For those of you coming from Gabbie's video, yes, I have seen it. I’d be lying if I said that I had nothing to say in response. But honestly, I meant it when I said in my Q&A that this video IS my ultimate conclusion. Explaining myself and why I blocked Gabbie so many times over the years will air out her dirty laundry. Im not interested in going there and I’m fine with this ending here. But please know - I have NEVER blocked Gabbie for no reason and I have tried dozens of times to resolve things privately in the past. This video was my last resort after years of issues that would never get resolved. So I stood up for myself publicly because I felt I had to. Me being nice to Gabbie in text messages with no context whatsoever does not show you the truth of our tumultuous past. In the spirit of not spreading false rumors, however, I will say: I have NEVER, in my life, made up a rumor that Gabbie and I are not friends anymore because she collabed with Curtis. I have not spent 5 years perpetuating that rumor. She has hurt me in regards to Curtis, as I explained in this video, but not because she "collabed" with him. There is no proof, no basis whatsoever, that I have ever stated that she DID collab with him or that I started that rumor. Just want to clear that up. Likewise to her feeling of this situation, I have no idea how the rumor that I started a rumor....started. Everyone has a right to say their piece and I believe Gabbie had a right to say hers at the end of the day. So that's that.
Wait so did you or did you not watch the video? Because Gabbie touched some very important subjects, came clean about everything and even left you a message in it.
Posting this comment on your video right after Gabbie posted a video is not going to look good for you at all. Now it looks like you're trying to back pedal because you were lying. I'm not saying you were. It's just going to look that way.
can we maybe stop trying to drag other people, lowkey gabbies vid didnt do any damage to how i see jessi as a person yet this one on gabbie makes me feel like shes a terrible and disgusting person. that being said, the side comments and connotation in which jessi is speaking is purposefully hurtful towards gabbie, while gabbie seems remorseful for stuff that has happened no matter how stupid it was. all in all i think both women are great in their own ways and this conversation should end here.
one of my favorite quotes that helped me recover from a verbally and mentally abusive relationship was “when a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.”
That’s how you truly know if someone is toxic. If your end any type of relationship with someone and they try to defame you. You’re so lucky to be out of that relationship. Now run!
That is one quote that’s always rang so true to me especially from toxic friends or ex’s that try to gaslight you and that’s exactly what Gabbie is doing!
The fact that she would even say something like “Jessi, Curtis’ friends didn’t rape you” shows that she isn’t as compassionate as she paints herself to be
Right?! Also cuz like birds of a feather flock together. Not saying his friends are rapists but if they don’t have an issue with it how great can they be???
Grace Nichols right ?? like i put myself in jessi’s shoes, and thought about if my best friend said that to me- that is so fucking disgusting and shows how low gabbie is. she’s the type of person only cares about herself or how people portray her because she wants everyone to like her.
Alan Koplehoffk I just realized that I read that wrong, I lowkey thought it said something like “I am so sorry, no one raped the bitch. Who did z?” But now that I’m rereading it I feel like a dumbass
and it is usually a typical thing to do for people who did something wrong. If someone calls you out for your mistakes, usually people try to find something the opposite person did, which is worse. It is a psychological defense mechanism. Gabbie being so defensive about everything, that people are calling out about her is just the biggest indicator for her being wrong. Also, she says she is SO happy and does have SUCH a GOOD life, which is also something people extend to do when they dont have it. Dont get me wrong here, saying you are happy isnt automatically a lie, but extending it to the point Gabbie did, whereas mentioning it a ton of times within minutes is also just a defense. Like "dont even ask me if my life is bad because as you know and see I am SOOO HAPPY". People who lack friendships, love, trust and happiness tend to over exeggerate it to a point where it is insane when you ask them about it. (Sorry for any inconvinience here if something isnt understandable, not an english native speaker here!)
When people try to make someone else look bad because they're on medication? That's the lowest of the low. I've had it happen to me. Those people are rotten to the core.
Just trying to dirty her image, no tact. I don't think therapy has done anything for Gabbie unless she was manipulating those sessions to hear what she wanted to hear.
@@austinm8334 exactly LOL. the majority of her content has always included talking about going to therapy and being such a mental health advocate as well as her own struggles with anxiety, depression, etc. What a self-righteous, toxic and miserable person she is. 🙄
Exactly. Its a shame. Shaming people who are trying to be better. No matter if its anti depressants or suboxone for someone who has an opiate dependance. Both people are trying to better themselves, better there state of mind/happiness, and by bettering themselves by getting off street drugs and likely attending therapy or meetings on MAT. Its so sad when people shame others for doing something they need to do for themselves and it not hurting anything or anything. This is a bit random but I know stories just like that and I have my own too. I just understand what you are saying on a deep level
Gabbie was funny back in the day but I quickly realised if your constantly surrounded by ‘shitty people’ or ‘psycho exes’ then the issue could just possibly be you.
Cross Stitch Bitch yes yes yes. people need to realize this. if every single friend or significant other in your life has had a problem with you, the problem most likely isn’t with them...
I know, Trisha isn’t scared of anyone. It’s like the Rock admitting he’s scared of a thirteen year old girl. Truly a sign of a legitimate manipulator and bully
Man ... shoutout to Deanna!!! The young fan who escaped her own abuser, publicly stood up for one of her idols against more abuse, and was smart enough to realize she was being manipulated by someone again. I love her ❤ Ofc, so happy Jessi is recovering and shared what she learned on her platform.
Yep. She had to talk about it with a fan because the ppl around her know she's full of shit and knows the situation with Jessi & Curtis. They know how manipulative and vile she is and they no longer allow her to pull the wool over their eyes so she has to manipulate someone she has power and control over who's naive to her bullshit. The power ppl have over those who look up to them & consider themselves a fan is terrifying. The power imbalance just helps her manipulation tactics work better. She's the female onision minus the child grooming 😣 or hell, who knows, at this point I think shes capable of any and everything vile.
Exactly. I'm not a fan of Trisha Paytas but one thing that keeps irritating me about the story is how Gabbie and her little cult fans keep defending the herpes thing like Gabbie is actually trying to help. No she was gossiping and YOU DONT FUCKING TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES HEALTH. Even if you have all the facts it's still a disgusting this to do. I really hope she gets cancelled
What kind of person acts like they support mental health then sits there and calls you psychotic and talks about your medication publicly. Makes me sick to see ppl like that Side note: when a toxic person can no longer control you, they try to control the way others see you
same here lol I mean i know of Gabbi because I saw her multiple times on Liza Koshy's channel and when I saw her face at the time I had this feeling that she was kinda shady. After watching this video tho I now know why I dont like her.
I don’t like how she kept on saying “there is no evidence, I looked it up, u can’t find it, etc.” rather than “I did not do it, I would never do that, I’m hurt that people think I did that bc it’s so awful, etc.)
Yep, bc she deleted it all and paid the way back machine to delete it (you can do that bit she acts like you can't!)!! It's so transparent what she's doing there.
Lmao Trish is always scared of someone. Trish lives off of the damn drama just like fucking Gabbie. Trish is also manipulater and a user and a lyer and troll. Nothing more nothing less than shit. Trish is a shitty human being just like half of TH-cam!!!!
@@coultervlogs if I was Gabby, I would surely use a different name. In all honesty you could find me on Facebook. Not Gabby, not even a fan of Gabby, and don't care for Trish either after doing research on the girl ,and paying close attention to her vlogs/videos her, Gabby, Onision is all waste of air in my opinion
@@kelseywarren4973 Gabbie enabling a rapist was and is still unacceptable. Its crazy how she acted up and passively blamed her own best friend for her demise. Disgusting.
*The fact that she’s sitting here, telling us the hurt she’s been through with a straight face, speaks volumes to me on how strong and patient she’s become*
@anthony cascun a picture of her face makes her narcissistic? do you even know what that word means? you're so pathetic. Get your incel vibes out of here.
I DONT like Gabbie but Jessi is kinda doing the same thing tho, she’s spending the video talking about how she would never do this type of drama either....but she made a video. There’re all adults and frankly NONE of this crap should be on the internet. They should work it out between themselves or management/lawyers when necessary. They frankly all have narcissistic attention seeking behaviour and use every situation negative or positive for views.
in the same tweet she says she knows how much she could hurt somebody (which is also a veiled threat lol) if she’s so good and kind etc why is she even thinking that?
@@stupidk1000 She has been quiet long enough and she says Gabbie hasnt stopped. After all this time why is Gabbie talking shit about Jessi. They stopped being friends years ago so there is no reason her name needs to come out of her mouth. Shes an adult so she should move on. Apparently she hasn't. Why is she trying to bring her down? I can see why she made this video. Maybe it will make her stop and move on.
Aracely Guerrero no it just invites more of the same energy. Nothing either of them do sadly can change what happened to her. They’re both engaging in mess & talking about their “good character” instead of embodying and displaying it, but I mean many adults spend their life acting like teenagers so 🤷🏽♀️ difference of opinion but i can’t imagine having friends who’re so tactless and frankly immature Adult solution: If it was real slander she could hire a lawyer and not say a word online
Anyone else disturbed that gabbie kept text messages from years ago? Kept them specifically for situations like this? To prove or spin things about people?
