HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOUL MATE by RC BLAKES

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  • @DunstanW
    @DunstanW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +971

    Today's points 📝 to work on self or to confirm you're on the right track...
    Thank you Bishop...
    #1- Evaluating your presets attractions
    #2- You have to become what you desire
    #3 -You got to be available
    #4 - Marry your purpose
    #5 - You've got to Trust God completely
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @kasand01
      @kasand01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you for the highlights!

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks so much for the key points

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Kasand01 and @ChynaAjayi-khiran... You are both welcome🙏🏾

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@DunstanW
      RC Blakes is such an awesome teacher. Learnt alot from him in the last 2 years.

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chyna Ajayi-khiran Ohhh I know, truly a Blessings this side of heaven 🙏🏾 and so is Bishop Samuel R Blake's... The Blessing Brothers 🙌🏾

  • @kimberlyhill948
    @kimberlyhill948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1026

    “Hard to attract a soul mate when you’re still attracted to a soul tie”- facts!

  • @trinaj.2427
    @trinaj.2427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Pastor Blake’s words are full of truth. One must make room.
    Once I freed myself from a toxic relationships,my king showed up! My sisters do the work and become available. Praise God!

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is very encouraging.

    • @ninahm6267
      @ninahm6267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm a queen now, common my king 🥰

    • @ikrambaouchouch9511
      @ikrambaouchouch9511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's been two years since i let go of a soul tie with a narcisst. Ive done all the work on myself spiritually and financially and im now ready to meet my soul mate but sometimes i feel discouraged when I put myself in the dating scene and i find all these clowns , then i go back to RC blakes videos to remind myself that the journey to my soulmate can be hard but it's worth it at the end. I hope i meet him in this life time 🙏💕
      Thank you for the encouragement and making me believe that mine is out there making his way to me ❤

    • @trinaj.2427
      @trinaj.2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ikrambaouchouch9511
      Stay encouraged!!
      God has showed up and showed out; not just in my life but in my daughters lives.
      My King was just the icing on the cake.
      When I decided to put Him first and live for Him.
      He turned the ashes of my life to beauty!
      Jesus did it for me and I am confident He can do it for you!One step at a time my sister and one prayer at a time!
      God bless you!❤️

    • @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353
      @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mine came too and now we are engaged to be married. Jesus works!

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    "Soul mates make you big. Soul ties make you small"! R.C Blakes

    • @apriljohnson7772
      @apriljohnson7772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this quote

    • @colemacedo-phillips5768
      @colemacedo-phillips5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You sure make a great deal of sense R. C. Blake's! Thanks!

    • @kmonette
      @kmonette 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And soul mates draw us closer to God while soul ties draw us away from God.

    • @sofianyoni-7209
      @sofianyoni-7209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats deep!!!

    • @rosinamhlambi5212
      @rosinamhlambi5212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good morning Pastor Blake's , thank you very much for the empowerment I received from to since last year May 2020 , my husband passed on 2018 and I asked God to help me as I was alone , and was not empowered how to deal with the high libido I had as my husband was sick for a long time , o think God s not you to me through You tube , since then I become blessed and empowered by you through our Alsmighty , thanks a lot , Go d bless you

  • @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl
    @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    Right. People think you are about to sit up and play games with them I WILL NOT. I will wait on my soul mate before I entertain these clowns.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    Meet the requirements of your requirements, do the work, dont focus on externals, dont be thirsty, let God write your love story, be prepared for God to make the introduction. Thanks Papa. Another amazing one.

    • @buttereffect3798
      @buttereffect3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh so sweet your right right though.

    • @blondiek35
      @blondiek35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @ladyt3701
      @ladyt3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love your bullet points

    • @dortheamcnulty6465
      @dortheamcnulty6465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Definately he knows what he is talking about. Ain’t enough men in the World. Piling soul ties on top of soul ties. He is telling the truth.

    • @theresadunn7279
      @theresadunn7279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just started watching your channel and I'm loving all your messages. Thank you God.

  • @kasand01
    @kasand01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Wives Wait! Analyze & Prioritizes. Girlfriends go for anything! What a Word! Thank You Pastor I got to share this with my Queen friends!

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว +864

    I DEFINITELY BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES. However, I don’t necessarily subscribe to the idea of God doing all the work. I believe that we must attract our soul mate, primarily through becoming what we desire. Just my thoughts. What do you think?

    • @ritaf2366
      @ritaf2366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I just got to knowing about you and your teachings a few weeks ago and I don't wanna keep wondering why it didn't happen several years back. Rather I remain extremely thankful to God that He led me to your teachings even now..I feel like the best season of my life has just started. Thank you very much for availing yourself for God to use in helping women like us. About attracting our soulmate...having followed your teachings so far, I believe we have great work to do on ourselves, while we trust God to bring our soulmate our way. So while we work on the weak areas in our lives as God reveals to us and as He empowers us to, we are working with Him to attract our soul mate.

