“You Suck at Taking Care of Your Wife!”
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The caller has no idea that he is married to a saint.
And his wife is married to a selfish unappreciative moron.
"my wifes spending habits". None of her spending habits were mentioned here.
3 Kids and she works as well
@@Ferrero123 Correction: she works for money IN ADDITION to the work of raising three small children.
It’s like the entire world face palmed when this dude said he has 400k saved and his wife wants a house that costs 45k. Man you better buy that house and throw in extra for good measure
She's raising your children. There is no greater responsibility, or joy. It's your job to provide a home for them so she can continue to do her important work.
"You're a hog farmer that's gone hog wild. All you think about is hogs." 🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I was laughing at that part.
Hilarious
Cracked Rachel up too. I was just watching her face the whole time!
Lol😂
He really just said this is "a question on his wife's spending habits..." And then went on to explain that she doesn't want to live in a house that literally smells like a pigsty, and would rather buy the current home they are living in for $45,000. Dude. She doesn't have a spending problem. She just doesn't want to smell pig poop all day. And the house she is asking to buy is the cheapest house I've ever heard of. To reiterate: your wife does not have a spending problem. 🤦🏼♀️🤣
It's a 1970s house price and he's complaining. lol
And now your kids can have friends over without being embarrassed by the smell
AND she doesn't want her children smelling pig dookey all day and night
Houses in my area are that cost
@@zbeavermanz4277 That's incredible LOL
Only 45k Michael. People spend more on their car
This guy probably spent more on his truck
This guy loves his hogs more than his wife 😂
Cry me a river
I bought a new truck for $45k in cash, and I regret it. So yeah, life is too short, but being dumb is too painful to live with.
I bet he owns a truck that cost more, too.
This guy is incredibly selfish and stingy. He doesn't care about anything else. It is extremely important to have a clear boundary between home and work. He doesn't recognize it. He absolutely sucks at taking care of his wife.
Amen! He is out of the house ALL DAY LONG while she is stuck there smelling the hog shed. That is why it doesn't bother him.
At first I was ready to defend him when he said "spending habits"... but then she just doesn't want to smell like a pig farm, now I'm with her. Then he says the house is $45k..... dude? You are risking your marriage over $45k when you have $400k banked? BUY THE HOUSE, and don't complain about it.
Rachel couldn't stop smiling because she knew what was coming. 😅😅😅
Yet she couldn't even believe it was a 45k house 😂
This is the kind of man who complains that there are no good women out there. He wouldn’t know one if he married one… case in point. If she had enough and divorced him, she’d take more than half with 3 kids in the mix. It’s also obvious that he doesn’t think what she does is work. That woman is taking care of 3 kids, 2 of which are twins and she still works part time plus helps with the farm, and she has a spending problem because she doesn’t want to live in a pig sty. What an immature child he is…
@@jg6693 literally basically taking credit for all the work , then complaining when his wife finally asks something from him(based on how he acts I bet she don’t ask for things often) he throws a temper tantrum. And it wasn’t even expensive at all, especially for a whole house , anyone would dream for a house that cheap , yet he’s complaining because it’s a change to “his life style” not even considering his wife and children are rotting in hog Oder , and honestly he probably don’t mind that smell cause he’s used to it or smells like it to, I feel so bad for those wife and kids 😭😭
For real. He sounds like a total jerk. She is a freaking saint.
He has 400k in savings and he thinks his wife has a spending problem because she wants a 45k house? She really loves him. I would have jumped ship with that sort of mentality.
Then you're not marriage material to start with.
He baby trapped her. She’s working part time with twins and can’t support herself independently
@@numbereightysevenmarriage does not mean being in servitude to someone else. What a ridiculous comment.
@@numbereightysevengood. Since you are you go log and live in a hog shed then
@@katie8325that’s exactly what it is. You are both in servitude to each other. Or you are in a bad marriage
He said...i have a little under half million saved up and she wants to buy a piece of candy dave🤣
Really what it sounded like 😂
Buy your wife a nicer house than a 45k house. The house must be a dump for that price.
He's probably paying $300 in rent
And that’s how you know she’s a good woman. She’s just asking to live in another piece of 💩 house but just one that doesn’t smell like 🐷. So sad. He obviously controls the fk out of her.
