That should have happened on the day of delivery. or earlier... Sorry female types... We generally know who the mother is. But history has shown we can't trust you.
Paternity test should be mandatory at the birth of every child. It sounds like this chick was just baby trapping him. Part of the reason I believe that dude should get a vasectomy as young as possible. And then get it reversed if you want to have children. Don't be holding the bag for some chick who was a good lay Maybe a few days out of your life.
She wasnt talking to a guy "a couple days later" this has been on going for months but she kept quiet about it to have her husband as a back up while she waited to see where the new fling would lead to, the sudden "being done" is the byproduct of months of infidelity and the idea that she thinks she's found something more valuable than her current standing
Absolutely. The decision doesn’t come first and then suddenly you have a new relationship right away. She simply stopped hiding it from him once she told him she was done and he is such a kind hearted dude to his detriment he believes that it just started. The same thing just happened to a friend of mine and similarly his wife doesn’t work and wanted to remain in their home despite the ending of things. It just sucks to see
I had the same thing happen. He needs to hire a lawyer and get tough. He needs to demand the house, full custody and child support from her. She needs to get an apartment not him. The one who cheats moves out.
@@HoodedStalker that is NOT how it works. there are many men single parenting. and win custody. in fact there men getting spousal support if their wife earn more. times have changed my guy. he need to file first and get a good lawyer
@@shachede6828 Statistically men only receive child support 15% of the time. Female payments are 56% less on average than males. There are unlimited programs and resources for single mothers. Men get thrown in jail for failing to pay. Times have not changed.
Which is why he needs to hurry and divorce her. Each passing day adds up to another year that she eventually can claim in the divorce when nothing legal is on file to move to a dissolution of the marriage.
My ex-wife did this, too. She even went so far as to say she wanted to divorce me but still live together so I could support her. I yanked the rug out from under her and she lost everything. Now her side piece is stuck supporting her while she pays me child support. This guy needs to do the same.
Jake I hope you read all these comments. Stop being a doormat dude, get the paternity test and let her go- you deserve better. Her living situation, job situation, etc is no longer your problem. Stay strong man
@@KAT-dg6el Show me where I said walk away from the kid….yea that’s what I thought. He can have an emotional connection with the kid even if it’s not his. My issue is with her, and everyone else thinks the exact same thing. He deserves to know if the child is even his given her stellar behavior or are you gonna say it’s all his fault?
@@KAT-dg6el Four words, No Child Support Payments. He could try to keep a relationship with the child, but the sad truth is that once the money dries up mom will make sure he never sees the kid again because it isn't beneficial to her.
@@KAT-dg6el The child deserves to know who his parents truly are. Period. It isn't about the adults. In this situation, I'll be frank, one of the adults is acting like a child..she, IS narcissistic. He seems to be enabling her, and for a long time. How narcissistic is it K to think he doesn't deserve to have his own life with meaning and a good marriage?ONLY good news here is he can learn from this
Sadly it could be. I have seen many young men get taken by women like this, especially if the man came from a "broken home" and they feel guilty about making the woman leave.
She wants to divorce you and still stay in your house and live on your dime and not live her life with dignity by earning her own income? Absolutely insane. By choosing to divorce you, she is choosing to move out, live separately, and go back to work and earn her own income!
@Aleksandra c HIS house, by law she gets half. So give her the house and shell still have to get a job and pay her way until she finds another meal ticket.
@@TheWatchman48Hell no I’m not giving her the house. I’ll fight for custody of the kids since I can actually provide a house to stay in and bills being paid.
Had a friend at work, I think he wanted to start dating, BUT ...he was divorced and his wife AND HER MOTHER still lived with him. He said they had no place to go. Well, he wasn't going anyplace with me either.
First get a good lawyer, second get a paternity test. You need to be strong on this. Even if she gets half custody, you have no idea who your child will be exposed to.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 lol... god you are deluded. You would never pay for your wife's lawyer in the United States. Both of you would use your combined married assets to pay for lawyers. Half of that is hers so it can't be just your money.
@@jamisojo It happens or I would not have said this. I’ve been called for jury duty dealing with post divorce issues several times including paternity by estoppel with single mothers. You’ll be surprised what a judge and a nasty lawyer can do in a courtroom.
Id tell her to leave. I once loved my first so much i was so blind while she was romping around while i was devistated and ruined military career. Biblically speaking.... shes done. As a fellow believer... id leave.
@@semperfi-1918 my wife and I have been together a long time, if she found another guy I'd be like okay, well let's just live together for the finances LOL
My ex husband wanted a divorce and stay in the house. It was so incredibly painful to see him everyday interacting with kids and going thru the divorce. It lasted a month I asked him to leave. It was the first step toward healing. I wish him the best It does get better. ❤
In my state you CANNOT live together and get a divorce because the court assumes that you're cohabiting (sleeping together), and cohabiting invalidates the divorce process. Stops it cold.
@@thecurrentmomentthat is weird, and no, I don't think it is good. It may not be as bad as I think but I don't need mommy gov't to make choices for me.
@@jamisojo well you're entitled to your opinion, but I personally think making the initiation of a divorce possible but not quick and easy is a good idea. Maybe the time could be a bit less, but it makes sure that nobody is blindsided by a divorce that they didn't see coming, and makes sure the divorcer is committed to the decision. Not that divorce is quick and easy, but being able to notify someone that they are being divorced by handing them some papers doesn't seem right to me
You can tell all she was doing was baby trapping him. For the money. This is part of the reason I think you could solve a lot of these problems by just getting a vasectomy at 18. Maybe even younger. Then if you find the right person just get it reversed. It would effectively end all of these problems.
@@skeletorrocks2452 I tried to at 18 but the doctor denied me because he said that I was to young and he thought that I wasn’t sure enough rather or not I wanted kids.. that really ticked me off
@@paulobrien3764 You know you can save a lot of money on your auto insurance. If you just change your gender to female on your birth certificate. And you can get preferential treatment and hiring. You just tell them that you're a transgender lesbian.. Masculine Representing. Might even help if you tell him you're trans black. But only 1980s black woman. And that your pronouns are God or deity or just people groveling.. you know cuz trans Diddy as well. Side note. When you're dealing with progressives.. it really helps if you learn how to out crazy them. Tactics of war and survival.
@@skeletorrocks2452 thanks for the tips. The way the world is going it's getting harder to out crazy crazy by the day. Been normal is no longer normal 🤔
In other words the wife wants wife privilege of being a stay at home mom and have her husband take care of her but she doesn’t want him . Wow . Unbelievable
Similar mind set to my ex when i was in the military. Wife wanted to move back home with her friends bc she was so unhappy with me but conveniently wanted to stay married. Told her i wouldn't keep her and our kid there unhappy for 2 more years but we were getting divorced b4 she moved states to protect my parental rights.
