Agree 100% when you text a girl it's like "why you texting me go away" but when she knows your a useful resource for her "hey I need help with something" completely turns just to be on your good side. This is why the term "two-faced bitch" is a thing.
What really men want to see from women is honesty. Not gonna be bothered if she doesn't like me but at least have the courage saying it instead of ignoring.
They're too insecure within themselves to stand up for themselves and be straightforward and direct with communication. Indirect communication is the default for females usually but ignoring/ghosting is a sign of disrespect. We as humans treat other's often how we feel about ourselves, so they're projecting their own insecurities/Personal issues if they ghost you especially. I'd argue they have a fear of abandonment and so cutting it off first gives them a feeling of power to fill that void or fear of you leaving them.
Very true I’m small 5 ‘9 190 athletic work hard love good roll play inside and out side of house anywhere she wants farm raised oral one thing I have a berry thick long nine inches soft massive thick long cowboy horse 13”
I work cook clean work outside help mom an dad not perfect an what I lack she can teach me more oral anywhere she wants also pills an creams make me thicker and longer 14
respectfully? , just move on in silence , that's it , no respect needed since she disrespected you first with her own silence, lets not be weak , shall we?
Not texting you back ? Move on . If she liked you she would answer . Sometimes they like to play games and it goes to far . Don't waste your time . Do what she is doing . Going out with other people.
okfrostman why text you fall I to the average joe, call her. A man call doesn’t have to be long since you dont really know her a 5-10 minute with the right talk will make her to put you in front
If someone really likes you or cares about you as a person she would text back. Not texting back is an answer. As someone once told me, "no answer is an answer."
uncleelmer text lol if you really interested you dial the number n show a bit more of effort 5-10 minutes talk won’t hurt you or kill any activity you do.
For me, not texting back is simply an act of pure rudeness. If she does not want, she should reply negative. But she should reply anyway. Not replying reveals a lot about her personality and how arrogant person she is. Generally speaking (not only in terms of relationhips) not replying is very rude and unacceptable.
@@Reupload-Kanal-Von-Lukas-Heil my friend of 2 year's did that to me the other day & I don't care I'm used to it. Women have no respect. I asked her out a few times & I gave up now she text me to ask how I am & I text her & ask if she needs something & no answer I don't know if it's just me but are all women really fucked in the head what's the point of texting me in the first place!!! Maybe she wants me to chase her but I given up already. I'm so tired of game's.
@@alfiobalsamo1591 replying her the second time was not good idea but telling her that you are fine with who you are hanging with could have slapped her ego well
If she didnt text back three time in a row.. A very clear sign she is not interested. If she didnt text back even she is online. It is a clear sign she is not interested
Dalton Mwadime One thing I’ve learned is that woman are not logical. Women have zero logic when emotions are involved and this is 90 percent of the time.
Biggest thing to remember, men may be strong hearted and strong willed but we can be broken as well, so ladies dont act like your the only with a heart that can be broken in a relationship.
@@ApolloniaPonti not true women do this as a way to seek umph about themselves while someone else gets crushed makes you want to bash them for treating you like that
Never look for validation from a woman; validate yourself and push forward, if she doesn't respond to you, erase her number, and move on. Oh, and when she does respond to you, just respond with (who is this, I don't recognize the number).
What it work is too grow some balls and talk to her call her for 5-10 minutes. 80 percent of time she put you on front and gives you priority. Stop texting unless is to confirm a meet up
#2 is on point. It becomes tiring asking questions for the purpose of getting to know him and it’s frustrating if the same energy/effort is not given back. It becomes tiring trying to give topics just to have a conversation.
Strike one: Cancel dates. Strike two: No text response until hours later. Strike three: Stringing you along . All signs of she's really not interested. Fuck how cute she is,Walk the hell away.
Rule #1: The phone is for setting dates, not having long text conversations, "getting to know her" or being her emotional tampon. Set up a date as soon as possible and get off the phone. If she isn't interested in meeting up with you, you are wasting your time and you need to move on. Worst case scenario, you are going to talk her *OUT* of liking you, because you suck at texting, so just don't. You want to be with someone who is excited to hear from you, who wants to spend time in person with you, not someone who's "nyeh" about you getting in touch with her.
Kristian Jensen you are right but if you call her for 5-10 minutes it’s easy to understand more and 80 percent she put you on front. So avoid texting. Texting should be used to confirm the date. Don’t text keep it old school works more.
