LMAOOOOOOO… I discarded mine & left him on Christmas Eve… He left to spend time with the new supply so it gave me enough time to finally WAKE UP!!! I packed my car & I took my Gifts that he bought me..He spent over 2K..I also took ALL the gifts I bought him & left like a thief in the night ..He returned home from the new supply to a empty home & a bare Christmas tree😂 He can’t believe it…he actually thought I would allow him to continue to devalue me & discard me…NOPE!!!Omg it’s hilarious to read the text of him blaming me for leaving… I WON & I’ll NEVER go back…I’m so proud of myself
Stick with it!!! The more time you are in no contact, the more you heal mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I absolutely love it!! Best regards everyone.💝💝💝
No contact in narcissism is necessary and about you healing, it isn’t about them and their hurt…They intentionally tried to hurt you so them suffering is on them
It's been nearly 5 years since I discarded the ex narc and I still get calls from random numbers.. I just block and delete them. Narcissists and exes should be one and done. No sequels, part 2's or second chances.
Anonymous cyper harassment for the last 15+ years over here. And I don't social media. I went through the anonymous phone calls too, especially during my sleeping hours. I should of changed my email address years ago but I have over 60 accounts linked to my email. Massive computer email spam I keep getting signed up for. Her going to my job and trying to get me fired was not enough. Good luck to you.
It's been almost 4 yrs since I went no contact with the narc. I, too, get calls/texts from random numbers but they go unanswered, ignored, blocked & deleted!
Going no contact not only robs them of the pleasure of inflicting "pain" on you, but it causes a "life crisis" that borders on an existential threat: it eviscerates their internal narrative -their (false) version of reality. They were expecting you to come (running and crying) back because you're "weak" and "stupid" -and yet there you are: *not* begging for forgiveness, and *walking* and *staying* away! 😵💫The only thing left for them to do -is to double down on "what an awful person you are..." They enact #ScorchedEarthPolicy -and attempt to utterly destroy your reputation, lest *the truth* be revealed. Be willing to "go 'possum" ie: gnaw your own foot off, to free yourself from the gin trap that they set for you. You have to be willing to "lose it all" to gain your freedom.
WOW 😮 I agree 💯 Their false version of reality. Hunting 🎯 isn't fun when the rabbit has the gun 🔫 🤣🤣🤣 You have to be willing to lose it all. To gain your freedom. 🙏
My narcissistic wife came to me and told me she thinks we should get a divorce. This is after giving me the silent treatment for several weeks. I didn't chase her then. When she proposed the idea of separation, I calmly said okay. I can tell by her facial expression that she wasn't expecting that. We have been estranged and in a state of alienation for months. I am planning my escape as we speak.
I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I just got married 2 months ago after being together for 3 years and he decided he doesn't want to be married anymore, discarded me and blocked me. I feel so disappointed in myself for allowing him into my life but I've filled out my divorce papers and I don't know how to serve him; he's an over the road truck driver. He actually started 1 week after we got married and left me at home for weeks on end. His reason for not wanting to be married anymore is because I asked for quality time 😢
@@SpiritualMeka I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. The best thing a narcissist can do is show you who and what they indeed are. If you ever want to talk do hesitate to reach out.
Just did it!!!!!!! No contact. Got my power back!!!!! Learned my lesson!!!! Thank you ❤! I love your videos, always on time , like sent from above! . ❤
It's easier for them to treat someone who cuts them off as deliberately attacking them than it is for them to treat such a person as just disinterested. "They couldn't be disinterested. They must be feigning disinterest to attack me. I'll attack them back."
They cant accept disinterest. It just can’t be that someone isnt interested in them. I told a narcissist this tactfully and he went on a smear campaign about how I was leading him on. Nothing could be further from the truth.
No contact clarity removes the fog of cognitive dissonance. Changes lifes desires. The awareness expands well past the relationshit narc. Thats the education you keep. 🤜🤛
My narcissist husband passed away after having a narcissist injury. Just as you say, I had nothing left to give, and he was not satisfied with that. He literally drank himself to death. No one left to lift him up. Now his narcissist mother, after 2 years no contact sends me letter in the mail. I sent it back after writing return to sender on it. You've help me understand why this woman is sending me mail. She has sent me a card once or twice in the 24 years I was married to her son. I don't have a relationship with her. she's in her 80s now and running low on supply which is why I'm sure she's contacted me. No supply here ever!
