic.
@@mrrattrap1488 exactly all ppl care about is their and their family's social status.
@@ultimate6243 Don't marry if u can't respect ur partners opinions and feelings.
@@ultimate6243 asexuality is NOT a sexual PROBLEM
It's a seperate sexuality..
What century are you living in??
You must be one of those people who consider gay marriages a sin?? Am I right?
@@ultimate6243 no one needs to give a 'valid reason', this is sex not a job interview. Sometimes you just don't feel like doing it.
there are people who still think that "consent" isn't a thing and once a women is married, they have to have sex with the husband. imagine how awkward and difficult it would be to have sex with a man you don't even know (in arrange marriages)
And what about when u have casual sex with person u don't even know??. Just saying. I think arrange marriages are the real problem
@@prathameshpatil1061 casual sex with a person is called a hookup and its fully consensual.
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
@koro sensei exactly
Marriage for women in India : wife expected to be free maid, cook, sēx slave, extra disposable income worker, free therapist, etc.
And people wonder why there are so many single women these days. We've raised our standards, rightfully so and won't settle to be some man child's slave. More power to all my wise single ladies and prayers to those being räped by their husbands. I wish the best for you and hope you chose better for yourself! And for those who can't chose and are stuck there because if the harmful patriarchal thought process of your husband/ parents, I'm so sorry that we have failed you as a society and I will keep you in mind and fight for your freedom and justice.
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In a marriage, there are few responsibilities of both men and women.
GO ON GIRL , BE YOURSELF ( . . )
@@factshouse3690 true both the genders should actually have equal responsibility in marriage . Really , it seems like wives are unpaid slaves in marriage 😭
I have also faced this situation after my marriage... I adjusted for 6 months of marriage and tried to make him understand that my consent is necessary, even his consent is also necessary... but he didn't understand. He thinks I'm his property.
Now after 6 months I have filed a case against him... hoping for the justice. I just want to make him realize that his thinking is wrong..
I am so sorry
divorce him better
@@shizs8956 yes will proceed to divorce also... but first I want him to be punished.
@@BeautyHacksByAppy just see that don't destroy his life in terms of career and job
@@shizs8956 Yes.. I don’t want to ruin his career or life.. I just want to make him realize that he is wrong. Nd by punishment, I didn't mean that I want to see him in jail. His punishment will be his realization of his mistakes.
It is a shame that after so many years of Independence women are denied right over their own bodies. Marital rape hold s 100% true especially in India where girls are just married off to anyone to just relieve parents' responsibility
@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน then let's give them job opportunity
That's forced marriage
@@StardustsCockaigne1111 most of the time it's not forced 'cause the girl was never actually made to feel like she had a right to stand against her 'owners'
@@zeba.subliminals yes I got what u mean I hope it changes
@Divyanshu Pandey if woman chose their own husband so what? it doesn't mean she gave away her body to be used by him whenever he needs sex
Physical violence in a marriage is a crime, but sexual violence isn't. Where is the logic?
People don't talk about sex as it's still such a taboo and they'd find a muharat for the first night.RIDICULOUS
@@Progress234
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
But how would a men will prove his Consent. Could any women tell this thing . I meant women can put false rape allegations against men then in that scenario what will men do. Because things are changed now and fake rape allegations are increasing
Adultery does more harm and it is not a crime either. There are many more factors that come in to play when criminalizing something than just saying ''oh it is bad lets make it illegal'' Do you know how difficult it is to prove marital rape? He can tie you up and force sex with you and leave no bruises or marks easily and there is absolutely no evidence to prove it except the tears of a woman. You have to look at it as a whole
This channel is What makes us understand what real feminism and gender equality is. And as always said, real, impactful things don't come often in the majority, prosaic minds. Unique and truthful things are underrated like this channel.
@Divyanshu Pandey I'm sorry but i don't understand. by saying that you don't believe in this channel's content (in this video) are you implying that marital rapes are okay and should not be criminalised?
PS: this channel IS growing just not at the same rate as others, because people actually need to have brain cells for watching and understanding swaddle's videos.
@@Ananya-hq4xp Marital rape is not ok. It is very wrong. But bringing marital rape laws is no way a solution to it. It can be easily misused. And even if we bring anti marital rape laws, can you say for sure that women who really suffer would file a case? If they would why can't they do it now by filing domestic violence charges and take divorce instead.
@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 but there should be at least neutral law where atleast women can consider their body as her own body even after her marriage too. Not as his husband's property.
@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 i completely agree that it may be very tricky to prove a marital rape and it CAN be misused, but then again a lot of false forgery, murder and theft cases are filed. The sentence for domestic violence is a max of 3 years (as far as i am aware) and then sentence for rape (if proved) is not less than 7 years. this is the difference. also, the marital rape law will mainly just normalise the authority of women over their own bodies, and it will reinforce this idea in our society that marriage does not give the husband the right to his wife's body (talking about heterosexual couples rn) . why should a rape be called domestic violence? it kind of undermines the abominable crime (they are both different things)
@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 what are you talking about ? The punishment for domestic abuse is little. For rape husband should face more punishment
I like how feminists complain about arranged marriage saying girls have to have sex with a stranger in the first night of her marriage, and how this can be the worst thing possible for a girl to happen in her life. so having sex with a man in the bond of marriage with whom the girl have met a few times and talked to in the phone many times before marriage is uncomfortable, creepy and outright torture? where on the other hand having one night stand with a complete stranger outside any bond of relationship, sometimes without even knowing his name, going to his unknown place in the middle of the night disregarding any safety concerns of potential gangrape or even murder, and then leaving in the morning and never talking to him again is very liberating and empowering? it's not creepy or uncomfortable at all?
@Kiara dutta That's the problem you see. feminists make much noise against wedding night in arranged marriage, but on the other hand they themselves promote one night stand and hookup culture. the same thing is both oppression and empowerment at their own convenience. it's because of their many blatant hypocrisies most people don't take them seriously.
Issue with the first one is it always isn't done with full consent
@@Nimish204 how bold of you to assume that a woman wouldn't give consent to her husband whom she just married taking all the vows and chose to spend her entire life with, yet the same woman would happily give her consent to a stranger who she just met? of course wedding night sex can be a bit awkward, but aren't all first time sex awkward no matter when, where or with whom you do it? and if she's so uncomfortable and unwilling she can just tell her husband. I'm sure he wouldn't just force himself upon her at that very night despite her refusal. I agree after being in marriage for a certain amount of time husbands tend to take their wives for granted thinking they have a right to have sex with their wives whenever they want, and even sometimes force their way into having sex. but no man in the world binds his wife to the bed and rape her at the wedding night, no matter how big of a fiend he is.
