STOP DOING THIS! - She's Losing Interest In You! | Apollonia Ponti
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If she loses interest, he should date someone younger than her, who likes him a lot more than she does..
Everything is literally easier to accomplish then women.. my Lamborghini has never changed its mind.. focus on yourself men
Right bro. The same is with my 911.
F#ck.. I was fuckin kiddin I don't own a fu*kin car.
Lol right. I had a female tell me, why can't you just read my mind lmao I was like damn lmfao 😂😂
Yeah im getting there too
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🤑right - woman are variables - you can do everything right, but still wouldn't be satisfied... / woman are energy drainers - be very careful when pursuing 👀
Honestly...men are doing so much to please woman....you show emotion..they don't like it ..you show no emotion, they get upset....it's rough dating....Everything is built around a woman's wants and needs...but when you do it, it's still not good enough...I am recently single and..damn...it's difficult....If a man loses interest, everyone goes crazy...The woman loses interest, and everyone supports her..im pretty sure there are good woman out there..vice versa...Good luck fellas...Hopefully you find love
If I like you I like you. It doesn’t take me to know everything. We will never know each other 100 % anyways. But I digress.
Why is it always the men that has to put in the hard work while the women sit there with score cards
@Killermoves #1 Exactly. We do all the work all the time for these entitled women. So unfair to men!!
True. I guess men should just show up with dating manuals
Women dont care about your struggle, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners
In the phillipines. The woman pursues the man, they actually trample over themselves for a man
Who cares what she does, you do you bro, better yourself, self love equals confidence
That part!
I swear dating videos make me realize how much and why I don't like humans. It's ironic though bc the things people like during dating they don't like in relationships
Exactly!
Ive been on both sides of the spectrum. It’s Basic psychology. Notice when we work on something it hold more value then when things are simply given to us.
Same lol, it’s just requires work on both sides. Attract the right women
Just get comfortable with love lasting a short while, embrace the ending and who cares if she loses interest. Be yourself. Don't follow rules to make her like you. Make yourself happy and let anyone who wants to lose interest in you, exit peacefully. Say whatever you want and do as you want and she can go if she likes. If you really like her, make sure there's enough space for her to be safe and comfortable. If she wants to leave, invite someone else to enjoy your time with..
Very well said!
Agreed 💯
Good stuff
Thank you
Shes losing interest? Thats nice and luxurious that she doesnt have to put an effort in keeping the interest of a man.
Fem privilege
Always about them apparently,smh
In the phillipines. The woman pursues the man, they actually trample over themselves for a man.
I notice the way my relationship with the woman I’m dealing with is evolving it’s been over 3 months and we still have that huge spark we been on like 5 dates we don’t always talk and it creates a ton of tension.. I really use what I learn from this page and gosh it’s priceless thanks apolonia
My ex-gf told me that she didn't feel the connection. Fine not a problem. I initiated the "no contact" theory. About 2 weeks later, she contacted me, wondering what I'm up to and why I didn't call her. Hmm...I was wondering the same also.
Because they expect attention from you. Validation
You should tell her: Bitch, I'm not your toy so you can pleasure yourself anytime you feel like it. I'm not a yo-yo.
Men need to start taking back their power.
absolutely love this, no point trying to pls her or forcing attraction, its better to just let it come from within
Tell us how to slow it down.
Tell us how to make her earn our time
Give solutions, not problems.
Tell us how to play hard to get
That would be actionable
"be in the flow" doesn't help me
The best experience from me to you is just go through the experience that’s a better lesson then someone telling you but just focus on you and just let it naturally flow instead of forcing it that’s how
@@williamjohns765 Well what he's trying to say is that instead of only saying what we're doing wrong (women in general, not this video) tell us what can be improved as well.
But then again, they say women don't really know what they want, so they should follow our lead ;)
She does tell us in previous vids, just scroll back
If you're busy, it's not even playing hard to get, it's just putting your life first, and if someone flakes, it won't even bother you bc it's her who losing out, you're not available every day's, only a select amount of days in the week
agreed approval seeking behavior is self sabotage focus on you and enjoy the moment for as long as it will last, for better or for worse. no regrets.
Her friend nailed it ...its supposed to be fun! Yes, meeting a woman and spending time getting to know her is a ton of fun when there's no pressure or outcome obsession... this is gold❤️
Its not fun
Apollina, some day also tell women what men want in them, what turns off men, what things of women kill their attraction for men, etc etc.
@Arshad Ali. She'll never do that. It's all about what we have to do to get a woman. She couldn't care less about what men want, unfortunately.
She does once in a blue moon
If she is into you all this games won't be necessary
I still believe money is the great equaliser for a man with 99% of women . 🤷
100% would be more accurate.