@@negativeorange I have an iphone and everything transfers automatically through icloud, so yeah! And I've never had the cursed memory issues that seem to plague people, so I just........ Have never deleted them lmao
I keep screenshots of fights and conversations I've had with my ex-boyfriend/ex-bestfriend mostly cause every so often I go back and read them and laugh and I see how much I have grown from the toxicity he brought into my life
The part where Gabbie says something along the lines of "everyone believing that is just having a false memory" sounds like straight up gas-lighting. It's disgusting. :/
oml being gaslighted by an ex-friend like that SUCKS. my old friend tried to convince me that she reset her memory every week, and didn’t remember being passive aggressive towards me. like????
i’m sorry, i could be wrong so uh dont be to mean to me ig, but isn’t gaslighting kinda like, degrading yourself so the other person will feel bad and do what you want? if i’m right (which i’m probably not) then the more correct term would be maybe, manipulating or something
wee wee you’re on the right track, gaslighting is a form of mental/emotional abuse that usually happens when the person doing it is convincing the victim that they are literally insane. sometimes that includes guilting them, lying, saying their memory is false, etc.
RIGHT like lmao oh wow a year of therapy. i and everyone i know have been in therapy for around 10 years and we dont act like her its fuckin unbelievable
right like wtf I've been in therapy for 10 years and i don't wear that on my sleeve like I'm proud i mean its honestly disgusting how she looks at mental health anyways.
I’ve been in therapy for 7 years (and have my masters in MFT) and lemme tell you, the first year of therapy, especially for someone like Gabbie who has been vocal about PTSD, childhood trauma, abuse, etc. is the tip of the iceberg..she really needs to stick with it and work through some more stuff bc this behavior is toxic
not kaitlyn honestly same. I feel bad because I have actually wasted my time trying to like her. But I always had a bad feeling about her. She has some very deep and serious issues, I honestly don’t even believe she goes to therapy because every year her behavior just gets worse.
literally same. i was always like “why was jessi friends with her??” i never understood why but i had an uneasy and weird feeling about her. there’s just people you have a gut feeling about that they’re not as kind and nice as they portray themselves to be.
@@kellygillman5221 she does and she loves that she looks at a nice caring person also in case you didnt know mirror reminds me of her great albumb with awesome songs that she made you should check that out :)
You notice how Gabbie keeps saying “I’m doing good in life” or “I’m secure in life” like she’s desperately trying to convince herself and everyone else that she’s happy with where she is.
Just cut a friend of 16 years like this out of my life. I decided to ghost her after years of her manipulating me and making me feel miserable. Everyone asked why I couldn't just "talk to her about it". Jessi put it perfectly...when you try to talk to them they just convince you you're wrong and it all starts over again. If you notice someone toxic like this in your life CUT THEM OUT SISTA!
i used too . she was the worst , was going through a rough time & was miserable & loved to see others terrible like her too . she would make ppl talk shit abt each other or say someone did & they would confront each other . & somehow everyone stayed friends w her & not each other bc they each trusted her . she loved the drama & attention she got from it too bc she knew the “ tea “ & the only reason ppl rly knew her & she was relevant was bc she was caught up in the all drama . & in the end if anyone called her out abt it she always played victim . no ones close to each other now & i believe we’ve all grown up in our ways but it’s crazy how selfish ppl can be at some points .
I think she’s referring to her “friend” in all her videos that does nothing but compliment her nonstop and her boyfriend who she will inevitably make a video about what a POS he is. And the people she’s paying to do everything for her.
Bottomline: Any "friend" who uses your struggles or mental health issues as fuel against you, is someone to steer clear of. Been through this when I was younger, never allowed myself to be friends with anyone like that ever again. So evil.
This is so true. I have gone through many, many toxic friend groups where there was at least one of them who used it against me and it is sick. They know you are vulnerable and they take advantage of that. Hell, one even went as far as sending memes about it, saying I was overreacting about it. I am glad I am not friends with them anymore and have another more supportive group who cares for me.
There's a HUGE difference between maintaining a lie and owning up and being honest and real about a situation. Good on you for not only keeping your cool and providing receipts, but also staying humble and owning up to what you did do wrong. That's the right way to address shit! I hope you can move on from everything thats happened and be stronger from all of this bs.
Gabbie made a video called “dating a pathological liar” and she talked about him taking screenshots of a private conversation she had with him and him sending it to someone else and that it wasn’t okay for him to do but then she does it to JessiSmiles.
DoloreMortis. This 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 100% she really did the same shit that she so adamantly said was awful and not ok to do. I can’t believe how stupid she looks rn.
Does anyone else remember when Gabby made that video about the girl who died in her classroom and then the girls family called Gabby out for lieing about the girls character? That was a warning sign. Wow.
Same! I could sense that shit. I’ve only watched one of her videos and it was one where she had her apartment like professionally organized years ago. Haven’t watched another one since. There was something about her that just felt off to me.
I only saw one video which was a fitness thing and she was bashing her personal trainer. It was a long time ago so I don’t remember the details, but it put me off watching her channel
I hate the way she uses the word psychotic when she preaches to know so much about mental health yet obviously isn't concerned for how someone with psychosis would feel hearing that and automatically being seen as a negative human
I agree. I have myself used "psychotic" as a phrase and I'm so upset that I allowed myself to as a psychology major lol. It's like using "guys" around a group of girls. :( something we need to work on
Sara Courtemanche mmm idk, i honestly don’t think that “guys” is being used wrong. i think it’s whatever and i use it unless somebody doesn’t want me to
Noemy Perez I agree tbh I still use it, however it is similar to the term "psychotic". Definitely not at the same scale, however it is a bad habit that I feel we need to break. It feeds into the culture of gender and gender stereotypes
Perfectly said!!-because she has never been the 'cool' girl but wants so desperately to be in the 'cool' group-she's tried to social climb her way through TH-cam just like High School and everyone learns who she really is the hard way. She's a BBB-a Bitter Basic Bitch, who would jump over anyone to get ahead.
Honestly as a whole mental health advocate you think she would be more careful throwing words like crazy or psycho around. It’s also people’s favourite words when they’re gaslighting someone
Gabbi can do literally anything and people will really still support her. Jessi was sexually assaulted and Gabbi said some shit that's fucked up both to Jessi and to a fan painting Jessi in a bad light but Jessi says ONE damn thing to defend herself and all the Gabbi fans hop on over and start shit. It says a lot that people will defend a narcissistic two-faced manipulator who has to remind the world that "she's a good person" and will shit talk the woman who was sexually assaulted and just trying to move on with her life.
Sorry I do not see any support as much as "hate." Honestly this new trend of sharing how others are bad to you and had wronged you in a youtube video is a messed up new norm.
@@nemanjanikolic5565 So what? That friendship is over and she no longer lives with him but that doesn't mean she wasn't raped or that her ex friend didn't choose her rapist over her. What point are you trying to make?
I can’t with that line gabbie said that Jess broke her heart,, like how do you think Jess felt when you said you wouldn’t stop seeing her rapist and his friends? You don’t think Jess was heartbroken when you said “his friends didn’t rape you”
Ryann Larsen oh it totally sounds like something someone like gabbie would say She reminds me of all the apologist bitches I stopped talking to who would still be friends with my abuser
The scariest thing about this situation is that Gabbie has a degree in psychology.....and she still acts like this....she knows how to work all the angles
Morgan Zamo Most of the time people, especially females, go into psychology because they have issues themselves. Not all the time but a lot of the time there’s something that’s pushed them to go into that major or career.
Not a Stranger ouch 🤕 im a psychology major and have no idea why or how i got into this field lmao and over time ive realized its bc i was tryna fix myself lmao
Jessi, it breaks my heart that you have to bring up your past, the sexual assault, your mental health, to address this. It breaks my heart that you have to be reminded of that. 😭💔
She’s very strong to be able to talk about something that was very traumatic. Gabbie has all this coming to her. What kind of person would take sides with her friend’s rapist?🤬That is disgusting and typical behavior of someone as toxic as Gabbie.
I can’t imagine how bad your anxiety/depression was seeing Curtis’ old videos. I love you ❤️ please never stop being you. You do so much for my mental health
Seems about right :/ probably was her actual excuse when she was siding with the rapist too, you know before she started pretending that it never happened 😂
Ah, but there is. If you go to twitter search type in " from:gabbiehanna curtislepore " and there r 2 tweets gabbie did back in 2013 (less than a month after that scumbag was exposed for what he did to Jessi). If you click on them, you can see that scumbag tweeted praise back at her. So gross
I’ve had friends like this. It’s amazing how much damage people can pass on who are in distress. She’s probably been a victim and isn’t moving on from it because breaking the cycle is really hard. Doesn’t excuse the behavior at all, lashing out at people is inexcusable - so is gaslighting.