@Kiara dutta How u can guarantee any single man force his wife to have sex ?
@Kiara dutta If wife doesn't want sex then she she should give divorce without alimony so that husband can remarry someone. Wife shouldn't keep husband deprived of sex. Sex is a conjugal right. Husband can ask for sex when he wants it.
Any parent who forces their daughter to marry a stranger , is not fit to be called a parent. Disgusting people who are literally pushing their own child into getting raped. Such people deserve no respect, no sympathy and no understanding
Assuming sex in arranged marriages is a rape is equivalent to assuming a love marriage will end up in a divorce 5 yrs later. Simple
@@chaitanyagupta6668 when there is the possiblity of rape, how can a human parent put their child in the realm of such possibility? What right do parents have to control the sex lives of their kids? It's boorish and primitive, nobody has any right to force you to submit your body into anything
@@she_wizzdom4410 there is a possibility of rape, murder in everything. Even in friendships we make, jobs we take, going to a hospital or travelling.
@@chaitanyagupta6668 yes but nobody forces you to make friends with anyone and then get murdered by them? In this case people are being stripped of the right to choose their life partner, who the hell gives such a right to parents?
@@she_wizzdom4410 if love marriages were so successful, western countries wont be having 50% divorce cases
"...the earliest laws define rape as a property crime against the husband or father, rather than the woman herself." Still holds true sadly, considering how commonly used swear words and abuses are directed at the sexual assault of someone's mother or sister, as if those women aren't people themselves.
@@sudarshanachakra3.022 in this video they talked about Christian Laws which got transformed into indian laws. And In India they had Bothe Hindu , Muslim , Sikhs and many more religions. And can you please stop hating Religions and Showing Hinduism as the Main Tops of Relegion.
Oh shit now you're gonna troll me?
@@sudarshanachakra3.022 where did religion come from? i mean i don't understand this talent of inducing religion in EVERY SINGLE DISCUSSION. this video is about basic human rights of women, that they should have control over their bodies and sexuality, how can you convert this into a religious issue? it just zeroes down the whole argument.
Same thing applies to women also ,don't try to cheat anyone who's is already someone's husband ,someone's brother ,😆😆
@@Ananya-hq4xp what about halala and triple talak ,and many more things in Islam. Why no one talks on it ,maybe she would be beheaded by talking on it
@@anengineer152 dude where did this come from? this video was on marital rape? HOW did this involve islam or any religion for that matter. all the things you said are valid topics, but they are just not valid here. THIS is a video spreading awareness about marital rape. you can't just say why did you speak about marital rape and not triple talak. how does that even make sense? if i make a video on environmental protection and global warming, you'll say why didn't you make a video on economic disparity? like all of these topics are important and each should be addressed to but not at the cost of other. you are just sidelining this video's main topic. what good is this gonna do? yeah, you can always SUGGEST some other topics
This is what I say to men who say " Men too get harassed " . I am like I know! But your harassment isn't recognized because you weren't seen as property. Because of seeing this as "property violation " women's harassment out of marriage was recognised but not within and men's harrasment and as well as non binary harassment wasn't recognized
Edit: Triggered men in replies lol also I never said that men's harrasment isn't true,I am stating how some men use this card to miss genuine plea of rights . It's actually misogynists who laugh at men's harassment and claim him to be "lucky guy"
We are. In the eyes of the association we are employed with.
The organisation sees us as property and this stigma follows at home when the one with money (usually equated with power) transfers the one with no power to that of being owned.
Grow up from your one-dimensional thinking.
Exactly! Men only bring up the ‘men are raped too’ argument when someone is talking about women being raped. This shows that these men don’t actually care about men being raped, they just want to disprove women’s trauma
@@mai-ya-hee *EXACTLY* 👏🏻
this is what i felt, you have put it in words. thank you
@Divyanshu Pandey An average man is physically stronger and if a man starts using physical strength ,a woman would most likely not be able to defend or win . So , a man hitting a woman is seen as a very terrible way of asserting physical dominance .
In 111 countries marital rape is *not* a "criminal offense", 34 out of those 111 countries have no specific mention of "Marital rape". In 74 countries marital rape is a criminal offence with gender-neutral law.
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?
How to prove marital rape?
Very sensitive topic... For few ppl, marriage is nothing but license to rape...
As Madhavikutty said, a girl’s first night as a married woman starts with Rape. So true for so many women
let's say a strict law is made for this case how do u explain consent in court then a woman at any given time can say she didn't gave her consent which puts him in grave danger as consent is very private u can never really have evidence for that , also if u had sex before doesn't mean u can't have with the same girl again on regulation of consent, this gives full autonomy to women even in marriage they can claim even when had consensual sex they r raped and men will face consequences because there is no way to prove
I am not saying rape within marriage doesn't happen ,it can also happen to man , both parties should think about their mental and physical conditions of their counterparts and happen only when there is mutual consent. Thank u for informing us about this through video
As awareness will only tackle this not laws
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victim under rape law.
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
I mean I'm gay so I can't get married lol
I wish some more people come across this channel so that they can realise what's wrong with our society
Im14andthisisdeep
You are right
@Mudit Singh when did they talk about male criminals ? Could you link the video where they specifically named male criminals ?
@Mudit Singh I agree they never talk about the fake rape alligations and shit like that. Feminism is just another word for hypocrisy 😂
@@devsinha8683 Theres only 4 or 5% of such allegations, if we don't address the actual ones it can be very dangerous, they are just creating a safe space for women, men ain't shit, you can't oppress the oppressor
This whole concept of autonomy over a woman's body and considering her as a property and her body as a male's domain (be it father or husband) is so gross and illogical in the first place. It's high time people start talking about these things openly.
This was so much needed, thank you for always making such thought provoking videos. Beautifully narrated and lucidly explained. Loved it! 🤍
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.* ...
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
@@kunal1875 +1
*Bring law if husband rxpe his wife he should be hanged and if wife falsely accuses her husband of rxpe then she should get punishment of rxpe or death.*
YES!!!
yes, but simping society is not ready
Consent is the most important thing no matter you are married or unmarried!!