Don’t let her use you! There are plenty of no skill jobs available and even no skill remote work jobs that she can do to make ends meet. If she’s choosing to be a single parent let her! Staying “together” for the sake of the child is never healthy. Kids know!!!
Dave is spot on. Dude.. get some papers served. She can figure it out on her own. She made this decision. 🤨 She wants to be taken care of while she lives her fantasy while also dishonoring her spouse/ex. Gross.
@@aolvaar8792 How about making sure he does not raise the child of another guy his wife cheated with and then left him while attempting to live in the same house and use his resources.... Yeah better check its your kid.
@@blaaskat The LAW says that a child born into a marriage is the husband's child. Child support will be paid. So, you can feel bad about sending child support to someone else's child.
@@aolvaar8792 Not true. First rule: Get a proper attorney. Here are the FACTS based on the LAW: If you have enough reason to suspect that your wife is pregnant with a child who isn’t yours, an attorney can help you establish your grounds for adultery. When it comes to proving this, you have a few options: You have a paternity test with an accuracy of at least 98 percent Proof of cohabitation, adultery, and enough circumstantial evidence to support your claim IF you divorce your wife on the grounds of adultery, the same will be mentioned in the final divorce order. The court will usually NOT impose permanent alimony in the event of a finding of adultery. MOREOVER, if your wife is pregnant with someone else’s child, the court may not impose child support depending on the circumstances and whether you are able to establish that you are not the father.
I’ve never been married and don’t have kids but I cannot even fathom reconciliation after someone tells me they don’t love me and is pillow talking on the phone late night in a house I pay for. How can you walk all of that back? Can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube, honey. I’m out ✌️
@@BlowitAllUp it really depends on the context. If it's early in a relationship like this guy, he is in trouble and I feel bad for him because now there was a kid in the picture he will always have to fight for or pay for one way or the other. But as for me and my wife, we've been together almost 30 years so it's different.
@@kbanghart The time frame doesn't really matter. Women need to respect their man in order to love him. If your wife of 30 years treats you like trash and still stays with you, it's because she knows she's has no better option due to her age.
@@FortuneSeek3rz And that's probably why he married her and overlooked her character. I don’t have any sympathy for men like that. It's their own fault.
@@ranip7644 While I suspect you are correct, I would like to remind the audience that there are many, many people out there who have character issues and aren't the least bit attractive.
I feel awful for this guy. Divorce laws in Canada are like in California. He has no chance. She will leave him for another man because she’s bored and lost the “tingles”, take the house, take the kid, and half of everything. Men be VERY CAREFUL on who you choose to marry!!!!
I agree! I’m 27, I’ve been engaged twice and I have a new girlfriend and I will never get married or engaged ever again. it hurts too much h when you break up
She's busy talking to other men so she has a place to go next in case you do make her leave. Get a lawyer asap and protect your child. He doesn't need to be with a mom who's house hopping, man hopping and unstable. Be prepared to stand strong when she comes back later wanting you back because she realized the grass isn't greener.
This was the advice I expected Dave to give. You know, actual financial advice! It always has to come down to the indoctrination that working on a marriage is first priority, even if it’s obviously toxic. The poor guy didn’t get any info to actually help him protect himself.
She's keeping her foot on first base while preparing to steal second base. Most likely she won't leave until she has landed what she thinks is a better deal. Go ahead and file for divorce and give her an incentive to go ahead and leave the house.
Sounds to me like she wants to stay home for you to financial take care of her. Do not do this. Also a couple days later she was talking to someone else? Sorry man but this has been going on awhile.
Agree, for her to be cool and confident enough to be talking to someone new in the house that was yours together merely days after y'all called it quits...It was already going on, its just in the open now.
What I love about this show is Dave is very honest and not afraid to tell the callers the truth. Poor guy he doesn't realize she wants the house and bring her lover in later. She knows what she wants take everything he's got and played him. Unfortunately he's too naive. He needs to get a lawyer and get her out ASAP. Where she's going live, how she's going to support herself it's NO LONGER Jake's responsibility.
You need to file for divorce and petition custody. I went through a divorce at 24 and my wife wanted to do the same thing. Luckily we didn't have a kid involved, but there's no way you can properly grieve or move on when the person who did/is doing this is living in the room next door.
This is why I say that every man as young as safely possible should get a vasectomy. You can always reverse it later when they want to have children. But that would effectively alleviate the woman from having to take a bunch of birth control chemicals. Plus dude wouldn't be getting baby trapped. Side note. At the birth of every child there should be a paternity test. Maybe two or three paternity test. Get rid of the welfare and social security as well.. and watch how quickly people start solving their own problems. There has to be more incentives to keep something working together versus tearing it apart. America's currently a tear it apart disposable relationship country. Anyhow you have a great day.
Imagine when she brings Phone Chad over for some late night action in the guest room? what is she even thinking? I have heard of postpartum depression but not post partum stupidity.
From someone who stayed too long trying to make work because of kids, don't do it!! Leave and get life together and move on and don't look back no matter what. Be a good father and do your responsibilities but take care of you. Once a woman leaves emotionally and entertaining others it's done. She may regret later cause in tough time but don't take back. I see people playing ping pong back and forth with ex and not ok and crazy and destructive.
Right? Mine checked out so long before I actually filed. Just meant I had to pay his lazy unemployed a$& more of my hard earned money. File and move on dude, pronto.
Sounds like she got bored and wants to live out her fun years. But wants to continue to receive the benefits of a stable relationship and raise her child, on your dime. I guarantee this has been happening for a bit and she has likely physically cheated on him.
Yup, I think she tried someone else. Her new boyfriend is probably not that nice, won’t be treating her well , has a bad boy vibe, can easily dominate her. And she is hooked because she is neurotic, she gets bored where there is no intense drama.
Poor guy, sounds like a very well balanced, decent young man without malice. If it is his child, at least the baby has him as a father. A good example of how to be regardless of how much unfair pain comes your way. Someone start a fund for this guy.
"sounds like a very well balanced, decent young man" - and thats what his mistake was. Some women like drama and the bad boy, and he was just too decent and boring for her. Islam is right
@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfshe’ll realize she lost someone good after all is said and done, “kill them with kindness”, knowing you lost a good person that would’ve loved you no matter what and never crossed you is a slow burn to live with. Regret will settle in. He’s still the winner here.
