because they dont see that , being okay with just shaking hands because its just small thing to be a problem! but after time they want hug, they want kiss on chicks then problems will keep on coming because people will never be contented. and ISLAM prevents this problems despite with this ofcourse muslims are just humans commit mistakes but atleast we dont think that this is OKAY , we sin and we repent.
@@Omasje1"I like not from worldly life but perfumes and women." (Ibn Sa'd, Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabir, Volume 1, p. 469) He is a fake prophet because what kind of a god marries a 6/7 year old and sleeps with a 9 year old.
@@Omasje1 Yeah, and then they call us terrorist and have we have no freedom just because our religion rules are "odd" and different 💀 Just leave us alone lol
7:07 what you guys don’t understand is that when it comes to religion, we never change. If it was just a tradition or a custom then sure, things do change but we believe that Islam is the ultimate truth and all its teachings are from God! How can we change it! That’s why most Muslim never compromise on their religion
This probably says more about me than anything else, but that sounds like the most morally bankrupt and egotistical concept ever. The idea that anything we know is set in stone and unyieldingly true is such an antithesis to reality to me. Double so if the knowledge comes from a divine source. : /
@@orcmcc But if it is coming from God himself, wouldnt it make sense? He knows everything. From our birth, death, animals, astronomy, science and literally everything! To us, Quran is perfect. The complete truth about basically everything in the world. Theres somewhere i read someone saying "Its funny why people think God need to 'catch up' to the society now. God is literally all knowing". God's word has always been perfect. Heck i doubt most of us could even catch up to everything that is said in the Quran. (btw dont bother to reply. Idk why i cant get notifications at all. Maybe bc of the email im using, but yea) Have a nice day!
@@adriana-3128To me the fact that it comes from god is enough of a reason not to, but I am of the opinion that if a god or gods exist then it is the duty of humanity to overcome them and there works. To me, that is the point of life. Understanding and mastery of world we live in is the goal. Very incompatible life philosophies :).
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
The world is changing but Islam will never change. Muslims might (some of them) But Islam is forever. And the prophet peace be upon him said Islam began as something strange and it will go back to begging strange so glad tidings to the strangers.
@@AngelaxSoma ذكرتني بنشيد أحبه للشيخ سعد الغامدي غرباء ولغير الله لا نحني الجباه غرباء وارتضيناها شعارا في الحياة إن تسل عنا فإنا لا نبالي بالطغاة نحن جند الله دوما هكذا درب الأباة
Some changes depends on time flow, intention and more. Scholars also do a lot of debate so Islamic law should be in line with the times and not trendy.
not hugging in islam is not considered traditionalistic it's a way and a lifestyle that should be included whenever wherever by us muslims ...and thank u
Talking about being open minded but they can’t even apply the same rule by respecting the fact that Islam hasn’t been changed and will never be till the end of times 😂
yh its seen as odd in today's society but it's a kin to a person not wanting anyone to invade his/her personal space. But if we say our religion says it then everyone is up in arms lol
@@7625e Even that phrase I dont like it. "Todays society", as if the whole world has a shared culture, views and society. I get what you mean and this is more for others, but we have to remember that outside of europe and the Americas, it is actually very common in many countries regardless of religion to not have much physical contact with the opposite gender, wether thats because of the gender or simply an aversion to excess physical contact in general differs of course. Look at Japan for example, no one will say that japanese people are backwards or weird because they dont hug strangers like people in the west, but when people in Saudi Arabia do the same thing people think it's strange or backwards or regressive. As a muslim I say this, if keeping with islamic ruling and legislation is regressive, then regressive is good. Progress isn't always a good thing..
6:32 She is talking about the strangers who are not related to her (not a father, a brother, a son, a nephew, a niece, or an uncle). 7:08 1- I have a question please; what kind of spirituality will be remained? 2- does it mean that people's kindness measures or civilization indexes are the female's availability for being hugged or touched by strangers? 3- What if change accelerates? what will be the required indicators of openness and civilized behavior by then? 4- where do you think that will lead to?
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
We must distinguish and avoid hatred and distraction attempts. We had questions and we expected answers. It seems that this person does not have an answer, Replying to such comments gives it value. It is wise to ignore them.
6:40 the thing is, parents and family are allowed to do those things, the separations are for men who are not blood-related or married to the woman. Same way women don't wear hijab infront of family/husband, but wears them infront of men who are strangers
This is about the "hugging & shaking hand" part.. There's easier way to understand this rule by knowing this basic rule : 1. If the person you about to hug/shake hand are a person who you can get marry to, it's HARAM (forbidden). 2. Therefore a small child, your mom, grandma..you get the picture...they are HALAL (allowed). You can only touch them hugging/hand shake once you get married. This is simply because human are weak to flesh.. A simple touch could end up to be something else..😅
You can feel compassion WITHOUT physical contact. As you say, "the world is changing", we have a digital life now. We could hang out with people simply just by talking or texting with them. Also, if any non-Muslim refuse to be touched or hugged, people will say "Well, that's their privacy and personal space. You can't invade it without their consent". Irony, huh? Also, isn't there are five love language that people often to talk these days? There soooo many ways to express the love and compassion. Like Dakara Ma presented in her videos, we smile to people, we share/give food to other people (family, neighboring, friends, or just a stranger in needs), be kind with others, helping them, and says something kind to support them.
women in Islam are not allowed to shake hands or hug only with strangers but it's ok with their husbands, fathers, brothers, uncles,. They can even take off their veils
Yeah so are men , theyr not allowed to shake hands or hug with strangers (women) but it's ok if it's their wives, mothers, sisters,... (mahram). They can even see them without hijab 😊
We are MUSLIMS, not Christians nor Jews, we don’t reform our religion depending on our actual socio-political situation. We know that God The Allknowing has sent down the seal of Prophets and laws to abide by till the end of times. So what about YOU try and be open minded to this fact.
@@userfriendlyforever Translation: If this the immutable word of the only existing god the clearly they are a deranged lunatic, and it is more moral to side with those that stand against that beings words. -_-
@@orcmccjust as nature's laws like gravity and molecules' structures won't ever change, even more so the rules that govern human, isn't it illogical that these universal law remain but the life's guidance God explicitly/"intententionally" sent for all humanity that traverse time need to change while human's nature and innate inclination in essence will remain the same no matter the time? things that can trigger human into some deviations in the past will also same in the present or future
A girl or woman can hug her father, brother, grandfather, uncle, husband, or son, but she is not permitted to hug other than men who are not related by blood or family. I hope I made it clear
@@fasilkhanfasilkhan9918I've occasionally complained about my cousin not covering herself around us because all the other women cousin do even though we lived like siblings as kids
10:35 Unfortunately this happens no matter what but in Islam, we can say with conviction that this is a human error. Muslims will sometimes lie to themselves or deliberately twist words to their own favor. For example, smoking! Islam strictly forbids eating/intaking anything that is purely harmful to you and (I think) addicting is also forbidden. Yet so many make excuses about why they can smoke cigarettes or shisha. Human's by nature will take the easy way out, it's almost inevitable. But thankfully, this is an individual issue, scholars will generally admit that this is not okay.
