I’m glad OP despite the negativity from his family continued to follow his passion and became a great success. If I was in his shoes I would also cut contact with that family who now see OP as an asset now that he made it big and I would also do a live television interview talking about the road to success and mention the negativity from the ex and family so they can’t try to clout from the success and talk about how having going to get a college degree doesn’t define who you are and whether or not your a success person.
Some people should never be parents. You should always encourage your children. OP, you keep doing what you want. I hate the way they made fun of him for not going to college. I never went to college, but I was #1 at my job. I was the top sales rep.
Accountants do not make more than IT, and even CPA do well, but they have peaks and lows. Especially in 9-5 jobs. Margarate calls OP an illiterate, and she is only a hairdresser. To each their own, but no one is in a position to mock people like that. Like "You can't eat with us because you don't have a degree".WTF
The father is a bully, stepmother favored her kids over OP and the stepsibs attitudes were just like their parents. OP dared to be different and take a chance by wanting to pursue his dreams. To be made to change his last name was a cruel blow and now the father can't brag on OP so easily with the last name being different. OP, remember how cruel your family was to you before you made it big. Remember how not one of them provided ANY type of support. You became what YOU always dream of so enjoy your accomplishments and decide in time what you'd like to do about your fAmiLy.
What a disgusting, heartless, unsupportive family. This interney stranger is so proud of OP for not listening to the haters, and following his dreams. My eldest daughter decided to get her bachelor's degree in studio art. Everyone in my family kept telling her that it was such a useless degree, and she was waisting mine and my husband's money. My sister was the worse of them all, telling my daughter that she will never make money llike she does (sister) as an accountant. Well, we backed our daughter up, and told her to study whatever she wanted and we would support and pay for her degree. My daughter now owns her own art studio, and she exhibits art from local artists, including street artists. She also owns another studio where she teaches and sells ceramics. Couples can go there on date nights and enjoy wine while making ceramics, and parents can have birthday parties there for kids where they can decorate premade pieces. Between the 2 businesses, my daughter is unbelievably happy, and (not that this matters but I can slap sister with it), her yearly income is twice as much as my "accountant" sister.
I love how God works. She looked down on your daughter and not only is she happy and successful but she’s thriving 2x more than your sis. I know she’s bitter. Same happened to me, when I started suffering mentally my immediate family showed me how demonic they were and bc they couldn’t see any “potential” in me they showed their true colors. Lied, slandered, treated me like a maid, gaslighted me. They knew I had depression and sucicidal ideation and I believe to this day they were trying to push me. Fast forward to today, they are in such a pitiful state that it makes me fear God. Like wow, worse position I’ve ever been 99% is older than me and one is younger than me and even that person destroyed their own life. Right now I’m stepping into wealth, marriage, true friendships/family bc they exposed themselves and they have to watch. But bc they can’t bear the reality they’re making up lies about my life is the only way for them to “cope” plus they don’t get the opportunity to manipulate me or gaslight me because I don’t give them the chance so they’re upset they can’t leech off of me because they don’t know how and where to begin.
Hey, Prosper will fit nicely into that family, cheaters. Leave the lot of them in the rear view mirror, they have done nothing but mock you and nobody needs that. Leaving that lot would be the best thing for everyone, after all you don't want them now and they will come to you looking for something now you have made your dreams all on your own.
