It’s like the entire world face palmed when this dude said he has 400k saved and his wife wants a house that costs 45k. Man you better buy that house and throw in extra for good measure
Yep maybe put in flooring to cover the dirt flooring, put up drywall to keep the elements out and new roofing to block out the sun and rain! All she desires is a SHACK and he moans and groans! Geeez 🤦🏻♀️
Not "he" has saved 400 k. _They_ did. They are married for 4 years, probably together for longer (oldest daughter is 6), 3 kids, and a part time job (maybe for a healthcare plan). And she is there when the help does not show up.
This is the kind of man who complains that there are no good women out there. He wouldn’t know one if he married one… case in point. If she had enough and divorced him, she’d take more than half with 3 kids in the mix. It’s also obvious that he doesn’t think what she does is work. That woman is taking care of 3 kids, 2 of which are twins and she still works part time plus helps with the farm, and she has a spending problem because she doesn’t want to live in a pig sty. What an immature child he is…
@@jg6693 literally basically taking credit for all the work , then complaining when his wife finally asks something from him(based on how he acts I bet she don’t ask for things often) he throws a temper tantrum. And it wasn’t even expensive at all, especially for a whole house , anyone would dream for a house that cheap , yet he’s complaining because it’s a change to “his life style” not even considering his wife and children are rotting in hog Oder , and honestly he probably don’t mind that smell cause he’s used to it or smells like it to, I feel so bad for those wife and kids 😭😭
He really just said this is "a question on his wife's spending habits..." And then went on to explain that she doesn't want to live in a house that literally smells like a pigsty, and would rather buy the current home they are living in for $45,000. Dude. She doesn't have a spending problem. She just doesn't want to smell pig poop all day. And the house she is asking to buy is the cheapest house I've ever heard of. To reiterate: your wife does not have a spending problem. 🤦🏼♀️🤣
This reminds me of a short story I read long ago, so I don't remember all the details. It was about a farmer who let his house fall apart but built a brand new barn for his animals. He came home one day to find his wife had moved the animals into the house and moved the family into the barn. Dude, buy your wife that house if that's the one she wants. It's affordable and it's so little to make her happy. Good luck.
He has 400k in savings and he thinks his wife has a spending problem because she wants a 45k house? She really loves him. I would have jumped ship with that sort of mentality.
At first I was ready to defend him when he said "spending habits"... but then she just doesn't want to smell like a pig farm, now I'm with her. Then he says the house is $45k..... dude? You are risking your marriage over $45k when you have $400k banked? BUY THE HOUSE, and don't complain about it.
To be fair for the guy, she did literally marry a pig farmer, of which he was living next to the pigs at the time. Kinda comes with the territory. That's about all the devis advocacy I can muster. All in all dude needs to just buy the dirt cheap house and be grateful she only wants a 45k house.
@@LegDayLas I would have hoped that this was discussed during dating. If you are telling me he was a pig farmer when she met him, and the topic never came up... someone failed at dating. You missed the purpose.
Guy should have stayed single or at least don’t get married if you want to do as you please. Time to sack up and attack life TOGETHER AS ONE. You married her dude and had 3 kids with her to boot
@@OTOWN2STOCKTOWNDavinport, Iowa is not exactly a large city. That smell permeates EVERYTHING, your clothes, hair, skin. Those kids will be going to school soon. Should he set them up to be the smelly kids?
@@milehyandriverwhen you get married, you become one. That is what marriage is. If you don't want to say "we" or "us", then don't join yourself together with someone and still have the gall to say "I made it so it's mine". That's not marriage, that's a recipe for divorce.
This guy is incredibly selfish and stingy. He doesn't care about anything else. It is extremely important to have a clear boundary between home and work. He doesn't recognize it. He absolutely sucks at taking care of his wife.
Most of u gals go on and on about his wife looking after 3 kids. How times have changed. My mother had 7 and her grandmother gave birth to 16. I'm same age as Dave. I don't recall a single comment from any of you about how much work might be involved in raising hundreds of hogs. He's 31, he'll figure it out. Sounds like he found an awesome wife. Also sounds like he was taught to think twice before jumping into his savings and start throwing money around like an idiot. The more comments I read the more I appreciate my wife. Seems like there's not as many around anymore that don't come with a bunch of snark and attitude.
I hope his wife listens to this and the way he speaks about her… big siiiiiighs, acting like she’s sooo spoiled because she doesn’t like the smell of hog sheds. With any luck he can live with the pigs he loves so much, and she can move on.