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree Pastor.

    • @letsbefruitful5457
      @letsbefruitful5457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I totally agree one thing I have learned from watching your channel is self love and alone time , so you can attract righteousness in your life “soulmate”!

    • @idb6673
      @idb6673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @RCBlakes, Jr I agree. I once had a friend, who, when describing the 'MAN' she desired, said... "He has to be educated (some type of degree), he must have a car, live on his OWN, speak well, definitely- has a great job, or his own business, nice looking (a few more adjectives... Or accolades... I can't recollect).
      My Response (other than being exhausted by her 'desires')... I said, "Whelp! THAT does it for The Law, Prophets, Apostles... & ...Our LORD & Saviour. JESUS 'walked' or rode a donkey, And, when HE wasn't inViting HIMself onto someone's boat, He stayed with his parents. If Isaiah 55 is an accurate description, HE was NOT to be 'desired'. Moses was a thief & a liar (He told THE LORD that he didn't speak well. He knew varied languages!!); Peter cursed, and cut off folk's ears; Paul... Well, too much to say about him. John lived in the wilderness. Thomas doubted; Timothy was timid; Paul constantly said, "Stir up the gift!" Guess, Only Luke, the Doctor & James & John, 'Sons of Thunder' (ambitions, they (or their Mom were) fit. But, the kicker- I said, "You desire these 'traits'; Yet, You possess none of them. Geez!
      Let us become that or WHO we seek... Or, desire.
      There's That. Now, I'm HERE for it! 🗒️ ✍🏽 ✔
      🌸Blessings Pastor & Sis` Lisa for sharing your "Sacrificial Life & Love"
      🙏🏾✝️ 🛐 🙇🏾

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@idb6673 wow!!

  • @exoticbarbie1000
    @exoticbarbie1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This really spoke to my heart. I told God I can’t endure anymore heartache so I decided to marry Jesus. I’m solely focused on my purpose and not my pain anymore. I went back to school to further my career in medicine and also my daughter and making sure I model a good image for her so she will grow up and be a virtuous woman. I trust God completely. Thank you for this message ❤️

    • @takyrica
      @takyrica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Beautiful ❤️ trusting God sounds simple but it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. And let me tell you, it is beautiful.

    • @rimakaram1313
      @rimakaram1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BLESS YOU AM PROUD OF YOU MY SISTER

  • @teopistorsind9874
    @teopistorsind9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    "Untill you evaluate what you are attracted to, you are not gonna get there" Preach pastor preach!

  • @Transformationalcoachjrose
    @Transformationalcoachjrose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    You don’t know who fits into your life until you find your purpose 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️

  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I can say that i just met and have been spending time with the man of God that I believe is my soulmate . We both agree that we’ve never had moments as enjoyable as what we have. I was not looking but waiting for God to send a mate. God had me prepare for him by losing 20 lbs, wking on my mindset, strengthening me spiritually, changing my wardrobe and ridding myself of any soul ties. He will prepare you before he blesses you. Great job Pastor. 🙏🏾

    • @lindaharris3432
      @lindaharris3432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ashes 2 Beauty : I'm so happy for you , Make sure he love God as much as you do . Be bless 🙏🙏🙏💝 🙂💞💘💕

    • @msharic85
      @msharic85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did u get rid of the soul ties?

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful sis

    • @Summer-tk8yk
      @Summer-tk8yk ปีที่แล้ว

      Blessings for you ❤

  • @thuladei5552
    @thuladei5552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Hello Pastor, I have to tell you I never imagined I would find a father figure this way, but I am so glad. Your videos feel more like conversations, and I go back to them when I need a reminder on a lesson. Thank you for sharing your teachings with such genuine love for us ladies who did not have that before.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Whendy Kin Thank you❤️😊🙏🏽

    • @thuladei5552
      @thuladei5552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      RC Blakes, Jr Bless you pastor

    • @ShawntaE99
      @ShawntaE99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      At Whendy Kin I 💯 Percent agree with you. I feel Pastor is a true definition of a spiritual father. Which was something I never had growing up, my own father having these conversations with me. The depth of his conversations are mind blowing. I’m honestly thankful I found Pastor on TH-cam. 🙌🏾

    • @SheilaTrueLove
      @SheilaTrueLove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true, sis!