@@Dontrolling YOU ARE NAIVE. she will not realize anything, she will consider herself to be the victim. and the cycle will repeat. I have been with this kind of woman before, but played it right and got out. I know it first hand. they will never admit they have a problem
People, don’t hop into marriage right away. It usually takes at least two years to really get to know a person. I wish Jake the best. Hope he listens to everyone’s great advice.
Consult an attorney and 2nd, get a paternity test on the child. the fact that she's about to bail and the kids only a year and a half, makes me feel that she's feeling some intense emotional "guilt" over something.
Well when she has a steady baby payment coming in through child support. She can actually go back to the dude that knocked her up. Seriously there should be mandatory double or triple paternity test at the birth of every child. And you could solve a lot of these problems if dudes just got vasectomies as early as possible. Then just get it reversed if you really want to have kids. Poverty could be ended outright if we just stop letting women have control over the issue.
@@LightskinKing33 interesting question. But you shouldn't think so Myopically. Why should I limit myself to just one person's line of thought?? With a multitude of people. There's a multitude of positions to observe. You call it spamming because it offends you.. nobody's forcing you to interact. In fact. Your name is background guy.. and yet you seem to be interested in taking the stage. 🤔 Hmmm isn't that interesting. 😏
If she's talking to someone now, what makes you think she wasn't talking to someone 2 years ago before your child was born? Did you get your child DNA tested?
No one cares about Love anymore it's all about interest.someone said the first is for love the second is for convenience and the third is for companion
She wants to stay until she finds "The One!" (or the next one) while living rent-free. She is going to leave and may or may not take the child with her. She may take the child to get the money.
my message to this guy you got your whole life ahead of you and you deserve someone that wont treat you like this and there is plenty of fish in the sea. i kinda know how this guy feels , i never had a girlfriend and at a point in time i finally got a girlfriend , and i liked it , i would of done anything at the time to hang to that nice feeling i had , even possibly gone for something like this nonsense .
Bro hug, friend. Been there 2x - because of $, we tried to live under the same roof for a few months. It was a disaster - too many emotions and much harder to heal and move on. Time for someone to go for sure. Stay strong, friend!
@@blacksilverchair3315 why even once? Neither did we any good and sent me back financially 5 years each at least. I really don’t know why Dave and co. preach marriage so hard, given the divorce rate. Seen it time and time again, people’s greatest $ setback is from marriage and/or divorce.
Dave, Why was your advice not, "First , get a good Lawyer! Find out what your options really are." My Son just went through a difficult divorce. The best thing he did was to get a good lawyer. He actually got joint custody of his children.
@@Kyubi888Naruto Now days things get absurd. My sone was kicked out of the house by a woman who threatened to kill him. It wasn't until he met with the lawyer that he found out that she had no right to do that. From the beginning it was one threat after another. Having the lawyer to fight for him made all of the differernce.
I had to deal with almost the exact same situation! She started "staying the night at her mother's house," meaning she was already seeing someone else. I told her on the second weekend that this was unacceptable. She could live with me and be with me, or she could move the he*l out of my house! She showed up Sunday with a moving truck. Turns out she was already planning on moving.
This happened to my nephew. It took him years to get that lazy woman out of his home. She would not get a job. He got full custody of his twins. They are 16 now. She is living with her parents.
@@andreahoward2683 They had twin girls that the mom basically ignored but they still love their mom. She gets them for visitation. She isn't bad just lazy. My nephew takes them to all events for school pays for everything and is teaching them to cook, clean and now they are driving age. He is raising amazing twin girls. I will never understand any mom acting this way.
Sometimes in life bad things happen to us. Really bad things. And when they do, what you do is -- hold your head high and walk away from it with the most dignity and kindness that you can. Anger is a worthless emotion and will not help you. Be kind, hold your head high, maintain your dignity the best you can, and walk away.
I was in the same situation. He beat me just once. I wouldn't give him a chance to do it again. He wouldn't move out, so, I did. A few people offered to let me stay with them until I could get my own place. It seemed like a bad idea to me. As an adult, I knew what I had to do. It was very difficult at first, I made it on my own.
This is an unfortunate situation. There is a housing crisis in Ontario, Canada renting and owning is super expensive. She would not be able to live on her own, by working without a degree.
Ah, my bet is the marriage counselor pointed out her flaws and at that point she decided counseling wasn't working for her. No accountability for a lot women.
Man, this same thing happened to me. she hopped a plane to go see the person on the other end of the phone. I had divorce papers waiting on her when she got back.
I’ve been in this type of situation. It’s frustrating cos you feel held hostage. I’m glad Dave didn’t try to push the blame on the guy. He needs to seek an attorney advice immediately. He needs to get a DNA test on that kid asap cos the guy she’s talking to is probably the child’s father. She should move in with the new guy.
Yeah man if she’s talking to the guy in front of you she’s doing a lot with him that you don’t know. Get out of the situation and find a woman that loves what you bring to the table.
Dave is not the expert on women. You let her know that y’all can either divide stuff now and be peaceful or you can take her to court and get child support. 👍🏼 also let her know it’s a great time to sell the house😂
The husband getting child support is a tall order. The family courts are stacked against guys. Most cases where I've known the dad, unless the wife is on drugs and going to jail, the mother gets custody... that's even when she doesn't have a job or a place to live. But it is ruled this way in "the best situation for the child. "
One of his biggest downfalls is when the woman is at fault. If the roles were reversed he would be telling the woman to take him to the cleaners. Notice he isn’t telling him to do the same. Yet the next caller who is young and budgeting with his girlfriend is going to get reamed by Ramsey for doing that and not being married. This is why you choose wisely who you marry (if you get married). Dave never has answers for these calls ever but seems to have answers for everything else…
Sometimes it doesn't take two to break a relationship. Sometimes it only takes one. I also agree with the commenter who said you should get a paternity test. The time for being a nice guy is over. Protect yourself and protect your child, assuming it's really your child.
The only people who spout the it takes two to tango nonsense are the ones who refuse to dance. Self improvement is great. It can help you dance better by yourself or with a willing partner. But, it won't help anyone with partners that don't want to take responsibility or work things out.
So this young man gets to pay all the bills as his ex wife bangs other men while living comfortably. This is one of the most messed up and toxic situations I've seen on this show. Their poor little boy is in for a lifetime of therapy because he will be so confused about what healthy and good love really is. Please don't do this. Please don't damage your son.
Young man, work on yourself. You knew what to do, yet you were seeking permission from an external source. A husband must seek within and have the confidence to stand by his convictions. Women need this kind of leadership, if they can push back, they will. But women thrive with leadership. If you don’t lead her, her boss will, her male friend will, her masculine female friends will. Rise up young man, love God, love yourself, then you can truly love her. If that fails, then she didn’t love herself.
