Reminder that if you’re looking for ways to be more confident in your own skin and “love yourself”… it’s because you already do love yourself. You want to get better, and even if you don’t LIKE yourself, you want to change that. Remember that you need to be your own biggest supporter. Much love to everyone, and remember that EVERYONE has bad days and messes up. No matter how bad it is, you are no less valuable and should never stop showing yourself kindness because you think you don’t deserve it.
@@farmgirl7891 well I learned that by not loving myself I projected a bad side of me onto my family unknowingly. There’s nothing in this world that I would not do for them, I’d give my life for them but it’s funny how when a person has never learned or doesn’t know how to love them self a certain type of behavior comes out of them and projects onto those at the one they love the most without even knowing that you’re being a negative person. I’ve never understood when people say you have to love yourself before you love other people, to me loving yourself was always a selfish act because of what I saw and experienced growing up. Now that I have been on this journey to finally learn how to love myself I have noticed as well as a lot of other people have noticed I changed my personality. I just hope that one day my wife and I can reconcile.
Sometimes it starts with the small things like making your bed in the morning and taking a shower so you feel alive and awake and smell great. Also having a clean and organized home and car helps. As human beings our environment can effect our mood. If my place and car are dirty and in chaos then I'll feel like my life and thoughts are in chaos also but a clean organized and good smelling environment makes me feel like I have my shit together and all I really need to do is work on myself and go to the gym to clean and organize my mo d and body. Also never stop self improving. Never be satisfied and always strive for perfection even tho nobody is perfect we should all keep working towards perfection.
I’m taking this upon myself and start my journey of self love and I pray I achieve it by the end of this year🙏🏽 I always think I can do it but immediately I remember where I work and my job as a whole ,my confidence just drops because I hate where I work so bad doing a job I’m not 💯 enjoying . I’m deprived from a lot of things staying here. I’ve tried all I can but no help is found😫 I wanna be a model or a fashionista so bad but I’m a teacher in a deprived village. I’m suffocating every single day but I want to start my journey of self love as soon as I can. I’m going to trust myself and work on myself. I’ve got this!
Loving ourselves is very important in order for us to grow as an individual! Set boundaries so that we can protect ourselves! Do what you love as well! Thanks for this!❤
I'm always worried about what others will say even though I kinda like myself and I'm right, I'm just afraid for no reason, my heart beats fast inside but outside I look like I'm confident, like I don't show it, but it kills then I feel light headed really don't know how to overcome all that
At the age of 24, I realized that I don't really love myself. I hated myself for many reasons but out of those many reasons, I hated myself for having a low self-esteem. I wish I have so much confidence in me and I know that's something that can be worked on that's why for many years, I tried to work on it. I've provided all the help that I think I need in order to overcome my fears and be able to gain self confidence. I've exposed myself to situations I always fear of. I left my comfort zone and faced my fears, no matter how torturing it felt like. I challenged myself. But after years and years and years, I'm still here. I'm still like this. I badly wanted to grow as a person but right now, I just feel like I'm tired. I'm tired having anxiety attacks everytime that I have to speak in front of many people, everytime I'm in the middle of a crowd. Before, I thought that it's just my personality being a shy person but no my anxiety is so extreme that I feel like I'm about to throw up, sometimes I really do throw up, I feel like I'm about to pass out, my heart is pounding so fast, I'm so scared and nervous and all. I'm just soooo tired feeling this way but at the same time I know I'm not giving up. I still want to help myself grow, and be confident, and be happy. Please pray for me.
Hey Jen, after reading your comment I again verified if I have not written it here. Your situation exactly resonates with my situation. You know when I come to know that I have to speak in front of group then I start watching a lot of motivational videos and what not. Then I become confident and everything seems normal. But at the moment when I have to speak, my heart starts racing. My face becomes like I would cry in any moment if someone would interrupt me in between. Hope we will go throu this and overcome this situation. I have decided to again give a chance to myself this upcoming year. I'll try to overcome this in 2022. Do not give up. All the best.
Thank you so much for the wonderful video, I came across this channel accidentally when I m dealing with the same issue of not putting myself first. It really helped. Thank you so much 😊😊😊
I didn't even realise from when all these insecurities came into my life once I was a person who is happy who do what he likes but now I see myself I'm totally different I can't say what I want to say I can't express my feelings I don't trust anyone and I always feel like what other people think of me and the biggest reason for my insecurities is my birthmark and it's on my face I hate it I'm so insecure about my birthmark I don't wanna see people I don't want to go to any parties I don't want to meet people because of this even though my friends I feel so uncomfortable and I didn't know when I became like this I hate myself but I want to be happy
So ture love yourself is inmport keep to yourself though that a secart the is slef care and take care be confident in yourself be happy focus on the present and think positive and be happy.