Sunnah means the way of the prophet. Basically, he showed us how the quran is to be implemented in our lives. Quran is the primary source of authority.
I am a Muslim living in South Africa. My Christian neighbors have keys to my house. They enter and help themselves to my groceries/food even when I am not there. What's mine is there's. That includes the bathroom! So they enjoy liberties with us, but they have to 'istinja' when using our toilet. Its a win-win because they learn better hygiene.
@@stayspiritual honestly wouldn’t mind that.! Having an open mind and searching for truth can make you being exposed to multiple reactions and actions but that doesn’t mean you meant to disrespect in anyway.!! Keep doing you, Allah (GOD) will surely guide you to the truth.!!
this reaction is the most genuine one I've ever seen. Most people went for the "safe route" by agreeing to everything from the video. Not that it's a bad thing, but it's refreshing to hear a genuine criticism of non-Muslims about Islamic practice.
Of course you can hug and kiss your father, brother, , son, uncle, grandfather, nephew, grandson. But not a stranger or a cousin ( because in Islam it’s allowed to marry your cousin)
TRUE, the they think it's got them complains when their partner "che. ats" on them. They are liberals you can't expect anything good from them anyway 😂
As much as people think it's weird, it's really important to clean your feets because feets gets most of the dirt when you walk around on the floor with no shoes or it smells if you don't wash them for long time, Salah or not.. It's important
A Muslim woman cannot Shake hands or hug a man who is a stranger or who is not one of her mahrams. The question here is who are the woman’s mahrams: they are the father, brother, uncle, grandfather, maternal uncle, son, husband, nephew, sister’s son, So, a Muslim woman can certainly hug and shake hands with her mahrams who were mentioned before, but our true religion has set boundaries between a foreign man and woman. This is to preserve the chastity and dignity of the Muslim woman and to protect her as well, praise be to God, for the Muslim woman is honored and respected in the Islamic religion.
We can hug close family like Spouse, siblings, parents grandparents, aunts, uncles... etc. You don’t alway have to wash your feet before prayer if you already washed them for a previous prayer that day and have your socks and shoes on.
Once you are a believer, nothing is difficult, since we are Muslims since birth it's simpler. Islam never been restrictive on the contrary it makes our life simple , easy, ...
Hugging the opposite gender in islam. 1. You can hug your family - people who you cannot marry for obvious reasons 2. You can hug an elderly , even in their death beds 3. Prevention is better than cure In Islam, the rules about men and women not touching each other are there to keep everyone safe. It's like saying it's better to stop something bad from happening in the first place, rather than trying to fix it after it's already happened. For example, if a man and a woman shake hands, and the man starts thinking he likes the woman just from that small touch, those thoughts could lead to bigger problems like arguments, sadness, or even more serious trouble. So, Islam tries to stop these problems before they even start. By not having men and women touch, it stops any bad thoughts or actions early on. This way, everyone is protected, and we don't have to worry about fixing problems because we've stopped them from happening in the first place. It's all about making sure every single person is safe and respected.
Our problem is that most non- Muslims often look at Islam as “Laws” But it’s much broader conviction to us! Islam is literary a lifestyle! Etiquettes even in the smallest matters, Morality is considered in every sense in every aspect of life and, it extend to political matters, science,….. etc Our problem is the oversimplification of Islam as just a religion.. it’s bigger than that..
10:20 there is actually something like that lol, instead of having to wash our feet every time you do ablution , you can instead lightly graze your socks with water , but this has some requirements aswell, like your socks have to be completely clean and you have to wear them after doing full body ablution (essentially just a shower with some extra steps) , then you can proceed to wetting your socks (lol) before prayer for the next day and a night then the ritual expires and you have to restart with a shower and clean socks. this might seem useless but trust me it makes a difference in winter if you suffer from chronic cold feet like me.
As-salaamu alaikum , Im very happy you guys are reacting to this video . I wanted to clear something when she was talking abt not mingling , touching or shaking hands with the opposite gender . You have to understand what a Mahram and non-Mahram is ( mahram = relatives , sisters , brothers , aunts , uncles , people who you forbidden to marry, basically family members and non-Mahram are basically strangers , people who you can marry ) in Islam we are taught the etiquettes of how to behave with non-mahrams and Mahrams , elder and young and other different relations . I live in an Islamic state so people here are familiar with these etiquettes and practice them well (in our society its a very respectable , honorable act) but since most people in other countries don't know about this it can offend them or they take it the wrong way and that makes us feel bad but we cant just abandon this , it is part of our religion and a commandment from our creator ALLAH. However many times like this we explain to them the reason and purpose of this after which there are 3 outcomes 1) the person understands , admires , respects ..etc 2) the person respects it but doesn't view it as something good. 3) the person is still offended and has a not-so-good opinion abt it (that is a sad outcome we experience every now and then but I hope they understand cuz as Muslims again, this is part of our religion we cant just make a compromise so we explain it to the best of our ability and leave the rest to ALLAH and that person. Keep up the good work , I hope this was helpful! :D
2:10 there are alot of muslim women that talk about islam but most of them talk about their hijabs becuase they want people to understand that we are not forced to wear them at all
When 'don't touch a stranger of the opposite sex' is controversial. It is society which need to change not the rule. Just don't touch a woman you are not committed to. This should be common sense. May Allah protect us from the devils plans
When she talked about not hugging, she meant "strangers, not family members" . But you can hug your family, parents, siblings, uncle and aunt, grandparents... etc. The rule applies on non relatives.
When a Muslim is on deathbed he will never yearn some hugs but what he yearns is that his friends & family pray for him that Allah may forgive his sinns
May Allah guide you. Islam is like another science subject, or in philosophical way, it's as deep and wide as the ocean. Man, being Muslim and not practicing Islam at all is useless...a big lose for mankind. Am so proud to be part of this ummah. May Allah help Palestine, Yemen and so on. May we passed the test with flying colors. 🎉❤
6:33 the rule is just for outsiders and cousins. However siblings, parents, grandparents ,uncles/aunts are allowed to shake hands, hug, see them without hijab, and all
3:35 as a Turkish Muslim, I have so much male friends and I have less female friends then my male friends, I always asked to myself "Am I a real Muslim?" bc I always hug them shake hands with them and I have a kick boxer friend, I am even kick boxing with him sometimes. And nobody judges me bc of this, so, Muslim guys and girls, please tell me if it's halal. I'm so confused
The point about “at death”, as Muslims we also have specific burial customs. There are specific rules after someone passes away about who can touch the body. There is also a strict timeline on how soon the body must be buried. So that relative who is across the country might not even make it in time for the janazah (funeral). 6:40
All practicing Muslims: stay in the proper distance, practicing the cleanness because we have to take wudhu and maintain it to pray, stay healthy while eating in allowance portions and taking care of the body, not consume harmful substances/food, not yawn with mouth open (covering it), also cover the mouth when sneezing, etc. Practicing Muslimah (Muslims who is female): *wear niqab and gloves Other people during COVID-19: DON'T FORGET TO SOCIAL DISTANCE, WASH YOUR HANDS, WEAR MASKS AND CONSUME HEALTHY FOOD. STAY HEALTHY!
