1. Be a challenge for a man (being the type of woman who knows her worth) 2. Speak to the King in him 3. Always provide consequences 4. Maintain your desirability 5. Let him be free to love you without paying a price for it
just an open question how does this principle work after several years of practicing the same and not getting the result. I have a female best friend very very very gorgeous, like men line up to talk to her when she goes out, and she is very friendly BUT a challenge to get I to this day wonder how such a gorgeous, down to earth lady cannot find someone to settle down with (I presume thats the goal and dating count) Is this just a make feel good principle or does it really work and to what goal
Once your “got” then what? If that’s how a grown man thinks he will grow bored of the prettiest, talented, nicest woman. I see a NO win for us as this type of man is a JERK
Absolutely my love. I’d been preaching ‘leave’ him principle all my young life. Will never understand how come some women make breaking up seem like the end of the world. A man behaves badly, breakup with him and do it immediately. Nothing shatters the ego of a grown boy faster than being able to put him in your rear view mirror without complaining, nagging or begging and keep it pushing Forces him to get his act together real quick or else this goin keep happenin
You are absolutely correct K Samuel’s tears black women down and intentionally humiliates them This man is coming from a spiritual perspective to build you back up
My Father showed me a good man by his actions! He was a man of integrity & Old school is the truth.The new age have gotten away from the old ways and that’s the disconnect.Thanks pastor for your continuous wisdom and confirmations!
As a Muslim woman, this is something we are taught naturally from a young age. that's why we don't invest our teens in boys or trying to attain boyfriends. We strive for marriage, and that's the framework that a man has to work within to attain a woman. to show serious intentions for commitment, and seeks her parents' approval. We need our parents' blessings not because we are oppressed or controlled, but because we are valuable to our parents (at least I am to my parents), and parents should not let just anyone have their daughter.
@@descendedelevation8659 I agree absolutely but due to this broken world the enemy is always at work so discernment is crucial because people can appear to be a vessel of light when in fact its just a wicked game that is put together very nicely in the beginning .
If he acts like he does not have time for you, always in a rush for someone or something more important, does not prioritize you(take his hint), does not return the effort, DROP HIM QUICK. You deserve better that God has for you:) Make room for that:):)
Thanks for the words of wisdom. I needed this for my daughter as well as myself. It's difficult to reach this younger generation. I believe this and hopefully you have other topics to capture her attention. This to me is part of that village that it takes to raise a child. I enjoyed this message. May the Lord continue to Bless you and your family as well as your ministry.
I can back to my hometown and receive my Husband. One of my co-worker ask how I can get married so quick. I value is myself as real woman.Woman that love God. My husband dated for four months before he kissed me. I didn’t wanted him to think that I was easy and thirsty. Therefore he ask my hand in marriage and said that he want to get married in the church. Now we are now getting ready to celebrate our 34 years of marriage.
Ladies, number one(1), don't be a drive thru snack, but please be a seven course dinner. Meaning, don't be a quick meal rather than a seven piece dinner, carefully prepared, cautiously put together, intentionally made.Gpd / I promise YOU are Worth IT!!!!!!!
I am 71 years old, and I find your teaching so empowering. I mostly learned through life experiences. Some I learned through your teaching. God bless you and your family.
@@lindanorris2455 At this age a woman should know her values in life. I have known a woman in my past, that was 75 years old, who did not even know that no matter what happened to us as a young woman. We should never be trapped in what the past have dealt us. God sees us as winners, and we are winners, if we let God come into our lives and heart.
Where the hell was this blessed man 20 years ago?? I would have spared myself a lot if grief. I love this man of God- not in a disrespectful way towards his beautiful wife , but the way you would love a man of wisdom that only wishes for you to win. One who is Shedding light in darkness.
@@tiaslyfe9420 i totally agree with you if i had listened to a blessed man with wisdom i wouldn't have been were i am today Well i will continue to pray to God for the sake of my kids their happiness counts a lot
First, I would like to say how much I appreciate your teaching. However, I disagree with leaving a person corrects their behavior. This is what I mean by this, we all have our ways, but if a man or woman is NOT ready to marry, using manipulation by leaving him does not change his/her behavior, if anything, it should show the woman that's not your mate. I definitely don't agree with a female or male who claims to love a person, leave when they are not getting what they want from that person start seeing someone just to manipulate the person into a commitment. You are not only hurting someone that' done nothing to you, but you're also forcing someone to BELIEVE in their mind yourself be the one. I say all that yo say this, when the lord chooses a mate for you, you do not have to manipulate to get it. Being an attorney and hearing the multiple stories about how they should not have marry the person for x amount of years because he wasn't ready. If a woman or a .a. respects you, they will ACCEPT your decision and not manipulate. These types of people, when in a position of force WILL CHEAT ON YOU, contrary to what a man or a woman say.
Yes, we want to feel desired, and we want our men to clean up nicely too. Not over primping and showing toxic femininity trapped inside a male body. But well groomed. Clean shaven or beard groomed well. Fresh smelling. Hair cropped or worn clean and in proper order. Clothes clean and matched. A masculine man who wants to impress within the bounds of balance and modesty.
God’s timing is always right. There’s a reason for what you experienced, and a reason why you’re learning this now. I’m on the same boat. I believe it’s preparation for the right relationship with a husband in God.