I've been watching some of your videos, and I really appreciate them. A lot of dudes doing similar videos really rub me the wrong way, because they seem to be just tricks to get a woman into bed with you. As a Christian I appreciate the more than just a hookup approach of your videos.
no joke this year my dating experience was so demotivating, i had like 5 girls where i was interested but everyone was just around for validation, attention or to get over her ex and i always found out months after. now im so frustrated that i dont wanna let new people in my life because it happened so often. the worst part is that, because dating is so annoying and frustrating for me i just wanna settle down with someone but women feel that needy vibe and they're turned off after some weeks i think. Everytime i meet a new woman i tell myself damn it will be the same shit, so why even trying. So i dont know what to do right now. continue to let new people in my life or just stop with this dating bullshit for some time? im also worried that it gets harder the older i become
1 she's not interested 2 your text are bland, very boring. 3 stop talking in emojis. 4 don't overly text. 5 takes too long to respond. 6 not a priority.
Rocky V1 you are right bro. That what I say? Average joe is texting her, if you call her at least for 5-10 minutes you be put on front. Only talk to her in person then you have things to say when you meet with her. I agree with you.
Then you'll never get anywhere. It's even more difficult meeting them in person after you leave them. She's probably messing with the next guy already. You know women. They got multiple choices. Since men have to go up to them, they can pick and choose witch one they like most. When people go up to you for sex, you get the luxury of picking.
Real Truth this is why you gotta have some respect for yourself, just because she’s in high demand, doesn’t mean you should floor yourself for her? If she’s not reciprocating, just move on to the next girl, a lot of women are becoming overnight celebrity, simply because most men don’t have any self respect.
Most generally,women initiate communication.....text, phone calls or social media. If she stops texting, calling or communicating with you or does these at random it's simple. She's not interested, has low interest or has interest in someone else. Move on or stay and be her emotional punching bag.
#5 = Dating someone right now who sometimes takes a few hours or a day to reply when she's working 10 hour days. But she calls and picks up my calls when she's not working. Just because someone takes a few hours to text back doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested but rather she may truly be busy.
In that case she should tell that she's busy, and also tell when she will be available to talk, not replying at all for days straight doesn't make sense
I don't mean to offend but please enlighten me.Why is it they give out numbers they don't respond to later? Why not cut off the interaction at initial approach? Please help me understand.
hi, its really true that I needed a life coach and I do agree in three things here, 1. You did give me a chance to know about how overly obssessed I was over her and misunderstood her a lot and why I did lose her in the end. 2. Sometimes we need to stop speaking about our pain and start to listen to learn how to go over it. 3. Through many videos, this is the first time I do comment about it, but if you may allow me a compliment, you do look gorgeous by every dress, enjoy it.
Actually, at times when boy had shown too much love , cares to a girl, the girl will be so proud and she won’t responding to the boy because she believes that no matter what happened the boy still loves her , in this case she will be ignoring the boy , ignoring him doesn’t mean she’s not into the relationship, so a boy shouldn’t show too much loves and cares to a girl . Just my opinion!!
Wow you are even better than Marni the Wing girl. You don't sugar coat shit and let it all out! I love this and sub right awaY! Ps. You're like the Tony Robbins of Girls Advice. Facts.
To much work for love. It's always a hassle damn if you do damn if you don't. Why are people afraid of loneliness. Learn how to love yourself and enjoy what you like.
Sigh. I appreciate your channel and others but I'm just sick of these games and agendas. Might as well just ride solo until the Lord comes back. Thanks for trying but I'm done.
dude I totally get where you coming from. I'm tired of playing games of Do's and Do Not's. I've gave up on this dating thing. I'm trying to focus and better myself.
I know some women who purposely wait a day to reply to a guy. I think you cannot totally jump to conclusions until after 24 hours. Just saying. They want to test to see if men are needy and double text. Just be aware of that. Even a study was done where women are as likely to reply within 2 hours as 24 hours. Now, if after a day, I would totally agree with you. If a girl has super high interest..then yes she will reply within an hour or two but just saying some women play games.
Back when I was single, I learned over and over that whenever I reject someone nicely, he doesnt get it or think Im pretending to be hard to get. If I reject someone clearly, he either becomes very aggressive and/or threatful, or starts to nag about being friends, (understood with benefits) and trying to push for sex or intimacy, or more dates (if we had a few and I lost interest) This is a repeating pattern for both me and my girlfriends, and we are all in our 30's. So its always easier AND safer to ghost someone. The times I have been honest it always leads to drama, because it wasnt what he wanted to hear. Now I know for a fact that all men are not like this!