The moment another woman notices you, she will try and block her. It won't be out of love, it's out of keeping you as a resource. Until she finds another that she sees is better, you're her money bag.
I'm 52 but didn't discover the red pill until 48. All the time up to that point I was OK with my single life, but always kept in the back of my mind that I would like to be married one day. God I wish I discovered it earlier. Stay single my younger brothers! If you need encouragement just keep listening to stories like this guy and taking your red pills.
I lived in a household with divorced parents. I wouldn’t change my past for the world but man, it doesn’t work to be divorced and living together. It’s so much worse for the kids.
Everything starts with what she wants. She doesn't want to work. She doesn't want to pay for her own home. She doesn't want to stop playing pretend living in the same home. She doesn't want to think about how she could be a better wife. She sounds like my ex. She has some surprises coming in the future about how the world works when you act so entitled. Wow. And the blame shifting melodrama? No one is perfect, including her.
He can't leave, if he does and it gets to court for divorce, it will look like he abandoned his son. Same thing happened to me. You have to sell the house and both move out..
Paternity test. I think it should be mandatory in every hospital right after the labour. Take a baby, leave her a ss to survive and let her pay child support.
Very sad, He needs to proceed with the divorce filing and get legal direction to have her move out and he can direct the judge regarding what he desires financially. Regardless of what he is doing, something to cause this behavior she should not behave that way inside a marriage. So he needs to proceed.
Lol!!!!!! Exactly! Living together divorced would not be good for anyone especially the child. She wants things both ways, she wants to leave her husband but doesn’t want to create a life for herself by getting a job. Don’t do it Jake! Be normal. You can’t move on with her still living in the house.
This guy is too nice. He doesn't even blame her. Get a paternity test ASAP.
That should have happened on the day of delivery.
or earlier...
Sorry female types... We generally know who the mother is. But history has shown we can't trust you.
That's a depressing thought, but you're right. Good chance it's been going on for a while.
Paternity test should be mandatory at the birth of every child. It sounds like this chick was just baby trapping him.
Part of the reason I believe that dude should get a vasectomy as young as possible. And then get it reversed if you want to have children.
Don't be holding the bag for some chick who was a good lay Maybe a few days out of your life.
@@skeletorrocks2452 not a bad idea I could have had a lot more fun in my youth if I was fixed
true. didnt think about that
She wasnt talking to a guy "a couple days later" this has been on going for months but she kept quiet about it to have her husband as a back up while she waited to see where the new fling would lead to, the sudden "being done" is the byproduct of months of infidelity and the idea that she thinks she's found something more valuable than her current standing
Exactly what a terrible girl
She’s monkey branching.
You hit the nail right on the head
Absolutely. The decision doesn’t come first and then suddenly you have a new relationship right away. She simply stopped hiding it from him once she told him she was done and he is such a kind hearted dude to his detriment he believes that it just started. The same thing just happened to a friend of mine and similarly his wife doesn’t work and wanted to remain in their home despite the ending of things. It just sucks to see
You typed a mouthful!
Make sure the baby is yours!
Right!
Mandatory DNA testing at birth.
Exactly
Ahhhhhh! 😂🤣😂
It’s too late, if his name is on the birth certificate that’s it.
I had the same thing happen. He needs to hire a lawyer and get tough. He needs to demand the house, full custody and child support from her. She needs to get an apartment not him. The one who cheats moves out.
She will get custody and he will pay child support because that is how the court system works
No if he files first and aggressively he can win.Give her everything she wants!!!!
@@HoodedStalker that is NOT how it works. there are many men single parenting. and win custody. in fact there men getting spousal support if their wife earn more. times have changed my guy. he need to file first and get a good lawyer
@@shachede6828 Statistically men only receive child support 15% of the time. Female payments are 56% less on average than males. There are unlimited programs and resources for single mothers. Men get thrown in jail for failing to pay. Times have not changed.
She makes nothing so someone explain to me how he will win?
Sadly she wants him as the backup if it doesn't work with the new person.
Which is why he needs to hurry and divorce her. Each passing day adds up to another year that she eventually can claim in the divorce when nothing legal is on file to move to a dissolution of the marriage.
Spot on.
U are so right move her out now she will regret it later in life if they can’t work it out
She found someone else better with lots of money 💰 lol 😂 that’s why
@@happyman9113 let her live with the new fella then.
My ex-wife did this, too. She even went so far as to say she wanted to divorce me but still live together so I could support her. I yanked the rug out from under her and she lost everything. Now her side piece is stuck supporting her while she pays me child support. This guy needs to do the same.
"It's better for a child to be *from* a broken home, than *in* a broken home."
@@Astro95Media Hence there is no difference.
It sounds like somebody is still supporting her
@@Astro95Media No difference.
Good job bro 😎
Jake I hope you read all these comments. Stop being a doormat dude, get the paternity test and let her go- you deserve better. Her living situation, job situation, etc is no longer your problem. Stay strong man
@@KAT-dg6el Show me where I said walk away from the kid….yea that’s what I thought. He can have an emotional connection with the kid even if it’s not his. My issue is with her, and everyone else thinks the exact same thing. He deserves to know if the child is even his given her stellar behavior or are you gonna say it’s all his fault?
@@KAT-dg6el Four words, No Child Support Payments. He could try to keep a relationship with the child, but the sad truth is that once the money dries up mom will make sure he never sees the kid again because it isn't beneficial to her.
@@KAT-dg6el The child deserves to know who his parents truly are. Period. It isn't about the adults. In this situation, I'll be frank, one of the adults is acting like a child..she, IS narcissistic. He seems to be enabling her, and for a long time. How narcissistic is it K to think he doesn't deserve to have his own life with meaning and a good marriage?ONLY good news here is he can learn from this
Amen
How unfair to the child
She wants him to go to work all day and support her while she sleeps with Chad. This can't be real...
She 's pretty confident.
Sadly it could be. I have seen many young men get taken by women like this, especially if the man came from a "broken home" and they feel guilty about making the woman leave.
Lol this woman is out of her mind
This happens
😂 😂 😂 😂
She's making big girl decisions and getting big girl results. Dang, Rachel 👏👏👏
Best line of the call lol
Wish would get as a child and quit ruining families in mid life!
She wants to divorce you and still stay in your house and live on your dime and not live her life with dignity by earning her own income? Absolutely insane. By choosing to divorce you, she is choosing to move out, live separately, and go back to work and earn her own income!