@@texan903 It's not really about the house, it's about the fact he values "his" money over the wifes comfort. He thinks because if he is comfortable living next to filt she should be to. This entire argument is a symptom of a bigger issue, and it's this man's total inability to empathize with his wife. Buying the home isn't going to solve the root issue, only treat one of it's symptoms.
@LegDayLas people need real-life examples sometimes that lead them to growth. Perhaps his dilemma in this matter will prompt him to reevaluate his priorities to make better decisions in the future. He can grow from this and take the opportunity to strengthen his marriage.
I have a lot of farmers in my family. The smell of hog farm is nauseating. It gets in your clothes, if you have a well it probably seeps into the water, it's just NASTY.
My jaw is on the floor. He has NO idea how valuable his wife is. This woman has lived next to literal sh for 4 years with 3 kids under 7... and hasn't lost her mind... just wants to live in a trailer instead of next to poo... 🤣🤣🤣... but that's a "spending problem" 🤦🏻♀️
And that’s how you know she’s a good woman. She’s just asking to live in another piece of 💩 house but just one that doesn’t smell like 🐷. So sad. He obviously controls the fk out of her.
@@megalodon1726 He's in Davenport IA it's a small city, part of the Quad City's so altogether it's about 120,000 people. Not a small town but not a big city. It's probably a dump though, even in Davenport that's a good price.
She's raising your children. There is no greater responsibility, or joy. It's your job to provide a home for them so she can continue to do her important work.
Hahaha women out here feeling like entitled princesses when in reality they are hiding behind the fact they bring nothing to the table and can’t even take care of themselves
@@jamalj8660 the entire premise of the Ramsey model is for married couples to be partners. It's mentioned every time someone in a relationship calls. People like you and @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN need to get therapy. Women aren't out to get you guys.
Of course, he owns everything, she is just the maid that gives him children and all the other things that round out his life. That is all she will ever be, unfortunately that changed when they married. Bless them both. Not sure all the children are his either.
My husband would have a huge problem with this guy. My husband has an equipment rental business. Anytime I say this he corrects me with “we.” He refers to every piece of equipment as “ours” and insists that without the little computer work I did establishing the LLC and financial issues it wouldn’t be anything; plus, he wouldn’t be able to focus at all if I didn’t handle homeschooling our boys, taking care of most of the home chores, and being in charge of our personal budget. (FYI, I have no clue what the equipment names are or how to run them.) My husband gets pissed at family and friends who have separate bank accounts and view our sole income as just his. Seeing things like this helps me to see how blessed I am.
He is narcissistic. Listen when he says wife spending habits, he is totally wrong. And then he says listen to this, like bragging about how cheap the house is and how great she is, yet he does not value her. Very sad.
Yes good point ! Like dude, you don’t feel like she is deserving of that house ??? she’s the main caretaker of the kids, she helps with the farm when the helpers don’t show up , you have your family living in a stinky hog shed, you have 8x the amount of money to buy the 45K house, she is your WIFE, like bro why would you not buy the house, It sounds like his family comes last in his mind 😢
How do you think he got 400k. They only been marry 4 yrs. He had his businness, money an house before he got married. The wife saw it, dont act like she such a saint and live in a farm, she knew wat she was doing
@thelifeofmaryd.2494 lol im good thanks but lady, please focus on your weight loss, maybe one day you'll be fit enough that a quality guy might actually care.
And he’d stop paying rent and have equity. It’s not even about the money. It’s about something for her. Until it was explained that his business will profit from a happy wife, he was against it.
There are fewer, if any, farming or industrial processes that smell worse than pigs. Fifty years ago my ex and I did some serious cross country driving and we discovered that we could smell a hog farm several miles still down the road. I don't blame the wife, and I'm very grateful for men like Michael feeding me.
I'm the first person to say that expensive things that don't bring in money is just a shiny bauble but some baubles you really can't live without. A wife that's not losing her mental health because she's got to raise 3 young kids amidst the smell of hogs is a pretty worthwhile bauble.
@@MrMustangrickyou can say a lot about Rachel and her upbringing, but you can’t fault her for not wanting to live in pig shit stench. Most people would agree with her disgust
Dave is so wonderful at imparting wisdom to young men. I live in central North Carolina and the eastern parts have massive hog farms. Just driving thru on the way to the beach, the smell is unbearable! Keeping car windows closed doesn't help because the stench seeps in and permeates EVERYTHING. This young man's wife is more precious than rubies - to quote the Bible
I have several a few miles away from my house. When the air is dry and the wind shifts I can smell them way over here. It's faint, but it's definitely there.