Texting is for kids or for important things like appointments or schedule time. If you like a girl simple call her for 5-10 minute and you will be put on front. If you text you be like the rest of guys. I know this sound weird but if you call you can bring it up even if she is not interested.
Hay their I came across your videos by accident the other day and I’m glad I did! I’ve watched a few of them and they are sure helping me realize where I messed up in past relationships and I’m learning from them. Keep them coming bc I’m in my 30’s and I’m still trying to find that special woman to truly fall in love with to marry. P.S. your awesome!
Use the phone as a tool to setup a date & make plans. Other than that, it’s just a telephone. Don’t put too much thought into it. Look past the texts. Only be concerned IF she doesn’t call you back.
Omg your back ground is AMAZING!!!! Just like you! I LOVE that you are talking about this! Yes... women are emotional creatures!!! YES!!! This was great. Keep 'em coming. Love your videos! ~Elizabeth
If you're developing a relationship through text, it will more than likely fail and go nowhere. The goal is to meet up and have stuff to talk about. If you exhaust that through text, then the meet ups will die out. Use text to set dates and an occasional hi
It is absolutely stupid to think that if a guy texts too much he is needy or desperate. The guy only is desperate to be in good with his woman and needs to be with her, not necessarily with any woman and that is a good thing. Most women I wouldn't care at all about but there may be one woman I am all in on with lots of texts, really not a bad thing if women are thinking straight. That is why women end up with the wrong guys.
Some women playing this game, give their numbers and never text back. Now what I do is we talk for a bit then I ask if they have a boyfriend, if yes I say thanks and move on, ( she’s not interested)
Guys, don't be bland in your responses if you like her. Don't reply with just, good or yeah. This will drive her away from you. If you like her, give her more than one word in your response, ex. ) my day has been good but this happened. TRUST ME this makes her want to be closer to you and she wants you to open up to her.
i have watched a few of your videos and i think they a wonderful they go directly to the piont and how to work on relationships and the signs..people can give ...thank you i learned some valid pionts and what to look for in a relationship..
Hello Larry, I am so happy to see this comment. Thank you for the feedback and kind words! I'm looking forward to sharing more. :) Have a fantastic week! Best, Apollonia
I texted a girl politely:she never replied however as soon as I became a little bit nasty she responded:very weird. I wish I have seen this earlier. She texted days later and I texted back almost right away-big mistake. Afterwards, everything went dead. I’ve decided to stop texting her.
Oluwaseyi A she was in good mood to text you back once. cause she knows. the fact you said nasty shit. it means she liked man not afraid what they like. no little boys who are being polite. don't text her instead invite her over text. that was your mistake the key is not afraid losing.
Emojis are funny and appropriate when using them in the context of the conversation, because it shows the attitude of each other especially when we both use them. Otherwise you might as well say stop texting and just call and speak with your voice!!
Apollonia Ponti I have a crush on a girl and I told her I'm interested and I like her and we was text non stop for month then she said I don't have time for a relationship so I'm trying to stay as friend for her but when I can start again plz I need an answer
@apollinia ponti I'm not sure there's one, they were all collectively really good. Ultimately though, you said never look for validation in somebody else, that's something to remember.
Hi Apollonia. I love your tips overall and I agree with a lot of them but I have a specific scenario that I'd like your input in. Is there an email I can contact you with?
My thought exaclty When she is talking about you not being entertaining enough for her to text back I thought to myself Are all women spoiled brats then???
@@Bleilock1 facts , I hate that plenty of guys will still think being a court jester is the way to interest a woman. I feel like the same "boring dialog" isn't boring at all when it's coming from a dude she got feelings for
They will ignore you until they need you :)
aesthetic josh so so true
BIGGGGGG FACTS !!!
Agree 100% when you text a girl it's like "why you texting me go away" but when she knows your a useful resource for her "hey I need help with something" completely turns just to be on your good side. This is why the term "two-faced bitch" is a thing.
Wrong not really. Stop texting. Call her instead
When they need money right...
What really men want to see from women is honesty. Not gonna be bothered if she doesn't like me but at least have the courage saying it instead of ignoring.