@@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533 absolutely agree, survivors of narcissistic abuse can become narcissistic themselves as a result or can adopt narcissistic tendencies.. Its a horrible, self perpetuating, cycle 😬x
Also, way to state the fucking obvious by saying manipulative people are manipulative. NO SHIT, SHERLOCK! Did you have a drink from the Fountain of Wisdom, Gabbi, or do you just eat a lot of fortune cookies?
What I can’t get past is the disappointment in her voice. Like she’s just disappointed above all. She isn’t vengeful, she doesn’t want to ruin Gabbie, she’s just so disappointed.
She was on the verge of like anger tears a few times shits heartbreaking. Especially with all these people here saying theres blame on both sides or even worse saying that Gabbie doesnt do anything bad
Gabbie reminds me so, SO much of my ex-best friend who abused and tormented me for years until I finally tried to draw a line in the sand and tell her what my boundaries would be regarding my relationship with her. Then she ghosted me. It’s fucking weird. I’m 26 and the last time I spoke with her was when I was 18, but this still hurts me and I think I carry a lot of baggage from the manipulation and gaslighting I endured through that relationship. I hope you are doing okay, because I know first hand how damaging toxic people like this can be
The medication part triggered me... that is not of any fan or subscribers concern. And it’s not something to judge someone about. I’m so disappointed in miss “I advocate mental health look at me I’m so kind.”
Yamilett Vega People use medication as a stab when they want to make people feel guilty or ashamed or their mental illness. How can you advocate for mental health and then turn around and say something like that? Disgusting. I’m ashamed for ever liking Gabbie’s music about mental health. She’s clearly fake.
I used to casually watch Gabbie’s channel, but I haven’t been able to stand her since that Kenza Cosmetics debacle happened, and she made that extremely rude and condescending, “Manage your expectations” comment. Ever since then, I began to catch on to Gabbie’s manipulative behavior patterns.
Holy shit, I have so many likes. I'm now tripping on mushrooms and this is the last video that was playing in my app. My bathroom door is dancing. I have no idea what's going on lmaoooo
Real stupid. Lol sorry but if really rewatch this and are non bias.. this chick seems pretty crazy and pulling drama outta no where. Funny. Same day as gabbies video drop..
@@itsreadygoodbye6734 pulling drama out of nowhere? Umm... so screenshots that show a conversation in its entirety and proves that Gabbie said everything she said isn't enough? She's clearly manipulating the fuck out of this situation and gaslighting this random girl on Twitter. If you watched this entire video and still think that Jessi is just pulling this out of her ass for views, you're one of the many victims of Gabbie's manipulation.
Staci Bradshaw Pulling drama out of nowhere despite the fact that the video literally shows why she’s talking about what she is. To defend herself against the manipulation Gabbie is doing
The fact that Shane stopped talking to Gabbie and prefer Andrew instead of her its enough to believe that Gabbie its not a good person. No wonder why she doesn’t have “TH-cam Friends”
ajennine yessss was literally about to say that. Let Irene’s channel blow up and see if Gabbie is genuinely able to cheer her on. She’s too insecure for that.
I've never watched Jessi or Gabby (I'm here from a Smokey Glow commentary video) but this makes me so glad I never gave Gabby Hanna an ounce of my attention.
Blake Hendrickson I’m from smokey too! I used to love Gabbie Hanna, I looked up to her and it makes me so sad that Gabbie wasn’t as good as she proclaimed she was. I’m so glad smokey glow taught me and showed me how awful she is. I really liked Gabbie and i still kinda do, but I gotta realize the personality she shows us isn’t the real her.
i have something to say, TH-camrs should stop uploading serious things that have happened to them and between another TH-camr or any person on TH-cam. Uploading this on TH-cam won't benefit anything neither would it get the problem solved. TH-cam only makes shit worse. These are serious matters that should be dealt with in court not on TH-cam.
@@Forever-gd7vs I agree with you but her speaking up in this way about gabbie is good and it wouldn't have worked in private. Gabbie is so manipulative. This whole situation is far more complicated then we know So there for I think in this situation she shouldve have
Tamara Zahran the sexual assault happened, and was dealt with out of the public eye. gabbie is a whole other story. shes a public figure who lied and exposed personal information to a FAN. she deserves all the backlash this video will garner if it means she will pick up her shit and find another job.
God I love Jessie even when she talks about someone who’s hurt and wronged her she acts mature put together and adult. She doesn’t act like the victim even though she has every right to do so. I honestly just respect her so much I’ve been following her since the Gabbie collabs and honestly I can’t believe that she’s had the maturity to not pull some bullshit like Gabbie has in the last week.
A toxic person who no longer has control over you will do their best to alter your image to others. Just keep bein urself so others see through the lies🙏
I feel the same. It's SO SO wrong & I'm glad she's standing up for herself & not letting that wacko narc continue to try to discredit her. Anyone leaving comments dismissing this situation/video as childish "drama" are part of the problem. What gabbie has been doing is SO gross, cruel, & harmful and it shouldn't be allowed to continue. Thank You for speaking up Jessi & Trisha.
Soysauceb4ketchup She did it an HOUR AGO. Trying to act like nothing is happening and posting photos with her friends and being like “look at all the love I have frfr !” It’s so transparent.
Yeah, it's extremely transparent, embarrassing, manipulative, disgusting, & pathetic. She is doing the exact same thing on Twitter now - even her genuine fans (the smart ones) are starting to call her out on it.
when gabbie hanna said “shes been on meds” theres not a damn thing wrong w being on medication!! and this is coming from someone whose a "mental health advocate", insinuating that if you're on meds you're unstable. like ive been dealing w depression for a decade and id never say smth like that on my channel
THIS ... and also the story time video that jessi showed where she describes her as "psychotic" for being neurotic and mentally unstable like ... what the actual fck? this is so toxic from gabbie how does she call herself a mental health advocate when she spouts things like that
It is kind of circling aroud thank god. Ive never seen Jessi's channel nor am I subbed to gabbie and it came up in my recommendations. Her sub count needs to be dropping like yesterday.
Ikr, instead of saying "I would never support a rapist, he disgusts me and I want nothing to do with him" she just says she's laughing and asks where the proof is.
Yep I just started going through it recently. The other day after 3 years my abusive ex messaged me spewing stuff that 1. Wasn't true. 2. Was saying I'm lying about my mental health. I had a friend who came to me a couple years ago about how he used her and now she's taking blame for what happened, doesn't remember me telling her he abused me, and doesn't believe me at all and is still best friends with him. People just suck man.
I FELL OUT WHEN SHE PULLED UP THE TWEET FROM OCOTBER LMAOOOO. I’ve never seen Jessi so passionate/heated over something. She’s held it in for so long. Jessi, you will always be amongst the realest. Lots of love to you 💞
I went and found it. So she not only tweeted him like “omg I’m so honored to be considered on the same level” or whatever, but when he tweeted back to her in December 2013 she liked it. (This would have been after the rape allegations were public, I’m pretty sure)
She probably went to therapy maybe a total of 5 times (if that) maybe a year or a few ago and has stretched that into her actively going to therapy. Narcs are something else 😂
People like Gabby are the reason why women aren't believed when they say they've been sexualy assaulted, also why hang out with the person who youre friend claimed hurt them? What in the fresh lemon slice of hell?
Exactly, some of my fianceés ex-friends came up with the lie that she had been raped by someone of her family and then manipulated him to try to break his backthen relationship. It was awful and disgusting.
Gabbie always talking about people in her life being “toxic”... maybe... just maybe... GABBIE is the toxic one 🤔 she seems to be the common denominator
She literally starts the toxic drama then says “why am i in this? My life is perfect.. I don’t wanna give attention to this” *then makes 5 videos about it*
For those of you coming from Gabbie's video, yes, I have seen it. I’d be lying if I said that I had nothing to say in response. But honestly, I meant it when I said in my Q&A that this video IS my ultimate conclusion. Explaining myself and why I blocked Gabbie so many times over the years will air out her dirty laundry. Im not interested in going there and I’m fine with this ending here. But please know - I have NEVER blocked Gabbie for no reason and I have tried dozens of times to resolve things privately in the past. This video was my last resort after years of issues that would never get resolved. So I stood up for myself publicly because I felt I had to. Me being nice to Gabbie in text messages with no context whatsoever does not show you the truth of our tumultuous past.
In the spirit of not spreading false rumors, however, I will say: I have NEVER, in my life, made up a rumor that Gabbie and I are not friends anymore because she collabed with Curtis. I have not spent 5 years perpetuating that rumor. She has hurt me in regards to Curtis, as I explained in this video, but not because she "collabed" with him. There is no proof, no basis whatsoever, that I have ever stated that she DID collab with him or that I started that rumor. Just want to clear that up. Likewise to her feeling of this situation, I have no idea how the rumor that I started a rumor....started.
Everyone has a right to say their piece and I believe Gabbie had a right to say hers at the end of the day. So that's that.
Wait so did you or did you not watch the video? Because Gabbie touched some very important subjects, came clean about everything and even left you a message in it.
You didn’t even watch her video. Get your shit straight
And i mean she came clean with EVERYTHING that happened between her and you, Curtis, and Alx with concrete evidence of every word spoken.