Their house
@@aleksandrac9335 Depends whose name the house is in. She hasn’t contributed anything financially and is unskilled, uneducated, and inexperienced.
@Aleksandra c HIS house, by law she gets half. So give her the house and shell still have to get a job and pay her way until she finds another meal ticket.
@@TheWatchman48Hell no I’m not giving her the house. I’ll fight for custody of the kids since I can actually provide a house to stay in and bills being paid.
@@TheWatchman48 Don't give her anything. She buys him out.
Get a paternity test. She has already left the relationship emotionally so there's no need to physically stay together.
She wants the benefits of marriage without the marriage 😂
Bingo
Don’t most of them. You know cause men got it so easy…….
It's not even benefit of marriage, she want a daddy to cover anything for her 😂
Had a friend at work, I think he wanted to start dating, BUT
...he was divorced and his wife AND HER MOTHER still lived with him.
He said they had no place to go.
Well, he wasn't going anyplace with me either.
I think the wife should consider an exciting career in the fast food industry
lol yip
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After she tries onlyfans
First get a good lawyer, second get a paternity test. You need to be strong on this. Even if she gets half custody, you have no idea who your child will be exposed to.
Yup spend more money.
And if it's like some places in the U.S. he pays for her lawyer.
Paternity test is not a bad idea. If she is screwing around on him, who knows if that kid is really his or not.
Probability has it that the worst person the child will be exposed to is the Mother.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 lol... god you are deluded. You would never pay for your wife's lawyer in the United States.
Both of you would use your combined married assets to pay for lawyers. Half of that is hers so it can't be just your money.
@@jamisojo
It happens or I would not have said this.
I’ve been called for jury duty dealing with post divorce issues several times including
paternity by estoppel with single mothers.
You’ll be surprised what a judge and a nasty lawyer can do in a courtroom.
Because she wants the benefits of what you bring still but won’t return the benefits. LEAVE!
And they wonder why marriage is dead in the west.
Id tell her to leave. I once loved my first so much i was so blind while she was romping around while i was devistated and ruined military career. Biblically speaking.... shes done. As a fellow believer... id leave.
@@semperfi-1918 my wife and I have been together a long time, if she found another guy I'd be like okay, well let's just live together for the finances LOL
@Reese B ?
First, record, record, record.
My ex husband wanted a divorce and stay in the house. It was so incredibly painful to see him everyday interacting with kids and going thru the divorce. It lasted a month I asked him to leave. It was the first step toward healing. I wish him the best It does get better. ❤
In New Zealand you have to be separated and living apart for 2 years before you can actually apply for divorce, and I think that's a very good idea
In my state you CANNOT live together and get a divorce because the court assumes that you're cohabiting (sleeping together), and cohabiting invalidates the divorce process. Stops it cold.
@@thecurrentmomentthat is weird, and no, I don't think it is good.
It may not be as bad as I think but I don't need mommy gov't to make choices for me.
@@jamisojo well you're entitled to your opinion, but I personally think making the initiation of a divorce possible but not quick and easy is a good idea.
Maybe the time could be a bit less, but it makes sure that nobody is blindsided by a divorce that they didn't see coming, and makes sure the divorcer is committed to the decision.
Not that divorce is quick and easy, but being able to notify someone that they are being divorced by handing them some papers doesn't seem right to me
@@thecurrentmomentThe good idea would be making marriage as difficult as divorce.
Great advice from both Dave and Rachel; if she has decided to leave emotionally, there is no reason to share the same physical space.
You can tell all she was doing was baby trapping him. For the money. This is part of the reason I think you could solve a lot of these problems by just getting a vasectomy at 18. Maybe even younger.
Then if you find the right person just get it reversed.
It would effectively end all of these problems.
@@skeletorrocks2452 I tried to at 18 but the doctor denied me because he said that I was to young and he thought that I wasn’t sure enough rather or not I wanted kids.. that really ticked me off
But yet you can change genders before that..... it's a f**ked up world
@@paulobrien3764 You know you can save a lot of money on your auto insurance. If you just change your gender to female on your birth certificate. And you can get preferential treatment and hiring.
You just tell them that you're a transgender lesbian.. Masculine Representing.
Might even help if you tell him you're trans black. But only 1980s black woman. And that your pronouns are God or deity or just people groveling.. you know cuz trans Diddy as well.
Side note. When you're dealing with progressives.. it really helps if you learn how to out crazy them.
Tactics of war and survival.
@@skeletorrocks2452 thanks for the tips.
The way the world is going it's getting harder to out crazy crazy by the day. Been normal is no longer normal 🤔
In other words the wife wants wife privilege of being a stay at home mom and have her husband take care of her but she doesn’t want him . Wow . Unbelievable
Similar mind set to my ex when i was in the military. Wife wanted to move back home with her friends bc she was so unhappy with me but conveniently wanted to stay married. Told her i wouldn't keep her and our kid there unhappy for 2 more years but we were getting divorced b4 she moved states to protect my parental rights.
Sick woman!
and have intim*** with other man...
Don’t let her use you! There are plenty of no skill jobs available and even no skill remote work jobs that she can do to make ends meet. If she’s choosing to be a single parent let her! Staying “together” for the sake of the child is never healthy. Kids know!!!
Agreed.
She’s acting like a child. She should go back and live with her parents.
Dave is spot on.
Dude.. get some papers served. She can figure it out on her own. She made this decision. 🤨 She wants to be taken care of while she lives her fantasy while also dishonoring her spouse/ex. Gross.
Sell the house and have fun. Don’t chase those who abandon you. Lesson learned going forward
She is talking to someone else, she has probably cheated. I'd even get a paternity test on that kid.
I thought the same
why? What will that do?
@@aolvaar8792 How about making sure he does not raise the child of another guy his wife cheated with and then left him while attempting to live in the same house and use his resources....
Yeah better check its your kid.
@@blaaskat The LAW says that a child born into a marriage is the husband's child.
Child support will be paid.
So, you can feel bad about sending child support to someone else's child.
@@aolvaar8792
Not true.
First rule: Get a proper attorney.
Here are the FACTS based on the LAW:
If you have enough reason to suspect that your wife is pregnant with a child who isn’t yours, an attorney can help you establish your grounds for adultery.
When it comes to proving this, you have a few options:
You have a paternity test with an accuracy of at least 98 percent
Proof of cohabitation, adultery, and enough circumstantial evidence to support your claim
IF you divorce your wife on the grounds of adultery, the same will be mentioned in the final divorce order. The court will usually NOT impose permanent alimony in the event of a finding of adultery. MOREOVER, if your wife is pregnant with someone else’s child, the court may not impose child support depending on the circumstances and whether you are able to establish that you are not the father.
