❤️❤️❤️ sorry you don’t have much support, the best thing you can do is educate and empower yourself with videos like fearless mamas, built to birth and mama natural😘. We also have a great Hypnobirthing course in the UK called “the positive birth company” that you could take a look at xxxxx ❤️❤️❤️ you got this x
I just want you to remember that nothing worth doing is easy. Also keep in mind that right now you and what your body have to offer is enough on its own for your baby. The love and care you provide them post birth will do the same. You are enough mama. You always will be. You may benefit from a doula so you have someone to support and advocate for you. They also have virtual ones if there are none in your area. You deserve to feel love and support but I promise you once you're holding that precious peanut you will feel so much love it will empower you to keep pushing forward. You also have a community here to support you. You have my support for sure. Good luck mama!
On my 2nd child i felt his head crowning and felt the ring of fire took a min till i pushed my doctor told me to push once she saw his head and im so glad i did not i would have a tearing at that moment always listen to your body this is a very informative video i'm currently 37weeks 🙏🏼
@@DanceePinkston just gave birth to my 3rd child again no tearing did the same thing they kept telling me not to push till the doctor comes i said nope he's coming out!
Wow this is so informative thank you!!!!!!!! I am constructing my birthing plan and I want to make sure I cover your tips. I tore last time. I am not trying to tear again.
I had a 1st degree tear when i was giving birth to my first. I tried my best to massage between my booty hole and vagina as well as practice my J-breathing. I told my doctor i wanted to avoid having an episiotomy, super grateful she listened to me🥺
Warm compresses actually sound wonderful!!! But I have delivered both of my babies at the hospital, and the 3rd one will be delivered at the hospital too so no warm compresses for me 😕. Great video though!!!
I love your voice it's so soothing ❤ Thanks for all the tips and advice! I'm having my baby any day now and was so daring How to make the ginger water for the warm compress. I bought some fresh ginger and was wondering if I should chop it up or stick the entire bulb in the croc pot with water?.
Oh yay you are going to be so prepared! I am going to peel the outside a little and drop the whole bulb in the crock pot so pieces don’t get stuck on the rag. ☺️
Oh yay you are going to be so prepared! I am going to peel the outside a little and drop the whole bulb in the crock pot so pieces don’t get stuck on the rag. ☺️
Very helpful. Thanks a lot. I'm going in for a vbac in august. I've watched your videos on inducing and feel a lot more confident. I'm walking a lot. What other activities can I do now till end of pregnancy to ensure a natural birth?
I would focus on relaxing/creating a spa like environment while also keeping an eye on pelvic posture to increase oxytocin and baby head engagement. Spinning Babies techniques i'm obviously a fan for balancing pelvic floor but a webster certified chiropractor it a great source for that as well. :) keep me updated!
Just so you know withdrawal method is NOT good for birth control. Don't ever let any guy try to tell you it works. My bf tried that method and well... I am pregnant now.
Knowledge is power. You can empower yourself and other young women with your knowledge bc the medical model in the USA does not empower women or encourage bodily autonomy. You may go into medicine: Dr, Nurse, midwife, or doula. And you can always be a labor and birth advocate and educator for women. 🙂
@@MyRamblingRose86 Jesus enables us to see the light, the truth of how well He designed us. So we can avoid the episiotomy totally and 3rd and 4th degree tears. Praise be to The Lord our God. 'Mums Independent' on Facebook have more detail. Please share with all you meet, these four words.
It’s said to put more force on the perineum simply because of gravity but I would just follow that momma intuition in whatever position feels comfortable!
If you bear down you are more likely to tear with the added pressure of gravity. If you use breathing and let the body work for you you’re less likely to tear.
@@AC-iw5mv An opening to the lower tummy, is a brilliant piece of engineering, in birth going from floor of the tummy to trapdoor and then back to floor. Admittedly the overlying skin hides the brilliant design, just as a bonnet hides a car engine. Please view Dr Zenko BILAS 'Birth explained fro children' video on TH-cam, sorry no mums appear it this video, just pure science.
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this is my first pregnancy and I’m 17 years old with not a lot of support. this made me feel really safe and I’m glad I came across this video ❤️
I’m always here for you too! Find me on Instagram fearless momma birth and let me know you are babydoll from TH-cam!
❤️❤️❤️ sorry you don’t have much support, the best thing you can do is educate and empower yourself with videos like fearless mamas, built to birth and mama natural😘. We also have a great Hypnobirthing course in the UK called “the positive birth company” that you could take a look at xxxxx ❤️❤️❤️ you got this x
I just want you to remember that nothing worth doing is easy. Also keep in mind that right now you and what your body have to offer is enough on its own for your baby. The love and care you provide them post birth will do the same. You are enough mama. You always will be.
You may benefit from a doula so you have someone to support and advocate for you. They also have virtual ones if there are none in your area. You deserve to feel love and support but I promise you once you're holding that precious peanut you will feel so much love it will empower you to keep pushing forward. You also have a community here to support you. You have my support for sure. Good luck mama!
On my 2nd child i felt his head crowning and felt the ring of fire took a min till i pushed my doctor told me to push once she saw his head and im so glad i did not i would have a tearing at that moment always listen to your body this is a very informative video i'm currently 37weeks 🙏🏼
Yes!!! I’m so glad you listened to your body and allowed enough time to stretch!
@@DanceePinkston just
gave birth to my 3rd child again no tearing did the same thing they kept telling me not to push till the doctor comes i said nope he's coming out!