6:19 BRO YOUR SO WRONG OF OCURSE IF ITS A RELATIVE YES OMG (I'm Muslim myself and btw you can only do immediate family like brother and father or grandparents but in a lot of cases you can also hug uncles.)
To comment on what you guys said : Hugging the opposite gender is Haram but not if it's a daughter, a sister, a mother, a wife (ofc lol) grandmas and so on Now this is the main point There are actually other exceptions, for example you guys mentioned that it's a bit cold that you can't hug someone who's struggling with death and so on, well actually it's not that simple, now i can't just say it's halal or haram but it depends, if like your female relative is sick she is hurt and needed a hug im pretty sure it's cold to leave her like that, in cases like these Allah judges you by your intentions, the hug you'd give to someone who's sick is ofc without lustful intentions, and for that we say you can give a hug and the rest is up to Allah, also if she is the one who went for the hug of course you accept the hug, nothing wrong with that, your intention was to sooth the pain of someone else. And as usual, we always say Allah knows best.
10:25 you're absolutely right, and I even have an example about this exact topic, wudu! (ablution, as she translated in the video). There is a hadith (saying from the prophet, pbuh) that says if you do an ablution, and then put socks on, you keep the ablution under the socks. meaning, if you break the ablution (going to the bathroom, passing gas, etc) then the next time you do an ablution, if you haven't taken the socks off, all you have to do is wipe over them. the same is true for hijab. BUT this is a thing that people will just conveniently leave out: the socks referred to in this hadith are *leather* socks. meaning waterproof! normal cotton socks of today do not fit the bill to apply this hadith! but people will stop you taking your socks off at the mosque for ablution and insist you don't need to.
6:33 m a little confused from that conversation cus english is not my first language but i would like to clarify that we have certain people of the opp gender that we can hug, that includes our brothers, father, grandparents, not cousins.
2:14 Indonesia have many Muslim women preachers and Content creator from the hardcore to the gentle. So it's not new i hope you guys can find it later 6:37 as a Muslim, if you women you can hug your Father, brother, a boy child, grandfather, your grandson. Other than that you can't hug or touch unless is emergency
I wanna add something.. I'm very open minded and guess what .. islam is the thing that taught me this bcz i learned a lot about the true and only God .. and in my life journey till now the more i experience and learn i get more empathy .. faith .. tolerance..and peace .. The craziest thing i learned about islam is that many Muslims actually don't understand it and it's kinda sad .
5:15 just want to mention something real quick, respectfully I hope you don't think that not shaking hands or hugs opposite gender* (*forgot to add this only apply non-mahram, glad others already point that out in other comment) or not being polyamorus, or limiting men to 4 wives maximum, wearing hijab/niqab as being conservative in muslim, those rules are not culture but commandment. So yeah to us it's better to be judged by others as conservative or whatever when the world is going toward more liberal as you say than being judge by the god for not following his commands. We can only awkwardly smile and thanks to show respect during those situations. Hopefully this information help in some way.
About hugs in Islam, you can hug the opposite gender of your family members like your child (even your adopted child), spouse, parents, parents siblings, siblings, siblings children and you can hug your cousins/nieces until they are 12
There are a few misunderstandings that often occur between Muslims and other religions. Like when you don't have contact with the opposite sex, where people think Muslims are 100% unable to interact with the opposite sex. Like a woman can't hug their little brother or father, that's not true. Interactions between women such as holding hands, hugging or even kissing men on the cheek are limited to men who are not directly related to the family. Muslim women can interact with their sons, with their brothers, with their fathers, with their uncles, with their grandfathers, with their cousins, because they have a close family relationship with her. However, this limitation only applies to people outside the family, including male friends, brothers-in-law, aunt's husband. The reason is quite simple because physical contact can cause feelings for both of them. And in Islam this can potentially lead to something undesirable, and often harms women. So the prohibition against having contact with the opposite sex is a limitation for men and protection for women. That's why touching the opposite sex is not a sin, it is a rule to protect the name of both.
The first thing I would like to clarify is that Islam has such perfect laws or rules that even in a progressing society you adapt to them with no problem whatsoever. Secondly, hugging or any physical contact is strictly prohibited when you don't know the opposite gender or they are not part of your family but hugging or other physical are allowed if it is your family. and this rule is to protect us so that someone doesn't take advantage of us.
I hear what your saying about the laws, I just know that depending on who your talking to, they might disagree. We would have to go through every rule, and even among Muslims I bet there would be disagreements. Life is very nuanced, and rules and laws evolve over time. I bet that even for a Muslim things have changed over the past 100 years, depending on where you live, relating to what your allowed to do and not do, as it relates to the Quran.
@@stayspiritual Then I would also like to add that this question was raised by Muslims way back in the day so that is why we have something called the " Four Imams" and every Muslim follows the rules of only one Imam for life but there rules are about the way of life so that solves all the problems we have
6:35 now that's a bit of a misconception; you can hug your brothers and father and some relatives if they're your direct uncle or an uncle you're close to. Like even when they're married, they can hug their father-in-law, but I should also mention that brother-in-laws aren't allowed to do so since it can mean different things based on peoples perspectives. I should also mention that if the person has not reached the age of puberty yet, they usually are allowed to hug people of the opposite gender be it their cousins or just friends. I should also mention that when it comes to intimacy it's fine since you have a different kind of relationship with the person than a usual friend of the opposite gender.
Hugging in Islam is not acceptable to someone who is not a family member. For example, my brother and I hug each other. My uncle and I hug each other, but of course I will not like intimate hugs. It will be uncomfortable. At my university, we make friends with the boys within respectful limits. We share close seats, we exchange pens and books, and we study together. We don't need to shake hands when we have " alsalam ealaykum" Of course, my love for my friend will not reach the point of crying for him on his death bed, hugging him in the presence of his wife. My journey with him will end when I find the husband that Allah chosen for me. My love to my friend will be to help his wife and pray for him. Thank you for the reaction 💙
Hugging and hand shaking allowed for certain relatives. Like sister, mother , grandmother, aunt (sisters of mom & dad) etc... the persons you're not allowed to get married by the bond of blood. How it is proggressive to hug someone when you're allowed to marry with the person? Is this rational?
Just so you know, a girl can hug her biological dad, biological uncle, brother(biological or step-brother from mother's side but only If he got breastfeeded by the mom), biological son and her husband. Also, a boy can hug his biological biological mom, biological aunt, sister(biological or step-sister from mother's side but only If she got breastfeeded by the mom), biological daughter and his wife.
6:36 in physical touch you can hug and shake hands with your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles,and grandparents ,however, you can't with your step siblings and cousins
7:15 here there are a lot of relatives that women can hug and kiss (on the cheek) like brothers and father, strangers can't, which are all specified so it's not confusing
Basically regarding having direct physical contact (hugging and shaking hands) with those you're not allowed to marry is allowed, like mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters aunts and uncles... Etc , but when it comes to those whom you can marry is not allowed, because that may lead to something bad.
