The Most Challenging Week So Far At My Cottage Homestead
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024
- I thought this week's video might be a little empty because I'm away for a wedding this weekend, however it's almost like the cottage heard me and said 'Hold my beer!' as a whole host of things went awry.
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I've been stuck in rut for the past couple of years - both my parents passed away at the end of 2022 and since then I've been navigating grief, burnout and just being scared to make a change. I decided that 2024 was going to be the year I set my life on fire, because life is too short to spend all of it wondering just what the point is. So I quit my job, sold my house in the suburbs and bought a 150yr old cottage in the middle of the Scottish countryside. Follow along as I attempt to renovate this little stone house, build a backyard homestead and hopefully fall in love with life, all over again.
Spoiler alert - I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing, so almost anything could happen.
This week cottage life was CHALLENGING! But the sun came out and I managed to tackle a couple of jobs on the to do list, which helped reinstate confidence in my capabilities.
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I hope you’ve had a great weekend! See you next Sunday!
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You have no idea how many virtual parents you’ve gained who are all proud of you. 😊
Absolutely!
Yes!
Ahhh I love this! 💗
Yes!
Have you thought about getting a dog first and then introducing cats into the home. John Gray at Going Gently is on this particular journey. Just a thought. Love the channel x
Hi Jude, my 32 year old son passed away two years ago, and I have to agree that time weirdly kaleidoscopes when it comes loss. It seems ages since that last hug, and yet pain can be so fresh and raw, it’s like it was just yesterday. No one will ever replace your dear mum, but I hope you know that you’ve created a community of support here. I hope you can feel that I and everyone else has adopted you! You are inspiring me to reengage in my life in ways that I haven’t been able to manage for a while. I really appreciate that you’ve let us into your life, and shared your joy & grief, challenges & wins, as well as the beauty and peace of your corner of the world. I have to say, I’m not surprised you’re officiating a wedding! You’ve got the wisdom and introspection of a philosopher and I’m sure you’re deeply loved and cherished by your friends. Thank you, Jude, for all of this. Yours, Natasha
Oh my goodness, I can’t imagine how hard that must be for you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Thank you so much for your kind words! 💗💗
Sorry for your loss ❤
Your comments to Jude were heartfelt and beautiful.
It's so true about the adoption. We are like a tribe haha. Take care ❣️
What a lovely message for Jude. I bought my first house a month before Jude got the last place. We're also close in age, so it feels like I've gotten to get used to this homeowner thing along with Jude. but i must admit he is a much better DIYer/fixer/builder than I will ever be.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you're finding mountains of joy by reengaging.
So sorry for your loss! ❤🌻
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢
Jude, cattle farmer here. It's the farmer's responsibility to keep their cattle in. They could run an electric fence along there, and absolutely should do, as a temporary measure. It's quite possible the owner of the cattle is renting the ground - so they are unlikely to want to fix/renew the fence as they'd be doing a very expensive repair job for the land owner who could chuck them off next season. But - it's not your responsibility. Best wishes.
ps- a 'pinch bar' rather than a spade is your friend for getting fenceposts in.
I had the same thought. It is always the owners responsibility to keep their animals in. 🐄🐃🐂. No farmer wants the worry of their animals escaping.
Isn’t it the farmers responsibility to fix the fence. It’s worth asking them, because they may not even realise it needs repairing.
In Scotland, the rules can allegedly be somewhat different on the fencing responsibility, at least the cattle farmer next to me tried to convince me of that when his cattle regularly broke into my fields due to his broken down fencing….But eventually said farmer DID have his field fencing re-done. However with a garden fence you should reasonably have a fence in decent condition - but it only needs to be a garden type fence. If the cattle break that and come in the farmer is liable so they should erect post and wire/barb or electric to keep them in. Ie you are responsible for a fence on your boundary but only of a type that reflects your usage of the land, just like the farmer is responsible for ensuring that his use of the land doesnt result in trespass or damage by his stock. You are def not responsible for reaching stock fencing standard of the fence round your garden.