Posting this comment on your video right after Gabbie posted a video is not going to look good for you at all. Now it looks like you're trying to back pedal because you were lying. I'm not saying you were. It's just going to look that way.
can we maybe stop trying to drag other people, lowkey gabbies vid didnt do any damage to how i see jessi as a person yet this one on gabbie makes me feel like shes a terrible and disgusting person. that being said, the side comments and connotation in which jessi is speaking is purposefully hurtful towards gabbie, while gabbie seems remorseful for stuff that has happened no matter how stupid it was. all in all i think both women are great in their own ways and this conversation should end here.
one of my favorite quotes that helped me recover from a verbally and mentally abusive relationship was “when a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.”
Tavyn Gibson 💯
Wow
That’s how you truly know if someone is toxic. If your end any type of relationship with someone and they try to defame you. You’re so lucky to be out of that relationship. Now run!
Tavyn Gibson PERIOD
omg it makes sm sense tho
“When toxic people can no longer control you, they will try and control the way other people see you”
damn *Dr. Phil has left the chat*
THIS.
@@sorchamelvin6302 who tf cares. Once someone says something, no one can ever say it again or reuse it? She even used the quote marks, god damn
Facts
Sounds like my ex...
just the fact that she's even talking about this to a fan is honestly really all you need to know
It really is!! Like who does that?
WITHOUT THE FAN ASKING FOR FUCKING DETAILS. aside from trying to prove fans wrong
For real!!!!
And that’s the tea!!!!
jessi literally talked to the fan about the same thing......hence why she's showing screenshots now. lol.
Jacksfilms said it best: good people don't brag about how good they are.
wait he did?
@@strawberrystarburstbuthuman yeah! he made a little song. here's the link: th-cam.com/video/cNM9hYftw9I/w-d-xo.html
Allie Devaney oh wow
PERIODT. jessi is so good and she never says how good she is but we all know.
my main question is why tf does gabbie have these screenshots from like 2016
Riley Moore pure snake activity... and I own a snake, that’s an insult to him
A Bee 💀💀💀
Because you have fake bitches always trying to cut you down now days better be safe
that’s just sad
Riley Moore yeah honestly who holds onto old ass texts and tweets.... when Trisha said “ mean girl shit” she meant it
“When a controlling and manipulative person no longer has control over you, they will try to control how others see you.”
emma this brings back bad high school memories
Holy crap that hit so close to home
That is one quote that’s always rang so true to me especially from toxic friends or ex’s that try to gaslight you and that’s exactly what Gabbie is doing!
beautifully said!
Love that ♥️
The fact that she would even say something like “Jessi, Curtis’ friends didn’t rape you” shows that she isn’t as compassionate as she paints herself to be
Grace Nichols it isn’t the youtube Curtis? like the guy w curly hair? idk his last name
Sam Christensen not at all. Curtis lepore, he was making vines i think
Sam Christensen a different Curtis, he also has curly hair but not that one that you’re thinking of. Curtis LePore
Right?! Also cuz like birds of a feather flock together. Not saying his friends are rapists but if they don’t have an issue with it how great can they be???
Grace Nichols right ?? like i put myself in jessi’s shoes, and thought about if my best friend said that to me- that is so fucking disgusting and shows how low gabbie is. she’s the type of person only cares about herself or how people portray her because she wants everyone to like her.
I’m so sorry that you had to go through sexual assault.
Uncharted Raider ? Are you trying to say that nobody raped Jessi? Why tf would she lie about something like that?
Alan Koplehoffk I just realized that I read that wrong, I lowkey thought it said something like “I am so sorry, no one raped the bitch. Who did z?” But now that I’m rereading it I feel like a dumbass
@@yagirlcheetos who did z
@@nopenada4150 the person deleted the comment. Good thing
@@reene911 fr :( cant believe theirs people that don't believe her
The fact that gabbie is constantly like “show it, prove it, etc” is such a “i need to defend myself” line.
*etc.
right, just because there’s no photo or video doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.
and it is usually a typical thing to do for people who did something wrong. If someone calls you out for your mistakes, usually people try to find something the opposite person did, which is worse. It is a psychological defense mechanism. Gabbie being so defensive about everything, that people are calling out about her is just the biggest indicator for her being wrong. Also, she says she is SO happy and does have SUCH a GOOD life, which is also something people extend to do when they dont have it. Dont get me wrong here, saying you are happy isnt automatically a lie, but extending it to the point Gabbie did, whereas mentioning it a ton of times within minutes is also just a defense. Like "dont even ask me if my life is bad because as you know and see I am SOOO HAPPY". People who lack friendships, love, trust and happiness tend to over exeggerate it to a point where it is insane when you ask them about it. (Sorry for any inconvinience here if something isnt understandable, not an english native speaker here!)
Sam. [샘] you know what I meant 🤣🤣
annamosi1 go off sis!! Preaching to the choir!
the fact that she acts sooo unbothered but literally went through old private messages screenshotting them to send to someone who wasn’t even involved
Ooo same pp
She who
When people try to make someone else look bad because they're on medication? That's the lowest of the low. I've had it happen to me. Those people are rotten to the core.
SRGots especially when Gabbie herself has also been on medication for her mental health so? Make it make sense lmao
Just trying to dirty her image, no tact. I don't think therapy has done anything for Gabbie unless she was manipulating those sessions to hear what she wanted to hear.
@@austinm8334 exactly LOL. the majority of her content has always included talking about going to therapy and being such a mental health advocate as well as her own struggles with anxiety, depression, etc. What a self-righteous, toxic and miserable person she is. 🙄
It’s a hypocritical narcissist. That’s exactly what vibes I get from her. It reminds me of my fucking dad and that’s scary.
Exactly. Its a shame. Shaming people who are trying to be better. No matter if its anti depressants or suboxone for someone who has an opiate dependance. Both people are trying to better themselves, better there state of mind/happiness, and by bettering themselves by getting off street drugs and likely attending therapy or meetings on MAT. Its so sad when people shame others for doing something they need to do for themselves and it not hurting anything or anything. This is a bit random but I know stories just like that and I have my own too. I just understand what you are saying on a deep level
she literally convinced this girl that she had false memories 😟
and it's funny cuz im almost certain *I* saw the same tweet too
it’s so weird that so many people, including me, remember that tweet very clearly. that’s so strange
@@Angelkisses444 exactly like sis really tried to lie bc most of her fans came after that point
Thats a neat little manipulation technique called ✨gaslighting✨
Gabbie was funny back in the day but I quickly realised if your constantly surrounded by ‘shitty people’ or ‘psycho exes’ then the issue could just possibly be you.
Cross Stitch Bitch yes yes yes. people need to realize this. if every single friend or significant other in your life has had a problem with you, the problem most likely isn’t with them...
YESSSSSSSSS
Exactly
OMGGGGG!!! SAME, I talked this with my friends and we all agree the same lol
Cross Stitch Bitch reminds me of Tana Mongeau
The fact that she was this open with a fan, is truly disturbing.
babyale760 but they were best friends
Right! She had everything ready incase jessi said something. She didn’t say anything to her and gabbie unloaded on a fan
She wants people on her side... so she'll go to the extreme
babyale760 not just open. But going out of her way to tell
Imagine the private info she tells her close friends about other friends
Not that she’s all that credible but imagine Trisha Paytas saying she’s scared of Gabbie. Like really think about it.
Lauren Hawkins this ^^^^^
👏🏼👏🏼
Nah she’s still a little b
@@ttahh969 Nick is nuts though lmao
I know, Trisha isn’t scared of anyone. It’s like the Rock admitting he’s scared of a thirteen year old girl. Truly a sign of a legitimate manipulator and bully
Man ... shoutout to Deanna!!! The young fan who escaped her own abuser, publicly stood up for one of her idols against more abuse, and was smart enough to realize she was being manipulated by someone again. I love her ❤
Ofc, so happy Jessi is recovering and shared what she learned on her platform.
The fact that she shared private messages with a random ass fan and really went this into depth with them shows where her mind is.
Yep. She had to talk about it with a fan because the ppl around her know she's full of shit and knows the situation with Jessi & Curtis. They know how manipulative and vile she is and they no longer allow her to pull the wool over their eyes so she has to manipulate someone she has power and control over who's naive to her bullshit. The power ppl have over those who look up to them & consider themselves a fan is terrifying. The power imbalance just helps her manipulation tactics work better. She's the female onision minus the child grooming 😣 or hell, who knows, at this point I think shes capable of any and everything vile.
Also shows how low she will go to try and make Jessi look bad and it is disgusting
Exactly. I'm not a fan of Trisha Paytas but one thing that keeps irritating me about the story is how Gabbie and her little cult fans keep defending the herpes thing like Gabbie is actually trying to help. No she was gossiping and YOU DONT FUCKING TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES HEALTH. Even if you have all the facts it's still a disgusting this to do. I really hope she gets cancelled
But like... Isn't that what Jessi is doing in this video? .-.