I stopped loving myself because I kept constantly comparing myself to the perfect popular girls and group in my school. I want to be them. I want to be popular, pretty, loved, smart, happy, nice, fun, athletic- just like them. I wish I was them. I hate myself. And they see me as some kind of competition because they always compete with me and try to one up me and inorge me and leave me out and take my friends. Why can't I just having normal friends who love me for me and who don't leave me for that popular group...I don't love myself but I'm trying to get better. So thank you. 💔💝
I can't think of anything good about me. I could list every flaw of mine, but this comment could go on forever if I did. I don't admire anyone and when I try to be a better me I just hate myself even more. Like, I hate my look and personality, and I struggle to forgive myself because sometimes I hurt people emotionally and I don't wanna forgive me for that. I don't trust myself and I don't even know what I'm good at bc I'm not good at anything. I don't really know how to love properly (not even with family), so idk how to treat myself. I think I need help
Stay busy with your job and make money.. Do the things you can really enjoy...sometimes you need to recreate those happiness you enjoyed a lot in your childhood. Never overthink about anything pepole came people leave..never blame anyone. Never hurt anyone consciously. Listen others problems. Try to do small things for different people. Keep going Dont give up.
I'm so depressed and anxious and lonely that I can't have fun as you say in number 1 tip I can't bear comedies or even hearing people laugh while I'm sreaming crying inside but no tears. I know you have to love yourself to learn to be alone without wanting to just die but I can't connect with anyone. My negativity and feeling so pathetic makes me choose to isolate because people can't handle my despair. They just say get on with it you'll get through it. I have nobody and I can't even look after myself. I have no meaning in life, no motivation no interests no friends no family that understand. Psychiatric treatment only makes me worse. I hate those meds they never helped only gave more problems .
@@TheLifeFormulaa I have now got a weekly phone call from a cbt therapist, that started 2 weeks ago but I'm in such a state of high anxiety bordering hysteria that I can't really engage. I'm in a very complicated situation with multiple issues going on and I'm very stuck. It's exhausting and traumatic to me to even explain. I'm frantic like a caged wild animal. I need to get the anxiety down but don't want to get dependent on any drugs..I do a lot of eft tapping and it helps but only for a very short while..I escalate so easily. Thankyou so much for for replying..
Awesome video! I have also been on a journey of self improvement. :) I recently uploaded a video sharing how focusing on progress instead of perfection has helped me reach more of my goals.
self love is impossible because how can you love when everyone hates you ? 1. Looks does matter 2. Color does matter 3. Money does matter 4. if your ugly it highly impossible to love yourself because i can't love my self i hate my self more then anyone in this world.
this video is stupid. dude talks too fast for how he pronounces words and seems to say the same stuff as everything else. obvious stuff, but not how to do them. good thing he loves himself so this criticism doesnt bother him.
Sometimes, our terrible past descisions keep haunting us and we keep regretting knowing that doing so will not make a change. So instead, it's really important to let go of it and love yourself. ❤️💗🤍
I don't know why I stopped loving myself for someone who constantly breaks me. I just needed the message and now I got it, thank you so much☺️
Glad this video helped
It did helo me a lot
Same
Exactly that with me too
Same
To the powerful soul reading this: You are valued. You are loved. You are so, so worthy 💗
:)
thank you- I needed this 💕
Thank you!
You 2 x
Thanks and God bless you
Reminder that if you’re looking for ways to be more confident in your own skin and “love yourself”… it’s because you already do love yourself. You want to get better, and even if you don’t LIKE yourself, you want to change that. Remember that you need to be your own biggest supporter. Much love to everyone, and remember that EVERYONE has bad days and messes up. No matter how bad it is, you are no less valuable and should never stop showing yourself kindness because you think you don’t deserve it.
Thanks for sharing
im late but thank you so much for saying this.
I’m 43 and have never learned to love myself. It’s going to be a hard long process but I’m finally ready. Thank you for vids like this.
You got this!
@@TheLifeFormulaa I fucken hope so, I lost my wife and kids because of it and now that just ads to the issue
How ?