So true I treated my ex like a king and he didn’t appreciate me I’m alone now and to tell you the truth it took me a long time to get back to me and even smarter and stronger thanks to RC Blake❤
Keeping in mind that he's talking about a man that recognizes himself as a "King" NOT an ego driven narcissist 😣 I did what Mr. Blakes is talking about and eventually my guy turned on me, his ego couldn't fit in the door, he started "expecting" from me to meet all his needs and didn't care about mine. 😳 what a rude awakening. Actually, sad. My mistake, "falling" for the "I love you". He moved in bc "we" were going to save money for "our" future. learn from my mistake. Make the man Figure it ALL OUT or he WILL USE you. 😞
I am so glad I am finally at a place where I no longer need to find my value or worth from any man, woman, child, or animal! My value is in Christ! In Him I live, move, and have my being! I am loved and accepted just as I am. No longer do I live to please others, especially a man! My mission is to please God first. If in pleasing God others are pleased, that's fine too. I have never been happier!! My joy comes from the Lord!! All these earthly things are only temporary. Focus on the eternal things!!
Pastor is spot on but it's difficult doing this with a narcissticist, liar & cheater. Just don't work with any man, especially when he ONLY wants to play the role as the provider and not a partner!
That is why he always states his advice is only for Kings with Crowns and NOT clowns with crowns. Dealing with clowns in crowns you will NEVER be able to apply Bishop Blake's advice....sorry.
I'm not a Christian, I'm Muslim and I really appreciate the teaching that you gave. In Islam it is encouraged not to be alone with men, without a walli, to safeguard our virtue. We get to know each other slowly, and the man has to get permission from the head of our family to talk to us. And we are raised that marriage and motherhood is always the goal. Also the man has to pay a dowry, so our father feels comfortable that he can provide financial stability. In the Hebrew, and Chinese tradition they have match makers, whose job it is to find capatible mates for the unmarried. I believe these things can help our society run more smoothly. Thank you for this wise sermon.
You are so right. The only thing is, unfortunately, that there are many dishonest men in the world today and many scammers. I would say that it's a matter of prayer and miracle to meet a good man. Thank you very much for your words of wisdom.
@@debrasalter3338 your si right sis. If God has bless u and God providing for u and paying all your bills,, I never understand why women with good jobs or celebrities Feel like they need a man? Just to be screwed and say they got a man? That's crazy, sad, and very low self esteem. Wow.
@@dbbaker411 I think a lot of it is the way we were raised to believe that we NEED a man to make it in life. It's nice to have a man in your life for ai lot of reasons but we don't NEED it a man. All we NEED is GOD in our lives and he will pick provide th
Can't wait for this to start, I am learning so much, and I'm using wisdom and have become much wiser. I thank God for you Pastor RC Blakes and your beautiful wife. God bless you both and your family and ministry.
Pastor you have changed my life ever since I found your channel. You literally my fairy Godfather. Your messages are a MUST. This video came at a perfect time and confirm the action I just took. Thank You 🙏❤️. I bought your book queenology, and next I will get Father to daughter talk. I want to own your whole 📚 collection 🤗🤗.
Its always exciting to be here" Just feeling Good Spiritual Vibes and Energy today" Ready to Listen and Learn something New" Always a pleasure being here"
Ladies follow this man he is speaking Godly wisdom that many of us women need to hear #2 "Speak to the King in him" 18:22 ladies if your single or married learn and practice this regularly and see the positive results you will reap with your man. I do it and it works. Pastor RC Blakes JR you are a blessing!!!
I love you so much pastor ❤🙏When I want a guide and wisdom, I turn to your videos that I listen to often and fall asleep to. God bless you and your family. Love from a muslim woman from Sweden. ❤🙏
EXACTLY AND DON'T LET A WOMAN KNOW HER WORTH LMAO WE GET TOLD THAT WE'RE BEING DIFFICULT NO SIR I'M NOT BEING DIFFICULT YOU'RE JUST NOT ON MY LEVEL NOR AM I LOWERING MY STANDARDS FOR YOU
You made me LOL with #4 "Praise the Lord and Hallelujah" too funny and oh so true!!! I love your plain-speaking which promotes logical understanding for me. This was a word that resonated for sure. Can't wait for the next one.
I love when I get slayed and my husband tells me I’m looking good. I’m going on 69 next month and I still keep myself up. I tell everybody that I rather for him to look at me than lusting for another woman. lol 😆
Well Reverend Blake’s, I have to say, this was absolutely brilliant! Real talk for the real world we are living in...really appreciate your openness and honesty in sharing from your heart ❤️ Lessons to be learnt here for sure and much to be considered going forward., thank you...wishing you and Lisa every future happiness and joy in celebrating your 26th year anniversary in harmony, with much love and tenderness 🥰
Yes. This helps. Just got out of a marriage to a man who is a covert narcissist. And I married him in my brokenness and didn’t know about these things you just talked about. I know them now and I’m gonna listen to this again and again. Because I finally know my value and I didn’t before. Great great video thank you.
I learned about you about 2 years ago from a client of mines. She had a lot of drama in her life, disappeared for about a year and came back a TOTALLY different woman. I was so impressed I asked her what are you doing? She looked great, sounded great and was just a different person. She told me it was you, sent me one of your videos and now IM A DIFFERENT PERSON. I was in a soul tie but I knew nothing about it. I watched one of your videos and immediately afterwards the chains fell off. The fact that you use the Bible sets you apart from the rest, There’s no better resource. I send your videos to every women I know lol. Thanks for all that you do, you’re changing lives ❣️
Pastor Blakes this was outstanding like all of your messages!! Thank you for the prayers and for being the father many of us never had!!! God bless you!
