As always Jess is dead on with these concepts. My experience with this particular subject has been lack of interest or interested in other men. She's just being nice when she replies. These return texts will be complimentary with no substance or even worse, one word texts or taking hours to reply. The method I have used to vet this type women is to be the aggressor initially with the communications. Then just stop and see if she initiates in the next week or so. If she does not initiate. I just take it as a lack of interest. Then finish the fledgling relationship with a final text explaining that I am taking her lack of communication as a lack of interest and that I wish her good luck. Nothing about "Keeping in touch" or "letting me know if she needs anything" This gives a concise ending to the relationship and is also not ghosting her. Which is disrespectful. As always look for equal effort in relationships. Keep your frame about you and stay focused on what your striving to accomplish. Always look for women that compliment your life and not are your life. NEVER attach your value as a man on whether or not your good with women or have a woman. Your are worthy off love.
There is 24 hours in a day and there is no women on this planet is that busy for 24 hours straight that is impossible because women carry there cellphone with them everywhere they go plus they are on it all the time that is a well established fact and if a women cannot take at least 1 minute to reply and say i am busy but i will get back to you later then that should be a red flag because that could mean several of things she may not be that interested in you or it could mean she is getting dozens of messages from other men and if that be the case then do not send her any more message and move on and spend your time on other things because time is a valuable thing we cannot afford to waste.
Some ladies are bad at texting but are more expressive when it comes to phone calls or face-to-face interactions. Simply identify her strength and communicate using that method
@@amamensimanyarkoah273 I don't agree with this, if you are into someone, you see every medium to talk to them as golden.... You break your rules for them. Don't be deceived she's receiving the attention from somewhere else.
Sometimes they are just covert Narcissists Jess I know I’m experiencing it and experiencing now again ! I just ignore them because this is basically a tactic to trauma bond you . I don’t think men realise how many women are narcissistic because it’s always put out as men being mostly like this . I’ve seen more women like this than men doing it.
Loved the video. Really confirmed a lot of theories I had. Unfortunately I've got firsthand experience with this too. And it gets hard deciphering whether to stick around and hope things change or to just take the hint and walk. Thanks for sharing.❤
Hi Jessica. I like your channel since I came upon a few months back! I share my experience since I was confronted to this situation since 1 year, with the hot and cold treatment. A Girl I was into, texted me back everytime but never initiated. I had a lot of thoughts about it. It just ended that she was not into me. I got friendzoned and that was it. She appreciates me as a friend. Of course each woman may be different, but I think that if she was interested in me to be more than just a friend, she would also initiate things. I was too nice and the conversations ended on being too nice.
Mine is from Belgium and she does this quite a bit, so I started ignoring her back and she got mad at me, until I showed her that she was doing the same sing to me and that I didn't appreciate it if she didn't appreciate it either
I’m so glad I found your channel last week and I took up some of your advice on a girl whom I’ve been close for 7 years intimate and close friends now and what to do when she was being distance recently. But now she’s back in my life being excited to see me now. ☺️
Hi Jessica, I am actually busy as she is but she has always given this vibe of not responding to chats in time, sometimes if not 24 to 48hrs which is absurd. After having a heart to heart talk I ask her and her excuse is that she is not always handling our phone when she is at work and when she gets home she gets tired. Even weekends when she is less busy she will just text hi and that's it. In this situation what's the best advise on dealing with this situation?
Also, permit me to digress a bit but I have another issue of concern. You see there's a lady I'm interested in but she tends to use those romantic titles like "babe, Hun, boo" in referencing other guys who are supposedly her friends. Now I know this may be just her sociable personality at work here but I kinda think those pet names are best reserved for those you're actually in a relationship with. I mean how am I to know who's the real deal and who's the friend? I also don't want to come off as being petty and insecure by having a talk about it. So I'm sorta in an emotional limbo. Could I get your thoughts or better still a video reference on the subject? Would really appreciate it.
I told her about her lack of communication she plead with me that she is sorry she has been thinking even forgot the invitation my sisters wedding say i would have reminded her and now someone who knows her from her street say she is not ready for marriage i should leave her alone.
Hi. My concern is the opposite side. My wife is too open to everyone even chat with my friends but i don't even have any if her friend's contact. What should i do respectfully to solve this ,yet she tells me is nothing but she gets worried when i chat with my female friends.
Totally My Situation .... She was Interested in me before but I Didn't Unterstand .... I was not emotionally available .... So I Want Her Back to me ...Can I Get Suggestion....?