@@bricew8448fact
On god like dont waste my time and energy for some bs
They're too insecure within themselves to stand up for themselves and be straightforward and direct with communication. Indirect communication is the default for females usually but ignoring/ghosting is a sign of disrespect. We as humans treat other's often how we feel about ourselves, so they're projecting their own insecurities/Personal issues if they ghost you especially. I'd argue they have a fear of abandonment and so cutting it off first gives them a feeling of power to fill that void or fear of you leaving them.
Very true I’m small 5 ‘9 190 athletic work hard love good roll play inside and out side of house anywhere she wants farm raised oral one thing I have a berry thick long nine inches soft massive thick long cowboy horse 13”
I work cook clean work outside help mom an dad not perfect an what I lack she can teach me more oral anywhere she wants also pills an creams make me thicker and longer 14
Respectfully move on. Never doubt your worth, the next woman just might surprise you!
Amen
She won’t
Wat ballz
how does one do so respectfully?
respectfully? , just move on in silence , that's it , no respect needed since she disrespected you first with her own silence, lets not be weak , shall we?
Not texting you back ? Move on . If she liked you she would answer . Sometimes they like to play games and it goes to far . Don't waste your time . Do what she is doing . Going out with other people.
okfrostman why text you fall I to the average joe, call her. A man call doesn’t have to be long since you dont really know her a 5-10 minute with the right talk will make her to put you in front
my wife left me she said she is done with me she doesn't feel happy with me anymore I texted her she and she ignored it after that I didn't text her
And they say they want a men, well i like a woman that's honest with her opinions that's a real woman in my opinion
Very true
Yes, you must first pass all of the tests before passing the wicked witches bridge
Most of the time it’s an indication she’s gotten everything she wants from you and no longer needs anything else.
Amen
You're damn right
If someone really likes you or cares about you as a person she would text back. Not texting back is an answer. As someone once told me, "no answer is an answer."
uncleelmer text lol if you really interested you dial the number n show a bit more of effort 5-10 minutes talk won’t hurt you or kill any activity you do.
even if she broke up with you they said do no contact
@@CashMasterStackzzS some women dont like talking on the phone randomly
It’s not true, it can’t be
My mind: WooooooOhhoooooOhhWooohohhhohoooowooo x3
people have lives, they get busy, don;t feel like talking, whatever. it's not always about YOU
Rule number 1: Don't get too attracted to her, focus on yourself and develop yourself.
Correct
Easier said than done, but yea self control aand all
Be the best you that you can be. If she doesn't like it find a girl who will. But keep improving all the time.
If a girl likes you, she'll talk to you.
Same try humbling your self a bit more
For me, not texting back is simply an act of pure rudeness. If she does not want, she should reply negative. But she should reply anyway. Not replying reveals a lot about her personality and how arrogant person she is. Generally speaking (not only in terms of relationhips) not replying is very rude and unacceptable.
Not to mention cowardly.
If the person know you it is definitely very rude
@@Reupload-Kanal-Von-Lukas-Heil my friend of 2 year's did that to me the other day & I don't care I'm used to it. Women have no respect. I asked her out a few times & I gave up now she text me to ask how I am & I text her & ask if she needs something & no answer I don't know if it's just me but are all women really fucked in the head what's the point of texting me in the first place!!! Maybe she wants me to chase her but I given up already. I'm so tired of game's.
@@alfiobalsamo1591 replying her the second time was not good idea but telling her that you are fine with who you are hanging with could have slapped her ego well
@@alfiobalsamo1591 Amen man
Thank you ... You just set me free now I've realised she's not worth my suffering I'm worth much more one day I'll get a woman who really loves me
Lord have mercy. This is too much. I am getting anxiety but these videos have answered most of my questions.
If she didnt text back three time in a row.. A very clear sign she is not interested. If she didnt text back even she is online. It is a clear sign she is not interested
Moral of the story: You will curve some women and women may curve you , it’s the circle of life, don’t take it personal. Move on to the next woman .
Sounds like you live by teachings of the Lion King.
@@williewill1237 ikr XD
😂
Two tears in a bucket it’s the circle of life, but it’s barely even moving us
All these would be simplified if women jst said it bluntly that she is not interested...stop expecting us to know whats going on in ur mind...
Very true! Love this comment.
Best comment
Women and common sense don't go together mate
Dalton Mwadime One thing I’ve learned is that woman are not logical. Women have zero logic when emotions are involved and this is 90 percent of the time.
@@tasospat4919 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Biggest thing to remember, men may be strong hearted and strong willed but we can be broken as well, so ladies dont act like your the only with a heart that can be broken in a relationship.