There are some men who aren’t hung up on a woman sleeping with them quickly. Including myself I know a lot of people who are married & in long term relationships who have done this. It all depends on the MAN.
Man this is something I needed! I am in separatation because I was broken! I healed me! I can wear my crown 👑 straight now! I was around calling me a Queen and failed in my relationship! This was all confirmation! I appreciate you!!! Thank you!!! Yesss I am now a business owner, been working on my relationship with the man I hurt and in stepping into my highest power, keeping GOD first! Im blessed
Wow these are wonderful lessons for even us married women that think we got it all wrapped up 🎁. New subscriber here and I’m sharing this with all my young adult daughters too!!!
You are literally...the best at explaining relationships to women because you are so genuine and you can see that you genuinely want women to succeed. Like the father we all need. Thank-you so much and God bless you
This is a wonderful blessing... how can a man value who you are when the women never allows him the time to learn your value???? There is so much power in discretion, femininity, and self-worth......whoooooooooooooooo this is good.
Love this. Self Respect is a must. When communicating, we must watch our language and watch our tone also. Also, listen to the his tone. If the tone is dismissive, then he is not alright.
I am honestly so full after watching this I am recently leaving a 7 year long relationship. I’m a woman soon to be 25, come November 27th who was raised by a single widowed mother since 3 almost 4. This year Oct. 2, 2021 a day after your anniversary Pastor RC Blake’s would be the 20th year anniversary of my fathers life. I’m looking to have a celebration of life for him🕊Wanted to provide a bit of background before saying that I know my worth but I don’t believe I’ve lived up to it in the past because of my life experiences. I’ve developed to know better now. I know I may have messed up a good thing with my now ex but how many times does a women apologize before feeling defeated. A rhetorical question really lol! I really enjoyed this video and will definitely be tuning into every other, happy to be a new subscriber 💜🙌🏾🙏🏾
Thank you, Daddy and Lady Lisa for what you sow into our lives. The wisdom and prayer are seeds that will redeem a generation of women to Queenship. 🌺🌺🌺
This helped me today! This channel is a godsend and it is appreciated that a channel like this exists that gives honest Christian advice for women to take in this information and become informed and subsequently healed.
So good, so much wisdom, and life experience. this man literally has father daughter talks for free on this here TH-cam 🙏🏽 thank You. It always calms my spirit and reaffirms Gods plans for me in life and love.
"Let there be no ambiguity. You're not helping a man when you allow a man to walk, run, and stomp over you." Jacob didn't want Rachel, but he still used (ab*sed) her for s*x. Raise, and keep, your standards.
I agree with raising your standards and this is how I carry myself as a Christian woman, so the so called Christian men I been meeting, once they find out I am not having sex, until I am married, they go ghost on me, or tell me they are not interested. I value my self and virtue and respect myself to trust that I will meet the right man God has for me. So I continue to nourish my self and relationship in the Lord.
What Pastor Blake’s mentions in the challenge section is so true. Don’t go all gaga for a man don't post everything on social media as he says. Take it slower and leave some mystery there on your part. Even if you s been dating him for six months you still need to pace yourself. Don’t fall head over heels. Get to know him and try and establish a connection. The key to a woman’s allure is to hold something back. Another man i follow on Twitter once said: “How can you look yourself in the mirror knowing you gave it away for Netflix and takeout”?
I know my worth and didn’t know I knew my worth sometimes knowing my worth has me lonely and sad however it feels good knowing I didn’t settle praying for my husband
AS LONG AS YOU HAVE GOD 🙏🥰 YOU'LL NEVER BE LONELY.... ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT. I RATHER HAVE SELF LOVE THAN DEAL WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE NOR VALUE ME
No one can effectively give of their Self if their vessel of self is empty , it’s a remarkable person that can still give of self for years when there is broken consciousness , when one finds that peace and healing ,that women becomes high value because she will never come easy, be easy or do easy again , Great pearls of wisdom as always from you RC Blake’s ❤️💜👍🏽
I desire to implement these things certainly to a man that is healthy and healed. Because from what I have experienced an unhealthy man can hold your feminity hostage!
Am so grateful for this message,this is truly Divine wisdom in Operation. Thankyou Bishop Blakes I always look forward to your videos. My life has become better,I thank God for you and Madam Lisa. Much respect from Africa (Kenya )
This is BY FAR the best video I’ve seen on relationships. I thought I was asking too much because by beliefs were EXACTLY what you mentioned. This is my confirmation that I had it right. Speaking to the King in him is something I have to work on. I’m guarded so I’m always speaking n defense. I’m an encouraging person but I have to fine tune the “speaking to the King” part. Problem is there is a lot of Jokers and not enough King. Blessings to you🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have just started listening and it’s plain and godly wisdom. But I must say, women who correctly esteem themselves also don’t want to be stepped to by men who still think that they can get a valuable woman to lay down her value so that he can hunt without rising to the occasion and being valuable himself. This type will recognize value but they’ll try to negotiate with a valuable woman about her value until she opens her mouth and says no to his low bar antics. The second I have to discuss, negotiate, or define value for a man he has lost position with me. Men have to do a lot of self work these days too. Yes, know your worth and act accordingly but if you still have to explain to any man that you are respecting yourself by holding to your own standard that they can clearly see in operation, that man may be willing to hunt but he is still operating out of a “let me see what I can get away with” mindset. He sees your value but wants to see if he can make you abandon that value for the sake of his self serving agenda.
