I will absolutely, under no circumstances, be addressing Gabbie any longer. I don’t care if she continues to post 2881966 videos about me, I don’t care what people think I SHOULD do in response. I made this video with a very clear intention and made sure to say and show my truth for the parts of this situation that truly hurt and mattered to me. If I dedicated any more of my time to combating every lie Gabbie has and continues to tell about our friendship, I’d never be free of this situation. The back and forth would never end. There are always more screenshots either one of us could show, there’s always more context. It has to end somewhere. My only solution here is to do what most people are waiting for either Gabbie or myself to do right now - and that’s end this. This is a situation that hurts and triggers many people beyond just me. I refuse to prolong it any further. Gabbie can have the last word - I’m going to enjoy my life and spend time with people I love and, very soon, welcome my beautiful daughter into this world. Thank you to those of you who have taken the time to listen.
Thank you Jessi, you've shown 1389348 times you're in the right so you have nothing to worry about. She's ruining her career on her own. Sending you and your beautiful family tons of love, enjoy the rest of your pregnancy💖💖
The fact that she EDITED out a traumatic story from the 3 hr phone call because it’s “her trauma” but she won’t stop bringing up YOURS is SOOOOO HIPOCRITICAL oh my god
not to mention... SHES NOT THE COURT. SHE WAS A FRIEND. THE *COURT* HAS TO BE COMPLETELY UNBIASED. SHE DIDN'T. as a friend, what the fuck makes you think that you are in any position to think it's appropriate to act as an unbiased "court" in a situation where your friend tells you she was attacked. sick. sick in the head.
it’s just a cop out she does that all the F’in time… when she does something problematic, she always deflect her actions by telling people that she has a mental disorder or whatever… she can’t even properly apologise without saying the word “but”… no sincerity just deflecting plus 100% manipulation
"Curtis is a human being who deserves to be heard out, I am not going to judge him, that's for a judge or God to decide" "But Jessi is a narcissistic abuser tho and she should apologise to me"
Idk, I mean its fine. Guess I shouldn't care what other people do for money. I just worry that this stuff makes it easier for actual rape apologists to spread their narrative . ;(
@@raulsmusicbox Idk maybe don't exploit your friends sexual assault and how you hurt your friend by befriending her rapist as fucking drama. I wouldn't do that to my worst enemy. Gabbi needs to stir it up. Jessi was minding her own. Who the fuck cared about her before she shit on everyone and bothered Jessi during her pregnancy. Nobody gives af about her music. Her book was a flop. She admitted to buzzfeed *she* is being dramatic for attention. This is someone's fucking trauma.
Actual textbook projection, lol. Assuming it's something everyone just does and doesn't talk about, because it's something she does and doesn't talk about.
HONESTLY THOUGH. you’re the one pulling all this back up EVERY SUMMER and JESSI is YOUR abuser?? get a fucking grip, hanna. THE world is not YOUR world.
This! It makes my blood boil and I’m a complete outsider - can’t imagine how Jessi feels. I seriously hope she & bub are doing okay right now, her health and well-being are paramount.
Someone start the gofundme for Jessi’s lawyers, and i’ll CERTAINLY contribute. If it will help Jessi bring closure to Gabbass Hateful’s torment of Jessi, then i’m all in.
she’ll believe a random person on twitter making up fake r*pe allegations, but won’t take a best friend seriously with their abuse?? that’s actually sickening
This will not end until you get a restraining order or sue her. If you want to be at peace, protect your marriage and family, SUE HER!!! Your mental health, marriage, your family and your supportive followers worth the time and money..
The fact that the instant she came to you and told you that she felt violated by Sam Pepper and you instantly were ready to fight him and she was so willing to continue to be friends with Curtis, shows the differences in the level of respect.
I so٫ SO appreciate that Jessie makes the little "click" sound effect whenever she puts messages٫ tweets٫ emails٫ or even thumbnails or clips from other videos up on the screen because that let's me know to look at the screen when I'm listening to this video while I'm working on something. Not everyone does that but it's so helpful to get more context on what she's discussing. 👏
Most of the time, crying is a form of manipulation. It is done to make people feel sad for you, to deem you as a victim, and to give you something you want. This is a behaviour that children learn from a young age because they cry when they don't get what they want so when they do cry, their parents cater to their needs. We all do this. It's just bad if you are doing this an unhealthy amount of times. There is a difference between being the actual victim and crying because you feel sad or afraid or crying because you want people to feel sad for you when you are in the wrong. The latter is 100% manipulation.
@@arabian8873 Most of the time? Crying is a stress response in both children and adults. That's why some people will cry when they are angry or even incredibly happy. Children learn to fake cry but will quickly stop when they realize people can tell it's fake and it isn't getting them their way. That doesn't mean they don't also cry for real. If crying is manipulation, it isn't usually conscious. You could basically say anything you say or do is manipulation by your standard. Engaging in small talk? Manipulation. Expressing sympathy for someone? Manipulation. Smiling at someone? Manipulation. Having a straight face? Manipulation. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31282699/ psychcentral.com/blog/the-science-of-tears#1
Also, her anger outbursts seem calculated (usually, like with the podcast where she was screaming at her "abusers" and suddenly started singing, what angry person does that?) with some exceptions: they do look genuine whenever her manipulation fails and she hates it.
I do the same. It gives me strength, especially when I feel like someone is gaslighting me and invalidating my feelings. I admire Jessie for standing up for herself!
I rewatch it! Jessi really helps me understand my feelings are normal and I’m not overreactive and that someone is manipulating me. It brings me back to reality and trust my instincts better if that makes sense lol
Yet GH says, Jessi is weaponizing her trauma. What a garbage person. A narcissist running around, calling everybody narcissistic, so she can dwell in her own victimization.
I love how karma does her job. You have everything she doesn't. Grace, brains, a loving husband and family, a baby and one more on the way. Don't worry, the universe always sorts itself out:)
Uh I don't know with this comment. I know how it's meant by you but then you are almost saying Karma did it that she had to go through this trauma situation and so on..
Unfortunately she will never stop because this is her only way to stay “relevant”. It’s really sad, she needs to get off the internet permanently for her own mental health.
As a rape victim myself I really wanted to watch this in solidarity but couldn’t make it through - but I want you to know that I could not support you more and really admire you for standing up for yourself in such a graceful and eloquent way. This trauma might get easier to live with but it never goes away and I cannot imagine how much harder it is when someone keeps dragging it all up rather than letting you process it in your own way. I hope you get some peace soon and can relax and enjoy your pregnancy ❤️ your strength is so inspiring for other survivors watching you!
I am very sorry, about this! Just know the fact, that you found a TH-camr that you support (Jessi) is awesome! I’m very happy that you watch Jessi! I hope that you continue to heal more and know that you are loved. ❤️
Im so sorry about that happening; honestly it’s really strong of you to click on this video with your circumstances though, and I hope you can keep healing, and be strong ❤️
1:18:32 "you are going to worry your followers on tiktok" she's literally doing that right now. She has faked a 48+ hour long manic episode. I'm honestly so disgusted by her obvious patterns.
Can I ask something? I am not following the whole situation closely, but I saw some of her TikTok’s reposted here and I am wondering what proof there is for her faking this? I am genuinely wondering, not trying to be rude or something. Thanks!
@@mergyshlergy9083 She admitted it now and has in the past, deletes her videos and then all the fans go "There's no evidence, she's not lying!" . It's happened so many times now that I'm getting tired of the whole charade because this is what it literally comes down to. Either way, someone probably the video and either already has posted it or will be soon. I'm sorry to say it, but I really hope that they do.
Get a lawyer. Serve her a restraining order for both personal contact and talking about your issues pubically online, and a cease and desist letter. She probably won't be able to comply, and you can take her to court on her dime.