The only thing I would have done differently there is I would have thrown it in the trash. No RTS, no supply for the narc mom (oh yes, she got supply off that RTS! I promise).
Thank you for your video! Narc minds are wired differently, it is all for destruction and to turn you void of any hope. The more you focus on your self-love and building your most beautiful life as you deserve it for yourself, the more immune you will be to those dark energies. Much blessings to you xo
Right, narcs are seething with rage and envy, but lack the foresight that they are problematic for others and that their victims get tired of being used, abused, and gaslit. It's enough to drive anyone to the madhouse dealing with them. It's like narcs can't accept defeat and want power and control at all costs. It doesn't matter if they are emotionally exhausting and destructive to their victims because narcs lack empathy and believe they are always right, and others are wrong.
After a lifetime of derision and blame from certain family members, then a narcissistic hubby that coached the kid to bail on me, I went no contact radio silent. That’s when I went from “can’t do anything right” to “abusive” and “bully”. Amazing, how many people are so miserable at my building of a fine life for myself.
They discard you for someone else but steady coming watching your social media from a far 😮💨😮💨 I had to deactivate all social media and go no contact it’s been a month now ! Being hurt by a narcissist is the worst pain ever especially when you was blind to it
Don't worry, I made mine leave in April 2022, and 6 months later , I was fine.. I pray, and I watch videos on stoicism also, and I concentrate on work, family, etc.. and educated myself on narcissism and alcoholism.. (he was both),, and now after a year he came knocking on my door.. I didn't answer it.. and I feel fine.. hang in there , and stay No Contact !
3 years later... a flying monkey ( who's not related to me in any ways) 'Told me ' You know someone is really mad at you'' . Knowing that I have no beef with anyone... I just continued what I was doing without care nor giving it any attention. BOOM. Now he can be pissy with his ''entourage''. Return to sender... return to sender 🎶🎶
Add money issues. Every narcissist that I have known has had spending money issues. Living beyond their means in an attempt to impress everyone around them. Also, they usually have massive debt and want to “borrow” money with no intention of paying it back.
@@racebannon96 @racebannon96 I agree, my ex had $12,000 speed tickets let alone the rest, but that's fine considering she's a young narc, but my father whomever meets him, ends up being his creditor, I cannot estimate that but it's millions.
Leaky tap sums the narcissist up real well. Thanks Joe. Love your videos. You have such a calming voice and you talk so much sense about the narcissist. Much appreciated on my healing journey. ❤️🩹 Thank you.
New video in the morning and a cup of joe ☕☕ with Joe is my favorite thing !😊 Beautiful images of the nature and your calming voice are very therapeutic. Thank you for magic of Joe B. House ! 🤗❤
Excellent your voice does help as well married 23 years to our horrible, horrible toxic woman the first several months I didn’t even know where I was but through hard work and great therapy. It is literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me and our kids.
I just escaped my narcissistic wife 5 months ago by literally moving out of my house that I bought. I too was married to her for 23 years! I made the mistake of contacting them in person in hope that they (my wife and my brainwashed children) have changed, but only to find them even more hostile, trying to pull me back in because I am their only economic supply. It almost worked, but I got back to my senses and blocked their phones and messages. I’m still in the process of healing, but no contact is the only solution. I’ve started to see a lawyer to plan out a way out of this nightmare. It will take time I know, but I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
Thankfully ive done much better with Zero contact with my soon ex husband of 12 years...he can stay shacked up with that Jezebel Secretary from his work, i don't need his chaos
Laughable when the narcissist goes no contact with someone whom they are discarding and then the narcissist starts becoming a worse hoarder as time goes on. Some narcissists hoard weapons and furniture and properties like farms too which they fully intend to be abandoning too while that narcissist is going from bed to bed to bed only to congratulate themselves each time they get in their grip a new lover.