Re the boiler - no I could never smell oil but we had put a new boiler in, it was an insulated external boiler with a frost stat that ensures the pipes never freeze. An old, uninsulated single wall tank could well have developed a leak in the tank or pipe so that needs sorting; maybe if lucky the leak is just a corroded joint which is easy to replace.
@@shetlandsheep3081 A quick search on Google. =. Fencing Laws
In the UK, there are two types of land when which affect how livestock should be restricted. On private land, it is deemed the responsibility of the owner to secure their livestock through fencing them in and keeping them safe. However, private land that borders on common land needs to be secured to ensure that livestock does not wander onto common land and equally common livestock wandering on private.
Scotland is part of the UK
Get your cat, Jude. You don't currently have a dog, so there's no issue. When you do get a dog, eventually, they will know the cat is family. I've always had both, with good outcome. Your a good soul and deserve positive things in your life! They are coming even when it doesn't feel like it. Be well!
Yes absolutely...a cat would be happier anywhere rather than . a cage .what nonsense
Agreed. I had two cats for 3 years before I got two dogs and had no problems with a slow and steady introduction and now they all sleep on the bed! 😅 Don't hesitate Jude, they are a daily source of joy and you will give them the best life there on your new land. Love your videos, take care x
I agree. It’s not relevant what you do in the future. Dogs and cats live happily together (I have two of each!). Get that cat with an honest “no I don’t have a dog!).
Some of these shelters are forgetting that a cat out of a cage is the best option.
Completely agree. When I tried adopting a cat here (South West) a couple of years ago, I ended up getting the impression shelters didn't actually want cats adopted, there were so many nonsensical requirements and hoops to jump through (I've owned cats for 13 years at that point and even moved countries with them). I eventually got a pumpkin-spicy ginger from Spain, who's enjoying regular meals and cuddle session more instead of going through the rubbish on the streets. At least that's what I tell myself 😂
Jude. Mow the leaves up with the lawn mower and then empty the mower box into your leaf mould bin. Decomposition will be a lot faster (Monty Don’s gardening tip)
Hi Jude
I am the mother of a trans son.I know it is a tough journey to get to where you are now. My son and I have always been close . The fact that you KNOW what your mum would say to you shows she is in your head and heart and always will be.
Keep listening ❤
I admire your attitude to life's challenges and wish you a bloody great time with your friends at the wedding!
I'll be here again next week to see you, sending you a hug..I cant find the emoji for it .. :-)
Well said! ❤
hiya as a gay guy that has just come out of 10 years looking after two very poorly parents that died with in 4 days of each other a few months ago, you have been a real inspiration to me what you are doing is fantastic ,what i have always dreamed of. hope you have someone to cuddle up to and make the hard times good . with all my love v x
So so sorry Jude for your loss at a young age you are. . You are doing well keep going .
Sorry @Bear the reply was meant for Jude
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Oh no, Bear I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you a big virtual hug.
I’m so sorry for your loss - that’s awful! My parents were 5 weeks apart and that nearly broke me. Be kind to yourself - grief is exhausting 💗 (also - 4 months after my parents’ death, I was definitely not in the place I am now!)
My future dog will be filling the cuddle vacancy for a while, while I summon up the energy to go on dates 😂 (also, I will shamelessly use cute puppy photos to lure in potential boyfriends. Because who doesn’t love a puppy?! 😂)
My dear, your Mum and Dad DO see the life you've made for yourself. They will always be with you.❤❤
Jude, your best tribute to your parents is to live the life you want to live. All most parents want for their children to be happy and healthy. You are doing fine. Thanks for another wonderful video.
That is SO true! And I know they would be completely on board with what I’m doing here!
I’m sure I speak for all of us watching, we are all thinking of you. You have well and truly been adopted by us all Jude 😊🏳️🌈
im 35 and your videos have made me realise i need to spend more time with my mum. Instead of spending time with friends, i need to make more time for her. Its making me teary thinking that she wont be here forever and im wasting the time i still have with her
I’m sure she’d love to spend more time with you!! 💗
The boiler will always have a whiff of heating oil but check the ground around it, you will soon see if there is a leak there but for peace of mind I would have a basic service and safety check once a year. It might just avoid any imminent breakdown that may occur, and remember, they only break down when you really need them! This is addictive!!!!