She's out of her fucking mind. I'm not even into youtubers like that and I remember when this shit first kicked off, I cannot believe it has come all this way. I wish you the most peace the universe can offer
That's the only way this thing will end. It doesn't matter how many times this gets addressed and Jessi tells her to stop. She won't. She has no regard for Jessi's boundaries. It's time to go the legal route to give her peace of mind.
Who asks a rapist “their side.” It doesn’t matter what else she says, she’s admitted to wanting to hear “his side.” That’s completely disgusting, if I ran into my friends rapist I would not even bat an eyelash at him
This is sooo interesting especially now. The last 3 minutes of this video jessi says “in a year from now when your music needs promoting you’re gonna worry your fans”. That is too spot on
I wasn't raped, but I was molested by my ex (bf at that time). And I still can't get over the trauma of being molested. I don't want to share it to public bc I know it would be a 'he said she said case'. And most of the time, people WOULDN'T believe that sexual assault can happen between lovers or even spouses. And I know people will label me stuffs too if I tell em. Sometimes I still cry a lot when the memory resurfacing. I can't imagine how broken you'd feel because of this. You're strong, Jessi. Please stay healthy, you and the baby. 😊
@Hannah Smith thank you for your support, Hannah. Means a lot to me. Yeah, true.. I don't understand why some people think if we agreed to become lovers is equals to always consenting doing sexual stuffs. How could they force it to a girl/boy they loved? Disgusting, man.
@@Katthecateringcat I feel like the people that make those comments can be equated to not understanding consent. Massive red flag. It makes me feel angry and disgusted even thinking about it because if my partner graped* me and I said NO somehow it’s not SA because they have a label. NO and it’s still just as traumatic
glad Jessi doesn’t care about having the last word and how she’s ending it on her side. jessi is in a happy time in her life with her loving family and she’s not letting a self absorbed whack person get in the way. props to Jessi, she’s handling this with respect and grace, queen 👑
Gabi hanna is a Kate prima donna. that woman would have gotten Tulsa , OK set ablaze twice over if this was 1920 . the things her mouth to do a black person.
@@CRB06We can’t know what’s going on in GH’s head, of course, but if this isn’t the most obvious case of projection in the history of the universe, I will eat my left boot. I don’t even know who her actual friends are, I only know the people she hates and has been awful to.
I was raped in highschool by one of my friends. Most of our friend group believed me but even then they would bring it up “in support of me”. Always mentioning how they got people to taunt him and so I was always hearing his name and SEEING him in class. It took my so much longer to heal and I’d take ten steps back because his name was mentioned. And EVERYONE knew about MY rape
THIS at this point she has more than enough evidence to get one and she’d never be allowed to contact her again and any public slander could get her into deeper shit the courts really need to take over even if she doesn’t sue her this is an easy fix pretty sure GH doesn’t have to be present when JS gets one just her, the judge, and her evidence
I agree. This is the 4th video I have seen of her just today, and never have heard of her,. Everyone has had hard evidence to contradict her. Wow. She needs some major help, and realize friends don’t do this. I’m so glad I found you, I am struggling right now, and to scared to come forward, when my abuser has a huge position in our county that is causing me extreme trauma. Glad a narcissist brought me to you !!!
@@rsre2004 it means she’s not some jury and stranger tryna hear both sides to figure out who’s fault it is she’s was supposed to be her best friend and not victim blame
gabbi is the female onision, hopefully she’ll be gone from social like him too. you’re a trooper honestly with such little time to heal because this “monsterrrrr” keeps brining up your trauma you still manage to gracefully respond to her slander. been a fan since vine love you jess congrats on everything you’ve done!
everyone keeps being nice and civil to her and its infuriating me she is the female onscion and deserves to be treated like him aka no sympathy and pure digust
How the hell is she the female Onision? When have we heard about her being abusive with partners, grooming children and then sexually preying on them , and neglecting her children so that they fall out of windows? Jeeezuz get a grip!
@@meganstubbs04 A youtuber that had (has?) a habit of grooming underage girls, inviting them to his house and basically trapping them, and supposedly (I don't want to get sued) psychologically and physically abuse them. Chris Hansen made a full documentary about him, and about the problem with a lack of laws regarding grooming and psychological abuse like that since the police isn't able to do anything about it.
She doesn’t understand crying as a real emotion because SHE uses her emotions as a manipulation tactic so when others do it she’s just assuming everyone is as sick as her.
@@raulsmusicbox Yep, everything she was saying was spinner around to fit her own narrative it was crazy how she just wanted to victimize herself in a story that wasn't even hers to tell , this whole thing just comes down to Respect and she doesn't have the slightest bit of morals .She's a horrible human being and is not in her right mind to have no respect for people who have been through traumatic experiences
I'm not an SA survivor, but I am a child abuse survivor and this rings so true. Survivors are strong and powerful enough to make it out of the worst humanity can offer alive. The difference between a survivor mindset and a victim complex is huge.
@Marcus Nonamious no, survivors do talk about it, I talk about the stuff I've been through a lot. Having a survivor mentality is about being able to talk about it without letting it control you, doing the best you can with what you have as support and, in cases of surviving abuse, to at least do your best to break the cycle of abuse.
Yes talking about how people cry when they want to be manipulative…. Like no, that’s an actual emotion and action that happens when you’re upset. She literally does it herself … it’s disgusting
The fact that gabbi still has a public platform is horrendous. She is the DEFINITION of a narcissist and listening to your evidence and that phone call legit made me sick. I am sorry this manipulator was introduced into your life and i hope you continue to heal❤️
Idk why this just popped up in my feed, but I have to say jessi handles herself with such grace and is so well spoken. I’m so sorry you’ve had to relive such trauma time and time again literally against her own will. Jessi, you handled this whole situation with such elegance and decorum. ❤
I genuinely think you need a restraining order. She doesn’t seem like she’s ever going to stop and we all see you’re in the right big time. She is completely unhinged and out of control. I wish you nothing but the best and I truly hope you find peace in this all
Yes, as far as I know you can do something in which she is banned from talking about you online or in interviews. No NDA.agreement necessary, actually court mandate because of her harassment. It's time to go that route Jessie.
@@Porcheria002 Judges will laugh them both out of the courtroom. Imagine this petty ass stupid drama being all you have to worry about. Who gives a shit if she talked to your rapist? You’re still friends with that dude Alex? Dramaaaaaaaaaa
This woman is really saying she can't control what her fans post in the same conversation she's demanding Jessi to control what other people post. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.
Yup. I've said it once and I'll say it again, that biz is a walking/talking whopper of contradictions 😩 She needs help, seriously. Also, the people in ber life enabling her is even worse then her not getting help.
This situation makes me think of my “friend” who continued to knowingly talk to and hang out my rapist, she wonders to this day why I’m upset... all she can say is “he didn’t hurt me, why should I stop talking to him.” Listening to this hurts, my heart still goes out to Jessi and her family.
Wow I’m so sorry that happened to you. How unsympathetic that person must be to think that hanging out with a person who hurt a close friend so much, is somehow ok. I hope you don’t have to be around people who don’t take your feelings into account. It’s not okay for them to dismiss your concerns like that.
And she lies so much and has been for so long that she can't keep track of anything anymore.. But it doesn't matter, because she's the victim, right?? 😤
I’d even go a little further. She plans her preemptive attacks. She anticipates an attack from someone else & plans an attack to be able to strike first. That’s scary af & a fucking exhausting life to live.
To summarize: a person who has no personal connection to a rape is demanding that the victim of a rape stop talking about her trauma, under threat of legal action and blackmail. Said unconnected person, meanwhile, will go on bringing it up and profiting from it every time she has something to sell. Oh, and the rape victim should apologize to her for this. Un-fucking-believable.