I am a muslim, living currently in the Czech Republic (a country known for a very strong Beer Culture) , luckily for me, my co-workers now understand that I don't drink alcohol or beer and they also understand the concept of Halal Food and Haram food eventhough it was a little bit awckward to explain it in the beggining, and I really respect them a lot when they choose a local restaurent that has some vegetarian options so that we can all have lunch there. Speaking about beer and alcohol in general, it is forbidden to drink it but also it is forbidden to stay in a place where beer and alcohol is served (maybe the purpose behind it is to not feel the temptation to drink it when everyone around you is doing it, and at this point I am still struggling to let my colleagues know this as I am already weird enough), don't get me wrong, muslims use alcohol for medics, alcohol has a lot of useful purposes but we just don't drink it neither eat anything that contains alcohol whether it is chocolate or yogurt or biscuits
As a Muslim I disagree about the point on how times are changing, in Islam we believe the Quran is the word of Allah, and the He is all knowing. Therefore the Quran applies to all time past, present, and future. If you haven’t read it yet, even as an atheist you should!!! May Allah swt guide you all 💜💜💜
Muslim woman here, we can hug young children, women, relatives. Hugging the opposite gender doesnt hold the same value to us. For non humans hugging between friends regardless of gender is the norm and how you express closeness. For muslim women, we have non muslim male friends and we are very clear in having boundaries so that male friend understand we appreciate their friendship as we converse with them, laugh with them and respect them. However, we dont wish to hug them. For non muslims going in for a hug is normal but for us not hugging men is normal. Its like how some Europeans kiss each on the cheek, in the UK most people don't practice that. Asian bow, most non asians don't practice that. Most people are comfortable with a friendly hug. For muslims we dont hug either. We tend to place our hands on our check. People adapt easily after this is explained. I have male friends and they arent bothered. We live in a world where opposite genders interact, muslims are more selective on the means but at the end of the day its really simple. Once our friends are used to that it, it become the norm. To the point my male friends would frick out if I hugged them thats how used to it they have become. Personality can be expressed in many ways. We are friendly by smiling, looking after our friends, having meaningful conversations and checking in with each other. Not hugging doesn't make us less friendly nor doesnt mean our friendships arent as valuable to us.
We are allowed to hug anyone that is related to us that can not possibly be our husbands in the future. Example grandfathers, uncles, my dad, brothers, sons, nephews… and I do agree with your point that with anything there are consequences, but if you compare one is clearly better than the other one. In other words, if you close the door and the window how much air can get in compares to leaving the door/ window open
6:38 I am not muslim but the country I’m from is , (well it wasn’t always like that) BUT , fathers , brothers , sons and boys under 14 can have contact with the other gender. Same goes for women. I actually have a lot of say… bad experiences with this religion but I try to respect everyone and learn more about islam and see it in more of a positive perspective.
Just a correction about no hugging the other gender. You can hug your brother/sister, father/mother, niece/nephew, stepfather/stepmother, stepson/stepfather, basically, close relatives.
6:21 actually she forgot to mention that you can touch relatives. Brothers, fathers, Uncles,Grandfathers etc
Few I was gonna say..... nice 🙏🙏
There are 2 categories 1 ) mahram 2) non mahram
Mahram include blood relatives and if you breastfeed any infant then he will be your mahram
@@stayspiritualthere is mehrim or na mehrim concept in Islam,,,,, 😂😂😂😂😂😂
And also a woman can show her hair or dress as casual to those relatives too.
@@aa.r2588 👌👌👌👍👍👍👍
i find it interesting that people see islam as ‘restrictive’ but humans will naturally follow the laws of the society/country they live in
EXACTLY
Like y th would I follow a human rule and standard over GODs rules and laws? Makes no sense
because they dont see that , being okay with just shaking hands because its just small thing to be a problem! but after time they want hug, they want kiss on chicks then problems will keep on coming because people will never be contented. and ISLAM prevents this problems despite with this ofcourse muslims are just humans commit mistakes but atleast we dont think that this is OKAY , we sin and we repent.
@@Omasje1"I like not from worldly life but perfumes and women." (Ibn Sa'd, Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabir, Volume 1, p. 469)
He is a fake prophet because what kind of a god marries a 6/7 year old and sleeps with a 9 year old.
Absolutely
@@Omasje1 Yeah, and then they call us terrorist and have we have no freedom just because our religion rules are "odd" and different 💀 Just leave us alone lol
7:07 what you guys don’t understand is that when it comes to religion, we never change.
If it was just a tradition or a custom then sure, things do change but we believe that Islam is the ultimate truth and all its teachings are from God! How can we change it! That’s why most Muslim never compromise on their religion
Exactly THANK YOU!!!!!
I don’t care if the world changes my religion doesn’t have to 😪
Agreed! We cant change something from god. It impossible. Thats why Quran was never changed!
This probably says more about me than anything else, but that sounds like the most morally bankrupt and egotistical concept ever. The idea that anything we know is set in stone and unyieldingly true is such an antithesis to reality to me. Double so if the knowledge comes from a divine source. : /
@@orcmcc But if it is coming from God himself, wouldnt it make sense? He knows everything. From our birth, death, animals, astronomy, science and literally everything! To us, Quran is perfect. The complete truth about basically everything in the world. Theres somewhere i read someone saying "Its funny why people think God need to 'catch up' to the society now. God is literally all knowing". God's word has always been perfect. Heck i doubt most of us could even catch up to everything that is said in the Quran.
(btw dont bother to reply. Idk why i cant get notifications at all. Maybe bc of the email im using, but yea) Have a nice day!
@@adriana-3128To me the fact that it comes from god is enough of a reason not to, but I am of the opinion that if a god or gods exist then it is the duty of humanity to overcome them and there works. To me, that is the point of life. Understanding and mastery of world we live in is the goal. Very incompatible life philosophies :).
As a Muslim you can hug your brother, father, son, grandfather, grandson, nephews..etc
😂😂rapist muhammd
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
gross mf. @@jean-pierresteenberg
@@jean-pierresteenberg May Allah give you hidayat 🤲🏼Ameen
May Allah give you jahanam inshallah. Ameen
Don't worry, you can hug your mother, daughter, sister and very close relatives known as "Mahram" in islam
Yeah father's hugs are the best.
The world is changing but Islam will never change. Muslims might (some of them)
But Islam is forever.
And the prophet peace be upon him said
Islam began as something strange and it will go back to begging strange so glad tidings to the strangers.
Exactly thank you!!!
طوبى للغرباء ❤ well said 👏
@@AngelaxSoma
ذكرتني بنشيد أحبه للشيخ سعد الغامدي
غرباء ولغير الله لا نحني الجباه
غرباء وارتضيناها شعارا في الحياة
إن تسل عنا فإنا لا نبالي بالطغاة
نحن جند الله دوما هكذا درب الأباة
@@MM-tk4mv أنشودتي المفضلة 🤍
Some changes depends on time flow, intention and more. Scholars also do a lot of debate so Islamic law should be in line with the times and not trendy.