  • @ozlemeda2852
    @ozlemeda2852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Pastor Blakes, I am Muslim and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You showed me the difference between soul mate and soul tie. We believe in the same God but i needed to hear this. Thanks so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    He always has the best messages

    • @EstM13
      @EstM13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yknow! He is a blessing. Am learning alot i wish i knew 10yrs ago

    • @Spaceghost87x
      @Spaceghost87x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most Women Are Not Going To Get A Legal Marriage Contract This Brother Quoting Biblical Christian Text Is Very Smooth Authoriative Sounding But Can't Help These Women He Has No Current Contextual Message For A Time At This Hour With These Mordern Day Draconian Marriage Laws That Are Not Any Good For Men He Is Preaching From A Judgemental Fire & Brimstone Fear Perspective . Many Of These Women Will Never Be Married & They Should Still Live Happy Fufilled Lives . These Marriage Family Court Laws Are Designed To Extract Resources From Men . Quoting Scriptures From A Book Printed In A Book Printed In A White Male Run Warehouse Mean Nothing in This System of Institutional Marriage License State/Government Pair-Bonding Validation Contruct . Some Men/Real Good Men Are Just Not Doing It ... The Preacher Makes Good Points But Is Not Progressive & It Makes Delusional Women Feel Unworthy ... Because Men Are Not Entering These Marriage Contracts .... His Message Is For Women Most Of Whom Are
      Fantasy Hard-Core Jesus Gonna Send Me A Man After I Hit The Wall Wishful Thinking Types.

  • @carolynjaynes36
    @carolynjaynes36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Married to my purpose, I’ve lived my dreams while I wait for God to bring my king. Trusting God in all things.

  • @estherngongi3977
    @estherngongi3977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Has to match your energy, your vibe, your mental level, your purposes align some how, understands your emotions, your thought process, they don't try to change your essence and speaks life into your life... You'll never find a soulmate if the exterior package is what gets you ... Be the one for you and that soul mate should match you... Stay blessed y'all 🌹🌹🌹

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    If grown people still have a "type", I would encourage them to evaluate their maturity level

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    This is just what I need to hear. Straight facts from my TH-cam father. In the past 7 months he has really helped me stay on track.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😊🙏🏽♥️

    • @s.crockett5457
      @s.crockett5457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Praise God. What a blessing

    • @kimberlyl.mccauley8501
      @kimberlyl.mccauley8501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too! Blessings from God!❤

    • @josannebruce3096
      @josannebruce3096 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TH-cam father lol 😥

    • @ilissawalker7051
      @ilissawalker7051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@josannebruce3096 lets be real.. People have have parents but you should understand one parent might have been absent their whole life. So many people come from broken homes ,So many people need to get a proper understanding from and RC Blake's Jr.. Is my positive person a fresh breath of air & yes my TH-cam Dad.. find something good to do with your time.. Have a blessed day..

  • @mofimTV
    @mofimTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Soulmate gets u mentally
    Aligns with your desires in life
    Ministers to u emotionally
    Knows how to build u up emotionally
    Makes u larger
    Ushers God's presence in your life

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    "Self-actualization is the KEY to what you DESERVE"!

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are Born Actualized, until You're required to learn to become Independently, and Self-Sufficiently Actualized.
      At Age Eighteen, how many Years does that Process require?

  • @elainepjones2478
    @elainepjones2478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    This was right on time! Thank you sir! I'm over 50 and I have decided not to compromise or settle. I've determined that God will bring the right Man at the right Time! I just published my first ebook called Spark Fire to Your Day. Im having it printed in paperback. Ive done all this since listening to your for the past 4 months!
    Due to your advice I also listen to Tony Gaskins! I'm learning, growing and developing! God Bless you!!! Thank you!

    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congratulations, Sis!

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations

    • @naturallenatty8199
      @naturallenatty8199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stephens speaks is amazing as well ♥️

    • @alishadennis7077
      @alishadennis7077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You rock 👑😍👏👏 sister & you look so lovely.
      I watch RC Blake & Tony Gaskins who are both called, guided & anointed by God 🙏💗 my Abba father to teach & motivate with knowledge & wisdom from the Bible & the
      Moving of the holy spirit to bless & minister to women & People for holy, blessed victory in our lives to God's 🙏💗 true glory!!!!!!
      Our choices & strength, with true queenship 👑😍👑😍 operating in our lives is very, very important to activate for our own well being that God's 🙏 💕 love wants for his ladies, girls & people, especially in - during these days & times that are highly challenging for us.
      These 2 Christian men are like big hugs, also correction with direction & love 💖💕😘💗👑 that we needed from God 🙏 . It especially dose bless & assist guide & teach girls & women who will hear & submit to knowing God 🙏💗👑🙏 as Lord & our savior. As our King 👑❤️ & Lord 🙏💗 God 🙏 wants even better for us than we can want for our selves, if we learn to believe, learn, get ready & then recieve in our lives.
      I 🤔 think is special for us women who have been mislead & told to except small, lower & less in life. That's more often said or implied to females if color in this 🌎 world.
      We are being told the truth, as Gods 🙏 word & his greatest , awesome 😎🆒😁 loving, strong 🦉 purposeful futures & lives for us period amen!!!!!!💕😘💕 Thank you Lord for your grace, power mercy & loving kindness for us by sending your male servants to minister to us now!!!!!
      I pray God 💗🙏 🙏💗 always keeps blessing these brothers & teachers & their families highly & greatly, in Jesus blessed name, Amen !!!!!!!
      Also Lord 🙏💗👑🙏 bless the ladies, girls & people who follow your guidance through holy ministry here. With great results & holy blessings they give honor & thanksgiving too you for Lord. I pray this in Jesus name, amen!!!!!!