Hi Jude. I came across your channel last week and have watched all your uploads. What you are doing is very inspiring certainly to me, but no doubt to lots of different people accross the globe. If you're feeling down, always remember that. Not many people can say that they reach so many different countries and different types of people. I have so much respect for you, and look forward to sharing your journey with you and everyone else in this fabulous community.💙
Thank you!! That’s such a lovely thing to hear.
Most of the time I’m okay - but when multiple things go wrong at once and I don’t have a plan on how to fix them, I get overwhelmed! (Which was Monday what happened on Monday last week!) I felt much better after a good nights sleep and hammering in that fence post! 😂
Good afternoon Jude. I'm the Brazilian grandmother. In Brazil it's 2:30 hs pm, it's early in the afternoon. Lots of sun where I live. There was a terrible flood here this year. I live in a city in the south of Brazil. So we have a cold winter, but without snow, milder than that. You are inspiring and a beautiful young man. I follow your channel. English is not my native language Greetings from Brazil. Vilma
As someone who habitually overthinks and overstresses, I just want to express my gratitude for your weekly videos! I find myself looking forward to Sundays now just because you will upload. Watching your home journey is so inspiring and a breath of fresh air ❤️
Ahh that’s so lovely to hear! I know exactly how the stressing and overthinking goes! ❤
As a mom of a son your age I can tell you that your Mom was and would be more than proud of you, and the life you're making for yourself. Both of your parents must have done something right to have such a lovely son as you are! I lost my mom six weeks ago tomorrow, it's the saddest thing. Though I was lucky to have her for so long, it's still heart breaking.
Your apple and blackberry crumble looked delicious! Love your vids xx
I think what I love about you most is that you are always smiling!
Yes he makes you feel happy just seeing his smile ❤
When your mum said no one else would put up with you, its a mum joke, because you are wonderful and she knew it, your Parents are all around you everyday with every object and memory you bring to life, 🎉🎉
Oh my mum was full of mum jokes!! It’s how she showed her affection 😂😂 as unplanned child, I was frequently referred to as a mistake 😂😂
Today I found myself thinking, " oh good, it's Sunday and Jude will be putting out a new video!" In the last few weeks since I found your videos I have spent more time with you than I have talking to my own trans son your age. As a mother, I can tell you that your mother is watching over you and is very proud. Your father is too, and he's probably yelling at you that you are using the wrong tool for that job or such. I know my father did that to me for years after he passed. But he is so proud of you too. While you are working with your hands on your own property you are also working on yourself, and your skills and confidence in your ability will grow as well.
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Oh my Dad is totally looking over, muttering ‘you paid too much for that place!’ In that way that only dads can! 😂😂
Your happy face in the intro, your sense of humour, beautiful surroundings = my new favourite channel.
You probably don't realise how calming and relaxing your videos are.
You're living my dream life, and I thoroughly enjoy watching you.
I have kids your age and I can only imagine how proud your parents would be.
Good luck Jude, enjoy your new life.
Jude, remember how old your house is....dont look at things as setbacks....look at it from the perspective that the house is asking for healing because it trusts you. Also as everyone has expressed your parents would be bursting at the seams with pride at what you are achieving. Add me to the list of ever growing virtual parents you have.
That is very true!!
Thank you, that’s so lovely to hear! 💗
An extra hour sleep, weekly crossword, warm apple fritter, and a Rewilding Jude vid. A perfect fall morning!!
I’m honoured to be a part of that line up!! 💗 we get our extra hour next weekend and I’m excited for it (although the dark nights are my least favourite thing about winter!)
Mice...wasps...water problems..they don't tell you about that part, lol.
As someone who has been living the rural life for 40 years, I can tell that you are going to be just fine because you can find the humor in it all.
You got this.
Wisely said ❤
I lost my over 20 years ago. The grief is always there, just different. Bless you.
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I have wondered if the pain ever goes, or if we just get used to it. I'm 71 now and lost my mother at 12. I think it just changes us.