This advice is needed for every woman to hear, I live by this and this is true facts , men need this in order to Know how to be the man for you , and how to be the woman for him.
Two things I love mostly about Pastor RC are: 1. When he talks about Lisa and when he distinguishes between and an ordinary (street man/clown ) man and a King (high value)
I can never get tired of listening to you! Thank you sir. I appreciate you! God bless you! You are speaking wisdom, why didn’t I get all this wisdom before I start dating! Well it’s not too late!
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1. Be a challenge for a man (being the type of woman who knows her worth)
2. Speak to the King in him
3. Always provide consequences
4. Maintain your desirability
5. Let him be free to love you without paying a price for it
Thanks I was looking for this comment, God bless you ❤️
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Yes
Love it
Amen amen & amen!
"Be easy to be around but a challenge to get." I felt that down in my SPIRIT!!!
Yes💖
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just an open question
how does this principle work after several years of practicing the same and not getting the result. I have a female best friend very very very gorgeous, like men line up to talk to her when she goes out, and she is very friendly BUT a challenge to get
I to this day wonder how such a gorgeous, down to earth lady cannot find someone to settle down with (I presume thats the goal and dating count)
Is this just a make feel good principle or does it really work and to what goal
I have felt this message also!
Once your “got” then what? If that’s how a grown man thinks he will grow bored of the prettiest, talented, nicest woman. I see a NO win for us as this type of man is a JERK
The Best Thing You Can Do For A Man Is To Leave Him.You’re Not Helping A Man When He Treats You Like A Stone When You Are Actually A Diamond.
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Facts👏🏽
Omg I love this
Absolutely my love. I’d been preaching ‘leave’ him principle all my young life. Will never understand how come some women make breaking up seem like the end of the world. A man behaves badly, breakup with him and do it immediately. Nothing shatters the ego of a grown boy faster than being able to put him in your rear view mirror without complaining, nagging or begging and keep it pushing
Forces him to get his act together real quick or else this goin keep happenin
Is it wrong for a woman to be the one to give the phone number first if she see he is interested in her
The women listening & calling in to hear k.samuels need to tune in to some TRUE Godly wisdom. Lord deliver them & send them here!
Yes Sis‼️*the missing piece* for them is the Word of God
I don’t know why they listen to him he is horrible
I was saying this!! My friend showed me Kev and it just didn’t sit well with me but she also showed me RC Blake’s.. and I’ve never looked back.
You are absolutely correct K Samuel’s tears black women down and intentionally humiliates them This man is coming from a spiritual perspective to build you back up
Absolutely
"Strong women intimidate boys and excite men" - a quote I heard years ago but still remember it haha 😂
My favorite quote
Ooh I LOVE THAT NEVER HEARD IT BEFORE UNTIL I SAW IT JUST NOW 😍💖🤗🥰🥰
That's Tru..
Great quote. ❤
Very true, I've been married for 15 year's, I'm 35 and my husband still can't keep his hands off me😁🦋🙌
You go, girl! God bless.😉
Love this.
Congratulations! I hope you both many many many more years of touchy feels lol
What's your secret?
You want a cookie?
Thank you for teaching us things we were never taught by our fathers.
Boy, isn't that the truth! My father was missing in action 24/7.
My Father showed me a good man by his actions! He was a man of integrity & Old school is the truth.The new age have gotten away from the old ways and that’s the disconnect.Thanks pastor for your continuous wisdom and confirmations!
Yes thank you tired of the games
Yes!
Or our mothers.....
As a Muslim woman, this is something we are taught naturally from a young age. that's why we don't invest our teens in boys or trying to attain boyfriends. We strive for marriage, and that's the framework that a man has to work within to attain a woman. to show serious intentions for commitment, and seeks her parents' approval. We need our parents' blessings not because we are oppressed or controlled, but because we are valuable to our parents (at least I am to my parents), and parents should not let just anyone have their daughter.
Thank you for sharing. This is powerful and something I did not know ❤️
Missing ingredients the way Jesus Christ to eternal life. This life is temporary and an assignment 😂
Thank you for sharing, very insightful and practical.
I am Christian, but I know that you are telling the truth and you are doing right in this aspect! Well done! ❤
I'm not Muslim. But this is sound.
This is with a healthy man who has healthy traits. Which in today's world there are few .
Bingo!
Absolutely!
What you believe, you will attract. You can manifest a man like that into your life.
@@descendedelevation8659 I agree absolutely but due to this broken world the enemy is always at work so discernment is crucial because people can appear to be a vessel of light when in fact its just a wicked game that is put together very nicely in the beginning .
@@jessicamarks5577 Amen! Discerning of spirits is crucial to have frfr.
If he acts like he does not have time for you, always in a rush for someone or something more important, does not prioritize you(take his hint), does not return the effort, DROP HIM QUICK. You deserve better that God has for you:) Make room for that:):)
If a man can play with you he will never grow up with you. I had to pause on that and let that sink in Lord have Mercy. This is absolutely amazing❤
Thanks for the words of wisdom. I needed this for my daughter as well as myself. It's difficult to reach this younger generation. I believe this and hopefully you have other topics to capture her attention. This to me is part of that village that it takes to raise a child. I enjoyed this message. May the Lord continue to Bless you and your family as well as your ministry.
