no message is a message! it’s simple. women are always on their phones. no matter how busy they may be if they want to talk they will make time. trust me i’ve been through it countless amount of times. on to the next !
I dunno why so many guys struggle to figure out why they don't get a text back. When a woman is interested you'll have to beat her back with a stick. No message might mean she's protecting herself but usually it's a not interested.
Ok...after too much text to her with no responce....then suddenly stop texting saying i trust u then blank then wht is possibility to she will text back...or wht has to do to make her reengage
@Nic777 facts well said! I had a women at work who I ignored after she left me on read, 3 weeks of me not talking to her at work or on social media she RANDOMLY blocked me 😂🤣, even tho she was the one that left me on read! I know deep down she WANTED me to chase her and approach her at work and ask "why did you block me?" "did i do something wrong?" it gives her an ego boost.
So because she’s a girl she’s immune to courtesy?? In today’s age of bullshit this explanation is dumb enough that it makes sense. So we can agree woman are still living in a fairytale world where their head doesn’t move, and society perpetuates it?
I believe 90% of texting is done when you shouldn't be texting or receiving...it's a sneaky communication. Driving, at work, a social engagement, church, walking in an intersection...the list goes on. Screw texting. Keep your phone in an appropriate position in your life. And remember, texts don't have a conscience like talking does. Keep it simple and don't allow your phone to be the balancing point of anything. You can get by just fine without relying on it. Also, constant phone use will not improve your social life at all! It will be your de-evolution device.
My friends and I have a running joke whenever a girl doesn’t reply we always say her phone died. Like it’s been 3 weeks dude don’t worry her phones just dead 😂😂😂😂😂. We laugh so hard and just move on. It honestly makes getting rejected feel a whole lot better
Answer: move on and handle your life as if you have never met her in your life. She is completely dead to you if she doesn't text back. Problem solved.
Even average looking women get a lot of attention from men. A lot of men will try it on with anything and everything. Particularly on dating apps, a girl who's a 6/10 will get far more attention than a guy who's a 9/10.
For your own self-esteem, wait for a response. If you do not get the response, it's obviously over. Relationships are like playing tennis. If you hit the ball over the net and it doesn't get returned, looks like you need to go find a tennis partner.
I do text 2 times not right away!!! and it works! Waiting forever for proud is very painful and stupid, this guy texted me 3 times in a row, I didn’t think he was desperate I thought he wanted an answer and I felt like I have to reply, so No if a guy text me 2 times in a row I don’t feel he is not valuable this advice is just stupid!
@@carlel121 From your point of view as a woman, I can understand why you want men to keep contacting you even though you do not respond. It puts you in control. It gives you a feeling that you are special and worth the added effort. I won't play your game. I have a healthy self-worth.
This is too much work. Fuck all that ignoring and texting her back shit. The best advice is focus on yourself when she doesn't text or call you. Don't let people play with your life, mind, heart and time. Always remember you came in this world alone, you will die alone. Don't allow women to toy with your emotions.
This is the best advice ever!! It really works you win either way. You either look strong and unique in her eyes or you don't hear from her and keep your dignity. Strong either way also.
If she aint about you, dont be about her. Women really do have their phones on them at all times even when they are busy. If she doesnt text or call you back, don't do that for her. In my experience, they usually have someone else they are talking to. Texting other girls really does help, along with keeping yourself occupied.
Best thing to do if she ghosts you, cut off all contact, even if she contacts you at a later time. Delete her number, and do not waste time on her ever again.
This is good advice in everyday life, and something I do with everyone... If I text someone and they don't respond, I don't worry or concern myself with it and go about my business. I see too many people obsessed with how many likes they get on a post or why someone hasn't texted them back immediately, and this is part of the problem these days. If someone chooses not to text you back it could be that they are simply very busy or don't want to, either way it's not worth your energy... move on from it.
I was expecting some pretentious "alpha male" who thinks he knows it all. But you actually use logic, you make a lot of sense, this video helped me, thank you.
Her:Hey two days later me: Hey, how you doing 1 week later her: not much you? 1 month later Me: Just finsished building a table 2 years later her: Nice, would look nice in my babies room
@@LemanRussx i feel its just them trying keep you around...idk how you contact people and then don't respond....it makes no sense. Im done with these games
Honestly if she doesnt reply shes Not interested in the convo at the moment, its all situational. That and some girls prefer to talk Face to Face rather then constantly texting.
no. if she's interested she'll respond. you think she wouldn't respond to Chris Hemsworth? sure, there's a small possibility she's playing games if she thinks you're high value like Chris Hemsworth, but the advice in the vid holds true. If she's playing those kinds of games, she'll realize her no response was offputting and will reach out.
If you want to stand out: don't text. Call her. If she texts you, if it's something worth discussing respond with a call, otherwise don't respond at all. This will make some women just pass on you, but they're usually the ones who like playing shitty games, so in the long run it will save you time and grief.
I tried doing this but when I tried getting her on the phone she kept saying "I can't talk on the phone" I'd reply back "cool".....and then randomly after 20mins she'd text me saying "just text me what ever you have to say and I'll respond" she was interested in what I had to say but didn't wanna talk to me on the phone 🤣🤣 I stopped talking to her ever since and started ignoring her at work
@@mohamedadan6678 NEVER DATE COWORKERS!!! That's a recipe for disaster. All it takes is one complaint to HR to ruin your life (it doesn't even have to be true, most companies will just fire you without bothering to investigate to avoid bad PR). If a girl just wants to text back and forth for ages she's probably not actually interested in being your girl, she's just using you for attention and validation (and is most likely texting with a bunch of other people at the same time). In this case you should just move on. Sounds like you made the right choice in the end. 👍
When a girl stoped texting me I was only needy for like 2 days and after that I started doing nothing and if you don't text the girl you like it makes her/him want you even more
97% of the time if she doesn’t text you back, she doesn’t like you 😂😂 the other 3% is she’s been working a lot and it slipped her mind .. at any rate, move on and never text her again... if she texts you after not responding for a while, that means she’s bored or whoever she was taking to flamed out, and I wouldn’t respond at all... if she’s been too busy, then she’s too busy for a relationship so don’t respond 😂 this method keeps all games out
Wow man thanks. I needed to hear this. I’ve been talking to this girl for a couple months and we used to talk all the time especially by text every single day without fail but now she ignores my messages for a week and only responds the week after and consistently so now. She says she’s busy doing homework but I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I should just move on from her or stick around. But it was good seeing this comment. You’ve made me think a lot
Jorge Andrade move on brother! That bitch is playing mind games and using dumb ass excuses! Move on trust me you’ll thank me in the end! Do not text her or text her back if she replies. It will drive her freaking nuts more so then how you’re feeling right now. Good luck
Jorge Andrade don’t text her anymore..she’s either playing stupid games or she’s seeing someone else,I got a ex girl I bang once in a while she’ll ghost for a month or 2 then she’ll text me we hook up then she ghosts me again lol it’s a game they play this type of girls are not worth it,maybe just as fuck buddies at best,but from my experience just stop texting them let them get back u don’t sweat it ..