@@MarionN-w3d Agreed
"This is what passes as a hobby these days." Spontaneous giggle when I heard you say this! Ta.
😂😂😂 I’m such a dork!
I wish animals shelters would realise that animals can be together. I have three dogs - one of which is a greyhound - and two cats. All perfectly fine. X
Aw sweetie, i totally understand about your mum. I miss mine every day, and it's been almost 33 years. But your parents know what you're doing. They see the life you're making. And I'm very sure they're SO proud of you. As are all of us watching you navigate your corner of the world. You're doing an amazing job, honey. ❤
Your dad had some amazing bits and bobs, a real treasure trove, I’m so glad you kept them and are using them ❤❤❤
He really did!! I’m so glad to be making use of them - I know he’d be pleased - he hated waste!
You will look back on all this in a year and feel proud. I’m sure your Mom is proud of you right now.
Ah Jude your tribute to your Mum at the end of your video brought a tear to my eye you obviously loved her dearly and I’m sure she would be so proud of your new life you are making for yourself. I too have a great relationship with my son so I know the feeling. Keep doing what your doing and make the most of it x
My mum just died, your mum would be proud of your new life
I'm so sorry to hear. I'm sending you my condolence.
So very sorry to hear this, heartache is a real literal pain isnt it, but I promise time will help you, you may not believe this at the moment, but it will get better and the pain will lessen, but you will never forget. My sincere condolences.
Thanks so much xx
I’m so very sorry. I hope you can grieve with support around you, but know that it’s being sent to you as well. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Bless you for not getting a leaf blower. The sound pollution from those things alone is simply awful and I hate it SO MUCH.
The most pointless invention ever
Yes it's awful 😖
Same, terrible noisy things.
I actually bought ear plugs to try and mute the sound of the leaf blower my mom’s workers insist on using. I detest the darn things!
Plus they are not good for microorganisms they get blown away
One way to keep the mice out of the house is to go all around the inside and outside and fill any openings with steel wool. Under the sinks in the kitchen and bathrooms are two of the most notorious places. The little critters can't chew through steel wool. You can also make a spray solution of cayenne or cinnamon boiled in water and spray it all around the perimeter.
I would say..make sure it is not steelwool but the one you can wash the dishes with, with broader "steelbands"...otherwise they will be chewing through.
I tried all sorts of heavy smelling things, but they ignore it. Mousetraps everywhere!!!
Thanks for the tip. We get the little mice in our loft every year
Storm Ashley outside, stove lit, & Jude. Its what my Sunday evenings are about.❤❤❤❤
Same here, well, except the stove, but I have candles. Cheers!
Ahh thank you!! Stay warm and dry!! (I’m currently waiting for my flight home, that’s been delayed by the storm!)
@@rewildingjude Safe home.x
Another great week. So wonderful to see you honoring your Mom’s memory. I know she would be incredibly proud of you. So sorry you had to face the crushing loss of your parents but so happy you have turned that tragedy into the triumph of your new life. Can’t believe how many challenges you face and overcome. I love your cheerful attitude and am in awe of your many talents. Your property is going to be spectacular. Can’t wait to see a dog running around with you in the near future.
You are such a pleasant and calming soul Jude...your folks are following you on your journey and with you every step of the way. You're such a lovely guy
Thank you!! 💗💗
Oh sweetheart, I wish I could give you a hug. Even small issues can be challenging and feel overwhelming when they stack up. You’ll get it all tackled, just pace yourself. As they say, “the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.” Sending you love and hugs, sweet Jude. ❤️🤗❤️
How can it be 2 years since your lovely mum passed 🥰💔 I bet both of your parents are watching from wherever they are now and your dad will be saying see that’s why I collected all of these things - I knew they would be useful 🥰💕
I just got my hat out this week , knitted in the special colourway you dyed for your mum, it made me think of her and how proud she seemed of you. I'm making sure to enjoy my parents who are 82 and 79.
Ohh I love that! I’ve got a skein of her colourway tucked away - I might cast it on this winter - when I eventually finish the socks I’ve been working on all year!
I’m always amazed at how you roll with the punches and have such a sunny attitude! I think I would have sat on that step and cried!