I can back to my hometown and receive my Husband. One of my co-worker ask how I can get married so quick. I value is myself as real woman.Woman that love God. My husband dated for four months before he kissed me. I didn’t wanted him to think that I was easy and thirsty. Therefore he ask my hand in marriage and said that he want to get married in the church. Now we are now getting ready to celebrate our 34 years of marriage.
Ladies, number one(1), don't be a drive thru snack, but please be a seven course dinner. Meaning, don't be a quick meal rather than a seven piece dinner, carefully prepared, cautiously put together, intentionally made.Gpd / I promise YOU are Worth IT!!!!!!!
I LOVE 💕 THAT
I am 71 years old, and I find your teaching so empowering. I mostly learned through life experiences. Some I learned through your teaching. God bless you and your family.
WHAT DOES YOUR AGE MATTER?
@@lindanorris2455 At this age a woman should know her values in life. I have known a woman in my past, that was 75 years old, who did not even know that no matter what happened to us as a young woman. We should never be trapped in what the past have dealt us. God sees us as winners, and we are winners, if we let God come into our lives and heart.
@@lindanorris2455 have some respect this person can state their age if they choose to.
Where the hell was this blessed man 20 years ago?? I would have spared myself a lot if grief. I love this man of God- not in a disrespectful way towards his beautiful wife , but the way you would love a man of wisdom that only wishes for you to win. One who is Shedding light in darkness.
Yes sis!...I needed him too...
@@xxwolfwq7232 yesss
@@tiaslyfe9420 i totally agree with you if i had listened to a blessed man with wisdom i wouldn't have been were i am today
Well i will continue to pray to God for the sake of my kids their happiness counts a lot
The World Should Be Listening to you!! You make sense tell the truth and keep it real with respect!!
This is a man of God with life sprikld on it ..we need this
@@kelleybright3113
I totally agree......
Amen! I totally agree. I’m 50 years old and I’m hearing things for the first time in my life. I call him my Uncle Blake.
Yes I agree
First, I would like to say how much I appreciate your teaching. However, I disagree with leaving a person corrects their behavior. This is what I mean by this, we all have our ways, but if a man or woman is NOT ready to marry, using manipulation by leaving him does not change his/her behavior, if anything, it should show the woman that's not your mate. I definitely don't agree with a female or male who claims to love a person, leave when they are not getting what they want from that person start seeing someone just to manipulate the person into a commitment. You are not only hurting someone that' done nothing to you, but you're also forcing someone to BELIEVE in their mind yourself be the one. I say all that yo say this, when the lord chooses a mate for you, you do not have to manipulate to get it. Being an attorney and hearing the multiple stories about how they should not have marry the person for x amount of years because he wasn't ready. If a woman or a .a. respects you, they will ACCEPT your decision and not manipulate. These types of people, when in a position of force WILL CHEAT ON YOU, contrary to what a man or a woman say.
The way he smile when he speaks about his wife
Yes, we want to feel desired, and we want our men to clean up nicely too. Not over primping and showing toxic femininity trapped inside a male body. But well groomed. Clean shaven or beard groomed well. Fresh smelling. Hair cropped or worn clean and in proper order. Clothes clean and matched. A masculine man who wants to impress within the bounds of balance and modesty.
Clean and matched , I’m not drawn to men who wear different type of colors haha or Jordan’s , i Love simplicity
Amen.
@@diving.deep. classy, not trendy trendy clown🙏🙏🙏
@@alexandra7950 Exactly, dress like a clown get treated like one haha
And i'm learning this wise counsel at 40!!If i had known this in my early 20's,i would have carried myself better.
It’s not to late Aqua Blue
Never to late🙏🏾
There wasn’t a messenger then. RC Blake’s was going through life to prepare him for this. Today is the day to receive ❤️
God’s timing is always right. There’s a reason for what you experienced, and a reason why you’re learning this now. I’m on the same boat. I believe it’s preparation for the right relationship with a husband in God.
I wish I had this wisdom in my youth. I’m sending this video to my 23 and 21 year old daughters. A treasure!!
So true
I treated my ex like a king and he didn’t appreciate me
I’m alone now and to tell you the truth it took me a long time to get back to me and even smarter and stronger thanks to RC Blake❤
Keeping in mind that he's talking about a man that recognizes himself as a "King" NOT an ego driven narcissist 😣 I did what Mr. Blakes is talking about and eventually my guy turned on me, his ego couldn't fit in the door, he started "expecting" from me to meet all his needs and didn't care about mine. 😳 what a rude awakening. Actually, sad. My mistake, "falling" for the "I love you". He moved in bc "we" were going to save money for "our" future.
learn from my mistake. Make the man Figure it ALL OUT or he WILL USE you. 😞
Oh how true!!!! NOT AN EGO DRIVEN NARCISSIST IT doesn’t matter what how u talk to them. Nothing helps
I am so glad I am finally at a place where I no longer need to find my value or worth from any man, woman, child, or animal! My value is in Christ! In Him I live, move, and have my being! I am loved and accepted just as I am. No longer do I live to please others, especially a man! My mission is to please God first. If in pleasing God others are pleased, that's fine too. I have never been happier!! My joy comes from the Lord!! All these earthly things are only temporary. Focus on the eternal things!!