I spent a ton of money getting my degrees to finally have graduated and got 3 different 6 figure job interviews where I would’ve had 90-120 days off throughout the year and didn’t follow my dreams because they generally don’t pay well for the vast majority of people. Everything appeared to finally be going my way once in my life and then I got carbon monoxide poisoning at my work and passed out 10-15 minutes after leaving because it seemed like I was fine to end up passing out outside of the gas station causing my clavicle to be shattered. It made it so that I couldn’t pass the physical required for the field work and the jobs that I can get with the degree without the physical aspect aren’t usually over 45-55k which is less than 1/3 of what I should’ve been making. Been dealing with the entire issue of surgery’s, healing, being prescribed pain medications for over 2 years through the entire process that I had to take them nearly every 4-6 hours every day to be able to function due to the pain levels (when I broke my clavicle first I got myself up and refused an ambulance to go home thinking I strained/bruised my shoulder to find a 2” tall bump the following morning where I knew I couldn’t fix it myself and couldn’t sleep for more than 2-5 minutes at a time at night for a few days until they got me on a strong enough pain medicine because of the opioid crisis they started with tramadol, Tylenol 3, Tylenol 4, and finally Vicodin as the doctor saw me getting worse everyday without being able to sleep at all due to being able to feel my heartbeat through my shoulder every heartbeat all day/night. It took nearly 9 months of them trying to have it heal naturally before transferring me to a specialist for surgery which took another 15 months before I could use the arm and nearly 24 months before I was back to nearly 50% of where I was before the accident. Unfortunately after the surgery where they had to cut out 2” of bone/bone marrow of shattered bones to graft in a new bone along with 2 plates & 13 screws was far worse than any point in the previous 9 months of “natural healing and including the actual break even without pain medication for nearly 20 hours. The doctors then put me on oxycodone which ended up giving me a physical dependency that as soon as the pain was manageable I sought out treatment because I didn’t like having my mind cloudy from the opiates/opioids because of the lengthy healing process. When I was almost off of it my wife freaked out making me increase which put me back 6 months in treatment to only 6.5 months after the freaking out want to grenade the decade plus marriage. I literally did nearly everything possible for her throughout the marriage and much before the marriage. I would bring his coffee/energy drinks/tea/water/juice in bed when she wakes up every day even when I’m sick (I would wear food handling gloves and wash my hands properly with wearing a mask so I don’t spread my illness to her). She has never reciprocated this with me at all and lucky to get a drink brought to me if she is in the kitchen already. I bring her breakfast in bed usually 3-4 times a week as well. My wife used to be a loving partner but the biggest red flag I overlooked early on in the relationship thinking it was just stress at work but the fact that she always has to find something/someone to be angry at and when she has slowly isolated us from all of our mutual friends, my friends, my family (chased them out of the family home and even the state), and every regular job that I’ve had she gets mad if I’m not available to spend time with her 100% of the free time she has and will blow up my phone like crazy until I respond and then get mad because I can’t give her attention when I’m working. Even when I was working 18 hour days I would prep her coffee if I would be gone before she got up so she could be ready easily or put it in a thermos next to her bed but she would be mad when I would be physically exhausted, starving because gas stations don’t give good meals for physical activity’s, and if I was lucky she would heat me up a bowl of chef boyardi ravioli on the stove but generally the microwave. I’ve tried to get her to see that a marriage is a 2 way street and she expects to receive everything with giving a little and then minimize everything I’ve done for her through gas lighting, emotional manipulation, physical/sexual manipulation,and even financial manipulation. Over the years I’ve become very numb to it all and had overlooked it for a long time because we did share something special and I just thought she was a fiery Latina but she was able to fool myself and even my family for many years until the mask started slipping but she seemed to still hold the same values/morals/ethics and had always been good at communicating but she can only communicate “why should I care or I don’t love you or leave me alone” but still expects me to do everything. I’m trying to separate amicably if possible but I have plenty of evidence against her she isn’t going to be fair with everything that has been given/loaned to her from my family that she agreed to pay back before we got married and never had any documents giving forgiveness of debts. I still have love for her but I don’t know if I can trust her anymore let alone respect her because of how she is dropping at the sight of trouble. She as well as her 6 other siblings all refused to take their father to dialysis when he is in end stage kidney disease during the beginning of the pandemic because they where scared but I took him while healing & going through all of my issues without question for 1.5-1.75 years 3 times a week picking him up and dropping him off at home/dialysis each time. He ended up losing parts of both legs during this but would’ve died if it wasn’t for me having to drive hours a day multiple times a week which was always painful for myself but I wanted to make sure our folks are take care of in their old age. She constantly tries to gas light me with “You don’t do anything for me ever” nor does the 25-40k (market value fluctuations and selling quickly could be low end, while retail will be the high end) in Australian fire opals & black opal pendants I gave her over the years as gifts because she loves the way they look. Hopefully people have better luck than myself because you can be “aesthetically handsome/beautiful, brilliantly intelligent, loyal, faithful, kind, and compassionate” to find that the person who loved these qualities have only changed their mind. I spent years having to constantly turn down other women because I only had interest for my wife to have her try to accuse me of cheating because I have very attractive women trying to flirt with me but I always say I’m happily married. Even now with being fairly confident she is cheating on me I won’t do the same because I honor my oaths, vows, & promises unlike her. This was just a trickle of the insanity I have to deal with all of the time but I’m seriously over it and need to start looking out for my own mental health because she refuses to get treatment for her BPD (not sure if type 1 or 2 because I see equal checked boxes from both categories), severe narcissistic personality disorder (that has been getting worse), and I honestly believe sociopathic because she never sees her fault in anything (even when she ran her car into a parked car 2 separate times) at anything in her life (she was good at hiding this until a couple years into marriage. It is alright for her to grill me for an hour straight but if I voice any of my concerns they don’t matter to her. What has always helped me get through the suck is that this is the worst thing that has happened in my life so far or I’ve experienced far worse than what is going on and always try to mitigate any unforeseen consequences through controlling as many variables in life as possible and planning for the many possible unknown variables so that you can have ready to go contingencies for any plan/event/operation. I’ve fought for my marriage for 3 months and my wife has ignored me for 3 months. It is to the point I got to start planning for what is to come afterwards. I honestly believe she did that to my treatment on purpose to try to leave me high and dry where I could end up worse than before but my sobriety is one of the most important things on my plate and an old friend from out of state is working to get me a good career with him that will work with my injuries and pay well. Hopefully nothing messes that up but moving from Texas to Alaska would be a process that isn’t cheap. Probably need to sell most of everything and get a ConEx box for vehicle/other personal items to be shipped up there by boat to my hopeful worksite. Some people refuse to be happy no matter what they have in their lives and nothing we do can make them happy unless they can be happy on their own. I was always finding the good in life because focusing too much on the bad only draws in more bad.