My ex done that i was there for 7 months then went no contact he thought i would not stop like before humiliating myself and he there abusing me with new supply now both are there left high and dry after 3 months no contact he will learn that i m not coming back no longer falling on is games i m done....
Twice now I've been threatened with a "break-up". Only I'm so numb to the constant attacks on my sanity and emotional well-being that I couldn't care less. This infuriated him so much that he started calling me a psychopath for not caring, and how could I do this to him? My natural reactions to his abuse are "spiteful" and "petty". And yes, I've noticed that when I am around these types of people I become more like them and I hate it. I hate that the most out of everything.
Gm I discarded the narcissist and filed my divorce papers many months ago I emailed him and he said things that ,I needed as proof for courts I filed my divorce decree under adultery and cruelty after .I cut off contact he has hoovered twice ,called my phone several times and now he sends mail ,I’m silent no response reply nothing I remember saying be around to sign the divorce papers I refuse to take back that toxic misreble creature or give him any energy ever again.
Thanks for reaching out. When I wrote the comment, I was discouraged that so many videos were about couples. Subsequently I have found very good ones about siblings and parents. I grew up with three narcissists, my dad, and my older brother & sister. Mainstream docs--clueless by the way. My dad died and I have gone "no contact" with siblings--
Sadly my heart still feels for these narcissistic people I loved but the hardest part is learning I can’t fix shit if I’m broken hence my sick cycle carousel great song
Good morning Joe! ☕️ Thank you 🙏. Noise. Yes. All Cluster B’s generate noise. Even when you think it is quiet… there is this constant frequency in the background no matter where you are. Sometimes you can hear the shift in tone like a singer getting off pitch to the instruments and the key they are playing in; it’s sprinkles of sour. The Cluster B also hum every waking hour of the day. This is a sign of them trying to drown out the noise in their own head. At first you think it’s cute, you join in from time to time and if you are good you harmonize the 3rd, 5th, 7th. But when you join them… they STOP! And look at you like who are you and how do you know what they are doing or much less humming? That look of fear… “you can hear what’s going on in my head?” I was once asked, “If you had to give me a nick name what would it be?” My immediate response without hesitation, White Noise! Back in the days when the television only had three channels and when the broadcast ended… the screen would phase to a fuzzy black and white screen signal lost and just that noise, white noise. 20 years is a long time to have that noise in your background. Eventually, you just turn it off and unplug the tv and set it out on the street and move out to the country. Now it’s so quiet and peaceful…I can hear crickets phuck! 😂 And now, back to my coffee. Peace ✌️
@@cherri_p Hmmm! There is no happiness inside them I assure you. It is the internal low vibrating constant frequency of the hell within them blended with white noise and static dead numb dumb conundrum bouncing in the echo chamber desperately seeking the next transmission to maintain the illusion before you without allowing their mask to fracture, split, fall, and break. On with the show they must go until they have been exposed. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
Whenever I went no contact he would always appear and hoover. This time I don't think he is coming back, after the things I told him when I left him. I told the truth, of course, what a terrible person he is. And that he shouldn't dare contact me or talk to me again!
NoContact was the best thing I had ever done. I have been No contact for 220 days! I am still working on me therapy and journaling every single day. I love my life without him! Stay strong and be safe.
Just hope others - especially their own family pull them up on all the lies - they'll run out of an audience soon enough ! I was probably lucky - just one 'ghost call' on my phone of 1 minute .... (no personal message).
My narc ex pushed me out of the door several times and then acted as if nothing happened and would be all surprised why I would just shut down and not engage in communication days after
I went no contact for years come to find out she was stalking me the whole time plotting revenge because in her delusional mind I was supposed to chase and beg that mut to come back she’s crazy you don’t chase the garbage truck to try to get your trash back
Its too bad I didn't know this before the fact. I gave him everything he was expecting. I was devastated when he discarded me because he had made me feel so worthless. I wish I could disrupt him now but its too late. He already hurt me. He won.
@@user-of9bx1uk3u I don't need therapy. I just need to make sure it doesn't happen again. It wasn't me with the problem, it was him. The problem went away as soon as he did.