I’ve never been married and don’t have kids but I cannot even fathom reconciliation after someone tells me they don’t love me and is pillow talking on the phone late night in a house I pay for. How can you walk all of that back? Can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube, honey. I’m out ✌️
“I’ve never been married and I don’t have kids”
@@dannyk1980 that’s what I said yeah
Once a woman disrespects you she is done with the relationship.
@@BlowitAllUp it really depends on the context. If it's early in a relationship like this guy, he is in trouble and I feel bad for him because now there was a kid in the picture he will always have to fight for or pay for one way or the other. But as for me and my wife, we've been together almost 30 years so it's different.
@@kbanghart The time frame doesn't really matter. Women need to respect their man in order to love him. If your wife of 30 years treats you like trash and still stays with you, it's because she knows she's has no better option due to her age.
Dang she wants him to take care of her financially, while another guy takes care of her "physically". NO WAYJOSE! 🤦🤦
You know she's hot too.
@@FortuneSeek3rz And that's probably why he married her and overlooked her character. I don’t have any sympathy for men like that. It's their own fault.
@@ranip7644 While I suspect you are correct, I would like to remind the audience that there are many, many people out there who have character issues and aren't the least bit attractive.
I feel awful for this guy. Divorce laws in Canada are like in California. He has no chance. She will leave him for another man because she’s bored and lost the “tingles”, take the house, take the kid, and half of everything. Men be VERY CAREFUL on who you choose to marry!!!!
Truth, even better strategy is to not play a rigged game ( i.e do not get married)
dont marry anyone,what is the point ?
I agree! I’m 27, I’ve been engaged twice and I have a new girlfriend and I will never get married or engaged ever again. it hurts too much h when you break up
People need to do one better and be more careful in who they have intercourse with. Having a child with a bad partner can be just as destructive.
Bro, this is why so many men don’t want to get married or at least have a hesitation. It’s women like this and the marriage laws!
She's busy talking to other men so she has a place to go next in case you do make her leave. Get a lawyer asap and protect your child. He doesn't need to be with a mom who's house hopping, man hopping and unstable. Be prepared to stand strong when she comes back later wanting you back because she realized the grass isn't greener.
Your username got a chuckle out of me.
First, he needs to find out if that child is his or not.
This was the advice I expected Dave to give. You know, actual financial advice! It always has to come down to the indoctrination that working on a marriage is first priority, even if it’s obviously toxic. The poor guy didn’t get any info to actually help him protect himself.
Exactly! where are you from Tennile? I will like us to be friends?
Dude, you’re way too nice. She’s got to go. Ever heard of narcissistic personality disorder? It’s living in your house! Get rid of it!
Glad you said it. I read the comments before posting. I hope this young man will recover and continue to reach for the marriage he deserves!
She's keeping her foot on first base while preparing to steal second base. Most likely she won't leave until she has landed what she thinks is a better deal. Go ahead and file for divorce and give her an incentive to go ahead and leave the house.
You can’t make someone love you. It’s all right to let them go.
Sounds to me like she wants to stay home for you to financial take care of her. Do not do this.
Also a couple days later she was talking to someone else? Sorry man but this has been going on awhile.
Agree, for her to be cool and confident enough to be talking to someone new in the house that was yours together merely days after y'all called it quits...It was already going on, its just in the open now.
I so want to share this with a family member. GET OUT OF THAT MESS!!!!
When a woman disrespects you in any way, she is done with the relationship.
Don't take disrespect. From anyone.
What I love about this show is Dave is very honest and not afraid to tell the callers the truth. Poor guy he doesn't realize she wants the house and bring her lover in later. She knows what she wants take everything he's got and played him. Unfortunately he's too naive. He needs to get a lawyer and get her out ASAP. Where she's going live, how she's going to support herself it's NO LONGER Jake's responsibility.
You need to file for divorce and petition custody. I went through a divorce at 24 and my wife wanted to do the same thing. Luckily we didn't have a kid involved, but there's no way you can properly grieve or move on when the person who did/is doing this is living in the room next door.
This is why I say that every man as young as safely possible should get a vasectomy. You can always reverse it later when they want to have children.
But that would effectively alleviate the woman from having to take a bunch of birth control chemicals.
Plus dude wouldn't be getting baby trapped.
Side note. At the birth of every child there should be a paternity test. Maybe two or three paternity test.
Get rid of the welfare and social security as well.. and watch how quickly people start solving their own problems.
There has to be more incentives to keep something working together versus tearing it apart.
America's currently a tear it apart disposable relationship country.
Anyhow you have a great day.
Imagine when she brings Phone Chad over for some late night action in the guest room? what is she even thinking? I have heard of postpartum depression but not post partum stupidity.
From someone who stayed too long trying to make work because of kids, don't do it!! Leave and get life together and move on and don't look back no matter what. Be a good father and do your responsibilities but take care of you. Once a woman leaves emotionally and entertaining others it's done. She may regret later cause in tough time but don't take back. I see people playing ping pong back and forth with ex and not ok and crazy and destructive.
Right? Mine checked out so long before I actually filed. Just meant I had to pay his lazy unemployed a$& more of my hard earned money. File and move on dude, pronto.
Sounds like she got bored and wants to live out her fun years. But wants to continue to receive the benefits of a stable relationship and raise her child, on your dime. I guarantee this has been happening for a bit and she has likely physically cheated on him.
Sounds like she might want to go out with other guys and still have him available to watch their son. I know, pretty creepy.
Get a lawyer and get her out of that house immediately within the next 30 days.
Yup, I think she tried someone else. Her new boyfriend is probably not that nice, won’t be treating her well , has a bad boy vibe, can easily dominate her. And she is hooked because she is neurotic, she gets bored where there is no intense drama.
@@Primitive_Code I agree she 100% got smashed by the other dude
@@tjmcavoy-jensen871 along with several other dudes.
He’s too nice. He needs to start standing up for himself, get a paternity test, and reality check her
Time to man up!
Poor guy, sounds like a very well balanced, decent young man without malice. If it is his child, at least the baby has him as a father. A good example of how to be regardless of how much unfair pain comes your way. Someone start a fund for this guy.
"sounds like a very well balanced, decent young man" - and thats what his mistake was. Some women like drama and the bad boy, and he was just too decent and boring for her. Islam is right
@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfshe’ll realize she lost someone good after all is said and done, “kill them with kindness”, knowing you lost a good person that would’ve loved you no matter what and never crossed you is a slow burn to live with. Regret will settle in. He’s still the winner here.