So what this did for me was to say that the girls who don't bother to respond or flake out just don't find you that important even if they wanted something from you. End result: Walk away and move on. There are other amazing, hot women out there who will actually value you and your time. Think about that gentlemen. Your time and effort is every bit as valuable as that hottie you want.
Agreed, its this girl I graduated high school with(she's a friend of mine), and only a few or couple times she replied back to me but she doesn't anymore. And when I sent her texts she doesn't reply. But I see her post on Instagram and she replies to everyone else(who stay complimenting her about every time she posts a selfie or standalone picture of herself). I've literally seen(still do) the same people who constantly comment on her posts for years are the same ones. So its like i know she doesn't respond anymore to me so I'm going to do the same. No hard feelings though.
*Instead of dwelling on her silence, investing time in hobbies, fitness, or personal projects can boost confidence and keep you grounded. Plus, it’s always good to maintain a mindset that not every connection will be perfect. If she’s interested, she’ll come around when she's ready.*
She tells me she loves me on the same days she ignores my few messages. Like clockwork, she claims that her phone was charging or that she fell asleep only on Saturday nights after 7 pm. Lol. I got tired to talking about my concerns to her. They always try to make you seem needy. So its time to move on. Telling someone you love them and then they turn around and treat you as insignificant is not only rude, selfish, and ignorant but not worth it.
Finally got the guts to ask a girl for her number yesterday and got it too. She replied, but then took on scenario B after two one-word responses to men:( I was on the fence but broke and sent her another text this morning. I now realize that was a mistake, but I still consider it a WIN for me because it wasn't a "needy" text. I just told her it was nice to meet her and appreciation of giving me her number in the first place. Live and Learn folks, college is tough.
for anyone reading this you gotta show you have options. girls can feel it. texting a girl it was good meeting her and "thanks for giving your number in the first place" sounds like you've never talked to a girl ever. If you have the mentality this video describes where you have unread messages from 1000 girls, you will get there. You would forget about this girl in an instant.
I usually only text a person once in general, then wait for a response. As for dating and girls, again I only text or call once. If the girl doesn't return a call quickly, I take an equal amount of time to respond. It's kind of sad that men can't be loving and look for women because they'll never respect you. Less is more with women. Create the image that you are always on the fence. Never be mean, just cold and distant. It works wonders, women like to be ignored. Women like the challenge of being second place in your life...
What can also work is to still text her, showing her the attention that she enjoys, and then go cold-turkey on her. She’ll wonder what-the-hell happened to you, and eventually reach-out. Yet the main key here is to be emotionally detached from her. You actually don’t need her; she’s just an potential option. Have a solid level of self confidence, and show her that you don’t care either way. Personally this has worked for me.
I am starting to do this .. because I am not gonna be getting played Anymore like I use too.. games are really to old to be playing.. that's why I do me.. I am also letting know its gonna be over. I am not gonna reach out to her anymore
Very useful indeed! I really appreciate your insightful explanation. There are many things you use to think about but yet there is still something telling you to control yourself so as to learn how to deal with anxiety in these cases. It's never a bad idea to corroborate these key points from time to time.
Not always. My ex definitely fell first. I wasn’t that into her. But after a year I def grew deep feelings for her and then prob loved her more than she loved me. That’s where it goes wrong, if you love her too much / more than her and the balance is unequal.
It makes you feel absolutely horrible when she decides not to text you back either you know that person or first time texting her, so you end up sending more texts and feeling all anxious offended annoyed and perhaps getting angry, just a terrible feeling to deal with almost like someone is purposely ignoring you when you ask a question in real life with that person in presence
I feel pity for people who ask this type of questions. I admit. I used to be one of them but eventually life solids you out and you become the master of your own path if you find God that’s even better.
Help me plz.. She isnt replying after our 1st date. Its been a week now with no message from her. But i sent her messages 4 times in 4 days. Should i text her agakn after a week? The exception rule in the video?
So, I've had this happen and it's bs. I think it makes men look insecure like they are unwilling to compromise. Men who don't want to compromise are immature and aren't willing to give and take in relationships which makes them look like children to grown women, but that's an opinion.
I would not do that. That's an extreme. Just delete the conversation and talk to her if really necessary. Ignoring is never a good solution. You are proving to her that you are insecure. Bury them with your smile bro. They hate that.