It might be a special low price because the landlord liked them. And probably in a very rural area.
@@megalodon1726 He's in Davenport IA it's a small city, part of the Quad City's so altogether it's about 120,000 people. Not a small town but not a big city. It's probably a dump though, even in Davenport that's a good price.
Rachels face says she was with the wife as soon has he said "hog smell" 😂
Me too. I was with the wife on the hog smell and the house only being 45K.
This dude said “I own,” every time. Never “we own.”
Had it been a woman calling in saying the same thing no one would even have noticed
Women do this all the time, yall dont say anything. Women are empowered to have their own.Meanwhile a man has to share everything
@@jamalj8660 the entire premise of the Ramsey model is for married couples to be partners. It's mentioned every time someone in a relationship calls. People like you and @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN need to get therapy. Women aren't out to get you guys.
Of course, he owns everything, she is just the maid that gives him children and all the other things that round out his life. That is all she will ever be, unfortunately that changed when they married. Bless them both. Not sure all the children are his either.
My husband would have a huge problem with this guy. My husband has an equipment rental business. Anytime I say this he corrects me with “we.” He refers to every piece of equipment as “ours” and insists that without the little computer work I did establishing the LLC and financial issues it wouldn’t be anything; plus, he wouldn’t be able to focus at all if I didn’t handle homeschooling our boys, taking care of most of the home chores, and being in charge of our personal budget. (FYI, I have no clue what the equipment names are or how to run them.) My husband gets pissed at family and friends who have separate bank accounts and view our sole income as just his. Seeing things like this helps me to see how blessed I am.
His poor wife. Getting sidelined for this man's hogs.
Hog farmers are odd people but there’s definitely serious money made with hogs and they know it.
😄😄
How do you think he got 400k. They only been marry 4 yrs. He had his businness, money an house before he got married. The wife saw it, dont act like she such a saint and live in a farm, she knew wat she was doing
@@jamalj8660 Dude please focus on your mental health. Maybe youll be sound enough to find a Prov 31 woman for yourself.
@thelifeofmaryd.2494 lol im good thanks but lady, please focus on your weight loss, maybe one day you'll be fit enough that a quality guy might actually care.
Yep, everything was “I, I, I “. He values his money more than his wife.
Good his priorities staright
He worked hard to earn it. She probably didn't. She might be waiting to drain him with a divorce.
Women callers on this show do the same all the time without repercussion
@@milehyandriverwhen you get married, you become one. That is what marriage is. If you don't want to say "we" or "us", then don't join yourself together with someone and still have the gall to say "I made it so it's mine". That's not marriage, that's a recipe for divorce.
@@milehyandriverAnd she is working hard to raise his kids, which is invaluable.
I literally yelled at the tv when he said $45,000. Scared the dog.
The wife is out of his league. He can’t see her value. He sucks.
My jaw is on the floor. He has NO idea how valuable his wife is. This woman has lived next to literal sh for 4 years with 3 kids under 7... and hasn't lost her mind... just wants to live in a trailer instead of next to poo... 🤣🤣🤣... but that's a "spending problem" 🤦🏻♀️
1:57 He knows all his business numbers but struggled to remember his marriage 😂
The feces from the hogs is a HUGE health hazard. Get those kids out of there!
Are you Michael's wife haha
The kids aren’t playing in it lol
No it's not
You're worse off in a city with pollution and planes spraying things than a farm
@@OTOWN2STOCKTOWNDavinport, Iowa is not exactly a large city. That smell permeates EVERYTHING, your clothes, hair, skin. Those kids will be going to school soon. Should he set them up to be the smelly kids?
Take a drink every time this guy says “hog shed”.
Drunk 🥴 as a skunk
Hog shed
😂😂😂
Lollll he just said it again as I read this
On it now....
Is this an April Fools joke?! Wanting to buy a hog shed over buying a house?? lol!!
Right?! 😂
He clearly has no problem living with pigs. He sees what hog sheds pays out every month. A house just sits there and appreciates till you sell it.
Shed is misleading. It’s a gigantic building that houses hundreds of hogs.