Love your wife. Nope. Buy the house. If you want your marriage to stay together buy her the house. You married a good woman. She’s willing to put up with the business and you’re most likely a good business men but your wife deserves to live a life of what brings her joy. Buy the house. Do it for her and your marriage
I think he's just useless at being a husband, but even greater at being a businessman. To me it sounded like he listened to what Dave had to say.. I sure hope so, for his wife's sake 😂
Woah for real? I'm so excited. Sonia silvia strategy has normalised winning trades for me also. and it's a huge milestone for me looking back to how it all started
He's 31 and on his way to becoming a multimillionaire. I'm certain he drives an inexpensive vehicle and wears clothes from Walmart or Target. This is the way.
There are actually a remarkable number of houses for sale for under $50K in Davenport, some of which look livable in the real estate ads I gather it's not an economic powerhouse, but if you like quiet and simple or are looking for somewhere to hide. . .
Michael needs to buy the house for his family and then give his wife $5k or $10k to fix up the house how she wants it. Curtains, new bedroom set, laundry room whatever. Michael sounds like a guy that could convince himself his wife doesn't need a washer/dryer in the house. Michael, not everyone gets satisfaction from looking at a spread sheet! She might need to do something more creative, or have a party or give some away.
Yes she must love him a lot to marry a hog farmer. Now he needs to love her in return and not only buy the house, but schedule a home improvement budget so she can decorate it a bit. Women need a nest.
The money is pretty good, but there's substantial risk. It's also backbreaking horrible smelling work. Takes quite a bit of investment, too. But, hey, check it out. May work for you.
Hope the caller reads these comments. I gotta tell him he better not only buy that 45k house but surprise her with a little upgrade right after. Fix up the kitchen, bathroom or something. Cuz she might sound like she's on board at the moment, but if he continues to not value her she'll be gone before the oldest is even 18 and take the kids with her.
Reading these comments shows me how most of the listeners are not from farm country. I grew up in Iowa, this dude is 1000% exactly what every single farmer there is like.
@@pneron2032 that, and agriculture is their whole livelihood and extremely unpredictable. You get one virus or really bad blizzard and bam, all your hogs are gone and you have to start over.
@TopShot501st we didn't say it was trashy. There are a vast array of types of homes across America. We face palmed because it's only 45 freaking thousand. Buy the darn house.
I live in Iowa and know a little bit about residential real estate. Believe me when I tell you, a $45k house is going to be lacking some amenities. Like indoor plumbing. Also, that hog farm smell doesn’t wash off. They always said “it’s the smell of money”, but if money smelled like that, I’d take a vow of poverty.
Just read a scripture: Proverbs 8 12 "I, Wisdom, live together with good judgment. I know where to discover knowledge and discernment." Learned knowledge plus discerning life choices equals wisdom.
The whole "you keep saying I, their is no I, it's we" statement reminds me of my father. Their is no love in their relationship and he recently made the claim "I will not be buying her another car, she can pay for it herself". He literally does not understand how dumb of a statement that is. It's not like he is even the "breadwinner" with her as a stay at home parent. Both worked their whole life, and at the time of that comment, my father was retired while my mother still worked >_
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It’s like the entire world face palmed when this dude said he has 400k saved and his wife wants a house that costs 45k. Man you better buy that house and throw in extra for good measure
Yep maybe put in flooring to cover the dirt flooring, put up drywall to keep the elements out and new roofing to block out the sun and rain! All she desires is a SHACK and he moans and groans! Geeez 🤦🏻♀️
House and a car at minimum. Throw in a purse and jewelry, and the man still wouldn’t miss the money in the grand scheme.
Not "he" has saved 400 k. _They_ did. They are married for 4 years, probably together for longer (oldest daughter is 6), 3 kids, and a part time job (maybe for a healthcare plan). And she is there when the help does not show up.
"You're a hog farmer that's gone hog wild. All you think about is hogs." 🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I was laughing at that part.
Hilarious
Cracked Rachel up too. I was just watching her face the whole time!
Lol😂
Only 45k Michael. People spend more on their car
This guy probably spent more on his truck
This guy loves his hogs more than his wife 😂
Cry me a river
I bought a new truck for $45k in cash, and I regret it. So yeah, life is too short, but being dumb is too painful to live with.
I bet he owns a truck that cost more, too.