Perfect video.. Suits me well... I used to text to get her attention and she talks well too but she never takes initiative to message me.. Initiation shows how much she care and I have my self respect to keep too.. No point keep giving her habit of serving her
A girl with high interest in me did that to me recently. I texted her and she responded within a couple of minutes. But she didn't respond to the next text. So I texted her 20 minutes later telling her "you're the worst texter ever lol". Then I actually deleted her number. This woman responded the next morning at around 7, double texting me with long texts and telling me how she fell asleep. In my mind I was thinking that was too quick because that text came right after she responded to the first one. I was like whatever. It's not like we're together like that. She does work a lot and she sounded somewhat sincere. Plus she smoothed it over with some flirtatious banter so I can tell she's smart and knows exactly what she wants from me... the point is is that me telling her she was the worst texter ever actually seemed to put her on her heels. I didn't sound desperate and called her out on her shit in a playful way. By the way things have been going so far she has the potential to stick around for a while. So she has to know she's going to have to respect me if we're going to be dealing with each other. She saw that I stood up to her, gave her a reason to be a little insecure and I put her in a state of fear of losing out all at once because in all actuality, she was about to lose out. You dont respond to me I'm out. You're gonna have to put in a little effort to get me talking again. The only reason I sent the "worst texter" text to her is because she had already responded to the first text and it did make me feel some type of way that she didn't respond to the second text. If she would've never responded to the first text I wouldn't have sent any other text but fk that, I had to let her know I didn't appreciate that, in the nicest, most subtle way possible. It actually made me feel good in the moment to send that text because to tell you the truth, the whole undertone of that text was telling her to go fk herself... we good now. Even though this chick likes me a lot and she even told me herself, she has still tried shit testing me and I've kept a masculine frame. I've gained her respect and formed some boundaries because I'm not all down her throat for her attention and time. We live in the same apartment complex so we run into each other sometimes and she gets touchy and feely now. I actually asked for her number a year prior to all this but she had a bf that she lived with that I didn't know of before asking her. So she approached me a year later and asked for mine. I was like hallelujah lol. I had like two flings within that time and this girl came at the right time. We talk over text like once or twice per week max. Our texts are short, sweet, funny and sexy. She's cool and we really like each other. The pace of this situation is different than that of other flings that I've had so I'm starting to wonder what the man upstairs has in mind lol.
@@rtorris3 this only works if a girl has very high interest in you. And from experience I can say, if you keep responding quickly like that "you're the worst texter ever" you will lose her. Every time you do that her interest in you drops 1%.
Women are also getting the exact same advice. Do Nothing. So if both do nothing, then say good bye to this potential relationship. As a woman, I'd prefer if the man initiated. I think the majority of women would too. Something about testosterone levels. If women start to chase men, we become the initiators and it's not in our DNA. So, men...if you really like her and she doesn't text you back or reply. It may just be she's busy, or not interested, insecure or playing games. It can be anything depending on the woman. But you won't know unless you call her out on it (firmly but nicely) and figure out if this is a game you really wanna play. Just my 2 cents.
Yes good advice because women play games all the times. Most women will text right away if they really like u. If not they playing games or not interested. So it's best not to text back until she does, or text back in a week like the man says.
this definitely the best advice i have about a girl who doesnt text me back after 6 months of intimate chat or text, i wonder why she have changed so quick. im so relieved in finding these.
Also you can wait for a few days and give her a call. Leave a very short and to the point voicemail “Hey this is...call me.” Do not tell your life story or how you want to see her etc. Just say call me. If she was busy before and is interested in you, she’ll say “Oh this guy. Let me call him back.” The reason for this is, the majority of guys prefer texting rather than calling because it’s safer and less scary for them. Also let’s admit it’s easier. So if you call and leave a voicemail instead of texting, your message will most likely get across and you’ll stand out from the other two hundred guys flooding her phone with messages. We all check our voicemail boxes, but we don’t read every single message sent to us.
There’s this girl I never talked to before but her friend told me she finds me attractive, she’s a very beautiful girl so I waited a week and then messaged her, the basic stuff like “hey, how are you” etc and from there I talk about how college is like etc, however I don’t know if she’s interested in talking to me or what I should do. She never replies during day hours so like 8-9, she only chats early in the morning (6-8) and late at night (9-11) maybe on the odd occasion she sends a message sometime in the afternoon in reply to a previous message I sent, I’ve been texting to her about 3 days now and she always usually takes hours to about 10 minutes to respond, the way our conversations also work is that I message first or ask the question first, however when she does reply it’s not the typical dead 1 word response like “good” etc, she writes an actual reply which I like. How could I tell if she’s interested in chatting me?
Simply she's rude. A lot of this comes down to avoding confrontation. Recently I matched with a cute girl on Tinder. I texted her first and everything seemed fine. After a while we started talking a lot and I got the sense she was REALLY into me. She wanted my phone number,my social media profiles etc. After a while I realized she was texting me back in a scond. I realized she desperetly wanted a boyfriend,saw that in me and got needy. So I simply broke it down to her,instead of ignoring her. I politetly told her how I see the sitaution and she completly understood me and we both wen out seperate ways. Women,on other hand are usually not ready to have that conversation specially with guys who they don't know that well. They would rather find excuses or even worse..ignore you. Now,that's a message already but some guys still keep going. The best thing they could ever do,if they simply said '' hey,I like you as a guy but you are not my type. Wish you all the best,take care '' That would be more than enough. But...for whatever reason they don't want to let guys guys so they...ignore them lol
I've been seeing a girl for a few months and she seemed highly into me and usually initiated the conversation. However she hasn't replied to a text I sent earlier so I've deleted her number. If she comes back she comes back.
I rather be version A. Once I was so convinced this girl had a huge crush on me, I sent her a message, no response. I let it be and eventually she reached out. I feel as though me jot chasing made me higher value in her eyes. I was gracious and didnt seem but hurt either.
Think about what is going through your own mind to justify when YOU don’t respond back the way she is not responding back. You just answered your own question
Yo dudes listen up , cut the crap women always have options so kick back relax around them believe me they gots lots problems their dragon around and their not as confident as they appear, some are but very few. So be yourself and dont put much pressure on the seen if nothing happens good I can wait no hurrys mate.
Jim, you are absolutely correct in not sending a second message. I'm in the same situation at this time. She has did this twice to me after seeing me twice. When we ran into each other for the third time she immediately sat down next to me. Talk to other people then turn toward me but said nothing. After 20 seconds I put my phone down and turn toward her and said how are you doing stranger. She didn't turn back to anybody after that. She touch me several time on the arm (from my hand to my shoulder) She held up her wrist (palms up) to show me something. Played and flicked her hair. And we talk about who we are and how we think about things. I just look at as a continuing story with an unknown ending with options open. We'll see!