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Amen
Period.
Pastor is spot on but it's difficult doing this with a narcissticist, liar & cheater. Just don't work with any man, especially when he ONLY wants to play the role as the provider and not a partner!
That is why he always states his advice is only for Kings with Crowns and NOT clowns with crowns. Dealing with clowns in crowns you will NEVER be able to apply Bishop Blake's advice....sorry.
@@nataliemartin8288 Well said...Sis😀
We don’t deal with narcissistic men. Only kingdom men
Pastor also said there are times when you have to leave and not come back
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV Absolutely...
I'm not a Christian, I'm Muslim and I really appreciate the teaching that you gave. In Islam it is encouraged not to be alone with men, without a walli, to safeguard our virtue. We get to know each other slowly, and the man has to get permission from the head of our family to talk to us. And we are raised that marriage and motherhood is always the goal. Also the man has to pay a dowry, so our father feels comfortable that he can provide financial stability. In the Hebrew, and Chinese tradition they have match makers, whose job it is to find capatible mates for the unmarried. I believe these things can help our society run more smoothly. Thank you for this wise sermon.
You are so right. The only thing is, unfortunately, that there are many dishonest men in the world today and many scammers. I would say that it's a matter of prayer and miracle to meet a good man. Thank you very much for your words of wisdom.
Eleni you are soooo right!!!
I agree 100%. They want either sex or money.
@@debrasalter3338 your si right sis. If God has bless u and God providing for u and paying all your bills,, I never understand why women with good jobs or celebrities
Feel like they need a man? Just to be screwed and say they got a man? That's crazy, sad, and very low self esteem. Wow.
@@dbbaker411 I think a lot of it is the way we were raised to believe that we NEED a man to make it in life. It's nice to have a man in your life for ai lot of reasons but we don't NEED it a man. All we NEED is GOD in our lives and he will pick provide th
The rest.
Can't wait for this to start, I am learning so much, and I'm using wisdom and have become much wiser. I thank God for you Pastor RC Blakes and your beautiful wife. God bless you both and your family and ministry.
Amen
I love listening to him I stop having the desperation of even having a man
PRAISE GOD 🙏🥰.... LOVE YOURSELF HUNNY AND IN DUE TIME GOD WILL GRANT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF HIS CHILDREN WHAT THEY NEED 🥰🙏🙏 DON'T SETTLE
Have so much respect for yourself that you leave him no choice, no other option but to respect you as well!!!!! Amen to that RC Blakes Jr.!
Yes yes yes💕🙏🥰
@@butterfly-ef8fxannnnd yessssss !
Wow men are hunters!
R.C Blake’s has taught me so much. This is my TH-cam spiritual father.
Wisdom, wisdom, wisdom, shaking my head with all this wisdom.
I’m tired of broken Men period!!🤷🏽♀️. People need to grow up there is a time and place for everything.
GIRL EXACTLY..... UGH
Pastor you have changed my life ever since I found your channel. You literally my fairy Godfather. Your messages are a MUST. This video came at a perfect time and confirm the action I just took. Thank You 🙏❤️. I bought your book queenology, and next I will get Father to daughter talk. I want to own your whole 📚 collection 🤗🤗.
I know right!!! lol 😂 ♥️💯
@@eagletsoutreachacademyinc.3546 😂 lol
He's my Spritual father too! ❤
He is a blessing in my life ,can't stop listening to him sooo inspiring, a God bless sends.
@@rosaleeclarke6242 amen sister. He the best. I have him on repeat.
Its always exciting to be here" Just feeling Good Spiritual Vibes and Energy today" Ready to Listen and Learn something New" Always a pleasure being here"
Thanks for your Advice
I know you this is going to be real good. I'm so excited about it❤
Me too! And God bless you. Thank you pastor ❤
Ladies follow this man he is speaking Godly wisdom that many of us women need to hear #2 "Speak to the King in him" 18:22 ladies if your single or married learn and practice this regularly and see the positive results you will reap with your man. I do it and it works. Pastor RC Blakes JR you are a blessing!!!
Thank you for the wisdom father Blakes! So many queens need to hear this! 🙏🏻💞
I love you so much pastor ❤🙏When I want a guide and wisdom, I turn to your videos that I listen to often and fall asleep to. God bless you and your family. Love from a muslim woman from Sweden. ❤🙏
I love this, we grew up when women played "hard to get" now women just throw themselves at men.
EXACTLY AND DON'T LET A WOMAN KNOW HER WORTH LMAO WE GET TOLD THAT WE'RE BEING DIFFICULT NO SIR I'M NOT BEING DIFFICULT YOU'RE JUST NOT ON MY LEVEL NOR AM I LOWERING MY STANDARDS FOR YOU
And some women are the challenge to other great women.. imagine forcing it on a man..some men are so use to be with those kind of women..
You made me LOL with #4 "Praise the Lord and Hallelujah" too funny and oh so true!!! I love your plain-speaking which promotes logical understanding for me. This was a word that resonated for sure. Can't wait for the next one.
I love when I get slayed and my husband tells me I’m looking good. I’m going on 69 next month and I still keep myself up. I tell everybody that I rather for him to look at me than lusting for another woman. lol 😆
Your signature is absolutely stunning. Love it!