This is the kind of man who complains that there are no good women out there. He wouldn’t know one if he married one… case in point. If she had enough and divorced him, she’d take more than half with 3 kids in the mix. It’s also obvious that he doesn’t think what she does is work. That woman is taking care of 3 kids, 2 of which are twins and she still works part time plus helps with the farm, and she has a spending problem because she doesn’t want to live in a pig sty. What an immature child he is…
@@jg6693 literally basically taking credit for all the work , then complaining when his wife finally asks something from him(based on how he acts I bet she don’t ask for things often) he throws a temper tantrum. And it wasn’t even expensive at all, especially for a whole house , anyone would dream for a house that cheap , yet he’s complaining because it’s a change to “his life style” not even considering his wife and children are rotting in hog Oder , and honestly he probably don’t mind that smell cause he’s used to it or smells like it to, I feel so bad for those wife and kids 😭😭
For real. He sounds like a total jerk. She is a freaking saint.
He really just said this is "a question on his wife's spending habits..." And then went on to explain that she doesn't want to live in a house that literally smells like a pigsty, and would rather buy the current home they are living in for $45,000. Dude. She doesn't have a spending problem. She just doesn't want to smell pig poop all day. And the house she is asking to buy is the cheapest house I've ever heard of. To reiterate: your wife does not have a spending problem. 🤦🏼♀️🤣
It's a 1970s house price and he's complaining. lol
And now your kids can have friends over without being embarrassed by the smell
AND she doesn't want her children smelling pig dookey all day and night
Houses in my area are that cost
@@zbeavermanz4277 That's incredible LOL
The caller has no idea that he is married to a saint.
And his wife is married to a selfish unappreciative moron.
you mean a bitch?
This is by far my favourite caller in the Ramsey show. What a character
He is SO good dammed lucky.
That is nigh impossible to find
What REALLY got me was when he said she shows up if the workers don't. As I am in our dirty shop running parts because 2 people needed the day off.
That part really 'got' me too. We owned a dry cleaner that I managed, and I know the value of a family member who 'shows up' when employees don't
And works “part-time” with 3 little kids!
Yes. Very Few of us caught that, I think. Whoa... He needed a wake up call, hope this one does the trick!
Right? She hates the smell but is willing to show up to do the work. And he doesn't think she is worth getting a 45k house for.
"my wifes spending habits". None of her spending habits were mentioned here.
3 Kids and she works as well
@@Ferrero123 Correction: she works for money IN ADDITION to the work of raising three small children.
Her "spending habits" sound like she doesn't want herself and the kids to smell like sh1t when they go into town to pick up groceries. 😂
That’s why my bacon so expensive
@@joerea4116 this response doesn't make any sense
Rachel couldn't stop smiling because she knew what was coming. 😅😅😅
Yet she couldn't even believe it was a 45k house 😂
This reminds me of a short story I read long ago, so I don't remember all the details. It was about a farmer who let his house fall apart but built a brand new barn for his animals. He came home one day to find his wife had moved the animals into the house and moved the family into the barn.
Dude, buy your wife that house if that's the one she wants. It's affordable and it's so little to make her happy. Good luck.
She’s been a good woman, helped on the farm and is raising 3 young children, buy her the house! She deserves it.
He said...i have a little under half million saved up and she wants to buy a piece of candy dave🤣
Really what it sounded like 😂
This is better than a comedy skit 😂 If he's not careful, he's going to he snuggling the pigs at night.
Don't worry his wife is too old fashioned to do anything
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He has 400k in savings and he thinks his wife has a spending problem because she wants a 45k house? She really loves him. I would have jumped ship with that sort of mentality.
Then you're not marriage material to start with.
He baby trapped her. She’s working part time with twins and can’t support herself independently
@@numbereightysevenmarriage does not mean being in servitude to someone else. What a ridiculous comment.
@@numbereightysevengood. Since you are you go log and live in a hog shed then
@@katie8325that’s exactly what it is. You are both in servitude to each other. Or you are in a bad marriage
At first I was ready to defend him when he said "spending habits"... but then she just doesn't want to smell like a pig farm, now I'm with her. Then he says the house is $45k..... dude? You are risking your marriage over $45k when you have $400k banked? BUY THE HOUSE, and don't complain about it.
To be fair for the guy, she did literally marry a pig farmer, of which he was living next to the pigs at the time. Kinda comes with the territory.
That's about all the devis advocacy I can muster. All in all dude needs to just buy the dirt cheap house and be grateful she only wants a 45k house.
@@LegDayLas I would have hoped that this was discussed during dating. If you are telling me he was a pig farmer when she met him, and the topic never came up... someone failed at dating. You missed the purpose.
Why would you be so eager to jump to his defence without hearing all (or even half) of the facts?
@@OnlyAchievingHere Strange question since obviously I did wait to hear all the facts before posting that comment.