Maybe I'm weird, but when someone who doesn't owe me money is "ghosting" me, I just take the obvious hint and get on with my life. I find this method to be a real time saver, not to mention better for my mental health.
This is great esp the Female Realty part and the 2 scenarios : she likes you/ she doesn’t like you. Most other advise sites miss this completely! That really good looking girl also gets constantly approached when she goes out to bars , clubs and even restaurants. So it’s not just texts. That’s one reason she isn’t seen out a lot even if she is single.
Nice video, man. Story: I went out with this girl and it was quite nice. I might have made 1 mistake when I started talking about something serious and a bit dark, but I switched the subject after 2min or so. I hope I did not sabotage myself too much with that because that is the only thing I can think of that might be bad. At the end she gave me a hug and when I asked her if she wants to go out with me again, she said "yes" and gave me her number. We aranged 1st date via FB, BTW. I texted her today and she did not respond. What gives? Why say she was ok with me and give me number if she was not sincere? :/ And, I also might see her reardless, because her work place is close to mine. If that happens, should I ask her why she did not say anything? Or just say "hi" and move on like nothing happend? Shiet...
I am not American but I am trying to learn how you guys responds during those dating issues. I met an American girl, we had 3 fun dates, no sex yet but we kissed all the time. She invited me to a social event but did not show up, she apologized next day by text but never explained why she missed the event. I replied short, cold but educated and just thanked her lines. Its been 4 days with no more messages from any side. For future references in case something like this happens again: should I just text, ask how her day is going then being sincere and say: I would like us to keep getting to know each other, but if you don’t feel the same anymore it’s OK, just let me know. Or you Americans are not used to clarify and place openly the final dot in the story ? THANKS!
I asked her for a Date ( dated her before), she Said she could Not This Weekend....so i Said OK let me Know when you are free...No Text from her since...i never Double Texted her and i will Not....but i want to Know, did i overpursue in This Case ?
no message is a message!
it’s simple. women are always on their phones. no matter how busy they may be if they want to talk they will make time. trust me i’ve been through it countless amount of times. on to the next !
shane michaels this is 💯 facts
You're right! They choose whose DMs to read first and whose just read some days/weeks later. That'll tell you how interested she is in you.
Well said bro.🙌👏
I dunno why so many guys struggle to figure out why they don't get a text back. When a woman is interested you'll have to beat her back with a stick. No message might mean she's protecting herself but usually it's a not interested.
Ok...after too much text to her with no responce....then suddenly stop texting saying i trust u then blank then wht is possibility to she will text back...or wht has to do to make her reengage
Do nothing. Get a better life. Develop yourself. The best woman for you, the one who's meant for you, will eventually show up.
PS PS damn dude it’s hard but you are right
PS PS exactly 🥰🥰🥰
Like your thinking
The right woman will come along is just a myth. Men still need to make an effort to meet new women.
Exactly. I'm done with this shit of pursuing my ex gf who just dumped me
Anytime a woman ignores your text, no matter how you may feel, always ignore her back.
Even when she finally text back days later you can't text her back
just move on after not texting her back
@Nic777 facts well said! I had a women at work who I ignored after she left me on read, 3 weeks of me not talking to her at work or on social media she RANDOMLY blocked me 😂🤣, even tho she was the one that left me on read! I know deep down she WANTED me to chase her and approach her at work and ask "why did you block me?" "did i do something wrong?" it gives her an ego boost.
It happened more often with man 🙄
So because she’s a girl she’s immune to courtesy?? In today’s age of bullshit this explanation is dumb enough that it makes sense.
So we can agree woman are still living in a fairytale world where their head doesn’t move, and society perpetuates it?
If they can't find time to text you.I can't find the time to wast on thinking about her.
brad cagle well said
Waste*
Thanos bro what?because he corrected him you calling him a nazi? Logic be wildin these days
Dont worry, she was so excited to see your text she fainted
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Lmaooo this comment right here
I really wanna believe you so hard right now. I really do.
@@mercentperrault fr smh
@@TheTKTwins.
What?
When someone ignores you don't feel sad instead thank god because you miss the worst.
you missed*
Txt another girl. That's works great for me.
haha, right on, brother. POF. Plenty of Fish.
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I believe 90% of texting is done when you shouldn't be texting or receiving...it's a sneaky communication. Driving, at work, a social engagement, church, walking in an intersection...the list goes on. Screw texting. Keep your phone in an appropriate position in your life. And remember, texts don't have a conscience like talking does. Keep it simple and don't allow your phone to be the balancing point of anything. You can get by just fine without relying on it. Also, constant phone use will not improve your social life at all! It will be your de-evolution device.
I agree I feel like calling means slot more u are right
Better: Keep it simple and don't allow the church to be the balancing point of anything.
Absolutely Fantastic And Masterfully Said!
Drive to her house after drinking heavily and ask why she didn't reply
Best advice so far
Sell the Dip .dont forget to take a stabbing something with u. 😁😁😎😎
Sell the Dip lmfao
Lol
All valid points....
Best thing to do .just don't give a shit.there is so many women out there that will text back.so don't wast your time begging someone to talk to you.
My friends and I have a running joke whenever a girl doesn’t reply we always say her phone died. Like it’s been 3 weeks dude don’t worry her phones just dead 😂😂😂😂😂. We laugh so hard and just move on. It honestly makes getting rejected feel a whole lot better
Answer: move on and handle your life as if you have never met her in your life. She is completely dead to you if she doesn't text back. Problem solved.
Hoes play games, be aggressive take what you want
If she doesn't text back drink a cup of hot coffee and think about your development
Or a cold beer.
Theirs no hope for men...social media has destroyed women and devalued men.
I agree with you bro...its a shame..
Truth I'm afraid!
Turning my social media into non social media. People don't like someone being themself on social media.
Yes sir i agree social media has basically made females antisocial against men its disgusting
Bro this cuts deep smh glad im not the only one who understands this
the best thing is to say nothing and do nothing,
@Peter Germaine you sound like the typical pussybegging simp
That's what I do 😉
Even average looking women get a lot of attention from men. A lot of men will try it on with anything and everything. Particularly on dating apps, a girl who's a 6/10 will get far more attention than a guy who's a 9/10.