He didn´t win. You won. Because you got your second chance - a more precious life without the narcissist and his toxity. In fact the discard is no loss it is a win. Just learn to love yourself! It is never a loss to lose a toxic person.
The same thing happened to me, I did nothing wrong to deserve being dumped but they will do this to the next person too so don't feel worthless because it's not anything you did wrong and they aren't going to live happily ever after with someone else like they are trying to portray, it only appears like they won but time will reveal that they lost and you won
Love your video's mate!! !My ex narc prank called me after 6 years and then sent a flying monkey with no success. They say no response is a response. My question is, does the narc get supply knowing they may have upset you even though you have stayed no contact?
Qiestion - even if the narcisist is immersed in another relationship, should i still be concerned that the no contact order is coming to an end? And he has a criminal.record now bc of me...i left THREE years ago
Possibly. At a minimum it will kick off a smear campaign. If they cannot control you then they seek to control how others see you. Any friend of theirs is to be avoided moving forward. Take care. Peace!
In my case, yes. Still being stalked by the one I discarded and went no contact nearly two years later. He’s violent and vindictive, though. Extremely unstable person.
I’ve heard all the dirt on Narcissists, can I hear some positives . A narcissist doesn’t have to have you in their life, however what would y’all do w/o a narcissist? Then who would you dig on? Get a grip people! You have a choice go or stay, it’s your life.
Actually you do need our type in your life because you can't survive without us, but guess what we really can survive without you because we are real people and your not!
@@viewerwatching5712 I’d love to hear your theory on that one! Anyone with an iota of sense knows to start an engine take a positive & a negative. If one is confident in themselves you don’t need the circus or monkeys, unless of course you like that kind of gig yourselves.
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LMAOOOOOOO… I discarded mine & left him on Christmas Eve… He left to spend time with the new supply so it gave me enough time to finally WAKE UP!!! I packed my car & I took my Gifts that he bought me..He spent over 2K..I also took ALL the gifts I bought him & left like a thief in the night ..He returned home from the new supply to a empty home & a bare Christmas tree😂 He can’t believe it…he actually thought I would allow him to continue to devalue me & discard me…NOPE!!!Omg it’s hilarious to read the text of him blaming me for leaving… I WON & I’ll NEVER go back…I’m so proud of myself
Well done, love
Omg this is how its done! I love that you left him with nothing just like he deserves. So proud of you!!! ❤
Does that mean you're single?
@@bigboss6867 lol absolutely..Thank God
How are you doing now?
Your voice is soothing the constant panic
Stick with it!!! The more time you are in no contact, the more you heal mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I absolutely love it!!
Best regards everyone.💝💝💝
No contact in narcissism is necessary and about you healing, it isn’t about them and their hurt…They intentionally tried to hurt you so them suffering is on them
Chasing a narc is the dumbest possible thing I can think of, even literal garbage is more useful to me
I must be pretty dumb then because I did.
@@jenofthejungle3023if they are mirroring and love bombing you (again) to get you back... you are probably pretty good supply 🙂
@@jenofthejungle3023 I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you've found peace now
Yes, atleast garbage can be used for compost !!!
I am ashamed of myself for having chased him for some time. Thank God, I decided to leave, having lost my self-respect first.
Think she miscalculated who i am , she mistook empathy for weakness she got me to love her then treated me so bad i dont give a shit what she does
It's been nearly 5 years since I discarded the ex narc and I still get calls from random numbers.. I just block and delete them. Narcissists and exes should be one and done. No sequels, part 2's or second chances.
Anonymous cyper harassment for the last 15+ years over here. And I don't social media. I went through the anonymous phone calls too, especially during my sleeping hours. I should of changed my email address years ago but I have over 60 accounts linked to my email. Massive computer email spam I keep getting signed up for. Her going to my job and trying to get me fired was not enough. Good luck to you.
It's been almost 4 yrs since I went no contact with the narc. I, too, get calls/texts from random numbers but they go unanswered, ignored, blocked & deleted!
I've had 2 relationships with narcissist girlfriends 1 cycle each no contact immediately after.
@@jjones4314Good!!