This is so helpful. Came in just when I needed something like this the most. Please help me understand, my girl's schedule actually snatches her away from 7AM then intermittently till 6pm. I try reaching out all this time but she says, "I'll call you back" and I never ever get to see this call. Until I say goodnight. Even if she calls at the end of the day, she sleeps off and never tries to even stay with me. But from 6om to about 10pm, she is always with friends. What do I do
Sounds suspicious, this is common with dishonest women.. she hardly has time for you, but has time for work and friends for hours Time to turn detective and gather your evidence, be smart so you can rule out/confirm cheating Been there seen it all
I am experiencing the same situation now. I have not declared to her my intention or my love for her. I'm waiting to see settings study her on somethings and I have realised that I always have to initiate a conversation,. If I sent she will definitely reply, but to initiate has never happened. This is keeping me waiting to propose to her. Anytime we meet I have that kind of feeling that she is interested in me too, but I don't want to make mistake by telling her and latter see something different. . Please fi you can reply me of what you suggest for me in this case, I will be happy. Thanks 🙏
Hello Jessica, Recently my GF broke up with me because she overthink the past that I did something really wrong for a couple of times and amybe more but now I'm doing better. Infact we were having an argument all yhe time so she overthink the past and left me rudely...is there a chance that she'll be back to me????
If you are a guy and been messed around before you will see the games immediately, if you are gullable like many are as I can see, you keep making excuses for the odd behaviour which you know is strange with red flags, but you will not act to confirm and gather evidence.
As always Jess is dead on with these concepts. My experience with this particular subject has been lack of interest or interested in other men. She's just being nice when she replies. These return texts will be complimentary with no substance or even worse, one word texts or taking hours to reply. The method I have used to vet this type women is to be the aggressor initially with the communications. Then just stop and see if she initiates in the next week or so. If she does not initiate. I just take it as a lack of interest. Then finish the fledgling relationship with a final text explaining that I am taking her lack of communication as a lack of interest and that I wish her good luck. Nothing about "Keeping in touch" or "letting me know if she needs anything" This gives a concise ending to the relationship and is also not ghosting her. Which is disrespectful. As always look for equal effort in relationships. Keep your frame about you and stay focused on what your striving to accomplish. Always look for women that compliment your life and not are your life. NEVER attach your value as a man on whether or not your good with women or have a woman. Your are worthy off love.
Smart move,bro.
You said it all👏👌🏆🎖
Top Guy! Definitely taking this advice
You nailed it all the brotherhood is proud of you homie 🙌❤️
So True. I agree with you....I do this alot too and it works for me
Have watched a handful of her videos. She’s great at what she does. She has great advices for single folks, not for married couples.
And also some lack so much confidence they just live off anyone chasing them as they can’t get past stage one the chase .
Absolutely amazing video!! Where were you when i started dating! Would have saved me a lot of unnecessary stress
@@moonshiry 😄 😆
There is 24 hours in a day and there is no women on this planet is that busy for 24 hours straight that is impossible because women carry there cellphone with them everywhere they go plus they are on it all the time that is a well established fact and if a women cannot take at least 1 minute to reply and say i am busy but i will get back to you later then that should be a red flag because that could mean several of things she may not be that interested in you or it could mean she is getting dozens of messages from other men and if that be the case then do not send her any more message and move on and spend your time on other things because time is a valuable thing we cannot afford to waste.
I’m telling me. Now . Women make time if they like you ! They are never too busy it’s a fact !!
My girlfriend is so good at giving monosyllabic answers 😄😄 after 4 chats am definitely off. Sometimes I feels she's boring.
Some ladies are bad at texting but are more expressive when it comes to phone calls or face-to-face interactions. Simply identify her strength and communicate using that method
@@amamensimanyarkoah273
I don't agree with this, if you are into someone, you see every medium to talk to them as golden....
You break your rules for them. Don't be deceived she's receiving the attention from somewhere else.
Indeed, "absence make the heart grow fonder".
Wowwww great advice I love your channel thank you for your advice
Sometimes they are just covert Narcissists Jess I know I’m experiencing it and experiencing now again ! I just ignore them because this is basically a tactic to trauma bond you . I don’t think men realise how many women are narcissistic because it’s always put out as men being mostly like this . I’ve seen more women like this than men doing it.
This is really cool u are good at what you do
Loved the video. Really confirmed a lot of theories I had. Unfortunately I've got firsthand experience with this too. And it gets hard deciphering whether to stick around and hope things change or to just take the hint and walk. Thanks for sharing.❤
Take a hint
@@JessicaOS Thanks for the reply. Thought so too.
@@eugeneasare8256 should I stick around or leave her?... I'm currently stuck in this situation..
Please answer me
Nice indeed,,, much love from Kenya
Awww thank you so much for this insight
I'll keep listening to this over and over again 🙌😄😄
You are right👍🙏❤️
Love you Jessie! 🔥
Thank you Jessica.. this is very helpful.. sending u greetings from uganda❤
Glad it was helpful!
Hi Jessica. I like your channel since I came upon a few months back!
I share my experience since I was confronted to this situation since 1 year, with the hot and cold treatment. A Girl I was into, texted me back everytime but never initiated. I had a lot of thoughts about it.
It just ended that she was not into me. I got friendzoned and that was it. She appreciates me as a friend.
Of course each woman may be different, but I think that if she was interested in me to be more than just a friend, she would also initiate things.
I was too nice and the conversations ended on being too nice.