    • @janicewoods8399
      @janicewoods8399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree with you Elaine…..I was 50yr old when I met my husband I am 60 now and I can truly say he is my soulmate keep waiting for your soulmate no matter what age you are….he will show up

  • @normaortiz216
    @normaortiz216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    We need to heal first from the past and work on ourselves and our relationship with God! Thank You Pastor!

  • @kayrahmaansheppard8377
    @kayrahmaansheppard8377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Yes sir. Listened to this message when you first posted and corrected myself. I’m happy to say I’m getting married to my king on the 20th. Praise God 🙏🏽❤️

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful sis. Congrats 👏

    • @Ireb100
      @Ireb100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congs

    • @trineshacatrell
      @trineshacatrell ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen. That is so excellent. I pray that you both increase and allow God to guide you both through your journey never forgetting what God has done and continues to do in your lives.

  • @lashundawashington3321
    @lashundawashington3321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Though I've been single for 10 yrs, this is EXACTLY how I think and feel. Many ppl try to tell me I should put myself out there but I refuse. I work on me daily and trust GOD for all things!

  • @divinelychosen5554
    @divinelychosen5554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "We are attracted to everything we are getting". Wow!

  • @LeslieMBates
    @LeslieMBates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I begged and begged for my to husband to "speak INTO me"...Im over it now. I've learned to keep pushing and to encourage MYSELF. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let Yah speak into your heart... be encouraged sis

  • @MySideHustleStash
    @MySideHustleStash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Wives wait...😇 I needed that.

  • @coriwilliams1983
    @coriwilliams1983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Psalm 37:4-5 "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you. Reread🌹🌿 This a few times🌿🌹
    Your soulmate will be your equal. Marry your Purpose 😊 Stop wasting your time on these clowns in crowns 🤣🤣(Preach Pastor RC Blakes Jr)

  • @mjbvd2
    @mjbvd2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You couldn't have been my father but your advices feel like i get them from the father i never had in my upbringing. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Im becoming another person through your advices and video's. You and your beautiful wife change lives. ♥️

  • @indyTyson
    @indyTyson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Cant wait for this word from the man that inspired me to give my life to Christ and then my whole world changed for the better! Glory to God & God bless you pastor Blakes, you are my spiritual dad! ❤

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow! This is too much.❤️😊🙏🏽 I am so honored

    • @indyTyson
      @indyTyson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@RCBlakesJr. I will send you an email just to let you know how you have helped me and will be forever grateful. 🙏🏾

    • @gailtshehla5368
      @gailtshehla5368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RCBlakesJr.
      Thank you so much Ps Blakes. Gail from South Africa.
      Your teachings and coaching truly helped me through my difficult time, where I was battling with self forgiveness and breaking away from toxic relationships.
      I've decided to WAIT UPON THE LORD, and MARRY MY PURPOSE inorder for me to ATTRACT my SOUL MATE.
      THANK YOU SO MUCH PASTOR BLAKES

    • @ARighteousLife
      @ARighteousLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen 🙌🏾 He inspired me also to re-dedicate my life completely to Christ. ❤

  • @dominiquejonte268
    @dominiquejonte268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your Wife and children are blessed to have you in their life!! I feel blessed to have found you and thank God for placing you in my life!!

  • @deonsinclair9598
    @deonsinclair9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Let me confess I'm a more positive person right now after listening this video..thanks a million..
    Thank You Jehovah God for this powerful msg through Your Servant..

  • @deeb8060
    @deeb8060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well I'm 33 never had a real committed relationship , never had a situationship, always working towards my relationship with Jesus. Still waiting on the man God has for me. I know that I'm suppose to be protected , loved and to be provided for. I ain't gonna let nobody tell me my clock is ticking to jump into the wrong relationship.

  • @paulinemontgomery971
    @paulinemontgomery971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is definitely some “get right “ for me, it hurts but is gonna help me to grow into the woman of God I’m called to be with grace. Thank you so much.

  • @africanwoman5571
    @africanwoman5571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Woow! This is beautiful
    Kings and QUEENs.
    #Put GOD first in everything
    #Become what you desire.
    #selfEvaluation
    #purpose
    #Be available.

