I really appreciate your lectures or dialogue. Your eyebrows in this video are very distracting, though. I am not sure if you did the, "What would you do for a Klondike Bar?" challenge or what? Shave off one of your eyebrows.?!*
I really appreciate this. These communications are extremely helpful, but takes so long for him to get into the meat of the message. I’m a busy woman, I need it to be concise because my time is limited. Grateful for you both! 💜
We must keep learning and growing in marriage. My husband sat down with our son this morning, prayed and studied the bible with our son before he goes off to school. I am so thankful and I tell my husband how much I appreciate him. We've been married for 22 years. My husband never grew up with his father and he is determined to leave a godly legacy for our children. And I'm determined to help him all the way.
Well, I'm 65, white, and not Gen-X. I'm not Christian. I'm Buddhist. But, I love how Bishop Blakes speaks, slowly, giving us time to digest the thought. Every day I tell people I cannot follow them as fast as they want to get the information across. This world is too fast. Bishop Blakes has the right pace. He is showing his genuine thought. I really need that. I don't notice the hour has passed. Thank you. Namaste.
True. Bishop Blakes tone and pace is very soothing. I listen to him in bed when winding down 😊. Very wise and comforting messages. I’m a 45y/o widow in South Africa 🙏🏽
Look up Mark Sloan (a reserarcher who searches science papers) and his book on old remedies of kerosene and turpentine for Alzheimers, Parkinsons etc. They have wiped them from medical books to push drugs that never work. Keep an open mind. Slaves in US used pure turpentine (you have to know EXACTLY what type to use - as there are adulterated versions NOT to use which they do to prevent people using these remedies - so research it thoroughly first) to cure parasites and a lot of other ailments.
I can admit that I struggle to maintain a feminine energy because I was with a feminized man for years who never made me comfortable enough to even begin to think of being submissive because he was such a narcissistic who was not of God. Now that I have a good man in my life I am trying to be who I naturally was made to be but its hard and it is alot of work but im getting there!!
Sis we’re in the same boat. I never seen a good example of marriage, didn’t have a dad growing up so I didn’t know any better & I fell in love with a complete narcissist. I finally let him go & I’m now actually with an alpha man & it’s extremely hard for me to unlearn some habits but I’m getting there as well & I pray you flourish as well sis. 💜
I can sooo relate!! Being able to fully submit to a man after dealing with a narcissist (a clown) is both refreshing & terrifying all at once. And takes a lot of intentionality. You got this girl!!🤎
Only a man sent from GOD can even RECEIVE what Pastor is speaking. I’m realizing many men need to learn how to receive a real Queen. So many men have been castrated to the point that this GODLY type of behavior would literally spook him!
I agree. I have been the woman that Pastor Blake speaks of and the male, I was dating was not capable of appreciating me. However, he does state the man has to be King ready as well!
Sincere silence is one of the most powerful tools that I’ve learned!! In my last relationships we would bicker until I gave him the cold shoulder and wouldn’t let him touch me. This DID NOT WORK and just made things worse. For the first time in my relationship now, I’m standing in my femininity, saying what I need to say (with love), allowing him to gently touch me and I leave him with a gentle, loving silence when he has done or said something to upset me. He always comes to his senses then and we avoid the fight.
I’m Muslim but I love the insightful videos Mr. Blakes provides. His messages really resonate and go deeper than religion 💗✨ Gratitude to you for helping us break generational curses.
I was Married 45 years. I had This man to approach me at church. Wanted to take me out. I told him to give me some more time. To Morn my husband.He said yes. But he asked for my phone number we’ve been talking for three months now. I really like the young man. He’s wanting to become a preacher. I respect that of him. I don’t want to lose him.
SO many times, women are forced into masculine energy by dealing with men who do not lead in masculine, but lead in feminine. Even me, who struggle with resting in my femininity, believe woman being feminine energy is natural when dealing with a true masculine man.
I keep my communication simple and feminine…I no longer step outside of my feminine energy for anyone anymore…and I love the changes I’ve made within myself
I have been in relationship with narcissistic men and reached a point of lost identity. Found myself carrying around masculine energy and thanks to Pastor Blakes and others like him, i am learning and healing. I know there is a high value woman in me and im taking some time to find her. I also know the my king will come soon enough and i want to be ready. Thank you Pastor for your love and guidance, for everything you ever said to me made sense and is helping me to become the queen im supposed to be.
Amen!!! Your post resonated with being married to a narcissist man. I exercised my masculine energy because he was not a high value man!!! Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for always dropping 💎s that speak to the feminine energy in each of us!!! 🙌🏾
I acquired masculine attitude when I had to become father and mother as a singlle parent. I understand now why men are not attracted to me and many perceive me as masculine.
Regarding masculine energy, I can relate as well, I too have realized the same when my son's father became ill and passed on. This video was a true revelation! Peace Queen
@@CrystalDatingCoach I always do but some seem like they just stick around for women who accept the abuse. My ex fiance broke on with me 6 months ago because I decided that we needed to work on better communication and suggested counselling before moving in together. My two sons 19 and 15 live with me and I don't want them around a toxic situation.
Simple compliments & recognition goes a long way. Men are emotional as quiet as it's kept. They appreciate a thank you or you're doing your great job every now & then. Not everyday all day then it doesn't come off as genuine. BALANCE is the cornerstone of relationships. At times us women we over give and smother. Chose your words wisely. Yes certain words triggers emotions and reactions. If you want positive outcomes always think before you think.
Yup. A man should be the main one giving especially in the courting phase. Give him space to see what he gives naturally and match his pace or energy. Never chase or be the one initiating contact/things to do especially in the beginning.
Men are the givers and women the receivers, he should do things for you and you reciprocate with your appreciation, men love appreciation, thats the give and take between a men and a women
I am waiting to hear how a high valued man communicates with a high value women. A women can give that energy but what happens when he doesn’t receive and return it?