Yes!Very true
True 😢
Exactly lol these fools have blown up their heads
True, my girlfriend showed me the weird text she got from other guys. It's so mad how desperate these guys are even tho the girl is with someone
Straight up #facts 💯
For your own self-esteem, wait for a response. If you do not get the response, it's obviously over. Relationships are like playing tennis. If you hit the ball over the net and it doesn't get returned, looks like you need to go find a tennis partner.
damn facts bruh!
I do text 2 times not right away!!! and it works! Waiting forever for proud is very painful and stupid, this guy texted me 3 times in a row, I didn’t think he was desperate I thought he wanted an answer and I felt like I have to reply, so No if a guy text me 2 times in a row I don’t feel he is not valuable this advice is just stupid!
@@carlel121 From your point of view as a woman, I can understand why you want men to keep contacting you even though you do not respond. It puts you in control. It gives you a feeling that you are special and worth the added effort. I won't play your game. I have a healthy self-worth.
@@robertjohnson4401 i don’t understand what game are you talking about 🧐
@@carlel121 the game he’s talking about is “not responding to him and he double texts you to get an answer.” It’s all about control.
This is too much work. Fuck all that ignoring and texting her back shit. The best advice is focus on yourself when she doesn't text or call you. Don't let people play with your life, mind, heart and time. Always remember you came in this world alone, you will die alone. Don't allow women to toy with your emotions.
Calm down Nic, stop posting the same reply on every post. It weakens your advice.
word best comment i read my guy
The women always loses, because of these games, we men move on and then they want to talk when it’s too late.
That's right ignore her again and again no second chance 100 percent period.
I did this to my ex lol. Not BC I was playing games but BC I lost interest
@@Giovanni-01 anddd did she came for you?
Always!!! They always play themselves!
bingo
This is the best advice ever!! It really works you win either way. You either look strong and unique in her eyes or you don't hear from her and keep your dignity. Strong either way also.
If she aint about you, dont be about her. Women really do have their phones on them at all times even when they are busy. If she doesnt text or call you back, don't do that for her. In my experience, they usually have someone else they are talking to. Texting other girls really does help, along with keeping yourself occupied.
You didn't show your face even once.
Yet it felt like you were sitting right in front of me and telling me all of this personally.
Thanks a lot.
Best thing to do if she ghosts you, cut off all contact, even if she contacts you at a later time. Delete her number, and do not waste time on her ever again.
Exactly
This is good advice in everyday life, and something I do with everyone... If I text someone and they don't respond, I don't worry or concern myself with it and go about my business. I see too many people obsessed with how many likes they get on a post or why someone hasn't texted them back immediately, and this is part of the problem these days. If someone chooses not to text you back it could be that they are simply very busy or don't want to, either way it's not worth your energy... move on from it.
If she does not text back, do nothing about, and just go on with your day.
thats what im doing i bet in a few days she calls me im not picking up this time
I was expecting some pretentious "alpha male" who thinks he knows it all. But you actually use logic, you make a lot of sense, this video helped me, thank you.
Forget her! Don’t spend your time ruminating over a lost opportunity, maintain your own integrity & self respect.
Her:Hey
two days later
me: Hey, how you doing
1 week later
her: not much you?
1 month later
Me: Just finsished building a table
2 years later
her: Nice, would look nice in my babies room
Lol
Lmfao sounds like what im going threw
@@01Zenaku01 I don't get those convos
@@LemanRussx my ex just text me sorry im still around how are you?...not answering any of the question a day ago...i hate this shit
@@LemanRussx i feel its just them trying keep you around...idk how you contact people and then don't respond....it makes no sense. Im done with these games
Do nothing when she don't text you back at first instance.
@@danielgrohl6971 you're so right about that my friend. And it works for me👍
@@danielgrohl6971 facts
or dont text her ever. she does it the first time she will do it again next
Honestly if she doesnt reply shes Not interested in the convo at the moment, its all situational. That and some girls prefer to talk Face to Face rather then constantly texting.
LOL! you think they are logical? if she doesn't reply she might be super interested as well as sleeping or chatting with your best friend
no. if she's interested she'll respond. you think she wouldn't respond to Chris Hemsworth? sure, there's a small possibility she's playing games if she thinks you're high value like Chris Hemsworth, but the advice in the vid holds true. If she's playing those kinds of games, she'll realize her no response was offputting and will reach out.
Win=one less woman you have to deal with..lol..next...lol
If you want to stand out: don't text. Call her. If she texts you, if it's something worth discussing respond with a call, otherwise don't respond at all. This will make some women just pass on you, but they're usually the ones who like playing shitty games, so in the long run it will save you time and grief.
Facts
Solid advice. Thanks!
Exactly!
I tried doing this but when I tried getting her on the phone she kept saying "I can't talk on the phone" I'd reply back "cool".....and then randomly after 20mins she'd text me saying "just text me what ever you have to say and I'll respond" she was interested in what I had to say but didn't wanna talk to me on the phone 🤣🤣 I stopped talking to her ever since and started ignoring her at work
@@mohamedadan6678 NEVER DATE COWORKERS!!! That's a recipe for disaster. All it takes is one complaint to HR to ruin your life (it doesn't even have to be true, most companies will just fire you without bothering to investigate to avoid bad PR).
If a girl just wants to text back and forth for ages she's probably not actually interested in being your girl, she's just using you for attention and validation (and is most likely texting with a bunch of other people at the same time). In this case you should just move on. Sounds like you made the right choice in the end. 👍
Absolutely spot on,you crushed it on this subject.Also,great tone and conviction in your voice.
Don't be needy
When a girl stoped texting me I was only needy for like 2 days and after that I started doing nothing and if you don't text the girl you like it makes her/him want you even more
Needy means nerdy!! lol!
@@nidgeontour257 no it doesn't idiot
@@kc270352 lol
Detachment creates attraction keep that in mind guys. Stop being clingy and expressing simping behaviors. It only pushes women away.!!!