@@amostake “at first I was ready to defend him when he said spending habits” refers to your reaction to a point well before the full clip has played.
Guy should have stayed single or at least don’t get married if you want to do as you please. Time to sack up and attack life TOGETHER AS ONE. You married her dude and had 3 kids with her to boot
I love when these wives sound so loyal. I hope this guy does this for his wife and the family.
Is this an April Fools joke?! Wanting to buy a hog shed over buying a house?? lol!!
Right?! 😂
He clearly has no problem living with pigs. He sees what hog sheds pays out every month. A house just sits there and appreciates till you sell it.
Shed is misleading. It’s a gigantic building that houses hundreds of hogs.
5:49
Rachels face says she was with the wife as soon has he said "hog smell" 😂
Me too. I was with the wife on the hog smell and the house only being 45K.
Dave has noted that while Sharon grew up on a farm, he & the 3 kids did not. It makes 4 different perspectives. (!!!!!)
He is a lucky man to have a highly supportive wife. Do what she asked for now. Few men have a wife like yours.
The feces from the hogs is a HUGE health hazard. Get those kids out of there!
Are you Michael's wife haha
The kids aren’t playing in it lol
No it's not
You're worse off in a city with pollution and planes spraying things than a farm
@@OTOWN2STOCKTOWNDavinport, Iowa is not exactly a large city. That smell permeates EVERYTHING, your clothes, hair, skin. Those kids will be going to school soon. Should he set them up to be the smelly kids?
I love Rachel’s facial expressions!!! 😆🤣
What's the rent? For $45k I'll buy the house and rent it back to them
probably $350
@@mqayyum9226
At $350 a month that's not a bad roi
Right 😂
Honestly I've seen literal shacks in my area That sell for 100k
1:57 He knows all his business numbers but struggled to remember his marriage 😂
I literally yelled at the tv when he said $45,000. Scared the dog.
🤣🤣🤣
Yep, everything was “I, I, I “. He values his money more than his wife.
Good his priorities staright
He worked hard to earn it. She probably didn't. She might be waiting to drain him with a divorce.
Women callers on this show do the same all the time without repercussion
@@milehyandriverwhen you get married, you become one. That is what marriage is. If you don't want to say "we" or "us", then don't join yourself together with someone and still have the gall to say "I made it so it's mine". That's not marriage, that's a recipe for divorce.
@@milehyandriverAnd she is working hard to raise his kids, which is invaluable.
This guy is incredibly selfish and stingy. He doesn't care about anything else. It is extremely important to have a clear boundary between home and work. He doesn't recognize it. He absolutely sucks at taking care of his wife.
Amen! He is out of the house ALL DAY LONG while she is stuck there smelling the hog shed. That is why it doesn't bother him.
Most of u gals go on and on about his wife looking after 3 kids. How times have changed. My mother had 7 and her grandmother gave birth to 16. I'm same age as Dave. I don't recall a single comment from any of you about how much work might be involved in raising hundreds of hogs. He's 31, he'll figure it out. Sounds like he found an awesome wife. Also sounds like he was taught to think twice before jumping into his savings and start throwing money around like an idiot. The more comments I read the more I appreciate my wife. Seems like there's not as many around anymore that don't come with a bunch of snark and attitude.
I hope his wife listens to this and the way he speaks about her… big siiiiiighs, acting like she’s sooo spoiled because she doesn’t like the smell of hog sheds. With any luck he can live with the pigs he loves so much, and she can move on.
...or he can buy the house, and they move on contentedly. Not every bad or uncomfortable situation calls for a divorce.
@@texan903 It's not really about the house, it's about the fact he values "his" money over the wifes comfort.
He thinks because if he is comfortable living next to filt she should be to. This entire argument is a symptom of a bigger issue, and it's this man's total inability to empathize with his wife. Buying the home isn't going to solve the root issue, only treat one of it's symptoms.
@LegDayLas people need real-life examples sometimes that lead them to growth. Perhaps his dilemma in this matter will prompt him to reevaluate his priorities to make better decisions in the future. He can grow from this and take the opportunity to strengthen his marriage.
Take a drink every time this guy says “hog shed”.
Drunk 🥴 as a skunk
Hog shed
😂😂😂
Lollll he just said it again as I read this
On it now....
I was with the guy, up until he said $45,000 for a house she wants.
Agreed. I wouldn't drain my savings to buy a $400k house in cash, but $45k is barely a drop in the bucket.
You’ve never been in a hog farm or even smelled one have you?😂
Seriously, you would have thought this was going to be the whole ~400k he saved up the way he talked. Guy's doing better than he knows at 31.