5:49
This reminds me of a short story I read long ago, so I don't remember all the details. It was about a farmer who let his house fall apart but built a brand new barn for his animals. He came home one day to find his wife had moved the animals into the house and moved the family into the barn.
Dude, buy your wife that house if that's the one she wants. It's affordable and it's so little to make her happy. Good luck.
I hope his wife listens to this and the way he speaks about her… big siiiiiighs, acting like she’s sooo spoiled because she doesn’t like the smell of hog sheds. With any luck he can live with the pigs he loves so much, and she can move on.
...or he can buy the house, and they move on contentedly. Not every bad or uncomfortable situation calls for a divorce.
What REALLY got me was when he said she shows up if the workers don't. As I am in our dirty shop running parts because 2 people needed the day off.
That part really 'got' me too. We owned a dry cleaner that I managed, and I know the value of a family member who 'shows up' when employees don't
And works “part-time” with 3 little kids!
Yes. Very Few of us caught that, I think. Whoa... He needed a wake up call, hope this one does the trick!
Right? She hates the smell but is willing to show up to do the work. And he doesn't think she is worth getting a 45k house for.
I was with the guy, up until he said $45,000 for a house she wants.
Agreed. I wouldn't drain my savings to buy a $400k house in cash, but $45k is barely a drop in the bucket.
You’ve never been in a hog farm or even smelled one have you?😂
Seriously, you would have thought this was going to be the whole ~400k he saved up the way he talked. Guy's doing better than he knows at 31.
I have a lot of farmers in my family. The smell of hog farm is nauseating. It gets in your clothes, if you have a well it probably seeps into the water, it's just NASTY.
Tony you have no clue about hogs or hog farmers. The smell is 🤢Listen to this caller . It’s me me me
Very selfish
He’s got over $400k and is debating a $45k home? Is this a serious call? That’s a tenth of your savings. This is a layup!
The moment he said the house was only $45k I was on his wife’s side.
TBH $45k for probably a 100 year old house in a rural Iowa town isn't as trashy as it sounds.
@TopShot501st we didn't say it was trashy. There are a vast array of types of homes across America. We face palmed because it's only 45 freaking thousand. Buy the darn house.
This is better than a comedy skit 😂 If he's not careful, he's going to he snuggling the pigs at night.
Don't worry his wife is too old fashioned to do anything
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Notice how much he says the words “I” and “my”. It’s YALL’s money, YALL’s farm, YALL’s house. Yet he admits that she is the one who fills in staffing gaps AND gave birth to twins AND another daughter. Stop being selfish and buy the damn house before she wises up, leaves you, and (very justifiably) takes way more than $45k. Divorce is a hell of a lot more expensive than $45k and it sounds like she would have an excellent case against you.
What's the rent? For $45k I'll buy the house and rent it back to them
probably $350
@@mqayyum9226
At $350 a month that's not a bad roi
Right 😂
He is narcissistic. Listen when he says wife spending habits, he is totally wrong. And then he says listen to this, like bragging about how cheap the house is and how great she is, yet he does not value her. Very sad.
Yes good point ! Like dude, you don’t feel like she is deserving of that house ??? she’s the main caretaker of the kids, she helps with the farm when the helpers don’t show up , you have your family living in a stinky hog shed, you have 8x the amount of money to buy the 45K house, she is your WIFE, like bro why would you not buy the house, It sounds like his family comes last in his mind 😢
Guy should have stayed single or at least don’t get married if you want to do as you please. Time to sack up and attack life TOGETHER AS ONE. You married her dude and had 3 kids with her to boot
It's the kind of dude that complains later their wife divorced them how women are terrible and all kind of stuff many times the man or woman divorced is the problem but will never acknowledge it
He is a lucky man to have a highly supportive wife. Do what she asked for now. Few men have a wife like yours.
I love Rachel’s facial expressions!!! 😆🤣
Micheal and the hogs can live together 😂
He could move his child hood house for 45k... Upwind of the hogs
It sounds like he loves it so don't tempt him.
I'm the first person to say that expensive things that don't bring in money is just a shiny bauble but some baubles you really can't live without. A wife that's not losing her mental health because she's got to raise 3 young kids amidst the smell of hogs is a pretty worthwhile bauble.