Listen, maintain eye contact and use non-sexual touch without trying to solve the problem. Sometimes a high-value woman just wants to vent to her king.
@@dromerine67 please🙄because my high value man makes it impossible to just “vent” to him. Sometimes I just need to vent and he tells me he doesn’t understand that.
@@Ruthforme aww my man let's me vent to him. I feel bad for dumping emotions on him though but he always wants to listen to me whatever i have to say and i do the same for him. I'm still not used to talking much about myself but i take the risk in spite of it being uncomfortable to be vulnerable.
Blessings to all who read this. I honestly believe that the term “high value” is not a term that should be used for referring to a man or a woman’s “worth” to receive and give unconditional love. We coin these phrases not bearing in mind the effects of the connotation of these buzz words that are used interchangeably in our society. God values all of us equally and we would be wise to do the same. Of course there’s people who don’t value themselves and therefore will not value your relationship with them, so we must practice living out the love we seek. It is a law of The Kingdom of God that we reap what we sow, therefore we must be mindful of how we handle each other. Shalom
I think the term high-value is used because >It is used to emphasis that as a GODLY man or woman, this is what the term should mean to US >the TH-cam algorithm favours the buzz words people search for most and this will ultimately reach more people if the title is enticing >It's also important that Christians understand the lingo of the world, 'be all things to all men so you may save some'. Someone clicked on this expecting to hear some alpha male garbage but was blessed by the Biblical world view >For so many women who feel their value is tied to their looks, this is a sober reminder of what feminine really looks like and how it behaves >(And most importantly for me) you are called to be a high value gem for your husband, not a boyfriend. If he can't see the Godliness in you, he doesn't see you period.
@@Mmeme2023 Agree. Also, not all are God's children. God says "Do not throw your pearls to swine.". We need to ask God for discernment and pray for our enemies.
I think you're misunderstanding the point..he is not saying no one is valued,he is saying there IS a difference between people based on their choices therefore it's smart and Godly to pick those who are the best for us (assuming we're also doing our work). Individuals who are healthy and loving are to be valued and those who aren't are being encouraged to level up and live according to the standards God has called his children to.
This is a fact. Many women have knowingly or unknowingly embraced masculine attitudes and that is a turn off for men who are out to feel the femininity and warmth that a woman brings. On understanding men and what to do, you've made it practical for everyday life use. Thank you!
Listen.. that sincere silence is a game changer.. before I began listening to Bishop Blakes, a book that helped me understand how to operate in this was “the power of a praying wife” by stormie omartian… now listening to Bishop Blakes, it all makes sense… mine comes right back and apologizes… we process peacefully and we move on. It’s amazing
What a phenomenal word!!! Pastor you have shed so much light on self evaluation and presence, when in a "healthy" relationship. Energy = Energy! Much appreciated 🤗🙏🏽
Wow!! Your father being married 50 years is a blessing and a testimony!! I That’s longer than I’ve been alive !! I thank God for these lessons you give my life has truly been changing for the better!🙏🏾🔥
I also left my current relationship in silence when I asked him if he's willing to become my partner(he said no) and I blocked him on everything for 6 months. He told me recently that me leaving helped him to reflect. It's the most stable relationship I've been in. I'm grateful for my intuition because it's brought me this far but I'm grateful that you've made this video because I needed it. :)
Towards the end of this video I burst into tears. Never have I ever got told what this preacher is teaching us, thank you from all my heart ! In the past I pushed away a man with my egoistical and stubborn attitude but I'm not the same person anymore, no Sir ! I can now go out in the world and be my beautiful self 🙏
A Relationship is like having a Farm and Financial Investments, that Demands ~Time ~Work ~Effort ~Dedication-Determination ~Open-Minded, Highly Intelligent Communications ~Patience and Persistence It must be constantly and consistently Nurtured, Cultivated, Harvested, Replanted, Nurtured, Cultivated and Over and Over Again. And If you don't have that Time and Dedication, then A Relationship with another person is Not for You.
A man needs to give his woman something to smile about - if she's not happy there is a good reason for it. A 'How To Make A Woman Happy' video for men would be terrific.
You are the father figure for the fatherless. Taking the time with us that are fathers weren’t able to take. Newly married and seeing things clearer already. Much thanks.
Dear don’t say that term “fatherless” It was made by hateful men to spite women, rather an “absent father” sounds much more graceful. -with Love from a sister💗💗
Standing ovation! Excellent advice. Even if you’ve been feminine with a masculine man, it’s nice to be reminded of what a masculine man needs. Thank you for your insights and guidance, there is always room for improvement. You must be a queen to and for your king. Amen.
RC Blakes. Men you are wonderful. I came across your video about a week ago, subscribed and has not stopped listening to you. We need more of you in the society teaching our princesses and queens. This will go a very long way to heal our marriages and relationships. I am a guy , lives in UK and finds your videos very powerful. I pray for more wisdom. You never stopped making references to your wife which is so wonderful. You are indeed a King . Please say Hi to Lisa your queen. May the good Lord bless your marriage and your ministry. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you RC. I think that's how I lost my man because I did alot of arguing with him instead of how you said to just be silent. And with arguing with him he says I don't respect him. It's hard to know how to be that type of woman. I am learning every day and trying to work on it. It's not easy
Thank you Pastor! Some of these portions (i.e. attitude lol) was difficult to hear but is received with grace. Lord grant us the ability to operate in our most feminine and beautiful selves so that we can be at peace. I'm asking the holy spirit to help me to be graceful, beautiful, soft, and to keep my attitude in check. Thank you for this valuable ministry.
one major issue is that a lot of us women are not dealing with real men, we dealing with toxic un healed boys in mens bodies. Some of us have been all these things and still poor results. It makes being feminine difficult, cause they frustrate the hell out of you with childish behavior. It gets old. Angels don't live in hell, if men want good women they also need to understand there is a formula to get the best out of your women. Most of them bringing the worst out of us. But i'm so thankful for your teaching. after 7 years of dealing with a narcissist , I'm thinking I have1 relationship left in me lol. I'll be well prepared.
i started watching you a couple weeks ago, and i m really getting a lot out of your videos- i was going through a breakup and its so helpful to hear your coaching. thank you so much!!
