Job search has me ashamed and embarrassed

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    Job search has me ashamed and embarrassed

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  • @eternal_learner9943
    @eternal_learner9943 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I wonder if at this point they are just collecting our resumes for some kind of AI data analysis or something.

    • @kylesherman895
      @kylesherman895 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They absolutely are (100% in case of Linkedin)

    • @borninhk1
      @borninhk1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They are also doing this to determine who is willing to work for the lowest wage.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Data mining

    • @brookerobitaille745
      @brookerobitaille745 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yup extreme data mining then you get targeting for more bogus job ads, scams and to send your info for 1 800 numbers

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That absolutely are. They like to see how many people apply (even though they aren't looking to hire). They also like to what kind of salaries people would take so that they can repost the position at a lower rate.

  • @TheJetsons-v2w
    @TheJetsons-v2w 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    With a bachelors in physics and 2.5 years of experience in software engineering, I regret rejecting an offer for a janitor job. I wouldn't be in a dire financial situation right now if it wasn't for me passing by that janitor job.

    • @morningbird153
      @morningbird153 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You will come across another job. Keep applying.

    • @BreeLove-p6j
      @BreeLove-p6j 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Reach out to them again

    • @kfUNC1
      @kfUNC1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ⁠Definitely reach out again, if you’re willing to do the work they can probably still use you.

    • @maple913
      @maple913 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      this economy is going to humble a lot of people

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Money is money do not turn down jobs unless it comprises ur ethics or morals

  • @danieladaniel2004
    @danieladaniel2004 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don't feel like a loser, I just feel extremely unlucky.

  • @jasmineisshorter
    @jasmineisshorter 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My therapist told me the best way to phrase the answer to that question is “there were professional differences”.

    • @golddimes_
      @golddimes_ 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not sure, I got a feeling that's gonna lead to follow-up questions

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I like that.

  • @Dmeister406
    @Dmeister406 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    In my experience, a prospective employer will almost always lie during an interview! So if they can lie, why shouldn't the applicant?

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good point.

  • @paulweaver5255
    @paulweaver5255 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Even negative emotions have their purpose.
    But don’t ever give in to shame.

  • @kfUNC1
    @kfUNC1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    In the movie The Company Men, the main character, who was a ship building executive with an MBA, (spoiler alert) is laid off and eventually goes to work construction with his brother-in-law, with whom he didn’t have the best relationship with. It’s a great movie and it depicts fairly accurately what happens to a person who goes through the layoff process.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for sharing.

  • @MultiBaggerInvesting
    @MultiBaggerInvesting 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Took me 6+ months to land a a job as a manager at Amazon, one of the most cut throat companies. Several managers have already been PIPed at my location and they are looking to reduce managers overall. 1500+ applications but there are opportunities just stay persistent and never give up no matter what happens!

    • @EMan-cu5zo
      @EMan-cu5zo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Would never want to work for that company in any role.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh wow. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @whiteberry8785
    @whiteberry8785 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I didn't do a PhD because the roi is terrible for most. You really have to have a passion for research and I did not.

    • @HeadStronger-HS
      @HeadStronger-HS 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This plus the extra time to obtain it.

    • @gmr217
      @gmr217 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yup! The ROI on a PhD. Is abysmal. Most with a PhD cannot find research opportunities in their field because of fierce competition and it is nearly impossible to become a tenured professor. On the flip side, it is hard to find a practical job outside of academia because a person with a PhD is deemed overqualified in any field…the PhD becomes a scarlet letter!

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good thing you dodged that. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Urhonour
    @Urhonour 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    If you're above the age of 25 you can barely get a job flipping burgers.

    • @nobertstanel9428
      @nobertstanel9428 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There are jobs that prefer people above 30. Some like welding. Pays much more too.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's true. Thanks for the comment.

  • @Sdk123-p7v
    @Sdk123-p7v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really needed this video. I am literally out doing Uber driving right now, I’ve been doing it for a few months now. I encourage everyone to get on the platforms because they are mostly full now.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you found value in this video. Thank you for leaving a comment and sharing your story.

  • @Slowly_We_Rot
    @Slowly_We_Rot 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am targeting roles with 6+ years of relevant experience and I’m hearing nothing back. I’m in a weird spot because I’m more mid-level but everyone is either looking for unicorn principal or senior level candidates or recent grads. There’s zero spots in between.

  • @mfrancisco_850
    @mfrancisco_850 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    yes i feel this everyday but one way I can reframe it is that im alive and well , there are worst things in life than not having a job.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good perspective.

  • @SurpriseMeJT
    @SurpriseMeJT 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Look at Douglas C. Prasher. His research led to a Nobel Prize while he had to quit research and work at a car dealership after running out of money.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Great point. Thanks for sharing.

  • @EMan-cu5zo
    @EMan-cu5zo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I never felt any shame looking for a job.

  • @borninhk1
    @borninhk1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Will working overseas be a possibility? Think of places like UAE and Saudi Arabia.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Definitely worth looking into.

  • @movdqa
    @movdqa 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was curious as to what was happening. I understand that there are tech jobs in Boston but it's difficult to afford to live there.

  • @monterreymxisfun3627
    @monterreymxisfun3627 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you're in Software Engineering and/or Development, you always have your public portfolio in Git to be proud of. The ones that should be ashamed and embarrassed are those building faulty software systems.

    • @mrguiltyfool
      @mrguiltyfool 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You need to build faulty software systems to keep your job. If you are not constantly patching and just sitting around why keep you. Your fellow tech bro

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good point. Thank you.

  • @jeffenc07
    @jeffenc07 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I may just have to start flipping burgers, this job market is disgusting 🤮

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very true. Good luck out there.

  • @alexward42069
    @alexward42069 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what city is that??

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Manila.

  • @gamers_united558
    @gamers_united558 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Truth hurts. Most tech jobs are just fancy service jobs. If you actually know your schituff, go code pointers stacks algorithms etc company will still want you. But 85% are just dead weight.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the comment

  • @619russ
    @619russ 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don’t worry dude things will get better

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for the encouragement!

  • @Bitcoin1y
    @Bitcoin1y 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want to get my state ID and apply for a remote job.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good luck! Remote jobs are the dream.

  • @kolyxix
    @kolyxix 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Bro. Just curious, do you think you need a break from all these TH-cam videos. Because at some point, you gonna have to do something else or go into a different direction. Everyone is going through job loss, and it won't be first and last time. TH-cam is just temporary solution. Losing your job or being fired is sad and agonizing. People can complain about it, (which they have the right to do) but at some point, it becomes repetitive and annoying. That's just life. Sometimes, taking a break or going to therapy helps. I am just trying to help, bro

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is my side hustle that I pray can turn into a business eventually

    • @kolyxix
      @kolyxix 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @LaborGains I wis you the best of luck in your journey

    • @LaceyRyanFlower8
      @LaceyRyanFlower8 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just my humble opinion, but I desperately need these type of videos because it makes me realize I'm not alone and that there's so many other people out there struggling too. He's a great speaker and we're blessed to have him talk about these type of issues, yah know?

    • @kolyxix
      @kolyxix 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LaceyRyanFlower8 Yes, and I applaud me.

    • @LaborGains
      @LaborGains  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!