I'm fairly certain that either OP's family or OP doesn't know what illiterate means. Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!
I thought that to. It was used several times incorrectly but I've noticed that in other posts here to, the use of a word incorrectly several times and never corrected.
I've only ever pushed education as a back-up to those I know with talent & passion e.g. A very talented sportsman/woman gets a career ending injury, atleast you have an education to fall back on. It doesn't need to be university, it could be in trades or hospitality, even if it's only basic. Beyond that I encourage em to pursue their passion & have fun.
If they had been at all kind to op or if one had ever said something nice away from the “pack”I might have let them slowly back into my life, but at an arms length. But, Dad making him change his name-they are so narrow minded. If any approached me I would give them a flyer for classes and tell them when the fees had to be paid by. And if they offered to do my books, I’d say I couldn’t trust them to do them in my best interests.
I can't believe that at the announcement of marriage between OP's brother and his ex that OP didn't say "But, we just had sex last week and now you're screwing my brother?" Also, anyone know what country this take place in??
Parents that force kids into their profession will lose these kids over time. Using accounting as a profession is a joke. Computers already put millions out of work. Music as a profession is not bad, it is not for everyone. But many are successful. But you must get out of your parents home immediately. They are mentally abusing you. Good luck
Congratulations on making a big he worked hard for it and like Mr. Redditor said, cut ties with the rest of them. They did not you when you’re down no knock them because you’re bigger than them now best of luck in the future❤
I know these are fictional but if someone treated me like that id blast them on social media and live stream them talking like that as i ended my own life. Like really... why stick around?
Wow, OP is so entitled his family was supporting him, but all he could do is whin. Isnt it funny that the degree he could have got in college would have helped with his business.
OP..You let a woman use you!! You should have moved the minute you decided You did not want a degree. When you become a great success ignore them all. Never give them a dime..and never forget.
I may be in the wrong here, but, as a parent that had to bury their child way too young, I'd be happy if my child had an occupation that makes them happy, is legal and kept them fed. If they wanted to be a sanitation worker, I'd urge them to be the best damn garbage person out there. Not every person strives, wants or needs to go down in the annuls of history as a star in their field. Some people just want to live a quiet and peaceful life without fanfare. Teach your children to be a good person and provide them with the tools and space to be the best version of themselves they can be and if that means cleaning toilets, they'll take comfort in the knowledge that their parents love and respect them in whatever path they choose to take. If you don't, you risk loosing the only person that loves you simply because you gave them life. You will die alone with no one to mourn the loss. Do not burden your child with ambitions that are not there own. They will not thank you. I speak from experience and wish my parent had chosen to love me for me and not what she wanted from me.
You are not a disgrace to anyone and you don't have to change your name if you don't want to. Maybe your dad is afraid that you turned out too much like your mother or someone in her family and if you are interested in finding out who it is/was, then you can have a DNA test done. Sue your father and Margaret for defamation and for mis-treating you just because you are different than your siblings. I am glad that you apologized to Prosper in person and that she accepted it. I like your boss too because she understood your pain and gave you some time off until things had blown over. I'm sorry that your girlfriend broke up with you and I hope that you will find another woman someday. Good luck and much success to you!
Doing as well as he is doing is more of a slap in the face to his dad and stepmom than suing them. They have to eat their words and live with the fact that OP turned out better than their degree bearing kids.