To many games! It's always a game! Regardless when you first meet or later, it's the same thing. You're tell us to put on a mask and hide things we're openly trying release so that things can flow with the dating process. It's not enough time to be doing all this just to keep someone attracted to you. So the big question is. What happens we you do this properly and then get so comfortable that everything comes out?
My attitude have confidence in yrself
Jesus, damn if you do damned if you don’t
Yeah I waited till knowing her well :D And she is now with another dude. The law is simple if she likes you she will like you. The problem is too much simp out there who has destroyed the legit game.
If she likes you, she will put in the work to keep you.
She would communicate with you.
She would be excited to see U!
100% lol i agreee
You both made me super tired, I'm going to bed now. Thanks anyway
she loses interest when she has many options in her life, yes the tips are also feasible, but the reality is girls who lose interest quickly just simply found a better person in terms of money, opportunities etc.
The first point is not just for women, even for us as Men when a girl/woman goes very fast, we can lose interest, this is a natural human instinct. However, it is something that can be fix.
Thanks for this video. I am currently talking to this girl and we seem to get along really well and established that trust but we are still getting to know each other. I don't want to rush things and I want to pace myself. I do feel a spark even though it's been a week and a bit. Wish me luck
Just lost a 6 mth relationship with a lady I thought was amazing and we wanted the same things in life however poor communication on her part and me being to giving and trying to hard caused her to lose interest. Not one argument or fight during the relationship, poor communication on her part and she simply dropped me like I never existed and cut me off from all communication. I lost the love I had for you, sorry is what I got besides the goodbye! Wish I had known these lessons before I lost this relationship.
Very nice conversation. I have learned something valuable from you sisters.
Thank you for your support.
Couldn’t I just play this video for my first date & say this is what I intend to do so you don’t lose interest? If I mess up, we can just rewatch the video & agree where I went wrong.
I like to get to know you first and study you,that way I can now know the real you and winning your heart,it’s gets better after we connect
So I can see how I’m guilty of this and she pulled away but she still shows interest amd keeps our relationship status, I didn’t understand this dynamic and she had ex trauma and wanted space. Things were going very good first two months we had small arguments but nothing we couldn’t work through and the good times were great. At first l kinda panicked when after two months she asked for space cause she was confused about her ex that passed saying she didn’t even know why she was with him she feels she didn’t love him, but here I am it’s over a month I finally stopped trying to message her and honestly it’s been exhausting I’d like to be with her but I won’t put up with thei
Sometimes you can't help it! I really like a girl right now and she is all I can think of. I have my shit together except for 1 thing.. .
Same!
But that's the way guys are made you know guys are made and wired one way and women are made and wired another way so you women have to be a little more sensitive to that and be a little more communicative you're talking about the guy having the problem what about the woman being communicative to the guy and saying look you know what you're going too fast too slow whatever you know I think it goes both ways it's not just the one-way Street girls so I think you know you need to poke holes in both directions and I think you're just looking at the guy as the faulty guy but you're not realizing that communication is a two-way street you're not doing that you're only focusing on the guys imperfections and that's not healthy and it's not correct.
Good stuff and also this is the longest run-on sentence I've ever read.
So true. I completely agree 🙌🏼
If you only knewww the shit im dealing with 😔 my girl telling me shes in love with me yesterday, then getting into a fight with me only to say she HATES me and i need therapy & that she doesnt love me AT ALL today... unreal. Absolutely unreal
Ladies!! Truthfully, your amazing dating/relationship tips are actually appreciated. I got a lot problems, you got the solution. #subscribed💌
Thanks for sharing!!
never been this early lit
Tooooo lit 🔥
This lighting is too good!! 👌
Powerful info, Hard to focus on when you’re IN something that starts out deeply before you even meet. Like I was love bombed
Well first of all u two are very beautiful thanks for the tips
Woman said she wants emotional understanding and support she refuses to talk when she is angry upset and wants to be alone. Not talking.
I hope you know that woman have too many guidelines and expectations. No man can follow all of these rules and guidelines. I went out with someone once, and the next day at night she texted me asking why I hadn’t texted already and that she didn’t want to go out again because of it.
What if she's off out flow because she's playing those testing games.
If your women is psycho and need some help, when she pushes you away and you kept all the weight of the wolrd on your shoulders, feel released when you break up! Reallly!
Ive heard the opposite. Ive heard women tell me they find it attractive when a guy walks right up to them and says " i want you to be my wife" . I find it weird but...🤷🏻♂️
Confidence!
Bad Boy trick, can have success!!
That's why i go whit my gut feeling
im pretty sure its the other way around...
If she's loosing interest then move onto someone else no harm done and plenty more to gain interest in.
Sorry to say, but...