I studied your videos and I had an extremely fast labour and no tearing with my first baby, the midwifes were shocked 😅❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much
Whoohoo! Thanks for coming back to share your amazing fearless birth story!
What else did u do to help? Like exercises or diets?
Your voice is so soothing 🥺
Wow this is so informative thank you!!!!!!!! I am constructing my birthing plan and I want to make sure I cover your tips. I tore last time. I am not trying to tear again.
I m 38 weeks pregnant.....no pains strt yet ....this is my 2nd pregnancy
I had my first one on hands and knees and got 3rd degree tear 😂 hopefully I get less tear with my second one!! Thanks for the vid!
What did you do for your first birth? Did you tear?
Nothing unfortunately I had an episiotomy 😩😩
I had a 1st degree tear when i was giving birth to my first. I tried my best to massage between my booty hole and vagina as well as practice my J-breathing. I told my doctor i wanted to avoid having an episiotomy, super grateful she listened to me🥺
Warm compresses actually sound wonderful!!! But I have delivered both of my babies at the hospital, and the 3rd one will be delivered at the hospital too so no warm compresses for me 😕. Great video though!!!
I had an OB with my last pregnancy and she said she was happy to do warm compresses! Just talk to them! :)
I don’t think hospital staff will care to do this for us unfortunatly
If you have a birthing partner they can help with this.
@DanceePinkston how do they "provide warm compresses" in the hospital?
My vagina tore anyways with kneeling with my 3rd pregnancy. But I recovered faster.. surprisingly. Maybe its because I didnt take any medication 😅
I love your voice it's so soothing ❤
Thanks for all the tips and advice! I'm having my baby any day now and was so daring How to make the ginger water for the warm compress. I bought some fresh ginger and was wondering if I should chop it up or stick the entire bulb in the croc pot with water?.
Oh yay you are going to be so prepared! I am going to peel the outside a little and drop the whole bulb in the crock pot so pieces don’t get stuck on the rag. ☺️
Oh yay you are going to be so prepared! I am going to peel the outside a little and drop the whole bulb in the crock pot so pieces don’t get stuck on the rag. ☺️
Thank you for the tips 😍
you are so very welcome!
Very helpful. Thanks a lot. I'm going in for a vbac in august. I've watched your videos on inducing and feel a lot more confident. I'm walking a lot. What other activities can I do now till end of pregnancy to ensure a natural birth?
I would focus on relaxing/creating a spa like environment while also keeping an eye on pelvic posture to increase oxytocin and baby head engagement. Spinning Babies techniques i'm obviously a fan for balancing pelvic floor but a webster certified chiropractor it a great source for that as well. :) keep me updated!
I pushed on my right side with the leg up, but still tore in a few places🤷
So when I feel the burn, don't push at all? Just let my body eject the head? Would I still feel a burn with babys shoulders?
I can listen to you all day 😊 thanks for the tips
What about olive, coconut or almond oil on the warm compresses? Maybe in addition to ginger?
Amazing insights. Thanks
Why am I here- I'm 14, single and no where near pregnant
Just so you know withdrawal method is NOT good for birth control. Don't ever let any guy try to tell you it works. My bf tried that method and well... I am pregnant now.
Don’t have sex or you will get pregnant and die
Knowledge is power. You can empower yourself and other young women with your knowledge bc the medical model in the USA does not empower women or encourage bodily autonomy. You may go into medicine: Dr, Nurse, midwife, or doula. And you can always be a labor and birth advocate and educator for women. 🙂
A women has right to know how to avoid damaging herself and ho her body work. Ignorance is not bliss. An intelligent person is inquisitive.
Tearing is my worst fear
Great tips!
Please I'm first mum and in 39th week, what do Indonto induce labour
Thank you 🥰
Jesus saves ♥️
But will he save our vaginas from ripping during birth?
@@MyRamblingRose86 Jesus enables us to see the light, the truth of how well He designed us. So we can avoid the episiotomy totally and 3rd and 4th degree tears. Praise be to The Lord our God. 'Mums Independent' on Facebook have more detail. Please share with all you meet, these four words.
I love your videos ❤️ so educational
asma c I try to share my research as I am learning myself ☺️
the father has a big head, and so perhaps the baby will too lol!!
Will squatting make u tear?
It’s said to put more force on the perineum simply because of gravity but I would just follow that momma intuition in whatever position feels comfortable!
@@DanceePinkston thanks for the response 🤗
If you bear down you are more likely to tear with the added pressure of gravity. If you use breathing and let the body work for you you’re less likely to tear.
@@polarbarr21 i ended up going on all fours and breathing through it with the “J” breath. Pushed for 9mins n didn’t tear. Went natural 🤗 first baby🤗
@@polarbarr21 If you have 'Birth Canal Widened' to 10cm the skin is elastic and stretches, no tearing into the anus.
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WTF Doctor's are going to do this...loL
My OB was very open to supporting all these things with my first.
So rude
@@AC-iw5mv An opening to the lower tummy, is a brilliant piece of engineering, in birth going from floor of the tummy to trapdoor and then back to floor. Admittedly the overlying skin hides the brilliant design, just as a bonnet hides a car engine. Please view Dr Zenko BILAS 'Birth explained fro children' video on TH-cam, sorry no mums appear it this video, just pure science.
Don't talk too much in next videos please I forgot everything now
Talking too much