@@ultimate6243 Actually it's not a myth. Everything begins with the Consent only in any sought of relationship in our lives. This must be your understanding about the particular concern. But CONSENT isn't a myth. It's a core of any kind of bond you share.
Couldn't be more proud. Honestly, it's not even surprising for me to know that men with such pathetic mentality still live with us. Yes , consent is very important and a "No", be it to a boyfriend or a husband is a No. Women don't take shit anymore.
@@ultimate6243 consent is any person's right. not just women and I didn't find any thing on a marriage certificate that said 'now you'll have to have sex with your husband whenever he says and that your body is no longer your own'. please understand this analogy: if i love to eat an icecream, but i just don't wanna eat it right now, it is my fucking wish. you don't get to have a say in that. if a person can't respect that other one's wishes, they don't deserve to be in a relationship.
@@Ananya-hq4xp I absolutely agree
@@ultimate6243 are you that delusional ? Do we women even have right on our own body or not ? You seriously can't force anyone for sex , if he/she is not willing to do so . You all will understand when woman will herself force the husband for sex . Before doing sex we don't sign contract but as a human you should respect the choice of opposite gender and should respect other's bodies . You can't force yourself on others .
Even today in 2021, marital rape is a barbarous reality. One of acquaintance, who is in a reputed and powerful post in government sector, she informed that her husband "raped" her on their wedding night. And she is still living with that man.
Even education is not a guarantee that people would understand concept of "consent".
P.S. the husband of that woman is also educated and holding a powerful post in government sector.
That's sad
It's about manners and ethics ingrained in human , education is different thing.
OmFg No nO , sHe iS plAyInG vicTiM cArd , sHe Is fAlsEly AcCusInG men .
Tere ko bda gyan aagaye hai consent ke Bari Mai
@FinnTheHuman i think you didn't understand the sarcasm of my cmnt .
When i was young i used think to think Rape is bad because it's a shame to the girl ,i didn't even have an idea about pain and mental damage.
jo husband apne wife ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according Death Punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 death punishment sahi ya fir zindagi bhar jail
How about those women who misuse the laws made FOR them? My only fear is these laws aren't reaching those who actually need it and also for those innocent men who have to go through loads of harassment and shame for life.
exactly...😪
our intentions behind making laws are always good but in reality on the ground justice for real victims always remains a dream which will come true with more practical laws and an efficient judiciary system.
marital rape law on paper can place India on the list of countries where it is criminalized "on paper" and false notions of security but not justice to real victims.
I liked that how she conveniently ignored the high chances of misuse of this law.
as it is not easy as she said like removing that exception from rape law cause burden of proof in rape case lies on accused that is the husband in case of marital rape, wife doesn't have to prove anything in this case.
Same here. It's my main fear. Noble intentions but in reality law will be misused to no end
Everything in existence has a use and a misuse? So should everything just cease to exist? Does the fear of misuse mean the actual victims don't deserve a law that protects them?
According to common Indian people's philosophy, women should be capable of tolerating any harassment in a married life. And sexual pleasure is a husband's right even if it's happening without wife's consent or forcefully
@@ultimate6243 Get a life man. Please understand the concept of sex and consent.
@@AryaAms Nope marital rpe is different
A wife can easily very very easily misuse laws and pack her bags and destroy husbands life completely
This will destroy the Indian society completely
Remember the male to female ratio in India is huge and rising Unmarried men can potentially throw the society off balance
Needless to say What happens to women in a lawless society we all know
@@ultimate6243 because some people actually think that marriage is much more complicated than tharki dudebros wanting to get laid
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
husband is also not a slave of wife to do whatever she wants, provide whatever and whenever she wants, our laws should change.
Perfectly explained👏👏👏
I have said this to my family members as well: I am NOT getting married until marital rape is criminalized.
A better option is to find a partner for yourself who you trust and love and shares it back with you. Hating on an institution or gender won't end your problems.
@@mrrattrap1488 its her choice whether she want to marry or not
She is matured to take decision for herself
👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@@mrrattrap1488 Exactly ... 👍👍
@Ciel Phantomhive Same can be said for women. That's why you have a courting period before. The idea of getting to know someone is to know most of the variable, their family, friends, likes, dislikes, sexual needs/fetishes, financial knowledge, etc.
Most people leave a good number f factors out and get married and then blame the other for personal misjudgments. That's not fair. Be an adult and know what you are getting you'd into. It still a lottery, yes but your chances improve over-time.
Trying to get the best possible outcome should be the motive, not bull on right and wrong.
I don't want to sound like a jerk, but how would one judge whether the alleged victim is speaking the truth, I mean for eg. a couple had consensual sex, then they had a big fight, now one of them, in order to get revenge, falsely accuses his/her partner of rape. Then how would the partner prove that it was consensual.
I am in support of criminalising marital rape, but how would one prove her/his innocence in the case mentioned above?
I just had this question in my mind and by no way, I mean to offend anyone or be insensitive to the actual victims of marital rape...
Ok this is one heck of a question tho,, Maybe video record while asking for consent and sign papers
The burden of proof should lie with the accuser. Its not ideal and many rape victims will not get justice but if the lone statement of the accuser/victim is admissible as some kind of paramount evidence, there will blatant misuse of the law.
Makes sense but not going to be addressed ... Swaddle just talks about the issues but never talks about resolving it....🤣😂 blame BJP 🤣🤣😂
Why apologize. Why be scared of hypocrite feminsts
@@normalguy11.11 yaa this is a nice idea, like recording a video saying that the person consents to this..
Indian logic
Talking to a male: No
Befriending a male: NO
Having a boyfriend: A BIG NO!
Marriage with a stranger: YES
Same for boys as well
@@breaker3908 well that's true too
@@uzma648 Even it's not easy for boys as well to get married to a stranger. If the girl is not of his type then husband has to suffer a lot. It's difficult for poor boys to give divorce because of alimony.
@@uzma648 Men have high sex drive and women have less that's why men are sexually not satisfied in marriage.
@@breaker3908 I never denied that.. The video talked about girls so I commented about girls
I hope you get to marry the person you love, good day :)
"BeCaUsE iT's AgAiNsT tHe CuLtUrE"
@@charithreddy6517 That's the thing, it's not even our culture but every time you question something the answer's always 'It's against the culture'.
I see ur sarcasm there 🤣🤣
Culture hi to galat h😠😧...
Leave that culture which doesn't teach you to treat a human as a human...
Culture are the chains in humanity's legs which prevent people like you to act as good human.