An Average Person not even fucking close
What kind of person acts like they support mental health then sits there and calls you psychotic and talks about your medication publicly. Makes me sick to see ppl like that
Side note: when a toxic person can no longer control you, they try to control the way others see you
Stephanie Forrester The most amazing comment on this video👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 indeed, I was thinking the same.
say it louder !!!! fuck
And then says she tries to “fix” them.
She only supports it when it comes to herself 🤷🏼♀️
Okay this is the only comment on here that i can stand behind
Who is Gabbi? Who is Curtis? Why am I watching this in the middle of the night?
May04bwu 😂😂
Nope
Same, but still I get this intense need to comfort Jessi. This is sad.
Who actually is Curtis
same here lol I mean i know of Gabbi because I saw her multiple times on Liza Koshy's channel and when I saw her face at the time I had this feeling that she was kinda shady. After watching this video tho I now know why I dont like her.
I literally gasped when this came up in my notifications
Same girl! My heart stopped a little bit
Me too!!!!
Meghan S same!
Me tooooo
Same, Jessi never gets involved in drama so I’m like :oooooooo
when a 15 year old girl texts more mature than an adult
Wow, she's 15? That makes it even worse, what a way to torment a kid with her bullshit
Deanna isn't 15, it was another fan Gabbi was DM'ing about Deanna who is 15.
Exactly. I literally listened to this video and thought 'That is a really articulate young woman.'
Than a literal 30 yr old
Jesus i didnt know she was fr just a yiung random fan, she was so rude to her saying its not just you alot of people run with fake news wtf
I don’t like how she kept on saying “there is no evidence, I looked it up, u can’t find it, etc.” rather than “I did not do it, I would never do that, I’m hurt that people think I did that bc it’s so awful, etc.)
Yep, bc she deleted it all and paid the way back machine to delete it (you can do that bit she acts like you can't!)!! It's so transparent what she's doing there.
Twinkle Toes woah that’s crazy
Such a good point
It's called gaslighting
Cause she wanted someone to have proof before she admitted she was caught lol
You know something is wrong when TRISHA THE TRISHA Is scared of someone
Lmao Trish is always scared of someone. Trish lives off of the damn drama just like fucking Gabbie. Trish is also manipulater and a user and a lyer and troll. Nothing more nothing less than shit. Trish is a shitty human being just like half of TH-cam!!!!
yenma Sierra is prob gabby Hanna hiding on a different account
yenma probably lol
@@coultervlogs if I was Gabby, I would surely use a different name. In all honesty you could find me on Facebook. Not Gabby, not even a fan of Gabby, and don't care for Trish either after doing research on the girl ,and paying close attention to her vlogs/videos her, Gabby, Onision is all waste of air in my opinion
Sierra Elmore you didn’t need to insult trish like that though
"Manipulative people are usually good at being manipulative," she said manipulatively
Domonique Perkins 💀💀💀💀
😂😂
Lol
The fact that Gabbie keeps getting kicked out of friend groups says a lot.
Xxmilkshake202xX EXAAACTLY
I'm just waiting to see what happens to Irene and her boyfriend
Gabbie to the vlogsquad: NoThInG HaPpEneD, wE’rE aLl sTilL fRieNdS
Vlogsquad: 👀
Not even Erin can stand her
@@shadebladed8 I remember Erin's tweet when Gabbie's VS video came out
@@whiskey3454 what did the tweet say
Who else YELPED when they read the title
Still screaming
Sujata i wAS LIKE OH SHIT. IT JUST GOT TOO REAL
Sujata ME. WE HAVE WAITEd sO LONG for this.
🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼
I literally choked
"You got me to apologize to you for shit that you did" wow. That's powerful and very well put.
I knew this day would come
Yeah me too. I love them both. It’s just upsetting 😞
@@kelseywarren4973 Gabbie enabling a rapist was and is still unacceptable. Its crazy how she acted up and passively blamed her own best friend for her demise. Disgusting.
@anthony cascun incel
Same
I’ve been waiting YEARS!
Shoutout to Deanna tho. She's smart as hell
Allison Gilbert right? She recognized the same feelings and broke out of the manipulation
This could have gone the other way with the person turning against Jessi
@@nanditamenon369 Good thing it didn't
@@nanditamenon369 fr! I feel like sometimes people just become blind fans. Could've been bad.
*The fact that she’s sitting here, telling us the hurt she’s been through with a straight face, speaks volumes to me on how strong and patient she’s become*
Angelica ohh first comment!! HAI
Angelica
That’s also tells HOW MUCH she is done with all of this shit .
Not terrified or angry just PISSED OFF .
why are there so many hurtful comments wtf..
Hurtful world
Ooh sis if Jessi talks about something, it is serious.
yeah honestly the last thing jessi ever wants is drama and attention
th-cam.com/video/XNBinOKvNK8/w-d-xo.html
@anthony cascun a picture of her face makes her narcissistic? do you even know what that word means? you're so pathetic. Get your incel vibes out of here.
anthony cascun dude get a fucking life, you’re literally hating on a girl because she took a picture of herself? lmao incel for sure
anthony cascun lmfaooo yikes dude
If she has to say how kind she is, she’s really not that kind
If she hangs out with rapists, she’s probably not that kind.
I DONT like Gabbie but Jessi is kinda doing the same thing tho, she’s spending the video talking about how she would never do this type of drama either....but she made a video. There’re all adults and frankly NONE of this crap should be on the internet. They should work it out between themselves or management/lawyers when necessary. They frankly all have narcissistic attention seeking behaviour and use every situation negative or positive for views.
in the same tweet she says she knows how much she could hurt somebody (which is also a veiled threat lol) if she’s so good and kind etc why is she even thinking that?
@@stupidk1000 She has been quiet long enough and she says Gabbie hasnt stopped. After all this time why is Gabbie talking shit about Jessi. They stopped being friends years ago so there is no reason her name needs to come out of her mouth. Shes an adult so she should move on. Apparently she hasn't. Why is she trying to bring her down? I can see why she made this video. Maybe it will make her stop and move on.
Aracely Guerrero no it just invites more of the same energy. Nothing either of them do sadly can change what happened to her. They’re both engaging in mess & talking about their “good character” instead of embodying and displaying it, but I mean many adults spend their life acting like teenagers so 🤷🏽♀️ difference of opinion but i can’t imagine having friends who’re so tactless and frankly immature
Adult solution: If it was real slander she could hire a lawyer and not say a word online
Anyone else disturbed that gabbie kept text messages from years ago? Kept them specifically for situations like this? To prove or spin things about people?
Not to sound like I'm defending her, but some people just don't delete their texts (me lmao)
@@BrochachoLeNacho but from years ago? You transfer your old messages over when upgrading your phone?
@@negativeorange I have an iphone and everything transfers automatically through icloud, so yeah! And I've never had the cursed memory issues that seem to plague people, so I just........ Have never deleted them lmao
Prakriti Kunwar THISSS LMAO
I keep screenshots of fights and conversations I've had with my ex-boyfriend/ex-bestfriend mostly cause every so often I go back and read them and laugh and I see how much I have grown from the toxicity he brought into my life
The part where Gabbie says something along the lines of "everyone believing that is just having a false memory" sounds like straight up gas-lighting. It's disgusting. :/
@Ruby Chickens So, it's okay to say the things Gabby said? If you think so then your thought process is disgusting.
oml being gaslighted by an ex-friend like that SUCKS. my old friend tried to convince me that she reset her memory every week, and didn’t remember being passive aggressive towards me. like????
@Ruby Chickens lmao and you're stupid
i’m sorry, i could be wrong so uh dont be to mean to me ig, but isn’t gaslighting kinda like, degrading yourself so the other person will feel bad and do what you want? if i’m right (which i’m probably not) then the more correct term would be maybe, manipulating or something
wee wee you’re on the right track, gaslighting is a form of mental/emotional abuse that usually happens when the person doing it is convincing the victim that they are literally insane. sometimes that includes guilting them, lying, saying their memory is false, etc.
Gabbie says that she “went to therapy for a year”, and uses that as an excuse to judge others like God.
ooh a whole YEAR wow!!!1!1!1!! what she needs is a couple more years
RIGHT like lmao oh wow a year of therapy. i and everyone i know have been in therapy for around 10 years and we dont act like her its fuckin unbelievable
cream cheese what she needs is a mental hospital visit
right like wtf I've been in therapy for 10 years and i don't wear that on my sleeve like I'm proud i mean its honestly disgusting how she looks at mental health anyways.
I’ve been in therapy for 7 years (and have my masters in MFT) and lemme tell you, the first year of therapy, especially for someone like Gabbie who has been vocal about PTSD, childhood trauma, abuse, etc. is the tip of the iceberg..she really needs to stick with it and work through some more stuff bc this behavior is toxic
I’ve never liked her and I didn’t know why . Now I don’t feel bad.
Same
not kaitlyn honestly same. I feel bad because I have actually wasted my time trying to like her. But I always had a bad feeling about her. She has some very deep and serious issues, I honestly don’t even believe she goes to therapy because every year her behavior just gets worse.
Same. She gives off a negative vibe and always try hard to be relevant
Ugh same
literally same. i was always like “why was jessi friends with her??” i never understood why but i had an uneasy and weird feeling about her. there’s just people you have a gut feeling about that they’re not as kind and nice as they portray themselves to be.