  • @ThePsimmons3821
    @ThePsimmons3821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Here I am 5 months later....And right on time for me!! I hear you Father God!!! Move Me Out The Way!!! Less of Me & More Of You!!! You are making it plan and I hear you loud and clear!!! Trusting You God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾45 and working on my mindset and breaking soul ties In Jesus Name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waoh I thank God I am listening to this after my therapy sessions. Been in toxic relationships until I enrolled for therapy and I am really enjoying the new me. I feel a lot of difference and too fit for marriage than ever before. Am 30, Kenyan and trusting God for a mate soooon.... indeed Jesus is Lord!!!
    Thanks Blakes you're so resourceful

  • @nadiacharles8091
    @nadiacharles8091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This just took my breath away. I’ve been doing so much work to work on my childish attractions. This video just reminded me all the work I’m doing is for the betterment of self, being closer to God and attracting my soulmate.
    Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's nothing you can do to attract your soulmate when you meet him you will know. It is God timing when you two will become one. I was drinking and partying when I met my soulmate I knew it but God didn't allow us to be together until 10 years later it.

  • @rhccit6032
    @rhccit6032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow right on time, I'm in the process of breaking a soul tie. I asked God for a husband out of desperation before I began that 5 year soul tie journey. This discussion made me realize I need to focus on my God given purpose first. Thanks again pops. God bless u and ur family.

  • @SuccessBug
    @SuccessBug 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    👀👀 I'm taking detailed notes on this one. 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️😆

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All the note taking means nothing when you meet your soul mate you are going to know it! I knew when I met my soul mate this was the man God made for me and it took 10 years before we we went on our first date.

    • @SuccessBug
      @SuccessBug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelgatlin9285 Good for you. I'm still taking notes anyway 📝😌✍🏾💅🏾

    • @daishanewsomednp6956
      @daishanewsomednp6956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SuccessBug same here sister

  • @tiffanymoody1208
    @tiffanymoody1208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thank God for putting this man in my life he's speaking nothing but the truth I'm on a spiritual journey and God is showing me the way he wants me to be.

  • @ryleyray9404
    @ryleyray9404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Yay I love listening and it's helped me a lot through my first heartbreak but I've learned how to better myself and no longer am in love with a narcissistic butt.
    Truly has been a milestone finding this channel for me

  • @anna-laurahocker5570
    @anna-laurahocker5570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every time this pastor opens his mouth to speak, I learn something. RC Blakes, Jr. is a BLESSING! Don't miss out. Give him and his take on the Scriptures a close listen.

  • @akaSuni
    @akaSuni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I've healed, done the work, have no soul ties, changed the type I'm attracted to. But I feel like this is more a problem of today's society and the lack of quality men. Narcissists, Players and grown boys are all over, all though I'm not saying there are no good men out there, but actually finding one is searching for that one special sand corn in the desert.

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      We need people to help shape the men. Soooo much focus on mentoring women that women are over-ready. MEN FOLK NEED AS MUCH MENTORING IF NOT MORE.

    • @akaSuni
      @akaSuni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ribaker822
      AMEN TO THAT!!!!!

    • @LV2308gmail
      @LV2308gmail 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Like looking, or yet waiting for a diamond, in a world full of cubic zirconias 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @minimalassembly7893
      @minimalassembly7893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree. I feel like this video is speaking to a specific type of broken woman who is not ready for marriage. There are good, well-adjusted, healed and marriage-ready women out there, some who have never been in relationships, some who are even Virgins, who are single as heck!!
      How does he respond to those women and what have they done wrong?
      A few things that I am finding helpful.
      1. Stop hunting, the man will be introduced to you. You don’t need to search for him. Men value what they find, not what finds them.
      2. That said, let your friends, family, co-workers, former classmates, acquaintances, hairdresser and even the mailman know that you are looking for a single, Christian man. Treat it like a job where the more staff you employ to help, the more efficient you will be.
      3. Watch the TH-cam video,
      “The Miseducation of the Christian Single Woman,” by Godzdesign. She used to be single then got married last year. She and her friend break down the myth that Christian single women (particularly Black women) have bought into that keeps them single into their 40’s. Meanwhile, other women are getting married left and right. She was introduced to her husband through married friends.
      4. Pray for revelation from God about the things you should know about your future husband, future marriage and also if you need to fast. Sometimes the enemy blocks kingdom marriages because they will advance God’s work. Prayer is your first line of defense even before you start letting people know that you are looking.
      I pray that God will give you the revelation that you seek about your husband and why He is making you wait in this season. Be blessed.

    • @ninobk196
      @ninobk196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ri Baker teachings of Pastor Blake geared specifically to men. I would pray and support that!

  • @laurai2599
    @laurai2599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the term “situationships”... very accurate.

  • @thompsonthompson5581
    @thompsonthompson5581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this ministry. I’m not looking. 62 Years young. Been there and done that. Been in these streets when I was younger. It’s too much work. I’m content.

  • @LeratoMaithufi
    @LeratoMaithufi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am so calm after hearing this word! Thank you, Pastor RC Blakes. Be Blessed

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Are you your best version? Still working🌹.

    • @DanaeLaurenTolbert
      @DanaeLaurenTolbert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same sis. Definitely improved a great deal. But God is still doing construction.