I'm trying to decide by the comments whether or not I should watch this video right now, and this comment has just convinced me that I might not be in a healthy enough mental state.
I’m watching this a year later after she posted this and the fact that everything she predicted what gabbi would do for attention to gain followers was correct is just jaw dropping. 😭 You have every right to feel the way that you do gabbi is just a hypocrite.
When she says that she is willing to hear your literal rapist's side of the story on the phone call you can see how much that hurt you. I am so so sorry that she will not leave you alone. I hope you get a chance to rest and heal.
Gabbi is the perfect example of why “my truth” is a problem. Fuck “your truth”! What’s THE TRUTH!! Anyone talking to Gabbi shld record it bc she will manipulate anything and people HAVE TO PROTECT themselves from her
@Lilymoon No, acknowledging that subjectivity exists is not inherently problematic. The idea that differences in lived experience, perspectives, and priorities can create different, equally true or valid interpretations of a single situation shouldn't be completely discounted just because one horrible person uses a couple of vocabulary to try justifying their horrible behavior. The idea that there is an "objective truth" in all situations which must be upheld at all costs is a dangerous one which has been used to silence marginalized people's concerns (particularly over their own treatment in society) for a very, very long time.
@@SeymourDisapproves I mean the objective truth when it comes to things like oppression or racism is pretty one sided yknow - it's bad and the people doing it are bad
I can’t believe someone considered a “friend” can be so absolutely horribly disgusting to someone as amazing and strong as you. Keep going girl. Don’t ever look back anymore. You don’t need that in your life with your wonderful little family.
the way she blackmailed you by holding your past over your head to make tell Jen to stop tweeting is textbook blackmail and you would 100% win a court case.
Oh yeah. I always tell people still dealing with narcissists to not give them those terms because then they project it on you. My fav is when you tell them about psychological projection and then they accuse you of doing it. 😫😵💫😂
She wanted Jen to ignore assault allegations but she can’t ignore tweets calling her a rape apologist? She has these standards for everyone but herself.
For someone who's been in an abusive relationship, hearing Gabbi throw around the word 'abuser' just because she has an issue with the person is beyond insulting to me. And what makes it so much worse is her young audience, who she's teaching that it's alright to talk that way. Like I'm not some content police but when you KNOW your audience is mostly kids and you act this way, you're being a blight on society. I hope as time passes, she will continue to lose significance until no one has to talk or think about her anymore🙄
She clearly is someone who doesn't want to know that she "lost" whatever she is trying to win at here. You are so much stronger than her Jessi! You have been able to pick yourself up and move forward and have a beautiful family, she is still in the same spot. Stay strong! You have so many people behind you and supporting you!
I wonder if that could include internet communications(I'm not familiar with the legal aspects). If so, I bet a whole list of people who take out restraining orders on her.
SA counselor here. What GH is doing every time she speaks on Jessi’s abuse is re-victimizing Jessi. It’s very sick. Also very disturbing how GH could take a situation she had nothing to do with (she didn’t even know Jessie when it happened) and turn it into a “fell sorry for me” moment. When GH’s life was not the one that was altered for the rest of her life. GH can walk away from this situation at anytime and forget about it. Jessie on the other hand will sadly live with the repercussions of a sick man’s actions for the rest of her life. I am sure GH doesn’t have nightmares, flashbacks that feel so real you have panic attacks, paranoia and/or ptsd. So no GH we aren’t supposed to feel sorry for you because this has NOTHING to do with you! You aren’t the victim here.
thank you so much for this, however so little people on a spectrum of millions will understand what you’re trying to say. that being said those who do listen really appreciate this
The sad thing is that GH has claimed to have CPTSD (which I have) and that makes her behavior even more despicable. To me, that means she knows what she’s doing and trying to trigger Jessi. (In it’s real definition, not the way GH throws it around to invalidate people.)
THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING LIKE IM GENUINELY SHOCKED THAT PEOPLE ARENT FREAKINGOUT AS MUCH LIKE?? THIS IS DEMONIC. GH IS LITEARLLY DOING SOMETHING UNSPEAKABLE AND TO DO IT AS A TH-camR PUBLICISING THIS SHIT, HOW ARE YOU NOT BANNED OR SOMETHING? WHAT?????
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!! As a survivor the thought of someone constantly hijacking the narrative of my trauma and misrepresenting the facts of what happened, it sends shivers down my spine and makes me seethe with anger, I mean its beyond unbelievable. I would absolutely struggle to not feel like i constantly have to set the record straight. As survivors we so rarely get any justice, and usually the little justice we do get pails in comparison to the damage that was done to us. One of the very few victories we get to sometimes have when our stories are public even if that's just word of mouth in our friendship circles, is that people know the type of person our perpetrator/s are, that at least other people know the monster that person/s is/are. Even if your'e able to get your case prosecuted, these pathetic sentences hardly seem fair considering the lifelong damage that has been done, but people forever knowing what that person/s did it really is one of the so few tangible things to hold on to to feel like some justice was done. What GH is doing is so selfish and disgusting having someone Hijack that narrative it isn't like not a big deal its a massive deal, and its honestly inspiring how composed Jessi has been dealing with all of this I don't know if i could have kept it together. If GH continues with this disgusting behavior TH-cam needs to at minimum de-monetize her channel if not ban her outright for harassment, what she's doing is not okay, and it scares me to think her young fans are going to think its appropriate to act in this way. I understand that Jessi doesn't want to call GH abusive, and i agree that word does get thrown around way too lightly especially by people like GH, but I would say what GH is doing is abusive, and it makes me mad that TH-cam is allowing this to go on.
it’s so ironic how when gh is attacking others, she’s just “defending” herself. but when other defend themselves, they’re abusers who are spreading a hate campaign
She is a very scary human being. Her statements about your trauma are so disturbing. What she does is not okay. I’m very sorry you’ve had to deal with this, I wish you nothing but happiness and peace.
I will absolutely, under no circumstances, be addressing Gabbie any longer. I don’t care if she continues to post 2881966 videos about me, I don’t care what people think I SHOULD do in response. I made this video with a very clear intention and made sure to say and show my truth for the parts of this situation that truly hurt and mattered to me. If I dedicated any more of my time to combating every lie Gabbie has and continues to tell about our friendship, I’d never be free of this situation. The back and forth would never end. There are always more screenshots either one of us could show, there’s always more context. It has to end somewhere.
My only solution here is to do what most people are waiting for either Gabbie or myself to do right now - and that’s end this. This is a situation that hurts and triggers many people beyond just me. I refuse to prolong it any further. Gabbie can have the last word - I’m going to enjoy my life and spend time with people I love and, very soon, welcome my beautiful daughter into this world. Thank you to those of you who have taken the time to listen.
Of course, please take care of yourself and your family. 💖
love u Jessi ! enjoy your beautiful family and relax
You know we're on your side, babe. We love you and we're proud of you. Enjoy your pregnancy!
of course! please take care and i can’t wait to see your beautiful daughter soon!
Thank you Jessi, you've shown 1389348 times you're in the right so you have nothing to worry about. She's ruining her career on her own. Sending you and your beautiful family tons of love, enjoy the rest of your pregnancy💖💖
Imagine calling a convicted rapist a human being, but their victim a narcissist. Wtf?
and yet she claims she ISNT a r*pe apologist… lmao
Oop- .... That part 🙃
Fuck... It is so fucked up...
@@anthony310h he most definitely was. And he pled guilty.
Make it make sense
The fact that she EDITED out a traumatic story from the 3 hr phone call because it’s “her trauma” but she won’t stop bringing up YOURS is SOOOOO HIPOCRITICAL oh my god
THIS!!!!! Yes!!!! I was thinking the EXACT thing!!!!