I have read somewhere ..It is good to swim in the waters of tradition and culture but to sink in them is suicide.
The level of injustice is deeper that we thought.
Thanks for the informative video @Swaddle!
@@ultimate6243 cry about it
@@mcchilde2903 the best possible reply to these trolls is not replying to them at all. Why waste energy on people who just here to hate?
I hope one day their eyes are opened and they can see the injustice happening everywhere in this cruel world.
@@ultimate6243 go to a channel which talks about injustice against men. This channel focuses on women concerns. See only the content which pleases u why waste time here?
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
@@ultimate6243 remember if you disagree with a indian woman you are either a troll or a misogynist
I remember hearing this within my own family along the lines of 'how can they do this (rape/molest) kya ghar mai uski maa beti nahi hai" , 'aise logo ki jaldi shadi kara deni chaiye'.... 'Aise kisi ki izzat par haath nahi dalna chaiye, isse accha shadi karle'.. And i can't stress this enough but how uncomfortable and worthless that made me feel as women..
True. And the concept of marrying the rapist to the survivor( to save the so called izzat in the society) is messed up, also marrying a rapist thinking ki "sudhar jayega " Is messed up too. Shaadi krwaa do taaki jo aaj tak isne doosri ladkiyo ke saath kiya hai, vo apni wife ke saath kr le haina?! Aur because of the so called society's saying about how women should 'adjust' is just disgusting. And even after the rapist being married, there's no assurance like he wouldn't to it with other females . And just because he'll be 'married' he can do anything with the wife without consent and she'll keep mum, why? Because of the society's thinking. Even if she'll raise her voice, the so called society will be taunting her like " Haaye haye kesi ladki hai, apne pati ki baat bhi nahi maanti, usse khush bhi nahi rakh skti" "Jyada hi modern ho gayi hai, dekho kese apne hi pati pe iljaam laga rahi hai ". These events and the sOcIeTy disgust me to no end.
@@abhishekadnarayankar3037 oh please uncles koi kam nahi hote hai ,hamesha jasoosi karte rehte hai sare ladkiyon ki. Unke saath reh reh kar unki biwiyan bhi pagal ban jati hai
@@teena_naruka7185
Jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?
sara raees,
Jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?
Actually, the husband has a legitimate right to have sex with his wife, and abuse of this right can be called sexual abuse but not Rape. Sexual abuse is already covered under the anti-domestic violence act (government can make changes if needed). ...................
is there any girl who has been told by someone "being a GIRL u can't even bear this much pain??!!"
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
shamiksha shanmugam,
jo husband apne biwi ke saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment dena Law ke according sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@siddharthbodybuilder4790Law according give Divorce to that type of men who is not willing to respect a female and never even her consent regarding relations are main point for male and even female give Divorce is simple option.
True that, Women are not anyone's property, Be it husband, father, brother or boyfriend. they should have their consent✌✌
👍👍
@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน yeah they should so marry a wife with job and live without GF if u can
@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน Lol. Broke men crying about being ATM 😂😂😂
Hui hui
@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน they do, most of the women who are educated are also financially independent.
Before becoming someone's daughter, wife, or sister, I am who I AM... And no means NOO
Whether it's a husband or some outsider, no one has autonomy over my body EXCEPT ME,
Marital rape should be criminalised
Totally in love with this channel ❤
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness
@@saikumarmorla6672 bro am a law student... Section 376 doesn't punish any husband for committing rape... In fact it's the conjugal right in the marriage... And in a situation where the consummation of marriage doesn't take place within 3 months of marriage.. The spouse can give divorce...
And india is Among one of the 36countries where marital rape has not been Discrimnalised...
So please update your knowledge... Also the punishment for rape given in section 376 is not less than 7yrs...it can be extended also
Miss Forgive me for my ignorance but please clarify What the statement of Section 376 clause (i) given as "Punishment for rape.-
(1) Whoever, except in the cases provided for by sub-section (2), commits rape shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which shall not be less than seven years but which may be for life or for a term which may extend to ten years and shall also be liable to fine unless the women raped is his own wife and is not under twelve years of age, in which cases, he shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to two years or with fine or with both: Provided that the court may, for adequate and special reasons to be mentioned in the judgment, impose a sentence of imprisonment for a term of less than seven years." and is given in indiankanoon.org/doc/1279834/
I will be very thankfull for you reply.
@@saikumarmorla6672 bro see the 10th line of para which you have shared its saying UNLESS the women raped is HIS OWN WIFE and is not under twelve years of age,
so its an exception...
and this age of 12yrs now has been changed to 18yrs...A supreme court division bench of justice Madan B Lockur and Deepak Gupta on 11 october 2017 held that consenting age for having an intercourse with the wife is 18.
so having an intercourse with the wife below an age of 18 is now a rape....if wife is above 18 than its a conjugal right ......
you can check it on indian kanoon....(independent thoughts vs UIO..
and haven't you carefully watched this video...if it the marital rape is criminalised than why you these guys put a video....please do watch video carefully, read section 376 of IPC carefully and read th SC judgement of Independent thoughts vs UIO, if you have time.
thanks!!
"creat absolute anarchy in families" is a good thing. "Anarchy" means "no hierarchy protocols". That is what is expected in marriage. Both partners are equal in all aspects and noone is higher or lower than the other.
yes both partners should be able to have sex outside the marriage, have a child outside the marriage
, threesome 4some, unlimited some, no boundaries full tapatap, 10 wives 6 husbands 50 children happy family I mean happy herd
So many laws in favour of women against rape, need few strict laws against women for false accusations, statics say nearly 50% of rape cases are fake, if we provide them with so many laws we need to also provide them with punishments for misuse of the power.
Completely agree. I fully support criminalising martial rape but since this is India, I dread the law politicians are going to come up with.
Yes
Thanks for picking up such a sensitive issue. Love and respect is the basis of any healthy relationship otherwise its abuse.
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.* ....
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
Criminalising marital rape will lead to anarchy in India
HAHAHAHAHA, love the way she says "a woman's purity cannot be spoilt by her husband ofcourse". Dying 😂
Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko capital punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
what is womens purity?