I love when these wives sound so loyal. I hope this guy does this for his wife and the family.
Look at Rachel’s face when the caller is talking about the smell of the hog farm at the house at the beginning of the call! 😂
Yes Nepo baby is grossed out.
@@MrMustangrickyou can say a lot about Rachel and her upbringing, but you can’t fault her for not wanting to live in pig shit stench. Most people would agree with her disgust
@@MrMustangrick Pretty much anyone would be grossed out.
@@MrMustangrickShe works & always has. Hate somewhere else
@@MrMustangrick The house is too close to the hogs and it smells. I bet the callers wife makes the same face every day of her life.
There are fewer, if any, farming or industrial processes that smell worse than pigs. Fifty years ago my ex and I did some serious cross country driving and we discovered that we could smell a hog farm several miles still down the road. I don't blame the wife, and I'm very grateful for men like Michael feeding me.
Buy the house AND fix it up for her.
He sounds like someone who could sell propane and propane accessories.
I tell you what
Hank Hill for president!
He's 31 and on his way to becoming a multimillionaire. I'm certain he drives an inexpensive vehicle and wears clothes from Walmart or Target. This is the way.
Couple 90 models ford pick ups
Over $900k for a shed??? Talk about living high on the hog 🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
Dave is so wonderful at imparting wisdom to young men. I live in central North Carolina and the eastern parts have massive hog farms. Just driving thru on the way to the beach, the smell is unbearable! Keeping car windows closed doesn't help because the stench seeps in and permeates EVERYTHING. This young man's wife is more precious than rubies - to quote the Bible
It is a horrible stench. She wants a place in town? Get it!
Buy that poor woman a house❤🎉
She's the mother of your heirs, man. She's your queen.
Big energy
The hogs get to live in in a 900k house while to hog owners struggle to decide if a $45k house is too much house for them.
This one bit of advice probably really helped to bolster (dare I say “save?”) this guy’s marriage.
We grew up on a hog farm. Mom was always happy when the wind was from the south 😂
🚨Racheal is laughing cause she knew papa Dave was about to bring the hammer on this hog lover. Loves his hogs more than his wife 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think he's just useless at being a husband, but even greater at being a businessman. To me it sounded like he listened to what Dave had to say.. I sure hope so, for his wife's sake 😂
BOY IF YOU DON'T BUY THAT DADGUM HOUSE RIGHT TF NOW
Hahaha period
I love u
Our main interstate goes by a hog farm and it is TERRIBLE. I couldn’t imagine living there. Nope
I live in mid NC and when we drive east to the beach the smell is unbearable.
I have several a few miles away from my house. When the air is dry and the wind shifts I can smell them way over here. It's faint, but it's definitely there.
Rachel’s facial expressions tell everything 😂😂😂
Rachel trying to keep a straight face 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some wives are wanting to buy a car that's twice as much as this house. in 5 years the house could be worth $90,000 the car, $15,000
This is the greatest call in the history of the show.
Nothing can ever rival the tuba degree for $300,000
@@random-nz7dytouche
MILLION dollar debt for Dental school@@random-nz7dy
Lmao I was totally ready for him to say the house she wanted was $2 million
Happy spouse, happy house! It's a partnership, not a one sided venture.
I hope u mean both should be happy in the house, not all about her
@@jamalj8660 Obviously. I said spouse, not wife, and, not a one sided venture.
Love your wife. Nope. Buy the house. If you want your marriage to stay together buy her the house. You married a good woman. She’s willing to put up with the business and you’re most likely a good business men but your wife deserves to live a life of what brings her joy. Buy the house. Do it for her and your marriage
Buy the house!!!😂😂😂😂😂 and throw in another $55k for updates😂😂😂
Rachel’s grimace through the hog farm description. 😂
Poor Rachel, trying not to laugh
Christ! Where can you buy a $45k house here in California. You can't even get a one car parking space for this amount.
There are actually a remarkable number of houses for sale for under $50K in Davenport,
some of which look livable in the real estate ads
I gather it's not an economic powerhouse, but if you like quiet and simple or are looking for somewhere to hide. . .
Rachel’s face is priceless ❤
Wonderful input Rachel!