"manipulative people are usually good at being manipulative"
yikes
@Yuki yep
shes literally projecting lmfao
She is living proof cause there is 0 reason she had to make this public
Gabbie should look in the mirror
@@kellygillman5221 she does and she loves that she looks at a nice caring person also in case you didnt know mirror reminds me of her great albumb with awesome songs that she made you should check that out :)
You notice how Gabbie keeps saying “I’m doing good in life” or “I’m secure in life” like she’s desperately trying to convince herself and everyone else that she’s happy with where she is.
That’s not messed up that’s sad if she’s pretending she’s okay! So.. Stfu?
@@lacuna4781 yea
sis is trying to manifest it 😭😭
Because she's constantly bullied
@@isabellapacheco5569 haha manifestation can't help when it comes to feelings
Lets all just understand that Gabbi wrote: "there's no proof." Instead of, "I didn't say that" or "I didn't do that."
Very telling.
S LeAnn C yes 👏🏻💯
Trueeeee!!!! Good catch!
excellent point...
S LeAnn C great catch, I blindly brushed off without thinking of that.
Or that she was close enough to Curtis to take a selfie.. cause she did ask him to delete it.. no proof right? Lol
i think everyone used to have a friend like gabbie...
Liam Wray
An ex friend*
Seriously!
Just cut a friend of 16 years like this out of my life. I decided to ghost her after years of her manipulating me and making me feel miserable. Everyone asked why I couldn't just "talk to her about it". Jessi put it perfectly...when you try to talk to them they just convince you you're wrong and it all starts over again. If you notice someone toxic like this in your life CUT THEM OUT SISTA!
Exactly, hearing about all the ways gabbie manipulates everyone really makes me realize how bad my old friend was.
i used too . she was the worst , was going through a rough time & was miserable & loved to see others terrible like her too . she would make ppl talk shit abt each other or say someone did & they would confront each other . & somehow everyone stayed friends w her & not each other bc they each trusted her . she loved the drama & attention she got from it too bc she knew the “ tea “ & the only reason ppl rly knew her & she was relevant was bc she was caught up in the all drama . & in the end if anyone called her out abt it she always played victim . no ones close to each other now & i believe we’ve all grown up in our ways but it’s crazy how selfish ppl can be at some points .
the fact that she's sending screenshots of your texts and trying to overexplain herself to a FAN..... says quite a lot.
I was thinking the same thing like boo, slow your roll why are you talking so much
haze lmfaoooo so true
IKR
haze I don’t understand this sentence ... who is she? Edit: I got it, am a little stupid sometimes 😂
The fact that they are screenshot of texts from 4 yrs ago is crazy
even if she wasn't friends with you when it came out, she should have never interacted with him or anyone who continued to support him again
Someone who has to convince others they’re a good person probably isn’t a good person lol
“PEOPLE LIKE ME!!!!!”
Um.... where are they
I think she’s referring to her “friend” in all her videos that does nothing but compliment her nonstop and her boyfriend who she will inevitably make a video about what a POS he is. And the people she’s paying to do everything for her.
There is literally nobody gooder than me!!
This is possibly the most mature and respectful expose video I've ever seen. Good for you for speaking up.
Bottomline: Any "friend" who uses your struggles or mental health issues as fuel against you, is someone to steer clear of. Been through this when I was younger, never allowed myself to be friends with anyone like that ever again. So evil.
This is so true. I have gone through many, many toxic friend groups where there was at least one of them who used it against me and it is sick. They know you are vulnerable and they take advantage of that. Hell, one even went as far as sending memes about it, saying I was overreacting about it. I am glad I am not friends with them anymore and have another more supportive group who cares for me.
CrimesAndCosmetics those ppl that use that are narcissists.
Its truly ironic. She's mad that her ex shared her private texts with his friends yet she's doing the same
CrimesAndCosmetics she’s a monster.
When Gabbie used the over dose of a girl she didn’t even know for clout I knew exactly what type of person she was
There's a HUGE difference between maintaining a lie and owning up and being honest and real about a situation. Good on you for not only keeping your cool and providing receipts, but also staying humble and owning up to what you did do wrong. That's the right way to address shit! I hope you can move on from everything thats happened and be stronger from all of this bs.
Gabbie made a video called “dating a pathological liar” and she talked about him taking screenshots of a private conversation she had with him and him sending it to someone else and that it wasn’t okay for him to do but then she does it to JessiSmiles.
DoloreMortis. This 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 100% she really did the same shit that she so adamantly said was awful and not ok to do. I can’t believe how stupid she looks rn.
especially since one of the screenshots had personal info
I'm actually wondering if her story about that is even true now. Or ANY of these stories she tells....
Surprise!!!!!!!! She's that pathological liar in the video!
Surprise!!!!!!!! She's that pathological liar in the video!
Does anyone else remember when Gabby made that video about the girl who died in her classroom and then the girls family called Gabby out for lieing about the girls character? That was a warning sign. Wow.
I remember this!
Paola Jimenez broooo shit you just brought something up in my memory i tried to block out for YEARS. this supports jessi even more!!
I remember this omg!!! That wayyyy crossed the line!! Who makes a video and story time about a girl dying for views...
But at least she owned up to that mistake
Thats freaking insane.
I have never ever liked Gabbie Hanna. Something about her has just always given me bad vibes.
JUJU 21 dude sameee! She’s always talking about how amazing she is and how talented she is on her IG stories. Something about it seems icky
Same! I could sense that shit. I’ve only watched one of her videos and it was one where she had her apartment like professionally organized years ago. Haven’t watched another one since. There was something about her that just felt off to me.
I haven't ever liked her either ......ever since Shane dawson featured her on his channel years ago i got a bad vibe
saaaaaaame!!
I only saw one video which was a fitness thing and she was bashing her personal trainer. It was a long time ago so I don’t remember the details, but it put me off watching her channel
I hate the way she uses the word psychotic when she preaches to know so much about mental health yet obviously isn't concerned for how someone with psychosis would feel hearing that and automatically being seen as a negative human
you hun, are overly sensitive.
Poseidon Wolf no, she’s just saying how she’s a hypocrite
I agree. I have myself used "psychotic" as a phrase and I'm so upset that I allowed myself to as a psychology major lol. It's like using "guys" around a group of girls. :( something we need to work on
Sara Courtemanche mmm idk, i honestly don’t think that “guys” is being used wrong. i think it’s whatever and i use it unless somebody doesn’t want me to
Noemy Perez I agree tbh I still use it, however it is similar to the term "psychotic". Definitely not at the same scale, however it is a bad habit that I feel we need to break. It feeds into the culture of gender and gender stereotypes
Gabbie looks like someone who would bully me in high school by pretending to be my friend and then embarrassing me.
We all know someone like that :(
Wow that’s spot on
Perfectly said!!-because she has never been the 'cool' girl but wants so desperately to be in the 'cool' group-she's tried to social climb her way through TH-cam just like High School and everyone learns who she really is the hard way.
She's a BBB-a Bitter Basic Bitch, who would jump over anyone to get ahead.
Yeah you’re right
@@gloomgirl 100% spot on
Gabbie literally calls everyone who she has problems with “psycho” like someone who wants to manipulate
I know someone that calls even they don't like or agree with "weirdo"
Honestly as a whole mental health advocate you think she would be more careful throwing words like crazy or psycho around. It’s also people’s favourite words when they’re gaslighting someone
countfagula she’s probably a narcissist too.
I think she's the common denominator now in many of those psycho story times.
It's fake....
Gabbie really doesn’t think she ever does/says anything wrong, which is the first sign she’s the problem
Samalantha Dingdong amen
Samalantha Dingdong RIGHT... I realized that a while ago and I dropped her and I don’t like her anymore
Yes...
Gabbie never does anything wrong but ayt
She’s a grade A narcissist.
Gabbi can do literally anything and people will really still support her. Jessi was sexually assaulted and Gabbi said some shit that's fucked up both to Jessi and to a fan painting Jessi in a bad light but Jessi says ONE damn thing to defend herself and all the Gabbi fans hop on over and start shit. It says a lot that people will defend a narcissistic two-faced manipulator who has to remind the world that "she's a good person" and will shit talk the woman who was sexually assaulted and just trying to move on with her life.
Sorry I do not see any support as much as "hate." Honestly this new trend of sharing how others are bad to you and had wronged you in a youtube video is a messed up new norm.
jessi was not only friends with someone who supported her rapist, but also LIVED with him. this was a hit piece.
@@nemanjanikolic5565 So what? That friendship is over and she no longer lives with him but that doesn't mean she wasn't raped or that her ex friend didn't choose her rapist over her. What point are you trying to make?
You can literally hear the hurt in jessi’s voice. This poor girl.
I can’t with that line gabbie said that Jess broke her heart,, like how do you think Jess felt when you said you wouldn’t stop seeing her rapist and his friends? You don’t think Jess was heartbroken when you said “his friends didn’t rape you”
Usedjubbyjuice Literally. I can’t imagine someone saying that to me and even though there’s no “receipts” of her saying that, I 100% believe Jess.