I'm waiting for all the Indian men who are sexist to comment BUT meN arE aLso sexUallY abuSed. Yes that's true but we're talking about feminist issues and rape/sa is common in women more than men. That's another topic that will be discussed
They've said things much worse than that, unfortunately
you know what. i am a feminist and i am a strong strong supporter of swaddle and i absolutely love this video. but i am gonna add to your comment. feminist channel does not mean that the main subject will be women. it means that the channel stands for equality between all the genders (non-binary included). and so, this topic is FEMINIST and it is for all the gender to see and learn
And here i thought feminism was about equality and not women. Thanks for clearing that up
@@mihir9608 feminism is more focused on women and children since their the one who suffers the most, for male adult victims It's a different story.
@@mihir9608 feminism is a feministic movement. (Nothing wrong in that whatsoever). Wrong or futile is when feminists advocate for both genders. We've MRA for men's movement. Let feminists fight for atrocities on women (unpatriarch men will support that). Similarly let men have their voice up in a separate way (like MRA) against false cases, rape on men etc.
"No means no" even in marriage also.
In marriage I can do anything no one can stop me because I m a man. I will show there my manly power.....😡.
@@gauravsrivastava9149someone pls give this man to police
But how can someone prove it in court of law
@@gauravsrivastava9149 chal be gwaar 😂
Refuse marriage
The only way people will recognize marital rape as RAPE is when they will realize that we are also humans we too have feelings, morals,we also feel pain. The day we educate our sons that consent is important is the day we will finally be one step closer to curb marital rape along with respecting each other's boundaries. Also society should stop neglecting our pain and dismissing us to be over emotional in any given circumstances. Please treat us like a human being not some obejectifying piece of meat.
@MUKUL KANYAL you are not the only male existing are you?
@MUKUL KANYAL if you have to bring the issue of men being raped bring that as an independent issue and not when women's problems are discussed and what hocus site is telling you more males get raped that's bullshit!
@MUKUL KANYAL *most baby
@MUKUL KANYAL sexually abusing or physically abusing?
@MUKUL KANYAL no when a women assaults someone that needs to be criminalized and strictly punished but bring that as an Independent issue not when violence against women are being talked about
Brits who drafted Indian Penal code back in 1860 and made martial rape legal have done so for the Victorian era now which is long gone. As a fact they themselves made it illegal in UK in 1991 by the court. However what our courts and govt concerns is criminalising rape will put families under stress, like what about the victim being raped that's not stress!!
@@Nikita-kl4fq
jo husband Mard apne wife nari ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, Law ke according uss Husband ko capital punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
I don't understand why is it still not illegal and why aren't we talking about this more? What the hell are we waiting for?
how you gonna prove it by? , if woman misuse like other dowry and domestic violence being misused , for divorce or revenge or money extortion . Fake cases are as prevalent as real cases.
many things are not illegal in India as the rape of men, domestic violence on men, mental, physical cruelty by wife on her husband, and ur talking about marital rape how convenient.
@LUCIFER GO AND ASK YOUR MOM
Agar ek husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, toh uss husband ko capital punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@kunal1875 There's nothing convenient about it. Those issues are also equally important par jab ye bate hoti tabhi tum logo ko wo sab yaad aata. Agr itna hi hai to kro kch uske liye bhi par in videos pe aa k comment q krte ho
Also, as many commentators have already said, if the institution of marriage is based on rapes, then such an institution must be destroyed. I am a man, and i fully support criminalization of marital rape.
Me too👍
bhai for example aaj tumne biwi ke saath consensual sex kia kal usne jake court me marital rape case darj karaya to tum uske consent kaise prove karoge court?
@@ashutoshverma6973 but the laws should be gender neutral right?
@@sohamadoni4744 Yes of course 😅
then criminalize marriage.
Why is domestic violence law not sufficient for marital rape? Honestly laws aimed for protecting women are misused. Pretending it doesn't happen doesn't eliminate the problem. Marital rape even if it happens happens within the four walls. Which makes it difficult to have proof in most cases. In other rape cases semen or blood of the offender usually serves as proof. But in marital rape, even the forensic evidences will belong only to husband. So will you determine whether it's a rape or not? Women have the right to file a case against the husband according to domestic violence prevention act or whatever. Marital rape law has large possibilities of being misused
There will be injuries on the body if it's it isn't consensual
@@therealgrimreaper68 that's in brutal way. Need not always have injuries. I read an interview of a psychiatrist. One of her patients husband didn't cause injuries but forced her for sex even if she was sick. She got divorced anyway
@@silvereyes000 I agree, it doesn't happen all the time but if there are injuries, then it can be used as evidence.
If there are injuries, that means it wasn't consensual
first balanced and sensible comment in perspective of law.
@@silvereyes000
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko capital punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
This is such a fucking important conversation to have
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
@@ashok-ur3tq finally a comment telling what it is. everyone else is in fairyland thinking marital rape is legal and video title is just stupid instead of telling girls that they have options against marital rape.
*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*
@@kunal1875 Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape
. Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral
And misuse of biased law> neutral law.
498a and dv act are great example of misuse .
So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender.
THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males
In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women.
"Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law.
Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law.
As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim
The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim.
Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women
yes fcking is not raping
Most arranged marriages begin with rape. Either explicit or implicit as the woman feels forced by society or consequences to remain silent and give in. We can't criminalize marital rape until we shatter this notion that arranged marriages and wifely duties are "respectable" in any way. It's basically parents/pimps choosing their daughter's/prostitute's lifelong john/rapist. It's not just marital rape, women have no agency without corroboration by a husband or father in the justice system. I couldn't even lodge a criminal complaint against my own father as an adult independent woman who was not dependent on him or living with him. That's the sad state of things in India. I was not even human. I was a thing, until I left the country forever. I nearly committed suicide because I had nowhere to go to get justice. Society rejected me for wanting justice and the justice system doesn't recognize any right of mine to pursue justice. I knew things were bad in India but I never realized just how awful until that day.
India isnot a good place for women
most of those countries have neutral laws, fake cases are punished and the innocent are compensated....but in India all the laws are women-centric and innocents are never compensated...
Why can't everyone accept the fact that a women is not a sex toy having no emotions but is someone who will feel the same horror if the rapist is her husband as compared to any other person.... Pathetic mentality 🙏
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 bhai marna hoga usko agar crime kiya h
most of those countries have neutral laws, fake cases are punished and the innocent are compensated....but in India all the laws are women-centric and innocents are never compensated...
@@harya28
Likin kya apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karne par usko marna chahiye
@Sukanya, many women misuse the laws in order to extract money, what about that..?