I wish I know how to love myself
@@farmgirl7891 well I learned that by not loving myself I projected a bad side of me onto my family unknowingly. There’s nothing in this world that I would not do for them, I’d give my life for them but it’s funny how when a person has never learned or doesn’t know how to love them self a certain type of behavior comes out of them and projects onto those at the one they love the most without even knowing that you’re being a negative person. I’ve never understood when people say you have to love yourself before you love other people, to me loving yourself was always a selfish act because of what I saw and experienced growing up. Now that I have been on this journey to finally learn how to love myself I have noticed as well as a lot of other people have noticed I changed my personality. I just hope that one day my wife and I can reconcile.
Once you started loving yourself then you don't care who comes and who leaves your life 😊
:)
That's true! ❤
Im grateful that theres other humans in this world who would take the time to make content like this. Stay strong everyone
Thank you
Forgive yourself I love this
Thank you
Sometimes it starts with the small things like making your bed in the morning and taking a shower so you feel alive and awake and smell great. Also having a clean and organized home and car helps. As human beings our environment can effect our mood. If my place and car are dirty and in chaos then I'll feel like my life and thoughts are in chaos also but a clean organized and good smelling environment makes me feel like I have my shit together and all I really need to do is work on myself and go to the gym to clean and organize my mo d and body. Also never stop self improving. Never be satisfied and always strive for perfection even tho nobody is perfect we should all keep working towards perfection.
Well said. Thanks for sharing
I concur🤨................
I’m taking this upon myself and start my journey of self love and I pray I achieve it by the end of this year🙏🏽 I always think I can do it but immediately I remember where I work and my job as a whole ,my confidence just drops because I hate where I work so bad doing a job I’m not 💯 enjoying . I’m deprived from a lot of things staying here. I’ve tried all I can but no help is found😫 I wanna be a model or a fashionista so bad but I’m a teacher in a deprived village. I’m suffocating every single day but I want to start my journey of self love as soon as I can. I’m going to trust myself and work on myself. I’ve got this!
Thanks for sharing! You got this
Loving ourselves is very important in order for us to grow as an individual! Set boundaries so that we can protect ourselves! Do what you love as well! Thanks for this!❤
Well said
my favorite was forgiving myself and taking personality traits from someone i admire and obtaining that personality for myself.
Thanks for sharing
I'm always worried about what others will say even though I kinda like myself and I'm right, I'm just afraid for no reason, my heart beats fast inside but outside I look like I'm confident, like I don't show it, but it kills then I feel light headed really don't know how to overcome all that
Hmmm if you don't really have a reason I'm not too sure. Try googling or searching through youtube
Same! 🥺🥺
its anxiety
At the age of 24, I realized that I don't really love myself. I hated myself for many reasons but out of those many reasons, I hated myself for having a low self-esteem. I wish I have so much confidence in me and I know that's something that can be worked on that's why for many years, I tried to work on it. I've provided all the help that I think I need in order to overcome my fears and be able to gain self confidence. I've exposed myself to situations I always fear of. I left my comfort zone and faced my fears, no matter how torturing it felt like. I challenged myself. But after years and years and years, I'm still here. I'm still like this. I badly wanted to grow as a person but right now, I just feel like I'm tired. I'm tired having anxiety attacks everytime that I have to speak in front of many people, everytime I'm in the middle of a crowd. Before, I thought that it's just my personality being a shy person but no my anxiety is so extreme that I feel like I'm about to throw up, sometimes I really do throw up, I feel like I'm about to pass out, my heart is pounding so fast, I'm so scared and nervous and all. I'm just soooo tired feeling this way but at the same time I know I'm not giving up. I still want to help myself grow, and be confident, and be happy. Please pray for me.
You got this!
Hey Jen, after reading your comment I again verified if I have not written it here. Your situation exactly resonates with my situation. You know when I come to know that I have to speak in front of group then I start watching a lot of motivational videos and what not. Then I become confident and everything seems normal. But at the moment when I have to speak, my heart starts racing. My face becomes like I would cry in any moment if someone would interrupt me in between. Hope we will go throu this and overcome this situation.
I have decided to again give a chance to myself this upcoming year. I'll try to overcome this in 2022. Do not give up. All the best.
I really hope you’ve overcome this and proud of yourself now❤️
@@pianojourney8401 I’m proud of you because I trust you’ve overcome it now❤️
Thank You for this video and message
Peace & Godliness be with You and Yours
Much appreciated
Thank you so much❤ I really needed it! ;)
Glad it helped!