Yes 😞
Ryann Larsen oh it totally sounds like something someone like gabbie would say
She reminds me of all the apologist bitches I stopped talking to who would still be friends with my abuser
The scariest thing about this situation is that Gabbie has a degree in psychology.....and she still acts like this....she knows how to work all the angles
Morgan Zamo Most of the time people, especially females, go into psychology because they have issues themselves. Not all the time but a lot of the time there’s something that’s pushed them to go into that major or career.
Not a Stranger ouch 🤕 im a psychology major and have no idea why or how i got into this field lmao and over time ive realized its bc i was tryna fix myself lmao
I feel personally attacked haha but yes my major is child development I wanna be able to fix the mind while they are still young
@@jordanbailey5718 me considering majoring in psychology 😳
People with degrees can be idoits too DONT LET THAT FOOL U LOL, THEIRS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN EDUCATION AND INTELLIGENCE!!
Jessi, it breaks my heart that you have to bring up your past, the sexual assault, your mental health, to address this. It breaks my heart that you have to be reminded of that. 😭💔
Arra Ferrariz thank you for acknowledging that part. She’s so strong for doing this.
She’s very strong to be able to talk about something that was very traumatic. Gabbie has all this coming to her. What kind of person would take sides with her friend’s rapist?🤬That is disgusting and typical behavior of someone as toxic as Gabbie.
I can’t imagine how bad your anxiety/depression was seeing Curtis’ old videos. I love you ❤️ please never stop being you. You do so much for my mental health
you know if jessi is spilling tea she’s not lying
Jalyn Austin 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Jalyn Austin deadass
Exactly!
Yes!
100%!!
I like how Gabbies only argument is “there’s no proof”
Seems about right :/ probably was her actual excuse when she was siding with the rapist too, you know before she started pretending that it never happened 😂
Xzzedward zzX yeah she acts like oh that tweet was deleted lol not I’ve never wrote that
Donald trump likes to say wheres the proof too...
Ah, but there is. If you go to twitter search type in " from:gabbiehanna curtislepore " and there r 2 tweets gabbie did back in 2013 (less than a month after that scumbag was exposed for what he did to Jessi). If you click on them, you can see that scumbag tweeted praise back at her. So gross
She probably deleted everything by this point because we all remember certain tweets from her regarding the situation but can’t find them.
"the real truth of gabbie hanna" - Shane Dawson 6 months from now
I support this
I stan
She dated Andrew so that would be crazy
Callum G bruh I hope so tbh😂👀
I would watch that in a heartbeat lmaoo
Trisha: I fear no man. But that thing-
Gabbie: *does her clout shit*
Trisha: It scares me...
It was kind of messed up that Gabbie never ONCE said “sorry for your loss” about that girls grandpa
Bobbi W TRUE
Bobbi W she’s a narcissist, she doesn’t give a shit about the feelings of others
Bobbi W fr though like I get it was irrelevant to their conversation but she still could’ve said “sorry for your loss” or something
I was thinking the same thing!! Too focused on herself.
Right?!
The fact that this is just a little part of why they aren’t friends is really sad.
Arianna Gonzalez right?!? And this is not even little. It’s mind blowing.
I’ve had friends like this. It’s amazing how much damage people can pass on who are in distress.
She’s probably been a victim and isn’t moving on from it because breaking the cycle is really hard. Doesn’t excuse the behavior at all, lashing out at people is inexcusable - so is gaslighting.
@@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533 absolutely agree, survivors of narcissistic abuse can become narcissistic themselves as a result or can adopt narcissistic tendencies.. Its a horrible, self perpetuating, cycle 😬x
@@taraa_ann Omg...
Yup... there was another video about it long ago... Gabbie is a piece of shit and has done way worse
"manipulative people are usually good at being manipulative" --- Gabbie says, while manipulating a random fan on the internet
Also, way to state the fucking obvious by saying manipulative people are manipulative. NO SHIT, SHERLOCK! Did you have a drink from the Fountain of Wisdom, Gabbi, or do you just eat a lot of fortune cookies?
Manipulation-ception
lmao when she said this I just thought, *"OH, THE IRONY!!"*
What I can’t get past is the disappointment in her voice. Like she’s just disappointed above all. She isn’t vengeful, she doesn’t want to ruin Gabbie, she’s just so disappointed.
She was on the verge of like anger tears a few times shits heartbreaking. Especially with all these people here saying theres blame on both sides or even worse saying that Gabbie doesnt do anything bad
Aegean Castaneda she genuinely looks and sounds so hurt this whole
video
oscar agreed! 😔
Hailee Jacob that is just so sad but so powerful
Wow you should be a psychologist...that was so deep. So insightful. Not. 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
Gabbie reminds me so, SO much of my ex-best friend who abused and tormented me for years until I finally tried to draw a line in the sand and tell her what my boundaries would be regarding my relationship with her. Then she ghosted me. It’s fucking weird. I’m 26 and the last time I spoke with her was when I was 18, but this still hurts me and I think I carry a lot of baggage from the manipulation and gaslighting I endured through that relationship. I hope you are doing okay, because I know first hand how damaging toxic people like this can be
The medication part triggered me... that is not of any fan or subscribers concern. And it’s not something to judge someone about. I’m so disappointed in miss “I advocate mental health look at me I’m so kind.”
That reminded me of Onision! That's the type of shit he says to discredit others.
Exactly. I agree.
That part made me so frustrated. It was almost like she was trying to discredit Jessie being raped by saying she’s on medication now
Yamilett Vega People use medication as a stab when they want to make people feel guilty or ashamed or their mental illness. How can you advocate for mental health and then turn around and say something like that? Disgusting. I’m ashamed for ever liking Gabbie’s music about mental health. She’s clearly fake.
If someone has to constantly say "I'm such a kind person" they're really not a kind person.
True!
“Hi nice to meet you, just so you know I’m a really fucking nice person” -someone who isn’t a nice person
Amen. Nice people don’t need to remind others that they’re nice
Heather Leslie that’s what gabbie tweeted, and then continued to try to convince people she was.
She has the same tactics Onision uses with his "I'm the most honest TH-camr"
deanna: ends conversation and goes about her day
gabbie hours later: but look see here she tried to get a job off me then lied about me!
ƐlysᎥan that hour and 20 minutes nothing was said was gabbi scrolling that far back in her messages
Jessi I would love to send you some nails! Please thumbs up so she will see ❤🧡💚🧡❤ www.nailedbyrachel.etsy.com
@@nailedbyrachel1266 girl you can send ME nails 💅❤️
Seems like she really was the monster that’s been here all along
LMAO WHY DOESNT THIS HAVE MORE LIKES. This is exactly what I was thinking lolololol
Reyna Williams lmfaoooooo we all know ourselves the best 🤷🏻♀️
10/10 👏👏👏
LMAOOO OH MY GOD
Oof
she was, in fact, the monster who had been there all along
Yung K 🤣🤣🤣
This needs more upvotes
taylor aha “upvotes”
best comment so far
Yes more upvotes 🛁
When she said her Pop Pop died and Gabby didn’t even acknowledge it 😐 yikes.
Narcissist 😭
Right red flag as fuuuuuck
She literally exposed herself.
Thought i was the only one who noticed that.
It’s just common courtesy to acknowledge a loss, especially one as recently as she said.
and shes saying how good of a person she is. pft
You can just tell when people are genuine. Jessi is one of those people and Gabbi is not. Gabbi has always given me bad vibes
right? she look mad sneaky
Always. She's always been an entitled, jealous acting brat.
I used to casually watch Gabbie’s channel, but I haven’t been able to stand her since that Kenza Cosmetics debacle happened, and she made that extremely rude and condescending, “Manage your expectations” comment. Ever since then, I began to catch on to Gabbie’s manipulative behavior patterns.
WHO SENDS PRIVATE TEXT MESSAGES TO FANS AND THEN THINKS THEY'RE THE ONE IN THE RIGHT
A loser. Like Gabbie, you just prove you got no friends to talk to
She has SO much free time on her hands that she scrolled back months and YEARS just to send what she thought was incriminating text messages...yikes
Okay, I was fairly shook after Trisha's video, but Jessie literally NEVER involves herself in internet shit like this. So yeah, this is real.
Holy shit, I have so many likes. I'm now tripping on mushrooms and this is the last video that was playing in my app. My bathroom door is dancing. I have no idea what's going on lmaoooo
Real stupid. Lol sorry but if really rewatch this and are non bias.. this chick seems pretty crazy and pulling drama outta no where. Funny. Same day as gabbies video drop..
@@itsreadygoodbye6734 pulling drama out of nowhere? Umm... so screenshots that show a conversation in its entirety and proves that Gabbie said everything she said isn't enough? She's clearly manipulating the fuck out of this situation and gaslighting this random girl on Twitter. If you watched this entire video and still think that Jessi is just pulling this out of her ass for views, you're one of the many victims of Gabbie's manipulation.