I think it's the other way, around, Apollonia!
Why's that?
Because...
It's my belief, that...
There's a lot of guys, like myself, out there that are turn off by women, who....
Don't know how to express their feelings towards YOU, make YOU laugh, or SMILE, when things are going great or bad!
Then or Now!
Just saying....
girl! 🤨
Enjoy being single 🤣
@@ccdailyadvice6130 I AM! Anyway, my beef was, and always will be... why should "us" guys do ALL the work! 🤨
Disagree. Men are exited to plan the 2nd date on the 1st as they are happy to 'get to know her' by scheduling by means of future dates. So, what better of a way to get to know her other than planning future dates?
Relationships take work. Get to know that person. It takes a while to get to know that person. The first three dates, you get to learn about that person. What makes her happy or sad. Dating is a learning process. It takes years to really to get to know that person. For me, I need a woman who brings out my best. If you are there for that person. You will have an everlasting relationship.
7:32 that happens because for guys who have not developed proper social skills is easier to follow a pattern of instruction, like reading a manual. So for women is easy to read their lack of originality. Most of them ignore scripted lines don't have an emotional effect on them (James Bond BS), instead they should work on developing a confident persona the way they can response genuinely in a normal conversation.
Happy June!
I do have to say women also bring up the ex and ruin the flow as well. I do think your suggestion on what you learned from your last relationship helps a lot. I don't bring it up ever.
Tbh I used to think it was normal for us guys to get a girl number call her text her first say good morning ask dumb questions and have the I gotta get her mentality smh 🤦🏿 I’ve learned so much since that mindset
Apollonia you rock that look today....
Dont treat woman well cause they will pull back
Omg Cynthia is so amazingly beautiful 😍
She aiight lol
Would it still count if she is constantly stocking , with multiple different men while passing by, during co-vid 19 at bars with a protection order and also using college as a base to continue to say someone is gay. ? And being a probation officer or federal agent trying to get drugs distributed...?
Listen, to all the man, just get your money up all these problems you wont face.
Very true and it goes both ways because guys lose attraction when women are too needy texting every 20 seconds and acting insecure.
Really good video and advice...thank you ladies.
Great video!!
Is dating actually fun? Seems stressful to me although it might help to get a date first.
First date is fun if they're into you, then it gets stressful if you're attached
Just because you have excuses for the way you want things to go does not justify that it’s the way it should be. The last thing anyone should do is listen to someone that only has directions towards the mall ;)
@ApolloniaPonti--- I have an ex that has me in court with custody. Shes bled me dry. I have a descent car and rental home, but barely any belongings. This wears on me heavily. Yet I attract MUCH younger, absolutely beautiful women, some half my age, yet I dont want " to bring them back to my place" for fear of them judging me on my possessions, before they know what an absolutely awesome person I am, a catch if you will, great appearance, swagger, and a rare 1 of a kind guy, my ex just hasnt quit hammering me for nearly 4 years now, with no stop in sight except for bankruptcy. But my cars got dents, and my home ain't a mansion, yet hers literally is. Any suggestions?
Yeah I've got that problem they just bust their way in however they can
Two absolutely beautiful women giving the best advice possible to all us men, Thank You Lord
Thank you for your support!
what pushes me away is when they compare me to their ex that's a red flag and I dip out but that's when i used to give a damn now i don't date anyone more. Because who i want is gone that's who I would struggle to be with over anyone and no one can replace her. So I choose to honor the memory and grow old and make money and give that money as scholarship to help low income families to raise and give strength back to communities and inspire people to make better choices with their life before its too late. Every moment in life is precious live everyday should be valued as if its the last time you will ever see that person ever again.
i think both men and women feel better if they can tell that the person they're seeing has standards and a bit of a vetting process. if an employer seems too keen on hiring me i start to wonder if it's a bad career.
This happened to me... but on other side of the table. A girl did this to me. Third date she asked me to go on a trip together. Than she asked me to go to a wedding together two months in the future... by the 6th date she asked me what was by ideal marriage, ideal home, meeting my family etc.. major red flags. Oh by the way she dumped, yes she dumped me. I found out she blocked me on Instagram stories one day, and she went out with another dude and posted a story and wanted to hide From me. As soon as I confronted her, she broke up lol. So yeah if you see this behavior early on, run away
They lose interest simply because they are not the one for you..
Women don't seem to want to do anything for men, but men have to perfectly jump through a hundred hoops just to keep her 'attracted'.
And then she might change her mind on a whim anyway, just because you like her too much or some such thing.
I’m telling you.. guys nowadays are like ROBOTS !! They are obsessed with no contact and not texting women and just miss the connection they could of had
Great video
Great video thanks hun
I like before I even watch 😎
I get it... Don't make her a priority but make her a priority...lol No wonder there are so many unmarried women and men are giving up on traditional relationships.