Thank you so much! I feel so much better I hope this feeling lasts ❤️
Glad this video helped!
Thank you so much for the wonderful video, I came across this channel accidentally when I m dealing with the same issue of not putting myself first. It really helped. Thank you so much 😊😊😊
Glad this video helped
Thank you!💙👍
Glad this video helped
thank you for this video it helped me so much!!
Glad it helped!
Thankyou, really needed the tips.
Glad it was helpful!
Great video. Helpful and concise. Thank you 💙
Glad you enjoyed it!
This helped me,
Alot..
Thank you ever so much..
Glad it helped!
Excellent video!!
Thank you!
Really needed this, ty ♥️
Glad it was helpful
@@TheLifeFormulaa What is more important To focus on things to do or things not to do
thanks for this.... something i need to work on.
Glad it was helpful!
@@TheLifeFormulaa What is more important To focus on things to do or things not to do
Thanks 👍
Glad this video helped
Thankyou❤️
Glad this video helped
Thank you so much I'm going to start loving myself since now
Glad this video helped
I feel there must be something missing on that list of 10 ways to love yourself. Very hard to get rid of feeling inadequate, insuficient, unhappy, etc
Loving yourself is a very complicated topic
Great video brother. Helped a lot👍
Glad you liked it
@@TheLifeFormulaa of course bro
Good work. Nice presentation
Glad you liked it
I didn't even realise from when all these insecurities came into my life once I was a person who is happy who do what he likes but now I see myself I'm totally different I can't say what I want to say I can't express my feelings I don't trust anyone and I always feel like what other people think of me and the biggest reason for my insecurities is my birthmark and it's on my face I hate it I'm so insecure about my birthmark I don't wanna see people I don't want to go to any parties I don't want to meet people because of this even though my friends I feel so uncomfortable and I didn't know when I became like this I hate myself but I want to be happy
Try going to therapy
Good job
Thank you
I was brought up to be passive and to act and behave contrary to who I am. It's nice to be me.
Glad you are being yourself now
i like all of thm
:)
Waw great
:)
Love from India! ❤
Thank you
What is more important To focus on things to do or things not to do
@@user-vl9rt9ij1u I think Focus on things to do
I need this
Glad this video helped
i have anxiety and depression. i hate how i sound i hate how i look and i think im finally ready to love myself.
Thanks for sharing
So ture love yourself is inmport keep to yourself though that a secart the is slef care and take care be confident in yourself be happy focus on the present and think positive and be happy.
Yep :)
1 + 2. Those are the ones that I forget about the most.
I’m late on this video bro but good content
Thank you
I feel like I'm hating myself!that why I come here and watch this
Btw the video was helpful!!
Glad it helped!
Find a trait and apply it to my character. 💓
Yep :)
I stopped loving myself because I kept constantly comparing myself to the perfect popular girls and group in my school. I want to be them. I want to be popular, pretty, loved, smart, happy, nice, fun, athletic- just like them. I wish I was them. I hate myself. And they see me as some kind of competition because they always compete with me and try to one up me and inorge me and leave me out and take my friends. Why can't I just having normal friends who love me for me and who don't leave me for that popular group...I don't love myself but I'm trying to get better. So thank you. 💔💝
Glad this video helps!
❤️
:)
Hey friend can you say do you earn money from videos?It is so important please reply to me(
Yes
@@TheLifeFormulaa thank youuu
@@iafxiaf hey that doesn`t concern you at all have some respect man
@@Jannuk well was I talking to you? No so you asked a question so did I so so I’m aloud to
@@iafxiaf allowed*
Sorry not trying to be that one bitch who corrects ppl but rn I wanna be so
I used to be so happy 😭😭😭
You can be happy again
🙏 😉
:)
I can't think of anything good about me. I could list every flaw of mine, but this comment could go on forever if I did. I don't admire anyone and when I try to be a better me I just hate myself even more. Like, I hate my look and personality, and I struggle to forgive myself because sometimes I hurt people emotionally and I don't wanna forgive me for that. I don't trust myself and I don't even know what I'm good at bc I'm not good at anything. I don't really know how to love properly (not even with family), so idk how to treat myself. I think I need help
Try going to therapy. That should help a lot
Stay busy with your job and make money.. Do the things you can really enjoy...sometimes you need to recreate those happiness you enjoyed a lot in your childhood. Never overthink about anything pepole came people leave..never blame anyone. Never hurt anyone consciously. Listen others problems. Try to do small things for different people.