Narcissists will do that CONSTANTLY
I WAS LOOKING FOR A COMMENT LIKE THIS THAT SHIT HAD ME LIKE ??!!!!!
It's fucking sick
I WAS WAITING FOR PPL TO START TALKING ABOUT THIS!!
she says that she listened to him bc the court listens to both sides. but did she forget that THE COURT decided he was guilty??
Right? And Curtis is a human being, yet Jessi is an abuser…
not to mention... SHES NOT THE COURT. SHE WAS A FRIEND. THE *COURT* HAS TO BE COMPLETELY UNBIASED. SHE DIDN'T. as a friend, what the fuck makes you think that you are in any position to think it's appropriate to act as an unbiased "court" in a situation where your friend tells you she was attacked. sick. sick in the head.
@@jemcarstairstoe OMG THANK YOU for putting into words exactly what felt wrong with my ex. Don’t date law students y’all!
Jessi is a victim and shouldn’t have to keep reliving this fucking trauma, it’s horrible to go through and reexperience all the time
@@itsdrea2353 I’d like to be devils advocate here and say most law students can separate work with personal relationships.
"I have memory issues". I have a diagnosed memory disorder, that doesn't make me act like an asshole.
Same, but thankfully I don’t have anything to remember because I tell the fucking truth 🙃
Right ..
I also have ADHD and don’t use that as an excuse to act like a psychotic sick a**hole
it’s just a cop out she does that all the F’in time… when she does something problematic, she always deflect her actions by telling people that she has a mental disorder or whatever… she can’t even properly apologise without saying the word “but”… no sincerity just deflecting plus 100% manipulation
PLSSSSS
"Curtis is a human being"
"Jessi is a narcissistic abuser"
💀
Omg this!!
Holy shit. The contrast is alarming. Babby Danna needs to stop.
It’s the delusion for me
"Curtis is a human being who deserves to be heard out, I am not going to judge him, that's for a judge or God to decide"
"But Jessi is a narcissistic abuser tho and she should apologise to me"
Let's not forget all the other narcissistic abusers, Angelika Oles and Rachel Oates.
Literally keep this monetized, if anyone should be able to capitalize off of *your* trauma- it should be you.
right?! where are the ads? i want to watch and empower jessi with ad money
@@klaramathilda9929 I got a few ads!! If you have ad blocker on, they don't show up.
I agree
Idk, I mean its fine. Guess I shouldn't care what other people do for money. I just worry that this stuff makes it easier for actual rape apologists to spread their narrative
. ;(
@@milyball survivors shouldn’t have to tip toe around THEIR trauma for the sake of the poor wittle rape apologists getting the wrong idea
“You’re not the court of public opinion, you were my best friend” jessi I’m so sorry🥺🥺
@@raulsmusicbox Do you not get the irony of her clinging to a friendship with Trisha and then downplaying her friendship with Jessi???
@@raulsmusicbox Idk maybe don't exploit your friends sexual assault and how you hurt your friend by befriending her rapist as fucking drama. I wouldn't do that to my worst enemy. Gabbi needs to stir it up. Jessi was minding her own. Who the fuck cared about her before she shit on everyone and bothered Jessi during her pregnancy. Nobody gives af about her music. Her book was a flop. She admitted to buzzfeed *she* is being dramatic for attention. This is someone's fucking trauma.
HOLY SHIT!! I read your comment AS SHE SAID IT IN THE VIDEO😳😳😳😱😱😱
@@raulsmusicbox literally who cares? No one asked how long they were best friends, and a length of time doesn’t change what she did.
That comment hit so hard. We love you Jessie!
She equates crying with manipulation because she does it.
Actual textbook projection, lol. Assuming it's something everyone just does and doesn't talk about, because it's something she does and doesn't talk about.
Like she did exactly at the end of her video. "Oh i feel like im stepping on landmines" yeah ill be glad when they blow u to smithereens. Stfu. 🙄
Restraining order. She’s practically a stalker. She’s so obsessed with you
Fr
Periodddd
I agree. Jealous stalker vibes.
Seriously! I would have already gotten at least an anti harassment order so she could quit talking about me.
No…seriously though! Girl I dont want to see this on cnn. Stay safe!!
it’s actually physically sickening to have just heard HER call YOU “her abuser”
Literally i cringed.
Yes fr 😬
Ikr 😑
HONESTLY THOUGH. you’re the one pulling all this back up EVERY SUMMER and JESSI is YOUR abuser?? get a fucking grip, hanna. THE world is not YOUR world.
I literally gagged. She’s so delusional!
Is she trying to be the third wheel in someone else's SA? It's bizarre how she talks like she has ownership of someone else's trauma.
Right. Saying she has the right to talk about it in interviews but Jessi can't. Like wtf are you on!? Lol
Jessi you need to get a restraining order. You have proof and several people that can back you up.
Honestly yes. I'm generally worried for her and her family's livelihoods.
Yesss! At this point the whole internet can back her up 🙌🏾
An ex-parte ppo.
Honestly
@@Loofabean 2 sides to every story .
Causing this amount of stress on a pregnant woman is just disgusting .
Especially since she admits she does all this shit for views and attention.
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
This! It makes my blood boil and I’m a complete outsider - can’t imagine how Jessi feels. I seriously hope she & bub are doing okay right now, her health and well-being are paramount.
At this point this is not “internet drama” anymore. Legal action wouldn’t be an overreaction now.
Absolutely agree w this
agreed
100% agree
This. 👏
Someone start the gofundme for Jessi’s lawyers, and i’ll CERTAINLY contribute. If it will help Jessi bring closure to Gabbass Hateful’s torment of Jessi, then i’m all in.
The way you were so accurate when you said “a year or less from now you’re gonna be doing tiktoks that have people concerned” oh wow… she’s insane
Nah cuz her live came up on my tiktok the other night, I was shocked and honestly can’t believe she is still publicizing herself
Especially the last three crazy days on her TT with over 150 videos!! My lord.
I love how she decides to censor something that happened to her but she keeps talking about what happened to Jessie, ridiculous!
Even jessi herself pointed out the irony to do that, but having no problems having the intention to unearth someone's trauma as revenge.
she’ll believe a random person on twitter making up fake r*pe allegations, but won’t take a best friend seriously with their abuse?? that’s actually sickening
She just can’t stand it when someone other than her has trauma 🙄
Its not convenient to her narrative.
Literally like holy shit
THIS OH MY GOD THIS
Fr
Get a restraining order. Sue her. What she's doing is criminal.
And for her to apologise for blocking her💀💀💀I just can't with this woman. She took internet celebs hostage😭😭😭
Yes!!
She said, she would but doesn’t want to spend years and lots of money
@@eiza363549 yes, but she will get her money back off of her (damages in court)
This will not end until you get a restraining order or sue her. If you want to be at peace, protect your marriage and family, SUE HER!!! Your mental health, marriage, your family and your supportive followers worth the time and money..
The fact that the instant she came to you and told you that she felt violated by Sam Pepper and you instantly were ready to fight him and she was so willing to continue to be friends with Curtis, shows the differences in the level of respect.
this needs more likes!!!!
I so٫ SO appreciate that Jessie makes the little "click" sound effect whenever she puts messages٫ tweets٫ emails٫ or even thumbnails or clips from other videos up on the screen because that let's me know to look at the screen when I'm listening to this video while I'm working on something. Not everyone does that but it's so helpful to get more context on what she's discussing. 👏
I like the clip sound effect too, it’s kind of cute ✨
She sees crying as a manipulation tactic because that’s what SHE uses it for.
exactly she's projecting
OMG TRUE
Which person..