It goes both ways for sure! Thank you for your support!
@@ApolloniaPonti not true women do this as a way to seek umph about themselves while someone else gets crushed makes you want to bash them for treating you like that
Don't play game in relationship if she's mean to be in your life so she will love you but if she ignoring you just move on and find someone better
She's not texting cause she either lost interest or found someone else or she is immature and was just using you.
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Nailed it
Spot on
Preach brother
Don't waste your time on her, know your worth and move on...she probably might be busy texting a low life.
No response from a girl
Simple move on..
Honestly...it can be annoying... Especially emojis
Facts
Correct niqqa
@@oladapokomolafe1695 😑😑😑😑😑😑
@@oladapokomolafe1695 dude
Never look for validation from a woman; validate yourself and push forward, if she doesn't respond to you, erase her number, and move on. Oh, and when she does respond to you, just respond with (who is this, I don't recognize the number).
😂 I like your way of doing things.
Yeah, that'll teach her! I too like this responded thinking.... Believe me, I know that it works!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
What it work is too grow some balls and talk to her call her for 5-10 minutes. 80 percent of time she put you on front and gives you priority. Stop texting unless is to confirm a meet up
Ive done that a couple 3 dozen times 😁 if they dont care why should I???
Reason 7: She is punishing you for some stupid reason.
Reason 8: She is busy with some other dude.
Very true
Most likely #8
True
@@Magoo7956 #7 just leads directly to #8
Some other dude? Yeah well that’s a paranoid insecure answer.
Everything can be traced down to one thing- They don't appreciate what they have. Give them a reason to appreciate you that they'll never forget. 👋
#2 is on point. It becomes tiring asking questions for the purpose of getting to know him and it’s frustrating if the same energy/effort is not given back. It becomes tiring trying to give topics just to have a conversation.
Strike one: Cancel dates.
Strike two: No text response until hours later.
Strike three: Stringing you along .
All signs of she's really not interested.
Fuck how cute she is,Walk the hell away.
Facts
You nailed it. That is exactly right, it's about knowing your own self worth 👍.
If you are ignored, don't ever bother to chase. You too ignore her and just forget her. It's that simple.
Aww. Just found out I’m on the back burner. If she can’t see what I have to offer, I’ll find someone who does.
This is how to get a girl to text back.
Give her an *idea* of what the experience between you and her will be. Sweet talk and stimulate her emotions.
“I’ve been super busy” is the biggest excuse ever invented.
I feel you. The only places where a woman is super busy is in her own head or posting on social media.
@@FEB-mz6zr facts
"Super busy"? I see them on treadmills with their smartphones...
This is why I pump and dump.... Zero emotions
Sing it brother. Sing it
TOWNCAR PLUSH SMOOTH
U got damn FUCC’n RIGHT!!
with zer0 tolerability...
PREACH
This just happened to me last week thank you so much appollonia much love to you and your family 🌹
They expect you to sweep them off their feet and excite them off 1 text interaction.
Its really simple: NEXT!!
Man, all you gotta do is enjoy yourself and she’ll text you back.
In that respect there will be no room for her.
Yep. Depends on what you texted her tho, if what you said is really bland like, ONE WORD she probably wants you to text her with a less bland text.
Yeah I send text and she said who are you and I answered and then I said well how you Doing and she said uh bye
My nigga it’s been almost decades.
She won't
Guys if she doesn't reply move on next date if u have enough money call escorts more beautiful and more clean stay positive😊
Rule #1: The phone is for setting dates, not having long text conversations, "getting to know her" or being her emotional tampon.
Set up a date as soon as possible and get off the phone. If she isn't interested in meeting up with you, you are wasting your time and you need to move on.
Worst case scenario, you are going to talk her *OUT* of liking you, because you suck at texting, so just don't.
You want to be with someone who is excited to hear from you, who wants to spend time in person with you, not someone who's "nyeh" about you getting in touch with her.
Facts : Best comment so far
Kristian Jensen you are right but if you call her for 5-10 minutes it’s easy to understand more and 80 percent she put you on front. So avoid texting. Texting should be used to confirm the date. Don’t text keep it old school works more.
Hell yea 100% agree with you there.
I feel you have been reading Corey Wayne.
Your comment will save so many beta males out there
If she don't text u back ....is because hubby is in home ....or she is attending to other client
Samir Chavi pretty much
You’re definitely got it
hubby ? what do u mean ?