I have a lot of farmers in my family. The smell of hog farm is nauseating. It gets in your clothes, if you have a well it probably seeps into the water, it's just NASTY.
Tony you have no clue about hogs or hog farmers. The smell is 🤢Listen to this caller . It’s me me me
Very selfish
The wife is out of his league. He can’t see her value. He sucks.
My jaw is on the floor. He has NO idea how valuable his wife is. This woman has lived next to literal sh for 4 years with 3 kids under 7... and hasn't lost her mind... just wants to live in a trailer instead of next to poo... 🤣🤣🤣... but that's a "spending problem" 🤦🏻♀️
Buy your wife a nicer house than a 45k house. The house must be a dump for that price.
He's probably paying $300 in rent
And that’s how you know she’s a good woman. She’s just asking to live in another piece of 💩 house but just one that doesn’t smell like 🐷. So sad. He obviously controls the fk out of her.
It might be a special low price because the landlord liked them. And probably in a very rural area.
@@megalodon1726 He's in Davenport IA it's a small city, part of the Quad City's so altogether it's about 120,000 people. Not a small town but not a big city. It's probably a dump though, even in Davenport that's a good price.
Come to ca My home worth 1.2 million Bought in 1999 for $271,000 Parents passed paid off balance Seems like this caller inherited is parents house
She's raising your children. There is no greater responsibility, or joy. It's your job to provide a home for them so she can continue to do her important work.
Plus she works parttime outside the home as well.
Dont know why some men need this to be explained to them. Its beyond infuriating. No wonder so many women would rather just be single.
This!!!❤❤❤
Hahaha women out here feeling like entitled princesses when in reality they are hiding behind the fact they bring nothing to the table and can’t even take care of themselves
If she splits you have to split ALL the assets. Farmers don’t do well after divorce.
This dude said “I own,” every time. Never “we own.”
Had it been a woman calling in saying the same thing no one would even have noticed
Women do this all the time, yall dont say anything. Women are empowered to have their own.Meanwhile a man has to share everything
@@jamalj8660 the entire premise of the Ramsey model is for married couples to be partners. It's mentioned every time someone in a relationship calls. People like you and @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN need to get therapy. Women aren't out to get you guys.
Of course, he owns everything, she is just the maid that gives him children and all the other things that round out his life. That is all she will ever be, unfortunately that changed when they married. Bless them both. Not sure all the children are his either.
My husband would have a huge problem with this guy. My husband has an equipment rental business. Anytime I say this he corrects me with “we.” He refers to every piece of equipment as “ours” and insists that without the little computer work I did establishing the LLC and financial issues it wouldn’t be anything; plus, he wouldn’t be able to focus at all if I didn’t handle homeschooling our boys, taking care of most of the home chores, and being in charge of our personal budget. (FYI, I have no clue what the equipment names are or how to run them.) My husband gets pissed at family and friends who have separate bank accounts and view our sole income as just his. Seeing things like this helps me to see how blessed I am.
Micheal and the hogs can live together 😂
He could move his child hood house for 45k... Upwind of the hogs
It sounds like he loves it so don't tempt him.
He is narcissistic. Listen when he says wife spending habits, he is totally wrong. And then he says listen to this, like bragging about how cheap the house is and how great she is, yet he does not value her. Very sad.
Yes good point ! Like dude, you don’t feel like she is deserving of that house ??? she’s the main caretaker of the kids, she helps with the farm when the helpers don’t show up , you have your family living in a stinky hog shed, you have 8x the amount of money to buy the 45K house, she is your WIFE, like bro why would you not buy the house, It sounds like his family comes last in his mind 😢
His poor wife. Getting sidelined for this man's hogs.
Hog farmers are odd people but there’s definitely serious money made with hogs and they know it.
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How do you think he got 400k. They only been marry 4 yrs. He had his businness, money an house before he got married. The wife saw it, dont act like she such a saint and live in a farm, she knew wat she was doing
@@jamalj8660 Dude please focus on your mental health. Maybe youll be sound enough to find a Prov 31 woman for yourself.
@thelifeofmaryd.2494 lol im good thanks but lady, please focus on your weight loss, maybe one day you'll be fit enough that a quality guy might actually care.
He’s got over $400k and is debating a $45k home? Is this a serious call? That’s a tenth of your savings. This is a layup!
And he’d stop paying rent and have equity. It’s not even about the money. It’s about something for her. Until it was explained that his business will profit from a happy wife, he was against it.
Rachel recognizing the me, myself, and I was very important. You are a team. And everything you have is hers. And vice versa.