Most of the time, crying is a form of manipulation. It is done to make people feel sad for you, to deem you as a victim, and to give you something you want. This is a behaviour that children learn from a young age because they cry when they don't get what they want so when they do cry, their parents cater to their needs. We all do this. It's just bad if you are doing this an unhealthy amount of times. There is a difference between being the actual victim and crying because you feel sad or afraid or crying because you want people to feel sad for you when you are in the wrong. The latter is 100% manipulation.
@@arabian8873 Most of the time? Crying is a stress response in both children and adults. That's why some people will cry when they are angry or even incredibly happy. Children learn to fake cry but will quickly stop when they realize people can tell it's fake and it isn't getting them their way. That doesn't mean they don't also cry for real. If crying is manipulation, it isn't usually conscious. You could basically say anything you say or do is manipulation by your standard. Engaging in small talk? Manipulation. Expressing sympathy for someone? Manipulation. Smiling at someone? Manipulation. Having a straight face? Manipulation.
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31282699/
psychcentral.com/blog/the-science-of-tears#1
She thinks you crying is a manipulation tactic because that’s what SHE does.
oh my gosh!! that is exactly what i was thinking about!!
PROJECTION
queen of projection
Also, her anger outbursts seem calculated (usually, like with the podcast where she was screaming at her "abusers" and suddenly started singing, what angry person does that?) with some exceptions: they do look genuine whenever her manipulation fails and she hates it.
THISSSSS
bruh it sounds like a hostage situation "list of demands and 48 hours to decide what to do"
Frrrrr
And she gets to take as long as SHE likes to respond?!
Is it bad that I rewatch this video on a regular basis???
I just love hearing her talk like this. It’s inspiring.
I do the same. It gives me strength, especially when I feel like someone is gaslighting me and invalidating my feelings. I admire Jessie for standing up for herself!
i do it too. ❤🩹
Me too! It’s refreshing to hear a woman defend herself in such a graceful, dignified manner.
Rewatch squad! I had to rewatch after watching her podcast cause she subtly brings it up sometimes. She could say so much more, but keeps it classy ❤
I rewatch it! Jessi really helps me understand my feelings are normal and I’m not overreactive and that someone is manipulating me. It brings me back to reality and trust my instincts better if that makes sense lol
"if there's a rapi$t near me, they better fucking run" is such a powerful statement from a survivor
absolutely. i came here to say the same thing
Exactly dam right!!!!! She is taking her power back and I’m here for it!!
As a survivor, I agree 100%
This gave me chills for exactly that reason. Incredible strength
AMEN
Rape is not drama. This is not okay to weaponize. Leave Jessi alone.
couldn’t have said it better.
Yet GH says, Jessi is weaponizing her trauma. What a garbage person. A narcissist running around, calling everybody narcissistic, so she can dwell in her own victimization.
@@dee-tx5jd Gabi is the one who always cries about everything smh. Also, rape cannot be used as a weapon.
@@poisonivy9853 It really shouldn't be. What GH is doing is disturbed.
I love how karma does her job. You have everything she doesn't. Grace, brains, a loving husband and family, a baby and one more on the way. Don't worry, the universe always sorts itself out:)
And better looks and a better personality. Js.
Uh I don't know with this comment. I know how it's meant by you but then you are almost saying Karma did it that she had to go through this trauma situation and so on..
@venus Then it hasn't gotten them yet or maybe it already did and YOU don't know about it (:
i totally agree with this statement
Fair, but not everyone wants a family and children.
Unfortunately she will never stop because this is her only way to stay “relevant”. It’s really sad, she needs to get off the internet permanently for her own mental health.
she needs to be locked away for a long time, not a mental health break, what she did is so fed up she needs to be put behind bars
“It’s my story, it’s traumatizing and humiliating” yet she can talk about your trauma like you said. Disgusting. Such a double standard.
Especially right after she just had a miscarriage… it’s psychotic
So ironic....what a disturbed individual....
Hearing her say that made my blood boil. What a hypocrite.
So many contradictory statements and she’s oblivious to how ridiculous she looks
It’s honestly disgusting. GH needs serious help
"IM NOT A RAPE APOLOGIST"
* goes to Keemstar, of all people *
lol we all make choices, that was a choice for sure😂
RIGHT
she blocked me on Twitter weeks ago because I asked her why she collaborated with him
AND Adam22 🤢🤮
Gh is disgusting
As a rape victim myself I really wanted to watch this in solidarity but couldn’t make it through - but I want you to know that I could not support you more and really admire you for standing up for yourself in such a graceful and eloquent way. This trauma might get easier to live with but it never goes away and I cannot imagine how much harder it is when someone keeps dragging it all up rather than letting you process it in your own way. I hope you get some peace soon and can relax and enjoy your pregnancy ❤️ your strength is so inspiring for other survivors watching you!
I am very sorry, about this! Just know the fact, that you found a TH-camr that you support (Jessi) is awesome! I’m very happy that you watch Jessi! I hope that you continue to heal more and know that you are loved. ❤️
💜💓
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@@Ashesinferno28 iimii
Im so sorry about that happening; honestly it’s really strong of you to click on this video with your circumstances though, and I hope you can keep healing, and be strong ❤️
1:18:32 "you are going to worry your followers on tiktok" she's literally doing that right now. She has faked a 48+ hour long manic episode. I'm honestly so disgusted by her obvious patterns.
Can I ask something? I am not following the whole situation closely, but I saw some of her TikTok’s reposted here and I am wondering what proof there is for her faking this? I am genuinely wondering, not trying to be rude or something. Thanks!
@@nosi104 She admitted to it, deleted it all and promoted her new song.
@@seriousyak4734 she didn’t admit to faking it, she said that it was a manic episode. Idk if I believe it either but yeah
@@mergyshlergy9083 She admitted it now and has in the past, deletes her videos and then all the fans go "There's no evidence, she's not lying!" . It's happened so many times now that I'm getting tired of the whole charade because this is what it literally comes down to. Either way, someone probably the video and either already has posted it or will be soon. I'm sorry to say it, but I really hope that they do.
Thanks for the replies.
“Gaslighting” is her favorite term when she’s the one who does it the most
reminds me of trisha, since they both love that word.
Same with Trisha Paytas. These fools… ugh
@@strawberrycakee9 HAHA didn’t even see your comment but looks like we agree with each other!
Get a lawyer. Serve her a restraining order for both personal contact and talking about your issues pubically online, and a cease and desist letter. She probably won't be able to comply, and you can take her to court on her dime.
She could charge her w defamation too
@Crystal Smith it all depends on the circumstances. people always forget circumstances are everything
Yes!! Get a restraining order!! A cease and desist. Then she legally has to stop
Up
Yesss
i love how gaby keeps saying "private phone conversation" like they didn't BOTH agree to record it
She's out of her fucking mind. I'm not even into youtubers like that and I remember when this shit first kicked off, I cannot believe it has come all this way. I wish you the most peace the universe can offer
^^^^
She’s stalking you. There’s evidence of that. Get a restraining order.
That’s terrifying.
That's the only way this thing will end. It doesn't matter how many times this gets addressed and Jessi tells her to stop. She won't. She has no regard for Jessi's boundaries. It's time to go the legal route to give her peace of mind.
YES
Jessi literally moved away and GH's still bothering her... you're right, she's stalking and should get a restraining order
YES!!
Who asks a rapist “their side.” It doesn’t matter what else she says, she’s admitted to wanting to hear “his side.” That’s completely disgusting, if I ran into my friends rapist I would not even bat an eyelash at him
I would give his eyelash a bash
Right. Nobody wants to hear the rapist intentions of what he'll do to someone like that's disturbing
Unless she doesnt believe Jessi. Which is why shes hung out with him multiple times and heard him out.
Amen.