The "don't touch the opposite gender" rule isn't applied to family :) it's only for strangers and friends.
Just saying he means it doesn't apply for family like you can't touch them but not in a you know what way
There your mahram bro ofc
not hugging in islam is not considered traditionalistic it's a way and a lifestyle that should be included whenever wherever by us muslims ...and thank u
Talking about being open minded but they can’t even apply the same rule by respecting the fact that Islam hasn’t been changed and will never be till the end of times 😂
@@theboa7525 well spoken
yh its seen as odd in today's society but it's a kin to a person not wanting anyone to invade his/her personal space. But if we say our religion says it then everyone is up in arms lol
@@7625e it's double standard policy of the western world
@@7625e Even that phrase I dont like it. "Todays society", as if the whole world has a shared culture, views and society. I get what you mean and this is more for others, but we have to remember that outside of europe and the Americas, it is actually very common in many countries regardless of religion to not have much physical contact with the opposite gender, wether thats because of the gender or simply an aversion to excess physical contact in general differs of course. Look at Japan for example, no one will say that japanese people are backwards or weird because they dont hug strangers like people in the west, but when people in Saudi Arabia do the same thing people think it's strange or backwards or regressive. As a muslim I say this, if keeping with islamic ruling and legislation is regressive, then regressive is good. Progress isn't always a good thing..
6:32
She is talking about the strangers who are not related to her (not a father, a brother, a son, a nephew, a niece, or an uncle).
7:08
1- I have a question please; what kind of spirituality will be remained?
2- does it mean that people's kindness measures or civilization indexes are the female's availability for being hugged or touched by strangers?
3- What if change accelerates? what will be the required indicators of openness and civilized behavior by then?
4- where do you think that will lead to?
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
@@jean-pierresteenberg didnt know your mothers name was Aicha
@@jean-pierresteenbergDidn't know you graduated from Jackal university!
We must distinguish and avoid hatred and distraction attempts. We had questions and we expected answers. It seems that this person does not have an answer, Replying to such comments gives it value. It is wise to ignore them.
@@Ruya-Vision1 and yet, it has intrinsic value...
I remember doing wudu at ihop bathroom and a woman walks in and she says, “you’re fine, I have a Muslim friend”. 😍
6:40 the thing is, parents and family are allowed to do those things, the separations are for men who are not blood-related or married to the woman. Same way women don't wear hijab infront of family/husband, but wears them infront of men who are strangers
This is about the "hugging & shaking hand" part.. There's easier way to understand this rule by knowing this basic rule :
1. If the person you about to hug/shake hand are a person who you can get marry to, it's HARAM (forbidden).
2. Therefore a small child, your mom, grandma..you get the picture...they are HALAL (allowed).
You can only touch them hugging/hand shake once you get married. This is simply because human are weak to flesh.. A simple touch could end up to be something else..😅
You can feel compassion WITHOUT physical contact. As you say, "the world is changing", we have a digital life now. We could hang out with people simply just by talking or texting with them. Also, if any non-Muslim refuse to be touched or hugged, people will say "Well, that's their privacy and personal space. You can't invade it without their consent". Irony, huh? Also, isn't there are five love language that people often to talk these days? There soooo many ways to express the love and compassion. Like Dakara Ma presented in her videos, we smile to people, we share/give food to other people (family, neighboring, friends, or just a stranger in needs), be kind with others, helping them, and says something kind to support them.
women in Islam are not allowed to shake hands or hug only with strangers but it's ok with their husbands, fathers, brothers, uncles,. They can even take off their veils
u meant walies , not velis that sound like turkish accent
@@aacc5984veils, meaning hijab and other head covering
@@aacc5984she meant veil the hijab
vice versa for man too
Yeah so are men , theyr not allowed to shake hands or hug with strangers (women) but it's ok if it's their wives, mothers, sisters,... (mahram). They can even see them without hijab 😊
We are MUSLIMS, not Christians nor Jews, we don’t reform our religion depending on our actual socio-political situation.
We know that God The Allknowing has sent down the seal of Prophets and laws to abide by till the end of times.
So what about YOU try and be open minded to this fact.
True, this is the only cmnt which got what they are implying while everyone is giving justifications
Well if that what's on agenda then where are those devil's at. They seem to be talking a lot more sense.
@orcmcc Your cmnt makes literally no "S. E. N. S. E"
@@userfriendlyforever Translation: If this the immutable word of the only existing god the clearly they are a deranged lunatic, and it is more moral to side with those that stand against that beings words. -_-
@@orcmccjust as nature's laws like gravity and molecules' structures won't ever change, even more so the rules that govern human, isn't it illogical that these universal law remain but the life's guidance God explicitly/"intententionally" sent for all humanity that traverse time need to change while human's nature and innate inclination in essence will remain the same no matter the time? things that can trigger human into some deviations in the past will also same in the present or future
not hugging the other gender does not include your father, brother, husband and son
I was just about to say that 😂
A girl or woman can hug her father, brother, grandfather, uncle, husband, or son, but she is not permitted to hug other than men who are not related by blood or family. I hope I made it clear
Don't forget nephews! I hug my nephew all the time when we meet eachother even though he towers over me now 😭😭😭 they grow so fast
Add uncle… and husband’s son
I'm Muslim and you can hug your fathers and brother uncles grandfather's but not strangers and male cousins
and for males it's the opposite you can't do the same with females
@@fasilkhanfasilkhan9918I've occasionally complained about my cousin not covering herself around us because all the other women cousin do even though we lived like siblings as kids
But if mom sister has husband it's not mahram right?
@Rainwithsun yes he's not
edit: he's mahram to his relatives and wife
10:35 Unfortunately this happens no matter what but in Islam, we can say with conviction that this is a human error. Muslims will sometimes lie to themselves or deliberately twist words to their own favor. For example, smoking! Islam strictly forbids eating/intaking anything that is purely harmful to you and (I think) addicting is also forbidden.
Yet so many make excuses about why they can smoke cigarettes or shisha. Human's by nature will take the easy way out, it's almost inevitable. But thankfully, this is an individual issue, scholars will generally admit that this is not okay.
That's true smoking and music
Smoking is haram and should never be done PLEASE DONT GIVE YOURSELF LUNG CANCER KIDS!
Thank you for this comment! I was getting so tired of Muslims saying "smoking is only disliked but not haram" like c'mon...ofc it's haram...
During pandemic everyone experienced, no hugging, shaking hands and we also experienced we pretty good to interact with even mask on face 😊
Loved it!
*Visiting the sick.. recommended by the prophet (pbuh) 70.000 angels prays for a person who visits the sick.
Sunnah means the way of the prophet. Basically, he showed us how the quran is to be implemented in our lives. Quran is the primary source of authority.