His family as a whole is disgusting. His ex-girlfriend is disgusting, and his brother did a dick move by marrying her. The funny thing about those situations is that most situations where the girlfriend, wife, boyfriend or husband thinks the grass is greener. Turns out it isn't!
Sorry OP lost me at smacking his ex girlfriend in the face. That is not acceptable on any level. Nothing is said about who was supporting him throughout all the years he was struggling. Because from where I am standing it looks like he was possibly freeloading from his Dad and Step Mum. Whist I don’t know anyone who refers to people who do not have college degrees as ‘illiterate’, but then I don’t know anyone who would give dance or music lessons without some kind of experience/qualifications either. I certainly wouldn’t pay to take music lessons from someone who has their own tutor as they gave only just started learning themselves. I do agree that you should ‘follow your dreams’ but you do so under your own steam, and not at the expense of others. The family’s treatment of OP was unkind, and the girlfriend was out of order. But OP is certainly not the victim that they painted themselves to be.
OP is dumber than a bag of rocks! He should have educated himself as a back up plan just in case the music didn’t work out! He would have been in a better position. He wouldn’t have to take attitude from his family! Your girlfriend left because you had nothing to bring to the table. Yes it was wrong of your brother because of the unwritten rule. This whole storyline seems fishy on some points. For example the landlord couldn’t throw him out within 24 hours! What school did he go to teach dance for payment? Really? Well six months is better Han nothing! The real dancer out there is shaking their heads. Funny in Mr. Reddito’s stories the person who think they are wrong and take revenge always win or someone will always come crawling back! Music industry is not a easy field to enter and especially becoming number one in the industry! Crazy
Glad made it but everything that went on I don't see how we could not see any of this coming there was way too much they're not to speculate something about like this coming. It took so long to get through skull that they don't care for him. How much of beating do you need to take figure it out.
OMG I love his story & he was all ready to throw in the towel & give up. But instead gets so stinkn drunk he didn't remember that he danced to compete that night. THEN OUT OF NO WHERE some random guy calls & he set for life!! I do believe when he danced that little competition that night he put all of him into that dance as he really sounds so compassionate about music 🎶 🎵 and dance!! He had zero clue. And I'm the end as most stories end everyone 🪳 🪳 🪳 🪳 cockroach that called him a failure, he wouldn't amount to anything!! Well Mr. Sylvester OP enjoy your life!! Very well deserved to live by what you love, your dream is now a reality!! Don't let much of the family in as their only NOW coming around to try & get in good with you. I'm positive dl some kind a motivation behind what they want and it's probably the money and maybe some bragging rights that they've known you your whole life!! Now just tell all of "friend's" if they'd like to see you go buy tickets!! Lol Good Luck af& God Bless you!! 🙏💕
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I’m glad OP despite the negativity from his family continued to follow his passion and became a great success. If I was in his shoes I would also cut contact with that family who now see OP as an asset now that he made it big and I would also do a live television interview talking about the road to success and mention the negativity from the ex and family so they can’t try to clout from the success and talk about how having going to get a college degree doesn’t define who you are and whether or not your a success person.
OP would need to be very careful about what he says about the ex-family, don't want to give them any ammo to sue him
@@Drago_WhoovesAll he would have to do is say that his family disagreed with his career choice so he did it all on his own
I am glad OP followed his passion. He is an inspiration, because no matter how hard it is or what obstacles you face, you will achieve your goals 👍🏻😎
Some people should never be parents. You should always encourage your children. OP, you keep doing what you want. I hate the way they made fun of him for not going to college. I never went to college, but I was #1 at my job. I was the top sales rep.
Accountants do not make more than IT, and even CPA do well, but they have peaks and lows. Especially in 9-5 jobs. Margarate calls OP an illiterate, and she is only a hairdresser. To each their own, but no one is in a position to mock people like that. Like "You can't eat with us because you don't have a degree".WTF
yeh the whole family sucks. But in the beginning, Margaret was a midwife. How did she become only a hairdresser?
What a horrible father...telling you to change your last name. Ugh. I'd refuse to be his best man. SUE Margaret for defamation.
Yes he sounded like a villain from like footlose 2
The father is a bully, stepmother favored her kids over OP and the stepsibs attitudes were just like their parents. OP dared to be different and take a chance by wanting to pursue his dreams. To be made to change his last name was a cruel blow and now the father can't brag on OP so easily with the last name being different. OP, remember how cruel your family was to you before you made it big. Remember how not one of them provided ANY type of support. You became what YOU always dream of so enjoy your accomplishments and decide in time what you'd like to do about your fAmiLy.