@@gatorgirl1720 always believe the victim and the victim was her literal best friend why wouldn’t she believe her
This is sooo interesting especially now. The last 3 minutes of this video jessi says “in a year from now when your music needs promoting you’re gonna worry your fans”. That is too spot on
The sheer hypocrisy of removing HER story and leaving Jessi’s assault in. Deplorable.
I had the same thought. What an absolutely repulsive person.
how does she have a single fan she’s vile
Repugnant
@@veraniaelizondo4905 most of them are under 14 so...
Wish Jessie would fill in the blanks for revenge but that's would be so bad
“Make your friends stop twEeTInG about me or u’ll pay”
“My fans are not an extension of me IM nOt reSponSibLe for tHEM”
I was giggling so hard when I read that all I could think of is "this bitch gabbi..."
She has no idea what she's even talking about anymore. Just whatever makes her feel a bit better in that moment.
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Literally why have other people involved in someone else’s traumatic experience in the first place 😵
I wasn't raped, but I was molested by my ex (bf at that time). And I still can't get over the trauma of being molested. I don't want to share it to public bc I know it would be a 'he said she said case'. And most of the time, people WOULDN'T believe that sexual assault can happen between lovers or even spouses. And I know people will label me stuffs too if I tell em. Sometimes I still cry a lot when the memory resurfacing. I can't imagine how broken you'd feel because of this. You're strong, Jessi. Please stay healthy, you and the baby. 😊
I’m so sorry. I hope ur doing well now
@@mariv1386 Thank you for your kind and comforting words. Hope you're doing well too! =)
@Hannah Smith thank you for your support, Hannah. Means a lot to me. Yeah, true.. I don't understand why some people think if we agreed to become lovers is equals to always consenting doing sexual stuffs. How could they force it to a girl/boy they loved? Disgusting, man.
i am so sorry for what you've been through. you are a survivor, and you are not alone.
@@Katthecateringcat I feel like the people that make those comments can be equated to not understanding consent. Massive red flag. It makes me feel angry and disgusted even thinking about it because if my partner graped* me and I said NO somehow it’s not SA because they have a label. NO and it’s still just as traumatic
glad Jessi doesn’t care about having the last word and how she’s ending it on her side. jessi is in a happy time in her life with her loving family and she’s not letting a self absorbed whack person get in the way. props to Jessi, she’s handling this with respect and grace, queen 👑
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MrsMuffin11 What an intelligent reply~
her calling you her “abuser” is such a low, insulting, dangerous accusation.
Gabi hanna is a Kate prima donna. that woman would have gotten Tulsa , OK set ablaze twice over if this was 1920 . the things her mouth to do a black person.
@@PHlophe I don’t understand this comment
She is always using projection, creepshowart like
@@Pink_pr1ncess you haven't got enough brain power to do so. And its ok.
GH: “You’re going to end up alone…”
Jessi: *Has a beautiful family and meaningful relationships*
Projection tbh. She threatened Jessi with what GH was most afraid of, and what was most likely to happen if she continues down the path she’s on.
i literally giggled and thought the same thing
@@CRB06We can’t know what’s going on in GH’s head, of course, but if this isn’t the most obvious case of projection in the history of the universe, I will eat my left boot. I don’t even know who her actual friends are, I only know the people she hates and has been awful to.
@@brennajohnson6252
And now GH is basically alone.
I was raped in highschool by one of my friends. Most of our friend group believed me but even then they would bring it up “in support of me”. Always mentioning how they got people to taunt him and so I was always hearing his name and SEEING him in class. It took my so much longer to heal and I’d take ten steps back because his name was mentioned. And EVERYONE knew about MY rape
i’m literally crying watching this. she’s horrible
Ooof same
Get a restraining order. immediately. there’s something wrong with her and she needs to be legally kept from causing more trauma to you and others.
YES. This shit is scary. I’m concerned for Jessi’s kids! I don’t understand how this is legal!
THIS at this point she has more than enough evidence to get one and she’d never be allowed to contact her again and any public slander could get her into deeper shit the courts really need to take over even if she doesn’t sue her this is an easy fix pretty sure GH doesn’t have to be present when JS gets one just her, the judge, and her evidence
AGREE
yes she needs a restraining order. she’s harassing her
I agree. This is the 4th video I have seen of her just today, and never have heard of her,. Everyone has had hard evidence to contradict her. Wow. She needs some major help, and realize friends don’t do this. I’m so glad I found you, I am struggling right now, and to scared to come forward, when my abuser has a huge position in our county that is causing me extreme trauma. Glad a narcissist brought me to you !!!
“You’re not the court of public opinion, you were my best friend.” - that hit me hard.
same.
what does that mean my english isn’t good
@@rsre2004 it means she’s not some jury and stranger tryna hear both sides to figure out who’s fault it is she’s was supposed to be her best friend and not victim blame
I had a “best friend” like this. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
Correct me if I'm wrong but didnt GH talk to CL *after* an actual court sentenced him? So like, what was there to offer an opinion on...
Am I the only one that would love to be friends with Jessi? She sounds so mature and sweet.
100% i luv jessi
gabbi is the female onision, hopefully she’ll be gone from social like him too. you’re a trooper honestly with such little time to heal because this “monsterrrrr” keeps brining up your trauma you still manage to gracefully respond to her slander. been a fan since vine love you jess congrats on everything you’ve done!
everyone keeps being nice and civil to her and its infuriating me she is the female onscion and deserves to be treated like him aka no sympathy and pure digust
How the hell is she the female Onision? When have we heard about her being abusive with partners, grooming children and then sexually preying on them , and neglecting her children so that they fall out of windows? Jeeezuz get a grip!
maybe not onision but definitely on par with shane dawson
Who’s onision I’ve never heard of him?
@@meganstubbs04 A youtuber that had (has?) a habit of grooming underage girls, inviting them to his house and basically trapping them, and supposedly (I don't want to get sued) psychologically and physically abuse them.
Chris Hansen made a full documentary about him, and about the problem with a lack of laws regarding grooming and psychological abuse like that since the police isn't able to do anything about it.
The thing that baffles me the fucking most, is how she took YOUR traumatic experience and some how made it all about HER. She needs help.
^^^^
Faaaaactttss
seriously help . that women is sick .
I wouldn’t be surprised if she not so secretly wished that what happened to Jessi happened to her. She’s that sick.
Literally big facts. She's fucking twisted.
She doesn’t understand crying as a real emotion because SHE uses her emotions as a manipulation tactic so when others do it she’s just assuming everyone is as sick as her.
exactly what I was thinking
she's proyecting real hard
☝️ THIS ☝️
THIS THE ONE BABY
YEP!
This unfortunately aged really well. I hope you’re healing ❤
The reason she sees people being emotional as a manipulation tactic is because she is PROJECTING
“The reason rape survivors are survivors is because even after the event they still have to survive the trauma and learn a way to live with it.”
@@raulsmusicbox oh yes because it’s not like Gabbi isn’t constantly playing the victim in EVERY situation
@@raulsmusicbox Yep, everything she was saying was spinner around to fit her own narrative it was crazy how she just wanted to victimize herself in a story that wasn't even hers to tell , this whole thing just comes down to Respect and she doesn't have the slightest bit of morals .She's a horrible human being and is not in her right mind to have no respect for people who have been through traumatic experiences
I'm not an SA survivor, but I am a child abuse survivor and this rings so true. Survivors are strong and powerful enough to make it out of the worst humanity can offer alive. The difference between a survivor mindset and a victim complex is huge.
@Marcus Nonamious no, survivors do talk about it, I talk about the stuff I've been through a lot. Having a survivor mentality is about being able to talk about it without letting it control you, doing the best you can with what you have as support and, in cases of surviving abuse, to at least do your best to break the cycle of abuse.