If she don't text u back then she's not worth ur time. Just like she's acting like ur not worth hers🤷🏾♂️
97% of the time if she doesn’t text you back, she doesn’t like you 😂😂 the other 3% is she’s been working a lot and it slipped her mind .. at any rate, move on and never text her again... if she texts you after not responding for a while, that means she’s bored or whoever she was taking to flamed out, and I wouldn’t respond at all... if she’s been too busy, then she’s too busy for a relationship so don’t respond 😂 this method keeps all games out
edwin hamilton big facts😂💯
Wow man thanks. I needed to hear this. I’ve been talking to this girl for a couple months and we used to talk all the time especially by text every single day without fail but now she ignores my messages for a week and only responds the week after and consistently so now. She says she’s busy doing homework but I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I should just move on from her or stick around. But it was good seeing this comment. You’ve made me think a lot
Jorge Andrade move on brother! That bitch is playing mind games and using dumb ass excuses! Move on trust me you’ll thank me in the end! Do not text her or text her back if she replies. It will drive her freaking nuts more so then how you’re feeling right now. Good luck
Jorge Andrade don’t text her anymore..she’s either playing stupid games or she’s seeing someone else,I got a ex girl I bang once in a while she’ll ghost for a month or 2 then she’ll text me we hook up then she ghosts me again lol it’s a game they play this type of girls are not worth it,maybe just as fuck buddies at best,but from my experience just stop texting them let them get back u don’t sweat it ..
she’s got another dude
Never reply to any texts. Can't lose then.
So what this did for me was to say that the girls who don't bother to respond or flake out just don't find you that important even if they wanted something from you.
End result: Walk away and move on. There are other amazing, hot women out there who will actually value you and your time. Think about that gentlemen. Your time and effort is every bit as valuable as that hottie you want.
Agreed, its this girl I graduated high school with(she's a friend of mine), and only a few or couple times she replied back to me but she doesn't anymore. And when I sent her texts she doesn't reply. But I see her post on Instagram and she replies to everyone else(who stay complimenting her about every time she posts a selfie or standalone picture of herself). I've literally seen(still do) the same people who constantly comment on her posts for years are the same ones. So its like i know she doesn't respond anymore to me so I'm going to do the same. No hard feelings though.
This is hands down the best advice I have ever received when it comes to game.
*Instead of dwelling on her silence, investing time in hobbies, fitness, or personal projects can boost confidence and keep you grounded. Plus, it’s always good to maintain a mindset that not every connection will be perfect. If she’s interested, she’ll come around when she's ready.*
She tells me she loves me on the same days she ignores my few messages. Like clockwork, she claims that her phone was charging or that she fell asleep only on Saturday nights after 7 pm. Lol. I got tired to talking about my concerns to her. They always try to make you seem needy. So its time to move on. Telling someone you love them and then they turn around and treat you as insignificant is not only rude, selfish, and ignorant but not worth it.
If she doesn't text you back.... Then hack her phone and reply from her number to yourself 😂😂
Haha
That's next level game
this is called Pro Gamer Move
You made my day 😄✋🏼
Finally got the guts to ask a girl for her number yesterday and got it too. She replied, but then took on scenario B after two one-word responses to men:( I was on the fence but broke and sent her another text this morning. I now realize that was a mistake, but I still consider it a WIN for me because it wasn't a "needy" text. I just told her it was nice to meet her and appreciation of giving me her number in the first place. Live and Learn folks, college is tough.
for anyone reading this you gotta show you have options. girls can feel it. texting a girl it was good meeting her and "thanks for giving your number in the first place" sounds like you've never talked to a girl ever. If you have the mentality this video describes where you have unread messages from 1000 girls, you will get there. You would forget about this girl in an instant.
What's crazy to me is that even Drake doesn't get a text back
Just leave it. If she is going to text she will.
A tough pill to swallow but a much Needed one
@Nic777 would still be nice to know for sure tho. Honesty works best
Ignore. OR text back, call her, follow all her social media, stalk her, ring her door bell, get arrested or get shot.
Ignore. Find another girl.
I usually only text a person once in general, then wait for a response. As for dating and girls, again I only text or call once. If the girl doesn't return a call quickly, I take an equal amount of time to respond. It's kind of sad that men can't be loving and look for women because they'll never respect you. Less is more with women. Create the image that you are always on the fence. Never be mean, just cold and distant. It works wonders, women like to be ignored. Women like the challenge of being second place in your life...
What can also work is to still text her, showing her the attention that she enjoys, and then go cold-turkey on her. She’ll wonder what-the-hell happened to you, and eventually reach-out. Yet the main key here is to be emotionally detached from her. You actually don’t need her; she’s just an potential option. Have a solid level of self confidence, and show her that you don’t care either way. Personally this has worked for me.
I am starting to do this .. because I am not gonna be getting played Anymore like I use too.. games are really to old to be playing.. that's why I do me.. I am also letting know its gonna be over. I am not gonna reach out to her anymore
Very useful indeed! I really appreciate your insightful explanation. There are many things you use to think about but yet there is still something telling you to control yourself so as to learn how to deal with anxiety in these cases. It's never a bad idea to corroborate these key points from time to time.
It's a game,,, the rule is who falls in love first lose!! That's it !! 😎
Exactly
Not always. My ex definitely fell first. I wasn’t that into her. But after a year I def grew deep feelings for her and then prob loved her more than she loved me. That’s where it goes wrong, if you love her too much / more than her and the balance is unequal.
i've lost then
@@bigd8973 hmmm
To attract women you have to have charm and confidence. That’s real good looking women.
It makes you feel absolutely horrible when she decides not to text you back either you know that person or first time texting her, so you end up sending more texts and feeling all anxious offended annoyed and perhaps getting angry, just a terrible feeling to deal with almost like someone is purposely ignoring you when you ask a question in real life with that person in presence
I feel pity for people who ask this type of questions. I admit. I used to be one of them but eventually life solids you out and you become the master of your own path if you find God that’s even better.