Thank you for sharing the message Mr. Blakes. You not only helped me, but other people I shared your videos with. Both men and women appreciate your help.
I come from a generational broken home , raised solely by a man , I am certain in who I am,have attributes that make me gentle and serving to who i give my heart to , however not all travel an easy path in relationships , Many women will put up barriers to protect particularly,if they have been violated and disrespected , I can only speak from experience I am as gentle as a dove, however I will never tolerate no man not valuing me , disrespecting me , ever again , and that is the standard I have placed for myself , Could end up on my own to the grave, but far better than allowing one to treat you with disdain , and place no value in your being , When any visit that mindset on me I can become a very impatient, angry person , I will receive no less than what I give . Thank you for your wisdom RC Blake’s bless up you and family .🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Respected. I love being a strong but very feminine woman and blessed to finally have a high value man because I recognized I am a high value woman. Thank you Bishop...🙏🙏🙏
This is a great message I believe this is true for both sides. Each person should have that respect for one another and show and speak the appreciation they have for their spouse. Communication is everything yes very good wisdom!!
My only disappointment is that I didn't hear this message sooner. “Whatever is appreciated will be duplicated.” So many valuable nuggets of wisdom. I need this message downloaded on repeat. Hopefully it’s not too late to save my relationship and I can practice what I’ve just learned.
Thanks so much RC. I saw instant results using these tools with my good man. More on communication with men please. Ad even with the good men, men are so different to women that sometimes it's hard to understand especially when you don't grow up seeing men.
🙏🏽🥰♥️ I literally just took your advice and tested my husband and because of you I finally passed the test lol 😂 thank you for your insight he’s said exactly what you said I asked him my question in my feminine energy where as before I did not I never noticed it I thought I was always in the same tone I guess not 🤦🏾♀️🥰♥️🙏🏽👑🙌🏽
My ex would always ask if I was mad. I never was when he asked but I guess I look angry unless Im smiling. I will intentionally smile when I see him. Such a simple change that clearly means a lot to a man. Thank you soo much
My husband was truly a King. He went to be with the Lord 2.5 weeks before you posted this message. I grew up without a father and had no idea what a man truly needed. He was unhappy and would say that I didn't respect him or appreciate him, but he could not tell me what he meant. I prayed and studied all that I could. and figured out what my King needed.
On time! 🙏🏿 God is ALWAYS on time! That you Spirit for using Pastor RC Blakes for delivering this powerful message that I so much needed this evening. God bless you Pastor & First Lady RC Blakes.
If both couples are matured up and knows what love and respect is then other things will eventually fall naturally with some ups and downs along the way and to never give up on each other and learn from the mistakes and communication is #1 key beside love and loyalty.
He really has helped me evolve into a gracefully feminine woman. I am very interested in hearing his wife speak as well. But I am just so into hearing this information come from a man. He is truly a blessing to all❤
Don’t shorten anything! Whatever God Almighty has put on your heart to share, & forever how long, Speak It Bishop! I pray Jesus speak to all our hearts and we are open to receive it! Our soul need it!
Good Morning Pastor Blakes!!! I have been binge watching all of your videos for over a year now (wishing I found it sooner) and I noticed that God uses you to answer questions or concerns I may have. I believe I am in a season where God is preparing me for marriage and my main concern lately has been "how do I communicate respectfully to a masculine man w/o being disrespectful/masculine during conflict?". I logged in and you posted this video! Thank you soooo much! I can't express how much I appreciate ALL of your content. P.S I purchased your books so I could pass them down to my daughter when she is of age. She's 5 right now, LOL. I also bought "Kingology" for my brother and going to purchase a few more for my niece. Thank you and Lisa for all you do!!!
Thank you pastor Blakes for your teachings. I watch two or three videos a day. Your teaching is needed in all churches. The thing that I like the most you tie it with scriptures. May you house be blessed forever.
I stumbled across you on your podcast around 2015. I truly thank God for you! He has encapsulated you with a magnitude of wisdom and knowledge, placed you on a platform that has allowed you to reach, teach and share your gift. Thank you for helping me and others to elevate‼️🙏🏽
What a beautiful message!! As a mother of adult sons (young kings) I find that this approach works with my interactions with them. I pray that it will serve as a point of reference when they choose wives. Thank you for sharing this message!! God bless!!😇🙏🙏🙏
Hello Pastor Blakes. I just wanted to say how thankful I am to have stumbled across your blogs on TH-cam. Your messages are so powerful, enlightening and much needed. I have listened to you everyday for the past couple of months and it has made me become very much more aware of how I'm supposed to be as a wife. You and Lady Lisa have truly blessed my soul with your divine wisdom. I thank the Most High for bringing you both in my life.
Very helpful tips, thank you 🙏. I've been single for awhile and I need to tone down the masculine energy I use in the working world to get by and pay the bills. You make excellent points and great reminders of what it means to be feminine. I love that you quote the Bible, I attended Catholic school for 8 years and they never really taught the Bible.
So true abt the door opening thing! I was in a car with a man and the door was stuck from the inside...so he had to run over and open it for me. When i got out the car there were 2 young men stumbling to run over and open the door of the store for me. I had NEVER seen that happen before! How you allow ppl to treat you is contagious 🤔
Your wisdom and your grounded teachings are so refreshing! Thank you for teaching people how to have “healthy” marriages and relationships not “friends with benefits” and situationships. God’s Word is the ultimate wisdom we need. Much of it is common sense but……common sense is uncommon.