Same here
Going no contact not only robs them of the pleasure of inflicting "pain" on you, but it causes a "life crisis" that borders on an existential threat: it eviscerates their internal narrative -their (false) version of reality. They were expecting you to come (running and crying) back because you're "weak" and "stupid" -and yet there you are: *not* begging for forgiveness, and *walking* and *staying* away! 😵💫The only thing left for them to do -is to double down on "what an awful person you are..." They enact #ScorchedEarthPolicy -and attempt to utterly destroy your reputation, lest *the truth* be revealed. Be willing to "go 'possum" ie: gnaw your own foot off, to free yourself from the gin trap that they set for you. You have to be willing to "lose it all" to gain your freedom.
"Lose it all to gain your freedom" very interesting since my slogan is "You fight to be free or die in chains"
WOW 😮 I agree 💯
Their false version of reality. Hunting 🎯 isn't fun when the rabbit has the gun 🔫 🤣🤣🤣
You have to be willing to lose it all. To gain your freedom. 🙏
This is where I am at right now. Fixing to lose it all and walk away from home and most of possessions. No looking back t - 30 days
So true!!
Amen
In retrospect. The worse abuse of my life was a blessing in disguise. I’ve jumped up in vibration.
Your not feeding off me no more. I’m free to be me 😊💚
". . . and the noise is gone." I like that very much.
My narcissistic wife came to me and told me she thinks we should get a divorce. This is after giving me the silent treatment for several weeks. I didn't chase her then. When she proposed the idea of separation, I calmly said okay. I can tell by her facial expression that she wasn't expecting that. We have been estranged and in a state of alienation for months. I am planning my escape as we speak.
God speed brother, stay strong and keep a steady hand at the helm. Get out as soon as you can, the sooner you're gone the sooner you can move on.
Good for you, stay strong, don't fall for the I will change story, all lies!! Stay strong soldier!! Prayers to you!!
and that's how you call Narky's bluff folks...
I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I just got married 2 months ago after being together for 3 years and he decided he doesn't want to be married anymore, discarded me and blocked me. I feel so disappointed in myself for allowing him into my life but I've filled out my divorce papers and I don't know how to serve him; he's an over the road truck driver. He actually started 1 week after we got married and left me at home for weeks on end. His reason for not wanting to be married anymore is because I asked for quality time 😢
@@SpiritualMeka I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. The best thing a narcissist can do is show you who and what they indeed are. If you ever want to talk do hesitate to reach out.
20 months narc free and counting! Staying strong, it’s easy at this point.
I have grown from this. I have discovered things about my family dynamics, and what I need to be aware of in future relationships.
Just did it!!!!!!! No contact. Got my power back!!!!! Learned my lesson!!!! Thank you ❤! I love your videos, always on time , like sent from above! . ❤
Me too! Good for you.
Me too! 🎉❤
I've taken away their freedom to abuse me.
It's easier for them to treat someone who cuts them off as deliberately attacking them than it is for them to treat such a person as just disinterested. "They couldn't be disinterested. They must be feigning disinterest to attack me. I'll attack them back."
Yes. They are so ego driven and deluded! God's gift to the world.
Arseholes!!!
And dangerous
They cant accept disinterest. It just can’t be that someone isnt interested in them. I told a narcissist this tactfully and he went on a smear campaign about how I was leading him on. Nothing could be further from the truth.
You rejected Narky. That Nark should be now looking for your approval and validation. Narky isn't good enough because of your fine qualities...
4 month's and I've pretty much forgotten about this POS! I discarded him so good riddance. You have the best channel Joe. Respect from Australia 🇦🇺 🙌
No contact clarity removes the fog of cognitive dissonance. Changes lifes desires. The awareness expands well past the relationshit narc. Thats the education you keep. 🤜🤛
@@bradmcewen 100% facts!!
6 months narc free! Every day I realize how much better off I am. I thank God for opening my eyes.
My narcissist husband passed away after having a narcissist injury. Just as you say, I had nothing left to give, and he was not satisfied with that. He literally drank himself to death. No one left to lift him up.
Now his narcissist mother, after 2 years no contact sends me letter in the mail. I sent it back after writing return to sender on it. You've help me understand why this woman is sending me mail. She has sent me a card once or twice in the 24 years I was married to her son. I don't have a relationship with her. she's in her 80s now and running low on supply which is why I'm sure she's contacted me. No supply here ever!