If I was op I would beat the whole family and his gf
What a disgusting, heartless, unsupportive family. This interney stranger is so proud of OP for not listening to the haters, and following his dreams. My eldest daughter decided to get her bachelor's degree in studio art. Everyone in my family kept telling her that it was such a useless degree, and she was waisting mine and my husband's money. My sister was the worse of them all, telling my daughter that she will never make money llike she does (sister) as an accountant. Well, we backed our daughter up, and told her to study whatever she wanted and we would support and pay for her degree. My daughter now owns her own art studio, and she exhibits art from local artists, including street artists. She also owns another studio where she teaches and sells ceramics. Couples can go there on date nights and enjoy wine while making ceramics, and parents can have birthday parties there for kids where they can decorate premade pieces. Between the 2 businesses, my daughter is unbelievably happy, and (not that this matters but I can slap sister with it), her yearly income is twice as much as my "accountant" sister.
I love how God works. She looked down on your daughter and not only is she happy and successful but she’s thriving 2x more than your sis. I know she’s bitter. Same happened to me, when I started suffering mentally my immediate family showed me how demonic they were and bc they couldn’t see any “potential” in me they showed their true colors. Lied, slandered, treated me like a maid, gaslighted me. They knew I had depression and sucicidal ideation and I believe to this day they were trying to push me. Fast forward to today, they are in such a pitiful state that it makes me fear God. Like wow, worse position I’ve ever been 99% is older than me and one is younger than me and even that person destroyed their own life. Right now I’m stepping into wealth, marriage, true friendships/family bc they exposed themselves and they have to watch. But bc they can’t bear the reality they’re making up lies about my life is the only way for them to “cope” plus they don’t get the opportunity to manipulate me or gaslight me because I don’t give them the chance so they’re upset they can’t leech off of me because they don’t know how and where to begin.
Congratulations I'm glad op follow his dreams
I’ve listened to so many of these stories but this one right here got me the most heated
Hey, Prosper will fit nicely into that family, cheaters. Leave the lot of them in the rear view mirror, they have done nothing but mock you and nobody needs that. Leaving that lot would be the best thing for everyone, after all you don't want them now and they will come to you looking for something now you have made your dreams all on your own.
I love the expressiveness and dynamism of Mr. Reddito's delivery.
I’m glad op followed his dreams but i still think he should have gotten a degree cause it could have turned out differently
I spent a ton of money getting my degrees to finally have graduated and got 3 different 6 figure job interviews where I would’ve had 90-120 days off throughout the year and didn’t follow my dreams because they generally don’t pay well for the vast majority of people. Everything appeared to finally be going my way once in my life and then I got carbon monoxide poisoning at my work and passed out 10-15 minutes after leaving because it seemed like I was fine to end up passing out outside of the gas station causing my clavicle to be shattered. It made it so that I couldn’t pass the physical required for the field work and the jobs that I can get with the degree without the physical aspect aren’t usually over 45-55k which is less than 1/3 of what I should’ve been making. Been dealing with the entire issue of surgery’s, healing, being prescribed pain medications for over 2 years through the entire process that I had to take them nearly every 4-6 hours every day to be able to function due to the pain levels (when I broke my clavicle first I got myself up and refused an ambulance to go home thinking I strained/bruised my shoulder to find a 2” tall bump the following morning where I knew I couldn’t fix it myself and couldn’t sleep for more than 2-5 minutes at a time at night for a few days until they got me on a strong enough pain medicine because of the opioid crisis they started with tramadol, Tylenol 3, Tylenol 4, and finally Vicodin as the doctor saw me getting worse everyday without being able to sleep at all due to being able to feel my heartbeat through my shoulder every heartbeat all day/night. It took nearly 9 months of them trying to have it heal naturally before transferring me to a specialist for surgery which took another 15 months before I could use the arm and nearly 24 months before I was back to nearly 50% of where I was before the accident. Unfortunately after the surgery where they had to cut out 2” of bone/bone marrow of shattered bones to graft in a new bone along with 2 plates & 13 screws was far worse than any point in the previous 9 months of “natural healing and including the actual break even without pain medication for nearly 20 hours. The doctors then put me on oxycodone which ended up giving me a physical dependency that as soon as the pain was manageable I sought out treatment because I didn’t like having my mind cloudy from the opiates/opioids because of the lengthy healing process. When I was almost off of it my wife freaked out making me increase which put me back 6 months in treatment to only 6.5 months after the freaking out want to grenade the decade plus marriage. I literally did nearly everything possible for her throughout the marriage and much before the marriage. I would bring his coffee/energy drinks/tea/water/juice in bed when she wakes up every day even when I’m sick (I would wear food handling gloves and wash my hands properly with wearing a mask so I don’t spread my illness to her). She has never reciprocated this with me at all and lucky to get a drink brought to me if she is in the kitchen already. I bring her breakfast in bed usually 3-4 times a week as well.
