This video should be removed as encouraging something that is HARMFUL for babies. Proved by science by the way. There’s always other options mamas. I know sleep deprivation is hard but there is other options. That is child abandonment and it traumatizes the babies. They don’t learn to sleep, they GIVE UP because it is too stressful to always wait for mom but she never comes. Their body turns off. That’s what happens.
Thank you!! Agree 200%. Studies showed that their cortisol levels remain high for hours even when they are not crying anymore (i.e. stop signaling to their caretaker), they are still distressed. You can't teach your child at such an early age "don't bother crying for help, nobody's coming" and expect them to grow up having a different belief later in life.
You just go on with this method. We don't always expect the baby to be calm after your quick visit. Most of the time, they'll continue crying, but at least they know you're there
What do you do if your baby stops crying within the set time frame of 3 minutes? Do you stop the timer and then start for the 5 minute when they cry? Or do you still go check in after the 3 minutes if they aren’t crying and start the 5 min?
Read the article at: www.parents.com/baby/sleep/basics/the-ferber-method-explained/
This video should be removed as encouraging something that is HARMFUL for babies. Proved by science by the way.
There’s always other options mamas. I know sleep deprivation is hard but there is other options. That is child abandonment and it traumatizes the babies. They don’t learn to sleep, they GIVE UP because it is too stressful to always wait for mom but she never comes. Their body turns off. That’s what happens.
Thank you!! Agree 200%. Studies showed that their cortisol levels remain high for hours even when they are not crying anymore (i.e. stop signaling to their caretaker), they are still distressed. You can't teach your child at such an early age "don't bother crying for help, nobody's coming" and expect them to grow up having a different belief later in life.
And what do you do when your child can’t be consoled just by rubbing their back, etc (until they are picked up again?)
Try another method, my friend used the chair method
You just go on with this method. We don't always expect the baby to be calm after your quick visit. Most of the time, they'll continue crying, but at least they know you're there
What do you do if your baby stops crying within the set time frame of 3 minutes? Do you stop the timer and then start for the 5 minute when they cry? Or do you still go check in after the 3 minutes if they aren’t crying and start the 5 min?
Are you crazy??? How you can do that to your child?? It is mental
On Day 1 Should this be practiced for one of the naps or all naps?
how do you know if they pooped?
I would stick my hand in there and check it out
What about in the night when they wake for a feed? Do i feed and then start again with the self settle method?
At 0:43 - 0:55 she explains the details
The first step in this method u can do is to train them to not feed them at night if u dont know how iam gonna tell ya ..much love from Kurdistan 🎉
@@lanansabir4384 kindly assist with that, my baby is 6months old
Unbelievable that this method is still being taught and promoted, even with all the scientific evidence at hand.
Do you know more than the director of the sleep medicine program at the Yale School of Medicine, random TH-cam poster?
@@lifetime805 I have read enough research and followed lectures from experts regarding this subject. Thank you for your interest kind sir.
0:17
How long do you let them cry before picking up . My baby cried for almost 3 hours and is it ok to tell them cry that long ?
What evidence you haven’t provided anything