If criminalizing marital rape destroys the marriage then what does dowry system do ,doesnt it make marriage a monetary commitment
@MUKUL KANYAL So rich men should never get married? And if they do, their wives are automatically gold diggers or something? There is a stark difference in both situations, but that needs the application of common sense which, ironically, ain't that common.
Sini,
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko kanoon ke hisab se death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
dowry is already made illegal,
Ironically gifts from the groom's family to the bride are not dowry but when vice versa it becomes "dowry" . earlier dowry was voluntary but later when people started to demand forcefully and even started to torture in the name of dowry it became illegal. But still, gifts from both sides are common in marriages.
Last night....I was having conversation regarding it....and than my mom said...ye sab faaltu baat sochti ho....tum boards aa raha hai wo dekho....and I was like...kuch bhii...
We can't blame them coz they have been taught this they won't understand these things😔.
@@devikabiju5313 you know...when I told her about today's video...she got offended and said....kya karogi ye sabb jaan kar....and I was like 🤦♀️
They are not wrong though.
@@Olivepeep7862 but we should know this
They are not wrong lol
Give boards, make cateer
Think about marriage 10 years later
I love forced sex, it adds an element of surprise in married sex life, most husbands stop having sex after some years in marriage so wife needs to force.
Stop saying that forced sex about everyone it is worst
When a person treats their partner the way they want to get treated .... it is called ideal ....
When Shahrukh Khan stopped Kajol at 2:51 from touching his feet in the name of rituals... he just won my heart....✊💙
Uhmmm...its just a scene from a movie
@@hijack69 so?
@@hijack69 let them get sentimental about a movie in peace
They : Marital Rape should be illegal in India !
Indian Male : **Brain.exe has stopped responding**
All indian men?? It depends on mindset.
@@user-jc1km1qv1m Indian Men : We want Prenup and nofault divorce laws
Indian Women : We don't do that here
As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following TH-cam video. th-cam.com/video/iFc8acQaP_w/w-d-xo.html
IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness
@Nibir Barman Bro don't generalise anything... I can give u numerous examples of 14 year old kids giving rape threats on insta... Boomer or Gen-Z... Doesn't matter... It's in the character...
These topics trigger this unexplicable agony within me
there is no option my sister is being tortured daily by her husband
@@dipakkrprasad5178 Then u will be nothing but uneducated my sister
Khyati Sharma,
jo husband mard apne wife ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 i think its a safe assumption to make you ridicule marital rape. Tell me if im wrong but if you did belive it is rape you would have used the word rape.
And idk about death penalty cause I'm rarely in favor of capital punishment whichever crime it may be.I do believe it is a crime to rape anyone, even your spouse (making someone have sex with you forcefully is rape, so by definition this too is rape)
I think its more important to raise sensible people who understand and respect consent.
As far as punishment is concerned I don't consider myself qualified enough to hold an opinion on that, law makers do.
@@khyatisharma8944
Ek husband 5 6 saal se koi baar uske wife ki bina consent ki uski saath forceful sex kar raha hai.
Toh botao waise husband ko death punishment dena actually mein sahi hoga ya galat ?
I have a question so if a guy has consensual sex with his wife and his wife goes to the police and says my husband raped me how will that guy prove his innocence?
@PARTH Asha Huh which country are you from In India its the other way around....
Burden of proof is never on women.
And how can a guy defend against such an Aligation. What proof can he provide like should he record every intercourse he has with his wife or should he make his wife sign a paper saying " Sex we are about to have is Consensual....
Questions will be asked, she will most likely get caught.
@@Ajay-ql4ey sir, have you ever tried to report a rape case? the police officers literally refuse to report and try to make it your fault.
@@mightyraju6058 of course the cops will ask questions but nope she will not be caught .....There are 100s of cases in our court's.I personally know much older men who lost everything just because of these fake allegations ,cops know she is lying,but they can't prove it to the court......Most of the times police try to side with the women because they will get credit for catching him so fast....
@@mightyraju6058 I am not saying all cases filled are false or we shouldn't support the victims of a heinous crime like rape.What I am saying is we should acknowledge the fact that innocent mens life can also be ruined because of fake allegations.
Just look at the lucknow traffic lights girl who slapped a taxi driver there is proof solid video evidence but she is walking free why? Just imagine what would happen if it was a guy who slapped the girl in public? He would have been behind bars.
Marital rape is a messed up issue.
I want to find a solution for this so that innocent people don't suffer.
why is nurturing the 'family system' always at the expense of the woman?
do men not have equal filial and marital responsibility?
We have way more than that. More than you could ever understand.
on one hand yes husband does not have right to do forcefully sex same condition applied to wife if any of spouse if forcefully making relation then other one can get divorce he or she should not be allowed to file a criminal case because u can't force anyone to control sexual desire it will definitely spoil relationship and again lead to divorce secondly it will lead filling fake cases also for extortion of money during divorce
according to law, a man is supposed to keep the living standard of his wife
even if she is earning
even if that man cant feed himself
even if he is in jail,
if a mans wife dies of accidental death that man will automatically booked under dowry act,
Our society should understand that marriage is also a consensual relationship between two individuals and not a woman becoming the property of a man but customs like Kanyadan or vidayi or even the wife taking her 'husband's' surname, leaving behind her 'father's' surname only makes one realise that how messed up our culture has been in this aspect for centuries.
I really adore our traditions and culture which make the country so unique but certain things about it are just messed up and there's no better way to put this but we as a society really need to break those traditions which have been slammed on us in the name of culture preservation and all. I mean what's the point of preserving certain traditions which literally puts half of the country's population into danger, we seriously need to update our 'culture'.
You don't have guts to talk about nikal halal etc such a coward don't know anything about our culture
Changing of surnames happen everywhere. Why blame India? Surname is from father/husband world over. Even in West daughter is walked down the aisle by her father. The idea is that men should realize that they are overstepping. Being shy is different from not wanting it. When it becomes a torture it's a crime. But it's also not possible to prove wife being raped by husband in court. Heck it's difficult to prove rape in the first place. Law cannot solve everything. Sensitising men about women and the importance of their feelings is. Violence in all forms should be condemned. Instead today's kids cartoons also show hitting, beating etc. When a man gets aggressive for any reason all reasoning is lost. But in movies, in storied etc it's depicted as heroism.
Rape =Forcing someone to have sex and snatch her modesty.
So there is no marital rape. It is torture. They should be punished
If a woman force her husband to do sex it's also a kind of torture. It's not rape
Both man and woman are equal
Wrong
Disgusting
But how can someone prove it in the court of law
And peeps claim feminism is "pseudo"...