I've been watching some of your videos, and I really appreciate them. A lot of dudes doing similar videos really rub me the wrong way, because they seem to be just tricks to get a woman into bed with you. As a Christian I appreciate the more than just a hookup approach of your videos.
If you dont hav her Attention its bcuz someone else does!
Not always true, boo. Could be because you're boring....Believe me that happens too.
So true
@@adj5767 mine only reaches out when she needs money
But should that mean you are really boring? It is matter of mutual interests between two persons.
Very true!!
no joke this year my dating experience was so demotivating, i had like 5 girls where i was interested but everyone was just around for validation, attention or to get over her ex and i always found out months after. now im so frustrated that i dont wanna let new people in my life because it happened so often. the worst part is that, because dating is so annoying and frustrating for me i just wanna settle down with someone but women feel that needy vibe and they're turned off after some weeks i think. Everytime i meet a new woman i tell myself damn it will be the same shit, so why even trying.
So i dont know what to do right now. continue to let new people in my life or just stop with this dating bullshit for some time? im also worried that it gets harder the older i become
Man... I feel you. Its hard to Express this feeling. But you nailed it. Totally agree with you.
I'm on the same boat. Just Focus on your health, your money, your life.
same thing happened to me man
Don’t look for ‘her’ she will come 2 u only if u find ur ‘hobby’, ‘sport’ or whatever u like doing. It is a natural process just like drinking water
😂😂😂
Here is my tip
Reverse it.
Let her ask you why arent you texting back.
Problem solve.
1 she's not interested
2 your text are bland, very boring.
3 stop talking in emojis.
4 don't overly text.
5 takes too long to respond.
6 not a priority.
Period move on..
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1 and 2 are me, 5 is the girl
don't text girls or call them . just talk to them in person .. why ? every other guy is texting and calling her ..
Rocky V1 you are right bro. That what I say? Average joe is texting her, if you call her at least for 5-10 minutes you be put on front. Only talk to her in person then you have things to say when you meet with her. I agree with you.
Then you'll never get anywhere. It's even more difficult meeting them in person after you leave them.
She's probably messing with the next guy already. You know women. They got multiple choices. Since men have to go up to them, they can pick and choose witch one they like most.
When people go up to you for sex, you get the luxury of picking.
Real Truth this is why you gotta have some respect for yourself, just because she’s in high demand, doesn’t mean you should floor yourself for her? If she’s not reciprocating, just move on to the next girl, a lot of women are becoming overnight celebrity, simply because most men don’t have any self respect.
I kinda agree with this I’m starting to go back to the times before social media and I feel woman are more engaging just talking to them in public
So,
After hearing this,
I'm just going to walk away.
Thank you. I appreciate it. I don't like having my Time wasted.
Not replying is also a reply 👍
Not a positive one
Most generally,women initiate communication.....text, phone calls or social media. If she stops texting, calling or communicating with you or does these at random it's simple. She's not interested, has low interest or has interest in someone else. Move on or stay and be her emotional punching bag.
#5 = Dating someone right now who sometimes takes a few hours or a day to reply when she's working 10 hour days. But she calls and picks up my calls when she's not working. Just because someone takes a few hours to text back doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested but rather she may truly be busy.
I think that's what I'm going through now
Yeah but days part don’t make sense
In that case she should tell that she's busy, and also tell when she will be available to talk, not replying at all for days straight doesn't make sense
Wake up bro.. no ones is ever that busy for one they care for. Any other “ excuse” is just that- an excuse. They’re not that into you
@@wachaushenzijust because you act a certain way doesnt mean everyone will, you sound entitled
You're so on point with your advice. You speak directly to men but us ladies need to hear this too. Thanks for sharing....
AMEN to all of these tips!! You are so amazing to talk about these tips. They are so true!
Thank you! xoxo
I don't mean to offend but please enlighten me.Why is it they give out numbers they don't respond to later? Why not cut off the interaction at initial approach? Please help me understand.
hi, its really true that I needed a life coach and I do agree in three things here,
1. You did give me a chance to know about how overly obssessed I was over her and misunderstood her a lot and why I did lose her in the end.
2. Sometimes we need to stop speaking about our pain and start to listen to learn how to go over it.
3. Through many videos, this is the first time I do comment about it, but if you may allow me a compliment, you do look gorgeous by every dress, enjoy it.