@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfthe true loser in all of this is the child
@@Dontrolling YOU ARE NAIVE. she will not realize anything, she will consider herself to be the victim. and the cycle will repeat. I have been with this kind of woman before, but played it right and got out. I know it first hand. they will never admit they have a problem
She wants all the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities...lay down the law...move out!
I see a dad proud of his daughter for her right wisdom.
People, don’t hop into marriage right away. It usually takes at least two years to really get to know a person. I wish Jake the best. Hope he listens to everyone’s great advice.
Consult an attorney and 2nd, get a paternity test on the child. the fact that she's about to bail and the kids only a year and a half, makes me feel that she's feeling some intense emotional "guilt" over something.
Well when she has a steady baby payment coming in through child support. She can actually go back to the dude that knocked her up.
Seriously there should be mandatory double or triple paternity test at the birth of every child.
And you could solve a lot of these problems if dudes just got vasectomies as early as possible.
Then just get it reversed if you really want to have kids.
Poverty could be ended outright if we just stop letting women have control over the issue.
@@skeletorrocks2452 what’s wrong with you? Lol. Keep spamming the same thing over and over in all the comments.
@@LightskinKing33 interesting question. But you shouldn't think so Myopically. Why should I limit myself to just one person's line of thought?? With a multitude of people. There's a multitude of positions to observe.
You call it spamming because it offends you.. nobody's forcing you to interact.
In fact.
Your name is background guy.. and yet you seem to be interested in taking the stage. 🤔
Hmmm isn't that interesting. 😏
Been there Jake .. this is a blessing in disguise my man!! Praying for you brother
They obviously can't afford to split up. This isn't going to end well.
SHE can't afford to split up. He can. Hence why she is refusing to go.
He will let his ex wife partner move in
💯
He can because he’s supporting her cause she don’t even work
@@mirabella2154hopefully she’s kicked out
If she's talking to someone now, what makes you think she wasn't talking to someone 2 years ago before your child was born? Did you get your child DNA tested?
You have control here don't forget. Dave's response is correct, good luck. (you're not mean Dave, he needs truth)
No one cares about Love anymore it's all about interest.someone said the first is for love the second is for convenience and the third is for companion
She wants to stay until she finds "The One!" (or the next one) while living rent-free. She is going to leave and may or may not take the child with her. She may take the child to get the money.
She should move back in with her parents since she’s still a child
I’m 24 years old I just got done dealing with the same situation luckily my baby is a fur baby
You mean a pet. It's a pet. You didn't make it ha
Have a real human one and you might learn to respect why the distinction matters.
No fur-baby daddy drama ❤
my message to this guy you got your whole life ahead of you and you deserve someone that wont treat you like this and there is plenty of fish in the sea. i kinda know how this guy feels , i never had a girlfriend and at a point in time i finally got a girlfriend , and i liked it , i would of done anything at the time to hang to that nice feeling i had , even possibly gone for something like this nonsense .
Bro hug, friend. Been there 2x - because of $, we tried to live under the same roof for a few months. It was a disaster - too many emotions and much harder to heal and move on. Time for someone to go for sure. Stay strong, friend!
You got married twice? Once wasn't enough?
@@blacksilverchair3315 bro 😎 i have no explanation. I have no idea what I was thinking round 2. That was 15 years ago. Never again!!
@@DJ_Patent Well, sounds like you're wiser now. Marriage is something you should at MOST do only once as a man. Never twice.
@@blacksilverchair3315 why even once? Neither did we any good and sent me back financially 5 years each at least. I really don’t know why Dave and co. preach marriage so hard, given the divorce rate. Seen it time and time again, people’s greatest $ setback is from marriage and/or divorce.
@@DJ_Patent very true. If you can avoid it, avoid it. Dave teaches it because it is a Christian religious practice.
Dave, Why was your advice not, "First , get a good Lawyer! Find out what your options really are." My Son just went through a difficult divorce. The best thing he did was to get a good lawyer. He actually got joint custody of his children.
I actually think he was just surprised by how absurd the question and situation was.
@@Kyubi888Naruto Now days things get absurd. My sone was kicked out of the house by a woman who threatened to kill him. It wasn't until he met with the lawyer that he found out that she had no right to do that. From the beginning it was one threat after another. Having the lawyer to fight for him made all of the differernce.
@@Kyubi888Naruto yeah it wasn't a financial question at all, but should have been.
@@kathleennile7611 I'm happy your son was able to successfully navigate that situation.
@@Kyubi888Naruto Thank you.
I had to deal with almost the exact same situation! She started "staying the night at her mother's house," meaning she was already seeing someone else. I told her on the second weekend that this was unacceptable. She could live with me and be with me, or she could move the he*l out of my house! She showed up Sunday with a moving truck. Turns out she was already planning on moving.
Do not leave that house. She made the decision to step out. She can do it literally.
This happened to my nephew. It took him years to get that lazy woman out of his home. She would not get a job. He got full custody of his twins. They are 16 now. She is living with her parents.
How is that going for her and him now? Asking for a friend
@@andreahoward2683 They had twin girls that the mom basically ignored but they still love their mom. She gets them for visitation. She isn't bad just lazy. My nephew takes them to all events for school pays for everything and is teaching them to cook, clean and now they are driving age. He is raising amazing twin girls. I will never understand any mom acting this way.
BTW they all ran around in groups after work. He was drinking and she trapped him. He was dumb but has lovely twin girls.
Sometimes in life bad things happen to us. Really bad things. And when they do, what you do is -- hold your head high and walk away from it with the most dignity and kindness that you can. Anger is a worthless emotion and will not help you. Be kind, hold your head high, maintain your dignity the best you can, and walk away.
She clearly didn’t think this through, my guess is she ends up moving back in with her parents
No! she will divorce and get half because she does not work.
@@Austenfan177 Jupppppppp😂
She DID actually think this through, she knows the guy is a sucker and will do anything for her anyways.
@@Austenfan177 Yep. With another baby to anchor the guy in more and ensure some more child support money.
"You can't turn a hoe into a housewife" -2pac Shakur 1996
I was in the same situation. He beat me just once. I wouldn't give him a chance to do it again. He wouldn't move out, so, I did. A few people offered to let me stay with them until I could get my own place.
It seemed like a bad idea to me. As an adult, I knew what I had to do. It was very difficult at first, I made it on my own.
This is an unfortunate situation. There is a housing crisis in Ontario, Canada renting and owning is super expensive. She would not be able to live on her own, by working without a degree.
Jake, I’ve been there. Leave while the door is still open. This is a blessing in disguise. Run and don’t look back. You deserve better.