What confuses me: women and men get today the SAME advice. So nobody knows who started the whole confusion and games
ahahahah yeah, I browsed women's part as well, interesting stuff.
so the things is not to be chasing the girl?
but, what if the scenario in here is the girl who wants to be chased by us cuz she shy or something to start it...
She'll break out of it if she's really intrested. This is your way to gauge her intrest in you.
Help me plz.. She isnt replying after our 1st date. Its been a week now with no message from her. But i sent her messages 4 times in 4 days. Should i text her agakn after a week? The exception rule in the video?
Gino Peñaflor don’t waste your time texting her. If she’s interested she will text you...Good luck bro.
@@freedom_westcoast5466 ok sir. I wont...
She answered me right after i finished the video LOLL, though thanks for the good advice
This could've been a one-minute video. You found a way to make a one word answer last 14 minutes. Good job.
Very true.. that was exactly what is happening in my relationship. I learnt a lot now
So, I've had this happen and it's bs. I think it makes men look insecure like they are unwilling to compromise. Men who don't want to compromise are immature and aren't willing to give and take in relationships which makes them look like children to grown women, but that's an opinion.
The best thing to do,is when she does text back,,don't answer then block her..and never look or talk to her again..it will burn her up.
Im gonna do this for sure if it happens again
I would not do that. That's an extreme. Just delete the conversation and talk to her if really necessary. Ignoring is never a good solution. You are proving to her that you are insecure. Bury them with your smile bro. They hate that.
Perfect video.. Suits me well... I used to text to get her attention and she talks well too but she never takes initiative to message me.. Initiation shows how much she care and I have my self respect to keep too.. No point keep giving her habit of serving her
Block & delete? I do that. Why waste time and have the contact there as a reminder she doesn"t value you.
Yep
A girl with high interest in me did that to me recently. I texted her and she responded within a couple of minutes. But she didn't respond to the next text. So I texted her 20 minutes later telling her "you're the worst texter ever lol". Then I actually deleted her number. This woman responded the next morning at around 7, double texting me with long texts and telling me how she fell asleep. In my mind I was thinking that was too quick because that text came right after she responded to the first one. I was like whatever. It's not like we're together like that. She does work a lot and she sounded somewhat sincere. Plus she smoothed it over with some flirtatious banter so I can tell she's smart and knows exactly what she wants from me... the point is is that me telling her she was the worst texter ever actually seemed to put her on her heels. I didn't sound desperate and called her out on her shit in a playful way. By the way things have been going so far she has the potential to stick around for a while. So she has to know she's going to have to respect me if we're going to be dealing with each other. She saw that I stood up to her, gave her a reason to be a little insecure and I put her in a state of fear of losing out all at once because in all actuality, she was about to lose out. You dont respond to me I'm out. You're gonna have to put in a little effort to get me talking again. The only reason I sent the "worst texter" text to her is because she had already responded to the first text and it did make me feel some type of way that she didn't respond to the second text. If she would've never responded to the first text I wouldn't have sent any other text but fk that, I had to let her know I didn't appreciate that, in the nicest, most subtle way possible. It actually made me feel good in the moment to send that text because to tell you the truth, the whole undertone of that text was telling her to go fk herself... we good now. Even though this chick likes me a lot and she even told me herself, she has still tried shit testing me and I've kept a masculine frame. I've gained her respect and formed some boundaries because I'm not all down her throat for her attention and time. We live in the same apartment complex so we run into each other sometimes and she gets touchy and feely now. I actually asked for her number a year prior to all this but she had a bf that she lived with that I didn't know of before asking her. So she approached me a year later and asked for mine. I was like hallelujah lol. I had like two flings within that time and this girl came at the right time. We talk over text like once or twice per week max. Our texts are short, sweet, funny and sexy. She's cool and we really like each other. The pace of this situation is different than that of other flings that I've had so I'm starting to wonder what the man upstairs has in mind lol.
@Lino27u trippin. Since then shes told me she likes me a lot. Stop being a hater. Things are going well.
@@rtorris3 this only works if a girl has very high interest in you. And from experience I can say, if you keep responding quickly like that "you're the worst texter ever" you will lose her. Every time you do that her interest in you drops 1%.
First off people shouldn't play with emotions forget a test strait pull up
This is a great simple breakdown of the Pro's. Interesting!
So it's all an ego game?
Maybe for the guy not the woman.
Women are also getting the exact same advice. Do Nothing. So if both do nothing, then say good bye to this potential relationship. As a woman, I'd prefer if the man initiated. I think the majority of women would too. Something about testosterone levels. If women start to chase men, we become the initiators and it's not in our DNA. So, men...if you really like her and she doesn't text you back or reply. It may just be she's busy, or not interested, insecure or playing games. It can be anything depending on the woman. But you won't know unless you call her out on it (firmly but nicely) and figure out if this is a game you really wanna play. Just my 2 cents.
You are full of crap.
Yes good advice because women play games all the times. Most women will text right away if they really like u. If not they playing games or not interested. So it's best not to text back until she does, or text back in a week like the man says.
this definitely the best advice i have about a girl who doesnt text me back after 6 months of intimate chat or text, i wonder why she have changed so quick. im so relieved in finding these.
Text her "Stop it!"
Her: "stop what?"
You: thinking of me🤣🤣
thx
Your genius is...frightening yet powerful teach me your ways
Mohammed Qarioty maybe if we were in middle school this would work but right now isn’t the right years anymore 😂
Also you can wait for a few days and give her a call. Leave a very short and to the point voicemail “Hey this is...call me.” Do not tell your life story or how you want to see her etc. Just say call me.
If she was busy before and is interested in you, she’ll say “Oh this guy. Let me call him back.” The reason for this is, the majority of guys prefer texting rather than calling because it’s safer and less scary for them. Also let’s admit it’s easier.
So if you call and leave a voicemail instead of texting, your message will most likely get across and you’ll stand out from the other two hundred guys flooding her phone with messages. We all check our voicemail boxes, but we don’t read every single message sent to us.
You got a point there... In enter the "female reality" I've taken all personally... That was my mistake....🤦🤦🤦
Me right now
What about while im doing nothing when theyre posting on insta or fb status. Im guessing i ignore those too ya?