Amen.... this topic has been exactly what i needed to hear, Thank Yu, it's a beginning of a new era for me..... 🙏🙏
I appreciate a man who has unconditional love not expecting something back
Your language towards a man has great impact on his soul, more than anything! Come on somebody!🙌🏾
Well Reverend Blake’s, I have to say, this was absolutely brilliant! Real talk for the real world we are living in...really appreciate your openness and honesty in sharing from your heart ❤️ Lessons to be learnt here for sure and much to be considered going forward., thank you...wishing you and Lisa every future happiness and joy in celebrating your 26th year anniversary in harmony, with much love and tenderness 🥰
Yes. This helps. Just got out of a marriage to a man who is a covert narcissist. And I married him in my brokenness and didn’t know about these things you just talked about. I know them now and I’m gonna listen to this again and again. Because I finally know my value and I didn’t before. Great great video thank you.
I learned about you about 2 years ago from a client of mines. She had a lot of drama in her life, disappeared for about a year and came back a TOTALLY different woman. I was so impressed I asked her what are you doing? She looked great, sounded great and was just a different person. She told me it was you, sent me one of your videos and now IM A DIFFERENT PERSON. I was in a soul tie but I knew nothing about it. I watched one of your videos and immediately afterwards the chains fell off. The fact that you use the Bible sets you apart from the rest, There’s no better resource. I send your videos to every women I know lol. Thanks for all that you do, you’re changing lives ❣️
Pastor Blakes this was outstanding like all of your messages!! Thank you for the prayers and for being the father many of us never had!!! God bless you!
Thank you pastor for your wisdom! I’m learning now and will do better in the future ❤️
Thank you Pastor 🙏 you are truly a blessing! I've been working on myself lately and your videos really guide me.. God bless you more Pastor 🙏
There are some men who aren’t hung up on a woman sleeping with them quickly. Including myself I know a lot of people who are married & in long term relationships who have done this. It all depends on the MAN.
Man this is something I needed! I am in separatation because I was broken! I healed me! I can wear my crown 👑 straight now! I was around calling me a Queen and failed in my relationship! This was all confirmation! I appreciate you!!! Thank you!!! Yesss I am now a business owner, been working on my relationship with the man I hurt and in stepping into my highest power, keeping GOD first! Im blessed
Wow these are wonderful lessons for even us married women that think we got it all wrapped up 🎁. New subscriber here and I’m sharing this with all my young adult daughters too!!!
You are literally...the best at explaining relationships to women because you are so genuine and you can see that you genuinely want women to succeed. Like the father we all need. Thank-you so much and God bless you
This is my go to when I need the wisdom and advice of a godly man. I’ve been helped!!!
This is a wonderful blessing...
how can a man value who you are when the women never allows him the time to learn your value???? There is so much power in discretion, femininity, and self-worth......whoooooooooooooooo this is good.
EXACTLY HOW CAN SOMEONE VALUE YOU IF YOU DON'T SEE THE WORTH OR VALUE IN YOURSELF!!!!
This is great information. My husband also tries to teach our daughters this info.
Love this. Self Respect is a must. When communicating, we must watch our language and watch our tone also. Also, listen to the his tone. If the tone is dismissive, then he is not alright.
My spiritual father in the Lord..... real talk, once again. Bless you, mighty man of God.
If you have to learn how to talk to a man he isn't the one for you. When you meet your soulmate everything you say and do will be done out of love.
I am honestly so full after watching this I am recently leaving a 7 year long relationship. I’m a woman soon to be 25, come November 27th who was raised by a single widowed mother since 3 almost 4. This year Oct. 2, 2021 a day after your anniversary Pastor RC Blake’s would be the 20th year anniversary of my fathers life. I’m looking to have a celebration of life for him🕊Wanted to provide a bit of background before saying that I know my worth but I don’t believe I’ve lived up to it in the past because of my life experiences. I’ve developed to know better now. I know I may have messed up a good thing with my now ex but how many times does a women apologize before feeling defeated. A rhetorical question really lol! I really enjoyed this video and will definitely be tuning into every other, happy to be a new subscriber 💜🙌🏾🙏🏾
You live and you learn from your mistakes. You know better so you now must do better ❤️
I thank God for your ministry. Lady Lisa is beautiful inside and out. She is an inspiration. May God keep blessing you.
Pastor Blakes been dropping 💎💎💎💎 for years and if we not getting it then you sleep!! 💌💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤
Hi thanks for coming in our pastor, i will never get tired of your teachings May our good God bless you
Thank you, Daddy and Lady Lisa for what you sow into our lives. The wisdom and prayer are seeds that will redeem a generation of women to Queenship. 🌺🌺🌺
Uyasizama udaddy🙏
This helped me today! This channel is a godsend and it is appreciated that a channel like this exists that gives honest Christian advice for women to take in this information and become informed and subsequently healed.
Excellent, Excellent, thank you so much for this wisdom!
So good, so much wisdom, and life experience. this man literally has father daughter talks for free on this here TH-cam 🙏🏽 thank You. It always calms my spirit and reaffirms Gods plans for me in life and love.
"Let there be no ambiguity. You're not helping a man when you allow a man to walk, run, and stomp over you." Jacob didn't want Rachel, but he still used (ab*sed) her for s*x. Raise, and keep, your standards.
Leah not Rachel.