Love your deliverance.... Get wisdom get understanding. I thank you man of God for this wealth of information. I am truly learning who I am in this process. May God continue to use you on this platform and bless you beyond measure.... God Bless you and your family....
I thank God for leading me to your videos… you are so on point until it’s ridiculous. I’ve watched a few of your videos so far and you truly are a man of knowledge knowing much about all of what you speak on . You have read, saw and seen right through my life experiences… I know one thing, your teaching has taken me from third grade straight to 12 ! Lol, basically you have caused me to upgrade myself. Thank you.
Wow I wish I had this teaching when I was with my fiance'. But now that I know better, I will definitely do better 👌. I'm so grateful for this teaching. Thanks again for your wisdom Mr. Blakes ❤️🙏
@@NoGuappp to be honest I think all this high value nonsense and alpha male nonsense doesn’t help .. I think it all depends on intelligence and if pple are in the right place at right time and chemistry there ..it’s not upto the woman to make the man a good man he should want to be and show that .. actions not words
Wisdom has spoken yet again. Giving God thanks for this ministry. So needed in the body of Christ. I, for one, truly appreciate all that has been said.
As soon as I heard your voice come on after a church service I was listening to, I said with such joy “hi daddy”. I grew up with my father in the house but he was a toxic and broken man. He abused me terribly. So you are the dad I’ve always wanted. Your soothing voice of wisdom is a blessing. And god spoke to me a few moments after you started talking . God told me “learn to listen to your father to prepare for your husband. “ my father in heaven and my father figures on earth.
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THANK YOU Pastor Blake's for all your High Value Messages. I/We value them much.
I really appreciate your lectures or dialogue. Your eyebrows in this video are very distracting, though. I am not sure if you did the, "What would you do for a Klondike Bar?" challenge or what? Shave off one of your eyebrows.?!*
I was on the livestream went back to replay had too, I emailed you about my grand son's hope you can respond.
Pastor Blake's! I Appreciate All Of Fatherly And Godly Wisdom! You Have To Be Humble
Thank you 🙏
1. Feminine Attitude
2. Gratitude
3. Aptitude
4. Motivate
5. Sincere silence
6 A truly Giodly man
I really appreciate this. These communications are extremely helpful, but takes so long for him to get into the meat of the message. I’m a busy woman, I need it to be concise because my time is limited. Grateful for you both! 💜
Thank you! 🙏🏾
I love it
Thank you 🙏 ❤
When he truly loves you, it’s not a lot of work…it becomes a pleasure…you’ll find joy in the labor
This!!!👂❤
Great to hear this. "A lot of work" is discouraging for those of us singles. I like to think if it's God ordained, there is joy in the labor.
Absolutely
This is it!!❤🔥
Absolutely. It's not forced because the heart cannot be lied to.
We must keep learning and growing in marriage. My husband sat down with our son this morning, prayed and studied the bible with our son before he goes off to school. I am so thankful and I tell my husband how much I appreciate him. We've been married for 22 years. My husband never grew up with his father and he is determined to leave a godly legacy for our children. And I'm determined to help him all the way.
Hello Bishop I thank God for you!
We love you too Pastor
Amen!!!
Amen! 🙏💋
Beautiful.
Well, I'm 65, white, and not Gen-X. I'm not Christian. I'm Buddhist. But, I love how Bishop Blakes speaks, slowly, giving us time to digest the thought. Every day I tell people I cannot follow them as fast as they want to get the information across. This world is too fast. Bishop Blakes has the right pace. He is showing his genuine thought. I really need that. I don't notice the hour has passed. Thank you. Namaste.
Thank you. This encourages me. I’ve tried to move at a faster pace. It doesn’t work for me. I have to be authentic. Thank you for accepting me for me.
@@RCBlakesJr.
The authenticity. I see it, and I'm consoled. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Fast pace is not working for anyone, it is only some people under this impression !
Namaste
True. Bishop Blakes tone and pace is very soothing. I listen to him in bed when winding down 😊. Very wise and comforting messages. I’m a 45y/o widow in South Africa 🙏🏽
My parents have been married for 61 years. My mother has Alzheimer’s and my dad takes care of her.
Woww.. God bless you and your family ❤🙏
God bless mom and dad!
May God continue to give your dad the strength!!!😘😘😘
Awesome! You are blessed.😊
Look up Mark Sloan (a reserarcher who searches science papers) and his book on old remedies of kerosene and turpentine for Alzheimers, Parkinsons etc. They have wiped them from medical books to push drugs that never work. Keep an open mind. Slaves in US used pure turpentine (you have to know EXACTLY what type to use - as there are adulterated versions NOT to use which they do to prevent people using these remedies - so research it thoroughly first) to cure parasites and a lot of other ailments.
That's what he's supposed to do
There are marriages we put ourselves in and there are marriages God ordains. Know the difference 💜💜💜
Soooooo true!!!
Oh girl that’s the truth !
That's deep. 🌹
Aaaaaamen!! My truly was the latter!
Amen! Know the difference and allow God to pick your mate!
“Dont go back and forth with a man…A high value woman’s (sincere) silence makes a man own his energy and his choices.” Sooo good! Thank you pastor!
😳 I guess I didn't past the test
@@Prettyeyes531 Why not? :(
Yes it does.
Key words “a faithful and honorable man”
Yes I love how he emphasized that!
Amen. That's the key there.
Amen 🙏
Oh yes. High value men.
True!💯 Amen!💯😊🔥❤
"A high value women's silence, makes him own his energy and his choices"🤯 that was profound and sent from God..Goosebumps!!!