Good for you, u took ur power back
Talk some personal responsibility for letting people see how weak you are. Post sounds fake, or you should just be a pro victim.
Yeah of course she's wanting to make you feel guilty...
The only thing I would have done differently there is I would have thrown it in the trash. No RTS, no supply for the narc mom (oh yes, she got supply off that RTS! I promise).
Thank you for your video! Narc minds are wired differently, it is all for destruction and to turn you void of any hope. The more you focus on your self-love and building your most beautiful life as you deserve it for yourself, the more immune you will be to those dark energies. Much blessings to you xo
Right, narcs are seething with rage and envy, but lack the foresight that they are problematic for others and that their victims get tired of being used, abused, and gaslit. It's enough to drive anyone to the madhouse dealing with them. It's like narcs can't accept defeat and want power and control at all costs. It doesn't matter if they are emotionally exhausting and destructive to their victims because narcs lack empathy and believe they are always right, and others are wrong.
One of the best channels on narcissists
After a lifetime of derision and blame from certain family members, then a narcissistic hubby that coached the kid to bail on me, I went no contact radio silent.
That’s when I went from “can’t do anything right” to “abusive” and “bully”.
Amazing, how many people are so miserable at my building of a fine life for myself.
They discard you for someone else but steady coming watching your social media from a far 😮💨😮💨 I had to deactivate all social media and go no contact it’s been a month now ! Being hurt by a narcissist is the worst pain ever especially when you was blind to it
Don't worry, I made mine leave in April 2022, and 6 months later , I was fine.. I pray, and I watch videos on stoicism also, and I concentrate on work, family, etc.. and educated myself on narcissism and alcoholism.. (he was both),, and now after a year he came knocking on my door.. I didn't answer it.. and I feel fine.. hang in there , and stay No Contact !
Exactly-interrupt the lies they tell themselves.
3 years later... a flying monkey ( who's not related to me in any ways) 'Told me ' You know someone is really mad at you'' . Knowing that I have no beef with anyone... I just continued what I was doing without care nor giving it any attention. BOOM. Now he can be pissy with his ''entourage''. Return to sender... return to sender 🎶🎶
All what narcs think of is Food & Sex. They consider nothing else seriously, and no body should do anything but these two with a narcissist
Also 💰
Don’t forget the drugs
Add money issues. Every narcissist that I have known has had spending money issues. Living beyond their means in an attempt to impress everyone around them. Also, they usually have massive debt and want to “borrow” money with no intention of paying it back.
@@racebannon96 @racebannon96 I agree, my ex had $12,000 speed tickets let alone the rest, but that's fine considering she's a young narc, but my father whomever meets him, ends up being his creditor, I cannot estimate that but it's millions.
Don’t forget money and material possessions of all kinds.
Leaky tap sums the narcissist up real well. Thanks Joe. Love your videos. You have such a calming voice and you talk so much sense about the narcissist. Much appreciated on my healing journey. ❤️🩹 Thank you.
Thank you youtube, can’t imagine how hard the old generation would have suffered
It was the most freeing thing I ever did for myself.😊
your voice is so calming.
New video in the morning and a cup of joe ☕☕ with Joe is my favorite thing !😊 Beautiful images of the nature and your calming voice are very therapeutic. Thank you for magic of Joe B. House ! 🤗❤
No more leaky tap for me!
He really was such a drip 😂
I like this… the voice is calming too
I’m love’n the pint of beer analogy! 😂
Excellent your voice does help as well married 23 years to our horrible, horrible toxic woman the first several months I didn’t even know where I was but through hard work and great therapy. It is literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me and our kids.
I just escaped my narcissistic wife 5 months ago by literally moving out of my house that I bought. I too was married to her for 23 years! I made the mistake of contacting them in person in hope that they (my wife and my brainwashed children) have changed, but only to find them even more hostile, trying to pull me back in because I am their only economic supply. It almost worked, but I got back to my senses and blocked their phones and messages. I’m still in the process of healing, but no contact is the only solution. I’ve started to see a lawyer to plan out a way out of this nightmare. It will take time I know, but I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
Even thinking that way is evil.