Haha!! Sometimes I get overwhelmed by too much going wrong and take myself for an early night - and it’s usually better in the morning!
As someone who deals with depression and seasonal affective disorder, I’m so inspired by your videos. You have so many talents and you push through each obstacle. Your parents are definitely with you all the time. I lost my Mom 18 years ago, but it feels like it was just yesterday. Looking forward to seeing your weekly progress!
I’m a glad my videos are helping! And I’m sorry for the loss of your mom - I don’t think we ever get over losing the ones we love 💗
For never meeting your mom (or you) I too sure do miss her. She shared so much with us that watched her on your channel. She sure would love the life you’re making for yourself Jude ! You make this 64 year old woman proud! ❤️
Hi! Former rescue/shelter worker here and lifelong feral cat whisperer. Here is some insight into the cat issue.
1. One of the more common reasons for an animal to be returned to the shelter is “not getting along with other animals or family”. The shelters are trying to prevent returns. Cats are both predator and prey, new situations and new predators (dogs, humans) generally make them antsy. Please see Jackson Galaxy videos on how to lessen feline anxiety.
2. Their policy does not mean a cat is not a good idea. Actually, I recommend getting two. If you can get a seasoned mouser and one of her kittens - Jackpot! If they come from a household with dogs - Double Jackpot! Ask your neighbors - I’m from the US, so maybe everyone in countryside in Scotland spays and neuters - but in my neck of the woods, someone almost ALWAYS has kittens to rehome. If you are going with a kitten, I still recommend getting two, because the only creature on Earth with the same energy as a kitten, is another kitten. Also remember, cats remain in their velociraptor stage until 2 years old (also true of puppies).
3. Terriers have also been known to be great mousers - if you want to skip straight to dog guardianship. Also - not all CATS are great mousers. Hopefully, whoever you choose was born to be the Nemesis of all Rodentia.
4. All indoor/outdoor companion animals need regular deworming, flea/tick prevention and vaccines. Good luck and happy bonding with whatever furry companion you choose!
Ohh that’s great insight, thank you!! Some of the shelters seem to have a ‘we don’t rehome with dogs’ blanket rule for their cats, and some seem to have a cat-by-cat plan, but none of the cats they have currently can live with dogs.
My parents didn’t have an issue with mice until they got cats - one of them loved bringing them back as presents! I was frequently escorting them out again! 😂🙈
Yesss, deworming and all the treatments will be happening, for sure!
I might be wrong - but based on the amount of stray cats and kittens I see turning up in the US on social media, I feel like spaying and neutering must be a bit more common over here - but then again, we’re a smaller country!
Thank you for all your advice, I really appreciate!!
Rat terriers are super cute and fun. My dad has one for a neighbor. Every now and then he leaves his own yard and wanders the neighborhood. Very friendly and well mannered, though energetic!
@@rewildingjude oh my goodness, after my mother died, I inherited her two cats.
One was a mouser of epic proportions, and the other one had poor vision, but still love to hunt.
So… Lilly would bring mice into the apartment, alive, deliberately, and let them go so that Tucker could hunt for them in the comfort of his own home.
One of them escaped and ended up living behind my refrigerator for well over a year.
A lovely tribute to your late mum, Jude. One day you will look back on all this hard work and see what you will have achieved!
Jude your doing amazingly well don’t under estimate how well adapted you are to this new lifestyle you are , I would give my eye teeth to be in your shoes with your endless enthusiasm and energy ,I have been lucky enough to have lived in many properties old and new but now I’m 56 very single and have ME so now live in a one bedroom bungalow which is perfect for me now with my illness but how I envy you with your cottage and location enjoy every minute.
You are doing so well Jude! 👏👏👏
Best wishes from Öland, Sweden.
Thank you!! Sending warm wishes right back!! 💗
Jude you are doing a fantastic job. Such an inspiration. Enjoy the wedding. Xoxo
Thank you!! It was a lovely wedding!!
You are doing amazing work! And sending love to you as you remember your mum. She absolutely would be incredibly proud of you!