Spot on
“Kings and Queens require a lot!”
“Marriage the right way requires a lot.”
Thanks Bishop Blakes!
I can admit that I struggle to maintain a feminine energy because I was with a feminized man for years who never made me comfortable enough to even begin to think of being submissive because he was such a narcissistic who was not of God. Now that I have a good man in my life I am trying to be who I naturally was made to be but its hard and it is alot of work but im getting there!!
I can hear you. Being masculine is not a pleasant choice for a woman but a necessary one
To God be the glory for the revelation 🙏🏾
Sis we’re in the same boat. I never seen a good example of marriage, didn’t have a dad growing up so I didn’t know any better & I fell in love with a complete narcissist. I finally let him go & I’m now actually with an alpha man & it’s extremely hard for me to unlearn some habits but I’m getting there as well & I pray you flourish as well sis. 💜
Jane-good for u, God Bless U
I can sooo relate!! Being able to fully submit to a man after dealing with a narcissist (a clown) is both refreshing & terrifying all at once. And takes a lot of intentionality. You got this girl!!🤎
Only a man sent from GOD can even RECEIVE what Pastor is speaking. I’m realizing many men need to learn how to receive a real Queen. So many men have been castrated to the point that this GODLY type of behavior would literally spook him!
Ms. Johnson good point.
I agree. I have been the woman that Pastor Blake speaks of and the male, I was dating was not capable of appreciating me. However, he does state the man has to be King ready as well!
Women too. Attitude is everything.
@@viktoriousextensions394 Yes ma’am!
Exactly
I absolutely LOVE when you say
“sitting there popping gum, looking” 😂🤣
And “whatever, whatever…” 🙂
I crack up EVERYTIME!!!🤣🤣🤣
Daniece he knows how some of us get down. Just not right
me too!! 🤣😂🤣😂
Sincere silence is one of the most powerful tools that I’ve learned!! In my last relationships we would bicker until I gave him the cold shoulder and wouldn’t let him touch me. This DID NOT WORK and just made things worse. For the first time in my relationship now, I’m standing in my femininity, saying what I need to say (with love), allowing him to gently touch me and I leave him with a gentle, loving silence when he has done or said something to upset me. He always comes to his senses then and we avoid the fight.
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What's the difference there
1. Attitude; 2. Gratitude; 3. Aptitude; 4. Constant motivation; 5. Sincere silence.
I’m Muslim but I love the insightful videos Mr. Blakes provides. His messages really resonate and go deeper than religion 💗✨ Gratitude to you for helping us break generational curses.
U are so spot on....WISDOM & PRINCIPLES ,CUT THRU ALL LINES
Beautiful ❤
Update : I’m actually Christian now
@@tiatarezo9309cool! Happy to hear that❤
@@tiatarezo9309Beautiful! Jesus doesn’t want us to be religious. He only wants us all to have a personal relationship with him❤
It’s a lot of grace, sacrifice, kindness, patience and forgiveness… Love , above all!
I was Married 45 years. I had This man to approach me at church. Wanted to take me out. I told him to give me some more time. To Morn my husband.He said yes. But he asked for my phone number we’ve been talking for three months now. I really like the young man. He’s wanting to become a preacher. I respect that of him. I don’t want to lose him.
Pretty much 1 Corinthians 13
SO many times, women are forced into masculine energy by dealing with men who do not lead in masculine, but lead in feminine. Even me, who struggle with resting in my femininity, believe woman being feminine energy is natural when dealing with a true masculine man.
I keep my communication simple and feminine…I no longer step outside of my feminine energy for anyone anymore…and I love the changes I’ve made within myself
I have been in relationship with narcissistic men and reached a point of lost identity. Found myself carrying around masculine energy and thanks to Pastor Blakes and others like him, i am learning and healing. I know there is a high value woman in me and im taking some time to find her. I also know the my king will come soon enough and i want to be ready.
Thank you Pastor for your love and guidance, for everything you ever said to me made sense and is helping me to become the queen im supposed to be.
Amen!!! Your post resonated with being married to a narcissist man. I exercised my masculine energy because he was not a high value man!!! Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for always dropping 💎s that speak to the feminine energy in each of us!!! 🙌🏾
Same here sis! 💜😎🙌🏾
Same sis!! Literally SAME. We got this
Me too. After narc I am masculine energy. A woman even said your like a man. We are forced to toughen up with and after narc.
I acquired masculine attitude when I had to become father and mother as a singlle parent. I understand now why men are not attracted to me and many perceive me as masculine.
Regarding masculine energy, I can relate as well, I too have realized the same when my son's father became ill and passed on. This video was a true revelation! Peace Queen
Gratitude is fuel, it’s health giving, its fun, it’s foreplay, express it to each other daily ❤️
My parents were married 55 years and my Mom took care of my Dad through Cancer until he took his last Breath
Love to see a man that loves his wife! It’s actually rare to see.
I feel that I grow with each video I watch. Thank you Pastor Blake and First Lady Lisa for loving us and teaching us to a better life.
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Same ✨
Me too !! His videos are right on time !
There are no rules in finding love. You just be yourself and you will find someone who accepts you for who you are...flaws and all. 🤷🏽♀️
So true. And you can grow and get better together
Sorry. Unfortunately you must demand Respect from Men.
@@CrystalDatingCoach I always do but some seem like they just stick around for women who accept the abuse. My ex fiance broke on with me 6 months ago because I decided that we needed to work on better communication and suggested counselling before moving in together. My two sons 19 and 15 live with me and I don't want them around a toxic situation.
@@tercsi1 Good riddens to him! Sometimes Rejection is Protection. Your Partner should do whatever it takes to make you feel comfortable and happy.
And how much you will put up with. Indeed work!!!!