No no they claim they do not believe in feminism,they believe in equality
It can be. Feminism is alright. It is good bad both for me. In India it will work well.
Lol I just remembered VITAMIN STREE channel's contents...
Healthy Relationships with Healthy people kaise chalti hai?
CONSENT CONSENT & CONSENT!
CONSENT is the key for a HAPPY LIFE...
That channel gives this message in a straightforward way too..
Btw this knowledge should be basic to both men & women if you care about other's wellbeing as a human being.
I also like that channel❤️ ... Thank god those jerks are not there.
@@rishikart10 so true not a single jerk
@@mimis.5139
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss Law ke according death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
It's so unbelievable that today also girls are forced to get married to an unknown person in the name of 'arranged marriage'. She herself don't know the person very well.This is so prevalent in rural india i wish more womens could be saved from this violence behind the doors..
@Warrior Boy For your kind information im not a kid! Im 25 year old and i have seen the world..and im not trying to be greta thunberg at all..it's all just reality..and i didn't said that all arranged marriage don't work but i have seen my parents and other's too just draging their relationship just because of their kids and their future and that's why they don't get divorced because this is india! Many don't have any compatibility too..and probably you are just trying to ignore the marital rape factor also which is 80% of all the cases reported by the women all over india out of rape victims..this is damn serious to me and i know people like you exist and just pop out of nowhere talking nothing logical!
@Warrior Boy with due respect, it's your perspective to the view.. I have no issue with this..im not saying that all together arrange marriages are wrong and both the marriages have their pros and cons.. I personally feel like knowing the person for a long time and then getting married is right by their own consent and not forcing the marriage to anyone from either of the parents.. That's why i like love marriage because you know the person really well and already know how that person will be with you.. That's all.. This arrange marriage or love marriage isn't even the issue... Its about greater issues in rural areas where child marriages, forcing marriages against the will still exist which in turn lead to marital rapes, domestic violence by mostly illiterate rural people..
And how even you can say that love marriages are result of lust! This is crazy..and in arrange marriage a girl having sex with a person she only knew for a few months probably seeing him nude at the very first night is not lust?
@Warrior Boy please get lost and since you so disagree with her, please name one thing she has said wrong
@@Nimish204 i wish there are no other guys like him..and your support makes me believe.. Thanks buddy..
Parents feel so relieved after their daughter has married someone, they think that it's their duty to find a suitable partner for their daughters, otherwise they'll fail as a parent. But it's not, they need to understand that. Parents duty should be to make their daughters independent, so that when they grow up then don't need to depend on anyone, not even their so called husbands.
exactly! I'm so lucky to have parents who want me to get educated so I can stand on my own two feet instead of relying on anyone, not even my future husband, and that too only if I choose to get married
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ??
Seeing the comment section feels so good..i love the fact how everybody here is acknowledging the problem rather than ignoring it...this world has to change n their is no otherwise..♥️🙏🏻
IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness
@@saikumarmorla6672 half the information is dangerous sir
There is a simple solution make the sale of "Love Dolls /Sex Dolls" legal in India. China & Japan has done it and there is substantial change with respect to the crimes.
No🤮
Disgusting
@@factshouse3690 What's so disgusting about it. Feminists have no problem, when s*x toys for women are available in the market. They have a problem when love dolls are made available in the market.
@@factshouse3690???
Liked before watching!
Trust that swaddle amazes every time ❤
If wife doesn't want sex then she she should give divorce without alimony so that husband can remarry someone. Wife shouldn't keep husband deprived of sex. Sex is a conjugal right.
They are provoking women to revolt and upsetting norms of marital life
Haritha,
jo husband apne wife ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 galat hai kyunki Iska koi proof nahi hota. Bahot innocent mard marey jayenge. Jis wife ka bahar kisi k saath affair hoga woh falsely accuse kar degi husband ko
The big question is if the wife accuses the man falsely how would a man defend? The man would have no idea of what is coming, have sex with his wife and then talk to police how he did not rape her.
If marital rape is legalised please bring marital theft into account. Women stealing money without consent should also be legalised.
truth
but this still doesnt change the fact that marital rape is disgusting
@@islamandchristianityhater5713 Yes. And thats not the point here. No one raised a question about the moral issue with Marital Rapes. The question is about the legality of Marital Rape and how it should be dealt with in a courtroom. Court does not operate on the basis of beliefs and sentiments, but on the basis of evidence. If Marital Rape comes into picture, it would also bring in more conspiracy from women. This would result in less and less men not being interested in marriage.
@@himrocks100
agreed
but 1 thing 4 sure is a good proprtion of indian men still dont know how to respect women
@@islamandchristianityhater5713 that's with every men in the world and women as well. Also, women have never clarified what respecting them actually is.
@@himrocks100
lol yeah ik it differs from individuality but it will be a really lame excuse (not know how to respect women) fo justify violence towards them😂😂😂
and the reason why u dont know is because indian men are told from their childhood to live separately from women...
india is a weird place where we worship women and abuse them at the same time
Taking regard of various comments in various feminist channel videos, we should make this gender neutral. People should be able to report sexual assault and violence commited against them. Period......
This is not just a female issue anymore ........
But largely it IS a female issue, whether you want to accept it or not
@@swatisaini6447 actually tho!
@@swatisaini6447 he's that kind of man who will write #NotAllMan when a female issue will be discussed..
@karma man u r right
@Shalini Gautam Actually it's opposite. There are many channels realated to female issues but there are less channels which talk about real male issues.
Men are still stuck in those backbone of the house, neutral faces , least to no emotion facade(if mainstream media is concerned). I am not saying it's any particular person's fault.But I do think this should also be talked about.......
Just for the sake that families don't come under "stress" politicians want that women should stay mum and be deprived of choice and their basic rights. Ridiculous mentality. 😒
let's say a strict law is made for this case how do u explain consent in court then a woman at any given time can say she didn't gave her consent which puts him in grave danger as consent is very private u can never really have evidence for that , also if u had sex before doesn't mean u can't have with the same girl again on regulation of consent, this gives full autonomy to women even in marriage they can claim even when had consensual sex they r raped and men will face consequences because there is no way to prove
I am not saying rape within marriage doesn't happen ,it can also happen to man , both parties should think about their mental and physical conditions of their counterparts and happen only when there is mutual consent. Thank u for informing us about this through video
As awareness will only tackle this not laws
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.