My wife used to be a loving partner but the biggest red flag I overlooked early on in the relationship thinking it was just stress at work but the fact that she always has to find something/someone to be angry at and when she has slowly isolated us from all of our mutual friends, my friends, my family (chased them out of the family home and even the state), and every regular job that I’ve had she gets mad if I’m not available to spend time with her 100% of the free time she has and will blow up my phone like crazy until I respond and then get mad because I can’t give her attention when I’m working. Even when I was working 18 hour days I would prep her coffee if I would be gone before she got up so she could be ready easily or put it in a thermos next to her bed but she would be mad when I would be physically exhausted, starving because gas stations don’t give good meals for physical activity’s, and if I was lucky she would heat me up a bowl of chef boyardi ravioli on the stove but generally the microwave. I’ve tried to get her to see that a marriage is a 2 way street and she expects to receive everything with giving a little and then minimize everything I’ve done for her through gas lighting, emotional manipulation, physical/sexual manipulation,and even financial manipulation. Over the years I’ve become very numb to it all and had overlooked it for a long time because we did share something special and I just thought she was a fiery Latina but she was able to fool myself and even my family for many years until the mask started slipping but she seemed to still hold the same values/morals/ethics and had always been good at communicating but she can only communicate “why should I care or I don’t love you or leave me alone” but still expects me to do everything. I’m trying to separate amicably if possible but I have plenty of evidence against her she isn’t going to be fair with everything that has been given/loaned to her from my family that she agreed to pay back before we got married and never had any documents giving forgiveness of debts. I still have love for her but I don’t know if I can trust her anymore let alone respect her because of how she is dropping at the sight of trouble. She as well as her 6 other siblings all refused to take their father to dialysis when he is in end stage kidney disease during the beginning of the pandemic because they where scared but I took him while healing & going through all of my issues without question for 1.5-1.75 years 3 times a week picking him up and dropping him off at home/dialysis each time. He ended up losing parts of both legs during this but would’ve died if it wasn’t for me having to drive hours a day multiple times a week which was always painful for myself but I wanted to make sure our folks are take care of in their old age. She constantly tries to gas light me with “You don’t do anything for me ever” nor does the 25-40k (market value fluctuations and selling quickly could be low end, while retail will be the high end) in Australian fire opals & black opal pendants I gave her over the years as gifts because she loves the way they look.
Hopefully people have better luck than myself because you can be “aesthetically handsome/beautiful, brilliantly intelligent, loyal, faithful, kind, and compassionate” to find that the person who loved these qualities have only changed their mind. I spent years having to constantly turn down other women because I only had interest for my wife to have her try to accuse me of cheating because I have very attractive women trying to flirt with me but I always say I’m happily married. Even now with being fairly confident she is cheating on me I won’t do the same because I honor my oaths, vows, & promises unlike her.
This was just a trickle of the insanity I have to deal with all of the time but I’m seriously over it and need to start looking out for my own mental health because she refuses to get treatment for her BPD (not sure if type 1 or 2 because I see equal checked boxes from both categories), severe narcissistic personality disorder (that has been getting worse), and I honestly believe sociopathic because she never sees her fault in anything (even when she ran her car into a parked car 2 separate times) at anything in her life (she was good at hiding this until a couple years into marriage. It is alright for her to grill me for an hour straight but if I voice any of my concerns they don’t matter to her.
What has always helped me get through the suck is that this is the worst thing that has happened in my life so far or I’ve experienced far worse than what is going on and always try to mitigate any unforeseen consequences through controlling as many variables in life as possible and planning for the many possible unknown variables so that you can have ready to go contingencies for any plan/event/operation. I’ve fought for my marriage for 3 months and my wife has ignored me for 3 months. It is to the point I got to start planning for what is to come afterwards. I honestly believe she did that to my treatment on purpose to try to leave me high and dry where I could end up worse than before but my sobriety is one of the most important things on my plate and an old friend from out of state is working to get me a good career with him that will work with my injuries and pay well. Hopefully nothing messes that up but moving from Texas to Alaska would be a process that isn’t cheap. Probably need to sell most of everything and get a ConEx box for vehicle/other personal items to be shipped up there by boat to my hopeful worksite.