I agree with raising your standards and this is how I carry myself as a Christian woman, so the so called Christian men I been meeting, once they find out I am not having sex, until I am married, they go ghost on me, or tell me they are not interested.
I value my self and virtue and respect myself to trust that I will meet the right man God has for me. So I continue to nourish my self and relationship in the Lord.
Thank you Pastor for bringing us back to reality this is one of the best ones yet
Thank you for sowing into us every week Bishop Blakes! Your work is definitely not in vain! God bless you and Lady Lisa 💜💜
I had no one to teach this to me, thank you 🙏🏽 I am humbled.
"Faithfulness (always) has its true benefits in every way!!!!" ... Blessings always, Ms. Deborah Steele - 10/13/21
What Pastor Blake’s mentions in the challenge section is so true. Don’t go all gaga for a man don't post everything on social media as he says. Take it slower and leave some mystery there on your part. Even if you s been dating him for six months you still need to pace yourself. Don’t fall head over heels. Get to know him and try and establish a connection. The key to a woman’s allure is to hold something back.
Another man i follow on Twitter once said: “How can you look yourself in the mirror knowing you gave it away for Netflix and takeout”?
Your teachings are always the best. They are packed with revelation, wisdom, and encouragement.
I love ❤️ this segment I lost my dad at a very young age & listening to this man teachings is so inspiring I had to stop & rewind
I was fooled my a church brother he get every thing out of me
Thank You Brother & your dear wife Lisa, thank you so much for helping us
Thank you for validating women's feelings that they are practical and she has a right to them
I know my worth and didn’t know I knew my worth sometimes knowing my worth has me lonely and sad however it feels good knowing I didn’t settle praying for my husband
AS LONG AS YOU HAVE GOD 🙏🥰 YOU'LL NEVER BE LONELY.... ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT. I RATHER HAVE SELF LOVE THAN DEAL WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE NOR VALUE ME
No one can effectively give of their Self if their vessel of self is empty , it’s a remarkable person that can still give of self for years when there is broken consciousness , when one finds that peace and healing ,that women becomes high value because she will never come easy, be easy or do easy again ,
Great pearls of wisdom as always from you RC Blake’s ❤️💜👍🏽
Amen Pastor you're dropping power jewels... 💕🙏
Pastor spitting straight facts
This was so helpful! I appreciate you spelling it out cuz I need it!
ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS LESSON.THANK YOU FOR THIS WOUNDERFUL WISDOM. I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. I SHARED THIS VIEDO WITH LOVED ONES.
I desire to implement these things certainly to a man that is healthy and healed. Because from what I have experienced an unhealthy man can hold your feminity hostage!
Am so grateful for this message,this is truly Divine wisdom in Operation.
Thankyou Bishop Blakes I always look forward to your videos.
My life has become better,I thank God for you and Madam Lisa.
Much respect from Africa (Kenya )
I’m so glad I found these teachings. Thank you so much for this wisdom.
This is BY FAR the best video I’ve seen on relationships. I thought I was asking too much because by beliefs were EXACTLY what you mentioned. This is my confirmation that I had it right. Speaking to the King in him is something I have to work on. I’m guarded so I’m always speaking n defense. I’m an encouraging person but I have to fine tune the “speaking to the King” part. Problem is there is a lot of Jokers and not enough King. Blessings to you🙏🏽🙏🏽
You are definitely on point I needed to hear this thank you
Listening 🎧 to you RC BLAKES, JR, is always a blessing to me. I thank God for your ministry man of God. Thank you so much !
I have just started listening and it’s plain and godly wisdom. But I must say, women who correctly esteem themselves also don’t want to be stepped to by men who still think that they can get a valuable woman to lay down her value so that he can hunt without rising to the occasion and being valuable himself. This type will recognize value but they’ll try to negotiate with a valuable woman about her value until she opens her mouth and says no to his low bar antics. The second I have to discuss, negotiate, or define value for a man he has lost position with me. Men have to do a lot of self work these days too. Yes, know your worth and act accordingly but if you still have to explain to any man that you are respecting yourself by holding to your own standard that they can clearly see in operation, that man may be willing to hunt but he is still operating out of a “let me see what I can get away with” mindset. He sees your value but wants to see if he can make you abandon that value for the sake of his self serving agenda.
This advice is needed for every woman to hear, I live by this and this is true facts , men need this in order to Know how to be the man for you , and how to be the woman for him.
Yes, quoting Tony :) My two favorite truth speakers on youtube!!!
God bless you both!
My 2 favorites also!
Two things I love mostly about Pastor RC are: 1. When he talks about Lisa and when he distinguishes between and an ordinary (street man/clown ) man and a King (high value)
Bishop I can listen to you all day.
The beginning of this video exploded my spirit! Preach RC Blake! My 2 daughters will get this video!!
Such a profound and prophetic message for women. Blessings
This is fantastic Christian education! I'm learning so much.
I can never get tired of listening to you! Thank you sir. I appreciate you! God bless you! You are speaking wisdom, why didn’t I get all this wisdom before I start dating! Well it’s not too late!
SAME HERE I JUST SO HAPPENED TO BE SCROLLING ABOUT A MONTH AGO AND I CAME ACROSS ONE OF HIS VIDEOS I SAID I HAVE TO WATCH HIM🥰🙏💕
Amen thank you so much brother, God bless you my spiritual life is increasing since I started listening to your teachings...