Its like a tradition of Muhammad PBUH
I am a Muslim living in South Africa. My Christian neighbors have keys to my house. They enter and help themselves to my groceries/food even when I am not there. What's mine is there's. That includes the bathroom! So they enjoy liberties with us, but they have to 'istinja' when using our toilet. Its a win-win because they learn better hygiene.
Islam is the way of life, this religion full guidance start from your birth until you die.
Nice joke non Muslim will go in hell clearly written in book real way of life 😂
😂😂😂😂 defend this or prove it to adam seeker
@@gourishmahale4929 huh?
when she said not allowed to hug men she didn't mean her father, siblings and nephews...she meant other men
In Quran the one chapter mentioned by the of mother marry....
Chapter name is Surah Maryam
you guys are cool and so respectful. Really like your reactions, subscribed.
Assalamu alai kum brothers (peace be upon you )
We are getting better at it. We didn't start so great. Are earlier videos might offend you.
@@stayspiritual honestly wouldn’t mind that.! Having an open mind and searching for truth can make you being exposed to multiple reactions and actions but that doesn’t mean you meant to disrespect in anyway.!! Keep doing you, Allah (GOD) will surely guide you to the truth.!!
Cute. Informative. Sweetly narrated. And you both react with respect. :)
Thanks! 😃
6:38 wait,,, we can hug our fathers, brothers, grandparents and uncles 😭
this reaction is the most genuine one I've ever seen. Most people went for the "safe route" by agreeing to everything from the video. Not that it's a bad thing, but it's refreshing to hear a genuine criticism of non-Muslims about Islamic practice.
Of course you can hug and kiss your father, brother, , son, uncle, grandfather, nephew, grandson. But not a stranger or a cousin ( because in Islam it’s allowed to marry your cousin)
I'm afraid that they will misunderstand the kissing part too because they're not Muslims and have girlfriends ☠️☠️
People have become so open minded that their brain fall out.
🧠
TRUE, the they think it's got them complains when their partner "che. ats" on them. They are liberals you can't expect anything good from them anyway 😂
the washing feet thing is funny until you're in that situation and u start getting anxiety 😭
Ya, really, I can appreciate that. I don't like anyone having to be stressed out. 🙁
As much as people think it's weird, it's really important to clean your feets because feets gets most of the dirt when you walk around on the floor with no shoes or it smells if you don't wash them for long time, Salah or not.. It's important
There will always be the latest in Islam, sir,
If We want to know. May Allah grant peace to both of your hearts, sir. And thank you for sharing.♥️🇮🇩
A Muslim woman cannot Shake hands or hug a man who is a stranger or who is not one of her mahrams. The question here is who are the woman’s mahrams: they are the father, brother, uncle, grandfather, maternal uncle, son, husband, nephew, sister’s son,
So, a Muslim woman can certainly hug and shake hands with her mahrams who were mentioned before, but our true religion has set boundaries between a foreign man and woman. This is to preserve the chastity and dignity of the Muslim woman and to protect her as well, praise be to God, for the Muslim woman is honored and respected in the Islamic religion.
we do what we do because its ordered by Allah, we don't need to change anything about islam
We can hug close family like Spouse, siblings, parents grandparents, aunts, uncles... etc. You don’t alway have to wash your feet before prayer if you already washed them for a previous prayer that day and have your socks and shoes on.
Once you are a believer, nothing is difficult, since we are Muslims since birth it's simpler. Islam never been restrictive on the contrary it makes our life simple , easy, ...
Quran isn't changed at all.
Well thats how quran not changing because thats how is it
Because it is already perfect and it's Prophet's Miracle and the words of God
Hugging the opposite gender in islam.
1. You can hug your family - people who you cannot marry for obvious reasons
2. You can hug an elderly , even in their death beds
3. Prevention is better than cure
In Islam, the rules about men and women not touching each other are there to keep everyone safe. It's like saying it's better to stop something bad from happening in the first place, rather than trying to fix it after it's already happened. For example, if a man and a woman shake hands, and the man starts thinking he likes the woman just from that small touch, those thoughts could lead to bigger problems like arguments, sadness, or even more serious trouble.
So, Islam tries to stop these problems before they even start. By not having men and women touch, it stops any bad thoughts or actions early on. This way, everyone is protected, and we don't have to worry about fixing problems because we've stopped them from happening in the first place. It's all about making sure every single person is safe and respected.
Our problem is that most non- Muslims often look at Islam as “Laws”
But it’s much broader conviction to us!
Islam is literary a lifestyle! Etiquettes even in the smallest matters, Morality is considered in every sense in every aspect of life and, it extend to political matters, science,….. etc
Our problem is the oversimplification of Islam as just a religion.. it’s bigger than that..
Islam teachs us every day moral that why we arent changing with time
Great Muslims from Pakistan 🇵🇰 ❤
انت جعلتني اضحك عندما تكلمت عن فقرة العناق 😂😂😂😂 ، خذ نفس لا تستعجل إسأل وابحث
10:20 there is actually something like that lol, instead of having to wash our feet every time you do ablution , you can instead lightly graze your socks with water , but this has some requirements aswell, like your socks have to be completely clean and you have to wear them after doing full body ablution (essentially just a shower with some extra steps) , then you can proceed to wetting your socks (lol) before prayer for the next day and a night then the ritual expires and you have to restart with a shower and clean socks. this might seem useless but trust me it makes a difference in winter if you suffer from chronic cold feet like me.
I always love your reactions on Islamic videos, please more and more ❤❤❤❤
Thank you ... there will be more. 🙏🙏
I have watched few Islamic reactions you guys have done and by far this has been my favourite.
Appreciate it
May Allah guide you to Islam brother
And keep them videos uploading and more videos about Islam people wanna actually learn 🤍
As-salaamu alaikum , Im very happy you guys are reacting to this video . I wanted to clear something when she was talking abt not mingling , touching or shaking hands with the opposite gender . You have to understand what a Mahram and non-Mahram is ( mahram = relatives , sisters , brothers , aunts , uncles , people who you forbidden to marry, basically family members and non-Mahram are basically strangers , people who you can marry ) in Islam we are taught the etiquettes of how to behave with non-mahrams and Mahrams , elder and young and other different relations . I live in an Islamic state so people here are familiar with these etiquettes and practice them well (in our society its a very respectable , honorable act) but since most people in other countries don't know about this it can offend them or they take it the wrong way and that makes us feel bad but we cant just abandon this , it is part of our religion and a commandment from our creator ALLAH. However many times like this we explain to them the reason and purpose of this after which there are 3 outcomes 1) the person understands , admires , respects ..etc 2) the person respects it but doesn't view it as something good. 3) the person is still offended and has a not-so-good opinion abt it (that is a sad outcome we experience every now and then but I hope they understand cuz as Muslims again, this is part of our religion we cant just make a compromise so we explain it to the best of our ability and leave the rest to ALLAH and that person. Keep up the good work , I hope this was helpful! :D
2:10 there are alot of muslim women that talk about islam but most of them talk about their hijabs becuase they want people to understand that we are not forced to wear them at all
i really recommand u to try to go on the livestream of :the muslim lantern:, it would help u understand islamic povs way better
I hope one day he will be on the show, that would be awesome.