There are fewer, if any, farming or industrial processes that smell worse than pigs. Fifty years ago my ex and I did some serious cross country driving and we discovered that we could smell a hog farm several miles still down the road. I don't blame the wife, and I'm very grateful for men like Michael feeding me.
Buy that poor woman a house❤🎉
I'm the first person to say that expensive things that don't bring in money is just a shiny bauble but some baubles you really can't live without. A wife that's not losing her mental health because she's got to raise 3 young kids amidst the smell of hogs is a pretty worthwhile bauble.
Look at Rachel’s face when the caller is talking about the smell of the hog farm at the house at the beginning of the call! 😂
Yes Nepo baby is grossed out.
@@MrMustangrickyou can say a lot about Rachel and her upbringing, but you can’t fault her for not wanting to live in pig shit stench. Most people would agree with her disgust
@@MrMustangrick Pretty much anyone would be grossed out.
@@MrMustangrickShe works & always has. Hate somewhere else
@@MrMustangrick The house is too close to the hogs and it smells. I bet the callers wife makes the same face every day of her life.
BOY IF YOU DON'T BUY THAT DADGUM HOUSE RIGHT TF NOW
Hahaha period
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Dave is so wonderful at imparting wisdom to young men. I live in central North Carolina and the eastern parts have massive hog farms. Just driving thru on the way to the beach, the smell is unbearable! Keeping car windows closed doesn't help because the stench seeps in and permeates EVERYTHING. This young man's wife is more precious than rubies - to quote the Bible
It is a horrible stench. She wants a place in town? Get it!
Our main interstate goes by a hog farm and it is TERRIBLE. I couldn’t imagine living there. Nope
I live in mid NC and when we drive east to the beach the smell is unbearable.
I have several a few miles away from my house. When the air is dry and the wind shifts I can smell them way over here. It's faint, but it's definitely there.
Buy the house AND fix it up for her.
Love your wife. Nope. Buy the house. If you want your marriage to stay together buy her the house. You married a good woman. She’s willing to put up with the business and you’re most likely a good business men but your wife deserves to live a life of what brings her joy. Buy the house. Do it for her and your marriage
🚨Racheal is laughing cause she knew papa Dave was about to bring the hammer on this hog lover. Loves his hogs more than his wife 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think he's just useless at being a husband, but even greater at being a businessman. To me it sounded like he listened to what Dave had to say.. I sure hope so, for his wife's sake 😂
This was so southern and so funny. I love it. God bless Michael
Rachel trying to keep a straight face 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rachel’s face is priceless ❤
Rachel’s grimace through the hog farm description. 😂
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Rachel face too funny, Dave was enjoying the call
He's 31 and on his way to becoming a multimillionaire. I'm certain he drives an inexpensive vehicle and wears clothes from Walmart or Target. This is the way.
Couple 90 models ford pick ups
He sounds like someone who could sell propane and propane accessories.
I tell you what
Hank Hill for president!
Rachel’s facial expressions tell everything 😂😂😂
Lmao I was totally ready for him to say the house she wanted was $2 million
We grew up on a hog farm. Mom was always happy when the wind was from the south 😂
This one bit of advice probably really helped to bolster (dare I say “save?”) this guy’s marriage.
Some wives are wanting to buy a car that's twice as much as this house. in 5 years the house could be worth $90,000 the car, $15,000
45000 is a trailer in a mobile home park dont call it a house
It's in Iowa, and the previous owner may have written a discount into his will
Over $900k for a shed??? Talk about living high on the hog 🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
She's the mother of your heirs, man. She's your queen.
Big energy
45k. Buy it. Who want that smell in their house?
He’s a hillbilly, they don’t mind the smell of raw sewage. Matter of fact, he probably prefers it 😂
This is the greatest call in the history of the show.
Nothing can ever rival the tuba degree for $300,000
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MILLION dollar debt for Dental school@@random-nz7dy
Wonderful input Rachel!
Gotta agree with Dave on this. This guy has got to take better care of his wife.
Buy the house!!!😂😂😂😂😂 and throw in another $55k for updates😂😂😂
The hogs get to live in in a 900k house while to hog owners struggle to decide if a $45k house is too much house for them.
Happy spouse, happy house! It's a partnership, not a one sided venture.
I hope u mean both should be happy in the house, not all about her
@@jamalj8660 Obviously. I said spouse, not wife, and, not a one sided venture.
Dave is king 👑 glad he's back!
Christ! Where can you buy a $45k house here in California. You can't even get a one car parking space for this amount.