Ah, my bet is the marriage counselor pointed out her flaws and at that point she decided counseling wasn't working for her. No accountability for a lot women.
He should get a paternity test immediately!
Man, this same thing happened to me. she hopped a plane to go see the person on the other end of the phone. I had divorce papers waiting on her when she got back.
I’ve been in this type of situation. It’s frustrating cos you feel held hostage. I’m glad Dave didn’t try to push the blame on the guy. He needs to seek an attorney advice immediately. He needs to get a DNA test on that kid asap cos the guy she’s talking to is probably the child’s father. She should move in with the new guy.
Yeah man if she’s talking to the guy in front of you she’s doing a lot with him that you don’t know. Get out of the situation and find a woman that loves what you bring to the table.
Dave is not the expert on women. You let her know that y’all can either divide stuff now and be peaceful or you can take her to court and get child support. 👍🏼 also let her know it’s a great time to sell the house😂
The husband getting child support is a tall order. The family courts are stacked against guys. Most cases where I've known the dad, unless the wife is on drugs and going to jail, the mother gets custody... that's even when she doesn't have a job or a place to live. But it is ruled this way in "the best situation for the child. "
One of his biggest downfalls is when the woman is at fault. If the roles were reversed he would be telling the woman to take him to the cleaners. Notice he isn’t telling him to do the same. Yet the next caller who is young and budgeting with his girlfriend is going to get reamed by Ramsey for doing that and not being married. This is why you choose wisely who you marry (if you get married). Dave never has answers for these calls ever but seems to have answers for everything else…
@@daelkolwitz3509 I know but it’s a battle she doesn’t want.
Watch the film War of The Roses. Michael Douglas , Danny Devito, Kathleen Turner. Watch that BEFORE getting married
Sometimes it doesn't take two to break a relationship. Sometimes it only takes one. I also agree with the commenter who said you should get a paternity test.
The time for being a nice guy is over. Protect yourself and protect your child, assuming it's really your child.
The only people who spout the it takes two to tango nonsense are the ones who refuse to dance. Self improvement is great. It can help you dance better by yourself or with a willing partner. But, it won't help anyone with partners that don't want to take responsibility or work things out.
Get out. Lawyer up and be strong and play hard ball. You deserve SOOO much.
"She's making big girl decisions and now she's about to get some big girl results" Absolutely!
So this young man gets to pay all the bills as his ex wife bangs other men while living comfortably. This is one of the most messed up and toxic situations I've seen on this show. Their poor little boy is in for a lifetime of therapy because he will be so confused about what healthy and good love really is. Please don't do this. Please don't damage your son.
Young man, work on yourself. You knew what to do, yet you were seeking permission from an external source. A husband must seek within and have the confidence to stand by his convictions. Women need this kind of leadership, if they can push back, they will. But women thrive with leadership. If you don’t lead her, her boss will, her male friend will, her masculine female friends will. Rise up young man, love God, love yourself, then you can truly love her. If that fails, then she didn’t love herself.
That only works with normal people though - not narcissists.
That's sexist. Women can't be leaders?
@@Primitive_Code absolutely they can be leaders. We’re on the context of the marital dynamic based on the biblical world view.
The moment another woman notices you, she will try and block her. It won't be out of love, it's out of keeping you as a resource. Until she finds another that she sees is better, you're her money bag.
This makes me take comfort in being single at 37 and no kids lol
Freedom
Me too, I just turned 29 and DON’T plan on getting married or having kids. I don’t want any more stress in my life.
I'm 52 but didn't discover the red pill until 48. All the time up to that point I was OK with my single life, but always kept in the back of my mind that I would like to be married one day. God I wish I discovered it earlier. Stay single my younger brothers! If you need encouragement just keep listening to stories like this guy and taking your red pills.
happy married couples don't call in, so
That’s why being single and having the occasional escort come over is cheaper than marriage😂😂😂😂😂
@@yourgooglemeister6745That’s just sad my man.
When he says "it takes two to break a relationship, I'm not blaming her on it all" and Rachael's eyes get big for a minute...
I lived in a household with divorced parents. I wouldn’t change my past for the world but man, it doesn’t work to be divorced and living together. It’s so much worse for the kids.
Not all the marriage counsels are equally good, some dont care about your marriage other than having you as their source of income.
Steps to prevent this;
1) never get married,
2) that’s it.
Everything starts with what she wants. She doesn't want to work. She doesn't want to pay for her own home. She doesn't want to stop playing pretend living in the same home. She doesn't want to think about how she could be a better wife. She sounds like my ex. She has some surprises coming in the future about how the world works when you act so entitled. Wow. And the blame shifting melodrama? No one is perfect, including her.
Since she does not work...she is getting HALF in the divorce.
Unless he acquired the home before they got married.
@@Fishoutathey are 24 and naive. They don't have anything to lose.
File for divorce. Protect yourself. You already lost her bro. Focus on building wealth and making an inheritance for your child.
He can't leave, if he does and it gets to court for divorce, it will look like he abandoned his son. Same thing happened to me. You have to sell the house and both move out..
And if they are both on the deed, they BOTH must agree to sell. Sounds like she won't agree to....hence, get a lawyer.
Sell the house and Move.
It takes two to make a marriage, but only one to break it.
My Marriage Counsellor told me it takes two to make a marriage work, but only 1 to break it.
Paternity test. I think it should be mandatory in every hospital right after the labour. Take a baby, leave her a ss to survive and let her pay child support.
Wowzer, I've seen this too many times. Takes two to tango. When a woman's done she is done.
This video is a great example of why RP content exists
Jake sounds like a great guy! Why wouldn't you want to save your marriage. I hope him and his son are doing better now.
He’s not gonna kick her out.
You cannot kick some one out of shared property. He can serve her.
Very sad, He needs to proceed with the divorce filing and get legal direction to have her move out and he can direct the judge regarding what he desires financially. Regardless of what he is doing, something to cause this behavior she should not behave that way inside a marriage. So he needs to proceed.
If she's already talking with other guys, and God knows what else......i'd be DONE! But for sure get a paternity test!
I love how Rachel calls her dad "Dave" instead of "dad". So professional, I love it :)
Absolutely not she does not get to step out of your marriage and take advantagw of you! 🙄
It takes 1 to break a relationship.
Lol!!!!!! Exactly! Living together divorced would not be good for anyone especially the child. She wants things both ways, she wants to leave her husband but doesn’t want to create a life for herself by getting a job. Don’t do it Jake! Be normal. You can’t move on with her still living in the house.
When a woman says she's done, she's done. She's been done a while