Staci Bradshaw Pulling drama out of nowhere despite the fact that the video literally shows why she’s talking about what she is. To defend herself against the manipulation Gabbie is doing
Staci Bradshaw you are literally just saying shit just to say shit like what was the point of this comment
The fact that Shane stopped talking to Gabbie and prefer Andrew instead of her its enough to believe that Gabbie its not a good person. No wonder why she doesn’t have “TH-cam Friends”
She doesn't have any TH-cam friends because she likes to be the most "successful" person in her friend group.☕🕵️♀️
Wait what happened with Andrew and Gabbie and where was Shane
Xannah I think andrew and Gabbie dated for a minute
ajennine yessss was literally about to say that. Let Irene’s channel blow up and see if Gabbie is genuinely able to cheer her on. She’s too insecure for that.
@@SVR0023 sometimes I feel like Gabbie doesn't deserve Irene
I've never watched Jessi or Gabby (I'm here from a Smokey Glow commentary video) but this makes me so glad I never gave Gabby Hanna an ounce of my attention.
Blake Hendrickson I’m from smokey too! I used to love Gabbie Hanna, I looked up to her and it makes me so sad that Gabbie wasn’t as good as she proclaimed she was. I’m so glad smokey glow taught me and showed me how awful she is. I really liked Gabbie and i still kinda do, but I gotta realize the personality she shows us isn’t the real her.
This is the classiest thing I've ever seen.
i have something to say, TH-camrs should stop uploading serious things that have happened to them and between another TH-camr or any person on TH-cam. Uploading this on TH-cam won't benefit anything neither would it get the problem solved. TH-cam only makes shit worse. These are serious matters that should be dealt with in court not on TH-cam.
Tamara Zahran That is true but IMO doesn’t apply to this situation too well
@@Forever-gd7vs I agree with you but her speaking up in this way about gabbie is good and it wouldn't have worked in private. Gabbie is so manipulative. This whole situation is far more complicated then we know
So there for I think in this situation she shouldve have
Tamara Zahran the sexual assault happened, and was dealt with out of the public eye. gabbie is a whole other story. shes a public figure who lied and exposed personal information to a FAN. she deserves all the backlash this video will garner if it means she will pick up her shit and find another job.
Tamara Zahran agreed
God I love Jessie even when she talks about someone who’s hurt and wronged her she acts mature put together and adult. She doesn’t act like the victim even though she has every right to do so. I honestly just respect her so much I’ve been following her since the Gabbie collabs and honestly I can’t believe that she’s had the maturity to not pull some bullshit like Gabbie has in the last week.
Wow 2019 really hates TH-cam everyone
xana irigoien and the way she admits the good parts about gabbie, i know no other celebrity would do that when exposing someone like this.
100%
A toxic person who no longer has control over you will do their best to alter your image to others. Just keep bein urself so others see through the lies🙏
Haven’t liked Gabbie since she told us to “manage our expectations” when it comes to gettin scammed lmao.
Lhae Greenleaf yes 😂
YEEEESSSS
Lhae Greenleaf comparing her to a piece of crap is offensive to crap
deadass
What video was that. I remember her saying it but I’m trying to remember the context lmao
I’m so sorry that you were invalidated about your sexual assault. That’s not right.
I feel the same. It's SO SO wrong & I'm glad she's standing up for herself & not letting that wacko narc continue to try to discredit her. Anyone leaving comments dismissing this situation/video as childish "drama" are part of the problem. What gabbie has been doing is SO gross, cruel, & harmful and it shouldn't be allowed to continue. Thank You for speaking up Jessi & Trisha.
“Not to toot my own horn but BEEP BEEP I am so kind to people”” ??? WhAt literal PSYCHOPATH
LMAO RIGHT??
Hahahaha omg I knowww😂 huge red flag!
@@onetwothreefour2822 gabbie said it
"Manipulative people are usually good at being manipulative"
In other news 60 seconds is a minute
Did anyone else notice Gabbi's need to validate herself and say how she's doing good and is happy in her life, repeatedly? *cough*
Felt like that since Vlog Squad day. 😂
Soysauceb4ketchup She did it an HOUR AGO. Trying to act like nothing is happening and posting photos with her friends and being like “look at all the love I have frfr !” It’s so transparent.
Yeah, it's extremely transparent, embarrassing, manipulative, disgusting, & pathetic. She is doing the exact same thing on Twitter now - even her genuine fans (the smart ones) are starting to call her out on it.
Soysauceb4ketchup always. since I first started watching her, years ago. I wanted to believe she was better than this.. ugh this is just disgusting
Soysauceb4ketchup she’s trying to convince herself.
“because..gabbie, i know you’re watching this.” chills.
SAME
I was SHOOK
ibb B I love jess
atlas gannon when was that?
Emma Stone 26:35
The fact that Gabbie was so willing to send private messages to a stranger....... literally so IMMATURE
She and Nikocado have BOTH said now “I’m such a kind person” and look where they’re at now...
God nikocado is just disgusting. I use to watch him 🤢
What’s the tea on nikocado?👀
Kind people do not feel there need to tell it, actions tell it all.
when gabbie hanna said “shes been on meds” theres not a damn thing wrong w being on medication!! and this is coming from someone whose a "mental health advocate", insinuating that if you're on meds you're unstable. like ive been dealing w depression for a decade and id never say smth like that on my channel
Steph Quirin THIS needs to be a top comment 🙌🏼
👏🏻👏🏻
THIS ... and also the story time video that jessi showed where she describes her as "psychotic" for being neurotic and mentally unstable like ... what the actual fck? this is so toxic from gabbie how does she call herself a mental health advocate when she spouts things like that
Exactly
THIS!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!
how is this not trending? where is the James Charles level outrage? why aren't her subscribers dropping faster?
Well I got this in my recommendations so it's trending a bit at least.
Sadly cause this isn't the beauty community, the beauty community is far more vicious
It is kind of circling aroud thank god. Ive never seen Jessi's channel nor am I subbed to gabbie and it came up in my recommendations.
Her sub count needs to be dropping like yesterday.
KEEM WHERE ARE YOU 😂
no literally.
"omg im literally laughing right now" is literally the fakest response I can think of
Like... That's when you know they're not laughing
H K The content of the situation it’s so gross to say that you’re laughing even if you think it’s not real you shouldn’t be laughing like wtf
@@heyimsosorry902 honestly well said
Also her texts became so short and quip thats when you know a persons mad and wants to keep adding things to the convo while theyre angry af
Ikr, instead of saying "I would never support a rapist, he disgusts me and I want nothing to do with him" she just says she's laughing and asks where the proof is.
I just learned about Gabby today and... she ain’t it
she really aint it, dont know how she had fans? for what ?
When someone can no longer manipulate you, they will try to manipulate how people see you.
That's exactly what she's doing on Twitter too rn
THIS omg
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yep I just started going through it recently. The other day after 3 years my abusive ex messaged me spewing stuff that 1. Wasn't true. 2. Was saying I'm lying about my mental health. I had a friend who came to me a couple years ago about how he used her and now she's taking blame for what happened, doesn't remember me telling her he abused me, and doesn't believe me at all and is still best friends with him. People just suck man.
I FELL OUT WHEN SHE PULLED UP THE TWEET FROM OCOTBER LMAOOOO. I’ve never seen Jessi so passionate/heated over something. She’s held it in for so long. Jessi, you will always be amongst the realest. Lots of love to you 💞
I went and found it. So she not only tweeted him like “omg I’m so honored to be considered on the same level” or whatever, but when he tweeted back to her in December 2013 she liked it. (This would have been after the rape allegations were public, I’m pretty sure)
Gabbie never learned healthy boundaries in her extensive therapy experience.
It’s like her therapist just enabling her to do so.
Lol she needs a new therapist cx
Some people will and can not change, i think that’s the case with her lmao
She probably went to therapy maybe a total of 5 times (if that) maybe a year or a few ago and has stretched that into her actively going to therapy. Narcs are something else 😂
I this she might be lying to her therapist too. If she even is going, who knows, but yeah, she hasn't learned anything.
People like Gabby are the reason why women aren't believed when they say they've been sexualy assaulted, also why hang out with the person who youre friend claimed hurt them? What in the fresh lemon slice of hell?
Exactly, some of my fianceés ex-friends came up with the lie that she had been raped by someone of her family and then manipulated him to try to break his backthen relationship. It was awful and disgusting.
Screw you that is so f$&@ed up I’m 13 and I know that f$&@ing wrong
@BIANCA MARGARITA Insigne just something I usually say
BIANCA MARGARITA Insigne ... same 😔
Gabbie always talking about people in her life being “toxic”... maybe... just maybe... GABBIE is the toxic one 🤔 she seems to be the common denominator
She literally starts the toxic drama then says “why am i in this? My life is perfect.. I don’t wanna give attention to this” *then makes 5 videos about it*
🎶Maybe she's tha MONSTER that's been there all along🎶
Ashley Betenbaugh her songs are bout herself
Moonlight Avenue right?? those videos of her being like “my life is perfect, my love life is great, my friends love me” was so gross.
"If you think everyone is an asshole, maybe you're the asshole. "