Hit 200k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 14k in last month 2024
^^^
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
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I'm new at this, please how can I reach her?"
Michael needs to buy the house for his family and then give his wife $5k or $10k to fix up the house how she wants it. Curtains, new bedroom set, laundry room whatever. Michael sounds like a guy that could convince himself his wife doesn't need a washer/dryer in the house. Michael, not everyone gets satisfaction from looking at a spread sheet! She might need to do something more creative, or have a party or give some away.
Yep
She’s been a good woman, helped on the farm and is raising 3 young children, buy her the house! She deserves it.
Reading these comments shows me how most of the listeners are not from farm country. I grew up in Iowa, this dude is 1000% exactly what every single farmer there is like.
Do you mean they focus on work all the time?
@@pneron2032 that, and agriculture is their whole livelihood and extremely unpredictable. You get one virus or really bad blizzard and bam, all your hogs are gone and you have to start over.
This was so southern and so funny. I love it. God bless Michael
45k. Buy it. Who want that smell in their house?
He’s a hillbilly, they don’t mind the smell of raw sewage. Matter of fact, he probably prefers it 😂
45k for a house?? Where Mexico??
Gotta agree with Dave on this. This guy has got to take better care of his wife.
45000 is a trailer in a mobile home park dont call it a house
It's in Iowa, and the previous owner may have written a discount into his will
YOU MUST BE A PRIZE 😂😂😂😂😂 LIVING NEXT TO A HOG SHED
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes she must love him a lot to marry a hog farmer. Now he needs to love her in return and not only buy the house, but schedule a home improvement budget so she can decorate it a bit. Women need a nest.
Rachel face too funny, Dave was enjoying the call
That shed he’s saving up for will literally be over 20 times the value of where he & family will live 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️✊🏾
Honestly I believe it housing is really only dumb in large areas middle of nowhere land and housing is cheap, but no jobs
I wish I could meet a man like Ramsey
You would have to buckle down and be the mrs. Ramsey who stuck it out when they went bankrupt first 😂
Rachel’s facial expressions are priceless! Her face clearly says, “no way am I living in a house that smells like hogs.”
Buy the house thr wife needs something
I live in Iowa and know a little bit about residential real estate. Believe me when I tell you, a $45k house is going to be lacking some amenities. Like indoor plumbing. Also, that hog farm smell doesn’t wash off. They always said “it’s the smell of money”, but if money smelled like that, I’d take a vow of poverty.
i understood that it's not the rental that has the smell, they rented to be away from the house that smells
Daves face at 1:50!!!!!! I literally can't
The camera change dead on was hilarious
I was told to never trust a hog farmer, from someone I trust!
How much are the companies paying him to take care of the pigs ??? Lmao maybe I need to get out there 🤭😭
The money is pretty good, but there's substantial risk. It's also backbreaking horrible smelling work. Takes quite a bit of investment, too.
But, hey, check it out. May work for you.
@@EmpressMermaid I hate stepping in the mud lol trust me I know for a fact I couldnt raise farm animals 😭
@@here2laff397You would be stepping in more than just mud taking care of a bunch of farm animals.
one of my fave clips so far
Dave is king 👑 glad he's back!
I love how Rachel was nodding her head! BUY THE HOUSE!!!
Rachel's facial expression 😂😂
Good one
Omg Rachel’s face ….that was worth the watch 😂😂😂😂
I didn’t like when Dave cut Rachel off for saying ..this is your wife’s money too and she has a say. That guy needed to hear that.
Typical Midwest farmer, thinking of the business over family. Like he said, the same family who shows up to help when no one else does.
Rachel’s face this entire time is priceless. 😅
"Your wife ain't gonna stay there, brother. She's already told you that." 😆😆😆
Best call ever!!! 🐖 🐷 🐽 🎉
Hahaha Rachel’s reactions, priceless 😅
Man, your wife is a diamond, you have to take care of your family, then the pigs.
😂😂😂😂😂 I love Dave!
Gf here. Bought a house 32 yrs. Ago. $35,000. 10 rms. 204 yrs old. Needs some work still. But its livable. But, i would never live next to a pig shed, barn or farm. The smell is really bad. The amonia smell from their urine, and poop is really bad for your lungs. No thanks.