Gabbi thinks everyone is such a manipulator and is so calculated because SHE IS. She's PROJECTING.
SOMEONE SAID IT 👏🏽
Yaaaassss yes!!!
Legit reminds me of Trump. If they are accusing someone of a thing- they are probably the guilty one.
100% THIS
Yes talking about how people cry when they want to be manipulative…. Like no, that’s an actual emotion and action that happens when you’re upset. She literally does it herself … it’s disgusting
“i haven’t really been calm thru out this video” girl bye u addressed this is a completely appropriate, respectful, and calm manor. respect to you.
gabbi throwing around the word abuser like that is so revolting and insulting to real survivors of abuse
She said Jessi is her abuser??? For defending herself? Lmao she’s such a child
no babe not even children are that delusional
FR GH is acting like such a damn child lmaoo!!!
Not a child...a narcissistic (but a real one)
Typical, she acts like an abusive piece of shit and then freaks out when people aren't worshiping the ground she walks on.
Please don’t disrespect children like that
“I only read the intro bc it’s a novel.” - she’s a 12 year old boy with the literacy skills of a rock. No wonder her “poetry” books flopped.
This comment alone is more poetic than her entire book
@@SpaghettiEnjoyer Your comment alone is more poetic than her entire book.
cant even read 4 paragraphs of texts but says Rachel is not 'intellectual' enough to understand her shitty poetry
All of our comments have more depth and meaning than her entire poetry combined.
lmao this got me 💀 her being so dismissive to jessi about that message was incredibly cold
The fact that gabbi still has a public platform is horrendous. She is the DEFINITION of a narcissist and listening to your evidence and that phone call legit made me sick. I am sorry this manipulator was introduced into your life and i hope you continue to heal❤️
Idk why this just popped up in my feed, but I have to say jessi handles herself with such grace and is so well spoken. I’m so sorry you’ve had to relive such trauma time and time again literally against her own will. Jessi, you handled this whole situation with such elegance and decorum. ❤
Yeah same, as a r*pe victim myself this video made me cry. She is such a boss lady, mother and wife.
❤🩹
@@francescaperron2003 same here, and i agree. ❤
@@billieseyelashes I am so sorry you had to go through this girly ❤️
I genuinely think you need a restraining order. She doesn’t seem like she’s ever going to stop and we all see you’re in the right big time. She is completely unhinged and out of control. I wish you nothing but the best and I truly hope you find peace in this all
Yk
Yes, as far as I know you can do something in which she is banned from talking about you online or in interviews. No NDA.agreement necessary, actually court mandate because of her harassment. It's time to go that route Jessie.
Imagine being the judge presented with all the evidence from both sides bahahahaha
“I’m gonna have to take all this home for the weekend……..”
100% right!
@@Porcheria002 Judges will laugh them both out of the courtroom. Imagine this petty ass stupid drama being all you have to worry about. Who gives a shit if she talked to your rapist? You’re still friends with that dude Alex? Dramaaaaaaaaaa
the way she says it’s part of her story now... she is deranged.
yeah that was just a disturbing thing to say
Very scary.... She really isn't in this same universe this all makes no sense. And all her comments are off... Says alot
She’s getting what she truly deserves now.
You were right Jessi when you told her “You reap what you sow.”
As swoop would say “it’s not drama. It’s dangerous”
Love swoop to death
This woman is really saying she can't control what her fans post in the same conversation she's demanding Jessi to control what other people post. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.
So many MAKE IT MAKE SENSE moments from GH in this saga. 😓
But Jessie is the one 'constantly moving the goal post'. You have to laugh because if you don't you'll go crazy
OMFG YA
Yup. I've said it once and I'll say it again, that biz is a walking/talking whopper of contradictions 😩 She needs help, seriously. Also, the people in ber life enabling her is even worse then her not getting help.
Can we start a go fund me for Jessi to hire a lawyer to take this woman down in court?
I would definitely support this she doesn’t deserve all the shit gh puts her through
Yes!
I’m in!!!
I am totally in!! Jessi start one and we will totally support you!! You are not alone.
i’m definitely in!! she should be focusing on her rainbow baby and her family, it’s so sad she has to put energy towards this
This situation makes me think of my “friend” who continued to knowingly talk to and hang out my rapist, she wonders to this day why I’m upset... all she can say is “he didn’t hurt me, why should I stop talking to him.” Listening to this hurts, my heart still goes out to Jessi and her family.
Wow I’m so sorry that happened to you. How unsympathetic that person must be to think that hanging out with a person who hurt a close friend so much, is somehow ok. I hope you don’t have to be around people who don’t take your feelings into account. It’s not okay for them to dismiss your concerns like that.
Wow what a pos.
It's funny. She calls everyone a narcissist, but she's the only one who seems to be acting like one
At this point, you need a lawyer. She will NOT stop.
She needs to get a restraining order on her
!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah, but she said she doesn't have money for court. :/
@@xNaiadesx She should start a GFM, I'm sure a lot of people and big creators would be happy to contribute.
@@xNaiadesx restraining orders ca be done out of court and all the evidence im sure she'll get one
“My fans are not an extension of me” but Jen is an extension of Jessi??? She’s such a hypocrite in EVERY situation. ANYTHING she says.
This is exactly what I thought
It’s honestly impressive how she contradict herself in everything she does.
I believe the phrase “do as I say, not as I do,” very much applies to her entire being
EXACTLY.
I got so pissed at that.
I'm sorry, but at 1:18:23 Jessi freaking called it.
oh my god…
You were right. You've always been right.
The fact that she premeditates her attacks. That’s scary.
THIS
but she can't remember what she said or did because she's so "impulsive"......... she's genuinely unreal
Right? That's what narcissists do 😕
And she lies so much and has been for so long that she can't keep track of anything anymore.. But it doesn't matter, because she's the victim, right?? 😤
I’d even go a little further. She plans her preemptive attacks. She anticipates an attack from someone else & plans an attack to be able to strike first. That’s scary af & a fucking exhausting life to live.
To summarize: a person who has no personal connection to a rape is demanding that the victim of a rape stop talking about her trauma, under threat of legal action and blackmail. Said unconnected person, meanwhile, will go on bringing it up and profiting from it every time she has something to sell.
Oh, and the rape victim should apologize to her for this.
Un-fucking-believable.
This is the comment right here👆🏾
!!!!!!! This !!!!!!!
I'm trying to decide by the comments whether or not I should watch this video right now, and this comment has just convinced me that I might not be in a healthy enough mental state.
@@zaraamir9165 that's totally understandable. i hope you're okay.
Hit the nail right on the head!! Very well said! The abuser playing victim in a story that isn't even hers to tell, its disgusting.
Who else is here rewatching in 2024?
Me… 👀
When it's 2024 and gabbi hannah definitely stopped
Meeee
me ☝️
😅🤚🏽
I’m watching this a year later after she posted this and the fact that everything she predicted what gabbi would do for attention to gain followers was correct is just jaw dropping. 😭 You have every right to feel the way that you do gabbi is just a hypocrite.
I’m shocked gabble even has fans at this point
she has books out
Exactly! Must be a bunch of kids.
@@morganbecker8320 no. her books are crappy and the reasonwhy it's selling in the first place bc of her fans
Most of them are children anyway, theyre easy to manipulate
Gabble 😂😂😂
"you can't go around calling people abusers because you don't like them."
Perfectly worded Jessi.
👏👏👏
When she says that she is willing to hear your literal rapist's side of the story on the phone call you can see how much that hurt you. I am so so sorry that she will not leave you alone. I hope you get a chance to rest and heal.