Simple compliments & recognition goes a long way. Men are emotional as quiet as it's kept. They appreciate a thank you or you're doing your great job every now & then. Not everyday all day then it doesn't come off as genuine. BALANCE is the cornerstone of relationships. At times us women we over give and smother. Chose your words wisely. Yes certain words triggers emotions and reactions. If you want positive outcomes always think before you think.
Yup. A man should be the main one giving especially in the courting phase. Give him space to see what he gives naturally and match his pace or energy. Never chase or be the one initiating contact/things to do especially in the beginning.
Men are the givers and women the receivers, he should do things for you and you reciprocate with your appreciation, men love appreciation, thats the give and take between a men and a women
I've been married 36 years and let me tell you I see some things I can do better. Thanks for your ministry.
I am waiting to hear how a high valued man communicates with a high value women. A women can give that energy but what happens when he doesn’t receive and return it?
How about 5 ways a high value man communicate with a woman
Ralph I will do that. It’s a good balance.
Listen, maintain eye contact and use non-sexual touch without trying to solve the problem. Sometimes a high-value woman just wants to vent to her king.
@@dromerine67 please🙄because my high value man makes it impossible to just “vent” to him. Sometimes I just need to vent and he tells me he doesn’t understand that.
Yes please!
@@Ruthforme aww my man let's me vent to him. I feel bad for dumping emotions on him though but he always wants to listen to me whatever i have to say and i do the same for him. I'm still not used to talking much about myself but i take the risk in spite of it being uncomfortable to be vulnerable.
Blessings to all who read this. I honestly believe that the term “high value” is not a term that should be used for referring to a man or a woman’s “worth” to receive and give unconditional love. We coin these phrases not bearing in mind the effects of the connotation of these buzz words that are used interchangeably in our society. God values all of us equally and we would be wise to do the same. Of course there’s people who don’t value themselves and therefore will not value your relationship with them, so we must practice living out the love we seek. It is a law of The Kingdom of God that we reap what we sow, therefore we must be mindful of how we handle each other. Shalom
Praise the lord
I agree
I think the term high-value is used because
>It is used to emphasis that as a GODLY man or woman, this is what the term should mean to US
>the TH-cam algorithm favours the buzz words people search for most and this will ultimately reach more people if the title is enticing
>It's also important that Christians understand the lingo of the world, 'be all things to all men so you may save some'. Someone clicked on this expecting to hear some alpha male garbage but was blessed by the Biblical world view
>For so many women who feel their value is tied to their looks, this is a sober reminder of what feminine really looks like and how it behaves
>(And most importantly for me) you are called to be a high value gem for your husband, not a boyfriend. If he can't see the Godliness in you, he doesn't see you period.
@@Mmeme2023 Agree. Also, not all are God's children. God says "Do not throw your pearls to swine.". We need to ask God for discernment and pray for our enemies.
I think you're misunderstanding the point..he is not saying no one is valued,he is saying there IS a difference between people based on their choices therefore it's smart and Godly to pick those who are the best for us (assuming we're also doing our work). Individuals who are healthy and loving are to be valued and those who aren't are being encouraged to level up and live according to the standards God has called his children to.
This is a fact. Many women have knowingly or unknowingly embraced masculine attitudes and that is a turn off for men who are out to feel the femininity and warmth that a woman brings. On understanding men and what to do, you've made it practical for everyday life use. Thank you!
When Your man pursues excellence, thats what keeps the partnership together and the feminine is to be that support and rock in those times 💗💗💗
Wow ! Such great teaching . When I finally figured this out it literally saved my marriage..
That is wonderful sis. I am glad that I am learning this now so that I’m ready when I am blessed with a union.
Communication is soo important in any type of relationship! Thank you for your wisdom pastor blakes! Sending love to everybody out there! 💕🙏
Communication is essential !
Listen.. that sincere silence is a game changer.. before I began listening to Bishop Blakes, a book that helped me understand how to operate in this was “the power of a praying wife” by stormie omartian… now listening to Bishop Blakes, it all makes sense… mine comes right back and apologizes… we process peacefully and we move on. It’s amazing
Pastor Blakes,
You certainly give me hope in meeting a High Value Man despite my age!
What a phenomenal word!!! Pastor you have shed so much light on self evaluation and presence, when in a "healthy" relationship. Energy = Energy! Much appreciated 🤗🙏🏽
Wow!! Your father being married 50 years is a blessing and a testimony!! I That’s longer than I’ve been alive !! I thank God for these lessons you give my life has truly been changing for the better!🙏🏾🔥
I also left my current relationship in silence when I asked him if he's willing to become my partner(he said no) and I blocked him on everything for 6 months. He told me recently that me leaving helped him to reflect. It's the most stable relationship I've been in. I'm grateful for my intuition because it's brought me this far but I'm grateful that you've made this video because I needed it. :)
You got back together?
Towards the end of this video I burst into tears. Never have I ever got told what this preacher is teaching us, thank you from all my heart ! In the past I pushed away a man with my egoistical and stubborn attitude but I'm not the same person anymore, no Sir !
I can now go out in the world and be my beautiful self 🙏
A Relationship is like having a Farm and Financial Investments, that Demands
~Time
~Work
~Effort
~Dedication-Determination
~Open-Minded, Highly Intelligent Communications
~Patience and Persistence
It must be constantly and consistently Nurtured, Cultivated, Harvested, Replanted, Nurtured, Cultivated and Over and Over Again.
And If you don't have that Time and Dedication, then A Relationship with another person is Not for You.
A man needs to give his woman something to smile about - if she's not happy there is a good reason for it. A 'How To Make A Woman Happy' video for men would be terrific.
You are the father figure for the fatherless. Taking the time with us that are fathers weren’t able to take. Newly married and seeing things clearer already. Much thanks.