Damn, two beautiful gorgeous ladies giving dating advice like this?, doesn't get much better than this
Exactly what I was thinking....gorgeous ladies...
No offence to the person on the right, but this video sums up and compares Beauty with brains with just Beauty..
Whilst beauty alone is a depreciating asset, the addition of brains is a non depreciating proposition.
Thank you Apollonia for all your insights.
Your colleague is absolutely beautiful
who gives a fuck!
that's relevant, because.???
Think she knows...
Excellent advice. Thank You
Glad it was helpful!
@@ApolloniaPonti Si Mommy!
Mystery means fantasy, guys. She wants to fantasize about who she thinks you are, not who you actually are. I think the biggest issue with relationships and dating is that women have convinced themselves that a genuine guy is boring over a fantasy. Well, of course, a fantasy is more exciting, but its not real. How many women complain about men saying, "he wasn't the guy I thought he was?" Way too many!
I need to work on the "approval-seeking behaviour".-A.ponti
Thank you
You got this!
Dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants are not who you want to date...
i always pray not to go on a date or come across these relationship teachers i will fail the test if they consider all this staff 😅
"Dating should be fun," I think this is really important. Men should understand that 9.9 out of 10 women aren't going to like you. Never take it personally. Take it as another chance to get better and learn from your mistakes. When the date is over, go back through it in your mind. Take notes. Decide what you could have done to make it better. On a lighter note. I do appreciate you bringing on that over weight, pimply faced, three times divorced, mother of 4, to help you with this video.
Why you hating on her bro? I thought she was nice.
This is so strange.
I am pursuing a formidable woman. And as you said she noticed I am not in the flow.
And I believe this is the thing I appreciate in her.
She told me "breathe " we are already there. We should appreciate this moment.
This is so challenging, I watched this video many times. Now I started to enjoy the 'moment ' with her.
And she seems more attractive to me. Thanks so much.
This is so hard when you put the girl on the highest level or hill. You want to make this moment perfect, but like you said been yourself and been there, en vivo. Nor thinking about thousands of things. Make the moment ideal. Gracias
The guest coach looks like an actress., She shall try it.
Point # 1 is Desperation! If you make the person the center of your world that early or ever, it shows that you lack options, and have not much going on in your life. It goes for pushy women as well. Very unattractive!
She says high value.. Only thing she could come up with is looks. Everything else she couldn't explain so she had to say "out there "..
Miss appolonia Question from you is, if man is always need to improve himself, what women role in relationship is?Is she always perfect....
Thanks for sharing 👍 😊
Thanks for being here!
Good stuff.
Glad you enjoyed it
I don't see anything wrong showing your feeling s upfront. Maybe we are different than women .why is that a red flag! ? Why we need to follow women standards on how to act and be man?
I want 1 woman at a time, if making her a priority turns her off then she's stupid, good riddance
I have been women and the third date they are taking marriage, when should that come up
Not that soon
Cintha is gorgeous! Is she single?
Time and time again its been proven in the dating world and the world of heterosexual relationships. That Men can not influence a relationship positively in any way, only negatively. A relationship with a woman only progresses on her terms, her whims, her expectations, and what feelings that she may about the relationship on any particular day, or any particular hour of that day.
The very best thing a Man can do in a relationship, is lose interest in the woman, avoid the woman, forget about that he even knows this woman, be as un-present as he can with her (not none of these are exclusively 'bad boy' tactics). If a Man in today's society does these things, he WILL have more hot relationships with women then his .... can handle!
Women today only see being with a Man in a relationship, as a "Trophy". Women give Men no emotional value when they are in a relationship with them. No wonder far more Men, young men, take their lives in today's society. As relationships with women, give absolutely no benefit to a Man. None of a Man's expectations of a relationship are met. It is only the Woman's relationship expectations that may become met.
I really would like you to answer this question. Especially you Cynthia. My therapist told me that if I stop looking for women, then love will come to me. Would you care to comment on that?
That's a false statement in my opinion. As men, we are hunters. It's up to us to initiate contact (in the beginning). We do the planning. The woman wants to show up and look hot.. Once the woman feels safe and comfortable with you after date or two, she will start reaching out to you first. That said, it's also important to follow what was said in this video. Don't try to lock down a commitment. Hang out and have fun. The woman will bring up relationship talk when she is ready.
True Psychology!!
So women don't have to do anything? this is nonsense
If she's a blond, tattooed, unedumacated, impulse buyer, a bad case of logorrhea,
not willing to learn anything, neck snapper, eyes rolling, smoker and a drinker...
That's when I lose all interest!!!