@stayspiritual Just reach out to him that would be interesting
Yes, I recommend it too.
brother Mohamad Ali will be very helpful if u have any questions about Islam.
When 'don't touch a stranger of the opposite sex' is controversial. It is society which need to change not the rule. Just don't touch a woman you are not committed to. This should be common sense. May Allah protect us from the devils plans
When she talked about not hugging, she meant "strangers, not family members" .
But you can hug your family, parents, siblings, uncle and aunt, grandparents... etc.
The rule applies on non relatives.
We can hug our blood relatives but can't hug strangers 😊
As a Muslim and someone who watches Dakara Ma bc of that vid dis is a gud vid
When a Muslim is on deathbed he will never yearn some hugs but what he yearns is that his friends & family pray for him that Allah may forgive his sinns
May Allah guide you. Islam is like another science subject, or in philosophical way, it's as deep and wide as the ocean. Man, being Muslim and not practicing Islam at all is useless...a big lose for mankind. Am so proud to be part of this ummah. May Allah help Palestine, Yemen and so on. May we passed the test with flying colors. 🎉❤
We can hug our father, brother, grandfather's, uncles, son, husband, father of husband.
3:30 "im not vegetarian but i tell them i am one when im eating outside" yes girl this is the EXACT thing i always say 🙊
6:21 wanted to mention we CAN hug and touch family/close relatives. We’re not hermits that never speak to each other lol
6:33 the rule is just for outsiders and cousins. However siblings, parents, grandparents ,uncles/aunts are allowed to shake hands, hug, see them without hijab, and all
3:35 as a Turkish Muslim, I have so much male friends and I have less female friends then my male friends, I always asked to myself "Am I a real Muslim?" bc I always hug them shake hands with them and I have a kick boxer friend, I am even kick boxing with him sometimes. And nobody judges me bc of this, so, Muslim guys and girls, please tell me if it's halal. I'm so confused
physical contact with the opposite gender is strictly haram
The point about “at death”, as Muslims we also have specific burial customs. There are specific rules after someone passes away about who can touch the body. There is also a strict timeline on how soon the body must be buried. So that relative who is across the country might not even make it in time for the janazah (funeral). 6:40
All practicing Muslims: stay in the proper distance, practicing the cleanness because we have to take wudhu and maintain it to pray, stay healthy while eating in allowance portions and taking care of the body, not consume harmful substances/food, not yawn with mouth open (covering it), also cover the mouth when sneezing, etc.
Practicing Muslimah (Muslims who is female): *wear niqab and gloves
Other people during COVID-19: DON'T FORGET TO SOCIAL DISTANCE, WASH YOUR HANDS, WEAR MASKS AND CONSUME HEALTHY FOOD. STAY HEALTHY!
Islam also has its own rules of Economics (for example "Interest" is forbidden).
6:32 Regarding family members, it is normal. In fact, we do not interact physically with those who are a little further away.
6:19 BRO YOUR SO WRONG OF OCURSE IF ITS A RELATIVE YES OMG (I'm Muslim myself and btw you can only do immediate family like brother and father or grandparents but in a lot of cases you can also hug uncles.)
To comment on what you guys said :
Hugging the opposite gender is Haram but not if it's a daughter, a sister, a mother, a wife (ofc lol) grandmas and so on
Now this is the main point
There are actually other exceptions, for example you guys mentioned that it's a bit cold that you can't hug someone who's struggling with death and so on, well actually it's not that simple, now i can't just say it's halal or haram but it depends, if like your female relative is sick she is hurt and needed a hug im pretty sure it's cold to leave her like that, in cases like these Allah judges you by your intentions, the hug you'd give to someone who's sick is ofc without lustful intentions, and for that we say you can give a hug and the rest is up to Allah, also if she is the one who went for the hug of course you accept the hug, nothing wrong with that, your intention was to sooth the pain of someone else. And as usual, we always say Allah knows best.
10:25 you're absolutely right, and I even have an example about this exact topic, wudu! (ablution, as she translated in the video). There is a hadith (saying from the prophet, pbuh) that says if you do an ablution, and then put socks on, you keep the ablution under the socks. meaning, if you break the ablution (going to the bathroom, passing gas, etc) then the next time you do an ablution, if you haven't taken the socks off, all you have to do is wipe over them. the same is true for hijab. BUT this is a thing that people will just conveniently leave out: the socks referred to in this hadith are *leather* socks. meaning waterproof! normal cotton socks of today do not fit the bill to apply this hadith! but people will stop you taking your socks off at the mosque for ablution and insist you don't need to.
6:33 m a little confused from that conversation cus english is not my first language but i would like to clarify that we have certain people of the opp gender that we can hug, that includes our brothers, father, grandparents, not cousins.
The muslims can Hug their Brothers or sisters.
As long as their a family member its ok to hug them :)
2:14 Indonesia have many Muslim women preachers and Content creator from the hardcore to the gentle. So it's not new i hope you guys can find it later
6:37 as a Muslim, if you women you can hug your Father, brother, a boy child, grandfather, your grandson. Other than that you can't hug or touch unless is emergency
I wanna add something.. I'm very open minded and guess what .. islam is the thing that taught me this bcz i learned a lot about the true and only God .. and in my life journey till now the more i experience and learn i get more empathy .. faith .. tolerance..and peace ..
The craziest thing i learned about islam is that many Muslims actually don't understand it and it's kinda sad .
5:15 just want to mention something real quick, respectfully I hope you don't think that not shaking hands or hugs opposite gender* (*forgot to add this only apply non-mahram, glad others already point that out in other comment) or not being polyamorus, or limiting men to 4 wives maximum, wearing hijab/niqab as being conservative in muslim, those rules are not culture but commandment. So yeah to us it's better to be judged by others as conservative or whatever when the world is going toward more liberal as you say than being judge by the god for not following his commands. We can only awkwardly smile and thanks to show respect during those situations. Hopefully this information help in some way.
About hugs in Islam, you can hug the opposite gender of your family members like your child (even your adopted child), spouse, parents, parents siblings, siblings, siblings children and you can hug your cousins/nieces until they are 12
There are a few misunderstandings that often occur between Muslims and other religions. Like when you don't have contact with the opposite sex, where people think Muslims are 100% unable to interact with the opposite sex. Like a woman can't hug their little brother or father, that's not true. Interactions between women such as holding hands, hugging or even kissing men on the cheek are limited to men who are not directly related to the family. Muslim women can interact with their sons, with their brothers, with their fathers, with their uncles, with their grandfathers, with their cousins, because they have a close family relationship with her. However, this limitation only applies to people outside the family, including male friends, brothers-in-law, aunt's husband. The reason is quite simple because physical contact can cause feelings for both of them. And in Islam this can potentially lead to something undesirable, and often harms women. So the prohibition against having contact with the opposite sex is a limitation for men and protection for women. That's why touching the opposite sex is not a sin, it is a rule to protect the name of both.