Thankfully ive done much better with Zero contact with my soon ex husband of 12 years...he can stay shacked up with that Jezebel Secretary from his work, i don't need his chaos
Laughable when the narcissist goes no contact with someone whom they are discarding and then the narcissist starts becoming a worse hoarder as time goes on. Some narcissists hoard weapons and furniture and properties like farms too which they fully intend to be abandoning too while that narcissist is going from bed to bed to bed only to congratulate themselves each time they get in their grip a new lover.
My ex done that i was there for 7 months then went no contact he thought i would not stop like before humiliating myself and he there abusing me with new supply now both are there left high and dry after 3 months no contact he will learn that i m not coming back no longer falling on is games i m done....
My Story, always, all the time. That door is closed and the tables are turned and they will se who I am.
Twice now I've been threatened with a "break-up". Only I'm so numb to the constant attacks on my sanity and emotional well-being that I couldn't care less. This infuriated him so much that he started calling me a psychopath for not caring, and how could I do this to him? My natural reactions to his abuse are "spiteful" and "petty". And yes, I've noticed that when I am around these types of people I become more like them and I hate it. I hate that the most out of everything.
Gm I discarded the narcissist and filed my divorce papers many months ago I emailed him and he said things that ,I needed as proof for courts I filed my divorce decree under adultery and cruelty after .I cut off contact he has hoovered twice ,called my phone several times and now he sends mail ,I’m silent no response reply nothing I remember saying be around to sign the divorce papers I refuse to take back that toxic misreble creature or give him any energy ever again.
Thanks for reaching out. When I wrote the comment, I was discouraged that so many videos were about couples. Subsequently I have found very good ones about siblings and parents. I grew up with three narcissists, my dad, and my older brother & sister. Mainstream docs--clueless by the way. My dad died and I have gone "no contact" with siblings--
Sadly my heart still feels for these narcissistic people I loved but the hardest part is learning I can’t fix shit if I’m broken hence my sick cycle carousel great song
Good morning Joe! ☕️
Thank you 🙏.
Noise. Yes. All Cluster B’s generate noise. Even when you think it is quiet… there is this constant frequency in the background no matter where you are. Sometimes you can hear the shift in tone like a singer getting off pitch to the instruments and the key they are playing in; it’s sprinkles of sour. The Cluster B also hum every waking hour of the day. This is a sign of them trying to drown out the noise in their own head. At first you think it’s cute, you join in from time to time and if you are good you harmonize the 3rd, 5th, 7th. But when you join them… they STOP! And look at you like who are you and how do you know what they are doing or much less humming? That look of fear… “you can hear what’s going on in my head?”
I was once asked, “If you had to give me a nick name what would it be?” My immediate response without hesitation, White Noise!
Back in the days when the television only had three channels and when the broadcast ended… the screen would phase to a fuzzy black and white screen signal lost and just that noise, white noise. 20 years is a long time to have that noise in your background. Eventually, you just turn it off and unplug the tv and set it out on the street and move out to the country. Now it’s so quiet and peaceful…I can hear crickets phuck! 😂 And now, back to my coffee. Peace ✌️
very nice writing style and good points
@@shadowyshutterbug thank you 🙏. Much appreciated.
Nailed it. Mine whistled. Now I know why!
OMG, never thought about that whistling, humming he does all the time. Almost like happy while mulls around. Happy that he thinks he is destroying me.
@@cherri_p Hmmm! There is no happiness inside them I assure you. It is the internal low vibrating constant frequency of the hell within them blended with white noise and static dead numb dumb conundrum bouncing in the echo chamber desperately seeking the next transmission to maintain the illusion before you without allowing their mask to fracture, split, fall, and break. On with the show they must go until they have been exposed. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
Well presented common sense video presentation. Thank you
Whenever I went no contact he would always appear and hoover.
This time I don't think he is coming back, after the things I told him when I left him. I told the truth, of course, what a terrible person he is. And that he shouldn't dare contact me or talk to me again!
ive been going no contact for 4 years but he stills tried to get my attention with harassment such as pizza deliveries. annoying but im moving soon!