  • @TUFTSLOVE
    @TUFTSLOVE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Bishop. Many things that you have said confirm what I already knew but haven't put into practice. I'm 65 years old I intend to get married again for the second time but this time around I'ma rely on God and use the wisdom that he instilled in me

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes sis confirmation is affirmation....!

  • @flgal7788
    @flgal7788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was struggling so long feeling alone and hopeless, no vision, not walking in my purpose but one thing in particular you said changed my life and brought my zeal back: marry your purpose. I am a well educated woman who allowed Satan to distract and diminish me from my purpose with feelings of rejection and self-doubt. I am going to be walking as a Queen in King's circles. Thank you!!

  • @bereniceocampo8601
    @bereniceocampo8601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Hola pastor Blakes looking farward to lisend your wisdom 😊 the papa i never had. I pray 4 months ago to God to have some terrenal father guidance then i found your chanel. Answered prayer 😃

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so special. I am honored.😊❤️🙏🏽

    • @patriciawhite1664
      @patriciawhite1664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God indeed answers prayers. Love HIM!

  • @suskelleykelley7241
    @suskelleykelley7241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could cry I'm so happy thanks to your teachings!! I started to focus my time on my passion and purpose and forget the empty headed clowns I've met!! I met a man who I find so attractive mentally!! He has the same mindset I do and love of God!! We both volunteer for the same project!! I feel the attraction building!! Thank you for the sake I'm growing up at 69!!

  • @ms.a806
    @ms.a806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you pastor. I want the real thing and I’m believing God. I had to pray for God to help me to resist the temptation to get back on the dating sites, which never worked for me in the past.

  • @kimjones3262
    @kimjones3262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Bishop Blake’s! As a single woman I see so many marriages that are a result of God’s permissive will rather than His perfect will there is a distinction among the two. I’ve been told by many that I’m picky I respectfully disagree knowing that as a woman we by nature and God’s divine plan place ourselves as a wife into a husband’s hands to lead by God’s grace his family. It is my responsibility while I’m single to properly vet a potential husband. I remember a segment you had where you said it’s important to prove a man before approving him! When I place my life under the leadership of a husband I must make sure that he in turn is under the leadership of God ( not because he is simply a man misguided by societal rules of what manhood is) but rather a man surrendered to God knowing the heavy depth and responsibility that role carries as he is accountable to God for how he leads and so he does so in humility. Thank you got your guidance and the time you take to ensure that we are truly ready for marriage!! God bless

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      kim jones Thank you Kim. Marrying a man is serious business. A woman had better know what she’s doing. 😊♥️🙏🏽

    • @kimjones3262
      @kimjones3262 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      RC Blakes, Jr Absolutely! A well informed, spiritually grounded woman in addition to the qualities you covered makes for the best not just soul make but help mate as well.

  • @Ms.Haleyy
    @Ms.Haleyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pastor SR Blakes, I’m glad you mentioned Brother Tony Gaskins!
    NHM & him are the channels I watch on a regular basis. I see you two have a similar mission. Let’s get together and really help people! God is so amazing! 😍
    PS: for anyone reading: No one pays me or puts me on in either direction 😊

    • @GeiaCarterPR
      @GeiaCarterPR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does NHM stand for? Thx in advance.

  • @michaeldande
    @michaeldande ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Attracting your Soul Mate
    Soul.Mind Will Emotions

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Become what you want. Absolute facts.🙌

  • @kimmieann316
    @kimmieann316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been out of work last few days and I have been binge watching all your videos . You are really making a difference in my life with your messages. I am going to continue to work on self and wait on God.

  • @gabihicks1405
    @gabihicks1405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yesss 👏🏾I can’t wait because I know Pastor Blakes bout to teach us something gudd!🙌🏾🤩

  • @CynthiaRiveraMinistriesLosAng
    @CynthiaRiveraMinistriesLosAng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's encouraging to hear that God sent that older lady someone that was just right for her.Waiting and being prepared is some keys .And being single for a long while can help us to learn what we really want in a relationship.Then we will recognize the real deal from God when he comes along.

  • @msnismith
    @msnismith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes...I took rigorous notes that I am going to apply in my life. I am doing my due diligence to master my purpose and attract my soul mate. Thank you for your beautiful words of wisdom. ❤

    • @OpulentAristocrat
      @OpulentAristocrat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me tooooo!

    • @msnismith
      @msnismith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OpulentAristocrat Your hard work will pay off!❤

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good morning real good man will sacrifice for you too make you happy! Also ask what ‘s you need help with, what ‘s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , help with the bills , make should you have gas in your car , car repairs , has God in his life ! Communications is the key too everything n trust !

  • @nycdst23
    @nycdst23 ปีที่แล้ว

    34:13 wrecked me. I was married to a man contrary to my purpose for existence and it had to end. Thank you Bishop. Your teaching is truth, empowering, enlightening, on point, biblically sound and much needed.

  • @jackiejackson2859
    @jackiejackson2859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    you have a smile., that makes me smile back when im feeling, sad.