Gabbi is the perfect example of why “my truth” is a problem. Fuck “your truth”! What’s THE TRUTH!! Anyone talking to Gabbi shld record it bc she will manipulate anything and people HAVE TO PROTECT themselves from her
@Lilymoon No, acknowledging that subjectivity exists is not inherently problematic. The idea that differences in lived experience, perspectives, and priorities can create different, equally true or valid interpretations of a single situation shouldn't be completely discounted just because one horrible person uses a couple of vocabulary to try justifying their horrible behavior.
The idea that there is an "objective truth" in all situations which must be upheld at all costs is a dangerous one which has been used to silence marginalized people's concerns (particularly over their own treatment in society) for a very, very long time.
@@SeymourDisapproves I mean the objective truth when it comes to things like oppression or racism is pretty one sided yknow - it's bad and the people doing it are bad
I’m late but yes great comment
I love this comment, you went off.
She talks about your trauma like she would talk about her breakfast. It’s disgusting. She is disgusting.
idk why shes even talking about Jessis trauma in the first place tho like ?????? its not her trauma to be talking about
She also says that she has to be able to talk abt it bc its a big part of her life. LIKE TF BITCH!?!?
I’m sorry you have to keep doing this
I knew I’d see you here
Shit even drama channels are on her side you know she in the right
@@ellamor2616 Except Keemstar and his goon squad clones... nick deorio is anti jessi too unfortunately
I know it’s so freaking sad!
@@ABCD-is6jw Keem is trash though so it's okay lol
I can’t believe someone considered a “friend” can be so absolutely horribly disgusting to someone as amazing and strong as you. Keep going girl. Don’t ever look back anymore. You don’t need that in your life with your wonderful little family.
the way she blackmailed you by holding your past over your head to make tell Jen to stop tweeting is textbook blackmail and you would 100% win a court case.
She’s a narcissist that’s learned the narcissism jargon. A whole new dangerous level of projection... wow
Oh yeah. I always tell people still dealing with narcissists to not give them those terms because then they project it on you. My fav is when you tell them about psychological projection and then they accuse you of doing it. 😫😵💫😂
@@annavictrix or when you tell them they’re gaslighting you and they hit you with the “i’m not even doing that you’re crazy”
Narcissistic personality disorder I mean I'm just speculating maybe it's that idk but it's just sad to be that way to someone 😔💜
THIS EXACTLY.
it really is so scary how easily people like her latch onto that jargon and weaponize it...
She wanted Jen to ignore assault allegations but she can’t ignore tweets calling her a rape apologist? She has these standards for everyone but herself.
Yesssssss
PERIOD
THIS👏👏
She also seems to think that she’s not a rape apologist as long as she weren’t friends with the victim at the time.
@@liz3951 fr every time she just says "they are calling me a rape apologist for being a rape apologist, how can I be a victim?"
For someone who's been in an abusive relationship, hearing Gabbi throw around the word 'abuser' just because she has an issue with the person is beyond insulting to me. And what makes it so much worse is her young audience, who she's teaching that it's alright to talk that way. Like I'm not some content police but when you KNOW your audience is mostly kids and you act this way, you're being a blight on society. I hope as time passes, she will continue to lose significance until no one has to talk or think about her anymore🙄
She clearly is someone who doesn't want to know that she "lost" whatever she is trying to win at here. You are so much stronger than her Jessi! You have been able to pick yourself up and move forward and have a beautiful family, she is still in the same spot. Stay strong! You have so many people behind you and supporting you!
Restraining. Order. This is absolutely out of control.
I understand this is easier said than made to happen, unfortunately.
I wonder if that could include internet communications(I'm not familiar with the legal aspects). If so, I bet a whole list of people who take out restraining orders on her.
IMMEDIATELY
@Snake Eyes X that’s so awful. I’m really sorry that happened. 😞
@@elizabethg2062 for that a person can send a cease and desist I guess
@Snake Eyes X it is hard to get one, but she could get a temporary protective order while she works to get a restraining order with her lawyers
She sees crying as manipulating because SHE DOES IT!
You can see it right at the end of her video
she literally projects everytime
Yessss. It’s like if you lie a lot, you think everyone else lies a lot too. But if you’re an honest person, you assume others are honest as well.
Oh my god that just helped me understand something about my dad. Like I know that was not your point but thank you for saying it
@@alexia3552 you’re welcome hun. ❤️
Lmao and now look where we are this summer 😭
it’s a pattern at this point
@@c1111e right? 😂
I love rewatching this for some reason - I love how it comes with loads of receipts
SA counselor here. What GH is doing every time she speaks on Jessi’s abuse is re-victimizing Jessi. It’s very sick. Also very disturbing how GH could take a situation she had nothing to do with (she didn’t even know Jessie when it happened) and turn it into a “fell sorry for me” moment. When GH’s life was not the one that was altered for the rest of her life. GH can walk away from this situation at anytime and forget about it. Jessie on the other hand will sadly live with the repercussions of a sick man’s actions for the rest of her life. I am sure GH doesn’t have nightmares, flashbacks that feel so real you have panic attacks, paranoia and/or ptsd. So no GH we aren’t supposed to feel sorry for you because this has NOTHING to do with you! You aren’t the victim here.
Yes. This right here.
thank you so much for this, however so little people on a spectrum of millions will understand what you’re trying to say. that being said those who do listen really appreciate this
The sad thing is that GH has claimed to have CPTSD (which I have) and that makes her behavior even more despicable. To me, that means she knows what she’s doing and trying to trigger Jessi. (In it’s real definition, not the way GH throws it around to invalidate people.)
THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING LIKE IM GENUINELY SHOCKED THAT PEOPLE ARENT FREAKINGOUT AS MUCH LIKE?? THIS IS DEMONIC. GH IS LITEARLLY DOING SOMETHING UNSPEAKABLE AND TO DO IT AS A TH-camR PUBLICISING THIS SHIT, HOW ARE YOU NOT BANNED OR SOMETHING? WHAT?????
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!! As a survivor the thought of someone constantly hijacking the narrative of my trauma and misrepresenting the facts of what happened, it sends shivers down my spine and makes me seethe with anger, I mean its beyond unbelievable. I would absolutely struggle to not feel like i constantly have to set the record straight. As survivors we so rarely get any justice, and usually the little justice we do get pails in comparison to the damage that was done to us. One of the very few victories we get to sometimes have when our stories are public even if that's just word of mouth in our friendship circles, is that people know the type of person our perpetrator/s are, that at least other people know the monster that person/s is/are. Even if your'e able to get your case prosecuted, these pathetic sentences hardly seem fair considering the lifelong damage that has been done, but people forever knowing what that person/s did it really is one of the so few tangible things to hold on to to feel like some justice was done. What GH is doing is so selfish and disgusting having someone Hijack that narrative it isn't like not a big deal its a massive deal, and its honestly inspiring how composed Jessi has been dealing with all of this I don't know if i could have kept it together. If GH continues with this disgusting behavior TH-cam needs to at minimum de-monetize her channel if not ban her outright for harassment, what she's doing is not okay, and it scares me to think her young fans are going to think its appropriate to act in this way. I understand that Jessi doesn't want to call GH abusive, and i agree that word does get thrown around way too lightly especially by people like GH, but I would say what GH is doing is abusive, and it makes me mad that TH-cam is allowing this to go on.
it’s so ironic how when gh is attacking others, she’s just “defending” herself. but when other defend themselves, they’re abusers who are spreading a hate campaign
Yep. The cognitive dissonance is strong with GH
THISSSSS OMG
WELL SAID
And her fans eat it all up. What a sad bunch lmao
this is the same chair than DWKT and now i cannot unsee it
She is a very scary human being. Her statements about your trauma are so disturbing. What she does is not okay. I’m very sorry you’ve had to deal with this, I wish you nothing but happiness and peace.