Yes Jude as another has stated its the farmers responsibility to keep stock contained. Well done fir trying.
That crumble looked amazing!
Your videos have quickly become my favourite Sunday evening activity. Take care
It was delicious!!
Ahh thank you! I’m honoured!!
Congratulations on 32,000 subscribers!👏✨🎉 I'm sure your parents would be proud of you!❤
Thank you!! I think they would be! My dad used to show all his friends the old TH-cam channel I had for my fibre arts business - and none of them had any interest in it, but he liked to show it off 😂😂 oh Dad!
You have conquered so much at your cottage, you have learned so much, you are a wonderful human!
You never backpedal, and just know your mum knows, she is watching over you and so proud.
Love that you can still laugh when talking about the newly found "obstacles". 🥰
It’s definitely the best way to get through it!! (I did have to have an early night that day because I was irritable by the end of the day! Even the exercise class I went to didn’t help much! 😂😂)
I have not missed any of your postings. I find them enlightening. You will always miss your mom. As a mother I know she was proud of you. Your light is bright. Keep on your path. 😊❤ Have a great week.
Am now searching on Amazon for 'leaf grabber hand things....'
Me, too!
Try this. Two rakes, with their top end tucked under your arms, arms your wrists around midway. As much or more capacity than the hand leaf lifters, and, you don’t have to bend over!
@@maureenhastings8834 Try this. Two rakes, with their top end tucked under your arms, arms your wrists around midway. As much or more capacity than the hand leaf lifters, and, you don’t have to bend over!
@@catlayland8734 Like the rake idea, and I think two snow shovels would work too. We use one like a long handled dustpan in the garden in summer and for snow in winter. 👌
I am the influencer the world needs 🤣🤣🤣
Watching your videos is like watching Countryfile. I hope you keep making these videos. I really like the way you edit them.
That is a very big compliment!! Thank you!! I’m really enjoying making them - at some point I’m going to need to get some fancier equipment! Haha
You are a breath of fresh air!
I feel ya on the leaf blowers! They're loud and don't do that great a job. The leaf grabby things look great.
Jude, your videos are the highlight of my week ❤
Thank you so much! I’m glad you’re enjoying them!!
Old carpet on the compost if all else fails Jude and have you put worms in? Its an old property it will im afraid throw left curves. Our old victorian terrace is under going more work, it is non stop. You are doing a great job just keep going. We all love your channel you are a joy young man. My cat dragged a mouse in, lost it and finally chased it to its demise. I found it one morning hoovering! Jude mum is right there inside you, her beautiful son. Take care Jude.🙏
I mow the leaves and bag them that way. Then I put them in the designated garden spot. I only rack the areas the mower can’t go.
Jude, you are doing such a great job there!! I know it is hard to carry al the responsibility and decisions by yourself but know that your mum and dad are watching proudly. Thank god for neighbours and friends who also can support in stressy times. It makes me remember when I was al by myself in our house in France in the midlle of nowhere. There was a snowstorm, I could not get the fire going and the heating was off. I was not sure if all the outside pipes where blown out correctly. Thank god for the rescueing neighbour the next day who could reasure and help me. Anyway; know you’ve got your neighbours, friends and ofcourse all of us!
You are doing far better then me back then! I am now 61 and looking back also proud on how I did. You will2. 💪
So admiring your strength and resilience and self depricating humour - having a go, and just getting on with things, your creative approaches to each issue that presents itself. Not easy on your own, but so rewarding - and you live in such a beautiful area out in the 'bush' , as we say in Australia.
As a long term rewilding person working to re-intruduce and proritise biodiversity, I've planted a wildlife friendly garden in my suburban front yard. So, I just thought I should mention the value of leaf litter and leaf piles. If left on the ground, even if only on some parts of your property, leaf litter serves as a winter home for many types of caterpillars and pupae (eg moths, butterflies ). It also creates a physical barrier between the soil and the atmosohere, provding an insulating layer, reducing erosion as well as providvng nutrients through decomposition - so the leaves can do some work for you on the ground, as well as your compost!