@@kalashsharma4344 and what about women getting raped continuously beacause people like you feel "Oh what if we criminalize it and one man gets misrepresented,so let's just make the women go through"WOWWWW
@@Progress234 first I never said that women should go through this
Second it is not just about one man with false rape cases in rise this will increase to another level
my concern was when even rape law in India states that rape can only be done by man , in marriages sex will eventually happen so medically it's way easier to detect than in normal false rape accusations and consent is very private if women did give her consent while sex and chooses to refuse it in court man will be helpless
Neither medical examination nor consent can be proven by man to claim not guilty
This makes a man more helpless than ever if can't ever prove it how can someone plead not guilty
Also I think under domestic violence act marital rape is included in some way
But making this so strict as women want will never let a man prove his innocence
If i offended u in some way I apologize for that
The best way to stop marital rape right now should be awareness until right laws are made for protecting both gender as marital rape can also happen to men as well
Actually their is already a law which covers marital rapes.....
Proving it's a rape is very difficult in marriage. And the exploitation of this law would be 10 times more than its use
How?
Proving everything is hard that doesn't mean it's not wrong proving robbers domestic violence every thing is hard
@@ashanasinha671 there is a basic concept in law that morality cannot be legislated
. A man who rapes his wife is morally wrong and is absolutely a bad person but you cannot make it a law and make him a criminal and send him to jail. Because of issues like these feminism is just a laughing material around the world.
@@Hitman-zr7qu Why can't you send him to jail for being a criminal?
@@Hitman-zr7qu oh so do you mean rapists should not be sent to jail ? And they should be allowed to roam freely outside , so that in future they could r**e other girls . Wow ! What a pathetic minset you are having.
No one is saying wife is property, the wife can take divorce, If we think like that then husband is also not the property of wife hence can have sex with any women if the wife doesn't give sex., divorce is always an option 🤔
thats not the topic. the topic is marital rape and yes it should be criminalized
Sad thing is that those who really needs to see it won't.😑
Actually they do and think women are stupid and feminism is destroying men
@@Progress234 well hopefully these videos may change some of them or atleast force them to think.😐
@@amitrana9090 that's hoping for way too much
@@Nimish204 hope is a good thing.
Wait till... *ULTIMATE.. Return of kings.. Sudarshana Chakra 3.0 ALPHA MALE shares their Enlightened Views in the comment section.*
That alpha male will only talk about pregnancy and that ultimate guy about gender roles...
Stupid people..
Btw that Sudarshan guy's comment is already here..
Is this a list of men or a list of haters that spout garbage?
Rajeev Ranjan as well lol
When you can't give counters, this is what happens to feminists
@@dayadarwazatoddo5921 i am sry who can't give counters ?
Nymphomaniac exists
Feminists: Let's ignore them 👀
Yeah, you gonna do something about it? Or just complain? Women are standing up for women. What about you?
@@dishasaini3981 that proves feminism is not about equality (it never was).
@Darth Sidious 😂😂😂
Husband/Wife don't know ways to satisfy their partner, counseling is the solution, in other countries also they don't hang sex-addicted husband/wife. If counseling doesn't work instant divorce should be given.
Well you're not understanding what she's trying to say. It's not about sex addiction or satisfaction. Point here is that sex should be with the consent of both the partners, let it be male or female, consent is necessary. And you just can't force your partner to have sex just because you are married. Forcing someone to have sex is what we call rape.
I am using the word partner instead of husband/wife because it's not about one gender only.
@@hogwarts_alumni6472 here she is talking more about law nd punishment
seriously there is no difference between a husband and a stranger?
so what u r proposing is to apply all laws of strangers to husbands
what next?
marital molestation?
marital eve-teasing?
marital gazing?
marital voyeurism?
after all, voyeurism is voyeurism whether married or not.
@@kunal1875right that's the point "is there no difference in husband and Stanger "
Can you do a video on paternity leaves in companies? For a country where men prefer to say "my wife's pregnant" over "I am going to become a father".
this is so frkn on point, i hate it especially when ppl term it as, "ye unke beech ka mamla hai"- (it's their personal matter) like no hon, it's not smn you can overlook, it's so problematic and w the supreme court lining out the verdict for the rapist to marry the girl to settle the rape allegation further justifies it's stance on marital rapes and consensual sex in general, this is just so sickening.
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, Law ke according uss husband ko death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
*Main reason to not criminalized marital rape is biased laws of india and very poor awareness. "Technical rape" is thing in India but not in other countries.*
Man: doesn't move
Feminist: He's mocking paralyzed people!
Man:👀
Feminists : stands for men
Misogynists : doesn't acknowledge it
Feminists: stands for women
Misogynists : yeah but the only thing you can do is hate men! You do nothing good for men!
@@dishasaini3981 lol feminists never stand for men even they opposed gender-neutral rxpe laws in court.
@@dishasaini3981 feminists pushed for all anti-men law highly biased.
@@aapkadost2725 Oh, when did Feminists oppose gender neutral rape laws?
@@aapkadost2725 Feminists never stand for men? Any change that came into the lives of women has always benefitted the condition of men in the society too. Anyone who's here to live together rather than rule and excercise power over women can see that.
"Don't talk to strangers, not everyone has good intentions"
Also news: *"victims says that rapist was one of the person whom she knew already"*
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?
It is sad that our society is unknown about many issues. You are doing a great work. There is one issue too where rape victim is considered only "female" in our India. Plus it also considers "RAPE BY MEN" . It is gender biased. Rape can be on any gender by any gender at any age or phase of life.
Absolutely but you have to agree the female to male ratio of rape victims is very high
@@Progress234 Absolutely... I do agree....
Actually, the husband has a legitimate right to have sex with his wife, and abuse of this right can be called sexual abuse but not Rape. Sexual abuse is already covered under the anti-domestic violence act (government can make changes if needed).
ye laws need to be gender neutral I agree, but this channel is not for equality, this channel is a male bashing channel only.
@@Progress234 yes we will agree but do u agree that males can be victims as well?
Finally this video is up! I was waiting for it. People need to be educated not just be literate. Every human being has their own rights married or not doesn't matter rape is and always will be rape. Period.
India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.////////
Enigma,
jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?
It is good if the government decides to bring the law on marital rape but before bringing this law the government should do proper research about those countries where they have this law already, without taking everything into consideration if the government only make this law in pressure then it will be disastrous for sure.