If she don't text u back,called 911 to check on her if she alright.
😂😂😂 the best thing we can do.
There’s this girl I never talked to before but her friend told me she finds me attractive, she’s a very beautiful girl so I waited a week and then messaged her, the basic stuff like “hey, how are you” etc and from there I talk about how college is like etc, however I don’t know if she’s interested in talking to me or what I should do. She never replies during day hours so like 8-9, she only chats early in the morning (6-8) and late at night (9-11) maybe on the odd occasion she sends a message sometime in the afternoon in reply to a previous message I sent, I’ve been texting to her about 3 days now and she always usually takes hours to about 10 minutes to respond, the way our conversations also work is that I message first or ask the question first, however when she does reply it’s not the typical dead 1 word response like “good” etc, she writes an actual reply which I like. How could I tell if she’s interested in chatting me?
What if you're in 3 years relation & later due to distance(live in different areas) suddenly she starts not to respond you're txt
Simply she's rude. A lot of this comes down to avoding confrontation. Recently I matched with a cute girl on Tinder. I texted her first and everything seemed fine. After a while we started talking a lot and I got the sense she was REALLY into me. She wanted my phone number,my social media profiles etc. After a while I realized she was texting me back in a scond. I realized she desperetly wanted a boyfriend,saw that in me and got needy. So I simply broke it down to her,instead of ignoring her. I politetly told her how I see the sitaution and she completly understood me and we both wen out seperate ways. Women,on other hand are usually not ready to have that conversation specially with guys who they don't know that well. They would rather find excuses or even worse..ignore you. Now,that's a message already but some guys still keep going. The best thing they could ever do,if they simply said '' hey,I like you as a guy but you are not my type. Wish you all the best,take care '' That would be more than enough. But...for whatever reason they don't want to let guys guys so they...ignore them lol
I've been seeing a girl for a few months and she seemed highly into me and usually initiated the conversation. However she hasn't replied to a text I sent earlier so I've deleted her number.
If she comes back she comes back.
What an excellent, empowering vlog. Very helpful for me today. Thank you.
I rather be version A. Once I was so convinced this girl had a huge crush on me, I sent her a message, no response. I let it be and eventually she reached out. I feel as though me jot chasing made me higher value in her eyes. I was gracious and didnt seem but hurt either.
When someone ignores you for no reason thats a sign of immaturity.
what if she ignores you becos you didnt pay her parking fine for her?
@@rickmorgan1441 he literally said for no reason,there's a reason attached to what you typed😏
Think about what is going through your own mind to justify when YOU don’t respond back the way she is not responding back. You just answered your own question
If i had 1000 girls messaging me i wouldnt lead them on simple lol
That's the best thing you can do Foreal it works
Yo dudes listen up , cut the crap women always have options so kick back relax around them believe me they gots lots problems their dragon around and their not as confident as they appear, some are but very few. So be yourself and dont put much pressure on the seen if nothing happens good I can wait no hurrys mate.
Jim, you are absolutely correct in not sending a second message. I'm in the same situation at this time. She has did this twice to me after seeing me twice. When we ran into each other for the third time she immediately sat down next to me. Talk to other people then turn toward me but said nothing. After 20 seconds I put my phone down and turn toward her and said how are you doing stranger. She didn't turn back to anybody after that. She touch me several time on the arm (from my hand to my shoulder) She held up her wrist (palms up) to show me something. Played and flicked her hair. And we talk about who we are and how we think about things. I just look at as a continuing story with an unknown ending with options open. We'll see!
10:27 if she is getting all those texts she ain't worth it, that number isn't a company line
You can’t ever be afraid to walk away.
love is a illusion .. seek harmony
Maybe I'm weird, but when someone who doesn't owe me money is "ghosting" me, I just take the obvious hint and get on with my life.
I find this method to be a real time saver, not to mention better for my mental health.
Watching this in 2020 and this helped me out so much! Thank you 😊
you aint alone
This is great esp the Female Realty part and the 2 scenarios : she likes you/ she doesn’t like you. Most other advise sites miss this completely! That really good looking girl also gets constantly approached when she goes out to bars , clubs and even restaurants. So it’s not just texts. That’s one reason she isn’t seen out a lot even if she is single.
Nice video, man. Story: I went out with this girl and it was quite nice. I might have made 1 mistake when I started talking about something serious and a bit dark, but I switched the subject after 2min or so. I hope I did not sabotage myself too much with that because that is the only thing I can think of that might be bad. At the end she gave me a hug and when I asked her if she wants to go out with me again, she said "yes" and gave me her number. We aranged 1st date via FB, BTW. I texted her today and she did not respond. What gives? Why say she was ok with me and give me number if she was not sincere? :/ And, I also might see her reardless, because her work place is close to mine. If that happens, should I ask her why she did not say anything? Or just say "hi" and move on like nothing happend? Shiet...
That's women for you bud! Don't torture yourself worrying what to do! Thete just like the wind my dad would say They change everyday😂
Hey Jim ! How you doin'? You know what its help.Thank you so much 🙏😘..greetings from Malaysia
why chase walk away and leave it and continue living
I am not American but I am trying to learn how you guys responds during those dating issues. I met an American girl, we had 3 fun dates, no sex yet but we kissed all the time. She invited me to a social event but did not show up, she apologized next day by text but never explained why she missed the event. I replied short, cold but educated and just thanked her lines. Its been 4 days with no more messages from any side. For future references in case something like this happens again: should I just text, ask how her day is going then being sincere and say: I would like us to keep getting to know each other, but if you don’t feel the same anymore it’s OK, just let me know. Or you Americans are not used to clarify and place openly the final dot in the story ? THANKS!
I will be a winner!!!! Thank you
I asked her for a Date ( dated her before), she Said she could Not This Weekend....so i Said OK let me Know when you are free...No Text from her since...i never Double Texted her and i will Not....but i want to Know, did i overpursue in This Case ?
Don’t chase... attract
By far the best video I’ve seen on this kind of stuff 👏👏👏