Our golden retriever James and cats Jip and Blacky are best friends! You can really have both!!! Love your vlogs!! Greetings from the Netherlands!
Your an absolute credit to you late parents Jude, keep busy and enjoy the ride, we are all rooting for you.
Thank you!!
If you have a mouse problem don’t expect a cat to end it as in my experience cats often proudly bring their owner any mice they catch outside and have a play with them in the house where they escape
Composting suggestion: leaves break down faster if they are chopped up. We run our mower over our leaves a few times before adding them to our bins. It beaks down quickly.
I got the feeling the water closer should be inside your house, it would freeze outside. This is some outside tap thing you closed. Mine is in my cellar, most have them in a hole under the front door mat. Mice are intelligent, they can find their old home in a radius of two kilometers or more. Bring them far, far away. Wasps come inside for winter, to hibernate until spring. Find the hole, June, and close it off so they can't get in anymore. Cats and dogs go together, and my dog would lead a burglar to the safe, the cats catch everything. Alive. And bring in it to let it escape. From moths, birds, and toads to mice. They love seeing me running around to catch it, pure cat amusement. Are snow chains allowed in Scotland? I have not a clue, I used them in snow and ice. Loss is such a heavy load, you get used to it, but it is always there.
Jude, I look forward to your videos every week as you feel like such a kindred spirit (as you do to many of your audience). I’m a queer woman in my thirties, I also love nature, scotland and simplicity. My dad is currently needing end of life care and your videos have provided so much comfort during this time. So grateful for your positivity, fortitude and inspiring us all to embrace life. ❤
I feel so bad for you that you lost your Mum so young. I think it is really the worst thing in the world. I was 37 when my Mum died…. I am now 68 and miss her still. I do not want you to think that you will never loose the sadness, you will and you'll be happy to think of her. Sending love 💕
You will make it all work out in the end, you'll see!! We built our place in the mid 80s. The upkeep is never ending but I love it. There are always projects to be done but I love it. Your bedside tables look great! And I love the tribute to your mum. ❣She would be so proud of you. I have always had cats and dogs, together. If you get cats first, then bring in a puppy, the cats will accept the pup more easily. That is what happened with ours, anyway. Thanks for the great vlog!
Your mum sounds like a lovely person. You were fortunate to have each other -plus your dad.
She was! Both of them had hearts of gold!
Hi, I've been 8 years with an outside oil boiler and there is constantly an oil smell around it. It runs on kerosene which has strong fumes but that's simply a by product to its presence. Only worry if you smell the fumes inside. That said, a service is a sensible choice 👌
That’s very good to hear! Hopefully that’s all it is - one of my neighbours has recommended a company to call to get it serviced, so that’s on my list for this week!
@@rewildingjude Good stuff, all the best with it. I'm enjoying your content as it's calm and engaging, just like you are. ⭐️
Such a lovely video, especially rounding it off with "love you mum".
Your Mom's PROUD of you. !!! She raised such a kind man. Blessings.
Jude, you are loved by so many!!! Sending lots of hugs to you.
You are amazing and your mum would be so proud of you .💛
You Re doing great nothing that can't be fixed wer with you all the way❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m glad you were able to find a finish you like for your tables.
Some anniversaries are heartbreaking. Wishing you peace in the process of grieving your mum.
Love your channel. Living in an old rural home is not easy, my place was built in 1975s, it really is a never ending battle.
Thinking of you and your lovely Mum who you were generous enough to share with us. xx
I enjoy following your journey so much. Sending you lots of energy for all the cottage shenanigans!! And thanks for the wonderful videos ❤❤❤
Thank you!! I’m interested to see what this week will throw at me - we’re currently in the middle of a storm, so I’m hoping the roof will still be attached when I wake up! 😂
Hey Jude, I'm really feeling for you this week. So many challenges & you still manage to stay cheerful & positive.
The oil leak sounds worrying. I hope you get it sorted. You've taken on a lot with that house.
Your apple & blackberry pie looked tasty.
I light candles too for past loved ones too Jude. Your Mum is probably watching over you from somewhere & feeling so proud of you. It's great that you both had such a close relationship. You'll always have your fond memories of her in your heart to dwell on when times are tough.