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Dear don’t say that term “fatherless”
It was made by hateful men to spite women, rather an “absent father” sounds much more graceful. -with Love from a sister💗💗
Standing ovation! Excellent advice. Even if you’ve been feminine with a masculine man, it’s nice to be reminded of what a masculine man needs. Thank you for your insights and guidance, there is always room for improvement. You must be a queen to and for your king. Amen.
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RC Blakes. Men you are wonderful. I came across your video about a week ago, subscribed and has not stopped listening to you. We need more of you in the society teaching our princesses and queens. This will go a very long way to heal our marriages and relationships. I am a guy , lives in UK and finds your videos very powerful. I pray for more wisdom. You never stopped making references to your wife which is so wonderful. You are indeed a King . Please say Hi to Lisa your queen. May the good Lord bless your marriage and your ministry. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for maintaining consistency in sharing your wisdom with your flock every Monday night.
Sincere silence is was I’m doing now, giving him time to think. I loved this message Pastor, God bless you and Lisa❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿
We communicate by letting him know our Standards and NEVER lowering them.
“Whatever is appreciated will be duplicated” ❤️
Wow...I have been a woman pushing my masculinity on my husband and now I understand why he left. Thank you for this lesson that showed me, me
Ask him why he left before you assume that is why he left.
Thank you RC. I think that's how I lost my man because I did alot of arguing with him instead of how you said to just be silent. And with arguing with him he says I don't respect him. It's hard to know how to be that type of woman. I am learning every day and trying to work on it. It's not easy
I feel like we are always taught to be strong and not “take no mess” that it makes us be on the defense. Plus sometimes it the wrong man for us.
This message was written and design for women such as myself. I thank you so much for these fatherly words of wisdom.
Kings and Queens require a lot..where much is given, much is required! Amen Pastor!
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Good evening and blessings to Bishop and First Lady Blakes, to All my Queen Sisters.🙏😇❤
This is true wisdom! This same message needs to be given to husbands. One attitude feeds off the other. 🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor! Some of these portions (i.e. attitude lol) was difficult to hear but is received with grace. Lord grant us the ability to operate in our most feminine and beautiful selves so that we can be at peace. I'm asking the holy spirit to help me to be graceful, beautiful, soft, and to keep my attitude in check. Thank you for this valuable ministry.
Amen 🙏
This is a MasterClass right here y'all!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
one major issue is that a lot of us women are not dealing with real men, we dealing with toxic un healed boys in mens bodies. Some of us have been all these things and still poor results. It makes being feminine difficult, cause they frustrate the hell out of you with childish behavior. It gets old. Angels don't live in hell, if men want good women they also need to understand there is a formula to get the best out of your women. Most of them bringing the worst out of us. But i'm so thankful for your teaching. after 7 years of dealing with a narcissist , I'm thinking I have1 relationship left in me lol. I'll be well prepared.
" KEEP YOUR SHIP TIGHT AND RIGHT"!
I know when you right, that's some good advice there!
I got to tighten up before I lose my king. Thank you RC Blakes.
Is he tightened up?
@@teishawoods3830 Yes
Good for you
i started watching you a couple weeks ago, and i m really getting a lot out of your videos- i was going through a breakup and its so helpful to hear your coaching. thank you so much!!
You will defn start seeing a different version of yourself in a relationship or just learning who you are as a whole.
I just found him a few weeks ago too! Life changing
Thank you for sharing the message Mr. Blakes. You not only helped me, but other people I shared your videos with. Both men and women appreciate your help.
I come from a generational broken home , raised solely by a man , I am certain in who I am,have attributes that make me gentle and serving to who i give my heart to , however not all travel an easy path in relationships ,
Many women will put up barriers to protect particularly,if they have been violated and disrespected ,
I can only speak from experience
I am as gentle as a dove, however I will never tolerate no man not valuing me , disrespecting me , ever again , and that is the standard I have placed for myself ,
Could end up on my own to the grave,
but far better than allowing one to treat you with disdain , and place no value in your being ,
When any visit that mindset on me I can become a very impatient, angry person , I will receive no less than what I give .
Thank you for your wisdom RC Blake’s bless up you and family .🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Pastor!!! THAT WAS SO POWERFUL!!! THANK YOU FOR THAT WISDOM... ❤ YALL!!
Respected. I love being a strong but very feminine woman and blessed to finally have a high value man because I recognized I am a high value woman. Thank you Bishop...🙏🙏🙏
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This is a great message I believe this is true for both sides. Each person should have that respect for one another and show and speak the appreciation they have for their spouse. Communication is everything yes very good wisdom!!
My only disappointment is that I didn't hear this message sooner. “Whatever is appreciated will be duplicated.” So many valuable nuggets of wisdom. I need this message downloaded on repeat. Hopefully it’s not too late to save my relationship and I can practice what I’ve just learned.
Thanks so much RC. I saw instant results using these tools with my good man. More on communication with men please. Ad even with the good men, men are so different to women that sometimes it's hard to understand especially when you don't grow up seeing men.
🙏🏽🥰♥️ I literally just took your advice and tested my husband and because of you I finally passed the test lol 😂 thank you for your insight he’s said exactly what you said I asked him my question in my feminine energy where as before I did not I never noticed it I thought I was always in the same tone I guess not 🤦🏾♀️🥰♥️🙏🏽👑🙌🏽
My ex would always ask if I was mad. I never was when he asked but I guess I look angry unless Im smiling. I will intentionally smile when I see him. Such a simple change that clearly means a lot to a man. Thank you soo much
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My husband was truly a King. He went to be with the Lord 2.5 weeks before you posted this message. I grew up without a father and had no idea what a man truly needed. He was unhappy and would say that I didn't respect him or appreciate him, but he could not tell me what he meant. I prayed and studied all that I could. and figured out what my King needed.