Some people refuse to be happy no matter what they have in their lives and nothing we do can make them happy unless they can be happy on their own. I was always finding the good in life because focusing too much on the bad only draws in more bad.
I'm fairly certain that either OP's family or OP doesn't know what illiterate means. Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!
I thought that to. It was used several times incorrectly but I've noticed that in other posts here to, the use of a word incorrectly several times and never corrected.
Why are gainfully employed accountants still living at home with parents?
As accountants they did the math and found it's cheaper.
I've only ever pushed education as a back-up to those I know with talent & passion e.g. A very talented sportsman/woman gets a career ending injury, atleast you have an education to fall back on. It doesn't need to be university, it could be in trades or hospitality, even if it's only basic. Beyond that I encourage em to pursue their passion & have fun.
That drunk dancing had me rolling 😂😂😂😂
As if his landlord would be legally allowed to give him a day's notice 🙄
If they had been at all kind to op or if one had ever said something nice away from the “pack”I might have let them slowly back into my life, but at an arms length. But, Dad making him change his name-they are so narrow minded. If any approached me I would give them a flyer for classes and tell them when the fees had to be paid by.
And if they offered to do my books, I’d say I couldn’t trust them to do them in my best interests.
I can't believe that at the announcement of marriage between OP's brother and his ex that OP didn't say "But, we just had sex last week and now you're screwing my brother?" Also, anyone know what country this take place in??
OP should really be careful of LOOK AT ME because that might just bite him in the ass in the long run..
True he should really be careful with his family and just dump them away and get some good lawyers for in case they try something.
OMG this guy could have destroyed his brother’s wedding with sloppy seconds jokes
Parents that force kids into their profession will lose these kids over time. Using accounting as a profession is a joke. Computers already put millions out of work. Music as a profession is not bad, it is not for everyone. But many are successful. But you must get out of your parents home immediately. They are mentally abusing you. Good luck
Congratulations on making a big he worked hard for it and like Mr. Redditor said, cut ties with the rest of them. They did not you when you’re down no knock them because you’re bigger than them now best of luck in the future❤
The stepmother was clearly jealous of him from the beginning!
Don't worry about what you're dad thinks he's not worth it he may just jealous of you
It seems like op's father was trying to destroy him like he did his mother.
Your boss is great person
I know these are fictional but if someone treated me like that id blast them on social media and live stream them talking like that as i ended my own life. Like really... why stick around?
These are real stories
@@Nasir_selfmadelol. No. No they aren’t. Yes he finds them on Reddit, but they are works of fiction
@@aimeekovach4775 yeah they are real
@aimeekovach4775 not always
Prosper was a snake from the start
Congratulations on your 100 000
Wow, OP is so entitled his family was supporting him, but all he could do is whin. Isnt it funny that the degree he could have got in college would have helped with his business.
Even though if he goes to college and went for a music degree, I doubt his stepmom or his father would've supported it either.
OP..You let a woman use you!! You should have moved the minute you decided You did not want a degree. When you become a great success ignore them all. Never give them a dime..and never forget.
It took OP forever to move out
What family? OP changed his surname. Thats the end of it.
Good for you op
This mans story is the American dream. Starting from nothing and building something.
That's so funny about your dad 👍🥰🤭😄🤩😀😅😃😍🤠🥱😂
You need to run away from your family
Just do what think what think best for yourself
Step mom and father made the wrong choice. Ops going to succeed the rest will be trapped in the hate
That's right ur ex is for the streets
Your dad doesn't care about what you wanted
I may be in the wrong here, but, as a parent that had to bury their child way too young, I'd be happy if my child had an occupation that makes them happy, is legal and kept them fed. If they wanted to be a sanitation worker, I'd urge them to be the best damn garbage person out there. Not every person strives, wants or needs to go down in the annuls of history as a star in their field. Some people just want to live a quiet and peaceful life without fanfare. Teach your children to be a good person and provide them with the tools and space to be the best version of themselves they can be and if that means cleaning toilets, they'll take comfort in the knowledge that their parents love and respect them in whatever path they choose to take. If you don't, you risk loosing the only person that loves you simply because you gave them life. You will die alone with no one to mourn the loss. Do not burden your child with ambitions that are not there own. They will not thank you. I speak from experience and wish my parent had chosen to love me for me and not what she wanted from me.