You're great Jude, keep at it & it'll all be worth it.
I cannot believe how generously you sprinkle your knowledge… I have been struggling to find description for those leaf scooping hand things and there you are!!!
Ooooo the scary orange plastic has reappeared 😂. The crumble looked yum but in our household, I’m always told there needs to be at least ‘a foot of crumble’. The fruit to crumble ratio is of vital importance apparently!
Such a beautiful tribute to your mum. It brought tears to my eyes. Sending you a massive hug x
Hahaha!! I found MORE of it in the shed (at least now I know where it came from - it was packing material for some corrugated bitumen sheets that my workshop shed is built out of) - I thought I’d repurpose it!
Hahaha that’s fair! I quite like a more fruit than crumble mix!
@@rewildingjudeI agree if the crumble is too thick it's just soggy,I just want something crunchy....ooh and greek yoghurt as well
Jude, you truly are one of the highlights of my week! Love your tribute to your mum! ❤
Thank you!!
Jude you are and inspiration. You get knocked back and just keep going forward as best you can. I know your mom's love for you is what keep you going even if you are not aware of it.
Oh Honey, your lovely mum &dad, can not only see the life you are making, she is next to you every step along the way! ❣️ enjoying your videos!!!
Missing our moms never goes away, so sorry you lost yours much too early in your life. Love the stained glass piece by her photo. Living in the country, there will be stray cats roaming here and there, hopefully one or two will decide to make your homestead theirs. They just need to realize there’s plenty of mice around. Also some dog breeds are good mousers. Good luck with your projects, love your weekly updates.
Can't believe that it's 2 years. She would be so proud of how well you are coping.
Thank you for bringing us along for the ride.
Remember that a tough week just makes you stronger.
It’s flown by!
You’re so right - I’m getting better at problem solving, so that’s something!
Still loving every single thing you do and every minute of the vlog recording it. Your Mum's love and friendship will always be with you. I am not religious but somehow she knows she has an amazing son. Enjoy the wedding. What an honour to be asked to officiate. Kind regards.
Beautiful results. Great job, Jude!!!
Yay, I'm looking forward to this video❤❤❤❤
So sweet to remember your Mom in such a great way ...
Thankyou for another great video Jude, Nessy 💜
Beautiful tribute to your mum... she's with you always. Hugs and love!❤
Your mum and dad would be so proud of you Jude. You’ve taken on a real challenge there, and to do that without your parents support and encouragement must make it even more so. Don’t forget though you have a community on here of lots of us on here willing you on, and hopefully encouraging and supporting you as your virtual ‘parents’ x
Oh Jude, your words about your mum were so heartfelt and lovely. It’s so good to hear you mention your parents throughout your vlogging. We used the “nice” traps and caught many a mouse. We also checked for any holes we thought the little blighters might be coming in. At the time we had two cats and a dog who didn’t bother with the mice. I am old enough to be your grandmother so any time you would like cakes and scones just give me a shout. You are doing a brilliant job in all that you tackle and you can have a laugh at yourself - that’s the best attitude to have. Well done Jude. Onwards and upwards. 🎃
Jude…my children lost their father (my husband)when the three had just turned 10,6,and 4….(27 years ago…but still feels very fresh at times…and I still miss him so at this season of my life..) As I believe, and always told them..”I believe that our loved ones who have passed away, do see all the good things that are happening in our lives” I truly believe that when we have happy times, like times of accomplishment, something worked hard for, or they met a new milestone as they were growing, or just a simple moment in life…that their dad was enjoying it with them…Like you, we often talked about my husband, and I shared many stories (many funny ones and ones about quirky things he would do) so that they would not forget the love and times they had when he was here…i think its great that you share stories and memories of your parents…its a great way to honor them…and Im very sure that they are proud of you and the life you are creating for yourself. I certainly would be proud to call you my son..😊
There is such a thing as the ‘universal cat distribution system’. Open your heart to the idea and the cat will find you.
This is very true! I see a lot of cats distributing themselves around the US, if some of them would like to get themselves to this side of the pond, that would be marvellous!!