Actually, at times when boy had shown too much love , cares to a girl, the girl will be so proud and she won’t responding to the boy because she believes that no matter what happened the boy still loves her , in this case she will be ignoring the boy , ignoring him doesn’t mean she’s not into the relationship, so a boy shouldn’t show too much loves and cares to a girl . Just my opinion!!
You are right. Showing too much love creates arrogance in woman that makes her ignore the man.
It's real bro
I learn a lot from this video, GOOD JOB 👏👍take good care
Leave women alone if they like you they will let you know let her come to you
Ma'am, I do want to thank you for brighten my eyes.
She's to busy texting her other 5 boyfriends. One of them who probably pays her phone bill!
facts
Thanks Ponti... Your concern for men... From their perspective... Empathetic... Insights...
A man in general will let a woman know if he doesnt like her or doesnt wanna go out on a date
Women in general dont reply...
when she is not interested that pretty much ends it right there.
Good video. Very true!
Wow you are even better than Marni the Wing girl. You don't sugar coat shit and let it all out! I love this and sub right awaY! Ps. You're like the Tony Robbins of Girls Advice. Facts.
This is helping me understand what I think about myself!
Texting is complex but your wonderful segments do clarify things ! Thank you lovely appollonia 👍
Your utubes are very helpful - thank you friend
To much work for love.
It's always a hassle damn if you do damn if you don't. Why are people afraid of loneliness. Learn how to love yourself and enjoy what you like.
Juan Lopez exactly. It’s too many hoops to jump through just to get a slice of the pie.
Best comment here.
Thank you for telling me 👌 ENJOY LISTENING TO YOU..I GET TIRED OF GETTING HURT...
Go girl! I love that you're such a great connector 💕
Thank you! :)
Sigh. I appreciate your channel and others but I'm just sick of these games and agendas. Might as well just ride solo until the Lord comes back. Thanks for trying but I'm done.
dude I totally get where you coming from. I'm tired of playing games of Do's and Do Not's. I've gave up on this dating thing. I'm trying to focus and better myself.
Agree!
Matt 6:33.. 😅😅😅
Agreed
I know some women who purposely wait a day to reply to a guy. I think you cannot totally jump to conclusions until after 24 hours. Just saying. They want to test to see if men are needy and double text. Just be aware of that. Even a study was done where women are as likely to reply within 2 hours as 24 hours. Now, if after a day, I would totally agree with you. If a girl has super high interest..then yes she will reply within an hour or two but just saying some women play games.
Back when I was single, I learned over and over that whenever I reject someone nicely, he doesnt get it or think Im pretending to be hard to get. If I reject someone clearly, he either becomes very aggressive and/or threatful, or starts to nag about being friends, (understood with benefits) and trying to push for sex or intimacy, or more dates (if we had a few and I lost interest) This is a repeating pattern for both me and my girlfriends, and we are all in our 30's. So its always easier AND safer to ghost someone. The times I have been honest it always leads to drama, because it wasnt what he wanted to hear. Now I know for a fact that all men are not like this!
Texting is for kids or for important things like appointments or schedule time. If you like a girl simple call her for 5-10 minute and you will be put on front. If you text you be like the rest of guys. I know this sound weird but if you call you can bring it up even if she is not interested.
Hay their I came across your videos by accident the other day and I’m glad I did! I’ve watched a few of them and they are sure helping me realize where I messed up in past relationships and I’m learning from them. Keep them coming bc I’m in my 30’s and I’m still trying to find that special woman to truly fall in love with to marry. P.S. your awesome!
I don't care if a woman never text me back keep that same energy when you see me in the streets act like you don't know me period
Use the phone as a tool to setup a date & make plans. Other than that, it’s just a telephone. Don’t put too much thought into it. Look past the texts. Only be concerned IF she doesn’t call you back.
Unfortunately being an "emotional driven creature" leads to single motherhood, cheating and all the other things most women complain about
The fun part was in the tip #3,it really made me laugh so hard.
Overall it is a great video with important tips!
these reasons are so funny lmao bro focus on the money she will focus on you
Mack Joseph 💯 % bro
I don't want the woman that is focused on me because of money. That's straight up a user and she's going to cheat on you too.
Omg your back ground is AMAZING!!!! Just like you! I LOVE that you are talking about this! Yes... women are emotional creatures!!! YES!!! This was great. Keep 'em coming. Love your videos! ~Elizabeth
you're the best! Thank you, Elizabeth! :)
It's hard for her to text when she's underneath some other guy.