X to doubt the legitimacy of this story.
Look at it this way he gets your left overs
Move on to someone better
You are not a disgrace to anyone and you don't have to change your name if you don't want to. Maybe your dad is afraid that you turned out too much like your mother or someone in her family and if you are interested in finding out who it is/was, then you can have a DNA test done.
Sue your father and Margaret for defamation and for mis-treating you just because you are different than your siblings. I am glad that you apologized to Prosper in person and that she accepted it. I like your boss too because she understood your pain and gave you some time off until things had blown over.
I'm sorry that your girlfriend broke up with you and I hope that you will find another woman someday. Good luck and much success to you!
Doing as well as he is doing is more of a slap in the face to his dad and stepmom than suing them. They have to eat their words and live with the fact that OP turned out better than their degree bearing kids.
His family as a whole is disgusting. His ex-girlfriend is disgusting, and his brother did a dick move by marrying her. The funny thing about those situations is that most situations where the girlfriend, wife, boyfriend or husband thinks the grass is greener. Turns out it isn't!
Is it so hard to say "I don't want nothing to do with any of you." Is it that hard to say to toxic family members?
OP 💪👍 - Family/Ex 🤡🤡🤡
This was terrible! Seriously, NOBODY efs you like family. FACT
Sorry OP lost me at smacking his ex girlfriend in the face. That is not acceptable on any level.
Nothing is said about who was supporting him throughout all the years he was struggling. Because from where I am standing it looks like he was possibly freeloading from his Dad and Step Mum. Whist I don’t know anyone who refers to people who do not have college degrees as ‘illiterate’, but then I don’t know anyone who would give dance or music lessons without some kind of experience/qualifications either. I certainly wouldn’t pay to take music lessons from someone who has their own tutor as they gave only just started learning themselves.
I do agree that you should ‘follow your dreams’ but you do so under your own steam, and not at the expense of others.
The family’s treatment of OP was unkind, and the girlfriend was out of order. But OP is certainly not the victim that they painted themselves to be.
Hey your old enough now . leave that toxic environment and fly solo. Soar
That dung cake is perfect fertilizer for a racsit MIL.
Hopefully your Step Siblings got really fat from sitting in an office all day, while you stayed fit and healthy from dancing.
Move far away from your family
dude I respect what you been through but you slapped a woman..there isn't any coming back from that. you need to walk away
OP is dumber than a bag of rocks! He should have educated himself as a back up plan just in case the music didn’t work out! He would have been in a better position. He wouldn’t have to take attitude from his family! Your girlfriend left because you had nothing to bring to the table. Yes it was wrong of your brother because of the unwritten rule. This whole storyline seems fishy on some points. For example the landlord couldn’t throw him out within 24 hours! What school did he go to teach dance for payment? Really? Well six months is better Han nothing! The real dancer out there is shaking their heads. Funny in Mr. Reddito’s stories the person who think they are wrong and take revenge always win or someone will always come crawling back! Music industry is not a easy field to enter and especially becoming number one in the industry! Crazy
This story gotta be fake
This story sounds fake
No wonder she left the whiny nobody. He's a Karen and dragged on the story
Your going to graet
Sooo many missed opportunities to hand out dirty slaps
Glad made it but everything that went on I don't see how we could not see any of this coming there was way too much they're not to speculate something about like this coming. It took so long to get through skull that they don't care for him. How much of beating do you need to take figure it out.
Jaysus OP, grow a pair, and get your head out of your upper intestine!
OMG I love his story & he was all ready to throw in the towel & give up. But instead gets so stinkn drunk he didn't remember that he danced to compete that night. THEN OUT OF NO WHERE some random guy calls & he set for life!! I do believe when he danced that little competition that night he put all of him into that dance as he really sounds so compassionate about music 🎶 🎵 and dance!! He had zero clue. And I'm the end as most stories end everyone 🪳 🪳 🪳 🪳 cockroach that called him a failure, he wouldn't amount to anything!! Well Mr. Sylvester OP enjoy your life!! Very well deserved to live by what you love, your dream is now a reality!! Don't let much of the family in as their only NOW coming around to try & get in good with you. I'm positive dl some kind a motivation behind what they want and it's probably the money and maybe some bragging rights that they've known you your whole life!! Now just tell all of "friend's" if they'd like to see you go buy tickets!! Lol
Good Luck af& God Bless you!! 🙏💕