🫶🏾🫶🏾
Thumbs up my dear sister
Thanks Jess,I enjoyed this video as it's straight to the point and you never fail to teach me something new,very well presented as always💯 👍🏻
Thanks
Mine is from Belgium and she does this quite a bit, so I started ignoring her back and she got mad at me, until I showed her that she was doing the same sing to me and that I didn't appreciate it if she didn't appreciate it either
This is for real
Mixed signals is a clear signal that she's not into you. Best to move on.
Very informative 👍
I’m so glad I found your channel last week and I took up some of your advice on a girl whom I’ve been close for 7 years intimate and close friends now and what to do when she was being distance recently. But now she’s back in my life being excited to see me now. ☺️
That is awesome!
Hi Jessica, I am actually busy as she is but she has always given this vibe of not responding to chats in time, sometimes if not 24 to 48hrs which is absurd. After having a heart to heart talk I ask her and her excuse is that she is not always handling our phone when she is at work and when she gets home she gets tired. Even weekends when she is less busy she will just text hi and that's it. In this situation what's the best advise on dealing with this situation?
Also, permit me to digress a bit but I have another issue of concern. You see there's a lady I'm interested in but she tends to use those romantic titles like "babe, Hun, boo" in referencing other guys who are supposedly her friends. Now I know this may be just her sociable personality at work here but I kinda think those pet names are best reserved for those you're actually in a relationship with. I mean how am I to know who's the real deal and who's the friend? I also don't want to come off as being petty and insecure by having a talk about it. So I'm sorta in an emotional limbo. Could I get your thoughts or better still a video reference on the subject? Would really appreciate it.
Don’t trust such people
Obviously it’s happening to me, she seems interested but I gotta be the one to call or text
You’re the best Jessy💖💖💖
You are the last of a dying breed of women. You have my respect. Don't see pretty and wise too often
Great info, thanks.
You bet!
Jessica well said
Waw I like it
So eloquent statements and advices
👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽Good advice!
Glad you think so!
Greetings from Kenya @jess👋
Hi pretty Jessica ur very inspiring, what on hint mashup,.
These tips have saved me stress
Glad I could help
I told her about her lack of communication she plead with me that she is sorry she has been thinking even forgot the invitation my sisters wedding say i would have reminded her and now someone who knows her from her street say she is not ready for marriage i should leave her alone.
I found this video very nice and interesting.
I just hope it will be helpful
Hi. My concern is the opposite side. My wife is too open to everyone even chat with my friends but i don't even have any if her friend's contact. What should i do respectfully to solve this ,yet she tells me is nothing but she gets worried when i chat with my female friends.
That is a very tough situation to be in especially now that you she is your wife. Looking forward to hearing the advice too
Jess love your talk. More wins 😉
Totally My Situation .... She was Interested in me before but I Didn't Unterstand .... I was not emotionally available .... So I Want Her Back to me ...Can I Get Suggestion....?
Hello Jessica that's a great information
Glad it was helpful!
Good morning Jessica
This is so helpful. Came in just when I needed something like this the most.
Please help me understand, my girl's schedule actually snatches her away from 7AM then intermittently till 6pm. I try reaching out all this time but she says, "I'll call you back" and I never ever get to see this call. Until I say goodnight. Even if she calls at the end of the day, she sleeps off and never tries to even stay with me. But from 6om to about 10pm, she is always with friends. What do I do
Sounds suspicious, this is common with dishonest women.. she hardly has time for you, but has time for work and friends for hours
Time to turn detective and gather your evidence, be smart so you can rule out/confirm cheating
Been there seen it all
@jessicaos1 nice scam 👌
I am experiencing the same situation now. I have not declared to her my intention or my love for her. I'm waiting to see settings study her on somethings and I have realised that I always have to initiate a conversation,. If I sent she will definitely reply, but to initiate has never happened. This is keeping me waiting to propose to her. Anytime we meet I have that kind of feeling that she is interested in me too, but I don't want to make mistake by telling her and latter see something different. .
Please fi you can reply me of what you suggest for me in this case, I will be happy. Thanks 🙏
Hello Jessica,
Recently my GF broke up with me because she overthink the past that I did something really wrong for a couple of times and amybe more but now I'm doing better. Infact we were having an argument all yhe time so she overthink the past and left me rudely...is there a chance that she'll be back to me????
If you are a guy and been messed around before you will see the games immediately, if you are gullable like many are as I can see, you keep making excuses for the odd behaviour which you know is strange with red flags, but you will not act to confirm and gather evidence.
Am Richard I love your programme
I always chat her and she reads but she doesn't answer me ie why.
U speak intelligently
My love ❤❤
I like your eyes Jess💝🌼
@jessicaos1 and what's that?? Lol
Sounds like too much wrk give but don’t give too much, ignore but don’t do it too much smh head games none of the less
Scammer in the comments guys
First to comment
your mannerisms and the way you talk is too distracting when i try to focus on the advice
ok