  • @lisatremblay8506
    @lisatremblay8506 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so appreciate your words and how you tie scripture to it. So helpful. Thank you!

  • @leratoshawane8920
    @leratoshawane8920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This had me in tears five minutes into the video. Thank you for this. Just what I needed to hear

  • @kasand01
    @kasand01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maximizing my Excellence! Becoming my Best Version by God’s Design!
    Spiritually
    Emotionally
    Mentally
    Financially
    Physically

  • @kimberlybell8952
    @kimberlybell8952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This will be my first live. Pastor Blake's has blessed me so. I'm super excited for the word tonight 😊

  • @lennethsuzanneboucher2880
    @lennethsuzanneboucher2880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its important to have God first in your life and everything else will fall into place 🙌🙏

  • @erikagaleana9340
    @erikagaleana9340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow. Very powerful message!!! It all makes sense...how can we expect a 'great' partner if we have not worked on ourselves?? For the last few months I have been working on all aspects in my life...I want to level up & be ready to meet that soulmate once I feel ready!!! It is a process. Thank you for the reminder & for all the knowledge you share.....You are a blessing!

  • @32HUNNYB32
    @32HUNNYB32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That part "be available" hits different! Thank you!

  • @lashawnames9066
    @lashawnames9066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    "Are you a nickle searching for a dime?" Wow!

  • @alexisalford735
    @alexisalford735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Pastor Blakes. If I don't want to be a forever girlfriend or constantly chasing up behind a man, I must wait and work on myself, marrying my purpose. A queen will wait for her king.

  • @aleeshamucharwa9127
    @aleeshamucharwa9127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God can make a way out of no way 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @terrimehring2137
    @terrimehring2137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of people never get to self aculitzation before they die . So good luck with that. Maslow's higharchy of needs .

  • @isabelltecaxco4987
    @isabelltecaxco4987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hello Bishop, I love your precious words of wisdom. I'm a 59yr Hispanic lady, never had children because I never met a man worth having them for. I have had much abusive relationships through the decades. I haven't had a relationship for five years and I've been alone to work on myself. I'm not lonely but it would be nice to have a partner in my life. I know now that I'm a true queen, but the way the world is now how can I meet a king? Thank you for your wisdom and the videos you make. I listen to you everyday! God bless you and your precious wife

    • @sbongilemajola4128
      @sbongilemajola4128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey, we dont know each but my life has been exactly the same as yours ,watching bishop's teaching has make me realizing the mistakes I've done all these years, God is good and I believe our kings will find us in jesus name.

    • @isabelltecaxco4987
      @isabelltecaxco4987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sbongilemajola4128 hello there, yes you are right about our kings will find us in Jesus name

    • @mercyokon2989
      @mercyokon2989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameeen

  • @NatashaWaithera-d9n
    @NatashaWaithera-d9n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am 22 and am loving your videos, this is my 3rd video to watch today and i am glad i got to find your channel. Thank you for enlightening me, i know as a young adult , am prey to have entertained the wrong people, but i no longer chose to be in the same path. I seek the guidance of the holy spirit to show me the truth and to be able to differentiate between the right and wrong people.

  • @snsnj7180
    @snsnj7180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re so right! You’re the father I never had... man, your words make me cry 😢

  • @beatricephillips2761
    @beatricephillips2761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This so good, and you are making absolutely amazing sense. Thank you.

  • @grandmak9013
    @grandmak9013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This kind of teaching need to be televised.🙏💕

  • @jacquelineweeden7768
    @jacquelineweeden7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been recovering from a knee op and I have waited for God to give me the message I've been praying for.. today I found this message and I know its what I needed to hear and have waited for! Praise the Lord and thankyou to you for sharing your message. To fully trust in God is so hard but its the only way. 🙏

  • @sibylgale5208
    @sibylgale5208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was an on time talk for my life. Seems like God always comes through for me with one of them when I need to hear from him. Thank you, Pastor Blakes

  • @camillewilliams4670
    @camillewilliams4670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor screaming to my soul! I thank God for you! I am so thankful I found your channel . My mom was practically begging me to watch you after I said I was watching tony. The lord knew what he was doing !

  • @timdand
    @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    🥺Just fills me up. Bishop your preaching has been such a blessing to my life. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾❤Thank you

  • @jumanjixoxo4781
    @jumanjixoxo4781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God works in mysterious ways indeed🙌 I kept seeing a video from this channel pop up many times I ignored and no matter how many times I refreshed the website this channel still popped up. I ended up watching the video (something about a woman not to pursue a man) I got more interested and watched like 4 videos now 😅😅 it’s now like 3 in the morning and I don’t regret it. I’m glad this channel found me😌🥰

  • @Tcwillie
    @Tcwillie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Awesome, I’ve been listening to you for a few months Sir’ and I even shared many of your teachings with my two daughters and my friends, but this one particular video was so real to me because it semis like you were talking directly to me, this is exactly what I needed to hear, I appreciate all of the messages because we need this, this is what the world is missing, real talk, reality, a check. Thank you and God bless you and you’re family.