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Tip no 1 (ouch). This a revealing segment and I'm so glad you covered it appollonia! 👻 ghosting is a fascinating topic!💀👈👏👍😎
Oops I put emojis on my reply ! Your advice is gold! Thank you appollonia! 🙏☝️👊
If you're developing a relationship through text, it will more than likely fail and go nowhere. The goal is to meet up and have stuff to talk about. If you exhaust that through text, then the meet ups will die out. Use text to set dates and an occasional hi
You are too special!! Thank GOD of you tube and now life will be much better that you be on our side!
Thanks so much! What a lovely comment. I really appreciate it.
Another great video with very helpful, wise tips Apollonia. Thanks for sharing! 💕
It's true. I learnt new thing today. Thank you.
It is absolutely stupid to think that if a guy texts too much he is needy or desperate. The guy only is desperate to be in good with his woman and needs to be with her, not necessarily with any woman and that is a good thing. Most women I wouldn't care at all about but there may be one woman I am all in on with lots of texts, really not a bad thing if women are thinking straight. That is why women end up with the wrong guys.
Yup, all solid points. Cheers!
Some women playing this game, give their numbers and never text back. Now what I do is we talk for a bit then I ask if they have a boyfriend, if yes I say thanks and move on, ( she’s not interested)
Guys, don't be bland in your responses if you like her. Don't reply with just, good or yeah. This will drive her away from you. If you like her, give her more than one word in your response, ex. ) my day has been good but this happened. TRUST ME this makes her want to be closer to you and she wants you to open up to her.
Its weird only in America we have theses particular rules and discussions
No brother not in America only
i have watched a few of your videos and i think they a wonderful they go directly to the piont and how to work on relationships and the signs..people can give ...thank you i learned some valid pionts and what to look for in a relationship..
Hello Larry,
I am so happy to see this comment. Thank you for the feedback and kind words! I'm looking forward to sharing more. :) Have a fantastic week!
Best,
Apollonia
You have such great tips. It really shows your deep understanding of the topic! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Katarina! :) ( I love your name btw)
Great Video Apollonia- and great thumbnail!
Thank you!
I texted a girl politely:she never replied however as soon as I became a little bit nasty she responded:very weird. I wish I have seen this earlier. She texted days later and I texted back almost right away-big mistake. Afterwards, everything went dead. I’ve decided to stop texting her.
Good job that means you did something wonderful ... Don't even go back period
Oluwaseyi A she was in good mood to text you back once. cause she knows. the fact you said nasty shit. it means she liked man not afraid what they like. no little boys who are being polite. don't text her instead invite her over text. that was your mistake the key is not afraid losing.
Emojis are funny and appropriate when using them in the context of the conversation, because it shows the attitude of each other especially when we both use them.
Otherwise you might as well say stop texting and just call and speak with your voice!!
What tips were the most helpful for you?
Apollonia Ponti I have a crush on a girl and I told her I'm interested and I like her and we was text non stop for month then she said I don't have time for a relationship so I'm trying to stay as friend for her but when I can start again plz I need an answer
Apollonia Ponti so what is your suggestion
@@ahmadabass2793
You should have taken her on a date earlier, and not text for a month...
@apollinia ponti I'm not sure there's one, they were all collectively really good. Ultimately though, you said never look for validation in somebody else, that's something to remember.
Hi Apollonia. I love your tips overall and I agree with a lot of them but I have a specific scenario that I'd like your input in. Is there an email I can contact you with?
Thanks it helped me lots again thanks
Another wonderful video! Such a good point about bland messages that don't encourage a response. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for letting me know these reasons. Now I know what the next action step will do 😅👍
She's not texting because she has a new fling or her and her man got back together.....
Plus I'll see her anyways this Wednesday and Sunday. So our situation is unique.
I dont have this issue anymore because I lost interest in texting
I refuse to be interest in someone who will just ghost me. The key to relationships is to explain explain and explain. No games no tricks just fate.
This
You make a lot of excuses for women to act poorly because of their feelings. Lols
My thought exaclty
When she is talking about you not being entertaining enough for her to text back
I thought to myself
Are all women spoiled brats then???
@@Bleilock1 facts , I hate that plenty of guys will still think being a court jester is the way to interest a woman. I feel like the same "boring dialog" isn't boring at all when it's coming from a dude she got feelings for
@@clockwork2620 😬🎯