On time! 🙏🏿 God is ALWAYS on time! That you Spirit for using Pastor RC Blakes for delivering this powerful message that I so much needed this evening. God bless you Pastor & First Lady RC Blakes.
If both couples are matured up and knows what love and respect is then other things will eventually fall naturally with some ups and downs along the way and to never give up on each other and learn from the mistakes and communication is #1 key beside love and loyalty.
He really has helped me evolve into a gracefully feminine woman. I am very interested in hearing his wife speak as well. But I am just so into hearing this information come from a man. He is truly a blessing to all❤
Don’t shorten anything! Whatever God Almighty has put on your heart to share, & forever how long, Speak It Bishop! I pray Jesus speak to all our hearts and we are open to receive it! Our soul need it!
Good Morning Pastor Blakes!!! I have been binge watching all of your videos for over a year now (wishing I found it sooner) and I noticed that God uses you to answer questions or concerns I may have. I believe I am in a season where God is preparing me for marriage and my main concern lately has been "how do I communicate respectfully to a masculine man w/o being disrespectful/masculine during conflict?". I logged in and you posted this video! Thank you soooo much! I can't express how much I appreciate ALL of your content.
P.S I purchased your books so I could pass them down to my daughter when she is of age. She's 5 right now, LOL. I also bought "Kingology" for my brother and going to purchase a few more for my niece. Thank you and Lisa for all you do!!!
Thank you pastor Blakes for your teachings. I watch two or three videos a day. Your teaching is needed in all churches. The thing that I like the most you tie it with scriptures. May you house be blessed forever.
I stumbled across you on your podcast around 2015. I truly thank God for you! He has encapsulated you with a magnitude of wisdom and knowledge, placed you on a platform that has allowed you to reach, teach and share your gift. Thank you for helping me and others to elevate‼️🙏🏽
Thank you for this. I now see my mistakes and shortcomings. I will aim to BE BETTER because I deserve better.
Congratulations on 26 years of blessed marriage. I hope to have that one day. 🙏
What a beautiful message!! As a mother of adult sons (young kings) I find that this approach works with my interactions with them. I pray that it will serve as a point of reference when they choose wives. Thank you for sharing this message!! God bless!!😇🙏🙏🙏
Hello Pastor Blakes. I just wanted to say how thankful I am to have stumbled across your blogs on TH-cam. Your messages are so powerful, enlightening and much needed. I have listened to you everyday for the past couple of months and it has made me become very much more aware of how I'm supposed to be as a wife. You and Lady Lisa have truly blessed my soul with your divine wisdom. I thank the Most High for bringing you both in my life.
Very helpful tips, thank you 🙏. I've been single for awhile and I need to tone down the masculine energy I use in the working world to get by and pay the bills. You make excellent points and great reminders of what it means to be feminine. I love that you quote the Bible, I attended Catholic school for 8 years and they never really taught the Bible.
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So true abt the door opening thing! I was in a car with a man and the door was stuck from the inside...so he had to run over and open it for me. When i got out the car there were 2 young men stumbling to run over and open the door of the store for me. I had NEVER seen that happen before! How you allow ppl to treat you is contagious 🤔
Thank you so much for letting God use you. I definitely agree both party's need to hear a "thank you".
Your wisdom and your grounded teachings are so refreshing! Thank you for teaching people how to have “healthy” marriages and relationships not “friends with benefits” and situationships. God’s Word is the ultimate wisdom we need. Much of it is common sense but……common sense is uncommon.
Love your deliverance.... Get wisdom get understanding. I thank you man of God for this wealth of information. I am truly learning who I am in this process. May God continue to use you on this platform and bless you beyond measure.... God Bless you and your family....
Thank you for sharing your wisdom about communicating in a high- value relationship. I truly appreciate you!!!
I thank God for leading me to your videos… you are so on point until it’s ridiculous. I’ve watched a few of your videos so far and you truly are a man of knowledge knowing much about all of what you speak on . You have read, saw and seen right through my life experiences… I know one thing, your teaching has taken me from third grade straight to 12 ! Lol, basically you have caused me to upgrade myself. Thank you.
Wow I wish I had this teaching when I was with my fiance'. But now that I know better, I will definitely do better 👌. I'm so grateful for this teaching. Thanks again for your wisdom Mr. Blakes ❤️🙏
I needed to hear this. Great lesson! I receive it, believe it, and will proceed with it in mind. I appreciate you Bishop Blakes!
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Depends on financial freedom easier to be high value when your not worrying about bills etc and can focus so it’s all about income
High value women have stress and real life problems too…. A lady of class doesn’t drop her classy ways because she’s having some issues of life…
@@NoGuappp to be honest I think all this high value nonsense and alpha male nonsense doesn’t help .. I think it all depends on intelligence and if pple are in the right place at right time and chemistry there ..it’s not upto the woman to make the man a good man he should want to be and show that .. actions not words
When the work requires being a ostrich, with my head in the ground, I draw the line.
Doing anything the right way is a lot of work, rewarding and blessed.
Love you Pastor RC - that bit about 'well you smile every time you see your pastor and the police' KILLED ME 🤣 so true!
Lol me too 🤣
Great message Pastor Blakes. I needed to hear this, in fact, I had to listen twice. Thank you
Wisdom has spoken yet again. Giving God thanks for this ministry. So needed in the body of Christ. I, for one, truly appreciate all that has been said.
As soon as I heard your voice come on after a church service I was listening to, I said with such joy “hi daddy”.
I grew up with my father in the house but he was a toxic and broken man. He abused me terribly. So you are the dad I’ve always wanted. Your soothing voice of wisdom is a blessing. And god spoke to me a few moments after you started talking . God told me “learn to listen to your father to prepare for your husband. “ my father in heaven and my father figures on earth.
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I believe in communication it is the key to life