The first thing I would like to clarify is that Islam has such perfect laws or rules that even in a progressing society you adapt to them with no problem whatsoever. Secondly, hugging or any physical contact is strictly prohibited when you don't know the opposite gender or they are not part of your family but hugging or other physical are allowed if it is your family. and this rule is to protect us so that someone doesn't take advantage of us.
I hear what your saying about the laws, I just know that depending on who your talking to, they might disagree. We would have to go through every rule, and even among Muslims I bet there would be disagreements. Life is very nuanced, and rules and laws evolve over time. I bet that even for a Muslim things have changed over the past 100 years, depending on where you live, relating to what your allowed to do and not do, as it relates to the Quran.
@@stayspiritual Then I would also like to add that this question was raised by Muslims way back in the day so that is why we have something called the " Four Imams" and every Muslim follows the rules of only one Imam for life but there rules are about the way of life so that solves all the problems we have
You can hug your brother or father in islam
6:35 now that's a bit of a misconception; you can hug your brothers and father and some relatives if they're your direct uncle or an uncle you're close to. Like even when they're married, they can hug their father-in-law, but I should also mention that brother-in-laws aren't allowed to do so since it can mean different things based on peoples perspectives. I should also mention that if the person has not reached the age of puberty yet, they usually are allowed to hug people of the opposite gender be it their cousins or just friends. I should also mention that when it comes to intimacy it's fine since you have a different kind of relationship with the person than a usual friend of the opposite gender.
Greetings from Muslim Indonesia 🇮🇩
Hugging in Islam is not acceptable to someone who is not a family member. For example, my brother and I hug each other. My uncle and I hug each other, but of course I will not like intimate hugs. It will be uncomfortable. At my university, we make friends with the boys within respectful limits. We share close seats, we exchange pens and books, and we study together. We don't need to shake hands when we have " alsalam ealaykum"
Of course, my love for my friend will not reach the point of crying for him on his death bed, hugging him in the presence of his wife. My journey with him will end when I find the husband that Allah chosen for me. My love to my friend will be to help his wife and pray for him.
Thank you for the reaction 💙
Hugging and hand shaking allowed for certain relatives. Like sister, mother , grandmother, aunt (sisters of mom & dad) etc... the persons you're not allowed to get married by the bond of blood.
How it is proggressive to hug someone when you're allowed to marry with the person? Is this rational?
6:34 she probably forgot to say this but your allowed to hug and shake hands with relatives like uncles,grandfather,brother,and father
No, in Islam its fine to hug you relatives but in the video she means strangers, male friends and so on
Hi I'm Muslim and I will tell you something about the hug 🫂. You can hug you brother and father but you can't hug other or other family members. 😊
You can hug your brother and your father and your nephews and uncles not strangers
Just so you know, a girl can hug her biological dad, biological uncle, brother(biological or step-brother from mother's side but only If he got breastfeeded by the mom), biological son and her husband.
Also, a boy can hug his biological biological mom, biological aunt, sister(biological or step-sister from mother's side but only If she got breastfeeded by the mom), biological daughter and his wife.
6:36 in physical touch you can hug and shake hands with your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles,and grandparents ,however, you can't with your step siblings and cousins
I just watched that video 😂😂❤
When you haven’t hugged someone you won’t want to hug them in their death. We are ok with praying for them. And that’s the best thing anyone can do.
7:15 here there are a lot of relatives that women can hug and kiss (on the cheek) like brothers and father, strangers can't, which are all specified so it's not confusing
Basically regarding having direct physical contact (hugging and shaking hands) with those you're not allowed to marry is allowed, like mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters aunts and uncles... Etc , but when it comes to those whom you can marry is not allowed, because that may lead to something bad.
Maa sha allah, ZABARDAST video and Zabardast reaction.
I am a muslim, living currently in the Czech Republic (a country known for a very strong Beer Culture) , luckily for me, my co-workers now understand that I don't drink alcohol or beer and they also understand the concept of Halal Food and Haram food eventhough it was a little bit awckward to explain it in the beggining, and I really respect them a lot when they choose a local restaurent that has some vegetarian options so that we can all have lunch there. Speaking about beer and alcohol in general, it is forbidden to drink it but also it is forbidden to stay in a place where beer and alcohol is served (maybe the purpose behind it is to not feel the temptation to drink it when everyone around you is doing it, and at this point I am still struggling to let my colleagues know this as I am already weird enough), don't get me wrong, muslims use alcohol for medics, alcohol has a lot of useful purposes but we just don't drink it neither eat anything that contains alcohol whether it is chocolate or yogurt or biscuits
As a Muslim I disagree about the point on how times are changing, in Islam we believe the Quran is the word of Allah, and the He is all knowing. Therefore the Quran applies to all time past, present, and future. If you haven’t read it yet, even as an atheist you should!!! May Allah swt guide you all 💜💜💜
Muslim woman here, we can hug young children, women, relatives. Hugging the opposite gender doesnt hold the same value to us. For non humans hugging between friends regardless of gender is the norm and how you express closeness. For muslim women, we have non muslim male friends and we are very clear in having boundaries so that male friend understand we appreciate their friendship as we converse with them, laugh with them and respect them. However, we dont wish to hug them. For non muslims going in for a hug is normal but for us not hugging men is normal. Its like how some Europeans kiss each on the cheek, in the UK most people don't practice that. Asian bow, most non asians don't practice that. Most people are comfortable with a friendly hug. For muslims we dont hug either. We tend to place our hands on our check. People adapt easily after this is explained. I have male friends and they arent bothered. We live in a world where opposite genders interact, muslims are more selective on the means but at the end of the day its really simple. Once our friends are used to that it, it become the norm. To the point my male friends would frick out if I hugged them thats how used to it they have become. Personality can be expressed in many ways. We are friendly by smiling, looking after our friends, having meaningful conversations and checking in with each other. Not hugging doesn't make us less friendly nor doesnt mean our friendships arent as valuable to us.
We are allowed to hug anyone that is related to us that can not possibly be our husbands in the future. Example grandfathers, uncles, my dad, brothers, sons, nephews… and I do agree with your point that with anything there are consequences, but if you compare one is clearly better than the other one. In other words, if you close the door and the window how much air can get in compares to leaving the door/ window open
6:38 I am not muslim but the country I’m from is , (well it wasn’t always like that) BUT , fathers , brothers , sons and boys under 14 can have contact with the other gender. Same goes for women. I actually have a lot of say… bad experiences with this religion but I try to respect everyone and learn more about islam and see it in more of a positive perspective.
she forgot to mention that we can touch and hugs and kiss our relatives dad brothers and famlly
Not completly right it depends on what kind of relative and uncles from both sides are mahram which means you can hug and kiss.
Just a correction about no hugging the other gender. You can hug your brother/sister, father/mother, niece/nephew, stepfather/stepmother, stepson/stepfather, basically, close relatives.
6:26 brother, and fathers or uncles hahahaha it’s okay to hug them 😭😭 I am a Muslim and from Saudi Arabia