NoContact was the best thing I had ever done. I have been No contact for 220 days! I am still working on me therapy and journaling every single day. I love my life without him! Stay strong and be safe.
I always wondered how dandelions did that lol. You are absolutely correct! Great video!
Definitely can't spend the block twice ✌🏿
Great narration cadance dude, makes me want to listen to you tell an audio book
No Contact is Your Super Power & The Narc continues to Lurk in the Shadows 😂
Just hope others - especially their own family pull them up on all the lies - they'll run out of an audience soon enough ! I was probably lucky - just one 'ghost call' on my phone of 1 minute .... (no personal message).
Thanks for another great video!
Thanks Joe! Love your videos!
My narc ex pushed me out of the door several times and then acted as if nothing happened and would be all surprised why I would just shut down and not engage in communication days after
It has been working for me ever since I started it.😅🎉🎉🎉🎉
I went no contact for years come to find out she was stalking me the whole time plotting revenge because in her delusional mind I was supposed to chase and beg that mut to come back she’s crazy you don’t chase the garbage truck to try to get your trash back
Narcs constantly need fuel whether is negative or positive feedback from others
Ignoring them cuts them off from fuel sources
One size does not fit all❤❤
Lol, sad that we don’t have them. I was sad AF with them lol
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Its too bad I didn't know this before the fact. I gave him everything he was expecting. I was devastated when he discarded me because he had made me feel so worthless. I wish I could disrupt him now but its too late. He already hurt me. He won.
One word therapy!❤️
@@user-of9bx1uk3u I don't need therapy. I just need to make sure it doesn't happen again. It wasn't me with the problem, it was him. The problem went away as soon as he did.
Anytime you get away from a narcissist it is a win for you.... No matter if you were discarded or you did the discarding!
He didn´t win. You won. Because you got your second chance - a more precious life without the narcissist and his toxity. In fact the discard is no loss it is a win. Just learn to love yourself! It is never a loss to lose a toxic person.
The same thing happened to me, I did nothing wrong to deserve being dumped but they will do this to the next person too so don't feel worthless because it's not anything you did wrong and they aren't going to live happily ever after with someone else like they are trying to portray, it only appears like they won but time will reveal that they lost and you won
Love your video's mate!! !My ex narc prank called me after 6 years and then sent a flying monkey with no success. They say no response is a response. My question is, does the narc get supply knowing they may have upset you even though you have stayed no contact?
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Qiestion - even if the narcisist is immersed in another relationship, should i still be concerned that the no contact order is coming to an end? And he has a criminal.record now bc of me...i left THREE years ago
Always be on your toes. When they're bored they'll search you out, you and all the others.
True.
Well said, good work
Will this make them rageful and want to seek vengeance?
Sometimes yes
Anything can set them off. They are vindictive and hateful creatures.
Possibly. At a minimum it will kick off a smear campaign. If they cannot control you then they seek to control how others see you. Any friend of theirs is to be avoided moving forward.
Take care. Peace!
Depends on what TYPE of narcissist they are.
In my case, yes. Still being stalked by the one I discarded and went no contact nearly two years later. He’s violent and vindictive, though. Extremely unstable person.
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Unless they monkey branched to new supply... they couldn't care less about you.
why always romantic context --????
Take it one layer deeper folks.
Everyone is a narcissist 😉
I’ve heard all the dirt on Narcissists, can I hear some positives . A narcissist doesn’t have to have you in their life, however what would y’all do w/o a narcissist? Then who would you dig on? Get a grip people! You have a choice go or stay, it’s your life.
There is nothing positive about demons or Satan, clown!
Actually you do need our type in your life because you can't survive without us, but guess what we really can survive without you because we are real people and your not!
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I’d love to hear your theory on that one! Anyone with an iota of sense knows to start an engine take a positive & a negative. If one is confident in themselves you don’t need the circus or monkeys, unless of course you like that kind of gig yourselves.
@@lindacampbell1808 no supply here devil!
@@viewerwatching5712You’re replying to a lost narcissist 😂
Bro/ette really looking into the mirror and doubling down on it 😂😂
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