There are actually a remarkable number of houses for sale for under $50K in Davenport,
some of which look livable in the real estate ads
I gather it's not an economic powerhouse, but if you like quiet and simple or are looking for somewhere to hide. . .
Rachel’s facial expressions are priceless! Her face clearly says, “no way am I living in a house that smells like hogs.”
Michael needs to buy the house for his family and then give his wife $5k or $10k to fix up the house how she wants it. Curtains, new bedroom set, laundry room whatever. Michael sounds like a guy that could convince himself his wife doesn't need a washer/dryer in the house. Michael, not everyone gets satisfaction from looking at a spread sheet! She might need to do something more creative, or have a party or give some away.
Yep
YOU MUST BE A PRIZE 😂😂😂😂😂 LIVING NEXT TO A HOG SHED
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Yes she must love him a lot to marry a hog farmer. Now he needs to love her in return and not only buy the house, but schedule a home improvement budget so she can decorate it a bit. Women need a nest.
Synchronized eyebrow raisage going on @0:20
How much are the companies paying him to take care of the pigs ??? Lmao maybe I need to get out there 🤭😭
The money is pretty good, but there's substantial risk. It's also backbreaking horrible smelling work. Takes quite a bit of investment, too.
But, hey, check it out. May work for you.
@@EmpressMermaid I hate stepping in the mud lol trust me I know for a fact I couldnt raise farm animals 😭
@@here2laff397You would be stepping in more than just mud taking care of a bunch of farm animals.
Hope the caller reads these comments. I gotta tell him he better not only buy that 45k house but surprise her with a little upgrade right after. Fix up the kitchen, bathroom or something. Cuz she might sound like she's on board at the moment, but if he continues to not value her she'll be gone before the oldest is even 18 and take the kids with her.
Reading these comments shows me how most of the listeners are not from farm country. I grew up in Iowa, this dude is 1000% exactly what every single farmer there is like.
Do you mean they focus on work all the time?
@@pneron2032 that, and agriculture is their whole livelihood and extremely unpredictable. You get one virus or really bad blizzard and bam, all your hogs are gone and you have to start over.
So wots the divorce rate in davenport? 😊
The husband is good he actually listened! Happy for them!
Rachel’s facial expressions in the first few minutes are priceless.
Lmao this part 2:19 took me out 😂😂, all you think about is HOGS 😂😂😂.
Love Dave talking on the show. He's not afraid of saying "Honey, or you suck" to the caller
The moment he said the house was only $45k I was on his wife’s side.
TBH $45k for probably a 100 year old house in a rural Iowa town isn't as trashy as it sounds.
@TopShot501st we didn't say it was trashy. There are a vast array of types of homes across America. We face palmed because it's only 45 freaking thousand. Buy the darn house.
I live in Iowa and know a little bit about residential real estate. Believe me when I tell you, a $45k house is going to be lacking some amenities. Like indoor plumbing. Also, that hog farm smell doesn’t wash off. They always said “it’s the smell of money”, but if money smelled like that, I’d take a vow of poverty.
i understood that it's not the rental that has the smell, they rented to be away from the house that smells
Rachel saying “Oh, Michael…” pretty much sums it all up 😂 Take care of your wife, dude
This is the first time I’ve ever heard Dave tell someone to buy a house and it’s definitely warranted 😂
I I and I. He never says we. She should leave him
Buy the house thr wife needs something
Love that saying “happy wife happy life “❤😊
That shed he’s saving up for will literally be over 20 times the value of where he & family will live 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
Honestly I believe it housing is really only dumb in large areas middle of nowhere land and housing is cheap, but no jobs
45k for a house?? Where Mexico??
Just read a scripture: Proverbs 8 12 "I, Wisdom, live together with good judgment.
I know where to discover knowledge and discernment."
Learned knowledge plus discerning life choices equals wisdom.
Typical Midwest farmer, thinking of the business over family. Like he said, the same family who shows up to help when no one else does.
Rachel's facial expression 😂😂
The hog shed is 9 times as expensive as the house…
Omg Rachel’s face ….that was worth the watch 😂😂😂😂
I didn’t like when Dave cut Rachel off for saying ..this is your wife’s money too and she has a say. That guy needed to hear that.
The whole "you keep saying I, their is no I, it's we" statement reminds me of my father.
Their is no love in their relationship and he recently made the claim "I will not be buying her another car, she can pay for it herself".
He literally does not understand how dumb of a statement that is. It's not like he is even the "breadwinner" with her as a stay at home parent. Both worked their whole life, and at the time of that comment, my father was retired while my mother still worked >_