    • @patriciawhite1664
      @patriciawhite1664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On point with your words. R.C. Blake's should have been a part of my curriculum in high school.

  • @thenutrientwhisperer3700
    @thenutrientwhisperer3700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel your points should be well taken by all women who are looking to attract a high caliber guy.
    Sounds valid to me.
    Listen up ladies. You’re giving away too much of yourself before he talks about his feelings and what he’s looking for. Always know what he’s looking for. Out of the gate. Know what you’re looking for too. .
    Know you’re worthy -but be quality yourself‼️

  • @Chandysvlog715
    @Chandysvlog715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hoping and believing that I can find my soul mate in the future . I know he will give me the right guy for me . 🙏

  • @AngelInk-Poetess
    @AngelInk-Poetess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor Blakes, I’ve just discovered your videos and thank God for your sharing all this truth, wisdom, knowledge and insight with us. I have been praying for my soul mate for a few years, and God has directed me to you... the father I never had to tell me and show me the way. I’m doing the work. Thank you, Pastor, for praying for us at the end of the video. I receive it. God bless you and your bride. 🌹

  • @maggieedward3951
    @maggieedward3951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have given up, I realise my crown is not just any crown, so that person would need to have certain criteria as a man ,if I don’t see it and it could be the simplest things I would lose interest , it’s not all about material things, I must fulfill myself , but he better fulfill me to, now I smile looks like singledom beckons ,however I will tune in. Set reminder
    R. Blakes bless

    • @blackblack697
      @blackblack697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I gave up all together too many games too many steps Im tired of Step 1 Step 2 Step 3 all the lying cheating manipulating its as of God has destined for me to be alone all the godly men are taken or either dont want to be married

  • @karenmitchell5809
    @karenmitchell5809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This made me so excited about life and focusing less on age and time but on my purpose. Wow!

  • @kayg1532
    @kayg1532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this- thank you so much. I've recently started talking to a older man- its quite refreshing- he knows what he wants, has great leadership and I-we absolutely love our conversations. Praying him through 🥰❤

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Make sure you pray and ask God to reveal anything you should know , I pray it goes well sis

    • @kayg1532
      @kayg1532 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sheambitious29lachelle17 thank you so much sister love ❤- I have prayed on this🙏

    • @patriciawhite1664
      @patriciawhite1664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish you all of God's best.

    • @kayg1532
      @kayg1532 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@patriciawhite1664 thank you!🥰❤

    • @wavyblkqueen
      @wavyblkqueen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I definitely want to date older . I’m 28 .... so like 35 maybe

  • @eerynessential
    @eerynessential 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I guess this soul tie I have caused me to blackout & say something nutty..then when I was corrected I took accountability..I have to keep my thoughts not even to myself but put them into my journal..I let my flesh get the best of me.. I remember I blacked out as a child must've been a demonic attack on me like it was yesterday..sadly & it was Satan's holiday...My lower self took over.. im Convicted of this Message. Thank You Pastor..I had to Ask God for forgiveness of my ignorant actions! I haven't done nothing like this in a longggg time.
    I have to clean up my way of thinking & actions!! STARTING TODAY...

  • @amandadavis5246
    @amandadavis5246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you pastor. You are refreshingly real and honest and unapologetically truthful. I love it

  • @lovethildah7340
    @lovethildah7340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your soulmate keeps coming but finds u always occupied,, this is for me and I feel so sorry for him,,, I'm gonna be available so when he comes next, he'll find me.
    Thanks Pastor, this is such an eye opener.

  • @dartinadunlap3741
    @dartinadunlap3741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This lesson is absolutely empowering. I am grateful that you are a blessing to women in this way.

  • @harrietacquah2545
    @harrietacquah2545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree totally with Pastor RC Blakes. I took the decision a few years ago to write down what I actually wanted in my dream man. I had read that in books and watched videos where people attracted what they wrote down. I did that and I started praying for a man with those qualities. 2ndly, I thought to myself that like attracts like. A loving man would want a loving woman. A kind man would want a kind woman. There's no way a loving man will be attracted to a woman who is trouble. So I started working on myself to be what I want in my man. And, just close to 3months ago, a man walks into my life with these qualities I have been praying for and working myself for.

  • @irenemugo8162
    @irenemugo8162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Found this message right when i needed it 💙🥺🙏..Thanks

  • @heatherhubertz4161
    @heatherhubertz4161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have learned so much from listening to your videos. You are like the father I never had. Your voice is calming and inspiring

  • @LifeCoachLi
    @LifeCoachLi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This message was an on time Word Pastor, I’m truly grateful to have your honesty and commitment to see us, as Gods daughters, living and loving better. 🙏🏽 I receive your prayer, divine connections that’ll enhance the lives of singles in waiting be our portion.