Keep going Dont give up.
@@sajuthomas8999 Only problem with that is I'm still in my childhood 😅. I'll remember this for when I do start working soon. Thanks :)
@@musicaltiger6576 Anyway... If you need any therapy just go for that.. Good people don't need to sad everytime.
I definitely think therapy is a good idea, never too young to start! maybe you can ask parents/teachers what your strengths are?
I'm so depressed and anxious and lonely that I can't have fun as you say in number 1 tip
I can't bear comedies or even hearing people laugh while I'm sreaming crying inside but no tears. I know you have to love yourself to learn to be alone without wanting to just die but I can't connect with anyone. My negativity and feeling so pathetic makes me choose to isolate because people can't handle my despair. They just say get on with it you'll get through it. I have nobody and I can't even look after myself. I have no meaning in life, no motivation no interests no friends no family that understand. Psychiatric treatment only makes me worse. I hate those meds they never helped only gave more problems .
Have you tried cbt?
@@TheLifeFormulaa I have now got a weekly phone call from a cbt therapist, that started 2 weeks ago but I'm in such a state of high anxiety bordering hysteria that I can't really engage. I'm in a very complicated situation with multiple issues going on and I'm very stuck. It's exhausting and traumatic to me to even explain. I'm frantic like a caged wild animal. I need to get the anxiety down but don't want to get dependent on any drugs..I do a lot of eft tapping and it helps but only for a very short while..I escalate so easily.
Thankyou so much for for replying..
Can you do one on weight loss for teenagers
I'll see
Awesome video! I have also been on a journey of self improvement. :) I recently uploaded a video sharing how focusing on progress instead of perfection has helped me reach more of my goals.
Thank you
@@TheLifeFormulaa What is more important To focus on things to do or things not to do
I’m watching this video cause I’ve always been insecure so I’m hoping it will help
Hope this video helps
It kind Of did. Thanks :)
Thanks...lam going to marry my self..;-;!!!!💗💗👌
:)
I don't have any friends so now I think that's wrong with me and I start to hate my self now i do best to love me again
Start practicing some self love and go out there and make some friends
Hey, let's to be friends?
Bro your accent makes me anxious.
Why?
What is more important : To focus on things to do or To focus on things not to do ...
Focus on things to do
No 1
Oh my God, my family expects me to be a Doctor.
And my mother doesn't understand it when I tell her I don't know who I am.
You need to let them know that you are still figuring out who you want to be and that your future is still going to be fine
@@TheLifeFormulaa Thanks!
Am I the only one who thinks he sounds like Betosky? (Any ML players here who understands me?😂)
Yess bro😆
(main mage here)
@@shushantshrestha8957 omg sameee🤣🤝
haha I'm not them and I don't play ML
I have a hard time stop complaining
Keep trying! It will get easier
@@TheLifeFormulaa What is more important To focus on things to do or things not to do
👍👍
Having kids no help and money barely is the problem. I’m working to pay bills basically
Thanks for sharing
I think i didnt have soul🥺
You have a soul
Listening to your list shows you no absolutely nothing about loving yourself this is not how to love yourself that much I do know.
Thanks for sharing your opinion
ANY BTS ARMIES WATCHING THIS? LOL
:)
Ye !!!
self love is impossible because how can you love when everyone hates you ?
1. Looks does matter
2. Color does matter
3. Money does matter
4. if your ugly it highly impossible to love yourself because i can't love my self i hate my self more then anyone in this world.
Those things do matter but you can improve in those areas
This sounds like your personal thought these arent true if you truly love yourself
The auspicious mice conjecturally fold because energy systematically rot failing a unhealthy hamburger. tacky, nervous fact
Interesting
this video is stupid. dude talks too fast for how he pronounces words and seems to say the same stuff as everything else. obvious stuff, but not how to do them. good thing he loves himself so this criticism doesnt bother him.
thanks for the feedback
Thank you ❤🩹
Glad this video helped
@@TheLifeFormulaa Yeah Thank you so much this changed me to the real me Lord bless you .
Sometimes, our terrible past descisions keep haunting us and we keep regretting knowing that doing so will not make a change.
So instead, it's really important to let go of it and love yourself. ❤️💗🤍
Well said
Thank you so much❤ I really needed it! ;)
Glad it helped!